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A47324 The Christian sufferer supported, or, A discourse concerning the grounds of Christian fortitude shewing at once that the sufferings of good men are not inconsistent with God's special providence : as also the several supports which our religion affords them under their sufferings, and particularly against the fear of a violent death / by Richard Kidder ... Kidder, Richard, 1633-1703. 1680 (1680) Wing K398; ESTC R656 85,271 258

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yet I shall shew the reasonableness of it And to that purpose shall commend to your serious consideration the following particulars First Let us consider whose Law this is and we shall find that the Author of the Law does greatly recommend it to us How hard soever it may otherwise seem yet that it is the command of our Lord Jesus Christ that consideration is of great moment to reconcile us to it We ought not to think any thing unreasonable or hard which our Blessed Lord and dear Redeemer lays upon us For we are well assured of his great love and affection towards us He hath given us great proof that he loved us when he was content for our sakes not only to become a man but to die a shameful and painful death to bring us unto God Let us stay a while upon this consideration and meditate upon the unheard-of love of our Lord Jesus and we shall soon see great cause to think him a good Master even then when he does oblige us to die for his sake If our hearts be cold and chill if we find them dampt and sinking let us then meditate of our Lords love and that will be of great use to inflame them and give them spirit Does Jesus say that we must not fear them that kill the body that we must hate our own lives if we will be his Disciples Good is that word of our Dearest Lord will the pious Soul say Death shall be welcome when ever it comes and it will be not only our duty to die when our Lord would have us but our honour and great Priviledge to be thought worthy to die for him who was contented to die for us Alas this is but very little to what our Lord and Master hath done for us He was from everlasting the eternal Son of the Father He was happy and glorious and yet for our sakes he was content to stoop from Heaven to Earth from the happiness and glories above to the pain and contempt of this lower world He that was the brightness of his Fathers glory was willing to be eclipsed and obscured with our flesh and with our infirmities He that upheld all things by the word of his power was yet contented to be inclosed in the Womb of a Virgin to be wrapt up in swadling cloaths to lie in a Stable to be subject to his Creatures to be tempted by the Devil to be hungred and thirsty to be buffeted and hanged on a Tree that he might save lost Mankind He was at these pains for the helpless and for sinners for Caitiffs and Rebels for them who had dishonoured his Father and ruined themselves Here is a love without a Parallel a love that passeth knowledge a love that is stronger than death and that surpasseth the love of women Here are all the dimensions of love here is height and depth a length and breadth Jesus did that for his Enemies which rarely hath been done for the greatest Friends and Benefactors Greater love than this hath no man that he should lay down his life for his Friend This is the highest flight of friendship and we have but few examples of it Our Lords kindness rose higher by far He died for the ungodly for the weak and them that were without all hope Who can seriously think of this and not find himself constrained by the ove of Jesus to be willing to die for him It is an easie task that lies upon us to love him that hath first loved us and to die for him that died for us This is very reasonable and a most gentle command to lay down our life for him who first laid down his for us We see some Servants will hazard their lives for the sake of their Masters Loyal Subjects will not stick to shed their bloud in defence of their King and Country There are those would dare to die for a good man or for a faithful friend My Lord must needs be dearer to me than any of my Relatives or my fellow Creatures I must be very ungrateful if I forget his love But that which still does farther recommend this Law to us is this That our Saviour commands no more than what he himself did He would we should die in bearing witness to the truth It is fit we should do it and he led us the way He hath recommended this Precept to us not only by his Doctrine but by his Example also Indeed our Lord was silent when he was reproached and inconsistently accused but he was not so when he was adjured by the High Priest to tell him whether he were the Christ Mat. 26.63 64. the Son of God or not He witnessed a good Confession before Pontius Pilate and tells him To this end was I born Joh. 18.17 and for this cause came I into the world that I should bear witness unto the truth Our Lord sealed the truth with his own bloud and does not put his Followers upon that which he declined himself This Example of our Lord does give great force to his Law And it is very reasonable we should do what the great Captain of our Salvation hath done Every where we judge this very reasonable The Souldier thinks himself obliged to shew courage when he sees his General expose himself to the thickest of the danger And the Servant thinks himself well dealt with when his Master commands no more of him than what he is willing to do himself The Disciple is not above his Master nor the Servant above his Lord. That is not thought an hard Law which the Law-giver suffers himself to be concluded by 2. Let us consider the command it self and that is that we should rather part with this life than to deny our Lord and forfeit our hopes of a better life This may at first sight seem a very hard saying but when we draw near and consider it well we shall find it a very reasonable Law and that it is no objection against what our Lord hath said when he tells us that his yoke is easie and his burden light The truth is we disquiet our selves in vain and as our happiness is but phantastick and imaginary so is a great part of our misery also We make a false judgment of things and set a very unequal rate and price upon them And this we commonly do in the account we make of life and death For as we esteem of this life at a greater rate than we ought so we judge death to be a greater evil than indeed it is I desire that you would under this general head consider well the following particulars And 1. That barely to live is not in it self a thing of any vast moment It is no high Prerogative and unvaluable peculiar For the smallest Mite or Ante the vilest Worm or Serpent live as well as we When Marcellinus was sick all that were about him flattered him and said that which they thought would please him most Every man
