walke even as he walked and the Psalmists precept is yee that love the Lord hate evill See Psal 101. 3. Psal. 119. 104. 128. 163. Psal 139. 22. we all sinne but hee that doth not truely hate sinne cannot love God 6. If our love to the world pleasures and all desirable secular things as also our cares concerning them decline and lessen in us devided streames â—unne shallower the more wee love with God the lesse we love him the more wee love him the lesse we love all things else except in subordination to him when Mary had chosen the better part the love of God she sate at Jesus feet carelesse of the other entertainment look how those glowormes shining in the dark and the starres themselves vanish at the appearance of the Sunne so doth the love of things secular at the arising of the love of God on our hearts 7. If we set not deare by any thing else riches pleasures liberty life it selfe for â—ods sake as Paul speaketh for his fellow souldier he for the worke of Christ regardeth not his life and of himselfe who for the same counted it not deare Act 20. 24. it was a great love to God which Abraham shewed when for his sake hee would bee content to sacrifice his beloved only son Isaak God who would honour him with the high title of his friend and father of the faithfull and would have heaven it selfe take a livery from him and be called Abrahams bosome would in that example of himselfe teach him as much as man could apprehend of Gods infinite love what it was to give his only son Jesus to death to save us 8. If in no difficultie of affaire spirituall or secular we attempt any thing inconsulti but goe to the Oracles of his worâ—d for advise beg his assistance and blessing in and upon all our workes how canst thou say I love thee when thy heart is not with mee Said Delilah how much more may God say so wheÌ„ we will not trust him It is a chiefe advantage of love that we have a prudent heart and a faithfull eare wherein to unload our cares and doubts and that we are sure we shall carry away none but infallible counsaile friends that may erre as men are yet deservedly trusted if they would not 9. If we beleeve in him and put our confidence in him for life and death love is the fairest issue of faith which so uniteth us to God that we can securely cast our selves and all our cares on him and his good providence beleeving and being fully perswaded that what he hath promised he is able also to performe and that whatsoever he doth with us or for us is best even when in faithfulnesse he afflicteth us Every one seemeth to love God prospering and giving but the triall is whether we love God afflicting us shewing us no countenance when he seemeth to forsake us and not to heare or regard our prayers when we are ready to perish in such case to resolve with Job though he kill me I will trust in him this is indeed a certaine argument of that love which shall assure our hearts before him if we could but thus prove the Lord with confidence in him and holy subjection of our selves to him hee would open us the windowes of heaven and powre us out blessings he would rebuke the destroyer for our sakes The common obstructions and lets to the love of God are 1. Ignorance of God we cannot love that whose excellency we know not Pharoah asked who was the Lord that hee should obey him So say the spiritually blinde who is he that we should love him They are haters of God because their foolish hearts were full of darknesse 2. Unbeliefe if wee could indeed beleeve Gods word describing his wisedome mercie verity benificence power and Providence and that there is true and eternall happinesse only in our union with him we should easily be perswaded to set our hearts on him as it is written whom having not seene yee love in whom though now yee see him not yet beleeving yee rejoyce with joy unspeakable 3. Love of this world and the present distracting cares thereof wherein catching at deluding shadowes we loose the substance if any man love it the love of the father is not in him as I noted We cannot with one eye see heaven and earth together nor love God and Mammon with one unchanged heart whose dangerous perversenesse and corruption herein appeareth God is only good but the whole world lyeth in wickednesse it loveth nothing good it is bitter and troublesome unto us yet we unhappily dote on it to our destruction and suffer it to steale away our hearts from Gods love wherein we should otherwise be happy what would wee doe if the world were neither bitter nor troublesome We are loath to part with the vaine amenity of this world as Lots wife was from the pleasant fields of Sodom no not when the Angels pull us by the hands would we goe out from ruine and destruction when the Reubenites and Gadites saw the fruitfull Jazer and the pleasant Gilead they petioned Moses that they might have the lot of their possession there and goe no further they desired not the promised rest it is so with many a worldly man he would faine sit downe here and have his heaven on earth 4. Guilt of conscience cannot be without feare of Gods severity now love and servile feare are incompatible hee that feareth Gods justice because he loveth his own liberty of sinning ease and indemnity cannot love God as this feare excludeth perfect love so this casteth out feare there is no feare in love nor love in base feare 5. Pleasures of sinne which only are contrary to Gods love no man can love unreconcilable contraries he that loveth and delighteth in any sinne thereby looseth all capacity of Gods love who cannot but punish the same The meanes on our part to be used for the enflaming our love to God are that we 1. Study to know God to acquaint our selves with him in Christ his holy word which reveileth him unto us He is the most amiable of all that is in heaven or earth therefore the most desirable as it is written he is altogether lovely It is our spirituall blindnes and ignorance of God which causeth our not loving him as we ought if we knew him we could not but love him so as that the love and care of all creatures however dear would decline in us when Peter on the mount had but a tast of his goodnes glimps of his majesty as forgetfull of all below he cryed it is good for us to be here let us make 3 tabernacles Satan oftimes setteth such a mischievous distance between man and man that mistaking or not rightly knowing one another he easily fomenteth jealousies and contentions betweene them thereby
parity of manners conciliateth love but Gods love createth our likenesse to him hence is it that the most excellent creatures love him most whereby they are made such some think that ardency of love denominateth those Angells which stand in Gods presence Seraphim certaine it is such are we as is our love our manners are not estimable by that which we knowe but by that we love good or evill love maketh us such if we love God we are godly if the world worldly if sinne sinfulf all men the best of all doe sinne but the wicked only love sinne looke how the glasses species are as is the posture thereof if you turne it to heaven you see only heaven in it if to the earth only earth so is it in our love the soules looking-glasse wherein we may see and judge of our selves 6. Without this love there can be no true happinesse for the wrath of God the severity of his justice remaineth for those who hate him give him all that a sinfull soule can desire make him times minion the worlds favorite you can make him nothing better then a devill But with the love of God though a man may possibly seeme or be said unhappy he cannot be so for all things worke together for good to them that love God prosperity adversity life death all things shall finally advantage them he that seeketh the love of God must looke for many enemies but contrary to their intentions they shall doe him good the love of the world is sweet at first but bitternesse in the end and the love of God hath many sharpe trialls at first but in the end shall be most comfortable This love is that divine Elixer which maketh the vile pretious an indeficient treasure which whosoever hath can never lack that which is good he that hath it not can never be the better for all hee hath what good or salvation can he expect who is so unhappy as not to love the fountaine of all blessednesse what can hee reasonably feare who loveth an omniscient and righteous God who is a pleanteous rewarder of those that love him Though we cannot be saved for any desert of Love to God for it is his mercy not our merit wee cannot be saved without it if any man love not the Lord Jesus let him be anathema maranatha 1. Cor 16. 22. 7. So excellent is this one possession that Paul counted all but meere losse for it dying Joshua left this as the chiefe legacie to his friends and family concerning whom hee resolved as for me and my house we will serve the Lord take good heed therefore unto your selves that yee love the Lord your God he need no more it is better to love God then to be heire of the world if thou canst not know this living thou shalt when thou art dying let my children faithfully love God I wish them no greater blessing who with my soule pray they may be truly blessed A Prayer for love to God O Lord God Almightie great and glorious who art cloathed with Majestie the beauty of holinesse perfection of beauty who hath filled heaven earth with the gratious effects of love and goodnesse I thy poore creature prostrating my selfe before thy mercy seat humbly acknowledge the many sinnes which render me utterly unworthy ever to appeare before thee specially that great ingratitude which maketh me ashamed to speake unto thee who art the searcher of all hearts yet in assurance of my acceptance in the son of thy love who now sitting at thy right hand maketh requests for me I am bold to pray thee to fill my heart with thy love which is better then all things that with my soule I may desire thee in the night with my spirit within me seeke thee early O Lord though the remainder of sinne in me create me many distractions though fraile flesh and blood starteth at the apprehension and feare of thy just judgments or murmur at the bitternes of thy present corrections yet thou knowest all things thou knowest that I love thee though with a fraile yet with a sincere heart and love with thine owne spirit infused into me O Lord my soule thirsteth after thee and thy holy presence in my sanctification and full assurance of thy mercy Therefore according to thine owne promise who caâ—st not deceive sanctifie me herein that I may love thee more and more cleanse me from all my sinnes create that purity of heart in me which may assure me of a capacity to behold thy goodnesse in the land of the living fill my lips with grace diffusive of it selfe to thy glory and the ministration of grace to the hearers guide me in the whole course of my life in that holinesse which may please thee disburden my conscience of all that guilt which leaveth me in any feare of that way by which thou hast appointed me to come unto thee and thy kingdome of glory that no afflictions paines feaâ—es or terrours of life or death may be able to separate me from thy love in Christ Jesus Blessed Lord only assure me of thy love and let thy holy will bee done with me I am thine thou madest me to thine owne image thou redeemedst and repairedst the same by thy free spirit when I was dead in trespasses and sinnes thou neither madest redeemâ—dst nor sanctifiedst me for my selfe therefore when thou doest that with me which shall best please thee in the advancement of thy glory in my salvation thou makest me happy in the end of my creation redemption and sanctification Lord it was thine owne free love which by revealing thy selfe and the inestimable riches of thy mercy to mee made me knowe what I had to love in thee neither didst thou finde in me any thing worthy of thee but the effects of thine owne love which in my election before I was determined to make me an object of thy mercy therefore thou who art Love didst set thine own image on me thou best knowest that I am of my selfe but worthlesse dust and earth and by my sinnes a masse of corruption such as onely can displease thee and deserve thine anger but O Lord God of mercy who foundest me a child of wrath and madest me a sonne an enemy and reconciledst me by the death of thy holy sonne Jesus accomplish the worke of thine owne mercy in me and love me still give mee an heart to love thee so above all with all my soule minde and might love that which thou hast wrought in my heart cherish thine owne graces in me though my love be full of imperfections yet thy worke is perfect in thee is no shadow of change Lord for thine owne loves sake now make me such as thou maist love me to eternitie through the merits of thy sonne Jesus Christ my Lord and blessed Saviour AMEN CHAP. XVII § 1. Of love to our selves of the kindes thereof § 2. Of Love to our
neighbour the necessitie and excellency thereof the conditions and signes of it § 3. Of friendship what it is of what excellent fruits of the true end and lawes thereof what choice we are to make of friends and whom to avoid § 4. Of love to enimies how we ought to love without any malice and to make a right use of them 1 LOve towards that which God loveth is love of all that which is good and that which beareth his image as the rationable creatures Angells and men this is either to our selves neighbours or enemies 2. Love to our selves either is such as is 1. Common to all men who by the instinct of nature desire to preserve themselves though blinded by sinne they eftsoone mistake the meanes and end or overmastered by some malignant power to which they have dangerously yeelded themselves they doe somethings to the contraâ—y the Epicure thinketh the meanes to make him happy is to indulge to sensuality and pleasures taken up at any rate because hee taketh them to be his chiefe good and end to which hee liveth he beleeveth himselfe to be only that externall man whom hee endeavoureth to preserve by a brutish pleasing himselfe so that indeed he loveth not himselfe 2. Proper to the good who justly love the inward man the image of God in themselves whom they strive to preserve in his integrity they wish spirituall good to him carefully use Gods ordinances thereto in him they delight as in present good thoughts memory of good past and hope of future for this they mainely care this they defend though with losse of things externall and secular for this they beat downe the body with fastings watchings and prosecution of holy duties Philautiâ— proper to evill men is that blind foolish selfe-love which measureth all love and friendship by that most ignoble scale of the vulgar some temporall advantage to the selfe-lover a crewing who therefore truely loveth no man because neither in nor for God but for his owne sake such doe not truly love themselves but being selfe-deluded hate their owne soules because they love sinne the souls distemper sicknesse and destruction this commonly goeth with a vaine complacency admiring the Minerva's of their own braine and liking themselves in those things which they readily condemne in others as Judah did Gen 38. 24. the selfe-lovers hieroglyphick may be the Ape easily taken while shee sitteth admiring the beauty of her hard-favoured young this vice is an uncharitable living to our selves our own ease and pleasures as if we were borne only for our selves or that our country neighbours friends naturall affections or God himselfe had no part in us so Nabal loved himselfe That wee must love our selves in God is more then evident by reason who so neere us as our selves and Scripture which saith thou shalt love thy neighbour as thy selfe thy selfe first charity beginneth at home and truely that thy love may be a rule and measure unto others He that will be evill to himselfe to whom will he be good Thou wouldest not have thy servant drunken nor thy son an adulterer least they perish eternally and wilt thou be such thy selfe For shame love not thy selfe lesse then others and doe not thinke it lesse necessary for God to have good servants then that thy selfe have such We are the Temples of Gods spirit the image of God the purchase of Christ Jesus for whom hee gave no lesse then himselfe to death it were desperate impietie to undervallew that which cost more then a thousand worlds were worth with profane Esau to set so poore a rate as a portion of meat or a little temporall pleasure upon an immortall soule if we love God wee shall love our selves for him which must be only in that true sanctity which pleaseth him we shall not love our selves more then him that were an inordinate selfe love concerning which it is saied he that loveth his life shall loose it 1. Love to our neighbour is charity to him that needeth our helpe to whom we are holily and constantly united in God he is our neighbour to whom we can administer or of whoÌ„ we may receive help This love hath for its object all men respectively without exception of enemies neither is it as some vainly dreame an arbitrary affection for if we love God is in us but if not against us but that which is simply necessary to the essence and being of true religion without which it can no more be then fire without heat then a man without a soule some therefore call it the forme of vertue giving it name and being There can be no religion without wisedome nor any acts thereof better then the unsavoury sacrifice of fooles with which the all-wise God can never be pleased wisdome is that same salt of the covenant with which every oblation must be seasoned nor can there be any more true wisdome without charity then that which is in the devill who is as malicious as subtile if any thing be contrary to love that wisdome descendeth not from above but is earthly sensuall and devillish without charity speaking with tongues of men or angells is but as a sounding brasse and tinkling cymball prophesie faith almes martyrdome and whatever els seemeth or is externally excellent without this is worth nothing there can be no sanctimony without love Love is the summe and fullfilling of the law the end of the commandement and nothing is good which is not for it end but rather a false image a counterfet of vertue as the covetous mans wisdome to devise meanes of gaine is noe true vertue neither his seeming justice wherein he absteineth from oppression and extortion for feare of some greater losse to himselfe nor his temperance for love of mony forbearing all costly luxury nor his valour venturing sea and land to gett riches so neither is the malicious mans almes any good worke to himselfe he not doing it for Gods sake did he then for the same love he should love his enemies also his prayers are no obedience to God who commandeth in case of enmity to leave the gift before the altar and first endeavour reconciliation Christ in effect saieth as we have formerly noted herein as Joseph to his brethren Genes 43. 3. yee shall not see my face except your brother be with you let men joyne in heareing Gods word and say Amen at the Churches prayers let them be baptized receive the Lords supper be called Christians seeme the most strict men in religion yet is it only charity which distinguisheth between the sons of God reprobates in this the children of God are manifest the children of the devill whosoever doth not righteousnes is not of God neither he that loveth not his brother nor can there be love of God without it if any man say he loves God
the opinion of the unwise wicked doe but consider that wise men looke most to the end that they have rightly proposed to themselves which if they attaine their worke is done whether by force or counsell they passe not they looke to the end through just meanes Suppose thine end is to overcome thine enemie if thou mightest make free choice of the meanes tell me wouldst thou overcome him by good or evill by vertue or violence by excelling him in goodnesse or equalling him in evill 'T is an epidemick madnesse to thinke there is no victory but in violence and requiting evill with evill becomming as damnable as their enemies 9. Lastly resolve that every injurie shall better thee doth thine enemie hurt thee Let it occasion thee to pray for him aud to enter into a serious examination of thine owne heart whether thou hast not injured him or some other upon discovery of injury done by thee repent and give satisfaction that God may give thee thy quietus est so will hee in his good time judge for thee ever looke to the hand that smiteth thee Assyria is but the rod of Gods anger God raised up enemies to Solomon It may be that God bad Sheimei curse be not like the foolish dog to bite the stone cast at him but looke to the cause which being removed the effect shall cease There are who bend their tongues to shoot out bitter words which God permitteth to admonish his servants of some unrepented sinnes which being discovered and repented of they proove ike Jonathans arrowes shott to warne not to wound Thy friends may possibly not see or seeing dissemble thy faults marke well what thine enemies say of thee let their vigilant malice apt to accuse thee make thee more carefully watch over thy waies least thy failings advantage them or give them just occasions of reviling thee and as Theseus is said to have cut off his comely lockes least his enemies should finde advantage by catching hold of them so doe thou all occasions of calumny how many men haâ—â— perished in their sinnes unseene had not the malice of enemies awaked admonished them And like Jason Phereus enemy cured them by wounding them Selfe-love is ever blinde and true friendship sometimes but malice hath a thousand eyes this Serpent is quick sighted to find out others faults seeing I cannot but be faulty and would not be so I had rather want many acquaintance then some enemies who may amend mee though for ill will I owe much to many good friends for other offices but most to mine enimies for this who yet through Gods mercy never hurt me but to the greater advantage of my soule I hope they who never could never shall A Prayer for Love and Charity O Lord God of mercy and compassion we humbly acknowledge that so many continuall have our rebellions been against thee that we deserve thine anger and that thoâ—â— shouldst arme all the hoste of heaven and the creatures under heaven against us but we humbly pray thee to pardon us for Jesus Christ his sake give us hearts to repent before the consummation of thy feirce wrath the day of thine anger come upon us to agree with our adversary quickly while we are yet in the way to seeke righteousnesse that we may be hid in the day of thine anger Lord our hope is in thee make us not a reproach to them that hate us withold not thy tender mercy from us let thy loving kindnesse and thy truth preserve us Thou who art the God of love and unity set thine own image again upon us and as thou hast loved redeemed us in the son of thy love Christ Jesus so give us hearts to love one another that thereby all men may knowe that we are his Disciples Lord deliver us not to the will of our enemies and oppressours but forgive us all that wherein we have any waies injured or justly offended our brethren make our waies so pleasing in thy sight that thou maist bee pleased to make our enemies at peace with us Turne their hearts and mischievous intentions as thou didst revengefull Esau's give them a true sight and sorrow for their sinnes that they may repent and bee saved Prevent and divert their malice that it may not proceed further to hurt themselves or us restraine the tempter that he may no more be able to set variance and his owne bitter influence malice and enmity between those whom thoâ— hast united by their adoption in Christ Thou hast promised the blessing on brethren who live together in unity give us that spirit that we may hold the sacred band thereof in peace that we may not bring a scandall on thy truth that our prayers be not hindred that our soules may be delivered from the snares of death in which the malitious are holden that we may all meet cheerefully before thy tribunall in the holy communion of Saints and blessed unity of the body of Christ to whom with thee O Father of love God of peace and the holy Ghost the comforter be rendred all honour glory praise and dominion in heaven and earth for ever and ever AMEN CHAP. XVIII § 1. Of the soule faculties thereof affections minde and thoughts in generall § 2. Of the corruptions of the heart the danger and difficultie of the cure § 3. Of the necessitie of right ordering our thoughts § 4. Rules of practice 1 THere are many things of whose being we know whose quality we knowe not all confesse wee have a soule which commandeth and restraineth in us what a one it is none can tell hence are those many disputes about its essence seat and subject with the subordinate faculties of it no man hath throughly beene acquainted with this secret governour in man some have defined it an harmonie some a divine vertue a particle of the deity some the most exile slender aire some a blood some heat or fire some number so innate is errour that we most erre concerning our owne selves more rightly doe they say who call it an immortall spirit an incorporeall substance created by infusion and infused in its creation made to the image of the Creatour capable of the light of understanding wisdome holinesse blessednesse and eternity so that in its conjunction with the body it ammateth giveth life action and motion wherein it differeth from an Angell and in its separation from the body for a time untill it shall be reunited in the resurrection it subsisteth as doe the Angells and then hath its proper acts and apprehensions as they Now as the eye seeth the eye in a glasâ—e so the soule knoweth it selfe by a kinde of â—reflex The soule is a divine ghest sent from heaven into these earthly Tabernacles to give them life and governe them yet is it neither seene comming nor departing it is an immortall forme of moâ—tall man the body decayeth the soule doth not being
