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stock_n or_o though_o he_o be_v her_o prentice_n or_o bondslave_n which_o also_o hold_v in_o the_o case_n betwixt_o a_o age_a woman_n and_o a_o youth_n for_o the_o scripture_n have_v make_v no_o exception_n in_o any_o of_o those_o case_n 2._o object_n but_o what_o if_o a_o man_n of_o lewd_a and_o beastly_a condition_n as_o a_o drunkard_n a_o glutton_n a_o profane_a swaggerer_n a_o impious_a swearer_n and_o blasphemer_n be_v marry_v to_o a_o wife_n sober_a religious_a matron_n must_v she_o account_v he_o her_o superior_a and_o worthy_a of_o a_o husband_n honour_n answ_n sure_o she_o must_v for_o the_o evil_a quality_n and_o disposition_n quality_n of_o his_o heart_n and_o life_n do_v not_o deprive_v a_o man_n of_o that_o civil_a honour_n which_o god_n have_v give_v unto_o he_o though_o a_o husband_n in_o regard_n of_o evil_a quality_n may_v carry_v the_o image_n of_o the_o devil_n yet_o in_o regard_n of_o his_o place_n and_o office_n he_o bear_v the_o â—mage_n of_o god_n so_o do_v magistrate_n in_o the_o commonwealth_n minister_n in_o the_o church_n parent_n and_o master_n in_o the_o family_n note_v for_o our_o present_a purpose_n the_o exhortation_n of_o s._n peter_n to_o christian_a wife_n which_o have_v infidel_n husband_n 2._o be_v in_o subjection_n to_o they_o let_v your_o conversation_n be_v in_o fear_n if_o infidel_n carry_v â—ot_n the_o devil_n image_n and_o be_v not_o so_o long_o as_o they_o be_v infidel_n vassal_n of_o satan_n who_o be_v yet_o wife_n must_v be_v subject_a to_o they_o and_o fear_v they_o §._o 6._o of_o wife_n deny_v honour_n to_o their_o own_o husband_n contrary_n thereunto_o be_v a_o very_a perverse_a disposition_n in_o some_o own_o wife_n who_o think_v they_o can_v better_o subject_v themselves_o to_o any_o husband_n than_o their_o own_o though_o in_o general_n they_o acknowledge_v that_o a_o husband_n be_v his_o wife_n superior_a yet_o when_o the_o application_n come_v to_o themselves_o they_o fail_v and_o can_v be_v bring_v to_o yield_v that_o they_o be_v their_o husband_n inferior_n this_o be_v a_o vice_n worse_o than_o the_o former_a for_o to_o acknowledge_v no_o husband_n to_o be_v superior_a over_o his_o wife_n but_o to_o think_v man_n and_o wife_n in_o all_o thing_n equal_a may_v proceed_v from_o ignorance_n of_o hind_n and_o error_n of_o judgement_n but_o for_o a_o wife_n who_o know_v and_o acknowledge_v the_o general_a that_o a_o husband_n be_v above_o his_o wife_n to_o imagine_v that_o she_o herself_o be_v not_o inferior_a to_o her_o husband_n arise_v from_o monstrous_a self-conceit_n and_o intolerable_a arrogancy_n as_o if_o she_o herself_o be_v above_o she_o own_o sex_n and_o â—ore_o than_o a_o woman_n contrary_n also_o be_v the_o practice_n of_o such_o 9_o woman_n as_o purposely_o â—ary_a man_n of_o far_o low_a rank_n than_o themselves_o for_o this_o very_a end_n that_o they_o may_v rule_v over_o their_o own_o husband_n and_o of_o other_o who_o be_v ibid._n age_v for_o that_o end_n marry_fw-mi youth_n if_o not_o very_a boy_n a_o mind_n and_o practice_v very_o unseemly_a and_o clean_v wart_v god_n ordinance_n but_o let_v they_o think_v of_o rule_v 7._o what_o they_o list_v the_o truth_n be_v that_o they_o make_v themselves_o and_o both_o by_o god_n law_n and_o man_n of_o which_o subjection_n such_o wife_n do_v oft_o feel_v the_o heavy_a burden_n solomon_n note_v this_o to_o be_v one_o of_o the_o thing_n for_o which_o the_o earth_n be_v disquiet_v when_o 22._o a_o servant_n reign_v now_o when_o can_v a_o servant_n more_o domineer_v then_o when_o he_o have_v marry_v his_o mistress_n as_o for_o age_a woman_n who_o be_v marry_v to_o youth_n i_o may_v say_v as_o in_o another_o case_n it_o be_v say_v woe_n to_o thou_o o_o wife_n who_o husband_n be_v a_o child_n unmeet_a it_o be_v 16._o that_o a_o age_a man_n shall_v be_v marry_v to_o a_o young_a maid_n but_o much_o more_o unmeet_a for_o a_o age_a woman_n to_o be_v marry_v to_o a_o youth_n §._o 7._o of_o a_o wife_n 11_o inward_a fear_n of_o her_o husband_n hitherto_o of_o a_o wife_n acknowledgement_n of_o her_o husband_n superiority_n it_o follow_v to_o speak_v of_o that_o answerable_a respect_n which_o she_o ought_v to_o bear_v towards_o he_o a_o wive-like_a respect_n of_o her_o husband_n consist_v in_o two_o point_n 1._o reverence_n 2._o obedience_n  _fw-fr the_o reverence_n which_o she_o owe_v to_o he_o be_v fear_n 1._o inward_a 2._o outward_a  _fw-fr inward_a reverence_n be_v a_o awful_a respect_n which_o a_o wife_n in_o her_o heart_n have_v of_o her_o husband_n esteem_v he_o worthy_a of_o all_o honour_n for_o his_o place_n and_o office_n sake_n because_o he_o be_v her_o husband_n doubtless_o sarah_n have_v in_o her_o heart_n a_o reverend_a respect_n and_o honourable_a esteem_n of_o her_o husband_n when_o 12._o be_v alone_o and_o think_v of_o he_o in_o her_o very_a thought_n she_o give_v he_o this_o title_n lord._n this_o inward_a reverence_n the_o scripture_n comprise_v under_o this_o word_n fear_v as_o where_o our_o apostle_n say_v 〈◊〉_d let_v the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o fear_v her_o husband_n and_o where_o 〈◊〉_d s._n peter_n exhort_v wife_n to_o have_v their_o conversation_n in_o fear_n it_o be_v no_o slavish_a fear_n of_o her_o husband_n which_o ought_v to_o possess_v the_o heart_n of_o a_o wife_n dread_v blow_n frown_n spiteful_a word_n or_o the_o like_a but_o such_o a_o awful_a respect_n of_o he_o as_o make_v she_o to_o use_v the_o apostle_n word_n 34._o care_v how_o she_o may_v please_v he_o this_o wive-like_a fear_n be_v manifest_v by_o two_o effect_n one_o be_v joy_n when_o she_o give_v contentment_n to_o her_o husband_n and_o observe_v he_o to_o be_v please_v with_o that_o which_o she_o do_v the_o other_o be_v grief_n when_o he_o be_v just_o offend_v and_o grieve_a especial_o with_o any_o thing_n that_o she_o herself_o have_v do_v unless_o this_o inward_a reverence_n and_o due_a respect_n of_o a_o husband_n duty_n be_v first_o place_v in_o the_o heart_n of_o a_o wife_n either_o no_o outward_a reverence_n and_o obedience_n will_v be_v perform_v at_o all_o or_o if_o it_o be_v perform_v it_o will_v be_v very_o unsound_a only_o in_o show_n hypocritical_a and_o deceitful_a so_o that_o as_o good_a never_o a_o whit_n as_o never_o the_o better_a for_o according_a to_o one_o inward_a affection_n and_o disposition_n will_v the_o outward_a action_n and_o conversation_n be_v frame_v 16._o michal_n first_o despise_v david_n in_o her_o heart_n and_o thence_o it_o follow_v that_o she_o heart_n utteredmost_fw-mi unreverend_a and_o vile_a speech_n of_o he_o even_o to_o his_o face_n wherefore_o after_o the_o judgement_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v right_o inform_v of_o a_o husband_n superiority_n and_o her_o will_n persuade_v to_o account_v she_o own_o husband_n her_o head_n and_o guide_v it_o be_v very_o needful_a that_o her_o heart_n and_o affection_n be_v according_o season_v with_o the_o salt_n of_o good_a respect_n and_o high_a esteem_n which_o breed_v fear_n and_o that_o thus_o her_o heart_n may_v be_v season_v she_o ought_v oft_o and_o serious_o to_o meditate_v of_o his_o place_n and_o office_n and_o of_o that_o honour_n which_o the_o lord_n by_o virtue_n thereof_o have_v plant_v in_o he_o and_o if_o he_o have_v gift_n worthy_a his_o place_n as_o knowledge_n wisdom_n piety_n temperance_n love_n and_o the_o like_a she_o ought_v to_o take_v notice_n thereof_o and_o to_o think_v he_o worthy_a of_o double_a honour_n §._o 8._o of_o a_o wife_n base_a esteem_n of_o her_o husband_n contrary_n to_o this_o inward_a reverence_n of_o the_o heart_n be_v a_o base_a and_o wile_n esteem_v which_o many_o have_v of_o their_o husband_n think_v no_o better_a of_o they_o then_o of_o other_o man_n nay_o worse_o than_o of_o other_o despise_v their_o husband_n in_o their_o heart_n like_o michal_n of_o who_o we_o hear_v before_o this_o as_o it_o be_v in_o itself_o a_o vile_a vice_n so_o be_v â—t_a a_o cause_n of_o many_o other_o vice_n as_o of_o presumption_n rebellion_n ariseth_z yea_o and_o of_o adultery_n itself_o many_o time_n and_o it_o be_v also_o a_o main_a hindrance_n of_o all_o duty_n it_o common_o rise_v either_o from_o self-conceit_n whereby_o wife_n overween_v their_o own_o gift_n think_v they_o so_o excellent_a self-conceit_n be_v they_o need_v no_o guide_n or_o head_n but_o be_v rather_o fit_a to_o guide_v and_o rule_v both_o their_o husband_n and_o all_o the_o household_n of_o which_o proud_a and_o presumptuous_a spirit_n jezabel_n seem_v to_o be_v who_o with_o a_o audacious_a and_o impudent_a face_n say_v to_o ahab_n her_o husband_n 7._o do_v thou_o now_o govern_v the_o kingdom_n of_o israel_n up_o i_o will_v give_v thou_o the_o vineyard_n of_o naboth_n so_o also_o all_o those_o wife_n which_o be_v note_v to_o draw_v away_o their_o husband_n heart_n from_o the_o
opprobrious_a and_o ignominious_a word_n quest_n what_o if_o her_o fault_n be_v a_o heinous_a notorious_a sin_n answ_n in_o a_o extraordinary_a case_n some_o sharpness_n may_v be_v 10._o use_v as_o the_o reproof_n of_o jaakob_n job_n and_o david_n do_v show_v for_o they_o be_v every_o one_o of_o they_o sharp_a but_o yet_o this_o sharpness_n must_v not_o be_v make_v bitter_a by_o any_o evil_a language_n a_o woman_n wickedness_n may_v not_o move_v a_o husband_n to_o be_v froward_a and_o passion_n outrageous_a but_o rather_o to_o be_v the_o more_o watchful_a over_o himself_o that_o he_o contain_v himself_o within_o the_o bound_n of_o discretion_n and_o moderation_n for_o which_o end_n it_o be_v meet_v that_o husband_n lay_v it_o down_o for_o a_o rule_n never_o to_o rebuke_v their_o wife_n when_o they_o be_v in_o passion_n passion_n raise_v a_o dark_a mist_n before_o the_o eye_n of_o reason_n which_o while_o it_o remain_v keep_v reason_n from_o give_v any_o good_a direction_n yea_o passion_n be_v as_o a_o fire_n and_o it_o so_o incense_v a_o man_n and_o distemper_v he_o that_o in_o his_o disorder_n he_o can_v keep_v no_o mean_a or_o measure_n howsoever_o a_o man_n be_v not_o able_a to_o rule_v himself_o when_o passion_n be_v stir_v up_o yet_o if_o before_o hand_n while_o his_o eye_n be_v single_a and_o his_o whole_a body_n light_n while_o he_o be_v in_o tune_n as_o we_o 22._o speak_v and_o well_o temper_v he_o resolve_o determine_v with_o himself_o not_o to_o do_v such_o or_o such_o a_o thing_n in_o his_o passion_n that_o foregoing_a resolution_n will_v be_v a_o especial_a mean_n to_o make_v he_o forbear_v do_v that_o in_o passion_n which_o if_o he_o shall_v do_v he_o can_v not_o in_o passion_n well_o order_n and_o moderate_v for_o if_o once_o he_o begin_v