Holy Name The good of my Neighbour and the Eternal Welfare of my own Soul O let me not dare to sin against thee for the sake of any thing in the World but grant that with a constant resolution of serving and pleasing thee and by a lively Faith in our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ I may be always provided for an happy departure out of this life Ah! Merciful Lord let not a sudden death overtake me unawares but â—nable me to War a good Warfare to keep Faith and a good Conscience that so wheresoever or whensoever it shall please thee to call for me out of this World I may follow thee chearfully and without delay and joyfully stand before the Tribunal of my Redeemer Jesus Christ and receive that Crown of Righteousness which is laid up for all those that love his appearing O Father of mercies and God of all Consolation let thy Holy Spirit never depart from me especially when I am yielding up the Ghost but vouchsafe me his Divine help and Assistance to vanquish all the difficulties of this World and all the Temptations of the Flesh and the Devil Grant me grace to fix my mind on nothing but thee thy goodness and mercy and to put my Trust and Confidence in the alone Merits of thy Son our Lord Jesus Christ to the last breath of my life and then O Lord receive my Soul Into thy hands I commend my Spirit O Father Son and Holy Ghost O Blessed Trinity O Eternal Unity save and defend me in this life and at the hour of Death O do not leave me nor forsake me CHAP. XVIII Of the more special and particular preparation for Death HAving now treated of the general preparation for Death which is to be performed the whole course of our life even whilst we are young and in our greatest health and vigour We now come to that more special and particular preparation which is necessary to be done when we are worn out with old Age or taken with any sudden and dangerous Disease so that we think the time of our departure is at hand For Death when we look on it at a distance only doth not much affect us but when we find it making its approaches near us we are then very pensive and disturb'd with the thoughts of it When ever therefore O Man any Disease seizeth on you think that sickness is the Harbinger of Death and that you are now admonished from Heaven as Hezechiah once was by the Prophet to set thine House in order Isa 38.2 for thou shalt die And rather look for Death than life For the event of sickness is very uncertain though at first it may seem but a light indisposition and it often happens that the Disease gaining more and more strength doth unexpectedly deprive a Man of the use of his Reason and of all serious Thoughts So that as soon as ever you find your self ill prepare your self for Death for if you should soon be well again yet your Care and Labour would not be in vain but if Death should come upon you before you are provided for it you run the hazard of losing your Soul for ever Heb. 9.27 For it is appointed unto Men once to die but after this the Judgment It is a most false and foolish opinion which hath obtained amongst some that the sick person will most certainly die if he makes his Will and receives the Sacrament of the Body and Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ This hath no doubt been suggested by the Devil and spread abroad by ill Men that by this means they might frighten Men from fitting themselves for an happy Death Now this pre-paration consists in two parts the first thereof respects the dying Man and the other his Neighbour As to the first the dying Man is to take great care to reconcile himself to God whom he hath offended and to arm himself against all those Temptations which usually happen at that time To this end it will be necessary for him to search into his own Heart and examine over his whole life from the beginning to confess and bewail all his sins to God to pour out most Ardent Prayers and Sighs by the Assistance of the Holy Spirit for the obtaining pardon of his sins and Reconciliation with God in Christ our Saviour Examples of such Prayers may be found in the Penitential Psalms the prayer of Manasses and the like And although the sick Man ought chiefly to conless his sins to God against whom they were committed yet it is fit by the advice of the Apostle St. James James 5.16 that he should confess his faults to his Brethren to the Ministers of the Church and word of God to whom Christ hath committed the keys of binding and absolving Of remitting and retaining sins And chiefly let him confess those Crimes which most trouble his mind and with which Satan most disquiets him such let him repose in their Bosoms who are ready to assist him and to Administer suitable Consolations for sick Mens minds are many times not sedate enough for Divine Thoughts and Meditations and the Devil is very ready to divert those that offer themselves 'T is therefore the part of the Minister of Gods Word and his Friends to pray for the sick person that he may obtain pardon of his sins and not be overcome by the