that breedeth it and as the rust of iron so envy the minde that hath it It is more miserable then any other for it is afflicted not only with it own sorrow but also for others joy what ever is good to others is a torment to him another mans store is the envions mans want another mans health his sicknesse anothers praises his reputed dishonour 2. Other sinnes had some remission anger will spend it self in time hatred hath some end but envy never ceaseth fierce lions are tamed and become tractable but the envious grow worse and worse The more good Christ did the Jewes curing their sick healing their infirme and bestowing the word of life on them the more destructively did they envy him 3. It is the canker that blasteth friendship the corruption of life plague of nature the devill 's incentive to rebellion who because he could not in his malice hurt God assailed man it instigated Cain to murder Abel and the Jews to crucifie the Saviour of the world 4. It hath irrational effects it would stop up the fountaines and vaile the sunne-beames it regardeth neither bonds of nature civility or religion Rachel envied her sister Gen. 30. 1. Jacobs sonnes their brother Joseph Gen. 37. 11. the Jewes the very preaching and hearing the Gospâ—l Acts 13. 45. It is the rottennesse of the bones Prov. 14 30. it slaieth the silly Job 5. 2. it excludeth from heaven what should envy doe where there is nothing but love and rejoycing in each others happinesse 5. It is a perverse distemper of a sick minde making the envious looke on any good of others as it were with sore eies grieved with seeing It delighteth immens miseries as the flies feed themselves on others sores so the envious please themselves with discoursing of other mens faults or afflictions to the setting out whereof they will sometimes personate the mercifull as if they spake thereof onely in pity when 't is to vent their malice sometimes the just then will they seem zealous of Lawes and due punishment of delinquents when indeed they but turn judgment into wormwood and kill or robbe by lawes who durst noâ— with the sword or open violence sometimes they will assume the most holy protenoes appearing like that Endor deâ—ill in the holy Prophets mantle doing some things externally good that they may thereby achieve some greater evill so the false Apostles preached Christ of meere envy to Paul that they might thereby adde more affliction to his bands 6. It is at best but a fruit of the flesh Gal. 5. 21. meere folly Tit. 3. 3. devillish sensuall earthly Jam. 3. 14 15. a dangerous signe of a reprobate minde given up to destruction Rom. 1. 28 29. the most that envy can doe toward it owne satisfaction is but to grieve where others joy and possibly to hurt temporally with it own eternall destruction of body and soule it is no better then the spirit of Satan in the envious 7. This mischiefe sometimes obrepeth on the incautious good men Joshua envied for Moses sake David confesseth My â—eet saith he were almost gone for I was envious at the foolish when I saw the prosperity of the wicked c. Jeremie and Habakkuk were a little infected with this contagion which the Scripture remembreth to admonish the best of men to beware of this mischiefe which endangered such men 8. The acts thereof are unconsistent with right reason if we respect the supreme giver of that which stimulateth envy for how irrationall a presumption is it in man to controle the providence of God If Jacob dim-eyed for age would not permit his deare Joseph to change the imposition of his hands or to transpose the blessing at his pleasure how much lesse will the all-seeing God permit the envious man to alter his hands if wee respect the quality of the envied for is he evill whom thou enviest it were good reason thou shouldst pity him because his sinne makes him more wretched then all the world could doe is hee good how evill must thou be who caunt envy the happinesse of any good man or if wee respect the effect of envy which is hurtfull onely to the envious as I have noted For Antidotes against this venome 1. Put on Christ and be sure thou shalt put off envy it is the Apostle's rule Let us walke honestly as in the day not in strife and envying but put yee on the Lord Jesus Christ and make not provision for the flesh to fulfill the lusts thereof put on Christ by an holy imitation of him hee was meek and lowly in heart and therefore envied no man the meek Moses was so free from ambition and pride that hee reproved those that envied for his sake and wisht that all God's people could prophesie and that the Lord would put his Spirit upon them Christ loved all respectively love envieth not If we love for God's sake we shall never be grieved for any blessings which he bestoweth but wish them greater we shall neither undervalue others nor over-rate our selves as the envious doe 2. Learne in God's schoole there 's the best cure of envy it was a thing which troubled David to understand it Vntill saith he I went into the Sanctuary of God Here thou art taught not to value secular things too much to consider his hand which setteth up and pulleth downe to referre all thy desires to the advance of his glory to acknowledge the favours which he hath conferred on thee by Christ better then a thousand worlds which thoughts can leave no place for envy 3. Consider the end of those thou enviest David found in the Sanctuary that his enemies were not to be envied Surely said he thou didst set them in slippery places thou castedst them down into destruction remember how God mixeth bitter and sweet to all men in this life this man hath great riches but neither childe to enjoy it nor heart to use it this man is healthy in body with a sick soule this man thrives and layeth up wealth but with such a conscience as that the poorest saint is incomparably more happy another man riseth in honours it may be only to greaten his fall another is many waies prosperous to the world-ward but as the moon is then most darke toward heaven when shee is most light toward the earth and contrariwise so is it commonly with men the more gloriously they shine to us the more despicable they are to God who layeth up such terrible judgements for them that a soule in hell is as proper an object of envy as these glittering epuloe's who are hasting thither 4. Ever remember that wee are brethren members of one body whereof Christ is the head therefore wee must withall meeknesse support one another through love and mutually rejoice at each others good and so cast away the works of darknesse strife and envy 7. Impatience is
Lord said he gave and the Lord hath taken away blessed be the name of the Lord the Holy Ghost thus testifieth in all this Job sinned not Happy Job to come off with that honour and happy they who imitate that invincible patience in their sufferings Now God heareth not the impatient they are evill they are by every condition made worse being authors of their own misery for as much as they make their own burthens intollerable by striving under that which no violence can cast off they become Satans captives serving in their frâ—tfull impatience only to adorne his triumphs and scornes to men who can no lesse then deride if not loath that morosity and peevish waywardnesse which causeth the impatient malecontent neither to enjoy friends nor himselfe an example whereof we have in that mirrour of impatience Diogenes surnamed the Cynick or dogged as in many of his actions and words so in his reply to Alexander the Great who gratiously asking him if he lacked any thing received this answer yea I doe stand out of my light and in that whether to professe himselfe a devoted servant to his own passions or to make claime to an equall capacity and right of contemning his friends greatnesse as much as he slighted his poverty he would rather dwell in a Tubbe then expect the delayed benificâ—nce of him that promised to build him an Howse certainly his impatience therein disadvantaged him 3. Consider that secular aâ—â—lictions cannot be long if all the world Men and Devills conspired to vex and inâ—ure thee they could not long make thee an object of their fury and malice as it was said when Caesar had shut up Cato by Land and Sea yet habet quâ exeat Cato he meant by death on much better ground standeth the Saints comfort who heareth yee have neâ—d of patience that after yee have done the will of God yee might receive the promise for yet a very little while and he that shall come will come and will not â—arry blessed are they who with meeknesse and patient confidence expect him be therefore patient stablish your hearts for the comming of the Lord draweth nigh heavinesse may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning however the longest day must have an end and the most tedious misery of the patient Saint shall have an happy one 4. Consider the extent of that thou sufferest thou art hated without cause thou owest thanks to God for that conformity to his dear Son thou art oppressed plundered imprisoned banished but yet thou hast not resisted unto blood thou are an enrowled Souldier under the banner of Christ in whom beleeving and patiently bearing tryall thou canst not miscarry and dost thou startle at those charges wherein thy life is not yet endangered what if the heavenly Generall chose thee out for one of the Forlorne hope of Martyrdome and the fiery tryall wouldest thou decline the service or complaine of danger 5. Consider that nothing is befallen you but that which Is humane and a condition common to many Paulus Aemilius well observed in his sodaine victory over Perseus thaâ— there is nothing constant in this world dost thou in the losse of some secular comfort cry with that afflicted Church behold and see if there be any sorrow like unto my sorrow if it be any comfort to have partners in woe consider well what thousands of others suffer as he said who to comfort an embittered friend as they beheld a populous Citty from the howse top how many sad hearts and weeping eyes are now under these roofes thou art not alone in suffering 6. Consider that many of Gods dearest children far better then thou suffer more then thou yee have heard of the patience of Job and therein the issue of patience God delivered him to Satan Behold hee is in thine hand yet all that the Devil could doe against him made him more happy whom God pronounced righteous God knoweth the strength of his who giveth it If Saul would not have permitted David to an unequall conflict shall wee think the Lord of hosts will give any of his deere children to adversaries or hazzards beyond certainty of conquest that hee will venture thee into the lists may assure thee that he who cannot be deceived knoweth thee invincible through his grace arming thee hee looketh on thy trialls with delight because thereto hee will proportion the reward who loveth thee Be not deceived they are not wretched who suffer most 't is honour to conquer with wounds these flowers grow among sharp difficulties skarrs are Honors characters written in the face and breast of the valiaut 7. Consider what thou deservest and thou shalt finde good cause to blesse the Lord that afflicteth thee no more consider what caused the evil of which thou art impatient as if thou deservedst no good no man is so miserable as wicked 8. Consider the issue of afflictions and the end why God afflicteth thee the Physician giveth not bitter pills nor doth the Chirurgian use the lancet and cauterie to hurt but to cure the disaffected much lesse doth God delight in thy griefe hee maketh thee weep now to prevent eternall weeping hee loveth not thy misery but thy health that hee prescribeth such bitter things that so long thy disease requireth it if more gentle Physick would have cured thee hee would not have been so grievous to thee if lesse hee would sooner ease thee hee will not put in one dramme or scruple more then hee knoweth necessary be patient therefore and expect the issue What doe not patients endure under Physicians hands promising uncertain help how much rather ought we to subject our selves to God when did he faile of his promise I but saiest thou I cry to him for help and he heareth not It is Gods mercy not to hear thee according to thy will that hee may doe that which is for thy salvation so good Physicians deale with their patients seeing then calamity is often the discipline of vertue shall he be queazy stomacht to the antidote who greedily swallowed the poison 9. All impatience hath it natals in the devill who laboureth by all meanes to embitter the soule of man and to plâ—nge him into despaire and to make him murmur at the taste of these Marahs of affliction because hee envieth the image of God in him and his favours to him strive therefore to calme thy minde in every affliction which that thou maist the better do observe these rules 1. Love God above all and thou shalt not be disconâ—ented with any thing he doth It is the Lord said Eli let him doe what seemeth him good When wee love God aright we will know that all his judgements are just and what ever he layeth on us fatherly corrections the effects of his love and wisedome for our amendment who therefore correcteth every son because he would have none perish He that
Angels pitch round about his to deliver them and when we seem most overmatcht they are more with us then can be against us as that fearfull servant saw at last It made David so confident In the Lord put I my trust how say yee then to my soul Flee as a bird to your mountaine all confidence in men their counsels or an arme of flesh is unhappy and must faile beeing under the curse God cannot si fractus illabatur orbis therefore will we not fear though the earth be removed and though the mountaines be carried into the midst of the sea 4. Hearken unto the Word of God whoso hearkneth unto mee shall dwell safely and shall be quiet from fear of evil thou shalt walke in the way safely when thou liest down thou shalt not be afraid herein thou shalt know God's power trueth providence mercy and justice and so trust in him as it is written They that know thy name will put their trust in thee for thou Lord hast not forsaken them that seek thee 5. Love the Lord sincerely the more thou lovest him the more thou wilt rest assured of his love and protection the more perfect thy love is the more it casteth out fear 6. Depart from evill as the Princes of the Philistines said of David Let him not go down with us to the battle leâ—t in the battle he be an adversary to us Set thy selfe to seek the Lord as Jehoshaphat did when many enemies were upon the march against him and atcheived a glorious victory against them Keep a good conscience it shall be a wall of brasse unto thee when that is safe a man is bold as a lion but if we see the smoke of hell ascend there wee must needs faint like the men of Ai when they saw their City on fire Sinne in the conscience maketh men cowardly they may possibly speak glorious words who have timerous consciences but as one said of the fearfull dogg vehementiùs latrat quà m mordet hee must needs feare who hath no peace in himselfe 7. Consider the end of the â—aints sufferings which hath ever been happy in that they are the more partakers of Christ's glory by how much more of his sufferings consider how long they have suffered or thou canst fear none of those things which thou shalt suffer Behold the Devil shall cast sâ—me of you into prison that yee may be tryed be thou faithfull unto the death and I will give thee the crown of life It is true flesh and blood must have it allowance for its infirmity but the more wee can lay to heart the end of the saints so happy that even the wicked affect it and the quiet fruits of righteousness to them that are exercised the lesse we must needs feare the malice of any creature 8. Labour for peace with God give him no rest till he speak it to thy conscience resolve not to let him go untill he blesse thee and assure thee of thy remission in Christ. What hath he to feare whose sins are forgiven the sting of death pâ—lled out who would not dare it therefore the Apostle did because he could say Thanks be unto God who giveth us victory through Jesus Christ this is Faith's victory over the world 9. In thy greatest feares pray more fervently so did our Saviour being in an agony he prayed more earnestly so did Jacob in fear of his brothers long-studied revenge pray that God would open thine eies to see his saving health God many times terrifieth to awaken our drouzie souls and open our mouths to earnest prayer which in prosperity are too prone to the spirit of slumber and coldnesse feare hath many tongues and can open the mouth of the dumb Even Jonah's mariners in their feare will pray and instigate others thereto that one example of Croesus sonne Athis before dumb crying out O Cyrus spare my father and by our misfortunes learne that thou also art but a man sheweth what the violence of feare can do A Prayer against Feare O Lord God almighty dreadfull in thy wrath and indignation against sinners I humbly acknowledge that there is not one of thy judgements which I may not reasonably fear who have deserved them all the miseries of this life terrors of death and future condemnation But O Lord God of consolation assure mee of my sinnes remission and my peace with thee for Christ Jesus sake fill my heart and affections with that measure of thy love which may exclude all servile feare give mee the testimony of a good conscience to comfort me against all vain fears of the wicked lift up the light of thy countenance upon me and assure me that thou who rulest in heaven and earth from the Angel to the worm art my defence and help at hand Thou art omnipotent and canst doe what thou wilt Lord let it be thy will to deliver me from the affliction which I fear that I may live to praise the and declare thy goodnesse toward mee if it be possible let this cup passe from mee if otherwise thy holy will be done Lord suffer mee not for any tryals to fail from thee consider my weaknesse remember whereof thou hast made me that I am but dust and earth soon passing away give me patience to endure thy fatherly hand and full assurance that all things shall work together for the best give me fervency of spirit to pray more earnestly give me that â—aith to which thou who canst not deceive hast made the promise of audience and granting our petitions Give mee an invincible resolution not to let thee goe untill thou blessest me with some happy issue through Jesus Christ my Lord and only Saviour Amen Of Cares CAre is the childe of Providence some say the souls apparitor to summon all it's faculties to it's Senate or Committee it is rather counsels president determining what to pursue and what to decline the weight which moveth all it's wheels that taken off or quite run down all the nerves of providence are loosed and the soules faculties become inactive and resty so as we neither affect the good nor feare the evill Care is the centinel which gives the alarme to awaken wisedom to it's offices the steward of the inward house the Palinurus and pilot which sitteth at the helm to steere and direct the course lest industry be wanting to prudent decrees and resolutions or successe to industry so necessary is this vigilancy of the soule that without it we can neither be profitable to our selves or others in things divine or humane though salvation shall neither be in his care who willeth nor his that runneth but in him that sheweth mercy yet if thou care not to lay hold on his promises and to beleeve and obey thou shalt finde that he that made thee without thy care will not save thee without it because
painter did when he borrowed all the perfections of beauty he possibly could to furnish his pourtraict of Venus so that these nations made them of such proportion and colour as they thought most beautiful which sheweth that beauty is not in white and red or so much in any sixed standart as to be weighed by his affection who likes and loves whence it commeth to passe that affection being Clarke of the Market making or at least determining the true value and price of beauty yea beauty it selfe there is almost no face but some can like and love it best I might say therefore if beauty were not so much in opinion yet is it fading flowers are the emblemes thereof Favor is deceitfull and beauty is vaine but a woman that feareth the Lord shee shall be praised love which only beauty enflames is like fire in stubble soon going out except it finde some more solid fuel to preserve it The ancient Heathens in their fable of Pygmalion falling in love with the image which he made and obteining a metamorphosis thereof into a woman and his wife quickly disliked under a false vaile as oft they did understood this morall trueth That such is the mutability of mans minde that if he might be permitted according to his desire to make himselfe a fortune hee would not long like his own option and â—igment specially that which is grounded on so fraile a good as beauty every day subject to change by the power of sicknesse if no worse corruption Regard riches and beauty in thy choice that thou maist subsist and love but choose not for either or both but principally for vertue not subject to the lawes of time or age 5. If thou art under parents or governers match not without their consent 6. Lastly so far as by diligent enquiry thou canst discern take heed of 1. An impious Athaliah or false Delilah likewise of a tempter hee or shee who will not be good toward so good a God what hope is there they will or can be good to thee what mischiefe what curse maist thou not reasonably expect from such company as God hateth and will finally destroy 2. A proud and expensive Jezabel such must needs prove thy families calamity pride goeth before ruine the spendthrift is more devouring then the sea that is sometimes long devouring a patrimony this quickly swalloweth up all there may be some defence found against that but if Solomon himselfe were tutor to this foole his instruction should finde no capacity in him 3. A curst and intractable nature a provoking Miriam a sullen Vashti a jeering Nichol a scolding Zipporah a stingie Peninnah and a revengeful Herodias why any one should be in love with a bear it must seem strange to us but some are of an affection so paradoxical that they can because they are of the like ungentle rough disposition for parity of manners begeteth liking but if thou love comity affability and that sweetnesse of behaviour which becometh the people of God avoid a churlish Nabal and a d Xâ—ntippe quà m in Socratem prius convitia maledicta ingessisset post verò sordidis aquis perâ—udisset inquit Nonne dicebam Xantippem tonantem quandoque pluituram Laert. l. â— Socrat. shrill Xantippe whose thunder will not only startle thee by day but like an importune gnat she will be singing about thy eares when thou wouldst â—leep whose impudent barbarismes will render thee ridiculous to thy acquaintance and pitied of thy friends whose spirit of contradiction will embitter all that which should sweeten an happy society neither let some calmes deceive thee the sea is lovely when no breath of winde moveth it to rage the fiercest are kinde in their times of love consider well what men and women are when they are angry and how thou canst change bridle or bear that nature he that keepeth salvage beasts may render up his charge when hee will but the unhappy married covenant till death us depart Take heed of objects too great for thy power or patience 4. An intemperate luxurious or drunken mate e Pascitur â—ibido conviviis nutritur deliciis c. Amb. de poen l. 1. cap. 14. Lust is fed at full tables which beggery and misery attend to take away the intemperate and drunken is the devils anvile on which hee can forge any sinne when Satan with large promises tempted the yong man to kill his father hee abhorred the suggestion likewise when he proposed in the second place that hee should commit adultery he refused it when hee brought him into company and exhorted him to doe as others did drinking he became drunken and in that madnesse slew his father and committed adultery drunkennesse is broker to any sin 5. A bold and familiar behaviour in women is a dangerous symptom of immodesty Lascivious gesture impudent discourse and affectation of strange attire are but the bush to shew what is vendible within take heed of a gadding Dinah and a tame woman I deny not but such may be chaste but it seemeth hardly probable that they would be such Of all domestick miseries the adulterous wiâ—e is incomparably worst and most of all such calamities to be abhorred of those that are to choose and to be pitied in all that have made such choice except in those that have made them or suspected them before to be such f Pro. 6 25 26. lust not after her beauty in thine heart neither let her take thee with her eie-lids for by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a morsel of bread and the adulteresse will hunt for the precious life g Prov. 5. 8. Remove thy way farre from her and come not nigh the door of her house 6. Take heed of matching into an infamous family it is true God can call and so doth h Luke 7. some infamous sinners home to wash the feet of Christ with teares of repentance he can and doth take some out of the most sinful families to make them instances of his mercy but commonly partus ventrem sequitur an adulterous Herodias hath a dancing daughter easily infected with her mothers sicknesse it is a desperate adventure to choose there Concerning the mutual Dueties of the married these duties are observable 1. That they serve God together with one heart and consent §. III. so Abraham and Sarah Isaac and Rebecca Zacharie and Elisabeth so all the children of God in that state do 2. That both hold the bond of conjugal love entire pure and unpolluted while Solomon chargeth the man i Prov. 5. 18 c. rejoice with the wife of thy youth let her breasts satisfie thee at all times he enjoineth the woman the same duety let both ever remember the covenant they have made before God and that dreadful word 1 Cor. 6. 9 10. Be not deceived neither fornicators nor idolaters nor adulterers shall inherit the kingdom of God 3. That they live together in love peace
