parity of manners conciliateth love but Gods love createth our likenesse to him hence is it that the most excellent creatures love him most whereby they are made such some think that ardency of love denominateth those Angells which stand in Gods presence Seraphim certaine it is such are we as is our love our manners are not estimable by that which we knowe but by that we love good or evill love maketh us such if we love God we are godly if the world worldly if sinne sinfulf all men the best of all doe sinne but the wicked only love sinne looke how the glasses species are as is the posture thereof if you turne it to heaven you see only heaven in it if to the earth only earth so is it in our love the soules looking-glasse wherein we may see and judge of our selves 6. Without this love there can be no true happinesse for the wrath of God the severity of his justice remaineth for those who hate him give him all that a sinfull soule can desire make him times minion the worlds favorite you can make him nothing better then a devill But with the love of God though a man may possibly seeme or be said unhappy he cannot be so for all things worke together for good to them that love God prosperity adversity life death all things shall finally advantage them he that seeketh the love of God must looke for many enemies but contrary to their intentions they shall doe him good the love of the world is sweet at first but bitternesse in the end and the love of God hath many sharpe trialls at first but in the end shall be most comfortable This love is that divine Elixer which maketh the vile pretious an indeficient treasure which whosoever hath can never lack that which is good he that hath it not can never be the better for all hee hath what good or salvation can he expect who is so unhappy as not to love the fountaine of all blessednesse what can hee reasonably feare who loveth an omniscient and righteous God who is a pleanteous rewarder of those that love him Though we cannot be saved for any desert of Love to God for it is his mercy not our merit wee cannot be saved without it if any man love not the Lord Jesus let him be anathema maranatha 1. Cor 16. 22. 7. So excellent is this one possession that Paul counted all but meere losse for it dying Joshua left this as the chiefe legacie to his friends and family concerning whom hee resolved as for me and my house we will serve the Lord take good heed therefore unto your selves that yee love the Lord your God he need no more it is better to love God then to be heire of the world if thou canst not know this living thou shalt when thou art dying let my children faithfully love God I wish them no greater blessing who with my soule pray they may be truly blessed A Prayer for love to God O Lord God Almightie great and glorious who art cloathed with Majestie the beauty of holinesse perfection of beauty who hath filled heaven earth with the gratious effects of love and goodnesse I thy poore creature prostrating my selfe before thy mercy seat humbly acknowledge the many sinnes which render me utterly unworthy ever to appeare before thee specially that great ingratitude which maketh me ashamed to speake unto thee who art the searcher of all hearts yet in assurance of my acceptance in the son of thy love who now sitting at thy right hand maketh requests for me I am bold to pray thee to fill my heart with thy love which is better then all things that with my soule I may desire thee in the night with my spirit within me seeke thee early O Lord though the remainder of sinne in me create me many distractions though fraile flesh and blood starteth at the apprehension and feare of thy just judgments or murmur at the bitternes of thy present corrections yet thou knowest all things thou knowest that I love thee though with a fraile yet with a sincere heart and love with thine owne spirit infused into me O Lord my soule thirsteth after thee and thy holy presence in my sanctification and full assurance of thy mercy Therefore according to thine owne promise who caâ—st not deceive sanctifie me herein that I may love thee more and more cleanse me from all my sinnes create that purity of heart in me which may assure me of a capacity to behold thy goodnesse in the land of the living fill my lips with grace diffusive of it selfe to thy glory and the ministration of grace to the hearers guide me in the whole course of my life in that holinesse which may please thee disburden my conscience of all that guilt which leaveth me in any feare of that way by which thou hast appointed me to come unto thee and thy kingdome of glory that no afflictions paines feaâ—es or terrours of life or death may be able to separate me from thy love in Christ Jesus Blessed Lord only assure me of thy love and let thy holy will bee done with me I am thine thou madest me to thine owne image thou redeemedst and repairedst the same by thy free spirit when I was dead in trespasses and sinnes thou neither madest redeemâ—dst nor sanctifiedst me for my selfe therefore when thou doest that with me which shall best please thee in the advancement of thy glory in my salvation thou makest me happy in the end of my creation redemption and sanctification Lord it was thine owne free love which by revealing thy selfe and the inestimable riches of thy mercy to mee made me knowe what I had to love in thee neither didst thou finde in me any thing worthy of thee but the effects of thine owne love which in my election before I was determined to make me an object of thy mercy therefore thou who art Love didst set thine own image on me thou best knowest that I am of my selfe but worthlesse dust and earth and by my sinnes a masse of corruption such as onely can displease thee and deserve thine anger but O Lord God of mercy who foundest me a child of wrath and madest me a sonne an enemy and reconciledst me by the death of thy holy sonne Jesus accomplish the worke of thine owne mercy in me and love me still give mee an heart to love thee so above all with all my soule minde and might love that which thou hast wrought in my heart cherish thine owne graces in me though my love be full of imperfections yet thy worke is perfect in thee is no shadow of change Lord for thine owne loves sake now make me such as thou maist love me to eternitie through the merits of thy sonne Jesus Christ my Lord and blessed Saviour AMEN CHAP. XVII § 1. Of love to our selves of the kindes thereof § 2. Of Love to our
much as thou canst every part must serve to Gods love that wee may love God not only giving us but also severely correcting us and denying us that which we aske and thinke best for us in assurance that he is most just wise and mercifull to dispose all for the best as may be seene in Christ and the Martyres whom nor life nor death nor any pressure could separate from the love of God 4. Though the love of God in mans state of innocency was lost by sinne yet that which is infused in our regeneration shall never fall away because it dependeth on Gods immutable love to us who not only giveth grace but also perseverance there in it was never true love of God which ever faileth if it be true it knoweth no end being ever invincible for the gifts and graces of God are without repentance Rom. 11. 29. faith operative by love cannot be lost neither can true love it may be remitted not lost clouded not extinguished that which in the reprobate seemeth the love of God shal be lost the true which is in the elect can never because though men may be deceived concerning their election God cannot 5. This love of God is never perfect in the best in this life here it may stil receive encreases doth as the Apostle Phil. 1. 9. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 yet more and more in knowledge We love according to our knowledge which being but in part no more is this our whole regeneration is yet imperfect in degrees and so is our love to God 6. Love of God shall remaine and be perfect in the life to come when riches honours pleasures deare friends nay whē those excellent gifts of learning and prophesie shall leave us when faith shall end in enjoying this one treasure shall be secure and encrease to eternity 7. As he that hateth God is herein more excusable then all other sinners because hate of God is more apparently impious then failing in attaining it or falling from it by infirmity for here may be a will to doe good but there cannot so also herein that having but one extreame to fall into the malitious will fall there all other sinnes may be in excesse and in defect because every other vertue this love excepted hath two bastard sisters as valour hath in excesse temerity and in defect timidity justice hath on the right hand too much severity on the left too much mildnesse and indulgence to sinne so is it in the rest only this most amiable vertue hath nothing but defect to oppose it no creature can love God too much because none can love him enough or infinitely This also aggravateth the sinne that there can be no cause in God of any hatred toward him because the only chiefe and true good cannot bee the proper object of hatred nor could the most wicked hate him but that they have sins which his justice must punish because he is good and they have set up their impious desires lusts after pleasures and reveuge in his place and therefore hate all that oppose them so is the wisdome of the flesh enmity with God because it is not subject to the law of God which the signes and effects thereof declare such as are despaire servile feare of God's presence fleeing from him as Adam would have done audacious liberty of sinning c yet are there degrees herein the formall hypocrite doth not professedly and out of destinate malice hate God nor truely love him he professeth love but preferreth the world before God and if any man so love the world the love of God is not in him 1 Joh 2. 15. Now whereas all pretend love as obedience to God yea when they doe no lesse then rebell against him and would if it were possible unthrone him it is necessary to consider some markes and signes of this love which are these and the like we love God 1. If in our hearts desire wee choose him for our chiefe good and preferre him before all loves as the spouse saith thy love is beter then wine if we fix our hearts and affections on God we love him if we delight in him and his law and desire to know more of him for as one saith of Magdalens looking againe into Christs sepulchre the power of love multiplieth the intention of inquisition if we rejoyce at the gaine of his favour above all gaines requirable in heaven or earth if we delight in his presence ordinances and the places where his honour dwelleth in his publike worship as that man after Gods heart whose very name signified love my soule thirsteth after the living God when shall I come and appeare before God Psal 42. 2. If wee desire and delight to heare those who bring his messages to us as Psal 119. 162. if wee often think of him where our love is our thoughts will be if we love to speake of him and to him in fervent and frequent prayers if we have a secret joy of heart at the apprehension of his presence and gratious assistance of us in any thing which may please him at attentive hearing his word zealous prayer secret giving for his sake or for the inward testimony of his spirit assuring us that we are his children because we hold him most deare 2. if we be heartly sorry when God is dishonoured so David mourned because men kept not his word certainly no man can without greife of heart remember or behold his owne or others sinnes whereby God is displeased if he love God they are but hollow freinds that can be pleased and make themselves merry with that which they know hurteth or greiveth those to whom they professe love therefore David Peter and all those that truely love God weep and mourne for their sinnes 't is griefe of soule to them that they cannot serve him as they ought without all sinne therefore David frequent and Peter abundant in teares for their sinnes professed that they loved the Lord this with better confidence then before when hee professed hee would lay downe his life for Christ said Lord thou knowest all things thou knowest that I love thee 3. If we keep his commandements which signe his selfe giveth Joh 14. 15. 23. as also the◠beloved Disciple 1 Joh. 2. 5. this is indeed to walke with him it is an impudent falshood to say we love God while we contemne his lawes as 't is to affirme we love him and hate our brother 4. If we love those that love him and are beloved of him as David did Psal 16. 3. Sec 1. Ioh 5. 1. if we love God whose spirit regenerateth we shall love the regenerate for his sake whose image they beare 5. If we hate that which is evill and delight in that onely which is pleasing to God Among lovers there must bee idem velle idem nolle he that saith he abideth in him ought himselfe also to
walke even as he walked and the Psalmists precept is yee that love the Lord hate evill See Psal 101. 3. Psal. 119. 104. 128. 163. Psal 139. 22. we all sinne but hee that doth not truely hate sinne cannot love God 6. If our love to the world pleasures and all desirable secular things as also our cares concerning them decline and lessen in us devided streames â—unne shallower the more wee love with God the lesse we love him the more wee love him the lesse we love all things else except in subordination to him when Mary had chosen the better part the love of God she sate at Jesus feet carelesse of the other entertainment look how those glowormes shining in the dark and the starres themselves vanish at the appearance of the Sunne so doth the love of things secular at the arising of the love of God on our hearts 7. If we set not deare by any thing else riches pleasures liberty life it selfe for â—ods sake as Paul speaketh for his fellow souldier he for the worke of Christ regardeth not his life and of himselfe who for the same counted it not deare Act 20. 24. it was a great love to God which Abraham shewed when for his sake hee would bee content to sacrifice his beloved only son Isaak God who would honour him with the high title of his friend and father of the faithfull and would have heaven it selfe take a livery from him and be called Abrahams bosome would in that example of himselfe teach him as much as man could apprehend of Gods infinite love what it was to give his only son Jesus to death to save us 8. If in no difficultie of affaire spirituall or secular we attempt any thing inconsulti but goe to the Oracles of his worâ—d for advise beg his assistance and blessing in and upon all our workes how canst thou say I love thee when thy heart is not with mee Said Delilah how much more may God say so wheÌ„ we will not trust him It is a chiefe advantage of love that we have a prudent heart and a faithfull eare wherein to unload our cares and doubts and that we are sure we shall carry away none but infallible counsaile friends that may erre as men are yet deservedly trusted if they would not 9. If we beleeve in him and put our confidence in him for life and death love is the fairest issue of faith which so uniteth us to God that we can securely cast our selves and all our cares on him and his good providence beleeving and being fully perswaded that what he hath promised he is able also to performe and that whatsoever he doth with us or for us is best even when in faithfulnesse he afflicteth us Every one seemeth to love God prospering and giving but the triall is whether we love God afflicting us shewing us no countenance when he seemeth to forsake us and not to heare or regard our prayers when we are ready to perish in such case to resolve with Job though he kill me I will trust in him this is indeed a certaine argument of that love which shall assure our hearts before him if we could but thus prove the Lord with confidence in him and holy subjection of our selves to him hee would open us the windowes of heaven and powre us out blessings he would rebuke the destroyer for our sakes The common obstructions and lets to the love of God are 1. Ignorance of God we cannot love that whose excellency we know not Pharoah asked who was the Lord that hee should obey him So say the spiritually blinde who is he that we should love him They are haters of God because their foolish hearts were full of darknesse 2. Unbeliefe if wee could indeed beleeve Gods word describing his wisedome mercie verity benificence power and Providence and that there is true and eternall happinesse only in our union with him we should easily be perswaded to set our hearts on him as it is written whom having not seene yee love in whom though now yee see him not yet beleeving yee rejoyce with joy unspeakable 3. Love of this world and the present distracting cares thereof wherein catching at deluding shadowes we loose the substance if any man love it the love of the father is not in him as I noted We cannot with one eye see heaven and earth together nor love God and Mammon with one unchanged heart whose dangerous perversenesse and corruption herein appeareth God is only good but the whole world lyeth in wickednesse it loveth nothing good it is bitter and troublesome unto us yet we unhappily dote on it to our destruction and suffer it to steale away our hearts from Gods love wherein we should otherwise be happy what would wee doe if the world were neither bitter nor troublesome We are loath to part with the vaine amenity of this world as Lots wife was from the pleasant fields of Sodom no not when the Angels pull us by the hands would we goe out from ruine and destruction when the Reubenites and Gadites saw the fruitfull Jazer and the pleasant Gilead they petioned Moses that they might have the lot of their possession there and goe no further they desired not the promised rest it is so with many a worldly man he would faine sit downe here and have his heaven on earth 4. Guilt of conscience cannot be without feare of Gods severity now love and servile feare are incompatible hee that feareth Gods justice because he loveth his own liberty of sinning ease and indemnity cannot love God as this feare excludeth perfect love so this casteth out feare there is no feare in love nor love in base feare 5. Pleasures of sinne which only are contrary to Gods love no man can love unreconcilable contraries he that loveth and delighteth in any sinne thereby looseth all capacity of Gods love who cannot but punish the same The meanes on our part to be used for the enflaming our love to God are that we 1. Study to know God to acquaint our selves with him in Christ his holy word which reveileth him unto us He is the most amiable of all that is in heaven or earth therefore the most desirable as it is written he is altogether lovely It is our spirituall blindnes and ignorance of God which causeth our not loving him as we ought if we knew him we could not but love him so as that the love and care of all creatures however dear would decline in us when Peter on the mount had but a tast of his goodnes glimps of his majesty as forgetfull of all below he cryed it is good for us to be here let us make 3 tabernacles Satan oftimes setteth such a mischievous distance between man and man that mistaking or not rightly knowing one another he easily fomenteth jealousies and contentions betweene them thereby
the opinion of the unwise wicked doe but consider that wise men looke most to the end that they have rightly proposed to themselves which if they attaine their worke is done whether by force or counsell they passe not they looke to the end through just meanes Suppose thine end is to overcome thine enemie if thou mightest make free choice of the meanes tell me wouldst thou overcome him by good or evill by vertue or violence by excelling him in goodnesse or equalling him in evill 'T is an epidemick madnesse to thinke there is no victory but in violence and requiting evill with evill becomming as damnable as their enemies 9. Lastly resolve that every injurie shall better thee doth thine enemie hurt thee Let it occasion thee to pray for him aud to enter into a serious examination of thine owne heart whether thou hast not injured him or some other upon discovery of injury done by thee repent and give satisfaction that God may give thee thy quietus est so will hee in his good time judge for thee ever looke to the hand that smiteth thee Assyria is but the rod of Gods anger God raised up enemies to Solomon It may be that God bad Sheimei curse be not like the foolish dog to bite the stone cast at him but looke to the cause which being removed the effect shall cease There are who bend their tongues to shoot out bitter words which God permitteth to admonish his servants of some unrepented sinnes which being discovered and repented of they proove ike Jonathans arrowes shott to warne not to wound Thy friends may possibly not see or seeing dissemble thy faults marke well what thine enemies say of thee let their vigilant malice apt to accuse thee make thee more carefully watch over thy waies least thy failings advantage them or give them just occasions of reviling thee and as Theseus is said to have cut off his comely lockes least his enemies should finde advantage by catching hold of them so doe thou all occasions of calumny how many men haâ—â— perished in their sinnes unseene had not the malice of enemies awaked admonished them And like Jason Phereus enemy cured them by wounding them Selfe-love is ever blinde and true friendship sometimes but malice hath a thousand eyes this Serpent is quick sighted to find out others faults seeing I cannot but be faulty and would not be so I had rather want many acquaintance then some enemies who may amend mee though for ill will I owe much to many good friends for other offices but most to mine enimies for this who yet through Gods mercy never hurt me but to the greater advantage of my soule I hope they who never could never shall A Prayer for Love and Charity O Lord God of mercy and compassion we humbly acknowledge that so many continuall have our rebellions been against thee that we deserve thine anger and that thoâ—â— shouldst arme all the hoste of heaven and the creatures under heaven against us but we humbly pray thee to pardon us for Jesus Christ his sake give us hearts to repent before the consummation of thy feirce wrath the day of thine anger come upon us to agree with our adversary quickly while we are yet in the way to seeke righteousnesse that we may be hid in the day of thine anger Lord our hope is in thee make us not a reproach to them that hate us withold not thy tender mercy from us let thy loving kindnesse and thy truth preserve us Thou who art the God of love and unity set thine own image again upon us and as thou hast loved redeemed us in the son of thy love Christ Jesus so give us hearts to love one another that thereby all men may knowe that we are his Disciples Lord deliver us not to the will of our enemies and oppressours but forgive us all that wherein we have any waies injured or justly offended our brethren make our waies so pleasing in thy sight that thou maist bee pleased to make our enemies at peace with us Turne their hearts and mischievous intentions as thou didst revengefull Esau's give them a true sight and sorrow for their sinnes that they may repent and bee saved Prevent and divert their malice that it may not proceed further to hurt themselves or us restraine the tempter that he may no more be able to set variance and his owne bitter influence malice and enmity between those whom thoâ— hast united by their adoption in Christ Thou hast promised the blessing on brethren who live together in unity give us that spirit that we may hold the sacred band thereof in peace that we may not bring a scandall on thy truth that our prayers be not hindred that our soules may be delivered from the snares of death in which the malitious are holden that we may all meet cheerefully before thy tribunall in the holy communion of Saints and blessed unity of the body of Christ to whom with thee O Father of love God of peace and the holy Ghost the comforter be rendred all honour glory praise and dominion in heaven and earth for ever and ever AMEN CHAP. XVIII § 1. Of the soule faculties thereof affections minde and thoughts in generall § 2. Of the corruptions of the heart the danger and difficultie of the cure § 3. Of the necessitie of right ordering our thoughts § 4. Rules of practice 1 THere are many things of whose being we know whose quality we knowe not all confesse wee have a soule which commandeth and restraineth in us what a one it is none can tell hence are those many disputes about its essence seat and subject with the subordinate faculties of it no man hath throughly beene acquainted with this secret governour in man some have defined it an harmonie some a divine vertue a particle of the deity some the most exile slender aire some a blood some heat or fire some number so innate is errour that we most erre concerning our owne selves more rightly doe they say who call it an immortall spirit an incorporeall substance created by infusion and infused in its creation made to the image of the Creatour capable of the light of understanding wisdome holinesse blessednesse and eternity so that in its conjunction with the body it ammateth giveth life action and motion wherein it differeth from an Angell and in its separation from the body for a time untill it shall be reunited in the resurrection it subsisteth as doe the Angells and then hath its proper acts and apprehensions as they Now as the eye seeth the eye in a glasâ—e so the soule knoweth it selfe by a kinde of â—reflex The soule is a divine ghest sent from heaven into these earthly Tabernacles to give them life and governe them yet is it neither seene comming nor departing it is an immortall forme of moâ—tall man the body decayeth the soule doth not being