to_o do_v a_o thing_n in_o passion_n the_o least_o provocation_n that_o can_v be_v will_v be_v as_o bellows_n to_o blow_v up_o that_o fire_n into_o a_o flame_n in_o regard_n of_o the_o violence_n of_o passion_n wherein_o woman_n by_o passion_n reason_n of_o the_o weakness_n of_o their_o judgement_n be_v for_o the_o most_o part_n most_o violent_a it_o be_v also_o the_o part_n of_o a_o wise_a man_n to_o forbear_v this_o duty_n of_o reprove_v his_o wife_n even_o when_o she_o be_v in_o passion_n for_o as_o it_o be_v needful_a that_o he_o shall_v be_v in_o case_n well_o to_o give_v a_o reproof_n so_o as_o needful_a it_o be_v that_o she_o shall_v be_v in_o case_n well_o to_o take_v a_o rebuke_n passion_n both_o fill_v and_o fester_v one_o heart_n the_o heart_n then_o be_v full_a of_o passion_n what_o room_n be_v leave_v for_o good_a advice_n will_v a_o man_n powre_fw-fr wine_n into_o a_o vessel_n full_a of_o water_n or_o stay_v till_o all_o the_o water_n be_v drean_v out_o the_o heart_n also_o be_v so_o fester_v as_o it_o savour_v of_o nothing_o but_o passion_n what_o good_a can_v then_o good_a advice_n do_v it_o be_v therefore_o a_o especial_a point_n of_o wisdom_n and_o show_v a_o good_a respect_n that_o a_o man_n bear_v to_o his_o wife_n yea_o it_o savour_v of_o much_o meekness_n and_o moderation_n for_o a_o husband_n well_o to_o weigh_v both_o his_o own_o and_o his_o wife_n temper_n when_o he_o reprove_v she_o and_o to_o forbear_v do_v it_o while_o either_o he_o or_o she_o be_v in_o passion_n §._o 39_o of_o undiscreet_a reprove_v a_o wife_n contrary_n be_v the_o indiscretion_n of_o husband_n who_o regard_n nor_o place_n nor_o person_n nor_o time_n nor_o temper_n of_o themselves_o or_o their_o wife_n nor_o any_o other_o circumstance_n in_o reprove_v but_o like_o saul_n who_o at_o a_o table_n where_o a_o great_a feast_n be_v in_o presence_n of_o his_o noble_n and_o captain_n when_o he_o be_v enrage_v with_o anger_n with_o most_o virulent_a and_o bitter_a speech_n not_o rebuke_v only_o but_o reproach_v also_o his_o son_n and_o that_o with_o such_o word_n as_o he_o spare_v not_o his_o own_o wife_n for_o in_o his_o passion_n he_o call_v his_o son_n son_n 30._o of_o the_o perverse_a rebellious_a woman_n like_o this_o foolish_a and_o furious_a saul_n i_o say_v they_o take_v the_o most_o open_a place_n of_o the_o family_n before_o child_n servant_n and_o whole_a house_n to_o reprove_v their_o wife_n and_o that_o with_o such_o bitter_a and_o disgraceful_a term_n as_o either_o they_o provoke_v their_o wife_n to_o answer_v again_o for_o maintain_v as_o they_o think_v their_o own_o credit_n and_o reputation_n thus_o jonathan_n 32._o be_v provoke_v to_o answer_v his_o father_n again_o or_o else_o give_v they_o of_o the_o house_n that_o behold_v she_o thus_o trample_v under_o foot_n occasion_n to_o set_v their_o foot_n also_o upon_o she_o most_o husband_n be_v forward_o enough_o to_o reprove_v but_o few_o do_v it_o in_o meekness_n and_o moderation_n they_o can_v do_v it_o but_o in_o company_n nor_o without_o bitter_a word_n many_o in_o rebuke_v their_o wife_n stick_v not_o to_o use_v all_o the_o evil_a term_n that_o they_o can_v think_v of_o even_o such_o as_o tend_v not_o only_o to_o their_o wife_n dishonour_n but_o also_o to_o their_o own_o and_o their_o child_n infamy_n the_o reason_n whereof_o be_v because_o they_o never_o rebuke_v but_o when_o they_o be_v in_o passion_n and_o so_o scarce_o know_v what_o they_o do_v whereby_o also_o they_o stir_v up_o passion_n in_o their_o wife_n and_o yet_o for_o all_o that_o refrain_v not_o any_o whit_n the_o more_o but_o rather_o grow_v more_o violent_a as_o when_o the_o heat_n of_o two_o fire_n meet_v together_o the_o flame_n must_v needs_o be_v the_o great_a this_o be_v the_o preposterous_a practice_n of_o many_o husband_n be_v it_o any_o marvel_n that_o ordinary_o so_o little_a good_a and_o so_o much_o hurt_v be_v do_v by_o reprove_v nay_o will_v it_o not_o be_v a_o wonder_n if_o any_o good_a and_o no_o hurt_n shall_v be_v do_v thereby_o this_o therefore_o though_o it_o be_v a_o duty_n yet_o a_o duty_n rare_o and_o with_o great_a moderation_n to_o be_v use_v thus_o far_o of_o a_o husband_n mildness_n in_o his_o speech_n to_o his_o wife_n §._o 40._o of_o a_o husband_n 10._o amiable_a countenance_n towards_o his_o wife_n a_o husband_n carriage_n towards_o his_o wife_n must_v be_v answerable_a mild_a to_o his_o speech_n or_o else_o all_o the_o mildness_n thereof_o will_v seem_v but_o complemental_a a_o man_n carriage_n comprise_v under_o it_o his_o countenance_n gesture_n action_n in_o all_o which_o must_v mildness_n be_v seat_v 1._o his_o countenance_n in_o his_o wife_n presence_n and_o towards_o his_o countenance_n wife_n must_v be_v compose_v to_o a_o amiable_a pleasantness_n his_o authority_n over_o she_o and_o eminency_n above_o she_o may_v not_o make_v he_o forget_v the_o near_a conjunction_n and_o union_n betwixt_o they_o under_o the_o face_n and_o countenance_n i_o comprise_v head_n brow_n eye_n lip_n and_o such_o other_o part_n which_o be_v according_a as_o they_o be_v frame_v sign_n of_o amiableness_n or_o discontentednesse_n now_o among_o and_o above_o other_o part_n of_o the_o body_n the_o outward_a composition_n of_o the_o countenance_n do_v soon_a and_o best_a declare_v the_o inward_a disposition_n of_o the_o heart_n by_o esau_n pleasant_a countenance_n jaakob_n perceive_v that_o he_o be_v pacify_v in_o his_o heart_n towards_o he_o and_o thereupon_o say_v i_o have_v see_v thy_o face_n as_o though_o i_o have_v 10._o see_v the_o face_n of_o god_n that_o be_v a_o amiable_a gracious_a countenance_n on_o this_o ground_n david_n desire_v god_n to_o lift_v up_o the_o light_n of_o his_o 6._o countenance_n upon_o he_o that_o thereby_o he_o may_v know_v the_o favour_n and_o love_n of_o god_n towards_o he_o on_o the_o other_o side_n by_o a_o frown_a and_o lower_a face_n by_o hang_v down_o the_o head_n put_v out_o the_o lip_n with_o the_o like_a anger_n malice_n grief_n with_o other_o like_a affection_n of_o heart_n be_v manifest_v by_o cain_n cast_v down_o 6._o of_o his_o countenance_n god_n discern_v anger_n and_o envy_n to_o be_v in_o his_o heart_n by_o laban_n countenance_n jaakob_n observe_v that_o his_o affection_n 2._o be_v turn_v from_o he_o a_o wife_n then_o behold_v mildness_n and_o amiableness_n in_o her_o husband_n face_n behold_v it_o as_o the_o face_n of_o god_n and_o therein_o as_o in_o a_o look_a glass_n behold_v the_o kindness_n and_o love_n of_o his_o heart_n and_o so_o have_v her_o heart_n thereby_o the_o more_o firm_o knit_v unto_o he_o and_o be_v move_v the_o more_o to_o respect_v he_o §._o 41._o of_o husband_n too_o great_a austerity_n contrary_n be_v 1._o a_o lofty_a proud_a countenance_n as_o of_o a_o imperious_a brow_n lord_n over_o his_o vassal_n 2._o a_o grim_a stern_a countenance_n as_o of_o a_o judge_n over_o poor_a prisoner_n look_n 3._o a_o lower_a frown_a countenance_n as_o of_o a_o discontent_a
spot_n he_o do_v therefore_o no_o way_n pollute_v or_o defile_v his_o spouse_n and_o that_o his_o love_n may_v the_o better_o appear_v to_o be_v chaste_a love_n cast_v only_o upon_o one_o spouse_n and_o not_o many_o he_o unite_v all_o his_o saint_n together_o by_o the_o 13_o bond_n of_o his_o spirit_n and_o make_v they_o all_o one_o body_n hereby_o husband_n must_v learn_v so_o to_o be_v affect_v towards_o 4._o their_o wife_n as_o may_v stand_v with_o holiness_n and_o chastity_n though_o much_o love_n be_v require_v yet_o it_o may_v not_o overflowe_v those_o bank_n marriage_n be_v honourable_a and_o a_o bed_n undefiled_a it_o must_v therefore_o be_v use_v as_o a_o undefiled_a thing_n this_o indeed_o appertain_v to_o the_o wife_n as_o well_o as_o to_o the_o husband_n but_o because_o he_o be_v the_o head_n and_o guide_v of_o his_o wife_n and_o aught_o to_o be_v as_o a_o pattern_n and_o precedent_n before_o she_o as_o christ_n be_v before_o he_o therefore_o be_v it_o more_o special_o apply_v to_o he_o the_o purity_n of_o a_o husband_n love_n here_o speak_v of_o have_v a_o double_a use_n 1._o it_o restrain_v a_o husband_n love_n to_o his_o own_o wife_n there_o be_v a_o general_a christian_a love_n whereby_o all_o occasion_n of_o do_v good_a be_v take_v with_o which_o a_o husband_n may_v and_o aught_o to_o love_v other_o and_o a_o particular_a matrimonial_a love_n whereby_o he_o be_v move_v to_o prefer_v his_o wife_n before_o all_o and_o to_o have_v his_o heart_n set_v and_o fix_v on_o she_o and_o so_o proper_a and_o peculiar_a to_o she_o 2._o it_o order_n and_o moderate_v his_o love_n so_o as_o it_o turn_v not_o into_o sinful_a lust_n whereby_o that_o estate_n which_o in_o itself_o by_o virtue_n of_o god_n ordinance_n be_v holy_a be_v pollute_v §._o 68_o of_o husband_n lightness_n contrary_a be_v not_o only_a adultery_n whereof_o we_o have_v speak_v 8._o before_o but_o also_o wantonness_n lightness_n and_o uncleanness_n with_o his_o wife_n for_o many_o intemperate_a and_o unchaste_a husband_n give_v the_o reins_n to_o their_o headstrong_a lust_n manifest_a as_o much_o unseemlinesse_n and_o plain_a filthiness_n in_o their_o word_n gesture_n and_o action_n to_o say_v nothing_o of_o their_o thought_n which_o be_v not_o see_v to_o their_o wife_n as_o other_o do_v to_o strumpet_n and_o harlot_n which_o be_v a_o most_o shameless_a thing_n and_o i_o be_o even_o ashamed_a â—_o mention_v but_o because_o it_o be_v mention_v let_v such_o know_v thâ—_n they_o shall_v be_v account_v among_o such_o whoremonger_n and_o adulâ—rers_n 4._o as_o god_n will_v judge_v §._o 69._o of_o husband_n love_v their_o wife_n more_o than_o themselves_o the_o quantity_n of_o christ_n love_n can_v be_v express_v for_o the_o himself_o measure_n of_o it_o be_v above_o measure_n 25._o he_o give_v himself_o for_o his_o church_n and_o in_o that_o respect_n he_o call_v himself_o that_o 11._o good_a shepherd_n that_o give_v his_o life_n for_o his_o sheep_n 13._o great_a love_n than_o this_o have_v no_o man_n what_o will_v not_o he_o do_v for_o his_o spouse_n that_o give_v his_o life_n for_o she_o this_o may_v seem_v to_o be_v too_o high_a a_o strain_n and_o pitch_n of_o love_n for_o a_o husband_n to_o attain_v unto_o a_o matter_n wherein_o he_o be_v to_o 16._o â—eave_v his_o pattern_n and_o not_o to_o follow_v christ_n but_o yet_o s._n john_n add_v even_o this_o extent_n to_o the_o love_n of_o our_o brethren_n we_o ought_v say_v he_o to_o lay_v down_o our_o life_n for_o the_o brethren_n therefore_o by_o â—ust_z consequence_n for_o our_o wife_n but_o that_o this_o extent_n be_v not_o stretch_v too_o far_o and_o husband_n cast_v into_o a_o pit_n of_o needless_a peril_n two_o caution_n