to_o consider_v god_n ordinance_n his_o promise_n and_o their_o own_o necessity_n etc._n etc._n by_o command_v they_o to_o lay_v aside_o all_o such_o care_n thought_n and_o affection_n as_o may_v hinder_v they_o from_o a_o diligent_a hear_n to_o the_o sacrament_n they_o must_v prepare_v they_o by_o will_v they_o to_o consider_v of_o god_n institution_n the_o ministry_n of_o his_o sacrament_n his_o mercy_n in_o jesus_n christ_n their_o faith_n their_o repentance_n and_o their_o want_n that_o so_o seek_v assurance_n of_o grace_n of_o reconciliation_n and_o comfort_n they_o may_v come_v prepare_o to_o the_o lord_n table_n again_o to_o further_a their_o profit_n they_o must_v diligent_o examine_v they_o what_o they_o have_v learn_v what_o use_v they_o can_v make_v of_o such_o doctrine_n &_o also_o help_v and_o direct_v they_o wherein_o they_o fail_v thus_o do_v our_o saviour_n christ_n his_o disciple_n beside_o they_o must_v call_v upon_o they_o for_o the_o practice_n of_o 17._o that_o which_o they_o learn_v out_o of_o the_o word_n that_o the_o word_n grow_v not_o to_o a_o common_a matter_n of_o no_o further_o use_v but_o to_o talk_v of_o upon_o the_o sabbath_n day_n the_o four_o special_a duty_n that_o belong_v to_o instruction_n be_v the_o use_n of_o god_n work_n either_o past_a or_o present_v as_o of_o example_n of_o his_o mercy_n and_o goodness_n to_o be_v encourage_v by_o they_o to_o trust_v in_o he_o by_o work_n of_o his_o justice_n to_o be_v move_v to_o fear_v he_o and_o so_o to_o sow_v the_o seed_n of_o conscience_n and_o religion_n in_o they_o thus_o do_v abraham_n gen._n 18._o 19_o which_o care_n of_o his_o move_v the_o lord_n to_o reveal_v to_o he_o his_o purpose_n of_o destroy_v the_o sodomite_n the_o duty_n which_o they_o be_v to_o require_v of_o they_o concern_v godliness_n be_v to_o use_v the_o public_a ministry_n careful_o to_o be_v diligent_a and_o reverend_a in_o the_o private_a worship_n of_o god_n to_o submit_v themselves_o to_o private_a instruction_n of_o all_o sort_n and_o to_o make_v their_o use_n of_o it_o to_o the_o build_n up_o of_o themselves_o in_o faith_n and_o 〈◊〉_d to_o practice_v all_o holy_a and_o christian_a duty_n which_o be_v comprise_v brief_o in_o the_o commandment_n be_v more_o large_o lay_v open_a by_o the_o public_a ministry_n of_o the_o word_n and_o by_o private_a catechise_v but_o after_o what_o manner_n must_v they_o require_v these_o duty_n we_o answer_v not_o only_o by_o tell_v of_o they_o what_o they_o must_v do_v and_o call_v upon_o they_o for_o the_o do_v of_o it_o and_o by_o gentle_a admonition_n when_o they_o be_v backward_o but_o also_o by_o correct_v they_o if_o they_o shall_v be_v negligent_a and_o contemptuous_a in_o the_o practice_n thereof_o this_o correct_v be_v either_o by_o rebuke_v or_o chastise_v they_o according_a to_o the_o quality_n of_o the_o fault_n &_o the_o condition_n of_o the_o party_n that_o be_v so_o to_o be_v deal_v with_o a_o rebuke_n be_v a_o pronounce_v of_o some_o misbehaviour_n 2._o or_o know_v wickedness_n of_o any_o with_o condemn_v of_o the_o same_o by_o the_o word_n of_o god_n whereby_o they_o may_v have_v shame_n that_o other_o may_v fear_v correction_n be_v a_o sharp_a thing_n and_o therefore_o 19_o not_o easy_o bear_v of_o our_o nature_n which_o be_v full_a of_o self-love_n and_o through_o the_o corruption_n of_o nature_n it_o be_v turn_v into_o a_o occasion_n of_o great_a frowardness_n sturdiness_n and_o naughtiness_n where_o it_o be_v not_o wise_o deal_v in_o now_o the_o better_a to_o minister_v correction_n with_o more_o hope_n of_o do_v good_a by_o it_o we_o must_v consider_v first_o the_o end_n of_o correct_v second_o the_o matter_n for_o which_o correction_n must_v be_v give_v three_o the_o manner_n of_o correct_v 1._o the_o end_n in_o correct_v must_v not_o be_v to_o wreck_n and_o revenge_v thy_o anger_n or_o malice_n or_o to_o revenge_v thyself_o for_o any_o injury_n do_v nor_o yet_o alone_o the_o prevent_n of_o the_o like_a hurt_n by_o the_o like_a fault_n afterward_o but_o in_o zeal_n of_o god_n glory_n who_o be_v dishonour_v by_o the_o lewdness_n of_o the_o offender_n and_o in_o love_n to_o the_o party_n thou_o must_v seek_v by_o wise_a correction_n to_o reclaim_v he_o from_o such_o evil_a as_o bring_v danger_n to_o he_o &_o to_o make_v he_o more_o careful_a of_o his_o duty_n afterward_o herein_o they_o fail_v who_o in_o correct_v have_v no_o respect_n but_o to_o their_o own_o commodity_n 2._o for_o the_o matter_n that_o deserve_v correction_n this_o be_v a_o rule_n that_o there_o must_v be_v no_o rebuke_v much_o less_o chastise_v but_o where_o there_o be_v a_o fault_n for_o where_o any_o be_v unjust_o correct_v beside_o the_o injury_n it_o hurt_v he_o by_o harden_v he_o against_o just_a correction_n for_o he_o will_v think_v that_o it_o be_v the_o rash_a hastiness_n of_o his_o governor_n that_o put_v he_o to_o smart_v and_o not_o his_o own_o desert_n by_o fault_n i_o mean_v not_o only_o the_o commit_n of_o that_o which_o be_v forbid_v but_o also_o the_o omit_v of_o that_o good_a which_o be_v command_v but_o every_o such_o fault_n be_v not_o to_o be_v censure_v with_o correction_n sometime_o ignorance_n mistake_v oversight_n and_o a_o desire_n to_o please_v in_o one_o thing_n make_v inferior_n to_o offend_v in_o other_o except_o there_o be_v contempt_n or_o willing_a negligence_n or_o reckless_a oversight_n a_o gentle_a admonition_n may_v serve_v and_o indeed_o superior_n must_v take_v heed_n of_o come_v to_o the_o great_a remedy_n of_o correction_n too_o soon_o for_o so_o they_o may_v soon_o mar_v the_o party_n by_o over-sharpe_a deal_n which_o by_o a_o wise_a proceed_n by_o degree_n may_v have_v be_v gain_v furthermore_o governor_n must_v know_v yet_o more_o express_o for_o what_o to_o correct_v some_o never_o correct_v but_o for_o their_o own_o matter_n never_o regard_v the_o fault_n commit_v against_o god_n but_o the_o godly_a governor_n that_o aim_v at_o god_n glory_n and_o seek_v the_o lord_n and_o not_o himself_o be_v most_o grieve_a for_o those_o disorder_n in_o his_o family_n that_o tend_v to_o god_n dishonour_n and_o such_o he_o correct_v most_o careful_o and_o as_o for_o the_o default_n of_o his_o family_n that_o be_v against_o himself_o he_o look_v more_o to_o god_n dishonour_n by_o they_o then_o to_o his_o own_o hurt_n or_o loss_n &_o in_o zeal_n of_o god_n be_v draw_v to_o correct_v and_o not_o of_o self-love_n he_o therefore_o count_v these_o thing_n worthy_a of_o correction_n if_o any_o delight_n in_o the_o ignorance_n of_o god_n or_o be_v careless_a to_o approve_v himself_o as_o one_o that_o whole_o depend_v on_o he_o love_v he_o fear_v he_o reverence_v he_o labour_v to_o approve_v all_o his_o way_n before_o he_o if_o any_o be_v give_v to_o idolatry_n and_o superstition_n &_o care_v not_o in_o every_o part_n of_o the_o worship_n of_o god_n to_o follow_v his_o reveal_v will_n or_o if_o in_o the_o part_n command_v he_o appear_v negligent_a &_o cold_a or_o put_v they_o to_o any_o other_o use_n than_o be_v command_v or_o be_v give_v to_o image_n or_o superstitious_a monument_n custom_n occasion_n or_o such_o like_a if_o any_o dishonour_n the_o name_n of_o god_n either_o in_o the_o unreverent_a use_n or_o abuse_v or_o 〈◊〉_d and_o not_o use_v it_o with_o that_o preparation_n before_o feel_v at_o the_o present_a time_n and_o fruit_n after_o which_o be_v prescribe_v his_o title_n word_n sacrament_n or_o work_n if_o any_o profane_a his_o sabbath_n by_o vain_a pastime_n and_o game_n as_o card_n dice_n dance_v etc._n etc._n go_v to_o play_n or_o give_v not_o himself_o to_o the_o exercise_n appoint_v for_o that_o day_n out_o of_o the_o word_n if_o any_o neglect_v special_a duty_n towards_o their_o equal_n superior_n or_o inferior_n in_o year_n gift_n authority_n as_o magistrate_n minister_n master_n parent_n servant_n child_n or_o people_n if_o any_o declare_v not_o a_o conscience_n to_o fly_v evil_a anger_n malice_n contention_n quarrel_v fight_a or_o any_o hurt_v of_o the_o person_n of_o man_n either_o in_o soul_n or_o 〈◊〉_d be_v careful_a to_o succour_v the_o same_o according_a to_o his_o call_n if_o any_o be_v find_v unchaste_a in_o body_n word_n countenance_n or_o gesture_n untemperate_a in_o diet_n in_o apparel_n dissolute_a not_o care_v to_o maintain_v the_o contrary_a holiness_n in_o himself_o and_o other_o if_o any_o be_v not_o careful_a to_o preserve_v the_o good_n of_o another_o man_n or_o shall_v by_o falsehood_n flattery_n and_o oppression_n diminish_v the_o same_o if_o he_o be_v negligent_a in_o increase_v of_o his_o own_o by_o honest_a and_o lawful_a mean_n or_o misspend_v they_o in_o card_n dice_n game_n &c_n &c_n if_o any_o care_v not_o to_o maintain_v the_o good_a name_n of_o other_o but_o be_v give_v to_o
they_o command_v they_o and_o to_o refrain_v from_o those_o thing_n which_o they_o forbid_v they_o thankfulness_n beside_o that_o there_o be_v many_o other_o branch_n be_v always_o mindful_a of_o benefit_n receive_v and_o therefore_o carry_v continual_o a_o vigilant_a and_o watchful_a eye_n towards_o the_o party_n by_o who_o it_o have_v be_v pleasure_v that_o no_o discourtesy_n in_o any_o case_n be_v offer_v or_o any_o occasion_n be_v minister_v whereby_o he_o may_v conceive_v unkindness_n and_o by_o this_o familiar_a description_n of_o these_o three_o head_n wherein_o stand_v chief_o the_o honour_n due_a unto_o parent_n we_o may_v clear_o see_v that_o those_o child_n which_o in_o wedding_n tarry_v not_o for_o the_o consent_n of_o their_o father_n and_o mother_n do_v neither_o stand_v in_o awful_a fear_n of_o they_o as_o who_o they_o will_v be_v loath_a to_o offend_v or_o displease_v nor_o yet_o give_v over_o themselves_o in_o all_o thing_n to_o be_v govern_v and_o advise_v by_o they_o nor_o have_v any_o regard_n that_o they_o be_v not_o causer_n to_o make_v their_o friend_n and_o parent_n conceive_v hardly_o and_o unkind_o of_o they_o when_o as_o it_o be_v more_o than_o manifest_a that_o in_o matter_n concern_v their_o duty_n towards_o their_o parent_n no_o grief_n cut_v near_a unto_o the_o heart_n than_o this_o when_o their_o child_n entangle_v themselves_o contrary_a to_o their_o mind_n and_o like_n and_o therefore_o such_o child_n as_o match_v in_o this_o sort_n as_o it_o be_v in_o spite_n of_o the_o tooth_n of_o their_o father_n and_o mother_n be_v neither_o reverend_a obedient_a nor_o thankful_a unto_o they_o and_o so_o consequent_o they_o do_v not_o honour_v they_o whereby_o they_o incur_v and_o run_v into_o the_o curse_n of_o god_n which_o without_o true_a and_o unfeigned_a repentance_n must_v needs_o pull_v down_o upon_o the_o head_n of_o themselves_o and_o their_o family_n the_o fearful_a plague_n of_o god_n his_o most_o heavy_a and_o hot_a indignation_n against_o they_o to_o their_o utter_a subversion_n decay_n and_o ruin_n let_v all_o dutiful_a and_o good_a nurture_a child_n therefore_o in_o the_o reverence_n and_o fear_n of_o god_n consider_v what_o honour_n and_o obedience_n they_o owe_v unto_o their_o parent_n and_o what_o power_n and_o authority_n he_o have_v in_o his_o word_n sanctify_v unto_o they_o over_o their_o child_n in_o the_o lord_n and_o in_o regard_n hereof_o let_v they_o yield_v unto_o they_o in_o this_o duty_n that_o their_o father_n have_v provide_v for_o they_o such_o as_o be_v not_o of_o a_o wicked_a life_n nor_o deform_v nor_o evill-favoured_n nor_o of_o a_o contrary_a religion_n they_o 〈◊〉_d submit_v themselves_o unto_o their_o same_o choice_n which_o if_o for_o the_o present_a or_o upon_o the_o sudden_a they_o can_v yield_v unto_o let_v they_o by_o earnest_a call_n upon_o the_o name_n of_o god_n not_o only_o desire_v he_o to_o direct_v their_o parent_n in_o a_o godly_a and_o fit_a choice_n but_o also_o to_o subdue_v in_o they_o this_o corrupt_a affection_n and_o to_o frame_v their_o will_n to_o be_v pliable_a unto_o their_o father_n in_o such_o lawsull_n case_n for_o the_o lord_n our_o god_n in_o his_o justice_n do_v just_o punish_v disobedient_a child_n as_o may_v appear_v by_o the_o example_n of_o ham_n the_o young_a son_n of_o noah_n who_o deride_v his_o father_n and_o be_v just_o punish_v 22._o for_o it_o likewise_o absalon_n use_v wicked_a practice_n to_o 14._o get_v the_o kingdom_n from_o david_n his_o father_n for_o rebellion_n and_o disobedience_n come_v to_o a_o most_o miserable_a end_n yea_o and_o he_o have_v in_o his_o law_n set_v down_o a_o most_o severe_a and_o sharp_a punishment_n against_o disobedient_a child_n if_o any_o man_n have_v a_o son_n that_o 21._o be_v stubborn_a and_o disobedient_a which_o will_v not_o hear_v 〈◊〉_d unto_o the_o voice_n of_o his_o father_n and_o the_o voice_n of_o his_o mother_n and_o they_o have_v chastened_a he_o and_o he_o will_v not_o obey_v they_o then_o shall_v his_o father_n and_o his_o mother_n take_v he_o and_o bring_v he_o out_o unto_o the_o elder_n of_o the_o city_n and_o unto_o the_o gate_n of_o the_o place_n where_o he_o dwell_v and_o shall_v say_v unto_o the_o elder_n of_o his_o city_n this_o our_o son_n be_v stubborn_a and_o disobedient_a and_o he_o will_v not_o obey_v our_o admonition_n he_o be_v a_o riotour_n and_o a_o drunkard_n then_o all_o the_o man_n of_o the_o city_n shall_v stone_n he_o with_o stone_n unto_o death_n so_o thou_o shall_v take_v away_o evil_a from_o among_o you_o that_o all_o israel_n may_v hear_v it_o and_o fear_n for_o even_o etc._n as_o a_o long_a and_o a_o prosperous_a life_n be_v promise_v unto_o obedient_a child_n so_o on_o the_o other_o side_n all_o disobedient_a unthankful_a and_o obstinate_a child_n be_v assure_v of_o the_o punishment_n of_o infamy_n join_v with_o diverse_a and_o great_a calamity_n and_o torment_n 1._o sam._n 2._o 22._o 1._o king_n 1._o 25._o etc._n etc._n deut._n 21._o 18._o etc._n etc._n prou._n 20._o 20._o &_o 30._o 17._o and_o although_o that_o the_o temporal_a officer_n be_v negligent_a in_o punish_v this_o disobedience_n yet_o shall_v they_o not_o escape_v unpunished_a for_o the_o vengeance_n of_o god_n shall_v accompany_v they_o until_o they_o be_v utter_o destroy_v for_o there_o be_v nothing_o more_o unnatural_a then_o to_o see_v child_n dishonour_v and_o disobey_v their_o parent_n and_o inferior_n their_o superior_n such_o may_v apt_o be_v compare_v to_o the_o viper_n that_o gnaw_v out_o the_o belly_n of_o her_o dam_n and_o seek_v she_o own_o life_n with_o her_o dam_n death_n so_o contrariwise_o the_o word_n of_o god_n do_v high_o commend_v joseph_n for_o his_o great_a love_n beneficence_n and_o obedience_n extend_v towards_o 〈◊〉_d father_n 12._o jacob_n and_o his_o brethren_n in_o that_o he_o both_o help_v and_o liberal_o nourish_v they_o and_o pray_v for_o they_o our_o saviour_n christ_n be_v also_o obedient_a to_o his_o parent_n even_o until_o death_n so_o that_o the_o 51._o lord_n no_o doubt_n will_v bless_v obedient_a child_n with_o many_o happy_a day_n and_o year_n to_o his_o glory_n and_o their_o soul_n comfort_n and_o to_o the_o end_n to_o invite_v and_o stir_v up_o child_n to_o honour_v their_o parent_n as_o before_o be_v show_v the_o 12._o lord_n add_v this_o promise_n that_o thy_o day_n may_v be_v long_o in_o the_o land_n which_o the_o lord_n thy_o god_n give_v thou_o and_o s._n paul_n do_v note_n that_o it_o be_v the_o first_o commandment_n 2._o with_o promise_n for_o albeit_o there_o be_v a_o promise_n add_v to_o the_o second_o and_o other_o of_o the_o first_o table_n yet_o this_o five_o commandemennt_v be_v the_o first_o of_o righteousness_n and_o none_o in_o the_o second_o table_n beside_o it_o have_v any_o promise_n annex_v thereunto_o for_o herein_o have_v god_n declare_v how_o high_o he_o commend_v the_o obedience_n and_o honour_n that_o child_n yield_v to_o their_o parent_n but_o the_o lord_n speak_v to_o the_o israelite_n proper_o of_o the_o land_n that_o he_o have_v promise_v they_o for_o a_o inheritance_n which_o shall_v be_v unto_o they_o as_o a_o testimony_n and_o seal_n of_o his_o goodness_n and_o love_n towards_o they_o it_o be_v therefore_o as_o if_o he_o shall_v have_v say_v to_o the_o end_n that_o live_v upon_o the_o earth_n thou_o may_v long_o enjoy_v the_o earnest_a penny_n of_o my_o goodness_n and_o grace_n towards_o thou_o but_o now_o see_v the_o whole_a earth_n be_v bless_v to_o the_o faithful_a the_o promise_n of_o long_a life_n upon_o the_o earth_n be_v unto_o we_o a_o blessing_n of_o god_n first_o because_o we_o can_v live_v long_o without_o participate_v of_o many_o &_o great_a benefit_n of_o god_n even_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o preservation_n of_o this_o present_a life_n second_o because_o the_o faithful_a may_v the_o long_o employ_v themselves_o to_o serve_v &_o glorify_v god_n in_o consideration_n whereof_o we_o see_v what_o the_o church_n in_o old_a time_n say_v the_o dead_a praise_n not_o the_o 18._o lord_n neither_o any_o that_o go_v down_o into_o the_o place_n of_o silence_n but_o we_o will_v praise_v the_o lord_n from_o henceforth_o and_o for_o ever_o the_o same_o do_v hezekiah_n king_n of_o judah_n also_o note_v in_o his_o canticle_n the_o live_n the_o live_n 19_o he_o shall_v confess_v thou_o as_o i_o do_v this_o day_n the_o father_n to_o the_o child_n shall_v declare_v thy_o truth_n in_o as_o much_o therefore_o as_o long_a life_n be_v promise_v as_o a_o blessing_n god_n do_v continue_v it_o to_o obedient_a child_n so_o long_o as_o it_o be_v a_o blessing_n unto_o they_o and_o hereupon_o do_v s._n paul_n join_v together_o these_o two_o sentence_n that_o it_o may_v go_v well_o with_o thou_o 3._o and_o that_o thou_o may_v live_v long_o upon_o the_o earth_n as_o also_o when_o
a_o godly_a form_n of_o household_n government_n for_o the_o order_v of_o private_a family_n according_a to_o the_o direction_n of_o god_n word_n whereunto_o be_v adjoin_v in_o a_o more_o particular_a manner_n the_o several_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n towards_o his_o wife_n and_o the_o wife_n duty_n towards_o her_o husband_n the_o parent_n duty_n towards_o their_o child_n and_o the_o child_n towards_o their_o parent_n the_o master_n duty_n towards_o his_o servant_n and_o also_o the_o servant_n duty_n towards_o their_o master_n first_o gather_v by_o r._n c._n and_o now_o new_o peruse_v amend_v and_o augment_v by_o john_n dod_n and_o robert_n clever_n isidore_n thou_o profite_a much_o when_o thou_o read_v if_o thou_o practise_v that_o which_o thou_o read_v bernard_n what_o avail_v it_o thou_o to_o read_v often_o in_o book_n the_o holy_a name_n of_o our_o saviour_n except_o thou_o study_v and_o endeavour_n to_o have_v godliness_n in_o thy_o behaviour_n london_n print_v by_o r._n field_n for_o thomas_n man_n and_o be_v to_o be_v sell_v by_o arthur_n johnson_n near_o the_o great_a north_n door_n of_o paul_n church_n 1621._o to_o the_o right_n worshipful_a master_n robert_n burgaine_n of_o roxall_n one_o of_o his_o majesty_n justice_n of_o peace_n in_o the_o county_n of_o warwick_n to_o the_o right_n worshipful_a master_n john_n dive_v of_o ridlington_n park_n in_o the_o county_n of_o rutland_n and_o to_o the_o worshipful_a master_n edmund_n temple_n of_o temple_n hall_n in_o the_o countse_fw-la of_o leicester_n esquire_n as_o also_o to_o their_o religious_a and_o virtuous_a wife_n r._n c._n wish_v with_o heart_n and_o mind_n grace_n from_o god_n the_o father_n by_o jesus_n christ_n and_o constancy_n in_o the_o truth_n of_o the_o gospel_n to_o the_o end_n and_o in_o the_o end_n aue_v collect_v &_o finish_v this_o treatise_n ensue_v and_o devise_v very_o careful_o with_o myself_o to_o who_o i_o may_v dedicate_v the_o same_o at_o length_n i_o resolve_v that_o none_o be_v meet_a to_o undertake_v the_o patronage_n thereof_o than_o some_o such_o meet_a person_n as_o do_v already_o in_o some_o good_a measure_n practise_v within_o their_o several_a charge_n the_o several_a point_n and_o duty_n contain_v therein_o and_o so_o will_v further_o prosecute_v those_o other_o necessary_a part_n which_o they_o have_v yet_o in_o some_o part_n pretermit_v whereupon_o call_v to_o mind_v the_o holy_a exercise_n daily_o use_v and_o exercise_v in_o all_o your_o house_n i_o be_v move_v for_o two_o cause_n to_o make_v you_o all_o joint_o patron_n thereof_o first_o for_o that_o i_o acknowledge_v myself_o beholden_a and_o indebt_v unto_o you_o all_o diverse_o since_o my_o first_o acquaintanoe_n with_o you_o and_o therefore_o leave_v i_o shall_v deserve_v the_o blame_n of_o unthankfulness_n for_o benefit_n receive_v i_o be_o bold_a under_o your_o name_n to_o offer_v to_o the_o whole_a church_n of_o god_n these_o my_o simple_a collection_n second_o for_o that_o as_o you_o be_v all_o join_v and_o link_v in_o kindred_n by_o reason_n of_o marriage_n so_o also_o you_o be_v and_o have_v be_v a_o long_a time_n inseparable_o knit_v in_o a_o zealous_a and_o sincere_a profession_n of_o god_n word_n and_o religion_n and_o for_o so_o much_o as_o i_o may_v not_o for_o many_o respect_n accomplish_v what_o good_a i_o willing_o will_v yet_o lest_o i_o shall_v be_v think_v to_o spend_v the_o remainder_n of_o my_o year_n in_o a_o idle_a condition_n or_o to_o hide_v my_o talon_n in_o a_o napkin_n i_o have_v be_v no_o less_o careful_a than_o willing_a to_o labour_v other_o way_n to_o do_v what_o i_o may_v to_o glorify_v god_n and_o profit_v his_o church_n neither_o will_v these_o my_o labour_n be_v utter_o unprofitable_a if_o my_o purpose_n therein_o be_v right_o confer_v with_o the_o purpose_n of_o my_o write_n for_o such_o householder_n as_o pretend_v to_o be_v great_a protestant_n and_o sound_a professor_n of_o the_o gospel_n may_v long_o enough_o talk_v of_o discipline_n and_o still_o complain_v of_o the_o want_n of_o church_n government_n but_o all_o in_o vain_a and_o to_o no_o purpose_n unless_o they_o will_v begin_v this_o most_o necessary_a discipline_n in_o reform_v their_o own_o house_n according_a to_o the_o direction_n in_o this_o treatise_n and_o so_o suffer_v the_o holy_a religion_n of_o god_n to_o take_v place_n among_o their_o family_n at_o home_n otherwise_o they_o shall_v travel_v much_o and_o profit_v little_a for_o although_o there_o be_v never_o so_o good_a law_n in_o city_n never_o so_o pure_a order_n in_o church_n yet_o if_o master_n of_o family_n do_v not_o practice_v at_o home_n catechise_v in_o their_o house_n and_o join_v their_o help_a hand_n to_o magistrate_n and_o minister_n they_o may_v in_o truth_n but_o unjust_o as_o many_o have_v do_v complain_v that_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n be_v disorder_v and_o corrupt_v abroad_o when_o in_o truth_n they_o be_v disorder_v and_o be_v still_o corrupt_v and_o mar_v at_o home_n and_o therefore_o it_o can_v be_v neither_o be_v it_o to_o be_v hope_v for_o that_o either_o the_o father_n of_o his_o child_n or_o the_o husband_n of_o his_o wife_n or_o the_o master_n of_o his_o servant_n shall_v look_v for_o that_o obedience_n that_o reverence_n that_o faithfulness_n and_o that_o dutifulness_n which_o they_o of_o right_a aught_o to_o have_v and_o the_o other_o in_o conscience_n and_o of_o bind_a duty_n be_v bind_v to_o perform_v unless_o they_o do_v now_o at_o length_n endeavour_n to_o see_v these_o order_n and_o duty_n hereafter_o mention_v to_o be_v practise_v within_o their_o several_a household_n for_o if_o parent_n and_o householder_n shall_v perform_v no_o further_o duty_n to_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n then_o to_o provide_v for_o they_o meat_n drink_n and_o apparel_n and_o to_o pay_v they_o their_o wage_n then_o papist_n atheist_n yea_o turk_n and_o infidel_n do_v yield_v this_o duty_n as_o well_o as_o they_o and_o see_v all_o man_n be_v careful_a that_o their_o horse_n and_o bullock_n shall_v have_v sufficient_a fodder_n and_o provender_n to_o the_o end_n they_o may_v have_v their_o labour_n in_o lieu_n and_o recompense_n thereof_o it_o do_v consequent_o follow_v that_o therefore_o a_o christian_a householder_n ought_v to_o have_v over_o his_o child_n and_o servant_n as_o much_o more_o christian_a care_n than_o he_o have_v over_o dumb_a and_o insensible_a beast_n that_o so_o he_o may_v receive_v a_o singular_a comfort_n from_o the_o daily_a contemplation_n of_o their_o increase_n in_o spiritual_a grace_n oh_o what_o a_o sweet_a and_o comfortable_a thing_n shall_v this_o be_v to_o the_o soul_n and_o conscience_n of_o such_o a_o householder_n when_o he_o have_v be_v so_o diligent_a and_o careful_a in_o the_o train_n and_o bring_v up_o of_o his_o child_n and_o servant_n in_o the_o obedience_n and_o way_n of_o the_o lord_n that_o he_o may_v right_o deserve_v to_o have_v this_o worthy_a report_n and_o commendation_n give_v unto_o he_o from_o the_o mouth_n and_o pen_n of_o the_o godly_a namely_o that_o he_o have_v a_o church_n in_o his_o house_n that_o be_v a_o company_n of_o sound_n and_o faithful_a christian_n such_o as_o fear_v god_n indeed_o as_o the_o like_a report_n be_v give_v by_o the_o apostle_n to_o those_o godly_a housekeeper_n aquila_n and_o priscilla_n his_o wife_n rom._n 16._o 5._o 1._o cor._n 16._o 19_o as_o also_o to_o philemon_n phil._n 2._o therefore_o all_o parent_n and_o householder_n be_v in_o the_o lord_n to_o be_v exhort_v that_o they_o will_v be_v careful_a to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n and_o family_n so_o as_o they_o either_o by_o some_o good_a token_n may_v see_v they_o the_o child_n of_o god_n and_o heir_n of_o his_o covenant_n or_o at_o the_o least_o they_o may_v be_v comfort_v in_o their_o own_o conscience_n notwithstanding_o that_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n for_o some_o cause_n unknown_a to_o they_o do_v refuse_v their_o counsel_n and_o instruction_n see_v they_o to_o the_o uttermost_a of_o their_o power_n and_o ability_n have_v use_v all_o good_a mean_n to_o bring_v they_o up_o well_o and_o have_v right_o offer_v they_o to_o the_o lord_n now_o if_o parent_n and_o master_n have_v just_a cause_n to_o bewail_v and_o lament_v when_o thus_o travel_v in_o good_a education_n &_o information_n they_o can_v yet_o see_v good_a effect_n and_o godly_a fruit_n in_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n how_o much_o more_o cause_n of_o grief_n may_v they_o have_v when_o they_o have_v use_v &_o bestow_v no_o labour_n at_o all_o either_o by_o themselves_o or_o other_o for_o they_o to_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o the_o nurture_n and_o fear_n of_o the_o lord_n and_o yet_o alas_o many_o will_v be_v grieve_v for_o the_o one_o that_o will_v not_o be_v any_o thing_n move_v for_o the_o other_o wherefore_o let_v all_o parent_n and_o master_n of_o family_n know_v
all_o other_o and_o this_o do_v god_n declare_v say_v let_v we_o make_v adam_n as_o helper_n like_a unto_o himself_o by_o the_o helper_n be_v signify_v the_o utility_n and_o profit_n of_o the_o service_n and_o by_o the_o similitude_n and_o likeness_n be_v signify_v love_n and_o helpefulnesse_n for_o a_o servant_n and_o he_o that_o be_v hire_v be_v insufficient_a to_o supply_v that_o place_n there_o can_v neither_o be_v so_o much_o love_n and_o ability_n to_o minister_v help_n and_o comfort_n to_o a_o man_n as_o will_v be_v find_v in_o a_o faithful_a wife_n the_o child_n be_v part_n of_o the_o father_n and_o through_o a_o natural_a pity_n they_o love_v each_o other_o but_o yet_o the_o wife_n be_v more_o annex_v and_o join_v to_o her_o husband_n the_o father_n do_v labour_n and_o take_v pain_n for_o his_o child_n but_o the_o child_n seldom_o labour_n or_o take_v pain_n for_o their_o father_n and_o oftentimes_o be_v send_v to_o inhabit_v and_o dwell_v in_o other_o man_n house_n whereby_o in_o a_o manner_n it_o appear_v that_o their_o straight_a and_o fast_o society_n do_v dissolve_v and_o break_v but_o the_o wife_n clean_o contrary_a do_v continual_o take_v pain_n for_o her_o husband_n who_o may_v as_o long_o as_o she_o live_v neither_o change_n house_n nor_o bed_n if_o commodity_n and_o prosit_fw-la be_v look_v for_o no_o commodity_n excel_v this_o if_o thou_o shall_v love_v thy_o wife_n thou_o shall_v live_v most_o pleasant_o if_o not_o thy_o life_n will_v be_v most_o miserable_a and_o wretched_a for_o there_o be_v nothing_o so_o sharp_a nor_o so_o bitter_a as_o to_o hate_v the_o thing_n that_o do_v favour_n and_o love_v thou_o nor_o any_o thing_n more_o happy_a then_o to_o love_v he_o that_o love_v thou_o therefore_o love_n that_o thou_o may_v be_v love_v now_o we_o will_v in_o few_o word_n show_v the_o occasion_n of_o wedlock_n why_o and_o wherefore_o it_o be_v ordain_v and_o for_o what_o purpose_v it_o shall_v be_v contract_v that_o every_o man_n and_o woman_n may_v the_o better_o understand_v to_o what_o thing_n they_o consent_v when_o either_o of_o they_o grant_v to_o marry_v the_o other_o doubtless_o it_o can_v otherwise_o be_v but_o that_o marriage_n which_o be_v ordain_v of_o such_o a_o excellent_a author_n as_o of_o god_n himself_o and_o in_o such_o a_o worthy_a place_n as_o paradise_n and_o of_o such_o a_o ancient_a time_n as_o in_o state_n of_o adam_n and_o eve_n innocence_n and_o after_o such_o a_o notable_a order_n must_v likewise_o have_v special_a cause_n for_o the_o ordinance_n of_o it_o therefore_o the_o holy_a scripture_n do_v declare_v marriage_n chief_o three_o cause_n thereof_o the_o first_o be_v the_o procreation_n beget_v and_o bring_v up_o of_o child_n gen._n 1._o 27._o 28._o &_o 9_o 1._o for_o in_o the_o child_n do_v parent_n live_v after_o a_o sort_n even_o after_o death_n and_o if_o they_o be_v well_o and_o virtuous_o bring_v up_o god_n be_v great_o honour_v by_o they_o the_o commonwealth_n be_v advance_v yea_o their_o parent_n and_o all_o other_o fare_v the_o better_a for_o they_o for_o they_o be_v their_o parent_n comfort_n next_o unto_o god_n their_o joy_n staff_n and_o uphold_v of_o their_o age_n and_o therefore_o parent_n ought_v to_o begin_v betimes_o to_o plant_v virtue_n in_o their_o child_n breast_n for_o late_o sow_v bring_v sometime_o a_o late_a but_o never_o a_o apt_a harvest_n young_a branch_n will_v bow_v as_o a_o man_n will_v have_v they_o but_o old_a tree_n will_v soon_o break_v than_o bow_n etc._n etc._n but_o more_o of_o this_o shall_v be_v say_v after_o in_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n although_o marriage_n be_v a_o holy_a and_o sanctify_a ordinance_n yet_o none_o may_v use_v the_o benefit_n of_o it_o without_o some_o acknowledgement_n of_o original_a 5._o sin_n in_o that_o uncleanness_n may_v be_v practise_v therein_o which_o shall_v cause_v god_n child_n to_o use_v this_o mean_n with_o as_o much_o chastity_n as_o may_v be_v and_o husband_n and_o wise_a to_o keep_v themselves_o together_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n and_o in_o all_o modesty_n and_o sobriety_n if_o then_o in_o marriage_n itself_o there_o be_v such_o mischief_n what_o hellish_a mischief_n be_v there_o in_o those_o lust_n which_o be_v not_o express_v with_o these_o consideration_n so_o that_o marriage_n be_v not_o a_o mad_a and_o dissolute_a estate_n to_o give_v liberty_n to_o their_o wife_n in_o uncleanness_n nor_o wife_n to_o consent_v with_o their_o husband_n in_o impurity_n by_o immoderate_a intemperate_a or_o excessive_a lust_n many_o think_v they_o can_v sin_v in_o this_o behalf_n if_o they_o pass_v not_o their_o own_o wife_n but_o they_o may_v make_v their_o marriage_n pollute_v and_o defile_v if_o they_o use_v it_o without_o prayer_n and_o soberness_n etc._n etc._n 1._o tim_n 4._o 4._o 5._o therefore_o the_o husband_n be_v to_o forbear_v the_o company_n of_o his_o wife_n when_o it_o be_v with_o she_o as_o it_o be_v common_a to_o woman_n etc._n etc._n ezechiel_n 18._o 6._o leviticus_fw-la 18._o 19_o 24._o 22_o and_o 19_o 18._o this_o be_v one_o of_o the_o sin_n for_o which_o the_o lord_n root_v out_o the_o canaanite_n out_o of_o their_o land_n the_o second_o occasion_n why_o marriage_n be_v ordain_v be_v that_o the_o wife_n may_v be_v a_o lawful_a remedy_n chastity_n to_o avoid_v whoredom_n fornication_n and_o all_o filthy_a unclean_a lust_n 1._o cor._n 7._o 2._o 3._o etc._n etc._n touch_v this_o point_n i_o will_v say_v no_o more_o for_o it_o be_v handle_v at_o large_a by_o other_o already_o and_o i_o have_v elsewhere_o sufficient_o discourse_v of_o it_o the_o three_o and_o last_o cause_n be_v for_o man_n commodity_n cause_n to_o the_o end_n to_o avoid_v the_o inconvenience_n of_o solitariness_n that_o the_o one_o may_v help_v &_o comfort_v the_o other_o in_o sickness_n in_o affliction_n and_o in_o all_o household_n care_n and_o trouble_n as_o education_n of_o child_n and_o keep_v the_o family_n in_o order_n for_o this_o cause_n old_a man_n and_o old_a woman_n may_v lawful_o marry_v so_o that_o a_o wife_n be_v call_v by_o god_n himfelfe_n a_o helper_n and_o not_o a_o impediment_n or_o a_o necessary_a evil_n as_o some_o unaduised_o do_v say_v unchastly_a and_o as_o other_o some_o say_v it_o be_v better_a to_o bury_v a_o wife_n then_o to_o marry_v one_o again_o if_o we_o can_v be_v without_o woman_n we_o shall_v be_v without_o great_a trouble_n these_o and_o such_o like_a say_n tend_v to_o the_o dispraise_n of_o woman_n some_o malicious_o and_o undiseret_o do_v vomit_v out_o contrary_a to_o the_o mind_n of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n who_o say_v that_o she_o be_v ordain_v as_o a_o helper_n and_o not_o a_o hinderer_n and_o if_o they_o be_v otherwise_o it_o be_v for_o the_o most_o part_n through_o the_o fault_n and_o want_v of_o discrerion_n and_o lack_v of_o good_a government_n in_o the_o husband_n for_o marry_v folk_n for_o two_o eye_n have_v four_o and_o for_o two_o hand_n as_o many_o more_o which_o be_v join_v together_o they_o may_v the_o more_o easy_o dispatch_v their_o handy_a business_n and_o household_n affair_n for_o like_a as_o a_o man_n have_v one_o hand_n or_o one_o foot_n if_o by_o any_o mean_n he_o get_v himself_o a_o other_o may_v thereby_o the_o more_o easy_o lie_v hold_v on_o what_o he_o list_v or_o go_v whither_o he_o will_v even_o so_o he_o that_o have_v marry_v a_o wife_n shall_v more_o easy_o enjoy_v the_o healthful_a pleasure_n and_o profitable_a commodity_n of_o this_o present_a life_n for_o in_o trouble_n the_o one_o be_v a_o comfort_n to_o the_o other_o in_o adversity_n the_o one_o a_o refresh_n unto_o the_o other_o yea_o and_o in_o all_o their_o life_n the_o one_o be_v a_o help_n and_o succour_v to_o the_o other_o most_o true_a it_o be_v that_o woman_n be_v as_o man_n be_v reasonable_a creature_n and_o have_v flexible_a wit_n both_o to_o good_a and_o evil_a the_o which_o with_o use_n discretion_n and_o good_a counsel_n may_v be_v alter_v and_o turn_v and_o although_o there_o be_v some_o evil_a and_o lewd_a woman_n yet_o that_o do_v no_o more_o prove_v the_o malice_n of_o their_o nature_n then_o of_o man_n and_o therefore_o the_o more_o ridiculous_a and_o foolish_a be_v they_o that_o have_v inveigh_v against_o the_o whole_a sex_n for_o a_o few_o evil_n and_o have_v not_o with_o like_a fury_n vituperate_v and_o dispraise_v all_o mankind_n because_o part_v of_o they_o be_v thief_n murderer_n and_o such_o like_a wicked_a liver_n but_o the_o marriage_n and_o company_n of_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v make_v amiable_a sweet_a and_o comfortable_a by_o these_o five_o mean_n by_o godliness_n virtue_n 〈◊〉_d forbear_v mutual_a love_n and_o by_o dut_n 〈◊〉_d perform_v busy_o and_o godly_o on_o both_o side_n 1._o godliness_n of_o right_n hold_v the_o chief_a place_n for_o there_o
