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A41637 Christian directions, shewing how to walk with God all the day long drawn up for the use and benefit of the inhabitants of Sepulchres parish / by Tho. Gouge ... Gouge, Thomas, 1605-1681. 1661 (1661) Wing G1359; ESTC R955 152,866 176

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for_o she_o he_o serve_v two_o apprenticeship_n and_o yet_o all_o seem_v nothing_o to_o he_o for_o the_o love_n he_o have_v to_o she_o and_o therefore_o where_o there_o be_v a_o sincere_a love_n to_o god_n and_o christ_n it_o will_v constrain_v such_o a_o one_o to_o lay_v out_o himself_o to_o the_o uttermost_a for_o they_o to_o put_v himself_o upon_o the_o practice_n of_o such_o duty_n which_o be_v hard_a and_o difficult_a and_o require_v much_o labour_n and_o pain_n by_o this_o then_o try_v and_o examine_v the_o truth_n of_o thy_o love_n unto_o god_n and_o his_o son_n jesus_n christ._n 4_o where_o there_o be_v a_o hearty_a love_n to_o god_n and_o jesus_n christ_n it_o will_v make_v a_o man_n willing_a to_o suffer_v any_o thing_n for_o they_o it_o be_v say_v of_o the_o primitive_a saint_n 34._o that_o out_o of_o their_o abundant_a love_n unto_o the_o lord_n jesus_n christ_n they_o account_v not_o their_o estate_n too_o dear_a for_o he_o but_o take_v joyful_o the_o spoil_n of_o their_o 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thy_o own_o wall_n for_o it_o be_v find_v by_o too_o frequent_a experience_n that_o difference_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v once_o divulge_v be_v more_o hardly_o make_v up_o 3_o when_o any_o difference_n be_v rise_v let_v each_o strive_v who_o shall_v first_o seek_v after_o peace_n and_o reconciliation_n for_o they_o be_v the_o glory_n who_o first_o begin_z i_o have_v read_v that_o there_o be_v sometime_o a_o variance_n between_o two_o famous_a philosopher_n aristippus_n and_o aeschines_n aristippus_n at_o length_n come_v to_o aeschines_n and_o seek_v for_o peace_n and_o reconciliation_n and_o withal_o say_v remember_v though_o i_o be_o the_o elder_a and_o the_o party_n wrong_v yet_o i_o fight_v the_o peace_n true_o say_v aeschines_n and_o for_o this_o i_o will_v ever_o acknowledge_v thou_o the_o worthy_a man_n for_o i_o begin_v the_o strife_n but_o thou_o the_o peace_n but_o how_o many_o of_o we_o come_v short_a of_o aristippus_n though_o a_o heathen_a philosopher_n in_o this_o 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to_o the_o husband_n yet_o the_o wife_n ought_v to_o put_v her_o husband_n in_o mind_n thereof_o if_o he_o forget_v it_o and_o to_o stir_v he_o up_o if_o he_o be_v backward_o 2_o there_o ought_v to_o be_v a_o provident_a care_n in_o husband_n and_o wife_n as_o for_o one_o another_o soul_n so_o for_o one_o another_o good_a name_n the_o husband_n good_a name_n ought_v to_o be_v as_o dear_a to_o the_o wife_n as_o her_o own_o and_o the_o wife_n good_a name_n ought_v to_o be_v as_o dear_a to_o the_o husband_n as_o his_o own_o and_o true_o great_a reason_n there_o be_v that_o party_n so_o near_o knit_v together_o shall_v be_v careful_a of_o one_o another_o good_a name_n because_o a_o name_n be_v more_o precious_a than_o all_o the_o good_n they_o enjoy_v v._o another_o mutual_a duty_n be_v hor._n to_o conceal_v and_o cover_v the_o infirmity_n of_o one_o another_o there_o be_v no_o man_n or_o woman_n without_o their_o infirmity_n it_o will_v be_v therefore_o your_o wisdom_n to_o conceal_v the_o same_o so_o far_o as_o you_o can_v with_o a_o good_a conscience_n ezek._n and_o true_o this_o be_v one_o special_a act_n and_o exercise_v of_o love_n to_o seek_v to_o cover_v and_o conceal_v the_o infirmity_n of_o those_o who_o they_o love_v how_o blame-worthy_a then_o be_v they_o who_o take_v all_o occasion_n to_o spread_v abroad_o one_o another_o infirmity_n and_o many_o time_n belie_v one_o another_o this_o fault_n be_v so_o much_o the_o great_a in_o two_o especial_a respect_n 1_o because_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n know_v more_o of_o one_o another_o infirmity_n and_o therefore_o if_o they_o be_v so_o ill_o mind_v can_v more_o discredit_v and_o defame_v one_o another_o than_o any_o other_o 2_o because_o of_o all_o other_o party_n they_o be_v most_o bind_v to_o conceal_v one_o another_o infirmity_n by_o reason_n of_o their_o near_a union_n chap._n xxiv_o of_o husband_n duty_n to_o their_o wife_n have_v show_v the_o common-mutual_a duty_n appertain_v both_o to_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n i_o come_v now_o to_o the_o special_a and_o particular_a duty_n belong_v to_o each_o of_o they_o several_o and_o first_o of_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n all_o which_o may_v be_v comprise_v under_o