the_o parent_n in_o suffer_v of_o they_o to_o grow_v too_o old_a or_o stubborn_a before_o they_o break_v they_o of_o their_o obstinacy_n i_o must_v néeder_n in_o this_o place_n mention_n unto_o you_o a_o youth_n of_o fifterne_n or_o sixteen_o year_n of_o age_n of_o a_o ready_a wit_n but_o otherwise_o vicious_a and_o lewd_a of_o life_n which_o happen_v through_o the_o fault_n of_o the_o father_n and_o mother_n who_o be_v so_o far_o from_o correct_v he_o that_o they_o dare_v not_o so_o much_o as_o threaten_v he_o nor_o say_v any_o word_n to_o he_o that_o may_v displease_v he_o and_o i_o remember_v when_o he_o be_v five_o or_o fire_n year_n old_a if_o any_o tell_v they_o that_o they_o must_v rebuke_v he_o for_o some_o fault_n he_o have_v do_v they_o will_v excuse_v he_o by_o and_o by_o say_v he_o be_v not_o yet_o of_o age_n to_o know_v his_o fault_n and_o be_v seven_o or_o eight_o year_n old_a they_o will_v nover_v beat_v he_o nor_o threaten_v he_o lest_o through_o some_o great_a fear_n his_o blood_n shall_v be_v chase_n or_o inflame_v whereby_o he_o may_v be_v cast_v into_o a_o ague_n no_o at_o ten_o year_n old_a they_o think_v not_o good_a to_o trouble_v nor_o molest_v he_o allege_v that_o stripe_n and_o threat_n will_v too_o much_o pull_v down_o his_o courage_n and_o take_v from_o he_o his_o stout_a and_o proud_a stomach_n and_o though_o now_o for_o his_o haughty_a condition_n he_o be_v hate_v of_o all_o the_o whole_a city_n yet_o they_o leave_v not_o to_o excuse_v he_o still_o say_v he_o must_v first_o grow_v and_o then_o after_o be_v wise_a and_o that_o within_o few_o day_n they_o will_v send_v he_o to_o school_v where_o he_o shall_v learn_v wit_n but_o now_o many_o a_o one_o look_n when_o he_o shall_v be_v of_o age_n to_o he_o hang_v oâ—â—_n the_o gallows_n to_o hear_v he_o before_o the_o people_n to_o lay_v the_o fault_n upon_o his_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o just_o curse_v their_o foolish_a lone_n and_o shameful_a cocker_a attempt_v as_o one_o do_v once_o to_o tear_v their_o nose_n and_o their_o ear_n of_o with_o his_o tooth_n chap._n xix_o ¶_o if_o a_o child_n be_v of_o never_o so_o good_a a_o wit_n yet_o for_o want_v of_o good_a bring_v up_o grow_v to_o be_v over-bad_a and_o base_a in_o condition_n and_o this_o oftentimes_o fall_v out_o by_o the_o cocker_a of_o their_o parent_n by_o this_o example_n in_o the_o former_a chapter_n recite_v it_o be_v verify_v that_o a_o child_n though_o of_o nover_n so_o good_a a_o wit_n yet_o be_v ill_o bring_v up_o prove_v too_o bad_a but_o this_o great_a tocker_a and_o compassion_n be_v proper_a to_o the_o mother_n who_o common_o bring_v up_o her_o child_n with_o more_o tender_a affection_n and_o discretion_n and_o according_a to_o the_o old_a say_n it_o be_v a_o hard_a matter_n for_o a_o mother_n to_o be_v fond_a of_o her_o child_n and_o wise_a both_o together_o but_o yet_o the_o right_a love_n be_v to_o beat_v and_o correct_v they_o when_o they_o shall_v deserve_v it_o for_o certain_o the_o rod_n do_v not_o tessen_v the_o mother_n love_n but_o rather_o increase_v it_o for_o if_o the_o excess_n of_o love_n be_v to_o be_v blame_v in_o the_o mother_n much_o more_o be_v it_o to_o be_v reprove_v in_o the_o father_n whese_fw-mi part_v it_o be_v into_fw-mi examine_v and_o correct_v his_o child_n fault_n assure_v himself_o the_o only_a way_n to_o spoil_v they_o be_v to_o be_v too_o much_o fond_a and_o tender_a over_o they_o but_o now_o i_o must_v tell_v you_o which_o be_v these_o father_n that_o i_o call_v more_o than_o father_n in_o my_o opinion_n they_o be_v those_o which_o be_v too_o cruel_a to_o their_o child_n and_o beat_v they_o continual_o like_o slave_n