without_o comparison_n more_o straight_o and_o bind_v they_o each_o to_o love_v other_o much_o more_o than_o the_o conjunction_n whereby_o man_n be_v unite_v unto_o his_o neighbour_n but_o this_o be_v the_o mischief_n that_o in_o many_o their_o love_n be_v not_o ground_v upon_o the_o union_n of_o marriage_n but_o upon_o beauty_n riches_n and_o other_o carnal_a and_o worldly_a consideration_n subject_a to_o change_v alteration_n and_o loss_n this_o corruption_n that_o respect_v beauty_n be_v old_a and_o note_v to_o be_v among_o the_o cause_n of_o the_o flood_n the_o son_n of_o god_n say_v moses_n see_v the_o 2._o daughter_n of_o man_n be_v fair_a lust_v after_o they_o and_o take_v they_o in_o marriage_n but_o indeed_o it_o be_v money_n that_o make_v love_n and_o riches_n engender_v affection_n witness_v the_o experience_n of_o our_o day_n yet_o such_o love_n resemble_v only_o a_o fire_n of_o straw_n which_o be_v but_o a_o blaze_n and_o be_v soon_o out_o unless_o it_o be_v continue_v with_o great_a wood_n or_o other_o like_a substance_n love_n grow_v of_o beauty_n riches_n lust_n or_o any_o other_o like_o slight_a uncertain_a and_o frail_a ground_n be_v soon_o lose_v and_o vanish_v unless_o it_o be_v maintain_v with_o the_o consideration_n of_o this_o union_n of_o two_o in_o one_o flesh_n and_o the_o virtue_n thereto_o adjoin_v &_o therefore_o must_v every_o man_n think_v upon_o this_o union_n in_o marriage_n that_o he_o may_v enjoy_v nourish_v &_o continue_v the_o love_n that_o there_o of_o proceed_v the_o rather_o because_o such_o love_n be_v the_o nurse_n of_o concord_n that_o make_v marriage_n happy_a as_o contrariwise_o the_o want_n of_o this_o love_n be_v the_o fountain_n of_o strife_n quarrel_v debate_n and_o other_o like_a affliction_n that_o convert_v the_o paradise_n of_o marriage_n into_o a_o hell_n for_o dissension_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v the_o trouble_n and_o overthrow_v of_o the_o household_n they_o that_o will_v avoid_v such_o strife_n must_v therefore_o love_v each_o other_o and_o especial_o they_o must_v have_v care_n hereof_o when_o they_o be_v first_o marry_v for_o as_o a_o vessel_n make_v of_o two_o piece_n and_o glue_v together_o may_v at_o the_o first_o be_v easy_o break_v but_o in_o time_n grow_v hard_a so_o be_v it_o also_o with_o two_o person_n that_o be_v glue_v or_o join_v together_o by_o the_o bond_n of_o marriage_n this_o love_n the_o mother_n of_o peace_n will_v engender_v a_o care_n and_o duty_n each_o to_o support_v other_o and_o so_o to_o practice_v the_o same_o which_o saint_n paul_n require_v in_o all_o believer_n that_o be_v to_o be_v gentle_a one_o to_o another_o friendly_a and_o each_o to_o forgive_v other_o even_o as_o god_n have_v forgive_v we_o through_o christ._n let_v the_o husband_n think_v that_o he_o have_v marry_v a_o daughter_n of_o adam_n and_o all_o her_o infirmity_n and_o likewise_o let_v the_o woman_n think_v that_o she_o have_v not_o marry_v a_o angel_n but_o a_o child_n of_o adam_n with_o his_o corruption_n and_o so_o let_v they_o both_o resolve_v to_o bear_v that_o that_o can_v be_v soon_o amend_v let_v not_o the_o body_n complain_v of_o the_o head_n albeit_o it_o have_v but_o one_o eye_n neither_o the_o head_n of_o the_o body_n albeit_o it_o be_v crooked_a or_o misshape_a such_o default_n do_v never_o break_v union_n and_o love_n between_o the_o head_n and_o the_o body_n neither_o must_v the_o infirmity_n of_o the_o husband_n or_o the_o wife_n infringe_v the_o love_n that_o proceed_v of_o the_o union_n and_o conjunction_n of_o marriage_n if_o the_o husband_n be_v give_v to_o brawl_v or_o the_o wife_n to_o chide_v let_v they_o both_o beware_v of_o give_v any_o occasion_n the_o bell_n have_v a_o loud_a sound_n and_o therefore_o he_o that_o will_v not_o hear_v it_o must_v beware_v how_o he_o pull_v the_o rope_n and_o shake_v it_o so_o if_o the_o one_o will_v begin_v to_o chide_v without_o a_o cause_n let_v the_o other_o be_v either_o deaf_a and_o so_o not_o hear_v it_o or_o dumb_a and_o so_o make_v no_o answer_n so_o that_o where_o the_o husband_n be_v deaf_a and_o the_o wife_n blind_a marriage_n be_v quiet_a and_o free_a from_o dissension_n whereby_o be_v mean_v that_o the_o wife_n must_v wink_v at_o many_o infirmity_n of_o her_o husband_n as_o if_o she_o see_v they_o not_o and_o the_o husband_n put_v up_o many_o shrewd_a speech_n of_o his_o wife_n as_o if_o he_o hear_v they_o not_o neither_o can_v it_o be_v any_o reproach_n to_o the_o husband_n and_o wise_a so_o steadfast_o unite_v to_o practice_v this_o duty_n consider_v that_o david_n protest_v that_o he_o use_v the_o like_a patience_n and_o discretion_n among_o his_o enemy_n they_o that_o seek_v after_o my_o life_n lie_v 22._o snare_n and_o they_o that_o go_v about_o to_o do_v i_o evil_n talk_v wicked_a thing_n and_o imagine_v deceit_n continual_o but_o i_o as_o a_o deaf_a man_n hear_v not_o and_o be_o as_o a_o dumb_a man_n which_o open_v not_o his_o mouth_n thus_o i_o be_o as_o a_o man_n that_o hear_v not_o and_o in_o who_o mouth_n be_v no_o reproof_n this_o union_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n do_v also_o engender_v that_o duty_n which_o the_o holy_a ghost_n note_v say_v for_o this_o cause_n shall_v a_o man_n leave_v his_o 31._o father_n and_o mother_n and_o cleave_v to_o his_o wife_n and_o also_o the_o wife_n in_o the_o like_a respect_n be_v bind_v to_o the_o like_a duty_n towards_o her_o husband_n not_o that_o marriage_n exempt_v any_o from_o their_o due_a honour_n and_o obedience_n to_o parent_n but_o to_o declare_v that_o the_o union_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v great_a than_o between_o the_o child_n and_o the_o parent_n and_o indeed_o the_o true_a love_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o the_o wife_n and_o the_o wife_n to_o the_o husband_n surmount_v all_o love_n of_o child_n to_o their_o parent_n the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n have_v their_o secret_a counsel_n and_o communication_n of_o matter_n concern_v their_o profit_n and_o commodity_n the_o wise_a it_o more_o obedient_a to_o her_o husband_n and_o the_o husband_n more_o desirous_a to_o please_v his_o wife_n than_o their_o parent_n yea_o and_o at_o length_n it_o fall_v out_o that_o they_o depart_v from_o their_o parent_n to_o keep_v house_n by_o themselves_o and_o this_o plain_o appear_v in_o lea_n and_o rachel_n be_v sister_n and_o the_o wife_n of_o etc._n lacob_n for_o lacob_n grieve_v at_o the_o wrong_n offer_v he_o by_o their_o father_n laban_n bold_o make_v his_o moan_n to_o they_o whereupon_o they_o also_o complain_v of_o their_o father_n agree_v with_o lacob_n and_o consent_v together_o to_o leave_v their_o father_n and_o to_o follow_v their_o husband_n lacob_n herein_o likewise_o consist_v another_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o the_o wife_n and_o of_o the_o wife_n to_o the_o husband_n namely_o that_o they_o show_v no_o great_a secrecy_n or_o communication_n of_o their_o household_n affair_n to_o their_o parent_n then_o mutual_o each_o to_o other_o and_o this_o rule_n be_v especial_o to_o be_v put_v in_o practice_n when_o there_o grow_v any_o discontent_n between_o themselves_o for_o if_o the_o husband_n shall_v complain_v to_o his_o parent_n of_o his_o wife_n or_o the_o wife_n of_o her_o husband_n such_o deal_n may_v breed_v a_o most_o dangerous_a jealousy_n and_o consequent_o perhaps_o irreconciliable_a dissension_n and_o strife_n but_o if_o it_o shall_v grow_v to_o any_o complaint_n it_o be_v requisite_a so_o discreet_o to_o prosecute_v the_o matter_n as_o that_o the_o wife_n shall_v come_v to_o her_o husband_n parent_n and_o the_o husband_n to_o the_o wife_n parent_n so_o will_v all_o cause_n of_o jealousy_n cease_v and_o the_o complaint_n procure_v most_o assure_v remedy_n this_o love_n and_o agreement_n in_o marriage_n produce_v yet_o another_o duty_n common_a both_o to_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n and_o that_o be_v that_o they_o never_o seek_v neither_o once_o think_v of_o divorce_n and_o to_o that_o end_n let_v they_o remember_v what_o be_v write_v that_o which_o god_n have_v join_v together_o let_v no_o man_n put_v asunder_o likewise_o that_o nothing_o but_o adultery_n 6._o may_v separate_v those_o that_o be_v unite_v by_o marriage_n all_o other_o agreement_n and_o contract_n make_v by_o mutual_a consent_n may_v be_v break_v and_o dissolve_v by_o the_o like_a consent_n of_o both_o party_n but_o in_o the_o contract_n of_o marriage_n almighty_a god_n come_v in_o as_o a_o witness_n yea_o he_o receive_v the_o promise_n of_o both_o party_n as_o a_o join_v they_o in_o that_o estate_n and_o this_o do_v solomon_n note_n where_o he_o object_v to_o the_o harlot_n that_o she_o have_v forget_v 27._o the_o covenant_n or_o alliance_n of_o her_o god_n but_o malachi_n speak_v more_o plain_o and_o give_v a_o reason_n why_o god_n punish_v such_o husband_n as_o
sted-mother_n that_o be_v one_o father_n and_o one_o mother_n die_v duty_n and_o another_o succee_v and_o come_v in_o their_o stead_n and_o room_n therefore_o to_o the_o end_n that_o both_o their_o love_n may_v be_v seiled_a towards_o the_o child_n of_o the_o one_o and_o the_o other_o they_o must_v remember_v that_o they_o be_v stead-father_n and_o stead-mother_n that_o be_v in_o stead_n of_o their_o own_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o therefore_o they_o ought_v to_o love_v they_o to_o tender_v they_o and_o to_o cherish_v they_o as_o their_o own_o father_n or_o mother_n do_v you_o must_v not_o look_v upon_o they_o like_o rehoboam_n who_o tell_v his_o people_n that_o he_o will_v be_v worse_o unto_o they_o than_o his_o predecessor_n for_o then_o the_o child_n will_v dislike_v of_o you_o and_o turn_v from_o you_o as_o his_o subject_n do_v from_o he_o but_o you_o must_v come_v to_o they_o as_o david_n come_v to_o the_o people_n after_o saules_n death_n 7._o who_o say_v though_o your_o master_n saul_n be_v dead_a yet_o i_o will_v reign_v over_o you_o so_o you_o must_v say_v to_o they_o though_o your_o father_n be_v dead_a or_o though_o your_o mother_n be_v dead_a yet_o i_o will_v be_v a_o father_n or_o i_o will_v be_v a_o mother_n unto_o you_o so_o the_o child_n will_v love_v you_o as_o much_o as_o they_o do_v their_o dead_a father_n or_o dead_a mother_n for_o that_o man_n that_o be_v lead_v with_o discretion_n reason_n and_o consideration_n will_v reckon_v himself_o and_o his_o wife_n all_o one_o and_o likewise_o she_o will_v account_v herself_o and_o her_o husband_n as_o one_o and_o therefore_o they_o ought_v to_o account_v both_o the_o child_n of_o the_o one_o and_o of_o the_o other_o as_o common_a to_o they_o both_o for_o if_o friendship_n make_v all_o thing_n common_a among_o friend_n insomuch_o that_o they_o have_v love_v &_o favour_v their_o friend_n child_n as_o their_o own_o how_o much_o more_o effectual_o and_o perfect_o ought_v marriage_n to_o cause_v the_o same_o which_o be_v the_o high_a degree_n not_o only_o of_o friendship_n but_o also_o of_o all_o blood_n and_o kindred_n but_o stepmother_n do_v more_o often_o offend_v and_o fail_v in_o this_o duty_n than_o man_n by_o reason_n that_o their_o affection_n be_v strong_a than_o man_n and_o many_o time_n over-rule_v they_o and_o therefore_o they_o be_v earnest_o to_o be_v admonish_v and_o warn_v that_o they_o show_v to_o those_o motherless_a child_n no_o stepmother_n friendship_n but_o a_o right_n motherly_a kindness_n let_v the_o stepmother_n advise_o consider_v that_o god_n have_v ordain_v and_o appoint_v she_o in_o steast_n of_o their_o own_o mother_n to_o be_v to_o they_o a_o right_n true_a mother_n and_o not_o only_o to_o regard_v they_o as_o child_n but_o as_o orphan_n child_n and_o that_o he_o require_v she_o to_o love_v they_o and_o to_o do_v they_o good_a as_o to_o her_o own_o what_o a_o grief_n will_v it_o be_v to_o her_o heart_n if_o she_o shall_v know_v now_o that_o her_o own_o child_n who_o she_o have_v bear_v in_o she_o own_o body_n shall_v after_o her_o death_n have_v a_o stepmother_n that_o will_v be_v rigorous_a churlish_a and_o unkind_a unto_o they_o doubtless_o those_o child_n mother_n that_o dead_a be_v have_v upon_o her_o deathbed_n no_o less_o care_n for_o her_o child_n let_v she_o therefore_o always_o have_v in_o mind_n this_o say_n of_o our_o saviour_n christ_n as_o you_o measure_v unto_o other_o so_o it_o shall_v be_v measure_v to_o you_o again_o that_o be_v as_o the_o stepmother_n do_v entreat_v the_o child_n of_o her_o predecessor_n so_o another_o wife_n may_v come_v after_o she_o and_o entreat_v her_o child_n for_o he_o that_o take_v away_o the_o first_o mother_n and_o send_v she_o can_v take_v away_o the_o second_o mother_n and_o send_v a_o three_o which_o will_v not_o be_v like_o a_o stead-mother_n to_o she_o unless_o she_o be_v like_o a_o stead-mother_n to_o these_o very_o a_o good_a woman_n will_v be_v unto_o her_o husband_n child_n that_o which_o she_o may_v hear_v they_o call_v she_o so_o often_o that_o be_v mother_n for_o what_o christian_a woman_n be_v so_o far_o from_o all_o humanity_n and_o natural_a affection_n that_o will_v not_o be_v move_v and_o mitigate_v with_o this_o word_n mother_n of_o who_o soever_o it_o be_v speak_v and_o chief_o of_o child_n which_o can_v flatter_v but_o speak_v even_o so_o from_o their_o heart_n as_o they_o will_v to_o their_o own_o mother_n of_o who_o they_o be_v bear_v how_o sweet_a be_v the_o name_n of_o friendship_n how_o many_o injury_n hatred_n and_o displeasure_n do_v it_o hide_v and_o put_v away_o then_o how_o much_o more_o effectual_a ought_v the_o sweet_a name_n of_o mother_n to_o be_v which_o be_v full_a of_o incredible_a love_n therefore_o every_o religious_a and_o love_a wife_n will_v be_v mollify_v and_o move_v in_o her_o heart_n and_o mind_n when_o she_o shall_v hear_v herself_o name_v mother_n by_o any_o of_o her_o husband_n child_n otherwise_o she_o shall_v show_v herself_o to_o be_v more_o unnatural_a and_o unkind_a than_o the_o wild_a savage_a beast_n for_o there_o be_v no_o beast_n so_o outrageous_a and_o cruel_a but_o if_o any_o other_o young_a beast_n of_o her_o own_o kind_a fawn_n upon_o she_o she_o will_v by_o and_o by_o show_v kindness_n and_o mildness_n unto_o it_o and_o shall_v not_o her_o husband_n child_n make_v her_o kind_n &_o love_a unto_o they_o when_o they_o call_v and_o speak_v unto_o she_o by_o the_o love_a and_o sweet_a name_n of_o mother_n 3._o the_o three_o and_o last_o point_n that_o appertain_v therein_o to_o the_o duty_n of_o wife_n be_v that_o they_o do_v not_o wear_v gorgeous_a and_o sumptuous_a apparel_n or_o broider_a hair_n trim_v with_o gold_n but_o that_o after_o the_o example_n of_o holy_a woman_n which_o trust_v in_o god_n they_o be_v sober_a in_o outward_a apparel_n &_o garnish_v and_o deck_v inward_o with_o virtue_n of_o their_o mind_n as_o with_o gentleness_n meekness_n quietness_n and_o chastity_n which_o indeed_o be_v most_o precious_a thing_n in_o the_o sight_n of_o god_n this_o point_n be_v plain_o speak_v of_o by_o the_o apostle_n to_o timothy_n chap._n 2._o vers_fw-la 10_o in_o which_o place_n he_o so_o flat_o condemn_v both_o the_o excess_n and_o pride_n of_o ash_n apparel_n as_o also_o the_o pomp_n curiosity_n and_o wantonness_n which_o woman_n use_v in_o trim_v their_o head_n by_o plait_v cripe_a broyd_v curl_v and_o curious_o lay_v out_o that_o no_o man_n can_v say_v more_o against_o it_o in_o few_o word_n than_o he_o have_v speak_v to_o the_o utter_a dislike_n thereof_o for_o if_o a_o man_n shall_v occupy_v himself_o and_o give_v liberty_n to_o his_o pen_n to_o write_v of_o the_o horrible_a abuse_n and_o excessive_a pride_n that_o many_o woman_n be_v guilty_a of_o in_o this_o behalf_n he_o shall_v rather_o want_v time_n to_o write_v than_o matter_n to_o deliver_v therefore_o such_o woman_n as_o will_v not_o reform_v themselves_o we_o leave_v they_o to_o the_o lord_n who_o no_o doubt_n will_v in_o his_o appoint_a time_n not_o only_o severe_o punish_v they_o but_o also_o their_o husband_n for_o suffer_v this_o great_a wickedness_n and_o dissoluteness_n in_o their_o wife_n as_o he_o do_v the_o jew_n for_o the_o same_o sin_n as_o plain_o may_v be_v teen_n in_o isaiah_n 3._o 16._o etc._n etc._n for_o so_o it_o fall_v out_o according_a to_o the_o common_a proverb_n that_o pride_n go_v before_o and_o shame_n and_o destruction_n come_v after_o and_o on_o the_o contrary_a 18._o part_n we_o hope_v that_o such_o woman_n as_o be_v true_a professor_n of_o christ_n and_o his_o religion_n will_v both_o attire_n and_o dress_v their_o head_n so_o decent_o and_o also_o content_v themselves_o with_o such_o comely_a apparel_n as_o best_o beseem_v their_o call_n and_o degree_n so_o as_o by_o their_o good_a example_n they_o may_v draw_v on_o 3._o other_o woman_n to_o reform_v themselves_o in_o this_o behalf_n and_o so_o rather_o come_v short_a of_o that_o which_o their_o ability_n and_o place_n will_v serve_v to_o maintain_v than_o any_o way_n to_o exceed_v therein_o to_o the_o slander_n of_o their_o profession_n and_o let_v they_o not_o so_o much_o regard_v what_o thing_n they_o will_v fain_o have_v but_o rather_o what_o they_o apparel_n can_v well_o be_v without_o so_o that_o whatsoever_o they_o have_v no_o need_n of_o be_v too_o dear_a of_o a_o farthing_n the_o duty_n of_o parent_n towards_o their_o child_n this_o duty_n consist_v in_o four_o point_n first_o that_o father_n and_o mother_n occupation_n do_v instruct_v and_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n even_o from_o the_o cradle_n in_o the_o fear_n &_o nurture_n of_o the_o lord_n second_o that_o they_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o shame_n fastness_n hatred_n of_o vice_n and_o love_n of_o all_o virtue_n
of_o the_o owner_n to_o be_v use_v even_o so_o child_n well-taught_a be_v at_o the_o commandment_n of_o godly_a parent_n 5._o last_o jet_n parent_n remember_v how_o many_o sin_n they_o commit_v and_o heap_v one_o upon_o another_o which_o do_v not_o their_o duty_n in_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n as_o they_o ought_v to_o do_v first_o they_o transgress_v the_o law_n of_o nature_n which_o tell_v all_o man_n that_o their_o duty_n be_v to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n godly_o and_o honest_o second_o they_o sin_n against_o 6._o god_n for_o they_o despise_v the_o commandment_n and_o authority_n of_o god_n for_o he_o command_v that_o child_n shall_v be_v bring_v up_o religious_o and_o honest_o but_o he_o be_v a_o despiser_n of_o god_n that_o refuse_v to_o do_v as_o he_o be_v command_v three_o they_o offend_v against_o their_o own_o credit_n and_o estimation_n for_o god_n will_v be_v that_o parent_n shall_v after_o a_o sort_n be_v in_o his_o stead_n so_o far_o forth_o as_o pertain_v to_o outward_a discipline_n but_o such_o make_v 27._o small_a account_n of_o this_o dignity_n who_o neglect_v their_o duty_n in_o this_o behalf_n parent_n be_v further_a to_o understand_v that_o it_o be_v their_o duty_n to_o have_v diligent_a care_n to_o have_v their_o child_n teach_v to_o pray_v to_o god_n and_o to_o rehearse_v the_o apostle_n creed_n and_o the_o ten_o commendement_n for_o as_o by_o this_o exercise_n their_o heart_n and_o mind_n shall_v the_o rather_o be_v incline_v to_o godliness_n and_o reverence_n towards_o god_n so_o as_o they_o increase_v in_o age_n they_o shall_v every_o day_n better_o than_o other_o comprehend_v that_o which_o they_o learn_v to_o their_o own_o comfort_n instruction_n and_o salvation_n also_o the_o tongue_n be_v call_v the_o glory_n of_o man_n because_o that_o beside_o all_o other_o reason_n by_o his_o speech_n he_o be_v discern_v from_o the_o bruit_n beast_n so_o it_o be_v meet_v that_o so_o soon_o as_o the_o child_n can_v begin_v to_o speak_v his_o tongue_n shall_v be_v employ_v to_o glorify_v god_n by_o call_v upon_o he_o and_o by_o learn_v some_o short_a catechism_n contain_v the_o principle_n and_o ground_n of_o christian_a religion_n as_o also_o in_o repeat_v the_o will_n of_o god_n in_o such_o sort_n as_o he_o will_v that_o we_o shall_v serve_v and_o honour_v he_o if_o parent_n do_v note_n and_o perceive_v any_o vice_n in_o their_o little_a one_o as_o swear_v lie_a choler_n envy_n filch_v covetousness_n contempt_n of_o parent_n readiness_n to_o strike_v and_o other_o like_a corruption_n it_o be_v their_o duty_n diligent_o and_o in_o time_n to_o reprove_v and_o correct_v they_o as_o man_n use_v to_o pluck_v up_o weed_n while_o they_o be_v yet_o young_a lest_o grow_v up_o among_o the_o good_a seed_n they_o shall_v hinder_v their_o growth_n and_o choke_v they_o up_o by_o experience_n we_o can_v see_v that_o mother_n in_o swaddle_a their_o little_a one_o do_v lay_v their_o limb_n right_a each_o in_o his_o place_n likewise_o if_o a_o child_n be_v give_v to_o be_v leave_v hand_v they_o chide_v he_o yea_o sometime_o they_o bind_v it_o up_o or_o otherwise_o restrain_v the_o use_n of_o it_o that_o he_o may_v be_v accustom_v to_o use_v his_o right_a hand_n also_o if_o the_o child_n have_v some_o string_n under_o his_o tongue_n they_o cut_v it_o lest_o it_o shall_v hinder_v his_o speech_n much_o more_o than_o ought_v they_o to_o beware_v that_o through_o their_o negligence_n the_o vice_n of_o the_o soul_n do_v not_o increase_v for_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o parent_n even_o in_o the_o infancy_n to_o begin_v to_o shape_n and_o frame_v the_o foul_a unto_o virtue_n it_o be_v also_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n to_o provide_v that_o their_o child_n may_v learn_v at_o the_o least_o to_o write_v and_o rcade_v for_o it_o may_v be_v unto_o they_o a_o great_a help_n in_o the_o course_n of_o this_o life_n and_o a_o treasure_n of_o much_o great_a account_n than_o money_n and_o therefore_o the_o negligence_n ofmany_n be_v sharp_o to_o be_v reprove_v beside_o that_o the_o performance_n of_o this_o duty_n do_v great_o bind_v their_o child_n unto_o they_o nevertheless_o the_o principal_a end_n thereof_o shall_v not_o have_v respect_n to_o such_o commodity_n as_o the_o child_n may_v reap_v thereby_o towards_o the_o use_n of_o this_o present-life_n but_o rather_o that_o they_o may_v read_v the_o word_n of_o god_n to_o their_o comfort_n and_o instruction_n to_o salvation_n also_o it_o 〈◊〉_d their_o part_n to_o use_v they_o daily_o to_o read_v some_o chapter_n of_o the_o holy_a scripture_n thereby_o to_o incline_v and_o win_v their_o affection_n to_o the_o word_n of_o god_n to_o inure_v and_o acquaint_v they_o in_o the_o phrase_n of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n by_o little_a and_o little_a to_o learn_v the_o heavenly_a doctrine_n to_o note_v the_o example_n of_o god_n vengeance_n pour_v upon_o the_o wicked_a and_o disobedient_a and_o of_o his_o blessing_n unto_o those_o that_o walk_v in_o his_o fear_n therefore_o if_o parent_n do_v look_v that_o their_o child_n shall_v obey_v they_o then_o let_v they_o join_v and_o accustom_v they_o to_o god_n word_n which_o will_v redound_v much_o to_o their_o parent_n profit_n if_o they_o cause_v their_o child_n to_o hear_v and_o read_v the_o holy_a scripture_n therein_o they_o may_v learn_v honour_v thy_o father_n and_o thy_o mother_n but_o if_o parent_n do_v otherwise_o than_o they_o train_v they_o up_o in_o the_o scripture_n of_o devil_n whereout_o their_o child_n will_v learn_v most_o wicked_a thing_n but_o it_o be_v not_o so_o when_o they_o be_v instruct_v in_o the_o holy_a scripture_n parent_n therefore_o be_v diligent_o to_o apply_v themselves_o to_o this_o which_o god_n command_v and_o so_o often_o and_o earnest_o commend_v unto_o they_o namely_o to_o instruct_v their_o child_n in_o the_o knowledge_n and_o fear_n ofgod_o and_o in_o the_o faith_n of_o jesus_n christ_n deut._n 6._o 6._o 7._o and_o 32._o 46._o ephes._n 6._o 4._o so_o also_o to_o teach_v they_o those_o thing_n which_o they_o be_v to_o use_v in_o their_o age_n it_o be_v then_o great_a folly_n to_o linger_v child_n in_o the_o learning_n of_o vain_a 〈◊〉_d and_o unprofitable_a thing_n which_o as_o they_o grow_v in_o year_n they_o will_v contemn_v and_o forget_v parent_n can_v be_v careful_a enough_o to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n in_o some_o course_n trade_n or_o other_o estate_n wherein_o to_o get_v their_o live_n when_o they_o come_v to_o be_v man_n and_o very_o such_o father_n as_o do_v neglect_n that_o be_v unworthy_a to_o have_v child_n but_o as_o the_o soul_n be_v more_o precious_a than_o the_o body_n so_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n in_o youth_n to_o train_v up_o their_o child_n in_o the_o practice_n of_o those_o thing_n wherewith_o in_o age_n even_o in_o this_o life_n they_o may_v glorify_v god_n and_o be_v heir_n of_o the_o lord_n if_o parent_n want_v knowledge_n or_o beunwilling_a to_o take_v leisure_n to_o teach_v they_o yet_o let_v they_o do_v as_o much_o for_o their_o child_n soul_n and_o the_o life_n to_o come_v as_o for_o their_o body_n and_o this_o present_a life_n parent_n that_o either_o can_v write_v and_o read_v or_o will_v not_o or_o have_v no_o time_n to_o teach_v their_o child_n will_v yet_o send_v they_o to_o school_v and_o such_o as_o will_v have_v they_o learn_v some_o art_n or_o occupation_n or_o traffic_n if_o themselves_o profess_v not_o the_o same_o wherein_o they_o like_v to_o employ_v their_o child_n they_o will_v yet_o put_v they_o to_o dwell_v with_o those_o that_o do_v profess_v the_o same_o to_o the_o end_n they_o may_v learn_v how_o therefore_o can_v parent_n excuse_v themselves_o when_o their_o child_n remain_v untaught_a in_o those_o thing_n that_o concern_v the_o glory_n of_o god_n and_o life_n everlasting_a but_o howsoever_o it_o be_v if_o they_o be_v neither_o able_a of_o themselves_o nor_o do_v provide_v to_o have_v they_o teach_v by_o other_o they_o shall_v be_v inexcusable_a in_o the_o sight_n of_o god_n &_o the_o ignorance_n of_o the_o child_n engender_v contempt_n of_o god_n love_n of_o the_o world_n and_o neglect_v of_o heavenly_a felicity_n will_v cry_v out_o for_o everlasting_a vengeance_n against_o their_o parent_n so_o that_o if_o they_o account_v not_o their_o child_n as_o beast_n without_o soul_n or_o if_o they_o love_v they_o with_o the_o due_a love_n belong_v to_o parent_n let_v they_o declare_v their_o love_n especial_o to_o the_o soul_n the_o christian_a instruction_n whereof_o surmount_v all_o worldly_a treasure_n some_o say_v it_o will_v be_v a_o great_a comfort_n for_o they_o in_o heaven_n to_o know_v their_o near_a kindred_n and_o consequent_o their_o child_n and_o this_o come_v of_o natural_a affection_n but_o may_v it_o not_o be_v a_o great_a discomfort_n for_o they_o
even_o in_o their_o life_n time_n to_o see_v they_o go_v to_o hell_n for_o want_n of_o instruction_n some_o charge_n their_o child_n to_o be_v dull_a witted_a and_o hard_o to_o be_v bow_v or_o bring_v to_o any_o goodness_n or_o virtue_n albeit_o natural_a inclination_n be_v a_o great_a help_n to_o profit_v yet_o exercise_n and_o custom_n to_o do_v well_o be_v a_o mighty_a mean_n to_o bend_v and_o sharp_a they_o that_o way_n yea_o even_o such_o that_o by_o experience_n we_o find_v this_o old_a proverb_n true_a use_v over_o come_v nature_n as_o the_o wheelewright_n do_v by_o strength_n bow_v his_o timber_n and_o let_v it_o lie_v long_o in_o that_o bent_n it_o bide_v crooked_a barren_a ground_n well_o till_v soil_v and_o sow_v with_o good_a seed_n grow_v fruitful_a and_o yield_v good_a increase_n iron_n wear_v with_o handle_v the_o water_n by_o continual_a drop_n wear_v the_o stone_n wild_a beast_n may_v be_v tame_v and_o wild_a colt_n by_o custom_n be_v bring_v to_o the_o saddle_n and_o be_v content_a to_o be_v lead_v by_o the_o bridle_n even_o so_o the_o dull_a capacity_n may_v by_o instruction_n and_o custom_n be_v fashion_v to_o virtue_n as_o contrariwise_o the_o wiz_n most_o incline_v by_o nature_n to_o virtue_n may_v by_o bad_a instruction_n and_o the_o conversation_n of_o the_o wicked_a be_v pervert_v and_o grow_v vicious_a parent_n therefore_o be_v herein_o to_o respect_v two_o point_n first_o to_o begin_v to_o frame_v and_o bend_v their_o child_n in_o their_o tender_a youth_n to_o virtue_n remember_v that_o a_o seal_n enter_v deep_a into_o soft_a wax_n they_o must_v be_v careful_a that_o they_o do_v not_o speak_v or_o tell_v any_o foolish_a tale_n bawdy_a rhyme_n or_o ungodly_a speech_n before_o their_o child_n lest_o they_o infect_v their_o tender_a wit_n with_o folly_n and_o astonishment_n experience_n show_v that_o child_n will_v soon_o learn_v any_o language_n by_o conversation_n then_o elder_a folk_n also_o that_o the_o young_a the_o twig_n be_v the_o soon_o it_o be_v bend_v or_o make_v straight_o second_o it_o be_v the_o parent_n duty_n to_o restrain_v their_o child_n from_o haunt_v and_o converse_v with_o such_o as_o be_v vicious_a perverse_a and_o wicked_a and_o undoubted_o we_o see_v that_o they_o do_v soon_o learn_v villainous_a and_o unseemly_a speech_n and_o malicious_a lewd_a action_n with_o their_o corruption_n and_o as_o the_o old_a proverb_n say_v halt_v with_o the_o lame_a they_o shall_v learn_v to_o halt_v a_o child_n that_o natural_o speak_v well_o by_o converse_v with_o such_o as_o corrupt_v their_o speech_n shall_v degenerate_v and_o speak_v as_o bad_o tie_v a_o young_a twig_n that_o be_v crooked_a with_o a_o straight_a one_o that_o be_v strong_a than_o it_o and_o in_o grow_v it_o will_v become_v straight_o and_o so_o continue_v when_o it_o be_v undo_v and_o contrariwise_o a_o straight_a one_o tie_v to_o that_o which_o be_v crooked_a and_o strong_a than_o itself_o will_v grow_v and_o continue_v crooked_a moreover_o parent_n when_o they_o mean_v to_o put_v forth_o their_o child_n to_o any_o trade_n or_o occupation_n or_o to_o learning_n than_o they_o ought_v careful_o to_o see_v and_o inquire_v whether_o such_o as_o they_o think_v to_o place_v they_o withal_o be_v religious_a and_o virtuous_a and_o endue_v with_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n in_o the_o admittance_n of_o a_o servant_n the_o fear_n of_o some_o temporal_a or_o carnal_a inconvenience_n cause_v man_n to_o inquire_v of_o his_o or_o her_o truth_n honesty_n or_o other_o quality_n therefore_o if_o parent_n shall_v commit_v their_o child_n to_o the_o order_n and_o instruction_n of_o a_o master_n before_o they_o make_v enquiry_n of_o his_o honesty_n and_o christian_a conversation_n they_o plain_o show_v that_o they_o have_v less_o care_n of_o the_o corrupt_a or_o infect_v of_o their_o child_n with_o vice_n then_o of_o some_o small_a inconvenience_n that_o may_v happen_v by_o a_o unhonest_a and_o unthriftie_a servant_n when_o man_n buy_v a_o earthen_a pot_n they_o sound_v upon_o it_o to_o see_v whether_o it_o be_v break_v lest_o they_o shall_v be_v deceive_v in_o a_o small_a piece_n of_o money_n yet_o do_v they_o not_o sound_v whether_o the_o master_n to_o who_o they_o commit_v their_o child_n be_v vicious_a or_o virtuous_a albeit_o by_o put_v and_o place_v he_o with_o one_o that_o be_v vicious_a and_o irreligious_a they_o put_v he_o in_o danger_n of_o loss_n both_o of_o body_n and_o soul_n some_o do_v respect_n their_o friendship_n with_o some_o master_n rather_o than_o their_o virtue_n and_o so_o do_v commit_v to_o they_o their_o child_n lest_o they_o shall_v be_v angry_a for_o put_v they_o to_o another_o these_o man_n do_v resemble_v and_o be_v like_o he_o who_o be_v dangerous_o sick_a use_v the_o advice_n of_o a_o ignorant_a physician_n that_o be_v his_o kinsman_n or_o familiar_a friend_n for_o fear_v he_o shall_v take_v offence_n if_o he_o shall_v call_v another_o albeit_o without_o comparison_n more_o learned_a and_o skilful_a if_o thou_o shall_v liave_v any_o weighty_a matter_n in_o law_n will_v thou_o rather_o commit_v thy_o cause_n to_o a_o ignorant_a and_o negligent_a attorney_n because_o he_o be_v thy_o friend_n then_o to_o he_o that_o be_v both_o diligent_a and_o learned_a make_v a_o voyage_n through_o some_o dangerous_a sea_n will_v thou_o in_o a_o tempest_n commit_v thy_o ship_n to_o a_o young_a pilot_n unskilful_a or_o drink_v because_o he_o be_v thy_o friend_n what_o a_o fool_n be_v thou_o that_o will_v not_o take_v the_o like_a care_n of_o the_o profit_n honour_n safety_n and_o salvation_n of_o thy_o child_n other_o commit_v their_o child_n either_o to_o he_o that_o will_v take_v they_o at_o the_o easy_a rate_n or_o by_o who_o they_o may_v grow_v into_o great_a advancement_n in_o the_o world_n but_o never_o respect_v the_o hazard_n of_o their_o child_n so_o they_o may_v either_o spare_v or_o get_v worldly_a good_n let_v they_o also_o be_v careful_a to_o restrain_v their_o child_n from_o vice_n and_o to_o inure_v and_o accustom_v they_o to_o virtue_n and_o indeed_o the_o father_n that_o instruct_v or_o cause_v their_o child_n to_o be_v instruct_v do_v far_o excel_v such_o as_o only_o do_v beget_v they_o for_o of_o these_o they_o 〈◊〉_d life_n only_o of_o the_o other_o good_a and_o virtuous_a life_n yet_o parent_n ought_v not_o so_o much_o to_o rely_v and_o rest_v upon_o the_o diligence_n of_o their_o child_n master_n as_o never_o to_o care_v to_o understand_v how_o they_o profit_n and_o go_v forward_o in_o learning_n and_o virtue_n for_o the_o regard_n of_o such_o diligence_n will_v make_v the_o master_n more_o careful_o to_o discharge_v their_o duty_n and_o thereof_o come_v the_o proverb_n the_o master_n eye_n fat_v the_o horse_n and_o this_o the_o master_n eye_n be_v the_o fruitfulness_n of_o the_o garden_n upon_o these_o sin_n ensue_v many_o punishment_n both_o ghostly_a and_o bodily_a as_o well_o in_o the_o parent_n as_o in_o the_o child_n yea_o and_o in_o all_o the_o posterity_n the_o holy_a scripture_n give_v great_a commendation_n to_o sundry_a man_n and_o woman_n for_o their_o godly_a education_n and_o virtuous_a bring_v up_o of_o their_o child_n as_o to_o abraham_n for_o he_o command_v 5._o his_o son_n and_o his_o household_n to_o keep_v the_o way_n of_o the_o lord_n so_o david_n counsel_v his_o son_n 〈◊〉_d to_o serve_v god_n with_o a_o perfect_a heart_n and_o a_o willing_a mind_n it_o be_v say_v also_o of_o cornelius_n that_o he_o authority_n fear_v god_n and_o all_o his_o household_n likewise_o of_o eunice_n the_o mother_n of_o timothy_n that_o she_o nourish_v up_o her_o son_n in_o the_o word_n of_o faith_n and_o good_a doctrine_n for_o where_o a_o virtuous_a and_o godly_a childhood_n go_v before_o there_o a_o godly_a and_o virtuous_a age_n follow_v after_o contrariwise_o when_o the_o parent_n be_v not_o careful_a to_o teach_v their_o child_n to_o know_v god_n and_o to_o know_v themselves_o when_o they_o do_v not_o breed_v they_o up_o in_o virtue_n nor_o reprove_v they_o when_o they_o do_v amiss_o example_n they_o then_o become_v corrupt_a in_o their_o understanding_n and_o abominable_a in_o their_o do_v ignorant_a and_o void_a of_o all_o knowledge_n and_o grace_n and_o of_o reverence_n or_o feel_n of_o nature_n if_o parent_n be_v desirous_a to_o have_v their_o child_n virtuous_a and_o honest_a indeed_o as_o in_o conscience_n they_o ought_v then_o they_o must_v be_v diligent_a and_o careful_a to_o practice_v godliness_n &_o honesty_n themselves_o for_o we_o see_v by_o experience_n according_a to_o tree_n the_o common_a proverb_n as_o the_o old_a cock_n crow_v the_o young_a learn_v such_o a_o father_n such_o a_o son_n &_o such_o a_o mother_n such_o a_o daughter_n for_o like_a as_o when_o the_o head_n be_v well_o and_o sound_a and_o also_o the_o stomach_n pure_a from_o hurtful_a humour_n
elie_n be_v correct_v himself_o for_o not_o 6._o correct_v his_o son_n which_o be_v a_o notable_a example_n necessary_a for_o all_o parent_n to_o imprint_v in_o their_o heart_n that_o they_o may_v see_v their_o child_n well_o teach_v and_o correct_v lest_o they_o procure_v the_o wrath_n of_o god_n to_o fall_v upon_o they_o as_o it_o do_v upon_o this_o elie_n who_o honour_v his_o child_n above_o the_o lord_n and_o therefore_o the_o lord_n cut_v he_o and_o they_o off_o for_o the_o comfort_n he_o have_v of_o his_o son_n be_v this_o the_o ark_n the_o witness_n of_o the_o lord_n presence_n be_v lose_v thirty_o thousand_o of_o the_o people_n slay_v his_o two_o son_n hophni_n and_o phineas_n kill_v himself_o when_o news_n thereof_o come_v unto_o he_o for_o sorrow_n fall_v backward_o and_o break_v his_o neck_n upon_o this_o his_o daughter_n in_o law_n fall_v in_o travel_n and_o in_o travel_n die_v the_o remnant_n of_o his_o house_n be_v glad_a to_o crave_v and_o beg_v for_o a_o small_a piece_n of_o silver_n and_o a_o morsel_n of_o bread_n also_o the_o two_o and_o forty_o child_n that_o mock_v elisha_n the_o lord_n prophet_n say_v come_v up_o thou_o 24_o bald-head_n be_v rend_v in_o piece_n with_o bear_n thus_o we_o see_v that_o child_n untaught_a and_o unchastize_v bring_v shame_n and_o confusion_n to_o their_o parent_n let_v they_o therefore_o always_o remember_v this_o that_o they_o provide_v and_o bestow_v diligent_a labour_n reverence_n that_o their_o child_n be_v forthwith_o instruct_v in_o virtue_n and_o godliness_n while_o their_o wit_n be_v yet_o void_a from_o care_n and_o vice_n and_o while_o their_o age_n be_v tender_a and_o tractable_a and_o their_o mind_n flexible_a and_o ready_a to_o every_o thing_n for_o than_o they_o will_v keep_v fast_o good_a lesson_n and_o virtuous_a precept_n if_o they_o be_v teach_v they_o for_o this_o be_v certain_a that_o we_o remember_v nothing_o so_o well_o when_o we_o be_v old_a as_o those_o thing_n we_o learn_v in_o young_a year_n it_o shall_v be_v convenient_a and_o profitable_a therefore_o to_o handle_v the_o wax_n straight_o way_n while_o it_o be_v moist_a to_o season_v those_o earthen_a vessel_n with_o very_a good_a liquor_n while_o they_o be_v new_a to_o die_v and_o little_a the_o wool_n while_o it_o be_v fair_a and_o white_a and_o not_o defile_v with_o any_o spot_n the_o emmet_n or_o pismire_n 7._o be_v not_o teach_v to_o gather_v into_o their_o hole_n or_o hillock_n in_o summer_n whereby_o they_o shall_v live_v in_o winter_n bee_n learn_v not_o to_o make_v their_o cell_n to_o gather_v juice_n and_o to_o make_v honey_n but_o all_o these_o thing_n be_v do_v by_o instinction_n of_o nature_n so_o every_o live_a thing_n the_o less_o meet_v it_o be_v to_o learning_n so_o much_o the_o more_o it_o have_v of_o native_a prudence_n but_o man_n neither_o can_v eat_v nor_o go_v nor_o speak_v except_o he_o be_v teach_v then_o if_o fertile_a field_n for_o want_n of_o tillage_n wax_v barren_a if_o tree_n be_v neglect_v either_o bring_v forth_o no_o fruit_n or_o else_o the_o same_o unsavourie_n without_o diligence_n or_o graft_n and_o prune_v if_o dog_n be_v unmeet_a to_o hunt_v the_o horse_n and_o ox_n unapt_a to_o the_o plough_n except_o man_n diligence_n be_v put_v thereto_o how_o vile_a then_o and_o unprofitable_a creature_n will_v child_n become_v except_o diligent_o and_o in_o due_a time_n they_o shall_v be_v fashion_v by_o good_a bring_v up_o what_o a_o shame_n be_v this_o for_o any_o man_n to_o take_v great_a care_n to_o have_v his_o dog_n well_o teach_v his_o horse_n well_o break_v his_o land_n well_o husband_v his_o house_n goodly_a trim_v and_o rich_o furnish_v and_o yet_o to_o have_v his_o child_n shameful_o rude_a in_o manner_n and_o altogether_o void_a of_o all_o garnish_n and_o instruction_n of_o virtue_n and_o godliness_n what_o a_o great_a folly_n and_o madness_n be_v this_o for_o a_o father_n to_o take_v great_a care_n and_o thought_n how_o to_o get_v money_n and_o possession_n and_o to_o have_v no_o regard_n of_o his_o child_n for_o who_o the_o same_o be_v get_v this_o be_v no_o less_o shame_n to_o hear_v then_o if_o a_o man_n take_v think_v for_o the_o shoe_n will_v set_v nought_o by_o the_o foot_n or_o with_o great_a care_n and_o study_n will_v provide_v that_o there_o shall_v be_v no_o fault_n in_o the_o child_n garment_n not_o regard_v the_o health_n of_o his_o body_n this_o be_v as_o the_o common_a say_n be_v to_o be_v penny_n wise_a and_o pound_n foolish_a to_o save_v a_o stick_n and_o burn_v a_o house_n to_o save_v a_o joint_n and_o lose_v the_o body_n but_o oh_o vain_a man_n have_v thou_o more_o care_n and_o desire_v to_o leave_v thy_o son_n fair_a building_n and_o full_a of_o land_n then_o for_o to_o instruct_v he_o in_o the_o way_n of_o godliness_n and_o so_o leave_v he_o a_o virtuous_a consceince_n have_v thou_o rather_o a_o desire_n to_o hoard_v up_o treasure_n for_o he_o with_o 19_o rust_n and_o moth_n to_o be_v consume_v then_o to_o teach_v he_o the_o knowledge_n of_o god_n which_o will_v not_o canker_n but_o last_o for_o aye_o most_o parent_n a_o pitiful_a thing_n to_o remember_v be_v love_v to_o the_o body_n of_o their_o child_n but_o their_o soul_n they_o care_v not_o for_o they_o desire_v their_o welfare_n in_o this_o world_n but_o they_o pass_v not_o what_o they_o shall_v suffer_v in_o the_o world_n to_o come_v yea_o father_n provide_v land_n rent_n revenue_n great_a annuity_n fee_n and_o office_n for_o their_o child_n here_o but_o alas_o few_o provide_v or_o be_v careful_a to_o have_v they_o bring_v up_o in_o virtue_n and_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n for_o the_o loss_n of_o their_o life_n and_o body_n they_o will_v sore_o bewail_v and_o much_o jament_n but_o the_o health_n and_o salvation_n of_o their_o soul_n they_o make_v no_o reckon_n of_o if_o they_o see_v they_o poor_a and_o sick_a they_o sorrow_n and_o sigh_n but_o though_o they_o see_v they_o sin_n and_o great_o displease_v god_n they_o be_v nothing_o grieve_v it_o behoove_v that_o parent_n do_v careful_o observe_v unto_o what_o vice_n their_o child_n be_v most_o incline_v and_o so_o by_o good_a mean_n admonish_v and_o draw_v they_o from_o their_o sin_n as_o parent_n be_v careful_a to_o provide_v temporal_a thing_n for_o their_o child_n body_n which_o be_v transitory_a so_o much_o more_o careful_a aught_o they_o to_o be_v to_o provide_v spiritual_a thing_n for_o their_o soul_n and_o as_o they_o be_v diligent_a to_o keep_v the_o body_n of_o their_o child_n from_o fire_n and_o water_n when_o they_o be_v young_a so_o much_o more_o they_o ought_v to_o take_v care_n that_o their_o soul_n be_v not_o poison_v with_o vice_n and_o false_a and_o erroneous_a doctrine_n when_o they_o come_v to_o year_n of_o discretion_n and_o this_o be_v the_o most_o acceptable_a service_n that_o they_o can_v do_v to_o god_n child_n be_v call_v the_o fruit_n of_o their_o parent_n therefore_o as_o 33._o a_o good_a tree_n be_v know_v by_o bring_v forth_o good_a fruit_n so_o parent_n shall_v show_v their_o goodness_n in_o the_o good_a education_n of_o their_o child_n which_o be_v their_o fruit_n to_o teach_v a_o child_n in_o the_o trade_n of_o his_o way_n as_o solomon_n command_v prou._n 22._o 6._o be_v not_o only_o to_o instruct_v he_o unto_o godliness_n but_o also_o unto_o all_o other_o humane_a duty_n wherefore_o this_o duty_n than_o belong_v unto_o parent_n and_o they_o be_v bind_v to_o do_v it_o for_o who_o shall_v teach_v and_o inform_v reason_n the_o child_n but_o they_o which_o have_v the_o government_n and_o command_v of_o he_o but_o it_o be_v well_o know_v that_o parent_n only_o have_v the_o government_n and_o command_v of_o their_o child_n or_o such_o as_o they_o shall_v procure_v for_o their_o better_a education_n and_o therefore_o this_o charge_n and_o duty_n lie_v upon_o they_o and_o they_o must_v look_v unto_o it_o again_o this_o be_v apparent_a even_o by_o the_o general_a law_n of_o nature_n which_o have_v teach_v the_o very_a bruit_n beast_n to_o bring_v up_o their_o young_a and_o further_o this_o duty_n be_v yet_o enforce_v from_o the_o opportunity_n of_o the_o thing_n command_v for_o even_o as_o a_o plant_n will_v soon_o take_v nourishment_n and_o thrive_v better_o in_o the_o soil_n where_o it_o first_o grow_v or_o spring_v up_o then_o in_o any_o other_o ground_n because_o it_o like_v his_o own_o soil_n best_o so_o child_n will_v soon_o take_v instruction_n and_o good_a nurture_n from_o their_o parent_n who_o they_o best_o like_v and_o from_o who_o they_o have_v their_o first_o be_v then_o from_o any_o other_o and_o therefore_o you_o parent_n be_v in_o fault_n if_o your_o child_n be_v not_o well_o teach_v for_o whatsoever_o good_a come_v from_o the_o parent_n to_o the_o