must_v be_v note_v 1._o that_o there_o be_v a_o absolute_a necessity_n to_o bring_v we_o to_o this_o himself_o â—raite_n of_o part_v with_o our_o life_n which_o be_v when_o the_o good_a we_o â—ime_v at_o in_o the_o behalf_n of_o our_o wife_n can_v any_o other_o way_n be_v â—ffected_v but_o by_o venture_v our_o life_n there_o be_v no_o other_o way_n â—â—_o redeem_v the_o church_n but_o by_o the_o blood_n of_o christ_n 2._o that_o the_o good_a we_o intend_v in_o this_o case_n to_o our_o wife_n be_v of_o â—reater_a value_n than_o our_o temporal_a life_n as_o be_v the_o good_a of_o her_o â—ule_n the_o save_n of_o it_o thus_o the_o apostle_n say_v i_o will_v most_o glad_o bestow_v for_o your_o soul_n which_o mind_n man_n must_v much_o more_o 15._o â—rie_a towards_o their_o wife_n it_o be_v for_o our_o salvation_n that_o christ_n â—ue_v himself_o §._o 70._o of_o husband_n unkindness_n contrary_n be_v their_o unkindness_n that_o prefer_v every_o trifle_n of_o â—â—eir_n own_o before_o the_o good_a of_o their_o wife_n their_o profit_n their_o â—easure_n their_o promotion_n clean_o draw_v away_o their_o heart_n and_o affection_n from_o their_o wife_n if_o any_o extraordinary_a charge_n must_v â—_o lay_v out_o or_o pain_n take_v for_o their_o wife_n good_a little_a love_n â—ll_v then_o appear_v whereby_o it_o appear_v that_o there_o be_v no_o true_a use_v sound_a love_n settle_v in_o their_o heart_n towards_o their_o wife_n as_o â—ld_v and_o other_o like_a metal_n be_v try_v by_o the_o fire_n so_o love_v by_o eviction_n and_o cross_n §._o 71._o of_o combat_n in_o pretence_n of_o wife_n honour_n contrary_n in_o another_o extreme_a be_v the_o overbold_a and_o over-heady_a pretend_a manhood_n of_o such_o husband_n as_o upon_o every_o jealous_a surmise_n and_o sleight_n report_n be_v ready_a to_o make_v challenge_n of_o fight_n and_o to_o enter_v into_o single_a combat_n and_o duel_n on_o pretence_n of_o maintain_v their_o wife_n honour_n this_o be_v no_o warrantable_a course_n of_o right_v a_o wrong_n no_o honour_n can_v redound_v to_o the_o wife_n thereby_o but_o much_o dishonour_n and_o danger_n to_o the_o husband_n if_o he_o prevail_v over_o his_o adversary_n and_o kill_v he_o be_v make_v guilty_a of_o murder_n thereby_o and_o so_o reproach_n and_o shame_n must_v needs_o come_v to_o himself_o wife_n and_o whole_a family_n if_o he_o be_v overcome_v and_o slay_v she_o may_v be_v repute_v more_o guilty_a than_o she_o be_v before_o and_o oft_o it_o fall_v out_o that_o god_n in_o just_a judgement_n give_v over_o the_o challenger_n into_o his_o adversary_n hand_n because_o he_o have_v undertake_v so_o indirect_a a_o course_n §._o 72._o of_o husband_n perpetual_a constancy_n in_o love_n vi_o the_o continuance_n of_o christ_n love_n be_v without_o date_n 1._o have_v love_v his_o own_o he_o love_v they_o unto_o the_o end_n his_o love_n be_v constant_a not_o by_o fit_n now_o love_v then_o hate_v and_o 19_o everlasting_a never_o repent_v thereof_o never_o change_v or_o alter_v his_o mind_n no_o provocation_n no_o transgression_n can_v ever_o make_v he_o forget_v to_o love_n and_o cease_v to_o do_v that_o good_a which_o he_o intend_v for_o his_o church_n note_v what_o he_o say_v to_o she_o even_o when_o she_o revoult_v from_o he_o thou_o have_v play_v the_o harlot_n with_o many_o 15._o lover_n yet_o return_v again_o to_o i_o and_o again_o my_o mercy_n shall_v not_o depart_v away_o for_o his_o love_n rest_v not_o on_o the_o desert_n of_o his_o church_n but_o on_o the_o unchangeableness_n of_o his_o own_o will_n as_o this_o manifest_a christ_n love_n to_o be_v true_a sound_a love_n so_o it_o make_v it_o profitable_a and_o beneficial_a to_o the_o church_n which_o notwithstanding_o her_o many_o frailty_n by_o virtue_n hereof_o be_v glorify_v this_o last_o branch_n must_v be_v add_v to_o all_o the_o former_a branch_n love_n of_o a_o husband_n love_n or_o else_o they_o will_v be_v all_o in_o vain_a and_o to_o no_o purpose_n this_o give_v the_o true_a trial_n of_o sound_a love_n such_o be_v the_o love_n betwixt_o david_n and_o jonathan_n the_o sound_a love_n that_o ever_o be_v betwixt_o party_n and_o party_n this_o bring_v the_o great_a glory_n to_o the_o party_n which_o love_v and_o the_o great_a benefit_n to_o the_o party_n which_o be_v love_v that_o a_o man_n love_n may_v thus_o remain_v firm_a and_o inviolable_a 1._o he_o must_v be_v sure_a to_o lay_v a_o good_a foundation_n he_o must_v ground_v his_o love_n on_o god_n ordinance_n and_o love_v his_o wife_n in_o regard_n of_o the_o matrimonial_a bond_n which_o knit_v they_o together_o and_o that_o near_a union_n which_o thence_o arise_v and_o so_o it_o will_v last_v so_o long_o as_o that_o knot_n last_v 2._o he_o must_v further_o support_v and_o strengthen_v it_o with_o a_o inviolable_a resolution_n to_o be_v change_v and_o alter_v with_o no_o provocation_n but_o rather_o to_o pass_v by_o all_o infirmity_n endeavour_v in_o love_n to_o redress_v they_o if_o possible_o he_o can_v if_o not_o to_o bear_v with_o they_o §._o 73._o of_o husband_n variableness_n contrary_n be_v their_o
hereof_o as_o 2._o abraham_n 28._o isaack_n ibid._n rebekahs_n and_o other_o great_a reason_n there_o be_v why_o this_o affection_n shall_v be_v fast_o fix_v in_o the_o heart_n of_o parent_n towards_o their_o child_n for_o great_a be_v that_o pain_n pain_n cost_n and_o care_n which_o parent_n must_v undergo_v for_o their_o child_n but_o if_o love_n be_v in_o they_o no_o pain_n pain_n cost_n or_o care_n will_v seem_v too_o much_o herein_o appear_v the_o wise_a providence_n of_o god_n who_o by_o nature_n have_v so_o fast_o fix_v love_n in_o the_o heart_n of_o parent_n as_o if_o there_o be_v any_o in_o who_o it_o abound_v not_o he_o be_v count_v unnatural_a if_o love_n do_v not_o abound_v in_o parent_n many_o child_n will_v be_v neglect_v and_o lose_v for_o if_o parent_n look_v not_o to_o their_o child_n who_o will_n if_o none_o look_v to_o they_o they_o must_v needs_o perish_v for_o they_o be_v not_o able_a to_o help_v themselves_o as_o god_n by_o nature_n have_v plant_v love_n in_o 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many_o clean_a put_v it_o out_o through_o covetousness_n â—â—st_n vainglory_n superstition_n idolatry_n and_o other_o vice_n whereby_o it_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o in_o stead_n of_o the_o good_a which_o they_o â—ould_v do_v for_o their_o child_n they_o bring_v much_o mischief_n upon_o â—hem_n some_o spare_v not_o the_o precious_a life_n of_o their_o child_n among_o these_o barbarous_a idolater_n do_v most_o exceed_v in_o this_o kind_n of_o unnatural_a cruelty_n sacrifice_v their_o child_n and_o offer_v they_o up_o to_o devil_n to_o this_o the_o great_a bloodsucker_n satan_n of_o old_a bring_v not_o only_o the_o heathen_a who_o be_v ignorant_a of_o god_n do_v service_n to_o the_o devil_n but_o also_o the_o 20._o israelite_n to_o who_o jehovah_n the_o true_a god_n make_v himself_o know_v and_o express_o 21._o forbid_v this_o cruelty_n and_o that_o 2._o under_o pain_n of_o death_n behold_v how_o superstition_n and_o idolatry_n blind_v the_o eye_n of_o man_n 11._o they_o who_o have_v be_v among_o the_o savadges_n in_o virginea_fw-la florida_n india_n and_o other_o like_a place_n testify_v that_o such_o cruelty_n be_v use_v to_o this_o day_n and_o it_o be_v render_v as_o a_o main_a reason_n why_o notwithstanding_o such_o spacious_a place_n as_o they_o have_v they_o increase_v no_o more_o in_o multitude_n because_o many_o of_o their_o child_n from_o time_n to_o time_n be_v offer_v up_o in_o sacrifice_n reasonable_a man_n herein_o show_v themselves_o more_o unreasonable_a than_o unreasonable_a beast_n which_o do_v what_o possible_o they_o can_v to_o preserve_v their_o young_a one_o though_o not_o so_o high_a yet_o too_o high_a on_o this_o ladder_n of_o unnaturalness_n piety_n do_v they_o climb_v who_o hate_v their_o child_n and_o that_o which_o make_v the_o sin_n to_o be_v out_o of_o measure_n sinful_a for_o piety_n and_o integrity_n as_o many_o popish_a and_o profane_a parent_n who_o have_v child_n true_o religious_a and_o in_o that_o respect_n ought_v so_o much_o the_o more_o to_o be_v love_v the_o extreme_a in_o the_o excess_n be_v too_o much_o dote_v upon_o child_n child_n as_o they_o do_v who_o so_o unmeasurable_o love_v they_o as_o they_o make_v reckon_v of_o nothing_o in_o comparison_n of_o child_n even_o god_n himself_o be_v light_o esteem_v his_o worship_n neglect_v his_o word_n transgress_v all_o duty_n to_o other_o omit_v their_o own_o soul_n forget_v through_o care_n of_o child_n be_v not_o this_o meeâ—â—_n apish_a kindness_n for_o ape_n kill_v their_o young_a one_o with_o hug_v this_o be_v no_o love_n but_o plain_a dotage_n but_o what_o may_v be_v say_v of_o those_o that_o be_v so_o hellish_o enamour_v with_o their_o child_n as_o to_o commit_v incest_n or_o buggery_n with_o they_o §._o 4._o of_o parent_n pray_v for_o their_o child_n the_o first_o and_o best_a stream_n which_o issue_v out_o of_o the_o forename_a fountain_n of_o love_n be_v faithful_a and_o fervent_a prayer_n this_o extend_v itself_o to_o all_o thing_n at_o all_o 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coat_n but_o near_a be_v my_o skin_n god_n have_v wrought_v this_o natural_a affection_n in_o the_o several_a kind_n thereof_o and_o there_o be_v good_a end_n and_o use_v thereof_o it_o be_v not_o to_o be_v condemn_v §._o 58._o of_o spiritual_a self-love_n spiritual_a self-love_n be_v that_o which_o be_v supernatural_o wrought_v in_o man_n by_o god_n spirit_n whereby_o he_o be_v both_o enlighten_v to_o discern_v what_o be_v most_o excellent_a and_o best_a for_o he_o and_o also_o move_v to_o choose_v the_o same_o so_o as_o this_o serve_v to_o rectify_v the_o former_a hence_o it_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o their_o chief_a care_n be_v for_o their_o soul_n and_o for_o the_o eternal_a salvation_n thereof_o for_o the_o further_a whereof_o they_o can_v be_v content_a as_o need_n require_v to_o 27._o beat_v down_o their_o body_n to_o 27._o deny_v they_o sometime_o their_o ordinary_a refresh_n by_o food_n rest_z and_o other_o like_a mean_n yea_o and_o to_o 37._o suffer_v they_o to_o be_v 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show_v kindness_n to_o their_o own_o flesh_n no_o man_n may_v hide_v himself_o from_o his_o own_o flesh_n at_o large_a that_o be_v no_o man_n may_v neglect_v any_o duty_n of_o mercy_n or_o justice_n to_o his_o neighbour_n who_o be_v of_o the_o same_o stock_n that_o he_o be_v shall_v then_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n hide_v themselves_o from_o one_o another_o who_o in_o