and winning behaviour is an excellent ornament and finishing of vertue not only setting off but much advantaging and commending sanctimony it selfe which is often loved and entertained by those that are without for that external comlinesse with which it is cloathed admired of them who being yet but carnal understand no more The men of Nazareth admired the gracious words which proceeded out of Christ's mouth concerning whom it was prophesied full of grace are thy lips and the Apostle saith let your speech be alwaies with grace seasoned so as that it may administer grace to the hearers by a gaining affability and St Peter saith be courteous God's wisedom ruling in his children is gentle they are deceived who think good breeding and comity conduceth nothing to religion yea it very much adorneth it and commendeth the professors thereof The rugged Ismaëls rustick Esaus and unformed Nabals are company more fit for beares then men But on the other side to be all complement without substance or good meaning speaketh a man a ridiculous superâ—icies an Italian bubble an outside and empty statue of a man He is an unprofitable burden of the earth who is neither good for war nor peace things secular nor divine Commendable is the care of honorable parents to breed up their children in Schools Vniversities Innes of court or travel into forain parts to fit them thereby to serve the state though the abuses thereof too often discommend the improvident who are not improved the negligent who are not bettered and the libertine who is made worse hereby how many travellers have not only like Solomon's Tharshish merchants among their precious lading brought home apes and peacocks vain imitation and pride but with Scipio luxury and the vices of other nations and with Ahaz the idolatry 2 King 16. 10 11. It is observable that some of the world 's great Princes have learned manufactures and therein laboured every day sometime The sole master of the world had his opus to till the ground idlenesse is the sepulcher of living men it is good to know how to subsist if some unexpected pressure should straiten a man and therefore necessary to breed thy childe so as that he may have some calling 5. Love thy children tenderly but in the Lord love them best which are most like their heavenly father in sanctity what can be more just then to honour the best most Love them so as not to hurt and hate thy selfe it is an inconsiderate love and foolish to remember others and forget our selves hold that distance which may secure a parents authority from contempt use such compliance with their age as may shew thee not rigidly austere but loving and affable to them though this seem inconvenient to those who have no experience of parents affection because no children which Agesilaus knew when by a friend suddenly coming in he was found riding with his children on a reed he prayed him not to report it till hee had children of his own love them next Christ not above him suffer them not to dishonor him neither give them liberty or opportunity to any evil â—inah's idle visits brought home shame danger and dishonor to her fathers family 6. Be not bitter to them lest thou discourage them provoke them not to anger lest it break out to some desperate disobedience use thy children to doe well rather for love then fear of their own accord rather then others fear or compulsion he that is inured to obey for love will not be afraid to communicate his counsels and to be advised by his parents without which he may unhappily follow his own or others to destruction 7. Correct thy children in love and wisedom so that it may appeare that thou art angry with their faults not them Hee that spareth his 〈◊〉 hateth his son but hee that loveth him chastenoth him betimes Thou shalt beat him with the rod and shalt deliver his soule from hell Foolishnesse is bound up in the heart of a childe but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him An horse not broken becometh head-strong and a childe left to himselfe will be wilful all extreams are dangerous there may be an unnatural severity in correction if it exceed in measure Seleucus is famous for his justice on his adulterous son but more for his love in putting out one of his own eies to satisfie the law that he might thereby spare one of his sonnes eies Junius Brutus punishing his sonnes ambition with death put off the natural affection of a father that he might act the Consul It was nothing lesse then impious severity of Manlius Torquatus taking away his sonnes life therein more valuing the Majesty of empire then the lawes of nature nor fatherly piety most detestable was Herod's cruelty who enraged by suspicion murdered his sons Aristobulus and Alexander with others Augustus censured so farre well I had rather be said hee Herods hogge then his son such prodigies perhaps might now be found but for feare of humane lawes I deny not but that sonnes may give cause of disinheriting but an implacable anger of the parent perhaps like Saul's with Jonathan for transgression of some foolish ordinance of his owne not regarding God's law nor his ordinance and assignment of the right of primogeniture is a dangerous sign of astorgie and want of natural affection which mediating there is an easier work in the world then reconciliation of an exorbitant sonne to an offended father which that prudent Tekoïte found in her mediating between David and Absolom The other extream is that which some mothers are guilty of when they hide or excuse their childrens sinnes and therein are abetters when they expresse delight in or consent to their childrens vices they doe but with those impious mothers who woont to sacrifice their children to the devil sing lullabies as they cast them into the fire that they might not offer a weeping sacrifice The summe is spare not thy childrens faults but love their persons in correcting ballance anger with wisedome that thou maist correct not make them worse 8. Keepe power in thy hands to restrain thy children and hold them in obedience as the wise man counselleth Give not thy sonne power over thee while thou livest better is it that thy children should seek to thee then that thou shouldst stand to their courtesie Love commonly descendeth but rarely ascendeth It hath been the ruine of many a childe that he had an estate made over to him without wisedome to manage it or himself when those young Phaëtons rule the day destruction cometh before night 9. Let not thy childe see any evil example in thee a thousand good precepts teach not so much as one evil example domestick examples are the most pernicious perswaders to vice and soonest corrupt specially when children have such authors as they love and hold sacred
death from the power of sin the snares of Satan the world and the flesh heare the voice of their praiers when they cry unto thee helpe them against all their enemies blesse their substance and accept the worke of their hands be thou ever their refuge and save them Thou who dividest the earth among the sonnes of men whose providence descendeth unto the feeding and preserving the poorest of thy creatures feed them with bread of their stature thou who encreasedst the oile and the meale so that it failed not in all the famine whether it be much or little which thou shalt be pleased to give them let thy blessing be with it that in every estate they may faithfully depend on thy gracious providence which never faileth them that trust in thee and finde such a sufficiency therein that they may live cheerfully and contentedly that they may never want that which thou knowest necessary and comfortable for their bodies and soules Lord give them hearts faithfully to seek thy kingdome and the righteousnesse thereof that all these things may be administred unto them O Lord God who hast promised to be a father of the fatherlesse who hast planted thine owne image of love and compassion in the hearts of parents towards their children heare the praiers of a poore father for his children and deny not the requests of my lips when thou shalt be pleased to take me from them leave them not destitute shew thy selfe their keeper directer and counseller that they may never swerve from thy commandements as thou hast shewed me mercy and compassion all my daies so holy father let not thy mercy depart from them but keep them in thy faith fear and love that as thy providence hath brought us together in this family so when this mortal life shall be ended we may by thy mercy all happily meet in the eternal communion of Saints in thy kingdome of glory through Jesus Christ our Lord and onely Saviour AMEN 1. The crown of the aged is children and the duety of children toward their parents is honor reverence fear obedience gratitude châ—erishing them in their age love and patience all this is comprehended in the fifth precept of Gods law honour thy father and thy mother who are comprehended under these titles I have already shewed I have here to speak of duety to parents 2. These rules of practice are hereto observable for the guidance of those children which feare the Lord and expect the promise their made to the obedient 1. Honor thy father and mother it is Gods expresse command and a dictate of nataâ—e this importeth reverence in thy bodily gesture before them as King Solomon rose upto meet his mother Bath-sheba and bowed himself vnto her as Moses went out to meet his father in law and did obeisance reverence in thy speech toward them and thy behaviour before them that it be not rude and such as becometh not the presence of those whom God will have honored as his vicegerents in the family So saith the Apostle Wee have had fathers of the flesh and wee gave them reverence none but a cursed Cham will behave himselfe unreverently before his father or mother or any waies tell or discover their failings to discredit or dishonor them but will goe with blessed Shem and Japhet with the vaile of discreet piety to conceale them Glory not in the dishonor of thy father saith the sonne of Sirach for thy fathers dishonor is no glory unto thee for the glory of a man is from the honor of his father and a mother in dishonor is a reproach to the children When God commanded Israel to be holy hee thus beginneth Ye shall fear every man his mother and father here indeed religion beginneth toward those whom God hath set in his own room on earth to nourish and give lawes to them and to receive their first tribute of obedience due to him by them there is little hope of it when it here blasteth in the bud the breach of this law carrying a fearefull curse with it as being a sinne against God and nature therefore the heathen Decius when he was offered the imperial crown refused it saying I fear lest being made an Emperour I should forget to be a sonne I had rather be a dutiful son then an Emperour let my father rule my Empire is to obey 2. Obey thy parents in all things not prohibited by God Hearken unto thy father that begat thee Forsake not the law of thy mother Children obey your parents in all things 3. Patiently beare their infirmities where age maketh them pettish where they erre not gain-saying or answering againe contend not irreverently with them though thou art in the right when they are angry with thee overcome that anger with patience 4. Be such to thy parents as thou wouldst have thy children to thee commonly it will be so an evil sonne seldom proveth an happy father Whoso honoreth his father shall have joy of his own children but as God rewardeth the duety of children according to his promise so will he their impiety and disobedience according to his justice because hee is true in both all sinnes have their severe punishments following them and when God's justice is most slow it is most sure but there are some sins which are more destructive to humane society which God the preserver thereof usually punisheth in this life that hee may deterre men from committing them so it is observable that cruelty oppression and murder seldome goe unpunished here but most closely acted sometimes they are discovered by extraordinary meanes and disobedience to parents may hence appeare odious to God and man that it is commonly punished by the like deportments of their children an example thereof is commonly found in every family of the disobedient O Sonne cryed the father beaten and dragged out of doors by the haire of the head draw mee no further for thus farre I drew my father 5. Love thy parents tenderly though the reflexes of this love are not so strong yet doe them all the good thou canst love them next after Christ above him thou maiest not No man can requite his parents and teachers yet shew thy love and gratitude to them if they want nourish them so did good Joseph so tender ought thy care to be of them that it should be thy grief if thou do any waies grieve them My son help thy father in his age and grieve him not as long as he liveth Thou must be cheerful to them not violate this piety so much as with an ill looke A necessary document for those prodigals which will not be warned from ryot and lewd company until they bring their parents hoary head with sorrow to the grave and necessity bring them home in rags as also to the profane Esaus whose impious matches are a griefe of minde unto Isaac and make
A GVIDE TO THE HOLY CITY OR Directions and Helps to an holy life Containing Rules of religious advice with Prayers in sundry cases and estates necessary for those who are not of heart so enlarged as to advise themselves or to conceive comfortable prayers according to their present wants By IOHN READING B. D. and sometimes Student in Magdalen Hall in OXFORD Come ye children hearken unto mee I will teach you the fear of the Lord. Psal. 34. 11. If any man lacke wisedome let him aske of God which giveth to all men liberally and reproacheth no man and it shall be given him Jam 1. 5. OXFORD Printed for THOM ROBINSON and RICH DAVIS 1651. THE PREFACE Good Reader MY purpose in publishing these Meditations is an hearty desire to communicate that to others wherewith the Lord blessed forever hath comforted me If I may hereby contribute any assistance to them who have not better advice or hearts not so enlarged as to conceive prayers according to their severall conditions and wants I have my end I cannot reasonably expect that this Benom issue of my afflictions should be accepted of all or like the Manna fit every palate specially in this censorious age wherein some like nothing but the Minerva's of their owne braine I would I could not say many like those foolish heathens adore their owne maladies applauding themselves for good and wiâ—e in that they distast all that is good and wholsome which is indeed a symptome of a disaffected palate I am not ignorant that a speaker ventureth within the reach of Censure and that a writer tyeth himselfe to the stake yet in hope that some may reap good by my labours I resolve not to be discouraged if any shall be so injurious as to render evill to my good intentions my labour is with the Lord who appointed some cheap sacrifices that the poore might serve him as well as the rich and requiring principally willing hearts hee that had not jewels gold silver silke purple or like pretious things might bring skins goats-haire things of small vallew and bee accepted you who have a greater share of heavenly treasures offer of your fulnesse God accepteth the poore widdowes mites where is no more give me then the use of S. Augustines words whosoever readeth these things where he is equally certaine let him goe on with mee where he equally doubteth let him enquire with me where he acknowledgeth his errour let him returne to me where hee findeth mine let him recall me let us all enter into that sacred vvay of charitye which may bring us to Christ in vvhose schoole I desire to be a disciple of vvhom I beg in my daily prayers that whether â— follow or lead others in the vvay to heaven I may understand and persevere in that truth vvhich neither deceiveth nor is deceived in vvhich if my hearts desire and constant prayer to God through Jesus Christ that wee may all meet in his kingdome of glory merit any returne of your charity joyne with me and for me in your prayers And now brethren I commend you to the word of his grace which is able to build you further and to give you an inheritance among all them thaâ— are sanctified read happily practice diligently consider what I say and the Lord give you understanding in all things The Summe of the Guide shewing the 1 End of a Christians hope and endeavours true happinesse 2 Meanes to attaine it true 1 Faith grounded on Gods Word and truth teaching us what we are to believe concerning 1 God the Father Almighty 2 God the Son Iesus Christ our Lord and Saviour 3 God the Holy Ghost our Comforter 4 The Catholike Church 5 The Communion of Saints 6 The remission of sinnes 7 The resurrection of the body 8 Life everlasting 2 Obedience in 1 Generall which is in our 1 Performance of duties to 1 God in 1 Love to him above all 2 Prayer 3 Hearing the Word 4 Receiving the Sacrament 5 Sanctification of the Sabbath 2 Man in love to our 1 Selves 2 Neighâ—bours 1 Friends in God 2 Enemies for Gods sake 2 Being rightly guided in our 1 Soule passions perturbations of mind as in case of 1 Love delight c. 2 Mirth sorrow 3 Anger hatred malice 4 Envie 5 Impatience patience 6 Discontent content 7 Hope 8 Feare 9 Cares 10 Iealousie 2 Outwardman as in the 1 Tongue 2 Actions 2 Particular 1 Calling of 1 Masters and servants 2 Man and wife 3 Parents and children 2 CoÌ„ditions which are either 1 IncideÌ„t to some which are either 1 Internall as the wounded spirit and afflicted conscience 2 Externall as 1 Wealth poverty 2 Imprisonment 3 Banishment 4 Old age 5 Child-bearing 6 Sickness 2 Common to all mankind as death The CONTENTS Chap. 1. THe necessity of a Christians aime at a right end in all his actions pag. 1. The Prayer pag. 3. 2. Of true religion wherein it consisteth of faith and those things which concerne it pag 4. A prayer for Faith pag. 10. 3. What we are to believe concerning God that there is but one God in essence and Trinity of Persons how we must labour to know him pag. 12. A prayer pag. 23. 4 What we are to believe concerning Iesus Christ Gods only Son our Lord conceived by the Holy Ghost borne of the Virgin Mary p. 24. 5 What we are to believe concerning Christ's suffering under Pontius Pilate his crucifying death buriall resurrection ascâ—ntion sitting at the right hand of God the Father and his coming againe to judgement p. 35. The Prayer p. 47. 6 Concerning the Holy Ghost what we are to believe rules thereto belonging p. 48. 7 Concerning the Catholike Church conclusions belonging thereto and rules observable p. 50. 8 What the Communion of Saints is wherein consisting rules thereto appertaining p. 54. 9 Concerning the necessity of sins remission to whom it belongeth it is the summe of the Gospell rules thereto appertaining p. 59. A Prayer for repentance and remission of sinnes p. 63. 10 Concerning the resurrection of the dead how the truth thereof may appeare what use we are to make of the meditation thereon pag. 64. 11 What life everlasting is wherein the happinesse thereof consisteth what rules of practice we are to hold concerning the same pag. 68. The Prayer p. 72. 12 Concerning Prayer what and how necessary it is conditions thereof motives to the earnest practice of this duty râ—les thereto belonging pag. 73. A Prayer for the spirit of Prayer p. 87. 13 Of hearing Gods word motives thereto usuall lets conditions requisite to profitable hearing pag. 89. A Prayer before hearing the Word p. 104. 14 Of the Sacrament of the Lords Supper who receive the grace thereby represented how we ought to prepare for the right receiving thereof how to receive it what we must doe after we have received pag. 108. A private prayer before the receiving of the Lords Supper p. 109. Another private
Prayer for one ready to receive the Lords Supper pag. 111. A private Prayer after reâ—eiving the Lords Supper pag. 112. Another private Prayer immediately after receiving the Lords Supper pag. 113. 15 Of the Sabbath the name institution things considerable for the sanctification the beginning and ending reasons of the institution the change of the Lords day now to be observed of all Christians how we must sanctifie it p. 114. A Prayer for the Sabbath day morning pag. 125. To the ordinary evening prayer may be added this private prayer for the Sabbath p. 128. 16 Of Love and Charity what they are how they differ in their objects love to God considerable in the object and measure severall states degrees perpetuity and opposition signes thereof common lets meanes on our part to be used c. motives to incite us thereto pag. 129. A prayer for love to God pag. 14â— 17 Of love to our selves kinds thereof love to our neighbour the necessity and excellency thereof conditions and signes of friendship what and how excellent it is the true end and lawes thereof what choice we are to make of friends and whom to avoid of love to our enemies we ought to love them without any malice and to make a right use of them p. 144. A Prayer for Love and Charity p. 180. 18 Of the soule affections mind and thoughts in generall corruption of the heart danger difficulty of the cure necessity of a right ordering our thoughts rules of practice pag. 181. 19 Of right ordering the thoughts in respect of some particular passions affections and perturbations of the mind in their distempers of love delight joy rejoycing mirth sorrow anger hatred malice envy impatience discontent a contented mind pag. 201. The Prayer for patience pag. 226. 20 Of Hope Feare Cares Iealousies pag. 227. A prayer for hope p. 233. A Prayer against feare p. 240. A Prayer against cares pag. 241. A Prayer for sanctification of the thoughts pag. 250. 21 Guidance of the tongue excellent use abuse evils of the tongue concluding the necessity of a right guidance thereof motives thereto rules by which it may be done pag. 252. A Prayer pag. 265. 22 Of externall actions in generall whence the good are how requisite how regulated rules concerning them pag. 266. The Prayer pag 270. 23 Government of Families duties of Masters and Servants motives to their duties pag. 271. A short morning prayer with a Family p. 277. Another Morning Prayer for a Family pag 278. A short Evening Prayer p. 282. An Evening Prayer for a Family more enlarged p. 283. 24 Of Marriage institution end and fruits thereof of choice in generall and particular who are to be avoided Duties of the married mutuall and peculiar advice to widdowes p. 287. the prayer pag 299. 25 Duties of Parents and Children honour to parents want of children good parents of evill children duty of the parent rules thereto belonging duties of children rules thereof motives thereâ—to p. 299. the parents Prayer p. 310. the childrens prayer p. 315. 26 Of the wounded spirit or afflicted conscience what it is how great an affliction what the conscience iâ— How comfortable the peace thereof why God afflicteth his What things principally wound the conscience What they who are afflicted with the apprehension of Gods wrath against their sinnes must consider What they must examine and practise p. 316. the prayer p. 336 27 Sense of spirituall wants afflicteth but not so much endangereth the soule what we are herein to consider examine and practise p 337. the prayer 344. 28 Of the conscience afflicted with feare of tentations and falling away what we are herein to consider examine and practise pag 346 an ejaculation to be used as soone as thou awakest pag 354 another for thy last waking pag. ib. the prayer of a wounded spirit against temptations p. 355. 29 Guidance of the mind in encrease of wealth afflictions common their fruit in good men poverty a great tryall riches great temptations commonly mistaken how to guide the minde in encrease of riches or a full inheritance pag. 357. the rich mans petition pag. 364. 30 Poverty a great temptation yet having a capacity of true happinesse what we are to consider herein and what to practise pag. 365. the poore mans petition pag 373 31 Of liberty and restraint misplaced by an injurious world comforts for prisoners rules hereto appertaining p 374 the prisoners petition pag 384. 32 Of Banishment severall kinds generall cause what we must doe to be comforted herein pag. 391. the banished mans petition pag. 399. 33 Of old age common evills thereof the foundation must be happily laid in youth how the evills of age may be lesâ—ed or more patiently borne by what rules of practise it may be improved to comfort pag 400. the old mans supplication pag 414. 34 Meditations for women neere their travell all misery is from sin sins pardoned in Christ why the punishments are not taken away womens comforts therein directions necessary thereto p. 415 a prayer for them in or neere their travaile pag 422. â— thankesgiving pag 425. 35 Directions for the sicke as all afflictions sanctified so sicknesse is profitable for Gods children many waies how it may become so to us duties of those that visit the sick pag 425. a prayer for the sicke pag 430. thankesgiving for health recovered pag 434. another after the ceasing of the plague p. 435. 36 Meditations concerning death seeing all must dye how to prepare that death may not be terrible meanes to comfort in death of deare friends comforts against death pag 439 a prayer for him that is at the point of death or hath received the sentence of death in himselfe pag 454. ERRATA Pag. 2. marg read invenâ—rint p. 4. m. r. placat p. 5. m. sin r. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 p. 7. l. 2. our soules p. 8. l. 3. r. Satan Subtile p. 13. m. r. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 p 15. m. r. hac mundi domo ib. l. 32. r he must therefore p 17 l. 28. the first cause 22. l. 18. holy ascentions p. 24. l. penâ—lt r. marketh the Church p. 25. l. 10. was reserved 29. l. 35 by the power p. 31. l ult so was fulfilled p. 32 l. 16. r. as the heire ib. l. ult changes p. 37. l. 4. the place p. 38. l. â—3 encrease thy p. 48. l. 9. r. in thee ib. r. Concerning the Holy Ghost § 1. what we are p. 51. l. 2. r. whereof he â—b l. 3. sheepfold p. 52. l. 6. are but onâ— p. 62. l. 2. there is entire p. 64. l. 3. what use we p. 66. l. 16. bearing in life p. 72. l. 21. beare all p. 74. 19. the confidence p. 78. l. 33. he looketh on 79. l. 11. his brethren 93 l. 27. preserve thee 95 l. 30. to the deafe 98. l. 7. in their legends 117 l. 14. to intimate 137. l. 14. and have his 146. l. 19. not so for it â—nd 174. l. 4. feeding on thee