child_n be_v natural_a and_o kind_o no_o otherwise_o then_o the_o warm_a milk_n from_o the_o mother_n dug_n you_o shall_v soon_o be_v hear_v of_o your_o child_n then_o either_o the_o sage_a counsel_n of_o the_o ancient_a or_o the_o forcible_a and_o move_a speech_n of_o the_o learned_a last_o the_o rule_n of_o justice_n do_v require_v that_o even_o as_o the_o first_o parent_n 3._o adam_n and_o so_o all_o other_o after_o he_o have_v be_v a_o mean_a of_o fall_v to_o their_o posterity_n in_o the_o beget_n of_o child_n in_o their_o own_o image_n which_o according_a to_o the_o law_n of_o creation_n shall_v have_v be_v bear_v god_n image_n so_o now_o in_o lieu_n of_o this_o all_o parent_n shall_v lend_v their_o hand_n to_o lift_v they_o up_o again_o &_o never_o cease_v until_o they_o see_v in_o some_o measure_n the_o beauty_n of_o the_o first_o image_n and_o the_o virtue_n of_o the_o second_o adam_n this_o be_v confirm_v by_o many_o testimony_n of_o scripture_n as_o among_o other_o these_o do_v prove_v deut._n 4._o 9_o and_o 11._o 18._o 19_o ephes._n 6._o 4._o psal._n 78._o 5._o and_o because_o this_o duty_n of_o parent_n be_v many_o time_n commit_v to_o schoolmaster_n to_o master_n of_o family_n to_o dame_n to_o patron_n and_o guardian_n and_o such_o like_a they_o must_v therefore_o understand_v whosoever_o they_o be_v that_o they_o be_v bind_v by_o the_o voice_n of_o the_o almighty_a to_o perform_v and_o to_o do_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n to_o all_o such_o as_o be_v commit_v to_o their_o charge_n as_o if_o they_o be_v their_o own_o child_n now_o the_o vice_n which_o some_o parent_n commit_v in_o not_o perform_v these_o duty_n before_o and_o after_o name_v and_o aught_o of_o they_o to_o be_v eschew_v be_v these_o first_o the_o ignorance_n of_o the_o parent_n as_o if_o they_o be_v so_o rude_a that_o they_o be_v not_o able_a to_o teach_v their_o child_n than_o they_o great_o offend_v god_n in_o the_o breach_n of_o this_o so_o necessary_a a_o duty_n and_o therefore_o they_o must_v indcuour_v to_o get_v so_o much_o nurture_n and_o knowledge_n as_o that_o they_o may_v be_v able_a to_o instruct_v other_o under_o they_o the_o second_o vice_n be_v the_o profaneness_n of_o many_o parent_n who_o so_o they_o may_v provide_v livelihood_n and_o necessary_n for_o their_o child_n they_o care_v for_o no_o more_o the_o three_o vice_n be_v commit_v of_o such_o poor_a parent_n which_o make_v no_o great_a choice_n with_o what_o master_n and_o dame_n they_o place_v their_o child_n so_o they_o may_v have_v meat_n and_o drink_n enough_o and_o wage_n thereto_o competent_a and_o be_v neither_o back-beaten_a nor_o belly-beaten_a as_o they_o say_v alas_o such_o poor_a child_n while_o they_o serve_v for_o their_o belly_n they_o may_v lose_v their_o soul_n because_o they_o want_v godly_a master_n and_o dame_n to_o give_v they_o wholesome_a instruction_n to_o hold_v they_o in_o by_o good_a example_n and_o to_o govern_v they_o continual_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o the_o lord_n wherefore_o here_o let_v all_o parent_n learn_v that_o it_o be_v their_o duty_n to_o make_v choice_n of_o such_o master_n and_o dame_n for_o their_o child_n as_o be_v godly_a and_o religious_a wise_a heart_a such_o as_o be_v both_o able_a and_o well_o dispose_v to_o train_v up_o youth_n in_o all_o good_a nurture_n and_o god_n service_n and_o not_o only_o this_o for_o the_o great_a care_n of_o all_o lie_v upon_o the_o parent_n but_o also_o they_o must_v so_o often_o as_o convenient_o they_o may_v repair_n unto_o they_o and_o see_v how_o they_o profit_v and_o hold_v they_o up_o by_o their_o good_a counsel_n and_o be_v careful_a to_o entreat_v those_o which_o have_v the_o government_n of_o they_o to_o be_v good_a unto_o they_o in_o this_o chief_a point_n above_o the_o rest_n for_o as_o solomon_n say_v life_n and_o 21._o death_n be_v in_o the_o power_n of_o the_o tongue_n so_o we_o may_v well_o say_v life_n and_o death_n be_v in_o the_o education_n of_o our_o child_n if_o they_o be_v well_o bring_v up_o it_o shall_v be_v life_n unto_o they_o but_o if_o it_o be_v otherwise_o they_o be_v train_v up_o to_o everlasting_a death_n 4._o the_o four_o vice_n be_v the_o fault_n of_o many_o master_n and_o dame_n who_o make_v no_o further_a reckon_n of_o their_o servant_n than_o they_o do_v of_o their_o bruit_n beast_n for_o so_o long_o as_o their_o work_n and_o business_n be_v well_o do_v by_o they_o they_o care_v for_o no_o more_o and_o they_o will_v teach_v they_o no_o further_o than_o may_v serve_v for_o their_o own_o turn_n and_o benefit_n that_o be_v to_o be_v a_o profitable_a servant_n unto_o they_o such_o master_n make_v their_o servant_n drudge_n to_o the_o world_n and_o the_o devil_n and_o the_o life_n of_o such_o youth_n die_v while_o it_o shoot_v up_o all_o these_o sin_n and_o trespass_n against_o the_o will_n and_o word_n of_o god_n because_o they_o be_v contrary_a to_o good_a nurture_n and_o godly_a instruction_n parent_n must_v be_v very_o careful_a that_o their_o child_n may_v learn_v some_o occupation_n or_o profession_n of_o life_n and_o this_o be_v either_o mechanical_a which_o we_o call_v handicraft_n or_o liberal_a which_o be_v the_o learning_n of_o school_n and_o the_o end_n of_o this_o be_v either_o to_o get_v their_o live_n honest_o and_o in_o god_n ordinance_n or_o else_o if_o they_o want_v no_o maintenance_n to_o apply_v their_o profession_n and_o trade_n to_o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o commonwealth_n no_o child_n of_o what_o birth_n or_o stock_n soever_o he_o be_v aught_o to_o want_v this_o instruction_n and_o bring_v up_o if_o thou_o say_v my_o child_n have_v no_o need_n of_o any_o trade_n yet_o the_o commonwealth_n and_o god_n church_n have_v need_n of_o he_o for_o no_o man_n be_v bear_v for_o himself_o but_o his_o friend_n will_v require_v one_o part_n his_o kindred_n another_o and_o his_o country_n the_o three_o and_o if_o handicraft_n like_o thou_o not_o thou_o have_v the_o liberal_a science_n of_o which_o no_o man_n ever_o be_v yet_o ashamed_a but_o many_o have_v make_v they_o their_o crown_n of_o glory_n saul_n be_v anoint_v king_n while_o he_o be_v seek_v 16._o his_o father_n ass_n and_o david_n be_v take_v from_o the_o sheepfold_a to_o feed_v with_o his_o wisdom_n 71._o and_o govern_v with_o prudence_n that_o honourable_a people_n the_o child_n of_o israel_n and_o again_o we_o read_v that_o those_o two_o famous_a prophet_n 2._o elisha_n and_o amos_n the_o one_o be_v call_v from_o the_o plough_n and_o the_o other_o from_o keep_v of_o beast_n which_o example_n do_v plain_o teach_v we_o that_o the_o great_a and_o reverend_a god_n despise_v no_o honest_a trade_n of_o life_n be_v it_o never_o so_o mean_a but_o crown_v it_o with_o his_o blessing_n to_o draw_v all_o good_a mind_n to_o his_o holy_a ordinance_n but_o now_o adays_o such_o be_v the_o pride_n of_o our_o heart_n a_o thing_n to_o be_v lament_v through_o all_o our_o land_n that_o many_o gentleman_n child_n may_v not_o be_v bring_v up_o in_o any_o trade_n oh_o it_o be_v too_o base_a and_o beggarly_a for_o they_o they_o must_v live_v of_o their_o land_n they_o must_v maintain_v their_o gentry_n a_o small_a learning_n will_v serve_v their_o turn_n but_o in_o the_o mean_a while_o this_o ordinance_n of_o god_n be_v neglect_v what_o misery_n from_o hence_o ensue_v who_o be_v the_o waster_n of_o patrimony_n who_o be_v the_o robber_n and_o rover_n in_o the_o commonwealth_n who_o be_v the_o deflowrer_n of_o maiden_n who_o be_v the_o defiler_n of_o 〈◊〉_d who_o be_v the_o corrupter_n of_o youth_n and_o to_o speak_v in_o one_o word_n who_o be_v the_o seedes-man_n of_o all_o mischief_n in_o our_o country_n but_o these_o child_n of_o gentleman_n who_o have_v not_o be_v teach_v and_o train_v up_o in_o learning_n or_o some_o occupation_n while_o they_o be_v young_a for_o even_o as_o a_o weed_n if_o it_o grow_v in_o a_o rank_n soil_n will_v wax_v out_o of_o measure_n noisome_a so_o these_o child_n come_v of_o honourable_a and_o worshipful_a parent_n bring_v up_o in_o ease_n and_o pamper_a with_o the_o delight_n of_o gentry_n they_o wax_v immeasurable_o vicious_a and_o who_o may_v keep_v they_o under_o neither_o law_n nor_o magistrate_n not_o any_o other_o good_a mean_a first_o parent_n must_v teach_v their_o child_n to_o use_v speech_n fair_a speech_n not_o only_o towards_o themselves_o but_o also_o towards_o other_o and_o to_o call_v their_o better_n by_o a_o reverend_a and_o honourable_a name_n 1._o sam._n 25._o 24._o mark_v 10._o 17._o prou._n 16._o 24._o second_o to_o speak_v modest_o and_o humble_o of_o themselves_o &_o this_o point_n of_o good_a manner_n they_o may_v learn_v of_o that_o wise_a matron_n abigail_n in_o 1._o sam._n 25._o 41._o where_o we_o read_v that_o
help_a hand_n to_o magistrate_n and_o minister_n they_o may_v indeed_o but_o unjust_o as_o many_o have_v do_v complain_v that_o their_o child_n be_v corrupt_v abroad_o when_o they_o be_v before_o and_o be_v still_o corrupt_a and_o spoil_v at_o home_n alas_o if_o parent_n to_o who_o the_o comfort_n of_o their_o child_n well_o bring_v up_o be_v a_o precious_a crown_n will_v not_o inform_v and_o reform_v their_o child_n in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n how_o can_v hope_n sustain_v these_o man_n that_o other_o will_v perform_v this_o duty_n for_o they_o to_o who_o this_o charge_n do_v far_o less_o appertain_v last_o let_v parent_n remember_v that_o therefore_o they_o have_v disorder_v and_o disobedient_a child_n to_o themselves_o because_o they_o have_v be_v disobedient_a child_n to_o the_o lord_n and_o disorder_v to_o their_o parent_n when_o they_o be_v young_a whereof_o because_o they_o have_v not_o repent_v the_o lord_n punish_v their_o sin_n to_o other_o with_o the_o like_a sin_n to_o themselves_o will_v thou_o know_v thou_o father_n how_o thou_o may_v have_v that_o blessing_n to_o be_v the_o bless_a father_n of_o a_o bless_a seed_n will_v thou_o know_v thou_o mother_n how_o to_o avoid_v that_o curse_n to_o be_v the_o curse_a mother_n of_o a_o curse_a seed_n bring_v thy_o child_n within_o the_o compass_n of_o the_o covenant_n endeavour_n to_o make_v thy_o son_n the_o son_n of_o god_n and_o thy_o daughter_n by_o nature_n the_o daughter_n of_o god_n by_o grace_n and_o remember_v that_o god_n on_o his_o part_n protest_v to_o father_n abraham_n that_o he_o be_v all_o sufficient_a for_o the_o accomplishment_n of_o his_o promise_n in_o give_v he_o a_o bless_a seed_n and_o request_v also_o on_o father_n abraham_n part_n that_o he_o shall_v walk_v before_o he_o and_o be_v upright_o will_v thou_o then_o have_v the_o one_o part_n of_o this_o covenant_n that_o be_v that_o god_n shall_v bless_v thou_o in_o thy_o seed_n then_o remember_v also_o that_o thou_o walk_v before_o the_o lord_n and_o be_v upright_o will_v thou_o have_v thy_o child_n as_o the_o bless_a seed_n of_o abraham_n teach_v they_o with_o abraham_n the_o judgement_n of_o the_o lord_n pray_v for_o they_o with_o abraham_n that_o they_o may_v live_v in_o the_o light_n of_o the_o lord_n be_v ready_a to_o offer_v they_o with_o abraham_n that_o they_o may_v be_v a_o holy_a sacrifice_n unto_o the_o lord_n it_o be_v thou_o o_o man_n o_o woman_n that_o may_v do_v thy_o child_n the_o great_a good_a and_o the_o great_a harm_n if_o thou_o pray_v for_o they_o and_o repent_a for_o thyself_o the_o lord_n will_v bless_v thy_o care_n the_o pastor_n pain_n and_o the_o teacher_n travel_n but_o if_o thou_o despise_v these_o duty_n the_o lord_n will_v deny_v thou_o these_o blessing_n and_o the_o curse_n of_o god_n will_v fall_v upon_o the_o child_n at_o home_n in_o thy_o house_n abroad_o in_o the_o church_n and_o in_o the_o school_n and_o see_v the_o lord_n have_v promise_v that_o he_o will_v be_v thy_o god_n and_o bless_v thy_o seed_n if_o thou_o be_v faithful_a thou_o may_v both_o hope_v that_o thou_o be_v of_o the_o faithful_a if_o thou_o have_v a_o bless_a seed_n and_o fear_v that_o thou_o have_v not_o as_o yet_o the_o blessing_n of_o the_o covenant_n when_o thy_o seed_n be_v accurse_v but_o have_v not_o jacob_n wicked_a child_n and_o david_n objection_n ungodly_a son_n and_o do_v not_o daily_a experience_n teach_v we_o that_o wicked_a man_n have_v godly_a child_n yes_o for_o beside_o the_o secret_a counsel_n of_o the_o answer_n lord_n herein_o we_o must_v know_v that_o neither_o the_o promise_n of_o the_o lord_n be_v so_o universal_a that_o every_o particular_a child_n of_o a_o faithful_a man_n shall_v be_v within_o the_o covenant_n or_o if_o of_o many_o there_o be_v but_o one_o bless_v the_o promise_n be_v perform_v yea_o which_o more_o be_v though_o the_o faithful_a man_n have_v never_o a_o good_a child_n yet_o if_o unto_o a_o thousand_o generation_n there_o be_v but_o one_o good_a the_o covenant_n be_v not_o break_v noither_o must_v we_o tie_v the_o lord_n his_o work_n so_o much_o to_o man_n that_o a_o good_a man_n may_v not_o have_v a_o cuill_n son_n see_v though_o the_o lord_n visit_v not_o his_o sin_n yet_o he_o may_v visit_v the_o sin_n of_o some_o of_o his_o forefather_n to_o the_o three_o and_o four_o generation_n go_v before_o to_o the_o second_o we_o say_v that_o a_o evil_a father_n have_v a_o good_a child_n though_o the_o lord_n show_v not_o mercy_n to_o that_o particular_a man_n therein_o yet_o he_o may_v remember_v his_o promise_n to_o some_o of_o the_o forefather_n in_o the_o thousand_o generation_n go_v before_o and_o though_o that_o evil_a man_n have_v no_o curse_a child_n yet_o the_o curse_n may_v be_v accomplish_v in_o the_o three_o and_o four_o generation_n follow_v wherefore_o not_o speak_v of_o election_n or_o reprobation_n which_o we_o leave_v only_o to_o the_o lord_n to_o make_v good_a or_o bad_a we_o exhort_v parent_n to_o the_o ordinary_a mean_n to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n so_o as_o they_o either_o by_o some_o good_a token_n may_v see_v they_o the_o child_n of_o god_n as_o heir_n of_o the_o covenant_n or_o at_o least_o be_v comfort_v in_o their_o own_o conscience_n if_o their_o child_n for_o some_o cause_n unknown_a refuse_v it_o yet_o they_o may_v rejoice_v in_o this_o that_o to_o the_o uttermost_a of_o their_o ability_n they_o have_v use_v all_o good_a and_o godly_a mean_n to_o bring_v they_o up_o well_o and_o offer_v they_o to_o god_n and_o if_o parent_n have_v cause_n to_o be_v grieve_v when_o thus_o travel_v in_o good_a education_n they_o can_v see_v good_a in_o their_o child_n how_o much_o more_o cause_n of_o grief_n may_v they_o have_v when_o they_o have_v use_v and_o bestow_v no_o labour_n at_o all_o to_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o the_o lord_n and_o yet_o many_o will_v be_v grieve_v for_o the_o one_o that_o will_v not_o for_o the_o other_o wherefore_o if_o we_o wish_v to_o convey_v god_n his_o blessing_n to_o our_o posterity_n let_v we_o use_v the_o duty_n thereunto_o let_v we_o if_o we_o be_v loath_a to_o convey_v god_n his_o judgement_n to_o our_o child_n careful_o avoid_v the_o mean_n unto_o it_o and_o sure_o as_o it_o be_v a_o bless_a thing_n in_o the_o hour_n of_o death_n with_o symeon_n to_o depart_v in_o peace_n leave_v our_o wife_n child_n and_o servant_n 29._o member_n of_o christ_n spouse_n to_o christ_n child_n to_o god_n and_o servant_n to_o the_o lord_n so_o in_o death_n no_o one_o thing_n will_v be_v more_o grievous_a unto_o a_o man_n than_o the_o lord_n have_v give_v he_o the_o charge_n of_o so_o many_o soul_n to_o be_v further_v to_o salvation_n that_o his_o own_o torment_a conscience_n shall_v press_v he_o how_o as_o much_o as_o he_o can_v he_o have_v help_v they_o forward_o to_o their_o damnation_n and_o so_o which_o be_v more_o fearful_a he_o shall_v have_v they_o spew_v and_o foam_v out_o on_o his_o face_n continual_a curse_n in_o hell_n accuse_v he_o for_o ever_o to_o be_v a_o murderer_n of_o their_o soul_n and_o a_o cutthroat_n of_o their_o salvation_n the_o end_n of_o all_o this_o brief_o be_v thus_o much_o that_o parent_n have_v fool_n child_n not_o walk_v either_o in_o knowledge_n or_o in_o a_o good_a conscience_n must_v make_v some_o use_n of_o so_o just_a a_o cause_n of_o grief_n examine_v themselves_o and_o accuse_v their_o own_o soul_n before_o the_o lord_n either_o for_o that_o their_o meeting_n be_v profane_a to_o so_o holy_a a_o estate_n or_o brutish_a because_o they_o desire_v rather_o a_o seed_n like_o unto_o themselves_o in_o flesh_n and_o blood_n than_o such_o as_o may_v be_v like_o christ_n by_o grace_n and_o new_a birth_n or_o that_o they_o beget_v their_o offspring_n as_o mere_a natural_a or_o very_o carnal_a man_n or_o because_o they_o either_o profane_o neglect_v all_o good_a education_n or_o monstrouf_o mislike_v that_o in_o their_o young_a child_n which_o they_o like_v in_o themselves_o and_o punish_v in_o they_o their_o own_o corrupt_a precept_n or_o for_o that_o they_o suffer_v their_o child_n injurious_o to_o do_v evil_a to_o other_o which_o they_o can_v not_o suffer_v to_o do_v to_o themselves_o or_o untaught_a they_o that_o at_o home_n which_o be_v teach_v abroad_o or_o in_o that_o they_o do_v lie_v in_o some_o sin_n unrepented_a of_o or_o else_o because_o they_o never_o make_v conscience_n to_o bring_v their_o posterity_n within_o the_o covenant_n of_o salvation_n but_o still_o love_v the_o flesh_n of_o their_o child_n and_o not_o their_o soul_n let_v all_o parent_n remember_v that_o they_o be_v bind_v by_o the_o law_n of_o god_n and_o nature_n as_o concern_v this_o bodily_a life_n to_o make_v good_a and_o honest_a
provision_n according_a to_o their_o degree_n for_o the_o relief_n and_o maintenance_n of_o their_o child_n and_o family_n and_o therefore_o such_o father_n and_o mother_n as_o consume_v and_o waste_v away_o their_o money_n and_o substance_n unthrifty_o by_o dice_a card_v game_n or_o by_o any_o other_o indirect_a and_o unlawful_a mean_n whereby_o their_o child_n and_o family_n shall_v be_v maintain_v do_v very_o unnatural_o sin_n and_o break_v god_n commandment_n the_o wiseman_n show_v parent_n when_o be_v the_o best_a time_n to_o sow_v the_o seed_n of_o virtue_n in_o their_o child_n that_o it_o may_v bring_v forth_o the_o fruit_n of_o life_n and_o make_v they_o always_o ready_a to_o die_v say_v eccles._n 12._o 1._o remember_v now_o say_v he_o thy_o creator_n in_o the_o day_n of_o thy_o youth_n as_o if_o he_o shall_v say_v well_o be_v mindful_a and_o think_v on_o god_n in_o thy_o youth_n and_o do_v not_o prolong_v or_o defer_v it_o until_o age_n and_o so_o all_o their_o life_n shall_v run_v in_o a_o line_n the_o middle_n like_o the_o beginning_n and_o the_o end_n like_o the_o middle_n as_o the_o sun_n set_v against_o the_o place_n where_o it_o arise_v one_o of_o the_o princpal_a duty_n that_o belong_v to_o parent_n towards_o their_o child_n be_v that_o they_o 24._o be_v very_o wary_a and_o careful_a that_o their_o son_n and_o daughter_n do_v not_o match_v in_o marriage_n with_o such_o as_o be_v ungodly_a wicked_a and_o void_a of_o true_a religion_n which_o if_o they_o do_v they_o endanger_v the_o faith_n of_o their_o child_n and_o so_o commit_v a_o grievous_a sin_n for_o proof_n whereof_o let_v we_o consider_v first_o what_o marriage_n be_v and_o how_o nigh_o a_o conjunction_n the_o lord_n have_v make_v it_o he_o make_v the_o woman_n of_o the_o man_n nature_n flesh_n of_o his_o flesh_n and_o bone_n of_o his_o bone_n so_o that_o we_o may_v not_o imagine_v that_o that_o god_n which_o require_v so_o near_o a_o conjunction_n in_o the_o outward_a and_o inferior_a part_n will_v suffer_v the_o mind_n and_o spirit_n of_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n between_o faith_n and_o superstition_n to_o be_v rend_v asunder_o therefore_o when_o god_n say_v they_o shall_v be_v two_o in_o one_o flesh_n we_o may_v not_o think_v but_o that_o he_o speak_v it_o of_o the_o whole_a and_o perfect_a creature_n make_v of_o body_n and_o soul_n that_o they_o shall_v be_v of_o two_o one_o or_o that_o god_n do_v by_o so_o holy_a a_o law_n set_v free_a the_o holy_a part_n require_v only_o such_o agreement_n in_o the_o flesh_n and_o body_n and_o leave_v the_o soul_n and_o spirit_n in_o dissension_n for_o as_o god_n give_v unto_o both_o one_o name_n as_o touch_v their_o earthly_a nature_n signify_v their_o unity_n and_o call_v they_o adam_n genesis_n 5._o 2._o so_o he_o give_v unto_o they_o a_o likeness_n in_o name_n as_o they_o be_v join_v in_o marriage_n to_o signify_v their_o agreement_n in_o mind_n and_o spirit_n and_o call_v the_o one_o man_n and_o the_o other_o woman_n genesis_n 2._o 22._o 23._o yea_o he_o give_v unto_o marriage_n this_o especial_a privilege_n for_o this_o cause_n 24._o shall_v a_o man_n leave_v his_o father_n and_o his_o mother_n and_o shall_v cleave_v to_o his_o wife_n and_o they_o shall_v be_v one_o flesh_n but_o it_o can_v never_o be_v that_o any_o unite_n only_o of_o flesh_n and_o blood_n shall_v have_v find_v a_o dispensation_n from_o the_o law_n that_o bind_v mind_n and_o conscience_n honour_v thy_o father_n and_o thy_o mother_n exod._n 20._o 12._o the_o holy_a and_o faithful_a bond_n of_o marriage_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v commend_v to_o we_o by_o that_o most_o holy_a conjunction_n of_o christ_n with_o his_o church_n ephes._n 5._o 2._o see_v that_o this_o be_v a_o conjunction_n both_o of_o body_n and_o soul_n than_o such_o as_o 10._o be_v christian_a parent_n aught_o to_o be_v careful_a that_o their_o child_n may_v rejoice_v in_o it_o howsoever_o it_o like_v other_o to_o marry_v their_o child_n yet_o they_o ought_v to_o see_v that_o their_o child_n do_v settle_v themselves_o that_o they_o may_v knit_v their_o mind_n in_o religion_n where_o they_o make_v their_o body_n one_o that_o so_o their_o marriage_n may_v be_v to_o they_o as_o a_o lookingglass_n to_o view_v and_o behold_v the_o love_n of_o christ._n s._n paul_n give_v this_o general_a rule_n to_o all_o that_o will_v marry_v that_o they_o marry_v only_o in_o the_o lord_n and_o to_o enemy_n marry_v only_o in_o the_o lord_n be_v not_o to_o be_v lead_v by_o flesh_n and_o blood_n with_o favour_n credit_n honour_n friendship_n riches_n or_o beauty_n but_o rather_o it_o be_v to_o marry_v religious_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n &_o in_o the_o fellowship_n of_o the_o church_n of_o christ_n where_o true_a christian_n live_v by_o one_o faith_n profess_v one_o religion_n and_o serve_v one_o god_n now_o let_v we_o a_o little_a call_n to_o our_o remembrance_n what_o fruit_n such_o unequal_a marriage_n have_v bring_v forth_o from_o the_o beginning_n the_o son_n of_o god_n see_v the_o daughter_n of_o man_n 2._o that_o they_o be_v fair_a and_o they_o take_v they_o wife_n of_o all_o that_o they_o like_v this_o adventurous_a marriage_n in_o a_o strange_a religion_n do_v so_o infect_v the_o world_n that_o all_o flesh_n have_v canaanite_n corrupt_v his_o way_n for_o this_o cause_n god_n give_v this_o plain_a and_o express_v law_n unto_o the_o people_n of_o israel_n as_o touch_v all_o the_o inhabitant_n of_o the_o land_n of_o canaan_n thou_o shall_v not_o give_v thy_o daughter_n unto_o his_o son_n deut._n 7._o 2._o 3._o 4._o exod._n 34._o 16._o sure_o they_o will_v turn_v away_o thy_o heart_n 1._o king_n 11._o 2._o ezra_n 9_o 1._o 2._o etc._n etc._n and_o 10._o 18._o 19_o read_v the_o 14._o place_n we_o may_v not_o here_o think_v that_o this_o inhibition_n serve_v not_o now_o 〈◊〉_d be_v as_o touch_v pagan_n turk_n or_o infidel_n but_o rather_o we_o must_v assure_v our_o seive_n in_o the_o truth_n and_o know_v that_o no_o people_n in_o the_o world_n be_v more_o within_o the_o compass_n of_o this_o law_n then_o the_o papist_n and_o superstitious_a idolater_n the_o holy_a ghost_n forbid_v we_o to_o keep_v company_n with_o idolater_n and_o such_o as_o be_v of_o a_o strange_a religion_n and_o how_o can_v he_o then_o permit_v that_o we_o shall_v marry_v with_o they_o he_o command_v it_o straight_o that_o we_o shall_v not_o draw_v in_o one_o yoke_n with_o the_o unbelieved_a 2._o cor._n 6._o 14._o which_o to_o do_v be_v as_o unseemly_a as_o a_o ox_n and_o a_o ass_n to_o be_v yoke_v together_o to_o plough_v deut._n 22._o 10._o and_o how_o can_v we_o possible_o devise_v to_o violate_v and_o break_v this_o commandment_n more_o contumelious_o then_o to_o yoke_v ourselves_o in_o marriage_n with_o the_o unfaithful_a we_o be_v charge_v to_o offer_v up_o our_o body_n a_o lively_a a_o holy_a and_o a_o reasonable_a sacrifice_n unto_o god_n rom._n 12._o 1._o but_o if_o we_o shall_v give_v our_o body_n to_o papist_n we_o then_o shall_v make_v they_o one_o flesh_n with_o the_o papist_n and_o then_o we_o may_v be_v sure_a that_o no_o corrupt_a sacrifice_n can_v be_v a_o sweet_a smell_a sacrifice_n unto_o the_o lord_n our_o god_n here_o godly_a parent_n ought_v then_o advise_o to_o consider_v that_o the_o strengthen_n and_o constant_a 〈◊〉_d stand_n in_o religion_n of_o their_o child_n be_v only_o of_o god_n and_o from_o god_n and_o not_o of_o themselves_o and_o therefore_o although_o they_o have_v bring_v up_o their_o child_n religious_o and_o virtuous_o and_o 14._o think_v they_o be_v so_o well_o ground_v and_o settle_v therein_o that_o they_o can_v be_v remove_v &_o draw_v from_o their_o sound_a profession_n yet_o they_o must_v beware_v that_o they_o do_v not_o tempt_v god_n and_o venture_v their_o child_n to_o walk_v in_o that_o way_n which_o so_o many_o have_v fall_v in_o how_o can_v they_o assure_v themselves_o that_o their_o child_n shall_v abide_v constant_a and_o stand_v upright_o if_o they_o shall_v consent_v that_o they_o may_v couple_v themselves_o in_o marriage_n with_o papist_n samson_n be_v bear_v by_o god_n promise_n consecrate_v to_o the_o lord_n from_o the_o day_n of_o his_o birth_n to_o the_o day_n of_o his_o death_n make_v a_o judge_n of_o israel_n a_o deliverer_n of_o god_n church_n and_o a_o revenger_n of_o his_o enemy_n very_o great_a and_o especial_a token_n of_o the_o grace_n of_o god_n in_o he_o that_o it_o shall_v be_v continue_v yet_o when_o he_o will_v attempt_v to_o marry_v one_o of_o a_o strange_a religion_n he_o lose_v his_o honour_n and_o become_v a_o laughingstock_n unto_o the_o enemy_n of_o god_n judge_n the_o fourteen_o chapter_n and_o first_o verse_n etc._n etc._n and_o 16._o 4._o 17._o 18._o etc._n etc._n solomon_n be_v a_o
merchandise_n it_o carry_v about_o the_o more_o need_v it_o have_v of_o a_o cunning_a ship-maister_n so_o the_o great_a the_o child_n be_v both_o by_o birth_n and_o by_o inheritance_n so_o much_o the_o more_o need_n be_v it_o for_o he_o to_o be_v bring_v up_o in_o learning_n and_o in_o good_a literature_n for_o learning_n knowledge_n and_o understanding_n 15._o be_v profitable_a both_o for_o rich_a and_o poor_a so_o that_o as_o the_o grecian_n say_v he_o that_o be_v ignorant_a and_o unlearned_a see_v nothing_o although_o he_o have_v eye_n the_o life_n of_o such_o a_o one_o be_v as_o a_o tree_n without_o fruit_n a_o day_n without_o sun_n a_o night_n without_o moon_n or_o star_n a_o house_n without_o a_o man_n and_o a_o head_n without_o a_o body_n it_o be_v find_v by_o experience_n which_o be_v the_o best_a schoolmaster_n that_o unto_o what_o occupation_n or_o science_n soever_o any_o young_a man_n shall_v be_v put_v the_o more_o skill_n and_o knowledge_n he_o have_v in_o the_o liberal_a science_n so_o much_o the_o more_o soon_o shall_v be_v learn_v his_o occupation_n and_o the_o more_o ready_a and_o handsome_a shall_v he_o be_v about_o the_o same_o and_o beside_o all_o this_o he_o that_o have_v learning_n although_o it_o be_v but_o small_a shall_v much_o better_o understand_v the_o preacher_n and_o take_v more_o profit_n by_o hear_v of_o they_o to_o his_o great_a and_o endless_a comfort_n than_o he_o that_o have_v no_o learning_n experience_n also_o teach_v we_o this_o that_o good_n riches_n beauty_n glory_n and_o health_n be_v unstable_a and_o fade_v perish_v pass_v away_o come_v and_o go_v but_o learning_n and_o virtue_n never_o stagger_v always_o be_v constant_a therefore_o of_o all_o the_o charge_n that_o parent_n be_v at_o about_o their_o child_n that_o money_n be_v best_a bestow_v that_o be_v lay_v out_o upon_o learning_n especial_o when_o they_o be_v teach_v to_o know_v god_n aright_o and_o how_o he_o will_v be_v serve_v it_o be_v a_o lamentable_a thing_n to_o consider_v how_o careless_a some_o parent_n be_v of_o their_o child_n when_o they_o put_v they_o to_o the_o school_n in_o that_o they_o make_v small_a account_n and_o reckon_n to_o what_o schoolmaster_n they_o put_v their_o child_n to_o learn_v so_o they_o may_v have_v they_o teach_v for_o little_a or_o no_o cost_n though_o their_o child_n profit_v little_a or_o nothing_o in_o learning_n so_o that_o oftentimes_o they_o not_o only_o bestow_v their_o money_n in_o vain_a but_o also_o they_o suffer_v their_o child_n to_o loose_v their_o time_n which_o be_v a_o thing_n so_o precious_a as_o it_o can_v be_v redeem_v with_o any_o money_n and_o so_o let_v they_o spend_v two_o or_o three_o year_n in_o learning_n that_o which_o they_o may_v by_o the_o diligence_n and_o orderly_a teach_n of_o a_o skilful_a schoolmaster_n learn_v in_o less_o than_o half_a this_o time_n if_o there_o be_v any_o aptness_n and_o towardness_n in_o the_o child_n therefore_o let_v parent_n remember_v that_o as_o the_o goodness_n of_o the_o ground_n be_v not_o much_o profitable_a for_o corn_n unless_o there_o be_v a_o meet_a husbandman_n to_o till_o and_o sow_v the_o same_o so_o likewise_o it_o be_v not_o enough_o to_o find_v good_a towardness_n in_o your_o child_n unless_o you_o provide_v a_o meet_a and_o fit_a schoolmaster_n to_o further_a the_o same_o and_o as_o nobleman_n and_o gentleman_n be_v desirous_a to_o have_v a_o good_a and_o skilful_a horsekeeper_n that_o can_v keep_v their_o horse_n well_o and_o they_o spare_v not_o to_o give_v stipend_n to_o such_o even_o so_o much_o more_o ought_v christian_a parent_n to_o be_v desirous_a to_o have_v and_o maintain_v a_o good_a schoolmaster_n that_o may_v bring_v up_o their_o child_n in_o virtue_n wisdom_n and_o good_a learning_n and_o like_v as_o if_o their_o horle_fw-mi be_v not_o well_o break_v or_o have_v any_o 〈◊〉_d quality_n they_o will_v be_v careful_a to_o see_v it_o remedy_v and_o that_o he_o may_v be_v make_v tractable_a and_o gentle_a so_o likewise_o godly_a parent_n ought_v to_o be_v much_o more_o careful_a not_o only_o that_o their_o child_n may_v by_o instruction_n be_v bring_v to_o some_o good_a order_n but_o also_o to_o look_v that_o there_o be_v no_o fault_n in_o the_o teacher_n to_o who_o they_o commit_v the_o care_n to_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o learning_n and_o good_a manner_n but_o alas_o and_o with_o grief_n be_v it_o speak_v many_o man_n now_o a_o day_n albeit_o it_o they_o perceive_v their_o child_n to_o be_v towards_o and_o apt_a unto_o letter_n and_o capable_a to_o receive_v good_a learning_n have_v wealth_n and_o riches_n enough_o to_o maintain_v they_o thereat_o yet_o will_v they_o not_o suffer_v they_o to_o continue_v thereat_o until_o they_o come_v to_o any_o good_a perfection_n learning_n some_o because_o they_o themselves_o do_v not_o like_v of_o our_o state_n &_o religion_n othersome_a because_o they_o see_v little_a preferment_n and_o no_o worldly_a advantage_n to_o follow_v learning_n but_o great_a trouble_n and_o affliction_n all_o which_o man_n in_o this_o do_n declare_v themselves_o to_o be_v irreligious_a ungodly_a and_o destroyer_n both_o of_o themselves_o their_o child_n and_o of_o all_o commonwealth_n and_o congregation_n for_o what_o public_a wealth_n town_n city_n or_o parish_n can_v be_v well_o govern_v except_o the_o prince_n magistrate_n or_o preacher_n be_v learned_a both_o in_o humane_a and_o divine_a law_n in_o time_n past_a when_o ignorance_n and_o superstition_n be_v account_v good_a devotion_n at_o which_o time_n man_n see_v so_o many_o spiritual_a promotion_n as_o they_o then_o call_v they_o unto_o rich_a bishopricke_n abbey_n priory_n deanery_n benefice_n etc._n etc._n then_o they_o will_v let_v for_o no_o cost_n to_o have_v their_o child_n learn_v in_o some_o sort_n to_o the_o end_n they_o may_v get_v they_o to_o be_v priest_n and_o so_o to_o say_v mass_n and_o the_o rest_n of_o that_o idolatrous_a service_n that_o so_o they_o may_v live_v in_o ease_n and_o idleness_n but_o now_o that_o they_o see_v how_o painful_a and_o perilous_a a_o charge_n it_o be_v to_o preach_v and_o right_o to_o divide_v god_n word_n and_o to_o deliver_v the_o same_o free_o and_o faithful_o and_o also_o how_o unthankful_a a_o office_n and_o call_v it_o be_v to_o govern_v well_o a_o congregation_n they_o have_v rather_o their_o child_n shall_v be_v bind_v prentice_n to_o some_o trade_n or_o else_o follow_v any_o other_o profession_n then_o that_o they_o shall_v study_v divinity_n when_o child_n be_v nothing_o apt_a to_o good_a learning_n and_o when_o there_o be_v no_o good_a learning_n to_o be_v have_v no_o nor_o good_a teacher_n yet_o then_o well_o be_v he_o that_o may_v set_v his_o child_n to_o school_n but_o now_o when_o youth_n be_v never_o so_o apt_a to_o good_a learning_n as_o it_o be_v at_o this_o day_n and_o learning_n and_o all_o good_a mean_n never_o so_o plenteous_o flourish_v be_v restore_v and_o reduce_v into_o such_o a_o facility_n and_o a_o compendious_a briefenesse_n yea_o never_o so_o good_a learned_a and_o skilful_a schoolmaster_n never_o such_o plenty_n of_o so_o good_a and_o plain_a book_n print_v never_o so_o good_a cheap_a the_o holy_a ghost_n merciful_o offer_v his_o gift_n as_o it_o be_v into_o the_o mouth_n of_o all_o man_n few_o there_o be_v that_o will_v open_v their_o mouth_n to_o receive_v they_o their_o eye_n to_o see_v the_o clear_a light_n nor_o yet_o their_o ear_n to_o hear_v so_o pure_a manifest_a and_o wholesome_a and_o heavenly_a doctrine_n even_o the_o word_n of_o god_n the_o mean_n of_o our_o salvation_n it_o be_v therefore_o to_o be_v fear_v that_o for_o this_o our_o great_a unthankfulness_n these_o so_o manifold_a heavenly_a blessing_n shall_v be_v take_v from_o we_o and_o give_v to_o some_o other_o nation_n that_o will_v both_o be_v more_o thankful_a for_o they_o and_o also_o show_v forth_o better_a fruit_n of_o christianity_n than_o we_o hitherto_o have_v do_v oh_o therefore_o that_o parent_n will_v advise_o consider_v that_o the_o want_n of_o this_o christian_a duty_n of_o the_o good_a education_n of_o their_o child_n be_v the_o only_a cause_n of_o great_a mischief_n and_o much_o misery_n both_o upon_o child_n and_o themselves_o yea_o in_o truth_n it_o be_v from_o hence_o that_o so_o much_o sorrow_n grief_n and_o shame_n befall_v many_o time_n upon_o the_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o how_o come_v this_o to_o pass_v that_o the_o parent_n own_o dung_n be_v cast_v in_o their_o face_n by_o their_o own_o child_n in_o mock_v and_o despise_v of_o they_o and_o whence_o arise_v all_o these_o inconvenience_n before_o name_v together_o with_o all_o these_o grievous_a plague_n and_o judgement_n of_o god_n upon_o their_o child_n to_o the_o consume_n of_o their_o eye_n but_o from_o this_o their_o own_o negligence_n in_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n for_o it_o be_v