the_o near_a respect_n that_o possible_o can_v be_v be_v one_o flesh_n not_o because_o they_o come_v from_o one_o flesh_n but_o because_o they_o come_v 〈◊〉_d into_o one_o flesh_n hitherto_o of_o the_o literal_a sense_n of_o this_o verse_n the_o mystical_a follow_v §._o 85._o of_o the_o matrimonial_a conjunction_n of_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n the_o forename_a ancient_a marriage_n law_n be_v here_o apply_v mystical_o 24._o to_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n as_o be_v evident_a by_o the_o next_o verse_n where_o the_o apostle_n have_v reference_n to_o this_o verse_n say_v this_o be_v a_o great_a mystery_n there_o be_v 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be_v the_o lord_n that_o 〈◊〉_d say_v 30._o they_o that_o honour_v i_o will_v i_o honour_v god_n will_v not_o forget_v they_o though_o their_o master_n may_v from_o this_o verse_n thus_o open_v i_o gather_v these_o particular_a observation_n concern_v servant_n 1._o servant_n may_v and_o aught_o to_o apply_v unto_o themselves_o general_a obser_n promise_n make_v to_o christian_n otherwise_o this_o general_a argument_n of_o the_o apostle_n be_v to_o little_a purpose_n in_o this_o place_n 2._o a_o christian_a may_v be_v a_o bondslave_n for_o the_o apostle_n direct_v this_o encouragement_n to_o christian_n among_o who_o he_o presuppose_v obser_n some_o to_o be_v slave_n oppose_v they_o to_o freeman_n who_o also_o be_v servant_n 3._o faithful_a service_n perform_v to_o man_n be_v a_o good_a thing_n for_o the_o obser_n good_a thing_n which_o servant_n especial_o do_v be_v in_o their_o service_n 4._o as_o god_n accept_v not_o man_n because_o they_o be_v free_a so_o neither_o obser_n reject_v 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servant_n a_o like_a doctrine_n be_v note_v from_o the_o connexion_n of_o parent_n duty_n with_o child_n there_o you_o may_v see_v this_o general_a further_o amplify_v obser_n §_o 115._o 1._o god_n law_n require_v as_o much_o for_o it_o express_o injoin_v many_o duty_n to_o master_n as_o in_o the_o eight_o treatise_n follow_v we_o shall_v see_v 2._o so_o do_v also_o the_o law_n of_o nature_n which_o have_v tie_v master_n and_o servant_n together_o by_o a_o mutual_a and_o reciprocal_a bond_n of_o do_v good_a as_o well_o as_o of_o receive_v good_a 3._o the_o law_n of_o nation_n require_v also_o as_o much_o for_o in_o all_o nation_n where_o ever_o there_o be_v any_o good_a government_n and_o where_o wise_a and_o good_a law_n be_v make_v particular_a law_n of_o the_o duty_n of_o
have_v many_o child_n they_o be_v exempt_v from_o watch_n and_o other_o like_a burdensome_a function_n among_o we_o if_o the_o young_a sister_n be_v marry_v before_o the_o elder_n the_o preeminency_n and_o precedency_n â—s_v give_v to_o the_o young_a the_o privilege_n and_o honour_n which_o be_v give_v to_o marry_a person_n be_v questionless_a the_o ground_n of_o that_o custom_n which_o laban_n mention_v of_o his_o country_n that_o the_o young_a be_v not_o to_o 26._o be_v marry_v before_o the_o elder_n §._o 26._o of_o the_o mystery_n of_o marriage_n four_o great_a be_v that_o mystery_n which_o be_v set_v forth_o by_o marriage_n namely_o the_o sacred_a spiritual_a real_a and_o inviolable_a union_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n which_o be_v excellent_o decipher_v in_o salomon_n song_n and_o in_o psal_n 45._o and_o express_o note_v eph._n 5._o 32._o hereby_o man_n and_o wife_n who_o entire_o as_o they_o ought_v love_v one_o another_o have_v a_o evident_a demonstration_n of_o christ_n love_n to_o they_o for_o as_o parent_n by_o that_o affection_n which_o they_o bear_v to_o their_o child_n may_v better_o discern_v the_o mind_n and_o meaning_n of_o god_n towards_o they_o than_o such_o as_o never_o have_v child_n so_o may_v marry_a person_n better_a know_v the_o disposition_n of_o jesus_n christ_n who_o be_v the_o spouse_n of_o every_o faithful_a soul_n then_o single_a person_n §._o 27._o of_o marriage_n and_o single_a life_n compare_v together_o let_v now_o the_o admirer_n and_o praiser_n of_o a_o single_a estate_n bring_v forth_o all_o their_o reason_n and_o put_v they_o in_o the_o other_o school_n against_o marriage_n if_o these_o two_o be_v due_o poise_v and_o right_o weigh_v we_o shall_v find_v single_a life_n too_o light_a to_o be_v compare_v with_o honest_a marriage_n all_o that_o can_v be_v say_v for_o the_o single_a estate_n be_v ground_v upon_o accidental_a occasion_n saint_n paul_n who_o of_o all_o the_o penman_n of_o holy_a scripture_n have_v speak_v most_o for_o it_o draw_v all_o his_o commendation_n to_o the_o head_n of_o expediency_n and_o restrain_v all_o unto_o 〈◊〉_d present_a necessity_n object_n he_o use_v these_o word_n 1._o good_a and_o 38._o better_o answ_n those_o word_n have_v relation_n not_o to_o virtue_n but_o to_o expediencie_n neither_o be_v they_o speak_v in_o opposition_n to_o vice_n and_o sin_n for_o than_o will_v it_o follow_v that_o to_o marry_v which_o be_v god_n ordinance_n and_o honourable_a in_o all_o be_v evil_a and_o sinful_a which_o be_v to_o revive_v 23._o that_o ancient_a heresy_n that_o marriage_n be_v of_o the_o devil_n philad_n of_o old_a they_o who_o have_v call_v lawful_a marriage_n a_o defilement_n have_v be_v say_v to_o have_v the_o apostate_n dragon_n dwell_v in_o they_o but_o the_o apostle_n style_v that_o good_a which_o be_v commodious_a and_o that_o better_a which_o be_v more_o expedient_a and_o yet_o not_o simple_o more_o expedient_a but_o to_o some_o person_n at_o some_o time_n for_o if_o any_o have_v not_o the_o gift_n of_o continency_n it_o be_v not_o only_o commodious_a or_o more_o expedient_a that_o they_o marry_o but_o also_o absolute_o necessary_a they_o be_v command_v so_o to_o do_v 1_o cor._n 7._o 9_o yet_o on_o the_o other_o side_n if_o any_o have_v the_o gift_n of_o continency_n they_o be_v not_o simple_o bind_v from_o marriage_n there_o be_v other_o occasion_n beside_o avoid_v fornication_n to_o move_v they_o to_o marry_v it_o be_v therefore_o true_o say_v that_o virginity_n be_v not_o command_v but_o advise_v unto_o 21._o we_o have_v no_o precept_n for_o it_o but_o leave_v it_o to_o the_o power_n of_o they_o that_o have_v that_o power_n so_o far_o forth_o as_o man_n and_o woman_n see_v just_a occasion_n of_o abstain_v from_o marriage_n be_v at_o least_o able_a so_o to_o do_v they_o be_v by_o the_o apostle_n persuade_v to_o use_v their_o liberty_n and_o keep_v themselves_o free_a but_o all_o the_o occasion_n which_o 14._o move_v they_o to_o remain_v single_a arise_v from_o the_o weakness_n and_o wickedness_n of_o man_n their_o wickedness_n who_o raise_v trouble_n against_o other_o their_o weakness_n who_o suffer_v themselves_o to_o be_v disquiet_v and_o too_o much_o distract_v with_o affair_n of_o the_o family_n care_v for_o wife_n child_n and_o the_o like_a be_v it_o not_o for_o the_o wickedness_n of_o some_o and_o weakness_n of_o other_o to_o please_v a_o husband_n 34._o or_o a_o wife_n will_v be_v no_o hiderance_n to_o please_v of_o the_o lord_n if_o therefore_o man_n have_v stand_v in_o his_o entire_a and_o innocent_a estate_n no_o such_o wickedness_n or_o weakness_n have_v seize_v upon_o he_o and_o then_o in_o no_o respect_n can_v the_o single_a estate_n have_v be_v prefer_v 48._o before_o the_o marry_a but_o since_o the_o fall_n virginity_n where_o it_o be_v give_v may_v be_v of_o good_a use_n and_o therefore_o the_o church_n do_v give_v due_a honour_n both_o to_o virginity_n and_o marriage_n §._o 28._o of_o celebrate_v marriage_n with_o sorrow_n contrary_n to_o the_o forename_a joyful_a celebrate_n of_o marriage_n be_v all_o those_o indirect_a course_n which_o bring_v much_o grief_n trouble_n and_o vexation_n thereunto_o as_o force_v steal_a unequal_a or_o any_o other_o way_n unlawful_a marriage_n marriage_n without_o parent_n or_o other_o governor_n and_o friend_n consent_v or_o huddle_v up_o to_o avoid_v the_o danger_n of_o law_n for_o former_a uncleanness_n commit_v with_o the_o like_a many_o by_o their_o preposterous_a and_o undue_a perform_v of_o so_o weighty_a a_o matter_n do_v not_o only_o cause_v great_a trouble_n and_o disquietness_n on_o the_o marriage_n day_n but_o also_o much_o sorrow_n all_o the_o day_n of_o their_o life_n if_o such_o find_v no_o joy_n comfort_n or_o help_v in_o marriage_n but_o rather_o the_o contrary_a let_v they_o not_o blame_v god_n ordinance_n but_o their_o own_o folly_n and_o perverseness_n the_o second_o treatise_n part_n ii_o of_o common-mutuall_a duty_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n §._o 1._o of_o the_o head_n of_o those_o common-mutuall_a duty_n in_o the_o first_o part_n of_o this_o treatise_n concern_v man_n and_o wife_n have_v be_v declare_v who_o be_v so_o to_o be_v account_v in_o this_o second_o part_n their_o common-mutuall_a duty_n be_v to_o be_v lay_v forth_o these_o be_v either_o esse_fw-la absolute_o necessary_a for_o the_o be_v and_o abide_v of_o marriage_n or_o esse_fw-la needful_a and_o requisite_a for_o the_o well_o be_v and_o well_o abide_v of_o it_o that_o be_v for_o the_o good_a estate_n of_o marriage_n and_o for_o a_o commendable_a and_o comfortable_a live_n together_o there_o be_v two_o kind_n of_o the_o former_a 1._o matrimonial_a unity_n 2._o matrimonial_a chastity_n  _fw-fr the_o latter_a also_o may_v be_v draw_v to_o two_o head_n for_o they_o be_v either_o such_o as_o the_o marry_a couple_n be_v mutual_o to_o perform_v each_o to_o other_o or_o such_o as_o both_o of_o they_o be_v joint_o to_o perform_v to_o other_o those_o mutual_a duty_n be_v 1._o a_o love_a affection_n of_o one_o to_o another_o 2._o a_o provident_a care_n of_o one_o for_o another_o  _fw-fr under_o that_o provident_a care_n i_o comprise_v both_o the_o mean_n whereby_o it_o may_v be_v the_o better_o effect_v which_o be_v cohabitation_n and_o the_o matter_n wherein_o it_o consist_v and_o this_o respect_v 1._o the_o soul_n 3._o the_o good-name_n of_o each_o other_o 2._o the_o body_n 4._o the_o good_n  _fw-fr  _fw-fr the_o joint_a duty_n which_o be_v to_o be_v perform_v to_o other_o respect_v 1._o those_o who_o be_v in_o the_o house_n 2._o those_o who_o be_v out_o of_o the_o house_n  _fw-fr they_o who_o be_v in_o the_o house_n be_v 1._o member_n of_o the_o family_n 2._o guest_n which_o come_v to_o the_o family_n  _fw-fr many_o more_o particular_n be_v comprise_v under_o these_o general_a head_n which_o i_o purpose_v distinct_o to_o deliver_v as_o i_o come_v to_o they_o in_o their_o several_a proper_a place_n §._o 2._o of_o matrimonial_a unity_n the_o first_o high_a chief_a and_o most_o absolute_o necessary_a common-mutuall_a duty_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v matrimonial_a unity_n whereby_o husband_n and_o wife_n do_v account_v one_o another_o to_o be_v one_o flesh_n and_o according_o preserve_v the_o inviolable_a union_n whereby_o they_o be_v knit_v together_o this_o be_v that_o duty_n which_o the_o apostle_n injoin_v to_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o these_o word_n let_v 11._o not_o the_o wife_n depart_v from_o her_o husband_n let_v not_o the_o husband_n put_v away_o his_o wife_n he_o there_o speak_v of_o renounce_v each_o other_o and_o make_v the_o matrimonial_a bond_n frustrate_v and_o of_o no_o effect_n which_o bond_n he_o will_v have_v to_o be_v keep_v firm_a and_o inviolable_a and_o they_o two_o who_o be_v thereby_o make_v one_o constant_o to_o remain_v one_o and_o not_o to_o make_v themselves_o two_o again_o this_o
