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A67549 The chiefest divine vertues epitomized, or, A compendious treatise of the three theological graces, faith, hope, and charity by Richard Ward ... Ward, Richard, 1601 or 2-1684. 1655 (1655) Wing W802; ESTC R12309 115,178 272

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men and that either with an evil or a good love First sometimes men love men with an evil love this love is fourfold I. Inconstant when for the smallest offence committed or but supposed to be done extream love is changed into extream hate Eusenides talking privately with the Philosopher Cuspides asked him If he were not so happy as that nothing could be added to his felicity seeing he was above all others most favoured and honoured by Ptolomy the King To whom Cuspides answered How soon can Fortune tumble thee down and then how miserable a thing will it be to have been happy Shortly after this discourse Ptolomy found Eusenides his great Favorite and one of his Concubines whom most dearly he loved talking privately together whereat he was so incensed that he made her stra●ght drink a cup of poyson and caused him to be hanged before his own gates And II. This evil love is immoderate inordinate and most lewd Adrian the Emperor so doted on the love of Antinous a beautiful young man that he dedicated a Temple to him at Mantinea and a City at Nilus Pausanius Too too many with a Sodomitical affection have loved and lusted after some Gen. 19. and III. This evil love of men to men is Sensual called Amor concupiscentiae which is this when we love our neighbour for our own profit and commodity onely as Laban loved Jacob onely for his own ends and as subjects sometimes love their Princes for their own advantage and advancement And IV. This evil love is most wicked and diabolical when men love such as themselves because they are wicked Psal 50 18. Suetonius tells us that Caligula the Emperour did deeply love Marcus Lepidus and Marcus Nestor the Buffoon onely for the commerce of mutual alternate brothelry or because they would accompany him to the stews Secondly sometimes men love men with a good lawful and laudable love this love is sixfold viz. I. Natural that is of Parents to children of children to Parents and of kinsmen to kinsmen Gen. 22. ● 25.28.37.3 And II. Oeconomical viz. of husbands to wives of wives to husbands of masters to servants and of servants to masters Genes 29.18.20.30 2 Chon 11.21 Prov. 5.19 Eccles 9 9. and III. Political when a man lives peaceably and quietly in a Commonwealth not having suits contentions or jars with any And IV. Reciprocal when one neighbour or friend loves another because he is beloved of him Exod. 21.6 1 Kings 5 1. It was said of Socrates that all who knew him loved him and the reason why any loved him not was onely because they did not know him he was so loving to all he knew And V. Moral which is an intimate entire and cordial love and is for the most part between two as Jonathan and David 1 Sam. 18.1 2 Sam. 1.26 Pylade● and Orestes Damon and Pythias Scipio and Laelius and Severus and Pertinax for such was the love of Severus the Emperor to Pertinax whom Iulianus slew that he commanded that all should call him Pertinax Entropius And VI. Spiritual and Supernatural vvhich is called Amor amicitiae love of friendship and is this When vve love either our neighbour chiefly for his ovvn good or our neighbour or our enemy for Gods sake This love I call spiritual because although the object of this love be our neighbour yet the reason why we love him is God THIRDLY men love women and that either with an evil or a good love First sometimes men love women with an evil love This is twofold I. Inconstant thus Demaphon was false to Phillis Aeneas to Dido Jason to Medaea Paris to Oenone And II. Immoderate inordinate lascivious and lustful Gen. 34.12 Colos 3.5 Militat omnis amans habet sua castra Cupido This love is a wanton war under Cupids colours Turinge had so many lovers that she could not reckon them upon her fingers ends but called for a bushel of pease to tell them by Aurelius Alexander for the love he bare to that famous for beauty infamous for lewdness harlot Thais caused that most renowned and rich City Persepolis to be burned Cataline for the love of Orestista killed his own son because she would not joyn in marriage with him while his son lived Salust From this lascivious and inordinate