Temptations of the Devil It often happens that when Satan cannot drive Men to despair he then puts on another disguise and puffs them up with an opinion of their Merits This Temptation is diligently to be withstood For Satan exalteth those whom before he could not sink down that so he may cast them headlong with a more grievous fall Therefore O Man if ever such thoughts as these flatter thee consider that it is owing to Gods grace and not to your self if you are innocent from such and such offences and remember how many other ways you have offended him Or if you have been diligent in the performance of many good deeds and these come into your mind say with the Apostle 1 Cor. 15.10 By the grace of God I am what I am it was not I but the grace of God which was with me Ps 115.1 And not unto us O Lord not unto us but unto thy Name give glory Remember that Admonition of our Saviour Luk. 17.10 When ye shall have done all those things which are commanded you say we are unprofitable Servants we we have done that which was our duty to do 1 Eph. 1.8 And that of St. John if we say that we have no sin we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us As also that of St. Vae omni laudabili vitae hominum si remota misericordiâ eam discutias Domine Cons lib. 9. Cap. 13. Augustin Wo to the most perfect life of Man if thou Lord shouldest lay aside thy mercy and examine it If we read the Histories of dying Men or the
and if it be needful make his Will which ought to be plain and intelligible comformable to the Law of Nature to the Word of God and to the Laws of the Country wherein he lives that so there may be no occasion given to his Heirs and Executors to have any Litigious Disputes and Law-Suits after his Death and this he ought to do whilst his Mind and Tongue and Hand can perform their Functions and not to defer it till he is not able to make his mind known clearly and distinctly either by word or writing And indeed they do most conveniently and to the purpose who make their Wills whilst they are in perfect health on the contrary they very ill consult their own Affairs who put off the making of their Wills till some dangerous sickness assaults them and then perhaps they are suddenly taken out of the World or the Disease causes a Frenzie and so their minds become utterly indispos'd for the settling of their Worldly concerns If the sick Person remembers that he hath taken any thing away from any Man wrongfully let him restore it again to the right owner or if he be Dead and that cannot well be done let him appoint it to be given to pious uses to the poor of the Church or State For as St. Augustin saith Si res aliena propter quam peccatum est cum reddi possit non redditur non agitur poenitâ—ntia sed fingitur Epist 54. ad Maâ—don A Man is an Hypocrite and not a true Penitent if he doth not restore goods wrongfully taken when it is in his power to do it And let those also who abound in Riches honestly gotten take care that some portion of them be given to good and pious uses and that amongst the rest of their Legacies something be left and assigned to Christ Moreover the sick Person ought to look after such things as concern the Souls of those under his care and to commend unto all his Family that Religion which is contained in the Word of God and diligently to exhort them to a Holy life to the love and service of God Although as it hath been said such things were better to be ordered and provided for when we are well and in good Health because Death takes away many on a sudden and some Diseases are of such a Nature that they presently deprive a Man of the power of thinking on and ordering such things so that it will be most safe and prudent for the sick Person to put off all thoughts of Earthly things and not to distract himself with any cares but to fix his mind wholly upon God and on his happy passage out of this life And now when the sick Man finds his end approaching that the time of his departure is at hand and that he is now to struggle with the pangs of Death laying aside all Worldly cares let him intirely submit himself to Gods Will and in no wise withstand it and say Father thy Will be done whether it be by Life or by Death And then let him endeavour that he may die in the Faith of Christ and rest in the Lord that is let him give himself up wholly to the grace and mercy of God in the Merits of Christ and to the Consolations of the Holy Spirit For since in that last hour this World and all things in it Friends and Relations Riches and Pleasures and whatever else is taking and delightful must be quite abandon'd it is very fitting that his mind should bid farewel to all things here below and by Faith lift up it self to God alone And the Man being thus plac'd as it were out of himself he ought with the most earnest Affections and with the most Ardent Prayers and Fervent Sighs to fly unto the Mercy and Goodness of God and say with David Ps 73.26 My Flesh and my Heart faileth but God is the strength of my Heart and my Portion for ever In