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A36322 The mourner directory, guiding him to the middle way betwixt the two extreams, defect, excess of sorrow for his dead to which is added, The mourners soliloquy / by Thomas Doolittle ... Doolittle, Thomas, 1632?-1707. 1693 (1693) Wing D1888; ESTC R17535 114,706 250

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thy_o holy_a word_n that_o if_o christ_n be_v raise_v than_o those_o that_o sleep_n in_o jesus_n shall_v also_o rise_v and_o if_o these_o shall_v not_o than_o christ_n be_v not_o rise_v and_o if_o christ_n be_v not_o rise_v we_o be_v all_o in_o our_o sin_n and_o all_o preach_a pray_v believe_v and_o all_o religion_n be_v in_o vain_a which_o be_v absurd_a and_o false_a the_o other_o must_v be_v certain_a and_o sure_a and_o by_o the_o belief_n of_o this_o thanks_o be_v to_o my_o god_n i_o find_v i_o feel_v my_o sorrow_n be_v turn_v into_o lively_a hope_n earnest_a desire_n and_o comfort_v joy_n beside_o this_o o_o my_o soul_n be_v further_o satisfy_v and_o quiet_v within_o i_o forasmuch_o as_o thy_o lord_n have_v not_o only_o say_v that_o those_o that_o sleep_n in_o jesus_n shall_v rise_v again_o but_o have_v also_o foretell_v what_o body_n they_o shall_v then_o be_v though_o the_o same_o for_o substance_n yet_o their_o property_n quality_n and_o endowment_n far_o more_o excellent_a 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