love came that proverb Wisdom and love never go together Secondly sometimes men love women with a good love this is I. Moral when 1. He who marries is as though he married not in regard of the moderation of his affection 1 Cor. 7.30 31. and. 2. When the husband is constant in his love to his loyal wife And II. Natural or Conjugal when men love women in the way of marriage Two things are here observable the kinds and causes of this love First this love s threefold for 1. Some love for vertue 2. Some for beauty And 3. Some for both loving dainty meat in a neat dish Secondly the causes of this Natural or Conjugal love are Sight and Suitableness I. Sight for looking is the cause of loving and a curious observation the rice of affection Etrasco the Roman and Verona being both born dumb by beholding one another were so taken with one anothers love that it continued full thirty years before they were joyned in marriage and of them descended the noble linage of the Scipio's Aurelius II. Suitableness of disposition Likeness is the cause of liking For as between the similitude of manners there is a friendship in every respect absolute so in the composition of the body or likeness of disposition there is a certain love engen dred both the bodies resembling each other as woven both in one loom FOURTHLY women love women and that sometimes with an evil and inconstant love and sometimes with a good and constant affection FIFTHLY women love men and that either with an evil or good love First sometimes women love men with a good and constant love as Charites loved her husband Expolemus Cornelia Gracchus Julia Pompey Artimesia Mausolus Panthea Abradatus Portia Brutus Alceste Admetus Penelope Vlysses Sulpitia Lentulus Hipparchia Crates and Macrina Torquatus Secondly sometimes women love men with an evil love this love is either I. Inconstant when women like to the Polipe stone change colour every hour or like the Weather-cock waver with every wind or like the Marigold change with the Sun This inconstant love proceedeth often from sudden choice for we account those Damosel● too light of love who betroath themselves upon the first sight and motion because as the ratling thunderbolt hath but his clap the lightning but his flash the baven but his blaze so hot love begun in a moment endeth in a minute Scalding water if it stand a while turneth almost to ice and Pepper though it be hot in the mouth is cold in the maw so hot love is soon cold and that affection which frieth in words commonly freezeth in works And II. The evil love of women to men is sometimes meerly feigned and
20.20 or II. Particular persons these benefits effects and fruits are either Negative or Affirmative I. The Negative Benefits of faith are I. If we believe we shall never die Iohn 11.26 And 2. We shall abide no longer in darkness and ignorance Iohn 12.46 There is no darkness so desolate no cross so cutting but the splendor of a sound faith and clear conscience is able to enlighten and mollifie Faith helps unto knowledge and understanding and thereby expels blindness As we cannot live without the elements so we cannot attain unto knowledge without faith Clem. Alex. As a child who learneth his first elements ought to believe what his Master teacheth him and not to ask the reason why this letter is called A and that B so in the mysteries of Faith we must not ask the reason how this may be or that may be but we must give absolute credit to the Scriptures believing them to be infallibly true without any errrour falshood or contradiction for if we thus believe it will make us more diligent in the study of the word and consequently will be beneficial unto us for the expelling of ignorance and gaining of knowledge Noli intelligere ut credas sed crede ut intelligas intellectus merces fidei est August in Johan Although there be nothing true in Religion which is contrary to reason yet because there are many things to be believed which are above reasons reach therefore the word is first to be believed and then to be learnt 3. Faith expels fear or if we believe we need not fear enemies or evils as Mark 5.36 Luke 8.50 And 4. We shall not finally or totally be subdued or overcome by Sathan or our spiritual enemies faith being the best armour against Sathan and all his temptations Eph. 6.16 1 Pet. 5.9 In India there is a little beast called Quil or Quirpele which by nature is so great an enemy to Snakes that whensoever