thee O Lord do I put my trust Ps 31.1 let me never be put to Confusion deliver me in thy Righteousness And then at last when he is just going out of the World let him commend his Soul unto God as unto a faithful Creatour and most Merciful Saviour and say with Christ Father Luk. 23.46 into thy Hands I commend my Spirit And with St. Act. 7.59 Stephen Lord Jesus receive my Spirit If any of the foregoing Temptations should be suggested by Satan to the sick Person when he lies under the agonies of Death let him not trouble himself to give an answer but commit himself wholly to Christ and depend only upon him and presevere to the last in pious Prayers and Ejaculations As also those that are present with him ought to do especially when they find his senses begin to fail him For the Prayers of the Righteous avail much and our Lord hath promised that where two or three are gathered together in his Name there will he be in the midst of them and that whatsoever we ask of the Father in his Name he will give it us Now where-ever Christs gracious presence is the Devil of necessity must flee before him Neither can the Devil tempt any Man beyond what God permits him And therefore every one ought not to be admitted to the sick Person when he is at the point of Death but only such who are Religious who by Devout Prayers can commend the departing Soul to God but such are not to be suffered to come to him who may in the least excite in him an hatred against any Man or a love towards any Worldly thing Or if they are permitted to come to him care must be taken that they behave themselves so as not to raise in his mind any evil affection which he had before laid aside and forsaken For a Soul that would depart happily out of this life ought to be inflam'd with the love of God alone and not to be mov'd either by the love or hatred of any Creature whatever And more especially let care be taken that the Dying Man may be visited and assisted by some Minister of Gods Word of good Learning and Judgment that he may know how to speak a word in season to the wearied Soul that he may so govern and temper his Discourse as neither to deceive the departing Soul by too much condescention and flattery nor to drive him to despair by an unseasonable sharpness and severity but may be able to instruct and fortifie him against all the Temptations of Satan with Divine Counsels and Consolations The Prayer O Lord God and my most merciful Father who hast now sent unto me the messenger of death and hast chastised me with sickness I confess my self to be a grievous sinner and that I have oftentimes offended thee even from my very infancy and therefore I acknowledge that this punishment is justly inflicted on me and that I desire death it self but I beseech thee of thine infinite mercies blot
time we must all die is sufficient to keep us from Pride and lifting up our selves above our fellows for should any begin to be high minded and boast themselves of their Noble Extract their Beauty Wisdom Honours Riches and such like gifts of God let them consider that in a little while they must descend into the Grave and then sure their Haughty Spirits will be brought down and humbled They must soon leave all their Worldly Enjoyments and be laid in the dust and perhaps be trampled on by those very Men who before they despised and oppressed Why then is dust and ashes proud Whosoever is proud let him go to the Vaults and Tombs of the Dead he will there find no difference nothing within but stench and rottenness and let him consider that of the Psalmist I have seen the Wicked in great power Vidi potentes impios Gravique fastu turgidos Virescere instar laureae Amaena propter fluminae Specto repente en lubricae Imago nusquam gloriae Nusquam manens vestigia Cunctis gravis potentiae Buchanan in Ps 37.35 36. and spreading himself like a green Bay-tree Yet he passed away and Lo he was not yea I sought him but he could not be found And therefore according to the advice of Tobit Love thy Brethren Tob. 4.13 and despise not in thy Heart thy Brethren for in pride is destruction and much trouble This cast Lucifer from Heaven For God resisteth the Proud and giveth grace to the Humble 1 Pet. 5.5 If thou shouldest find any thing in thy self for which others praise thee say with the Apostle 1 Cor. 15.10 Ps 115.1 by the grace of God I am what I am and not unto us O Lord not unto us but unto thy Name give glory And Lord I am not worthy of the least of all thy Mercies For what hast thou that thou didst not receive Gen. 32.10 And since thou didst receive from God all that thou hast it should rather be an occasion to humble thee than to make thee proud If you find any thing good in you you ought to think that others are better that so you may keep your self humble neither shall we be acquitted by our own but by the Judgment of God who is oftentimes displeased with what we like very well be not too curious in judging others but rather turn your Eyes on your own self In judging others one may easily mistake and very often