179. l 11. had perished 204. l. 8. strings of musiâ—all ib. l. 23. therefore 1 in every ib. l. 26. ease of sorrows 213. l. 1. haâ—e some remission 216. l. 6. so Haman 229. l. 12. in any creature may be defeated p. 246. l 4. who cannot give 249. l. 24. his posterity ib. l. 29. repaire 252. l. 11. the same speâ—ch as reason 259. l. 12. seasonable 260. l. 16. his by just meanes 261. l. 31. themselves heires thereof 268. l 31. for or by any 273. l. 16. see thee impious 288. l. 19. there is compulsion 295. l. 19. to foment discord 296. l 14. with discretion 300. l. 18. did I desire a son 306. l. 33. or fatherly 307. l. 6. is no easier The prudent Reader may be pleased to amend other light slips and mispointings as the sense requireth A GVIDE TO THE HOLY CITY c. CHAP. 1. Concerning the necessity of a Christians aiming at a right end in all his actions 1 THere is an end of every action and intention which as the rudder of the ship though it come last is first purposed and guideth â—he whole course 2 By the instinct of Nature every thing worketh to some end which shewes is the perfection thereof to which what ever is not conducing is uselesse especiaâ—ly reasonable creatures who have Will and Preëlection among them they propose to themselves more divine and excellent ends of their desires and actions who understand the cheife good to be attained true and â—ternall blessednesse in Christ are regenerate and repaired by the holy Spirit and wisdome of God 3 In every undertaking propose some certaine end and before thou enterprise examin that diligently run not on at adventure as children use in some unknown path till they loose themselves but carefully look to what end the way thou takest â—eadeth thee consider seriously what danger or profit is therein who knowes not that the end of sin cannot be happy because there remaineth something after it And that the end of the just man shall be peace at last The cause why so many run the broad way to destruction and so few the strait to eternall life must principally be want of a due forecasting what will be the end of that they doe fixing their hearts on the present evill which pleaseth them they regard not the misery which followeth their tasting the forbidden fruit but for its sake wilfully shut their eyes against their dangers or seeing and thinking them much lesse or the recovery more easie they desperatly venture in vaine hope of repentance and pardon and on the other part beeing too sensible of the difficulties which beset the way to heaven they doe not enough consider their future blessednesse and therefore either faint in their trialls their heart saying with prophane Esau Lo I am almost dead what is then this birthright to me Or doting on this world resolve to settle their affections hereon this is the Jazer and Gilead which they would were their portion 4 The supreame and best end of all is Gods glorie into which ocean all desires and actions of the reasonable creature must emptie themselves subordinate hereto is the true blessednesse of the elect in the fruition of God the fountaine of all good in the life to come which naturall men mistaking sought in pleasures riches and such things as the world adoreth whereas indeed all those things if they could have met in one man should have come as short of making him truly happy as the intended top of Babel would have been from landing the builders in heaven 5 The way to this end is true holinesse that is faith ad obedience the end of the Commandement without faith apprehending Christ for our justification no workes are more acceptable to God then Cains sacrifice the sacrifice of the wicked Whatsoever is not of faith is sinne And without obedience there is no justifying faith Faith without workes is dead it saith as once barren Rahel give me Children or I die 6 That which we are to beleeve and obey is the infallible truth of God the first and second trueth God and his oracles and his will concerning our salvation sufficient to make a man wise there to revealed in his word the word and testimonie of man may be the ground of opinion which is of things probable but faith can stand on nothing but the word of God which is infallibly certaine and can have no falshood in it because he cannot ly this is contained in the bookes of the Old and New Testament this is a sure word 2. Pet. 1. 16. 19. for it was indited by the Spirit of God 2. Tim 3 16. 2. Pet 1 21 the same is the rule of obedience like the clowdie Pillar leading Israël into their promised rest Num 14 14 and the star to lead the wise men to Christ Math 2 9 whosoever will be saved must follow this guid hee that walketh without this gâ—eth like those Israëlites Num 14 40 to the Mountaine of the Canaanites to their own destruction for the Lord is not with him 7 That which is the object of faith is comprehended in the Creed which is the summe of the Gospell our obedience to God is set downe in the Law the summe whereof is love to God and to our neighbours Luk 10 27 28 The Prayer MOst gratious and most holy Lord God who dwelling in unaccessible light of Majestie and glory hast yet been pleased to manifest thy infinite power and unsearchable wisdome in all thy creatures especially those who thou hast created to thine own image to praise and glorifie thee in their eternall participation of thy divine blessednesse Give us true wisdome to consider the end for which thou hast made us make us truely understand that thy glory is incomparably better then all the creatures and our salvation then all the world Lord open our eyes that we sleep not in death let not the transitory dreames of this present life beguile us let not the malitious temper so prevaile upon our infirmities as â—o cause us sâ—curely to run on in the easie way to destruction but gratious Lord as thou hast appointed the end our eternall life so be pleased to dispose the meanes which may lead us thereto Thou canst as easily make us holy as command us to be so Lord therefore make us such as thou hast commanded us to be make us faithfull to beleeve in thee and obedient to serve and please thee as thou hast in thy great and tender mercy given thy holy word to be a light and true guid unto us so blessed Lord give us of the same spirit by which it was endited which may lead us into all truth and holinesse and these daies of sinne being ended into that holy and blessed inheritance which thou hast prepared for all those whâ—m thou hast elected to eternall
is begotten not made sicut lumen de lumine verus Deus de vero Deo light of light God of God the Holy Ghost proceedeth from the Father and the Sonne from all eternity We must labour to know God not by a curious and vaine enquiry after his incomprehensible being which we can never know but by a true faith and humbled soule beleeving and considering him as he hath declared himselfe Christian faith saith in the Apostles words unto us there is but one God but among the professours thereof how many are the hearts like those Athenian altars Act 17. 23. inscribed unto the unknowne God ignorance of â—od is the mother of all impiety unthankfulnesse repining infidelitie securitie presuming to sin impenitencie therefore the wicked are said not to know â—od and obedience to his commandements is a sure marke that we know him Paul therefore wondreth at the Galatians that knowing God by the Scriptures they could turne back againe to beggerly and impotent rudiments at once shewing what we ought to know of God and what use to make thereof praying thaâ—â—he Colossians might be filled with the knowledge of Gods will in all wisdome and spirituall understanding that they might walke worthy of the Lord and please him in all things being fruitfull in all good works and increasing in the knowledge of God this knowledge of â—od is more acceptable to him then sacrifice Hos 6. 6. without this a man can doe nothing but erre had he never so great a zeale of God if we will serve and please him wee must know what he delighteth in ignorance of the truth and unitie of God begat that monstrous idolatrie of many false Gods had they knowne there is but one they would not have worshipped many had they knowne him to be omnipotent spirituall wise mercifull just they would not insteed of him have adored any impotent Idol which they knewe could not help nor deliver it selfe from fire or violence neither was sensible when it was making to avoid such mischeivous errours it is necessary that we should know the Lord as he hath revealed himselfe least we heare that which Christ told the Samaritan Joh 4. 22. yee worship that yee know not that there is but one God the Almighty creator and mercifull preserver of all things three persons but one deity Say not why should I vainly strive to know him who is incomprehensible and unspeakable If I cannot drinke up the whole river shall I not tast to quench my thirst Because I cannot receive all the beames of the Sun shall not I use a moderate light thereof If I were admitted into Paradise because I cannot eate all the fruit should I not tast of the tree of life I cannot know God as he is in his incomprehensible being I will endeavour to knowe him as he is good and gratious to me I will consider his power providence mercy and benificence who hath with so full an hand bestowed things temporall on man that nothing can be desired but his blessing on them nothing could be wanting would not man be wanting to himselfe in the right use of Gods favours in the booke of Grace I will consider his great and admirable favours and his counsaile for our salvation in Christ To conclude observe these rules 1 Take heed that thy extravagant thoughts carry thee not by vaine and curious speculations to prie into the Arke whereby thou maist more easily loose thy selfe then finde the truth marke and follow the wisdome of God for thy salvation when God would open the truth and mysteries of eternall life to man he provided that wee might know those things which were necessary to obtaine eternall life but those things which are too curious and profane minds he spake not where the Scripture hath not a tongue have thou not an eare 2 Measure not all things which thou canst know and beleeve by carnall reason for if he said to Moses desiring to come nigh and to discover that fierie mysterie which burned and consumed not loose thy shooes from thy feet how much more must we put off our carnall senses when wee draw nigh so glorious and holy a God that we may think on him with pure and untroubled affections 3 Be thou not over long or curious in the contemplation of the deity but when thou thinkest thereof cover thy face with the Cherubs wing let thy thoughts be full of humilitie sobrietie and holy ascâ—â—tions by zealous prayer When Jacob saw a vision in the fields of Luz waking he said how fearefull is this place How much should the presence of God aw us when we doe by our meditations as it were come into his presence and view his dreadfull holy and glorious Majestie Therefore as thou lookest but sparingly on the Sun thou gazest not long though it be the dayes eye of so great and comfortable use to thee so meditate on God It is behoofull and comfortable for thee to remember that God is ever present with thee it will aw thee in thy behaviour and sustaine thee in thy sufferings but it is not safe to fix thy thoughts in any searching meditation of him 4 As he that will looke upon the Sunne will finde it under some thin clowd so thou must do here Christ in his humanity is as the sunne in a cloud the safest way to looke on the Godhead is through the vaile of his flesh and in him to consider what a one God hath shewed himselfe to us in him wee see his wisdome severity and the unsearchable riches of his mercy all that which is necessary for us to know concerning him 5 Labour for purity of heart the more thou performest Gods will the more thou shalt know him Yea and a prudent consideration of thy selfe shall advance thy knowledge of God that thou maist beleeve in him and forsaking thy selfe rely only on him A Prayer O Most gratious Lord God beeing of beeings unaccessible light life of life father of the spirits of the just infinite incomprehensible Lord God of power wisedome mercy justice truth who dwellest in that unsearchable glory and Majestie to which none of all thy creatures can attaine Lord God of gods King of Kings slow to anger of great goodnesse and compassion who hast beene pleased out of thine owne eternall love to man even before he was to elect him and in thy creating him to put thine owne glorious image of light and knowledge upon him to extend a gratious hand of providence over him to looke downe from the habitation of thy glory to consider the things which are done among the sonnes of men looke downe O blessed Lord God upon mee wretched sinner by the malitious tempter and mine owne wilfulnesse blinded and deprived of that excellent light of my creation and despoyled of that purity of heart conformity of will and actions wherein I had ability to serve and please
perish so long as thou reignest over all The next is his comming to judge the quicke and the dead properly annexed to the foregoing because he so sitteth at Godâ—s right hand as that he both exerciseth the patience of the elect under the crosse and long permitteth the wicked enemies to insult over them to comfort us herein 't is necessary to beleeve that Christ who now sitteth at God's right hand will thence come to judge all men those whom he shall finde surviving who shall be changed in a moment at the sound of the last trump and the dead raised againe all elect and reprobate some to eternall absolution from sin and death and others to eternall shame and destruction of bodies and soules This judgement shall be of all our thoughts words and actions the books shall be opened and every secret thing manifested the evidence of every fact shall speak as Abels blood did The time of this judgment shall be at the second comming of Christ the particular yeare or day no creture knoweth neither the son of man himselfe here knew it in the state of humiliatioÌ„ nor need it seem strang how being God and man in one person the manhood could be ignorant of any thing the deity being omniscient seeing he tooke on him all our infirmities sinne excepted amongst which natiue ignorance was not a little one therefore t is said that from his childhood he encreased in wisedome which no infinite can doe and why shall I not as easily beleeue that there was a vaile of the slesh betweene the deity and humane soule intercepting some light of knowledge as I certainly know there was intercepting the present sense of his fathers assistance and of the comfort of the deity in his passion when he cried out My God my God why hast thou forsaken mee The signes of this judgements approach are 1. preaching the Gospell to all Nations 2. revelation of the man of sinne 3. a generall departing from the faith 4. Universall corruption of manners 2 Tim. 3. 1. 5. warres and rumours of warres 6. hardnesse of heart so that no importunity of the lowdest sonnes of Thunder can awake men out of sinne as it was in the dayes of Noah 7. Calling of the Jewes Rom. 11. 25. The signe which shall accompany the comming of Christ shall be the signe of the sonne of man in heaven Math. 24. 30. The Summe is Christ shall come againe to judge all men Act. 17. 31. Math. 25. 31. Jud. 14. 14. 1 Thes. 4. 16. and Math. 24. 30. where he joyneth the declaration of the judgement with the prediction of Jerusalems destruction to the end that men might be assured of the judgement to come by that which they saw or knew fulfilled in that City Concerning the place whether in the valley of Jehoshaphat or the time and lasting of this great Assizes the manner of proceeding and the like it is vaine to enquire after that which God hath not revealed specially seeing his word directeth to make better use hereof 1 To deterre men from sinne in respect of the inevitable terrour of that day 2 Not to judge one another Rom 14. 1 Cor 4. 5. 3 To prepare because the day is neere fearing God Eccles 12. 14. Rev 14. 7. keeping a good conscience Act 24. 15 16. watching that we may lift up our heads at that day Luk 22. 28. 35 36. Repenting Act 17. 30 31. Without delay 2. Pet 3. 2. Loving one another 1. Joh 3. 18. 19. That wee may assure our hearts before him and have boldnesse in the day of judgment 1. Joh 4. 17. Comforting our selves in all our sufferings our Saviour shall be our judge and who shall condemne us seeing he died to acquit us He cannot but avenge for us though he suffer long therefore we must be patient expecting his sentence Come yee blessed of my father inherit the kingdome prepared for you A Prayer O Lord God of mercy and compassion who in thy eternall and infinite love to man gavest thy onely Sonne to become man to take experience of our miseries to be tempted in all things like us sinne onely excepted and to suffer the severity of thy wrath against us sinners by offering him up a living sacrifice for us who were dead in trespasses and sins the just for the unjust that by his stripes we might be healed and hast revealed unto us that great mystery of godlinesse so much desired of the faithfull from the beginning the inestimable riches of thy grace and mercy hid from all ages unto the fulnesse of time God manifested in the flesh justified in the spirit seene of Angells preached unto the Gentiles beleeved on in the world and received up into glory make us truly thankefull to thee for all thy unspeakeable favours give us true faith to apprehend and finde our interest in him with assurance that he is our God and Saviour O ever blessed Jesus whose name is as sweet ointment powred forth whom the Virgin soules therefore love draw us that we may runne after thee let the annointing which we have received of thee whereby we have the honour to be called and to be Christians and the happinesse to be enlightned with thy truth and led in thy paths abide in us and teach us all things necessary for the advancement of thy glory and our salvation let it bee like that precious nard wherewith thou wast imbalmed against the day of thy death to fill our hearts and affections with that comfortable savour of life unto life that thou maist wholy season us dwell in us and be all in all with us that the merit of thy death and vertue of thy resurrection may both mortify all our sinfull corrupt affections and raise us to the life of righteousnesse that dying to sinne governed here by thy power to which all things are committed in heaven and earth and hereafter acquitted by thy finall sentence when thou shalt come to judge the living and the dead we may at last come to the perfect union with thee in a full view and eternall enjoying of thee and thy blessed presence who hast suffered all these things to redeeme us and to purchase the kingdome prepared for us from eternity that wee may attaine that true blessednesse in the which thy holy Gospell hath preached unto us Grant this through thy mercies O heavenly Father thy merits O gracious Lord Jesus and thy assistance O holy Spirit three persons one onely wise omnipotent and immortall God to whom belongeth all honour glory praise might Majestie and dominion in heaven and earth from this time forth and to endlesse eternitie AMEN CHAP. VI. § 1. What we are to beleeve § 2. Rules thereto belonging 1 ALL knowledge of God the Father and Sonne with man can attaine to availeth him not except it be made good to him by a blessed application thereof to himselfe wrought by the
be like minded having the same love being of one accord of one minde let nothing be done through strife If yee have any part in the communion of Saints hold the unity of the spirit in the bond of peace if there be envy malice contentions schismes factions and discords 't is an ill signe of your interest in this holy communion God's sonnes are peaceable all that are guided by his spirit who is Love love and care for each other as the members of the body mutually defend and hide the blemishes of their fellowes 2. Be compassionate if one member suffer all grieve because they are animated by one soule and is it possible that any man should make himselfe beleeve that the spirit of Jesus hath quickned him who not only remembreth not but malitiously promoteth the affliction of Joseph 3 Forsake not holy assemblies where Gods word soundeth and his honour dwelleth 'T is a delusion of Satan who advanceth his throne most in our divisions which maketh men prefer private prayers and exercises before the venerable publike 4 Unite to holy societies and with draw from evill company 't is very dangerous to have society with the wicked Jehoshaphat found it so what makest thou in the way to Egypt said the Prophet The wisest Solomons hazards were from evill company have no fellowship with them saith the Apostle In the society of the holy there is good even to the wicked sometimes for their sakes Potiphers house prospered for one good Josephs sake the ships company were saved for one Paul how much more are the Saints advantaged by their holy communion Begin thy heaven on earth having society and communion with the Saints here or thou shalt never have the happinesse thereof hereafter 5 Be thou holy if thou wilt be of this society you knowe in worldly leagues 't is parity of manners which begeteeth amity like loves his like get on the wedding garment if thou wilt rejoyce with the invited If we say wee have fellowship with him and walke in darknesse we ly and doe not know the truth Saul among the Prophets became a proverb of a prodigie The Nethanims joyned themselves to Israel but when they returned they could not finde their pedegrees and therefore were diffranchised as hypocrites shall be from the elect there 's no admission of any thing uncleane into heaven no wealth can purchase entrance but only sanctity if Simon had the Indies to morgage he could not enter 6. Let it comfort thee in thy sufferings feare not they are more with thee then against thee in every distresse thou partakest of the sweet odours ascending up into Gods holy presence the prayers of the Saints if one Moses by standing in the gap could divert the plague raging among the people what shall not many thousands doe for one afflicted man We will goe with you said they in the prophesie for wee have heard that God is with you God is with thee in all that thou dost said Abimelech and Phicol to Abraham therefore they thought themselves happy to have a covenant with him what ever thou sufferest they share with thee and intercede for thee CHAP. IX Concerning Remission of Sinnes § 1. Of the necessitie hereof to whom it belongeth it is the summe of the Gospell § 2. Rules hereto appertaining THE second benefit which God bestoweth on his Church is remission of sinnes which is a free pardon of all their transgressions so that God will never impute them remember or charge them upon any of those who are justified by faith in Christ. This is an article of great necessity to be beleeved for what could communion availe us if a free remission of our sinnes did not acquit us of a due condemnation Without this what could we be but a wretched condemned society What ever we else beleeve concerning Christ the Saviour without this wee were no better then excluded Virgins with oylelesse lamps then Judas amongst the Apostles sonnes of perdition This remission is when God forgiveth faults and punishments neither imputing the one nor executing the other not onely some sinnes but all as 't is written Thou wilt cast all their sinnes into the depth of the sea and Psal. 103. 3. Who forgiveth all thy iniquities who healeth all thy diseases 'T is true that sometimes the chastisement lasteth longer then the imputation of the fault so when the Prophet had said to David repenting the Lord hath put away thy sinne yet hee could not prevaile for the life of his child neither did the sword depart from his house but this was a fatherly correction an healing not a punishment and David confessed as much 't is good for mee that I have beene in trouble and it standeth good by reason that God remitteth all sinnes if any for seeing he that breaketh any one commandement is guilty of all if God retained any one sinne unremitted the whole debt must be charged upon the sinner This was that which Christ declared to Simon in the parable of the two debters one owed 50. the other 500. pence and when neither had to pay the creditor equally forgave both 2. This benefit is peculiar to the elect the Church the people that dwell therein shall have their iniquities forgiven they onely are the redeemed of the Lord all others out of Christ are in the gall of bitternesse having no part nor fellowship herein there is no other name under heavenby which we can be saved he was delivered for our offences by his blood we are redeemed the Paschall lambe belongeth onely to this house herein however the grace of God is given in diverse measures remission of sinnes is equally bestowed on all the Saints 3. This great benefit is the summe of the Gospell proclaimed by John Baptist given in charge to be preached to all for this cause God sent his onely Sonne into the world to be a Prince and a Saviour to give repentance and remission of sinnes in him we have redemption through his blood the forgivenesse of sinnes To this point appertaine these rules 1. That we despaire not in respect of the greatnesse of our sinnes how great soever it be it is farre lesse then the infinite merit of Jesus Christ whose blood cleanseth us from all sinnes though your sinnes be as scarlet twice dyed in originall and actuall transgression they shall be white as snow there were many who went out of Christs presence very happy some restored to sight some to hearing some to health some dispossessed of uncleane spirits some restored to life 't was true of him what was said of Caesar hee sent none away sad the yong rich mans owne fault dismissed him so but none more happy then her that heard goe in peace thy sinnes are forgiven thee let the spirit of truth say only this to my soule and in spight
called none would answer When I spake they did not heare the best that a contemner or neglecter of Gods Word can expect is to be severely afflicted that at last hee may hearken and learne to acknowledge with David before I was troubled I went wrong but now have I learned thy testimonies as Elihu said Job 36. 15. he openeth their eares in oppression 2. God will cut him off Act. 3. 23. Jer. 7. 13. 15. Deut 30. 17. 18. they are none of Christs sheepe who will not heare his voyce they dispise Christ Luk. 10. 16. whose word it is Math. 16. 20. therefore shall it be more tolerable for Sodome and Gomorrah in the day of judgement then for them 3. God will not heare them when they crie unto him in distresse Though they cry in mine eares with a lowd voyce yet will I not heare them and againe he saith as I cryed and they would not heare so they cryed and I would not heare saith the Lord Zach 7. 13. 8. 8. The fruits of hearing are very necessary and most comfortable The Tempter laboureth to keep us from Church by presenting us many lets pleasures profits and the like whose losse he pretendeth if we spend an houre to heare but upon a due account it will appeare that never any faithfull hearer lost by performing this duty for 1. Faith is by hearing Rom 10. 17. faith apprehending all the riches of Gods mercy in Christ. 2. Hereby thou shalt understand the feare of the Lord and finde the knowledge of God sound wisedome and understanding to preseâ—â—â— thee and deliver thee from the way of the evill man 3. Hereby thou shalt abide in Christs love and live as it is written encline your eare heare and your soule shall live I will make an everlasting covenant with you see Joh 15. 10. Rev 3. 20. 4. It is the better part that one necessary thing which shall never bee taken away Luk 10 39. what ever else with expence of pretious time we get shall puickly bee taken from us but the treasure we gaine in hearing Gods word shall goe with us to eternity 5. The holy Ghost accompanieth his owne ordinance though â—ot alwaies in visible effects as Act. 10. 44. c. yet in that which is better to the hearers justification by faith whereby Christ becommeth ours to his sealing with the spirit of promise and being made fruitfull to all good workes all which is better then faith of miracles which a man may have and yet be a reprobate Math. 7. 22. 23. 6. They are blessed who heare the word of God and keepe it blessed with health and plenty peace wisedome an attentive care makes a prudent heart He that hearkneth unto Councell is wise and which is best confidence in Christ who never faileth trust 7. Their prayers shall be heard If yee abide in me and my word in you yee shall aske what yee will and it shall bee done unto you it was the answer of God to Josias by the Prophetesse Huldah because thy heart was tender and thou didst humble thy selfe before God when thou heard'st his Words against this place I â—ave even heard thee also saith the Lord lay up his words on thy heart saith Eliphaz Job 22. 22. 27. thou shalt make thy prayer unto him and he shall heare thee The lets unto the right performing this duty are 1. Hardnesse of heart as 't is written they refused to hearken and stopped their cares that they should not heare yea they made their hearts as an adamant stone least they should heare the law and againe this peoples heart is waxed grosse and their eares are dull of hearing and againe if yee Will heare his voice harden not your hearts Miserable is the state of those deafe adders who refuse to be charmed who is so deafe as hee that will not heare The deafe heart is incomparably worse then the deafe eare this is an affliction that a sinne this a bodily infirmitie that a spirituall and fearefull curse there may bee true comfort in this there can be none in that The deafe man is secure from the dangerous voices of railers and slatterers and though he be deafe to man may listen and freely speake to God have his comfortable soliloquies wherein hee may confer with his own soule as by writing he may speak to others and by reading heare others speake nor can I more doubt concerning the inward comfort of the naturally deafe then of the infant who though he cannot understand the outward ordinary meanes yet is capeable of the spirit of sanctification and consequently of salvation as may appeare in Jeremie sanctified from the wombe and John Baptist in the wombe As it is in not receiving the sacraments which represent Christ to the other senses so in not hearing the word it is not the privation but the contempt which condemneth Where God denieth either meanes or capacity hee can save by some other way of applying Christ to the elect then he hath revealed to us whom it concerneth not we being made capable of the word preached therefore unexcusable if we will not hearken and obey that we may be saved 2. Unbeleefe if we beleeve not Gods threatnings and promises neither the law nor Gospell can profit us The faithfull Minister prepareth to give amongst others to unbeleevers also the sincere milke of the word that they might grow thereby but as the true mother to the dead child when I rose in the morning to give my child sucke behold it was dead said she 3. Want of discerning spirit and true wisedome the word of God is a reproach to the uncircumcised eare the carnall apprehended it not hee that is of God heareth his words therefore yee heare them not saith Christ because yee are not of God he that is not of God heareth us not hereby know we the spirit of truth and the spirit of errour every one that is of the truth heareth Christ's voice When for mens obstinacy God giveth them over hearing they shall not understand 4. Corruption of a carnall heart ever resisting the holy spirit we are naturally deafe to Gods word till Christ say to our spirits as to deafe man Ephphata be opened a naturall Gileadite hath taken the passages of the soule and nothing can enter which speakes not it Shibboleth which pronounceth not according to its custome and affection the itching eare cannot endure wholsome doctrine Herod cannot endure to heare his incest reproved nor Ahab his murder the Pharises their hypocrisie nor Demetrius his artifice of silver shrines the Grecians must have wisedome the Jewes signes and wonders the nice compture of the words witty and pleasing things because they bring only a carnall eare the Atheniaus some newes the Gospell to Gallio is but contention of words and questions of names Jeremies preaching truth
