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a_o wife_n subjection_n to_o seem_v harsh_a and_o a_o careful_a performance_n thereof_o a_o heavy_a burden_n never_o shall_v they_o partake_v of_o christ_n love_n that_o in_o their_o place_n â—ew_a themselves_o so_o unlike_a to_o christ_n §._o 63._o of_o the_o truth_n truth_n of_o husband_n love_n ii_o the_o truth_n of_o christ_n love_n be_v manifest_v by_o the_o fruit_n thereof_o to_o his_o church_n he_o give_v himself_o for_o it_o it_o be_v therefore_o not_o in_o word_n only_o no_o nor_o only_o in_o heart_n but_o in_o deed_n also_o thus_o his_o love_n prove_v profitable_a and_o beneficial_a to_o his_o church_n which_o thereby_o be_v cleanse_v and_o make_v a_o glorious_a 27._o church_n have_v he_o only_o bear_v a_o tender_a compassion_n and_o pitiful_a affection_n towards_o it_o or_o labour_v only_o with_o comfortable_a and_o sweet_a word_n to_o uphold_v and_o succour_v it_o it_o have_v still_o lie_v pollute_v with_o sin_n in_o the_o power_n of_o the_o devil_n and_o under_o god_n 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husband_n or_o wife_n their_o love_n must_v be_v as_o entire_a to_o that_o other_o as_o it_o be_v to_o the_o former_a yea_o and_o more_o entire_a if_o there_o be_v any_o defect_n in_o the_o former_a for_o as_o child_n marry_v out_o of_o their_o parent_n house_n must_v not_o retain_v such_o a_o love_n of_o their_o parent_n as_o shall_v swallow_v up_o their_o love_n of_o the_o party_n to_o who_o they_o be_v marry_v but_o must_v according_o to_o the_o law_n leave_v father_n and_o mother_n and_o cleave_v to_o their_o yoke-fellow_n so_o neither_o must_v the_o love_n of_o a_o former_a husband_n or_o wife_n be_v predominant_a when_o they_o be_v marry_v to_o another_o this_o other_o must_v be_v as_o close_v cleaved_a
spot_n he_o do_v therefore_o no_o way_n pollute_v or_o defile_v his_o spouse_n and_o that_o his_o love_n may_v the_o better_o appear_v to_o be_v chaste_a love_n cast_v only_o upon_o one_o spouse_n and_o not_o many_o he_o unite_v all_o his_o saint_n together_o by_o the_o 13_o bond_n of_o his_o spirit_n and_o make_v they_o all_o one_o body_n hereby_o husband_n must_v learn_v so_o to_o be_v affect_v towards_o 4._o their_o wife_n as_o may_v stand_v with_o holiness_n and_o chastity_n though_o much_o love_n be_v require_v yet_o it_o may_v not_o overflowe_v those_o bank_n marriage_n be_v honourable_a and_o a_o bed_n undefiled_a it_o must_v therefore_o be_v use_v as_o a_o undefiled_a thing_n this_o indeed_o appertain_v to_o the_o wife_n as_o well_o as_o to_o the_o husband_n but_o because_o he_o be_v the_o head_n and_o guide_v of_o his_o wife_n and_o aught_o to_o be_v as_o a_o pattern_n and_o precedent_n before_o she_o as_o christ_n be_v before_o he_o therefore_o be_v it_o more_o special_o apply_v to_o he_o the_o purity_n of_o a_o husband_n love_n here_o speak_v of_o have_v a_o double_a use_n 1._o it_o restrain_v a_o husband_n love_n to_o his_o own_o wife_n there_o be_v a_o general_a christian_a love_n whereby_o all_o occasion_n of_o do_v good_a be_v take_v with_o which_o a_o husband_n may_v and_o aught_o to_o love_v other_o and_o a_o particular_a matrimonial_a love_n whereby_o he_o be_v move_v to_o prefer_v his_o wife_n before_o all_o and_o to_o have_v his_o heart_n set_v and_o fix_v on_o she_o and_o so_o proper_a and_o peculiar_a to_o she_o 2._o it_o order_n and_o moderate_v his_o love_n so_o as_o it_o turn_v not_o into_o sinful_a lust_n whereby_o that_o estate_n which_o in_o itself_o by_o virtue_n of_o god_n ordinance_n be_v holy_a be_v pollute_v §._o 68_o of_o husband_n lightness_n contrary_a be_v not_o only_a adultery_n whereof_o we_o have_v speak_v 8._o before_o but_o also_o wantonness_n lightness_n and_o uncleanness_n with_o his_o wife_n for_o many_o intemperate_a and_o unchaste_a husband_n give_v the_o reins_n to_o their_o headstrong_a lust_n manifest_a as_o much_o unseemlinesse_n and_o plain_a filthiness_n in_o their_o word_n gesture_n and_o action_n to_o say_v nothing_o of_o their_o thought_n which_o be_v not_o see_v to_o their_o wife_n as_o other_o do_v to_o strumpet_n and_o harlot_n which_o be_v a_o most_o shameless_a thing_n and_o i_o be_o even_o ashamed_a â—_o mention_v but_o because_o it_o be_v mention_v let_v such_o know_v thâ—_n they_o shall_v be_v account_v among_o such_o whoremonger_n and_o adulâ—rers_n 4._o as_o god_n will_v judge_v §._o 69._o of_o husband_n love_v their_o wife_n more_o than_o themselves_o the_o quantity_n of_o christ_n love_n can_v be_v express_v for_o the_o himself_o measure_n of_o it_o be_v above_o measure_n 25._o he_o give_v himself_o for_o his_o church_n and_o in_o that_o respect_n he_o call_v himself_o that_o 11._o good_a shepherd_n that_o give_v his_o life_n for_o his_o sheep_n 13._o great_a love_n than_o this_o have_v no_o man_n what_o will_v not_o he_o do_v for_o his_o spouse_n that_o give_v his_o life_n for_o she_o this_o may_v seem_v to_o be_v too_o high_a a_o strain_n and_o pitch_n of_o love_n for_o a_o husband_n to_o attain_v unto_o a_o matter_n wherein_o he_o be_v to_o 16._o â—eave_v his_o pattern_n and_o not_o to_o follow_v christ_n but_o yet_o s._n john_n add_v even_o this_o extent_n to_o the_o love_n of_o our_o brethren_n we_o ought_v say_v he_o to_o lay_v down_o our_o life_n for_o the_o brethren_n therefore_o by_o â—ust_z consequence_n for_o our_o wife_n but_o that_o this_o extent_n be_v not_o stretch_v too_o far_o and_o husband_n cast_v into_o a_o pit_n of_o needless_a peril_n two_o caution_n must_v be_v note_v 1._o that_o there_o be_v a_o absolute_a necessity_n to_o bring_v we_o to_o this_o himself_o â—raite_n of_o part_v with_o our_o life_n which_o be_v when_o the_o good_a we_o â—ime_v at_o in_o the_o behalf_n of_o our_o wife_n can_v any_o other_o way_n be_v â—ffected_v but_o by_o venture_v our_o life_n there_o be_v no_o other_o way_n â—â—_o redeem_v the_o church_n but_o by_o the_o blood_n of_o christ_n 2._o that_o the_o good_a we_o intend_v in_o this_o case_n to_o our_o wife_n be_v of_o â—reater_a value_n than_o our_o temporal_a life_n as_o be_v the_o good_a of_o her_o â—ule_n the_o save_n of_o it_o thus_o the_o apostle_n say_v i_o will_v most_o glad_o bestow_v for_o your_o soul_n which_o mind_n man_n must_v much_o more_o 15._o â—rie_a towards_o their_o wife_n it_o be_v for_o our_o salvation_n that_o christ_n â—ue_v himself_o §._o 70._o of_o husband_n unkindness_n contrary_n be_v their_o unkindness_n that_o prefer_v every_o trifle_n of_o â—â—eir_n own_o before_o the_o good_a of_o their_o wife_n their_o profit_n their_o â—easure_n their_o promotion_n clean_o draw_v away_o their_o heart_n and_o affection_n from_o their_o wife_n if_o any_o extraordinary_a charge_n must_v â—_o lay_v out_o or_o pain_n take_v for_o their_o wife_n good_a little_a love_n â—ll_v then_o appear_v whereby_o it_o appear_v that_o there_o be_v no_o true_a use_v sound_a love_n settle_v in_o their_o heart_n towards_o their_o wife_n as_o â—ld_v and_o other_o like_a metal_n be_v try_v by_o the_o fire_n so_o love_v by_o eviction_n and_o cross_n §._o 71._o of_o combat_n in_o pretence_n of_o wife_n honour_n contrary_n in_o another_o extreme_a be_v the_o overbold_a and_o over-heady_a pretend_a manhood_n of_o such_o husband_n as_o upon_o every_o jealous_a surmise_n and_o sleight_n report_n be_v ready_a to_o make_v challenge_n of_o fight_n and_o to_o enter_v into_o single_a combat_n and_o duel_n on_o pretence_n of_o maintain_v their_o wife_n honour_n this_o be_v no_o warrantable_a course_n of_o right_v a_o wrong_n no_o honour_n can_v redound_v to_o the_o wife_n thereby_o but_o much_o dishonour_n and_o danger_n to_o the_o husband_n if_o he_o prevail_v over_o his_o adversary_n and_o kill_v he_o be_v make_v guilty_a of_o murder_n thereby_o and_o so_o reproach_n and_o shame_n must_v needs_o come_v to_o himself_o wife_n and_o whole_a family_n if_o he_o be_v overcome_v and_o slay_v she_o may_v be_v repute_v more_o guilty_a than_o she_o be_v before_o and_o oft_o it_o fall_v out_o that_o god_n in_o just_a judgement_n give_v over_o the_o challenger_n into_o his_o adversary_n hand_n because_o he_o have_v undertake_v so_o indirect_a a_o course_n §._o 72._o of_o husband_n perpetual_a constancy_n in_o love_n vi_o the_o continuance_n of_o christ_n love_n be_v without_o date_n 1._o have_v love_v his_o own_o he_o love_v they_o unto_o the_o end_n his_o love_n be_v constant_a not_o by_o fit_n now_o love_v then_o hate_v and_o 19_o everlasting_a never_o repent_v thereof_o never_o change_v or_o alter_v his_o mind_n no_o provocation_n no_o transgression_n can_v ever_o make_v he_o forget_v to_o love_n and_o cease_v to_o do_v that_o good_a which_o he_o intend_v for_o his_o church_n note_v what_o he_o say_v to_o she_o even_o when_o she_o revoult_v from_o he_o thou_o have_v play_v the_o harlot_n with_o many_o 15._o lover_n yet_o return_v again_o to_o i_o and_o again_o my_o mercy_n shall_v not_o depart_v away_o for_o his_o love_n rest_v not_o on_o the_o desert_n of_o his_o church_n but_o on_o the_o unchangeableness_n of_o his_o own_o will_n as_o this_o manifest_a christ_n love_n to_o be_v true_a sound_a love_n so_o it_o make_v it_o profitable_a and_o beneficial_a to_o the_o church_n which_o notwithstanding_o her_o many_o frailty_n by_o virtue_n hereof_o be_v glorify_v this_o last_o branch_n must_v be_v add_v to_o all_o the_o former_a branch_n love_n of_o a_o husband_n love_n or_o else_o they_o will_v be_v all_o in_o vain_a and_o to_o no_o purpose_n this_o give_v the_o true_a trial_n of_o sound_a love_n such_o be_v the_o love_n betwixt_o david_n and_o jonathan_n the_o sound_a love_n that_o ever_o be_v betwixt_o party_n and_o party_n this_o bring_v the_o great_a glory_n to_o the_o party_n which_o love_v and_o the_o great_a benefit_n to_o the_o party_n which_o be_v love_v that_o a_o man_n love_n may_v thus_o remain_v firm_a and_o inviolable_a 1._o he_o must_v be_v sure_a to_o lay_v a_o good_a foundation_n he_o must_v ground_v his_o love_n on_o god_n ordinance_n and_o love_v his_o wife_n in_o regard_n of_o the_o matrimonial_a bond_n which_o knit_v they_o together_o and_o that_o near_a union_n which_o thence_o arise_v and_o so_o it_o will_v last_v so_o long_o as_o that_o knot_n last_v 2._o he_o must_v further_o support_v and_o strengthen_v it_o with_o a_o inviolable_a resolution_n to_o be_v change_v and_o alter_v with_o no_o provocation_n but_o rather_o to_o pass_v by_o all_o infirmity_n endeavour_v in_o love_n to_o redress_v they_o if_o possible_o he_o can_v if_o not_o to_o bear_v with_o they_o §._o 73._o of_o husband_n variableness_n contrary_n be_v their_o
variableness_n who_o love_n be_v ready_a to_o turn_v as_o a_o weather_n cock_n with_o every_o blast_n of_o a_o contrary_a wind_n now_o tender-hearted_n than_o again_o hard-hearted_a now_o smile_v then_o â—owring_v now_o give_v this_o and_o that_o favour_n then_o deny_v every_o thing_n even_o such_o thing_n as_o be_v needful_a many_o who_o love_n be_v as_o hot_a as_o fire_v while_o their_o wife_n be_v â—oung_a or_o their_o friend_n live_v or_o while_o they_o please_v they_o when_o â—hose_v occasion_n be_v take_v away_o prove_v in_o their_o love_n as_o cold_a â—s_n ice_n again_o other_o by_o some_o continuance_n in_o do_v good_a to_o their_o wife_n think_v it_o a_o burden_n and_o wax_v weary_a clean_o leave_v off_o â—heir_o former_a good_a course_n which_o plain_o show_v that_o they_o neâ—er_v true_o and_o entire_o love_v their_o wife_n by_o this_o pattern_n of_o christ_n here_o propound_v to_o husband_n â—e_v have_v on_o the_o one_o side_n a_o good_a direction_n to_o teach_v we_o how_o to_o â—â—ue_v our_o wife_n as_o have_v be_v particular_o declare_v and_o on_o the_o â—ther_n side_n matter_n of_o humiliation_n in_o that_o it_o show_v we_o how_o â—â—re_o short_a we_o come_v of_o our_o bind_a duty_n howsoever_o wife_n â—ay_n most_o complain_v of_o their_o burden_n because_o it_o be_v a_o subiectionâ—hereunto_o â—hereunto_z by_o nature_n we_o be_v all_o loath_a to_o yield_v yet_o i_o be_o sure_o 10._o â—â—e_v heavy_a burden_n be_v lay_v upon_o the_o husband_n shoulder_n and_o â—uch_v more_o easy_a it_o be_v to_o perform_v the_o part_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n than_o a_o good_a husband_n §._o 74._o of_o husband_n love_v their_o wife_n 59_o as_o themselves_o to_o the_o example_n of_o christ_n the_o apostle_n annex_v the_o patâ—â—ne_n of_o one_o self_n in_o these_o word_n so_o ought_v man_n to_o love_v their_o 28._o â—â—es_n as_o their_o own_o body_n quest_n be_v not_o the_o former_a pattern_n sufficient_a be_v this_o latter_a more_o excellent_a or_o more_o perfect_a answ_n christ_n example_n be_v a_o full_a complete_a perfect_a and_o add_v every_o way_n sufficient_a pattern_n far_o more_o excellent_a than_o this_o of_o a_o man_n self_n this_o be_v not_o annex_v to_o add_v any_o thing_n to_o that_o or_o in_o regard_n of_o the_o excellency_n hereof_o but_o only_o in_o regard_n of_o our_o dulness_n to_o make_v the_o point_n somewhat_o more_o plain_a and_o perspicuous_a sensible_a for_o this_o pattern_n be_v more_o sensible_a and_o better_o discern_v every_o one_o know_v how_o he_o love_v his_o own_o body_n but_o few_o or_o none_o know_v how_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n beside_o imitable_a that_o example_n of_o christ_n may_v seem_v too_o high_a and_o excellent_a for_o any_o to_o attain_v unto_o even_o inimitable_a therefore_o to_o show_v that_o he_o require_v no_o more_o than_o a_o man_n may_v perform_v if_o he_o will_v set_v himself_o with_o care_n and_o conscience_n to_o do_v his_o duty_n he_o add_v the_o pattern_n of_o one_o self_n that_o which_o one_o do_v to_o his_o body_n if_o he_o will_v he_o may_v do_v to_o his_o wife_n no_o direction_n can_v be_v take_v from_o this_o latter_a pattern_n but_o do_v may_v be_v refer_v to_o the_o former_a as_o most_o of_o the_o former_a though_o in_o a_o far_o mean_a manner_n may_v be_v refer_v to_o the_o latter_a for_o the_o love_n which_o a_o man_n bear_v to_o himself_o be_v true_a and_o entire_a without_o all_o dissimulation_n the_o most_o dissemble_a wretch_n in_o the_o world_n who_o in_o his_o deal_n with_o other_o man_n do_v nothing_o upright_o nor_o will_v nor_o can_v dissemble_v with_o himself_o though_o other_o man_n shall_v never_o know_v the_o depth_n of_o his_o heart_n yet_o the_o spirit_n 11._o which_o be_v in_o he_o even_o himself_o know_v it_o so_o as_o this_o pattern_n also_o press_v truth_n and_o sincerity_n on_o husband_n in_o their_o affection_n towards_o their_o wife_n of_o all_o other_o they_o may_v not_o dissemble_v and_o deal_v double_o with_o they_o but_o let_v they_o know_v the_o entireness_n of_o their_o affection_n towards_o they_o and_o see_v they_o neither_o faun_n oâ—_n they_o nor_o flatter_v they_o they_o which_o pretend_v great_a love_n to_o their_o wife_n in_o show_n only_o offend_v against_o nature_n itself_o as_o the_o foresay_a love_n of_o a_o man_n own_o self_n be_v for_o manner_n entire_a and_o true_a so_o also_o free_v not_o force_v and_o for_o measure_n as_o great_a as_o possible_o iâ—_n can_v be_v and_o for_o continuance_n constant_a and_o so_o like_a to_o christ_n love_n but_o there_o be_v two_o point_n especial_o to_o be_v consider_v in_o the_o love_n of_o one_o self_n which_o above_o other_o be_v most_o sensible_o discern_v himself_o in_o this_o pattern_n 1._o tenderness_n 2._o cheerfulness_n no_o other_o man_n will_v or_o can_v so_o tender_o handle_v a_o man_n hand_n arm_n leg_n or_o any_o other_o part_n of_o his_o body_n as_o himself_o he_o be_v very_o sensible_a of_o his_o own_o smart_n the_o metaphor_n which_o the_o apostle_n 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and_o cheerful_o do_v any_o kindness_n for_o one_o as_o a_o man_n for_o himself_o this_o among_o other_o be_v one_o especial_a point_n which_o the_o law_n aim_v at_o when_o it_o enjoin_v a_o man_n to_o love_v his_o neighbour_n 18._o as_o himself_o namely_o as_o willing_o and_o ready_o as_o himself_o whatsoever_o a_o man_n do_v for_o himself_o he_o do_v much_o more_o cheerful_o then_o for_o another_o there_o need_v no_o other_o proof_n than_o experience_n let_v man_n take_v notice_n of_o their_o own_o mind_n and_o disposition_n when_o they_o do_v thing_n for_o themselves_o and_o this_o will_v be_v as_o