for_o the_o least_o fault_n in_o the_o world_n true_o those_o father_n be_v to_o be_v mislike_v of_o all_o man_n for_o that_o without_o any_o discretion_n they_o measure_v their_o child_n by_o themselves_o and_o require_v at_o their_o hand_n a_o matter_n impossible_a which_o be_v to_o have_v they_o be_v old_a in_o their_o youth_n not_o suffer_v they_o to_o enjoy_v that_o liberty_n which_o be_v allow_v to_o their_o age_n and_o in_o my_o mind_n they_o descrue_v no_o other_o name_n then_o of_o schoolmaster_n for_o that_o they_o can_v manner_n their_o child_n well_o unless_o they_o have_v a_o rod_n in_o their_o hand_n for_o if_o they_o be_v right_a father_n they_o will_v be_v content_a that_o their_o child_n shall_v learn_v of_o they_o nothing_o else_o but_o to_o refrain_v from_o do_v ill_a and_o to_o use_v to_o do_v that_o which_o be_v good_a and_o honest_a which_o a_o child_n be_v bring_v too_o rather_o by_o love_n then_o by_o force_n but_o the_o authority_n which_o some_o un-wise_a father_n take_v upon_o they_o be_v so_o great_a that_o without_o respect_v age_n time_n or_o place_n they_o will_v heepe_n their_o child_n under_o by_o force_n and_o make_v they_o do_v every_o thing_n contrary_a to_o nature_n yea_o even_o to_o wear_v their_o apparel_n after_o the_o fashion_n of_o the_o good_a man_n of_o the_o time_n past_a in_o this_o they_o do_v amiss_o and_o hereby_o they_o make_v their_o child_n not_o to_o love_v they_o harse_o and_o to_o obey_v they_o rather_o for_o fear_v then_o affection_n and_o beside_o they_o consider_v not_o that_o the_o beat_n without_o measure_n and_o the_o keep_v they_o in_o continual_a fear_n be_v the_o cause_n that_o a_o man_n can_v judge_v to_o what_o manner_n of_o life_n they_o be_v by_o nature_n incline_v moreover_o it_o dull_v their_o wit_n and_o repress_v their_o natural_a strength_n in_o such_o sort_n that_o their_o be_v no_o lively_a spirit_n leave_v in_o they_o and_o come_v in_o any_o company_n they_o know_v neither_o which_z way_n to_o look_v nor_o what_o to_o do_v but_o stand_v like_o simple_a idiot_n there_o i_o give_v this_o counsel_n unto_o all_o parent_n to_o leave_v their_o butchery_n beat_v and_o consider_v rather_o that_o for_o lark_n of_o year_n their_o child_n can_v have_v perfect_a understanding_n and_o experience_n in_o thing_n whereby_o they_o be_v to_o be_v bear_v withal_o when_o they_o do_v amiss_o chap._n xx._n ¶_o of_o the_o great_a commendation_n of_o such_o parent_n as_o keep_v their_o child_n in_o awe_n while_o they_o be_v young_a i_o like_o those_o father_n well_o that_o can_v keep_v their_o child_n in_o awe_n only_o with_o shake_v their_o head_n at_o they_o or_o use_v some_o such_o like_a sign_n and_o can_v only_o with_o a_o word_n correct_v they_o and_o make_v they_o ashamed_a of_o their_o fault_n yet_o i_o be_o persuade_v that_o there_o be_v few_o father_n that_o know_v how_o to_o keep_v the_o mean_a but_o they_o will_v orth_o be_v too_o rough_a or_o too_o gentle_a to_o their_o child_n whereof_o as_o the_o one_o drive_v they_o to_o desperatenes_n so_o the_o other_o bring_v they_o to_o wantonness_n we_o must_v think_v that_o a_o child_n have_v give_v unto_o he_o a_o father_n and_o a_o mother_n to_o the_o end_n that_o of_o the_o wisdom_n of_o the_o one_o and_o the_o love_n of_o the_o other_o that_o mean_v i_o speak_v of_o may_v be_v make_v and_o that_o the_o severity_n of_o the_o father_n may_v be_v somewhat_o mitigate_v by_o the_o levity_n of_o the_o mother_n now_o this_o call_v to_o mind_v a_o other_o disagréement_n between_o the_o father_n and_o the_o child_n which_o be_v the_o partial_a love_n of_o the_o father_n towards_o his_o child_n for_o in_o my_o mind_n it_o