occasion_n of_o discord_n be_v offer_v say_v let_v there_o be_v no_o strife_n betwixt_o thou_o and_o i_o for_o we_o be_v man_n and_o wife_n no_o more_o two_o but_o one_o flesh_n §._o 14._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n dwell_v together_o from_o a_o mutual_a affection_n of_o love_n proceed_v a_o mutual_a provident_a care_n in_o husband_n and_o wife_n one_o for_o another_o in_o handle_v whereof_o we_o will_v first_o note_v the_o mean_n whereby_o their_o mutual_a providence_n may_v be_v the_o better_o effect_v and_o manifest_v and_o then_o the_o matter_n whereabout_o it_o must_v be_v conversant_a the_o mean_n in_o one_o word_n be_v cohabitation_n for_o a_o duty_n it_o be_v that_o man_n and_o wife_n dwell_v together_o the_o phrase_n use_v in_o set_v out_o the_o woman_n creation_n he_o build_v a_o woman_n whereby_o the_o erect_n of_o 79._o a_o family_n be_v intimate_v imply_v as_o much_o so_o do_v the_o law_n of_o marriage_n whereby_o man_n be_v enjoin_v to_o leave_v father_n and_o mother_n and_o to_o cleave_v unto_o his_o wife_n that_o be_v to_o go_v out_o of_o his_o father_n house_n and_o to_o dwell_v with_o his_o wife_n and_o so_o do_v this_o phrase_n forget_v 10._o thy_o father_n house_n take_v from_o the_o duty_n of_o a_o wife_n and_o mystical_o apply_v to_o the_o church_n saint_n peter_n express_o charge_v husband_n 7._o to_o dwell_v with_o their_o wife_n and_o saint_n paul_n lay_v it_o to_o 13._o the_o charge_n both_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n not_o to_o leave_v one_o another_o but_o to_o dwell_v together_o yea_o though_o the_o one_o be_v a_o infidel_n sure_o it_o be_v conscience_n of_o this_o duty_n which_o make_v the_o 3._o levite_n to_o go_v after_o his_o wife_n that_o go_v away_o from_o he_o to_o bring_v she_o home_o again_o and_o which_o make_v 14._o jacob_n wife_n to_o leave_v their_o father_n house_n and_o go_v with_o their_o husband_n uxor_fw-la the_o word_n under_o which_o saint_n peter_n comprise_v this_o duty_n be_v a_o title_n appropriate_v to_o a_o husband_n and_o a_o answerable_a title_n be_v appropriate_v to_o a_o wife_n from_o which_o the_o notation_n of_o our_o two_o usual_a english_a word_n husband_n housewife_n do_v not_o much_o differ_v the_o power_n which_o the_o one_o have_v of_o the_o other_o body_n and_o cohabitation_n the_o advantage_n which_o by_o live_v asunder_o they_o give_v unto_o satan_n both_o of_o which_o be_v express_o note_v 1_o cor._n 7._o 4_o 5._o do_v show_v the_o necessity_n of_o this_o duty_n and_o the_o many_o benefit_n arise_v from_o thence_o do_v further_o press_v the_o equity_n of_o it_o by_o husband_n and_o cohabitation_n wife_n dwell_v together_o all_o marriage_n duty_n be_v better_o perform_v mutual_a love_n be_v better_a breed_v preserve_v and_o increase_v the_o good_a gift_n of_o either_o of_o they_o be_v better_o observe_v by_o the_o other_o better_a help_n and_o succour_n be_v mutual_o by_o each_o afford_v to_o the_o other_o and_o in_o fine_a they_o be_v make_v more_o capable_a of_o do_v good_a one_o to_o another_o and_o of_o receive_v good_a one_o from_o another_o why_o then_o shall_v they_o have_v any_o mind_n of_o live_v asunder_o unless_o they_o be_v force_v by_o extraordinary_a occasion_n as_o captivity_n close_a imprisonment_n contagious_a sickness_n and_o such_o like_a which_o be_v no_o fault_n of_o they_o but_o cross_n to_o be_v bear_v with_o grief_n and_o instant_a prayer_n together_o with_o all_o other_o good_a mean_n to_o be_v use_v to_o bring_v they_o together_o again_o yea_o if_o the_o imprisonment_n banishment_n or_o other_o like_a kind_n of_o absence_n 6._o be_v such_o as_o one_o may_v if_o they_o will_v come_v at_o the_o other_o the_o party_n that_o be_v free_a aught_o to_o come_v to_o the_o other_o if_o at_o least_o that_o other_o require_v it_o §._o 15._o of_o the_o respect_n for_o which_o man_n and_o wife_n may_v for_o a_o time_n live_v asunder_o quest_n may_v there_o be_v any_o just_a cause_n for_o man_n and_o wife_n willing_o to_o live_v asunder_o answ_n there_o can_v nor_o aught_o to_o be_v any_o cause_n of_o utter_a relinquish_a one_o another_o which_o be_v a_o kind_n of_o 3._o desertion_n but_o for_o live_v asunder_o for_o a_o time_n there_o may_v be_v just_a cause_n as_o 1._o weighty_a and_o urgent_a affair_n which_o concern_v the_o good_a of_o the_o church_n or_o commonwealth_n as_o when_o a_o man_n be_v send_v forth_o to_o war_n or_o on_o a_o ambassage_n in_o which_o case_n though_o he_o may_v take_v his_o wife_n with_o he_o yet_o be_v he_o not_o necessary_o bind_v there_o to_o especial_o if_o the_o place_n whither_o he_o be_v send_v be_v far_o off_o the_o passage_n thereto_o difficult_a and_o dangerous_a and_o his_o abode_n there_o not_o long_o when_o 27._o reuben_n gad_n and_o half_o the_o tribe_n of_o manassch_n pass_v over_o jordan_z to_o help_v their_o brethren_n in_o their_o battle_n against_o the_o canaanite_n they_o leave_v their_o wife_n behind_o they_o in_o their_o family_n 6._o when_o vriah_n go_v to_o war_n he_o leave_v his_o wife_n at_o home_n and_o 2._o when_o moses_n be_v to_o bring_v israel_n out_o of_o egypt_n his_o wife_n remain_v at_o her_o father_n house_n 2._o main_a duty_n of_o their_o particular_a call_n as_o of_o mariner_n who_o be_v oft_o to_o be_v on_o the_o sea_n merchant_n who_o trade_n in_o other_o country_n lawyer_n who_o attend_v public_a place_n of_o justice_n courtier_n who_o in_o their_o month_n or_o quarter_n attend_v their_o prince_n keeper_n of_o woman_n in_o childbed_n and_o sick_a person_n and_o other_o nurse_n provide_v always_o that_o in_o these_o and_o other_o like_a case_n there_o be_v 5._o a_o joint_n and_o mutual_a consent_n of_o both_o party_n for_o if_o man_n and_o wife_n may_v not_o defraud_v one_o another_o for_o a_o time_n to_o give_v themselves_o to_o fast_v and_o prayer_n without_o consent_n much_o less_o may_v they_o for_o light_a occasion_n live_v any_o time_n asunder_o without_o 7._o consent_n provide_v also_o that_o they_o take_v no_o delight_n to_o live_v asunder_o but_o rather_o be_v grieve_v that_o they_o be_v force_v so_o to_o do_v and_o in_o testimony_n thereof_o to_o take_v all_o occasion_n that_o they_o can_v to_o manifest_v their_o long_a desire_n one_o after_o another_o by_o letter_n message_n token_n and_o other_o like_a kindness_n and_o to_o return_v with_o all_o the_o speed_n they_o can_v no_o distance_n or_o absence_n ought_v any_o whit_n to_o diminish_v their_o mutual_a love_n §._o 16._o of_o the_o error_n of_o papist_n about_o man_n and_o wife_n separation_n 8._o contrary_a to_o the_o duty_n of_o cohabitation_n be_v the_o doctrine_n of_o papist_n whereby_o they_o teach_v that_o separation_n may_v be_v make_v betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n for_o many_o cause_n from_o bed_n or_o cohabitation_n for_o a_o certain_a or_o uncertain_a time_n the_o council_n of_o trent_n be_v bold_a to_o denounce_v anathema_n against_o such_o as_o say_v the_o church_n err_v therein_o if_o the_o many_o cause_n which_o they_o allege_v beside_o adultery_n be_v well_o weigh_v we_o shall_v find_v they_o without_o all_o warrant_n of_o god_n word_n 14._o they_o draw_v they_o to_o two_o head_n 1._o mutual_a consent_n 2._o demerit_n by_o consent_n say_v they_o of_o both_o party_n marry_v to_o attain_v a_o great_a and_o perfect_a estate_n marriage_n consummate_a may_v be_v loose_v from_o bed_n and_o cohabitation_n answ_n 1._o in_o marriage_n there_o be_v a_o covenant_n of_o god_n prou._n 2._o 17._o as_o well_o as_o of_o the_o two_o party_n the_o consent_n therefore_o of_o party_n be_v not_o sufficient_a to_o break_v it_o 2._o no_o estate_n in_o this_o world_n can_v be_v great_a or_o perfect_a then_o be_v meet_v for_o marry_a person_n adam_n and_o eve_n in_o their_o best_a estate_n be_v marry_v and_o now_o be_v marriage_n honourable_a in_o all_o 4._o 3._o the_o estate_n which_o they_o count_v more_o perfect_a be_v either_o such_o as_o be_v not_o in_o man_n power_n as_o perpetual_a continency_n or_o such_o as_o may_v be_v as_o well_o perform_v by_o marry_a person_n as_o by_o single_a person_n as_o ecclesiastical_a function_n if_o at_o least_o they_o be_v such_o as_o be_v warrant_v by_o god_n word_n high_a priest_n and_o other_o priest_n all_o sort_n of_o levite_n extraordinary_a prophet_n and_o apostle_n be_v marry_v what_o great_a function_n than_o these_o the_o cause_n which_o for_o demerit_n they_o say_v make_v a_o separation_n â—re_n 1_o adultery_n 2._o depart_v from_o the_o catholic_a faith_n 3._o solicit_v or_o impel_v unto_o sin_n concern_v 5._o adultery_n we_o deny_v not_o but_o that_o it_o give_v â—ust_z cause_n of_o divorce_n but_o withal_o we_o say_v as_o 32._o we_o have_v good_a warrant_n from_o christ_n word_n that_o it_o be_v the_o only_a cause_n of_o just_a divorce_n for_o to_o make_v a_o separation_n for_o