clear_a as_o the_o light_n when_o the_o sun_n shine_v forth_o at_o â—oone_n day_n such_o a_o affection_n ought_v husband_n to_o have_v to_o their_o wife_n good_a they_o ought_v more_o willing_o and_o cheerful_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n â—or_a their_o wife_n then_o for_o parent_n child_n friend_n or_o any_o other_o though_o this_o cheerfulness_n be_v a_o inward_a disposition_n of_o the_o 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reverence_n and_o obedience_n both_o which_o respect_v a_o parent_n authority_n §._o 4._o of_o a_o child_n reverence_n in_o refrain_v speech_n before_o his_o parent_n and_o in_o harken_v to_o his_o parent_n the_o outward_a reverence_n which_o child_n owe_v to_o their_o paâ—â—nts_n consist_v partly_o in_o their_o speech_n partly_o in_o their_o carriage_n their_o speech_n both_o to_o and_o of_o their_o parent_n must_v savour_n reverence_v to_o their_o parent_n in_o presence_n of_o their_o parent_n in_o absence_n in_o presence_n by_o refrain_v their_o speech_n well_o frame_n  _fw-fr  _fw-fr for_o refrain_v speech_n two_o virtue_n be_v requisite_a silence_n patience_n  _fw-fr silence_n in_o forbear_v to_o speak_v break_v of_o speech_n presence_n  _fw-fr patience_n in_o harken_v to_o their_o parent_n the_o two_o branch_n of_o silence_n in_o forbear_v to_o speak_v especial_o when_o parent_n be_v speak_v or_o till_o parent_n give_v leave_v to_o their_o child_n to_o speak_v and_o in_o break_v off_o speech_n when_o parent_n come_v into_o the_o place_n where_o child_n be_v speak_v be_v token_n of_o great_a reverence_n thus_o child_n testify_v that_o there_o be_v some_o in_o place_n who_o they_o much_o respect_n and_o honour_n job_n do_v thus_o set_v forth_o the_o respect_n which_o prince_n and_o other_o do_v bear_v to_o he_o in_o his_o prosperity_n the_o prince_n say_v he_o refrain_v 10._o talk_v and_o lay_v their_o hand_n upon_o their_o mouth_n the_o noble_n hold_v their_o peace_n etc._n etc._n namely_o while_o he_o be_v in_o presence_n or_o while_o he_o speak_v the_o like_a may_v be_v say_v of_o child_n patience_n in_o endure_v 25._o their_o parent_n speech_n which_o job_n also_o note_v in_o these_o word_n unto_o i_o man_n give_v ear_n and_o wait_v and_o keep_v silence_n though_o parent_n in_o their_o speech_n seem_v to_o be_v long_o and_o tedious_a yet_o must_v child_n endure_v it_o and_o it_o be_v very_o needful_a that_o patience_n be_v add_v to_o silence_n because_o 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inhuman_a impiety_n be_v manifest_v in_o the_o world_n the_o civil_a law_n ordain_v this_o punishment_n 9_o if_o any_o shall_v kill_v his_o parent_n let_v he_o not_o be_v put_v to_o the_o sword_n nor_o fire_n nor_o any_o other_o usual_a punishment_n but_o let_v he_o be_v sow_v in_o a_o sack_n with_o a_o dog_n and_o a_o cock_n and_o a_o viper_n and_o a_o ape_n and_o cast_v into_o the_o next_o sea_n or_o river_n that_o while_o life_n be_v in_o he_o he_o may_v begin_v to_o want_v all_o use_n of_o the_o element_n and_o be_v deprive_v while_o he_o live_v of_o the_o air_n and_o when_o he_o be_v dead_a of_o the_o earth_n this_o sin_n have_v be_v commit_v among_o the_o heathen_a the_o apostle_n reckon_v it_o up_o among_o other_o most_o notorious_a and_o barbarous_a sin_n 1._o tim._n 1._o 9_o as_o murder_n be_v one_o of_o those_o sin_n which_o the_o earth_n can_v least_o bear_v and_o which_o cry_v loud_a to_o heaven_n for_o vengeance_n so_o among_o the_o several_a kind_n of_o murder_n this_o 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for_o it_o for_o 1._o it_o be_v a_o testimony_n of_o great_a love_n and_o good_a respect_n to_o the_o party_n reason_n decease_v now_o who_o shall_v manifest_v more_o love_n and_o great_a respect_n than_o a_o child_n 2._o it_o be_v a_o kind_n of_o 20._o blessing_n promise_v by_o god_n to_o his_o saint_n to_o reason_n be_v bury_v as_o on_o the_o other_o side_n it_o be_v a_o 3._o curse_n threaten_v against_o obstinate_a sinner_n not_o to_o be_v bury_v in_o this_o respect_n 5._o david_n bless_v the_o man_n of_o jabesh_n gilead_n for_o bury_v saul_n and_o acknowledge_v it_o a_o kindness_n do_v to_o saul_n now_o who_o ought_v rather_o to_o procure_v a_o blessing_n and_o do_v a_o kindness_n to_o parent_n than_o child_n who_o be_v oft_o bless_v through_o their_o parent_n mean_n 3._o it_o be_v a_o great_a deformity_n to_o have_v a_o man_n corpse_n lie_v above_o reason_n ground_n for_o no_o carcase_n will_v be_v more_o loathsome_a than_o a_o man_n if_o it_o lie_v unbury_v child_n who_o be_v most_o bind_v to_o cover_v their_o parent_n deformity_n be_v in_o this_o respect_n bind_v to_o bury_v their_o corpse_n corpse_n contrary_n be_v their_o practice_n who_o mind_n be_v so_o set_v on_o their_o parent_n good_n as_o they_o clean_o neglect_v their_o body_n so_o soon_o as_o their_o parent_n breath_n be_v out_o of_o their_o body_n they_o so_o busy_v themselves_o about_o the_o thing_n which_o they_o have_v leave_v behind_o they_o as_o their_o corpse_n be_v ready_a to_o stink_n before_o care_n be_v take_v for_o the_o burial_n of_o it_o yea_o some_o will_v purposely_o keep_v their_o parent_n corpse_n above_o ground_n till_o they_o be_v exceed_o noisome_a for_o receive_v some_o revenue_n or_o debt_n or_o other_o account_n which_o must_v be_v pay_v before_o the_o corpse_n be_v bury_v if_o their_o corpse_n must_v needs_o for_o sometime_o be_v keep_v above_o ground_n let_v they_o be_v imbalm_v or_o so_o use_v as_o they_o may_v not_o savour_n they_o who_o be_v careless_a hereof_o show_v that_o they_o respect_v their_o parent_n wealth_n 5._o more_o than_o his_o person_n and_o honour_n in_o which_o respect_n they_o also_o heinous_o transgress_v who_o be_v so_o greedy_a of_o their_o parent_n estate_n as_o they_o must_v needs_o prevent_v his_o departure_n and_o like_o adoniah_n enter_v upon_o their_o father_n estate_n and_o take_v possession_n of_o his_o good_n before_o breath_n be_v out_o of_o his_o body_n whereby_o they_o do_v oft_o cause_v great_a disquietness_n to_o he_o that_o will_v depart_v in_o peace_n again_o other_o bear_v a_o inward_a grudge_n and_o secret_a hatred_n funeral_n against_o a_o brother_n or_o other_o kinsman_n who_o their_o parent_n entire_o love_v and_o in_o that_o respect_n dare_v not_o meddle_v with_o he_o in_o their_o parent_n life-time_n so_o soon_o as_o their_o parent_n be_v dead_a pick_v a_o quarrel_n with_o the_o party_n hate_v and_o so_o disturb_v and_o hinder_v their_o parent_n funeral_n such_o a_o plot_n esau_n intend_v but_o god_n defeat_v 41._o it_o whereby_o it_o appear_v that_o god_n be_v displease_v therewith_o §._o 46._o of_o the_o decency_n wherewith_o child_n ought_v to_o see_v their_o parent_n bury_v the_o manner_n after_o which_o child_n ought_v to_o see_v their_o parent_n bury_v must_v be_v with_o such_o decency_n as_o be_v agreeable_a to_o the_o commendable_a custom_n of_o the_o country_n and_o church_n where_o their_o parent_n die_v and_o with_o such_o honour_n as_o be_v in_o some_o measure_n answerable_a to_o the_o estate_n and_o place_n of_o their_o parent_n while_o they_o live_v at_o least_o if_o it_o be_v not_o above_o the_o mean_n that_o the_o parent_n have_v leave_v or_o above_o the_o ability_n of_o the_o child_n that_o make_v the_o solemnity_n joseph_n be_v a_o great_a governor_n in_o egypt_n by_o reason_n whereof_o his_o father_n when_o he_o come_v thither_o be_v high_o account_v of_o according_o 7._o with_o great_a honour_n do_v he_o carry_v he_o to_o his_o grave_n there_o be_v two_o extreme_n contrary_a to_o the_o forename_a decency_n funeral_n â—nd_v honour_n one_o be_v a_o overlavish_a and_o prodigal_a sumptuousnesse_n â—nd_v solemnity_n at_o their_o parent_n funeral_n far_o above_o the_o estate_n â—nd_v far_o beyond_o the_o mean_n which_o the_o parent_n have_v leave_v and_o â—arre_o also_o above_o the_o estate_n and_o ability_n of_o the_o child_n himself_o â—ome_o by_o the_o needless_a solemnity_n of_o their_o parent_n funeral_n be_v â—â—_o far_o cast_v into_o debt_n as_o they_o be_v never_o able_a to_o recover_v themselves_o again_o and_o so_o bring_v more_o dishonour_n to_o their_o parent_n by_o â—he_n weakness_n of_o their_o child_n estate_n than_o honour_n by_o the_o solemnity_n of_o the_o funeral_n there_o may_v be_v great_a honour_n and_o much_o decency_n in_o a_o funeral_n where_o be_v not_o extraordinary_a charâ—es_n instance_n steven_n funeral_n 2._o the_o other_o extreme_a be_v too_o base_a and_o private_a a_o manner_n of_o funeral_n bury_v their_o 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than_o a_o hundred_o stripe_n into_o a_o fool_n and_o because_o it_o may_v be_v use_v when_o it_o be_v not_o so_o meet_v to_o use_v stroke_n and_o blow_n as_o when_o child_n be_v grow_v to_o man-age_n the_o many_o good_a fruit_n which_o the_o holy_a ghost_n note_v to_o proceed_v from_o due_a reproof_n do_v show_v that_o it_o be_v a_o duty_n whereof_o parent_n ought_v to_o make_v conscience_n as_o they_o desire_v to_o promote_v the_o good_a of_o their_o child_n and_o so_o much_o the_o rather_o because_o many_o good_a fruit_n redound_v to_o the_o parent_n that_o reprove_v as_o well_o as_o to_o the_o child_n reprove_v in_o regard_n of_o their_o good_a who_o be_v reprove_v it_o be_v say_v 23._o reproof_n for_o instruction_n be_v the_o way_n of_o life_n they_o cause_v 32._o understanding_n and_o make_v 5._o prudent_a in_o regard_n of_o their_o good_a who_o reprove_v it_o be_v say_v 25._o to_o they_o that_o rebuke_n shall_v be_v delight_n that_o be_v much_o comfort_n and_o matter_n of_o rejoice_v so_o as_o they_o shall_v not_o need_v to_o repent_v what_o they_o have_v do_v and_o a_o blessing_n of_o good_a shall_v come_v upon_o they_o that_o be_v either_o a_o blessing_n of_o good_a man_n who_o will_v bless_v praise_n and_o commend_v they_o or_o a_o blessing_n of_o good_a thing_n and_o that_o from_o the_o lord_n who_o will_v reward_v they_o for_o this_o conscionable_a performance_n of_o their_o duty_n upon_o these_o ground_n 4._o holy_a man_n have_v not_o spare_v to_o rebuke_v their_o child_n as_o there_o be_v occasion_n though_o 6._o eli_n do_v somewhat_o in_o this_o duty_n yet_o because_o he_o be_v not_o more_o severe_a therein_o â—he_v bring_v destruction_n both_o upon_o himself_o and_o his_o child_n the_o direction_n note_a §_o 40._o and_o 47._o and_o treat_n 4._o §_o 35._o may_v be_v here_o apply_v §._o 45._o of_o parent_n cocker_a their_o child_n contrary_n be_v their_o too_o much_o dote_v on_o child_n who_o be_v â—oth_o to_o give_v they_o a_o foul_a word_n 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wife_n to_o jephthah_n thou_o shall_v not_o inherit_v in_o our_o father_n house_n 2._o for_o thou_o be_v the_o son_n of_o a_o strange_a woman_n just_o be_v that_o blame_n which_o jotham_n lay_v upon_o the_o man_n of_o shechem_n for_o make_v abimelech_n 18._o the_o base_a son_n of_o jerubbaal_n king_n and_o just_o be_v god_n vengeance_n upon_o they_o for_o that_o wrong_n do_v to_o jerubbaals_n legitimate_a child_n 2._o if_o he_o be_v notorious_o wicked_a thus_o 1._o reuben_n for_o commit_v abominable_a incest_n lose_v his_o birthright_n many_o particular_a crime_n be_v reckon_v up_o by_o the_o haered_a civil_a lawyer_n which_o will_v be_v too_o long_o here_o to_o recite_v §._o 71._o of_o the_o duty_n of_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n the_o extent_n of_o this_o title_n father_n be_v in_o the_o last_o place_n to_o be_v parent_n consider_v not_o only_o natural_a parent_n themselves_o but_o also_o all_o that_o be_v in_o their_o place_n be_v comprise_v under_o it_o as_o they_o who_o 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be_v to_o account_v their_o child_n in_o law_n that_o be_v the_o parent_n child_n of_o their_o husband_n and_o wife_n or_o the_o wife_n of_o their_o son_n and_o the_o husband_n of_o their_o daughter_n as_o their_o own_o natural_a child_n and_o according_a to_o the_o age_n and_o place_n of_o these_o child_n to_o perform_v the_o forename_a duty_n and_o every_o way_n to_o seek_v their_o good_a except_o in_o such_o duty_n as_o after_o a_o peculiar_a manner_n belong_v to_o natural_a parent_n as_o nurse_v to_o a_o natural_a mother_n leave_v the_o inheritance_n to_o a_o natural_a parent_n for_o a_o pattern_n hereof_o take_v the_o forename_a example_n of_o joseph_n and_o naomi_n what_o natural_a parent_n can_v do_v more_o for_o their_o own_o child_n than_o joseph_n do_v for_o jesus_n and_o naomi_n for_o ruth_n the_o history_n note_v how_o joseph_n take_v care_n to_o have_v his_o wife_n child_n 22._o circumcise_v and_o present_v in_o the_o temple_n how_o he_o 14._o flee_v from_o place_n to_o place_n to_o preserve_v the_o child_n life_n how_o 48._o perplex_v he_o be_v when_o he_o think_v the_o child_n be_v lose_v how_o he_o 51._o train_v he_o up_o in_o his_o own_o house_n the_o history_n also_o note_v how_o 22._o naomi_n bring_v ruth_n her_o son_n wife_n into_o her_o own_o country_n and_o retain_v she_o with_o herself_o and_o 22._o direct_v she_o whither_o to_o go_v and_o 1._o what_o husband_n to_o have_v and_o 16._o become_v a_o nurse_n to_o her_o child_n 1._o marriage_n make_v man_n and_o wife_n one_o flesh_n in_o which_o respect_n reason_n they_o ought_v to_o have_v one_o mind_n and_o the_o same_o affection_n as_o mutual_o each_o to_o other_o so_o joint_o to_o the_o child_n of_o each_o other_o on_o which_o ground_n also_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n of_o a_o child_n be_v one_o flesh_n with_o the_o child_n aught_o as_o the_o child_n to_o be_v respect_v on_o this_o ground_n god_n count_v the_o saint_n his_o 〈◊〉_d dear_a child_n because_o they_o be_v 2._o espouse_v to_o 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especial_o of_o those_o who_o be_v marry_v to_o husband_n or_o to_o wife_n that_o have_v child_n before_o marriage_n so_o far_o they_o be_v from_o perform_v the_o forename_a duty_n as_o rather_o they_o envy_v at_o the_o prosperity_n of_o their_o husband_n and_o wife_n child_n and_o secret_o endeavour_n to_o hinder_v it_o in_o what_o they_o can_v and_o cunning_o leek_v to_o alienate_v the_o natural_a parent_n affection_n from_o they_o whence_o hippolytus_n fearful_a tragedy_n have_v be_v make_v and_o lamentable_a mischief_n have_v follow_v what_o other_o reason_n can_v be_v give_v hereof_o 45._o but_o a_o plain_a instigation_n of_o the_o devil_n who_o thus_o labour_v to_o disunite_v those_o who_o god_n have_v join_v together_o for_o avoid_v this_o snare_n note_v the_o mischief_n that_o follow_v from_o thence_o 1._o such_o parent_n sin_n against_o god_n ordinance_n and_o as_o eve_n lean_a more_o to_o satan_n suggestion_n then_o to_o god_n direction_n 2._o they_o alienate_v the_o heart_n and_o affection_n of_o one_o from_o another_o not_o only_o from_o their_o child_n but_o from_o themselves_o 3._o they_o provoke_v their_o child_n in_o law_n to_o contemn_v and_o despise_v they_o and_o to_o yield_v no_o duty_n unto_o they_o hence_o note_v into_o what_o a_o hell_n unkind_a father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n do_v cast_v themselves_o if_o this_o be_v due_o weigh_v i_o think_v they_o will_v be_v otherwise_o mind_v but_o the_o god_n of_o this_o world_n do_v so_o blind_a their_o eye_n with_o self-love_n and_o with_o envy_n that_o they_o can_v see_v the_o mischief_n whereinto_o they_o implunge_v themselves_o this_o be_v a_o point_n the_o more_o to_o be_v weigh_v because_o the_o fault_n here_o tax_v be_v so_o common_a and_o have_v in_o all_o age_n be_v too_o common_a 4._o what_o grievous_a complaint_n have_v in_o former_a time_n be_v make_v and_o still_o be_v make_v by_o child_n against_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n whence_o also_o direful_a imprecation_n have_v follow_v let_v widower_n and_o widow_n that_o have_v child_n serious_o think_v of_o it_o before_o hand_n and_o be_v the_o more_o circumspect_a in_o take_v a_o second_o or_o three_o husband_n or_o wife_n and_o after_o they_o be_v marry_v let_v they_o take_v heed_n of_o satan_n snare_n and_o let_v conscience_n of_o duty_n more_o prevail_v with_o they_o than_o corruption_n of_o nature_n §._o 73._o of_o the_o fault_n of_o parent_n to_o their_o child_n husband_n and_o wife_n many_o parent_n to_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n of_o their_o child_n do_v also_o much_o transgress_v and_o swerve_v from_o their_o duty_n for_o 1._o they_o will_v show_v much_o more_o respect_n to_o their_o own_o child_n then_o to_o the_o child_n of_o their_o husband_n or_o wife_n as_o by_o come_v to_o their_o daughter_n when_o their_o husband_n be_v abroad_o and_o never_o but_o then_o and_o send_v for_o their_o son_n to_o their_o house_n but_o not_o for_o their_o wife_n 2._o in_o all_o difference_n they_o will_v take_v part_n with_o their_o own_o child_n though_o it_o be_v in_o the_o worse_a part_n and_o show_v great_a partiality_n 3._o they_o will_v oft_o give_v very_o ill_a counsel_n advise_v their_o son_n to_o keep_v their_o wife_n short_a advise_v their_o daughter_n not_o to_o be_v too_o subject_a to_o their_o husband_n yea_o privy_o to_o purloin_v from_o their_o husband_n 4._o if_o they_o live_v with_o their_o child_n they_o will_v so_o pry_v into_o every_o thing_n that_o their_o child_n husband_n or_o wife_n do_v and_o show_v such_o suspicion_n and_o jealous_o in_o every_o thing_n as_o they_o can_v but_o cause_v much_o discord_n and_o hence_o it_o oft_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o either_o parent_n and_o child_n or_o husband_n and_o wife_n must_v be_v part_v