the destroyer may not enter send into my soule that heavenly fire of love to thy sacred Majestie and charity to all men which may assure mee of thy acceptance of me and my sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving clens out of mee all the old leaven of sinne and maliciousnesse open my understanding increase my faith that I may see and know the assurance of my sinnes remission in the seale of eternall life which by thy mercies I am now to receive Thou hast taught mee O Lord that my blessed Saviour in the night that he was betrayed made this holy testament wherein as he tooke flesh and blood of us that he might dye for us so hee bequeathed his body and blood to us that wee might live in him and left this Sacrament as a faithfull pledge of his love to remember us of his dying for us till he come againe O Lord I know thou art the life and truth and wouldst not leave thy Church any effectlesse earnest of their salvation Lord Jesus therefore be present with my spirit worke powerfully on thine owne ordinance that it may indeed seale up my salvation in my soule with that conconstant assurance that the gates of hell may never prevaile against it that no terrour of conscience nor any delusions of Satan may be able to overthrow it but that I may with a lively faith lay hold on all thy merits that I may find therein an inward peace in confidence of my sinnes remission reconciliation with my God sound joy in the Holy Ghost my comforter sanctified will and affections purity of life and holy obedience which hath the testimony of a good conscience to be a sweet comfort both in life and death assuring me that I have fought a good fight with entire faith and therefore shall enjoy the crown of righteousnesse which the Lord the righteous Judge shall at that day give to all them that love his appearing Grant this O Lord and whatever else thou knowest to be needfull for me for Jesus Christ his sake who with thee and the holy spirit liveth and raigneth ever one God world without end AMEN An other private Prayer for one ready to receive the Lords Supper HOly Lord I humbly beseech thee for Christ Jesus sake whose sacred body and blood are here represented forgive me all my sinnes and give me a stedfast hearty and constant resolution never to commit the like againe give mee a lively faith that through these signes which my Saviour hath appointed to be received in remembrance of his death and passion untill his comming againe I may really apprehend the spirituall relish of the bread of life and to be assured that Christ's body was given for me and his most pretious blood shed for my redemption Lord lift up my soule above all worldly thoughts that I may by a steady and confident application of all the benefits of his death and passion see Christ Jesus sitting at thy right hand feed on him by a justifying faith and thereby be nourished to eternall life Holy Father heare and assist direct and guid me according to thine owne will Lord Jesus who gavest thy selfe to death for my salvation deny not the requests of my feeble soule longing for the assurance of thy saving health hungring and thirsting for thee and thy righteousnesse O holy Ghost the sanctifier of all the elect throughly cleanse me from all the old leaven of sin prepare me body and soule to an holy reverend and effectuall receiving these sacred mysteries that my soule and conscience may thereby be sealed up to redemption and salvation through Jesus Christ my Lord and blessed Saviour AMEN A private Prayer after receiving the Lords Supper MOst gratious God and mercifull Father who of thine owne free love and good pleasure hast elected created redeemed regenerated reconciled justified and preserved me unto this present who hast also bestowed â—on me unworthy of the least of thy mercies the peaceable use of thy holy word and sacraments I humbly thanke thee as for all other thy favours so for this present comfort which I have now received Lord accept this sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving through Jesus Christ whose oblation of himselfe once offered for a full and perfect price of our redemption and satisfaction for all our sins we have hereby according to his owne ordinance remembred Lord perfect the worke which thou hast begun in me make good thine owne institution unto my soule seale me up unto the day of redemption worke in mee a full assurance of my sinnes remission and my reconciliation to thee by the death and merit of thy holy sonne Jesus give me a lively sense of my union with him and his living in me so guiding me by his holy spirit that his life may appeare in all my thoughts words and actions that I may henceforth live no more to sinne but being freed from the power and laws thereof may have my fruit unto holinesse and eternall life Lord make me every day more and more able to doe thy will and to abandon mine owne corrupt desires let me now feele in my soule conscience the reall benefit of thy word and sacraments which thou hast promised to all those that truely seek thee give me that longing desire of right cousnesse which is by thy grace secured from despaire and preserved from vaine glory and presumption satisfie me with that measure of grace which thy wisdome knoweth sufficient for me Lord make me knowe assuredly that I have not now received this holy sacrament in vaine nourish me hereby to eternall life give me a greater strength to walke righteously before thee with sound faith cheerefulnesse of minde firme and comfortable peace of conscience and that joy of the holy Ghost which may ascertaine me that thy kingdome is established in me Give me a zealous love of thy glory ready obedience to thy law feare to displease thee innocency of life and that holy charity towards all men which may give me boldnesse in the great and terrible day of the Lord Jesus order thou my conversation so that it may be unblamable towards all men and holy before thee to thy glory and the good example of those with whom I live assist me with such a measure of thy sanctifying spirit that I may indeed performe all those vowes which I have made before thee that every day of my life may be to mee as this Sabbath an holy rest from sinne Lord who powerfully commandest all thy creatures prevent the mischievous subtiltie of the tempter let thy holy spirit keepe me body and soule give me an holy contempt of this present world and affections set on high where my blessed Saviour sitteth at thy right hand who shall in the appointed time appeare in judgement and gather his elect unto him These things and whatsoever else thou knowest needfull for me or any part of thy whole Church militant I begge at thy gratious hands who hast commanded us to aske and
to the eternall rest in thy kingdome of glory through the merits and mediation of thy only sonne our Saviour Jesus Christ AMEN CHAP. XVI § 1. Of Love and Charity what they are and how they differ in their objects § 2. Of love to God considerable in its object end measure severall states degrees perpetuity and opposition § 3. Signes of our love to God § 4. common obstructions and lets thereto § 5. Meanes on our part to be used for the enslaming our love to God § 6. Motives to incite us thereto 1. Love is the Qveene of vertueâ— mother of sanctity Gods lively image in man a reflex of his goodnesse who is love the life of faith without which it is neither active nor lively the comfort of this life security in death proeludium of heavenly life wherein it shal be compleated in the vision of God and the full communion of Saincts united to their head Christ Jesus what were life without love better then an hell inchoate such must that be where God is not who not only hath love but is the same Love is a voluntary affection and desire to enjoy that which is good it is a dilection because we doe in a free choice discerne what to love loves limits are ample when it hath a fiinite object when 't is towards God it hath no bounds save only in the subject which can but finitely love an infinite though with all the soule and all the might Love is subjectively in some desire objectively in some good or that which seemeth such so that their varieties cause as many varieties of love love of God the supreame good is incomparably the best love of that which God loveth is next and next that which beareth his image so love we our selves and men and Angells we love men either as we receive good from them or doe good to them the first our language calleth Love the second Charity that hath something amiable and desirable for it object this something miserable and to be pittied or releived 2. Love to God is a vertue wherein the reasonable creature adhereth and is united to delighteth and resteth in God as his cheife good And it is considerable 1. As naturall such as was in Adam in his innocency for without it he could not have had Gods image on him 2. As infused in our regeneration which is a repaire of Gods image decayed in us by sinne this is the meere gift of God 1. Joh 4. 7. Love commeth of God and the fruit of the spirit is love Gal 5. 22. we love him because he first loved us 1. Joh 4. 19. 3. The supreame end of our love to God is God for though we love any creature for some other end then is terminative in that creature so beloved yet we must love God onely for his own sake though we may not therefore only love God that he may doe us good for that were to make our love meâ—cenary not â—iliall not truely to love God above all but him for the rewards sake that were a contract rather then a free love selfe love not love of God for his own sake and as a sufficient reward to those that love him yet may we be assured that we cannot love him truely without a sufficient and certain reward and we may expect the same seeing he is not unrighteous that he should forget our worke and labour of love which wee have shewed toward his name In whatsoever creature wee instance men or Angells or any thing subordinate to their love there is still some better object of our love as if wee love riches for charity sake we love charity for our indigent brothers sake and him for Gods sake But in God only all our desires and affections rest and let downe the wings like those creatures in Ezekiâ—ls vision when they heard the voice of God above their heads and we love God only for his own sake as the most excellent most amiable and desirable the sole fountaine of true good and blessednesse out of whom there can be nothing good or happy and indeed hee that seeketh any thing above or beyond God seeketh nothing because there is nothing better then he nothing in heaven or earth so good The subordinate end of loving God is that we may love others in and for him as 't is written wee have this commandement from him that he that loveth God should love his brother also nor can any man wisely and truely love himselfe any otherwise then for God's sake not wisely for 't were folly for a man to set his affections at any lower levell then true happinesse which can never be in any thing humane or temporall but it is to be found and attained onely in God and our union with him to love our selves for beauty strength honour riches plesures or present life is to beguile our soules with vaine dreams happinesse can be in nothing which can change for worse or must unavoidably end nor can we truely love our selves for any thing lesse then the image of God in us he loveth not himselfe in truth but hateth his own soule who loveth himselfe a sinner for thereby he maketh himselfe unhappy or in respect of any temporall pleasure or gaine therein or thence taken the sinner hateth and destroyeth his own soule doing himselfe more harme therein then the devill and all the powers of hell could otherwaies doe him for as they cannot make him sinne against his will so neither can they make him truely unhappy without his consent to sinne Neither is it truly to love our selves to prouide momentany pleasures and beguiling shewes of happinesse with the losse of the eternall and true the gaine of a world cannot compensate the losse of a soule nor doth he truly love himselfe who betrayeth himselfe herein loving short and evill pleasures more then the chiefe good eternall happinesse and salvation of his own soule 3. The measure of our loving God is to love him without measure things finite have measure and therefore must be loved in measure and subordination Thou must love thy Parents wife children freinds but as thy selfe not in the place of God to honour them before him as Eli did 1. Sam 2. 29. but in subordination to his love and as may be consistent there with otherwise he that hateth not father mother wife children and his owne life 〈◊〉 Christ cannot be his disciple Lâ—k 14. 26. that is where the love of these or any of them is not subordinate to the love of God or where a man loveth any of these more then God Math 10. 37. Thou must love God with all thy heart according to thy capacity with all thy soule thy will affections and desires thy mynde and intellectuall faculties for love of God cannot be without knowledge of him there is no desire of that we know not with â—ll thy might as
hateth his brother he is a lyar there can be noe salvation without it it beeing as I said the life of faith Love like the heart in the body sendeth out the heate of life through all the parts to make them active it is the primum mobile which carrieth about all the orb's in the speare of religion This affection hath comfortable effects it is the preserver of peace concord while it prudently concealeth many offences bringing them under candid and favourable interpretations and the best constructious which can be made of them which otherwise might prooue the fuell of contention and matter of quarrell it is sins coverture the tessera and certaine pledge of our translation from death to life 1. Joh. 3. 14. of our imitation of Christ. Joh. 15. 12. Ephes. 5. 2. adoption in him 1. Joh. 3. 1. the assurance of our consciences before him 1. Joh. 3. 19. the confidence of our audience 1. Joh. 3. 22. the bond of perfection Colos. 3. 14. the signe of our regeneration 1. Joh. 4. 7. the fruit of the spirit Gal. 5. 22. the assurance of God his beeing in us 1. Joh. 4. 12. 13. and our beeing in him the repaired image of God in us 1. Joh 4. 17. the expeller of feare 1. Joh. 4. 8. the certaine argument of our love to God 1. Joh. 5. 1. and his love to us 1. Joh. 4. 12. it is the fâ—ire mistris of all good it is the heavenly Bethsheba which can attaine any thing yea life for the dead it shal be part of the saincts accoumpt at the day of judgment Math. 25. 34. 35. 2. This love must be regulated with certaine lawes or conditions 1. It must be subordinate to Gods love such as giveth God the first and cheife place not as Elies who honoured his children aboue God nor as many now love so that they will rather displease God then those they love true charity can be in nothing which displeaseth God 2. it must be subject to order in respect of the object first regarding those who are neerest in nature or necessitude I am bound to shew what effects of love and charity I can but first to myne owne family respectiuely and to doe good specially to the howsehold of faith first to my neighbours and then to others 3. It must be for Gods sake and in good when wee love for temporall advantages and such mutuall offices as unite worldly men for such reasons as Hamor and Shechem used for enfranchising Jacobs family these men are peaceably with us and therefore let them dwell in the land and trade therein shall not their cattle and their substance and every beast of theirs be ours that cause failing charity vanisheth many times into mischievous contentions by which readinesse to dissolve the sacred bond of Charity for every triviall occasion and the many bitter discords it too evidently appeareth how few love for God's sake how many for their own when holy Abraham had occasion of quarrell presented him hee declined it by reciding from his right let there be no strife I pray thee betweene me and thee 4. It must be without dissimulation Saul jealous of David and afraid of him because of his wisedome and goodnesse as Princes usually are more jealous of the good then the foolish and dissolute ever others vertue is formidable to them he courteth him with great favours but all to destroy him there 's no such venomous malice out of hell as that which commeth up with a Judas kisse vailed with a shew of amity with a Scorpions imbrace the deeper to strike in the sting the Devills profered curtesies the world riches and honours the designe being to cast thee downe headlong and to make thy ruine the more irreparable by thine own consent 5. It must be constant as they woont to say ad aras to death that which can be lost was never true had it beene grounded on the unchangeable God it must ever have had the same immutable cause and consequently have beene unchangeable The signes of charity are 1. Long suffering 't is not captious nor easily provoked it beareth and endureth all things personall injuries cannot disband it if we love men for our owne sakes wee shall indeed hate them when they hurt us but if for Gods sake we shall use brotherly correction so as to make them understand their faults and repaire us againe and where they erre love their persons whose sinnes we ought to hate and pray for them when they curse and speake evill of us 2. It is kinde in communicating to the necessities of those that want they that have no bowels of compassion how dwelleth the love of God in them 3. It envieth not neither is discontented at others prosperity envie is fortunes companion the blacke shadow of honour ambitious kanker mischievously biting into the bud of merit few like Thrasibulus enjoy great glory without envy because few have the happinesse in their honour to be acquainted with godly love which envieth not but rejoyceth at others good 4. It vanteth not it selfe in boasting or exprobration of good done nor in rash effusions but maketh a deliberate choice of its object without being proud of its act 5. It is not puffed up the proud can bee no mans friend no not his owne Pride is unconsistent with any vertues it is as the worme at the root of Jonahs gourd which eateth up the life of vertue and religion the mischiefe which precipitated glorious Angels from heaven 't is amities paralysis societies enemie nurse of impatience which will neither suffer Caesar to endure a superiour nor Pompey an equall 't is the issue of an emptie braine none truely wise can be proud and the influence of Lucifer upon gracelesse hearts whom God resisteth charity is the daughter of humility 6. It behaveth not it selfe unseemly as sin which is an alaxie and disorder in action a deformitie in the inward man but as the most lovely of all vertues bearing the lively image of God the beauty of holinesse stooping to nothing uncomely or unjustifiable before God and man 7. It seeketh not her owne as doth selfe-love but the good of others it being more divine and honourable to doe good then to receive it 8. It thinketh no evill because it intendeth none commonly men measure others by their owne shadowes which is the cause that the worst are most jealous of others charity doth as it would suffer and thinketh the best where there is not apparent evidence of worse 9. It rejoyceth not in evill nor in iniquity there are that would seeme charitable and to have abandoned that pernitious appetite of revenge and yet secretly rejoyce at any evill which befalleth their enimie This is a proper affection of devills not men expresly forbidden Prov 24. 17. 18. Rejoyce not when thine enemie falleth and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth lâ—ast
will I hide my selfe from him 6. Suspect not thy friend unjust suspition overthroweth freindships fundamentall lawes if thou count thy freind faithfull thou shalt thereby make him such Nor is this against the rule of wisedome which bids thee keepe the power of that which may nourish freindship in thine own hand Give not saith the wise man thy sonne and wife thy brother and friend power over thee while thou livest give not thy selfe over unto any Yet no man loveth those whom hee cannot beleeve nor beleeve those he cannot love as hatred and suspect so love and confidence are indivisibly united 7. Be constant to thy freind in every estate prosperous and adverse in presence and absence Thine own friend and thy fathers freind forsake not levity and inconstancy of mind is inconsistent with friendship That the prosperous man may reckon many freinds the afflicted but few sheweth that among many acquaintance there are but very few freinds that many love thy fortune not thee freindship which can change with externall estate was never true a freind loveth at all times and a brother is borne for adversity in prosperity 't is hard to judge whether the person or estate be loved prosperity findeth friends but adversity tryeth them a true friend therefore is neither knowne in prosperity nor hid in adversity Like the starre of a cleare heaven neither seen in the day nor concealed in the darkest shades of night as the wise man saith there is a freind that sticketh closer then a brother a false freind like Jobs brooke in the winter when wee have no need of him overfloweth with tenders of his service and shews of kindnesse but when it is hot they are consumed out of their place the troupes of Tema looked the companies of Sheba waited for them and were ashamed as are they who finde contempt neglect where they looked for the love of a constant freind there are shadowes of freinds which will goe with you in all your actions you cannot shake them off which yet vanish so soone as your prosperitie commeth under the clowd there are some vaine â—iphers whom place only brings to some accompt whose honours so much change their manners that they cannot looke so low as an old freind which concludeth levity weaknesse of minde selfe-love foolish pride and ignorance of the rules of wisdome piety and true honour which knoweth a faithfull compliance in every estate and like the sun to shine with the same unchanged though more perfect light in his exaltation or heigth and in his rising on the mole-banke and on the mountaine on the smooth and on the troubled waters it was a rare piety in Ruth to resolve concerning the afflicted Naomi entreat me not to leave thee for whether thou goest I will goe where thou dyest I will dye and there will I bee buried the Lord doe so to me and more also if ought but death depart thee and mee and it was a patterne of the most noble freindship which was betweene Jonathan and David there was a nexus animarum more then the love of women the soule of Jonathan was knit with the soule of David he loved him as his owne soule which he demonstrated in his constant fidelity to him on all occasions 8. Beare with the seeming injuries which proceed from thy freinds weaknesse considering that we yet converse not with Angells of heaven but imperfect men and that our selves must have the same favour of candid interpretations in many of our actions wherein we may bee misunderstood or possibly besides our intentions hurt our freind 't is wisdome to passe by offences love to cover faults and piety to beare each others burden where all are infirme without this we can hold no amity with men but shal be foolish freinds overcaptioâ—s querulous or like Jobs miserable comforters injuriously bitterly censorious ever finding fault displeased withall of bitter spirits like contentious Ismaël our hand against every man and every mans against us or rugged Nabal living to none but himselfe this vanity of impatience drave that humane monster the times prodigie nature's paradox man-hating man the dogged Timon from the society of men 9. Reveale no secret of thy freind he that is of a faithfull spirit concealeth the matter rehearse not unto another that which is told unto thee if thou hast heard a word let it dy with thee and be told it will not hurt thee a foole travaileth with a word his minde who useth to tell newes is like the breaches in water banks you shall hardly make it hold but who sodiscovereth a secret looseth his credit and shall never finde a freind to his minde love thy freind and be faithfull unto him but if thou bewraiest his secrets follow no more after him a wound may be bound up and after reviling there may bee reconcilement but he that bewraieth secrets is without hope 10. Conceale not thy frends vertues if by speaking thou maist encourage him therein or wherein thou maist laudando praecipere teach him by praising him neither his faults if thou maist by detection amend or better him least thy silence make them thine Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart thou shalt rebuke him and not suffer sinne upon him or that thou beare not sinne for him hee loveth not who had rather venture his freinds soule then his favour in case he should distast a reproofe every one that spareth is not a freind nor every one that smiteth an enemie it is better to love with severitie then to deceive with lenity the wounds of a lover are faithfull but flattery in evill is treason against the soule of thy freind by so much worse then any other but how much greater heaven is then earth eternity then time a wise man will be glad to be reprooved and amended by any and take him to be a freind by whose tongue hee may cleanse the spots of his soule before the appearance of the strict judge A faithfull freind like a true glasse will shew thee to thy selfe as thou art how many men are unhappy only in the want hereof who having in them many excellent parts imitable qualities mixed as 't is with men with some apparent blemishes taking much off from the opinion of their worth were easily mended because wise had they but a prudent frend to discover their failings to them I beleeve hence was the complaint of the Philosopher so frequent in his mouth O freinds there 's none to freind we easily discover others faults but our owne hardly with inconvenience we owe to our native selfe-love herein we ought to helpe one another not fearing how that will be taken which is our freinds advantage and our duty Certainly if thou rebuke a wise man hee will love thee for it seeing thy sincerity which if he be not hee is better lost then