or wheresoever she finds any she fights with them and being stung or poysoned by them she presently eats some Palo de Cebra or Snake-wood whereby she is instantly cured and healed Faith is like this herb for when we are soiled or wounded by Sathan we are cured and recovered by faith in the merits of Christ Fide armatus difficilia quaeque potest Tindal hearing of a Conjurer in the Low-Countries who could by his conjurations fetch any dainty dishes from any Princes table in the world and therewith would welcome his friends whom he invited to feast with him Tindal resolved to go to see him do this act and coming unto him set himself to believe the contrary and by faithful inward supplication besought the Lord to restrain the devils Power for the convincing confounding and amazing of his servant the Conjurer who was notwithstanding all his endeavours so hindred by the faith and prayer of Mr. Tindal in his conjurations that he cryed out and said I cannot do it there sits the man who hinders me and holds my hands thus powerful and prevalant is faith against Sathan and all his devices And 5. Faith makes us that we need not be ashamed Rom. 9.33.10.11 1 Pet. 2.6 Thus we see the Negative Benefits c. of faith II. There are Affirmative fruits Benefits and Effects of faith which are of four sorts either Mixtly temporal and spiritual or meerly Temporal or meerly Spiritual or Eternal First Some Fruits Benefits c. of faith are Mixtly temporal and spiritual I. If we believe our prayers shall be heard and our requests granted whether they be for temporal or spiritual mercies Math. 21.22 And II. Faith preserves us from persecution or from the evil thereof For as a garment touched with the stone Amiathon doth resist fire and if it be hung over the fire will not burn but become brighter as Isidor reports so the soul being endued with faith doth so resist the heat of persecution that the body is so insensible of pain that they can sing in th● midst of the flames and the soul thereby becomes sooner more glorious and more happy III. Faith apprehends applies and lays hold upon all the Promises of the word whether they concern this life or the life to come 1 Tim. 4.8 Secondly Some Benefits Fruits c. of faith are meerly Temporal for by faith we lay hold upon all the Promises which concern Protection and Providence yea the blessedness of us and ours both in regard of our bodies estates and good names Levit. ●6 Deut. 28. Note here that faith in temporal things is not litterally certain and sure for it doth not assure us that that very individual and numerical blessing which we want and desire shall be bestowed upon us but that whatsoever blessing may be for our good and for Gods glory he will not in his due time with-hold from us A most full and clear testimony of faith in temporal things is laid down Dan. 3 17. We know that our God is able to deliver us but if not we are ready to suffer for him Where they express and imply four things I. That God is able to deliver them II. That whether he will or not they know not because neither love nor hatred is known by any external deliverance or mercy III. That if the Lord did not deliver them from the fire he would enable them to endure the heat thereof And IV. That howsoever the Lord dealt with them in temporal things yet they would not deny him nor turn aside from him to worship an Idol And thus faith doth assure every true Believer 1. That the Lord is able to deliver him from all evil and to give him any good thing But 2. Faith doth not assure him that God will answer his desires or necessities in outward things But 3. That what the Lords sees to be fit and necessary for him he will give him in his appointed time And 4. That the Lord will either give him what he desires and wants or give him a heart to rest contented without it And 5. That howsoever the Lord deals with him or whatsoever his lot and portion be in outward things yet he will cleave close unto God in confidence dependance adherence and holy obedience Thirdly Some Benefits Fruits c. of faith are meerly Spiritual as I. If we believe in Christ we shall be beloved of him 1 Tim. 6.2 And II. We shall be added unto the Lord Act. 5.14 And III. We shall be abundantly endued with all spiritual graces John 7.38 And IV. We shall receive remission of our sins Acts 10 43. And V. If we believe the preaching of the Gospel will be the mighty power of God unto salvation unto us Rom. 1.16 Heb. 4.2 And VI. We shall be sealed by the Spirit of promise Eph. 1.13 And. VII We shall be justified by Christ Rom. 3.26 And VIII Christ will be the end of the Law for righteousness unto us Rom. 10.4 And IX By faith we overcome the world 1 Joh. 5.5 And X. Thereby our