be_v a_o great_a fault_n that_o he_o shall_v love_v one_o more_o than_o a_o other_o and_o that_o all_o be_v of_o his_o flesh_n and_o blood_n he_o shall_v cast_v a_o merry_a countenance_n upon_o some_o of_o they_o and_o a_o angry_a look_n upon_o other_o some_o yet_o this_o be_v the_o nature_n of_o man_n that_o a_o father_n lon_v not_o all_o his_o child_n alike_o and_o yet_o he_o who_o he_o love_v least_o can_v just_o complain_v of_o he_o for_o the_o in-equality_n of_o love_n be_v permit_v to_o the_o father_n affection_n a_o father_n that_o be_v a_o husbandman_n have_v one_o son_n a_o scholar_n a_o other_o a_o merchant_n and_o a_o other_o a_o husbandman_n of_o those_o three_o it_o be_v a_o great_a chance_n but_o he_o will_v love_v the_o husbandman_n best_o for_o he_o see_v he_o like_o himself_o in_o life_n and_o manner_n wherein_o his_o other_o son_n in_o duty_n must_v be_v content_a for_o by_o nature_n we_o be_v lead_v to_o like_v those_o thing_n which_o resemble_v we_o most_o oh_o how_o hard_o a_o thing_n it_o be_v for_o the_o father_n after_o partial_a love_n be_v once_o enter_v into_o his_o hart_n to_o give_v justice_n indifferent_o the_o great_a be_v the_o wisdom_n of_o the_o father_n who_o prefer_v the_o desert_n of_o his_o child_n before_o his_o own_o
master_n and_o servant_n must_v both_o think_v that_o some_o fault_n must_v be_v bear_v withal_o on_o both_o side_n which_o consideration_n the_o servant_n not_o only_o aught_o to_o have_v remember_v that_o it_o be_v his_o duty_n to_o submit_v himself_o to_o the_o will_n and_o pleasure_n of_o his_o master_n but_o the_o master_n much_o more_o know_v that_o servant_n be_v for_o the_o most_o part_n of_o base_a condition_n and_o natural_o incline_v to_o do_v ill_a will_v not_o have_v that_o fidelity_n diligence_n and_o affection_n towards_o he_o as_o he_o will_v have_v towards_o any_o prince_n that_o he_o shall_v serve_v and_o consider_v that_o it_o be_v better_o for_o he_o to_o wink_v at_o some_o fault_n in_o his_o servant_n then_o to_o disquiet_v himself_o in_o go_v about_o to_o reform_v they_o chap._n xxv_o ¶_o of_o the_o great_a abuse_n of_o some_o servant_n towards_o their_o master_n which_o be_v rather_o for_o want_v of_o wit_n then_o for_o any_o other_o cause_n there_o be_v some_o servant_n i_o know_v who_o in_o their_o master_n presence_n look_v as_o though_o butter_n will_v not_o melt_v in_o their_o mouth_n but_o out_o of_o their_o sight_n they_o will_v play_v their_o part_n kind_o yea_o and_o will_v not_o stick_v to_o make_v moe_n at_o their_o master_n behind_o his_o back_n â—nt_v the_o master_n must_v not_o in_o any_o wise_a suffer_v his_o servant_n to_o commit_v either_o in_o word_n or_o deed_n any_o fault_n whereby_o god_n himself_o or_o his_o neighbour_n may_v be_v dishonour_v give_v they_o to_o understand_v that_o he_o will_v entertain_v no_o naughtynesse_n in_o his_o house_n but_o that_o he_o hate_v it_o mostal_o whereby_o though_o he_o be_v not_o able_a to_o root_v out_o their_o wickedness_n yet_o at_o least_o be_v will_v do_v his_o best_a endeauâ—our_n to_o make_v thou_o honest_a and_o to_o fear_v god_n touch_v some_o other_o natural_a imperfection_n of_o small_a importance_n as_o to_o be_v rude_a soolish_a undiscreete_a crasty_a forgetful_a quarelon_n spiteful_a negligent_a and_o such_o like_a they_o ought_v to_o be_v bear_v withal_o if_o they_o can_v be_v reclaim_v from_o they_o though_o for_o my_o part_n i_o think_v such_o servant_n better_o lose_v then_o find_v and_o the_o house_n itâ—_n worse_o that_o they_o be_v in_o yet_o i_o know_v some_o honest_a gentleman_n who_o so_o long_o as_o their_o seruavant_n be_v trusty_a and_o faithful_a care_v not_o though_o