pretenders ot Christianity to be worse then serpents A man that hateth his brother sometimes carrieth in his breast a vaine anger impotent to revenge with desiring though without effect he maketh his soule guiltie thereof But suppose thou hadst received a true injury and hadst power to retaliate first thou makest God a party against thee who declareth that vengeance is his peculiar and prohibiteth thee from attempting or desiring it so that in the execution of thy malice thou dost but wound thy selfe through thine enemies garment againe in reason when thou feelest the sting of injury I demand is it good Why dost thou blame thyne enemie Is it evill why would'st thou imitate him If one must be evill of the two the doer or the receaver of injury let mine enemie be evill if he will needs let me be good what ever I suffer let me beare no malice what ever I beare no enemy can hurt me so much as that 2. We must love our enemies for Gods sake who without exception so commandeth who reconciled us when wee were enemies by the death of his only sonne Christ died for us when we were wicked he went about doing good healing their infirmities who sought his life he healed Malchus eare who came to apprehend him he prayed for his persecutors so Joseph forgave his brethren so Stephen interceeded for his murderers this is a signe of the sonnes of God this he apeth coales of fire on the enemies head if when he hunger thou feed him either to kindle a love of reconciliation with thee or Gods anger and revenge against him and herein the excellency of Gods children beyond any of the children of this world appeareth these love their freinds only they both freinds and enemies patient of injuries and ready to forgive how should they else say in their dayly prayer forgive us our trespasses as we forgive them that trespasse against us with a minde disagreeing with their words and a prayer dissenting from their deeds by that covenant making themselves uncapable of pardon if they forgive not 3. Lastly that we may make a right use of enemies which is to better our selves by their exercising our patience and obedience to God we must observe these rules following 1. If thou love thy selfe entertaine no malice in thy heart under any pretence a loathsome toad-cage is incomparably better then a malitious heart where likely not Magdalens seven devills but whole legions quarter the most ougly serpents whom all hate and wish destroyed are in their kinde good and so better then a malitious hater of his own flesh 2. Love thine enemies nature and person whose faults thou must hate our anger and censure must go between these so David hated the haters of God 't is the precept hate the evill and love the good 3. Be just toward thine enemie charge no more upon him then that of which he is truely and certainly guilty and be thou modest not saying the worst least thy censure reâ—lect upon thy selfe who art guilty of many sinnes if not the same thou blamest in another consider whether that which were but just for thine enemy to heare will become thee to speake and beware least for thy uncharitable and rigid severity thou be permitted to the same or some more greivous temptation from which if thou hast beene kept I know t was not thy merit but Gods free mercy who put the difference between the judge and the convented malefactor for malice or revenge or without a lawfull calling before a Judge or Magistrate to divulge the faults of thine enemie though certainly knowne to thee is a breach of the same law which saith there shalâ— not beare false witnesse 4. Looke equally on thine enemies vertues as on his vices be not like the troublesome flies which are commonly setling on the soares passing over the sound parts malice hath false eyes ever lessening other mens merits and multiplying their faults which is the reason why the malitious ever judge them evill whom they hate as impious Ahab confessed in his opinion â—f good Michaiah it is thine honour and sincerity to give thine enemie his due commendation 5. Let not thy heart rejoyce in thyne enemies evill it is but a vaine pretence to charity if thou canst bee glad for any evill befalling thine enemie 't is certaine thou canst not be hid from God 6. Be thou neither foolish nor ignoble in thy desire of revenge as they are who hurt themselves rather then spare their enemie as indeed all doe who affect revenge hereby taking their cause out of Gods hand who would justly execute it for them so doe they who disclose secrets entrusted to them with in the verge of former freindship and they who by any other base office serve their own malice 7. Make no man thine enemie whom thou canst justly keepe to friend to loose a friend rather then a fancie of mirth or anger is a symptome of great levity to contend with an equall is dangerous with a superiour madnesse and with an inferiour sordid therefore as much as in thee is provoke no man but have peace with all The old courtier being demanded how hee attained to that rarest thing in Courts old age replied by receiving injuries and giving thankes 'T is great wisedome to passe offences hee that taketh notice of every injury shall finde no quiet in this world 8. Strive to overcome thine enemie with goodnesse I will fight and contend with thee said Alexander to king Taxiles in honesty and courtesy because thou shalt not exceed me in bounty and liberality It is an happy use of enmity to emulate the vertues of a noble enemy and nobly to entertaine the charges of the base which may best be done by putting the whole contention on this issue who shall be more holy and vertuous It is the most divine victory to overcome malice with love and mercy The beast may overcome with strength the serpent with subtiltie the devill with revenge and malice but vertue is the Saints victory malice is the mother of witchcrafts and nurse of maleâ—ices but clemency and vertue is the shame and confusion of an ignoble enemie the envy or emulation of the truly noble more foiling him then policy or violence could doe the holy may be over-matcht and dy Yet are they not properly overcome who by dying become more honourable and happy then those by whom they suffer He that is excelled in vertue as was noted of some of Caesars enemies must yeeld faist thou he is wicked hath offended me I shall not only invite new injuries by bearing the old but suffer in my reputation as if I durst not revenge when I might Yet first consider thy selfe in how many things and how often hast thou offended God what doth Christ daily forgive thee or thou must perish not to say how vaine and worthlesse that reputation is which is built upon
is a feare of unbeleefe in them that love the sin but feare the punishment thereof this is that servile fear which affecteth the wicked which though it sometimes restraine them from the externall acts of sinne yet is it not master of any constant duety so soone as their feare is over they are as bad or worse then ever as wee see in Pharoah This feare becometh not the children of God because it is ever with a guilty conscience unbeleefe and expectation of God's just judgment on their sinnes without hope in Christ wherefore should I feare in the daies of evil said the Psalmist for God is with them I will feare none evill for thou art with mee The Lord is my light and my salvation whom shall I feare the Lord is the strength of my life of whom shall I be afraid the wicked feare where no feare is they feare not God for love of God but for self-love and feare of punishment as the Grecians worshiped their false gods and poor men the great Lords which is a symptom of a base and impious minde prohibited to the children of God to whom it is said Be not afraid of sudden fear for the Lord shall be thy confidence and shall keep thee from being taken Feare thou not saith the Lord for I am with thee be not dismayed for I am thy God I will strengthen thee and I will helpe thee Feare not for I have redeemed thee All which Precepts are to be understood of servile feare which is to despaire of God's mercy rendring men desperate not provident to avoid danger neither more earnest to flie to God for helpe The first may appeare in Jehoram's message Behold said that wreeth this evill cometh of the Lord should I any longer wait on the Lord and in that precipitate counsell Job 2. 9. Curse God and die The second effect we read in Jacob in danger of his life instantly praying and sending presents to appease his revengefull brother not to be afraid of God's judgements on sinne is carnal security and stupid carelesnesse of feared consciences not to feare imminent dangers is improvident torpor of minde not to feare the dreadfull presence of God must needs be in sinfull man ignorance of God and a mans own selfe Moses and Danielâ—eared â—eared this On the other part to be a timerous Antemon for feare keeping home continually with his two servants ever guarding his head with a brasse shield held over it is not only an impious but a ridiculous fear To feare men more then God as Saul did 1 Sam. 15. 24. is the feare of Hypocrites to feare without confidence in God for the diversion of evill as Belshazzar when seeing the hand writing upon the wall his knees trembled and the joints of his loines were loosed or as Saul at Endor is the fear of those who feare not God aright This fear is the perpetual torment of the wicked conscience an imperious mischief an anticipation of evill not yet come making a man unhappy not onely with present evills but with future which but for â—ear could no way reach him as that feare of inevitable death which maketh men continually die for feare of dying once But to feare God with a filiall feare proceeding of love to him is as the fountain of wisedome so of true happinesse God regardeth such he will deliver them and fulfill their desire hee will teach them the way of righteousnesse they shall want nothing that is good when they seeme most to lack they shall have supply of that or something better it shall be health and strength to them Understanding temporal blessings and eternal and a minde to doe good and deale uprightly with men as appeared in Obadiah 1 King 18. 3 12 13. and Joseph Gen. 42. 10. This feare maketh every little more then great riches to the wicked it is the souls Angel-guardian Innocencies keeper Securities antidote the mindes centinel to awaken it and give the alarme against the assaults of the subtile enemie This giveth a man â—â—ue and unâ—ailing confidence 't is the summe of that which God requireth of us Deut. 10. 12. the whole duety of a man 〈◊〉 12. 14. of this only is that saying true the mother oâ— the fearfull useth not to cry because such are truely blessed 3. Now because we are men not yet perfect in love and so subject to many fears and subject to many sinnes failings and hazzards and therein to some dangerous groavings of servile feare by God's mercy turned in the issue to our good for if we are so prone to sinne under so much feare what would wee be if wee were secure from all these like rules are necessary to the ordering of our thoughts in feares 1. For God's glory and thy salvation contemne any danger It was Christ's precept Feare them not who are able to destroy the body only for they cannot make thee unhappy they may adde to thy blessednesse if thou bearest injuries well These objects are only terrible like that Cumane asse in the Lions skinne to those that know them not or the Crocodile fierce against the fearfull fearfull of the daring or to the impatient who cannot stoop to take up the crosse which like Moses rod thrown down became a dreadfull serpent but at God's command resumed an harmless rod to divide the bitter floods and open a way into the promised rest many men great â—n their owne feares deluding fancy making that monstrous which right reason would discover hurtlesse in a constant and prudent resolution to meet with difficulties 2. Fear God and be not â—aint-hearted endeavour to set thy minde upon such a stay of moderation that thy resolution neither rise to temerity nor fall to timidity neither to dare nor to be afraid of all things nor of nothing but between both beare such a temper as that wisedom may have place to sit at the helme withoâ—t the interruption of either extream Sanctifie the Lord of hosts and let him be your feare and your dread and hee shall be your Sanctuary but feare not their feare who say a confederacy The present feare of God createth us an eternall security fear him and thou shalt not be afraid of man though I walke in the valley of the shadow of death I will fear none evil for thou art with mee Psalm 23. 4. The Lord is on my side I will not feare c. Psal. 71. 1. The feare of the Lord like Moses serpent devoureth all the inchanters serpents swalloweth up all other fears 3. In every danger lay to heart the omnipotency of God and learne to trust in him hee that so doth shall be safe when the fiery fornace was threatned Shadrah Meshach and Abednego they answered the incensed King Our God whom we serve is able to deliver us his
family 4. That they be docible and ingenious modest willing in meeknesse to learn and obey their Masters wills an ignorant servant is troublesome but a proud and immorigerous intolerable 5. That they be not slothful and negligent 6. That they be not qâ—arrelsom or contentious or unjust accusers of their fellowes 7. That they be not murmurers or querulous persons or rude answerers again Tit. 2. 2. 8. That they be not hearkners after their Masters counsels too full of eies or busie inquisitors into those things which are above the sphere of their duety it is many times a servants wisedome not to know what he knoweth 9. That they be not given to drunkennesse ryot intemperance luxury or subject to passion he that will be a good servant to others must first be his own master The Motives hereto are 1. God's expresse command Colos. 3. 22. Ephes. 6. 5 c. where that moveth not I know not what can Obedience to thy Master is shewing thy selfe a servant of Christ and doing the will of God Eph. 6. 6. 2. This adorneth the doctrine of God Tit. 2. 10. 3. Therefore the grace of God hath appeared to all men bond and free Tit. 2. 11. 4. If servants be faithful they shall receive the reward of the Lord Col. 3. 24. 5. Hee that doth wrong to his Master shall receive the like God will revenge it Col. 3. 25. 6. A false and trecherous servant is odious to God and man commonly branded with an indelible note of infamy as an unthankfull deceiver of trust 7. The name of God and his doctrine are blasphemed by that servant who professing to be a Christian is false injurious or unprofitable to his Master because that sacred profession is not to him a spurre to duety but a cloak of hypocrisie After reading some of the Psalmes and a Chapter of the Old or New Testament to thy Family use this or the like Prayer A short Morning Prayer with a Family O Almighty God and most merciful Father wee render thee all humble and hearty thanks as for all thy mercies and favours temporal and eternal from time to time bestowed upon us so particularly for thy gracious preservation of us this night past beseeching thee to give us also a prudent and holy use of this favor to thy glory the good example of our brethren and the assurance of our consciences before thee And as thou hast been pleased to bring us safe to the begining of this â—lay so we pray thee holy Father to continue thy providence and thy merâ—y to us therein keep us safe in bodies soules and all that thou hast given us blesse us in our several labours and endeavors let thy blessing be upon all that which thou hast given us for our use and comfort make thy creatures good and successeful to us direct us in that way wherein thou wouldst have us walke that being counselled and guided by thy good spirit which cannot erre we may in all that which we speak or dâ— keepe the testimony of a good conscience doing and saying that onely which is pleasing in thy sight and walking prudently and unblameably toward all men and holily and sincerely before thee our all-seeing God Let not our hearts decline to any evil waies but give us grace ever and in every undertaking to remember our ends wherein wee must give a strict account of all our actions words and thoughts and seriously to consider that for ought wee know this day may be our last so framing our lives and conversations that at our last houre which thy providence hath set every one of us we may be found busied in a faithful watch as careful servants continually expecting the coming of our Lord that wee may with our Lord Jesus on whom wee have beleeved enter into that joy which thou hast prepared for all them who love and loâ—ke for his comming These and all other things which thou knowest more needful for â—s wee beg at thy merciful hands for Jesus Christ his sake in that holy and perfect form which himselfe hath taught us saying Our Father which art in heaven hallowed be thy name c. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ the love of God the Father and the most comfortable fellowship of God the holy Ghost be with us all to direct guide and keep us this day and evermore Amen Another Morning Praier for a Family O Lord God merciful long-suffering abundant in goodnesse and trueth keeping mercy for thousands forgiving transgression and sinne unto the penitent but not acquitting the guilty and obstinate sinner wee thy poore servants through thy mercy sparing us this day appearing before thee humbly acknowledge our selves to be most vile and loathsome in thy sight not only in respect of our original corruption which we have brought into the world with us but also for our actual sinnes which we have multiplied beyond all weight and number thou art a God of pure eies and inviolable justice how shall we appeare before thee who cannot stand in the judgment of our own consciences Lord what have we more then the hearty acknowledgment of our own unworthinesse to present thee How can wee hope to prevent the curse which goeth forth over the face of the earth to cut off on this side and that 〈◊〉 afflict families and nations with sorrowes and destructions but only by condemning our selves and flying from thy justice to thy mercy our sinâ— are great and grievous but O merciful God where sinne and misery abound thy grace doth more abound and where none are able to satisfie thy justice the greatnesse of the debt can make no difference whether 500 or 50 when neither hath to pay thy mercy equally closeth an unequal account in a free forgivenesse of both Seeing theâ— for this end thou hast opened the treasures of thy mercy in Christ Jesus coming into the world to save sinners wee humbly and confidently acknowledge that of those sinners wee are chiefe Lord thou knowest there is salvation in none other look not therefore on that which we have done or can perform but on that which hee hath done and suffered for us we are indeed subject to the curse for that we many waies transgresse thy holy lawes but therefore was thy holy Jesus made a curse for us that hee might redeem us from the curse of the Law that the blessing might come on us through him in our being made heires thereof and receiving the promise of the spirit the earnest and seale of our redemption through faith Wee condemne our selves that Christ may justifie us that we may be found in him not appearing in our owne righteousness which is at best but as a soon vanishing morning cloud and in the severity of thy judgement as a silthy polluted garment in which we could expect no other sentence then Depart yee cursed into everlasting fire therefore we renounce our selves that we may be clothed with his righteousnesse which is by faith in him
that we may know him and feel in our souls and consciences the comfortable power of his resurrection and the fellowship of his sufferings being made conformable unto his death in the mortification of all those corrupt and sinful affections which continually resist the working of thy regenerating spirit in us O Lord our God being deeply sensible of our own disability to save or helpe our selves wee â—ast all our care and confidence of present protection preservation and future salvation on the merits of thy son Christ Jesus in assurance that thou art faithful who hast promised as by him to save us so through him to hear and help us in all our wants and distresses O Lord God of trueth and mercy who hast commanded us to aske and promised to grant accept our obedience and confidence in asking and according to thy trueth grant our requests in forgiving all our sinnes and giving us all those blessings which thou knowest needful for us that wee may serve thee cheerfully sanctifie our bodies and soules to thy service that in them both wee may cleave to thee please thee and rest assured by the testimony of thy holy spirit and the powerful working thereof in us that thou hast sanctified called and elected us to life everlasting Lord give us experience of thy trueth which never failed give us lively and justifying faith to apprehend Christ Jesus and all his merits give us perseverance therein that no trials of life or death may ever separate us from thy love nor any powers of hell be able to overthrow our confidence therein And now O Lord our God who makest the out-goings of the morning and evening to praise thee wee humbly thank thee as for all thy mercies and favors spiritual and temporal continually poured out upon us in our election creation redemption calling from the kingdom of darknesse our sanctification preservation from daiely imminent dangers of body and soule our liberty peace health and all those temporal necessaries for the comfort sustenance of us and ours which thy fatherly providence hath bestowed upon us so also for that it hath pleased thee to preserve us this night past from the powers of darknesse terrors of night and all the ovils thereof Lord continue thy mercy to us safely brought to the begining of this day the day is thine the night also is thine thou hast prepared the light and the sunnâ— O Lord our refuge let no evil befal us this day let not any plague come neer our dwelling give thine Angels charge over us to keep us in all our waies that wee may in nothing displease thee as thou hast put away the late darknesse which covered the face of the earth and waters by the comfortable appearance of this great light which thou madest to govern the day that men may follow their several labours therein so blessed Father of lights cause the sunne of righteousnesse Christ Jesus to arise on every one of our hearts thence to chase away the remainders of ignorance darknesse of minde and unbeliefe to open our eies that wee sleep not in death to enlighten us with a sound knowledge of all the mysteries of eternal life and salvation that we may arise and shake off the dangerous security in sinne and conscionably walk with thee who hast called us to thy kingdome that we may please thee being fruitful in every good worke encreasing in the knowledgâ— of thee strengthned to all patience and long suffering with joyfulnesse and thankfulnesse for that thou hast made us partakers of the inheritance of thy saints in light that wee may walke worthy of the vocation wherewith we are called with all holinesse and meeknesse love and charity toward all men endeavouring to keep the unity of the spirit in the bâ—nd of peace so labouring in our several callings as being ever careful first to seek thy kingdome and the righteousnesse thereof in assurance that so all temporal necessaries shall be administred unto us in all our endeavours expecting the blessing from thee without which it is but lost labour to rise early late take rest eat the bread of carefulnesse and deprive our souls of ease Blesse all the creatures to us this day make them good and prosperous unto us direct us so in all our thoughts words and actions that wee may glorifie thee preserve a good conscience and give an example of holinesse to those with whom we converse that in nothing the trueth of religion with which thou hast blessed us be evil spoken of through our failings but that we may by our integrity stop the mouths of all adversaries and adorn the Gospel by walking unblameably toward all men and sincerely before thee ever remembring that of all our thoughts words and actions we must give a strict inevitable account at the dreadful day of judgment now kept from the knowledg of all men that they may every day live as if it were their last keeping a constant and careful watch in exspectation of that houre which shall come like a theefe in the night wherein thou wilt assuredly bring to light things hid in darknesse and make the counsels of all hearts manifest judging every man according to his workes Neither pray wee for our selves only but wee also beseech thee for thy whole Church and all thy distressed servants whether their afflictions be in body minde or estate comfort now and in thy good time enlarge all prisoners and captives which suffer for or with the testimony of a good conscience Lord God of all consolation assure them that when thy will and work is done in them thou wilt shew thy self their gracious deliverer and comforter Lastly we pray thee O Father of mercy blesse this family wherein by thy providence we are blesse us all from the first to the last with all those whom thou hast made neer unto us prosper us O Lord and our endeavours upon us feed us with bread of our stature that which thou knowest necessary and convenient for us give us a faithful dependance upon thy fatherly hand which never leaueth them destitute who trust in thee give us a prudent holy and thankefull use of all those good things which thou hast bestowed upon us that thou maist be pleased to continue thy mercy and providence over us give us contented mindes free from covetousnesse and distracting cares in assurance that thou wilt never forsake us and good Lord as thou art pleased to adde this day to our transitory lives so adde that grace to this day which may direct and guid every one of us in our bodies and souls that we may spend it and the remainder of our daies to thy glory and the comfortable assurance of our consciences before thee so that having our present conversation in heaven and walking with thee in sincerity of heart when these fleeting daies are ended we may live with thee in thy kingdome of glory through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen A Short Evening Praier O