Prov 16. 5. Fiftly they who have wicked thoughts runne swiftly to iniquity and destruction is in their paths Sixtly in the corruption of the heart the very fibrae and remainders of sins reviving root Satans venome remaineth The Hydra's ever-growâ—ng heads which when occasions ability so faile that the impious cannot serve the devill in externall actions will shew its venome in their will to sinne Lastly it is a very difficult thing rightly to compose the thoughts in respect of the hearts unsounded deceitfulnesse and the mind 's unlimited agility in these depths of quick-shifting thoughts sinne easily hideth it selfe externall sinnes in words or workes are like the plague of leprosie broken out abroad and covering all the skinne neerer the cure and by so much the more easily amended or overcome by how much more evident they are not onely to others but also to our selves the sinnes of the heart are by so much more hardly cured and avoided by how much more secretly and invisibly they are committed the thoughts are more securely extravagant carelesse and presuming by how much lesse they are obvious to any reprover or censurer without And where the heart is smitten with some aufull feare of God and resolution to repent maketh inquest after sinne that which is in word or action is more easily and frequently found but the sin of the mind like Jonathan and Ahimaaz at Bahurim is let downe into the depth of the heart whose secret enemies are like those Ligurian mountainers whom the Romans chased more hardly found then vanquished Moreover man's innate self-selfe-love and naturall complacency make him unapt and loath to condemne himselfe in any thing wherein hee knoweth others cannot And lastly the restlesse machination of Satan is to suggest selfe-delusions as he doth temptations to sinne whereby his baits may be swallowed his policy is to keep the heart for his retreat and if any reproofe happily chase away profanenesse bitter anger obscenity or calumny out of the tongue or adultery theft murder or the like from the outward man yet if he can but cherish and maintaine any of these in the uncleansed heart hee will finde opportunity meanes to make them breake out again or if not he knoweth that where he hath the heart bee the words and actions never so saint-like God hath no part there and this bringeth us to our third consideration There is great necessitie of regulation of our thoughts and heart without which it is but vaine to draw neere God with our lips The right ordering of the affections thoughts is of two branches that we compose them first to wisdome secondly to integrity I. Wisdome is as a mistres to tumultuous servants at whose presence the most disorderly are suddainly composed silenced an understanding heart is the inward light of the soule which God looketh on without which all externall shewes and appearances of sanctity make formall hypocrites no better then Egyptian Temples which outwardly grave decent and venerable were ridiculous with their Apes Serpents Cats and Crocadiles set up for Gods within Solomon who had granted him free choice of any thing that he would aâ—ke of God desired an understanding heart above riches or life He whom God made the wisest of meere men of all the holy pen-men gave most precepts concerning the heart and minde our direction herein must be sought for in Gods word which only is able to make us wife to salvation and begged of him who giveth all men liberally and upbraideth none He that trusteth his owne heart is a foole for the heart of the sonnes of men is full of evill and madnesse is in their heart while they live Unhappy is hee who goeth on frowardly in the way of his own heart or that which the wisedome of corrupt man can teach him seeing all that is foolishnesse with God 2. Secondly we must so compose our hearts that they may be upright and sincere before God without this our best actions prayer hearing repentance almes and what ever else wee doe is worth nothing O Jerusalem saith the Lord wash thy heart from wickednesse that thou maist be saved how long shall thy vaine thoughts lodge in thee It is but folly to labour the cure in the outward part while the contagion and venome of sinne invadeth the secure heart or to wash the eyes with floods of teares where the sinne of Judah is written with a penne of iron and graven with the point of a diamond upon the table of the heart Blessed are they in whose heart are the waies of God he is good unto them that are of a cleane heart they shall finde him who seeke him with all their heart they that knowe righteousnesse have the law of God in their heart their steps shall not slide they delight to doe Gods will they hide up the law of God in their heart that they may not sinne against him tho knowledge of God is pleasant unto their soule and shall give them length of daies and peace when they goe it shall lead them when they sleepe it shall keepe them when they wake it shall talke with them it is a lampe and light to direct them in the waies of life to keepe them from sinne Now however the waies of an hypocrite may seeme cleane in his owne eies yet seeing the God of justice weigheth the spirits it highly concerneth every man to looke to the ordering of this inward house that it may be a cleane temple for Gods spirit to dwell in without whose guidance man can doe no other then runne to destruction of body and soule by ordering our thoughts aright so we have our conversation in heaven wee walke with God and in our many dangerous sicknesses of minde sundry distempers and perturbations of fluctuant thoughts the wearied soule shall ever have recourse unto this Arke for rest There are troublesome errours of sicke mindes which see false comforts insteed of true there is anxietie impatience and griefe which eateth the heart there is the fire of anger to enflame envie and malice to transport vaine hopes and feares whose vicissitudes doe miserably afflict the disquiet minde there are many parturbations which if not prudently managed will master reason and violently carry men into the most dangerous precipices whence they cannot when they would stay themselves all which to a wise and good man shall be but exercises to make his victory over his owne passions more glorious nor is hee lesse honourable who overcommeth himselfe then he that conquereth others The great conquerers of kingdomes have beene overcome of their own affections thereby foolishly eclypsing all the glory of their victories the strong may overcome others but only the good can overcome themselves I had rather overcome mine own minde then all mine enemies I would I were secure of my selfe all the powers of
Lord said he gave and the Lord hath taken away blessed be the name of the Lord the Holy Ghost thus testifieth in all this Job sinned not Happy Job to come off with that honour and happy they who imitate that invincible patience in their sufferings Now God heareth not the impatient they are evill they are by every condition made worse being authors of their own misery for as much as they make their own burthens intollerable by striving under that which no violence can cast off they become Satans captives serving in their frâ—tfull impatience only to adorne his triumphs and scornes to men who can no lesse then deride if not loath that morosity and peevish waywardnesse which causeth the impatient malecontent neither to enjoy friends nor himselfe an example whereof we have in that mirrour of impatience Diogenes surnamed the Cynick or dogged as in many of his actions and words so in his reply to Alexander the Great who gratiously asking him if he lacked any thing received this answer yea I doe stand out of my light and in that whether to professe himselfe a devoted servant to his own passions or to make claime to an equall capacity and right of contemning his friends greatnesse as much as he slighted his poverty he would rather dwell in a Tubbe then expect the delayed benificâ—nce of him that promised to build him an Howse certainly his impatience therein disadvantaged him 3. Consider that secular aâ—â—lictions cannot be long if all the world Men and Devills conspired to vex and inâ—ure thee they could not long make thee an object of their fury and malice as it was said when Caesar had shut up Cato by Land and Sea yet habet quâ exeat Cato he meant by death on much better ground standeth the Saints comfort who heareth yee have neâ—d of patience that after yee have done the will of God yee might receive the promise for yet a very little while and he that shall come will come and will not â—arry blessed are they who with meeknesse and patient confidence expect him be therefore patient stablish your hearts for the comming of the Lord draweth nigh heavinesse may endure for a night but joy cometh in the morning however the longest day must have an end and the most tedious misery of the patient Saint shall have an happy one 4. Consider the extent of that thou sufferest thou art hated without cause thou owest thanks to God for that conformity to his dear Son thou art oppressed plundered imprisoned banished but yet thou hast not resisted unto blood thou are an enrowled Souldier under the banner of Christ in whom beleeving and patiently bearing tryall thou canst not miscarry and dost thou startle at those charges wherein thy life is not yet endangered what if the heavenly Generall chose thee out for one of the Forlorne hope of Martyrdome and the fiery tryall wouldest thou decline the service or complaine of danger 5. Consider that nothing is befallen you but that which Is humane and a condition common to many Paulus Aemilius well observed in his sodaine victory over Perseus thaâ— there is nothing constant in this world dost thou in the losse of some secular comfort cry with that afflicted Church behold and see if there be any sorrow like unto my sorrow if it be any comfort to have partners in woe consider well what thousands of others suffer as he said who to comfort an embittered friend as they beheld a populous Citty from the howse top how many sad hearts and weeping eyes are now under these roofes thou art not alone in suffering 6. Consider that many of Gods dearest children far better then thou suffer more then thou yee have heard of the patience of Job and therein the issue of patience God delivered him to Satan Behold hee is in thine hand yet all that the Devil could doe against him made him more happy whom God pronounced righteous God knoweth the strength of his who giveth it If Saul would not have permitted David to an unequall conflict shall wee think the Lord of hosts will give any of his deere children to adversaries or hazzards beyond certainty of conquest that hee will venture thee into the lists may assure thee that he who cannot be deceived knoweth thee invincible through his grace arming thee hee looketh on thy trialls with delight because thereto hee will proportion the reward who loveth thee Be not deceived they are not wretched who suffer most 't is honour to conquer with wounds these flowers grow among sharp difficulties skarrs are Honors characters written in the face and breast of the valiaut 7. Consider what thou deservest and thou shalt finde good cause to blesse the Lord that afflicteth thee no more consider what caused the evil of which thou art impatient as if thou deservedst no good no man is so miserable as wicked 8. Consider the issue of afflictions and the end why God afflicteth thee the Physician giveth not bitter pills nor doth the Chirurgian use the lancet and cauterie to hurt but to cure the disaffected much lesse doth God delight in thy griefe hee maketh thee weep now to prevent eternall weeping hee loveth not thy misery but thy health that hee prescribeth such bitter things that so long thy disease requireth it if more gentle Physick would have cured thee hee would not have been so grievous to thee if lesse hee would sooner ease thee hee will not put in one dramme or scruple more then hee knoweth necessary be patient therefore and expect the issue What doe not patients endure under Physicians hands promising uncertain help how much rather ought we to subject our selves to God when did he faile of his promise I but saiest thou I cry to him for help and he heareth not It is Gods mercy not to hear thee according to thy will that hee may doe that which is for thy salvation so good Physicians deale with their patients seeing then calamity is often the discipline of vertue shall he be queazy stomacht to the antidote who greedily swallowed the poison 9. All impatience hath it natals in the devill who laboureth by all meanes to embitter the soule of man and to plâ—nge him into despaire and to make him murmur at the taste of these Marahs of affliction because hee envieth the image of God in him and his favours to him strive therefore to calme thy minde in every affliction which that thou maist the better do observe these rules 1. Love God above all and thou shalt not be disconâ—ented with any thing he doth It is the Lord said Eli let him doe what seemeth him good When wee love God aright we will know that all his judgements are just and what ever he layeth on us fatherly corrections the effects of his love and wisedome for our amendment who therefore correcteth every son because he would have none perish He that
taketh not away faiths confidence but the security of the flesh 3. Lay up the promises of God therefore were they written that we through patience and comfort of the Scriptures might have hope 4. Set not up thy rest in this world neither trust in any thing thereof it is but like a staffe of reed a loose rope at Sea a false friend forsaking in adversity the quick-sands on which foolish builders lay their foundation as Moses told Israel yee are not come to your rest all Worldly things change continually here can be no constancy among the sonnes of Men prosperity is but like a faire morning quickly overcast with hideous stormes like the morning dew soon vanishing like a faire flower a Jonah's gourd such is all Worldly joy there is no sure hope but in the living God who changeth not neither deceiveth trust 5. Take heed of vaine hopes specially those which are against right reason lest thou tempt God they deceive men such is their trust who contemne the ordinary means in expectation of miracles and they who doe things against the expresse word of God in vaine hope of pardon 6. Propose not too great things to thy selfe we are often the evident authors of our own sorrowes when we promise peace health and prosperity to our selves this high-flying ambition sometimes looseth it feathers and we fall into bitterness when we come short of that which we vainly promised our selves 'T were better never climb then rise to fall 7. Pray to the God of hope and consolation to infuse a sure hope and confidence into thy soule A Prayer for Hope O Lord God my earnest expectation and my hope my fortresse helper and deliverer though my numberlesse sinnes have deserved thy wrath so that thou maist justly cast me off into hopelesse despaire and finall destruction yet look upon me in mercy through thy Christ in whom thou hast commanded me to beleeve and promised remission of my sinnes and eternall life for his sake assure me thereof that there may be hope in my end Though thou now fill my wounded spirit with bitternesse removing me from peace and comfort so that forgetting prosperity I goe mourning all the day long though thou humblest my dejected soule with grievous weights of sorrowes and makest my eyes fountains of teares driving me to solitude and silence with them that mourne in Zion yet art thou good to them that waite for thee and to the soule that seeketh thee thy mercies are renewed every morning thy compassions â—aile not thou hast opened unto me the riches of thy mercies in Christ 〈◊〉 caused me to trust in thee thou hast according to thine abundant 〈◊〉 begotten me againe to a lively hope by the resurrection of Christâ—om â—om the dead of an inheritance incorruptible therefore my soule hath â—id thou art my portion therefore will I trust in thee Truth it is ô Lord that the hopes of the hills are vaine so is all confidence in man unhappy is that hope which is not in thee but in spight of Satans malice blessed must he be whose hope thou art he shall be like a tree planted by the waters of life which cannot faile because thou canst not deceive trust ô God of all consolation therefore now at last speake peace to my afflicted soule let me not be disappointed of my hope though thou please to weane me from the love of an unkind and trustlesse World by permitting me to such griefe and sorrow yet seeing thou art my trust from my youth let me not be ashamed of my confidence let thy mercy be still my hope and thy grace my strength amidst all the stormes and surges of afflictions fasten my soules Anchor on the land of the living my rock who is entred within the vaile to make requests for me give me patience to beare untill the time of comfort and refreshing shall come from thy gracious presence give me the helmet of salvation assurance of all that which thou hast promised in thy word and layed up for me in heaven let the experience of thy former goodnesse in many deliverances give me a doore of hope for the future that I may more and more trust in thee Thou who art the God of hope fill me with joy and peace in beleeving that I may abound in hope through the power of thy holy spirit Give me strong consolation and full assurance of thy mercy that continuing grounded and established in a stedfast hope of my resurrection to a life of glory at the appointed houre my flesh may rest in hope and my soule be cheerfully rendred into thy gracious hands to rest with thee through Jesus Christ my ever-blessed Lord and Saviour Amen 1. Feare is a pensive and sorrowfull expectation of some evill to come imminent or so supposed wee feare any thing which is evil reall or apparent many times that which is not feare is opposite to fortitude as one extream of participation and as it allayeth too much daring limits it and so is good but as it exceedeth in it extream pernicious There can be no vertue where there is no fortitude hee can never be holy toward God or honest toward men who dareth not to be so because Satan will be sure to work upoâ— the timerous putting before him continual though 〈◊〉 and vaine feares like hunters Suells to put the fearfull 〈◊〉 from the safe wayes so driving through pusillanimity 〈◊〉 timidity that he maketh them evill for feare of men whom the true feare of God cannot make good 2. To omit many acceptations of the word 1. There is a natural feare and that of two sorts in respect of the object first concerning the avoidance of sinne for the love of God so Adam in his innocency having heard the threatning feared to sin because he would not offend God whom he loved above all for however Adam in the temptation lost this feare and so sinned yet in the rectitude of his minde he had it before the temptation prevailed upon him and secondly concerning the avoidance of sorrow in apprehension of God's anger against sinne committed so Christ feared Matth. 26. 38. Heb. 5. 7. both without sinne neerest to this cometh the filial fear of the regenerate who though through infirmity they often sinne and feare to displease God by any offence as it is said The â—ear of the Lord is to hate evil This is the beginning of wisedome and it is principally in foure things 1. That wee set God ever before our eies living as in his sight and presence 2. That we know and acknowledg him as the omniscient witnesse and just Judge of all our thoughts words and actions 3. That wee feare not creatures in respect of him 4. That wee ever do that which is just and acceptable to him though none other can witnesse against us so did good Joseph and who ever is offended with us for the same so did Daniel and those other servants of God 2. There
Rebecca cry I am weary of my life because of the daughters of Heth. Now though it be true he that doubteth whether he ought to worship God and honour his parents rather wanteth stripes then arguments yet seeing the corrupt nature of man is prone to all impiety I will hereto adde some motives to this duety 1. It is the only commandement with promise of reward Honour thy father and thy mother that thy dayes may be long in the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee that it may goe well with thee the son of Sirach saith Honour thy father and thy mother that a blessing may come upon thee from them 2. This is just before God and pleasing to him releeving thy father shall not be forgotten in the day of thy affliction it shall be remembred 3. A third motive may be taken from the contrary curse to him that any way dishonoreth father or mother 1. Cursed is he that setteth light by his father or his mother there is no more evident signe of an impious minde then contempt of parents 2. He that wasteth his father and chaseth away his mother is a son that causeth shame and whosoever robbeth father or mother and saith it is no transgression the same is the companion of a destroyer 3. The eie that mocketh at his father and despiseth to obey his mother the ravens of the valley shall pick it out 4. Whoso curseth his father or his mother his lamp shall be put out in obscure darknesse every one that curseth his father or his mother shall surely be put to death his blood shall be upon him so he that smiteth father or mother there is no lesse punishment severe enough for such an unnatural prodigie as a parricide or hee that retributeth injury where he oweth highest gratitude 5. Lastly I wish all disobedient children to read Deut. 21. 18 c. If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son which will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother and that when they have chastened him will not hearken unto them then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him and bring him unto the Elders of his city c. and the men of the city shall stone him with stones that he dye so shalt thou put away evil from among you A Praier for children to use O Lord God who hast ordained strength in the mouthes of babes and sucklings sanctifying them from the womb open our lips that wee may shew forth thy praise holy Lord Jesus who taking up children into thy sacred armes declaredst that unto such belongeth the kingdome of God who for our redemption becamest an infant and for our instruction obedient to humane parents who art the eternal son of God have mercy on us sanctify us bodies and soules unto thy kingdom and service keep us in our tender years by thy holy spirit from all the errors sins and pollutions of youth make us sincerely obedient to our God that in him wee may honor and obey our parents in all things in reverence and thankefulnesse for their tender care over us blesse their endeavours to provide for us spare them that they may live to bring us up in thy faith feare and love that thy great name may be glorified and they comforted in us and we with them preserved unto thine everlasting kingdom through Jesus Christ our ever blessed Lord and Saviour AMEN CHAP. XXVI Of the wounded spirit or conscience afflicted by the apprehension of Gods wrath against some great sinnes spiritual wants or fear of tentations § 1. What a wounded spirit is how great an affliction what the conscience is how comfortable the peace thereof why God afflicteth his § 2. What things principally wound the conscience § 3. What they who are afflicted with the apprehension of Gods wrath against them must consider § 4. What they must examine § 5. What they must practice 1. I Have spoken concerning the guidance of the Thoughts Words and Actions in generall and in some particular relations to external dueties I shall now endeavour to give directions suitable to some conditions first of the inward man and next of the outward The spirit of man will bear his infirmity but a wounded spirit who can beare saith Solomon The word signifieth a smitten contrite or broken spirit It is a manner of speaking borrowed from bodily afflictions by stripes contusions bruises or wounds wherein by cutting or hurting the sinews and veins the body weakened and endangered without cure to death disabled so that it cannot support it self is apt to inflammations and distempers every light touch hurteth it it depriveth a man of rest so that he is impatient of this present posture and more grieved at the change To expresse the intense sorrow of the soule weak confidence and enfeebled life of the spirit God calleth it a wounded spirit 2. This affliction is so great as it exceedeth all other temporal sorrows and is such as none can truely judge of but they who have with David seen confinia inferni as he saith Psal. 116. 3. The sorrowes of death compassed me and the paines of hell gat hold upon me or found me Other sorrowes may be eased by giving the afflicted something equivalent to that whose losse grieveth him as where one treasure is lost and another found or by some compensation and repair as Job had a second brood and encrease of wealth Elkanah intimated such a medium consolationis when hee said to afflicted Hannah Am not I better to thee then ten sonnes but so can this never be if you give a man of an afflicted spirit riches company of dearest friends or that which might relieve refresh or delight some others you do no more ease him then you could the broken bones by putting on some purple or rich robes no no the grief is within and there must be cured nothing external can do it in other griefes time will mitigate sunt verba voces excellent lenitives of sorrow in some other kindes wine merry company musick or the like meanes may have some part as the wise man saith Give strong drink to him that is ready to perish and wine to those that be of heavy hearts let him drinke and forget his poverty and remember his misery no more So Davids harp could for the time refresh Saul and charme the evil spirit but this grief admitteth of no efficacy in such comforts In other pressures wee may be eased or conveyed away from the evil as Paul was from the Jews conspiracy as David from Saul but there is no flight from a wounded spirit Whither ever we goe we carry our affliction with us our secret tormenter in us In fine as it is in sense of a separation from God the reality whereof is the second death so no creature in heaven or earth can cure it there can be