darkness without the Sun so the life of man is not vital or a living life without love And. 15. It is the best of Vertues Irenaeus calleth love l. 4. c. 63. Eminentissimum charismatum the most eminent of all the gifts of God Geminianus saith As gold excelleth all other mettals so love excelleth all other virtues whether theological or moral God is love what is then more precious He who dwelleth in love dwelleth in God what is more secure and God in him what is more delectable As the whole life of the body proceedeth from the soul so the whole dignity and worth of all external vertues proceed from the internal but especially from Love 16. Love is constant and perpetual Prov. 17.17 17. The nature of Love is to communicate and impart the secrets of our hearts to those whom we love Judg. 16.15 To conclude this question concerning the Nature and Excellency of Love and Charity Love in adversity is patient in prosperity temperate in passions strong in good works quick in temptations secure in hospitality bountiful amongst her true children joyful amongst her false friends forbearing Love in the midst of injuries is secure in heart bountiful in displeasures meek in concealing evils innocent in truth quiet at others misfortunes sad in vertues joyful Love in adversity fainteth not because it is patient and revengeth not injuries because it is bountiful Qu. 22. Whether is desire or love stronger Answ Love is stronger then desire because quiet and rest in the end or in the enjoyment of the good willed or wished is more and greater then the motion to the end for the motion to the end is not but for the quiet in the end and Propter quod unumquodque est tale id ipsum est magis tale he who loves the master for his childs sake doth love the child more then the master Because this Maxime or Axiom is often made use of I will therefore shew how it is to be understood viz. that four conditions be kept carefully in memory for the truth thereof I. That the praedicate or attribute be common both to the cause and to the effect and therefore it follows not Men are drunk for wine therefore wine is more drunk II. That the praedicate or attribute be capable of Magis and Minus more and less therefore it follows not The son is a man for the father therefore the father is the more man III. That the attribute be divers in number both in cause and effect wherefore it follows not Man sees for the eye therefore the eye sees more then man or Man is learned for man therefore the mind of man is more learned then man IV. That the attribute do agree with the effect by a dependance from the cause insomuch as if it be not in the cause it will not be in the effect wherefore it foll●ws not The schollar is learned for his master therefore the master is more learned and the greater schollar Qu ●3 Whether is Love or Hatred stronger Answ Love because love is of that which is good hatred of that which is evil and good is stronger then evil because evil acts not but under the notion or in the power of good or something which seems to be such yea hatred comes from some kind of love Qu. 24. Whether is Dilectio or Amor stronger Answ Because we want words in our English Tongue to express these two I must be forced to answer the question thus Amor dilectione fortior ista enim in judicio solo ille in appetitu Qu. 25. Whether is Love or Knowledge better Answ Love is more excellent then Knowledge I. Because knowledge cannot effect that good and evil which love doth effect II. Because to love is of more worth then to know III. Because we enjoy God more by love then by knowledge And IV. Because we depend more upon God by love then by knowledge Qu. 26. What things do men love sometimes which they should not love at all Answ 1. Some love preheminence over their brethren 3 John 9. and highest places Mat. 23.6 Mark 12.38 And 2. Some negligence in those places wherein God hath set them Isa 56.10 3. Some idolatry and idols Isa 57.8 Jer. 3.1.8.2 Ezek. 16.37 4. Some love cursing Psalm 109.12 And 5. Some adultery and whoredom Prov. 7.18 And 6. Some transgression and strife Prov. 17.19 7. Some evil more then good Psalm 52. 