and amity that they give not scandal to others nor create mutual bitternesse to themselves Mutual love is gods blessing on thy family a praeludium of heaven in thy house a comfortable pattern to thy children like the sun-beams on thy possession as the dew of heaven on thy fields which maketh all look cheerfully and be fruitful a state that cometh neerest up to that blessed Paradise-oeconomy of Adam innocent a blessing which maketh every estate such without which no store is blessed k Pro. 15. 17 Better is a dinner of herbs where love is then a stalled oxe and hatred therewith l Pro. 17. 1. Better is a dry morsel and quietnesse therewith then an housefull of sacrifices with strife 4. That they do cheerfully and willingly communicate in all that which God hath given them in prosperity advising in adversity comforting each other with such sympathy in joy and sorrow as is in them who are truely one flesh 5. That they bear each others infirmities never taking things spoken or done in the worst sense nor making every trivial matter an occasion of quarrel or alienation of affection but passing by them so as that they may seem rather covered in love then excused in judgement or approved in stupidity in which practice Satan may be beaten with his own weapon while that every occasion which hee administred in hope to former discord being prudently used to demonstrate the invincible love of the party suffering and willing rather to put up injury then to admit the least breach of amity by retaliation more endeareth them to each other 6. That they join hands and hearts to assist each other in the way to heaven See 1 Cor. 7. 16. 1 Pet. 3. 7. 7. That they mutually defend each other so Michol preserved David when Saul sought his life so prudent Abigail endeavoured Nabal's preservation they must not be false Delilahs to conâ—ederate against the lives or estates of their husbands 8. That they neither unjustly take nor justly give occasion of jealousie which ever embittereth the otherwaies most happy families Jerom's rule is here to be commended to women m Etsi negagata non feceris tamen deforme putes testimonium si rogeris Hier ep 2l 9 though thou yeeld not being asked yet think it an odious testimony to be asked hee comes to neer who cometh to be denied The Duties proper to the Husband may appeare in these following Rules 1. Let the n 1 Pet. 3. 7. husband dwell with his wife according to knowledge giving honor to her as the weaker vessel as being co-heires of the grace of life that their prayers be not hindred where there needeth reproof let it neither be rough odious injurious publick clamorous nor disgracefull but allayed with such wisedome and opportune perswasions as may not only reform but endeare in the most happy wedlock there may be some matter of just dislike and therefore due cause of reproof it much concerneth thee to know thy wives faults but not to hate her for them let the rule be either beare thy wives faults if tolerable with patience or amend them with direction if they are intolerable in this thou makest her better in that thy selfe 2. Let a man love o Eph. 5. 33. his wife as himselfe esteeming nothing too good or dear for her good as Christ loved his Church which concludeth nothing for them who impiously and cruelly afflict their wives with stripes or otherwise for God saith p Col 3 19. Husbands love your wives and be not bitter against them it is uncertaine whether they have evil wives but certain that they deserve such who can no otherwise governe then by blowes Neither doth this binde any man to an indiscreet much lesse an impious and dangerous indulgence to his wife wherein she desireth that which needs must or probably may hurt her self her husband or family it is love and wisedome to deny her that 3. Let a man maintain his wife in cloaths and necessaries according to his estate so as shee may live cheerfully with him not as servant but as a partner in his estate 4. Let the husband use all comity holy gratious prudent and peaceable language as a pattern to all his family so specially as a pledge of love to his wife neither like rugged Nabal nor fond and vaine which commonly changeth into fits of extream bitternesse for who can like such inksome levity 5. Let the man heare the wife's advice but never be transported beyond better reason nor carried thereby against the holy will of God as Adam whose dreadfull sentence bare this cause in the front q Gen. 3. 17. because thou hast hearkned to the voice of thy wife as r 1 King 21. 25. Ahab hearkned to the voice of Jezaâ—el as s 1 King 11 3 Solomon whom his wives most fearfully corrupted t Anilâ—e mihi liber videatur cui mulier imperat cui leges imponit praescribit iubet vetat qui nihil imperaâ—â—i negare potest nihil recusare audetâ—â— ego verò isâ—um non modò servum sed nâ—quissimum servum etiamsi in amplissima â—amilta natus sit appellandum puto Cic. pared omnes sapientes liberos esse c. The Orator could say of a man so awed by his wife I doe think that hee ought to be called not onely a slave but truely the worst of such Concerning the proper dueties of Wives I sinde these three principle rules 1. Let the wife be u Eph. 5. 22. Col 3. 18. subject to her husband as unto the Lord in every thing for the man is the wife's head w 1 Tim. â— 9 12. shee was made for man God permitteth not the woman to usurpe authority over the man this duety comprehendeth love x Eph. 5. 32. reverence aiâ— and assistance doing her husband good endeavouring to content please and comfort him See Pro. 31. 11. contrary to which is the imperious command of the domineering wife unreverend speech or action neglect of her charge through pride sloth or riotous wasting her husbands estate 2. Let her be chaste modest and silent the Scripture expresseth this by y 1 Pet. 3. 5 6 1 Pet. 3 1 c. 1 Tim. â— 9 10 chast conversation coupled with feare impudency and chastity are rarely compatible and modest apparreling which becometh women professing godlinesse andâ—let the women learn with all subjectionâ— a meâ—k and a quiet spirit are of high esteem in Gods sight this is God's rule by what law they live who think it religion and good policy by their loud and quarrelsom tongues bitter spirits of contradiction and otherwise to master their husbands and cantonize themselves I know not it is certain these are heavy crosses and no better then the sad furies possessing and so restlesly haunting the house of a wretched man that hee may well take up that old bemoaning z Hei mihi nec sine te nec tecum vivere possum Woe is
hast left may best appear in thy tryals how many of these shadowes follow thee now thou art clouded doe they not feare thy mine doth not that set a strange distance between you are these thy friends or such acquaintance as thou maist every where finde Againe how many malicious enemies hast thou left behinde who have often so embittered thy soule that thou hast cryed out Wo is mee that I sojourne in Meshech that I dwell in the tents of Kedar my soul hath long dwelt with him that hateth peace so that upon a just account thou art not so much banished thy country as taken from impious enemies 4. Lastly be confident that what ever is good wee shall meet withal again in the immutable happinesse of heaven what ever cannot come thither is not worth our lamenting here it being truely rather a gaine to loose it then to recover it 7. Consider how popular inconstancy usually retributeth evil to best deserts as Aristides the just Alcibiades as hee also whose epitaph sayed to posterity Ingrateful native soile thou hast not so much as my bones had experience of it Wee have examples in holy writ of those who wandred in deserts and mountaines of whom the world was not worthy All is little to that one example of Christ persecuted from his infancy carried into Egypt to avoid Herod's tyrannous fury and all his life made a man of sorrows by them hee came to save That condition to which Christ is a pattern can make no man unhappy hee came amongst his own and they received him not hee did only good to them their owne testimony was hee hath done all things well yet they crucified him remember his words The disciple is not greater then his master and doest thou think much that being innocent thou art banished thy native soile few good men live where they first drew breath or best deserve 8. Learne the good which God doth for thee who best knoweth how to make all things work for the best as in thy exile thy security from thine adversaries whose restles malice is as trucelesse as the Divells which ruleth in the enemies of Gods children that he hath set thee by better neighbours or lesse pernicious who canst not have worse then thou hast lost however thou valew this the Prophet fervently wisheth for it O that I had in the Wildernesse a Cottage of a Wayfaring man that I might leave my People and goe from them for they be all an assembly of treacherous men they bend their tongues like their bow for lies 9. Learne to seek happinesse and content in thy selfe in peace of conscience purity of heart sanctified will and affections faith patience meeknesse temperance humility and the like and no losse of these outward â—hings shall much trouble thee who hast set thy affections on heaven and to a man assured that he must ere long change this life for an eternall what matter is it from what point of the earth his soule taketh her flight whether from Pisga with Moses from the bankes of Jordan with Eliah from the Prison with John Baptist from the field mill or bed or from the mount of Olives whence Christ ascended into Heaven it is not much considerable whence thou comest thy happinesse in spight of secular afflictions and active malice shall be once to arrive at heaven where all shall be securely unchangeably and eternally happy The Banished mans Petition O Lord God holy and mercifull whose providence ruleth over all the earth is thine and thou assignest the parts thereof to the children of men thou brougâ—st a Vine out of Egypt and plantedst it thou madst the branches thereof to fill the land and spread themselves from the river to the flood but in thy displeasure thou didst cast them out of the inheritance which thou hadst given them Thou art the Lord of Mountaines and vallies land and sea and the God of the exiled and outcast Thou dost with much patience behold oâ—â—ression and wrong untill the measures of iniquity be filled up ô Lord behold the pressures of me thy poore despised and dejected servant thy mercy and gracious audience of the afflicted is neither limited to Jerusalem nor this mountaine every place is equally neere heaven where ever men lift up pure hands and hearts worshipping thee in spirit and truth thou art there present to heare and help them Gracious Father though thou seest good to permit me to the power of men to exercise me yet can they not shut thy mercifull eare against me O let my complaint therefore come before thee let thy word be as the clowdy Pillar to lead me in thy way let thy good spirit direct me cast me not from thy presence take not thy mercies from me give me grace to forsake all those sinnes for which thy chastisement is now upon me that I may happily profit by thy Fatherly corrections and if it be thy holy will restore me to these blessings and comforts which thou gavest me for my support if otherwise yet good Lord give me assurance of thy mercy and patience to expect thy saving health leave me not destitute and comfortlesse in my afflictions be my guide and helper in this earthly pilgrimage and vally of teares unto and in the howre in which thou hast appointed to take me hence into the incorruptible and undefiled inheritance by thy power reserved in heaven for all that beleeve in thee to which no hand of the oppressor shall reach where shall be no curse no sinne nor feare of forfeiture into which no enemy shall be admitted from which no inhabitant shall ever be cast out Lord heare and help me Lord have mercy on me and grant me that which I aske according to thy will and that which I should aske which thou knowest best for me through the infinite merits of the Sonne of thy Love the author and finisher of our Salvation and eternall happinesse Christ Jesus the righteous AMEN CHAP. XXXIII Of old Age directions counsels and comforts therein § 1. Age common evils thereof § 2. How the foundation of an happy Age must be laid in youth § 3. How the evils of Age may be lessened § 4. Or more patiently borne § 5. By what Rules of practice it may be improved to the comfort of the Aged 1. OLd Age is our times sun-set the last of this life and first-fruits of death that which all desire and but few like or patiently bear so ingrateful are men to God that they would be yong again so waiward doth sinne make them that they like no present state of so discomposed and foolish a minde are those aged children whose desires look to the Sodom whose dangerous â—lame they had escaped 2. It is the condition of all that groweth in time to decay Time is the devourer of his children here is nothing but perpetual changes we shall not be to morrow what wee were
not on her with honour tender love and duty nothing can fully recompence the ingratitude of this generation of Vipers their Mothers sorrow and destruction but hell Gods children love and honour his Ordinance in their parents For direction and comfort before their Travaile let Women 1. Spend the time of their expectation as they would doe the howers of their last day in hearty repentance for all their sinnes making their peace with God labouring to strengthen their faiths by recounting the comfortable promises of God in Christ Jesus rendring themselves with patience meeknesse and confidence into his mercifull hands who alone can keep them strengthen and comfort them in their paines and make them joyfull Mothers 2. Consult with God in all their fears and sorrowes as Rebecca did by the holy scriptures which are his Oracles giving certaine and infallible answers conference with the prudent Saints meditations and ascensions of the afflicted soule into Gods gracious presence 3. Reconcile themselves to all those whom they have injured by repairing them what they can for it is a condition of their salvation in childbearing that they continue in Faith and Charity and if all must quickly agree with their adversaries while they are in the way then they specially who as they say of Seamen may be reckoned between the living and the dead and in hazard of a sodaine convention at the barre by the end of this life 4. It must be a grave document as to all so specially to married Women of modesty and chastity I know not what comfort the adultresse can have who bringeth forth her Husbands irreparable injury her own shame Children of Whoredomes the indelible staine of their blood and their posterities dishonour all this with paine and horrour or more dangerous stupidity of a sinfull conscience whereas the good conscience of the chast is the soules rest bed of perfumes Garden of spices sorrowes lenitive griefes faire havens the soules Paradice and afflictions sanctuary with which though they have externall sorrowes yet are they blessed happy is the way however rough and fearefull by which they come to eternall life as the externall prosperity of the wicked can never make their waies better then destructive and unhappy So neither can any afflictions sorrowes feares or paines of the elect make them lesse then truely blessed because all these are but as the stepps in Jacobs ladder whose last shall land them in the presence of God as it is written we must through much tribulation enter into the Kingdome of God 5. Let them pray frequently and fervently that God would be pleased to measure their sufferings by that assistance which he will give them strengthen them to their labour mitigate their paines grant them a speedy and safe deliverance that they may enjoy the blessing of propagation to the encrease of his Kingdome the glory of his holy name and their eternall rejoycing after their temporall sorrowes which hee hath appointed them A prayer for Woemen in or neere their Travaile MOst glorious and holy Lord God almighty creator and mercifull preserver of all thy creatures who hast commanded the weary and heavy laden to come to thee and promised by the sonne of thy love and truth Christ Jesus to ease them we prostrate our selves before thy throne of mercy with bended knees and trembling hearts yet with assurance of thy faithfulnesse to performe who hast freely promised Truth it is O Lord when we consider our own deservings we can look for nothing but the severity of thy justice and rejection from thy gracious presence that thou shouldest take no delight in us when we come before thee but that the spreadiâ—g out of our hands in Prayer should be a trouble and wearinesse unto thee we confesse that destruction of body and soule by all those judgements which thou hast denounced against the first sinners is due unto us if thou enter into judgement with us we accuse and condemne our selves as most vile and utterly unable to stand in judgment before thee the searcher of the heart and reines and most unworthy of the least of those favours which our necessities compell us to beg at thy mercifull hands in confidence that thou wilt not breake the bruised reed reject the penitent nor condemne them who condemne themselves we renounce our selves that we may be found in the righteousnesse of our Lord Jesus It was he ô blessed Father who being the eternall Word Wisdome and Power by whom the World was created and is still sustained yet to save us miserable sinners and so his enemies was made flesh for us became man to set us free took on him the forme of a Servant to sanctify and redeeme us from sinne begun in our conception and encreasing from our birth vouchsafed to be conceived in the Virgins wombe by the Holy Ghost and to be borne the man of sorrowes to suffer the severity of thy wrath against sinners 't was he that dyed for our sinnes and rose againe for our justification that thereby he might pull out the sting of death and change the judgements into fatherly corrections 't was he that became a curse for us to redeeme us from the curse of the law that by his stripes we might be healed that the blessing the promise of the spirit the comforter might come on us through faith in him for his sake holy Father be reconciled to us for his sake encline thy gracious cares to our prayers now according to thine own appointment calling on thee Thou hast indeed threatned the first sinner to multiply her sorrowes in her travailes and that sentence as the sinne in which we fell is become hereditary in paines sorrow feare and anguish in these bitter effects of sinne we acknowledge thy just judgements but Lord correct us not in thine anger consider the frailty and infirmity of this poorâ— dust and earth wherewith thou hast clothed us consider not what we have done but what thy holy Sonne Jesus in that sacred flesh indivisibly united to the Godhead hath suffered for us accept his obedience who hath done and suffered all things which thy determinate counsaile had before all worlds appointed for the worke of our redemption We are unworthy to be heard but Lord heare him ascended into heaven to take possession thereof for us and now sitting at thy right hand a faithfull mediator for us and bearing the remembrance of us before thee he is truely God able to heare and help all them that call upon him faithfully and truly man who hath had experience and can be toucht with a sense of humane miseries for his sake heare us speaking the same things to thee here on earth which his own spirit helping our infirmities both dictateth to us from heaven and presenteth to thee for us in heaven Lord for his sake helpe us give us true and hearty repentance assure us of our sinnes remission and our discharge from the curse and rigor of the law
strengthen our Faith give us assurance of thy favour and mercy toward us shed abroad thy love in our hearts that all things even our sorrowes may worke together for the best to us in mercy asswage the sorrowes of this thy servant with the comfortable assurance of an happy issue give her patience to beare and ability to overcome her tryalls it was the word of justice which appointed this affliction but Lord whose mercy is over all thy workes allay the rigor of that sentence mitigate her paines speake comfort to her soule give a powerfull assistance to her weaknesse O gracious father by the power of whose word man is thus brought into the World give her a speedy and safe deliverance now that the child is come to the birth give her strength to bring forth to the encrease of thy Kingdome through the new birth by water and the holy Ghost to the comfort of thy now afflicted servant the Fathers joy and the praise of thy holy name through Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour Lord heare and grant these our Petitions and what ever else thou knowest more needfull for us through his merits in whom thou hast promised to heare us in whose mediation and words we present and conclude our petitions saying Our Father which art in heaven c. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ c. A thanksgiving for a Woman after her Deliverance O Lord God of our salvation who mercifully enclinedst thine eare unto us in our feare and distresse who appointedst in thy Law that she should bring a paire of mourning Turtles who had not a spotlesse Lamb for a sacrifice of thanks-giving it is the same thy clemency who wilt now accept their repentance who have not that unblemished innocency which can abide the tryall of thy severe justice and their hearty desire to be truely thankfull who have nothing worthy thy acceptance to render unto thee Lord therefore accept what thy selfe hast given us to bring before thee an humble and hearty desire to returne thee the fruits of our hearts and lipps the sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving as for all thy fatherly mercies so particularly for that thou hast asswaged the sorrowes of this thy servant with a comfortable Issue that thou hast given her patience to beare ability to overcome her tryalls and strength to bring forth that by thy mercy mitigating her paines thou hast allayed the rigour of thy sentence which thy justice pronounced we acknowledge thee to be the only Lord in whose hands are the Issues of life and death the God of our health and salvation And now ô Lord perfect thine own worke as thou hast delivered thy servant from her feare and sorrow so give her an heart ever to trust and rejoyce in thee as thou hast given her this fruit of the wombe so make him an accession to the encrease of thy Kingdome by the spirit of regeneration sanctify him and keep him in his tender yeares from sinne and all the malitious assaults of the enemy give thy holy Angels charge over him to keep him in all his waies that he may grow up in thy faith feare and love so that in what ever condition thy good providence shall set him his interest and assurance may be of his election and salvation in Christ Jesus Lord accomplish thy worke of mercy to thy servant repaire her health and strength give her a faithfull heart carefully to imploy the same in thy service and the holy education of those thou hast given her assist her in the whole remainder of her life that she may pay all her vowes made to thee in her feare and trouble let the tast of these bitter fruits of sinne give her a more fervent love to thy mercy pardoning it and a greater hate to all that which offendeth thee lead her in thy waies teach her so to number her daies that she may apply her heart unto wisedome make her more and more fruitfull in all good workes and zealous of thy lawes so that her life may appeare not only restored but also improoved and made more happy to the glory of thy great name the good example of others who shall see as thy worke of mercy on her so the effects of that worke the fruits of sanctity in her to the further assurance of her conscience before thee confirmed by the experience of thy mercy in her deliverance and preservation and to the salvation of her body and soule to all eternity through Jesus Christ our Lord and onely Saviour AMEN Directions for the Sick CHAP. XXXV § 1. As all afflictions sanctified so sicknesse profitable for Gods children many waies § 2. How it may become so to us § 3. Duties of them that visit the sick 1 THere is nothing constant in this world but inconstancy and change of all things We are borne with a condition of dying mortality beginneth with life â—our sicknesse with our health we bring it from the wombe as derived to us from our first parents from the houre of whose transgression death tooke date and in the commencement of sicknesse he began to dye according to the sentence from which he became mortall and now all flesh is grasse and all the goodlinesse thereof as the flower of the feild the grasse withereth and the flower fadeth quickly and certainly though insensibly we perceive it soone withered though we cannot mark by what degrees it changeth so age and infirmity stealeth on 2 The good God as he is severe so is he mercifull neither loosing mercy in his justice nor his justice in his mercy There is nothing which befalleth the elect but it hath some good in it or by it to them accrewing Concerning afflictions David saith it is good for me that I have beene in trouble The very death of the Saints bitter as it is to flesh and blood is mercy to them blessed are the dead which dye in the Lord not only that they rest from their labours but also in that it is to them the death of sinne and passage to eternall life and so our sicknesse is profitable though it be the rod of an almighty Father it shall like Moses rod sometimes in the dreadfull shape of a serpent serve to divide the bitter waves and open us a passage to our eternall rest and so the decayes of these earthly tabernacles shall daily bring us neerer to the repaire of our eternall building in heaven therefore God sendeth sicknesse upon his dearest children whom he could as easily have rescued from death by a translation as he did Enoch and Eliah but hee maketh their sicknesse many waies proâ—itable unto them as by preparing them unto death by repentance and calling upon the Lord by weaning them from the love of this life by teaching them patience and subjection to the hand of God whereas impatience like the sea turneth all that which falleth into it even the otherwise sweet and comfortable blessings of