lawes if thou wilt grant them Naaman's plea only God be mercifull to thy servant herein and sometimes Herod Ahab Pharoah will have certaine fits of seeming devotion and repentance the frozen serpent will not sting then mens corruptions appeare when opportunity gives them birth The Interrogatories to be propounded to thy conscience are 1. Doth sinne raigne in thee so that thou yeeldest a willing obedience thereto or doth it tyrannize over thee there is an immense difference between these all men sinne but sinne raigneth onely in the unregenerate let not sinne raign in your mortal body the regenerate sin but that which I doe I allow not for what I would that I do not but what I hate that I doe the evil which I would not that I doe aske thy conscience therefore whether thou wouldst have done the evill which now woundeth it if not it is no more thou but sin that dwelleth in thee 2. Doest thou loath all sin because it is contrary to God's holy will and rather because thou lovest God then because thou fearest his judgments doest thou not only grieve for every sinne which thou hast committed but also for the pravity and corruption of thy will and the infirmities of flesh and blood disabling thee to the purer service of God feare not in Gods esteeme thou art not what thou loathest and wouldst not be neither will God ever condemn thee for that which hee hath given thee grace to loath and condemne in thy selfe for if wee would judge our selves wee should not be judged The unregenerate man loveth sin however hee fear and hate the punishment thereof the regenerate hateth it therefore God will not judge him for it as our Saviour said to the penitent sinner Joh. 8. 11. neither do I condemn thee go and sin no more 3. Wouldst thou fain be holy and is it thy hearts desire to serve God sincerely so that thou canst say with the Church Isai. 26. 8. The desire of our soule is to thy name and to the remembrance of thee Doest thou hunger and thirst after rigteousnesse be assured thou shalt be satisfied Doest thou in the inward man consent to the law of God be confident a true desire to be holy speaks a man such in Gods esteeme our present best perfection is not that wee are holy but that wee would be such 4. Hast thou respect to all Gods commandements so that thou doest not in thy heart dispense with any of them for pleasures profits or any secular advantage sake but wouldst fain keep them all be comforted however Satan's delusions beguile thee and thine own corruptions sometimes betray thee yet a little to serve God without exception or dispensation to any sinne concludeth a man regenerate the denomination following the better part as appeareth in Paul's expression of himselfe in the same case Rom. 7. 25. With the minde I my selfe serve the law of God but with the flesh the law of sinne that is groaning under the tyranny thereof not dispensing with its reigne 5. Doest thou resolve to doe thy uttermost endeavour to avoid sinne God accepteth the will for the deed David said I will keep thy statutes and I have sworn and I will perform it that I will keep thy righteous Judgments it is evident he did not so but certain that he would have done so 6. Doest thou conscionably and diligently use the meanes to know thy sinnes as by an home-applying the word to thy conscience for by the law is knowledge of sinne Doest thou carefully avoid all occasions and incentives moving thee and leading thee thereunto Hee hateth drunkennesse in vaine who will not refraine from the company that led him thereto if thou hate adultery look not on the lascivious let her not take thee with her eie-lids the harlots eie is the adulterers snare Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart either looking love not or loving look not saith Isidore Come not neer the door of her house Prov. 5. 8. Occasion is lusts pander 7. Aske thy conscience whether it can presume to sin wittingly and willingly and whether it can be quiet in any known and unrepented sin if it be unquiet feare not this very unrest of conscience which so much affrighteth thee is a principal mark of a good conscience it is true as the women sang of Saul and David Saul hath slain his thousand but David his ten thousand so despair hath cast away some but presumption many thousands more 8. Hath not thy conscience at some times in some good measure been comforted by a sweet assurance of thy interest in Christ resolution to leave all thy sinnes peace with God and salvation by the merits of Christ wee must not alwaies judge of our state by present sense there are certaine houres of tentation wherein the light of grace is fearfully eclipsed to our sense and the stupid or afflicted conscience feeleth no present comfort of Gods spirit which yet in due time shall return and compensate our trials with greater advantage of assurance then wee had before 9. Lastly examine thy conscience whether that after thy fearful tryals and esteeme in the midst of them thy refuge be not to God in earnest and hearty prayer to have mercy on thee comfort and confirme thee yea sometimes when hee hath not for a long season shewed thee any countenance and seemed to reject and not regard thy earnest supplications thou hast resolved not to give over crying unto him but with Jacob thy soule hath said I will not let thee go untill thou blesse mee Happy man hee that gave thee that spirit of praier and perseverance will assuredly hear thee as he did the Cunanitish woman and accomplish his work in thy salvation The conclusions necessary to be considered hereto are 1. God's judgements are ever just I when flesh and blood say with Nicodemus How can these things be when thee too curious inquests after them are to be stayed with a Nay but O man who art thou that repliest against God and so also his mercies are as the unsounded déepes beyond all apprehension of carnal reason often curing by wounding and afllicting the guilty conscience comforting by terrifying bringing to glory and immortality through corruption killing sinne in the flesh by death the fruit of sinne and bringing to heaven as I may say by the gates of hell and feare of damnation 2. The most grievous sinnes committed in ignorance and unbeliefe after repentance are no arguments to despair Neither fornicators idolaters theeves covetous drunkards revilers nor extortioners shall inherit the kingdom of heaven and such were some of you but yee are washed but yee are sanctified but yee are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the spirit of our God Paul was a blasphemer persecuter and injurious man but
prosperous rich mighty and glorious 3. Thus would he be borne poore to make us rich to expresse his love to us 4. Thus he would teach us humility how intolerable is the pride of sinfull man repining at some wants when the sonne of God was thus humbled for our sins 5. He would have this difference betweene his first and second comming first he descended like raine into the fleece without noise he came not then to make any externall politicall â—â—changes in the kingdomes of the world but only to overthrow the spirituall kingdome of Satan and to worke not the Jews temporall redemption as they dreamed but their eternall salvation who beleeve in him both of Jewes and Gentiles And so the manifestation of Christs birth was not to the kings or great Doctors of the Law but to poore shepheards first though not by men but glorious Angels Having considered these things we must learne 1 To subject our reason to the word of God in assurance that all things are possible to him which he will and certainly true which he speaketh Thou wilt say but how shall I doe that I may be assured thereof I conceive these rules very necessary here in 1. That thou understand this word is not discerned by any light but by the same spirit which indited it Therefore said our Saviour when the spirit of truth is come He will lead you into all truth These things seeme foolish and improbable to our carnall man because he wanteth the spirit of God whereby hee might bee able to discerne those things which are not otherwise then spiritually discerned 2. If thou read or heare the Gospell be sure thou bring a beleeving heart resolved in this one principle at least Gods word is certainely true though many particulars are above my apprehension it is but lost labour for him to take the holy word of life into his hand who is resolved to beleeve no more then that which he can bring within the reach and dimension of his own carnall reason which erreth grosly in many things obvious to common sense 3. In this as many other matters necessary to be beleeved the onely way being to apprehend by faith doe thou not attempt the examination of all by reason but rather renounce it as unable to measure these things as thou art to take up the vast ball of earth into thy hand or measure the orbs of heaven by the span the rather in this because the holy Ghost hath told us it is the great mystery of godlinesse God manifested in the flesh 4. Lastly remember when ever thou commest to read or heare of how high a consequence that is to which thou art come it is no vaine word concerning thee but thy life and salvation if thou beleeve and obey or thy destruction on the contrary and thou wilt easily be perswaded to prepare thy selfe by earnest prayer to God for his assistance and blessing who only hath the key of David which openeth and no man can shut the want of this one duty is the cause of so much unbeleefe and impiety in so abundant a light of the Gospell as we had long amongst us 2 That thou know that Christ thus conceived and borne hath sanctified our conception and birth in sin thus are the fountaines of our naturall propagation healed holy wedlock declared an undefiled bed and sacred virginity interressed in eternall attendance on Christ the Lambe of God 3 To be contented in every estate and comforted though in a dejected considering to what Christ descended for thy sake 4 To prepare and magniâ—ie the inestimable love of God shewed us in Christ. So did the holy Angels Luk 1. 46. 47. Luk 2. 14. 5 Where thou hast the promises of God for thy assurance not to feare how impossible or improbable soever they seeme to flesh and blood they shall be fulfilled in their appointed time and manner How impossible did this promise seeme to carnall reason a Virgin shall conceive and beare a sonne the ' B. Virgin her selfe was herewith posed how can this be Yet was it fulfilled in the fulnesse of time though many ages after the promise made Though he seeme to delay yet expect it that cannot faile which God promiseth so also thinke of the promises of thy resurrection and eternall life what ever carnall reason witty to its own destruction or the malitious tempter can object against the word of truth in due time it shall be fulfilled CHAP. V. What we are to beleeve concerning § 1. Christs suffering under Pontius Pilat his crucifying death and buriall § 2. His resurrection § 3. Ascention § 4. Sitting at the right hand of God the Father § 5. His comming to judge 1 THe humiliation of Christ is considerable 1. In generall comprehending all that he suffered in the forme of a servant the whole curse of the Law all kindes of aâ—â—lictions both of body and soule quae à peccato sunt non quae ad peccatum all the effects of sinne without sinne as in his birth circumcision subjection to men temptations blasphemous contradictons and contumelies desertions of friends and most injurious malice of enimies apprehension of his fathers wrath against sinne the paines of death and torments of hell all that which is incident and due to sinfull man sin onely excepted whereby he became the man of sorrowes 2. In particular that which he suffered under Pontius Pilat the then Roman deputie for that Province 2 Concerning the generall we must observe 1. That the divine nature though personally united to the humane suffered not but only the humane yet the suffering is attributed to the person and sometimes to the deity by reason of the communication of proprieties and union of the two natures in one person so God is said to have purchased the Church with his own blood because his blood who is truely God and man was shed for the redemption of his Church As the Athenian Codrus disrobing himselfe and falling into the enemies quarters in the habit of a poore man with a burthen on his back that he might steale a death to make his people conquerers according to the Oracle which said that people should overcome whose king should be slaine in the battle So Christ assumed the forme of a servant and became of no repute so bare he the Crosse that his own knew him not but slew the Lord of life that in his death who so loved us wee might be more then Conquerers He was impatible in his deity therefore he assumed an humanity which could suffer that he might become a ransome and sacrifice for our sinnes that the dignitie and merit of his passion might be vallewed according to the dignitie of the person suffering now because the worth of his passion was to be estimated from the united deity therefore his temporall and short suffering was of infinite merit to redeeme and free us from that which we should
perish so long as thou reignest over all The next is his comming to judge the quicke and the dead properly annexed to the foregoing because he so sitteth at Godâ—s right hand as that he both exerciseth the patience of the elect under the crosse and long permitteth the wicked enemies to insult over them to comfort us herein 't is necessary to beleeve that Christ who now sitteth at God's right hand will thence come to judge all men those whom he shall finde surviving who shall be changed in a moment at the sound of the last trump and the dead raised againe all elect and reprobate some to eternall absolution from sin and death and others to eternall shame and destruction of bodies and soules This judgement shall be of all our thoughts words and actions the books shall be opened and every secret thing manifested the evidence of every fact shall speak as Abels blood did The time of this judgment shall be at the second comming of Christ the particular yeare or day no creture knoweth neither the son of man himselfe here knew it in the state of humiliatioÌ„ nor need it seem strang how being God and man in one person the manhood could be ignorant of any thing the deity being omniscient seeing he tooke on him all our infirmities sinne excepted amongst which natiue ignorance was not a little one therefore t is said that from his childhood he encreased in wisedome which no infinite can doe and why shall I not as easily beleeue that there was a vaile of the slesh betweene the deity and humane soule intercepting some light of knowledge as I certainly know there was intercepting the present sense of his fathers assistance and of the comfort of the deity in his passion when he cried out My God my God why hast thou forsaken mee The signes of this judgements approach are 1. preaching the Gospell to all Nations 2. revelation of the man of sinne 3. a generall departing from the faith 4. Universall corruption of manners 2 Tim. 3. 1. 5. warres and rumours of warres 6. hardnesse of heart so that no importunity of the lowdest sonnes of Thunder can awake men out of sinne as it was in the dayes of Noah 7. Calling of the Jewes Rom. 11. 25. The signe which shall accompany the comming of Christ shall be the signe of the sonne of man in heaven Math. 24. 30. The Summe is Christ shall come againe to judge all men Act. 17. 31. Math. 25. 31. Jud. 14. 14. 1 Thes. 4. 16. and Math. 24. 30. where he joyneth the declaration of the judgement with the prediction of Jerusalems destruction to the end that men might be assured of the judgement to come by that which they saw or knew fulfilled in that City Concerning the place whether in the valley of Jehoshaphat or the time and lasting of this great Assizes the manner of proceeding and the like it is vaine to enquire after that which God hath not revealed specially seeing his word directeth to make better use hereof 1 To deterre men from sinne in respect of the inevitable terrour of that day 2 Not to judge one another Rom 14. 1 Cor 4. 5. 3 To prepare because the day is neere fearing God Eccles 12. 14. Rev 14. 7. keeping a good conscience Act 24. 15 16. watching that we may lift up our heads at that day Luk 22. 28. 35 36. Repenting Act 17. 30 31. Without delay 2. Pet 3. 2. Loving one another 1. Joh 3. 18. 19. That wee may assure our hearts before him and have boldnesse in the day of judgment 1. Joh 4. 17. Comforting our selves in all our sufferings our Saviour shall be our judge and who shall condemne us seeing he died to acquit us He cannot but avenge for us though he suffer long therefore we must be patient expecting his sentence Come yee blessed of my father inherit the kingdome prepared for you A Prayer O Lord God of mercy and compassion who in thy eternall and infinite love to man gavest thy onely Sonne to become man to take experience of our miseries to be tempted in all things like us sinne onely excepted and to suffer the severity of thy wrath against us sinners by offering him up a living sacrifice for us who were dead in trespasses and sins the just for the unjust that by his stripes we might be healed and hast revealed unto us that great mystery of godlinesse so much desired of the faithfull from the beginning the inestimable riches of thy grace and mercy hid from all ages unto the fulnesse of time God manifested in the flesh justified in the spirit seene of Angells preached unto the Gentiles beleeved on in the world and received up into glory make us truly thankefull to thee for all thy unspeakeable favours give us true faith to apprehend and finde our interest in him with assurance that he is our God and Saviour O ever blessed Jesus whose name is as sweet ointment powred forth whom the Virgin soules therefore love draw us that we may runne after thee let the annointing which we have received of thee whereby we have the honour to be called and to be Christians and the happinesse to be enlightned with thy truth and led in thy paths abide in us and teach us all things necessary for the advancement of thy glory and our salvation let it bee like that precious nard wherewith thou wast imbalmed against the day of thy death to fill our hearts and affections with that comfortable savour of life unto life that thou maist wholy season us dwell in us and be all in all with us that the merit of thy death and vertue of thy resurrection may both mortify all our sinfull corrupt affections and raise us to the life of righteousnesse that dying to sinne governed here by thy power to which all things are committed in heaven and earth and hereafter acquitted by thy finall sentence when thou shalt come to judge the living and the dead we may at last come to the perfect union with thee in a full view and eternall enjoying of thee and thy blessed presence who hast suffered all these things to redeeme us and to purchase the kingdome prepared for us from eternity that wee may attaine that true blessednesse in the which thy holy Gospell hath preached unto us Grant this through thy mercies O heavenly Father thy merits O gracious Lord Jesus and thy assistance O holy Spirit three persons one onely wise omnipotent and immortall God to whom belongeth all honour glory praise might Majestie and dominion in heaven and earth from this time forth and to endlesse eternitie AMEN CHAP. VI. § 1. What we are to beleeve § 2. Rules thereto belonging 1 ALL knowledge of God the Father and Sonne with man can attaine to availeth him not except it be made good to him by a blessed application thereof to himselfe wrought by the