they_o be_v soolt_n or_o â—esters_n to_o make_v they_o merry_a there_o be_v likewise_o some_o master_n who_o when_o their_o servant_n take_v their_o pleasure_n of_o they_o with_o mock_n and_o scoff_n rather_o take_v pleasure_n in_o it_o then_o seem_v angry_a with_o they_o â—ike_o as_o he_o who_o call_v his_o servant_n king_n of_o fool_n who_o answer_v i_o will_v to_o bed_n i_o be_v king_n of_o soole_n i_o will_v net_n doubt_v then_o but_o i_o shall_v bear_v rule_n ever_o he_o which_o be_v better_o than_o myself_o this_o servant_n be_v without_o doubt_n profitable_a unto_o he_o or_o else_o be_v will_v not_o have_v take_v this_o scoff_n at_o his_o band_n but_o for_o all_o that_o all_o master_n be_v not_o so_o make_v mind_v to_o be_v serve_v with_o such_o man_n nor_o all_o servant_n so_o happy_a to_o meet_v with_o such_o master_n therefore_o i_o will_v set_v down_o some_o such_o order_n that_o the_o master_n and_o the_o servant_n may_v live_v and_o continue_v long_a time_n quiet_o together_o chap._n xxvi_o ¶_o how_o a_o servant_n may_v live_v quiet_o with_o his_o master_n if_o he_o be_v of_o any_o reasonable_a government_n first_o of_o all_o i_o think_v it_o necessary_a that_o be_v which_o do_v desire_n to_o be_v well_o serve_v require_v in_o his_o servant_n three_o special_a thing_n that_o be_v to_o say_v love_n loyalty_n and_o sufficiency_n &_o such_o a_o one_o that_o a_o master_n shall_v east_o come_v by_o which_o will_v show_v himself_o to_o be_v a_o good_a and_o loo_v master_n follow_v the_o commandment_n of_o the_o wise_a man_n love_v he_o who_o thou_o noutishe_v and_o he_o shall_v be_v force_v to_o love_v thou_o again_o if_o master_n will_v but_o think_v that_o servant_n be_v man_n and_o their_o humble_a friend_n they_o shall_v win_v their_o good_a will_n and_o encourage_v they_o to_o do_v diligent_a service_n but_o withal_o i_o hold_v well_o that_o the_o master_n keep_v his_o state_n and_o degree_n to_o love_v they_o well_o but_o not_o to_o embrace_v they_o for_o be_v haile-fellow_n well_o meet_v with_o his_o servant_n he_o shall_v show_v himself_o too_o low_a mindrd_n and_o not_o fit_a to_o command_v and_o to_o be_v as_o it_o be_v a_o servant_n with_o servant_n which_o will_v redound_v to_o his_o reproach_n beside_o he_o shall_v soon_o perceius_fw-la that_o too_o much_o familyarity_n will_v breed_v contempt_n and_o therefore_o man_n of_o judgement_n will_v behane_v themselves_o with_o their_o servant_n in_o such_o fort_n that_o they_o will_v nerth_o make_v they_o too_o sawey_a by_o overmuch_o familiarity_n nor_o to_o fearful_a by_o overmuch_o severity_n for_o in_o no_o wise_a let_v a_o master_n be_v terrible_a to_o his_o servant_n lest_o in_o forw_v still_o upon_o he_o he_o make_v he_o think_v that_o neither_o he_o love_v he_o nor_o like_v of_o his_o service_n which_o be_v the_o way_n quiterd_v discoâ—â—rage_v he_o and_o yet_o in_o give_v good_a countenance_n to_o his_o servant_n be_v must_v be_v wary_a to_o observe_v fit_a time_n and_o place_n for_o as_o it_o beform_v the_o master_n abroad_o in_o the_o presence_n of_o stranger_n to_o cast_v a_o grave_n and_o sad_a look_n upon_o vis_fw-la servant_n so_o it_o be_v his_o part_n be_v at_o home_n in_o his_o own_o house_n to_o look_v more_o pleasant_o upon_o they_o and_o to_o speak_v more_o familiar_o unte_fw-mi they_o which_o be_v thing_n they_o love_v of_o life_n and_o be_v thereby_o encourage_v to_o do_v he_o good_a service_n chap._n xxvii_o ¶_o how_o the_o master_n with_o good_a persuasion_n may_v govern_v his_o servant_n and_o in_o the_o obstinacy_n of_o his_o servant_n what_o will_v ensue_v unto_o he_o you_o see_v here_o then_o that_o a_o master_n may_v with_o his_o