they_o can_v that_o which_o solomon_n say_v of_o a_o friend_n and_o a_o brother_n may_v fit_o be_v apply_v in_o this_o case_n to_o husband_n and_o wife_n a_o friend_n love_v at_o all_o time_n and_o a_o brother_n be_v bear_v for_o adversity_n 17._o that_o be_v a_o trusty_a and_o faithful_a friend_n be_v constant_a in_o his_o goodwill_n and_o ready_a to_o perform_v all_o duty_n of_o kindness_n at_o any_o time_n whether_o it_o be_v prosperity_n or_o adversity_n the_o change_n of_o outward_a estate_n make_v no_o alteration_n in_o his_o love_a affection_n and_o friendly_a carriage_n yea_o he_o seem_v to_o be_v as_o it_o be_v bear_v and_o bring_v forth_o against_o the_o time_n of_o trouble_n and_o affliction_n because_o then_o be_v his_o provident_a care_n and_o tender_a affection_n most_o manifest_v of_o all_o friend_n none_o ought_v to_o be_v more_o careful_a none_o more_o faithful_a one_o to_o another_o then_o man_n and_o wife_n how_o then_o ought_v they_o to_o love_n at_o all_o time_n and_o if_o any_o trial_n come_v to_o either_o of_o they_o the_o other_o so_o to_o carry_v himself_o as_o it_o may_v be_v true_o say_v they_o be_v join_v together_o for_o adversity_n thus_o shall_v they_o verify_v the_o truth_n of_o that_o whereby_o god_n be_v move_v to_o creare_fw-la of_o mankind_n male_a and_o female_a namely_o that_o it_o be_v not_o good_a for_o man_n to_o be_v alone_o but_o that_o it_o be_v rather_o good_a 18._o that_o be_v needful_a profitable_a and_o comfortable_a for_o man_n and_o woman_n to_o be_v together_o in_o which_o respect_n the_o wiseman_n say_v he_o that_o find_v a_o wife_n find_v a_o good_a thing_n and_o by_o the_o rule_n of_o 22._o relation_n we_o may_v infer_v she_o that_o find_v a_o husband_n find_v a_o good_a thing_n §._o 30._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n backwandnesse_n to_o help_v one_o another_o in_o time_n of_o need_n contrary_n to_o this_o duty_n be_v a_o certain_a unnatural_a affection_n in_o sundry_a husband_n and_o wife_n who_o much_o grudge_n to_o provide_v the_o thing_n that_o be_v needful_a for_o one_o another_o the_o man_n common_o think_v the_o charge_n too_o great_a the_o woman_n think_v the_o pain_n too_o much_o they_o be_v affect_v one_o to_o another_o as_o if_o they_o be_v mere_a stranger_n nay_o many_o stranger_n will_v be_v more_o ready_a to_o perform_v and_o more_o cheerful_a in_o perform_v needful_a duty_n as_o occasion_n be_v offer_v then_o such_o unnatural_a husband_n and_o wife_n if_o a_o little_a sickness_n or_o other_o like_a cross_n fall_v on_o one_o of_o they_o the_o other_o think_v never_o any_o have_v such_o a_o burden_n and_o by_o their_o discontent_n make_v the_o burden_n much_o more_o heavy_a than_o otherwise_o it_o will_v be_v even_o as_o when_o two_o ox_n be_v in_o one_o yoke_n and_o the_o one_o hold_v back_o the_o draught_n be_v make_v much_o hard_a to_o the_o other_o thus_o do_v they_o pervert_v one_o of_o the_o principal_a end_n of_o marriage_n which_o be_v to_o be_v a_o continual_a comfort_n and_o 18._o help_v each_o to_o other_o and_o to_o ease_v the_o burden_n of_o one_o another_o in_o which_o respect_n they_o be_v make_v yokefellowe_n job_n wife_n by_o her_o unnatural_a carriage_n towards_o he_o in_o his_o affliction_n 9_o do_v much_o aggravate_v his_o misery_n when_o he_o stand_v in_o most_o need_n of_o her_o help_n she_o afford_v least_o unto_o he_o it_o appear_v by_o job_n complaint_n of_o she_o in_o these_o word_n my_o breath_n be_v strange_a to_o 17._o my_o wife_n that_o she_o altogether_o neglect_v he_o in_o his_o misery_n the_o common_a speech_n of_o many_o after_o their_o husband_n or_o wife_n have_v long_o lie_v sick_a be_v depart_v bewray_v their_o unnatural_a affection_n their_o speech_n be_v this_o if_o my_o husband_n or_o wife_n have_v die_v so_o much_o soon_o i_o have_v save_v so_o much_o money_n what_o do_v this_o intimate_a but_o that_o they_o can_v have_v be_v content_v their_o husband_n or_o wife_n shall_v have_v die_v soon_o that_o they_o may_v have_v spare_v the_o more_o §._o 31._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n mutual_a respect_n of_o one_o another_o good_a name_n the_o provident_a care_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n ought_v further_a to_o extend_v itself_o to_o the_o credit_n and_o good_a name_n of_o one_o another_o as_o dear_a aught_o the_o good_a name_n of_o the_o wife_n be_v unto_o the_o husband_n and_o of_o the_o husband_n to_o the_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o 19_o the_o great_a regard_n that_o joseph_n have_v of_o the_o credit_n of_o marie_n his_o espouse_a wife_n make_v he_o think_v of_o put_v she_o away_o privy_o when_o â—e_n observe_v she_o to_o be_v with_o child_n and_o know_v not_o of_o who_o â—or_a he_o be_v not_o willing_a 〈◊〉_d to_o make_v she_o a_o public_a example_n the_o â—ame_n respect_v move_v 5._o bethsheba_n to_o send_v secret_o to_o david_n and_o â—ell_v he_o that_o she_o be_v with_o child_n the_o commendation_n which_o he_o good_a husband_n precious_a note_v by_o solomon_n give_v of_o his_o wife_n be_v approve_v by_o the_o holy_a ghost_n sheweth_z how_o man_n and_o wife_n â—â—aght_o in_o that_o respect_n to_o honour_v each_o other_o and_o that_o on_o good_a â—ounds_n for_o 1._o a_o good_a name_n be_v a_o most_o precious_a thing_n 3._o better_o than_o preâ—ious_a ointment_n which_o give_v a_o sweet_a savour_n and_o 1._o to_o be_v choose_v â—ove_n great_a riches_n other_o 2._o so_o near_o be_v husband_n and_o wife_n join_v together_o the_o good_a name_n of_o the_o one_o can_v but_o tend_v to_o the_o honour_n and_o credit_n of_o the_o other_o so_o that_o herein_o they_o seek_v their_o own_o honour_n also_o §._o 32._o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n prevent_v each_o other_o discredit_n for_o direction_n herein_o consider_v we_o how_o this_o duty_n may_v be_v name_n perform_v and_o how_o it_o may_v be_v manifest_v for_o the_o better_a perform_v of_o it_o care_n must_v be_v have_v both_o to_o prevent_v and_o redress_v a_o ill_a name_n and_o also_o to_o procure_v and_o preserve_v a_o 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rigorousnesse_n than_o mildness_n have_v the_o spirit_n of_o that_o stout_a monarch_n ahashuerosh_n be_v more_o mild_a towards_o his_o wife_n he_o will_v not_o have_v so_o far_o press_v his_o wife_n unto_o so_o unseemly_a a_o thing_n as_o he_o do_v namely_o to_o come_v before_o all_o his_o prince_n and_o people_n to_o make_v show_n of_o her_o beauty_n it_o be_v true_a indeed_o as_o we_o show_v 28._o before_o that_o she_o offend_v in_o refuse_v to_o yield_v thereunto_o he_o peremptory_o require_v it_o but_o that_o offence_n on_o her_o part_n do_v not_o justify_v his_o fact_n and_o free_v he_o from_o all_o blame_n it_o be_v note_v that_o he_o be_v merry_a with_o wine_n when_o he_o give_v that_o commandment_n 10._o whereby_o be_v intimate_v that_o his_o practice_n be_v more_o beseem_v a_o drunken_a than_o a_o sober_a man_n such_o be_v their_o practice_n who_o exact_a of_o their_o wife_n to_o do_v such_o business_n as_o beseem_v maidservant_n rather_o than_o wife_n or_o strumpet_n rather_o than_o honest_a woman_n as_o to_o go_v to_o tavern_n alehouse_n playhouse_n and_o such_o place_n where_o light_a companion_n be_v §._o 29._o of_o a_o husband_n press_v his_o authority_n in_o weighty_a matter_n 4._o to_o use_v a_o man_n authority_n about_o weighty_a matter_n matter_n of_o moment_n make_v it_o to_o have_v such_o weight_n in_o it_o as_o it_o will_v much_o better_o be_v regard_v for_o thus_o a_o wife_n will_v either_o be_v bring_v to_o yield_v unto_o that_o which_o be_v command_v or_o to_o condemn_v herself_o for_o not_o yield_v yea_o thus_o a_o wife_n may_v see_v that_o it_o be_v not_o his_o own_o will_n so_o much_o which_o make_v he_o to_o use_v his_o authority_n in_o command_v as_o the_o necessity_n of_o the_o thing_n itself_o which_o redound_v especial_o to_o her_o good_a that_o do_v it_o for_o the_o performance_n of_o a_o duty_n be_v for_o the_o most_o part_n most_o advantageable_a to_o the_o party_n that_o perform_v it_o so_o as_o hereby_o a_o husband_n show_v love_n to_o his_o wife_n in_o press_v that_o which_o he_o press_v this_o token_n of_o love_n that_o it_o may_v the_o better_o appear_v it_o be_v behooveful_a render_v that_o a_o husband_n add_v to_o his_o commandment_n just_a &_o weighty_a reason_n that_o thereby_o his_o wife_n may_v the_o better_o discern_v the_o meetness_n lawfulness_n expediencie_n and_o necessity_n of_o the_o thing_n command_v we_o know_v that_o all_o the_o thing_n which_o god_n command_v be_v weighty_a and_o necessary_a yea_o his_o will_n be_v the_o very_a rule_n and_o ground_n of_o all_o goodness_n make_v thing_n absolute_o necessary_a yet_o unto_o his_o commandment_n he_o use_v to_o add_v weighty_a reason_n show_v on_o the_o one_o side_n the_o benefit_n and_o blessedness_n that_o will_v come_v to_o such_o as_o obey_v his_o commandment_n and_o on_o the_o other_o side_n the_o mischief_n and_o misery_n that_o will_v fall_v on_o their_o pate_n who_o refuse_v to_o obey_v whereby_o he_o show_v the_o great_a good_a respect_n 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the_o body_n the_o eye_n be_v most_o tender_o handle_v now_o what_o thing_n what_o person_n be_v more_o dear_a and_o precious_a than_o a_o wife_n yet_o withal_o she_o be_v a_o weak_a vessel_n therefore_o she_o be_v much_o to_o be_v bear_v withal_o for_o a_o husband_n better_a direction_n herein_o difference_n must_v be_v infirmity_n make_v betwixt_o infirmity_n for_o some_o be_v natural_a imperfection_n other_o be_v actual_a transgression_n natural_a imperfection_n be_v inward_a as_o slowness_n in_o conceit_n dulness_n in_o apprehension_n shortness_n of_o memory_n hastiness_n in_o passion_n etc._n etc._n or_o outward_a as_o lameness_n blindness_n deafness_n or_o any_o other_o defect_n and_o deformity_n of_o body_n these_o infirmity_n shall_v breed_v pity_n compassion_n commiseration_n yea_o and_o great_a tenderness_n and_o respect_n but_o no_o offence_n note_v abraham_n example_n in_o this_o case_n his_o wife_n be_v barren_a yet_o he_o despise_v ibid._n she_o not_o for_o it_o nor_o 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a_o offence_n to_o sarah_n 3._o by_o turn_v his_o eye_n away_o if_o the_o matter_n be_v not_o great_a but_o 14._o such_o as_o may_v be_v tolerate_v and_o take_v no_o notice_n of_o the_o offence_n but_o rather_o pass_v by_o it_o as_o if_o he_o perceive_v it_o not_o solomon_n say_v that_o it_o be_v a_o man_n glory_n to_o pass_v over_o a_o transgression_n and_o he_o exhort_v a_o 23._o man_n not_o to_o give_v his_o heart_n to_o all_o the_o word_n that_o man_n speak_v 4._o by_o forgive_a and_o forget_v it_o if_o notice_n be_v take_v thereof_o jaakob_n take_v notice_n of_o rachel_n rash_a and_o froward_a demand_n for_o he_o etc._n rebuke_v she_o for_o it_o yet_o in_o that_o he_o ready_o yield_v to_o that_o which_o afterward_o she_o move_v he_o unto_o it_o appear_v that_o he_o forgive_v the_o offence_n if_o not_o forget_v it_o the_o best_a trial_n of_o a_o man_n affection_n to_o his_o wife_n and_o of_o his_o wisdom_n love_n in_o order_v the_o same_o be_v in_o this_o point_n of_o bear_v with_o 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fire_n but_o also_o break_v out_o into_o a_o violent_a flame_n upon_o the_o least_o touch_n of_o fire_n as_o gunpowder_n be_v dangerous_a to_o be_v keep_v in_o a_o house_n so_o such_o husband_n to_o be_v join_v so_o near_o to_o wife_n as_o marriage_n join_v they_o if_o it_o be_v say_v that_o as_o gunpowder_n do_v no_o hurt_n if_o fire_n come_v