reproof_n mat._n 18._o 15._o direction_n for_o reprove_v a_o wife_n who_o offence_n be_v public_a 4._o reprove_v gentle_o pro._n 25._o 15._o a_o reproof_n may_v be_v sharp_a not_o bitter_a gen._n 30._o 2._o job_n 2._o 10._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 21_o 22._o rebuke_v never_o to_o be_v give_v by_o a_o man_n in_o passion_n mat._n 6._o 22._o rebuke_v to_o be_v put_v off_o while_o a_o wife_n be_v in_o passion_n 1_o sam._n 20._o 30._o 1_o sam._n 20._o 32._o 32._o treat_n 3._o §._o 10._o a_o husband_n carriage_n must_v be_v mild_a 1._o a_o mild_a countenance_n gen._n 33._o 10._o psal_n 4._o 6._o gen._n 4._o 6._o gen._n 31._o 2._o contrary_n 1._o a_o lofty_a brow_n 2._o a_o grim_a look_n 3._o a_o frown_a forehead_n 4._o a_o fiery_a eye_n 2._o mild_a geslure_n object_n gen._n 26._o 8._o answ_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 4_o 5._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 4._o vipera_fw-la virus_fw-la ob_fw-la venerationem_fw-la nuptiarum_fw-la evomit_fw-la et_fw-la tu_fw-la duritiem_fw-la animi_fw-la tuferitatem_fw-la tu_fw-la crudelitatem_fw-la ob_fw-la unionis_fw-la reverentiam_fw-la non_fw-la deponis_fw-la basil_n hexaem_n hom_n 7._o ambr._n hexaem_n l._n 5._o c._n 7._o urget_fw-la hanc_fw-la ipsam_fw-la similitudinem_fw-la huiusmodi_fw-la virum_fw-la siquidem_fw-la vir_fw-la appellandus_fw-la est_fw-la potius_fw-la quam_fw-la fera_fw-fr &_o patricidae_fw-la &_o matricidae_fw-la similem_fw-la dixeris_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o a_o husband_n may_v not_o beat_v his_o wife_n reason_n 1._o no_o warrant_n in_o the_o word_n word_n §._o 4._o 2._o small_a disparity_n summa_fw-la iniuria_fw-la est_fw-la aquavitae_fw-la sociam_fw-la &_o in_o rebus_fw-la necessarijs_fw-la tibi_fw-la coniunctam_fw-la taquà m_fw-la mancipium_fw-la ignominia_fw-la affioere_n chrys_n ibid._n 3._o near_o conjunction_n conjunction_n eph._n 5._o 31._o 31._o 1_o king_n 18._o 28._o 28._o mar._n 5._o 5._o eph._n 5._o 30._o mat._n 28._o 18._o 4._o no_o profit_n much_o mischief_n adhibitis_fw-la verberibus_fw-la morbus_fw-la non_fw-la tollitur_fw-la sed_fw-la augetur_fw-la &_o exasperatur_fw-la melch._n jun._n quaest_n polit._n par_fw-fr 2._o nullum_fw-la sit_fw-la tam_fw-la magnum_fw-la peccatum_fw-la quod_fw-la ad_fw-la verberandum_fw-la vxorem_fw-la compellat_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o sedefendendo_fw-la gal._n 6._o 2._o considera_fw-la mulierem_fw-la debile_a vas_fw-la esse_fw-la tu_fw-la autem_fw-la vir_fw-la propterea_fw-la princeps_fw-la factus_fw-la es_fw-la ut_fw-la subditae_fw-la feras_fw-la imbecillitatem_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o 1._o pet._n 3._o 7._o direction_n to_o husband_n for_o bear_v with_o their_o wife_n infirmity_n neque_fw-la saram_fw-la tanquam_fw-la sterilem_fw-la contempsit_fw-la abraham_n nâ—que_fw-la quicquam_fw-la tale_n exprobavit_fw-la si_fw-mi uxor_fw-la pauper_fw-la sit_fw-la noli_fw-la exprobare_fw-la &_o si_fw-la stulta_fw-la noli_fw-la ei_fw-la insultare_fw-la ibid._n uxor_fw-la iracunda_fw-la etc._n etc._n admonenda_fw-la &_o adiuvanda_fw-la consilio_fw-la &_o omni_fw-la conatu_fw-la anniten_v dum_o ut_fw-la illis_fw-la liberetur_fw-la affectibus_fw-la ibid._n 1_o sam._n 1._o 8._o gen._n 21._o 14._o prou._n 19_o 11._o eccl_n 7._o 23._o gen._n 30._o 1._o 2_o etc._n etc._n reason_n best_a trial_n of_o a_o man_n wisdom_n &_o love_n matth._n 5._o 46._o luk._n 6._o 32_o 33._o eph._n 5._o 23._o 23._o treat_n 1._o §._o 15._o &_o treat_n 3._o §._o 73._o 1._o provide_v thing_n needful_a 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 17._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 8._o recordare_fw-la quòd_fw-la pater_fw-la uxoris_fw-la tamquam_fw-la depositum_fw-la quoddam_fw-la filiam_fw-la tibi_fw-la tradidit_fw-la &_o omnibus_fw-la relictis_fw-la matre_fw-la domo_fw-la &_o seipso_fw-la omnem_fw-la eius_fw-la curam_fw-la tuus_fw-la dexterae_fw-la commisit_fw-la chrys_n hon_fw-mi 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o contrary_a to_o take_v a_o wife_n only_o for_o himself_o pro._n 18._o 22._o private_a mean_n of_o edification_n act._n 10._o 2_o 30._o judg._n 17._o 10._o 2_o king_n 4._o 11._o public_a mean_n of_o edification_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 7._o &_o 2._o 19_o luk._n 2._o 41._o ezek._n 3._o 18._o etc._n etc._n etc._n jsa_n 4._o 1._o 1._o exo._n 21._o 10._o 10._o treat_n 2._o part._n 2._o §._o 29._o treat_n 3._o §._o 49._o the_o pain_n of_o woman_n travel_n psal_n 48_o 6._o isa_n 13._o 8._o &_o 21._o 3_o jer._n 4._o 31._o &_o 30._o 6._o mic._n 49._o gen._n 35._o 16_o etc._n etc._n 1_o sam._n 4._o 19_o 20._o *_o see_v treat_v 2._o part._n 2._o §_o 30._o 39_o si_fw-mi quid_fw-la uxor_fw-la peccaverit_fw-la consolare_fw-la &_o noli_fw-la moerorem_fw-la augere_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o 11._o treat_n 3._o §._o 38._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 23._o 23._o §._o 6._o 6._o treat_n 3._o §._o 23._o 29._o 33._o pro._n 31._o 15._o etc._n etc._n verse_n 21._o vers_fw-la 28._o verse_n 20._o verse_n 11._o vers_fw-la 28._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o eph_n 4._o 8._o husband_n before_o they_o die_v must_v make_v their_o will_n even_o for_o their_o wife_n good_a 1_o king_n 1._o 21._o husband_n on_o their_o deathbed_n must_v commend_v their_o wife_n to_o some_o faithful_a friend_n job._n 19_o 26_o 27._o reason_n true_a trial_n of_o love_n at_o departure_n contrary_n 1._o a_o wilful_a inability_n 2_o make_v away_o their_o wife_n jointer_n or_o any_o other_o right_o 3._o defeat_v of_o three_o rom._n 13._o 5._o 4._o make_v no_o will_n gen._n 20_o 16._o ruth_n 3._o 9_o ruth_n 2._o 12._o 12._o treat_n 1._o §._o 15._o and_o treat_v 3._o §._o 73._o 1_o sam._n 27._o 3._o &_o 30._o 18._o a_o wife_n must_v be_v keep_v from_o be_v seduce_v a_o wise_a steal_v away_o must_v be_v fetch_v home_o judg._n 19_o 2._o 2_o san._n 3._o 13_o 14._o 1_o sam._n 30._o 18._o a_o wife_n credit_n must_v be_v maintain_v see_v treat_n 2._o part_n 2._o §._o 31._o etc._n etc._n luke_n 10._o 16._o a_o wife_n must_v be_v defend_v against_o stranger_n servant_n and_o child_n est_fw-la 7._o 7_o 8._o etc._n etc._n licèt_fw-la omne_fw-la proijcias_fw-la nihil_fw-la molestius_fw-la continget_fw-la quam_fw-la non_fw-la habere_fw-la benevolam_fw-la domi_fw-la vxorem_fw-la peccatum_fw-la nullum_fw-la magis_fw-la dolendum_fw-la inveneris_fw-la quam_fw-la cum_fw-la uxore_fw-la seditionem_fw-la habere_fw-la chrysost_n hon_fw-mi 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o genes_n 16._o 6._o &_o 21._o 14._o contrary_a dissolute_a carelessness_n 1._o in_o suffer_v seducer_n to_o come_v to_o the_o house_n 2._o in_o suffer_v wife_n to_o go_v whither_o they_o list_v luke_n 15._o 4._o 3._o in_o not_o regard_v ill_a report_n of_o wife_n pro._n 12._o 4._o 4._o in_o suffer_v wife_n to_o be_v misuse_v exod._n 2._o 13._o 5._o in_o boulstr_n up_o child_n or_o servant_n against_o wife_n si_fw-mi illam_fw-la quae_fw-la secundum_fw-la post_fw-la te_fw-la locum_fw-la obtinet_fw-la contumelia_fw-la afficis_fw-la non_fw-la parum_fw-la tui_fw-la principatus_fw-la honori_fw-la derogas_fw-la chrys_n loc_n cit_fw-la the_o manner_n of_o a_o husband_n love_v set_v forth_o by_o christ_n manner_n of_o love_v his_o church_n in_o six_o branch_n 1._o christ_n first_o love_v the_o church_n 1_o joh._n 4._o 19_o cant._n 1._o 2._o husband_n must_v by_o their_o love_n provoke_v their_o wife_n to_o love_n pro._n 2._o 17._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d sicaput_fw-la est_fw-la vir_fw-la praecedere_fw-la debet_fw-la in_o omnibus_fw-la bonis_fw-la factis_fw-la vxorem_fw-la svam_fw-la ut_fw-la illa_fw-la imitetur_fw-la virum_fw-la &_o sequatur_fw-la caput_fw-la suum_fw-la aug._n de_fw-fr decem_fw-la chor_n c._n 3._o 3._o treat_n 1._o §._o 10._o treat_n 3._o §._o 57_o 2._o christ_n love_v in_o truth_n verse_n 26_o 27._o husband_n must_v love_v in_o deed_n deed_n 1_o joh._n 3._o 18._o 18._o 1_o cor._n 9_o 5._o 3._o christ_n love_v free_o deut._n 7._o 7_o 8._o eph._n 5._o 27._o husband_n love_n must_v be_v free_a 1_o cor._n 13._o 5._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o 4._o christ_n love_n pure_a eph._n 5._o 26_o 27._o 1_o cor._n 12._o 12_o 13_o husband_n love_n must_v be_v chaste_a heb._n 13._o 4._o 4._o treat_n 2._o part_n 2._o §._o 5_o 8._o heb._n 13._o 4._o 5_o christ_n love_n extend_v to_o the_o give_v of_o himself_o himself_o ephes_n 5_o 25._o 25._o john_n 10._o 11._o 11._o &_o 15._o 13._o how_o husband_n must_v love_v their_o wife_n more_o than_o themselves_o 1_o john_n 3._o 16._o caution_n about_o a_o husband_n love_v his_o wife_n more_o than_o himself_o 2_o cor._n 12._o 15._o 15._o treat_n 3._o §._o 6._o 6_o christ_n love_n perpetual_a perpetual_a joh._n 13._o 1._o 1._o hos_fw-la 2._o 19_o jer._n 3._o 1._o 2_o sam._n 7._o 15._o husband_n must_v be_v constant_a in_o their_o love_n see_v treat_n 1._o §._o 10._o 10._o treat_n 3._o §._o 59_o eph._n 5._o 28._o to_o christ_n example_n the_o pattern_n of_o one_o self_n be_v add_v 1._o because_o it_o be_v more_o sensible_a 2._o because_o it_o be_v more_o imitable_a the_o pattern_n of_o love_a one_o self_n set_v forth_o the_o same_o thing_n that_o christ_n love_n do_v 1_o cor._n 2._o 11._o man_n be_v tender_a towards_o himself_o eph._n 5._o 29._o husband_n must_v deal_v tender_o with_o their_o wife_n man_n be_v cheerful_a in_o do_v himself_o
pure_a cheerful_a constant_a for_o conscience_n sake_n §_o 54_o 55_o etc._n etc._n treat_n iv._o  _fw-fr particular_a duty_n of_o husband_n  _fw-fr wjsdome_n and_o love_n the_o general_a head_n of_o all_o husband_n duty_n §_o 2_o 4._o  _fw-fr 1_o acknowledgement_n of_o a_o wife_n near_o conjunction_n and_o fellowship_n with_o her_o husband_n §_o 6._o 2_o a_o good_a esteem_n of_o his_o own_o wise_a to_o be_v the_o best_a for_o he_o and_o worthy_a of_o love_n on_o his_o part_n §_o 9_o 3_o a_o inward_a entire_a affection_n §_o 11._o 4_o a_o outward_a amiable_a carriage_n towards_o his_o wife_n which_o consist_v in_o a_o husband-like_a gravity_n mildness_n courteous_a acceptance_n of_o her_o courtesy_n and_o allow_v she_o to_o wear_v fit_a apparel_n §_o 4_o 15_o 22_o 40_o 49._o 5_o mild_a and_o love_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o his_o wife_n §_o 24_o 25_o 26_o etc._n etc._n 6_o a_o wise_a maintain_v his_o authority_n and_o forbear_v to_o exact_v all_o that_o be_v in_o his_o power_n §_o 4_o 18._o 7_o a_o ready_a yield_v to_o his_o wife_n request_n and_o give_v a_o general_a consent_n and_o liberty_n unto_o she_o to_o order_v the_o affair_n of_o the_o house_n child_n servant_n etc._n etc._n and_o a_o free_a allow_v she_o something_o to_o bestow_v as_o she_o see_v occasion_n §_o 18_o 54._o 8_o a_o forbearing_z to_o exact_v more_o than_o his_o wife_n be_v willing_a to_o do_v or_o to_o force_v she_o to_o dwell_v where_o it_o be_v not_o meet_v or_o to_o enjoin_v she_o to_o do_v thing_n unmeet_a in_o themselves_o or_o against_o her_o mind_n §_o 18_o 26._o 9_o a_o wise_a order_n of_o reproof_n not_o use_v it_o without_o just_a and_o weighty_a cause_n and_o then_o private_o and_o meek_o §_o 35_o 38._o 10_o a_o provident_a care_n for_o his_o wife_n according_a to_o his_o ability_n §_o 46_o 49_o 50_o 52._o 11_o a_o forbearing_z to_o exact_v any_o thing_n which_o stand_v not_o with_o a_o good_a conscience_n §_o 26._o 12_o such_o a_o love_n as_o christ_n bear_v to_o the_o church_n and_o man_n to_o himself_o which_o be_v first_o free_a in_o deed_n and_o truth_n pure_a chaste_a constant_a §_o 61_o etc._n etc._n and_o 74._o treat_n iii_o  _fw-fr aberration_n of_o wife_n from_o their_o particular_a duty_n  _fw-fr ambition_n the_o general_a ground_n of_o the_o aberration_n of_o wife_n §_o 2._o  _fw-fr 1_o a_o conceit_n that_o wife_n be_v their_o husband_n equal_n §_o 4._o 2_o a_o conceit_n that_o she_o can_v better_o subject_v herself_o to_o any_o other_o man_n then_o to_o her_o own_o husband_n §_o 6._o 3_o a_o inward_a despise_n of_o her_o husband_n §_o 8._o 4_o vnreverend_a behaviour_n towards_o her_o husband_n manifest_v by_o lightness_n sullenness_n scornfulnes_n and_o vanity_n in_o her_o attire_n §_o 9_o 10_o 11_o 12._o 5_o vnreverend_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o her_o husband_n §_o 13_o 14_o 15_o 16._o 6_o a_o stout_a stand_n on_o her_o own_o will_n §_o 17._o 7_o a_o peremptory_a undertake_n to_o do_v thing_n as_o she_o list_v without_o and_o against_o her_o husband_n consent_n this_o be_v manifest_v by_o privy_a purloin_v his_o good_n take_v allowance_n order_v child_n servant_n and_o cattle_n feast_v stranger_n make_v journey_n and_o vow_n as_o herself_o list_v §_o 42._o 8_o a_o obstinate_a stand_n upon_o her_o own_o will_n make_v her_o husband_n dwell_v where_o she_o will_v and_o refuse_v to_o go_v when_o he_o call_v or_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n upon_o his_o command_n §_o 44_o 45_o 46_o 67._o 9_o disdain_n at_o reproof_n give_v word_n for_o word_n and_o wax_v worse_o for_o be_v reprove_v §_o 47_o 48._o 10_o discontent_n at_o her_o husband_n estate_n §_o 50._o 11_o such_o a_o please_a of_o her_o husband_n as_o offend_v christ_n §_o 53._o 12_o such_o a_o subjection_n as_o be_v most_o unlike_a to_o the_o church_n viz._n feign_a force_a fickle_a etc._n etc._n §_o 56_o etc._n etc._n treat_n iv._o  _fw-fr aberration_n of_o husband_n from_o their_o particular_a duty_n  _fw-fr want_n of_o wisdom_n and_o love_n the_o general_a ground_n of_o the_o aberration_n of_o husband_n §_o 3_o 5._o  _fw-fr 1_o too_o mean_a account_n of_o wife_n §_o 8._o 2_o a_o preposterous_a conceit_n of_o his_o own_o wife_n to_o be_v the_o worst_a of_o all_o and_o that_o he_o can_v love_v any_o but_o she_o §_o 10._o 3_o a_o stoical_a disposition_n without_o all_o heat_n of_o affection_n §_o 12._o 4_o a_o unbeseeming_a carriage_n towards_o his_o wife_n manifest_v by_o his_o baseness_n tyrannical_a usage_n of_o she_o loftiness_n harshness_n and_o niggardliness_n §_o 5_o 15_o 17_o 41_o 44_o 53._o 5_o harsh_a proud_a and_o bitter_a speech_n to_o and_o of_o his_o wife_n §_o 24_o 25_o 30_o 32_o 36_o 39_o 6_o lose_v of_o his_o authority_n §_o 5._o 7_o too_o much_o strictness_n over_o his_o wife_n this_o be_v manifest_v by_o restrain_v she_o from_o do_v any_o thing_n without_o particular_a and_o express_a consent_n take_v too_o strict_a account_n of_o she_o and_o allow_v she_o no_o more_o than_o be_v needful_a for_o her_o own_o private_a use_n §_o 19_o 55._o 8_o too_o lordly_a a_o stand_n upon_o the_o high_a step_n of_o his_o authority_n be_v too_o frequent_a insolent_a and_o peremptory_a in_o command_a thing_n frivolous_a unmeet_a and_o against_o his_o wife_n mind_n and_o conscience_n §_o 30_o 32._o 9_o rashness_n and_o bitterness_n in_o reprove_v and_o that_o too_o frequent_o on_o slight_a occasion_n and_o disgraceful_o before_o child_n servant_n and_o stranger_n §_o 36_o 38_o 39_o 10_o a_o careless_a neglect_n of_o his_o wife_n