honour_n show_v courtesy_n to_o his_o seruamt_n and_o thereby_o get_v their_o gadwil_n and_o love_n pet_n must_v be_v not_o persuade_v himself_o that_o his_o servant_n ought_v to_o discharge_v he_o of_o all_o his_o business_n but_o that_o he_o must_v take_v part_n with_o they_o &_o consider_v that_o it_o be_v no_o east_n matter_n to_o govern_v servant_n and_o that_o the_o great_a number_n be_v shall_v have_v the_o great_a will_v be_v his_o trouble_n to_o guide_v they_o for_o there_o fall_v out_o many_o household_n quarrel_n and_o contention_n where_o there_o be_v many_o servant_n he_o must_v also_o think_v that_o there_o be_v no_o servant_n so_o well_o frame_v to_o the_o service_n of_o other_o master_n but_o that_o he_o must_v be_v fain_o to_o receive_v new_a law_n of_o his_o new_a lord_n and_o therefore_o he_o must_v not_o think_v that_o at_o the_o first_o bash_v his_o servant_n be_v make_v to_o his_o bow_n but_o he_o must_v leisurely_o and_o patient_o let_v he_o understand_v his_o mind_n &_o to_o speak_v frae_o unto_o he_o as_o well_o to_o make_v he_o leave_v his_o old_a fashion_n which_o perchance_o be_v like_v not_o as_o to_o frame_v he_o to_o his_o own_o fancy_n and_o if_o i_o be_v to_o take_v a_o serunat_a i_o will_v rather_o choose_v a_o freshwater_n sowler_n which_o never_o have_v serve_v they_o one_o accustom_v of_o long_a time_n to_o service_n for_o those_o which_o have_v serve_v in_o many_o house_n have_v for_o the_o most_o part_n get_v the_o use_n of_o some_o ill_a quality_n which_o they_o will_v bare_o be_v bring_v to_o leave_v but_o one_o that_o be_v but_o raw_a in_o service_n show_v himself_o more_o tractable_a more_o gentle_a and_o more_o fit_a for_o all_o manner_n of_o service_n &_o the_o master_n common_o will_v be_v the_o better_o please_v with_o his_o goodwill_n then_o with_o the_o other_o skill_n for_o it_o 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instruct_v their_o child_n in_o learning_n for_o as_o the_o poor_a be_v drive_v to_o study_v by_o necessity_n so_o the_o rich_a be_v hinder_v from_o it_o by_o superfluity_n and_o they_o consider_v not_o until_o it_o be_v too_o late_a that_o learning_n be_v more_o necessary_a for_o rich_a man_n then_o for_o poor_a for_o the_o rich_a have_v more_o deal_n in_o the_o world_n and_o have_v â—â—ore_o need_n of_o wit_n then_o the_o poor_a sort_n for_o riches_n be_v brettle_n and_o frail_a and_o can_v hardly_o last_v without_o they_o be_v keep_v with_o great_a wit_n and_o wisdom_n and_o it_o be_v certain_a that_o a_o man_n sive_v better_a with_o a_o little_a get_v by_o labour_n than_o a_o great_a deal_n give_v he_o by_o fortune_n and_o those_o which_o waxproud_a through_o abundance_n of_o riches_n show_v themselves_o not_o to_o know_v what_o happen_v to_o the_o snail_n that_o make_v his_o brag_v how_o he_o have_v get_v to_o the_o top_n of_o the_o pine_n tree_n a_o little_a before_o a_o tempest_n blow_v it_o down_o chap._n xvi_o ¶_o of_o the_o great_a wisdom_n of_o man_n in_o get_v of_o riches_n and_o of_o the_o excellency_n of_o many_o good_a and_o learned_a master_n now_o in_o this_o age_n let_v we_o now_o go_v a_o little_o further_a and_o consider_v that_o those_o which_o be_v wise_a the_o rich_a they_o be_v the_o better_a they_o will_v consider_v with_o themselves_o how_o riches_n be_v get_v with_o travel_n keep_v with_o fear_n and_o lose_v with_o grief_n and_o that_o he_o which_o put_v his_o trust_n in_o they_o shall_v be_v deceive_v for_o the_o true_a riches_n be_v those_o which_o can_v be_v lose_v be_v once_o get_v and_o therefore_o wise_a father_n will_v be_v careful_a to_o bring_v up_o their_o
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