duty_n of_o child_n towards_o their_o parent_n this_o duty_n of_o child_n as_o it_o may_v be_v gather_v out_o of_o the_o holy_a scripture_n consist_v in_o five_o point_n 1._o first_o that_o they_o 20._o obey_v their_o parent_n and_o do_v serve_v they_o and_o also_o do_v 14._o fear_n love_n honour_n and_o reverence_v they_o not_o only_o in_o word_n and_o deed_n but_o in_o their_o heart_n and_o mind_n also_o 2._o second_o that_o they_o follow_v their_o good_a precept_n and_o example_n of_o life_n 3._o three_o that_o they_o patient_o take_v 6_o correction_n at_o their_o hand_n 4._o four_o that_o they_o make_v continual_a and_o hearty_a prayer_n to_o god_n for_o they_o 5._o and_o last_o that_o they_o do_v relieve_v maintain_v and_o nourish_v their_o parent_n in_o case_n they_o shall_v fall_v 12._o into_o poverty_n or_o decay_n the_o sum_n and_o effect_n of_o all_o which_o be_v as_o follow_v as_o the_o lord_n our_o god_n have_v make_v and_o create_v child_n through_o their_o parent_n so_o have_v he_o cast_v and_o make_v they_o subject_a under_o the_o power_n parent_n and_o authority_n of_o their_o parent_n to_o obey_v and_o ferue_v they_o in_o his_o stead_n say_v honour_v thy_o father_n and_o thy_o mother_n which_o honour_n consist_v not_o in_o bow_v the_o knee_n or_o put_v off_o the_o cap_n or_o give_v to_o their_o parent_n the_o upperhand_n only_o but_o in_o this_o that_o they_o love_v they_o with_o all_o their_o heart_n that_o they_o fear_v and_o dread_v they_o that_o they_o cheerful_o do_v their_o commandment_n will_n and_o pleasure_n that_o they_o seek_v their_o worship_n credit_n profit_n and_o preferment_n in_o all_o thing_n lawful_a and_o if_o need_v require_v that_o they_o give_v their_o life_n for_o they_o remember_v that_o they_o be_v their_o parent_n good_n and_o possession_n and_o that_o they_o owe_v to_o they_o even_o their_o own_o self_n and_o all_o that_o they_o be_v able_a to_o do_v yea_o and_o more_o than_o they_o be_v able_a by_o this_o word_n honour_n be_v also_o signify_v the_o love_n reverence_n duty_n obedience_n subjection_n entertainment_n and_o necessary_a assistance_n that_o child_n owe_v to_o their_o parent_n as_o concern_v the_o love_n the_o summarie_n of_o the_o second_o table_n comprehend_v in_o these_o word_n theu_o shall_v love_v thy_o neighbour_n as_o thyself_o do_v manifest_o confirm_v 39_o it_o for_o who_o can_v be_v a_o near_a neighbour_n for_o the_o child_n to_o love_n than_o their_o parent_n beside_o that_o they_o be_v not_o to_o be_v love_v only_o as_o neighbour_n proceed_v of_o adam_n and_o eve_n but_o also_o as_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o therefore_o what_o ingratitude_n be_v it_o not_o to_o love_v those_o of_o who_o next_o after_o god_n they_o have_v their_o life_n and_o be_v together_o with_o so_o many_o great_a and_o continual_a benefit_n also_o the_o love_n that_o parent_n do_v bear_v to_o their_o child_n beside_o so_o many_o their_o labour_n sorrow_n trouble_n and_o vexation_n shall_v bind_v they_o reciprocal_o to_o love_v they_o the_o sun_n shine_v a_o while_n upon_o the_o cold_a stone_n do_v so_o heat_v they_o that_o they_o yield_v some_o warmth_n so_o albeit_o that_o child_n be_v as_o hard_a and_o cold_a as_o stone_n yet_o the_o experience_n and_o daily_o feel_v of_o the_o love_n of_o their_o parent_n towards_o they_o ought_v mighty_o to_o inflame_v their_o heart_n to_o love_v they_o again_o take_v away_o the_o beam_n from_o the_o sun_n and_o it_o will_v not_o shine_v the_o spring_n from_o the_o river_n and_o it_o will_v dry_v up_o the_o bough_n from_o the_o tree_n and_o it_o will_v wither_v the_o member_n from_o the_o body_n and_o it_o will_v rot_v and_o so_o take_v from_o child_n their_o duty_n to_o their_o parent_n and_o they_o be_v no_o long_a child_n but_o brethren_n and_o companion_n with_o those_o unto_o who_o christ_n jesus_n say_v you_o be_v child_n of_o the_o devil_n joh._n 8._o 44._o this_o band_n of_o the_o love_n of_o child_n towards_o their_o parent_n shall_v take_v such_o place_n not_o only_o towards_o such_o parent_n as_o be_v love_a and_o gentle_a but_o also_o as_o saint_n peter_n say_v of_o the_o duty_n of_o servant_n to_o their_o master_n even_o towards_o such_o as_o be_v rigorous_a for_o if_o we_o ought_v to_o love_v all_o the_o child_n of_o adam_n even_o those_o who_o we_o know_v not_o yea_o out_o enemy_n and_o persecutor_n how_o much_o rather_o our_o parent_n although_o they_o shall_v entreat_v we_o rough_o and_o with_o rigour_n either_o in_o word_n or_o deed_n and_o very_o the_o principal_a cause_n still_o abide_v namely_o that_o they_o be_v our_o father_n and_o mother_n this_o ought_v child_n well_o to_o note_v to_o the_o end_n that_o patient_o bear_v their_o reprehension_n reproof_n and_o in_o general_a whatsoever_o their_o troublesome_a and_o sharp_a affection_n they_o may_v still_o continue_v and_o declare_v their_o childlike_a affection_n and_o love_n and_o to_o that_o purpose_n child_n must_v remember_v the_o labour_n grief_n anguisn_a weep_a sorrow_n and_o other_o troublesome_a care_n that_o their_o parent_n do_v abide_v and_o endure_v for_o they_o this_o love_n must_v be_v accompany_v with_o reverence_n and_o respect_n and_o to_o say_v the_o truth_n albeit_o the_o name_n of_o father_n belong_v proper_o unto_o god_n as_o jesus_n christ_n say_v you_o have_v but_o one_o father_n 9_o even_o he_o which_o be_v in_o heaven_n yet_o do_v he_o so_o impart_v it_o to_o those_o that_o have_v beget_v we_o that_o they_o be_v call_v father_n do_v bear_v the_o title_n and_o image_n of_o god_n and_o this_o be_v it_o that_o bind_v child_n to_o respect_n and_o honour_v they_o and_o to_o testify_v the_o same_o by_o their_o outward_a reverence_n of_o this_o reverence_n we_o have_v a_o notable_a example_n in_o solomon_n he_o understand_v that_o his_o mother_n bethshebah_n 19_o be_v come_v to_o speak_v with_o he_o arole_n from_o his_o seat_n come_v to_o meet_v she_o bow_v before_o she_o and_o seat_v she_o upon_o his_o right_a hand_n neither_o can_v his_o greatness_n neither_o his_o royall-estate_n privilege_n he_o from_o this_o respect_n and_o honour_v due_a to_o his_o mother_n when_o the_o son_n do_v execute_v magistracy_n or_o public_a office_n he_o be_v great_a than_o his_o father_n and_o must_v bear_v himself_o as_o a_o magistrate_n not_o as_o a_o son_n but_o when_o he_o be_v out_o of_o place_n or_o execution_n of_o office_n he_o must_v how_o high_o soever_o he_o be_v advance_v have_v a_o respect_n and_o yield_v reverence_n to_o his_o parent_n but_o many_o time_n it_o fall_v out_o otherwise_o for_o many_o child_n when_o they_o come_v to_o honour_n or_o wealth_n do_v so_o despise_v their_o parent_n if_o they_o be_v of_o mean_a calling_n than_o themselves_o that_o hardly_o they_o will_v acknowledge_v or_o call_v they_o father_n as_o if_o they_o be_v ashamed_a of_o they_o so_o that_o that_o man_n put_v off_o the_o affection_n of_o a_o child_n to_o his_o father_n who_o by_o the_o eminency_n of_o a_o office_n over_o he_o quench_v the_o name_n of_o a_o son_n but_o solomon_n forget_v not_o himself_o in_o this_o kind_n 20._o of_o duty_n for_o he_o do_v not_o only_o bow_v before_o his_o mother_n but_o say_v mother_n ask_v and_o i_o will_v not_o deny_v thou_o and_o this_o do_v we_o the_o rather_o note_v also_o upon_o a_o other_o consideration_n namely_o that_o his_o example_n condemn_v the_o custom_n of_o these_o day_n wherein_o this_o name_n of_o father_n and_o mother_n be_v account_v so_o base_a and_o contemptible_a that_o the_o child_n of_o king_n prince_n yea_o even_o of_o mean_a gentleman_n speak_v to_o their_o parent_n must_v not_o say_v father_n mother_n but_o sir_n my_o lord_n my_o lady_n madam_n etc._n etc._n but_o the_o due_a honour_n to_o parent_n that_o we_o here_o speak_v of_o imply_v not_o only_o this_o outward_a reverence_n but_o also_o that_o we_o shall_v so_o esteem_v of_o they_o as_o that_o neither_o we_o ourselves_o shall_v despise_v they_o nor_o suffer_v othersto_a have_v they_o in_o contempt_n and_o this_o be_v we_o to_o understand_v in_o the_o say_n of_o jesus_n christ_n i_o honour_v my_o father_n but_o you_o dishonour_v i_o he_o therefore_o defend_v the_o honour_n of_o his_o father_n against_o the_o 849._o false_a opinion_n and_o slander_n of_o the_o jew_n but_o some_o there_o be_v so_o unnatural_a and_o perverse_a that_o forget_v all_o due_a reverence_n and_o respect_n to_o their_o parent_n they_o will_v not_o only_o despise_v they_o in_o their_o own_o heart_n and_o suffer_v other_o to_o speak_v hardly_o of_o they_o but_o also_o will_v themselves_o so_o far_o exceed_v as_o even_o to_o lay_v they_o open_v to_o the_o scorn_n of_o other_o ham_n the_o son_n of_o noah_n see_v his_o father_n lie_v uncover_v call_v his_o brethren_n to_o show_v they_o
his_o father_n shame_n but_o so_o odious_a be_v this_o impiety_n in_o the_o sight_n of_o god_n that_o noah_n by_o the_o 22._o conduct_n and_o direction_n of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n curse_v both_o he_o and_o all_o his_o 〈◊〉_d and_o therefore_o we_o well_o and_o true_o may_v say_v that_o those_o child_n who_o in_o stead_n of_o defend_v the_o honour_n of_o their_o parent_n do_v lay_v they_o open_v to_o shame_n and_o reproof_n do_v come_v of_o the_o curse_a seed_n of_o ham._n this_o duty_n of_o honour_v parent_n be_v perform_v and_o pay_v when_o they_o do_v worshipful_o parent_n and_o reverent_o esteem_v of_o they_o as_o to_o think_v that_o they_o be_v give_v to_o they_o of_o god_n to_o the_o end_n that_o they_o shall_v reverence_v love_n and_o always_o parent_n have_v a_o care_n of_o they_o if_o for_o nothing_o else_o yet_o for_o the_o lord_n sake_n who_o be_v and_o do_v think_v himself_o despise_v so_o long_o as_o the_o child_n condemn_v their_o parent_n and_o little_a regard_n they_o so_o the_o child_n honour_v their_o parent_n when_o with_o their_o help_n and_o counsel_n they_o aid_v they_o in_o their_o old_a age_n and_o unwieldy_a crookedness_n when_o they_o ease_v and_o help_v they_o in_o the_o time_n of_o their_o need_n or_o succour_v 17._o they_o otherwise_o in_o any_o case_n else_o and_o do_v whole_o bestow_v themselves_o and_o all_o that_o they_o 16._o have_v to_o do_v they_o good_a withal_o yea_o they_o ought_v not_o to_o give_v they_o a_o rough_a or_o stubborn_a answer_n or_o once_o so_o much_o as_o to_o mumble_v of_o 〈◊〉_d a_o answer_n against_o their_o parent_n neither_o to_o smite_v or_o curse_v or_o speak_v evil_a of_o their_o father_n and_o mother_n unless_o they_o will_v procure_v the_o vengeance_n of_o god_n to_o light_v upon_o they_o for_o the_o same_o child_n ought_v always_o to_o remember_v that_o 24._o whatsoever_o they_o do_v to_o their_o father_n and_o mother_n be_v it_o good_a or_o evil_n they_o do_v it_o to_o god_n when_o they_o please_v they_o they_o please_v god_n and_o when_o they_o disobey_v they_o they_o disobey_v god_n when_o their_o parent_n be_v just_o angry_a with_o they_o god_n be_v angry_a with_o they_o neither_o can_v it_o be_v that_o they_o may_v come_v to_o have_v the_o favour_n of_o god_n again_o no_o although_o all_o the_o saint_n in_o heaven_n shall_v entreat_v for_o they_o until_o they_o have_v submit_v themselves_o to_o their_o father_n and_o mother_n if_o child_n and_o servant_n will_v always_o keep_v in_o mind_n this_o say_n so_o to_o do_v and_o behave_v themselves_o to_o their_o parent_n master_n and_o dame_n as_o they_o will_v have_v their_o child_n and_o servant_n to_o do_v and_o behave_v themselves_o to_o they_o when_o god_n 12._o shall_v vouchsafe_v to_o make_v they_o parent_n master_n or_o dame_n then_o no_o doubt_n they_o will_v obey_v and_o reverence_v their_o parent_n and_o master_n and_o dame_n more_o dutiful_o and_o faithful_o then_o now_o they_o do_v for_o let_v they_o assure_v themselves_o that_o such_o measure_n as_o they_o 〈◊〉_d mete_v to_o their_o parent_n master_n 2._o and_o dame_n such_o will_v be_v measure_v to_o they_o again_o by_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n also_o the_o child_n must_v be_v careful_a to_o follow_v the_o good_a example_n of_o their_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o to_o suffer_v themselves_o to_o be_v govern_v by_o they_o and_o to_o be_v mindful_a to_o bestow_v all_o pain_n and_o diligence_n to_o discharge_v their_o duty_n towards_o they_o and_o herewithali_fw-la they_o must_v know_v that_o they_o be_v not_o at_o their_o own_o liberty_n to_o do_v as_o they_o list_v so_o long_o as_o they_o have_v a_o father_n and_o mother_n to_o rule_v they_o and_o that_o they_o must_v not_o fall_v out_o among_o themselves_o but_o natural_o love_v and_o help_v one_o another_o and_o child_n have_v always_o to_o remember_v that_o they_o may_v not_o in_o any_o case_n obey_v their_o parent_n when_o they_o shall_v command_v they_o to_o do_v or_o say_v any_o thing_n that_o be_v contrary_a to_o the_o word_n of_o god_n and_o yet_o they_o be_v to_o be_v think_v well_o of_o for_o example_n jonathan_n obey_v not_o his_o father_n saul_n commandment_n who_o charge_v he_o to_o 19_o persecute_v david_n and_o therefore_o he_o be_v worthy_o commend_v in_o the_o holy_a scripture_n for_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o first_o table_n be_v always_o to_o be_v prefer_v before_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o second_o table_n this_o subjection_n therefore_o that_o child_n owe_v unto_o their_o father_n aught_o in_o very_a deed_n to_o be_v unto_o they_o as_o a_o ladder_n or_o stair_n to_o lead_v they_o to_o the_o reverence_n and_o obedience_n of_o god_n who_o be_v our_o 9_o chief_a father_n as_o child_n receive_v of_o their_o parent_n three_o thing_n to_o wit_n life_n maintenance_n and_o instruction_n so_o for_o these_o three_o they_o owe_v other_o three_o namely_o for_o life_n they_o owe_v love_n for_o maintenance_n they_o owe_v obedience_n for_o instruction_n they_o owe_v reverence_n for_o their_o life_n they_o must_v fervent_o love_v their_o parent_n for_o their_o maintenance_n they_o must_v dutiful_o obey_v their_o parent_n as_o master_n and_o for_o their_o instruction_n they_o must_v cheerful_o reverence_v their_o parent_n as_o their_o tutor_n and_o further_o child_n must_v remember_v that_o the_o lord_n have_v give_v to_o they_o their_o parent_n to_o take_v of_o they_o their_o beginning_n of_o life_n and_o that_o they_o may_v nourish_v and_o bring_v they_o up_o and_o that_o of_o rude_a and_o almost_o brutish_a thing_n they_o may_v make_v they_o able_a to_o help_v and_o live_v of_o themseluer_n yea_o and_o such_o mother_n as_o be_v godly_a and_o virtuous_a do_v suffer_v and_o endure_v more_o pain_n and_o grief_n in_o the_o bear_n bring_v up_o and_o nourish_v of_o their_o child_n than_o the_o father_n do_v so_o that_o great_a be_v the_o pleasure_n and_o good_a turn_v that_o christian_a parent_n do_v for_o their_o child_n great_a be_v the_o cost_n and_o labour_n that_o they_o bestow_v on_o they_o and_o great_a be_v the_o care_n grief_n and_o trouble_v which_o they_o take_v for_o they_o than_o any_o man_n how_o learned_a soever_o he_o be_v be_v able_a to_o express_v and_o therefore_o if_o there_o be_v no_o other_o reason_n or_o cause_n to_o move_v child_n great_o to_o love_n to_o esteem_v well_o to_o obey_v to_o be_v kind_a faithful_a and_o dutiful_a and_o to_o reverence_v their_o parent_n and_o that_o with_o such_o a_o reverence_n as_o come_v from_o the_o heart_n yet_o these_o be_v sufficient_a maid_n and_o young_a woman_n be_v to_o be_v put_v in_o mind_n and_o always_o to_o remember_v that_o the_o best_a portion_n the_o great_a inheritance_n and_o the_o most_o precious_a jewel_n that_o they_o can_v bring_v with_o they_o on_o the_o marriage_n day_n be_v shamefastness_n the_o want_n whereof_o be_v most_o hurtful_a in_o all_o woman_n and_o therefore_o they_o must_v careful_o shun_v and_o avoid_v all_o idle_a and_o wanton_a talk_n nice_a look_n dalliance_n and_o light_a countenance_n when_o they_o walk_v abroad_o or_o be_v in_o company_n a_o man_n need_v many_o thing_n as_o wisdom_n eloquence_n knowledge_n of_o thing_n remembrance_n skill_n in_o some_o trade_n or_o craft_n to_o live_v by_o justice_n courage_n and_o other_o thing_n and_o quality_n more_o which_o be_v too_o long_o to_o rehearse_v and_o though_o some_o of_o these_o be_v lack_v yet_o be_v he_o not_o to_o be_v mislike_v so_o that_o he_o have_v many_o of_o they_o but_o in_o a_o maid_n no_o man_n will_v look_v for_o eloquence_n great_a wit_n order_v of_o the_o commonwealth_n prudence_n etc._n etc._n final_o no_o man_n will_v look_v for_o any_o other_o thing_n of_o a_o woman_n but_o her_o honesty_n the_o which_o treasure_n only_a if_o it_o be_v lack_v she_o be_v like_o a_o man_n that_o want_v all_o that_o he_o shall_v have_v for_o in_o a_o maid_n her_o honesty_n and_o chastity_n be_v in_o stead_n of_o all_o she_o very_o may_v true_o be_v say_v to_o be_v a_o evil_a keeper_n that_o can_v keep_v one_o thing_n well_o commit_v to_o her_o keep_n and_o put_v in_o trust_n to_o she_o with_o much_o commendation_n of_o word_n and_o especial_o which_o no_o man_n will_v take_v from_o she_o against_o her_o will_n nor_o touch_v it_o except_o she_o be_v willing_a herself_o the_o which_o thing_n only_o if_o a_o woman_n remember_v it_o will_v cause_v she_o to_o take_v great_a heed_n unto_o and_o to_o be_v a_o more_o wary_a and_o careful_a keeper_n of_o her_o honesty_n which_o alone_o be_v lose_v though_o all_o other_o thing_n be_v never_o so_o well_o and_o safe_a yet_o they_o perish_v together_o therewith_o because_o she_o that_o have_v once_o lose_v her_o honesty_n shall_v think_v there_o be_v nothing_o leave_v take_v from_o a_o maid_n or_o
woman_n her_o beauty_n take_v from_o she_o kindred_n riches_n comeliness_n eloquence_n sharpness_n of_o wit_n cunning_a in_o her_o craft_n and_o give_v her_o chastity_n and_o you_o have_v give_v she_o all_o thing_n and_o on_o the_o other_o side_n give_v she_o all_o these_o thing_n &_o just_o call_v her_o whore_n or_o naughtie-packe_n with_o that_o one_o word_n you_o have_v take_v all_o from_o she_o and_o leave_v her_o bare_a and_o foul_a how_o precious_a a_o jewel_n chastity_n be_v may_v easy_o be_v gather_v from_o the_o example_n of_o dinah_n the_o daughter_n of_o leah_n which_o she_o bear_v unto_o jacob_n who_o 12._o when_o he_o hear_v that_o she_o be_v 〈◊〉_d and_o defile_v by_o shechem_n the_o son_n of_o hamer_n the_o hivite_fw-la lord_n of_o that_o country_n his_o mind_n be_v grievous_o wound_v with_o this_o great_a shame_n and_o reproach_n child_n may_v not_o forget_v this_o duty_n for_o have_v receive_v their_o be_v from_o their_o parent_n and_o be_v break_v bring_v up_o by_o they_o with_o great_a pain_n and_o much_o cost_n they_o shall_v not_o so_o much_o as_o give_v any_o like_n much_o less_o speech_n of_o marriage_n without_o the_o consent_n of_o parent_n or_o of_o those_o which_o be_v set_v over_o they_o by_o their_o parent_n the_o duty_n of_o thankfulness_n require_v it_o at_o their_o hand_n and_o not_o only_o in_o regard_n of_o thankful_a nesse_n be_v this_o duty_n to_o be_v perform_v to_o their_o parent_n but_o even_o in_o regard_n of_o their_o own_o inability_n as_o be_v not_o experience_v in_o such_o thing_n as_o their_o wit_n be_v not_o so_o ripe_a as_o their_o parent_n they_o want_v wisdom_n and_o discretion_n to_o behave_v themselves_o as_o they_o ought_v for_o some_o child_n know_v not_o what_o be_v mere_a and_o convenient_a for_o they_o nor_o whether_o they_o be_v of_o meet_a age_n and_o condition_n to_o marry_v which_o inhabilitie_n be_v in_o the_o son_n be_v much_o more_o in_o the_o daughter_n as_o be_v the_o weak_a by_o nature_n and_o more_o unable_a to_o provide_v for_o themselves_o and_o therefore_o it_o be_v necessary_a that_o they_o shall_v not_o marry_v without_o the_o consent_n and_o direction_n of_o their_o parent_n but_o that_o they_o be_v at_o their_o bestow_n for_o to_o do_v otherwise_o be_v a_o sin_n even_o that_o nature_n itself_o abhor_v and_o all_o sound_a writer_n old_a and_o new_a do_v utter_o disallow_v and_o for_o so_o much_o as_o marriage_n be_v the_o mean_v the_o which_o god_n himself_o have_v ordain_v and_o sanctify_v for_o the_o propagation_n and_o increase_n of_o mankind_n that_o be_v take_v in_o hand_n in_o his_o fear_n knit_v a_o godly_a seed_n be_v multiply_v and_o grow_v up_o here_o on_o earth_n the_o same_o may_v be_v bless_v to_o the_o constitution_n and_o make_n of_o a_o church_n the_o which_o may_v serve_v he_o in_o holiness_n and_o righteousness_n when_o the_o same_o be_v take_v in_o hand_n with_o the_o breach_n of_o his_o commandment_n so_o far_o off_o be_v it_o that_o any_o blessing_n be_v to_o be_v hope_v for_o that_o contrariwise_o his_o hot_a indignation_n wrath_n and_o heavy_a curse_n hang_v over_o that_o house_n and_o family_n where_o the_o party_n which_o be_v the_o principal_a pillar_n and_o upholder_n of_o the_o same_o be_v link_v and_o tie_v together_o in_o such_o a_o band_n of_o wedlock_n who_o link_n and_o inclosing_n be_v not_o fasten_v and_o couple_v together_o with_o the_o necessary_a and_o lawful_a assent_n and_o like_n of_o the_o parent_n who_o authority_n and_o consent_n ought_v to_o bear_v the_o chief_a sway_n and_o strike_v likewise_o the_o great_a stroke_n in_o this_o honourable_a 〈◊〉_d and_o likewise_o as_o where_o marriage_n be_v begin_v and_o enterprise_v in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n according_a to_o his_o word_n there_o god_n be_v well_o please_v there_o the_o party_n so_o match_v live_v together_o in_o a_o joyful_a agreement_n &_o link_a the_o one_o to_o the_o other_o there_o god_n be_v honour_v and_o serve_v in_o sincerity_n and_o truth_n there_o the_o child_n when_o god_n give_v they_o with_o the_o rest_n of_o the_o family_n be_v instruct_v and_o bring_v up_o in_o knowledge_n of_o religion_n and_o ground_n of_o faith_n so_o on_o the_o other_o side_n the_o regard_n of_o that_o which_o god_n especial_o command_v be_v shut_v out_o of_o our_o marriage_n there_o must_v needs_o ensue_v his_o dislike_n and_o displeasure_n there_o be_v a_o jar_n and_o discord_n there_o god_n honour_n be_v neglect_v there_o household_n discipline_n and_o christian_a instruction_n of_o such_o as_o belong_v unto_o our_o charge_n go_v utter_o to_o wrack_n and_o be_v nothing_o at_o all_o regard_v and_o no_o marvel_n for_o if_o where_o god_n bless_v all_o thing_n go_v well_o and_o do_v prosper_v then_o consequent_o where_o he_o curse_v there_o nothing_o thrive_v have_v good_a success_n or_o go_v happy_o forward_a it_o may_v appear_v by_o sundry_a example_n both_o before_o the_o law_n be_v give_v and_o after_o that_o this_o be_v a_o duty_n require_v of_o child_n towards_o their_o parent_n namely_o to_o have_v their_o consent_n in_o contract_v of_o marriage_n as_o these_o place_n do_v plain_o show_v gen._n 21._o 21._o and_o 24._o 3._o etc._n etc._n and_o 29._o 19_o and_o 34._o 4._o deut._n 7._o 3._o judge_n 14._o 1._o etc._n etc._n 1._o cor._n 7._o 36._o 38._o 1._o whereby_o be_v manifest_o prove_v that_o child_n ought_v not_o to_o match_v without_o the_o consent_n of_o their_o parent_n first_o because_o it_o be_v against_o the_o law_n of_o nature_n second_o because_o the_o parent_n have_v authority_n over_o their_o child_n more_o than_o they_o have_v over_o their_o servant_n three_o because_o child_n be_v their_o father_n good_n and_o riches_n and_o therefore_o they_o must_v not_o bestow_v themselves_o in_o marriage_n but_o must_v be_v bestow_v of_o their_o parent_n four_o because_o parent_n have_v authority_n over_o the_o vow_n of_o their_o child_n numb_a 30._o 4._o 5._o 6._o parent_n five_o if_o a_o man_n daughter_n be_v entice_v yet_o her_o father_n may_v refuse_v the_o contract_n be_v not_o available_a or_o of_o any_o force_n without_o his_o consent_n exod._n 22._o 16._o 17._o beside_o all_o this_o what_o clear_a proof_n can_v we_o have_v then_o the_o five_o commandment_n in_o the_o which_o child_n be_v command_v to_o honour_v their_o father_n and_o mother_n with_o a_o blessing_n promise_v to_o those_o which_o perform_v the_o same_o whereby_o we_o gather_v by_o the_o nature_n of_o contrary_n that_o there_o be_v a_o curse_n also_o belong_v to_o all_o those_o child_n that_o shall_v dishonour_v they_o and_o in_o that_o god_n will_v that_o the_o parent_n by_o their_o child_n shall_v be_v honour_v he_o mean_v that_o they_o shall_v in_o all_o humility_n and_o modesty_n reverence_v they_o with_o all_o dutiful_a submission_n be_v obedient_a unto_o they_o and_o with_o all_o willingness_n show_v themselves_o thankful_a for_o their_o creation_n education_n sustentation_n and_o all_o other_o benefit_n that_o under_o god_n they_o have_v receive_v from_o they_o be_v ready_a by_o all_o the_o mean_n they_o possible_o may_v to_o imitate_v and_o express_v towards_o they_o the_o nature_n of_o the_o stroke_n who_o property_n as_o they_o write_v of_o they_o be_v to_o provide_v meat_n and_o feed_v their_o dam_n when_o through_o age_n they_o grow_v so_o old_a that_o they_o be_v not_o able_a to_o help_v themselves_o that_o be_v to_o say_v they_o must_v to_o their_o very_a utmost_a seek_v to_o make_v they_o recompense_v and_o requital_n of_o some_o part_n of_o those_o unrequitable_a pain_n the_o which_o their_o love_a parent_n have_v take_v with_o they_o and_o make_v some_o amends_o for_o the_o uncounteruailable_a kindness_n that_o they_o have_v show_v towards_o they_o but_o where_o they_o bestow_v themselves_o in_o marriage_n without_o the_o consent_n of_o their_o parent_n there_o they_o do_v fault_n and_o make_v a_o breach_n of_o duty_n in_o all_o these_o three_o respect_n that_o be_v to_o say_v they_o neither_o reverence_n obey_v nor_o show_v themselves_o thankful_a unto_o they_o for_o reverence_n consist_v in_o this_o that_o child_n carry_v towards_o their_o parent_n a_o certain_a honest_a and_o modest_a shamefastness_n join_v with_o a_o bashful_a awfulnesse_n and_o stand_v in_o fear_n of_o they_o the_o which_o work_v in_o they_o a_o conceive_v of_o such_o opinion_n and_o estimation_n of_o they_o as_o that_o they_o have_v a_o especial_a respect_n and_o regard_n of_o they_o in_o do_v or_o not_o do_v of_o thing_n rather_o of_o a_o care_n to_o please_v they_o then_o of_o a_o fear_n to_o offend_v they_o obedience_n herein_o show_v forth_o itself_o in_o that_o willing_o without_o murmur_v or_o grudge_v they_o be_v willing_a to_o be_v order_v direct_v guide_v and_o rule_v by_o their_o parent_n be_v ready_a to_o do_v all_o lawful_a thing_n which_o
god_n take_v away_o such_o obedient_a child_n before_o they_o be_v old_a yea_o before_o they_o come_v unto_o man_n estate_n whether_o it_o be_v lest_o malice_n shall_v corrupt_v their_o heart_n or_o to_o prevent_v some_o great_a calamity_n wherein_o they_o may_v peradventure_o be_v entangle_v or_o upon_o whatsoever_o other_o consideration_n to_o receive_v they_o into_o a_o better_a life_n he_o do_v faithful_o perform_v his_o promise_n unto_o such_o child_n because_o he_o deal_v better_a than_o promise_n with_o they_o but_o as_o contrariwise_o this_o promise_n threaten_v such_o child_n as_o will_v not_o honour_v their_o parent_n with_o short_a life_n so_o do_v experience_n declare_v that_o many_o such_o child_n be_v of_o short_a and_o wretched_a life_n but_o if_o contrariwise_o such_o disobedient_a child_n do_v chance_n to_o live_v long_o so_o far_o be_v long_a life_n from_o be_v unto_o they_o a_o blessing_n that_o on_o the_o contrary_a it_o be_v a_o enforcement_n and_o increase_n of_o woe_n because_o they_o enlarge_v their_o just_a condemnation_n so_o as_o they_o have_v be_v better_a to_o have_v die_v in_o their_o youth_n but_o howsoever_o it_o be_v god_n so_o dispose_v thereof_o that_o by_o the_o effect_n we_o may_v perceive_v that_o they_o which_o honour_v their_o parent_n be_v bless_v and_o the_o other_o be_v accurse_v eccles._n 3._o 2._o etc._n etc._n and_o although_o some_o parent_n do_v not_o perform_v those_o duty_n towards_o their_o child_n enjoin_v they_o from_o the_o lord_n yet_o such_o child_n as_o live_v wicked_o must_v know_v that_o they_o be_v not_o exempt_a and_o free_a from_o blame_n and_o guiltiness_n before_o god_n for_o although_o they_o can_v say_v as_o the_o child_n in_o ezekiel_n time_n say_v the_o father_n have_v eat_v sour_a grape_n and_o the_o child_n tooth_n be_v set_v on_o edge_n we_o say_v that_o although_o the_o occasion_n be_v offer_v of_o such_o ungodly_a and_o wicked_a parent_n yet_o the_o cause_n of_o destruction_n be_v still_o in_o the_o child_n themselves_o and_o beside_o that_o it_o be_v sure_a that_o the_o soul_n that_o have_v sin_v shall_v die_v the_o death_n see_v there_o be_v some_o young_a man_n and_o maid_n who_o notwithstanding_o the_o great_a profaneness_n of_o the_o most_o the_o manifold_a corruption_n offer_v abroad_o the_o ungodly_a example_n abound_v at_o home_n be_v so_o mighty_o preserve_v by_o the_o seed_n of_o grace_n that_o they_o escape_v safe_o in_o a_o holy_a course_n of_o life_n lament_v when_o they_o see_v the_o least_o occasion_n of_o evil_a rejoice_v at_o the_o least_o occasion_n of_o good_a thing_n the_o rest_n who_o please_v themselves_o and_o hope_v to_o shelter_v their_o sin_n under_o their_o parent_n default_n be_v plain_o leave_v without_o excuse_n and_o be_v iuft_o guilty_a of_o the_o blood_n of_o their_o own_o soul_n labour_v therefore_o you_o young_a man_n and_o maiden_n to_o wipe_v away_o the_o tear_n of_o grief_n from_o your_o father_n eye_n and_o stay_v the_o mournful_a and_o sorrowful_a spirit_n of_o your_o tender_a mother_n and_o consider_v in_o yourselves_o if_o you_o have_v any_o nature_n in_o you_o and_o have_v not_o bury_v the_o use_n of_o common_a reason_n what_o a_o shame_n it_o be_v to_o be_v a_o shame_n unto_o your_o father_n to_o who_o you_o ought_v to_o be_v a_o glory_n think_v you_o wanton_a wit_n that_o have_v not_o cast_v off_o all_o natural_a affection_n what_o a_o contempt_n it_o be_v to_o be_v a_o contempt_n unto_o your_o mother_n to_o who_o you_o have_v offer_v as_o it_o be_v a_o despiteful_a violence_n in_o that_o you_o be_v a_o corrasive_n to_o their_o grief_n when_o as_o you_o shall_v have_v be_v a_o crown_n to_o their_o comfort_n learn_v therefore_o you_o child_n that_o it_o be_v one_o special_a property_n of_o a_o liberal_a and_o ingenious_a nature_n to_o be_v careful_a to_o live_v that_o in_o time_n you_o may_v be_v a_o glory_n to_o your_o father_n and_o a_o joy_n to_o your_o mother_n which_o the_o lord_n for_o his_o christ_n sake_n grant_v these_o precept_n and_o admonition_n before_o say_v be_v as_o a_o summary_n of_o the_o duty_n of_o child_n to_o their_o parent_n and_o therefore_o it_o rest_v that_o they_o understanding_n they_o do_v pray_v unto_o god_n to_o give_v they_o grace_n to_o put_v they_o in_o practice_n to_o his_o glory_n and_o their_o good_a and_o salvation_n last_o let_v they_o remember_v that_o god_n be_v not_o more_o incline_v to_o hear_v any_o prayer_n than_o such_o as_o parent_n the_o power_n forth_o for_o their_o child_n as_o they_o be_v therefore_o to_o fear_v their_o curse_n for_o offend_v they_o so_o must_v they_o by_o honour_v and_o please_v they_o seek_v to_o be_v bless_v in_o their_o prayer_n which_o be_v blessing_n ratify_v unto_o they_o in_o heaven_n as_o the_o blessing_n of_o isaac_n to_o his_o son_n jacob_n do_v manifest_o declare_v gen._n 27._o 28._o 29._o what_o duty_n master_n and_o mistress_n owe_v to_o their_o servant_n this_o duty_n teach_v they_o that_o child_n they_o be_v become_v in_o stead_n of_o parent_n unto_o their_o servant_n which_o duty_n consist_v in_o four_o point_n 1._o first_o that_o they_o refrain_v and_o keep_v their_o servant_n from_o idleness_n 2._o second_o that_o by_o diligent_a instruction_n and_o good_a example_n they_o bring_v up_o their_o servant_n and_o household_n in_o honesty_n and_o comely_a manner_n and_o in_o all_o virtue_n 3._o three_o that_o they_o ought_v to_o instruct_v their_o apprentice_n and_o servant_n in_o the_o knowledge_n of_o their_o occupation_n and_o trade_n even_o as_o parent_n will_v teach_v their_o own_o child_n without_o all_o guile_n fraud_n delay_v or_o conceal_v 4._o last_o when_o correction_n be_v necessary_a that_o theirseruant_n then_o they_o give_v it_o they_o with_o such_o discretion_n pity_n and_o desire_v of_o their_o amendment_n as_o love_a parent_n use_v to_o deal_v with_o their_o dear_a child_n remember_v always_o that_o they_o have_v a_o master_n in_o heaven_n before_o who_o they_o must_v make_v a_o account_n for_o their_o do_n these_o four_o point_n be_v in_o effect_n poken_v of_o before_o in_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n for_o so_o much_o as_o master_n and_o householder_n be_v to_o their_o servant_n and_o apprentice_n in_o place_n of_o father_n they_o be_v hereby_o admonish_v that_o they_o 15._o ought_v not_o to_o withhold_v and_o keep_v 〈◊〉_d their_o due_a wage_n to_o exact_v of_o they_o to_o oppress_v they_o or_o to_o reward_v their_o well-doing_n and_o good_a deserve_v 2._o slender_o but_o to_o be_v careful_a of_o their_o servant_n good_a estate_n as_o of_o their_o own_o not_o only_o in_o provide_v for_o they_o wholesome_a meat_n drink_n and_o 2._o lodging_n and_o otherwise_o to_o help_v they_o comfort_v they_o and_o relieve_v and_o cherish_v they_o as_o well_o in_o 〈◊〉_d as_o in_o health_n liberal_o to_o reward_v their_o good_a deserve_n as_o far_o as_o christianity_n liberality_n and_o equality_n shall_v bind_v they_o but_o also_o that_o they_o be_v careful_a that_o they_o live_v honest_o virtuous_o and_o christianly_o and_o further_o they_o may_v not_o grieve_v their_o servant_n with_o too_o much_o labour_n but_o always_o remember_v everyday_n that_o they_o be_v not_o beast_n but_o man_n so_o that_o they_o ought_v quiet_o to_o govern_v they_o and_o also_o quiet_o to_o chide_v they_o when_o they_o shall_v neglect_v their_o duty_n lest_o they_o be_v provoke_v with_o their_o hard_a word_n remember_v that_o they_o also_o have_v a_o lord_n and_o master_n in_o heaven_n with_o who_o there_o be_v no_o respect_n of_o person_n ephes._n 6._o 9_o and_o let_v they_o bountiful_o reward_v the_o just_a and_o faithful_a labour_n 7._o of_o their_o servant_n and_o pay_v their_o covenant_n in_o a_o fit_a and_o convenient_a time_n lest_o be_v compel_v by_o necessity_n they_o shall_v steal_v master_n ought_v not_o as_o tyrant_n to_o use_v their_o servant_n as_o their_o horse_n and_o ass_n but_o to_o deal_v servant_n with_o they_o love_o &_o christianly_o because_o they_o be_v all_o member_n of_o one_o body_n whereof_o christ_n jesus_n be_v the_o head_n there_o be_v some_o master_n that_o use_v their_o servant_n and_o apprentice_n more_o like_a beast_n then_o like_o man_n and_o their_o own_o member_n for_o which_o their_o so_o do_v let_v they_o assure_v themselves_o they_o must_v yield_v to_o god_n their_o master_n a_o straight_a account_n 15._o oh_o that_o christian_a master_n and_o mistress_n will_v learn_v and_o so_o practice_v the_o example_n of_o brethren_n job_n good_a and_o upright_o deal_n with_o his_o servant_n which_o be_v far_o from_o rigour_n for_o he_o say_v if_o i_o do_v contemn_v the_o judgement_n of_o my_o servant_n and_o of_o my_o maid_n when_o they_o do_v contend_v with_o i_o that_o be_v when_o they_o think_v themselves_o evil_o entreat_v by_o i_o what_o then_o shall_v i_o do_v when_o god_n stand_v