and_o niggardly_a deal_n with_o she_o and_o that_o in_o her_o weakness_n §_o 46_o 51_o 53_o 11_o a_o command_a of_o unlawful_a thing_n §_o 26_o 30_o 32._o 12_o such_o a_o disposition_n as_o be_v most_o unlike_a to_o christ_n and_o to_o that_o which_o a_o man_n bear_v to_o himself_o viz._n complemental_a impure_a for_o by-respect_n unconstant_a etc._n etc._n §_o 62_o etc._n etc._n and_o 74._o a_o table_n of_o the_o several_a point_n handle_v in_o the_o eight_o treatise_n of_o domestical_a duty_n i._o treatise_n a_o exposition_n of_o that_o part_n of_o scripture_n out_o of_o which_o domestical_a duty_n be_v raise_v §_o 1_o of_o the_o apostle_n transition_n from_o general_a duty_n to_o particular_n pag._n 1_o 2_o of_o join_v service_n to_o man_n with_o praise_v of_o god_n 2_o 3_o of_o every_o one_o submit_v himself_o to_o another_o 4_o 4_o of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n 8_o 5_o of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n move_v we_o to_o do_v service_n to_o man_n 11_o 6_o of_o limit_v all_o duty_n to_o man_n within_o the_o compass_n of_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n 13_o 7_o of_o perform_v the_o duty_n of_o particular_a calling_n 16_o 8_o of_o the_o lawfulness_n of_o private_a function_n in_o a_o family_n 17_o 9_o of_o the_o apostle_n order_n in_o lay_v down_o the_o duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o the_o first_o place_n 20_o 10_o of_o the_o apostle_n order_n in_o set_v down_o inferior_n duty_n in_o the_o first_o place_n 21_o 11_o of_o the_o reason_n why_o wife_n duty_n be_v first_o teach_v 25_o 12_o of_o wife_n subjection_n 26_o 13_o of_o the_o person_n to_o who_o wife_n must_v be_v subject_a 27_o 14_o how_o a_o husband_n be_v his_o wife_n head_n 29_o 15_o of_o the_o resemblance_n of_o a_o husband_n to_o christ_n 30_o 16_o of_o the_o resemblance_n betwixt_o the_o church_n to_o christ_n 31_o a_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n  _fw-fr  _fw-fr 17_o of_o the_o relation_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n 32_o 18_o of_o the_o benefit_n of_o christ_n headship_n 34_o 19_o of_o christ_n a_o sufficient_a saviour_n 35_o 20_o of_o christ_n the_o only_a saviour_n 36_o 21_o of_o the_o church_n the_o body_n of_o christ_n 38_o 22_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o christ_n goodness_n to_o all_o his_o body_n 38_o 23_o of_o the_o restraint_n of_o the_o benefit_n of_o christ_n headship_n to_o they_o only_o that_o be_v of_o his_o body_n 40_o 24_o of_o the_o church_n subjection_n to_o christ_n 41_o 25_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o the_o church_n subjection_n 42_o 26_o of_o the_o sum_n of_o husband_n duty_n 43_o 27_o of_o the_o example_n of_o christ_n love_n 44_o 28_o of_o christ_n give_v himself_o 46_o 29_o of_o the_o willingness_n of_o christ_n to_o die_v 47_o 30_o of_o the_o kind_n of_o christ_n death_n and_o oblation_n 48_o 31_o of_o the_o infinite_a value_n of_o the_o price_n of_o our_o redemption_n 48_o 32_o of_o christ_n seek_v the_o good_a of_o the_o church_n 50_o 33_o of_o the_o particular_a end_n why_o christ_n give_v himself_o and_o of_o the_o condition_n of_o the_o church_n before_o christ_n take_v she_o 51_o 34_o of_o christ_n prevent_v grace_n 54_o 35_o of_o christ_n seek_v to_o make_v his_o church_n pure_a 55_o 36_o of_o
203_o 20_o of_o clandestine_v marriage_n 205_o 21_o of_o a_o civil_a celebrate_n of_o marriage_n 206_o 22_o of_o ill_a or_o well_o order_v marriage_n feast_n 206_o 23_o of_o the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n in_o regard_n of_o the_o first_o institution_n thereof_o 208_o 24_o of_o the_o end_n of_o marriage_n 209_o 25_o of_o the_o privilege_n of_o marriage_n 210_o 26_o of_o the_o mystery_n of_o marriage_n 211_o 27_o of_o marriage_n and_o single_a life_n compare_v together_o 211_o 28_o of_o celebrate_v marriage_n with_o sorrow_n 212_o ii_o treatise_n part_n ii_o of_o common_a mutual_a duty_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n §_o 1._o of_o the_o head_n of_o those_o common_a mutual_a duty_n 213_o 2_o of_o matrimonial_a unity_n 214_o 3_o of_o desertion_n 215_o 4_o of_o matrimonial_a chastity_n 216_o 5_o of_o adultery_n 218_o 6_o of_o pardon_v adultery_n upon_o repentance_n 218_o 7_o of_o the_o difference_n of_o adultery_n in_o a_o man_n and_o in_o a_o wife_n 219_o 8_o of_o the_o heinousness_n of_o adultery_n 219_o 9_o of_o remedy_n against_o adultery_n and_o in_o particular_a of_o due_a benevolence_n and_o of_o defect_n or_o excess_n therein_o 221_o 10_o of_o mutual_a love_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 224_o 11_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a hatred_n contrary_a to_o love_v 227_o 12_o of_o mutual_a peace_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 228_o 13_o of_o contention_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 230_o 14_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n dwell_v together_o 230_o 15_o of_o the_o respect_n for_o which_o man_n and_o wife_n may_v for_o a_o time_n live_v asunder_o 231_o 16_o of_o the_o error_n of_o papist_n about_o man_n and_o wife_n separation_n 232_o 17_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n unlawful_a absent_v themselves_o one_o from_o another_o 234_o 18_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a prayer_n 235_o 19_o of_o the_o thing_n for_o which_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v to_o pray_v alone_o 236_o 20_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n hateful_a imprecation_n and_o wish_n one_o against_o another_o 237_o 21_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n neglect_v of_o mutual_a prayer_n 238_o 22_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a care_n for_o one_o another_o salvation_n 238_o 23_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n care_v to_o win_v one_o the_o other_o when_o one_o of_o they_o be_v not_o call_v 239_o 24_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n edify_v one_o another_o 240_o 25_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n hinder_v sin_n one_o in_o another_o 240_o 26_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n redress_v sin_n in_o one_o another_o 242_o 27_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n help_v forward_o the_o growth_n of_o grace_n in_o each_o other_o 242_o 28_o of_o the_o sin_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n contrary_a to_o a_o mutual_a care_n of_o one_o another_o salvation_n 243_o 29_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a care_n over_o one_o another_o body_n 245_o 30_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n backwardness_n to_o help_v one_o another_o in_o time_n of_o need_n 246_o 31_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a respect_n of_o one_o another_o good_a name_n 247_o 32_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n prevent_v each_o other_o discredit_n 248_o 33_o of_o the_o wisdom_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o redress_v one_o another_o ill_a name_n 249_o 34_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n care_v in_o procure_v one_o another_o good_a name_n 249_o 35_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n wisdom_n in_o preserve_v each_o other_o good_a name_n 250_o 36_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n like_o affection_n towards_o one_o another_o credit_n 250_o 37_o of_o the_o vice_n contrary_a to_o that_o mutual_a care_n which_o man_n and_o wife_n shall_v have_v of_o one_o another_o credit_n 251_o 38_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a providence_n about_o the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n 253_o 39_o of_o the_o vice_n contrary_a to_o the_o good_a providence_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n about_o the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n 255_o 40_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n joint_a care_n in_o govern_v the_o family_n 256_o 41_o of_o the_o vice_n contrary_a to_o a_o joint_a care_n of_o govern_v the_o family_n 260_o 42_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a help_n in_o hospitality_n 261_o 43_o of_o vice_n contrary_a to_o mutual_a help_n in_o hospitality_n 263_o 44_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a help_n in_o relieve_v the_o poor_a 264_o 45_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n unmercifulnesse_n to_o the_o poor_a 265_o iii_o treatise_n of_o wife_n particular_a duty_n §_o 1._o of_o the_o general_a head_n of_o this_o treatise_n 267_o 2_o of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n in_o general_n 268_o 3_o of_o a_o husband_n superiority_n over_o a_o wife_n to_o be_v acknowledge_v by_o a_o wife_n 269_o 4_o of_o a_o fond_a conceit_n that_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v equal_a 271_o 5_o of_o a_o wife_n acknowledgement_n of_o her_o own_o husband_n superiority_n 272_o 6_o of_o wife_n deny_v honour_n to_o their_o own_o husband_n 273_o 7_o of_o a_o wife_n inward_a flare_v of_o her_o husband_n 274_o 8_o of_o a_o wife_n base_a esteem_n of_o her_o husband_n 275_o 9_o of_o wive-like_a sobriety_n 277_o 10_o of_o wive-like_a mildness_n 278_o 11_o of_o wive-like_a courtefie_v and_o obeisance_n 279_o 12_o of_o wive-like_a modesty_n in_o apparel_n 280_o 13_o of_o a_o wife_n reverend_a speech_n to_o her_o husband_n 281_o 14_o of_o the_o title_n which_o wife_n give_v their_o husband_n 282_o 15_o of_o wife_n meekness_n in_o their_o speech_n 284_o 16_o of_o a_o wife_n speech_n of_o her_o husband_n in_o his_o absence_n 285_o 17_o of_o a_o wife_n obedience_n in_o general_n 286_o 18_o of_o the_o case_n wherein_o a_o wife_n have_v power_n to_o order_v thing_n of_o the_o house_n without_o her_o husband_n consent_n 287_o 19_o of_o diverse_a kind_n of_o consent_n 288_o 20_o of_o the_o thing_n whereabout_o a_o wife_n must_v have_v her_o husband_n consent_n 290_o 21_o of_o the_o thing_n which_o a_o wife_n may_v dispose_v without_o her_o husband_n consent_n 291_o 22_o of_o a_o wife_n liberty_n in_o extraordinary_a matter_n 292_o 23_o of_o a_o wife_n restraint_n in_o dispose_n good_n without_o consent_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o of_o the_o ground_n of_o that_o restraint_n 293_o 24_o of_o the_o example_n of_o the_o shunemite_n in_o ask_v her_o husband_n consent_n 294_o 25_o of_o the_o law_n of_o a_o wife_n vow_n 294_o 26_o of_o humane_a law_n which_o restrain_v wife_n from_o dispose_v good_n without_o or_o against_o their_o husband_n consent_n 296_o 27_o of_o the_o inconvenience_n which_o may_v follow_v upon_o a_o wife_n dispose_n good_n without_o or_o against_o her_o husband_n consent_n 297_o 28_o of_o property_n in_o good_n whether_o it_o give_v liberty_n to_o dispose_v they_o as_o a_o wife_n will_n 298_o 29_o of_o the_o reason_n against_o a_o wife_n property_n in_o the_o common_a good_n of_o the_o family_n 299_o 30_o of_o answer_n to_o the_o reason_n for_o a_o wife_n property_n 301_o 31_o of_o the_o privilege_n of_o wife_n above_o child_n and_o servant_n in_o and_o about_o the_o good_n of_o the_o family_n 302_o 32_o of_o example_n and_o other_o reason_n allege_v for_o liberty_n of_o wife_n to_o dispose_v good_n 302_o 33_o of_o the_o subjection_n of_o wife_n in_o distribute_v good_n to_o charitable_a use_n 304_o 34_o of_o general_a exhortation_n to_o work_n of_o mercy_n how_o far_o they_o bind_v wife_n 305_o 35_o of_o obedience_n to_o a_o husband_n in_o such_o thing_n as_o he_o sinful_o forbid_v 305_o 36_o of_o zipporahs_n case_n in_o circumcise_n her_o son_n 306_o 37_o of_o the_o wife_n of_o chuzas_n case_n in_o minister_a to_o christ_n 307_o 38_o of_o the_o restraint_n of_o wife_n about_o allowance_n for_o themselves_o or_o family_n without_o their_o husband_n consent_n 308_o 39_o of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n to_o her_o husband_n about_o child_n 309_o 40_o of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n to_o her_o husband_n about_o order_v servant_n and_o beast_n 310_o 41_o of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n in_o entertain_v stranger_n journey_v abroad_o and_o make_v vow_n 311_o 42_o of_o aberration_n contrary_a to_o wife_n subjection_n in_o do_v thing_n without_o or_o against_o their_o husband_n consent_n 312_o 43_o of_o a_o wife_n active_a obedience_n 315_o 44_o of_o a_o wife_n willingness_n to_o dwell_v where_o her_o husband_n will_n 315_o 45_o of_o a_o wife_n readiness_n to_o come_v to_o her_o husband_n when_o he_o require_v it_o 317_o 46_o of_o a_o wife_n readiness_n to_o do_v what_o her_o husband_n require_v 319_o 47_o of_o a_o wife_n meek_a take_v a_o reproof_n 319_o 48_o of_o a_o wife_n readiness_n to_o redress_v what_o her_o husband_n just_o reprove_v in_o she_o 322_o 49_o of_o a_o wife_n contentment_n with_o her_o husband_n present_a estate_n 323_o 50_o of_o a_o wife_n discontent_n at_o her_o husband_n estate_n 324_o 51_o of_o case_n wherein_o a_o wife_n ought_v not_o to_o forbear_v what_o her_o
husband_n forbid_v 325_o 52_o of_o case_n wherein_o a_o wife_n ought_v to_o forbear_v what_o her_o husband_n require_v 328_o 53_o of_o wife_n fault_n in_o show_v more_o respect_n to_o their_o husband_n then_o to_o god_n 329_o 54_o of_o the_o manner_n of_o a_o wife_n subjection_n to_o her_o husband_n 329_o 55_o of_o wife_n humility_n in_o every_o duty_n 331_o 56_o of_o wife_n pride_n 331_o 57_o of_o wife_n sincerity_n in_o every_o duty_n 332_o 58_o of_o wife_n compliment_n all_o subjection_n 334_o 59_o of_o wife_n cheerfulness_n in_o every_o duty_n 334_o 60_o of_o wife_n sullen_a and_o force_a obedience_n 334_o 61_o of_o wife_n constancy_n in_o do_v their_o duty_n 335_o 62_o of_o wife_n repent_v their_o former_a goodness_n 335_o 63_o of_o the_o extent_n of_o a_o wife_n obedience_n 336_o 64_o of_o a_o wife_n labour_v to_o bring_v her_o judgement_n to_o the_o bent_n of_o her_o husband_n 337_o 65_o of_o wife_n overwein_v conceit_n of_o their_o own_o wisdom_n 338_o 66_o of_o a_o wife_n yield_v to_o her_o husband_n in_o such_o thing_n as_o she_o think_v not_o to_o be_v the_o meet_a 338_o 67_o of_o wife_n make_v their_o own_o will_v their_o law_n 339_o 68_o of_o care_n in_o choose_v such_o husband_n as_o wife_n may_v without_o grief_n be_v subject_a unto_o 340_o 69_o of_o the_o reason_n to_o move_v wife_n to_o do_v their_o duty_n 341_o 70_o of_o a_o husband_n place_n 342_o 71_o of_o a_o husband_n office_n 343_o 72_o of_o the_o resemblance_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o a_o husband_n 344_o 73_o of_o the_o benefit_n which_o a_o wife_n have_v by_o a_o husband_n 346_o 74_o of_o the_o example_n of_o the_o church_n set_v before_o wife_n 347_o iu._n treatise_n of_o husband_n particular_a duty_n §_o 1_o of_o the_o general_a head_n of_o this_o treatise_n 349_o 2_o of_o that_o love_n which_o husband_n owe_v their_o wife_n 350_o 3_o of_o a_o husband_n hatred_n and_o want_v of_o love_n 352_o 4_o of_o a_o husband_n wise_a maintain_v his_o authority_n 353_o 5_o of_o husband_n lose_v their_o authority_n 355_o 6_o of_o husband_n high_a account_n of_o wife_n 356_o 7_o of_o that_o fellowship_n which_o be_v betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n notwithstanding_o a_o wife_n inferiority_n 357_o 8_o of_o husband_n too_o mean_a account_n of_o wife_n 358_o 9_o of_o husband_n good_a esteem_n of_o their_o own_o wife_n 358_o 10_o of_o husband_n preposterous_a opinion_n of_o their_o own_o wife_n 359_o 11_o of_o husband_n entire_a affection_n to_o their_o wife_n 360_o 12_o of_o the_o stoical_a disposition_n of_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n 362_o 13_o of_o a_o husband_n kind_a acceptance_n of_o such_o thing_n as_o his_o wife_n do_v 362_o 14_o of_o husband_n fleight_v and_o reject_v their_o wife_n goodness_n 363_o 15_o of_o husband_n courteous_a accept_v their_o wife_n reverend_a carriage_n 364_o 16_o of_o husband_n ready_a yield_v to_o their_o wife_n humble_a suit_n 365_o 17_o of_o husband_n harshness_n to_o their_o wife_n 365_o 18_o of_o husband_n forbear_v to_o exact_v all_o that_o 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peremptorinesse_n 378_o 33_o of_o a_o husband_n reprove_v his_o wife_n 379_o 34_o of_o neglect_v reproof_n 379_o 35_o of_o well_o order_v reproof_n in_o the_o matter_n thereof_o 