that is bitten with hels fiery serpents all other wayes uncurable by looking upon Christ with the eye of faith shall be saved therefore in case thou find any stupid impenitencie in thy stony heart be thou the more attentive in hearing the word and more serious in applying it to thy conscience more fervent in prayer and more frequent in receiving this holy Sacrament thou shalt at last find an happy effect hereof 5. Examine whether thou be in charity with all men as he that presumed to offer with any other fire then that which came from heaven was cut off from Israâ—l so shall it be with those who offer this spirituall sacrifice in malice if hee that touched the Arke with unconsecrated hands was smitten dead what shall become of them who dare come to the Lords table with bloody hands and malicious hearts if thou be not in charity leave thy gift before the altar go first and be recenciled neither maist thou thinke thy selfe excused from communicating by thy malice God biddeth thee be reconciled and then come and offer neither maist thou thinke to lay downe thy malice as they speake of the serpent while she drinketh for a time only to resume it againe in a wilfull abstinence there is a contempt of the Sacrament which shall condemne a man and in comming to Christ our Passeover with the leven of maliciousnesse is the same danger there is no safe way but in reconciliation that thou maist receive worthily 2. The second point is how we must receive we must do it with hearts lifted up to God in holy meditations of Christ's passion frequent ejaculations imploring Gods gracious assistance obsignation and sealing up of our salvation with hallowed thoughts minds sequestred from all worldly things and the most attentive and holy reverence of soule and body for so ought wee to appeare before God in his worship Psal. 95. 6 7. Secondly the riches of Gods grace all the merits of Christ are here offered and held out to us by the hand and ordinance of Christ Thirdly 't is administred and received with a prayer for which no gesture can be too humble lastly when Moses rehearsed the mercie of God to Israël in the institution of the Passeover then the people bowed downe and prostraited themselve the same reason have wee to expresse a reverend and humble thankfulnesse for Christ our Passeover 3. After receiving 1. Give thanks to God for these seales of thy redemption in Christ. 2. Be carefull to performe all thy promises vowes holy resolutions conceived and made in thy preparation to receive and live every day of this life as if thou didst therein communicate 3. Keepe a carefull watch over thy body and thy soule least the evill one repossesse himselfe of the swept garnished roome and bring with him seaven worse spirits then himselfe Lest thou relapsing to the filthy vomit of thy old sinnes thy end proove worse then the beginning I have washed my feet said the Spouse of Christ how shall I defile them 4. Pray the Lord to make good his own ordinance unto thee effectually sealing thee up unto the day of redemptioÌ„ 5 Examine thy selfe whether thy soule be nourished and strengthned by receiving which will appeare if after it thou art more cheerefull in greater assurance of thy salvation remission of sinnes peace of conscience and joy in the holy Ghost if thou art more quick active and able to all holy duties if receiving breed in thee a spirituall appetite to receive againe that thou maist more be confirmed in Christ if it beget a fervent love to God and thy neighbours amendment of life and more hearty loathing thy sinnes inward sense of the life of Jesus dwelling in thee an holy contempt of this world with a longing desire and constant hope of a better life to come causing thee to set thy affections on things celestiall to walke with God in holinesse and to have thy conversation in heaven if these things are in thee blessed art thou hee hath sealed thee with his holy spirit who will knowe thee for his owne and so protect thee with his providence that the destroying Angell shall not touch thee To conclude when the diseased woeman of whom spake but touched the hemme of Christ's garment shee presently felt the powerfull effect thereof in her healing though Christ had made her no such promise and if we have received his body and blood according to his command his promise must be fulfilled and wee shall be strengthned and healed we shall feele the same power nourishing us to eternall life A private Prayer before the receiving of the Lords Supper MOst gratious Lord God Father of mercy and truth Who dwellest in that light which none can attaine unto yet vouchsafest to prepare the hearts of thy servants here on earth to help their infirmities and to heare their petitions prepare my heart teach mee to pray encline thine eare unto mee and have mercy upon mee O Lord thou art a just and a severe Judge how shall I then vile and unworthy wretch appeare this day before thee in the courts of thyne house I came into this world a child of wrath disobedience naked and destitute of all goodnesse but thou O Lord my Redeemer hast bestowed the seale of thy righteousnesse upon mee in my Baptisme thou hast called mee to the knowledge of thy gospel thou hast given me the earnest of my redemption by the spirit of regeneration Lord establish now the thing which thou hast freely wrought in mee and as thou hast this day invited mee to thy table and the communion of the body and blood of thy holy Sonne Jesus Christ so Lord bestow the wedding garment on mee that I may appeare before thee cloathed in his righteousnesse whom thou madest an offering for sinne that in him wee might become righteous before thee Lord what is man that thou so regardest him and who among the sonnes of men hath more cause to praise thy mercies then wretched I thy mercy hath long spared me thou hast taken me out of the power of darknesse kingdome of Satan thou hast given me the glorious freedome of the children of light what shall I rendër the Lord for all his benefitts towards me I will call upon the name of the Lord I will declare his mercies I will take the cup of salvation and pay my vowes all is to little which I have to give thee O Lord thou hast in my creation given me my selfe in my redemption thou hast restored me to my selfe therfore now accept againe thyne owne gift Lord let me be wholy thyne And beeing now to appeare before thee whith a sacrifice of praise I pray thee for Iesus Christ his sake prepare the alter purge me with Hysope create a cleane heart within me renue a right spirit sprinkle the doore of my soule with the blood of the Lambe of God which taketh away the sinnes of the world that
the destroyer may not enter send into my soule that heavenly fire of love to thy sacred Majestie and charity to all men which may assure mee of thy acceptance of me and my sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving clens out of mee all the old leaven of sinne and maliciousnesse open my understanding increase my faith that I may see and know the assurance of my sinnes remission in the seale of eternall life which by thy mercies I am now to receive Thou hast taught mee O Lord that my blessed Saviour in the night that he was betrayed made this holy testament wherein as he tooke flesh and blood of us that he might dye for us so hee bequeathed his body and blood to us that wee might live in him and left this Sacrament as a faithfull pledge of his love to remember us of his dying for us till he come againe O Lord I know thou art the life and truth and wouldst not leave thy Church any effectlesse earnest of their salvation Lord Jesus therefore be present with my spirit worke powerfully on thine owne ordinance that it may indeed seale up my salvation in my soule with that conconstant assurance that the gates of hell may never prevaile against it that no terrour of conscience nor any delusions of Satan may be able to overthrow it but that I may with a lively faith lay hold on all thy merits that I may find therein an inward peace in confidence of my sinnes remission reconciliation with my God sound joy in the Holy Ghost my comforter sanctified will and affections purity of life and holy obedience which hath the testimony of a good conscience to be a sweet comfort both in life and death assuring me that I have fought a good fight with entire faith and therefore shall enjoy the crown of righteousnesse which the Lord the righteous Judge shall at that day give to all them that love his appearing Grant this O Lord and whatever else thou knowest to be needfull for me for Jesus Christ his sake who with thee and the holy spirit liveth and raigneth ever one God world without end AMEN An other private Prayer for one ready to receive the Lords Supper HOly Lord I humbly beseech thee for Christ Jesus sake whose sacred body and blood are here represented forgive me all my sinnes and give me a stedfast hearty and constant resolution never to commit the like againe give mee a lively faith that through these signes which my Saviour hath appointed to be received in remembrance of his death and passion untill his comming againe I may really apprehend the spirituall relish of the bread of life and to be assured that Christ's body was given for me and his most pretious blood shed for my redemption Lord lift up my soule above all worldly thoughts that I may by a steady and confident application of all the benefits of his death and passion see Christ Jesus sitting at thy right hand feed on him by a justifying faith and thereby be nourished to eternall life Holy Father heare and assist direct and guid me according to thine owne will Lord Jesus who gavest thy selfe to death for my salvation deny not the requests of my feeble soule longing for the assurance of thy saving health hungring and thirsting for thee and thy righteousnesse O holy Ghost the sanctifier of all the elect throughly cleanse me from all the old leaven of sin prepare me body and soule to an holy reverend and effectuall receiving these sacred mysteries that my soule and conscience may thereby be sealed up to redemption and salvation through Jesus Christ my Lord and blessed Saviour AMEN A private Prayer after receiving the Lords Supper MOst gratious God and mercifull Father who of thine owne free love and good pleasure hast elected created redeemed regenerated reconciled justified and preserved me unto this present who hast also bestowed â—on me unworthy of the least of thy mercies the peaceable use of thy holy word and sacraments I humbly thanke thee as for all other thy favours so for this present comfort which I have now received Lord accept this sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving through Jesus Christ whose oblation of himselfe once offered for a full and perfect price of our redemption and satisfaction for all our sins we have hereby according to his owne ordinance remembred Lord perfect the worke which thou hast begun in me make good thine owne institution unto my soule seale me up unto the day of redemption worke in mee a full assurance of my sinnes remission and my reconciliation to thee by the death and merit of thy holy sonne Jesus give me a lively sense of my union with him and his living in me so guiding me by his holy spirit that his life may appeare in all my thoughts words and actions that I may henceforth live no more to sinne but being freed from the power and laws thereof may have my fruit unto holinesse and eternall life Lord make me every day more and more able to doe thy will and to abandon mine owne corrupt desires let me now feele in my soule conscience the reall benefit of thy word and sacraments which thou hast promised to all those that truely seek thee give me that longing desire of right cousnesse which is by thy grace secured from despaire and preserved from vaine glory and presumption satisfie me with that measure of grace which thy wisdome knoweth sufficient for me Lord make me knowe assuredly that I have not now received this holy sacrament in vaine nourish me hereby to eternall life give me a greater strength to walke righteously before thee with sound faith cheerefulnesse of minde firme and comfortable peace of conscience and that joy of the holy Ghost which may ascertaine me that thy kingdome is established in me Give me a zealous love of thy glory ready obedience to thy law feare to displease thee innocency of life and that holy charity towards all men which may give me boldnesse in the great and terrible day of the Lord Jesus order thou my conversation so that it may be unblamable towards all men and holy before thee to thy glory and the good example of those with whom I live assist me with such a measure of thy sanctifying spirit that I may indeed performe all those vowes which I have made before thee that every day of my life may be to mee as this Sabbath an holy rest from sinne Lord who powerfully commandest all thy creatures prevent the mischievous subtiltie of the tempter let thy holy spirit keepe me body and soule give me an holy contempt of this present world and affections set on high where my blessed Saviour sitteth at thy right hand who shall in the appointed time appeare in judgement and gather his elect unto him These things and whatsoever else thou knowest needfull for me or any part of thy whole Church militant I begge at thy gratious hands who hast commanded us to aske and
making void all other excellent vertues in them for want of love which is the life of true religion and the infallible marke of Christ's disciples much more doth he labour to keepe us ignorant of God that wee may be so unhappy as not to love him his first assault of man was by his suggesting jealousie betweene man and his creatour by that pestilent cloud to vaile the goodnesse of God toward man in a due consideration whereof he could not but have loved and adheared to him and to make man suspect and disbeleeve the truth of God yea said he hath God said yee shall not eate yee shall not die for God doth know that in the day yee eate thereof your eyes shall be opened and yee shall be as Gods knowing good and evill 2. Remember what he hath done and continually doth for us love followeth love if we can but be throughly perswaded that he loveth us we cannot but love him Consider what great love he hath shewed us electing creating redeeming and preserving us when Christ but shed some teares at Lazarus grave the Jewes said Behold how he loved him what would they have said if they had knowne that he came to shed his heart blood for them consider what he doth in our preservation who blesseth us with increase who makes the earth bring forth who makes the clouds drop fatnesse and crowneth the yeares with plenty who keepeth us when we sleepe from the powers of darknesse never wanting power nor will but onely commission to destroy us who can and will keepe us when we are breathing out our soules we love our deare friends who then cannot keepe us because they would consider I say not if there be not reason but necessity that wee love him that onely can and certainly will preserve us then 3. Learne a due estimate of secular things and to alienate thy affections from them that they may be taken up with things â— on high the more thou emptiest thy soule of those the more capable it will be of these vaine loves cares delights and desires bewitch the greatest part of the world transporting men in a fantisticke dreame of happinesse and prosperity when here 's nothing constant but inconstancie nothing permanent and perpetuall but perpetuall and suddaine changes in Gods love onely there is constancie every thing else yea this world and the fashion thereof changeth mens loves are fickle as the wind they admire and presently loath the same they curse and blesse like Michaes mother at a breath in the sense of their losse or gaine a little seeming injury blasteth their love yea the change of the externall estate changeth their affections who by the mercenary ballance of present profit weith amity with God and men these wethercocks turne with every shift of the winde these shadowes appeare onely in prosperity wherein they follow and will not be beaten off with Ruths importunity that nere so litle clouded they vanish But Gods love is constant and unchangeable he will knowe thy soule in adversity if any unkindnesse reall injuries dishonours and rebellions could change him who had not long since perished 'T was said of that Turkish Emperour in his favour was no constancy and in his least disfavour death but God is of infinite patience mercy though he be every day provoked and in his favour is eternall life 4. Pray him to give thee an heart to know and love him to draw thee that thou maist follow him to shew thee his marvellous loving kindnesse to acquaint thee with his goodnesse Moses desired to see Gods face not to satisfie his curiosity but to fill his affection with Gods love As the Spouse cryed Cant 1. 7. Tell me O thou whom my soule loveth where thou feedest where thou makest thy flockes to rest at noone The motives to incite us to love God are infinite as is his goodnesse the more obvious to us are 1. The great and admirable promises according to which he sheweth mercy unto them that love and obey him See Ex. 20. 6. Luk 10. 27. 28. 1 Cor 2. 9. Jam 1. 12. 2. Love of God is that same ballance of the sanctuary by which all duties must be weighed it is that same salt of the covenant without which no sacrifice can be savory and acceptable it is that holy fire which came from heaven wee may offer no sacrifice without it the devill is obedient but not for love but feare and compulsion it is the summe of the first table of the law it is the maine which God requireth of us for our good because he hath a delight in us Epictetus summe of philosophie was in two words susteine and absteine the summe of Gods law is in this one love and thou hast fullfilled the law no woonder that he saith my yoke is easy and my burden light what burden more light and easie then that love which maketh men happy then that which parity maketh such by his free mercy who saith yee are my freinds What lesse would we doe if we were left to our owne disposing then love so good a God 3. It is a certaine demonstration of Gods love to us none can love him but those whom he loveth first we love him because he loved us first therefore he sheddeth abroad his love in our hearts and it is a certaine token of our adoption and remission of sinnes as our Saviour said many sinnes are forgiven her for she loved much where 〈◊〉 for importeth not a cause but a consequence and certaine signe of her sinnes remission love covereth the multitude of sinnes whether wee instance in Gods love to us or ours to him it proceedeth wholly from him as the waters come through the subterraneous unseene passages from the sea which seeme first to contribute their constant streames to the filling up of her vast channels so it is with our loves which are none other but a meere restuâ—nce of Gods love iufused into our hearts by his holy spirit for love is of God and God is love 4. Not to love God is the heigth of the most wretched ingratitude all unthankfulnesse concludeth a man inhumane and wicked but this maketh him most impious and unhappy he loveth us first before we were so elected us to eternall salvation he gave us all that we have and are hee gave us his own image in our creation his own Son in our redemption he feedeth protecteth preserveth heareth us forgiveth our sinnes giveth us all good things to make us happy if we did not make an ill use of all seeing then he being so great and excellent loved us first so much freely wee being such and so unconsiderable we ought and canâ—ot without greatest ingratitude but love him he is too hard-hearted who though hee cannot first love will not requite 5. Love uniteth and likneth lovers with men
neighbour the necessitie and excellency thereof the conditions and signes of it § 3. Of friendship what it is of what excellent fruits of the true end and lawes thereof what choice we are to make of friends and whom to avoid § 4. Of love to enimies how we ought to love without any malice and to make a right use of them 1 LOve towards that which God loveth is love of all that which is good and that which beareth his image as the rationable creatures Angells and men this is either to our selves neighbours or enemies 2. Love to our selves either is such as is 1. Common to all men who by the instinct of nature desire to preserve themselves though blinded by sinne they eftsoone mistake the meanes and end or overmastered by some malignant power to which they have dangerously yeelded themselves they doe somethings to the contraâ—y the Epicure thinketh the meanes to make him happy is to indulge to sensuality and pleasures taken up at any rate because hee taketh them to be his chiefe good and end to which hee liveth he beleeveth himselfe to be only that externall man whom hee endeavoureth to preserve by a brutish pleasing himselfe so that indeed he loveth not himselfe 2. Proper to the good who justly love the inward man the image of God in themselves whom they strive to preserve in his integrity they wish spirituall good to him carefully use Gods ordinances thereto in him they delight as in present good thoughts memory of good past and hope of future for this they mainely care this they defend though with losse of things externall and secular for this they beat downe the body with fastings watchings and prosecution of holy duties Philautiâ— proper to evill men is that blind foolish selfe-love which measureth all love and friendship by that most ignoble scale of the vulgar some temporall advantage to the selfe-lover a crewing who therefore truely loveth no man because neither in nor for God but for his owne sake such doe not truly love themselves but being selfe-deluded hate their owne soules because they love sinne the souls distemper sicknesse and destruction this commonly goeth with a vaine complacency admiring the Minerva's of their own braine and liking themselves in those things which they readily condemne in others as Judah did Gen 38. 24. the selfe-lovers hieroglyphick may be the Ape easily taken while shee sitteth admiring the beauty of her hard-favoured young this vice is an uncharitable living to our selves our own ease and pleasures as if we were borne only for our selves or that our country neighbours friends naturall affections or God himselfe had no part in us so Nabal loved himselfe That wee must love our selves in God is more then evident by reason who so neere us as our selves and Scripture which saith thou shalt love thy neighbour as thy selfe thy selfe first charity beginneth at home and truely that thy love may be a rule and measure unto others He that will be evill to himselfe to whom will he be good Thou wouldest not have thy servant drunken nor thy son an adulterer least they perish eternally and wilt thou be such thy selfe For shame love not thy selfe lesse then others and doe not thinke it lesse necessary for God to have good servants then that thy selfe have such We are the Temples of Gods spirit the image of God the purchase of Christ Jesus for whom hee gave no lesse then himselfe to death it were desperate impietie to undervallew that which cost more then a thousand worlds were worth with profane Esau to set so poore a rate as a portion of meat or a little temporall pleasure upon an immortall soule if we love God wee shall love our selves for him which must be only in that true sanctity which pleaseth him we shall not love our selves more then him that were an inordinate selfe love concerning which it is saied he that loveth his life shall loose it 1. Love to our neighbour is charity to him that needeth our helpe to whom we are holily and constantly united in God he is our neighbour to whom we can administer or of whoÌ„ we may receive help This love hath for its object all men respectively without exception of enemies neither is it as some vainly dreame an arbitrary affection for if we love God is in us but if not against us but that which is simply necessary to the essence and being of true religion without which it can no more be then fire without heat then a man without a soule some therefore call it the forme of vertue giving it name and being There can be no religion without wisedome nor any acts thereof better then the unsavoury sacrifice of fooles with which the all-wise God can never be pleased wisdome is that same salt of the covenant with which every oblation must be seasoned nor can there be any more true wisdome without charity then that which is in the devill who is as malicious as subtile if any thing be contrary to love that wisdome descendeth not from above but is earthly sensuall and devillish without charity speaking with tongues of men or angells is but as a sounding brasse and tinkling cymball prophesie faith almes martyrdome and whatever els seemeth or is externally excellent without this is worth nothing there can be no sanctimony without love Love is the summe and fullfilling of the law the end of the commandement and nothing is good which is not for it end but rather a false image a counterfet of vertue as the covetous mans wisdome to devise meanes of gaine is noe true vertue neither his seeming justice wherein he absteineth from oppression and extortion for feare of some greater losse to himselfe nor his temperance for love of mony forbearing all costly luxury nor his valour venturing sea and land to gett riches so neither is the malicious mans almes any good worke to himselfe he not doing it for Gods sake did he then for the same love he should love his enemies also his prayers are no obedience to God who commandeth in case of enmity to leave the gift before the altar and first endeavour reconciliation Christ in effect saieth as we have formerly noted herein as Joseph to his brethren Genes 43. 3. yee shall not see my face except your brother be with you let men joyne in heareing Gods word and say Amen at the Churches prayers let them be baptized receive the Lords supper be called Christians seeme the most strict men in religion yet is it only charity which distinguisheth between the sons of God reprobates in this the children of God are manifest the children of the devill whosoever doth not righteousnes is not of God neither he that loveth not his brother nor can there be love of God without it if any man say he loves God