21._o 2._o tim._n 3._o 2._o 3._o 4._o 5._o 5._o the_o riches_n of_o the_o body_n beauty_n choose_v a_o wife_n for_o virtue_n only_o pro._n 19_o 14._o seek_v no_o match_n in_o marriage_n above_o thy_o 〈◊〉_d equality_n in_o marriage_n to_o be_v respect_v of_o the_o choice_n of_o a_o wise_a a_o good_a wife_n be_v above_o all_o thing_n to_o be_v crave_v of_o god_n by_o prayer_n heb._n 13._o 4._o ephes._n 5._o 25._o 26._o 27._o three_o cause_n of_o marriage_n psal._n 51._o 5._o the_o second_o cause_n wedlock_n lawful_a for_o such_o as_o have_v not_o the_o gift_n of_o chastity_n the_o three_o cause_n this_o be_v often_o find_v most_o true_a that_o such_o as_o be_v contemner_n of_o marriage_n be_v most_o offender_n against_o marriage_n and_o live_v most_o unchastly_a 21._o pet._n 2._o 7._o by_o honour_n be_v mean_v that_o the_o husband_n be_v to_o sustain_v and_o relieve_v the_o want_n of_o his_o wife_n to_o support_v uphold_v &_o bear_v with_o her_o infirmity_n as_o the_o weak_a vessel_n beside_o the_o prayer_n have_v with_o their_o family_n they_o must_v pray_v private_o gen._n 25._o 21._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 3._o 4._o 5._o col._n 3._o 19_o anger_n in_o a_o husband_n be_v a_o vice_n the_o root_n of_o bitterness_n to_o be_v weed_v out_o by_o the_o spade_n of_o patience_n how_o &_o when_o the_o husband_n ought_v to_o reprove_v fault_n sometime_o must_v be_v cover_v with_o love_n not_o to_o take_v unkindness_n for_o every_o trifle_n ephe._n 5._o 25._o 26_o 27._o 28._o 29._o the_o husband_n be_v to_o the_o wife_n in_o god_n stead_n husband_n may_v 〈◊〉_d be_v rigorous_a 〈◊〉_d their_o wife_n especial_o when_o they_o be_v new_o marry_v prou._n 20._o 3._o the_o wife_n be_v not_o to_o be_v use_v or_o entreat_v as_o a_o handmaid_n or_o servant_n but_o as_o a_o fellow_n prou._n 8._o 7._o &_o 14_o 9_o &_o 15._o 5._o &_o 18._o 2._o &_o 27._o 22._o prou_z 9_o 9_o &_o 19_o 25._o gen_n 16._o 6._o the_o fall_v out_o of_o lover_n be_v a_o renew_n of_o love_n that_o man_n be_v miserable_a that_o be_v marry_v unto_o a_o foolish_a woman_n husband_n must_v provide_v thing_n necessary_a for_o the_o house_n a_o man_n house_n will_v continue_v by_o provision_n before_o hand_n and_o by_o order_n in_o his_o expense_n 1._o tim._n 5._o 8._o but_o where_o disorder_n be_v in_o a_o house_n it_o can_v endure_v spare_v in_o time_n and_o spend_v in_o time_n for_o spare_v be_v a_o rich_a purse_n the_o honour_n of_o the_o husband_n depend_v on_o the_o wife_n 1._o cor._n 11._o 7._o the_o three_o point_n can._n 4._o 9_o 10._o 1._o cor_fw-la 9_o 5._o 1._o pet._n 3_o 7._o 1._o cor._n 11._o 3._o ephes._n 3._o 23._o ephes._n 5._o 28._o 29_o 1._o sam._n 1._o 8._o gal._n 6._o 2._o gen._n 1._o 28._o gen._n 2._o 18._o the_o causeswhy_a the_o husband_n shall_v love_v his_o wife_n the_o husband_n must_v love_v his_o wife_n kinsfolk_n gen._n 26._o 8._o 9_o 1._o cor._n 7._o 4._o duty_n common_a both_o to_o the_o husband_n &_o the_o wife_n 1._o cor._n 7._o 2._o gen._n 1._o 18._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 5._o ephes._n 5._o 15._o tit._n 2._o 5._o mat._n 5._o 44._o gen._n 6._o 2._o psal._n 38._o 22._o mat._n 19_o 5._o ephes._n 5._o 31._o gen._n 31._o 4._o 5._o etc._n etc._n math._n 19_o 6._o pre._n 2._o 27._o mal._n 2._o 14._o mat._n 19_o levit._n 20._o 10._o joh._n 8._o 5._o mat._n 19_o 8._o mat._n 19_o 6._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 12._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 11._o objection_n answer_n 1._o cor._n 7._o 29._o 1._o pet._n 3._o 7._o 1._o pet._n 3._o 7._o gen._n 30._o 1._o 1._o sam._n 1._o gen._n 16._o the_o best_a policy_n in_o marriage_n be_v to_o begin_v well_o 1._o king_n 12._o 7._o 8._o etc._n etc._n judg._n 19_o 3._o prou._n 15._o 1._o gal_n 5._o 9_o gen._n 22._o 11._o psal._n 133._o 1._o levit._n 24._o 5._o mat._n 12._o 25._o gen._n 19_o 33._o gen._n 18._o 3._o pro._n 12._o 4._o gen._n 2._o 23._o ephes._n 5._o 29._o 1._o pet._n 3._o 1._o ephes._n 5._o 22._o col._n 3._o 18._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 2._o wife_n must_v be_v serviceable_a &_o obedient_a unto_o their_o husband_n and_o stand_v in_o a_o reverend_a awe_n of_o they_o ephes._n 5._o 24._o cheerful_a in_o countenance_n gen._n 27._o 9_o gen._n 2._o 23._o 24_o math_n 19_o 5._o 1._o cor._n 6._o 16._o eihe_n 5._o 31._o how_o the_o wife_n ought_v to_o behave_v herself_o unto_o her_o husband_n rom._n 12._o 15._o 2._o king_n 2._o 6._o gal._n 6._o 2._o 1._o king_n 21._o 5._o 1._o king_n 14._o 4._o gen._n 12._o 1._o gen._n 2._o 18._o 1._o cor._n 1._o 27._o 1._o pet._n 3._o 1._o 2._o king_n 5._o 3._o &_o 49._o hest._n 7._o 3._o 〈◊〉_d 32._o 21._o 〈◊〉_d 10_o 19_o prou._n 5._o 18._o 19_o 1._o sam._n 16._o 23._o 1._o sam._n 25._o 3._o gen._n 38._o 4._o gen._n 33._o 1._o why_o wife_n be_v call_v huswife_n tit._n 2._o 5._o pro._n 7._o 12._o 2._o king_n 30._o gen._n 18._o 9_o 2._o king_n 4._o 22._o ephe._n 5._o 22._o 23._o 〈◊〉_d cor._n 11._o &_o 14._o 34._o gen._n 18._o 12._o 1._o pet._n 3._o 6._o ephes._n 5._o 24._o gen._n 3._o 1._o 1._o tim._n 2._o 14._o num._n 30._o 7._o pro._n 14._o 1._o &_o 18._o 22._o &_o 19_o 14._o &_o 31._o all_o the_o wife_n must_v keep_v a_o good_a tongue_n when_o the_o wife_n do_v hold_v her_o peace_n she_o keep_v the_o peace_n the_o cause_n of_o domestical_a combat_n silence_n become_v a_o woman_n lack_v of_o knowledge_n of_o god_n word_n be_v the_o principal_a cause_n why_o wife_n do_v not_o their_o duty_n to_o their_o husband_n one_o heart_n and_o one_o will_n how_o the_o love_n faithfulness_n and_o duty_n of_o marry_a folk_n may_v be_v keep_v &_o increase_v they_o must_v secret_o keep_v no_o evil_a will_n in_o their_o mind_n but_o tell_v their_o grief_n 1._o sam._n 25._o 36._o 37._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 10._o 11_o 12._o 13._o 14._o 15._o 16._o mat._n 19_o 6._o mat._n 19_o 9_o luke_n 16._o 18._o the_o wife_n ought_v to_o obey_v her_o husband_n in_o all_o thing_n that_o be_v honest_a and_o agreeable_a to_o god_n word_n gen._n 3._o 16._o hest._n 1._o 20._o 22._o numb_a 30._o 7._o 8_o 9_o 1._o pet._n 3._o 6._o it_o be_v a_o special_a duty_n of_o a_o mother_n to_o give_v her_o child_n suck_v herself_o 1._o tim._n 5._o 10._o gen._n 22._o 7._o 1._o sam._n 1._o 23._o exod._n 8._o cant._n 8._o 1._o psal._n 22._o 9_o mat._n 2._o 14._o luke_n 2._o 7._o 12._o 1._o tim._n 5._o 10._o stepfather_n &_o stepmother_n their_o duty_n the_o husband_n must_v so_o praise_v his_o first_o wife_n &_o she_o her_o first_o husband_n as_o it_o be_v not_o do_v to_o the_o offence_n or_o reproach_n of_o either_o to_o the_o other_o jealousy_n which_o be_v the_o suspect_v of_o adultery_n in_o the_o marry_a party_n ought_v wise_o and_o careful_o to_o be_v suppress_v in_o both_o party_n without_o apparent_a matter_n the_o very_a name_n of_o stepfather_n &_o stepmother_n teach_v they_o their_o duty_n 1._o king_n 12._o 13._o 2._o sam._n 2._o 7._o as_o wife_n ought_v to_o go_v comely_a plain_o and_o handsome_o in_o their_o 〈◊〉_d so_o they_o must_v in_o any_o wise_a beware_v of_o pride_n riot_n or_o excess_n therein_o pride_n be_v hateful_a before_o god_n and_o man_n be_v not_o therefore_o proud_a for_o thou_o be_v but_o dust_n ana_n ash_n prou._n 16._o 18._o titus_n 1._o 3._o temperance_n in_o apparel_n the_o duty_n contain_v four_o point_n namely_o in_o teach_v or_o instruct_v they_o in_o religion_n in_o manner_n good_a example_n of_o life_n and_o skill_n of_o a_o occupation_n the_o first_o point_n the_o child_n of_o christian_n ought_v not_o to_o be_v call_v by_o any_o papish_a name_n we_o be_v neither_o better_o nor_o worse_o in_o respect_n of_o our_o name_n josua_n 10._o 3._o the_o name_n profit_v none_o in_o who_o virtue_n be_v not_o convince_v luk._n 1._o 59_o &_o 2._o 21._o proper_a name_n be_v also_o give_v unto_o we_o for_o this_o use_n and_o end_n that_o be_v to_o distinguish_v between_o man_n &_o man_n instruct_v correct_v &_o prayer_n make_v good_a child_n and_o happy_a parent_n deut._n 6._o 7._o 8_o &_o 4._o 9_o &_o 11._o 19_o psal._n 78._o 5._o 6._o 78._o josu_n 4._o 6._o exod._n 12._o 26._o 27._o gen._n 18._o 19_o 1._o 〈◊〉_d 28._o 9_o act._n 10._o 2._o 2._o tim._n 1._o 5._o parent_n must_v perform_v their_o duty_n to_o their_o child_n moderate_o with_o great_a gravity_n and_o authority_n which_o be_v do_v by_o example_n fruit_n be_v wont_a to_o take_v their_o shape_n &_o nature_n of_o the_o tree_n deut._n 6._o 5._o 6._o 7._o &_o 31._o 13._o 1._o king_n 17._o 10._o etc._n etc._n 2._o king_n 4._o 1._o etc._n etc._n joh._n 4._o 53._o luke_n 19_o 9_o act._n 10._o 44._o 2._o tim._n 1._o 5._o &_o 3._o 15._o ezech_v
16._o 20._o 21._o psal._n 127._o 3._o see_v more_o of_o this_o point_n in_o the_o use_n and_o necessity_n of_o catechise_n the_o second_o point_n deut._n 6._o 10._o exed_a 12._o 26._o &_o 13._o 14._o the_o proper_a duty_n of_o good_a parent_n to_o their_o child_n be_v to_o 〈◊〉_d they_o sober_o to_o keep_v they_o vender_n obedience_n and_o to_o teach_v they_o good_a manner_n prou._n 23._o 13._o &_o 19_o 18._o &_o 19_o 15._o 17._o &_o 22._o 15._o &_o 13._o 24._o 1._o sam._n 2._o 12._o &_o 3._o 12._o 13._o 14._o 1._o kin._n 1._o 5._o 6._o 2._o kin._n 2._o 23._o 24_o how_o child_n shall_v be_v bring_v up_o hold_v thy_o child_n in_o awe_n and_o they_o shall_v have_v thou_o in_o reverence_n prou._n 30._o 25._o and_o 6._o 0_o 7._o mat._n 6._o 19_o shall_fw-mi 127._o 3._o lat_fw-la 12._o 33._o reason_n gen._n 5._o 3._o prou._n 18._o 21._o 1._o sam._n 9_o 2._o etc._n etc._n and._n 16._o 11._o psal._n 78._o 70._o 71._o 1._o kin._n 19_o 19_o amos_n 1._o 2._o good_a manner_n in_o speech_n good_a manner_n in_o gesture_n 〈◊〉_d 3._o 1._o joh._n 2._o 4._o mat._n 18._o 10._o isaiah_n 5._o 8._o psal._n 37._o 35._o 30._o psal._n 111._o 10._o prou._n 9_o 10._o psal._n 19_o 7._o 8._o &_o 119._o 105._o prou._n 22._o 6._o mat._n 21._o 15._o 16._o psal._n 82._o 2_o king_n 2._o 13._o 2._o sam._n 16._o 15._o etc._n etc._n 1._o king_n 1._o 5._o mat._n 5._o 8._o 1._o thes._n 4._o 7._o luk._n 1.74.75_o 1._o pet._n 5._o 8._o i_o be_o 4._o 7._o pro._n 18._o 10._o psal._n 50._o 15._o prou._n 1._o 10._o 11_o rom._n 12._o 2._o 1._o joh_n 215._o psal._n 51._o 5._o ephes._n 2._o 3._o col._n 1._o 12._o 13._o 2._o cor._n 6._o 1._o rom._n 13._o 12._o isaiah_n 14._o 12._o zoph_n 1._o 8._o gen._n 6._o 5._o &_o 8._o 21._o mat._n 15._o 19_o 2._o sam._n 15._o all_o &_o 18._o 35._o ill_o bring_v up_o be_v a_o cause_n of_o mar_v many_o which_o be_v of_o a_o good_a towardness_n and_o wit_n two_o thing_n which_o much_o hinder_v good_a education_n the_o few_o the_o child_n the_o more_o diligent_o to_o be_v care_v for_o that_o they_o be_v well_o bring_v up_o the_o second_o cause_n which_o 〈◊〉_d good_a education_n 2._o sam._n 18._o 33._o gen._n 4._o 2._o 25._o gen._n 21._o 2._o gen._n 30._o 24._o 1._o sam._n 2._o 9_o 2._o sam._n 22._o 24._o luke_n 1._o 13._o child_n profit_v more_o by_o good_a example_n in_o one_o month_n then_o by_o instruction_n in_o a_o whole_a year_n objection_n answer_n zuke_n 3._o 29._o youth_n must_v think_v on_o death_n betimes_o to_o the_o end_n to_o live_v to_o well_o &_o die_v well_o marriage_n with_o papist_n etc._n etc._n gen._n 23._o 24._o gen._n 2._o 24._o how_o shall_v it_o marriage_n 〈◊〉_d well_o when_o 〈◊〉_d bridegroom_n 〈◊〉_d such_o a_o one_o 〈◊〉_d who_o he_o can_v say_v god_n speed_n because_o she_o be_v one_o of_o god_n friend_n 2._o joh._n 10._o 1._o cor._n 7._o 39_o but_o how_o do_v they_o marry_v in_o the_o lord_n who_o marry_v the_o lord_n enemy_n gen._n 6._o 2._o as_o the_o jew_n may_v not_o marry_v with_o the_o canaanite_n so_o christian_n may_v not_o marry_v with_o they_o which_o be_v like_o canaanite_n gen._n 24._o 3._o &_o 28._o 1._o mal._n 2._o 11._o ezr_n 9_o 14._o if_o adultery_n may_v separate_v marriage_n shall_v not_o idolatr_v y_o hinder_v marriage_n which_o be_v worse_o than_o it_o parent_n may_v not_o give_v their_o daughter_n to_o a_o man_n 〈◊〉_d gen._n 34._o 14._o miserable_a be_v that_o man_n which_o be_v fetter_v with_o a_o woman_n that_o like_v not_o his_o religion_n he_o fear_v not_o sin_n which_o do_v not_o shun_v occasion_n and_o he_o be_v worthy_a to_o be_v snare_v which_o lead_v himself_o into_o temptation_n &_o so_o make_v a_o trap_n for_o himself_o luk._n 11._o 4._o the_o wife_n must_v be_v meet_a as_o god_n say_v gen._n 2._o 14._o but_o how_o be_v she_o meet_v if_o the_o husband_n be_v a_o christian_n and_o sh_n e_o a_o papist_n 1._o cor._n 7._o 1._o gen._n 18._o 1._o 2._o jud._n 14._o 1._o 2._o 3._o 3._o it_o be_v the_o parent_n duty_n to_o give_v their_o child_n that_o which_o may_v help_v they_o in_o this_o life_n to_o counsel_v or_o to_o provide_v they_o fit_a and_o religious_a marriage_n 2._o cor._n 12._o 14._o gen._n 4._o 2._o 3._o 4._o ruth_n 3._o 1._o when_o parent_n do_v abuse_v their_o authority_n parent_n must_v not_o match_v their_o child_n only_o for_o carnal_a respect_n when_o parent_n do_v marry_v their_o daughter_n to_o man_n of_o understanding_n they_o shall_v perform_v a_o weighty_a work_n colos._n 3._o 21._o parent_n ought_v to_o deal_v sincere_o in_o the_o choice_n for_o their_o child_n in_o provision_n of_o match_n for_o their_o child_n parent_n ought_v to_o begin_v with_o prayer_n the_o three_o point_n example_n do_v much_o more_o persuade_v then_o word_n 〈◊〉_d must_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d not_o by_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d as_o the_o father_n begin_v so_o it_o be_v like_o the_o son_n will_v proceed_v gal._n 6._o 7._o mat._n 18._o 7._o 1._o cor._n 15._o 33._o the_o last_o point_n gen._n 3._o 19_o ezech._n 16._o 49._o prou._n 12._o 11._o &_o 18._o 9_o 1._o tim._n 5._o 10._o 11._o 2._o thes._n 3._o 10._o 11._o idleness_n bring_v much_o evil_n mat._n 12._o 36._o to_o learn_v that_o science_n which_o they_o be_v most_o apt_a for_o objection_n answer_n pro._n 3._o 13._o 14._o 15._o why_o some_o man_n bring_v not_o up_o their_o child_n to_o any_o good_a perfection_n in_o learning_n luke_n 16._o 27._o prou._n 22._o 6._o 〈◊〉_d of_o the_o elder_a 〈◊〉_d be_v the_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d chron._n 21._o 3._o exod._n 13._o 1._o 2._o &_o 34._o 19_o 20._o num._n 3._o 13._o &_o 18._o 16._o deut._n 21._o 18._o etc._n etc._n gen._n 35._o 22._o 1._o chron._n 5._o 1._o 1._o eph_n 6._o 1._o 2._o 3._o colos._n 3._o 20._o 20._o levit._n 19_o 3._o num._n 12._o 14._o 14._o pro._n 15._o 5._o 1._o tim._n 5._o 4._o mat._n 15._o 4._o 5._o 6_o gen._n 47._o 12._o father_n and_o mother_n be_v to_o their_o child_n in_o god_n stead_n exod._n 20._o 12._o deut._n 5._o 15._o by_o honour_n be_v mean_v all_o kind_n of_o duty_n which_o child_n owe_v to_o their_o parent_n 〈◊〉_d 23._o 39_o mat._n 23._o 9_o 1._o king_n 2._o 19_o 1._o king_n 2._o 20._o joh._n 849._o 〈◊〉_d 9_o 22._o the_o honour_n due_a to_o parent_n child_n duty_n be_v from_o their_o beginning_n to_o their_o end_n to_o be_v subject_a obedient_a and_o helpful_a to_o their_o parent_n mat._n 15._o 4._o 5._o 6_o exod._n 21._o 15._o 17._o levit._n 20._o 9_o pro._n 20._o 20._o &_o 30._o 17._o deut._n 〈◊〉_d 16._o what_o child_n do_v to_o their_o parent_n they_o do_v to_o god_n so_o that_o they_o may_v not_o purloin_v or_o diminish_v any_o of_o their_o substance_n pro._n 28._o 24._o mat._n 7._o 12._o mat._n 7._o 2._o 1._o sam._n 20._o 28._o &c_n &c_n &_o 22._o 17._o dan._n 3._o 18._o act._n 4._o 19_o mat._n 23._o 9_o when_o a_o woman_n lose_v her_o honesty_n then_o have_v she_o lose_v her_o chiese_n treasure_n gen._n 34._o 12._o child_n may_v not_o marry_v without_o the_o consent_n &_o agreement_n of_o their_o 〈◊〉_d so_o that_o a_o unlawful_a promise_n make_v by_o the_o child_n may_v lawful_o be_v break_v it_o be_v a_o sweet_a wedding_n when_o the_o father_n and_o the_o mother_n bring_v abless_v to_o the_o feast_n and_o a_o heavy_a union_n which_o be_v curse_v the_o firsnt_a day_n that_o it_o be_v knit_v 1._o sam._n 18._o 1._o contract_n void_a without_o the_o consent_n of_o parent_n child_n 〈◊〉_d be_v to_o pray_v unto_o god_n to_o direct_v their_o parent_n in_o a_o godly_a choice_n and_o to_o 〈◊〉_d their_o mind_n to_o accept_v of_o the_o same_o 〈◊〉_d 9_o 22._o 2._o sam._n 15._o 1._o etc._n etc._n &_o 18._o 14._o deut_n 21._o 18._o 19_o 20._o 21._o exod._n 20._o 12._o ephes_n 6._o 2._o deut._n 28._o 15._o etc._n etc._n levit._n 26._o 14._o etc._n etc._n gen._n 46_o 29._o etc._n etc._n and_o 48._o 〈◊〉_d 12._o luke_n 2._o 51._o deut._n 5._o 16._o exed_a 20._o 12._o ephes._n 6._o 2._o psal._n 115._o 17._o 18._o isaiah_n 38._o 19_o ephes._n 6._o 3._o the_o householder_n be_v call_v pater_fw-la familias_fw-la that_o be_v a_o father_n of_o a_o family_n because_o he_o shall_v have_v a_o fatherly_a care_n over_o his_o servant_n as_o if_o they_o be_v his_o child_n master_n and_o dame_n ought_v moderate_o to_o use_v their_o authority_n over_o theirseruant_n james_n 5._o 4._o coloss_n 4._o 1._o joh_n 13_o 13._o 14._o 15._o deut._n 24_o 14._o 15_o mat._n 8_o 5._o 6._o 〈◊〉_d 7._o 2._o god_n make_v eu_fw-fr ry_o week_n one_o day_n of_o rest_n wherein_o servant_n shall_v be_v as_o free_a as_o their_o master_n gen._n 2._o 2._o as_o the_o laborer_n which_o work_v but_o one_o day_n be_v worthy_a his_o hire_n even_o so_o much_o more_o the_o 〈◊〉_d that_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d everyday_n luke_n 10._o 7._o as_o david_n do_v limit_n joab_n that_o he_o shall_v not_o kill_v absalon_n so_o god_n have_v bind_v master_n that_o they_o shall_v not_o oppress_v their_o servant_n 2._o sam._n 18._o 5._o job_n 31._o 13._o 14._o 15._o for_o a_o good_a man_n sauh_o salemon_n pro._n 12._o 10._o will_v be_v merciful_a to_o his_o beast_n &_o therefore_o he_o ought_v to_o be_v m_o re_fw-mi merciful_a to_o his_o servant_n be_v his_o brethren_n revile_v word_n and_o unreasonable_a 〈◊〉_d do_v much_o more_o hurt_n to_o servant_n then_o good_a 〈◊〉_d 16._o 17._o exod._n 20._o 10._o 〈◊〉_d 5._o 14._o 1._o tim._n 5._o 8._o servant_n do_v rather_o imitate_v the_o work_n they_o see_v their_o master_n do_v than_o the_o word_n which_o they_o hear_v they_o speak_v luke_n 7._o 8._o ephes._n 6._o 9_o the_o covetous_a wan_a in_o gain_v riches_n lose_v himself_o psal._n 39_o 6._o that_o which_o thou_o can_v do_v convenient_o thyself_o commit_v it_o not_o to_o another_o master_n ought_v to_o make_v good_a choice_n of_o their_o servant_n gen._n 30_o 26._o 27._o etc._n etc._n and_o 29._o 2._o 3._o 4._o 5_o 6._o 23._o 23._o isaiah_n 6._o 6._o it_o be_v a_o rare_a thing_n for_o a_o master_n to_o bring_v his_o servant_n to_o be_v godly_a who_o be_v not_o godly_a himself_o revel_v 5._o 10._o act._n 16._o 31._o 32_o &_o 18._o 8._o 1._o cor._n 1._o 16._o ge_n 18._o 17._o 18._o phil._n 11._o 16._o gen._n 29._o josua_n 24._o 15._o psal._n 101._o 7._o act._n 10._o 2._o they_o must_v keep_v no_o idle_a profane_a superstitious_a nor_o disorder_a 〈◊〉_d in_o their_o house_n ephcs._n 6._o 4._o master_n ought_v to_o have_v a_o tender_a care_n of_o their_o servant_n in_o their_o sickness_n mat._n 8._o 5._o 6._o luk._n 7._o 1._o the_o wife_n behaviour_n with_o servant_n the_o master_n must_v correct_v his_o servant_n and_o the_o mistress_n her_o maid_n eph_n 6.5.6.7.8_o col._n 3.22.23.24_o tit._n 2.9.10_o 1_o pet._n 2.18.19.20.21_o 1._o tim._n 6._o 1._o 2._o luk._n 17._o 7._o 8._o 9_o 1._o king_n 5._o 13._o the_o property_n of_o a_o good_a servant_n gen._n 29._o 18._o 19_o 20._o &_o 39_o 5._o etc._n etc._n gen._n 16._o 7._o 8._o 〈◊〉_d phil._n 10._o etc._n etc._n how_o far_o forth_o servant_n ought_v to_o obey_v their_o master_n mat._n 8_o 9_o and_o among_o servant_n to_o help_v and_o ease_v of_o one_o another_o necessary_a servant_n must_v to_o the_o uttermost_a of_o their_o power_n seek_v the_o commodity_n &_o benefit_n of_o their_o master_n mat._n 7._o 2._o
and_o learn_v that_o if_o they_o will_v convey_v god_n blessing_n to_o their_o posterity_n than_o they_o must_v do_v and_o perform_v the_o duty_n belong_v thereunto_o yea_o let_v they_o if_o they_o be_v loath_a to_o convey_v god_n judgement_n to_o their_o child_n careful_o avoid_v the_o mean_n unto_o it_o and_o sure_o as_o it_o be_v a_o bless_a thing_n in_o the_o hour_n of_o death_n with_o simeon_n to_o depart_v in_o peace_n leave_v their_o 29._o wife_n child_n and_o servant_n member_n of_o christ_n spouse_n to_o christ_n child_n to_o god_n and_o servant_n to_o the_o lord_n so_o in_o extremity_n of_o death_n no_o one_o thing_n will_v be_v more_o grievous_a unto_o parent_n and_o householder_n than_o the_o lord_n have_v give_v they_o the_o charge_n of_o so_o many_o soul_n to_o be_v further_v to_o salvation_n that_o 〈◊〉_d own_o torment_a conscience_n shall_v press_v they_o in_o as_o much_o as_o they_o have_v help_v their_o child_n and_o servant_n forward_o to_o their_o damnation_n and_o so_o which_o be_v more_o fearful_a they_o shall_v have_v they_o spew_v and_o foam_v on_o their_o face_n continual_a curse_n in_o hell_n then_o accuse_v they_o for_o ever_o to_o be_v the_o murderer_n of_o their_o soul_n and_o cutthroat_n of_o their_o salvation_n be_v it_o any_o marvel_n if_o householder_n many_o time_n find_v small_a obedience_n &_o less_o dutifulnesse_n and_o faithfulness_n at_o the_o hand_n of_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n see_v they_o omit_v and_o leave_v undo_v the_o performance_n of_o these_o so_o christian_a duty_n towards_o they_o herein_o express_v and_o enjoin_v of_o the_o lord_n for_o so_o do_v god_n often_o leave_v manifest_a token_n of_o his_o wrath_n in_o punish_v disobedience_n with_o disobedience_n how_o can_v any_o master_n of_o a_o household_n whatsoever_o he_o be_v look_v to_o have_v his_o family_n trusty_a and_o faithful_a unto_o he_o and_o yet_o he_o himself_o be_v faithless_a to_o god_n do_v he_o marvel_v that_o his_o child_n and_o servant_n fear_v not_o he_o whereas_o he_o himself_o fear_v not_o the_o lord_n will_v he_o maintain_v his_o authority_n over_o those_o under_o his_o charge_n and_o he_o himself_o do_v not_o yield_v obedience_n unto_o the_o authority_n of_o god_n his_o creator_n moreover_o it_o be_v manifest_a that_o the_o good_a man_n of_o the_o house_n by_o plant_v god_n religion_n in_o his_o family_n shall_v not_o a_o little_a advance_v and_o set_v forward_o his_o own_o private_a profit_n and_o commodity_n for_o wicked_a and_o ungodly_a servant_n be_v for_o the_o most_o part_n loiterer_n picker_n and_o deceitful_a whereas_o on_o the_o other_o side_n godly_a servant_n be_v just_a and_o faithful_a who_o in_o his_o absence_n he_o may_v trust_v to_o etc._n do_v such_o business_n and_o work_n as_o he_o will_v they_o to_o do_v if_o master_n of_o family_n be_v careful_a and_o desirous_a as_o in_o conscience_n they_o ought_v that_o their_o wife_n child_n and_o servant_n shall_v reform_v themselves_o and_o endeavour_n to_o practice_v such_o duty_n as_o do_v appertain_v and_o belong_v unto_o they_o then_o they_o must_v likewise_o be_v diligent_a and_o careful_a to_o reform_v themselves_o both_o inward_o and_o outward_o in_o such_o point_n and_o duty_n as_o hitherto_o they_o have_v leave_v undo_v otherwise_o they_o may_v just_o say_v unto_o they_o physician_n healc_n yourself_o ere_fw-we why_o do_v you_o will_v we_o 21._o to_o do_v that_o which_o you_o do_v not_o practice_v yourself_o for_o as_o one_o candle_n can_v light_v another_o if_o itself_o be_v out_o even_o so_o a_o master_n of_o a_o household_n shall_v not_o reform_v those_o of_o his_o charge_n and_o inflame_v they_o with_o the_o love_n of_o god_n and_o godliness_n if_o he_o himself_o be_v void_a of_o the_o same_o let_v every_o master_n of_o a_o household_n therefore_o say_v and_o perform_v with_o joshua_n i_o and_o my_o family_n will_v serve_v the_o lord_n jos._n 24._o 15._o and_o likewise_o let_v every_o christian_a lady_n mistress_n and_o dame_n say_v with_o hester_n i_o and_o my_o maid_n will_v do_v the_o like_a hest._n 4._o 16._o and_o so_o no_o doubt_n god_n will_v pour_v his_o blessing_n on_o they_o and_o they_o in_o this_o life_n and_o everlasting_a happiness_n on_o they_o in_o the_o life_n to_o come_v touch_v the_o book_n itself_o i_o will_v not_o say_v any_o thing_n to_o the_o commendation_n thereof_o but_o only_o this_o that_o i_o be_o assure_v that_o if_o such_o duty_n as_o be_v mention_v therein_o be_v due_o and_o careful_o practise_v of_o all_o such_o as_o be_v name_v in_o it_o than_o no_o doubt_n virtue_n and_o godly_a religion_n will_v great_o flourish_v to_o the_o advancement_n of_o god_n glory_n and_o also_o sin_n and_o wickedness_n will_v then_o decrease_v and_o fall_v down_o to_o the_o utter_a subversion_n and_o overthrow_n of_o satan_n kingdom_n this_o treatise_n i_o confess_v be_v not_o garnish_v with_o eloquence_n nor_o full_a of_o great_a cunning_n nor_o beautify_v with_o flower_n of_o man_n wisdom_n neither_o yet_o do_v it_o discourse_n or_o treat_v of_o high_a or_o dark_a thing_n neither_o be_v it_o stuff_v with_o subtle_a question_n and_o argument_n nor_o indict_v with_o rhetorical_a and_o eloquent_a stile_n as_o those_o common_o be_v which_o be_v propound_v and_o set_v forth_o to_o the_o world_n rather_o for_o boast_v and_o vainglory_n sake_n then_o for_o any_o desire_n to_o edify_v and_o to_o do_v other_o good_a but_o it_o be_v plain_a and_o without_o any_o great_a gayness_n yet_o so_o full_a of_o good_a necessary_a book_n and_o wholesome_a instruction_n that_o whosoever_o read_v and_o mark_v it_o with_o a_o right_n dispose_v mind_n and_o willing_a to_o practice_v it_o without_o respect_n to_o any_o other_o thing_n than_o god_n the_o reformation_n of_o his_o life_n and_o the_o 〈◊〉_d of_o his_o 〈◊〉_d which_o be_v the_o only_a work_n which_o christian_n must_v level_v at_o he_o may_v reap_v singular_a profit_v thereby_o and_o undoubted_o it_o may_v well_o be_v say_v that_o unto_o heaven_n true_a christian_n good_a and_o holy_a book_n be_v as_o ladder_n to_o climb_v up_o unto_o heaven_n as_o spark_n to_o kindle_v the_o 〈◊〉_d of_o the_o spirit_n when_o it_o be_v quench_v or_o waxen_a cold_a in_o they_o and_o as_o prop_n to_o stay_v up_o their_o faith_n that_o it_o may_v increase_v pray_v therefore_o your_o worship_n to_o accept_v of_o my_o dutiful_a good_a will_n and_o to_o pardon_v my_o boldness_n i_o cease_v to_o add_v any_o further_a thing_n beseech_v god_n of_o his_o endless_a mercy_n for_o christ_n sake_n to_o strengthen_v you_o still_o in_o that_o good_a and_o happy_a course_n of_o his_o word_n and_o all_o other_o good_a learning_n to_o furnish_v you_o all_o abundant_o with_o all_o spiritual_a and_o heavenly_a knowledge_n to_o the_o careful_a practise_v of_o the_o same_o in_o the_o fruit_n of_o your_o most_o holy_a and_o bless_a calling_n to_o the_o advancement_n of_o the_o glory_n of_o our_o god_n and_o to_o your_o own_o everlasting_a comfort_n in_o christ_n jesus_n so_o be_v it_o your_o worship_n in_o all_o christian_a dutifulnesse_n most_o willing_a r._n c._n a_o godly_a form_n of_o household_n government_n careful_o to_o be_v practise_v of_o all_o christian_a householder_n a_o household_n be_v as_o it_o be_v a_o little_a commonwealth_n by_o the_o good_a government_n whereof_o god_n glory_n may_v be_v advance_v and_o the_o commonwealth_n which_o stand_v of_o several_a family_n benefit_v and_o all_o that_o live_v in_o that_o family_n receive_v much_o comfort_n and_o commodity_n but_o this_o government_n of_o a_o family_n be_v not_o very_o common_a in_o the_o world_n for_o it_o be_v not_o a_o thing_n that_o man_n can_v stumble_v on_o by_o chance_n by_o wisdom_n wisdom_n say_v solomon_n be_v a_o house_n build_v and_o with_o understand_v it_o be_v establish_v and_o with_o knowledge_n shall_v the_o chamber_n thereof_o be_v fill_v with_o all_o precious_a and_o pleasant_a riches_n that_o be_v shall_v obtain_v all_o kind_n of_o 4_o blessing_n see_v also_o pro._n 28._o 2_o by_o which_o two_o place_n it_o be_v manifest_a y_o such_o family_n as_o be_v not_o order_v by_o hap_n hazard_n or_o as_o it_o fall_v but_o by_o wisdom_n discretion_n and_o counsel_n do_v prosper_v in_o inward_a &_o outward_a good_n and_o endure_v long_o when_o we_o wisdom_n speak_v of_o wisdom_n we_o do_v not_o mean_v that_o this_o government_n can_v be_v in_o all_o point_v exercise_v by_o natural_a reason_n and_o wisdom_n for_o man_n wisdom_n reach_v but_o unto_o one_o point_n and_o that_o the_o least_o of_o that_o which_o family-government_n tend_v unto_o but_o the_o wisdom_n that_o we_o speak_v of_o be_v not_o word_n natural_a but_o fetch_v from_o the_o fountain_n of_o all_o wisdom_n god_n himself_o who_o by_o his_o word_n give_v unto_o we_o pure_a light_n to_o walk_v by_o not_o in_o the_o church_n
we_o and_o all_o our_o family_n in_o the_o night_n from_o outward_a danger_n and_o give_v we_o freedom_n from_o fear_n and_o terror_n and_o from_o satan_n rage_n and_o also_o give_v we_o rest_n &_o comfortable_a sleep_n for_o the_o refresh_n of_o our_o frail_a body_n be_v it_o not_o meet_v we_o shall_v beg_v it_o at_o his_o hand_n by_o prayer_n before_o we_o prepare_v ourselves_o to_o rest_n and_o praise_v he_o for_o it_o when_o we_o rise_v from_o it_o again_o see_v that_o every_o day_n we_o be_v subject_a to_o innumerable_a danger_n which_o we_o know_v not_o of_o and_o both_o wisdom_n and_o strength_n to_o follow_v good_a and_o honest_a calling_n and_o also_o the_o blessing_n upon_o our_o labour_n to_o make_v we_o prosper_v by_o they_o be_v from_o god_n alone_o shall_v we_o not_o begin_v the_o day_n with_o fear_n unto_o god_n for_o his_o gracious_a protection_n and_o for_o his_o merciful_a blessing_n of_o we_o and_o see_v meat_n and_o drink_n be_v sanctify_v unto_o we_o on_o god_n part_n by_o the_o word_n and_o we_o 5._o by_o prayer_n doubtless_o though_o god_n have_v by_o his_o word_n sanctify_v they_o they_o be_v unholy_a unto_o we_o when_o we_o do_v not_o for_o our_o part_n sanctify_v they_o by_o faithful_a prayer_n and_o thanksgiving_n and_o this_o be_v david_n practice_n psal._n 55._o 1._o evening_n and_o morning_n and_o at_o noon_n tide_n will_v i_o pray_v and_o make_v a_o noise_n and_o he_o will_v hear_v my_o voice_n if_o any_o say_v it_o be_v sufficient_a for_o the_o governor_n to_o charge_v every_o one_o in_o his_o family_n to_o do_v it_o private_o by_o himself_o so_o may_v the_o prince_n say_v it_o be_v enough_o to_o do_v as_o darius_n do_v to_o charge_v every_o one_o in_o all_o his_o dominion_n to_o worship_v no_o god_n but_o daniel_n god_n yet_o godly_a prince_n 26._o think_v it_o their_o duty_n to_o set_v up_o the_o worship_n ofgod_n in_o their_o dominion_n and_o to_o take_v order_n that_o god_n may_v be_v worship_v public_o and_o joint_o of_o all_o in_o their_o land_n so_o do_v job_n for_o his_o 6._o household_n not_o only_o bid_v his_o child_n pray_v to_o god_n by_o themselves_o but_o he_o appoint_v set_v time_n of_o pray_v together_o and_o sacrifice_v and_o command_v his_o child_n to_o come_v prepare_v thereunto_o again_o if_o the_o master_n lie_v the_o matter_n upon_o the_o conscience_n of_o such_o as_o be_v of_o his_o family_n then_o if_o they_o be_v negligent_a god_n shall_v have_v no_o honour_n and_o worship_n in_o that_o family_n but_o we_o read_v of_o abraham_n that_o wheresoever_o 9_o he_o become_v he_o build_v a_o altar_n to_o god_n where_o god_n shall_v be_v worship_v joint_o in_o his_o family_n if_o god_n shall_v measure_v out_o his_o goodness_n to_o thou_o as_o thou_o measure_v honour_n and_o glory_n to_o he_o in_o what_o a_o case_n be_v thou_o he_o do_v give_v a_o charge_n to_o his_o angel_n to_o keep_v thou_o he_o command_v the_o earth_n to_o allow_v thou_o meat_n for_o thy_o sustenance_n and_o his_o commandment_n be_v a_o effectual_a word_n that_o make_v they_o to_o do_v the_o thing_n that_o he_o charge_v they_o withal_o will_v thou_o now_o only_o bid_v thy_o servant_n or_o son_n to_o serve_v and_o honour_n god_n and_o not_o see_v that_o he_o do_v it_o and_o help_v he_o in_o it_o then_o thou_o do_v not_o measure_v out_o unto_o god_n as_o thou_o will_v have_v he_o measure_v to_o thou_o this_o duty_n than_o belong_v to_o a_o christian_a head_n of_o a_o family_n to_o worship_n god_n with_o all_o his_o family_n and_o to_o take_v order_n that_o when_o he_o shall_v be_v absent_a upon_o necessary_a occasion_n it_o may_v be_v do_v reverent_o and_o only_o by_o some_o one_o in_o his_o family_n that_o by_o reason_n of_o wit_n and_o age_n may_v be_v meet_a for_o it_o the_o neglect_n of_o this_o duty_n let_v into_o family_n many_o grievous_a enormity_n and_o outward_a misery_n while_o god_n in_o his_o justice_n refuse_v to_o bless_v such_o as_o by_o their_o carelessness_n in_o serve_v of_o he_o do_v show_v that_o they_o take_v not_o he_o to_o be_v the_o author_n of_o all_o welfare_n to_o soul_n or_o body_n but_o think_v to_o do_v well_o enough_o without_o he_o or_o else_o think_v to_o have_v their_o turn_n serve_v without_o request_v the_o three_o duty_n which_o the_o chief_a governor_n must_v perform_v to_o all_o in_o his_o family_n be_v private_a instruction_n instruction_n and_o deal_v with_o they_o in_o matter_n of_o religion_n for_o the_o build_n of_o they_o up_o in_o true_a faith_n and_o for_o the_o inure_a and_o bring_v of_o they_o to_o a_o conscience_n towards_o god_n that_o they_o may_v not_o only_o know_v and_o profess_v religion_n but_o also_o feel_v and_o show_v the_o power_n of_o religion_n in_o their_o life_n this_o duty_n have_v these_o special_n belong_v to_o it_o first_o a_o familiar_a and_o plain_a open_n unto_o they_o the_o principle_n of_o religion_n after_o the_o manner_n of_o a_o catechism_n this_o duty_n the_o holy_a ghost_n lay_v upon_o parent_n ephes._n 6._o 1._o train_n they_o up_o in_o doctrine_n and_o holy_a precept_n draw_v out-of_a the_o word_n the_o like_a be_v command_v to_o parent_n in_o the_o old_a law_n let_v these_o word_n which_o i_o command_v thou_o this_o 9_o day_n be_v in_o thy_o heart_n and_o whet_v they_o upon_o thy_o child_n and_o speak_v of_o they_o when_o thou_o sit_v in_o thy_o house_n when_o thou_o walk_v in_o the_o way_n when_o thou_o lie_v down_o and_o when_o thou_o rise_v up_o etc._n etc._n so_o that_o it_o be_v not_o enough_o to_o bring_v thy_o child_n to_o be_v catechize_v at_o the_o church_n but_o thou_o must_v labour_v with_o they_o at_o home_n after_o a_o more_o plain_a and_o easy_a manner_n of_o instruction_n that_o so_o they_o may_v the_o better_a profit_n by_o the_o public_a teach_n look_v proverb_n 22._o 6._o thou_o even_o by_o breed_v thy_o child_n haste_v help_v they_o into_o corruption_n and_o 〈◊〉_d damnable_a estate_n how_o ought_v thou_o then_o by_o all_o holy_a care_n and_o pain_n take_v with_o they_o in_o teach_v they_o the_o knowledge_n of_o god_n in_o christ_n to_o help_v they_o out_o of_o it_o that_o they_o may_v not_o be_v firebrand_n of_o hell_n and_o for_o servant_n see_v they_o spend_v their_o strength_n &_o weary_a out_o their_o body_n and_o bestow_v their_o day_n and_o year_n in_o seek_v thy_o profit_n and_o ease_v ought_v not_o thou_o then_o to_o seek_v the_o salvation_n of_o their_o soul_n solomon_n say_v the_o just_a man_n have_v regard_n to_o his_o beast_n much_o more_o shall_v thou_o have_v regard_n to_o thy_o servant_n who_o be_v make_v according_a to_o the_o image_n of_o god_n with_o thou_o and_o be_v redeem_v with_o as_o dear_a a_o price_n as_o thou_o be_v and_o thy_o care_n for_o he_o shall_v not_o stretch_v to_o his_o body_n alone_o but_o especial_o to_o his_o soul_n that_o see_v his_o call_n will_v not_o suffer_v he_o to_o use_v so_o many_o and_o so_o often_o mean_v for_o the_o good_a of_o it_o as_o be_v requisite_a he_o may_v herein_o be_v help_v by_o thou_o the_o second_o special_a be_v a_o acquaint_v they_o with_o the_o scripture_n by_o read_v they_o daily_o in_o scripture_n thy_o house_n in_o their_o hear_n and_o direct_v they_o to_o mark_v and_o make_v use_n of_o those_o thing_n which_o be_v plain_a and_o easy_a according_a to_o their_o capacity_n so_o timothy_n be_v train_v up_o by_o his_o parent_n in_o the_o scripture_n so_o that_o he_o know_v they_o from_o a_o 15._o child_n that_o be_v be_v make_v acquaint_v with_o they_o by_o read_v they_o and_o be_v instruct_v in_o they_o according_a to_o his_o capacity_n this_o shall_v make_v they_o the_o fit_a to_o hear_v and_o profit_v by_o the_o public_a ministry_n whereas_o the_o neglect_n of_o this_o duty_n make_v they_o unable_a to_o hear_v and_o understand_v the_o preacher_n when_o he_o cit_v example_n or_o quote_v text_n out_o of_o sundry_a place_n of_o scripture_n the_o help_n that_o their_o family_n may_v reap_v by_o it_o shall_v make_v they_o careful_a in_o this_o read_n of_o the_o scripture_n the_o three_o be_v a_o diligent_a care_n and_o regard_n that_o they_o profit_n by_o the_o public_a ministry_n of_o the_o word_n and_o sacrament_n every_o one_o according_a to_o their_o capacity_n and_o this_o duty_n require_v that_o they_o shall_v not_o only_o look_v that_o they_o do_v diligent_o frequent_v the_o preach_n of_o the_o word_n and_o careful_o come_v to_o the_o sacrament_n in_o due_a time_n but_o also_o that_o they_o show_v they_o how_o and_o put_v they_o in_o mind_n of_o prepare_v themselves_o to_o the_o word_n and_o sacrament_n as_o job_n do_v his_o son_n they_o must_v prepare_v they_o to_o hear_v the_o word_n by_o will_v they_o