provoked by our sinnes O Lord thou art a God of mercy and wouldst not destroy but the importunitie of our sinnes hath put this heavy rod into thy hands and our iniquities have so much dâ—faced thy glorious Image in us that thou maist justly hide away thy face from our miseries no more owne us for thy Children but O Lord our onely hope is in the merit and mediation of thy sonne Jesus Christ whome thou gavest to death for us it is he O Lord who beareth all our names in his secret brest-plate it is he that appeareth hefore thee for us let our petitions ascend to thy throne of mercy like sweet incense from the precious censer of his merits it is he who standeth betweene the living and the dead O let this plague which now consumeth us be stayed Lord looke not on our sinnes but his merits in whome thou art well pleased for his sake in whome we beleeve and whose holy name we beare say unto the destroying angell it is enough cause him to sheath the sword againe and let this plague cease Lord God of all consolation comfort all those whom thou hast smitten with the infection heale them that they may recover and praise thy glorious name however thou shalt be pleased to deale with their mortall bodies speake peace to their soules and save them give them full assurance of thy mercy and their redemption in Christ Jesus let thy holy spirit the comforter ever remaine with them to prâ—serue them against all the malitious assaults of the adversary that he may never make his advantages on their surrowes infirmities or the distracting and astonishing violence of their disease comfort them at the last gaspe and breathing out their afflâ—cted soules with present sense and assurance of the eternall joyes in thy Kingdome free from death sicknesse sorrow feare and all the wretched effects of sinne preserue those whom thou hast hitherto spared let no plague come nigh their dwelling and make them in their preservation understand that thou only hast kept them to serve thee more carefully and thankefully and to shew mercy to those who are visited and shut up Lord heare and help us Lord spare thy people and restore us health that we may glorifie thy name through Jesus Christ our Lord. AMEN A Thanksgiving at the ceasing of the plague GRatious God and mercifull Father we are come before thee with an humble and hearty desire to present an acceptable sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving unto thy holy Majestie for all thy gracious mercies spirituall and temporall bestowed upon us unworthy of the least of them it was thy free mercy not our merit that electedst us when we were not that thou createdst us to thine own holy image that thou redeemest us that thou didst sanctify and justify us that thou hast preserved us sparing us when now thy fierce wrath came our against us in a noisome and devouring pestilence that thou was pleased to regard our teares and accept our unworthy humiliation all this was thy free mercy had we suffered as we have all deserved not one of the multitude apearing before thee this day had beene left alive to have praised thee And now O thou Saviour of Israel in the time of trouble and the blessed preserver of man whose mercies are as the unsounded deeps and can never be drawn dry give us sanctified bodies and soules that we may render them which thou hast redeemed from death a living sacrifice holy and acceptable unto thee Lord who hast the key of David who sang thy praises opening so that none can shut open our lips that our mouths may shew forth thy praise that we may now pay all our vows in our distresse and feare made unto thee As thou hast put a new song of thansgiving into our mouthes so give us new hearts new obedience new lives and conversations renew thy covenant with us and with our children to be our God and protector untill thou shalt be pleased to translate us to that Kingdome of thy Sonne where shall be joy secure from feare of loosing health without sicknesse life without death blessednesse without all measure or end where we whose hearts and soules this day praise thee shall with thy holy angels sing eternall Hallelu-jahs to the glory of thy great name through the merits of thy holy Son Jesus Christ our Lord to whom with thee O Father of mercy and the Holy Ghost the Comforter be rendred all honour praise thanksgiving and glory in heaven and earth this day and to all eternity AMEN Another forme of thanksgiving on the like occasion O Lord God Father of mercy and compassion we humbly acknowledge that our sinnes have beene so great and grievous that when thy wrath went out against us in thy late dreadfull visitation by the plâ—gue of pestilence it might justly have consumed us the aged with the infant the mother with the child untill thou hadst laid our habitations wast and our cities without inhabitants but seeing thou hast been pleased to remember mercy in the midst of thy judgements and to spare our lives from destruction we can do no lesse nor more then present our humble and hearty thankes unto thee in the congregation of thy people what shall wee give thee for all thy mercies what can we seeing our goods are nothing unto thee we have nothing but thankes to returne thee nor could we that except thou gavest us hearts and tongues so to doe Lord make us thankfull give us that we may give thee again and be acceptable unto thee fill our hearts with thy feare and love and our mouthes with thy praise let it come up into thy presence as the sweete incense from the Censer of the great Angell of thy covenant Christ Jesus Be thou pleased through his mediation to smell a favour of rest that thy severe judgements may be turned to mercies and fatherly corrections for our amendment that wee may truely profit thereby that we may feare and reverence thy just judgements and praise thee for thy elemency and mercy which thou hast shewed unto us in this deliverance Particularly we blesse thy holy name for these thy servants who now appeare before thee with their sacrifice of praise end thonkesgiving for that thou hast spared and delivered them from the grave and destruction which was come up into their houses Lord now grant them true thankefulnesse with holy and constant resolutions to spend the remainder of their daies to the glory of thy great name and good example of their brethren And seeing thou hast given us all the same argument of thankesgiving whom thou hast preserved and kept further off from the noisome contagion we pray thee also to accept our oblation of praise set our hearts to meditate and our tongues to sound out those praises to thy holy name which wee shall through thy mercy in Christ sing to thee for ever in the sacred Quieres of Saints and Angells in thy kingdome of glory
thee away in thy daily sinnes will like a tender father pitty thee when thou art not able to pray he will remember what thou hast prayed yea what Christ Jesus sitting at his right hand then speaketh for thee when thou hast most need of a mediator when stupified with paines of approaching death thou canst not utter one word for thy selfe then hee will open the heavens to thee and give thee a cleere sight of those joyes as he did S. Stephen then will he give his holy Angells charge over thee to receive thy soule breathed out of thy gasping body to convey it to his gratious and ever blessed presence This world is full of labour sorrow misery there 's no rest here heaven is the arke to which the tired dove the holy soule returneth for rest the morall men seemed to know it who placed their Temple of rest without the gate of Agony How much more must we who beleeve that we shall live eternally with Christ who shall come to save and give us life in death Even so come Lord Jesus AMEN A Prayer for him who hath recieved the sentence of death in himselfe O Lord God almighty preserver of man father of the spirits of the just God of all true consolation the hope of Israel and deliverer thereof in the day of trouble who givest a gratious eare to the afflicted faithfully calling on thee through him whom thou hast appointed to be the only mediator betweene thee and Wretched man Christ Jesus the righteous I humbly acknowledge that I have nothing of my selfe to present unto thy Majestie but confession of mine owne vilenesse nothing in my sinfull flesh but corruption matter of severe judgement to thee who art a God of pure eies and argument of terrour and despaire to my selfe most impure in sinne was I conceived and borne a child of wrath and disobedience my whole life hath abounded with that which bringeth forth fruit only unto death I have not done the good which thy sanctifying spirit made me willing to doe the evill that I would not I have done I have not rendred unto thee according to thy goodnesse when I would summe up my sins they so much exceed all numbers that my heart faileth mee my conscience telleth me of my wilfull neglects of thy service and disobedience to thy word concluding my whole life no better then sinfull but how many waies I have offended thee when I observed not thou only knowest how many are the failings which though I through spirituall blindnesse and carnall security have not observed that I might judge and condemne my selfe for them thereby to prevent thy severe judgement shall yet by no meanes escape thy strict examination and now O Lord what can I more doe then humbly beg thy pardon condemne my selfe renounce all confidence in the world and plead only thy mercy and the merits of thy sonne Jesus for my justification Lord looke upon me through him in whom thou art well pleased Nothing can be past or future to thy eternall wisdome look therefore on his bleeding wounds who did not in vaine dye for me let thy justice be satisfied in his obedience and suffering for all my sins And now O Lord seeing according to thy sentence on all mankind the time of my departure hence draweth high I humbly acknowledge this fraile condition to be the due wages of sinne which brought mortality into the world but thou who didst put thine owne image on me hast not made me for so short a life only as thou givest unto the beasts which perish thou hast no need of my miserie nor advantage in my destruction nor could so inestimable a price of my redemption as the blood of thy holy sonne Jesus be given for that which thou wouldst have perish eternally He must surely live for whom the resurrection and the life of Christ Jesus died Lord therefore seale up my redemption in my afflicted heart now that the Bride is neere send those holy comforters faith and assurance of thy mercy to adorne his own temple to lift up the everlasting doores of my soule that the king of glory and Lord of life may come in and change my vaine love of the world to love of heaven who will change my vile body that it may be like his own glorious body let me hence forth live his life no more mine own assured thereby of the repaire of mine inward man to a joyfull resurrection and life of glory that he may be to me in life and death advantage that in full confidence of my union with and interest in him I may be willing to bee dissolved that I may be with him O holy Saviour who hast through death abolished death and him that had the power thereof take from me all carnall feare by bringing life and immortality to light unto my conscience thou that hast in thy hands the keyes of death and hell restraine the tempters malice and mischievous charges of my sinne-wounded soule make me faithfull unto the death and assure mee of the crowne of righteousnesse laid up for all that love thy appearing Raise me now to the life of grace that the second death may not touch mee And though thou bring this fraile flesh to the dust of the earth yet let not death have dominion over me Though it must to the appointed time separate my soule from this decaying tabernacle of clay let neither life nor death things present nor future seperate my soule from thee and thy Christ. I acknowledge thy mercy who justly mightest have taken me away in my sins by some sodaine and untimely death or set me who am by sinne a sonne of death in the condition of those who in horrour of a restlesse conscience and bitternesse of spirit seeke death and cannot finde it but O good God whose eye is upon them that feare thee to deliver their soules from death in whose hands are the issues thereof seeing thou hast thus long spared me now accomplish thy mercy in me be thou my God for ever and my guide unto my end and comfort in my end now when my heart trembleth in me the terrours of death are fallne upon me give me the long expected fruits of my hopes proposed to me in thy word O blessed Jesus who art the death of death now shew thy selfe my Saviour take from my afflicted soule the sting of death assure me of victory loose the paines allay the feare and sorrowes and sweeten the bitternesse of death untill in my enjoying thy presence it be swallowed up in victory O holy Saviour who hast had experience of all our miseries for sin wiâ—hout sin and hast admitted us to be baptized into the similitude of thy death and resurrection let me now feele in my languishing soule the power thereof O Christ whose humane soule in thy passion for my redemption was heavy to the death now mercifully consider my infirmitie who am going the way of all flesh now give
in them Their communion with the Sonne is in that they are united to him become his members he liveth in them guideth governeth protecteth and comforteth them He communicateth to them all the benefits of his merits and passion so that they become as surely theirs for their justification as they are his as 't is written we are made partakers of Christ Heb 3. 14. hereby we become coheires with him Rom 8. 17. This belongeth onely to the Saints and true beleevers who walke as children of the light 1. Job 1. 6 7. who hearken to him and persevere unto the end Heb 3. 14. but Christ hath no communion with Infidels Christs communion with us is 1. in nature by his becomming â—lesh of our â—lesh 2. by grace and assumption of our persons in a mysticall union with him answering to God for us and so making us partakers of the divine nature 2. Pet 1. 4. 3. The perfection hereof shall be the translation of us into his glory so certaine as the truth of God which is the reason why the Apostle pronounceth thereof as of a thing already past Christ received â— us to the glory of God Rom 15. 7. The first of these states relateth to the second and the second to the last as nature is subordinate to grace and grace to glory the first union causeth the following we cannot have communion with him in his future glory if we have not in his present grace nor could wee ever have beene united to him by grace had not he first united himselfe to our nature whereby he fulfilled the law satisfied God's justice for us and so the divine unction sloweth from the head to all the body The holy Ghost worketh this union by giving us faith and sanctification This union is the most arct and indivisible he tooke on him our nature into an hypostaticall union with the deity he joyneth us to his mysticall body whereof he is the head by the holy Ghost hee that is joyned to the Lord is one spirit with him 1. Cor 6. 17. 1. Cor 12. 13. 1. Joh 3 24. 1. Joh 4. 13. Rom 8. 11. Ephes 4. 4. Hereby wee are really sanctified in that measure which he appointeth every man to salvation whereby he changeth our vile body that it may be like unto his own glorious body Phil 3. 21. and even now suffereth with us reckning all that is done unto us as done unto himselfe He becommeth wisedome righteousnesse sanctification and redemption unto us He freeth us from condemnation purgeth us from all sinne maketh us walk according to his good spirit mortifying the works of the flesh The communion of the holy Ghost is a participation of his grace by which he uniteth us to him regenerateth governeth teacheth leadeth comforteth us witnesseth with our spirits that we are the sonnes of God helpeth our infirmities intercedeth for us with unutterable groanes sealeth us up to the day of redemption and uniteth us one with another 3. Our communion one with another importeth 1. an externall communion and society of the Saints called and united in the body of the visible Church by the ministry of the word and use of the Sacraments 2. an internall conjunction in which those whom God hath united in an externall communion are also by the holy Ghost united unto God and one to another By which they have mutually and joyntly 1. The same right to adoption and sonship in God 2. The same interest in Christ and all his merits 3. The same faith and grace of justification 4. The same right to salvation life and eternall glory This communion is either of the living with the living or of the living with the deceased Saints present or that which shall be in the life to come in the Church triumphant which shall be the most compleat and excellent part thereof This is the first prerogative which the God of unity bestoweth on his Church that her true members hold an happy unity in Christ and a sweet and comfortable fellowship one with another for wee being many are partakers of one bread and one body by one Spirit we are all baptized into one body here is our happinesse in unity without which there is neither happinesse nor life the most excellent part the eye divided from the body cannot see communion must needs be happy where God uniteth we have now in that spirit which uniteth us a communion with the soules in heaven and have our conversation there though but imperfectly but when we also are perfect it shall be a most excellent state the more holy and wise we are the more divine is our fellowship which is only betweene the good and wise when Peter James and John saw Moses and Elias but two glorified Saints in our Saviours transfiguration ravished in spirit they cryed out 't is good for us to bee here let us build here why said they not so before being with Christ Alas there appeared in him before this only the forme of a servant and man of sorrowes no beauty that we should desire in him but now some beames of his glory brake through the clowd of his humanity When Moses and Elias lived on earth they were of no such esteeme there is not that poore despised Saint whose presence now seemeth irksome to the worldly prosperous man but he shall bee most aimiable in our perfect communion in the liâ—e to come Society of man is excellent what were the world to a man alone But he that said 't is not good for man in the state of innocency to be alone reserved the best society to the state of glory the best life excellent is that communion which we now have in this imperfect state for as much as we are united in one spirit faith and doctrine we have like affections love each other assist each other as in things externall so specially by mutuall prayers yea the Angels of heaven rejoyce at a sinners conversion because they hold communion with us under one head and no wonder for if the humane soule which is but a â—inite creature can give so much unity and sense to every member of the body as to make them have a mutuall sympathy care and love how much more shall the spirit of an infinite God give these to all those which he uniteth in Christ But if so excellent bee this communion to us now in this mortall life and state of imperfection what thinke yee shall it be when thiâ— corruptible hath puton iucorruption and God shall be all in all And beleeving this why should I doubt of our knowing one another in the world to come To him that beleeveth this comfortable Article of Faith these following rules are necessary 1 Love all men for Gods sake If there be any consolation in Christ if any comfort of love if any fellowsâ—ip of the spirit saith the Apostle fulfill my joy that yee
loveth his pleasure profit ease more then God must needs be impatient of the loss of any of these And love thy neighbour as thy selfe and a little injury shall not make thee impatient 2. Be content with necessaries having food and raiment let us be therewith content what can the treasures of Princes give them more It was a prudent speech of that Indian King Taxiles to the invading Alexander what should wee need said hee to fight and make warre one with another if thou comest not to take away our water and our necessaries by which wee must live as for other goods if I be richer then thou I am ready to give thee of mine and if I have lesse I will not think scorn to thank thee if thou wilt give mee some of thine How happy were the societies of men if all were so composed 3. Often and thankfully recount what God hath done and doth for thee foolish men by their impatience causing them to oversee their own happy estates make something nothing and blessings curses to themselves 't is the part of a foole rather to mourn for that he looseth then to rejoyce for that is left him because therein joy is better then sorrow such mark what they have not not what they have beyond many thousands better then they because wiser and more thankful They think they must be humoured with all sweet but nothing bitter Thou speakest as one of the foolish women said Job to his wife tempting him what shall wee receive good at the hands of God and shall wee not receive evill 4. In all discontents looke up to Jesus the author and finisher of our faith considering what and why he suffered he suffered that which thou couldst not not for himself he had no sinne but to save thee if thou canst through faith in him have peace with God thou shalt not only beare but rejoice in tribulation knowing that it worketh patience if thou wilt keep innocency and a good conscience therein thou shalt have admirable peace in thy minde which shall quiet it amidst tumults of things externall but as a city in sedition or house in discord of the owners cannot be happy so neither can the minde at discord with it selfe 5. Keep thee within the verge of thy calling undertake not neither propose to thy selfe things too great for thy mannaging Overgriping thy hand enervateth it and puteth it to fruitless pain aiming at too ambitious leaps breaks many an heart where they fall short of their vaine propositions 6. Resolve as to use fulnesse if God please to give it to his glory so in case he restraineth to lessen thy minde to live within the shell of thine own fortune to necessity not opinion to that a little is sufficient to this nothing when the Philosopher in his journey drank water with his hand he cryed With how few uâ—encills is nature content Many are selfetormenters authors of their own sad discontents by their proposing such strange fabricks of their Babels building castles in the aire and towers to heaven adding house to house and land to land province to province and kingdome to kingdom seeking their chiefe good in the dangerous proceeds of doubtfull adventurers greatnesse and aâ—â—luence of riches they goe farre about to finde that which is safely and only to be found at home in our selves in a minde contented with that it hath It was noted of Pyrâ—hus that active Epirot that Fortune made him happy enough with good means to live peaceably at home without any trouble if hee could have contented himselfe onely with the soveraignty over his own subjects but his insatiable avarice which neither the sea mountaines unhabitable deserts nor the confines which separate Asia from Europe could limit instigated him perpetually to seeke new matter of trouble to himselfe and others which his faithfull friend Cineas did once prudently though without effect intimate to him when upon new overtures of honorable and profitable undertakings for the Tarentines occasioned by Cineas quaeres Pyrrhus had said when we have overcome the Romans there can neither Greâ—ian nor Barbarous city in all the countrey withstand us but we shall conquer all the rest of Italie with ease and what shall we do then said Cineas Pyrrhus telleth him of conquering of commodious Sicily again he demanded that being wone shall our wars end Pyrrhus saith the way were then broad open to attaine great conquests who would not afterward goe into Africk and so to Carthage but when wee have all in our hands said Cineas what shall we do in the end we will then good Cineas said hee be quiet and take our ease make feasts every day and be as merry one with another as we can possibly Cineas having brought him to that point said to him My Lord what letteh us now to be quiet and merry together sith wee enjoy that presently without farther travell and trouble which we will now goe seek for abroad with such sheeding of blood and so manifest danger and we know not whether wee ever shall attaine unto it after we have both suffered and caused others to suffer infinite sorrows and troubles 7. Learne a faithfull dependance on Gods providence this ground of content the holy Ghost proposeth Let your conversation be without covetousnesse and be content with such things as yee have for hee hath said I will never leave thee nor for sake thee when men too much depend on second causes they are impatient at every crosse they would impiously prescribe God in the time as Jehoram would 2 King 6. 33. and rebellious Israel Exod. 32. 1. or in the meanes as Naman 2 King 5. 11. but in assurance that God will never faile us wee patiently expect his help In every affliction remember that God beholdeth thee and that his providence will give the issue with the triall 8. Often call to minde in case of discontent for thy wants what thou brought'st into the world and what thou shalt carry hence thou hast not such possessions houses riches apparrell as some have yet no man liveth so poor as he was born this was it which that Exemplar of patience said in all his losses Naked came I into this world and naked shall I return so Paul makes it a ground of his exhortation to contentednesse Wee brought nothing into this world and it is certain we shall carry nothing hence Kings and Princes are cast out naked in the day of their nativity weeping little masters of the world The great Saladine will tell you what they carry hence who willed that at his funerals one carrying a shirt or winding sheet on the point of an advanced lance should goe before the herse and proclaim thus Saladine the conquerour of the East carrieth hence with him only this of all that hee hath gotten 9. Feed not the bitter humour of discontents for the groweths thereof are sad and dangerous Give