this_o one_o word_n love_n 33._o for_o we_o find_v that_o often_o express_o set_v down_o and_o mention_v as_o the_o chief_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n 19_o for_o the_o more_o profitable_a press_n whereof_o i_o shall_v show_v 1_o the_o manner_n how_o it_o ought_v to_o be_v perform_v 2_o the_o particular_n in_o which_o it_o ought_v to_o express_v i._o for_o the_o manner_n the_o apostle_n st._n paul_n set_v it_o down_o in_o two_o phrase_n 1_o as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n husband_n love_v your_o wife_n even_o as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n and_o give_v himself_o for_o it_o 〈◊〉_d the_o note_n of_o comparison_n even_o as_o require_v not_o a_o equality_n as_o if_o it_o be_v possible_a for_o a_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n as_o much_o as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n but_o it_o note_v a_o similitude_n and_o likeness_n and_o imply_v two_o thing_n 1_o that_o you_o must_v endeavour_v to_o come_v as_o near_o christ_n herein_o as_o you_o can_v never_o think_v you_o have_v love_v enough_o because_o you_o can_v never_o love_v so_o much_o as_o christ_n do_v 2_o that_o though_o your_o love_n in_o quantity_n can_v be_v equal_a to_o christ_n yet_o in_o quality_n and_o condition_n it_o ought_v to_o be_v like_o he_o viz._n true_a free_a and_o constant._n 1_o as_o christ_n love_n to_o his_o church_n be_v a_o true_a 25._o real_a love_n which_o he_o express_v by_o give_v himself_o for_o she_o so_o shall_v the_o husband_n love_n to_o his_o wife_n be_v a_o true_a and_o real_a love_n not_o love_v she_o in_o word_n only_o but_o in_o deed_n also_o manifest_v his_o love_n by_o some_o real_a expression_n thereof_o 2_o as_o christ_n love_n to_o his_o church_n be_v a_o free_a love_n for_o his_o love_n arise_v whole_o and_o only_o from_o himself_o there_o be_v nothing_o in_o the_o church_n to_o move_v he_o to_o love_v she_o so_o shall_v the_o husband_n love_n to_o his_o wife_n be_v a_o free_a love_n love_v she_o though_o there_o be_v nothing_o in_o she_o to_o draw_v his_o love_n but_o only_o that_o she_o be_v his_o wife_n 3_o as_o christ_n love_n to_o his_o church_n be_v a_o constant_a and_o continue_a love_n for_o who_o he_o once_o love_v 1._o he_o love_v to_o the_o end_n so_o shall_v the_o husband_n love_n to_o his_o wife_n be_v a_o constant_a and_o continue_a love_n no●_n only_o by_o fit_n for_o a_o while_n but_o constant_o till_o death_n 2_o the_o husband_n ought_v to_o l●ve_v his_o wife_n as_o his_o own_o body_n as_o the_o apostle_n st._n paul_n speak_v 28._o so_o ought_v man_n to_o love_v
be_v see_v to_o carry_v he_o away_o but_o herein_o two_o extreme_n be_v careful_o to_o be_v avoid_v viz._n lenity_n and_o severity_n as_o parent_n ought_v not_o to_o be_v too_o indulgent_a towards_o their_o child_n which_o be_v elies_n fault_n for_o which_o sore_a judgement_n befall_v both_o he_o and_o his_o child_n 4._o so_o neither_o shall_v they_o be_v too_o severe_a in_o correct_v their_o child_n 21._o as_o some_o be_v have_v no_o respect_n either_o to_o the_o fault_n 71._o age_n or_o disposition_n of_o their_o child_n therefore_o the_o apostle_n give_v this_o dehortation_n unto_o parent_n not_o to_o provoke_v their_o child_n unto_o wrath_n vi_o another_o duty_n be_v to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n in_o some_o honest_a call_v it_o be_v the_o ordinary_a mean_n as_o to_o prevent_v idleness_n which_o be_v the_o bane_n of_o youth_n so_o to_o enable_v they_o to_o live_v in_o the_o world_n and_o to_o be_v serviceable_a to_o the_o kingdom_n wherein_o they_o live_v in_o the_o choice_n of_o a_o call_v respect_n shall_v be_v have_v as_o to_o the_o child_n ability_n and_o fitness_n so_o to_o their_o disposition_n and_o inclination_n careful_o observe_v to_o what_o calling_n they_o be_v most_o dispose_v vii_o to_o provide_v fit_a match_n and_o marriage_n for_o their_o child_n it_o be_v the_o mean_v the_o lord_n have_v sanctify_v for_o the_o keep_v their_o body_n chaste_a and_o undefiled_a this_o the_o lord_n give_v in_o commandment_n to_o his_o people_n of_o old_a by_o his_o prophet_n jeremy_n 6._o say_v take_v wife_n to_o your_o son_n and_o give_v your_o daughter_n to_o husband_n in_o the_o choice_n of_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n the_o parent_n ought_v to_o have_v great_a respect_n to_o piety_n and_o prudence_n th●n_v to_o wealth_n and_o riches_n for_o thereby_o shall_v they_o procure_v much_o happiness_n to_o their_o child_n in_o their_o marriage_n chap._n xxvii_o of_o child_n duty_n have_v show_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n towards_o their_o child_n i_o come_v now_o 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