on the one hand when the Lord is silent or when the prayers of the Saints take not according to the desires of the Saints they observe it and acknowledge it as the Prophet Lament 3. 8. perceiveth that the Lord giveth not such gracious entrance and entertainement to his and the Churches prayers And Psal 80. 4 they observe the frowns of the Lord notwithstanding their prayers And Isai 26. 16 18 they observe that no such desired deliverances were wrought by their prayers On the other hand Paul he observeth how long the Lord was silent he kept true account how oft he sought God without answer given and then he mindeth the answer which at length was given 2 Cor. 12. 8 10. They that love the Lord Jesus their Spouse will look after their love-letters which they have sent and carefully attend and await the answer returned If our heavenly Father should by his spirit put the question in our hearts what we have done with our petitions where we have left them we may upon observation and knowledge answer that wee have left them in the hand of the Lord Jesus our elder Brother And if we be questioned how wee have disposed of our sacrifices we may confidently answer we have delivered them and left them in the hand of our blessed High-Priest and do await the successe 3 In a judicious eying examining and owning after gracious Items 3. In a judicious eying examining and owning of after Items or occurrents wherein an answer of our prayers is involved as in secret pacifying of the heart amidst his sad stormy griefe of spirit He thence gathered that the Lord had heard the voice of his weeping Psal 6 8 9. Hee observed that after he had prayed against his enemies plots and whispers they did not triumph in the attaining of their intended mischievous desires and gathers that the Lord did therefore hear his prayer Psal 41. 5 7 10 11. compared David observes the sweet quiet of spirit which he had after his prayer against the rage of his enemies and gathers thereby that the Lord hath heard him Psal 3. 1 4 5 6. Paul seeth and feeleth strength in and from the Lord against his temptations and gathereth therefore that God had heard his prayer against the same albeit the temptations were not removed 2 Cor. 12. 8 9. David being in a pit of feare and rescued and freed of his horrors and his spirit more established in the wayes of God he seeth that he waited not for his answer of prayer in vaine but that he got it at last Psalm 40. 1 2. he observeth how he is quickned and strengthned with the might of God in his spirit and by that perceiveth God had heard his cry Psal 138. 3 When before prayer he was as in outward distresse so in inward stresse and perplexity and after he had prayed he perceiveth how he is every way outwardly and inwardly enlarged he concludeth that the Lord hath heard him Psal 118. 5. and sundry other like instances might be given hereof As Lovers will be opening the boxes wherein are their Letters and reading as the superscription and direction on the outside so that which is written within so will the Saints be looking into the providences of God and see and hearken what they speak and what of Gods mind and grace in answer to their prayers they may perceive Or as Petitioners to earthly Lords will be enquiring of every one of his Attendants and Servants which comes from his presence after their Petitions have been carried unto them what the Lord saith touching their requests whether he hath read it how he accepteth it whether they bring not the answer thereof from him and the like So is it here Heavens Petitioners will be examining and enquiring into and of all after providences occurrent without them and motions made within What news from heaven 4 In a vigilant care to keep with us what 4. In a due care to keep the experimental successes of our prayers by us for our holy use answers and Trophees of prayer we have gained in safe custody and lively and fresh vigour sweetnesse and efficacy The Lovers of the Lord Jesus they wil keep such Love-letters and Answers by them and will ever and anon be reading them over with as much delight and content as at the first and haply at a second perusal and review they take notice of some precious pithy passages that at the first more cursory looking over they observed not and it may be at a third time still they perceive it breatheth more love and more in this or that pathetical expression then at a first yea or second view they were aware of Answers of prayer are like to friendly tokens of the Lords special love to them and how every vigilant friendly seeker of Jesus Christ he owning and looking over and over these bowed pieces of his coyn which at this or that time he hath sent them by such or such a good hand in such or such an Ordinance or Providence or work of his Grace How will they make conscience of keeping the love of the Lord Jesus ingraven upon their hearts if he was lately with them and spake kindly to them in prayer Oh how they will familiarize with him by reviewing and reviving and speaking over in their hearts his last expressions which he used a word spoken to them in mercy is carefully kept by them Luke 8. 