found he that is impatient of thy touching his faults will be unfaithfull in curing thine I have ever thought it a chiefe unhappinesse of great men that they whose faults are most conspicuous dangerous in the guilt to themselves and in example to others doe usually want ture freinds in this one office in that their greatnesse maketh men afraid of being faithfull least truth should beget dislike and that hazard their favour their love of being slattered createth them this evill which a wise man will as easily prevent by discountenancing Sycophants as give commission of discovering his faults to a prudent and faithfull freind who by the lawes of modesty and discreation may happily execute that which he could not reasonably assume to himselfe 11. Beware of the foolish spirit of contradiction Doe not among freinds use thy selfe to paradoxes Dissent not in that which truth and a good conscience permit 't is true magis amica veritas but 't is unexcusable folly to be too hot passionate in any such argument truth is better defended with temperance wisdome will teach thee in those things which fall under dispute sometimes dissentire sine odio to dissent without hatred 3. We are next to consider what choice wee are to make of freinds it is the manifest errour lossefull folly of the world over-industrious and curious in the gaine or choice of other things to be carelesse in getting a true freind without whom there is neither happy nor secure possession of any worldly thing we will not buy plate or jewels without due examination to secure us from being deceaved But for a freind the most pretious jewell which among the sonnes of men heaven or earth can shew if true the most pernitious out of hell if false we easily entertaine or carelesly omit without choyce certainely among the studies of the prudent to study men is one of the chiefe least we be deceived with false freindship which is worse then true hatred it being harder to deceive an enemie but a freind easie or loose our advantage of gaining the true by passing by these jewels unknowne Freinds are like Pictures some drawne for a great distance at which they are very sweet and lively but if you come too neere them they appeare rough much unlike that they seemed before some are excellent only when your acquaintance setteth you at a neerer posture some seeme good freinds are not some are good and seeme not of any such capacity untill you throughly knowe them the maine is to make a right choice wherein we may observe these rules 1. Adhere thou faithfully to God that he may direct thy freindship A faithfull freind is the medicine of life and they that feare the Lord shall finde him Who so feareth the Lord shall direct his freindship aright for as he is so shall his neighbour be also For as when mans waies please the Lord he will make even his enemies to be at peace with him so doubtlesse he will guide him in this maine interest and if he will make a covenant for his servants with the beasts of the field with the fowles and reptiles he will not disert them in their league with men 2. Looke for frendship among them who beare pari jugo least stooping thou take up only a burden or aspiring too high thou make thy selfe a servant to troublesome greatnesse freindship either findeth or maketh equalls 't is commonly lame which goeth on supports of unequall height and greatnesse which the vulgar idoll dangerous in its vicinity to that power from which thou canst not dissent without distructive enmity nor adhere to it and serve it with safety and good conscience The firmest frendship is among equalls 3. Have many acquaintance but few counsailers the Philosopher said one shall be to me instead of a multitude one freind is berter then a numerous people and many insteed of one I will love all but have intimacy with few 't is troublesome to have that with many and impossible to hold it with all he that is every ones freind shall be none of mine 4. Try before you trust the saying is you must eat a bushell of salt with a man before you trust him as a frend if thou wouldest get a freind prove him first and be not hasty to credit him for some man is a freind for his own occasion and will not abide in the day of thy trouble separate thy selfe from thine enemies and take heed of thy freinds Antigonus was wont to pray that he might be kept from his false freinds Wise men will first try their vessels before they trust them with any thing pretious 't is folly to be suddainly engaged in any intimacy and dangerous to love that which thou must learne to hate Try thy freind before thou too much trustest him and being experienced trust him deliberate all things with thy freind but of him first 5. In choosing a freind let the maine bond bee the love and feare of God that only will be permanent if the vulgar ballance profit or pleasure make the respects that changing actum est de amicitiâ in the society of sinners thou must either become odious in dissenting impious in dissembling or unhappy in imitating as much therefore as thou canst converse with those who will better thee or bee bettered by thee dissimilitude in manners maketh a painfull dissolution in the joynts of frendship whether good or bad hee seemeth to chastise who dissenteth they thinke it strange that you run not with them to the same excesse of riot speaking evill of you like loves his like similitude of manners both conciliateth and continueth freindship 't is a very probable judgement which may be given of a man by his freinds though I deny not but that a good and wise man may as well have variety of acquaintance which the vulgar calleth freinds as vessels not all for secresie or one use there is a place where he layeth up his treasure only there is a place for merry acquaintance where the minde Long and seriously intent wanteth some relaxation to repaire its strength and a place for a more grave and severe for the soules health comfort a place for him who can advantage thy estate among thy utensills thou hast a sive or cullender whose office is to runne out and there may hee use of an Athenian novellist though there must be extraordinary caution least he either bring or carry from thee matter of danger or contention a newes merchant will be sure to get some fraught backe againe but the frendship here spoken of can be only between the good and wise betweene others 't is seldome durable and never safe nor true therefore choose not any man for thy intimate friend whose qualities thou wouldest not learne or canst not safely imitate among freinds there must bee idem velle
untill that Jonah be cast overboord we can never appease the surges of a troubled mind this must thou seek through hearty sorrow for thy sinnes this restringent acrimonie shall heale the fountaines that death and barrennesse may no more flow from the minde into thy words and actions t is a good signe of recovery when the disease changeth place so when we are pleased with repentance who woont to please our selves in sinne t is a token that sin declineth in us Secondly by committing thy workes unto the Lord so thy thoughts shall be established and lastly by filling thy soule with such happy thoughts as constant meditation on Gods word will furnish thee with as t is said let thy minde be upon the ordinances of the Lord and meditate continually on his commandements he shall establish thine heart and give thee wisdome at thine own desire 8 Overcome thyne own minde and in every thing as much as possibly thou canst subject it to right reason let not affection or passion master it 9 Set thy minde ever upon some good to prevent the rising of evill thoughts that the tempter may never finde thee at leisure to entertaine him The minde is naturally active and prone to thoughts yea when thou sleepest it hath its motions give it some businesse it cannot be inactive as the earth neglected for want of culture bringeth forth noisome weeds so will the minde evill and vaine extravagancies of thoughts if thou busie it not in good yea the light of reason is eclypsed by the mischievous interposition of vitious thoughts yet tyre not thy minde with too much or too weighty affaires proportion thy undertakings to thy strength the minde requireth some intermissions and rest which otherwise like the fields with perpetuall bearing will grow fruitlesse the unbalasted ship is easily overset with every gust of winde and too much loading sinketh her There is an Arke of Gods secret counsell into which thy thoughts may not looke there are also admirable mysteries out of which God calleth as out of that â—iery bush come not nigh hither put off thy shooes from off thy feet resigne thy thoughts to Gods immensity it is enough to beleeve his truth though thou canst not examine his incomprehensible secrets if thou wilt play with these flames thou shalt burn thy wings God hath revealed enough to make thee happy ambition of knowing more destroyed mankinde Commune with thine owne heart concerning that which may better thee Psal. 77. 6. and make thee happy divine soliloquies are a kinde of rapt to heaven and prepossession of that blessednesse use thy heart to thinke of good and heavenly things and such will thy thoughts words and actions be the heart of the wise teacheth his mouth Custome is a second nature therefore also the wiseman saith Wisedome resteth in the heart of him that hath understanding if the wicked the worst of fooles have any notion thereof it no more resteth with him then lightning in the aire 10 Set God ever beforâ—â—â—ee as a searcher of hearts and that which thou wouldeâ—t be ashamed to speake before others be ashamed to thinke with thy selfe Thoughts are the word of the heart which God heareth who therefore saith wherefore thinke yee evill in your hearts And curse not the King no not in thy thought bee thou pure in heart if ever thou meanest to see God let not thy heart dissent from thy tongue neither desire to seeme more holy then there thou art if thou intend to please him for he is omniscient 11. Pray the Lord to create a cleane heart and to renew a right spirit within thee to encline thy heart unto his testimonies to give thee an heart to know him to prepare thy heart that thou maist truely feare him meditate on him and love him above all and that he who cast out the tumultuous rabble from Jairus house would also be pleased to cast out of thy soule and mynde all those thoughts which offend him or hinder the riasing up thy soule to the life of grace CHAP. XIX Of the thoughts and ordering thereof § 1. Concerning the right ordering the thoughts in respect of some particular passions affections and perturbations of mind in their distempers of love and delight § 2. Of joy reioycing myrth and sorrow § 3. Of 〈◊〉 hatred malice envy § 4. Of impatience patience discontent and a contented mind FOR the right ordering the thoughts arising from some particular affâ—ctions or passions which usually discompose and render the mind lesse apt for the service of God and lesse comfortable to our selves we must ever have in mind the generall rule before laid down that extreame and violent passions of any kind are distempers of the soule which at best befoole a man if not as â—ypâ—crates thinketh make him mad they are like a deluge which rather overflow and drown then refresh the mind they are like an enraged Sea full of hazard they distuâ—be the intellectuals and distract the will look how all things in troubled waters seeme wreathed and disordered which in the still are cleerely seene so is it here the calme afâ—ections are more accommodate for Gods service and our use to come to some paâ—ticulars Love and delight are great 〈◊〉 in this present life every man hath some love and delight there is none that liveth without these The skill is That we set them on right obâ—ects as God Psal. 37. and heavenly things so they cannot fall into excesse and goodnesse so shall they make us good and happy 2. That we pervert not the order we must noâ— love or delight in any thing before God let him be our 〈◊〉 and cheife love and delight and we shall be happy in all that is subordinate 3. That no inferiour love or delight draw as away from Gods love there is a time place and measure for secular delights so far as they are subordinate to God make us more fit for his service and administer occasion and matter of thankfulnesse to him if otherwise if God love us he will take that away from us which else would take us from him a necessary rule for them to consider who too impatiently beare the losse of that they much loved or delighted in 4. That we neither love nor delight in any worldly thing otherwise then to hold it with a loose hand contented to part with it when God pleaseth to take it back again it was Jobs resolution the Lord gave and the Lord hath taken away and blessed be the name of the Lord. Concerning joy rejoycing and mirth the rules are that 1. God would not have us disconsolate but to rejoyce and be cheerfull in him evermore Dedolency melancholy dejectednesse worldly sorrow bitternesse of spirit and secret repining against Gods providence are dangerous symtomes of unbeleefe for if being justified
not over thy minde to heavinesse and afflict not thy selfe in thine own counsell the gladnesse of the heart is the life of a man and prolongeth his daies Some mindes are like the sea which instantly turneth sweet showers into it own bitternesse because they indulge to impaâ—â—ence pleasing themselves with that which tormenteth them but the wise in every affliction lift up their soules to God seeking comfort in him and to the consideration of the life to come where shall be no more curse 3 no more discontent but every heart shall be filled with joy A Prayer against Impatience and discontent O Lord God gracious and mercifull I humbly acknowledge thy fatherly goodnesse in measuring to me those corrections which my sinnes daily provoking thy justice most justly deserve and thy abundant mercy in sparing mee whom in thy severity thou mightest not only have made the most miserable of all men living but also of those afflicted souls which now suffer in the flames of hell Lord as thou hast in Christ shewed me this mercy so for his sake forgive me all my sinnes and lay no more upon me then thou wilt make me able to beare cheerfully neither suffer me fraile dust and earth for any trials to fall from thee but give a blessed issue out of every triall Good Father correct me not in thine anger neither chasten me in thy heavy displeasure lest I perish in thy fierce wrath let thy corrections breed in mee a true sight and loathing of all my sinnes a filiall feare to offend thee a fixed resolution to love and serve thee more carefully to this end I humbly pray thee give mee assurance of my justification by Christ's righteousnesse my atonement with thee and such peace of conscience as the world can neither give nor take from mee that I may love thee above all and be truely thankeful to thee for all thy mercies temporal and eternal proposing to my selfe and having ever in my heart the example of my Saviour assuring me that he that suffered such things for me will not suffer mee to faile in any trial Lord sanctifie mee by his good Spirit and all my afflictions to mee by him cast out of my soule all those sinnes and corruptions for which thou fillest me with bitterness let the summe and height of all my ambition be only to be thine give mee a prudent and contented heart in every estate and condition a faithful dependance on thy good providence in assurance that thou who hast promised wilt never faile me nor forsake me that in every affliction I may expect thy gracious deliverance give me patience and meeknesse of spirit that I may in the midst of all my troubles finde rest to my soule in thee let not my heart be fixed on any worldly desires but on things which are above where Christ my peace sitteth at thy right hand take from mee all impatience bitternesse of spirit diffidence and the secret murmuring of flesh and blood let thy good spirit the comforter dwell in mee to keep and counsel me in the greatest and in the least affairs and interests spiritual and secular with his joyful presence so to sweeten all those Marahs of afflictions which thy providence shall set in my way to the promised rest as that I may ever rejoice in thee and in every estate live cheerfully before thee until thou please to bring mee unto the fulnesse of eternal joies in thy blessed presence where thou wilt wipe all teares out of mine eyes make mee glad with the light of thy countenance and unite me to that triumphant society of Saints and Angels which sing their Halleluiahs to thee eternally through Jesus Christ my Lord and blessed Saviour Amen CHAP. XX. § 1. Of Hope § 2. Of Feare § 3. Of Cares § 4. Of Iealousie 1. HEe liveth not who hath no hope the childe hopeth to be a man the old man to live one yeare more the poore man hopes for wealth the sicke man for health the imprisoned for liberty the afflicted that it may be better to morrow Hope makes the husbandman sow the weary Palmer endure his tedious waies the swimmer to spread his tyred armes upon the death-threatning waves thus hoping and suffering takes up the whole life of man 2. But there 's great difference in hopes there is an humane vaine hope then which there is none more dangerous delusion in this world such hope is but the name of an uncerâ—aine good 't is a treacherous guide leading to desperate precipices the minde 's ignis fatuus dreame of waking men it was the tempters artifice first to assaile man's innocency with vaine hope grounded on a lying promise without this he could do nothing against us First he sheweth the forbidden fruit then saiâ—h in the day yee eate thereof yee shall be as Gods the vaine hope tooke unhappy man so he assailed the second Adam when he shewed him the Kingdomes and Glory of the world so still hee sheweth us false heavens to precipitate us into a true hell suggesting vaine hopes that he might bereave us of the true Who sinneth without some vaine hope whetheâ— the instance be in Cain's murder Amnon's lust Juda's treason or Achitophel's despaire the sinner hoped for some other proceed of his resolutions then he found in his acted sin The worst hope for some good but all in vaine the hope of the wicked must faile because God's Justice cannot Wee must expect because reason is provident and till Time's glasse be runne there must be something future all which seemeth good save what wee see through feare and doubting so flattering a liberty of hoping for himselfe hath every man specially yong men who having least acquaintance with the falshood and constant inconstancy of the world relying much on hope and little on memory promise themselves great things but when the wicked sing requiems to their soules sudden destruction is upon them by so much more terrible by how much lesse suspected The hypocriteâ— hope shall perish their hope shall be sorrow of minde Job 11. ver 20. Confidence in an unfaithful man in time of trouble is like a broken tooth and a sliding foot And truely such is confidence in an evill conscience however it may seeme to have made thee a covenant with death and an agreement with hell it will deceive thee However it promise long life and strength in an arme of flesh and the vain counsells of men raising thy hopes to high â—lights they are but dreames of deluded men breaking in the midst of their course giving thy minde dangerous strapadoes by carrying it up to cast it down from such heigth to make the fall more desperate How often do despairing wretches wish they had never hoped when the vaine shewes thereof like Pharoahs chariot wheels there fall off where they are most deeply engaged between floods of returning miseries 3. There is an hope of the righteous which faileth not
is a feare of unbeleefe in them that love the sin but feare the punishment thereof this is that servile fear which affecteth the wicked which though it sometimes restraine them from the externall acts of sinne yet is it not master of any constant duety so soone as their feare is over they are as bad or worse then ever as wee see in Pharoah This feare becometh not the children of God because it is ever with a guilty conscience unbeleefe and expectation of God's just judgment on their sinnes without hope in Christ wherefore should I feare in the daies of evil said the Psalmist for God is with them I will feare none evill for thou art with mee The Lord is my light and my salvation whom shall I feare the Lord is the strength of my life of whom shall I be afraid the wicked feare where no feare is they feare not God for love of God but for self-love and feare of punishment as the Grecians worshiped their false gods and poor men the great Lords which is a symptom of a base and impious minde prohibited to the children of God to whom it is said Be not afraid of sudden fear for the Lord shall be thy confidence and shall keep thee from being taken Feare thou not saith the Lord for I am with thee be not dismayed for I am thy God I will strengthen thee and I will helpe thee Feare not for I have redeemed thee All which Precepts are to be understood of servile feare which is to despaire of God's mercy rendring men desperate not provident to avoid danger neither more earnest to flie to God for helpe The first may appeare in Jehoram's message Behold said that wreeth this evill cometh of the Lord should I any longer wait on the Lord and in that precipitate counsell Job 2. 9. Curse God and die The second effect we read in Jacob in danger of his life instantly praying and sending presents to appease his revengefull brother not to be afraid of God's judgements on sinne is carnal security and stupid carelesnesse of feared consciences not to feare imminent dangers is improvident torpor of minde not to feare the dreadfull presence of God must needs be in sinfull man ignorance of God and a mans own selfe Moses and Danielâ—eared â—eared this On the other part to be a timerous Antemon for feare keeping home continually with his two servants ever guarding his head with a brasse shield held over it is not only an impious but a ridiculous fear To feare men more then God as Saul did 1 Sam. 15. 24. is the feare of Hypocrites to feare without confidence in God for the diversion of evill as Belshazzar when seeing the hand writing upon the wall his knees trembled and the joints of his loines were loosed or as Saul at Endor is the fear of those who feare not God aright This fear is the perpetual torment of the wicked conscience an imperious mischief an anticipation of evill not yet come making a man unhappy not onely with present evills but with future which but for â—ear could no way reach him as that feare of inevitable death which maketh men continually die for feare of dying once But to feare God with a filiall feare proceeding of love to him is as the fountain of wisedome so of true happinesse God regardeth such he will deliver them and fulfill their desire hee will teach them the way of righteousnesse they shall want nothing that is good when they seeme most to lack they shall have supply of that or something better it shall be health and strength to them Understanding temporal blessings and eternal and a minde to doe good and deale uprightly with men as appeared in Obadiah 1 King 18. 3 12 13. and Joseph Gen. 42. 10. This feare maketh every little more then great riches to the wicked it is the souls Angel-guardian Innocencies keeper Securities antidote the mindes centinel to awaken it and give the alarme against the assaults of the subtile enemie This giveth a man â—â—ue and unâ—ailing confidence 't is the summe of that which God requireth of us Deut. 10. 12. the whole duety of a man 〈◊〉 12. 14. of this only is that saying true the mother oâ— the fearfull useth not to cry because such are truely blessed 3. Now because we are men not yet perfect in love and so subject to many fears and subject to many sinnes failings and hazzards and therein to some dangerous groavings of servile feare by God's mercy turned in the issue to our good for if we are so prone to sinne under so much feare what would wee be if wee were secure from all these like rules are necessary to the ordering of our thoughts in feares 1. For God's glory and thy salvation contemne any danger It was Christ's precept Feare them not who are able to destroy the body only for they cannot make thee unhappy they may adde to thy blessednesse if thou bearest injuries well These objects are only terrible like that Cumane asse in the Lions skinne to those that know them not or the Crocodile fierce against the fearfull fearfull of the daring or to the impatient who cannot stoop to take up the crosse which like Moses rod thrown down became a dreadfull serpent but at God's command resumed an harmless rod to divide the bitter floods and open a way into the promised rest many men great â—n their owne feares deluding fancy making that monstrous which right reason would discover hurtlesse in a constant and prudent resolution to meet with difficulties 2. Fear God and be not â—aint-hearted endeavour to set thy minde upon such a stay of moderation that thy resolution neither rise to temerity nor fall to timidity neither to dare nor to be afraid of all things nor of nothing but between both beare such a temper as that wisedom may have place to sit at the helme withoâ—t the interruption of either extream Sanctifie the Lord of hosts and let him be your feare and your dread and hee shall be your Sanctuary but feare not their feare who say a confederacy The present feare of God createth us an eternall security fear him and thou shalt not be afraid of man though I walke in the valley of the shadow of death I will fear none evil for thou art with mee Psalm 23. 4. The Lord is on my side I will not feare c. Psal. 71. 1. The feare of the Lord like Moses serpent devoureth all the inchanters serpents swalloweth up all other fears 3. In every danger lay to heart the omnipotency of God and learne to trust in him hee that so doth shall be safe when the fiery fornace was threatned Shadrah Meshach and Abednego they answered the incensed King Our God whom we serve is able to deliver us his