which_o have_v not_o receive_v the_o gift_n of_o abstinence_n and_o be_v fit_a for_o procreation_n be_v call_v and_o command_v to_o marry_v and_o therefore_o may_v lawful_o enter_v a_o contract_n of_o the_o same_o but_o be_v none_o else_o meet_v for_o marriage_n we_o answer_v that_o no_o other_o be_v call_v command_v or_o warrant_v by_o god_n to_o make_v contract_n with_o any_o of_o these_o meet_a one_o because_o they_o be_v unable_a to_o perform_v the_o principal_a duty_n of_o marriage_n as_o for_o child_n under_o age_n they_o be_v altogether_o unfit_a to_o take_v upon_o they_o this_o honourable_a estate_n and_o therefore_o debar_v by_o god_n commandment_n from_o make_v any_o promise_n or_o contract_n if_o they_o have_v do_v it_o it_o be_v but_o a_o mere_a profanation_n of_o this_o holy_a ordinance_n worthy_a great_a punishment_n and_o also_o to_o be_v break_v if_o that_o be_v come_v to_o year_n of_o discretion_n and_o state_n of_o marriage_n they_o do_v not_o by_o wisdom_n and_o religion_n supply_v all_o that_o be_v want_v in_o their_o former_a rash_a attempt_n to_o the_o full_a contentation_n of_o all_o that_o have_v interest_n in_o they_o as_o for_o those_o that_o have_v receive_v the_o gift_n of_o continency_n they_o be_v call_v &_o counsel_v to_o chastity_n during_o the_o whole_a time_n of_o that_o gift_n for_o so_o say_v our_o saviour_n christ_n all_o man_n can_v receive_v this_o thing_n have_v they_o to_o who_o it_o be_v give_v matth._n 19_o 11._o and_o again_o he_o that_o be_v able_a to_o receive_v this_o let_v he_o receive_v it_o so_o the_o apostle_n say_v it_o be_v good_a for_o they_o if_o they_o abide_v even_o as_o i_o do_v 1._o cor._n 7._o 7._o again_o be_v thou_o loose_v from_o a_o wife_n seek_v not_o a_o wife_n so_o likewise_o be_v those_o that_o be_v bear_v chaste_a or_o make_v chaste_a by_o man_n or_o by_o themselves_o for_o the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n but_o you_o will_v say_v what_o if_o any_o of_o these_o do_v make_v a_o contract_n and_o marry_v we_o answer_v first_o if_o they_o be_v utter_o unfit_a for_o marriage_n their_o contract_n be_v of_o no_o validity_n and_o may_v be_v break_v by_o superior_a authority_n but_o if_o they_o be_v fit_a for_o it_o we_o say_v with_o the_o apostle_n be_v thou_o loose_v 27._o from_o a_o wife_n seek_v not_o a_o wife_n but_o if_o thou_o take_v a_o wife_n thou_o sin_v not_o and_o if_o a_o virgin_n marry_v she_o sin_v not_o etc._n etc._n last_o of_o all_o as_o consanguinity_n and_o affinity_n do_v restrain_v and_o bind_v from_o this_o former_a contract_n and_o marriage_n so_o likewise_o do_v natural_a frigidity_n and_o coldness_n infancy_n incurable_a disease_n that_o deprive_v man_n of_o all_o fitness_n for_o the_o use_n of_o marriage_n so_o as_o if_o any_o such_o by_o fraud_n ignorance_n or_o any_o other_o sinister_a mean_n be_v contract_v it_o be_v nothing_o and_o the_o party_n may_v be_v lawful_o separate_v because_o they_o be_v never_o join_v together_o in_o the_o lord_n but_o against_o the_o lord_n and_o here_o when_o we_o say_v meet_v and_o fit_a to_o marry_v one_o with_o another_o there_o will_v be_v a_o wise_a and_o holy_a regard_n have_v of_o equality_n in_o year_n of_o agreement_n in_o religion_n or_o similitude_n in_o nature_n and_o manner_n outward_a estate_n and_o condition_n &_o quality_n of_o person_n and_o such_o like_a necessary_a circumstance_n for_o what_o be_v more_o unmeete_a then_o for_o a_o old_a person_n to_o promise_v to_o be_v contract_v to_o a_o young_a one_o for_o a_o infidel_n to_o contract_n with_o a_o believer_n for_o a_o good_a nature_a and_o well_o manner_v with_o a_o crooked_a and_o froward_a person_n for_o a_o prince_n with_o a_o beggar_n for_o although_o all_o these_o do_v not_o annihilate_v and_o make_v void_a the_o contract_n altogether_o yet_o such_o contract_n can_v be_v in_o the_o lord_n and_o thus_o much_o shall_v suffice_v to_o have_v teach_v touch_v the_o fitness_n of_o marriage_n now_o concern_v the_o freedom_n and_o liberty_n it_o be_v clear_a that_o those_o alone_o have_v liberty_n &_o freedom_n to_o contract_n who_o have_v liberty_n to_o marry_v now_o if_o we_o will_v know_v who_o those_o be_v they_o be_v diverse_o describe_v and_o note_v in_o leu._n 18._o where_o certain_a degree_n as_o well_o in_o affinity_n as_o in_o consanguinity_n be_v express_o forbid_v so_o that_o if_o such_o party_n shall_v contract_v themselves_o together_o their_o contract_n be_v vain_a and_o a_o mere_a nullity_n such_o as_o ought_v to_o be_v break_v and_o punish_v again_o every_o one_o either_o betroth_a or_o marry_v be_v bind_v and_o tie_v from_o contract_v with_o any_o other_o for_o that_o be_v nothing_o else_o but_o to_o promise_v gross_a and_o beastly_a adultery_n and_o as_o the_o apostle_n teach_v that_o the_o wife_n be_v bind_v by_o the_o law_n as_o long_o as_o her_o husband_n live_v so_o likewise_o be_v the_o betroth_a wife_n insomuch_o as_o if_o any_o such_o shall_v contract_v themselves_o with_o another_o it_o be_v a_o mere_a nullity_n and_o wicked_a profanation_n of_o god_n ordinance_n and_o aught_o upon_o knowledge_n thereof_o to_o be_v break_v and_o punish_v and_o thus_o we_o see_v what_o manner_n of_o person_n the_o lord_n have_v call_v and_o command_v to_o marry_v and_o who_o they_o be_v that_o be_v meet_v and_o free_a to_o marry_v together_o and_o who_o not_o the_o last_o point_n be_v the_o consent_n and_o allowance_n of_o their_o parent_n which_o though_o it_o be_v very_o material_a and_o necessary_a yet_o it_o be_v not_o the_o sole_a form_n or_o formal_a cause_n which_o make_v a_o true_a contract_n for_o if_o the_o parent_n shall_v yield_v their_o consent_n to_o their_o child_n be_v neither_o meet_v nor_o free_a to_o be_v marry_v together_o it_o be_v nothing_o &_o such_o a_o contract_n though_o warrant_v by_o parent_n consent_n aught_o to_o be_v break_v by_o the_o magistrate_n and_o both_o parent_n and_o child_n be_v to_o be_v punish_v for_o this_o cause_n we_o have_v not_o say_v simple_o and_o allow_v but_o therefore_o allow_v so_o to_o do_v because_o consent_v of_o parent_n to_o such_o child_n as_o be_v not_o meet_v and_o fit_a to_o be_v marry_v together_o do_v not_o make_v that_o contract_n good_a true_a and_o inviolable_a which_o nevertheless_o want_v their_o consent_n though_o in_o other_o respect_n never_o so_o good_a be_v a_o mere_a nullity_n &_o can_v be_v accomplish_v without_o the_o manifest_a breach_n of_o the_o institution_n and_o guilt_n of_o adultery_n now_o by_o parent_n we_o understand_v not_o only_o the_o natural_a parent_n but_o such_o as_o by_o the_o law_n of_o nature_n and_o of_o god_n supply_v their_o place_n as_o grandfather_n great_a grandfather_n uncle_n aunt_n great_a uncle_n and_o aunt_n brethren_n sister_n kinsman_n and_o kins-woman_n magistrate_n and_o those_o to_o who_o family_n the_o party_n do_v especial_o belong_v for_o all_o these_o be_v honour_v in_o scripture_n by_o the_o name_n of_o parent_n neither_o may_v we_o exempt_v out_o of_o this_o number_n guardian_n master_n and_o such_o to_o who_o the_o continual_a custody_n and_o tuition_n of_o any_o be_v lawful_o commit_v for_o if_o such_o be_v command_v to_o provide_v for_o they_o as_o part_n of_o their_o own_o family_n there_o be_v no_o reason_n why_o they_o shall_v not_o especial_o be_v respect_v as_o well_o in_o bestow_v they_o abroad_o out_o of_o their_o family_n as_o they_o be_v in_o take_v they_o into_o it_o for_o if_o their_o consent_n be_v necessary_a at_o their_o come_n in_o why_o shall_v they_o go_v out_o without_o their_o consent_n further_o we_o say_v their_o parent_n and_o not_o he_o or_o her_o parent_n because_o parent_n on_o both_o side_n ought_v necessary_o to_o consent_n and_o allow_v their_o child_n to_o betrothe_v themselves_o for_o this_o be_v the_o privilege_n not_o of_o some_o parent_n but_o of_o all_o and_o in_o that_o they_o be_v parent_n moreover_o we_o say_v allow_v and_o not_o require_v neither_o command_v nor_o yet_o exhort_v or_o instruct_v so_o to_o do_v because_o that_o albeit_o the_o parent_n do_v neither_o call_v their_o child_n to_o this_o contract_n neither_o command_v they_o neither_o require_v they_o neither_o exhort_v they_o all_o which_o notwithstanding_o they_o ought_v to_o do_v yet_o if_o they_o do_v but_o only_o allow_v they_o and_o give_v they_o bare_a consent_n that_o they_o shall_v contract_v themselves_o it_o be_v enough_o for_o the_o tie_n of_o the_o knot_n and_o the_o substance_n of_o the_o contract_n and_o to_o prove_v that_o this_o contract_n be_v necessary_a we_o need_v no_o more_o reason_n but_o that_o which_o the_o apostle_n set_v down_o say_v of_o the_o father_n let_v he_o do_v what_o he_o will_n by_o 36._o which_o word_n he_o put_v it_o in_o the_o will_n and_o power_n of_o the_o father_n either_o to_o
the_o husband_n duty_n be_v to_o love_v their_o wife_n as_o themselves_o of_o which_o love_n the_o love_n of_o christ_n towards_o his_o church_n be_v a_o lively_a pattern_n and_o stead_n because_o many_o husband_n pretend_v the_o infirmity_n of_o their_o wife_n to_o excuse_v their_o own_o hardness_n and_o cruelty_n the_o apostle_n will_v they_o to_o mark_v what_o manner_n of_o church_n it_o be_v when_o christ_n join_v it_o to_o himself_o and_o he_o do_v not_o only_o not_o loath_a all_o her_o filth_n and_o uncleanness_n but_o cease_v not_o to_o wipe_v the_o same_o a_o way_n with_o his_o cleanness_n until_o he_o have_v whole_o purge_v it_o and_o make_v it_o holy_a and_o see_v that_o every_o man_n love_v himself_o even_o of_o nature_n therefore_o say_v the_o apostle_n the_o husband_n shall_v strive_v against_o nature_n if_o he_o love_v not_o his_o wife_n which_o he_o prove_v first_o by_o the_o mystical_a knit_n of_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n together_o and_o then_o by_o the_o ordinance_n of_o god_n who_o say_v that_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v one_o that_o be_v not_o to_o be_v divide_v the_o husband_n be_v always_o to_o remember_v that_o he_o be_v not_o fierce_a rigorous_a hasty_a nor_o disorder_v their_o with_o his_o wife_n for_o then_o there_o will_v never_o be_v unity_n and_o concord_n betwixt_o they_o if_o the_o wife_n do_v 3._o not_o learn_v to_o keep_v silence_n and_o the_o husband_n to_o have_v patience_n it_o shall_v rather_o be_v the_o dwell_n of_o fool_n than_o the_o house_n of_o friend_n for_o where_o the_o husband_n want_v wisdom_n to_o gonerne_n and_o the_o wife_n patience_n to_o suffer_v they_o shall_v be_v force_v it_o be_v to_o be_v fear_v in_o continuance_n of_o time_n to_o part_v house_n or_o else_o every_o day_n to_o be_v jar_v and_o brawl_v every_o marry_a man_n ought_v also_o to_o remember_v 6._o this_o that_o either_o his_o wife_n be_v wise_a and_o religious_a or_o else_o she_o be_v foolish_a and_o irreligious_a if_o he_o be_v match_v with_o a_o wife_n that_o be_v sottish_a foolish_a and_o ignorant_a of_o god_n and_o his_o word_n it_o will_v little_o avail_v or_o profit_v he_o to_o reprehend_v or_o chide_v she_o and_o if_o he_o be_v marry_v to_o one_o that_o be_v wise_a and_o religious_a and_o know_v her_o duty_n out_o of_o god_n word_n than_o one_o sharp_a and_o discreet_a word_n be_v sufficient_a because_o if_o a_o woman_n be_v not_o correct_v by_o that_o which_o be_v wise_o and_o discret_o say_v she_o will_v never_o amend_v by_o that_o which_o be_v threaten_v when_o the_o wise_a shall_v be_v inflame_v with_o ire_n wrath_n malice_n or_o envy_n the_o husband_n ought_v to_o suffer_v she_o and_o after_o the_o heat_n be_v somewhat_o cool_v and_o the_o flame_n quench_v then_o mild_o to_o admonish_v she_o for_o if_o she_o once_o begin_v to_o lose_v her_o shamefastness_n in_o the_o presence_n of_o her_o husband_n than_o it_o be_v likely_a that_o there_o will_v often_o follow_v brawling_n and_o quarrel_n betwixt_o they_o and_o as_o the_o husband_n ought_v at_o all_o time_n to_o shun_v brawling_n and_o quarrelling_n with_o his_o wife_n so_o much_o more_o he_o ought_v to_o avoid_v the_o same_o when_o they_o shall_v be_v new_o marry_v for_o if_o at_o the_o beginning_n she_o shall_v have_v cause_n to_o abhor_v and_o hate_v he_o then_o late_a or_o never_o will_v she_o return_v to_o love_v he_o faithful_o therefore_o at_o the_o begin_n of_o their_o marriage_n the_o wise_a and_o discreet_a husband_n ought_v to_o use_v all_o good_a mean_n to_o win_v the_o good_a like_n of_o his_o wife_n towards_o he_o for_o if_o than_o their_o love_n be_v fix_v and_o true_o settle_v one_o towards_o the_o other_o although_o afterward_o they_o come_v to_o some_o household_n word_n and_o grudge_n yet_o it_o proceed_v but_o of_o some_o new_a unkindness_n and_o not_o of_o old_a root_a hatred_n and_o love_n therefore_o the_o soon_o remedy_v for_o love_v and_o hatred_n be_v mortal_a enemy_n and_o the_o first_o of_o they_o that_o take_v place_n in_o the_o heart_n there_o it_o remain_v a_o dweller_n for_o the_o most_o part_n all_o the_o day_n of_o life_n in_o such_o wise_a that_o the_o first_o love_n may_v depart_v from_o the_o person_n but_o yet_o it_o will_v never_o be_v forget_v at_o the_o heart_n but_o if_o the_o wife_n from_o the_o begin_n of_o marriage_n do_v take_v the_o heart_n to_o loath_a and_o abhor_v her_o husband_n than_o a_o miserable_a life_n will_v follow_v to_o they_o both_o for_o although_o the_o husband_n shall_v have_v power_n to_o force_v his_o wife_n to_o fear_v and_o obey_v he_o yet_o he_o shall_v never_o have_v strength_n to_o force_v she_o to_o love_v he_o some_o husband_n do_v boast_v themselves_o to_o be_v serve_v fear_v and_o obey_v in_o their_o house_n because_o the_o wife_n that_o abhor_v do_v fear_n and_o serve_v her_o husband_n but_o she_o that_o indeed_o like_v do_v love_v he_o and_o cherish_v he_o as_o the_o wife_n ought_v with_o great_a care_n to_o endeavour_v and_o by_o all_o good_a mean_n to_o labour_n to_o be_v in_o favour_n and_o grace_n with_o her_o husband_n so_o likewise_o the_o husband_n ought_v to_o fear_v to_o be_v in_o disgrace_n and_o dislike_n with_o his_o wife_n for_o if_o she_o do_v once_o determine_v to_o fix_v and_o settle_v her_o eye_n and_o like_n upon_o another_o than_o many_o inconvenience_n will_v ensue_v and_o follow_v the_o husband_n ought_v not_o to_o be_v satisfy_v with_o the_o use_n of_o his_o wife_n body_n but_o in_o that_o he_o have_v also_o the_o possession_n of_o her_o will_n and_o affection_n for_o it_o suffice_v not_o that_o they_o be_v marry_v but_o that_o they_o be_v well_o marry_v and_o live_v christianly_o together_o and_o be_v very_o well_o content_v and_o therefore_o the_o husband_n that_o be_v not_o belove_v of_o his_o wife_n hold_v his_o good_n in_o danger_n his_o house_n in_o suspicion_n his_o credit_n in_o balance_n and_o also_o sometime_o his_o life_n in_o peril_n because_o it_o be_v 〈◊〉_d to_o believe_v that_o she_o desire_v not_o long_a life_n unto_o her_o husband_n with_o who_o she_o pass_v a_o time_n so_o tedious_a and_o irksome_a and_o if_o any_o unkindness_n or_o displeafure_n shall_v happen_v to_o be_v at_o any_o time_n betwixt_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n yet_o neither_o of_o they_o ought_v to_o impart_v or_o to_o make_v it_o know_v unto_o any_o one_o of_o their_o neighbour_n for_o if_o they_o be_v such_o as_o wish_v they_o evil_n they_o will_v rejoice_v at_o it_o and_o if_o they_o be_v such_o as_o wish_v they_o well_o than_o they_o minister_v matter_n whereof_o to_o talk_v that_o husband_n that_o be_v match_v and_o do_v woman_n encounter_v with_o a_o wife_n that_o be_v a_o dizzard_n a_o fool_n a_o babbler_n light_a ofbehaviour_n a_o glutton_n a_o chider_n slothful_a a_o gadder_n abroad_o untractable_a jealous_a or_o dissolute_a &c_n &c_n it_o be_v better_o for_o he_o to_o be_v a_o slave_n to_o some_o honest_a man_n than_o a_o husband_n to_o such_o a_o wife_n the_o best_a rule_n that_o a_o man_n may_v hold_v and_o practice_v with_o his_o wife_n to_o guard_v and_o govern_v she_o be_v to_o admonish_v she_o often_o and_o to_o give_v her_o good_a instruction_n to_o reprehend_v she_o seldom_o never_o to_o lay_v violent_a hand_n on_o she_o but_o if_o she_o be_v good_a and_o dutiful_a to_o favour_v she_o to_o the_o end_n she_o may_v continue_v so_o and_o if_o she_o be_v shrewish_a and_o way_n ward_n mild_o to_o suffer_v she_o to_o the_o end_n that_o she_o wax_v not_o worse_o but_o some_o husband_n be_v of_o so_o sour_a a_o nature_n and_o so_o unpleasant_a in_o their_o behaviour_n that_o they_o can_v hardly_o be_v love_v no_o not_o of_o their_o wife_n their_o countenance_n be_v so_o lower_a their_o company_n so_o currish_a that_o they_o seem_v angry_a even_o when_o they_o be_v best_a please_v they_o can_v speak_v fair_a scarce_o will_v they_o laugh_v when_o their_o wife_n laugh_v upon_o they_o a_o man_n will_v say_v they_o be_v bear_v in_o a_o angry_a hour_n this_o be_v also_o a_o duty_n not_o to_o be_v forget_v namely_o that_o 〈◊〉_d be_v diligent_a and_o careful_a house_n to_o make_v provision_n for_o their_o house_n to_o clothe_v their_o wife_n decent_o to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n virtuous_o and_o to_o pay_v their_o servant_n due_o because_o that_o in_o voluntary_a matter_n man_n may_v be_v expense_n negligent_a but_o the_o necessity_n of_o the_o house_n do_v neither_o suffer_v negligence_n nor_o forgetfulness_n the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n be_v to_o get_v good_n and_o of_o the_o wife_n to_o gather_v they_o together_o and_o save_v they_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n be_v to_o travel_v abroad_o 8._o to_o seek_v live_v and_o the_o wife_n duty_n be_v to_o keep_v the_o
he_o will_v trust_v she_o and_o so_o open_a and_o disclose_v his_o love_n and_o show_v she_o great_a sign_n and_o token_n of_o love_n and_o benevolence_n manifest_v that_o to_o be_v bear_v and_o nourish_v through_o the_o experience_n of_o her_o virtue_n and_o through_o hope_n to_o be_v continue_v and_o keep_v that_o in_o time_n to_o come_v she_o may_v be_v like_o herself_o and_o strive_v to_o overcome_v herself_o with_o virtue_n as_o the_o husband_n ought_v to_o love_v his_o wife_n tender_o so_o from_o she_o as_o from_o a_o kinsfolk_n fountain_n he_o must_v extend_v his_o love_n also_o unto_o her_o parent_n and_o kinsfolk_n to_o the_o end_n that_o they_o may_v well_o know_v and_o perceive_v how_o great_o their_o cousin_n do_v aid_n and_o help_v they_o and_o that_o she_o in_o like_a manner_n may_v understand_v that_o his_o benevolence_n and_o love_n to_o she_o be_v such_o that_o it_o redound_v among_o her_o friend_n and_o parent_n and_o of_o this_o he_o shall_v receive_v no_o little_a profit_n at_o home_n and_o see_v he_o love_v his_o wife_n kinsman_n for_o her_o sake_n how_o much_o more_o ought_v he_o then_o to_o love_v her_o child_n that_o she_o in_o like_a case_n may_v love_v his_o if_o he_o have_v any_o and_o thus_o the_o one_o see_v the_o mutual_a love_n of_o the_o other_o they_o shall_v knit_v and_o couple_n themselves_o in_o good_a and_o steadfast_a love_n unto_o their_o life_n end_n the_o duty_n which_o be_v to_o be_v perform_v of_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n be_v either_o pertain_v to_o piety_n and_o godliness_n or_o else_o mutual_a several_a duty_n concern_v the_o party_n themselves_o 1._o the_o first_o common_a duty_n be_v prayer_n that_o they_o pray_v together_o by_o themselves_o for_o as_o they_o be_v to_o pray_v with_o other_o in_o their_o family_n for_o thing_n which_o concern_v their_o household_n so_o there_o be_v certain_a thing_n which_o belong_v to_o themselves_o be_v not_o to_o be_v mention_v in_o their_o family_n but_o private_o as_o namely_o for_o a_o godly_a posterity_n and_o that_o in_o the_o birth_n the_o childrn_n be_v comely_a and_o not_o monstrous_a in_o come_v forth_o like_o monster_n which_o may_v be_v a_o grief_n unto_o they_o or_o a_o occasion_n that_o the_o wicked_a shall_v speak_v evil_a of_o the_o gospel_n etc._n etc._n and_o further_o they_o be_v to_o pray_v that_o they_o may_v have_v comfort_n by_o they_o in_o their_o well-carriage_n and_o good_a behaviour_n as_o likewise_o for_o their_o household_n and_o diverse_a other_o affair_n which_o they_o can_v so_o commodious_o pray_v for_o in_o their_o public_a family_n as_o isaac_n and_o rebecca_n beside_o the_o prayer_n in_o their_o house_n which_o they_o use_v with_o abraham_n family_n do_v also_o pray_v together_o private_o as_o gen._n 25._o 21._o it_o be_v say_v isaac_n pray_v before_o his_o wife_n for_o so_o the_o word_n signify_v that_o they_o may_v have_v child_n 2._o a_o second_o duty_n of_o piety_n be_v that_o they_o admonish_v one_o another_o as_o the_o husband_n be_v to_o admonish_v the_o wife_n and_o also_o to_o teach_v she_o so_o the_o wife_n be_v to_o admonish_v the_o husband_n &_o in_o her_o place_n admonish_v bring_v sufficient_a reason_n be_v to_o be_v hear_v for_o even_o as_o the_o master_n be_v to_o counsel_v the_o servant_n and_o likewise_o to_o hear_v the_o good_a counsel_n of_o his_o servant_n as_o naaman_n 2._o king_n 5._o 13._o 14._o hear_v his_o servant_n which_o counsel_v he_o to_o wash_v in_o jordan_n according_a to_o the_o say_n of_o the_o prophet_n so_o in_o like_a manner_n the_o husband_n duty_n be_v to_o counsel_n and_o to_o admonish_v his_o wife_n yet_o so_o as_o when_o he_o fail_v in_o duty_n he_o be_v to_o hear_v her_o good_a counsel_n and_o admonition_n either_o concern_v heavenly_a matter_n or_o earthly_a affair_n she_o notwithstanding_o consider_v her_o estate_n and_o condition_n under_o he_o and_o in_o humility_n confess_v herself_o to_o be_v the_o weak_a vessel_n 1._o pet._n 3._o 7._o their_o mutual_a and_o several_a duty_n pertain_v to_o themselves_o be_v first_o the_o holy_a familiarity_n which_o ought_v to_o be_v betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n whereby_o they_o have_v a_o more_o familiar_a usage_n one_o of_o another_o and_o do_v more_o familiar_o behave_v themselves_o in_o a_o comely_a sort_n one_o to_o another_o than_o any_o other_o party_n whatsoever_o in_o regard_n whereof_o abimelech_n 9_o king_n of_o gerar_n after_o that_o isaac_n have_v say_v of_o rebecca_n his_o wife_n she_o be_v my_o sister_n see_v isaac_n play_v and_o sport_v with_o she_o familiar_o know_v that_o familiarity_n which_o ought_v to_o be_v between_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n and_o know_v that_o isaac_n be_v a_o godly_a religious_a man_n and_o therefore_o will_v not_o use_v that_o kind_n of_o behaviour_n to_o any_o other_o woman_n save_v to_o his_o wife_n discern_v thereby_o and_o conclude_v certain_o that_o she_o be_v his_o wife_n howsoever_o he_o have_v deny_v it_o before_o note_v that_o a_o woman_n be_v not_o to_o be_v familiar_a after_o that_o sort_n with_o any_o other_o man_n save_v her_o husband_n and_o contrary_a that_o the_o husband_n ought_v not_o to_o use_v this_o familiarity_n with_o any_o other_o woman_n which_o he_o do_v with_o his_o wife_n and_o therefore_o pro._n 5._o 19_o we_o see_v that_o the_o wife_n shall_v be_v to_o he_o as_o the_o love_a hind_n namely_o delightful_a &_o one_o in_o who_o he_o may_v delight_v that_o as_o the_o hart_n delight_v in_o the_o hind_n so_o the_o wife_n shall_v be_v a_o delight_n unto_o her_o husband_n and_o so_o in_o like_a manner_n she_o ought_v to_o take_v delight_n in_o he_o 2._o again_o there_o be_v another_o mutual_a duty_n pertain_v to_o themselves_o to_o wit_n that_o near_a conjunction_n even_o in_o regard_n of_o their_o body_n for_o a_o 4._o holy_a procreation_n of_o child_n in_o respect_n whereof_o the_o apostle_n say_v the_o husband_n have_v not_o power_n over_o his_o own_o body_n but_o the_o wife_n etc._n etc._n only_o when_o it_o be_v with_o the_o wife_n as_o be_v common_a to_o woman_n ezech._n 18._o 6._o or_o that_o she_o be_v sick_a of_o her_o disease_n he_o be_v not_o then_o to_o have_v the_o use_n of_o her_o body_n etc._n etc._n such_o as_o do_v aspire_v and_o purpose_n to_o enter_v into_o 2._o the_o holy_a estate_n of_o matrimony_n be_v to_o begin_v in_o prayer_n and_o holiness_n to_o god_n and_o have_v attain_v to_o that_o estate_n aught_o to_o use_v the_o benefit_n of_o marriage_n as_o a_o holy_a ordinance_n of_o god_n in_o all_o godliness_n and_o purity_n for_o a_o remedy_n against_o the_o weakness_n of_o the_o flesh_n and_o not_o for_o the_o provocation_n and_o lust_n to_o intemperancy_n true_a it_o be_v that_o honesty_n of_o marriage_n ground_v upon_o god_n ordinance_n do_v cover_v the_o shame_n of_o incontinency_n yet_o not_o so_o as_o that_o marry_a folk_n shall_v defile_v and_o pollute_v that_o holy_a estate_n by_o admit_v all_o thing_n but_o that_o they_o shall_v so_o use_v it_o as_o there_o may_v be_v no_o excess_n in_o dissoluteness_n neither_o any_o intemperancy_n contrary_a to_o the_o holiness_n thereof_o so_o that_o to_o abuse_v it_o in_o lascivious_a excess_n be_v fornication_n when_o god_n create_v the_o woman_n he_o say_v it_o be_v not_o good_a that_o man_n shall_v be_v alone_o i_o will_v make_v he_o a_o 18._o help_n meet_v for_o he_o but_o whatsoever_o be_v say_v of_o the_o woman_n that_o she_o shall_v be_v a_o help_n to_o the_o man_n must_v also_o be_v put_v in_o practice_n and_o exercise_v by_o the_o husband_n to_o ward_n his_o wife_n according_a to_o the_o doctrine_n of_o the_o apostle_n saint_n paul_n 1._o cor._n 7._o whether_o in_o avoid_v fornication_n whether_o in_o procure_v generation_n and_o the_o education_n and_o bring_v up_o of_o child_n whether_o in_o maintain_v a_o family_n or_o for_o the_o service_n of_o god_n and_o salvation_n of_o soul_n hereby_o it_o evident_o appear_v that_o the_o duty_n common_a both_o to_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n import_v that_o the_o one_o shall_v aid_v and_o help_v the_o other_o first_o that_o they_o may_v lead_v their_o line_n in_o chastity_n and_o holiness_n next_o to_o avoid_v fornication_n so_o that_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n consist_v in_o this_o that_o they_o live_v together_o in_o all_o chastity_n and_o pureness_n and_o that_o they_o take_v great_a heed_n and_o beware_v of_o break_v the_o bond_n and_o infringe_v and_o violate_v the_o say_v of_o marriage_n by_o fornication_n or_o adultery_n which_o be_v a_o detestable_a sin_n in_o the_o sight_n both_o of_o god_n and_o man_n if_o such_o as_o want_v the_o remedy_n of_o marriage_n by_o commit_v fornication_n do_v incur_v a_o offence_n worthy_a everlasting_a damnation_n what_o may_v those_o deserve_v who_o have_v
a_o remedy_n for_o their_o infirmity_n do_v nevertheless_o overflow_v in_o adultery_n yet_o it_o be_v not_o enough_o only_a to_o abstain_v from_o this_o abomination_n unless_o we_o also_o forbear_v from_o every_o thing_n that_o may_v seem_v to_o tend_v thereunto_o or_o to_o continue_v any_o beginning_n appearance_n allurement_n or_o occasion_n of_o evil_a first_o because_o that_o by_o the_o law_n all_o this_o be_v forbid_v even_o in_o these_o express_a word_n thou_o shall_v not_o commit_v adultery_n for_o the_o word_n adultery_n comprehend_v all_o provocation_n gesture_n specche_n yea_o even_o unchaste_a look_n and_o therefore_o say_v jesus_n christ_n he_o that_o look_v upon_o another_o man_n wife_n to_o lust_n after_o she_o bath_n already_o commit_v adultery_n with_o she_o in_o his_o heart_n next_o that_o we_o prevent_v all_o occasion_n of_o jealousy_n a_o most_o dangerous_a disease_n and_o of_o great_a difficulty_n to_o cure_v for_o where_o either_o the_o husband_n or_o the_o wife_n be_v taint_v with_o jealousy_n they_o belecue_v every_o word_n that_o they_o hear_v speak_v touch_v their_o passion_n albeit_o it_o bear_v no_o appearance_n of_o truth_n and_o therefore_o christian_a husband_n and_o wife_n must_v so_o bear_v themselves_o that_o they_o incur_v no_o suspicion_n of_o enill_n but_o rather_o they_o ought_v to_o practice_v this_o as_o well_o to_o avoid_v occasion_n of_o offence_n as_o for_o fear_v lest_o jealousy_n shall_v convert_v marriage_n into_o a_o most_o miserable_a and_o wretched_a estate_n the_o care_n and_o burden_n to_o maintain_v their_o family_n be_v common_a to_o they_o both_o yet_o so_o as_o proper_o the_o husband_n be_v to_o get_v it_o and_o to_o bring_v it_o in_o and_o the_o wife_n to_o order_n and_o dispose_v it_o howbeit_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n or_o of_o the_o husband_n do_v not_o so_o exempt_a either_o of_o they_o but_o that_o she_o also_o according_a to_o her_o ability_n and_o power_n must_v help_v her_o husband_n to_o get_v it_o and_o he_o likewise_o in_o his_o discretion_n direct_v she_o in_o the_o dispensation_n thereof_o he_o that_o do_v not_o orderly_o govern_v his_o house_n shall_v inherit_v the_o wind_n say_v solomon_n and_o order_n consist_v in_o this_o that_o the_o husband_n follow_v his_o business_n traffic_n or_o call_v without_o any_o molestation_n of_o the_o wife_n who_o ought_v not_o to_o meddle_v or_o control_v he_o therein_o but_o with_o great_a discretion_n and_o gentleness_n as_o also_o the_o husband_n be_v not_o to_o deal_v but_o sober_o and_o in_o great_a discretion_n with_o affair_n that_o be_v proper_a to_o the_o wife_n the_o man_n be_v jealous_a of_o his_o authority_n and_o reputation_n and_o the_o woman_n incline_v to_o respect_n herself_o to_o be_v despise_v wherefore_o as_o the_o husband_n can_v well_o abide_v that_o his_o wife_n shall_v show_v herself_o more_o skilful_a and_o wise_a in_o his_o business_n then_o himself_o so_o can_v the_o wife_n suffer_v that_o her_o husband_n shall_v despise_v and_o account_v she_o a_o fool_n by_o meddle_v with_o her_o small_a household_n affair_n as_o the_o duty_n therefore_o of_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n consist_v in_o look_v to_o that_o which_o be_v aforesaid_a to_o the_o end_n their_o marriage_n may_v be_v quiet_a &_o themselves_o live_v together_o in_o love_n even_o so_o a_o idle_a and_o unthrifty_a husband_n and_o a_o prodigal_a and_o slothful_a wife_n be_v two_o ready_a way_n to_o destruction_n the_o husband_n that_o have_v such_o a_o wife_n cast_v his_o labour_n into_o a_o bottomless_a sack_n and_o the_o wife_n that_o be_v match_v with_o such_o a_o husband_n draw_v a_o cart_n heavy_a load_v through_o a_o sandy_a way_n without_o a_o horse_n such_o a_o husband_n especial_o if_o idleness_n draw_v he_o to_o love_n and_o haunt_v alehouse_n and_o tavern_n be_v cruel_a to_o his_o wife_n and_o child_n and_o such_o a_o wife_n confound_v her_o husband_n and_o bring_v reproach_n and_o poverty_n to_o her_o whole_a family_n the_o remedy_n for_o the_o husband_n that_o have_v such_o a_o wife_n be_v patience_n with_o discreet_a admonition_n and_o prayer_n to_o god_n as_o also_o the_o help_n for_o the_o wife_n that_o have_v such_o a_o husband_n be_v toleration_n gentle_a exhortation_n and_o cheerful_a and_o love_a entertainment_n of_o her_o husband_n whereby_o to_o induce_v he_o willing_o to_o keep_v home_o they_o be_v also_o to_o be_v mutual_a helper_n each_o to_o other_o in_o matter_n concern_v their_o own_o salvation_n and_o the_o service_n of_o god_n first_o if_o one_o of_o they_o as_o say_v the_o apostle_n be_v a_o unbeliever_n the_o other_o must_v labour_v to_o draw_v his_o party_n to_o the_o knowledge_n of_o the_o truth_n saint_n paul_n exhort_v the_o husband_n and_o wife_n of_o contrary_a religion_n not_o to_o part_v but_o to_o dwell_v together_o add_v a_o notable_a reason_n say_v what_o know_v thou_o o_o man_n 5._o whether_o thou_o shall_v save_v thyself_o or_o thou_o o_o woman_n whether_o thou_o shall_v save_v thy_o husband_n therein_o declare_v that_o the_o faithful_a person_n in_o duty_n be_v to_o labour_n and_o endeavour_n to_o win_v his_o party_n to_o the_o knowledge_n of_o truth_n and_o so_o to_o save_v she_o saint_n '_o peter_n exhort_v wife_n to_o be_v subject_a to_o their_o husband_n albeit_o unbeliever_n and_o such_o as_o '_o obey_v not_o the_o word_n that_o so_o without_o speech_n by_o their_o holy_a and_o virtuous_a conversation_n they_o may_v 〈◊〉_d they_o second_o if_o both_o be_v believer_n their_o duty_n be_v to_o confirm_v and_o strengthen_v each_o other_o in_o the_o time_n of_o persecution_n that_o they_o constant_o follow_v jesus_n christ._n they_o be_v also_o each_o to_o help_v and_o comfort_v other_o if_o either_o of_o they_o happen_v to_o fall_v into_o any_o fault_n or_o sin_n they_o ought_v also_o each_o to_o persuade_v other_o to_o charity_n to_o relieve_v the_o poor_a diligent_o to_o frequent_a sermon_n to_o use_v prayer_n and_o supplication_n and_o praise_n and_o thanksgiving_n to_o the_o lord_n to_o comfort_v each_o other_o in_o the_o time_n of_o affliction_n to_o be_v short_a either_o to_o exhort_v other_o to_o walk_v in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n and_o in_o all_o duty_n and_o exercise_n beseem_v the_o child_n of_o god_n in_o this_o manner_n do_v that_o holy_a woman_n elizeus_fw-la hostess_n exhort_v her_o husband_n to_o prepare_v a_o chamber_n for_o the_o prophet_n to_o lodge_v in_o saint_n paul_n also_o say_v that_o woman_n desirous_a to_o learn_v shall_v question_v with_o their_o husband_n at_o home_n whereby_o he_o show_v that_o the_o husband_n ought_v to_o be_v so_o instruct_v as_o that_o he_o may_v be_v ready_a to_o instruct_v his_o wife_n at_o home_n and_o therefore_o the_o husband_n after_o the_o example_n of_o the_o bee_n shall_v every_o where_o gather_v every_o good_a instruction_n that_o he_o may_v be_v able_a to_o impart_v it_o to_o his_o wife_n and_o by_o have_v a_o communication_n acquaint_v she_o therewith_o there_o be_v other_o duty_n which_o be_v common_a both_o to_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n as_o among_o the_o rest_n such_o as_o proceed_v of_o the_o union_n &_o conjunction_n of_o marriage_n whereof_o it_o be_v say_v they_o be_v one_o flesh_n gen._n 2._o 24._o matth._n 19_o 5._o and_o of_o this_o union_n proceed_v the_o mutual_a love_n betwixt_o they_o for_o no_o man_n say_v the_o apostle_n hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o love_v and_o cherish_v 5._o it_o but_o for_o as_o much_o as_o the_o foundation_n of_o this_o mutual_a love_n be_v the_o unity_n of_o marriage_n whereby_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n be_v make_v one_o flesh_n the_o husband_n as_o the_o head_n the_o wife_n as_o the_o body_n it_o follow_v that_o this_o love_n must_v be_v steadfast_a not_o variable_a and_o that_o the_o union_n of_o marriage_n continue_v notwithstanding_o whatsoever_o befall_v either_o the_o husband_n or_o the_o wife_n notwithstanding_o whatsoever_o complexion_n we_o say_v nature_n and_o infirmity_n may_v appear_v whatsoever_o sickness_n loss_n of_o good_n injury_n grief_n or_o other_o inconvenience_n that_o may_v arise_v yet_o so_o long_o as_o the_o foundation_n of_o love_n that_o be_v the_o union_n of_o marriage_n do_v continue_v so_o long_o must_v love_v and_o affection_n remain_v god_n command_v 44._o we_o to_o love_v our_o neighbour_n as_o ourselves_o because_o they_o be_v of_o our_o flesh_n albeit_o therefore_o that_o he_o contemn_v hate_v offend_v or_o wrong_v we_o albeit_o he_o be_v our_o enemy_n and_o in_o respect_n of_o himself_o deserve_v not_o that_o we_o shall_v love_v he_o yet_o because_o he_o be_v of_o our_o flesh_n the_o foundation_n of_o love_n remain_v we_o must_v love_v he_o how_o much_o rather_o ought_v they_o to_o put_v this_o in_o practice_n who_o by_o the_o bond_n of_o marriage_n be_v make_v one_o flesh_n the_o rather_o because_o the_o union_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v