sin But our labour will not be in vain if we examine and judge our selves Neither is it lawful for the Rich Men of this World to be proud of their Wealth and prodigally to spend it after their own Lusts for they as well as others are but Stewards of those Riches which God hath committed to their Trust and the more they have the more they must give an account of And thus Holy David prayed when he was dying All that is in the Heaven and in the Earth is thine Thine is the Kingdom and thou art exalted as Head above all 1 Chr. 29.11 Both Riches and Honour come of thee And by the Prophet Haggai God says The Silver is mine and the Gold is mine Hag. 2.8 And if God gives them unto any one it is not to make them haughty or that they should spend them prodigally but that the poor should be partakers with them be careful therefore not to be listed up or abuse thy Riches and power for a sharp Judgment shall be to them that are in High places Wisd 6.5 6. For Mercy will soon pardon the meanest but mighty Men shall be mightily tormented And then against Covetousness let the Christian Arm himself with this Consideration of Job Naked came I out of my Mothers Womb and naked shall I return thither Job 1.21 and with that of Solomon As he came forth of his Mothers Womb naked shall he return to go as he came Eccles 5.15 and shall take nothing of his labour which he may carry away in his hand As also that of St. Paul we brought nothing into this World 1 Tim. 6.7 and it is certain we can carry nothing out let us not vainly deceive our selves with the Rich Man in the Gospel who said to his Soul Soul thou hast much goods laid up for many years Luke 12.19 take thine ease Eat Drink and be Merry least we hear from God the same Sentence as he did Thou fool vers 20. this night shall thy Soul be required of thee then whose shall those things be which thou hast provided Let us therefore always remember the Apostles Advice â— Tim. 6.8 if we have food and raiment let us be therewith content Puer fui nunc sum 〈◊〉 Ope destitutum 〈…〉 Videre memini 〈…〉 Ejus petentes libeâ—â—â— Buchauan Ps 37.25 And that of the Psalmist I have been young and now am old yet have I not seen the Righteous forsaken nor his Seed begging Bread Remember also our Lords Counsel seek ye first the Kingdom of God Mat. 6.33 and his Righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you No Man can serve two Masters God and Mammon Did we but throughly consider how much trouble and danger and evil too Riches bring with them we should not so greedily covet after them The love and desire of Mony is more vexatious than the use thereof can be either pleasing or profitable Riches are never got without trouble and seldom without sinning against and offending God they are never kept without Care nor lost without Sorrow What good hath the Richest Man in the World from all this Treasures more than this that he may live upon them And since our lives are so very short what need is there for Hoarding up for so many years At the end of our Lives the condition of him that hath possessed but little will not be worse but better than his that hath possessed much for he hath had less trouble whilst he liv'd and hath a less account to give up when he is dead what then O Man do those things profit thee which are good for nothing after thou art dead Nor is there any need to scrape together a great deal of wealth that we may leave an Estate to our Children and Heirs this indeed seems plausible and hath deceiv'd many But who knows what our Heirs shall be whether thankful or ungrateful And it is certain that great Riches left to Children do more often prove the incitements and occasions of Wickedness than of Virtue If any one diligently examined what daily happens in the World he would find that very many poor Mens Children did raise themselves to Wealth and Eminency and on the contrary many Rich Mens Children did prodigally spend the Estates left them by their Parents and became miserably poor In short therefore godliness with contentment is great gain Another Vice the Christian is to Arm himself against is Luxury Now to extinguish these exorbitant and unruly
nor any other worldly thing can any longer please or entice them And as nothing is more profitable for us than the daily meditation of death so on the contrary nothing is more hurtful than our forgetfulness of it and yet this is very common with the rich Men and great Ones of this World who as if they were to live the age of Methusalah lay up Provisions for many years continuance here and in the mean time think little or nothing of the life to come and so when they fancy they have attained to the top of their desires on a sudden with the rich Man in the Gospel they are forced to depart out of this life and too often descend into eternal destruction and forasmuch as the Devil well knows that nothing more powerfully excites men to holiness or better secures their souls from his snares than the meditation of death he therefore employs his greatest care and diligence