8. Some lying more then truth Psal 52 5. Apoc. 22.15 9. Some love bribery Isa 1.23 Hosea 4.18 9.1 10. Some cruel and crafty words Psalm 52.4 11. Some pleasure more then God 2. Tim. 3.4 12. Some oppression Hosea 12.7 13. Some to have the Prophets prophesie falsely Jer. 5.31 14. Some love vanity Psalm 4.2 and 15. Some simplicity and folly Prov. 1.22 16. Some sleepiness and idleness Prov. 20.13 17. Some pleasure and wine Prov. 21.17 18. Some to wander Jer. 14.10 19. Some darkness more then light John 3.19 And 20. Some hypocrisie Mat. 6.5 21. Some perjury Zach. 8.17 and 22. Some love the world and the things therein Mat. 6.24 Eccles 5.10 1 John 2.15 Now the reasons why we should not love the world are I. Because the love thereof cannot satisfie our souls or the desires of our hearts Eccles 5.10 II. Because it hinders us from loving of God 1 John 2.15 16. III. Because it makes us the enemies of God Mat. 6.24 James 4.4 IV. Because it makes men apostatize from Christ 2 Tim. 4.10 V. Because it is the root of all evil 1 Tim. 6.10 Qu. 27. What do men love which they may as a natural or moral duty Answ 1. Some love some sort of meat Genes 27.4 And 2. Some long life Psalm 34.12 1 Pet. 3.10 And 3. Some hospitality Tit. 1.8 Qu. 28. What is required of us in regard of those things which naturally we do and may love Answ Not to love them inordinately that is I. Not to love fathers mothers husbands wives or children more then Christ Matth. 10.37 II. Not to love our lives more then Christ John 12.25 Apoc. 12.11 Qu. 29. What things do men love which they ought to love as a Theological duty Answ 1. Heavenly things that is both spiritual graces which come down from heaven and heavenly glory which abides in heaven Colos 3.1 2. 2. The statutes commandments and word of God Psalm 119.119 127 140 167. 3. The appearing of the Lord in his second coming 2 Tim. 4.8 4. The house of God 1 Chron. 29.3 5. Every thing which is good Amos 5.15 Galat. 4.18 6. Instruction and knowledge Prov. 12.1 7. Their own souls Prov. 19.8 8. Purity of heart Prov. 22.11 9. Truth and peace Zach. 8.19 10. Wisdom Prov. 4.6.8.17.29.3 Now we must love wisdom for these reasons I. Because then Wisdom will love us Prov. 8.17 II. Because then we shall be blessed in outward things Prov. 8.21 III. Because otherwise we love death Prov. 8.36 Qu. 30. Whom do not wicked men love Answ 1. Not the Lord Iob
21.14 2. Not the righteous Iohn 15.16 3. Not those who rebuke them Prov. 15.12 Qu 31. Whom do men love which they should not Answ 1. Some love their enemies more then their friends 2 Sam. 19.6 2. Some inordinately love themselves 2 Tim. 3.2 3. Some love women lustfully whom they will not marry lawfully 2 Sam. 13.4 although this marriage had not been truly lawful 4. Some love those whom God hath forbidden them to love 1 Kings 11.2 2 Chron. 19.2 5. Some love strangers i e. idolaters Ierem. 2.25 Qu. 32. Whom do men love which they may out of a natural or with a moral love Answ 1. Some love strangers Deuter. 10.18 19. 2. Some love those who are under their charge 2 Cor. 7.3 Phil. 4.1 3. Some love their neighbours and acquaintance 1 Kings 5.1 4. Some men love their wives 1 Sam. 1.5 Hest 2 17. Prov. 5.19 Ephes 4.26 Colos 3.19 Note here two things viz. First why husbands must love their wives viz. I. Because wives should be as dear unto their husbands as the Church is unto Christ Ephes 5.25 II. Because in loving their wives they love themselves Ephes 5.28 c. Secondly observe how conjugal love is encreased viz. by bearing of children as Genes 29.32 whence they are called Pignora amoris the pledges of love 5. Some wives love their husbands Titus 2.4 6. Some parents love their children Gen. 22.2 44.20 and do truly shew their love by chastizing of them betimes Prov. 13.24 7. Some children love their parents Note here what is required of children in regard of their love unto their parents or their parents love unto them viz. I. It is required of them not to love their parents above or more then Christ Matth. 