15. incorporated into their very hearts James 1. 21 Hence also the Church who had so wished for Christs company Cant. 8. 1. O that thou wert as my brother c. verse 4. professeth her care to keep Christ with her and that nothing provoke him to be gone from her verse 4. I charge you O daughters of Jerusalem that you stir not up nor awake my Love til he please Paul long after that answer mentioned before 2 Cor. 12. 9. he kept the joy of it witnesse that joy of his in his tryals verse 10. Therefore I take pleasure in reproaches c. Reasons to move the godly thus to watch Reasons of watching after prayer 1. We are the Lords children subjects servants after prayer may be these 1. In that our condition is the condition of children subjects servants beggars and therefore we may well attend the good pleasure of our heavenly Father Lord and Master to give answer to our requests the poor are Expectants Psal 9. 18 David praying to the Lord as his King Psalm 5. 3. saith ver 3. He will look up Psal 123. 2. As the eyes of servants look unto their masters hand so our eyes wait upon the Lord c. 2. In that it is certain God will give an 2. It s certaine God will seasonably hear answer of grace to his Saints praiers albeit it may be long first yea in that the Lord oft-times deferreth his answers it the rather calleth for our waiting Habakkuk having praied against the Churches enemies chap. 1. 12 13.
Praier is when divers godly acquaintance of sundry families doe meet in some one family to pray and to edifie one another unto which such places look Mal. 3. 16. Jude 20. Col. 4. 12. James 5. 13 14 15 16. of which I might declare the manifold precious uses and benefits but I forbear that which we intend chiefly to speak to as our duty implicitely here injoined is not that which is Praier in the family but that which is properly oeconomical or Praier of the Christian family Eph. 6. 18. Pray with all Family prayer proved to be a duty Rom. 16. 3. 5. Col. 4. 15. manner of Prayer reacheth also this manner of Praier by the family Christian families are or should be Churches wherein the Master of the family should offer up acceptable Praiers and Praises to God Paul writing to Philemon in his Epistle verse 19. mentioneth not his Praier alone but others with him I trust through your prayers I shal be given to you ver 22. and ver 2. hee mentioneth the Church in his house Cornelius is commended for his prayer alwaies or upon all occasions Acts 10. 2. He prayed to God alway viz. as in his house alone so with his family hence such care had that the prayers of man and wife bee not hindred 1 Pet. 3. 7. meaning their joint praiers together in the family as well as those severally made in their closets Pour out thy wrath upon the families which call not on thy Name Jer. 10. 24. Which notion of families comprehendeth housholds as Joshuah 7. 14. The families shall come by housholds and a sad curse then is upon the houshold which are not conscionable of this duty of houshold or family praier God would have the houses of his people dedicated Deut. 20. 5. namely to holy uses and this of houshold prayer especially and Psalme 30. Title David therefore mentioneth the dedication of his house hence such care also in the godly Patriarchs in the removals of themselves and houshold still to be building Altars to call upon God so Abraham Gen. 12. 8. 13. 18. And thus did Isaak Gen. 26. 25. Thus did Jacob. Gen. 33. 20. and 35. 1. God chargeth Jacob to goe up to Bethel and there make an Altar to him and verse 2. 3. Jacob applyeth the charge to his houshold saying Let us arise and goe up to Bethel and as a godly man Jacob must pray alone and did Gen. 32. 25 26 27 28. with Hos 12. 3. 4. he made supplication but considered as a Master of a family it is not enough to send away his houshold over Jabbock and make supplication alone but he must pray and offer up sacrifice with his family yea in that sense Jacob rightly expoundeth the charge of God bidding him to arise and goe up to Bethel to refer to his houshold too let us goe up to Bethel Gen. 35. 1 3. compared his whole houshold wives children sojourners servants all must goe up to Bethel and joine in the worship none must be absent Reasons inforcing this duty 1. Because Gods promised actual respects Reasons why 1. From Gods acceptance acceptance of his peoples praiers indifinitely are extendable to his peoples praiers with the family as well as congregation or those in their closets while they speak there also he will heare Esay 65. 