vindicate his Religion from those aspersions that are cast upon it No man does more effectually refute the slanders against Religion than he that dies for it chearfully as for example This course confirms the truth of Religion There are those who would insinuate that Religion is a State-Engine contrived for worldly ends and for the better government of men That Heaven and Hell are no realities but contrived for the interest of humane Societies He that is willing to part with his life in defence of his Religion does destroy this insinuation and makes it evident that his Religion does not serve a worldly interest and that Heaven and Hell are great realities There are others that insinuate that Religion is an ineffectual Principle And if you were to judge of Religion by the Lives as well as Doctrines of some men you would be apt to think it a very dull and ineffectual Principle that were destitute of all power to enable men to do what it does command But then the man that forsakes this world that despises all its glories and continues undaunted under all its threats and frowns He that dares to be good whatever he suffer on that behalf such a man as this makes it appear that his Religion is a very powerful Principle and that it is accompanied with a Divine Assistance Again They that suffer for Religion do recommend the excellency and inward glories of Religion They discover the beauties of it And that they do when they give so great a proof of what it commends to us viz. A fervent love of God a contempt of the World a profound Meekness Patience and Charity Justice and Truth These are those things which shine in these examples and do speak aloud the perfections of that Religion which does produce them CHAP. VII I Come now to lay before you some other helps and assistances that the afflicted and persecuted Christian is provided with And in the next place I desire you to consider The Intercession of the Son of God And this is an unspeakable comfort and support where it is duly considered And that so it is we may learn from what we read of St. Stephen You know very well that he was accused and though he made his defence yet he was so far from appeasing his Enemies thereby that they were more enraged We read that they were cut to the heart Acts 7.54 55 56. and they gnashed on him with their teeth But though his Enemies were enraged and disturbed yet this holy man continues calm and quiet And what was it that kept him so We read what it was in these words But he being full of the Holy Ghost looked up stedfastly into heaven and saw the glory of God and Jesus standing on the right hand of God Here was that which kept him undisturbed when his Enemies were transported with fury Hence he had his strength and his undauntedness He says himself Behold I see the Heavens opened and the Son of man standing on the right hand of God And now though his Enemies gnash on him with their teeth though they cry out with a loud voice though they stop their ears and run upon him with one accord and cast him out of the City and stone him Yet the holy man is not for all this discomposed nor so far disturbed but that he was able to continue to call upon God and his blessed Saviour and to pray for his Enemies that put him to death And after this it is not said that he was killed or stoned that he was murdered or the like but that he fell asleep Ver. 60. After this gentle manner is this Saints death expressed But that which made his death so easie to him was that as he was full of the Holy Ghost so he saw Jesus at the right hand of God And we shall find that this sight of Jesus at Gods right hand will be of great moment towards our support under the greatest and sharpest miseries of this life Rom. 8.33 34. Who shall lay any thing to the charge of Gods Elect says St. Paul It is God that Justifieth Who is he that condemneth It is Christ that died But we have greater comfort than this and therefore he goes on Yea rather that is risen again nor does the Apostle stay here neither who is even at the right hand of God he goes farther still who also maketh intercession for us This is a great height indeed we are now very secure from danger since Jesus did not only die for our sins and rise again for our Justification but after this went into Heaven and is there concerned on our behalf Well might the Apostle now Triumphingly go on and he does so when he says Ver. 35 36 37 38 39. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ Shall tribulation or distress or persecution or famine or nakedness or peril or Sword as it is written for thy sake we are killed all the day long we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter nay in all these things we are more than Conquerours through him that loved us For I am perswaded that neither death nor life nor Angels nor Principalities nor Powers nor things present nor things to come nor height nor depth nor any other Creature shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. But for the better proceeding in this comfortable Argument of Christs interceding for us in Heaven I shall First Shew where Christ now is viz. in Heaven at Gods right hand Secondly I shall shew you how far he is there concerned on our behalf Thirdly I shall shew you how this tends towards our support and comfort under the troubles of this life 1. I shall shew where Christ is viz. in Heaven He was contented for our sakes to be born of a Woman to lie in a Manager to be tempted in a Wilderness to die upon a Cross and to be buried in a Sepulchre But thanks be to God he that was born ever lives and he that died and was buried was raised from the dead and ascended into heaven Heb. 1.3 and is sate down on the right hand of the Majesty on high Chap. 2.9 crowned with glory and honour Chap. 7.26 Eph. 5.10 Chap. 1.20 21. Made higher than the Heavens He is ascended up far above all Heavens Far above all Principality and Power and Might and Dominion and every name that is named not only in this world but that which is to come Phil. 2.9 God hath highly exalted and given him a Name which is above every name 1 Pet. 3.22 He is gone into Heaven and is at the right hand of God Angels and Authorities and Powers being made subject unto him It cannot be denied but the Air and the Clouds are called by the name of heaven and consequently when Christ was in them he might be said to have been in Heaven But certain it is that the expressions