painter did when he borrowed all the perfections of beauty he possibly could to furnish his pourtraict of Venus so that these nations made them of such proportion and colour as they thought most beautiful which sheweth that beauty is not in white and red or so much in any sixed standart as to be weighed by his affection who likes and loves whence it commeth to passe that affection being Clarke of the Market making or at least determining the true value and price of beauty yea beauty it selfe there is almost no face but some can like and love it best I might say therefore if beauty were not so much in opinion yet is it fading flowers are the emblemes thereof Favor is deceitfull and beauty is vaine but a woman that feareth the Lord shee shall be praised love which only beauty enflames is like fire in stubble soon going out except it finde some more solid fuel to preserve it The ancient Heathens in their fable of Pygmalion falling in love with the image which he made and obteining a metamorphosis thereof into a woman and his wife quickly disliked under a false vaile as oft they did understood this morall trueth That such is the mutability of mans minde that if he might be permitted according to his desire to make himselfe a fortune hee would not long like his own option and â—igment specially that which is grounded on so fraile a good as beauty every day subject to change by the power of sicknesse if no worse corruption Regard riches and beauty in thy choice that thou maist subsist and love but choose not for either or both but principally for vertue not subject to the lawes of time or age 5. If thou art under parents or governers match not without their consent 6. Lastly so far as by diligent enquiry thou canst discern take heed of 1. An impious Athaliah or false Delilah likewise of a tempter hee or shee who will not be good toward so good a God what hope is there they will or can be good to thee what mischiefe what curse maist thou not reasonably expect from such company as God hateth and will finally destroy 2. A proud and expensive Jezabel such must needs prove thy families calamity pride goeth before ruine the spendthrift is more devouring then the sea that is sometimes long devouring a patrimony this quickly swalloweth up all there may be some defence found against that but if Solomon himselfe were tutor to this foole his instruction should finde no capacity in him 3. A curst and intractable nature a provoking Miriam a sullen Vashti a jeering Nichol a scolding Zipporah a stingie Peninnah and a revengeful Herodias why any one should be in love with a bear it must seem strange to us but some are of an affection so paradoxical that they can because they are of the like ungentle rough disposition for parity of manners begeteth liking but if thou love comity affability and that sweetnesse of behaviour which becometh the people of God avoid a churlish Nabal and a d Xâ—ntippe quà m in Socratem prius convitia maledicta ingessisset post verò sordidis aquis perâ—udisset inquit Nonne dicebam Xantippem tonantem quandoque pluituram Laert. l. â— Socrat. shrill Xantippe whose thunder will not only startle thee by day but like an importune gnat she will be singing about thy eares when thou wouldst â—leep whose impudent barbarismes will render thee ridiculous to thy acquaintance and pitied of thy friends whose spirit of contradiction will embitter all that which should sweeten an happy society neither let some calmes deceive thee the sea is lovely when no breath of winde moveth it to rage the fiercest are kinde in their times of love consider well what men and women are when they are angry and how thou canst change bridle or bear that nature he that keepeth salvage beasts may render up his charge when hee will but the unhappy married covenant till death us depart Take heed of objects too great for thy power or patience 4. An intemperate luxurious or drunken mate e Pascitur â—ibido conviviis nutritur deliciis c. Amb. de poen l. 1. cap. 14. Lust is fed at full tables which beggery and misery attend to take away the intemperate and drunken is the devils anvile on which hee can forge any sinne when Satan with large promises tempted the yong man to kill his father hee abhorred the suggestion likewise when he proposed in the second place that hee should commit adultery he refused it when hee brought him into company and exhorted him to doe as others did drinking he became drunken and in that madnesse slew his father and committed adultery drunkennesse is broker to any sin 5. A bold and familiar behaviour in women is a dangerous symptom of immodesty Lascivious gesture impudent discourse and affectation of strange attire are but the bush to shew what is vendible within take heed of a gadding Dinah and a tame woman I deny not but such may be chaste but it seemeth hardly probable that they would be such Of all domestick miseries the adulterous wiâ—e is incomparably worst and most of all such calamities to be abhorred of those that are to choose and to be pitied in all that have made such choice except in those that have made them or suspected them before to be such f Pro. 6 25 26. lust not after her beauty in thine heart neither let her take thee with her eie-lids for by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a morsel of bread and the adulteresse will hunt for the precious life g Prov. 5. 8. Remove thy way farre from her and come not nigh the door of her house 6. Take heed of matching into an infamous family it is true God can call and so doth h Luke 7. some infamous sinners home to wash the feet of Christ with teares of repentance he can and doth take some out of the most sinful families to make them instances of his mercy but commonly partus ventrem sequitur an adulterous Herodias hath a dancing daughter easily infected with her mothers sicknesse it is a desperate adventure to choose there Concerning the mutual Dueties of the married these duties are observable 1. That they serve God together with one heart and consent §. III. so Abraham and Sarah Isaac and Rebecca Zacharie and Elisabeth so all the children of God in that state do 2. That both hold the bond of conjugal love entire pure and unpolluted while Solomon chargeth the man i Prov. 5. 18 c. rejoice with the wife of thy youth let her breasts satisfie thee at all times he enjoineth the woman the same duety let both ever remember the covenant they have made before God and that dreadful word 1 Cor. 6. 9 10. Be not deceived neither fornicators nor idolaters nor adulterers shall inherit the kingdom of God 3. That they live together in love peace
and amity that they give not scandal to others nor create mutual bitternesse to themselves Mutual love is gods blessing on thy family a praeludium of heaven in thy house a comfortable pattern to thy children like the sun-beams on thy possession as the dew of heaven on thy fields which maketh all look cheerfully and be fruitful a state that cometh neerest up to that blessed Paradise-oeconomy of Adam innocent a blessing which maketh every estate such without which no store is blessed k Pro. 15. 17 Better is a dinner of herbs where love is then a stalled oxe and hatred therewith l Pro. 17. 1. Better is a dry morsel and quietnesse therewith then an housefull of sacrifices with strife 4. That they do cheerfully and willingly communicate in all that which God hath given them in prosperity advising in adversity comforting each other with such sympathy in joy and sorrow as is in them who are truely one flesh 5. That they bear each others infirmities never taking things spoken or done in the worst sense nor making every trivial matter an occasion of quarrel or alienation of affection but passing by them so as that they may seem rather covered in love then excused in judgement or approved in stupidity in which practice Satan may be beaten with his own weapon while that every occasion which hee administred in hope to former discord being prudently used to demonstrate the invincible love of the party suffering and willing rather to put up injury then to admit the least breach of amity by retaliation more endeareth them to each other 6. That they join hands and hearts to assist each other in the way to heaven See 1 Cor. 7. 16. 1 Pet. 3. 7. 7. That they mutually defend each other so Michol preserved David when Saul sought his life so prudent Abigail endeavoured Nabal's preservation they must not be false Delilahs to conâ—ederate against the lives or estates of their husbands 8. That they neither unjustly take nor justly give occasion of jealousie which ever embittereth the otherwaies most happy families Jerom's rule is here to be commended to women m Etsi negagata non feceris tamen deforme putes testimonium si rogeris Hier ep 2l 9 though thou yeeld not being asked yet think it an odious testimony to be asked hee comes to neer who cometh to be denied The Duties proper to the Husband may appeare in these following Rules 1. Let the n 1 Pet. 3. 7. husband dwell with his wife according to knowledge giving honor to her as the weaker vessel as being co-heires of the grace of life that their prayers be not hindred where there needeth reproof let it neither be rough odious injurious publick clamorous nor disgracefull but allayed with such wisedome and opportune perswasions as may not only reform but endeare in the most happy wedlock there may be some matter of just dislike and therefore due cause of reproof it much concerneth thee to know thy wives faults but not to hate her for them let the rule be either beare thy wives faults if tolerable with patience or amend them with direction if they are intolerable in this thou makest her better in that thy selfe 2. Let a man love o Eph. 5. 33. his wife as himselfe esteeming nothing too good or dear for her good as Christ loved his Church which concludeth nothing for them who impiously and cruelly afflict their wives with stripes or otherwise for God saith p Col 3 19. Husbands love your wives and be not bitter against them it is uncertaine whether they have evil wives but certain that they deserve such who can no otherwise governe then by blowes Neither doth this binde any man to an indiscreet much lesse an impious and dangerous indulgence to his wife wherein she desireth that which needs must or probably may hurt her self her husband or family it is love and wisedome to deny her that 3. Let a man maintain his wife in cloaths and necessaries according to his estate so as shee may live cheerfully with him not as servant but as a partner in his estate 4. Let the husband use all comity holy gratious prudent and peaceable language as a pattern to all his family so specially as a pledge of love to his wife neither like rugged Nabal nor fond and vaine which commonly changeth into fits of extream bitternesse for who can like such inksome levity 5. Let the man heare the wife's advice but never be transported beyond better reason nor carried thereby against the holy will of God as Adam whose dreadfull sentence bare this cause in the front q Gen. 3. 17. because thou hast hearkned to the voice of thy wife as r 1 King 21. 25. Ahab hearkned to the voice of Jezaâ—el as s 1 King 11 3 Solomon whom his wives most fearfully corrupted t Anilâ—e mihi liber videatur cui mulier imperat cui leges imponit praescribit iubet vetat qui nihil imperaâ—â—i negare potest nihil recusare audetâ—â— ego verò isâ—um non modò servum sed nâ—quissimum servum etiamsi in amplissima â—amilta natus sit appellandum puto Cic. pared omnes sapientes liberos esse c. The Orator could say of a man so awed by his wife I doe think that hee ought to be called not onely a slave but truely the worst of such Concerning the proper dueties of Wives I sinde these three principle rules 1. Let the wife be u Eph. 5. 22. Col 3. 18. subject to her husband as unto the Lord in every thing for the man is the wife's head w 1 Tim. â— 9 12. shee was made for man God permitteth not the woman to usurpe authority over the man this duety comprehendeth love x Eph. 5. 32. reverence aiâ— and assistance doing her husband good endeavouring to content please and comfort him See Pro. 31. 11. contrary to which is the imperious command of the domineering wife unreverend speech or action neglect of her charge through pride sloth or riotous wasting her husbands estate 2. Let her be chaste modest and silent the Scripture expresseth this by y 1 Pet. 3. 5 6 1 Pet. 3 1 c. 1 Tim. â— 9 10 chast conversation coupled with feare impudency and chastity are rarely compatible and modest apparreling which becometh women professing godlinesse andâ—let the women learn with all subjectionâ— a meâ—k and a quiet spirit are of high esteem in Gods sight this is God's rule by what law they live who think it religion and good policy by their loud and quarrelsom tongues bitter spirits of contradiction and otherwise to master their husbands and cantonize themselves I know not it is certain these are heavy crosses and no better then the sad furies possessing and so restlesly haunting the house of a wretched man that hee may well take up that old bemoaning z Hei mihi nec sine te nec tecum vivere possum Woe is
death from the power of sin the snares of Satan the world and the flesh heare the voice of their praiers when they cry unto thee helpe them against all their enemies blesse their substance and accept the worke of their hands be thou ever their refuge and save them Thou who dividest the earth among the sonnes of men whose providence descendeth unto the feeding and preserving the poorest of thy creatures feed them with bread of their stature thou who encreasedst the oile and the meale so that it failed not in all the famine whether it be much or little which thou shalt be pleased to give them let thy blessing be with it that in every estate they may faithfully depend on thy gracious providence which never faileth them that trust in thee and finde such a sufficiency therein that they may live cheerfully and contentedly that they may never want that which thou knowest necessary and comfortable for their bodies and soules Lord give them hearts faithfully to seek thy kingdome and the righteousnesse thereof that all these things may be administred unto them O Lord God who hast promised to be a father of the fatherlesse who hast planted thine owne image of love and compassion in the hearts of parents towards their children heare the praiers of a poore father for his children and deny not the requests of my lips when thou shalt be pleased to take me from them leave them not destitute shew thy selfe their keeper directer and counseller that they may never swerve from thy commandements as thou hast shewed me mercy and compassion all my daies so holy father let not thy mercy depart from them but keep them in thy faith fear and love that as thy providence hath brought us together in this family so when this mortal life shall be ended we may by thy mercy all happily meet in the eternal communion of Saints in thy kingdome of glory through Jesus Christ our Lord and onely Saviour AMEN 1. The crown of the aged is children and the duety of children toward their parents is honor reverence fear obedience gratitude châ—erishing them in their age love and patience all this is comprehended in the fifth precept of Gods law honour thy father and thy mother who are comprehended under these titles I have already shewed I have here to speak of duety to parents 2. These rules of practice are hereto observable for the guidance of those children which feare the Lord and expect the promise their made to the obedient 1. Honor thy father and mother it is Gods expresse command and a dictate of nataâ—e this importeth reverence in thy bodily gesture before them as King Solomon rose upto meet his mother Bath-sheba and bowed himself vnto her as Moses went out to meet his father in law and did obeisance reverence in thy speech toward them and thy behaviour before them that it be not rude and such as becometh not the presence of those whom God will have honored as his vicegerents in the family So saith the Apostle Wee have had fathers of the flesh and wee gave them reverence none but a cursed Cham will behave himselfe unreverently before his father or mother or any waies tell or discover their failings to discredit or dishonor them but will goe with blessed Shem and Japhet with the vaile of discreet piety to conceale them Glory not in the dishonor of thy father saith the sonne of Sirach for thy fathers dishonor is no glory unto thee for the glory of a man is from the honor of his father and a mother in dishonor is a reproach to the children When God commanded Israel to be holy hee thus beginneth Ye shall fear every man his mother and father here indeed religion beginneth toward those whom God hath set in his own room on earth to nourish and give lawes to them and to receive their first tribute of obedience due to him by them there is little hope of it when it here blasteth in the bud the breach of this law carrying a fearefull curse with it as being a sinne against God and nature therefore the heathen Decius when he was offered the imperial crown refused it saying I fear lest being made an Emperour I should forget to be a sonne I had rather be a dutiful son then an Emperour let my father rule my Empire is to obey 2. Obey thy parents in all things not prohibited by God Hearken unto thy father that begat thee Forsake not the law of thy mother Children obey your parents in all things 3. Patiently beare their infirmities where age maketh them pettish where they erre not gain-saying or answering againe contend not irreverently with them though thou art in the right when they are angry with thee overcome that anger with patience 4. Be such to thy parents as thou wouldst have thy children to thee commonly it will be so an evil sonne seldom proveth an happy father Whoso honoreth his father shall have joy of his own children but as God rewardeth the duety of children according to his promise so will he their impiety and disobedience according to his justice because hee is true in both all sinnes have their severe punishments following them and when God's justice is most slow it is most sure but there are some sins which are more destructive to humane society which God the preserver thereof usually punisheth in this life that hee may deterre men from committing them so it is observable that cruelty oppression and murder seldome goe unpunished here but most closely acted sometimes they are discovered by extraordinary meanes and disobedience to parents may hence appeare odious to God and man that it is commonly punished by the like deportments of their children an example thereof is commonly found in every family of the disobedient O Sonne cryed the father beaten and dragged out of doors by the haire of the head draw mee no further for thus farre I drew my father 5. Love thy parents tenderly though the reflexes of this love are not so strong yet doe them all the good thou canst love them next after Christ above him thou maiest not No man can requite his parents and teachers yet shew thy love and gratitude to them if they want nourish them so did good Joseph so tender ought thy care to be of them that it should be thy grief if thou do any waies grieve them My son help thy father in his age and grieve him not as long as he liveth Thou must be cheerful to them not violate this piety so much as with an ill looke A necessary document for those prodigals which will not be warned from ryot and lewd company until they bring their parents hoary head with sorrow to the grave and necessity bring them home in rags as also to the profane Esaus whose impious matches are a griefe of minde unto Isaac and make
obtained mercy for as much as he did it ignorantly and in unbeleefe in his conversion these sinnes were taken off as his Melita viper without more danger to his life so God pronounceth of the convert all his transgressions that he hath committed they shall not be mentioned unto him 3. Great and grievous sins of the regenerate through violent perturbations of minde or tentations overtaking them are not to be reckoned among symptomes of reprobation or apostasie such was Peter's denial and David's adultery and murder therefore the Apostle saith If any man be overtaken in any fault yee that are spiritual restore such a one with the spirit of meeknesse considering thy self lest thou also be tempted and Christ teacheth us without distinction of great and little sinnes to say daily Forgive us our trespasses this life is a spiritual combate a trucelesse warre against the powers of darknesse wherein the strongest may be and often are carried away captive and yet be healed and recovered their captivity concludeth not their not being true Israëlites who would fain return 4. Every sinne against knowledge doth not presently conclude a reprobate minde the best and most knowing are sometimes taken in Satan's snares Peter though forewarned denied Christ through sudden apprehension of fear not out of malice but infirmity we nay the best of men are but partly flesh and partly spirit so that we can neither do the good we would nor avoid the evil which wee see and hate Paul and all the regenerate knowing and allowing the law of God yet sometimes feele another lawlesse law carrying them away captive to sin 5. Though every sin against conscience be very dangerous and every perseverance therein the very suburbs of hell yet every such failing concludeth not against repentance and remission because sinne not onely allureth but sometimes exerciseth the rage of a tyrant and captivateth us against our will there may also be a lethargie or epilepse of the soul there is such mischievous subtilty in Satan that his snares though seene are not alwaies avoided whose messengers though felt with grief of soul are not alwaies overcome yet heâ— that gave waters to the Horeb rock can smite our harder heartr and make the waters of life slow plentifully to repentance never to be repented of 6. Though every relapse into sin be very dangerous yet if a man be not entangled and overcome therein it concludeth not against repaire by repentance the most holy fall seven times a day Satan doth not alwaies present new scenes but sometimes dresseth up his old artifices therewith to beguile 7. Though our infirmities be many Gods power is made manifest therein sustaining us that though we fall wee shall not fall away though Satan's power subtilty and restlesse malice be very great yet hee and his messengers cannot go beyond their chain wherewith they are limited no not so much as into an herd of swine without God's leave who will not try us above that hee will make us able so that we may resolve that neither life nor death nor any creature shall be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus The rules of practice hereto belonging are 1. Do thy utmost endeavour to keep the testimony of a good conscience which thou canst by no means doe but by watching over thy soul and with unyeelding constancy resisting temptations every sin the least woundeth the soule afresh be not secure of little sinnes let a good conscience be most precious unto thee part not from it for any pleasures honours or riches of this world rather part from thy life have a tender conscience a seared one like callous flesh is hardly sensible of that which toucheth it to this custome bringeth a man taking away the sense of sin 2. Approve thy selfe in every action to God setting thy selfe ever in his presence who seest all thou doest oâ— thinkest and care not who ever else blame thee when hee approveth thee walke not according to the wisedom of the flesh but by God's grace which shall at last be thy rejoicing 3. Be sure sin reign not in thee which cannot be except thou sell thy self thereto by consenting to thine own captivity as the eare-bored servants who professed love to their masters and so would not be manu-missed and freed from them hate sin and none shall hurt thee no sin is so pernicious as that which pleaseth most specially take heed of presumptuous sins that they get not dominion over thee Psalm 19. 13. Numb 15. ver 30 31. Deuteron 17. vers 12. 4. Looke on Gods justice and mercy together part them not in thy thoughts if thou look on his justice onely thou must needs despair in the sight of thy sins if thou look on his mercy onely thou wilt easily presume when thou shalt see the admirable immensity thereof so ready to pardon sinnes the old sea-men noted the ignis lambens sitting sometimes on the yards of their ships for a good or a mischievous presage if they saw but one flame they called it an unlucky Helena if two they tooke it for Castor and Pollux good abodements of faire and prosperous weather it is much like here to consider either mercy to presumption or justice to despair is destructive it is happy to finde them thus together that thou neither in thy security presume to sinne nor despair for the greatnesse of any sinne in thy repentance 5. Labour for true faith in Christ who is the propitiation for our sinnes whose blood cleanseth us from all holding faith and a good conscience that wee may not be wrackt There was no cure for a wounded Israelite against the venome of fiery serpents but to looke up to the brazen Serpent which prefigured Christ apprehensible by faith the only cure of sinne-wounded consciences 6. Let but this very sense and apprehension of God's wrath which now terrifieth thee cause thee the more heartily to loath all sinne and thou shalt thereby be assured that God hath wounded thee only to heale the. 7. Remember that what the law saith it saith it only to them who are under the law not under grace they are under the law who plead not guilty and stand upon their justification by works of the law wee are under grace who seeing our sinne and misery by the law flee wholly to him for mercy who freely justifieth the sinner the curses and threatnings of the law are not to breake the bruised reed nor quench the smoking flax the penitent soule trembling at God's word grieving for his sinnes the man of a wounded spirit Christ came to call and save such but to beat down the heart lifted up with opinion of self-merit safety in and presuming to sin 8. Repent thee quickly let not sinne get râ—ot in thy heart let not the wound grow blew before thou apply the medicine high thee