24. His eares are open to their cryes there also Psal 34. 11. Cornelius his prayers then also came up in remembrance before God Act. 10. 1 2 3 4. Paul is given to the prayers of Philemon and his houshold-Church Philem. 1 2 22. compar'd 2. Because the Lord poureth out a spirit of grace supplication to be exercised with the several housholds in their Tribes as well as alone by the husbands and wives apart Zach. Reas 2. From Gods fitting his Saints for that service 12. 11 12. They shall mourne in their prayers which with contrite hearts they poure out the families apart and their wives apart whether in an extraordinary way of prayer with fasting or in an ordinary 3. Because family occasions being also sanctified by prayer 1 Tim. 4. call for it as Saul with his militarie family would first Reas 3. seek God for good successe 1 Sam. 13. 11 From family occasion 12. So should the guides of other families before their families set about their occasions Yea family sins call for this plaister to be as large as the sore out of fear Job would sanctifie his family day by day when to go abroad a feasting Job 1. 5. Hee sent and sanctified them and rose up early in the morning and offered burnt offerings according to the number of them all for Job said it may be that my sonnes have sinned and cursed God in their hearts Thus did Job continually 4. Because family prayer is a special Reas 4. meanes to season the family with a religious fear and respect to God and his ways Act. 10 From family piety promoted 2. Cornelius a devout man and one that feared God with all his house he prayed to God alway Godly Onesiphorus house is a very seminarie to the Church He who is so much exercised this way hath a Church in his house as before shewed A godly praying Abraham the Master will come to have a gracious praying Eleazar the servant who is the fittest for choicest service Gen. 24. 12. 5. Family Praier is a special means to Reas 5. prevent family disorders and to keep every one therein in their station and duty When the Apostle Col. 3. 18 to Chap. 4. 1. had From family disorders prevented injoined husband wife father child Master and servants the several parts of the family their general duties he closeth all with this as an help and means to all the first Colos 4. 2. Continue in Prayer c. When each one in the family heareth their several sinnes confessed pardon thereof begged grace against them pleaded for it is a quickning admonition and help against them It helps to wean their hearts from inordinacies in matter of cares fears or desires the like respecting worldly matters or occasions Let your moderation appeare to all men Bee careful for nothing saith Paul Phil. 4. 5 6 But what meanes should wee use for that end In every thing by prayer make your request known to God ver 7. The peace of God shall guard your hearts and minds These are sacred fruits of prayer in the family as well as congregation or closet 6. Because servants Reas 6. usually want frequent opportunities of From want of opportunities to servants secret praier and this way by the advantage of family prayer they are much helped 7. Because Christ himselfe is a patterne Reas 7. herein of whom as we read that hee was From Christs example oft exercised in secret Praier alone So twice it is recorded of him as thus praying with his family privately or with his Disciples which ordinarily abode with him Luke
Trade God is rich in Mercy to all that call upon him in secret apart as wel as to others that pray together in Assemblies and Families Psal 86. 5. Gods Saints and Suppliants which often come alone to the door of Grace and most frequently doe thus knock by prayer speed best God alloweth them this private key that they may freely get in and take of all his precious Treasures of Grace as they need the same Knock and it shall be opened ask and it shall be given Matth. 7. Whatsoever ye ask the Father in my name I will do John 14. 13. be it publickly privately or secretly that you ask the same If others have not it is because they ask not 4 Prayer in secret by our selves as well It expediteth our other affairs as that with others it doth expedit our weightiest temporal affairs Jacob did more this way to issue his great affairs respecting his families welfare and safety when to meet his brother Esau with his warlike Troops then if he had an equal or greater warlike power or military skil to have managed the same Thou hast prevailed with God and with men thou shalt prevail Gen 32 82 c. it is the way to have the beauty or glorious blessing presence and protection of God upon us and the prospering of our handy work to set God thus on work for us by prayer whence it was that they of old were taught to pray for that end as Psalm 90. 17. Let thy beauty be upon us prosper thou the work of our hands This oyles the wheels for any work quickens and quieteth our spirits Philip. 