not_o at_o it_o so_o they_o be_v good_a and_o kind_a if_o they_o be_v not_o provoke_v and_o displease_v i_o answer_v that_o we_o have_v a_o proverb_n that_o say_v the_o devil_n be_v good_a while_o he_o be_v please_v yet_o it_o be_v not_o safe_a to_o have_v the_o devil_n too_o near_o it_o be_v as_o impossible_a consider_v man_n weakness_n that_o he_o shall_v live_v and_o converse_v with_o any_o and_o not_o give_v offence_n as_o for_o flint_n stone_n long_o to_o beat_v and_o dash_v against_o one_o another_o &_o no_o spark_n of_o fire_n to_o come_v from_o they_o how_o then_o may_v it_o be_v think_v possible_a for_o a_o wife_n who_o be_v so_o 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off_o speech_n when_o parent_n come_v into_o the_o place_n where_o child_n be_v speak_v be_v token_n of_o great_a reverence_n thus_o child_n testify_v that_o there_o be_v some_o in_o place_n who_o they_o much_o respect_n and_o honour_n job_n do_v thus_o set_v forth_o the_o respect_n which_o prince_n and_o other_o do_v bear_v to_o he_o in_o his_o prosperity_n the_o prince_n say_v he_o refrain_v 10._o talk_v and_o lay_v their_o hand_n upon_o their_o mouth_n the_o noble_n hold_v their_o peace_n etc._n etc._n namely_o while_o he_o be_v in_o presence_n or_o while_o he_o speak_v the_o like_a may_v be_v say_v of_o child_n patience_n in_o endure_v 25._o their_o parent_n speech_n which_o job_n also_o note_v in_o these_o word_n unto_o i_o man_n give_v ear_n and_o wait_v and_o keep_v silence_n though_o parent_n in_o their_o speech_n seem_v to_o be_v long_o and_o tedious_a yet_o must_v child_n endure_v it_o and_o it_o be_v very_o needful_a that_o patience_n be_v add_v to_o silence_n because_o many_o parent_n in_o tender_a love_n of_o their_o child_n and_o earnest_a desire_n of_o their_o good_a think_v they_o can_v never_o speak_v enough_o in_o instruct_v and_o admonish_v they_o the_o many_o exhortation_n 1._o give_v in_o scripture_n unto_o child_n to_o hear_v harken_v give_v ear_n give_v heed_n mark_v and_o observe_v the_o word_n of_o their_o parent_n do_v imply_v the_o forename_a silence_n and_o patience_n for_o they_o who_o 19_o ought_v to_o be_v swift_a to_o hear_v must_v be_v slow_a to_o speak_v i_o deny_v not_o but_o much_o more_o be_v intend_v under_o those_o phrase_n namely_o obedience_n yet_o must_v these_o also_o be_v presuppose_v for_o he_o that_o will_v not_o in_o silence_n patient_o hearken_v to_o his_o parent_n while_o they_o speak_v will_v much_o less_o obey_v what_o they_o say_v
that_o father_n can_v endure_v therein_o their_o fault_n therefore_o must_v needs_o be_v the_o great_a if_o any_o way_n they_o be_v a_o occasion_n of_o their_o child_n put_v forth_o to_o nurse_n which_o i_o have_v the_o rather_o note_v because_o husband_n for_o the_o most_o part_n be_v the_o cause_n that_o their_o wife_n nurse_v not_o their_o own_o child_n and_o that_o partly_o by_o suffering_n and_o partly_o by_o egg_v they_o on_o to_o put_v out_o their_o child_n if_o husband_n be_v willing_a that_o their_o wife_n shall_v perform_v this_o duty_n and_o will_v persuade_v and_o encourage_v they_o thereto_o and_o afford_v they_o what_o help_v they_o can_v where_o one_o mother_n now_o nurse_v her_o child_n twenty_o will_v do_v it_o §._o 17._o of_o parent_n joint_a care_n about_o their_o child_n baptism_n there_o be_v a_o further_a duty_n to_o be_v perform_v of_o parent_n to_o their_o child_n even_o in_o their_o infancy_n and_o that_o be_v in_o regard_n of_o their_o spiritual_a good_a which_o be_v this_o parent_n ought_v to_o procure_v that_o their_o child_n be_v right_o baptize_v in_o due_a season_n this_o be_v indeed_o a_o common_a duty_n appertain_v to_o both_o parent_n but_o most_o principal_o to_o the_o father_n and_o that_o for_o two_o reason_n 1._o the_o father_n be_v the_o chief_a and_o principal_a governor_n and_o have_v the_o great_a charge_n according_o he_o ought_v to_o have_v the_o great_a care_n even_o in_o such_o matter_n as_o be_v common_a to_o both_o 2._o the_o mother_n at_o that_o time_n by_o reason_n of_o her_o travel_n and_o delivery_n be_v weak_a and_o not_o in_o case_n to_o have_v her_o head_n much_o trouble_v with_o many_o care_n much_o less_o able_a herself_o to_o take_v order_n for_o such_o weighty_a matter_n only_o the_o husband_n be_v to_o make_v know_v to_o his_o wife_n if_o she_o be_v not_o extraordinary_o weak_a what_o his_o purpose_n be_v concern_v the_o place_n time_n manner_n and_o other_o like_a circumstance_n of_o baptise_v the_o child_n and_o to_o advise_v with_o she_o about_o the_o name_n witness_n and_o such_o like_a point_n and_o if_o the_o husband_n be_v too_o backward_o and_o negligent_a the_o wife_n ought_v so_o far_o as_o she_o be_v able_a to_o put_v he_o in_o mind_n of_o his_o duty_n therein_o and_o to_o stir_v he_o up_o by_o herself_o or_o some_o other_o to_o perform_v it_o §._o 18._o of_o the_o reason_n to_o move_v parent_n to_o see_v their_o child_n baptize_v that_o parent_n be_v bind_v to_o procure_v baptism_n for_o their_o child_n these_o reason_n declare_v 1._o the_o commandment_n of_o god_n concern_v circumcise_n 5._o child_n in_o the_o room_n whereof_o baptism_n succee_v now_o â—nder_a the_o gospel_n col._n 2._o 11_o 12._o god_n commandment_n to_o â—his_fw-la duty_n be_v first_o give_v to_o abraham_n and_o that_o for_o himself_o â—nd_v all_o his_o posterity_n to_o observe_v gen._n 17._o 10._o after_o this_o it_o be_v â—n_v the_o law_n lay_v down_o as_o a_o positive_a statute_n leu._n 12._o 3._o 2._o the_o practice_n of_o the_o jew_n in_o a_o faithful_a and_o constant_a observance_n of_o this_o ordinance_n as_o of_o abraham_n of_o zachary_n and_o elizabe_v of_o joseph_n and_o mary_n and_o many_o other_o object_n the_o child_n which_o be_v bear_v in_o the_o wilderness_n be_v not_o circumcise_v answ_n they_o have_v no_o abide_v place_n in_o the_o wilderness_n but_o be_v ever_o and_o anon_o remove_v so_o as_o it_o will_v have_v be_v dangerous_a for_o the_o child_n to_o have_v be_v circumcise_v in_o that_o extraordinary_a case_n this_o rule_n take_v place_n i_o will_v have_v mercy_n and_o 7._o not_o sacrifice_v 3._o the_o practice_n of_o christian_n who_o believe_v be_v themselves_o 33._o and_o their_o whole_a household_n baptize_v under_o whole_a household_n child_n must_v needs_o be_v comprise_v 4._o christ_n embrace_v and_o bless_v such_o child_n as_o be_v 13._o bring_v to_o he_o and_o rebuke_v those_o that_o will_v have_v keep_v they_o from_o he_o 5._o the_o promise_n of_o god_n make_v to_o they_o for_o see_v god_n be_v so_o 39_o gracious_a as_o to_o extend_v his_o promise_n to_o our_o child_n our_o care_n must_v be_v to_o procure_v the_o seal_n which_o god_n offer_v for_o the_o confirmation_n of_o that_o promise_n 6._o the_o right_n they_o have_v to_o god_n kingdom_n baptism_n be_v a_o 14._o evidence_n of_o that_o their_o right_n it_o be_v parent_n duty_n to_o get_v they_o that_o evidence_n if_o child_n have_v just_a title_n to_o any_o land_n and_o revenue_n or_o to_o any_o earthly_a honour_n and_o dignity_n parent_n will_v do_v what_o they_o can_v to_o make_v that_o title_n sure_a unto_o they_o even_o in_o their_o infancy_n much_o more_o careful_a shall_v they_o be_v to_o make_v that_o rich_a and_o glorious_a inheritance_n which_o be_v in_o heaven_n reserve_v for_o they_o as_o sure_a unto_o they_o as_o they_o can_v now_o no_o better_a mean_n for_o the_o effect_n of_o this_o then_o baptism_n 7._o their_o conception_n and_o birth_n in_o sin_n child_n draw_v contagion_n 5._o from_o their_o parent_n therefore_o great_a reason_n it_o be_v that_o their_o parent_n shall_v see_v they_o wash_v with_o the_o water_n of_o regeneration_n 8._o the_o comfort_n which_o from_o the_o performance_n of_o this_o duty_n will_v arise_v to_o christian_a parent_n yea_o and_o to_o the_o child_n also_o themselves_o when_o they_o come_v to_o the_o age_n of_o understanding_n when_o parent_n behold_v the_o covenant_n of_o god_n sure_o seal_v and_o confirm_v to_o their_o child_n they_o can_v if_o at_o least_o they_o bear_v any_o love_n to_o their_o child_n but_o much_o rejoice_v therein_o and_o it_o must_v needs_o also_o much_o comfort_v the_o child_n when_o be_v of_o understanding_n he_o shall_v know_v that_o from_o his_o infancy_n he_o have_v carry_v the_o seal_n and_o pledge_v of_o his_o regeneration_n 9_o the_o constant_a continue_a custom_n of_o the_o true_a catholic_a in_fw-la church_n which_o ever_o since_o the_o apostle_n time_n have_v afford_v the_o 23._o sacrament_n of_o baptism_n to_o child_n §._o 19_o of_o parent_n procure_v their_o child_n to_o be_v right_o baptize_v there_o be_v such_o forceable_a motive_n to_o stir_v up_o parent_n to_o perform_v the_o duty_n which_o motive_n show_v it_o to_o be_v a_o weighty_a duty_n i_o will_v further_o show_v how_o this_o duty_n ought_v to_o be_v perform_v two_o thing_n in_o child_n baptism_n ought_v to_o be_v observe_v 1._o that_o it_o be_v right_o do_v 2._o that_o it_o be_v seasonable_o do_v in_o the_o right_a performance_n thereof_o some_o thing_n be_v necessary_a and_o some_o expedient_a thing_n of_o necessity_n be_v these_o especial_o 1._o that_o the_o child_n be_v baptize_v by_o a_o minister_n of_o the_o word_n 5._o 2._o that_o it_o be_v baptize_v with_o the_o element_n of_o water_n the_o only_a element_n sanctify_v to_o this_o purpose_n 3._o that_o the_o form_n prescribe_v by_o christ_n matth._n 28._o 19_o be_v 4._o use_v in_o the_o name_n of_o the_o father_n and_o of_o the_o son_n and_o of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n whereby_o the_o unity_n of_o the_o godhead_n and_o trinity_n of_o person_n be_v plain_o set_v forth_o 4._o that_o the_o proper_a rite_n be_v use_v of_o apply_v the_o water_n to_o the_o body_n of_o the_o child_n so_o as_o at_o least_o the_o face_n of_o the_o child_n may_v be_v sprinkle_v therewith_o thing_n of_o expediencie_n be_v 1._o that_o the_o child_n be_v baptize_v in_o a_o public_a place_n where_o god_n people_n ordinary_o meet_v together_o be_v set_v apart_o for_o the_o worship_n and_o service_n of_o god_n 2._o that_o such_o a_o time_n be_v choose_v out_o as_o a_o assembly_n of_o saint_n may_v be_v there_o present_a these_o two_o circumstance_n be_v the_o rather_o to_o be_v observe_v because_o baptism_n be_v one_o of_o the_o solemn_a part_n of_o god_n public_a worship_n a_o pledge_n of_o our_o incorporation_n into_o the_o body_n of_o christ_n and_o communion_n of_o his_o saint_n and_o therefore_o with_o the_o more_o solemnity_n as_o a_o matter_n of_o great_a moment_n before_o many_o witness_n with_o the_o assistance_n of_o the_o faithful_a prayer_n of_o a_o assembly_n of_o saint_n to_o be_v perform_v §._o 20._o of_o parent_n care_n to_o give_v a_o fit_a name_n to_o their_o child_n at_o his_o baptism_n a_o three_o matter_n of_o great_a expediencie_n about_o a_o child_n baptism_n be_v that_o parent_n be_v careful_a in_o give_v a_o fit_a name_n it_o belong_v to_o parent_n to_o give_v the_o name_n to_o their_o child_n for_o so_o name_n holy_a parent_n who_o pattern_n in_o scripture_n be_v in_o this_o respect_n commend_v unto_o we_o have_v do_v from_o time_n to_o time_n and_o for_o their_o warrant_n to_o do_v it_o it_o be_v worthy_a to_o be_v note_v that_o when_o god_n be_v please_v to_o appoint_v a_o name_n to_o a_o