to put these thoughts out of mens minds which if he can but obtain he easily gets every thing else he has a mind to and takes men captive at his will It is a sign of a mind altogether deprav'd and out of order which doth not care to hear Discourses and Conferences of Death which is sad and uneasie at the thoughts of it and therefore strives to divert it self with witty sayings and merriment with full bowls and all kinds of delight and pastime But on the contrary he who is in favour with God whose Soul is not plunged in sensual pleasures it is his delight to think often and to discourse of death for he knows 't is the only necessary way to everlasting bliss Secondly Towards our preparation for death we are to consider the shortness of our lives for how little time doth God allow us to live here many Infants expire at their very entrance in to life some die in their Childhood others in their Youth fewer arrive to their middle age but very few attain to old age from hence it is that in Holy Scripture our life is compar'd to those things that are most frail and momentary as the trace of a cloud a mist a spark Wisd 2. Job 14.2 Psal 90. Job 5.6.9 a shadow a flower a weavers shuttle a post a swift ship and an eagle that hasteth to his prey This also the Heathen declar'd and therefore Pindar call'd man the dream of a shadow Aeschylus the shadow of smoke M. Varro a bubble and with good reason are these names attributed to man for we die daily and some part of our lives are every day taken from us our whole state is nothing else but a journey a race to death And then Thirdly Consider that in this short life the time of death is uncertain for tho' it is appointed for all to die yet the hour of death is unknown some die in their Infancy some in their Youth and some in their old Age whilst others are overtaken by an unexpected death so that no one can assure himself of to morrow neither is the place or manner of our death known to us which is daily confirm'd to us by the dead Corpses we see carried by For all that die do not keep their Beds afflicted by a long continued sickness for some are taken away suddenly or in a moment lose their Senses by Appoplexies others are choak'd by violent Catarrhs some are kill'd by falls some by the ruins of Houses whilst others are trod under feet by Horses some are drowned in the Water and others are struck with Lightning whilst others unexpectedly fall into the hands of Thieves and Enemies and come to an untimely end which they never were afraid of Now what happens to one may happen to all and what may happen to all every one ought to expect may happen to them For man also knoweth not his time Eccles 9.12 as the fishes that are taken in an evil net and as the birds that are caught in the snare so are the sons of men snared in an evil time when it falleth suddenly upon them being then men we ought to think that whatever is common to man and does sometimes happen to others may also befal us Now hereby we are admonish'd to be every minute ready and prepar'd for death For God was pleased to let us be ignorant of the time of our death that the uncertainty thereof might be a means of exciting in us a constant practice of vertue and avoiding of sin and a perpetual care and endeavour to secure our eternal wellfare for how dangerous is it to live in such a condition that if a sudden death should surprize us unawares our salvation is utterly to be despair'd of and who can ascertain us that at the end of our lives when death comes on us like an armed man we shall be in so good a disposition as to be able to bewail our sins and implore the grace and mercy of God Indeed were we permitted to die often and return again to life their rashness and security were excusable who so seldom think of death but since 't is appointed unto all men but once to die and that there is no leading of our lives over again 't is manifest what great danger they run whom death overtakes before they are provided for it since it for ever takes away from them all hopes of salvation Let us then be always prepared for death let us fly from sin and not defer our repentance let us not cherish anger and revenge evil affections and a fond desire of living long in this World but let us account every day to be our last and when we go to sleep let us so demean our selves as if we were never to arise again from our beds and when we arise in the morning let us so spend every hour of the day as if we were never to lie down in our beds again let us so use the good things of this World as if we were to leave them every moment let us not vainly promise our selves along continuance here with that rich man in the Gospel who said unto his Soul Luk. 12.19 Soul thou hast much goods laid up for many years take thine ease eat drink and be merry whereas that very night his Soul was required of him but let us daily pray with holy David Ps 39.5 Lord let me know my end and the number of my days that I may be certified how long I have to live and let us not neglact that wholsom Admonition of our Saviour who saith Mat. 24.46 Vsque ad fin Blessed is that Servant whom his Lord when he cometh shall find watching Verily I say unto you that he shall make him Ruler over all his Goods But and if that Evil Servant shall say in his Heart My Lord delayeth his coming and shall begin to smite his fellow Servants and to eat and drink with the Drunken The Lord of that Servant shall come in a day when he looketh not for