379_o 36_o of_o undue_a reproof_n 381_o 37_o whether_o a_o husband_n may_v reprove_v his_o wife_n for_o such_o thing_n as_o he_o be_v guilty_a of_o 382_o 38_o of_o well_o order_v reproof_n in_o the_o manner_n thereof_o 382_o 39_o of_o undiscreet_a reprove_v a_o wife_n 385_o 40_o of_o a_o husband_n amiable_a countenance_n towards_o his_o wife_n 386_o 41_o of_o husband_n too_o great_a austerity_n 387_o 42_o of_o a_o husband_n familiar_a gesture_n with_o his_o wife_n 388_o 43_o of_o a_o husband_n give_v favour_n to_o his_o wife_n 389_o 44_o of_o husband_n beat_v their_o wife_n 389_o 45_o of_o a_o husband_n bear_v with_o his_o wife_n infirmity_n 393_o 46_o of_o a_o husband_n provident_a care_n for_o his_o wife_n 396_o 47_o of_o a_o husband_n provide_v mean_n of_o spiritual_a edification_n for_o his_o wife_n 397_o 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direction_n to_o apply_v their_o own_o proper_a duty_n each_o of_o they_o to_o themselves_o their_o distinct_a duty_n be_v note_v in_o two_o word_n love._n fear_n  _fw-fr these_o two_o as_o they_o be_v distinct_a duty_n in_o themselves_o so_o be_v they_o also_o common_a condition_n which_o must_v be_v annex_v to_o all_o other_o duty_n love_n as_o sugar_n to_o sweeten_v the_o duty_n of_o authority_n which_o appertain_v to_o a_o husband_n fear_v as_o salt_n to_o season_v all_o the_o duty_n of_o subjection_n which_o appertain_v to_o a_o wife_n the_o apostle_n therefore_o have_v set_v they_o down_o as_o two_o mark_n for_o husband_n and_o wife_n to_o aim_v at_o in_o every_o thing_n wherein_o they_o have_v to_o deal_v one_o with_o the_o other_o of_o these_o i_o will_v more_o distinct_o speak_v in_o the_o treatise_n of_o the_o particular_a duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n §._o 94._o of_o apply_v the_o word_n to_o ourselves_o the_o direction_n for_o a_o particular_a application_n of_o 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husband_n to_o he_o he_o say_v let_v he_o love_v his_o wife_n and_o reverence_n be_v peculiar_a to_o a_o wife_n to_o she_o he_o say_v let_v the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_v her_o husband_n the_o direction_n in_o every_o of_o those_o several_a epistle_n which_o be_v send_v to_o the_o seven_o church_n of_o asia_n in_o these_o word_n he_o that_o 7._o have_v a_o ear_n let_v he_o hear_v what_o the_o spirit_n say_v to_o the_o church_n do_v teach_v every_o member_n in_o any_o of_o those_o church_n to_o apply_v to_o himself_o that_o which_o be_v deliver_v to_o the_o whole_a church_n so_o do_v a_o like_a 8._o exhortation_n which_o christ_n with_o a_o exclamation_n make_v to_o the_o people_n who_o he_o teach_v in_o parable_n and_o this_o declaration_n of_o the_o extent_n of_o christ_n counsel_n what_o i_o say_v to_o
37._o you_o i_o say_v to_o all_o to_o this_o purpose_n many_o precept_n give_v to_o whole_a church_n and_o to_o all_o sort_n of_o people_n be_v set_v down_o in_o the_o singular_a number_n as_o give_v to_o one_o as_o awake_v thou_o that_o 14._o sleep_v thou_o stand_v by_o faith_n be_v not_o thou_o high_a mind_a etc._n etc._n 20._o the_o life_n and_o power_n of_o god_n word_n consist_v in_o this_o particular_a application_n application_n thereof_o unto_o ourselves_o this_o be_v to_o mix_v faith_n with_o hear_v faith_n i_o say_v whereby_o we_o do_v not_o only_o believe_v the_o truth_n of_o god_n word_n in_o general_a but_o also_o believe_v it_o to_o be_v a_o truth_n concern_v ourselves_o in_o particular_a and_o thus_o will_v every_o precept_n thereof_o be_v a_o good_a instruction_n and_o direction_n on_o to_o we_o to_o guide_v we_o in_o the_o way_n of_o righteousness_n every_o promise_n therein_o will_v be_v a_o great_a encouragement_n and_o consolation_n to_o we_o to_o uphold_v we_o 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to_o all_o parent_n and_o child_n master_n and_o servant_n concern_v their_o duty_n §._o 95._o of_o every_o one_o look_v to_o his_o own_o duty_n especial_o in_o the_o forename_a application_n a_o eye_n must_v be_v have_v rather_o to_o the_o duty_n which_o we_o owe_v and_o aught_o to_o be_v perform_v by_o we_o to_o other_o then_o to_o that_o which_o be_v due_a to_o we_o and_o other_o ought_v to_o perform_v to_o we_o for_o the_o apostle_n say_v not_o to_o the_o husband_n see_v that_o thy_o wife_n reverence_v thou_o but_o see_v that_o thou_o love_v she_o so_o to_o the_o wife_n for_o this_o purpose_n the_o holy_a ghost_n press_v particular_a duty_n upon_o those_o particular_a person_n who_o ought_v to_o perform_v they_o as_o subjection_n on_o wife_n love_v on_o husband_n and_o so_o in_o other_o this_o therefore_o be_v especial_o to_o be_v consider_v of_o thou_o how_o thou_o 11._o may_v show_v thyself_o blameless_a i_o deny_v not_o but_o that_o one_o ought_v to_o provoke_v another_o and_o 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which_o the_o prophet_n speak_v of_o father_n and_o son_n may_v be_v apply_v to_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o to_o all_o other_o sort_n of_o people_n if_o a_o father_n do_v that_o which_o be_v lawful_a and_o right_a he_o be_v just_a he_o etc._n shall_v sure_o live_v if_o he_o beget_v a_o son_n that_o do_v not_o so_o he_o shall_v sure_o die_v his_o blood_n shall_v be_v upon_o he_o again_o if_o a_o father_n do_v that_o which_o be_v not_o good_a he_o shall_v die_v in_o his_o iniquity_n but_o if_o his_o son_n do_v that_o which_o be_v lawful_a and_o right_a he_o shall_v sure_o live_v the_o righteousness_n of_o the_o righteous_a shall_v be_v upon_o himself_o and_o the_o wickedness_n of_o the_o wicked_a shall_v be_v upon_o himself_o that_o this_o shall_v be_v so_o betwixt_o husband_n and_o wife_n may_v be_v gather_v out_o of_o these_o word_n two_o shall_v 34._o be_v in_o one_o bed_n the_o one_o shall_v be_v take_v the_o other_o leave_v let_v this_o be_v note_v against_o the_o common_a vain_a apology_n which_o be_v make_v for_o neglect_n of_o duty_n which_o be_v this_o duty_n be_v not_o perform_v to_o i_o why_o shall_v i_o do_v duty_n when_o my_o husband_n do_v his_o duty_n i_o will_v do_v i_o say_v the_o wife_n and_o i_o i_o say_v the_o husband_n when_o my_o wife_n do_v she_o what_o if_o he_o never_o do_v his_o duty_n and_o so_o be_v damn_v will_v thou_o never_o do_v thou_o this_o look_v for_o of_o duty_n at_o other_o hand_n make_v we_o the_o more_o careless_a of_o our_o own_o do_v you_o therefore_o o_o husband_n look_v especial_o to_o your_o use_v own_o duty_n do_v you_o love_v your_o wife_n and_o you_o o_o wife_n look_v citat_fw-la you_o to_o you_o especial_o do_v you_o reverence_v your_o husband_n for_o this_o end_n let_v husband_n read_v those_o duty_n most_o diligent_o which_o concern_v husband_n and_o wife_n those_o which_o concern_v wife_n let_v not_o the_o husband_n say_v of_o the_o wife_n duty_n there_o be_v goodlesson_n for_o my_o wife_n and_o neglect_v his_o own_o nor_o the_o wife_n say_v the_o like_a of_o husband_n duty_n and_o not_o regard_v she_o own_o this_o be_v it_o that_o make_v the_o subjection_n of_o many_o wife_n very_o harsh_a and_o irksome_a to_o they_o because_o their_o husband_n that_o urge_v and_o press_v they_o thereto_o show_v little_a or_o no_o love_n to_o they_o at_o all_o and_o this_o be_v it_o that_o make_v many_o husband_n very_o backward_o in_o show_v love_n because_o their_o wife_n which_o expect_v much_o love_n show_v little_a or_o no_o reverence_n to_o their_o husband_n wherefore_o let_v every_o one_o of_o you_o in_o particular_a so_o love_v his_o wife_n even_o as_o himself_o and_o the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_v her_o husband_n §._o 96._o of_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o first_o verse_n of_o the_o six_o chapter_n from_o those_o particular_a duty_n which_o concern_v husband_n and_o wife_n the_o apostle_n proceed_v to_o lay_v down_o such_o as_o concern_v child_n and_o parent_n as_o before_o he_o lay_v down_o wife_n duty_n before_o husband_n so_o here_o he_o begin_v with_o child_n who_o be_v inferior_a to_o their_o parent_n and_o that_o for_o the_o same_o reason_n which_o be_v render_v 10._o before_o beside_o child_n be_v the_o fruit_n of_o matrimonial_a conjunction_n therefore_o fit_o place_v next_o unto_o man_n and_o wife_n that_o which_o concern_v child_n be_v lay_v down_o in_o the_o six_o chapter_n of_o eph._n vers_fw-la 1_o 2_o 3._o the_o meaning_n whereof_o we_o will_v distinct_o open_v ephes._n 6._o 1._o child_n obey_v your_o parent_n in_o the_o lord_n for_o this_o be_v right_n the_o first_o word_n child_n be_v in_o the_o original_a as_o proper_a a_o word_n 〈◊〉_d at_o can_v be_v use_v
unto_o as_o if_o they_o have_v never_o be_v join_v to_o a_o former_a the_o live_a husband_n or_o wife_n be_v the_o present_a pledge_n of_o god_n favour_n he_o be_v now_o thy_o own_o husband_n and_o she_o be_v now_o thy_o own_o wife_n and_o not_o the_o party_n that_o be_v dead_a i_o deny_v not_o but_o the_o memory_n of_o a_o virtuous_a husband_n or_o wife_n ought_v to_o be_v precious_a to_o the_o suruive_a party_n for_o the_o memorial_n of_o the_o just_a be_v bless_v 7._o but_o as_o the_o virtue_n of_o a_o person_n decease_v may_v not_o be_v bury_v with_o the_o dead_a corpse_n so_o neither_o may_v the_o person_n be_v keep_v above_o ground_n with_o the_o memory_n of_o he_o or_o her_o virtue_n which_o after_o a_o sort_n be_v do_v when_o love_n of_o the_o party_n decease_v either_o take_v away_o or_o extenuate_v the_o love_n of_o the_o live_n this_o be_v to_o give_v dominion_n to_o the_o dead_a over_o the_o live_n which_o be_v more_o than_o the_o law_n enjoin_v §._o 11._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a hatred_n contrary_a to_o love_v there_o be_v a_o generation_n of_o so_o crabbed_a and_o crooked_a a_o disposition_n 10._o as_o they_o can_v love_v but_o rather_o hate_v one_o another_o because_o they_o be_v man_n and_o wife_n for_o many_o husband_n have_v wife_n and_o wife_n husband_n every_o way_n worthy_a to_o be_v love_v will_v notwithstanding_o say_v to_o the_o astonishment_n of_o the_o hearer_n i_o have_v indeed_o a_o good_a husband_n or_o i_o have_v a_o good_a wife_n but_o i_o can_v love_v he_o or_o i_o can_v love_v she_o and_o be_v demand_v a_o reason_n stick_v not_o open_o and_o impudent_o to_o reply_v i_o think_v i_o can_v love_v he_o if_o he_o be_v not_o my_o husband_n or_o i_o think_v i_o can_v love_v she_o if_o she_o be_v not_o my_o wife_n o_o more_o than_o monstrous_a impudency_n be_v not_o this_o direct_o to_o oppose_v against_o god_n ordinance_n and_o against_o that_o order_n which_o he_o have_v set_v betwixt_o man_n and_o woman_n be_v it_o not_o to_o trample_v under_o foot_n god_n favour_n though_o there_o be_v nothing_o else_o to_o move_v love_n but_o this_o that_o such_o a_o one_o be_v thy_o husband_n or_o such_o a_o one_o be_v thy_o wife_n yet_o this_o shall_v be_v motive_n enough_o and_o shall_v this_o be_v the_o ground_n of_o thy_o hatred_n assure_o such_o a_o spirit_n be_v a_o plain_a diabolical_a spirit_n contrary_a to_o that_o spirit_n which_o be_v from_o above_o and_o if_o it_o be_v not_o cast_v out_o it_o will_v cast_v those_o who_o it_o possess_v into_o the_o fire_n of_o hell_n §._o 12._o of_o mutual_a peace_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n among_o other_o mean_n of_o maintain_v a_o inward_a love_a affection_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n outward_a mutual_a peace_n concord_n and_o agreement_n be_v one_o of_o the_o principal_a whereupon_o the_o apostle_n exhort_v to_o keep_v the_o unity_n of_o the_o spirit_n in_o the_o bond_n of_o 3._o peace_n for_o peace_n be_v a_o bond_n that_o tie_v one_o to_o another_o and_o make_v they_o to_o be_v as_o one_o even_o one_o in_o spirit_n as_o on_o the_o contrary_a side_n outward_a discord_n disunite_v man_n spirit_n we_o be_v enjoin_v to_o follow_v peace_n with_o all_o man_n how_o much_o more_o of_o all_o person_n ought_v 14._o husband_n to_o have_v peace_n with_o their_o wife_n and_o wife_n with_o their_o husband_n they_o be_v near_o than_o brother_n and_o sister_n behold_v then_o how_o good_a and_o pleasant_a a_o thing_n it_o be_v for_o they_o to_o dwell_v together_o in_o unity_n 9_o dwell_v together_o they_o must_v but_o without_o peace_n there_o be_v no_o dwell_n together_o it_o be_v better_a to_o dwell_v in_o a_o corner_n of_o the_o house_n top_n then_o with_o a_o contentious_a woman_n in_o a_o wide_a house_n person_n at_o variance_n be_v far_o better_o be_v out_o of_o sight_n and_o place_n then_o present_v together_o out_o of_o sight_n and_o place_n man_n and_o wife_n must_v not_o be_v at_o peace_n therefore_o 11._o they_o must_v be_v mutual_a peace_n betwixt_o they_o be_v a_o great_a refresh_n to_o their_o mind_n be_v beat_v with_o the_o discord_n of_o other_o it_o be_v say_v that_o a_o wife_n be_v in_o this_o respect_n as_o a_o haven_n to_o man_n how_o much_o more_o man_n to_o his_o wife_n if_o the_o haven_n be_v calm_a and_o free_a from_o storm_n and_o tempest_n what_o a_o refresh_a will_v it_o be_v to_o the_o mariner_n that_o have_v be_v toss_v in_o the_o sea_n with_o wind_n and_o wave_n for_o maintain_v peace_n 1._o all_o offence_n so_o much_o as_o possible_o may_v be_v must_v be_v avoid_v wife_n the_o husband_n must_v be_v watchful_a over_o himself_o that_o he_o give_v no_o offence_n to_o his_o wife_n and_o so_o the_o wife_n on_o the_o other_o side_n offence_n cause_v contention_n 2._o when_o a_o offence_n be_v give_v by_o the_o one_o party_n it_o must_v offence_n not_o be_v take_v by_o the_o other_o but_o rather_o pass_v by_o and_o then_o will_v not_o peace_n be_v break_v the_o second_o blow_n make_v offence_n the_o fray_n reconciliation_n 3._o if_o both_o be_v incense_v together_o the_o fire_n be_v like_a to_o be_v the_o great_a with_o the_o great_a speed_n therefore_o must_v they_o both_o labour_n to_o put_v it_o out_o wrath_n must_v not_o lie_v in_o bed_n with_o two_o such_o 26._o bedfellow_n neither_o may_v they_o part_v bed_n for_o wrath_n sake_n that_o this_o fire_n may_v be_v the_o soon_o quench_v they_o must_v both_o strive_v first_o to_o offer_v reconciliation_n they_o be_v the_o glory_n who_o do_v first_o begin_v for_o they_o be_v most_o proper_o the_o bless_a peacemaker_n not_o 9_o to_o accept_v peace_n when_o it_o be_v offer_v be_v more_o than_o heathenish_a but_o when_o wrath_n be_v incense_v to_o seek_v atonement_n be_v the_o duty_n of_o a_o christian_a and_o a_o grace_n that_o come_v from_o above_o 4._o child_n servant_n nor_o any_o other_o in_o the_o family_n must_v be_v other_o bolster_v up_o by_o the_o one_o against_o the_o other_o the_o man_n partake_v with_o any_o of_o the_o house_n against_o his_o wife_n or_o the_o wife_n against_o her_o husband_n be_v a_o usual_a cause_n of_o contention_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 5._o they_o must_v forbear_v to_o twit_v one_o another_o in_o the_o tooth_n comparison_n with_o the_o husband_n or_o wife_n of_o other_o person_n or_o with_o their_o own_o former_a husband_n or_o wife_n in_o case_n they_o have_v have_v any_o before_o comparison_n in_o this_o kind_n be_v very_o odious_a they_o stir_v up_o much_o passion_n and_o cause_v great_a contention_n 6._o above_o all_o they_o must_v take_v heed_n of_o rash_a and_o unjust_a jealousy_n jealous_a which_o be_v the_o bane_n of_o marriage_n and_o great_a cause_n of_o discontent_n that_o can_v be_v give_v betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n jealous_a person_n be_v ready_a to_o pick_v quarrel_n and_o to_o seek_v occasion_n of_o discord_n they_o will_v take_v every_o word_n look_v action_n and_o motion_n in_o the_o worse_a part_n and_o so_o take_v offence_n where_o none_o be_v give_v when_o jealousy_n be_v once_o kindle_v it_o be_v as_o a_o flame_a fire_n that_o can_v hardly_o be_v put_v out_o it_o make_v the_o party_n who_o it_o possess_v implacable_a 35._o 7._o in_o all_o thing_n that_o may_v stand_v with_o a_o good_a conscience_n they_o must_v endeavour_n to_o please_v one_o another_o and_o either_o of_o another_o they_o suffer_v their_o own_o will_n to_o be_v cross_v rather_o than_o discontent_a to_o be_v give_v to_o the_o other_o saint_n paul_n note_v this_o as_o a_o common_a 34._o mutual_a duty_n belong_v to_o they_o both_o and_o express_v their_o care_n thereof_o under_o a_o word_n that_o signify_v more_o than_o ordinary_a 〈◊〉_d care_n and_o imply_v a_o divide_n of_o the_o mind_n into_o diverse_a thought_n cast_v this_o way_n and_o that_o way_n and_o every_o way_n how_o to_o give_v best_a content_n §._o 13._o of_o contention_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n contrary_n to_o mutual_a peace_n be_v contention_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n which_o be_v too_o frequent_a in_o most_o family_n and_o by_o which_o 8._o the_o common_a good_a be_v much_o hinder_v discord_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n in_o a_o house_n be_v as_o contention_n betwixt_o the_o master_n and_o pilot_n in_o a_o ship_n may_v not_o great_a danger_n and_o much_o mischief_n be_v thence_o just_o fear_v we_o hear_v before_o that_o man_n to_o his_o wife_n and_o she_o to_o he_o be_v as_o a_o haven_n now_o by_o experience_n we_o find_v that_o if_o the_o haven_n be_v tempestuous_a it_o be_v much_o more_o troublesome_a and_o dangerous_a to_o the_o mariner_n then_o the_o wide_a sea_n wherefore_o let_v man_n and_o wife_n be_v of_o the_o same_o mind_n one_o to_o another_o as_o abraham_n be_v to_o lot_n and_o when_o