10.37 And II. Not to hate any of their fathers children because their fathers loves them more Gen. 37.4 And III. To love wisdom that so they may rejoyce their Parents Prov. 29.3 8. Some Magistrates love their people Agesilaus was fined by the Ephories because he had stoln away the hearts and won the love of all the Citizens to himself 9. Some subjects love their Rulers and this is of no small moment or consequence seeing as the French say L'amour des subjects est la ferme colomne d'un Prince The love of the subjects is the strongest pillar of a Prince 10. Some brothers love one another and some brothers love their sisters and some sisters their brethren A Persian woman being asked why she had rather save the life of her brother then of her own son answered Because I may well have more children but never more brothers seeing my father and mother are dead 11. Some masters love their servants and some servants their masters 12 Some Schoolmasters love their schollars and some schollars their School-masters Qu. 33. Whom do some love which they ought to love as a Theological duty or Whom ought we to Love Answ 1. We ought to love God the Father Deut. 11.1 Psalm 91.14 Rom. 5.5 and 2. God the Son Cant. 1.7.7.12 John 21.15 16. 1 Pet 1.8 and 3. God the Holy Ghost Rom. 15.30 4. The Church of Christ Isaiah 66.10 And men 5. Their enemies Exod. 23.4 1 Sam. 24.5 7. 26.5 30.11 and 6. Kings should love those who speak truth and right Prov. 16.13 and who are pure in heart Prov. 22.11 and 7. Ministers should love their flocks 2 Cor. 7.3 15.9.14.12.14 15. Philip. 1.7 8. 1 Thes 2.7 And 8. People must love their Pastors Gal. 4.14 15. 1 Thess 5.13 And 9. We must love the children of God 1 Pet. 1.22.2.17 that is I. All good men or all faithful ones in general 2 Cor. 7.15 Tit. 1.8 1 Sam. 18.1.20.17 18 22. Ephes 1.15 Col. 2.2 1 Iohn 4.7 and II. Those who have been converted unto God by us Phil. 12. III. Those in whom we see the sparks of grace shine and shew forth themselves 1 Sam. 2.26.18.5 Qu. 34. VVhat rules are worth observation in regard of Love Answ 1. As there must be in every triangle three lines whereof the first beginneth the second encreaseth and the third concludeth or perfecteth the Figure and without any of these lines there can be no Triangle so in Love there are three vertues I. Affection which draweth the heart II. Action and expression which encreaseth the hope III. Constancy which finisheth the work and without any of these vertues there can be no love Answ 2. Ovid de arte amandi gives three rules not much differing from the former Principio quod amare velis reperire labora Proximus huic labor est placidam exorare puellam Tertius ut longo tempore duret amor First find out one whom dearly thou canst love Then with entreaties seek thy love to move Lastly see constant thou in love do prove I. Make God and good the object of our love II. Labour to be good and by all diligent service and industrious endeavour to be assured of Gods love towards us in Christ And III. To be constant and immoveable in our love to God and good Qu. 35. How long doth true love last Answ Till death yea ater death Some Painters of old did draw on the borders of Cupids Robe Life and Death to shew that love remains both in life and after death God hath ordained that we who love shall have an end and that or those whom we love shall have an end and therefore our love must then and not till then have an end when both we and our friends are dead Vne parfaite amour dure eternellement say the French A perfect love doth last eternally and Le neud que l'amour joinct la mort ne peut deffaire the knot that love doth knit death cannot untie Scipio Affricanus esteemed so much the Poet Ennius alive that being dead he caused his picture to be set before his eyes as a memorial of his great love Plutar. When Cyrus went to overcome Babylon and was hindred by the river Euphrates a Knight whom the King entirely loved venturing into the water was drowned whereupon the King made a vow that he would make that great river passable on foot and accordingly parted it into 460 channels and so took the City For the most part that love which lasteth after death is begun betimes whence one saith Wouldst thou have love last even unto the tomb Then let it take beginning at the womb Qu. ●6 How many way doth Love cease Answ 1. Sometimes naturally when men dye Eccles 9.6 2. Sometimes impiously and enviously when men cease to love those who are become good whom they loved when they were evil 1 Pet. 4.4 3. Sometimes piously and religiously when men cast off the familiarity and acquaintance of Apostates and those who become wicked and enemies to the Church although they were intimate and familiar with them when they were professors and seemed outwardly religious 2 Tim. 3.5 Heb. 10 38. 1 John 2 19. Qu. 37. What or where is the Seat of Love Answ Love hath three