out all my transgressions O Lord rebuke me not in thine anger neither chasten me in thy hot displeasure If I consider what I have done what I suffer is not so much what I have committed is grievous what I suffer is but light righteous art thou O Lord and upright are thy judgments O Lord deal not with me after my sins neither reward me after mine iniquities but according to the multitude of thy mercies think thou vpon me O Lord for thy goodness Thou God art my strength and the horn of my Salvation thou makest sore and bindest up thou woundest and thy hand make whole thou killest and makest alive thou bringest down to the Grave and bringest up if therefore thou pleasest to permit my Soul to remain any longer in this Earthly Tabernacle for thy Glory and Service O Lord help thy afflicted Servant and give me patience But if thou seest it fit to take away my Life thy Will be done and let thy Servant depart in peace Protect me against all the temptations and assaults of Satan with the Shield of thy mercy Grant that my faith may not fail me nor my hope be shaken nor the weakness of my Nature be cast down by the terrours of Death but after my Eyes are dim my Tongue faulters and my senses have lost their power and faculties grant that my Mind and Soul may be continually fix'd on thee and by the Assistance of thy Holy Spirit may be firmly united to thee and with my last breath I may commend my Soul into thy hands O Lord who livest and reignest for ever and ever Amen II. Blessed Lord forasmuch as I must bid farewel to this World I commend unto Thee all mine Thou who relievest the Fatherless and the Widow be their Father and Protector It is not for me to intermeddle with what is thy prerogative but give me Grace to use all Diligence to make my own calling and election sure before I go hence and be no more seen All my other care I cast upon Thee Be thou pleas'd to provide for all mine Bless them O Lord and replenish their hearts with a godly fear and love of thy holy Name Give them health of body soundness of mind and all good things which thou seest fit for them Keep from them all such things as may alienate their minds from Thee or any ways hinder them from the profession of a true faith or the practice of a Holy Life III. O Eternal Lord I now see all things in the World leave me but do not thou forsake me O my God In thee is my trust leave not my Soul destitute I flee unto thee for succour Make hast to help me O Lord my Salvation O my God be not far from me in this my last hour I confess indeed I am not worthy to be called thy Son or even the meanest of thy Servants but I cast my self at thy feet and fall down before thy Throne of Grace O deal with me according the multitude of thy mercies and enter not into judgment with thy Servant I do not hide my transgressions from thee but humbly confess them before thy Divine Majesty but according to thy mercy remember thou me for thy goodness sake O Lord look upon my affliction and pain and forgive all my sins for the merits and Death of our Lord Jesus Christ Cast me not away from thy thy presence since thou hast redeemed me with the blood of thy Son O keep my Soul and deliver me let me not be ashamed for I put my trust in thee O dear Jesu thou art my Redeemer and my Saviour thou hast overcome the World Sin and Hell it self that they can do me no harm Lord I come unto thee do not reject me O do not leave me in this my hour of Death Into thy hands I commend my Spirit Lord Jesus receive my Spirit Amen Amen O Man remember Death and Eternity and whilst you live here consider where after Death you are to live for ever and ever FINIS Books Printed for and are to be Sold by Sam. Keble at the Great Turks-head in Fleet street MONASTICON ANGLICANUM Or the History of the Ancient Abbies and other Monasteries Hospitals Cathedral and Collegiate Churches in England and Wales with divers French Irish and Scotch Monasteries formerly relating to England Collected and Published in Latin by Sir William Dugdale Knt. late Gartor King of Arms in Three Volums and now epitomiz'd in English Page by Page price 10 s. The Historical Parts of the Old and New Testament in Verse with One Hundred and Twenty Cuts being the best use of Poetry and Sculpture 12o. price 2 s. EPICTETI Enchiridion Or the most Excellent Morals of Epictetus Made English in a Poetical Paraphrase By Ellis Walker M. A. A Collection of Private Forms of Prayers for Morning Noon and Night and other special Occasions by the Author of the Weeks Preparation to the Sacrament Degrees of Marriage that which is ordered to be had in all Churches