4. 6 7. sanctifieth our works 1 Tim. 4. 4 5. If we can but pray well before hand we may be sure we shall study well or preach well or work well as our calling requireth yea and speed well afterward Some may object their condition as being Object 2 servants and so think themselves excused We are servants and exempted from this Duty of Closet Prayer The charge of the Text is indefinite not Answ 1 limited to any sort of persons no more This is the work of any servant of God as such than that verse 15. Render not evil for evil but ever follow that which is good or that verse 16. Rejoice evermore or that ver 18 In every thing give thanks c. in which godly servants also as well as others are concerned A godly servant considered as his Masters servant is faithfully to attend his Masters business but as he is the Lords servant so this is one part of his servantly businesse When David had said Psal 116 6. I am thy servant Lord thy servant c. verse 17. he addeth I will call upon the name of the Lord. 1 Cor. 1. 2. To them that are called to be Saints in Corinth with all such as call upon the Name of the Lord Jesus in every place that is the Saints character bee they of what calling or condition soever or where ever they call upon the Lord God is no respecter of persons every one who calleth him Father is to do this service and honour of a child to him Thou whoever thou art bond or free when thou prayest enter into thy closet or into some retired place and pray to thy Father which seeth in secret Matth. 6. 6. 2 Every one whether bond or free they have this part of the new man resembling Each Saint is this way gifted more or lesse Christ the Creator of it even this holy knowledg also Col. 3. 10 11. to know how to call upon God as a Father in secret as hee also did and to cry in solemne wise themselves alone Abba Father Gal. 4. 6. 3 Godly servants also who have the Godly servants also must bee Christs peculiar ones Grace of God which bringeth salvation appearing to them are as well as others to be peculiar ones unto the Lord zealous of all good works and so of this also wherein Gods choicest servants have been wont to be conscionably exercised Tit. 29 10 11 12 13 14. compared Other servants will go to praier with their Masters in publick and private yea but Godly ones must doe somewhat more they must improve their peculiar interests in the Lord in such a way of peculiar serving of him with their spirits 4 Bond as well as free being alike interested Their dignity is alike with others and so is this their duty in the dignity and priviledges of Saints as Saints Col. 3. 11. they are alike concerned in such Duties as these are which respect and lye upon the Saints as Saints in which respect also godly servants are the Lords freemen 1 Cor. 7. 22. they must not abridge themselves nor may be abridged by others of this liberty of retired repairs to the Throne of Grace as the Lord affordeth them opportunity To be meer servants of men so to attend their Masters commands as to neglect this or any other command of God they ought not verse 23. yea observe it that the Apostle speaketh of servants to infidel Masters also verse 21 22. Either then they must not pray at all which were to make them as profane as their infidel Masters which to them would bee matter of disdain or distaste or they must content themselves alone with publick prayer in the Congregation of Christians which none will affirm or they must as holy Priests to God offer as the Priests did theirs this holy Incense to God in a retired place from view of others Yea suppose forbidden by an Infidel Master to pray in secret yet they are no more to forbear then Daniel King Darius his servant did forbear it upon his Decree to inhibit the same Dan. 6. 10. 5 Be that child bond or free who prayeth Bond or free so praying are rewarded thus in secret and not before others to his Father he will reward him openly Matth. 6. 6. 6 Godly servants are to sanctifie their work by Prayer 1 Tim. 4. 4. Albeit Abraham Servants must sanctifie their work by prayer had prayed for his servants Eliczars good successe in his businesse about which he sent him Gen. 24. 7 8. yet Eliezar himself alone praieth for good successe that day ver 12. 7. The work which godly servants do Their work then speeds best sanctifie by prayer though more short is wont to speed best as did that business of Eliezar so sanctified Gen. 24. 12. as the issue declared And surely godly Masters which are to expresse special love to such servants will not refuse to encourage them to take some seasonable time to pray thus knowing how profitable such servants wil be to them Philem. 6 11. compared Some will object That they are apt to meet Object 3 with temptations when alone Tempted if alone 1. You may and will be annoyed with temptatious when not conscionably imploied Answ 1 in your general or particular callings as David No hurt by temptations if in Gods