so_o fall_v out_o in_o many_o for_o christ_n have_v express_o foretell_v it_o that_o of_o two_o that_o be_v oneâ—ed_v â—ed_z together_o who_o be_v more_o fit_o set_v forth_o under_o this_o phrase_n then_o man_n and_o wife_n who_o most_o usual_o be_v style_v bedfellow_n â—ne_n shall_v be_v take_v to_o mercy_n and_o glory_n the_o other_o shall_v be_v for_o saken_a or_o leave_v to_o endless_a and_o easeless_a torture_n and_o torment_n but_o though_o it_o be_v foretell_v that_o thus_o it_o shall_v fall_v out_o with_o many_o a_o â—ouple_n yet_o our_o care_n must_v be_v and_o that_o with_o our_o uttermost_a power_n love_n to_o prevent_v it_o as_o in_o ourselves_o so_o in_o our_o bedfellow_n if_o it_o please_v the_o lord_n to_o give_v such_o a_o blessing_n to_o the_o endeavour_n of_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n as_o to_o be_v a_o mean_n of_o the_o conversion_n of_o their_o bedfellow_n then_o will_v the_o party_n convert_v both_o entire_o love_v the_o other_o and_o also_o hearty_o bless_v god_n as_o there_o be_v just_a cause_n that_o ever_o they_o be_v so_o near_o link_v together_o this_o duty_n of_o win_v one_o another_o be_v to_o be_v apply_v to_o such_o as_o be_v marry_v not_o only_o to_o plain_a infidel_n but_o also_o to_o papist_n or_o other_o like_a idolater_n to_o atheist_n or_o any_o other_o profane_a person_n to_o heretic_n separatist_n schismatics_n or_o any_o that_o believe_v not_o aright_o §._o 24._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n edify_v one_o another_o the_o second_o duty_n tend_v to_o the_o soul_n salvation_n be_v that_o two_o believer_n be_v marry_v together_o they_o endeavour_n mutual_o to_o build_v up_o one_o another_o more_o and_o more_o 11_o one_o christian_n owe_v this_o duty_n to_o another_o much_o more_o man_n and_o wife_n 15._o take_v heed_n say_v the_o apostle_n that_o no_o man_n fall_v away_o from_o the_o grace_n of_o god_n if_o no_o man_n then_o nor_o wife_n nor_o husband_n a_o spiritual_a edify_n of_o one_o another_o be_v the_o best_a use_n which_o conjunction_n we_o can_v make_v and_o aught_o to_o make_v of_o those_o 19_o joint_n and_o bond_n whereby_o we_o be_v knit_v one_o to_o another_o by_o virtue_n of_o they_o 16._o the_o body_n namely_o the_o mystical_a body_n of_o christ_n receive_v increase_v to_o the_o edify_n of_o itself_o and_o 19_o increase_v with_o the_o increase_n of_o god_n now_o the_o bond_n of_o marriage_n be_v of_o all_o other_o the_o firm_a and_o that_o whereby_o we_o be_v near_o knit_v together_o by_o virtue_n of_o what_o bond_n shall_v we_o edify_v one_o another_o if_o not_o by_o virtue_n of_o the_o marriage_n bond_n §._o 25._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n hinder_v sin_n one_o in_o another_o two_o thing_n be_v requisite_a unto_o spiritual_a edification_n one_o respect_v the_o hindrance_n of_o growth_n in_o grace_n the_o other_o the_o help_v thereof_o the_o hindrance_n of_o grace_n be_v all_o manner_n of_o sin_n sin_n to_o grace_n be_v as_o water_v to_o fire_n it_o slake_v the_o heat_n of_o it_o and_o if_o without_o ho_o it_o be_v pour_v on_o it_o it_o will_v clean_o put_v it_o out_o in_o regard_n hereof_o there_o ought_v to_o be_v a_o mutual_a care_n in_o husband_n and_o wife_n both_o to_o prevent_v sin_n before_o it_o be_v commit_v and_o also_o to_o make_v what_o redress_n they_o can_v after_o it_o be_v commit_v that_o it_o be_v a_o mutual_a duty_n for_o husband_n and_o wife_n so_o much_o another_o as_o they_o can_v to_o prevent_v sin_n one_o in_o another_o be_v evident_a by_o that_o reason_n which_o the_o apostle_n use_v to_o keep_v they_o from_o defraud_v one_o another_o in_o these_o word_n that_o satan_n tempt_v you_o not_o 5._o for_o out_o of_o the_o scope_n and_o matter_n of_o those_o word_n this_o general_a doctrine_n may_v be_v gather_v husband_n and_o wife_n ought_v to_o be_v careful_a to_o keep_v one_o another_o from_o the_o temptation_n of_o satan_n that_o be_v from_o sin_n whereunto_o all_o his_o temptation_n tend_v etc._n rebekah_n perform_v the_o duty_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n in_o keep_v isaak_n from_o blessing_n esau_n which_o if_o he_o have_v do_v he_o have_v sin_v against_o 23._o god_n express_a word_n though_o she_o fail_v in_o the_o manner_n of_o do_v it_o yet_o her_o end_n be_v good_a as_o that_o love_n they_o owe_v one_o to_o another_o so_o that_o care_n which_o they_o themselves_o ought_v to_o have_v of_o themselves_o require_v as_o much_o for_o sin_n provoke_v god_n wrath_n his_o wrath_n send_v down_o vengeance_n that_o vengeance_n which_o fall_v on_o the_o husband_n can_v hardly_o miss_v the_o wife_n or_o that_o the_o husband_n which_o fall_v on_o the_o wife_n and_o that_o by_o reason_n of_o their_o near_a union_n though_o it_o fall_v not_o on_o both_o their_o pate_n yet_o it_o can_v but_o much_o affect_v and_o even_o afflict_v the_o party_n that_o escape_v the_o wife_n of_o those_o rebel_n who_o be_v 32_o swallow_v up_o quick_a in_o the_o wilderness_n perish_v in_o like_a manner_n with_o their_o husband_n for_o they_o who_o be_v so_o near_o as_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o do_v not_o what_o they_o can_v to_o prevent_v one_o another_o sin_n make_v themselves_o accessary_a thereto_o for_o the_o better_a effect_v of_o this_o duty_n husband_n and_o wife_n sin_n must_v be_v watchful_a over_o one_o another_o and_o observe_v what_o sin_n either_o of_o they_o be_v give_v unto_o or_o what_o occasion_n be_v offer_v to_o draw_v either_o of_o they_o into_o sin_n if_o either_o of_o they_o be_v choleric_a or_o prone_a to_o be_v angry_a on_o a_o sudden_a the_o other_o must_v endeavour_n to_o take_v away_o all_o occasion_n of_o offence_n and_o if_o both_o shall_v be_v testy_a and_o hasty_a to_o wrath_n when_o the_o one_o see_v the_o other_o first_o move_v the_o party_n who_o passion_n be_v not_o yet_o stir_v ought_v the_o rather_o to_o be_v settle_v and_o compose_v to_o all_o meekness_n and_o patience_n lest_o if_o both_o together_o be_v provoke_v the_o whole_a household_n be_v set_v on_o fire_n if_o either_o of_o they_o be_v give_v to_o drunkenness_n covetousness_n or_o any_o other_o sin_n the_o other_o aught_o by_o wise_a and_o gentle_a persuasion_n to_o keep_v they_o as_o much_o as_o they_o can_v from_o those_o sin_n yea_o they_o may_v also_o get_v other_o that_o be_v discreet_a and_o able_a to_o dissuade_v they_o or_o use_v what_o other_o good_a mean_n they_o can_v to_o that_o purpose_n §._o 26._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n redress_v sin_n in_o one_o another_o when_o either_o husband_n or_o wife_n be_v fall_v into_o any_o sin_n a_o mutual_a duty_n it_o be_v for_o the_o other_o to_o use_v what_o redress_n may_v be_v of_o that_o sin_n as_o if_o one_o of_o they_o be_v wound_v the_o other_o must_v take_v care_n for_o the_o heal_n of_o that_o wound_n abigail_n perform_v 25._o her_o duty_n in_o this_o kind_n when_o after_o she_o have_v hear_v what_o churlish_a entertainment_n her_o husband_n give_v to_o david_n servant_n she_o hasten_v to_o carry_v store_n of_o provision_n to_o david_n and_o humble_v herself_o before_o he_o and_o so_o move_v david_n to_o assuage_v his_o wrath_n yea_o she_o take_v a_o seasonable_a time_n also_o to_o tell_v her_o husband_n his_o fault_n and_o the_o danger_n whereinto_o he_o bring_v himself_o thereby_o more_o direct_o and_o with_o better_a success_n do_v jaakob_n redress_v the_o superstition_n or_o rather_o idolatry_n of_o his_o wife_n rachel_n as_o may_v be_v gather_v by_o compare_v gen._n 31._o 19_o 34_o gen._n 35._o 2_o 4._o  _fw-fr a_o brother_n at_o large_a must_v not_o suffer_v sin_n to_o lie_v on_o his_o brother_n 17._o much_o less_o may_v husband_n or_o wife_n the_o one_o upon_o the_o other_o thou_o shall_v not_o hate_v thy_o brother_n say_v the_o law_n and_o suffer_v any_o sin_n to_o lie_v on_o he_o to_o do_v this_o then_o be_v a_o token_n and_o fruit_n of_o hatred_n if_o a_o husband_n shall_v see_v his_o wife_n or_o a_o wife_n her_o husband_n lie_v in_o the_o fire_n or_o water_n ready_a to_o be_v burn_v or_o drown_v and_o not_o afford_v their_o best_a help_n to_o pull_v they_o out_o may_v they_o not_o just_o be_v think_v to_o hate_v they_o but_o sin_n be_v as_o fire_n and_o water_n which_o will_v burn_v and_o drown_v man_n in_o perdition_n this_o duty_n may_v be_v perform_v by_o meek_a instruction_n pithy_a persuasion_n gentle_a reproof_n yea_o and_o by_o the_o help_n of_o some_o 16._o good_a minister_n or_o other_o discreet_a and_o faithful_a friend_n §._o 27._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n help_v forward_o the_o growth_n of_o grace_n in_o each_o other_o hitherto_o of_o prevent_v and_o redress_v hindrance_n of_o grace_n hereunto_o must_v be_v add_v a_o help_a forward_o of_o the_o growth_n thereof_o which_o man_n and_o wife_n must_v mutual_o endeavour_n to_o effect_v
they_o can_v that_o which_o solomon_n say_v of_o a_o friend_n and_o a_o brother_n may_v fit_o be_v apply_v in_o this_o case_n to_o husband_n and_o wife_n a_o friend_n love_v at_o all_o time_n and_o a_o brother_n be_v bear_v for_o adversity_n 17._o that_o be_v a_o trusty_a and_o faithful_a friend_n be_v constant_a in_o his_o goodwill_n and_o ready_a to_o perform_v all_o duty_n of_o kindness_n at_o any_o time_n whether_o it_o be_v prosperity_n or_o adversity_n the_o change_n of_o outward_a estate_n make_v no_o alteration_n in_o his_o love_a affection_n and_o friendly_a carriage_n yea_o he_o seem_v to_o be_v as_o it_o be_v bear_v and_o bring_v forth_o against_o the_o time_n of_o trouble_n and_o affliction_n because_o then_o be_v his_o provident_a care_n and_o tender_a affection_n most_o manifest_v of_o all_o friend_n none_o ought_v to_o be_v more_o careful_a none_o more_o faithful_a one_o to_o another_o then_o man_n and_o wife_n how_o then_o ought_v they_o to_o love_n at_o all_o time_n and_o if_o any_o trial_n come_v to_o either_o of_o they_o the_o other_o so_o to_o carry_v himself_o as_o it_o may_v be_v true_o say_v they_o be_v join_v together_o for_o adversity_n thus_o shall_v they_o verify_v the_o truth_n of_o that_o whereby_o god_n be_v move_v to_o creare_fw-la of_o mankind_n male_a and_o female_a namely_o that_o it_o be_v not_o good_a for_o man_n to_o be_v alone_o but_o that_o it_o be_v rather_o good_a 18._o that_o be_v needful_a profitable_a and_o comfortable_a for_o man_n and_o woman_n to_o be_v together_o in_o which_o respect_n the_o wiseman_n say_v he_o that_o find_v a_o wife_n find_v a_o good_a thing_n and_o by_o the_o rule_n of_o 22._o relation_n we_o may_v infer_v she_o that_o find_v a_o husband_n find_v a_o good_a thing_n §._o 30._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n backwandnesse_n to_o help_v one_o another_o in_o time_n of_o need_n contrary_n to_o this_o duty_n be_v a_o certain_a unnatural_a affection_n in_o sundry_a husband_n and_o wife_n who_o much_o grudge_n to_o provide_v the_o thing_n that_o be_v needful_a for_o one_o another_o the_o man_n common_o think_v the_o charge_n too_o great_a the_o woman_n think_v the_o pain_n too_o much_o they_o be_v affect_v one_o to_o another_o as_o if_o they_o be_v mere_a stranger_n nay_o many_o stranger_n will_v be_v more_o ready_a to_o perform_v and_o more_o cheerful_a in_o perform_v needful_a duty_n as_o occasion_n be_v offer_v then_o such_o unnatural_a husband_n and_o wife_n if_o a_o little_a sickness_n or_o other_o like_a cross_n fall_v on_o one_o of_o they_o the_o other_o think_v never_o any_o have_v such_o a_o burden_n and_o by_o their_o discontent_n make_v the_o burden_n much_o more_o heavy_a than_o otherwise_o it_o will_v be_v even_o as_o when_o two_o ox_n be_v in_o one_o yoke_n and_o the_o one_o hold_v back_o the_o draught_n be_v make_v much_o hard_a to_o the_o other_o thus_o do_v they_o pervert_v one_o of_o the_o principal_a end_n of_o marriage_n which_o be_v to_o be_v a_o continual_a 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5._o christ_n forbid_v one_o that_o follow_v he_o to_o go_v and_o 60._o bury_v his_o father_n answ_n 1._o for_o abraham_n example_n 1._o it_o can_v be_v prove_v that_o he_o leave_v his_o father_n house_n without_o the_o consent_n of_o his_o father_n 2._o he_o be_v then_o marry_v and_o so_o of_o another_o house_n 3._o he_o have_v 1._o a_o express_a particular_a charge_n of_o god_n to_o leave_v his_o father_n house_n even_o as_o he_o have_v to_o sacrifice_v his_o son_n except_o the_o like_a charge_n can_v be_v show_v his_o example_n make_v nothing_o to_o the_o purpose_n 2._o for_o levy_n speech_n 1._o it_o be_v note_v by_o moses_n in_o relation_n etc._n to_o a_o particular_a zealous_a fact_n of_o the_o levite_n in_o execute_v the_o vengeance_n of_o the_o lord_n and_o so_o to_o be_v reckon_v among_o such_o extraordinary_a thing_n as_o be_v not_o exemplary_a 2._o that_o which_o move_v the_o levite_n to_o make_v no_o difference_n betwixt_o their_o parent_n and_o other_o be_v the_o lord_n cause_n their_o parent_n and_o kindred_n as_o well_o as_o other_o have_v notorious_o sin_v against_o god_n and_o in_o that_o respect_n the_o levite_n take_v no_o notice_n of_o they_o but_o they_o be_v not_o such_o parent_n which_o papist_n teach_v child_n to_o forsake_v but_o any_o parent_n now_o what_o consequence_n be_v this_o some_o child_n have_v be_v god_n minister_n in_o execute_v just_a punishment_n on_o their_o wicked_a parent_n therefore_o child_n may_v enter_v into_o such_o place_n as_o shall_v exempt_v they_o from_o help_v any_o parent_n though_o well_o deserve_v 3._o the_o levite_n have_v a_o express_a charge_n for_o that_o which_o they_o do_v but_o that_o which_o papist_n infer_v from_o their_o 27._o example_n do_v make_v the_o commandment_n of_o god_n of_o none_o effect_n 6._o 3._o for_o