they_o be_v go_v and_o they_o be_v make_v common_a as_o also_o be_v the_o debt_n whether_o she_o or_o her_o husband_n and_o therefore_o can_v neither_o of_o they_o say_v this_o be_v i_o but_o this_o be_v we_o when_o a_o woman_n have_v bring_v great_a good_n yet_o may_v she_o not_o say_v i_o will_v do_v with_o my_o own_o what_o i_o list_v for_o she_o herself_o be_v not_o her_o own_o but_o her_o husband_n the_o husband_n as_o the_o head_n and_o chief_a guide_n of_o the_o family_n must_v have_v the_o custody_n and_o chiese_n government_n of_o the_o good_n in_o the_o house_n yet_o may_v he_o discharge_v himself_o of_o the_o whole_a or_o of_o part_n as_o himself_o shall_v think_v meet_a and_o convenient_a yet_o let_v he_o remember_v that_o he_o entreat_v she_o not_o as_o a_o servant_n by_o give_v her_o money_n as_o it_o be_v in_o mistrust_n or_o with_o condition_n to_o return_v he_o a_o particular_a account_n for_o the_o husband_n mistrust_n do_v many_o time_n provoke_v the_o woman_n and_o the_o wife_n vain_a expense_n breed_v mistrust_v in_o the_o husband_n but_o the_o faithful_a and_o discreet_a employment_n and_o good_a usage_n of_o the_o wife_n and_o her_o husband_n confidence_n in_o she_o will_v procure_v that_o as_o the_o good_n be_v common_a to_o both_o so_o each_o alike_o shall_v undertake_v the_o custody_n and_o employment_n of_o the_o same_o hereunto_o for_o a_o conclusion_n of_o this_o point_n we_o will_v yet_o add_v two_o duty_n common_a both_o to_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n the_o first_o that_o they_o daily_o pray_v to_o god_n to_o give_v they_o grace_n to_o live_v together_o in_o peace_n and_o love_n and_o that_o each_o may_v be_v a_o help_n to_o other_o salvation_n let_v all_o such_o as_o desire_v to_o enjoy_v such_o a_o felicity_n understand_v that_o they_o must_v daily_o pray_v to_o god_n for_o the_o obtain_n thereof_o and_o let_v those_o that_o live_v in_o strife_n and_o debate_n examine_v themselves_o whether_o they_o have_v no_o cause_n to_o impute_v their_o miserable_a estate_n to_o their_o neglect_n of_o this_o duty_n the_o second_o consist_v in_o the_o practice_n of_o the_o same_o which_o saint_n paul_n teach_v say_v let_v 29._o those_o that_o be_v marry_v be_v as_o if_o they_o be_v not_o marry_v but_o how_o by_o so_o enjoy_v the_o commodity_n and_o contentation_n of_o marriage_n that_o the_o benefit_n of_o their_o conjunction_n breed_v no_o divorce_n between_o god_n and_o they_o likewise_o that_o thereby_o they_o be_v not_o hinder_v or_o make_v slack_a in_o any_o duty_n towards_o god_n and_o their_o neighbour_n as_o also_o that_o no_o affliction_n depend_v or_o proceed_v of_o marriage_n withdraw_v they_o or_o force_v they_o to_o resolve_v any_o thing_n contrary_a to_o the_o union_n of_o marriage_n and_o these_o christian_a profession_n that_o they_o be_v the_o child_n of_o god_n the_o particular_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n towards_o the_o wife_n be_v first_o to_o protect_v she_o to_o have_v regard_n and_o care_n over_o she_o etc._n etc._n ruth_n 3._o 9_o second_o that_o he_o unfeigned_o love_v she_o out_o of_o which_o fountain_n spring_v this_o duty_n that_o he_o must_v bear_v with_o her_o infirmity_n and_o not_o by_o and_o by_o to_o enter_v into_o bitterness_n and_o wrath_n colossions_n 3._o 16._o to_o the_o same_o end_n saint_n peter_n exhort_v husband_n to_o behave_v themselves_o discreet_o 7._o and_o with_o knowledge_n and_o wisdom_n towards_o their_o wife_n he_o require_v of_o they_o two_o thing_n first_o that_o they_o never_o say_v nor_o do_v any_o thing_n that_o may_v just_o offend_v their_o wife_n as_o some_o there_o be_v who_o be_v prodigal_a great_a spender_n or_o idle_a and_o slack_a in_o their_o business_n do_v cause_n their_o wife_n and_o child_n to_o languish_v in_o poverty_n other_o who_o haunt_v tavern_n alehouse_n and_o game_n do_v consume_v and_o waste_v that_o which_o shall_v maintain_v their_o family_n other_o who_o come_v home_n drink_v do_v beat_v and_o vex_v their_o wife_n and_o as_o it_o be_v drive_v they_o into_o despair_n other_o who_o by_o vile_a and_o bitter_a speech_n by_o threaten_n and_o other_o unchristian_a action_n unworthy_a a_o husband_n do_v provoke_v their_o wife_n and_o so_o stir_v up_o such_o strife_n and_o debate_n as_o do_v convert_v the_o comfort_n of_o marriage_n into_o a_o hell_n see_v therefore_o that_o the_o husband_n be_v head_n he_o ought_v in_o such_o wisdom_n reason_n and_o discretion_n to_o bear_v himself_o that_o he_o give_v his_o wife_n no_o just_a occasion_n of_o offence_n or_o provocation_n yet_o he_o must_v remember_v that_o if_o the_o head_n be_v drink_v the_o whole_a body_n be_v in_o danger_n of_o weak_a government_n even_o ofly_v in_o the_o mire_n second_o that_o albeit_o the_o wife_n shall_v minister_v just_a cause_n of_o grief_n and_o displeasure_n yet_o that_o the_o husband_n shall_v not_o thereof_o take_v occasion_n against_o his_o wife_n infirmity_n or_o enter_v into_o bitterness_n taunt_n or_o disquietness_n but_o discreet_o and_o patient_o bear_v with_o she_o that_o so_o they_o may_v quiet_o and_o love_o live_v together_o the_o hurt_n or_o weakness_n of_o any_o one_o member_n of_o the_o body_n provoke_v not_o the_o head_n to_o wrath_n or_o bitterness_n but_o rather_o to_o compassion_n and_o a_o inclination_n to_o help_v it_o and_o indeed_o whereas_o god_n have_v create_v the_o woman_n the_o weak_a vessel_n as_o saint_n peter_n note_v and_o do_v so_o join_v she_o to_o man_n it_o be_v not_o to_o the_o end_n that_o he_o strive_v with_o so_o frail_a a_o vessel_n shall_v bruise_v and_o break_v it_o but_o that_o by_o gentle_a and_o discreet_a entreat_v he_o shall_v quiet_o enjoy_v the_o help_n that_o god_n have_v give_v he_o let_v he_o therefore_o after_o the_o counsel_n of_o saint_n peter_n so_o respect_v she_o as_o one_o who_o albeit_o she_o be_v 7._o weak_a be_v nevertheless_o a_o profitable_a vessel_n for_o he_o moreover_o let_v he_o love_v and_o honour_v she_o as_o one_o who_o notwithstanding_o the_o frailty_n of_o her_o sex_n god_n have_v so_o honour_v and_o jesus_n christ_n so_o love_v that_o be_v together_o with_o man_n redeem_v with_o his_o blood_n she_o be_v together_o with_o her_o husband_n coheir_n of_o life_n everlasting_a a_o crystal_n glass_n be_v a_o precious_a and_o profitable_a vessel_n yet_o brittle_a so_o be_v the_o marry_a woman_n but_o albeit_o she_o be_v brittle_a yet_o be_v she_o profitable_a to_o her_o husband_n and_o precious_a in_o the_o sight_n of_o god_n as_o a_o child_n of_o god_n and_o member_n of_o christ._n as_o therefore_o a_o man_n do_v more_o careful_o take_v heed_n ofbreaking_a such_o a_o glass_n than_o some_o earthen_a or_o tin_n vessel_n the_o one_o being_n more_o base_a and_o the_o other_o more_o strong_a so_o likewise_o shall_v the_o husband_n have_v such_o regard_n of_o the_o frailty_n of_o his_o wife_n that_o he_o may_v bear_v with_o she_o and_o entreat_v she_o with_o gentleness_n and_o discretion_n that_o he_o may_v use_v she_o as_o a_o precious_a and_o profitable_a vessel_n to_o his_o comfort_n and_o joy_n and_o in_o as_o much_o as_o prayer_n be_v a_o excellent_a service_n that_o god_n require_v of_o we_o and_o the_o ready_a mean_n to_o purchase_v his_o blessing_n let_v the_o husband_n discret_o bear_v with_o his_o wife_n lest_o otherwise_o through_o their_o strife_n and_o contention_n their_o prayer_n as_o saint_n peter_n say_v be_v let_v and_o interrupt_v 1._o pet._n 3._o 7._o yet_o must_v we_o not_o say_v but_o the_o husband_n both_o may_v and_o aught_o to_o tell_v his_o wife_n of_o her_o infirmity_n that_o she_o may_v amend_v but_o here_o we_o be_v to_o enter_v into_o consideration_n of_o sundry_a point_n first_o he_o be_v especial_o to_o reprove_v her_o offence_n against_o god_n as_o when_o rachel_n say_v unto_o jacob_n give_v i_o child_n or_o else_o i_o die_v he_o reprove_v 1._o she_o of_o impoitunitie_n say_v be_o i_o in_o god_n stead_n who_o have_v withhold_v from_o thou_o the_o fruit_n of_o thy_o womb_n also_o when_o job_n wife_n say_v to_o her_o husband_n do_v thou_o abide_v in_o thy_o integrity_n curse_v god_n and_o die_v he_o wise_o reprove_v such_o a_o wicked_a speech_n say_v thou_o speak_v as_o a_o unwise_a woman_n what_o shall_v we_o receive_v good_a at_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n and_o not_o receive_v evil_a second_o that_o it_o be_v with_o gentleness_n and_o testimony_n of_o good_a will_n as_o elkanah_n deal_v with_o his_o wife_n hanna_n when_o she_o mourn_v because_o she_o 1._o have_v no_o child_n and_o indeed_o it_o be_v meet_v that_o the_o husband_n shall_v reprove_v his_o wife_n love_o rather_o by_o persuasion_n then_o by_o force_n for_o as_o in_o a_o great_a stormy_a wind_n a_o man_n lap_v his_o cloak_n about_o he_o and_o hold_v it_o fast_o for_o fear_n oflose_v it_o but_o
be_v the_o want_n and_o neglect_v of_o the_o wise_a discreet_a and_o good_a government_n that_o shall_v be_v in_o the_o husband_n beside_o the_o want_n of_o good_a example_n that_o they_o shall_v give_v unto_o their_o wife_n both_o in_o word_n and_o deed_n for_o as_o the_o common_a say_n be_v such_o a_o husband_n such_o a_o wife_n for_o so_o much_o as_o marriage_n make_v of_o two_o person_n one_o therefore_o the_o love_n of_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n may_v the_o better_o be_v keep_v and_o increase_v and_o so_o continue_v if_o they_o remember_v the_o duty_n last_o speak_v of_o as_o also_o not_o forget_v three_o point_n follow_v 1._o they_o must_v be_v of_o one_o heart_n will_n and_o mind_n will_n and_o neither_o to_o upbraid_v or_o cast_v the_o other_o in_o the_o tooth_n with_o their_o want_n and_o imperfection_n any_o way_n or_o to_o pride_n themselves_o in_o their_o gift_n but_o either_o the_o one_o to_o endeavour_n to_o supply_v the_o other_o want_n that_o so_o they_o both_o help_a and_o do_v their_o best_a together_o may_v be_v one_o perfect_a body_n 2._o it_o do_v great_o increase_v love_n when_o the_o one_o increase_v faithful_o serve_v the_o other_o when_o in_o thing_n concern_v marriage_n the_o one_o hide_v no_o secret_n nor_o privity_n from_o the_o other_o and_o the_o one_o do_v not_o utter_a or_o publish_v the_o frailty_n or_o infirmity_n of_o the_o other_o and_o when_o of_o all_o that_o ever_o they_o obtain_v or_o get_v they_o have_v but_o one_o common_a purse_n together_o the_o one_o lock_v up_o nothing_o from_o the_o other_o and_o also_o when_o the_o one_o be_v faithful_a to_o the_o other_o in_o all_o business_n and_o affair_n likewise_o when_o the_o one_o hearken_v to_o the_o other_o &_o when_o the_o one_o think_v not_o scorn_n of_o the_o other_o and_o when_o in_o matter_n concern_v the_o government_n of_o the_o house_n the_o one_o will_v be_v counsel_v and_o advise_v by_o the_o other_o the_o one_o of_o they_o be_v always_o love_v kind_a courteous_a plain_a and_o gentle_a unto_o the_o other_o in_o word_n manner_n and_o deed_n 3._o let_v the_o one_o learn_v ever_o to_o be_v obsequious_a diligent_a and_o serviceable_a to_o the_o other_o in_o all_o honest_a thing_n and_o this_o will_v the_o soon_o come_v to_o pass_v grief_n if_o the_o one_o observe_v and_o mark_v what_o thing_n the_o other_o can_v away_o withal_o or_o can_v away_o withal_o and_o what_o please_v or_o displease_v they_o and_o so_o from_o thence-foorth_a to_o do_v the_o one_o and_o to_o leave_v the_o other_o undo_v and_o if_o one_o of_o they_o be_v angry_a and_o offend_v with_o the_o other_o then_o let_v the_o party_n grieve_v open_a and_o make_v know_v unto_o the_o other_o their_o grief_n in_o due_a time_n and_o with_o discretion_n for_o the_o long_o a_o displeasure_n or_o evil_a will_n rage_v in_o secret_a the_o worse_a will_v be_v the_o discord_n and_o this_o must_v be_v observe_v that_o it_o be_v do_v in_o a_o fit_a and_o convenient_a time_n because_o there_o be_v some_o season_n in_o the_o which_o if_o grief_n be_v show_v it_o shall_v make_v great_a debate_n and_o if_o the_o wife_n will_v go_v about_o to_o tell_v or_o admonish_v her_o husband_n when_o he_o be_v out_o of_o patience_n or_o move_v with_o anger_n it_o shall_v then_o be_v no_o fit_a time_n to_o talk_v with_o he_o therefore_o abigail_n perceive_v nabal_n her_o 37._o husband_n to_o be_v drink_v will_v not_o speak_v to_o he_o until_o the_o morning_n both_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n must_v remember_v that_o the_o one_o be_v not_o so_o offend_v and_o displease_v with_o the_o manner_n of_o the_o other_o 16._o that_o they_o shall_v thereupon_o forsake_v the_o company_n one_o of_o another_o for_o that_o be_v like_a to_o one_o that_o be_v sting_v with_o the_o bee_n will_v therefore_o forsake_v the_o bony_n and_o therefore_o no_o man_n may_v put_v away_o his_o wife_n 18._o for_o any_o cause_n except_o for_o whoredom_n which_o must_v be_v due_o prove_v before_o a_o lawful_a judge_n but_o all_o godly_a and_o faithful_a marry_a folk_n be_v to_o commend_v their_o state_n and_o marriage_n to_o god_n by_o humble_a and_o fervent_a prayer_n that_o he_o for_o his_o belove_a son_n sake_n will_v so_o bless_v they_o and_o their_o marriage_n that_o they_o may_v so_o christianly_o and_o dutiful_o agree_v between_o themselves_o that_o they_o may_v have_v no_o cause_n of_o any_o separation_n or_o divorcement_n for_o like_a as_o all_o manner_n of_o medicine_n &_o special_o they_o that_o go_v nigh_a death_n as_o to_o cut_v off_o whole_a member_n etc._n etc._n be_v very_o loathsome_a and_o terrible_a even_o so_o be_v divorcement_n indeed_o a_o medicine_n but_o a_o perilous_a and_o terrible_a medicine_n therefore_o every_o good_a christian_a husband_n and_o wife_n ought_v with_o all_o care_n and_o heedfulness_n so_o to_o live_v in_o marriage_n that_o they_o have_v no_o need_n of_o such_o a_o medicine_n as_o the_o holy_a scripture_n make_v mention_n of_o many_o wife_n and_o woman_n that_o be_v wicked_a and_o ungodly_a as_o partly_o may_v be_v see_v by_o these_o quotation_n 1._o king_n 1._o 2._o prou._n 7._o 27_o and_o 22._o 14._o and_o 25._o 24._o and_o 27._o 15._o eccles._n 7._o 28._o so_o contrariwise_o the_o same_o sacred_a scripture_n also_o commend_v unto_o we_o many_o woman_n that_o have_v be_v devout_a religious_a and_o virtuous_a as_o partly_o be_v manifest_a by_o that_o which_o have_v be_v already_o say_v and_o also_o by_o these_o place_n of_o scripture_n ruth_n 2._o 11._o 1._o sam._n 25._o 3._o pro._n 14._o 1._o and_o 31._o 10._o mat._n 28._o 1._o 8._o 9_o 10._o luke_n 8._o 2._o 3._o and_o 23._o 55._o 56._o act_n 1._o 14._o and_o 17._o 4._o and_o 9_o 36._o 39_o 2._o joh._n 1._o 2._o tim._n 1._o 5._o and_o whosoever_o shall_v observe_v it_o in_o the_o read_n of_o the_o word_n of_o god_n shall_v find_v that_o it_o speak_v of_o the_o praise_n of_o as_o many_o and_o mo_z good_a woman_n than_o man_n yea_o and_o i_o be_o persuade_v that_o if_o at_o this_o day_n a_o due_a survey_n shall_v be_v take_v of_o all_o the_o man_n &_o woman_n throughout_o his_o majesty_n dominion_n there_o will_v be_v find_v in_o number_n more_o woman_n that_o be_v faithful_a religious_a and_o virtuous_a word_n than_o man_n now_o if_o a_o wife_n be_v desirous_a to_o know_v how_o far_o she_o be_v bind_v to_o obey_v her_o husband_n the_o apostle_n resolve_v this_o doubt_n where_o he_o say_v ephesian_n 5._o 22._o wife_n submit_v yourselves_o unto_o your_o husband_n as_o to_o the_o lord_n as_o if_o he_o have_v say_v wife_n can_v be_v disobedient_a to_o their_o husband_n but_o they_o must_v resist_v god_n also_o who_o be_v the_o author_n of_o this_o subjection_n and_o that_o they_o must_v regard_v their_o husband_n will_n as_o the_o lord_n will_n but_o yec_fw-fr withal_o as_o the_o lord_n command_v that_o which_o be_v good_a &_o right_n so_o she_o shall_v obey_v her_o husband_n in_o good_a and_o right_n or_o else_o she_o do_v not_o obey_v he_o as_o the_o lord_n but_o as_o the_o tempter_n the_o first_o subjection_n of_o the_o woman_n begin_v at_o sin_n for_o when_o god_n curse_v she_o for_o seduce_v her_o husband_n when_o the_o serpent_n have_v deceive_v she_o he_o say_v he_o shall_v have_v 16._o authoritt_n over_o thou_o and_o therefore_o as_o the_o man_n name_v all_o other_o creature_n in_o sign_n that_o they_o shall_v be_v subject_a to_o he_o as_o a_o servant_n which_o come_v when_o his_o master_n call_v he_o by_o his_o name_n so_o he_o do_v name_v the_o woman_n also_o in_o token_n that_o she_o shall_v be_v subject_a unto_o he_o likewise_o and_o therefore_o assuerus_n make_v a_o law_n that_o 6._o every_o man_n shall_v bear_v rule_n in_o his_o own_o house_n and_o not_o the_o woman_n because_o she_o sin_v first_o therefore_o she_o be_v humble_v most_o and_o ever_o since_o the_o daughter_n of_o sarah_n be_v bind_v to_o call_v their_o husband_n lord_n as_o sarah_n call_v her_o husband_n that_o be_v to_o take_v they_o for_o head_n and_o governor_n among_o the_o particular_a duty_n that_o a_o christian_a herself_o wife_n ought_v to_o perform_v in_o her_o family_n this_o be_v one_o namely_o that_o she_o nurse_v she_o own_o child_n which_o to_o omit_v and_o to_o put_v they_o forth_o to_o nurse_v be_v both_o against_o the_o law_n of_o nature_n and_o also_o against_o the_o will_n of_o god_n beside_o it_o be_v hurtful_a both_o for_o the_o child_n body_n and_o also_o for_o his_o wit_n &_o last_o it_o be_v hurtful_a to_o the_o mother_n herself_o and_o it_o be_v a_o occasion_n that_o she_o fall_v into_o much_o 〈◊〉_d thereby_o first_o nature_n give_v milk_n to_o the_o woman_n for_o none_o other_o end_n but_o that_o she_o shall_v bestow_v it_o upon_o her_o child_n
we_o see_v by_o experience_n that_o every_o beast_n and_o every_o fowl_n be_v nourish_v and_o breed_v of_o the_o same_o that_o do_v bear_v it_o only_o some_o woman_n love_v to_o be_v mother_n but_o not_o nurse_n as_o therefore_o every_o tree_n do_v cherish_v and_o nourish_v that_o which_o it_o bring_v forth_o even_o so_o also_o it_o become_v 10._o natural_a mother_n to_o nourish_v their_o child_n with_o their_o own_o milk_n second_o the_o example_n of_o the_o scripture_n be_v many_o that_o prove_v this_o as_o sarah_n who_o nurse_v isaac_n 7._o though_o she_o be_v a_o princess_n and_o therefore_o able_a enough_o to_o have_v have_v other_o to_o have_v take_v that_o pain_n though_o she_o be_v a_o beautiful_a woman_n and_o of_o great_a year_n yet_o she_o herself_o nurse_v and_o give_v suck_v to_o her_o son_n also_o anna_n unto_o who_o the_o holy_a ghost_n have_v 9_o leave_v it_o record_v as_o a_o commendation_n that_o she_o nurse_v she_o own_o son_n samuel_n so_o when_o god_n choose_v a_o nurse_n for_o moses_n he_o lead_v the_o handmaid_n of_o pharaos_n daughter_n to_o his_o mother_n as_o though_o god_n will_v have_v none_o to_o nurse_v he_o but_o his_o mother_n like_o wise_a when_o the_o 12._o son_n of_o god_n be_v bear_v his_o father_n think_v none_o fit_a to_o be_v his_o nurse_n but_o the_o bless_a virgin_n his_o mother_n it_o be_v a_o commendation_n of_o a_o good_a woman_n 10._o and_o set_v down_o in_o the_o first_o place_n as_o a_o principal_a good_a work_n in_o a_o widow_n that_o be_v well_o report_v of_o if_o she_o have_v nurse_v her_o child_n and_o therefore_o such_o as_o refuse_v thus_o to_o do_v may_v well_o and_o fit_o be_v call_v nice_a and_o unnatural_a mother_n yea_o in_o so_o do_v they_o make_v themselves_o but_o half_a mother_n and_o so_o break_v the_o holy_a bond_n of_o nature_n in_o lock_v up_o their_o breast_n from_o their_o child_n and_o deliver_v they_o forth_o like_o the_o cuckoo_n to_o be_v hatch_v in_o the_o sparrow_n nest_n three_o the_o child_n body_n be_v common_o so_o affect_v as_o the_o milk_n be_v which_o they_o receive_v now_o if_o the_o nurse_n be_v of_o a_o evil_a complexion_n as_o she_o be_v affect_v in_o her_o body_n or_o in_o her_o mind_n or_o have_v some_o hide_a disease_n the_o child_n suck_v of_o her_o breast_n must_v needs_o take_v part_n with_o she_o and_o if_o that_o be_v true_a which_o the_o learned_a do_v say_v that_o the_o temperature_n of_o the_o mind_n follow_v the_o constitution_n of_o the_o body_n needs_o must_v it_o be_v that_o if_o the_o nurse_n be_v of_o a_o naughty_a nature_n the_o child_n must_v take_v thereafter_o yet_o if_o it_o be_v so_o that_o the_o nurse_n be_v of_o a_o good_a complexion_n and_o of_o a_o honest_a behaviour_n whereas_o contrariwise_o maiden_n that_o have_v make_v a_o escape_n be_v common_o call_v to_o be_v nurse_n yet_o can_v it_o not_o be_v but_o that_o the_o mother_n milk_n shall_v be_v much_o more_o natural_a for_o the_o child_n then_o the_o milk_n of_o a_o stranger_n as_o by_o experience_n let_v a_o man_n be_v long_o accustom_v to_o one_o kind_n of_o drink_n if_o the_o same_o man_n change_v his_o air_n and_o his_o drink_n he_o be_v like_a to_o mislike_v it_o as_o the_o egg_n of_o a_o hen_n be_v alter_v under_o a_o hawk_n nevertheless_o such_o woman_n as_o be_v oppress_v with_o infirmity_n disease_n want_v of_o milk_n or_o other_o just_a and_o lawful_a cause_n be_v to_o be_v dispense_v withal_o but_o who_o breast_n have_v this_o perpetual_a drought_n forsooth_o it_o be_v like_o the_o gout_n no_o beggar_n may_v have_v it_o but_o citizen_n or_o gentlewoman_n in_o the_o nine_o of_o hosea_n verse_n 14._o dry_a breast_n be_v name_v for_o a_o curse_n what_o a_o lamentable_a hap_n have_v gentlewoman_n to_o light_n upon_o this_o curse_n more_o than_o other_o sure_o if_o their_o breast_n be_v dry_a as_o they_o say_v they_o be_v they_o shall_v fast_o and_o pray_v together_o that_o this_o curse_n may_v be_v remove_v from_o they_o and_o last_o that_o it_o be_v hurtful_a to_o the_o mother_n themselves_o both_o physician_n can_v tell_v and_o some_o woman_n full_a oft_o have_v feel_v when_o they_o have_v be_v trouble_v with_o sore_a breast_n beside_o other_o disease_n that_o happen_v to_o they_o through_o plenty_n of_o milk_n the_o wise_a be_v further_a to_o remember_v that_o god_n have_v give_v she_o two_o breast_n not_o that_o she_o shall_v employ_v and_o use_v they_o for_o a_o show_n or_o of_o ostentation_n but_o in_o the_o service_n of_o god_n and_o to_o be_v a_o help_n to_o her_o husband_n in_o suckling_n the_o child_n common_a to_o they_o both_o experience_n teach_v that_o god_n convert_v the_o mother_n blood_n into_o the_o milk_n wherewith_o the_o child_n be_v nurse_v in_o her_o womb_n he_o bring_v it_o into_o the_o breast_n furnish_v with_o nipple_n convenient_a to_o minister_v the_o warm_a milk_n unto_o the_o child_n who_o he_o endue_v with_o industry_n to_o draw_v out_o the_o milk_n for_o his_o own_o sustenance_n the_o woman_n therefore_o that_o can_v suckle_v her_o child_n and_o do_v it_o not_o but_o resuse_v this_o office_n and_o duty_n of_o a_o mother_n declare_v herself_o to_o be_v very_o unthankful_a to_o god_n and_o as_o it_o be_v forsake_v and_o contemn_v the_o fruit_n of_o her_o womb_n and_o therefore_o the_o bruit_n beast_n lie_v upon_o the_o ground_n and_o grant_v not_o one_o nipple_n or_o two_o but_o six_o or_o seven_o to_o their_o young_a one_o shall_v rise_v in_o judgement_n against_o these_o dainty_a half-mothers_n who_o for_o fear_n of_o wrinkle_a of_o their_o face_n or_o to_o avoid_v some_o small_a labour_n do_v refuse_v this_o so_o necessary_a a_o duty_n of_o a_o mother_n due_a to_o her_o child_n the_o property_n due_a to_o a_o marry_a wife_n be_v that_o she_o have_v gravity_n when_o she_o walk_v abroad_o wisdom_n to_o govern_v her_o house_n patience_n to_o suffer_v her_o husband_n love_v to_o breed_v and_o bring_v up_o her_o child_n courtesy_n towards_o her_o neighbour_n diligence_n to_o lay_v up_o and_o to_o save_v such_o good_n as_o be_v within_o her_o charge_n that_o she_o be_v a_o friend_n of_o honest_a company_n and_o a_o great_a enemy_n of_o want_n on_o and_o light_v toy_v so_o then_o the_o principal_a duty_n of_o the_o wife_n be_v first_o to_o be_v subject_a to_o her_o husband_n ephes._n 5._o 22._o colloss_n 3._o 18._o 1._o pet._n 3._o 1._o 2._o to_o be_v chaste_a and_o shamefast_a modest_a and_o silent_a godly_a and_o discreet_a 3._o to_o keep_v herself_o at_o home_n for_o the_o good_a government_n of_o her_o family_n and_o not_o to_o stray_v abroad_o without_o just_a cause_n here_o it_o be_v not_o to_o be_v pretermit_v but_o we_o must_v duty_n say_v somewhat_o touch_v man_n and_o woman_n that_o betwise_o marry_v and_o so_o become_v step-fathers_n and_o stepmother_n such_o husband_n and_o wife_n as_o other_o marry_v again_o after_o the_o death_n of_o their_o first_o wife_n or_o first_o husband_n be_v careful_o to_o remember_v that_o they_o do_v not_o displease_v their_o wife_n or_o their_o husband_n which_o they_o now_o have_v by_o overmuch_o rehearse_v of_o their_o first_o wife_n or_o first_o husband_n for_o the_o course_n and_o condition_n of_o the_o world_n be_v such_o that_o husband_n and_o wife_n do_v account_n and_o reckon_v thing_n past_o better_a than_o thing_n that_o be_v present_a and_o the_o reason_n be_v because_o no_o commodity_n matter_n or_o felicity_n be_v so_o great_a but_o it_o have_v some_o grief_n and_o displeasure_n and_o also_o some_o bitterness_n mingle_v with_o it_o which_o so_o long_o as_o it_o be_v present_a grieve_v we_o sore_o but_o when_o it_o be_v once_o go_v it_o leave_v no_o great_a feel_n of_o itself_o behind_o it_o and_o for_o that_o cause_n we_o seem_v to_o be_v less_o trouble_v with_o sorrow_n and_o discommodity_n past_a then_o with_o those_o that_o be_v present_a also_o age_n steal_v and_o come_v on_o apace_o which_o cause_v both_o man_n and_o woman_n to_o be_v the_o less_o able_a to_o sustain_v and_o endure_v trouble_n and_o grief_n then_o before_o therefore_o such_o man_n and_o woman_n as_o be_v twice_o marry_v and_o be_v wise_a and_o religious_a ought_v not_o to_o esteem_v their_o wife_n or_o husband_n which_o be_v dead_a better_a than_o her_o or_o he_o which_o they_o enjoy_v now_o alive_a remember_v the_o common_a proverb_n that_o we_o must_v live_v by_o the_o quick_a and_o not_o by_o the_o dead_a and_o that_o we_o must_v make_v much_o of_o that_o we_o now_o have_v let_v the_o name_n of_o stepfather_n and_o stepmother_n admonish_v and_o put_v they_o in_o mind_n of_o their_o duty_n towards_o the_o child_n of_o the_o one_o and_o the_o other_o for_o stepfather_n and_o stepmother_n do_v signify_v a_o sted-father_n and_o a_o
three_o that_o they_o be_v unto_o their_o child_n example_n of_o all_o godliness_n and_o virtue_n four_o that_o they_o keep_v they_o from_o idleness_n the_o mother_n of_o all_o mischief_n and_o bring_v they_o up_o either_o in_o learning_n or_o in_o some_o good_a art_n or_o occupation_n whereby_o they_o may_v get_v their_o live_n with_o honesty_n and_o truth_n when_o they_o shall_v come_v to_o age_n and_o year_n of_o discretion_n 1._o touch_v the_o first_o point_n parent_n be_v to_o point_n be_v admonish_v that_o they_o bear_v in_o mind_n that_o the_o cause_n why_o the_o lord_n have_v bless_v they_o with_o child_n be_v first_o that_o they_o shall_v be_v careful_a to_o see_v that_o their_o child_n be_v so_o virtuous_o bring_v up_o that_o they_o may_v become_v citizen_n of_o the_o church_n of_o god_n so_o that_o whensoever_o they_o themselves_o shall_v die_v in_o the_o lord_n they_o may_v leave_v their_o child_n true_a worshipper_n of_o god_n in_o their_o place_n but_o alas_o there_o be_v few_o that_o have_v any_o great_a care_n of_o this_o duty_n it_o be_v to_o be_v remember_v that_o it_o be_v the_o father_n duty_n with_o all_o convenient_a speed_n to_o present_v the_o child_n to_o baptism_n and_o there_o to_o give_v the_o name_n unto_o his_o child_n as_o may_v appear_v by_o the_o example_n luke_n 1._o 3._o gen._n 21._o 3._o and_o it_o be_v a_o thing_n to_o be_v wish_v that_o all_o parent_n when_o and_o at_o such_o time_n as_o god_n bless_v name_n they_o with_o child_n will_v give_v they_o such_o name_n as_o be_v name_v and_o commend_v unto_o we_o in_o the_o holy_a scripture_n to_o the_o end_n that_o when_o they_o come_v to_o year_n of_o discretion_n they_o by_o hear_v those_o name_n may_v be_v excite_v and_o move_v to_o follow_v the_o virtuous_a life_n and_o christian_a conversation_n of_o those_o man_n and_o woman_n who_o name_n they_o bear_v which_o the_o holy_a ghost_n have_v commend_v they_o for_o and_o contrariwise_o to_o 〈◊〉_d 3._o and_o avoid_v those_o fault_n and_o vice_n which_o be_v discommend_v in_o they_o and_o yet_o we_o have_v to_o remember_v that_o those_o child_n which_o be_v name_v and_o call_v by_o and_o after_o any_o of_o the_o name_n of_o the_o 〈◊〉_d prophet_n apostle_n or_o by_o the_o name_n of_o any_o other_o saint_n man_n or_o woman_n be_v not_o any_o thing_n the_o better_a because_o they_o have_v such_o godly_a and_o christian_a name_n unless_o that_o they_o do_v imitate_v and_o follow_v they_o in_o faith_n virtue_n convince_v and_o godly_a behaviour_n so_o on_o the_o other_o side_n they_o that_o be_v not_o call_v by_o such_o christian_a name_n as_o be_v mention_v in_o the_o sacred_a scripture_n be_v not_o in_o respect_n of_o their_o name_n any_o thing_n the_o worse_o have_v a_o assure_a faith_n in_o the_o merit_n of_o christ_n his_o death_n passion_n and_o blood_n shed_v and_o lead_v their_o life_n agreeable_a to_o the_o same_o for_o as_o neither_o the_o revenue_n nor_o the_o glorious_a title_n and_o name_n of_o ancestor_n 〈◊〉_d descend_v of_o noble_a parentage_n make_v man_n noble_a and_o renown_a indeed_o unless_o they_o themselves_o be_v godly_a honest_a and_o wise_a so_o neither_o the_o godly_a name_n no_o nor_o yet_o the_o faith_n and_o virtue_n of_o the_o father_n avail_v the_o wicked_a and_o ungodly_a child_n any_o thing_n at_o all_o unless_o they_o repent_v and_o become_v faithful_a and_o godly_a as_o they_o be_v let_v we_o here_o consider_v that_o so_o often_o as_o in_o the_o race_n of_o our_o life_n we_o do_v hear_v or_o do_v speak_v of_o our_o name_n it_o do_v put_v we_o in_o remembrance_n first_o of_o god_n mercy_n show_v unto_o we_o in_o our_o baptisine_n second_o of_o our_o promise_n to_o god_n again_o and_o as_o in_o time_n among_o our_o ancestor_n infant_n have_v their_o name_n give_v they_o when_o they_o be_v circumcise_v as_o appeat_v in_o luke_n no_o doubt_n to_o this_o end_n that_o 21._o the_o circumcise_v shall_v be_v admonish_v by_o the_o call_n by_o their_o name_n at_o what_o time_n and_o place_n man_n they_o have_v their_o name_n give_v they_o and_o will_v think_v that_o they_o be_v write_v in_o the_o number_n of_o the_o child_n of_o god_n and_o join_v in_o league_n with_o he_o and_o make_v partaker_n of_o his_o covenant_n so_o likewise_o after_o the_o same_o manner_n must_v we_o that_o have_v have_v our_o name_n give_v we_o in_o baptism_n remember_v and_o bear_v in_o mind_n that_o we_o be_v by_o grace_n adopt_v to_o be_v the_o son_n of_o god_n and_o receive_v into_o his_o favour_n and_o therefore_o that_o we_o be_v god_n own_o and_o as_o it_o be_v his_o good_n and_o riches_n who_o bear_v his_o name_n as_o proper_a unto_o he_o 2._o second_o they_o may_v assure_v themselves_o that_o all_o their_o labour_n be_v lose_v which_o they_o bestow_v upon_o their_o child_n unless_o they_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n and_o oftentimes_o call_v upon_o god_n help_n by_o earnest_a prayer_n that_o he_o in_o mercy_n will_v vouthsafe_v to_o preserve_v they_o from_o the_o manifold_a snare_n subtlety_n and_o temptation_n of_o satan_n which_o their_o tender_a age_n be_v subject_a unto_o we_o may_v hear_v many_o parent_n complain_v of_o the_o disobedience_n of_o their_o child_n but_o they_o do_v not_o mark_v and_o consider_v that_o they_o be_v just_o punish_v by_o god_n for_o that_o they_o think_v by_o their_o own_o industry_n and_o wit_n to_o make_v they_o good_a and_o virtuous_a without_o god_n blessing_n which_o they_o seldom_o or_o never_o call_v for_o in_o good_a earnest_n 3._o three_o let_v they_o consider_v how_o noble_a a_o thing_n a_o child_n be_v who_o god_n himself_o have_v shape_v and_o form_v in_o his_o mother_n womb_n nourish_v bring_v forth_o into_o the_o light_n and_o endue_v with_o body_n and_o soul_n to_o the_o end_n he_o shall_v as_o it_o be_v in_o a_o table_n represent_v god_n his_o first_o pattern_n 4._o four_o let_v they_o know_v that_o these_o thing_n be_v to_o be_v deal_v with_o all_o in_o order_n unto_o the_o body_n they_o owe_v nourishment_n bring_v up_o apparel_n parent_n and_o sometime_o correction_n that_o they_o may_v keep_v child_n in_o awe_n unto_o the_o soul_n they_o owe_v catechise_v instruction_n and_o doctrine_n and_o that_o of_o two_o sort_n namely_o of_o godliness_n and_o of_o civility_n by_o the_o one_o they_o shall_v keep_v a_o good_a conscience_n before_o god_n by_o the_o other_o they_o shall_v obtain_v a_o good_a report_n among_o man_n for_o these_o be_v the_o two_o principal_a point_n which_o parent_n ought_v to_o be_v most_o careful_a to_o plant_v in_o this_o life_n in_o their_o child_n both_o which_o the_o apostle_n comprehend_v in_o one_o verse_n where_o he_o say_v ephes._n 1._o 4._o you_o father_n provoke_v not_o your_o child_n to_o wrath_n but_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o instruction_n and_o information_n of_o the_o lord_n and_o therefore_o all_o parent_n be_v diligent_o to_o instruct_v and_o teach_v their_o child_n the_o first_o principle_n of_o christ_n his_o religion_n so_o soon_o as_o by_o age_n they_o be_v able_a to_o perceive_v and_o understand_v the_o same_o that_o they_o may_v as_o it_o be_v suck_v in_o godliness_n together_o with_o their_o mother_n milk_n and_o straightway_n after_o their_o cradle_n may_v be_v nourish_v with_o the_o tender_a food_n of_o virtue_n towards_o that_o bless_a life_n to_o have_v godly_a child_n no_o doubt_n be_v the_o great_a treasure_n that_o may_v be_v for_o in_o the_o child_n do_v the_o parent_n live_v in_o a_o manner_n after_o their_o death_n and_o if_o they_o be_v well_o instruct_v catechise_v and_o virtuous_o bring_v up_o god_n be_v honour_v by_o they_o the_o commonwealth_n be_v advance_v yea_o their_o parent_n and_o all_o other_o fare_v the_o better_a for_o they_o they_o be_v their_o parent_n comfort_n next_o unto_o god_n their_o joy_n staff_n and_o uphold_v of_o their_o age_n and_o therefore_o parent_n ought_v to_o begin_v betimes_o to_o plant_v virtue_n in_o their_o child_n breast_n for_o late_o sow_v bring_v a_o late_a or_o never_o apt_a harvest_n young_a branch_n will_v bow_v as_o a_o man_n will_v have_v they_o but_o old_a tree_n will_v soon_o break_v than_o bow_n and_o therefore_o as_o arrow_n be_v a_o excellent_a weapon_n of_o defence_n to_o a_o strong_a and_o a_o mighty_a man_n that_o can_v shoot_v they_o with_o courage_n even_o so_o child_n godly_a bring_v up_o be_v a_o special_a protection_n and_o defence_n to_o their_o parent_n and_o as_o the_o strong_a man_n quiver_n the_o better_a it_o be_v furnish_v with_o choose_a shaft_n the_o better_a defence_n he_o have_v so_o likewise_o the_o more_o godly_a child_n their_o parent_n have_v the_o great_a be_v their_o joy_n and_o happinesie_n yea_o and_o further_o as_o arrow_n be_v at_o the_o commandment_n
see_v two_o special_a cause_n why_o some_o parent_n do_v more_o negligent_o provide_v that_o their_o child_n be_v instruct_v to_o wit_n too_o much_o cocker_a and_o niggardship_n in_o cocker_a mother_n do_v more_o often_o offend_v and_o special_o those_o that_o have_v but_o few_o child_n these_o do_v like_a as_o if_o some_o husbandman_n shall_v refuse_v to_o till_o his_o field_n because_o he_o have_v but_o one_o only_a who_o can_v suffer_v this_o man_n folly_n and_o perverseness_n of_o judgement_n be_v it_o not_o much_o more_o to_o be_v till_v because_o it_o be_v only_o one_o yes_o very_o that_o so_o the_o profit_n and_o increase_v of_o one_o may_v recompense_v the_o want_n of_o many_o even_o so_o after_o the_o same_o sort_n we_o may_v judge_v it_o to_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o mother_n so_o much_o more_o diligent_o to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n by_o how_o much_o they_o be_v few_o but_o we_o see_v what_o do_v let_v mother_n that_o they_o up_o love_v their_o child_n more_o dear_o than_o that_o they_o can_v suffer_v they_o to_o be_v a_o hour_n out_o of_o their_o sight_n but_o this_o be_v cruel_a love_n so_o to_o love_v their_o child_n that_o they_o shall_v be_v as_o it_o be_v give_v over_o of_o their_o mother_n unto_o all_o naughtiness_n of_o which_o perverse_a and_o cruel_a love_n not_o a_o few_o shall_v suffer_v the_o just_a punishment_n which_o with_o great_a grief_n of_o mind_n and_o with_o tear_n shall_v be_v compel_v to_o see_v the_o unbrideled_a wantonness_n and_o ungraciousnesse_n of_o their_o child_n unto_o which_o they_o do_v now_o all_o too_o late_a go_v about_o to_o provide_v a_o remedy_n on_o the_o other_o side_n niggardship_n be_v oftentimes_o education_n great_a than_o that_o parent_n will_v 〈◊〉_d the_o cost_n whatsoever_o be_v spend_v upon_o horse-keeper_n or_o horsebreaker_n fool_n minstrel_n dog_n hawk_n &c_n &c_n that_o some_o think_v well_o bestow_v but_o if_o they_o see_v any_o thing_n to_o be_v spend_v about_o instruct_v their_o child_n they_o think_v all_o ill_a bestow_v and_o be_v much_o more_o careful_a that_o a_o horse_n be_v well_o frame_v to_o vault_a &_o leap_v then_o that_o their_o child_n be_v well_o instruct_v to_o virtue_n this_o inconvenience_n come_v to_o the_o mind_n of_o child_n if_o they_o be_v not_o well_o bring_v up_o that_o they_o become_v servile_a and_o lie_v open_a to_o all_o sin_n and_o naughtiness_n for_o if_o a_o man_n leave_v his_o field_n untilled_a he_o shall_v find_v it_o to_o have_v bring_v forth_o fearne_a and_o thistle_n and_o such_o unprofitable_a weed_n after_o the_o same_o sort_n if_o he_o shall_v leave_v the_o wit_n of_o his_o child_n unlooked_v unto_o and_o unexercised_a he_o shall_v be_v sure_a to_o reap_v most_o abundant_a fruit_n of_o wantonness_n and_o ungraciousnesse_n the_o holy_a ghost_n speak_v in_o the_o scripture_n of_o foolish_a son_n as_o that_o he_o that_o beget_v such_o a_o one_o get_v himself_o sorrow_n and_o that_o the_o father_n of_o a_o fool_n have_v no_o joy_n prou._n 17._o 21._o he_o mean_v it_o not_o so_o much_o of_o natural_a fool_n or_o idiot_n and_o such_o as_o be_v destitute_a of_o common_a reason_n although_o it_o be_v true_a that_o be_v a_o lamentable_a judgement_n of_o god_n and_o a_o heaviness_n to_o the_o parent_n of_o such_o a_o child_n as_o of_o wicked_a child_n such_o as_o either_o be_v ignorant_a in_o the_o word_n or_o not_o know_v how_o to_o order_v one_o right_a step_n to_o the_o kingdom_n of_o god_n or_o else_o have_v some_o knowledge_n abuse_v it_o to_o maintain_v their_o carnal_a lust_n and_o appetite_n for_o in_o this_o case_n as_o it_o will_v grieve_v parent_n to_o have_v natural_a fool_n to_o their_o child_n or_o such_o as_o either_o in_o some_o imperfection_n of_o nature_n be_v dismember_v or_o deform_v and_o misfigure_v in_o the_o part_n of_o their_o body_n even_o so_o much_o more_o shall_v it_o grieve_v they_o to_o have_v such_o child_n as_o either_o for_o want_v of_o knowledge_n and_o heavenly_a wisdom_n can_v walk_v in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n or_o abuse_v the_o knowledge_n give_v they_o prostitute_n and_o give_v themselves_o to_o all_o sin_n and_o wickedness_n it_o be_v marvelous_a how_o great_o parent_n can_v bewail_v the_o want_n of_o one_o natural_a gift_n proceed_v of_o some_o imperfection_n and_o how_o easy_o they_o can_v pass_v over_o without_o any_o grief_n the_o want_n of_o all_o spiriruall_a grace_n spring_v from_o corrupt_a education_n in_o like_a manner_n it_o be_v strange_a that_o man_n can_v take_v the_o matter_n so_o heavy_o when_o their_o child_n break_v into_o such_o offence_n as_o either_o have_v open_a shame_n or_o civil_a punishment_n follow_v they_o and_o yet_o can_v make_v no_o bone_n but_o pass_v over_o such_o sin_n as_o be_v against_o the_o majesty_n of_o god_n accompany_v with_o everlasting_a confusion_n &_o unspeakable_a torment_n wherein_o what_o do_v the_o most_o part_n of_o man_n bewray_v but_o their_o great_a hypocrisy_n in_o that_o neither_o their_o joy_n nor_o their_o grief_n be_v sound_a to_o their_o child_n and_o that_o they_o love_v themselves_o more_o in_o their_o child_n then_o either_o their_o salvation_n or_o the_o glory_n of_o god_n the_o tender_a love_n and_o care_n whereof_o no_o doubt_n do_v increase_v the_o sorrow_n of_o david_n for_o the_o death_n of_o his_o son_n absalon_n who_o be_v not_o 33._o so_o much_o grieve_v for_o the_o loss_n of_o a_o son_n as_o for_o that_o untimely_a end_n of_o his_o son_n to_o who_o the_o time_n of_o repentance_n for_o his_o salvation_n and_o the_o glory_n of_o god_n be_v deny_v which_o haply_o if_o he_o have_v live_v his_o father_n david_n may_v have_v rejoice_v in_o let_v parent_n therefore_o learn_v to_o correct_v their_o affection_n to_o their_o child_n and_o be_v grieve_v for_o ignorance_n impiety_n and_o sin_n whereof_o either_o their_o carnal_a copulation_n the_o not_o lament_v of_o their_o natural_a corruption_n the_o want_n of_o prayer_n and_o holy_a seed_n or_o profane_a education_n arm_v with_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n may_v be_v a_o most_o just_a occasion_n can_v parent_n hope_v for_o a_o holy_a posterity_n or_o do_v they_o marvel_v if_o the_o lord_n cross_v they_o in_o the_o child_n of_o their_o body_n when_o they_o make_v as_o bold_a and_o brutish_a a_o entrance_n into_o that_o holy_a ordinance_n of_o the_o lord_n as_o be_v the_o meeting_n of_o the_o neigh_a horse_n with_o his_o mate_n when_o be_v ioyve_v in_o that_o honourable_a estate_n of_o matrimony_n either_o as_o meet_v natural_a man_n without_o all_o knowledge_n of_o god_n they_o beget_v their_o child_n or_o as_o too_o carnal_a man_n without_o the_o fear_n &_o reverence_n of_o the_o lord_n neither_o bewail_v their_o corruption_n which_o they_o receive_v of_o their_o ancestry_n nor_o pray_v against_o their_o infirmity_n which_o may_v descend_v to_o their_o posterity_n they_o abuse_v the_o marriage_n bed_n last_o when_o have_v receive_v the_o fruit_n of_o the_o womb_n they_o have_v no_o care_n by_o good_a and_o virtuous_a bring_v up_o to_o offer_v it_o to_o the_o lord_n that_o their_o child_n by_o carnal_a generation_n may_v be_v the_o child_n of_o god_n by_o spiritual_a regeneration_n sure_o no_o and_o yet_o man_n look_v up_o to_o god_n his_o providence_n and_o secret_a counsel_n without_o all_o bethink_v themselves_o of_o their_o corrupt_a generation_n from_o which_o their_o child_n be_v descend_v without_o all_o look_a back_n into_o their_o wicked_a and_o godless_a bring_v of_o they_o up_o will_v fret_v against_o their_o sin_n fume_n against_o their_o child_n yea_o often_o they_o will_v correct_v they_o and_o that_o to_o serve_v their_o own_o corruption_n not_o so_o much_o grieve_v for_o that_o they_o have_v sin_v against_o god_n as_o that_o they_o have_v offend_v they_o christian_n therefore_o must_v know_v that_o when_o man_n and_o woman_n rage_v with_o boil_a lust_n meet_v together_o as_o bruit_n beast_n have_v no_o other_o respect_n then_o to_o satisfy_v their_o own_o carnal_a concupiscence_n when_o they_o make_v no_o conscience_n to_o sanctify_v the_o marriage_n bed_n with_o prayer_n when_o they_o have_v no_o care_n to_o increase_v the_o church_n of_o christ_n and_o the_o number_n of_o the_o elect_a it_o be_v the_o just_a judgement_n of_o god_n to_o send_v they_o either_o monster_n or_o natural_a fool_n or_o else_o such_o as_o have_v good_a gift_n of_o the_o mind_n and_o well_o proportion_v body_n be_v most_o wicked_a graceless_a and_o profane_a person_n again_o on_o the_o contrary_a we_o shall_v find_v in_o the_o word_n of_o god_n that_o noble_a and_o notable_a man_n commend_v unto_o we_o for_o rare_a example_n of_o virtue_n and_o godliness_n be_v child_n ask_v and_o obtain_v of_o god_n by_o prayer_n our_o first_o parent_n adam_n and_o eve_n be_v humble_v 25._o after_o the_o birth_n of_o their_o