so assured that another with whom we would pray is regenerrte and so a man must now turne an absolute separatist indeed As for other praiers which do more personally Praying by themselves also respect themselves and are uttered by themselves albeit the parties be unregenerate yet the Lord may heare the same the Lord as a Master grants the request of that hypocritical servant though not as a Father Matth. 18. 26 17. and verse 32. O thou wicked servant I forgave thee the debt because thou prayedst me c. So those rude They are then heard mariners crying in distresse are heard of the Lord. Psal 107. 28. So was mocking Ishmael heard in his cry Gen. 21. 17. God may and doth put forth wonderfull workes for persons which cry to him as they are the children of men albeit not as the children of God many of them Psal 107. 15 21 31. O that men would praise him for his wonderful works which he doth for the children of men Though those that sought him when hee slew them had not hearts right with God Psal 78. 34 36 37. compared yet he being full of compassion forgave their iniquity i. e. as to the punishment deserved by it even utter ruine he passed over that he destroyed them not utterly verse 38. God liketh also to owne the righteous causes even of unrighteous persons and to set himselfe against their affliction Job 34. 27 28. They have caused the cry of the poore to come to him and he hath heard their cry So Exod. 22. 22 23. Though many of the children of Abraham of Isaak and Jacob in Egypts bondage were themselves unregenerate yet they crying also were heard out of respect to their godly Ancestors and the covenant of God made with them Exod. 6. 5. I have heard the groanings of the children of Israel and have remembred my covenant Sometimes God heareth such persons prayers the rather that they may afterwards bee instruments of his peoples good and sometimes that he might the rather incourage all sorts to pray to him Psal 65. 2. O thou that hearest prayers to thee shall all flesh come Sometimes the persons at present unregenerate yet are elect and God in hearing them will look to his owne thoughts of prayer which hee hath towards them and so will be found of those which sought him not aright But in case the parties bee reprobates what hearing God doth afford to any prayers of theirs It is first in common things and such which at least are not properly In common not in things properly saving saving mercies unto them for so God heareth not sinners if any object that evil servants pardon granted upon his request Matth. 18. 32. I answer the Master forgave him the debt not simply but in respect of the consequent vassalage and imprisonment presently deserved by it Matth. 18. 25. or as some interpret the place to be spoken in reference onely to the maine intent of Christ that if a man forgive not his neighbour offending and begging his mercy God will never communicate to him any saving benefit of his mercy in Christ An implacable spirited Christian is at present in a state of damnation 2. The hearing which the Lord doth By God as a Master not as a Father lend to such is from his general providence and pity and rather as a Soveraigne and Master then from any particular grace and as a Father for so he heareth not sinners yea he heareth them rather to leave them without excuse and to take a fuller blow at them afterwards as in the case of that evill servant Matthew 18. the end 3. The Lord useth not to give any sutable They receive not Grace answerable grace as the success of their prayers so he heareth onely Saints and not sinners especially reprobates he changed not the servants heart with his condition Mat. 18. nor theirs Psal 78. 37 38 39. 4. God sometimes heareth them in They are heard in wrath displeasure and anger Hosea 13. 10 11. I gave them a king in mine anger Psal 106. 15. He gave them their desire but sent leannesse into their soule their soule is blasted they were hardned in pride and security thereby and the thing it selfe given is blasted to them in the use of it becoming a snare and vanity and in the deprivall of it vexation of spirit CHAP. II. Touching Distractions in Prayer VVE are now to proceed to other cases of Conscience arising in the incessant carrying on of the weighty duty of prayer The second case now to be handled is touching Distractions or Impertinent thoughts and workings of spirit which disturb and molest us in prayer wherein demand will be made of three things Touching 1 The Causes 2 The Cure Quest or remedy thereof 3 The successe of such prayers wherein such distractions are found Touching the first we say the causes General causes of distractions in prayer of such distractions are either such as are more generall or more particular The more general causes are two 1. Satan that enemy to prayer the Authour of all confusion and so of this confusion Satan of the spirit in prayer that fowle who stealeth away what is spoken to the heart by God in the word he is as busie to steal away the good motions of the spirit stirring us up to speak to God in prayer Satan is at hand to tempt when we are in hand with prayer If we will draw near to God in prayer we may expect the tempter to approach some way or other to disturb us by some sinister subtle suggestions or other Wee must resist the devil in such like distracting motions when we are drawing nigh to God Jam. 4. 