chastity_n one_o end_n of_o marriage_n 1_o cor._n 7._o 2._o ibid._n vers_fw-la 9_o 2._o by_o chastity_n a_o godly_a seed_n preserve_v mal._n 2._o 16._o 3._o chastity_n the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n heb._n 13._o 4._o 4._o matth._n 5._o 32._o 32._o matth._n 19_o 9_o christus_fw-la ab_fw-la adultera_fw-la vero_fw-la separari_fw-la permittit_fw-la greg._n naz._n orat._n 36._o vir_fw-la post_fw-la fornicationem_fw-la non_fw-la est_fw-la vir_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 19_o in_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 7._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 16._o 16._o postquam_fw-la christus_fw-la ait_fw-la adulterae_fw-la nec_fw-la ego_fw-la te_fw-la damnabo_fw-la vade_v deinceps_fw-la noli_fw-la peccare_fw-la quis_fw-la non_fw-la intelligat_fw-la debere_fw-la maritum_fw-la ignoscere_fw-la quod_fw-la videt_fw-la ignovisse_fw-la dominum_fw-la ambor_fw-la they_o nec_fw-la iam_fw-la se_fw-la debere_fw-la adulteram_fw-la dicere_fw-la cvius_fw-la poenitentis_fw-la crimen_fw-la divina_fw-la credit_n miseratione_n deletam_fw-la aug._n the_o adult_n coniug_v lib._n 2._o cap._n 6._o adultery_n as_o great_a a_o sin_n in_o a_o man_n as_o in_o his_o wife_n lex_fw-la jul._n de_fw-fr adult_n l._n 1._o orif_n codic_n in_o l._n illust_n greg._n sayr_a clau._n reg_fw-la l._n 9_o c._n 16._o more_o inconvenience_n of_o a_o woman_n adultery_n than_o a_o man_n man_n mat._n 19_o 5._o 5._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 3_o 4._o 4._o verse_n 5._o 5._o verse_n 15._o tanto_fw-la gravius_fw-la viros_fw-la puniri_fw-la oportet_fw-la quanto_fw-la magis_fw-la ad_fw-la eos_fw-la pertinet_fw-la &_o virtute_fw-la vincere_fw-la &_o exemplo_fw-la regere_fw-la soeminas_fw-la aug._n the_o adult_n coning_n l._n 2._o c._n 8._o 8._o 7._o commandment_n commandment_n prou._n 2._o 17._o 17._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 16._o 16._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 19_o 19_o gen._n 34._o 31._o 31._o prou._n 6._o 35._o 35._o gen._n 21._o 10._o judg._n 11._o 2._o deut._n 23._o 2._o 2._o levit._n 21._o 9_o gen._n 34._o 7._o 2_o sam._n 13._o 22._o 22._o job_n 31._o 12._o 2_o sam._n 12._o 10._o 10._o gen._n 34._o 27._o judg._n 20._o 10._o hos_fw-la 4._o 3._o 3._o mal._n 2._o 15._o 15._o prou._n 6._o 32._o 32._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 18._o 18._o prou._n 6._o 33._o 33._o prou._n 6._o 26._o the_o bitter_a fruit_n of_o adultery_n god_n judgement_n against_o adultery_n adultery_n prou._n 22._o 14._o 14._o hos_fw-la 4._o 2_o 3._o 3._o reu._n 21._o 8._o 8._o gen._n 6._o 2_o etc._n etc._n etc._n ezek._n 16._o 50._o 50._o levit._n 18._o 28._o 28._o num._n 25._o 9_o 9_o jer._n 5._o 7_o 8_o 9_o 9_o heb._n 13._o 4._o 4._o heb._n 10._o 31._o 31._o pro._n 6._o 25._o 25._o job_n 31._o 1._o 1._o pro._n 7._o 21._o 21._o ephes_n 5._o 4._o 4._o pro._n 7._o 13._o 13._o pro._n 6._o 29._o 29._o pro._n 7._o 25._o 25._o ephes_n 5._o 7._o 7._o gen._n 19_o 33._o 33._o ezek._n 23._o 6_o 15_o 40._o 40._o gen._n 39_o 9_o pro._n 2._o 16._o 16._o gen._n 39_o 9_o pro._n 2._o 16._o 16._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 2_o 3_o 5_o 9_o 9_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1_o cor._n 7._o 4._o 4._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 2_o 3._o 3._o verse_n 5._o 5._o dum_fw-la solitudinis_fw-la i_o deserta_fw-la vallarent_fw-la ardorem_fw-la naturae_fw-la far_o non_fw-la poteram_fw-la quem_fw-la cum_fw-la crebris_fw-la ieiunijs_fw-la frangerem_fw-la mens_fw-la cogitationibus_fw-la aestuabat_fw-la hier._n ad_fw-la rust_n mon._n lege_fw-la eundem_fw-la ad_fw-la eustoc_n de_fw-fr custod_n virgin_n virgin_n hebraei_n inquiunt_fw-la perinde_n ut_fw-la homicidam_fw-la reum_fw-la esse_fw-la qui_fw-la temerè_fw-la semen_fw-mi profundit_fw-la merc._n in_o gen._n 38._o 9_o 9_o joâ—l_o 2._o 6._o 6._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 5._o 5._o quo_fw-la tempore_fw-la si_fw-la vir_fw-la coierit_fw-la cum_fw-la muliere_fw-la dicuntur_fw-la concepti_fw-la foetus_fw-la vitium_fw-la seminis_fw-la tral_a ere_o ita_fw-la ut_fw-la leprosi_fw-la &_o elephantiaci_fw-la ex_fw-la hac_fw-la conceptione_n nascantur_fw-la high_a in_o lam._n 1._o 1._o aug._n de_fw-fr bon_fw-fr coniug_v ca._n 6._o amb._n in_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 7._o nemo_fw-la essenorum_n cum_fw-la praegnante_fw-la concumbit_fw-la joseph_n de_fw-fr bell_n jud._n li._n 2._o c._n 7._o 7._o quod_fw-la in_o bestijs_fw-la ipso_fw-la naturae_fw-la jure_fw-la praescriptum_fw-la est_fw-la ut_fw-la praegnantes_fw-la ad_fw-la partum_fw-la usque_fw-la non_fw-la coeant_fw-la hoc_fw-la in_o hominibus_fw-la sciant_fw-la arbitrio_fw-la relictum_fw-la hier._n in_o eph._n 5._o sanchez_n de_fw-fr matr._n lib._n 9_o disp_n 21_o 22._o agit_fw-fr de_fw-fr petendo_fw-la &_o reddendo_fw-la debito_fw-la quando_fw-la menstruum_fw-la est_fw-la &_o tempore_fw-la praegnationis_fw-la &_o dum_fw-la infans_fw-la lactatur_fw-la lactatur_fw-la treat_n 4._o §._o 2._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d tit._n 2._o 4._o col._n 3._o 19_o hoc_fw-la verum_fw-la est_fw-la coniugium_fw-la quando_fw-la vinculo_fw-la charitatis_fw-la sunt_fw-la concatenati_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 45._o in_o gen._n gen._n rom._n 13._o 10._o 10._o col._n 3._o 14._o 1_o cor._n 16._o 14._o matth._n 5._o 44._o 44._o treat_n 1._o §._o 79_o 80._o 1_o sam._n 18._o 1._o prou._n 18._o 22._o that_o which_o in_o treat_n 4._o §._o 2._o 9_o 11._o be_v speak_v of_o a_o husband_n love_n and_o entire_a affection_n may_v also_o be_v apply_v in_o some_o respect_n to_o a_o wife_n and_o so_o serve_v to_o amplify_v this_o common_a mutual_a duty_n of_o love_n love_n of_o after_o venture_v to_o be_v as_o entire_a as_o of_o former_a rom._n 7._o 2_o 3._o prou._n 10._o 7._o *_o see_v treat_n 3._o §_o 8._o &_o treat_n 4._o §._o 10._o ephes_n 4._o 3._o heb._n 12._o 14._o 14._o §._o 14._o prou._n 21._o 9_o portus_n est_fw-la mulier_fw-la &_o maximum_fw-la securitatis_fw-la remedium_fw-la si_fw-mi ventis_fw-la &_o fluctibus_fw-la portum_fw-la liberaveris_fw-la ex_fw-la foro_fw-la reversus_fw-la tranquillè_fw-la vives_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o direction_n for_o maintain_v peace_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n 1._o avoid_v offence_n 2._o take_v not_o offence_n 3._o offer_v reconciliation_n eph._n 4._o 26._o mat._n 5._o 9_o 4._o take_v no_o part_n with_o other_o 5._o make_v not_o comparison_n 6._o be_v not_o jealous_a pro._n 6._o 34_o 35._o 7._o please_v one_o another_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 33_o 34._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d cum_fw-la vir_fw-la &_o uxor_fw-la domi_fw-la dissentiunt_fw-la nihilo_fw-la melius_fw-la navi_fw-la iactata_fw-la domus_fw-la illa_fw-la disponitur_fw-la cum_fw-la gubernator_fw-la adversus_fw-la prorae_fw-la directo_fw-la rem_fw-la dissentiat_fw-la chrys_n loc_n citat_fw-la gen._n 13._o 8._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d vide_fw-la musc_n in_o gen._n 2._o 22._o see_v treat_n 1._o §._o 79._o psal_n 45._o 10._o 1_o pet._n 3_o 7._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 12_o 13._o 13._o judg._n 19_o 3._o 3._o gen._n 31._o 14._o 14._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d coniux_fw-la 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d uxor_fw-la reason_n for_o cohabitation_n benefit_n of_o cohabitation_n d._n fulke_n against_o rhem._n on_o 1_o cor._n 7._o §._o 6._o 6._o §._o 3._o 3._o numb_a 32._o 26_o 27._o 27._o 2_o sam._n 11._o 3_o 6._o 6._o exo._n 18._o 2._o absence_n 1._o not_o without_o consent_n 1_o cor._n 7._o 5._o 2._o not_o with_o delight_n si_fw-mi vir_fw-la ad_fw-la peregrina_fw-la contenderit_fw-la nulla_fw-la longin_n quitas_fw-la nulla_fw-la absentia_fw-la complacitam_fw-la minuat_fw-la charitatem_fw-la ambr._n hexaem_n l._n 5._o c._n 7._o si_fw-mi quis_fw-la dixerit_fw-la ecclesiam_fw-la errore_fw-la cum_fw-la ob_fw-la multas_fw-la causas_fw-la separationem_fw-la inter_fw-la coniuges_fw-la quoad_fw-la thorum_fw-la sen_fw-la cohabitationem_fw-la ad_fw-la certum_fw-la incertumue_fw-la tempus_fw-la fieri_fw-la posse_fw-la decernit_fw-la anathema_n sit_v council_n trid._n §._o 24._o can_n 8._o 8._o bellarm._n de_fw-fr matrim_n l._n 1._o c._n 14._o heb._n 13._o 4._o 4._o see_v §._o 5._o 5._o matth._n 5._o 32._o fidei_fw-la gratia_fw-la vxorem_fw-la ne_fw-la eijcias_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 19_o in_o 1_o cor._n 7._o si_fw-mi ferus_fw-la moribus_fw-la fit_a coniux_fw-la perferat_fw-la illum_fw-la uxor_fw-la nec_fw-la ullam_fw-la ob_fw-la causam_fw-la societatem_fw-la vinculumque_fw-la dissoluere_fw-la patiatur_fw-la basil_n hexaem_n bom_n 7._o matth._n 5._o 29._o matth._n 5._o 32._o hos_fw-la 4._o 15._o man_n and_o wife_n fault_n in_o part_a room_n and_o bed_n in_o the_o same_o house_n prou._n 31._o 12._o prayer_n a_o mutual_a duty_n 1_o pet_n 3._o 7._o gen._n 25._o 21._o matth._n 7._o 7._o i_o be_o 5._o 16._o gen._n 25._o 21._o 21._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d luke_n 18._o 1._o 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1_o thess_n 5._o 17._o intemperans_n in_o coniugio_fw-la quid_fw-la aliud_fw-la nisi_fw-la quidam_fw-la adulter_fw-la uxoris_fw-la est_fw-la aug._n ex_fw-la ambr._n contr_n julian._n lib._n 2._o quam_fw-la chara_fw-la sint_fw-la carendo_fw-la intelligunt_fw-la cic._n in_o orator_n amicitiae_fw-la quid_fw-la haberent_fw-la voluptatis_fw-la carendo_fw-la magis_fw-la intellexi_fw-la quam_fw-la sruendo_fw-la idem_fw-la in_o oration_n post_n red_a admonendi_fw-la sunt_fw-la coniuges_fw-la ut_fw-la exhortantes_fw-la inuicem_fw-la saluent_a greg._n in_o past_a part_n 3._o adm._n 28._o 28._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 16._o 16._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 1._o 1._o epb._n 5._o 25._o of_o the_o particular_a duty_n of_o husband_n in_o this_o respect_n see_v treat_n 4._o §._o 47._o 1_o