their_o parent_n in_o evil_n be_v so_o far_o from_o extenuate_v their_o sin_n as_o it_o do_v rather_o aggravate_v the_o same_o the_o prefer_n of_o father_n and_o mother_n before_o the_o lord_n christ_n show_v that_o such_o a_o child_n be_v 37._o not_o worthy_a of_o christ_n in_o comparison_n of_o christ_n 26._o father_n and_o mother_n must_v be_v hate_v but_o that_o undue_a and_o unchristianlike_a respect_n of_o parent_n above_o christ_n be_v it_o that_o make_v so_o many_o young_a papist_n young_a swagerer_n swearer_n parent_n liar_n deceitful_a person_n and_o lewd_a liver_n for_o avoid_v the_o two_o forename_a extreme_n let_v thy_o heart_n be_v fill_v with_o a_o true_a fear_n of_o god_n and_o withal_o consider_v the_o difference_n betwixt_o our_o earthly_a parent_n and_o our_o heavenly_a father_n they_o be_v but_o parent_n 9_o of_o our_o flesh_n he_o be_v the_o father_n of_o spirit_n 5._o they_o can_v but_o touch_v the_o body_n he_o can_v cast_v body_n and_o soul_n into_o hell_n 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child_n reason_n being_n child_n come_v out_o of_o the_o substance_n of_o both_o alike_o 2._o the_o care_n and_o pain_n of_o both_o for_o the_o good_a of_o the_o child_n be_v very_o great_a i_o know_v not_o of_o whether_o the_o great_a the_o mother_n pain_n and_o care_n in_o bring_v forth_o the_o child_n be_v indeed_o the_o great_a and_o it_o may_v be_v also_o the_o great_a in_o bring_v up_o the_o child_n especial_o while_o it_o be_v young_a at_o least_o if_o she_o give_v it_o suck_v herself_o yet_o afterward_o the_o father_n exceed_v in_o provide_v fit_a calling_n sufficient_a mean_n of_o maintenance_n yea_o and_o portion_n or_o inheritance_n for_o it_o and_o that_o after_o he_o himself_o be_v dead_a thus_o one_o way_n or_o other_o the_o child_n be_v equal_o bind_v to_o both_o and_o according_o god_n law_n make_v no_o difference_n betwixt_o they_o object_n the_o wife_n be_v subject_a to_o her_o husband_n therefore_o a_o child_n ought_v to_o prefer_v his_o father_n before_o his_o 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for_o bear_v though_o it_o be_v the_o mother_n must_v be_v obey_v for_o in_o this_o case_n she_o be_v back_v with_o god_n authority_n but_o if_o the_o matter_n be_v mere_o indifferent_a than_o i_o doubt_v not_o but_o the_o father_n must_v be_v obey_v yet_o so_o as_o the_o child_n no_o way_n show_v any_o contempt_n to_o his_o mother_n but_o with_o all_o reverence_n and_o humility_n make_v it_o know_v to_o she_o that_o it_o be_v best_a both_o for_o herself_o and_o himself_o that_o his_o father_n be_v obey_v but_o if_o the_o father_n contrary_a authority_n be_v not_o interpose_v or_o if_o the_o father_n be_v dead_a then_o be_v a_o mother_n as_o simple_o and_o absolute_o to_o be_v obey_v in_o all_o thing_n as_o a_o father_n §._o 55._o of_o pretence_n allege_v to_o obey_v father_n rather_o than_o mother_n contrary_n on_o the_o one_o side_n be_v their_o childish_a fondness_n who_o so_o whole_o respect_v their_o mother_n and_o seek_v to_o please_v she_o as_o they_o little_o regard_v their_o father_n unless_o through_o fear_n they_o be_v force_v thereto_o and_o on_o the_o other_o side_n their_o scornful_a spirit_n who_o only_o bear_v respect_n to_o their_o father_n and_o altogether_o neglect_v their_o mother_n if_o not_o despise_v she_o for_o the_o most_o part_n of_o the_o two_o the_o mother_n be_v less_o regard_v the_o reason_n whereof_o i_o take_v to_o be_v these_o follow_v whereunto_o i_o will_v annex_v particular_a mean_n to_o remove_v the_o seem_a force_n of_o those_o reason_n as_o antidote_n or_o remedy_n unto_o they_o 1._o the_o mother_n by_o reason_n of_o her_o sex_n be_v common_o the_o weak_a and_o subject_a to_o more_o infirmity_n answ_n child_n ought_v rather_o to_o look_v upon_o their_o mother_n place_n and_o authority_n than_o their_o person_n and_o infirmity_n so_o these_o will_v no_o whit_n impair_v their_o respect_n of_o the_o other_o 2._o the_o mother_n be_v more_o indulgent_a and_o tender_a to_o her_o child_n and_o use_v more_o familiarity_n towards_o they_o now_o familiarity_n andr._n breed_v contempt_n answ_n this_o be_v the_o abuse_n of_o familiarity_n love_n shall_v breed_v love_n and_o love_n must_v be_v order_v according_a to_o the_o condition_n of_o the_o party_n love_v and_o love_v as_o child_n with_o one_o eye_n behold_v the_o affection_n of_o the_o mother_n so_o with_o another_o they_o shall_v behold_v god_n image_n in_o the_o mother_n and_o then_o that_o which_o be_v 3._o note_v as_o the_o ground_n of_o all_o child_n duty_n a_o loving-feare_n will_v be_v wrought_v in_o their_o heart_n which_o will_v cast_v out_o all_o contempt_n 3._o the_o mother_n have_v not_o that_o power_n to_o reward_n or_o revenge_n that_o a_o father_n have_v answ_n 1._o this_o be_v not_o to_o obey_v in_o the_o lord_n no_o outward_a respect_n shall_v move_v the_o child_n to_o obey_v his_o parent_n so_o much_o as_o conscience_n to_o god-ward_n if_o child_n due_o consider_v god_n how_o he_o have_v make_v no_o difference_n but_o command_v they_o to_o obey_v both_o alike_o and_o how_o he_o be_v able_a abundant_o to_o reward_v and_o severe_o to_o revenge_v that_o reason_n will_v be_v no_o reason_n 4._o the_o mother_n be_v subject_a to_o the_o father_n answ_n this_o be_v remove_v 54._o before_o as_o a_o general_a answer_n to_o these_o and_o all_o other_o such_o pretence_n as_o can_v be_v allege_v let_v it_o be_v note_v that_o the_o lord_n do_v not_o only_o in_o express_a term_n charge_v child_n to_o fear_v their_o mother_n but_o also_o the_o more_o to_o press_v this_o point_n sometime_o set_v the_o mother_n in_o the_o first_o place_n thus_o you_o shall_v fear_v every_o man_n his_o mother_n 3._o and_o his_o father_n which_o be_v not_o so_o to_o be_v take_v as_o if_o the_o mother_n of_o the_o two_o be_v the_o more_o excellent_a in_o this_o respect_n the_o father_n for_o the_o most_o part_n be_v first_o name_v but_o because_o it_o be_v the_o true_a trial_n of_o a_o child_n subjection_n to_o be_v subject_a to_o his_o mother_n he_o that_o willing_o and_o conscionable_o subiect_v himself_o to_o she_o who_o be_v in_o relation_n to_o her_o husband_n the_o inferior_a in_o sex_n the_o weak_a in_o condition_n subject_a to_o more_o infirmity_n in_o her_o affection_n less_o moderate_a in_o power_n less_o able_a to_o reward_v or_o to_o punish_v will_v much_o rather_o no_o doubt_n subject_v himself_o to_o his_o father_n §._o 56._o of_o the_o difference_n of_o child_n subjection_n to_o natural_a parent_n and_o to_o such_o as_o only_o be_v in_o the_o place_n of_o parent_n beside_o natural_a parent_n there_o be_v other_o by_o god_n so_o set_v over_o child_n as_o they_o owe_v in_o conscience_n childlike_a duty_n unto_o they_o these_o in_o general_n be_v such_o as_o be_v in_o the_o place_n of_o parent_n and_o so_o perform_v or_o at_o least_o ought_v to_o perform_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n to_o child_n they_o be_v of_o two_o sort_n 1._o such_o as_o be_v join_v to_o a_o natural_a parent_n in_o marriage_n common_o call_v step-fathers_n and_o stepmother_n or_o father_n in_o law_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n 2._o such_o as_o have_v the_o government_n and_o tuition_n of_o child_n commit_v to_o they_o common_o call_v guardian_n tutor_n governor_n yea_o also_o foster-fathers_n and_o foster-mothers_n quest_n be_v the_o same_o duty_n in_o every_o respect_n due_a to_o those_o who_o be_v in_o place_n of_o parent_n as_o to_o natural_a parent_n themselves_o answ_n not_o so_o there_o be_v such_o a_o prerogative_n appertain_v to_o natural_a parent_n from_o who_o child_n have_v receive_v their_o be_v that_o many_o thing_n wherein_o child_n by_o a_o absolute_a necessity_n necessitate_v be_v bind_v to_o they_o be_v bind_v unto_o the_o other_o who_o be_v but_o in_o place_n of_o parent_n only_o by_o the_o law_n of_o honesty_n of_o meetness_n &_o honestate_fw-la conveniency_n whence_o it_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o such_o thing_n as_o be_v do_v by_o child_n rebellious_o without_o or_o against_o the_o consent_n of_o natural_a parent_n prove_v mere_a nullity_n will_v stand_v in_o force_n though_o they_o be_v do_v without_o or_o against_o the_o consent_n of_o such_o as_o be_v only_o in_o the_o place_n of_o parent_n instance_n contract_v make_v about_o good_n land_n and_o such_o other_o thing_n as_o parent_n retain_v a_o right_n in_o whereunto_o many_o good_a divine_n add_v 16._o contract_n of_o marriage_n of_o call_v and_o the_o like_a yet_o notwithstanding_o see_v in_o conscience_n we_o be_v bind_v to_o those_o thing_n which_o the_o law_n of_o honesty_n and_o conveniency_n requirety_a for_o whatsoever_o thing_n be_v honest_a just_a and_o of_o good_a report_n 8._o be_v to_o be_v do_v great_a be_v that_o duty_n which_o child_n owe_v to_o those_o who_o be_v in_o place_n of_o parent_n §._o 57_o of_o child_n subjection_n to_o father_n and_o
covetous_o dote_v upon_o their_o wealth_n as_o they_o will_v not_o bestow_v a_o groat_n to_o help_v they_o in_o call_v and_o marriage_n but_o say_v they_o keep_v all_o for_o they_o what_o a_o wretched_a and_o foolish_a disposition_n be_v this_o that_o they_o shall_v still_o lay_v up_o more_o and_o more_o for_o their_o child_n and_o yet_o refuse_v to_o bestow_v any_o part_n thereof_o upon_o they_o in_o their_o great_a need_n when_o it_o may_v redound_v to_o their_o great_a benefit_n god_n oft_o meet_v with_o such_o covetous_a miser_n and_o cross_v their_o purpose_n by_o make_v stranger_n to_o enjoy_v that_o which_o they_o greedy_o hoard_a up_o §._o 58._o of_o parent_n last_o speech_n to_o their_o child_n the_o last_o duty_n which_o parent_n owe_v to_o their_o child_n be_v when_o they_o cease_v to_o be_v parent_n that_o be_v when_o they_o be_v go_v out_o of_o this_o world_n their_o duty_n at_o that_o time_n in_o general_n be_v to_o do_v what_o lie_v in_o they_o that_o it_o may_v go_v 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duty_n by_o the_o ordinary_a spirit_n of_o understanding_n and_o wisdom_n which_o the_o lord_n give_v us._n but_o the_o direction_n which_o etc._n isaak_n give_v to_o jaakob_n when_o he_o send_v he_o to_o laban_n be_v no_o extraordinary_a pprophecy_n nor_o that_o which_o 9_o david_n when_o he_o be_v old_a give_v to_o solomon_n and_o again_o etc._n when_o he_o lie_v on_o his_o deathbed_n now_o these_o thing_n be_v thus_o write_v for_o our_o imitation_n and_o great_a reason_n there_o be_v to_o imitate_v those_o holy_a man_n in_o these_o thing_n for_o 1._o the_o word_n of_o a_o die_a parent_n be_v common_o most_v regard_v his_o last_o word_n do_v make_v a_o deep_a impression_n 16._o this_o do_v the_o brethren_n of_o joseph_n press_v upon_o he_o if_o ever_o therefore_o there_o be_v a_o time_n seasonable_a for_o a_o parent_n to_o give_v good_a instruction_n to_o his_o child_n then_o be_v the_o time_n when_o parent_n be_v clean_o depart_v from_o their_o child_n 2._o thus_o shall_v a_o parent_n manifest_v his_o true_a affection_n and_o earnest_a desire_n of_o his_o child_n good_n for_o now_o they_o can_v think_v that_o he_o seek_v his_o own_o ease_n and_o profit_n more_o than_o their_o good_a as_o at_o other_o time_n some_o will_v be_v ready_a to_o say_v of_o their_o parent_n instruction_n and_o admonition_n our_o parent_n know_v what_o be_v good_a for_o themselves_o that_o the_o last_o word_n of_o parent_n may_v be_v the_o more_o seasonable_o and_o direction_n profitable_o deliver_v to_o their_o child_n they_o must_v note_v on_o the_o one_o side_n what_o evil_n their_o child_n be_v most_o prone_a unto_o what_o temptation_n they_o be_v most_o assault_v withal_o what_o snare_n they_o be_v most_o like_a to_o fall_v into_o and_o on_o the_o other_o side_n what_o virtue_n and_o grace_n be_v most_o needful_a for_o they_o and_o wherein_o they_o fail_v most_o and_o according_o they_o must_v order_v and_o frame_v their_o last_o word_n note_v for_o a_o pattern_n herein_o etc._n isaak_v counsel_n to_o jaakob_n when_o he_o send_v he_o to_o laban_n and_o think_v he_o shall_v never_o see_v he_o again_o and_o 3._o david_n to_o his_o son_n solomon_n §._o 59_o of_o parent_n last_o blessing_n to_o their_o child_n ii_o concern_v the_o prayer_n of_o parent_n for_o their_o child_n i_o note_v it_o 4._o before_o to_o be_v a_o general_a duty_n never_o to_o be_v omit_v yet_o here_o in_o particular_a i_o mention_v it_o again_o because_o a_o parent_n blessing_n consist_v therein_o especial_o and_o then_o be_v the_o most_o proper_a time_n for_o parent_n to_o bestow_v a_o blessing_n on_o their_o child_n as_o 3._o isaak_n 15._o jaakob_n 19_o david_n and_o other_o do_v let_v parent_n therefore_o as_o they_o commend_v their_o own_o soul_n into_o god_n hand_n so_o commend_v their_o child_n unto_o god_n grace_n and_o blessing_n god_n providence_n be_v a_o good_a inheritance_n many_o child_n do_v thereby_o exceed_o prosper_v though_o they_o have_v but_o small_a outward_a 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do_v much_o good_a to_o their_o master_n and_o thereupon_o they_o may_v get_v good_a wage_n at_o their_o master_n hand_n and_o extraordinary_a recompense_n also_o and_o live_v in_o much_o quiet_a under_o they_o but_o no_o reward_n can_v they_o look_v for_o at_o god_n hand_n so_o as_o i_o may_v say_v to_o such_o servant_n as_o christ_n say_v to_o those_o who_o do_v all_o to_o have_v glory_n of_o man_n they_o have_v their_o reward_n 2._o §._o 23._o of_o servant_n willingness_n to_o perform_v their_o duty_n the_o four_o branch_n respect_v the_o manner_n of_o servant_n perform_v four_o their_o duty_n be_v note_v in_o this_o phrase_n with_o good_a will_n this_o good_a will_n of_o a_o servant_n to_o his_o master_n have_v respect_n partly_o to_o the_o disposition_n of_o the_o servant_n and_o so_o it_o imply_v willingness_n and_o cheerfulness_n cheerful_o and_o partly_o to_o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o master_n and_o so_o it_o imply_v faithfulness_n of_o willingness_n to_o do_v that_o duty_n 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make_v the_o time_n pass_v away_o the_o better_a 2._o answ_n if_o the_o love_n he_o have_v to_o rachel_n make_v he_o do_v his_o service_n so_o cheerful_o then_o if_o servant_n love_n god_n for_o who_o sake_n they_o ought_v to_o do_v their_o service_n it_o will_v cheerful_o be_v do_v 1._o that_o which_o the_o apostle_n apply_v to_o give_v of_o alm_n two_o cor._n 9_o 7._o may_v be_v extend_v to_o all_o manner_n of_o duty_n which_o god_n require_v god_n love_v cheerfulness_n that_o work_n therefore_o which_o be_v not_o season_v therewith_o god_n regard_v not_o 2._o as_o cheerfulness_n make_v god_n the_o better_a to_o like_v the_o work_n so_o it_o make_v the_o work_n much_o more_o easy_a to_o he_o that_o do_v it_o our_o common_a proverb_n note_v as_o much_o nothing_o be_v hard_a to_o a_o willing_a mind_n 3._o direction_n let_v there_o be_v cheerfulness_n in_o a_o servant_n mind_n and_o he_o be_v as_o free_a as_o his_o master_n for_o such_o a_o servant_n be_v the_o lord_n freeman_n 1_o cor._n 7._o 22._o and_o when_o he_o can_v be_v make_v free_a of_o his_o master_n he_o do_v after_o a_o manner_n make_v his_o service_n free_a have_v a_o eye_n to_o god_n to_o his_o acceptation_n and_o remuneration_n and_o it_o will_v quicken_v thy_o spirit_n man_n reward_n make_v poor_a man_n glad_a of_o work_n and_o cheerful_a in_o do_v their_o work_n it_o be_v as_o sugar_n to_o sharp_a wine_n tradesman_n physician_n lawyer_n all_o sort_n of_o man_n be_v by_o gain_n draw_v on_o with_o great_a willingness_n to_o take_v great_a pain_n shall_v not_o god_n recompense_n of_o our_o pain_n make_v we_o much_o more_o willing_a sure_o it_o will_v if_o we_o have_v such_o a_o eye_n of_o 26._o faith_n as_o moses_n have_v thereby_o to_o