7. Resist the devil and he will flee from you And verse 8. Draw near to God c. If wee will pray with all manner of prayer we had need be armed against such like wily assaults of Satan which tend to annoy us therin Eph. 6. 11 18. compared Look as Act. 16. 16 17 18. still when the Apostle and his company were to go to prayer the devil in his instrument the maid possessed maketh a disturbance with her impertinent speeches so is it here if the devil can help it some thing or other shall be set on work to breed distraction or occasion disturbance to us in prayer or he himselfe will be suggesting something to molest us 2. The unregenerate part of man When 2 The unregenerate part in man at any time we should doe any good whether it be to pray or the like evil will bee present with us as he complained Rom. 7. 21. When I would do good evil is present with me that sink of natural corruption will then especially cast out its unsavory smels when so raked into by holy humble acknowledgments and deprecations this dunghill will then be sending out his vapours even when the heart is heated and warmed in prayer by the spirit when a commanding power of
9. 18. As he was alone in a certaine place praying when he had done one of his Disciples said to him Lord teach us to pray c. It is a signe that his Disciples were with him then in private at his Praier and that his praying in such sort was a lively means to doe them more good and to quicken and enamour them with holy desires to pray in like sort Now let us proceed to consider of some cases and questions touching this Quest Who must pray in the family Quest 1 Answ The Master of the familo in special Who must pray in family It s the Masters duty wise Husbands must dwell with their wives as men of knowledge that their prayers be not hindred 1 Pet. 3. 2. Namely by any defects of theirs in the businesse of praying with them as well as otherwise for want of abilities that way Coloss 4. 1. The Apostle writing to Masters of their duty Coloss 4. 1. adjoineth in the next place as nextly concerning them as heads of the family Continue in prayer Onely Cornelius of all the house who feared God is mentioned as praying alwayes Acts 10. 2. If the rest feared God surely they prayed oft alone But in the family Cornelius himselfe was more constantly imployed as the mouth of the rest For indeed every gracious Master of a family is an holy Priest to God Revel 16. not as a gracious man only For he is or should be an holy Priest to offer for himselfe but as a gracious Master also in relation to his family to offer up sacrifice of praier and praise on their behalfe And the Priests of old as Masters of families had their offerings for themselves and families Levit. 21. 11. as well as officers to the Church they had their offerings for the Congregation verse 15. 2. In that prayer being one special part 2. To undertake in matters for God for the family of Gods service and worship a godly Master undertakes for himselfe and houshold to attend it Josh 24. 15. But as for me and my house wee will serve the Lord namely jointly as well as severally and so to pray together as well as asunder And if the Master be the chiefe undertaker that way it is fit he should be the chiefe actor in it 3. In that Masters of families ought to 3. He is to be a Prophet in his family teach their children diligently the word and precepts of God and speak of them in their house when they ly downe and when they rise up namely the first that they do dayly at morning and the last thing at evening Now if to be so in instructing their family then to be a praying too for a blessing on that and other exercises and endeavours Deut. 6. 7. Yea practically they will instruct them in obedience to the first and fift commandements when they give such good examples to their families of praying to the Lord with them and for them Abraham had both wayes instructed his family Gen. 18. 19. And so had Christ and John Baptist also their respective families Luke 11. 1 2. Teach us to pray as John taught his Disciples practically as well as doctrinally Quest May not yea must not the wife in some cases pray with the family Quest Answ Yes In case of absence or sickness In what cases the wife must pray in the family even in cases 1 Of husbands absence or sicknesse of her husband for she is to be a help like him Gen. 2. 