him until fast bound to the gibbet to be put over the fire he cryed out O Solon Solon ◠Riches cannot deliver from death nor in the day of the day of the Lords wrath and how vainely doe wee call them goods in whose abundance the owner may perish with hunger 2. Set not thy soule at stake for any worldly price what shall it profit a man if hee shall gaine the whole world and loose his owne soule especially at so poor a one that usually hurteth the possessor I appeale herein to any thriving man doe but remember the change of thine owne minde so soon as thy estate encreased or descended to thee how quickly hadst thou learned an unstudied pride and elation of minde Estates and the owners mindes commonly rise together like those beasts and wheeles in the Prophets vision When the creatures were lifted up from the earth the wheels were lifted up this maketh it so hard for a rich man to be saved because it is very hard to be rich and not proud or not to trust in riches Adde hereto that unjust gaine maketh thee not a proprieter but an usurper and robber and hee that swallowed down riches shall vomit them up againe either hee must restore them or perish with them whether they were seized into his hands by violence or by wicked balances or the bag of deceitful weights treasures of wickednesse profit nothing moreover at the best thou canst have but a short use of any worldly thing wee brought nothing into the world and it is certain wee shall carry nothing away and is it not therefore an admirable madnesse to loose eternal happinesse for temporal riches the soule for the bodies supplies The time shall come and it is as sure and neere as death when the body shall have no use of riches the soule never had why do men tyre themselves for vaine shadowes too great possessions have commonly debauched the unhappy owners as may appeare in the Romane conquests of Asia Hannibal's of Alexander's of Persia and the like wherein it was doubtful whether they more conquered those nations or those nations them Their riches were to them but as Demetrius Lamià taken in the Egyptian spoiles aurea mala golden mischiefes and as Seneca said of prosperity viscata beneficia limed baits gifts to take men with and so desperately besotting their lovers that they passe not for any wickednesse to gaine them save that onely which may bring them into future danger of loosing them It was not said amisse Were Justice as free as once it shall be all our goales could not hold our rich men This mischiefe wealth addeth to the rest that it now freeth the wicked from punishment that they may recive it hereafter No wonder that our Saviour pronounced a woe to the rich who usually blesse themselves as the only wise and good men riches so seldom being good to the owners Why settest thou thine heart on that which is neither truely good nor truely thine if they are truely good let them make thee good and blessed if truely thine carry them with thee in death What can be more unworthy of a wise man then the love of false and transitory goods or of a Christian then to sell a soul whose redemption cost more then all the world was worth the precious blood of Christ for that which is neither truely good truely thine nor beyond necessity of safe use or possession If thou use them thou art neer luxury if thou spare them to a dangerous parsimony on the one side is the nures of idlenesse the mother of all mischiefe on the other the gulfe of insatiable avarice 3. Let thy riches serve thee there is no little necessity of the use of this rule for as the Philosopher said Most rich men doe not use their goods for extream covetousnesse others abuse them to pleasures so rich men become slaves all their life time some to pleasure others to profit but beyond all that the Philosophers could know the Scripture sheweth that if wee serve riches we cannot serve God hee that keepeth riches to himselfe is a servant to them and hee the worst of all servants a foole and a knave who grown rich with an ill conscience can be contented to live poore only that hee may die rich And hee that prodigally spendeth them is little better this may be sure his riches cannot serve him long the others doe never Yet thus parsimonious are some as they should live ever and others as lavish as if they should presently die 'T is vaine to deprive they soule of rest only to possesse and not to use riches in trueth such have not riches their riches have them buried in the foolish monument of their avarice It is no sinne to be rich if justly it is to be uncharitable to thy selfe or others How dwelleth the love of God in him God weigheth mens hearts not their chests and in his esteeme who cannot be deceived hee onely is master of his wealth not who keepeth it close but hee who bestoweth it well Ask thy conscience how thou possessest and usest riches and thou shalt know whether God hath given them for a blessing or a curse There is a sore evil which I have seen under the sun saith Solomon riches kept for the owners thereof to their hurt It is a blessing to know how to use them well every man also to whom God hath given riches and wealth and hath given him power to eate thereof and to take his portion and to rejoice in his labour this is the gift of God 4. Let your conversation be without covetousness and be content with those things that you have Let our meat satisfie hunger our drinke thirst and our decent garments keepe our bodies warm let our houses be to defend us from wet and cold a wise and good man is so contented with himself not that he would not gladly have friends goods to entertain them but because he can patiently bear the want of either riches are more safely had them desired They that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare and into many foolish and hurtfull lusts which drown men in destruction an inheritance may be gotten hastily but the end thereof shall not be blessed A man with a wicked eie hasteth to riches and knoweth not that poverty shall come upon him Hee that heapeth up treasure as the dust knoweth not who shall spend it in the mean time no man wanteth more then he that coveteth most he lacketh not only that which hee hath not but that also which he hath so that the covetous mans wealth leaveth him guiltiness and taketh away the comfortable use of that which hee hath it being a kinde of drunken thirst encreasing by having more Great Alexander was not contented with one world Death only confesseth
rich epulo but the worlds minion Wants occasion many a mans return unto God as it was with great Nebuchadnezzar who through the dark shadows of affliction as men at noon day see stars out of some deep well could at last looke up to heaven and finde the glorious omnipotency of God and his sovereignty ruling over all which the glittering light of his prosperity did before hide from him To conclude when a man hath duely weighed what this world is how unconstant all things thereof how short a time he can enjoy abundance or bear wants he shall finde no just canue either to be proud of external riches or dejected in want 4. Aspire to a better world riches which perish not food and raiment which shall not faile nor decay how great should our reward be with our heavenly father if wee would not affect our reward here 5. Learn to depend on Gods providence aske of him daily bread bread of thy stature that which hee knoweth convenient for thee food raiment and protection as Iacob did or as Iabez who called on the God of Israël saying O that thou wouldst blesse mee indeed and enlarge my coast and that thy hand might be with mee and that thou wouldst keep mee from evil that it may not grieve mee and God granted him that which hee requested I have been young saith David and now am old and yet saw I never the righteous forsaken and his seed begging bread though possibly in extreame wants yet never forsaken 6. Seek happinesse within thy selfe such is the brevity of this life such the variable inconstancy of all external estates so many accidents like stormes from divers quarters lie upon this sea of glasse that in the possessions thereof they leave no place for true happinesse which is in that whereof the least measure is enough and the greatest secure from losse The best ornaments and truest riches are those which are layed up in a good conscience where no violent hand can reach them Be not deceived by the false lustre of secular prosperity and thou shalt not be broken with adversity The poor mans Petition O Lord God great and glorious severe in thy judgements and abundant in mercy the earth is thine and thy providence divideth it among the sons of men thou bringest down to the grave and raisest up again thou makest rich and poore thou bringest low and liftest up the needy out of the dust that hee may glorifie thee thou savest the poor from the hand of the mighty redeemest from death and in famine givest hope thou art the Saviour and deliverer of the fatherlesse and him that hath no helper the needy shall not alwaies be forgotten nor their exspectation perish for ever because thou wilt preserve thine own work when they cry thou wilt arise and deliver them from their troubles who hast of thy goodnesse prepared to satisfie them Lord behold my necessities who despisest not the needy though thou thus afflict mee yet strenghten mee so that my wants may never cast me down to despaire of thy favour nor endeavour their supply by any thing which offendeth thee what ever I want let mee never want the comfortable assurance of thy love and mercy what ever else thou pleasest to take from me take not thy holy spirit thy mercy thy selfe from mee Be my strength in distresse a refuge from the storme a shadow from the heat I am weak and my heart is wounded in mee Lord assure mee that thou carest for mee Thou hast said blessed Jesus that first seeking the kingdome of God and his righteousnesse all bodily necessaries shall be administred unto us Lord give mee an heart so to doe sanctifie those wants to mee that thou maist comfort mee make mee rich in faith and those spiritual treasures which once had shall never be lost againe Lord Jesus who becamest poore to make us rich poure out the riches of thy grace into my poore soul Thou best knowest before I aske what I have need of who feedest the sowles of the aire and clothest the lilies of the field Lord famish not the afflicted soule of thy servant man liveth not by bread only but by the power of thy word blessing it O God who madest the Sarephtan's little store sufficient what ever thy providence shall allot mee let thy blessing be upon it that I may finde a sufficiency therein that I may serve thee contentedly and cheerfully depending confidently on thy fatherly providence which never faileth them which trust in thee O Lord who art a refuge in trouble who never forsakest them that truely seek thee supply all my necessities heare mee and make speed to relieve mee forsake me not O my God open the high places and the fountâ—ines in the midst of the vallies for the thirsty soule let thy hand relieve mee until thou shalt be pleased to bring mee into thy blessed presence where is fulnesse of joy without want measure or end Grant mee these things O merciful God and what ever else thou knowest necessary for mee for thy dear sonne my evâ—r blessed Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ his sake AMEN CHAP. XXXI § 1. Liberty and restraint misplaced by an injurious world § 2. Comforts for Prisoners § 3. Rules thereto appertaining 1. LIberty is the natural inheritance of every good man but what doth not the malice of the world which hateth them and the impiety thereof pervert to the same merit this unjust judge swayed by affection seldome led by reason or equity adjudgeth contrary rewards for the like sinne one is crowned and another crucified it vexeth the innocent dove and dismisseth the bloody raven the wicked Pilate sitteth judge where holy Jesus is arraigned as guilty hee is condemned and Barrabbas acquitted by their proclamation who cryed but now Hosanna to Christ and now deliver us Barrabbas If they doe this in the green tree what will they do in the dry Why the supream judge admitteth such surrogates or permitteth Satan to governe such judges as 't is written Satan shall cast some of you into prison whosoever is the delatour or sergeant to imprison the saints Satan makes the mittimus they but doe him service wee know not wee know it is for the more heavy damnation of the one and the greater glory of the other in his conformity to Christ's sufferings which as they abound in us so our consolation shall in him if so be that wee suffer with him that we may be also glorified together 2. Among external afflictions wee may reckon imprisonment and captivity yet have these a capacity of comfort for the Saint whose peculiar advantage it is that all things work for good to him 3. Among the comforts of the Prisoner these have I learned as Protogenes the true pourtraict of meagered Ialysus by being dyeted himselfe with pulse wherein blessed be God even the father of our Lord Iesus Christ the father of
perishing world so the more our afflictions are showred down upon us the more let our soules be lifted up unto thee and to those things which are above with thee that we being weaned from the vain love of this world may have our conversation in heaven and be willing to be dissolved that we may live with our Lord Jesus eternally And now being by thy appointment to take our bodily rest wee pray thee to assure us of our peace with thee through the merits of thy holy son Jesus let our beds put us in remembrance of our graves to which wee are descending that wee may keep a faithful watch to the coming of Christ Jesus for our deliverance out of these earthly tabernacles let thy providence keep us and all ours from the powers of darknesse and all dangers of body and soule sleeping waking living dying have us ever in thy keeping that our waking may also remember us of our resurrection from the dead unto the life of glory These and all other things necessary for our bodies or souls wee begge of thee for Jesus Christ his sake in his name and words concluding our petitions in that form of praier which hee hath taught us saying Our Father which art in heaven c. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ c. AMEN CHAP. XXXII § 1. Of Banishment several kindes general cause therâ—of § 2. What wee must do to be comforted herein 1. MAny are the afflictions of the righteous so that I may say of their sanctity as it was once of Agisilaus deformed and lame ignoti faciem ejus cùm inâ—uerentur contemnebant c. they who knew him not when they saw his face despised him but they who knew his vertue could not enough admire him Among the Saints impropriated evils may Banishment be numbred as also the consolation thereof among the fruits of Sanctity 2. There are three kindes of Banishment to which the Romanes were wont to condemne 1. Confinement to some one foreigne place 2. Inderdiction of the native soile onely 3. Limitation of mens approaches to some certaine Province or City 3. The general cause of Exile is sinne for which our first parents and we in them suffered an ejectionem firmi being cast out of the pleasant and commodious Eden to labor and sorrow in that attainder forfeiting our interest in all the good creatures until they are restored us againe by Christ in whom wee have a divine right to them all as it is written for all things are yours as also by the municipal lawes of that Republick whereof wee are a part we have a civil right to some of them now though depriving hereof by God is ever just because no man liveth and sinneth not and thereby often forfeiteth life liberty and all to his justice yet this punishment inflicted by men against a divine and civil right may make the Judges extreamly guilty though it can never make the proscribed Saint unhappy for the Lord will not leave them in their hand nor condemne them when they are judged For comfort then to those that suffeâ— any kinde of Banishment I advise 1. That thou be more careful for the heavenly inheritance whence no violence shall remove thee and the more thou art barred earthly comforts the more set thy affections on things which are above As the sea-men loosing sight of the land look up to fetch their directions from the starâ—es of heaven it was a great comfort to him who could say I have Christ a partner of my unjust banishment it were wretched indeed if mens enemies could confine them to some place where they could not finde their God but hee never deserteth his captives if hee know his owne so that if thou be driven from all humane society yet canst thou not be comfortlesse or alone if Christ be with thee if thou art justly banished let that affliction amend thee and it shall make thee happy if unjustly fear not that is thy enemies sinne not thy misery It is not banishment but guiltinesse that maketh a man unhappy nothing can make a man truely wretched but his own sinne if by any means hee can leave that though his place know him no more hee is happy enough who cannot be unhappy First then learne to walk with God living to him and with him ever setting thy self in his presence meditating on him praying to him and asking counsel of him and his oracles being so acquainted with spirituall company as that neither thy necessary society with man may hinder thy conversation in heaven nor this make thee neglectful of Gods ordinance in that who hath appointed thee both comfort in humane society and witnesses therein of thy conversation that in the sight of thy good works God may be glorifyed therefore cleave sted fastly to Christ let no condition pull away thy heart from him though thou be sequestred from all else Christ is incomparably better then all the creatures Secondly keepe a good conscience hee cannot be unhappy in any place who having the comfort of innocency is not so in himselfe miserable are they where erâ— they are who carry with them that portable hell a guilty conscience which in the midst af all secular prosperity maketh a man truely unhappy such a one like the wounded deere carrieth deaths messenger the killing arrow sinne sticking in the heart and cannot out-runne his misery a mans â—nemies are they of his own house among them his self is the worst no man can be hurt but by himselfe the powers of hell malicious as they are cannot hurt thee if thou have not an hand in it thy selfe there is no terror in the world like that of a guilty conscience only Gods anger maketh a man unhappy none other can if Christ be with thee every place shall be thy heaven 2. Know thy happinesse where ever God sheweth thee favour and leadeth thee so did Abraham when hee was a stranger in Canâ—an and Joseâ—h by his brothers envy sold into Egypt but God was with him and delivered him giving him wisedome and favor in the sight of Pharoah that minde is too much straitned in it selfe which confineth desire and content to one place as if the world had no more the heavens are as cheerful a covering abroad as at home the sunne shineth as comfortably on other nations as on that which wee call ours the same providence of God ruleth in all the world that place which thou countest forreigne and thy place of exile is a native soile to some who in thy house would have as much cause to think themselves banished as Philiscus urged for a comfort to the Orator All this world is as much our country as any part thereof if we reckon right within which if any man make himselfe an exile hee is straitned in minde rather then in place had such opinion limited all men how many great parts of the world had been