is easie and a burden that is light We are called upon to accept our own happiness Courted to embrace all that bliss which we in vain look for from the World and from our Sins Our Lord and our interest bid us come Our Lord who laid down his life for us and who hath highly deserved of us he invites us and assures us of rest and peace and that his yoak is easie and his burden light And as the Scriptures do invite and encourage Sinners to enter themselves under our Lord Jesus and to become his sincere Followers and Disciples as they do invite us to the profession and practice of the Laws of God so they do greatly encourage us by the excellent promises which they contain to continue in that profession The comforts of Religion are unspeakably great and no man is provided for as the Religious is under all events of things Do we suffer for the sake of the Truth For our comfort it is written Mat. 5 1● Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness sake For theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven Are we reproached and reviled nick-named and flouted at For our comfort it is written 1 Pet. 4.14 If ye be reproached for the name of Christ happy are ye for the spirit of glory and of God resteth upon you Again Mat. 5.11 12. Blessed are you when men shall revile you c. Rejoyce and be exceeding glad for great is your reward in heaven Are we rifled and spoiled of our Goods For our comfort it is written Mar. 9.29 30. There is no man that hath left House or Brethren or Sisters or Father or Mother or Wife or Children or Lands for my sake and the Gospels but he shall receive an hundred-fold in this time and in the world to come life everlasting Are we threatned with death To our unspeakable comfort it is written Mat. 10.39 He that loseth his life for my sake shall find it Jam. 1.12 Again Blessed is the man that endureth temptation for when he is tried he shall receive the Crown of life which the Lord hath promised to them that love him Rev. 14.13 Again And I heard a voice from heaven saying unto me Write blessed are the dead which die in the Lord and surely they that die for him cannot then be excluded from this blessing from henceforth Yea saith the Spirit that they may rest from their labours Psal 116.15 and their works do follow them And Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of the Saints And if the Scripture afford us so great comfort under persecutions and against the fear of death it does not fail to do it under our other troubles and lighter afflictions We need not fear the want of what is needful when we have that Promise Heb. 13.5 I will never leave thee nor forsake thee We shall not need distract our selves about what we shall eat and drink and wherewith we shall be cloathed when it is said by truth it self Mat. 6.33 that all these things shall be added unto us We have no cause to disquiet our selves with the thoughts of what we shall do when we come to a great trial and appear before our potent Enemies Our Lord hath said Take no thought how or what ye shall speak Mat. 10.19 for it shall be given you in that same hour what ye shall speak And we are elsewhere assured of grace to help in the time of need Heb. 4.16 The Holy Scriptures afford comfort under every affliction The Widows and the Fatherless are assured that a Father of the Fatherless Psal 68.5 and a Judge of the Widows is God in his holy habitation They that are oppressed here find comfort Psal 9.9 The Lord also will be a refuge for the oppressed a refuge in times of trouble Here the poor are refreshed There is no want to them that fear him Psal 34.9 10. The young Lions do lack and suffer hunger But they that seek the Lord shall not want any good thing The sick receive their comforts also from the holy Scriptures Psal 41.3 hence they are furnished with suitable Meditations with pious Ejaculations and Prayers We are farther assured that all things work together for good to them that love God Rom. 8.28 And how comfortable a consideration is this to those that meet with such variety of things as do entertain us in this present world For now we have but one Care about us and that is to see that we do indeed above all things love God If we do this we may discharge our other Cares and for ever send away our fears and jealousies There will be nothing can do us any hurt nay more than that nothing can possibly befal us but it will do us good and advance us fairly towards our great End and Happiness If our hearts be inflamed with the love of God this world will make but vain attempts upon us Whatever storm or shock may happen to us they will be but like those Winds that leave the Trees which they shake the more firmly settled and rooted If it be thus with us we are safe and shall not need to fear the greatest evils that can befal us in this present life Poverty and Sickness Pain and Oppression and the other miseries of life will leave us better than they found us They will serve to rid us of our remaining folly and wantonness To call us off from the Creature to the Creator They will but take from us our dross and filth and render us more prepared and fitted for our Masters use Nay Death it self which we commonly think the greatest evil will do us a friendly office when it shall take us from this Valley of tears and shadow of death and translate us to those joys and pleasures that are at Gods right hand for evermore For death it self is a great blessing to a good man And if it be at any time otherwise it is our sin that hath rendred death a formidable evil Death is indeed a great Tyrant but it is so to them only that are unfit and unwilling to die who are therefore haled to it against their wills But then for those that are fit and willing to die death is a faithful Servant that does but carry them whither they greatly desire to go CHAP. IX IT remains now that we consider what hath been said before and make use of the helps which God hath been pleased to provide us and that we rather choose to suffer than to sin It is no great matter what we lose if we do not wrong our Consciences and displease our God Take courage then and dare to be good whatever it cost thee and thou wilt soon find that greater is he that is with thee than he that is against thee Suppose thou suffer death it self and that a violent and a shameful one yet wilt thou not want a present assistance