18. Namely in all such communicable duties and services respecting the family So is the law of kindnesse to bee in the good wifes mouth to instruct them as occasion is offered Prov. 31 26. In which as in sundry other respects her husband may and must trust to her verse 11. If God call him from home hee hath a gracious wife to whom he can safely leave the trust of his family for matters of Religion such as family worship of God is as well as those of this life If that an adulterous wife can pretend this as a part of her religion that when the Goodman was not at home she had payed that day her vowes Prov. 7. 14. Godly Matrons should really make conscience of that which the other doth hypocritically pretend The godly wife will look well to the wayes of her houshold Prov. 31. 27. that they be well exercised this way as well as any other way The wife is compared to the Moon the husband to the Sun Gen. 37. 9. So Jacob and his family are represented Now the wife then as the Moon may and must chiefly give forth her spiritual light and influence in the family in the absence of her husband who is as the Sun thereto 2. In case of the unregeneracy and spiritual inabilities of the husband she is to supply his defects Quest Whether may not a godly servant performe this duty of prayer Quest 1 Answ Yes first in case of the absence or sicknesse of both the family guides A A godly servant may also do it in some cases godly Onesimus may this way amongst many others be profitable to his Master Philem. 11. Secondly in case of special praying abilities given such an one and denyed the guides of the family In this respect also such a servant may be owned and improved as a brother Philemon 16. This way also God may and often doth make such of his Saints a blessing to the places and houses where they are Ezek. 34. 26. Zach. 8. 13. Quest May not one not of the family bee occasionally desired to pray in it Quest 2 Answ Yes every ones spiritual gift being given of God with respect to others A godly stranger may do it in some cases good as well as their owne and members being to lend help to the rest as occasion is offered yea as Pauls and Cephas and Apollos gifts are the Saints to improve occasionally so are other gifts likewise Many were met together praying Acts 12. 12. Now one and then another of other Families prayed by course in Marks mothers Family Only as the Church in that case intimateth her case to those shee would have seek the Lord for her Cant. 5. 8 10. some hints would be given to such of some special things respecting the family which they should in prayer with them commend to the Lord. Who must be present at family prayer Quest with the Master thereof praying All the whole family must joyn with the All of the family should be present at praier Master of it as wife children servants or sojourners none should ordinarily be absent All Jacobs houshould were to join with him set themselves to worship God with him in Bethel Gen. 35. 1 2 3. only he is principally to act therein ver 3. Arise let us go up to Bethel and there I will build an Altar to the Lord c. Reasons hereof 1. From the care of all and each of their souls which lyeth
An unregenerate heart who of it selfe is averse from any way of God and would not be subject to the law of God would gladly have such a Tenent to hold up against God and his servants to excuse them from seeking unto God by prayer as not bound to do it Let us therefore give answer to the several branches of the case propounded and shew 1. That an unregenerate person Unregenerate Persons are bound to pray â—ecause is bound to pray 2. That such a one may be strangely carryed out in prayer 3. That God may heare and answer his prayer 1. Then that an unregenerate man is bound to pray is evident from this indefinite injunction Pray without ceasing whether regenerate or unregenerate The wicked man who Isai 55. 7. is charged to forsake his evil wayes and thoughts is first charged verse 6. to seek the Lord whilst he may be found to call upon him whilst he is near Psal 65. 2. All flesh shall come to thee whether they are good or bad persons For First it is a duty which lyeth upon 1 Prayer is natural worship required of all sorts in the first commandement all men as created and made by God It is a naturall worship It is that which the law of nature as well as that of the word of God doth put men upon Hence even the most Pagan people all doe call upon some God Jonah 1. 5. The mariners cryed every man to his God Isai 45. 