of_o love_n deut._n 13._o 6._o 3._o love_n keep_v a_o man_n from_o abuse_v his_o authority_n 4._o love_n make_v he_o bear_v with_o her_o infirmity_n 5._o his_o love_n draw_v love_n from_o she_o how_o love_n be_v a_o husband_n particular_a duty_n 1_o cor._n 13._o 5._o love_v a_o common_a condition_n to_o be_v annex_v to_o every_o duty_n contrary_a 1._o hatred_n deut._n 22._o 13_o etc._n etc._n deut._n 24._o 3._o mat._n 19_o 8._o 2._o want_v of_o love_n 1_o joh._n 4._o 20._o 20._o treat_n 3._o §._o 9_o branch_n of_o love_n ii_o husband_n must_v maintain_v their_o authority_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d see_v treat_n 3._o §._o 3._o reason_n 1._o god_n authority_n maintain_v by_o the_o husband_n 1_o cor._n 11._o 7._o 2._o the_o wife_n good_a promote_v thereby_o it_o be_v in_o the_o man_n power_n to_o maintain_v his_o authority_n 1_o tim._n 4._o 12._o how_o a_o man_n authority_n may_v be_v well_o maintain_v ad_fw-la viros_fw-la pertinet_fw-la virtute_fw-la vincere_fw-la &_o exemplo_fw-la regere_fw-la foeminaâ—_n aug._n the_o adult_n coniug_v lib._n 2._o cap._n 8._o contrary_a 1._o base_a carriage_n 2._o cruel_a deal_n 3._o yield_v in_o unlawful_a thing_n thing_n dent._n 13._o 6_o 7._o 7._o 1_o king_n 21._o 7_o 9_o 1_o king_n 11._o 4._o maximè_fw-la obseruate_v vos_fw-la atque_fw-la attendite_fw-la anim_fw-la bus_fw-la vestris_fw-la o_o viri_fw-la ab_fw-la uxoris_fw-la concitationibus_fw-la atque_fw-la malis_fw-la instigationibus_fw-la per_fw-la hanc_fw-la enim_fw-la in_o ultimo_fw-la supplantare_fw-la job_n visus_fw-la est_fw-la diabolus_fw-la etc._n etc._n per_fw-la istas_fw-la etiam_fw-la nunc_fw-la plurimos_fw-la subvertit_fw-la orig._n in_o joh._n lib._n 2._o 2._o treat_v 3_o §._o 3._o how_o a_o man_n authority_n may_v be_v well_o manage_v husband_n must_v account_v their_o wife_n yokefellowe_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o gen._n 2._o 18._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d eph._n 5._o 28._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d treat_n 3._o §._o 4._o rom._n 8._o 17._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1_o cor._n 3._o 9_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d vxor_fw-la &_o serua_fw-mi &_o domina_fw-la est_fw-la viri_fw-la chrysost_fw-la in_o 1_o cor._n 7._o hom_n 19_o 19_o debet_fw-la in_o vxorem_fw-la vir_fw-la dominari_fw-la ut_fw-la animus_n in_fw-la corpus_fw-la consentiens_fw-la ei_fw-la &_o conspirans_fw-la benevolentia_fw-la plut._n praec_fw-la connub_fw-la non_fw-la es_fw-la dominus_fw-la sed_fw-la maritus_fw-la non_fw-la ancillam_fw-la sortitus_fw-la es_fw-la sed_fw-la vxorem_fw-la gubernatorem_fw-la â—e_n deus_fw-la voluit_fw-la esse_fw-la sexus_fw-la inferioris_fw-la non_fw-la praepotentem_fw-la ambr._n hexaem_n lib._n 5._o cap._n 7._o 7._o treat_v 3_o §._o 5._o four_o husband_n must_v account_v their_o own_o wife_n best_a for_o they_o they_o eph._n 5._o 25._o 25._o ves_n 28._o reason_n every_o one_o wife_n be_v provide_v by_o god_n god_n pro._n 19_o 14._o 14._o &_o 18._o 22._o 22._o socrates_n interrogatus_fw-la qua_fw-la gratia_fw-la uxoris_fw-la mores_fw-la toleraret_fw-la respondit_fw-la ut_fw-la gymnasium_fw-la &_o palaestram_fw-la philosophiae_fw-la domi_fw-la habeam_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o 11._o ars_fw-la tua_fw-la tiphy_n iacet_fw-la si_fw-la non_fw-la sit_fw-la in_o aequore_fw-la fluctus_fw-la ovid._n de_fw-fr trist_n l._n 4._o eleg_a 3._o 3._o treat_n 3._o §._o 7._o v._o husband_n must_v entire_o delight_v in_o their_o wife_n wife_n ezec._n 24._o 16._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d gen._n 24._o 67._o pro._n 5._o 18_o 19_o expound_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d col._n 1._o 13._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d nihil_fw-la viro_fw-la uxore_fw-la bona_fw-la amabilius_fw-la hier._n in_o ezec._n 24._o gen._n 26._o 8._o 8._o treat_n 3._o §._o 10._o vi_o husband_n must_v kind_o accept_v every_o good_a duty_n of_o his_o wife_n gen._n 21._o 8._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 23._o contrary_a 1._o to_o take_v no_o notice_n of_o their_o wife_n goodness_n 2._o slight_o to_o pass_v it_o over_o 1_o sam._n 25._o 21._o 3._o scornful_o to_o reject_v it_o rom._n 12._o 21._o ephes_n 6._o 4._o 4._o treat_n 3._o §._o 11._o 55._o how_o a_o man_n good_a acceptance_n of_o his_o wife_n duty_n be_v manifest_v 1._o by_o answer_v reverence_n with_o courtesy_n depone_n asperitatem_fw-la morum_fw-la cum_fw-la tibi_fw-la sedula_fw-la uxor_fw-la occurrit_fw-la etc._n etc._n ambr._n hexaem_n lib._n 5._o cap._n 7._o courtesy_n may_v stand_v with_o superiority_n gen._n 23._o 6_o 7._o gen._n 33._o 3_o 4._o esth_n 5._o 2._o 2._o treat_n 3._o §._o 15._o 2._o by_o grant_v her_o humble_a request_n request_n est_fw-la 5._o 3._o 3._o 1_o king_n 1._o 28._o etc._n etc._n etc._n gen._n 28._o 1._o 1._o &_o 16._o 6._o 6._o &_o 21._o 10._o 11._o 11._o §._o 5._o 5._o treat_n 3._o §_o 38_o 39_o etc._n etc._n &_o §._o 43_o 44_o etc._n etc._n 3._o by_o accept_v what_o she_o be_v willing_a to_o do_v 4._o by_o forbear_v to_o exact_v too_o much_o 5._o by_o suffer_v she_o to_o dwell_v where_o it_o be_v meet_a for_o she_o she_o gen._n 31._o 4_o etc._n etc._n 6._o by_o forbear_v to_o tire_v she_o with_o guest_n 7._o by_o suffer_v she_o to_o manage_v the_o affair_n of_o the_o house_n house_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 23._o 23._o pro._n 31._o 11._o 11._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 14._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d materfamilias_n what_o thing_n be_v to_o be_v put_v to_o the_o wife_n dispose_n dispose_n pro._n 31._o 21_o 22._o 22._o vers_fw-la 15._o 15._o gen._n 16._o 6._o 6._o 1_o tim._n 5._o 10._o it_o be_v 2_o 4._o 2_o king_n 4._o 19_o caution_n about_o refer_v matter_n of_o the_o house_n to_o the_o wife_n order_v order_v pro._n 31._o 11._o 11._o gen._n 39_o 6._o difference_n betwixt_o the_o trust_n put_v in_o a_o wife_n and_o in_o other_o in_o what_o thing_n a_o husband_n manifest_v too_o much_o strictness_n gen._n 2._o 18._o pro._n 20._o 7._o &_o 14._o 8._o &_o 20._o 3._o 1_o tim._n 6._o 4._o husband_n must_v commend_v and_o reward_v good_a thing_n in_o their_o wife_n a_o rom._n 13._o 3._o 3._o verse_n 31._o b_o prou._n 31._o 28_o 29._o 29._o lege_fw-la apud_fw-la t._n liv._o dec._n 1._o l._n 1._o quid_fw-la inde_fw-la evenit_fw-la quòd_fw-la regij_fw-la iwenes_fw-la svam_fw-la cuique_fw-la vxorem_fw-la miris_fw-la modis_fw-la laudare_fw-la cuique_fw-la svam_fw-la laudot_n studijs_fw-la certamina_fw-la crescunt_fw-la ovid._n fast_o lib._n 2._o 2._o treat_n 3._o §._o 10._o oportet_fw-la virum_fw-la praecsse_fw-la uxori_fw-la oblectando_fw-la &_o indulgendo_fw-la plut._n praec_fw-la connub_fw-la 2_o tim._n 2._o 24._o col._n 3_o 19_o 19_o treat_n 3._o §._o 13._o 14._o wherein_o a_o husband_n mildness_n be_v manifest_v manifest_v of_o his_o speech_n about_o she_o behind_o her_o back_n see_v treat_n 2._o part._n 2._o §._o 36._o the_o speech_n of_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n sweeten_v with_o mildness_n 1._o mild_a and_o kind_a title_n contrary_a unseemly_a title_n instruction_n to_o be_v give_v with_o meekness_n 2_o tim._n 2._o 25._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d direction_n to_o instruct_v with_o meekness_n contrary_a harshness_n harshness_n treat_n 3._o §._o 43_o 51_o 52._o 63_o 64._o etc._n etc._n commandment_n to_o be_v order_v with_o mildness_n what_o thing_n he_o may_v command_v his_o wife_n what_o thing_n he_o may_v forbid_v his_o wife_n such_o thing_n as_o a_o wife_n make_v doubt_n of_o not_o to_o be_v press_v upon_o she_o rom._n 14._o 23._o of_o what_o doubtful_a thing_n the_o command_a power_n of_o a_o governor_n may_v be_v a_o warrant_n warrant_n treat_n 4._o §._o 66._o how_o a_o wife_n refuse_v to_o yield_v may_v be_v discern_v to_o be_v on_o obstinacy_n or_o weakness_n weakness_n treat_n 3._o §._o 43_o 44._o etc._n etc._n etc._n treat_n 3._o §._o 28._o est_fw-la 1._o 10._o reason_n of_o press_v a_o commandment_n to_o be_v render_v 1._o command_a must_v be_v rare_a 2._o command_a must_v be_v by_o way_n of_o entreat_v philem_n 9_o gen._n 12._o 13._o 13._o treat_n 3._o §._o 47._o husband_n ought_v to_o reprove_v reprove_v pro._n 15._o 31._o 31._o &_o 6._o 23._o 23._o psal_n 141._o 5._o see_v the_o fruit_n of_o reproof_n treat_n 3._o §._o 47._o 47._o gen._n 30._o 2._o 2._o job_n 2._o 10._o 10._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 21_o 22._o levit._n 19_o 17._o 17._o treat_n 3._o §._o 47_o a_o husband_n reproof_n must_v be_v sweeten_v with_o mildness_n mildness_n §._o 44._o matter_n of_o reproof_n 1._o just_a matth._n 18._o 15._o 1_o tim_n 5._o 19_o 2._o weigh_v y._n y._n gen._n 30._o 2._o 2._o job_n 2._o 10._o 10._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 21_o 22._o contrary_a 1._o credulity_n 2._o suspicion_n 3._o rashness_n luk_n 4._o 23._o mat._n 7._o 5._o rom._n 2._o 21._o rom._n 2._o 1._o gen._n 38._o 26._o 2_o sam._n 12._o 13._o manner_n of_o reprove_v 1._o seldom_n contrary_a continual_a chide_n 2._o reprove_v mild_o gal_n 6._o 1._o 3._o reprove_v in_o secret_a mat._n 18._o 15._o direction_n for_o reprove_v such_o a_o wife_n as_o regard_v not_o a_o secret_a
honour_n against_o they_o yea_o though_o they_o be_v child_n of_o a_o former_a wife_n §._o 59_o of_o a_o husband_n maintain_v his_o wife_n against_o child_n of_o a_o former_a venture_n and_o servant_n object_n mother_n in_o law_n often_o prove_v unkind_a and_o unjust_a stepmother_n and_o deal_v unmerciful_o with_o their_o husband_n child_n must_v a_o husband_n in_o such_o case_n assist_v his_o wife_n against_o his_o child_n answ_n the_o protection_n i_o speak_v of_o be_v in_o case_n a_o wife_n be_v wrong_v than_o her_o husband_n be_v to_o do_v what_o he_o can_v to_o right_v she_o as_o we_o speak_v but_o if_o she_o be_v the_o wrongdoer_n he_o may_v by_o no_o mean_n bolster_v she_o up_o against_o his_o child_n and_o so_o make_v their_o wrong_n the_o great_a yet_o so_o far_o ought_v he_o to_o respect_v his_o wife_n as_o by_o all_o the_o fair_a mean_n he_o can_v to_o labour_v to_o pacific_a her_o mind_n and_o turn_v her_o heart_n towards_o they_o and_o if_o he_o observe_v her_o heart_n to_o be_v clean_o alienate_v from_o they_o then_o to_o put_v they_o forth_o to_o be_v bring_v up_o in_o some_o other_o place_n and_o so_o to_o take_v away_o from_o her_o the_o object_n of_o her_o displeasure_n that_o he_o and_o she_o may_v live_v more_o quiet_o together_o for_o if_o a_o man_n must_v forsake_v father_n and_o mother_n he_o must_v also_o forsake_v child_n and_o cleave_v to_o his_o wife_n peace_n and_o unity_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n must_v of_o all_o other_o be_v keep_v inviolable_a though_o thou_o cast_v away_o 14._o all_o nothing_o can_v happen_v more_o troublesome_a to_o thou_o than_o not_o to_o have_v a_o quiet_a wife_n at_o home_n thou_o can_v find_v no_o sin_n more_o grievous_a then_o to_o have_v contention_n with_o a_o wife_n if_o a_o wife_n must_v be_v maintain_v against_o the_o stubbornness_n of_o child_n much_o more_o against_o the_o insolency_n of_o servant_n for_o which_o purpose_n the_o example_n of_o abraham_n be_v record_v who_o servant_n may_v have_v a_o privilege_n above_o other_o because_o he_o have_v make_v she_o his_o bedfellow_n yet_o when_o she_o wax_v insolent_a against_o her_o mistress_n first_o he_o put_v she_o into_o her_o mistress_n hand_n to_o do_v to_o she_o as_o it_o please_v she_o and_o afterward_o he_o cast_v she_o out_o of_o his_o house_n §._o 60._o of_o neglect_v to_o maintain_v their_o wife_n contrary_n be_v a_o dissolute_a carelessness_n of_o husband_n who_o care_v no_o more_o to_o help_v and_o succour_v their_o wife_n then_o any_o other_o 1._o some_o more_o fear_n to_o offend_v their_o wife_n then_o they_o care_v to_o do_v house_n they_o good_a and_o in_o that_o respect_n they_o let_v any_o sort_n of_o people_n come_v to_o their_o wife_n that_o be_v welcome_a to_o they_o if_o magistrate_n in_o a_o commonwealth_n shall_v answer_v for_o suffer_v seducer_n to_o come_v into_o their_o dominion_n to_o deceive_v their_o people_n much_o more_o shall_v husband_n answer_v for_o suffer_v they_o to_o come_v and_o deceive_v their_o wife_n 1._o because_o they_o have_v a_o great_a charge_n over_o their_o wife_n then_o magistrate_n over_o their_o people_n 2._o because_o wife_n ought_v to_o be_v dear_a to_o husband_n then_o people_n to_o magistrate_n 3._o because_o they_o may_v soon_o espy_v they_o in_o their_o house_n than_o magistrate_n in_o the_o commonwealth_n 4._o because_o they_o may_v be_v much_o more_o easy_o keep_v out_o of_o a_o house_n than_o out_o of_o a_o commonwealth_n or_o a_o city_n 2._o other_o care_v not_o whither_o their_o wife_n wander_v and_o if_o they_o suffer_v do_v go_v out_o of_o their_o house_n they_o shall_v never_o be_v seek_v after_o by_o their_o list_v husband_n though_o this_o may_v be_v a_o just_a punishment_n on_o wander_a wife_n yet_o be_v it_o not_o just_a for_o husband_n so_o to_o deal_v with_o they_o if_o christ_n our_o husband_n shall_v so_o deal_v with_o we_o we_o shall_v soon_o be_v lose_v for_o we_o oft_o go_v astray_o like_o wander_a sheep_n but_o he_o be_v that_o good_a shepherd_n who_o seek_v after_o the_o lose_a sheep_n until_o he_o 4._o find_v it_o 3._o no_o marvel_n then_o that_o many_o husband_n be_v no_o more_o affect_v wife_n with_o the_o ill_a report_n and_o rumour_n raise_v against_o their_o wife_n when_o they_o so_o little_a regard_n who_o come_v to_o they_o or_o whither_o they_o go_v assure_o the_o discredit_n of_o a_o wife_n will_v turn_v to_o the_o man_n dishonour_n for_o as_o a_o virtuous_a wife_n be_v a_o crown_n to_o her_o husband_n so_o by_o the_o 4._o rule_n of_o contrary_n a_o infamous_a wife_n be_v a_o shame_n to_o her_o husband_n if_o therefore_o not_o for_o his_o wife_n sake_n yet_o for_o his_o own_o sake_n a_o man_n ought_v not_o too_o careless_o pass_v over_o the_o ill_a report_n which_o be_v raise_v against_o his_o wife_n 4._o there_o be_v such_o unkind_a husband_n as_o be_v move_v with_o no_o ill_a misuse_v usage_n do_v unto_o their_o wife_n nor_o will_v hear_v any_o complaint_n that_o they_o make_v unto_o they_o yea_o if_o they_o see_v they_o misuse_v they_o will_v either_o not_o seem_v to_o see_v it_o or_o but_o smile_n at_o it_o and_o so_o go_v their_o way_n and_o suffer_v their_o wife_n to_o right_v themselves_o as_o well_o as_o they_o can_v as_o this_o beseem_v not_o any_o christian_n to_o suffer_v his_o neighbour_n to_o be_v wrong_v for_o it_o be_v note_v as_o a_o commendable_a matter_n in_o moses_n that_o 13._o when_o he_o see_v two_o hebrew_n strive_v together_o he_o take_v his_o part_n that_o have_v wrong_o do_v to_o he_o and_o reprove_v the_o other_o so_o much_o â—esse_o a_o husband_n to_o who_o safeguard_n his_o wife_n be_v commit_v nature_n teach_v we_o that_o the_o head_n be_v as_o much_o affect_v with_o a_o wrong_a â—one_n to_o the_o body_n as_o to_o itself_o so_o ought_v a_o husband_n wife_n 5._o as_o the_o wrong_n which_o be_v do_v by_o those_o who_o be_v in_o subjection_n â—n_o the_o house_n under_o the_o wife_n be_v great_a than_o that_o which_o be_v do_v by_o stranger_n so_o be_v the_o husband_n fault_n the_o great_a in_o suffer_v it_o for_o â—e_n have_v more_o power_n over_o they_o in_o his_o house_n then_o over_o other_o cit_fw-la what_o then_o may_v we_o think_v of_o such_o as_o either_o by_o their_o connivance_n â—r_o by_o take_v part_n against_o their_o wife_n suffer_v both_o child_n and_o servant_n to_o insult_v over_o they_o assure_o those_o husband_n themselves_o will_v find_v some_o smack_n of_o the_o bitter_a and_o evil_a fruit_n thereof_o use_v that_o not_o only_o by_o that_o great_a discontent_n which_o their_o wife_n must_v â—eeds_o take_v thereat_o but_o also_o by_o that_o contempt_n which_o will_v follow_v on_o their_o own_o person_n both_o by_o their_o wife_n who_o can_v think_v they_o meet_v head_n to_o govern_v other_o but_o also_o by_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n who_o thereby_o will_v take_v occasion_n to_o wax_v proud_a and_o presumptuous_a against_o he_o by_o despise_v the_o weak_a man_n grow_v by_o little_a and_o little_a to_o despise_v the_o strong_a this_o man_n of_o wisdom_n and_o experience_n well_o know_v whereupon_o in_o commonwealth_n and_o policy_n govern_v by_o wise_a man_n the_o authority_n of_o inferior_a magistrate_n be_v uphold_v and_o maintain_v superior_a magistrate_n will_v not_o suffer_v they_o who_o be_v in_o authority_n under_o they_o to_o be_v despise_v for_o it_o be_v well_o know_v that_o it_o tend_v not_o to_o the_o honour_n and_o ease_v only_o but_o to_o the_o safety_n also_o of_o the_o supreme_a magistrate_n to_o have_v the_o power_n and_o authority_n of_o inferior_a magistrate_n respect_v and_o not_o trample_v under_o foot_n it_o argue_v therefore_o both_o want_n of_o affection_n and_o of_o discretion_n and_o understanding_n in_o husband_n to_o suffer_v child_n servant_n or_o any_o other_o in_o the_o house_n to_o insult_v over_o their_o wife_n who_o be_v joint_a governor_n with_o they_o over_o the_o house_n §._o 61._o of_o a_o husband_n first_o beginning_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n the_o general_a matter_n together_o with_o the_o particular_a kind_n of_o husband_n duty_n be_v thus_o far_o handle_v the_o manner_n also_o of_o perform_v they_o be_v to_o be_v deliver_v to_o instruct_v a_o husband_n in_o the_o manner_n of_o perform_v his_o duty_n to_o his_o wife_n the_o apostle_n lay_v down_o two_o pattern_n 1._o christ_n vers_fw-la 25._o 2._o ourselves_o vers_fw-la 28._o  _fw-fr as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n and_o as_o we_o love_v ourselves_o so_o must_v man_n love_v their_o wife_n that_o we_o may_v the_o better_o follow_v these_o pattern_n we_o must_v distinct_o note_v how_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n and_o how_o we_o church_n love_v ourselves_o the_o love_n of_o christ_n to_o his_o church_n be_v commend_v unto_o we_o in_o six_o several_a