not on her with honour tender love and duty nothing can fully recompence the ingratitude of this generation of Vipers their Mothers sorrow and destruction but hell Gods children love and honour his Ordinance in their parents For direction and comfort before their Travaile let Women 1. Spend the time of their expectation as they would doe the howers of their last day in hearty repentance for all their sinnes making their peace with God labouring to strengthen their faiths by recounting the comfortable promises of God in Christ Jesus rendring themselves with patience meeknesse and confidence into his mercifull hands who alone can keep them strengthen and comfort them in their paines and make them joyfull Mothers 2. Consult with God in all their fears and sorrowes as Rebecca did by the holy scriptures which are his Oracles giving certaine and infallible answers conference with the prudent Saints meditations and ascensions of the afflicted soule into Gods gracious presence 3. Reconcile themselves to all those whom they have injured by repairing them what they can for it is a condition of their salvation in childbearing that they continue in Faith and Charity and if all must quickly agree with their adversaries while they are in the way then they specially who as they say of Seamen may be reckoned between the living and the dead and in hazard of a sodaine convention at the barre by the end of this life 4. It must be a grave document as to all so specially to married Women of modesty and chastity I know not what comfort the adultresse can have who bringeth forth her Husbands irreparable injury her own shame Children of Whoredomes the indelible staine of their blood and their posterities dishonour all this with paine and horrour or more dangerous stupidity of a sinfull conscience whereas the good conscience of the chast is the soules rest bed of perfumes Garden of spices sorrowes lenitive griefes faire havens the soules Paradice and afflictions sanctuary with which though they have externall sorrowes yet are they blessed happy is the way however rough and fearefull by which they come to eternall life as the externall prosperity of the wicked can never make their waies better then destructive and unhappy So neither can any afflictions sorrowes feares or paines of the elect make them lesse then truely blessed because all these are but as the stepps in Jacobs ladder whose last shall land them in the presence of God as it is written we must through much tribulation enter into the Kingdome of God 5. Let them pray frequently and fervently that God would be pleased to measure their sufferings by that assistance which he will give them strengthen them to their labour mitigate their paines grant them a speedy and safe deliverance that they may enjoy the blessing of propagation to the encrease of his Kingdome the glory of his holy name and their eternall rejoycing after their temporall sorrowes which hee hath appointed them A prayer for Woemen in or neere their Travaile MOst glorious and holy Lord God almighty creator and mercifull preserver of all thy creatures who hast commanded the weary and heavy laden to come to thee and promised by the sonne of thy love and truth Christ Jesus to ease them we prostrate our selves before thy throne of mercy with bended knees and trembling hearts yet with assurance of thy faithfulnesse to performe who hast freely promised Truth it is O Lord when we consider our own deservings we can look for nothing but the severity of thy justice and rejection from thy gracious presence that thou shouldest take no delight in us when we come before thee but that the spreadiâ—g out of our hands in Prayer should be a trouble and wearinesse unto thee we confesse that destruction of body and soule by all those judgements which thou hast denounced against the first sinners is due unto us if thou enter into judgement with us we accuse and condemne our selves as most vile and utterly unable to stand in judgment before thee the searcher of the heart and reines and most unworthy of the least of those favours which our necessities compell us to beg at thy mercifull hands in confidence that thou wilt not breake the bruised reed reject the penitent nor condemne them who condemne themselves we renounce our selves that we may be found in the righteousnesse of our Lord Jesus It was he ô blessed Father who being the eternall Word Wisdome and Power by whom the World was created and is still sustained yet to save us miserable sinners and so his enemies was made flesh for us became man to set us free took on him the forme of a Servant to sanctify and redeeme us from sinne begun in our conception and encreasing from our birth vouchsafed to be conceived in the Virgins wombe by the Holy Ghost and to be borne the man of sorrowes to suffer the severity of thy wrath against sinners 't was he that dyed for our sinnes and rose againe for our justification that thereby he might pull out the sting of death and change the judgements into fatherly corrections 't was he that became a curse for us to redeeme us from the curse of the law that by his stripes we might be healed that the blessing the promise of the spirit the comforter might come on us through faith in him for his sake holy Father be reconciled to us for his sake encline thy gracious cares to our prayers now according to thine own appointment calling on thee Thou hast indeed threatned the first sinner to multiply her sorrowes in her travailes and that sentence as the sinne in which we fell is become hereditary in paines sorrow feare and anguish in these bitter effects of sinne we acknowledge thy just judgements but Lord correct us not in thine anger consider the frailty and infirmity of this poorâ— dust and earth wherewith thou hast clothed us consider not what we have done but what thy holy Sonne Jesus in that sacred flesh indivisibly united to the Godhead hath suffered for us accept his obedience who hath done and suffered all things which thy determinate counsaile had before all worlds appointed for the worke of our redemption We are unworthy to be heard but Lord heare him ascended into heaven to take possession thereof for us and now sitting at thy right hand a faithfull mediator for us and bearing the remembrance of us before thee he is truely God able to heare and help all them that call upon him faithfully and truly man who hath had experience and can be toucht with a sense of humane miseries for his sake heare us speaking the same things to thee here on earth which his own spirit helping our infirmities both dictateth to us from heaven and presenteth to thee for us in heaven Lord for his sake helpe us give us true and hearty repentance assure us of our sinnes remission and our discharge from the curse and rigor of the law
strengthen our Faith give us assurance of thy favour and mercy toward us shed abroad thy love in our hearts that all things even our sorrowes may worke together for the best to us in mercy asswage the sorrowes of this thy servant with the comfortable assurance of an happy issue give her patience to beare and ability to overcome her tryalls it was the word of justice which appointed this affliction but Lord whose mercy is over all thy workes allay the rigor of that sentence mitigate her paines speake comfort to her soule give a powerfull assistance to her weaknesse O gracious father by the power of whose word man is thus brought into the World give her a speedy and safe deliverance now that the child is come to the birth give her strength to bring forth to the encrease of thy Kingdome through the new birth by water and the holy Ghost to the comfort of thy now afflicted servant the Fathers joy and the praise of thy holy name through Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour Lord heare and grant these our Petitions and what ever else thou knowest more needfull for us through his merits in whom thou hast promised to heare us in whose mediation and words we present and conclude our petitions saying Our Father which art in heaven c. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ c. A thanksgiving for a Woman after her Deliverance O Lord God of our salvation who mercifully enclinedst thine eare unto us in our feare and distresse who appointedst in thy Law that she should bring a paire of mourning Turtles who had not a spotlesse Lamb for a sacrifice of thanks-giving it is the same thy clemency who wilt now accept their repentance who have not that unblemished innocency which can abide the tryall of thy severe justice and their hearty desire to be truely thankfull who have nothing worthy thy acceptance to render unto thee Lord therefore accept what thy selfe hast given us to bring before thee an humble and hearty desire to returne thee the fruits of our hearts and lipps the sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving as for all thy fatherly mercies so particularly for that thou hast asswaged the sorrowes of this thy servant with a comfortable Issue that thou hast given her patience to beare ability to overcome her tryalls and strength to bring forth that by thy mercy mitigating her paines thou hast allayed the rigour of thy sentence which thy justice pronounced we acknowledge thee to be the only Lord in whose hands are the Issues of life and death the God of our health and salvation And now ô Lord perfect thine own worke as thou hast delivered thy servant from her feare and sorrow so give her an heart ever to trust and rejoyce in thee as thou hast given her this fruit of the wombe so make him an accession to the encrease of thy Kingdome by the spirit of regeneration sanctify him and keep him in his tender yeares from sinne and all the malitious assaults of the enemy give thy holy Angels charge over him to keep him in all his waies that he may grow up in thy faith feare and love so that in what ever condition thy good providence shall set him his interest and assurance may be of his election and salvation in Christ Jesus Lord accomplish thy worke of mercy to thy servant repaire her health and strength give her a faithfull heart carefully to imploy the same in thy service and the holy education of those thou hast given her assist her in the whole remainder of her life that she may pay all her vowes made to thee in her feare and trouble let the tast of these bitter fruits of sinne give her a more fervent love to thy mercy pardoning it and a greater hate to all that which offendeth thee lead her in thy waies teach her so to number her daies that she may apply her heart unto wisedome make her more and more fruitfull in all good workes and zealous of thy lawes so that her life may appeare not only restored but also improoved and made more happy to the glory of thy great name the good example of others who shall see as thy worke of mercy on her so the effects of that worke the fruits of sanctity in her to the further assurance of her conscience before thee confirmed by the experience of thy mercy in her deliverance and preservation and to the salvation of her body and soule to all eternity through Jesus Christ our Lord and onely Saviour AMEN Directions for the Sick CHAP. XXXV § 1. As all afflictions sanctified so sicknesse profitable for Gods children many waies § 2. How it may become so to us § 3. Duties of them that visit the sick 1 THere is nothing constant in this world but inconstancy and change of all things We are borne with a condition of dying mortality beginneth with life â—our sicknesse with our health we bring it from the wombe as derived to us from our first parents from the houre of whose transgression death tooke date and in the commencement of sicknesse he began to dye according to the sentence from which he became mortall and now all flesh is grasse and all the goodlinesse thereof as the flower of the feild the grasse withereth and the flower fadeth quickly and certainly though insensibly we perceive it soone withered though we cannot mark by what degrees it changeth so age and infirmity stealeth on 2 The good God as he is severe so is he mercifull neither loosing mercy in his justice nor his justice in his mercy There is nothing which befalleth the elect but it hath some good in it or by it to them accrewing Concerning afflictions David saith it is good for me that I have beene in trouble The very death of the Saints bitter as it is to flesh and blood is mercy to them blessed are the dead which dye in the Lord not only that they rest from their labours but also in that it is to them the death of sinne and passage to eternall life and so our sicknesse is profitable though it be the rod of an almighty Father it shall like Moses rod sometimes in the dreadfull shape of a serpent serve to divide the bitter waves and open us a passage to our eternall rest and so the decayes of these earthly tabernacles shall daily bring us neerer to the repaire of our eternall building in heaven therefore God sendeth sicknesse upon his dearest children whom he could as easily have rescued from death by a translation as he did Enoch and Eliah but hee maketh their sicknesse many waies proâ—itable unto them as by preparing them unto death by repentance and calling upon the Lord by weaning them from the love of this life by teaching them patience and subjection to the hand of God whereas impatience like the sea turneth all that which falleth into it even the otherwise sweet and comfortable blessings of
tabernacle thou art absent from the Lord thus resolved thou shalt bee willing to be dissolved that thou maist live with Christ when Peter saw onely a glimpse of the future glory in Christ's transfiguration on the mount he cryed out it is good for us to be here let us make here three tabernacles he shall easily contemne death whose love and desires are fixed on heaven so travellers regard not dangerous and rough waies that they may come home death is greivous to the lovers of the world 4 Consider the advantages that death shall bring thee it shall quit thee from all sicknesse sorrow feare of dying and all those temporall calamities which flesh and blood now groaneth under instead of earth and these transitory things which at best serve but to necessitie and perish in their use it shall invest thee in the heavenly which excell all present thoughts of man it shall set thee free from sinne and make thee a perfect servant of God The husbandman is content to cast his pretious graine into the earth where hee knoweth it must perish because hee is assured it shall rise againe with encrease and advantage to him Whereas if it dye not it abideth alone how much more should the gaine of heaven make us willing to part with this vaine and evill world therefore Lucius the martyr thanked Vrbicius because bydeath freeing him from wicked maisters he sent him to God the father 5 It is necessary that thou often thinke on death which will we nill we cannot be farre off Easily shall he contemne all secular things who alwaies thinketh he must dye Make death familiar to thee by often thinking of it the tempter once said yee shall not dye at all hee knoweth it were a folly to say so now experience teaching the contrary yet now he doth what he possibly can to put death out of the sinners memory now he perswadeth them they shall not dye these many yeares hereby he first leadeth into security of sinning and at last into despaire by sodain terrours of unexpected death But when God gave Israël Manna he had them gather only as much as would sufâ—ice for a day because hee would have them to expect death that they might not provide for the morrow So taught he us to pray for daily bread to take away care for the morrow Truely the whole life of a wise man should be a meditation of death 6 Because the houre is hidden from thee watch for it God hath not revealed it that wee might expect it every houre And he calleth men of all ages that none might bee secure it is uncertaine where death expecteth thee therefore looke for it every where it is as uncertaine when therefore live every day as if it were thy last When thou goest to sleep reckon as Paâ—uviâ—s woont that thou t hast lived thy time if God give more daies make good use of them he is the most secure and happy possessour of himselfe who without solicitousnesse expecteth the morrow He that saith he hath lived riseth every day to a new gaine It is a chiefe part of deaths bitternesse that it commeth sodainly upon him who promised himselfe a longer life the best way to make it tolerable is to render thy minde to a present expectation of it 7 Patiently subject to that which must be and use thy best skill that it may be well with thee The goodnesse of the Pilot is seene in the storme and the wisdome of a man in the greatest triall Meekly submit to that to which all the world is liable Zerxâ—s is reported to have wept when he saw his numerous army remembring that in a little time they must bee all dead if we could view all the world at once what calamities and destructions should we see Nation against nation kingdome clashing against kingdome some gasping under cruell tormenters hands some swallowing up of the deafe sea some in their birth some breathing their last all ere long peperishing as all the starres greater and lesser in larger and smaler orbs doe finish their courses and set in their appointed times so men of all conditions dye death equally knocketh at the cottage and palace doore sparing no estate it is so appointed appointed all must dye it pittieth not the poore nor spareth the rich it regardeth neither wisdome valour excellency it is folly to have for exemption from its rigid and inevitable law which hath past on all thy fathers before thee thy friends besides thee and shall take away all thou leavest behinde thee Toward death thou goest every moment and canst not stay till thou fall to the earth now too much feare of death depriveth not only of the comfort but also of the fruits of life and vaine struggling under the burden which thou canst neither cast off by any impatience nor comfortably beare without a cheerefull subjection to necessitie maketh it more heavy know thy condition and that thou hast not only many but all men partners therein When they told Anaxagoras of the sentence of death pronounced against him he replied it is the same which nature long since pronounced on them and me 8 Strive for sound â—aith the onely cure for an Israëlite stung with a fiery serpent was looking up to the brazen serpent the morall is that the onely remedy against the sting of death is to look up to Christ the resurrection of life who by dying hath conquered death and the tyrant that had the power of death so that they that naturally feare it believing in Christ looke on it as children use to gaze upon some fierce enemie vanquished and led in chaines to the believer death is but like the Melita viper more feare then danger like Moses serpent terrible but eating up the worlds enchanters serpent and becomming a key to let us into our rest certainly if there be any evill in death it is onely to the evill and unbeliever be thou good and faithfull and it cannot hurt thee it must benefit thee the faithfull thinke of their deaths as of their journeyes end 9 Looke for thy conforts agaist death in Gods Word which onely is infallible the Heathens had many false and unsound comforts against death as assiming it to be but a sleepe or refreshing an haven and refuge to which they desired to come a pleasant journey after which there shall be no more care and discoursing confidently of the â—oules immortality all which served possibly to appease a beguiled soule ready to be cast into hell fire not much unlike those African mothers lullabies who as we noted use to still their weeping babes which they offered to Molocke with songs and kisses that they might not cast à crying sacrifice into those flames no better was Plato his admired discourse of the soules eternity to Cleombrotus which when hee had
read hee cast himselfe into the sea what ever other speculations they had with Adrian Caesars uncertainty what should become of the soule after death there could be no solid and true comfort in it nor can any thing be so infallible as to comfort an afflicted soule in death but that onely which God saith where that pronounceth blessed are the dead their spirits rest in Christ they shall rise againe and see God in the same flesh we may rest assured of those comforts heaven and earth shall passe away but no tittle of Gods Word shall faile 10 Repent and turne unto the Lord quickly deferre not with the foolish virgins untill the bridegroome come it will be too late to knocke when the doore of mercy is shut up remember that profane Esau sought the blessing too late he that hath promised mercy to the penitent hath not promised thee to morrow nor to give thee an heart to repent then Fly youthfull lusts 2 Tim. 2. 22. but as the Angell said to Lot going out of Sodome Genes 19. 22. Hast thee now while thou art in health fly from the wrath to come in death thy slight will be heavy after death impossible the evill thou wilt not now fly thou canst not then those things which thou here committest with delight shall there follow thee with revenge Ever feare least this day may be the last because thou art not sure thou shalt live to morrow how many seeming healthfull how many young and strong hast thou knowne sodainly taken away If thy youth be past in sinne yet amend thy age Happy shall he be who under the stroke of death can with the penitent theefe turne unto the Lord. 11 So ever behave thy selfe towards men that thou needest not be ashamed to live longer and so make thy peace with God that thou maist not feare to dye As dying Ambrose said because we have a good God Knowing the strict examination of Gods justice he saith he trusted in the good God not in any merits of his own though men knew nothing of him whereof he might be ashamed It is an happy temper of the minde wherein we neither wish nor feare to dye The misery of the unbeleever is that being weary of life he is yet afraid of death Only assurance of thy sinnes remission and eternall salvation in Christ can give thee comfort against and in death seeke thy peace with God through him To comfort our selves in our deare friends death the rule is that we sorrow not as men without hope sorrow we may that is humane sorrow hath its place in man and justification in Christs teares at Lazarus grave but it must hold a mean the Saints have mourned for the dead but moderatly and not without the resolution which David expressed 2. Sam. 12. 23. I shall goe to him but he shall not returne to me least too much affection should be mistaken and piety toward the dead misconstrued by unbeleevers for dispaire in God The apathie of Pericles Zenophon and others in their sonnes deaths are not examples for us The meanes to comfort herein is 1 To consider and firmely beleeve that they are but gone before us they are not lost that the living body which thou now sowest with teares shall rise againe with joy a glorified creature that we shall meet in heaven and never part againe and that with greater advantage of love and perfection the most perfect secular amity hath some bitternesse because the best have some imperfection but there shall bee nothing in friends to grieve and discontent each other because no sinne nor imperfection Now if wee are indeed confident of such a resurrection why should we bewaile the dead Why too much if we believe they are not lost Why should wee impatiently take it that they are withdrawne for a time whom we beleeve returning to eternity Why should we immoderatly grieve that our friends goe before us seeing wee must quickly followe them 2 To consider that thou lamentest thine own losse not thy good friends wherein as I said thou shouldst rationally rejoyce rather that thou hadst such a one then mourne that hee is gone to God could the deceased Saint for whom thou grievest but heare and speake from heaven to thee what would he else say then that which our blessed Saviour going to overcome death by dying said to the daughters of Jerusalem weepe not for mee but weepe for your selves They need not ever sorrow who are arrived there where there can be no sorrow 3 To consider what state wee have in any thing secular and for what terme what canst thou so call thine as being certaine thou shalt enjoy it one day more and shal we for want of wisedome to hold these temporall blessings with a loose hand ready to let goe when God will resume make them bitter to us also did our deare friends qualities therefore delight us when they lived with us that their memory might afflict us when they are deceased Telamon and Anaxagoras knew but they had mortall children and shall not wee know that our immortality is not here but in the world to come It is a shame to Christians if their faith come short of others infidelity Heathens could say that we ought not to bewaile that death which immortalitie followeth that the deceased lived a more happy life that the soule is divine and heavenly how unexcusable is it for us to thinke the Saints were made for earth onely and to be imprisoned in these houses of clay for ever They condemned immoderate sorrow for the dead how doe we bewray our carnall dissidence or perverse affections in our excesse when we grieve for them who are incomparably more happy then we They stand on the blessed shore expecting our arrivall from this sea of glasse mingled with â—ire And who can say that those new inhabitants of the heavenly Jerusalem doe not daily looke for us among the happy soules as Joseph and Mary sought Christ at the earthly The old Massilians buried their dead without mourning The Easterne people with musick some bewailed their births and rejoyced in their funerals others crowned their dead as then victorious it is enough to comfort us concerning them did not flesh and blood beare too great a part that God pronounceth them blessed There are three things which are counted sorrowes lenitives Time Reason and Religion the first will prevaile to asswage sorrow even in bruits The first and second in carnall men and why then dost thou immoderately mourne who hast the helpe of religion the comfort of knowledge and Gods oracles to allay thy griefe Why should not rather sanctified reason then time asswage thy sorrow To conclude remember these three things 1. That it is no extraordinary thing to loose a deare frrend and why then should'st