20. They pray to a God that cannot save Among other things contained in the Law they do this also by nature Rom 2 14. If they omit calling upon God their naturall conscience will accuse them for it or if they do call upon God it will so far excuse them and incourage them in it v. 15. other naturall men which live under the light of the word if they neglect it they sin both against the light of nature and the light of the word of God Heathens and other naurallmen will be damned for this sin of not calling upon God Hence are they twice imprecated against as under that consideration of not ho nouring of God so of not calling upon him as highly sinning in the one as well as in the other Psal 79. 6. and Jer. 10. 25. Powre out thy wrath upon the Heathen that know thee not and the Families that call not on thy Name Unregenerate persons as well as others are bound by the first commandement to have no other Gods but God and therefore bound to worship the Lord onely and no other God but him alone and therefore to love him and no other God to fear him and no other God to trust in him and no other God to pray to him and no other God beside him c. as they are bound to make no graven images of God to worship the true God onely with his owne instituted worship and not any other of mens inventing and as they are likewise bound not to take Gods name in vain c. 2. Prayer is a meanes ordered by the Lord even for the obtaining of regenerating 2 It is an instituted means of Grace and Blessing to them grace Ezek. 36. 26. A new heart wil I give you c. compare this with verse 27. Thus saith the Lord I will yet for this be sought or inquired of by the house of Israel to doe it for them God will give even first grace in the use of his own appointed meanes and that is in a way of seeking for it Hence also God owneth this as his own appointed meanes for obtaining other blessings of his as deliverance from dangers supplies of wants and the like albeit the persons which pray are unregenerate So when Sea-men of all sorts whether ungodly or godly are in stormes and dangers they cry unto the Lord in their trouble and he bringeth them out of their distresse Psalm 107. 23. 28. If it were simply sinful in them being unregenerate to cry and pray to God he would never thus incourage them or others in their case to cry then unto him 2 Chron. 26 5. Vzziah sought God in the dayes of Zechariah and when he sought the Lord God made him for to prosper if he had been downright godly he had sought God all his dayes yet though an hypocrite so unregenerate as long as he doth that which is for the matter of it right in Gods sight ver 4. which is expounded ver 5. He sought God God prospereth him Vzziah did what was right in Gods sight as Amaziah his father did which was not with a perfect heart for the manner of doing it 2 Chron. 25. 2. yet seeking of God even by such a one whose heart is not perfect with God is in it self considered that which is right in Gods sight and a due and direct means to prosper in what such a one taketh in hand Exod. 22. 27. When he So Exod. 21. 22. 23. Deut. 15. 9 24. 15 cryeth unto me namely as one oppressed as one in necessity be he who he will be Regenerate or Unregenerate I will hear him for I am merciful That scoffing lad Ishmael was an Unregenerate person yet when in distresse and crying to God Gen. 21. 17. Fear not saith the Angel to Hagar his mother for God hath heard the voice of the lad where he is if it had been simply sinful and that which Ishmael ought not to have done the Angel would never have encouraged Hagar from such an Argument as Gods hearing Ishmaels cry 3 God may and doth bestow praying abilities 3. God may doth give them praying abilities to be improved upon Unregenerate persons Hee giveth to some the gift of prayer to whom he never vouchsafeth the spirit of prayer The gift of prayer is as common to hypocrites as the gift of Prophesie Not every one that saith to me Lord Lord is large and earnest in prayer to me shall enter into heaven Matth. 7. Unregenerate Ministers Magistrates Parents Masters Tutors may have such a gift of Prayer by the use whereof others may be instructed helped and encouraged in a way of Prayer yea in a right way of prayer and if he give such a gift surely he requireth the use of it That slothful servant albeit a Reprobate yet having such a like gift and Talent he is damned for not improving it Matth. 25. 30. 4 That practice or religious performance 4. The omission and neglect thereof is charged on them as their sin must needs be a Duty even of unregenerate persons the omission or neglect whereof is charged by the Lord upon them for their sin for if it were not an Anomy or Transgression of some rule of God it could not be sin but the omission or neglect of prayer or calling upon God even by Unregenerate persons is charged upon them by God as their sin therefore the performance of that service of calling upon God was their Duty The Assumption is evident when the Apostle would prove