any_o unhonest_a pastime_n for_o if_o it_o be_v so_o that_o a_o father_n will_v not_o suffer_v his_o child_n to_o come_v into_o a_o place_n where_o he_o may_v be_v in_o danger_n to_o take_v hurt_v of_o his_o body_n either_o by_o infection_n of_o the_o plague_n or_o otherwise_o how_o much_o more_o be_v he_o bind_v to_o withhold_v and_o keep_v his_o child_n from_o come_v there_o where_o he_o shall_v hurt_v and_o poison_v his_o soul_n the_o four_o and_o last_o point_n be_v that_o parent_n do_v with_o all_o care_n and_o diligence_n keep_v their_o child_n point_n from_o all_o lazy_a idleness_n a_o vice_n no_o doubt_n out_o of_o which_o do_v spring_v many_o inconuehience_n and_o be_v condemn_v by_o the_o holy_a ghost_n in_o many_o place_n of_o scripture_n whereby_o god_n declare_v that_o he_o create_v no_o man_n in_o vain_a or_o to_o no_o purpose_n neither_o be_v there_o any_o man_n unto_o who_o he_o have_v not_o allot_v as_o it_o be_v a_o certain_a stand_n and_o 11._o room_n and_o a_o lawful_a calling_n to_o walk_v in_o whereupon_o it_o follow_v that_o the_o order_n which_o god_n have_v appoint_v be_v trouble_v by_o such_o as_o live_v idle_o yea_o god_n ordinance_n be_v break_v which_o be_v a_o great_a sin_n and_o wickedness_n so_o then_o by_o the_o word_n of_o god_n none_o ought_v to_o live_v idle_o and_o to_o neglect_v his_o charge_n and_o duty_n but_o aught_o to_o give_v himself_o to_o some_o profitable_a calling_n to_o get_v his_o live_n by_o and_o to_o do_v good_a to_o other_o although_o father_n provide_v for_o their_o child_n great_a store_n of_o money_n and_o huge_a heap_n of_o treasure_n yet_o in_o three_o 〈◊〉_d four_o hour_n all_o may_v be_v waste_v and_o come_v to_o nought_o for_o much_o evil_n come_v through_o idleness_n it_o be_v a_o evil_a teacher_n he_o that_o do_v nothing_o be_v ill_o occupy_v the_o mind_n of_o man_n be_v ever_o stir_v and_o do_v somewhat_o if_o it_o be_v not_o do_v well_o it_o be_v do_v ill_o as_o water_n though_o it_o be_v never_o so_o clear_a and_o fair_a fresh_a and_o comfortable_a yet_o if_o it_o stand_v still_o in_o a_o pit_n or_o hole_n or_o be_v keep_v long_o in_o a_o vessel_n whence_o it_o have_v no_o issue_n it_o will_v putrify_v and_o corrupt_v rot_v and_o smell_v and_o he_o unwholesome_a even_o so_o fare_v it_o with_o child_n yea_o and_o with_o all_o the_o son_n of_o adam_n if_o they_o have_v nothing_o to_o do_v no_o way_n to_o bestow_v their_o wit_n they_o will_v rot_v &_o prove_v unwholesome_a and_o devise_v mischief_n all_o the_o day_n long_o for_o as_o labour_v and_o exercise_v of_o body_n of_o one_o evil_n man_n industry_n and_o diligence_n of_o mind_n in_o another_o man_n be_v sure_a fort_n and_o strong_a bulwark_n of_o country_n even_o so_o idleness_n and_o negligence_n be_v the_o cause_n of_o all_o evil_a for_o a_o idle_a man_n brain_n become_v quick_o the_o shop_n of_o the_o devil_n and_o as_o in_o all_o thing_n natural_a there_o be_v one_o thing_n or_o other_o which_o be_v the_o spoil_n of_o it_o as_o the_o canker_n to_o the_o rose_n the_o worm_n to_o the_o apple_n and_o the_o caterpillar_n to_o the_o leaf_n so_o the_o common_a spoil_n to_o all_o youth_n be_v the_o contrary_a to_o pain_n &_o labour_n which_o be_v idleness_n therefore_o be_v idleness_n worthy_o call_v the_o mother_n of_o all_o evil_n and_o step_v dame_n of_o all_o virtue_n the_o prophet_n ezechiel_n in_o his_o sixteen_o chapter_n verse_n forty_o nine_o teach_v that_o idleness_n be_v one_o of_o the_o principal_a sin_n of_o sodom_n which_o pull_v down_o fire_n and_o brimstone_n from_o heaven_n upon_o their_o head_n this_o idleness_n be_v the_o devil_n confederate_a for_o even_o as_o the_o traitorous_a servant_n while_o his_o master_n be_v a_o sleep_n and_o all_o thing_n at_o rest_n set_v open_v the_o door_n for_o the_o thief_n to_o enter_v in_o upon_o he_o and_o spoil_v he_o at_o his_o pleasure_n even_o so_o idleness_n while_o we_o be_v not_o aware_a lie_v soft_a upon_o the_o pillow_n of_o security_n open_v the_o door_n for_o the_o devil_n to_o enter_v into_o we_o with_o full_a swing_n to_o the_o destruction_n both_o of_o body_n and_o soul_n saint_n matthew_n say_v chapter_n thirteen_o verse_n twenty_o five_o that_o while_o man_n sleep_v the_o enemy_n come_v and_o sow_v 〈◊〉_d among_o the_o wheat_n so_o the_o fit_a time_n that_o the_o devil_n can_v find_v to_o work_v upon_o we_o be_v when_o we_o be_v idle_a for_o that_o be_v the_o sleep_n of_o the_o soul_n in_o the_o eleven_o chapter_n of_o the_o second_o of_o samuel_n we_o read_v that_o while_n david_n tarry_v idle_a at_o home_n in_o the_o begin_n of_o the_o year_n when_o king_n use_v to_o go_v forth_o to_o battle_n he_o be_v soon_o overtake_v with_o two_o foul_a sin_n of_o adultery_n and_o manflaughter_n oh_o that_o man_n see_v to_o how_o many_o vice_n and_o evil_n they_o shut_v the_o door_n when_o they_o cease_v to_o be_v idle_a and_o give_v themselves_o to_o honest_a labour_n and_o 〈◊〉_d lawful_a calling_n so_o long_o as_o samson_n judg._n 19_o war_v with_o the_o philistine_n he_o can_v never_o be_v take_v or_o overcome_v but_o after_o that_o he_o give_v himself_o to_o idleness_n and_o pleasure_n he_o not_o only_o commit_v fornication_n with_o the_o strumpet_n dalilah_n but_o also_o be_v take_v of_o his_o enemy_n and_o have_v his_o eye_n miserable_o put_v out_o if_o those_o two_o which_o be_v such_o excellent_a man_n endue_v of_o god_n with_o singular_a gift_n the_o one_o of_o pprophecy_n and_o the_o other_o of_o strength_n and_o such_o as_o no_o labour_n or_o trouble_v can_v overcome_v be_v notwithstanding_o overthrow_v &_o fall_v into_o grievous_a sin_n by_o yield_v for_o a_o short_a time_n to_o ease_v then_o what_o crime_n what_o mischief_n and_o inconvenience_n be_v to_o be_v fear_v of_o they_o who_o all_o their_o life_n long_o give_v themselves_o to_o idleness_n and_o loitering_n but_o such_o have_v always_o be_v the_o perverse_a incredulity_n of_o man_n heart_n that_o they_o will_v not_o believe_v that_o other_o man_n have_v perish_v until_o they_o themselves_o perish_v also_o if_o we_o be_v utter_o void_a of_o understanding_n let_v we_o go_v to_o the_o bruit_n creature_n which_o want_v those_o help_n of_o reason_n and_o government_n that_o man_n have_v and_o learn_v of_o they_o go_v to_o the_o pismire_n o_o sluggard_n say_v solomon_n prou._n 6._o 6._o behold_v her_o way_n and_o be_v wise_a for_o she_o have_v no_o guide_n nor_o ruler_n prepare_v her_o meat_n in_o summer_n and_o gather_v her_o food_n in_o the_o harvest_n what_o be_v it_o that_o fill_v the_o prison_n and_o bring_v so_o many_o to_o the_o gallows_n &_o cause_v so_o many_o parent_n to_o lament_v and_o bewail_v the_o untimely_a death_n of_o their_o child_n but_o idleness_n when_o the_o poor_a condemn_a wretch_n have_v receive_v their_o judgement_n and_o come_v to_o the_o place_n of_o execution_n and_o stand_v on_o the_o ladder_n what_o counsel_n give_v they_o to_o young_a man_n and_o to_o child_n but_o to_o beware_v of_o idleness_n what_o be_v the_o cause_n of_o such_o and_o so_o many_o disease_n in_o the_o body_n ask_v the_o physician_n and_o they_o will_v tell_v you_o idleness_n whereof_o rise_v rebellion_n in_o kingdom_n against_o prince_n whereof_o rise_v mutiny_n and_o muttering_n in_o city_n against_o magistrate_n you_o can_v give_v no_o great_a cause_n thereof_o then_o idleness_n christ_n our_o redeemer_n say_v of_o every_o idle_a word_n 36._o that_o be_v vain_a and_o unprofitable_a trifle_n which_o the_o most_o part_n of_o people_n spend_v their_o life_n in_o that_o man_n shall_v speak_v they_o shall_v give_v account_n thereof_o at_o the_o day_n of_o judgement_n if_o we_o shall_v make_v a_o account_n for_o idle_a word_n what_o shall_v we_o do_v for_o idle_a hand_n for_o idle_a foot_n for_o idle_a body_n for_o idle_a soul_n what_o account_n for_o all_o idleness_n especial_o for_o wicked_a deed_n shall_v we_o make_v at_o the_o day_n of_o judgement_n see_v then_o that_o idleness_n be_v so_o noisome_a and_o hurtful_a let_v all_o christian_a parent_n therefore_o labour_n and_o endeavour_n to_o avoid_v it_o both_o in_o themselves_o and_o their_o child_n as_o a_o plague_n or_o contagious_a disease_n therefore_o it_o be_v most_o requisite_a and_o necessary_a that_o parent_n do_v bring_v up_o their_o child_n either_o in_o for_o learning_n or_o in_o some_o occupation_n and_o handycraft_n whereby_o they_o may_v get_v their_o live_n another_o day_n and_o so_o live_v the_o better_a but_o some_o unaduised_o and_o foolish_o do_v reason_n say_v what_o need_n be_v it_o for_o noble_a and_o rich_a man_n objection_n child_n to_o have_v learning_n they_o shall_v have_v enough_o we_o answer_v the_o great_a the_o ship_n be_v and_o the_o answer_n more_o
even_o just_a with_o god_n that_o see_v they_o have_v offend_v he_o in_o the_o great_a blessing_n they_o shall_v be_v plague_v with_o the_o same_o thing_n wherein_o they_o offend_v he_o in_o the_o great_a judgement_n o_o you_o unnatural_a parent_n the_o rich_a man_n in_o 27._o hell_n shall_v rise_v up_o against_o you_o in_o the_o day_n of_o judgement_n and_o condemn_v you_o for_o he_o be_v in_o hell_n have_v a_o care_n of_o his_o father_n house_n that_o they_o may_v be_v forewarn_v and_o therefore_o desire_v abraham_n to_o send_v lazarus_n to_o his_o brethren_n to_o testify_v unto_o they_o that_o they_o come_v not_o into_o that_o place_n of_o torment_n but_o you_o will_v not_o admonish_v your_o child_n you_o will_v not_o teach_v they_o moses_n &_o the_o prophet_n and_o you_o will_v not_o show_v they_o the_o danger_n of_o god_n heavy_a displeasure_n hang_v over_o their_o head_n and_o therefore_o your_o own_o child_n shall_v be_v one_o of_o the_o fury_n of_o hell_n to_o torment_v you_o the_o lord_n open_v your_o eye_n to_o foresee_v and_o fly_v these_o fearful_a judgement_n but_o if_o you_o will_v bring_v they_o up_o well_o and_o virtuous_o 6._o they_o shall_v be_v the_o better_a for_o it_o all_o their_o life_n after_o nay_o the_o world_n to_o come_v shall_v reap_v this_o benefit_n for_o such_o child_n as_o you_o now_o bring-up_a such_o parent_n shall_v they_o be_v after_o when_o you_o be_v go_v and_o look_v what_o parent_n you_o leave_v behind_o you_o the_o like_a child_n again_o shall_v they_o rear_v up_o wherefore_o o_o you_o parent_n you_o be_v either_o the_o make_n or_o the_o mar_n of_o the_o world_n for_o if_o your_o child_n learn_v no_o good_a education_n at_o your_o hand_n how_o shall_v they_o be_v good_a father_n after_o you_o and_o how_o shall_v they_o leave_v that_o to_o their_o posterity_n by_o the_o right_n of_o inheritance_n which_o they_o never_o receive_v from_o their_o ancestor_n to_o conclude_v this_o point_n we_o say_v once_o again_o oh_o you_o parent_n endeavour_v to_o go_v forward_o in_o this_o virtuous_a education_n of_o your_o child_n and_o then_o no_o doubt_n god_n neither_o shall_v nor_o will_v hide_v any_o necessary_a secret_n or_o instruction_n from_o you_o neither_o will_v he_o withhold_v any_o good_a blessing_n from_o your_o posterity_n so_o shall_v you_o be_v father_n of_o the_o faithful_a as_o abraham_n be_v if_o you_o will_v have_v the_o same_o care_n and_o practice_v the_o same_o diligence_n for_o your_o child_n and_o family_n that_o he_o do_v genes_n 18._o 18._o 19_o and_o 12._o 2._o 3._o parent_n also_o have_v to_o remember_v that_o they_o shall_v commit_v a_o act_n very_o unnatural_a injurious_a and_o ungodly_a if_o they_o shall_v undeserued_o disinherit_v their_o elder_a son_n for_o as_o nature_n in_o all_o her_o work_n for_o the_o most_o part_n seem_v to_o make_v some_o 〈◊〉_d one_o thing_n to_o be_v chief_a before_o all_o the_o rest_n whereby_o the_o same_o be_v and_o the_o rather_o continue_v so_o reason_n in_o the_o order_n of_o a_o family_n which_o be_v a_o imitation_n of_o a_o state_n civil_a or_o body_n politic_a persuade_v 3._o by_o experience_n that_o of_o necessity_n there_o be_v one_o before_o the_o rest_n as_o chief_a whereby_o may_v be_v conserve_v that_o beauty_n of_o unity_n and_o harmony_n of_o concord_n which_o the_o almighty_a in_o his_o creation_n so_o wonderful_o and_o diverse_o teach_v and_o our_o saviour_n himself_o so_o careful_o and_o especial_o commend_v to_o his_o church_n and_o thereof_o seem_v to_o come_v that_o pre-eminence_n or_o more_o special_a regard_n which_o the_o law_n of_o god_n in_o the_o old_a testament_n appoint_v to_o his_o people_n the_o israelite_n to_o 16._o be_v observe_v towards_o the_o first_o beget_v son_n and_o likewise_o somewhat_o concern_v other_o dumb_a creature_n which_o first_o be_v bring_v forth_o into_o the_o world_n by_o the_o ancient_a law_n of_o the_o jew_n the_o elder_a have_v double_a so_o much_o as_o the_o other_o of_o the_o father_n good_n and_o alone_o to_o the_o elder_a pertain_v the_o blessing_n of_o the_o father_n wherewith_o shall_v seem_v always_o the_o heritage_n to_o go_v and_o succeed_v as_o be_v manifest_a by_o the_o will_n of_o god_n in_o deut._n 21._o 15._o 16._o 17._o if_o a_o man_n have_v two_o wife_n one_o love_v and_o another_o hate_a and_o they_o have_v bear_v he_o child_n both_o the_o love_a and_o also_o the_o hate_a if_o the_o first_o bear_v be_v the_o son_n of_o the_o hate_a then_o when_o the_o time_n come_v that_o he_o appoint_v his_o son_n to_o be_v heir_n of_o that_o which_o he_o have_v he_o may_v not_o make_v the_o son_n of_o the_o belove_a first_o bear_v before_o the_o son_n of_o the_o hate_a which_o be_v the_o first_o bear_v but_o he_o shall_v acknowledge_v the_o son_n of_o the_o hate_a which_o be_v the_o first_o bear_v and_o give_v he_o double_a portion_n of_o all_o that_o he_o have_v for_o he_o be_v the_o first_o of_o his_o strength_n and_o to_o he_o belong_v the_o right_a of_o the_o first_o bear_v the_o patriarch_n and_o other_o the_o servant_n of_o god_n although_o by_o divine_a revelation_n and_o other_o notice_n of_o the_o will_n of_o god_n they_o be_v certify_v that_o they_o may_v marry_v many_o of_o sundry_a wife_n at_o one_o time_n yet_o do_v they_o exclude_v from_o their_o heritage_n the_o prerogative_n of_o the_o blessing_n all_o the_o child_n of_o those_o secondary_a and_o after_o marriage_n this_o appear_v in_o genes_n 21._o 10._o the_o son_n of_o the_o bondwoman_n shall_v not_o be_v heir_n with_o my_o son_n isaac_n yet_o be_v he_o the_o elder_a but_o be_v not_o the_o son_n of_o the_o first_o marriage_n nor_o bear_v of_o a_o freewoman_n also_o a_o heir_n be_v the_o work_n and_o institution_n of_o nature_n and_o heritage_n be_v due_a to_o the_o son_n of_o nature_n therefore_o it_o be_v so_o due_a that_o he_o must_v needs_o have_v it_o see_v those_o thing_n which_o come_v by_o nature_n or_o be_v natural_a be_v not_o mutable_a or_o to_o be_v change_v moreover_o this_o name_n heir_n which_o in_o a_o manner_n with_o all_o nation_n be_v the_o elder_a be_v the_o successor_n of_o the_o law_n national_a beside_o the_o law_n natural_a and_o divine_a and_o that_o father_n who_o make_v another_o heir_n then_o be_v by_o the_o authority_n appoint_v can_v but_o express_v himself_o a_o rebel_n in_o disobey_v and_o contemn_v so_o great_a law_n and_o authority_n begin_v a_o new_a law_n of_o his_o own_o head_n contrary_a thereunto_o then_o what_o be_v more_o unjust_a then_o to_o do_v contrary_a to_o all_o law_n and_o therewith_o to_o disobey_v the_o will_n of_o god_n to_o pervert_v the_o due_a order_n of_o descent_n prefer_v the_o second_o marriage_n before_o the_o first_o the_o young_a before_o the_o elder_a the_o late_a offspring_n before_o the_o first_o beget_v so_o much_o tender_v and_o respect_v now_o as_o the_o great_a injury_n a_o father_n can_v do_v to_o his_o son_n be_v to_o disherit_v he_o so_o it_o it_o the_o most_o reproachful_a blot_n or_o damage_n to_o suffer_v the_o infamy_n and_o discredit_n of_o disherison_n for_o if_o the_o elder_a son_n be_v worthy_a to_o be_v disherit_v in_o his_o father_n house_n he_o may_v be_v think_v not_o worthy_a to_o draw_v breath_n out_o of_o it_o for_o that_o he_o ought_v to_o be_v convince_v faulty_a in_o those_o crime_n and_o heinous_a offence_n which_o be_v either_o repugnant_a to_o the_o duty_n of_o a_o child_n or_o not_o meet_v for_o the_o profession_n of_o a_o christian._n namely_o if_o he_o strike_v or_o offer_v violence_n to_o his_o father_n etc._n if_o he_o oppress_v he_o with_o some_o great_a wrong_n if_o he_o seek_v his_o death_n or_o destruction_n by_o poison_v 1._o or_o otherwise_o if_o he_o lie_v with_o his_o father_n wife_n if_o he_o will_v not_o suffer_v his_o father_n to_o make_v his_o will_n if_o he_o be_v not_o of_o the_o true_a and_o catholic_a faith_n but_o be_v convince_v to_o be_v a_o heretic_n whereby_o his_o life_n and_o heritage_n be_v in_o hazard_n or_o if_o he_o refuse_v to_o succour_v and_o deliver_v his_o father_n out_o of_o prison_n by_o his_o surety-ship_n or_o if_o he_o follow_v the_o trade_n and_o company_n of_o such_o person_n as_o in_o the_o law_n be_v count_v infamous_a vile_a and_o most_o dishonest_a as_o juggler_n sorcerer_n conjurer_n thief_n cozener_n and_o pirate_n or_o if_o he_o be_v a_o idiot_n a_o madman_n a_o natural_a or_o lunatic_n person_n or_o if_o the_o father_n offer_v he_o a_o meet_a marriage_n under_o five_o and_o twenty_o year_n he_o refuse_v it_o and_o delight_n to_o live_v continual_o in_o whoredom_n and_o filthy_a order_n of_o life_n these_o and_o such_o like_v be_v the_o cause_n that_o the_o civil_a or_o ecclesiastical_a law_n do_v assign_v the_o
up_o if_o i_o have_v oppress_v other_o how_o shall_v i_o have_v escape_v god_n judgement_n and_o when_o he_o shall_v visit_v i_o what_o shall_v i_o answer_v he_o that_o have_v make_v i_o in_o the_o womb_n have_v he_o not_o make_v he_o which_o move_v he_o to_o show_v pity_n and_o favour_n upto_o his_o servant_n because_o they_o be_v god_n creature_n as_o he_o be_v have_v not_o he_o alone_o fashion_v we_o in_o the_o womb_n hereby_o then_o may_v those_o master_n and_o dame_n see_v their_o wickedness_n who_o will_v not_o hear_v their_o servant_n speak_v but_o upon_o a_o simple_a surmise_n and_o brain-sicknesse_n do_v evil_o entreat_v they_o by_o cruel_a stripe_n when_o in_o truth_n there_o be_v no_o just_a cause_n master_n and_o mistress_n ought_v therefore_o to_o use_v good_a their_o servant_n and_o apprentice_n with_o mildness_n &_o equity_n as_o every_o one_o shall_v deserve_v for_o they_o must_v remember_v that_o they_o have_v all_o one_o god_n to_o honour_n and_o worship_n one_o prince_n to_o serve_v one_o law_n to_o keep_v one_o land_n to_o inhabit_v and_o one_o death_n to_o fear_v and_o therefore_o they_o must_v speak_v unto_o they_o as_o unto_o brethren_n and_o sister_n &_o deal_v with_o they_o 17._o as_o with_o christian_n and_o let_v they_o always_o remember_v this_o namely_o that_o god_n will_v never_o deal_v merciful_o with_o they_o if_o they_o make_v no_o great_a account_n that_o their_o servant_n do_v serve_v he_o more_o careful_o than_o themselves_o and_o sanctify_v the_o sabbath_n 14._o and_o therefore_o that_o master_n be_v not_o worthy_a to_o be_v serve_v which_o can_v afford_v that_o his_o servant_n shall_v serve_v god_n as_o well_o as_o himself_o he_o must_v give_v unto_o god_n that_o which_o be_v god_n and_o then_o he_o may_v the_o better_o take_v that_o which_o be_v his_o own_o for_o he_o that_o care_v not_o for_o his_o family_n say_v paul_n be_v 8._o worse_o than_o a_o infidel_n because_o infidel_n care_v for_o their_o family_n as_o it_o be_v the_o office_n of_o a_o good_a householder_n to_o carry_v the_o burden_n of_o care_n travel_n and_o labour_n so_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o a_o wife_n to_o be_v faithful_a in_o keep_v and_o well_o order_v of_o his_o good_n and_o house_n &_o to_o see_v he_o her_o own_o and_o their_o child_n best_o apparel_n brush_v and_o handsome_o 〈◊〉_d to_o be_v patient_a and_o careful_a to_o see_v her_o husband_n do_v well_o and_o both_o their_o duty_n be_v effectual_o to_o give_v good_a example_n to_o be_v diligent_a to_o entertain_v peace_n among_o their_o family_n and_o to_o see_v all_o thing_n neat_a and_o handsome_a and_o to_o keep_v due_a order_n and_o measure_n for_o as_o the_o sun_n in_o the_o firmament_n give_v light_a speak_v to_o all_o the_o region_n round_o about_o he_o and_o by_o his_o bright_a appear_v expel_v the_o darkness_n comfort_v and_o cheer_v the_o world_n even_o so_o like_o wise_a shall_v householder_n labour_v to_o banish_v sin_n and_o corrupt_a religion_n out_o of_o their_o dwelling_n and_o to_o be_v a_o lantern_n of_o godly_a life_n to_o comfort_v and_o shine_v to_o their_o whole_a family_n that_o so_o they_o may_v direct_v their_o life_n after_o their_o good_a example_n phil._n 2._o 15._o math._n 5._o 19_o a_o master_n ought_v so_o to_o behave_v himself_o with_o his_o servant_n that_o he_o be_v not_o too_o familiar_a with_o they_o which_o many_o time_n breed_v contempt_n but_o he_o be_v to_o admonish_v they_o often_o and_o yet_o he_o must_v not_o discourage_v they_o from_o well_o do_v nor_o be_v too_o severe_a not_o too_o partial_a but_o must_v moderate_v all_o by_o discretion_n for_o like_a as_o the_o centution_n who_o have_v many_o servant_n 8._o under_o his_o authority_n have_v they_o all_o at_o his_o beck_n and_o commandment_n most_o ready_a to_o obey_v he_o in_o any_o thing_n that_o he_o set_v they_o about_o and_o this_o good_a order_n and_o submission_n he_o have_v bring_v they_o unto_o by_o the_o reason_n that_o his_o say_a servant_n be_v dear_a unto_o he_o that_o be_v he_o make_v special_a reckon_n of_o they_o and_o be_v as_o a_o father_n unto_o they_o so_o likewise_o all_o master_n be_v in_o conscience_n bind_v to_o esteem_n and_o account_v well_o of_o their_o servant_n and_o to_o use_v their_o authority_n that_o they_o have_v over_o they_o mild_o and_o christianly_o and_o than_o if_o their_o servant_n do_v perceive_v that_o they_o be_v dear_a unto_o their_o master_n so_o may_v the_o master_n in_o time_n work_v they_o like_o wax_n unto_o their_o own_o mind_n except_o they_o be_v such_o as_o have_v sell_v themselves_o to_o 9_o work_v wickedness_n it_o be_v very_o convenient_a that_o a_o master_n of_o a_o family_n shall_v so_o dispose_v and_o order_v his_o affair_n and_o business_n that_o he_o depart_v and_o absent_v himself_o from_o home_n as_o little_a as_o may_v be_v for_o it_o be_v a_o old_a say_n and_o a_o true_a the_o eye_n of_o the_o master_n do_v make_v the_o horse_n fat_a and_o the_o ground_n fertile_a for_o all_o thing_n be_v well_o and_o fit_o do_v when_o the_o master_n be_v present_a such_o housekeeper_n as_o have_v much_o and_o yet_o spend_v little_a be_v call_v niggard_n and_o they_o that_o have_v little_a &_o yet_o spend_v much_o be_v hold_v 〈◊〉_d spend_v thrift_n and_o prodigal_a waster_n and_o therefore_o they_o ought_v to_o live_v in_o such_o sort_n that_o they_o be_v not_o note_v either_o miser_n for_o their_o keep_n or_o prodigal_a for_o their_o spend_n the_o covetous_a miserable_a niggard_n pass_v great_a toil_n and_o travel_v in_o gather_v of_o riches_n danger_n in_o keep_v they_o law_n in_o defend_v they_o and_o torment_v in_o depart_v from_o they_o but_o a_o wise_a man_n be_v not_o careful_a so_o much_o for_o riches_n and_o how_o to_o live_v long_o as_o to_o live_v well_o and_o die_v well_o some_o householder_n be_v so_o 〈◊〉_d and_o spare_v both_o towards_o themselves_o and_o their_o neighbour_n that_o although_o they_o have_v much_o wealth_n yet_o they_o can_v find_v in_o their_o heart_n to_o take_v part_n in_o any_o frugal_a and_o good_a measure_n of_o those_o transitory_a blessing_n which_o god_n in_o mercy_n have_v give_v they_o but_o feed_v gross_o and_o very_o niggardly_o and_o clothe_v themselves_o very_o mean_o keep_v a_o beggarly_a house_n so_o that_o as_o the_o common_a proverb_n be_v a_o man_n may_v as_o soon_o break_v his_o neck_n as_o his_o fast_n with_o they_o so_o that_o the_o state_n of_o such_o a_o worldling_n himself_o and_o covetous_a rich_a man_n be_v most_o miserable_a upon_o who_o god_n have_v bountiful_o bestow_v great_a wealth_n and_o yet_o he_o have_v not_o the_o grace_n to_o 〈◊〉_d his_o riches_n well_o either_o to_o his_o own_o comfort_n or_o the_o good_a of_o his_o neighbour_n but_o heap_v up_o riches_n as_o the_o psalmist_n say_v and_o can_v tell_v who_o 6._o shall_v gather_v they_o this_o show_v that_o it_o be_v the_o plague_n of_o god_n that_o befall_v upon_o such_o a_o miserable_a covetous_a worldling_n when_o he_o have_v plenty_n of_o all_o thing_n and_o yet_o want_v a_o liberal_a heart_n to_o employ_v and_o use_v they_o right_o and_o therefore_o the_o holy_a ghost_n in_o the_o book_n of_o the_o preacher_n be_v not_o content_v once_o or_o twice_o to_o find_v fault_n and_o to_o check_v this_o as_o a_o great_a vanity_n and_o abuse_n but_o to_o speak_v of_o it_o five_o sundry_a time_n in_o one_o place_n he_o say_v there_o be_v a_o evil_n which_o i_o see_v under_o the_o sun_n and_o it_o be_v much_o among_o man_n a_o man_n to_o who_o god_n have_v give_v riches_n and_o treasure_n and_o honour_n and_o he_o want_v nothing_o for_o his_o soul_n of_o all_o that_o it_o desire_v but_o god_n give_v he_o no_o power_n to_o eat_v thereof_o but_o a_o strange_a man_n shall_v eat_v it_o up_o this_o be_v vanity_n and_o this_o be_v a_o evil_a sickness_n eccles._n 2._o 24._o and._n 3._o 12._o 13._o 22._o and_o 5._o 17._o and_o 6._o 1._o 2._o and_o 8._o 15._o such_o master_n and_o mistress_n as_o will_v have_v their_o necessary_a affair_n and_o business_n dispatch_v another_o well_o and_o in_o due_a time_n may_v not_o always_o trust_v to_o the_o do_v thereof_o by_o their_o servant_n but_o they_o must_v either_o see_v it_o do_v or_o rather_o dispatch_v it_o themselves_o if_o it_o be_v such_o a_o thing_n and_o business_n as_o they_o can_v and_o may_v well_o do_v for_o such_o a_o lowliness_n be_v always_o join_v with_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n that_o they_o that_o be_v humble_v with_o religion_n though_o honourable_a and_o worshipful_a in_o call_v do_v not_o think_v themselves_o too_o good_a to_o do_v any_o good_a thing_n this_o undoubted_o be_v a_o thing_n great_o to_o be_v wish_v for_o namely_o that_o all_o christian_n master_n servant_n and_o
the_o dutiful_a servant_n to_o obey_v his_o love_a and_o kind_a master_n for_o as_o the_o hand_n be_v say_v to_o be_v the_o instrument_n of_o instrument_n be_v it_o indeed_o that_o serve_v to_o feed_v apparel_n and_o keep_v clean_o the_o rest_n of_o the_o limb_n and_o part_n of_o the_o body_n which_o be_v also_o call_v instrument_n so_o be_v the_o servant_n say_v to_o be_v a_o instrument_n of_o instrument_n because_o he_o keep_v all_o the_o instrument_n of_o household_n occupy_v not_o only_o to_o live_v but_o to_o live_v well_o wherein_o he_o differ_v from_o all_o other_o instrument_n for_o where_o they_o be_v thing_n without_o soul_n he_o be_v divine_o enrich_v with_o a_o soul_n and_o herein_o he_o differ_v from_o the_o hand_n for_o that_o the_o hand_n be_v fasten_v and_o unite_v to_o the_o body_n but_o he_o be_v separate_v and_o disjoin_v from_o his_o master_n and_o he_o be_v also_o different_a from_o artificer_n for_o artificer_n be_v instrument_n of_o those_o thing_n which_o proper_o they_o call_v workmanship_n but_o the_o servant_n be_v a_o instrument_n of_o the_o action_n which_o also_o be_v distinguish_v from_o workmanship_n so_o that_o the_o servant_n if_o you_o will_v right_o understand_v he_o be_v alively_a and_o several_a instrument_n of_o action_n it_o be_v very_o meet_a and_o convenient_a that_o the_o mistress_n or_o dame_n do_v not_o make_v herself_o too_o familiar_a with_o her_o servant_n or_o houshold-folke_n servant_n lest_o they_o shall_v be_v too_o bold_a to_o talk_v to_o jest_v or_o unreverent_o and_o unmannerly_a to_o behave_v themselves_o towards_o she_o and_o so_o modest_o and_o wise_o to_o bear_v herself_o among_o her_o servant_n that_o they_o may_v fear_v reverence_n and_o so_o stand_v in_o awe_n of_o she_o as_o the_o mistress_n and_o mother_n of_o the_o house_n and_o as_o it_o be_v not_o comely_a or_o beseem_a that_o the_o wife_n shall_v take_v upon_o she_o to_o rule_v and_o correct_v the_o men-seruant_n so_o likewise_o it_o be_v not_o comely_a maid_n or_o meet_v that_o the_o husband_n shall_v meddle_v with_o the_o punish_n or_o chastise_v of_o the_o maidservant_n so_o that_o it_o be_v most_o meet_a and_o acceptable_a to_o the_o offender_n that_o the_o master_n shall_v correct_v the_o man_n and_o the_o mistress_n her_o maid_n for_o a_o man_n nature_n scorn_v and_o disdain_v to_o be_v beat_v of_o a_o woman_n and_o a_o maid_n nature_n be_v corrupt_v with_o the_o stripe_n of_o a_o man_n therefore_o we_o read_v that_o abraham_n will_v not_o meddle_v with_o his_o maid_n but_o commit_v she_o to_o his_o wife_n and_o say_v do_v with_o she_o as_o it_o please_v thou_o as_o if_o he_o shall_v say_v it_o belong_v not_o to_o i_o but_o to_o thou_o andthese_fw-mi be_v the_o duty_n which_o master_n must_v perform_v in_o their_o life_n time_n all_o which_o must_v be_v shut_v up_o with_o set_v order_n for_o all_o thing_n at_o their_o death_n with_o especial_a exhortation_n and_o prayer_n for_o religion_n for_o uprightness_n in_o their_o calling_n for_o peace_n and_o order_n after_o they_o according_a to_o the_o example_n of_o hezekiah_n david_n of_o jacob_n and_o of_o joseph_n isaiah_n 38._o 1._o and_o gen._n 47._o 29._o 30._o and_o 40._o 29._o so_o that_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o christian_a master_n to_o have_v a_o care_n not_o only_o that_o their_o family_n be_v well_o and_o christianly_o govern_v while_o they_o live_v but_o also_o that_o after_o their_o death_n love_n peace_n quietness_n and_o good_a order_n may_v be_v continue_v in_o their_o posterity_n the_o servant_n duty_n towards_o their_o master_n this_o duty_n confi_v in_o three_o point_n 1._o first_o that_o servant_n and_o apprentice_n do_v from_o their_o heart_n cheerful_o and_o willing_o perform_v the_o labour_n and_o work_n that_o their_o master_n mistress_n or_o dame_n shall_v command_v they_o 2._o second_o that_o they_o be_v faithful_a in_o thing_n commit_v to_o they_o by_o their_o master_n mistress_n or_o dame_n that_o so_o they_o may_v keep_v their_o good_n 3._o three_o that_o they_o be_v careful_a to_o observe_v uprightness_n of_o manner_n that_o the_o wife_n son_n and_o daughter_n or_o other_o fellow_n servant_n be_v not_o corrupt_v by_o their_o bad_a counsel_n or_o lewd_a behaviour_n these_o point_n be_v plain_o prove_v by_o these_o place_n of_o scripture_n quote_v in_o the_o margin_n 2.18.19.20.21_o whereby_o servant_n be_v straight_o charge_v reverent_o and_o faithful_o to_o obey_v their_o bodily_a master_n mistress_n and_o dame_n in_o all_o thing_n which_o may_v be_v do_v without_o offence_n to_o god_n and_o this_o obedience_n and_o service_n must_v be_v do_v with_o fear_n 9_o and_o tremble_a in_o singleness_n of_o heart_n as_o unto_o christ_n they_o be_v 〈◊〉_d with_o a_o reverence_n to_o godward_o as_o though_o they_o serve_v god_n himself_o and_o that_o as_o well_o in_o the_o absence_n of_o their_o master_n mistress_n or_o dame_n as_o in_o their_o presence_n not_o constrain_o as_o it_o be_v force_v or_o compel_v thereto_o but_o hearty_o and_o with_o good_a will_n as_o they_o that_o serve_v the_o lord_n and_o not_o man_n not_o only_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o earthly_a reward_n but_o because_o they_o know_v and_o be_v assure_v that_o of_o the_o lord_n they_o shall_v receive_v the_o reward_n of_o inheritance_n in_o as_o much_o as_o they_o serve_v the_o lord_n christ._n so_o that_o hereby_o all_o godly_a servant_n may_v in_o few_o word_n learn_v what_o duty_n they_o owe_v to_o their_o master_n mistress_n and_o dame_n namely_o to_o love_v they_o and_o to_o be_v affection_a towards_o they_o as_o a_o dutiful_a child_n be_v to_o his_o 〈◊〉_d to_o be_v reverend_a servant_n and_o lowly_a to_o they_o in_o their_o word_n and_o gesture_n to_o suffer_v and_o forbear_v they_o to_o obey_v with_o ready_a and_o willing_a mind_n all_o their_o lawful_a and_o reasonable_a commandment_n to_o fear_v they_o and_o to_o be_v loath_a to_o displease_v they_o to_o be_v faithful_a and_o trusty_a to_o they_o and_o they_o in_o deed_n and_o promise_n to_o be_v diligent_a and_o serviceable_a to_o speak_v cheerful_o to_o answer_v discreet_o not_o over_o bold_o to_o dally_v with_o their_o master_n wife_n daughter_n or_o maiden_n to_o be_v loyal_a and_o dutiful_a to_o their_o master_n mistress_n and_o dame_n as_o jacob_n be_v towards_o laban_n and_o joseph_n towards_o etc._n potiphar_n and_o they_o must_v careful_o endeavour_n to_o do_v and_o procure_v to_o the_o uttermost_a of_o their_o ability_n that_o which_o may_v be_v to_o their_o master_n mistress_n and_o dame_n honesty_n credit_n and_o profit_n and_o that_o as_o well_o when_o they_o be_v absent_a and_o out_o of_o sight_n as_o when_o they_o be_v present_a and_o look_v on_o this_o be_v a_o quality_n and_o property_n belong_v to_o every_o good_a servant_n both_o man_n and_o maid_n to_o wit_n that_o whatsoever_o good_n or_o necessary_n of_o their_o master_n mistress_n or_o dame_n they_o shall_v have_v charge_n of_o as_o commit_v to_o their_o trust_n and_o keep_n they_o careful_o see_v such_o thing_n so_o well_o and_o orderly_o place_v and_o lay_v up_o that_o if_o there_o shall_v be_v at_o any_o time_n any_o just_a occasion_n to_o use_v any_o necessary_a in_o their_o custody_n yea_o if_o it_o be_v in_o the_o night_n season_n and_o that_o without_o a_o light_n they_o than_o not_o only_o can_v say_v in_o such_o a_o place_n it_o lie_v but_o also_o if_o they_o be_v require_v they_o can_v present_o fetch_v the_o same_o servant_n must_v take_v heed_n that_o they_o do_v not_o 〈◊〉_d and_o willing_o anger_n or_o displease_v their_o master_n mistress_n or_o dame_n which_o if_o they_o do_v than_o they_o ought_v incontinent_a and_o forthwith_o to_o reconcile_v themselves_o unto_o they_o and_o to_o ask_v they_o forgiveness_n they_o must_v also_o forbear_v they_o and_o suffer_v their_o angry_a and_o hasty_a word_n and_o in_o no_o wise_a answer_n again_o spiteful_o or_o scornful_o neither_o yet_o upon_o any_o such_o occasion_n run_v away_o for_o the_o angel_n teach_v and_o will_v hagar_n the_o servant_n of_o sarah_n when_o she_o flee_v from_o 〈◊〉_d her_o mistress_n that_o she_o shall_v return_v and_o humble_v herself_o under_o the_o hand_n of_o her_o mistress_n so_o do_v saint_n paul_n make_v agreement_n betwixt_o onesimus_n a_o vagabond_n and_o thievish_a servant_n and_o send_v he_o again_o to_o his_o master_n philemon_n from_o who_o etc._n he_o be_v flee_v away_o and_o it_o be_v probable_a that_o he_o admonish_v onesimus_n to_o submit_v himself_o to_o his_o master_n servant_n &_o apprentice_n therefore_o according_a to_o the_o rule_n of_o god_n word_n must_v patient_o bear_v and_o forbear_v their_o master_n mistress_n and_o dame_n &_o do_v whatsoever_o lawful_a thing_n they_o shall_v command_v they_o not_o be_v against_o a_o good_a conscience_n and_o therefore_o they_o must_v remember_v how_o master_n