to the eternall rest in thy kingdome of glory through the merits and mediation of thy only sonne our Saviour Jesus Christ AMEN CHAP. XVI § 1. Of Love and Charity what they are and how they differ in their objects § 2. Of love to God considerable in its object end measure severall states degrees perpetuity and opposition § 3. Signes of our love to God § 4. common obstructions and lets thereto § 5. Meanes on our part to be used for the enslaming our love to God § 6. Motives to incite us thereto 1. Love is the Qveene of vertueâ— mother of sanctity Gods lively image in man a reflex of his goodnesse who is love the life of faith without which it is neither active nor lively the comfort of this life security in death proeludium of heavenly life wherein it shal be compleated in the vision of God and the full communion of Saincts united to their head Christ Jesus what were life without love better then an hell inchoate such must that be where God is not who not only hath love but is the same Love is a voluntary affection and desire to enjoy that which is good it is a dilection because we doe in a free choice discerne what to love loves limits are ample when it hath a fiinite object when 't is towards God it hath no bounds save only in the subject which can but finitely love an infinite though with all the soule and all the might Love is subjectively in some desire objectively in some good or that which seemeth such so that their varieties cause as many varieties of love love of God the supreame good is incomparably the best love of that which God loveth is next and next that which beareth his image so love we our selves and men and Angells we love men either as we receive good from them or doe good to them the first our language calleth Love the second Charity that hath something amiable and desirable for it object this something miserable and to be pittied or releived 2. Love to God is a vertue wherein the reasonable creature adhereth and is united to delighteth and resteth in God as his cheife good And it is considerable 1. As naturall such as was in Adam in his innocency for without it he could not have had Gods image on him 2. As infused in our regeneration which is a repaire of Gods image decayed in us by sinne this is the meere gift of God 1. Joh 4. 7. Love commeth of God and the fruit of the spirit is love Gal 5. 22. we love him because he first loved us 1. Joh 4. 19. 3. The supreame end of our love to God is God for though we love any creature for some other end then is terminative in that creature so beloved yet we must love God onely for his own sake though we may not therefore only love God that he may doe us good for that were to make our love meâ—cenary not â—iliall not truely to love God above all but him for the rewards sake that were a contract rather then a free love selfe love not love of God for his own sake and as a sufficient reward to those that love him yet may we be assured that we cannot love him truely without a sufficient and certain reward and we may expect the same seeing he is not unrighteous that he should forget our worke and labour of love which wee have shewed toward his name In whatsoever creature wee instance men or Angells or any thing subordinate to their love there is still some better object of our love as if wee love riches for charity sake we love charity for our indigent brothers sake and him for Gods sake But in God only all our desires and affections rest and let downe the wings like those creatures in Ezekiâ—ls vision when they heard the voice of God above their heads and we love God only for his own sake as the most excellent most amiable and desirable the sole fountaine of true good and blessednesse out of whom there can be nothing good or happy and indeed hee that seeketh any thing above or beyond God seeketh nothing because there is nothing better then he nothing in heaven or earth so good The subordinate end of loving God is that we may love others in and for him as 't is written wee have this commandement from him that he that loveth God should love his brother also nor can any man wisely and truely love himselfe any otherwise then for God's sake not wisely for 't were folly for a man to set his affections at any lower levell then true happinesse which can never be in any thing humane or temporall but it is to be found and attained onely in God and our union with him to love our selves for beauty strength honour riches plesures or present life is to beguile our soules with vaine dreams happinesse can be in nothing which can change for worse or must unavoidably end nor can we truely love our selves for any thing lesse then the image of God in us he loveth not himselfe in truth but hateth his own soule who loveth himselfe a sinner for thereby he maketh himselfe unhappy or in respect of any temporall pleasure or gaine therein or thence taken the sinner hateth and destroyeth his own soule doing himselfe more harme therein then the devill and all the powers of hell could otherwaies doe him for as they cannot make him sinne against his will so neither can they make him truely unhappy without his consent to sinne Neither is it truly to love our selves to prouide momentany pleasures and beguiling shewes of happinesse with the losse of the eternall and true the gaine of a world cannot compensate the losse of a soule nor doth he truly love himselfe who betrayeth himselfe herein loving short and evill pleasures more then the chiefe good eternall happinesse and salvation of his own soule 3. The measure of our loving God is to love him without measure things finite have measure and therefore must be loved in measure and subordination Thou must love thy Parents wife children freinds but as thy selfe not in the place of God to honour them before him as Eli did 1. Sam 2. 29. but in subordination to his love and as may be consistent there with otherwise he that hateth not father mother wife children and his owne life 〈◊〉 Christ cannot be his disciple Lâ—k 14. 26. that is where the love of these or any of them is not subordinate to the love of God or where a man loveth any of these more then God Math 10. 37. Thou must love God with all thy heart according to thy capacity with all thy soule thy will affections and desires thy mynde and intellectuall faculties for love of God cannot be without knowledge of him there is no desire of that we know not with â—ll thy might as
Angels pitch round about his to deliver them and when we seem most overmatcht they are more with us then can be against us as that fearfull servant saw at last It made David so confident In the Lord put I my trust how say yee then to my soul Flee as a bird to your mountaine all confidence in men their counsels or an arme of flesh is unhappy and must faile beeing under the curse God cannot si fractus illabatur orbis therefore will we not fear though the earth be removed and though the mountaines be carried into the midst of the sea 4. Hearken unto the Word of God whoso hearkneth unto mee shall dwell safely and shall be quiet from fear of evil thou shalt walke in the way safely when thou liest down thou shalt not be afraid herein thou shalt know God's power trueth providence mercy and justice and so trust in him as it is written They that know thy name will put their trust in thee for thou Lord hast not forsaken them that seek thee 5. Love the Lord sincerely the more thou lovest him the more thou wilt rest assured of his love and protection the more perfect thy love is the more it casteth out fear 6. Depart from evill as the Princes of the Philistines said of David Let him not go down with us to the battle leâ—t in the battle he be an adversary to us Set thy selfe to seek the Lord as Jehoshaphat did when many enemies were upon the march against him and atcheived a glorious victory against them Keep a good conscience it shall be a wall of brasse unto thee when that is safe a man is bold as a lion but if we see the smoke of hell ascend there wee must needs faint like the men of Ai when they saw their City on fire Sinne in the conscience maketh men cowardly they may possibly speak glorious words who have timerous consciences but as one said of the fearfull dogg vehementiùs latrat quà m mordet hee must needs feare who hath no peace in himselfe 7. Consider the end of the â—aints sufferings which hath ever been happy in that they are the more partakers of Christ's glory by how much more of his sufferings consider how long they have suffered or thou canst fear none of those things which thou shalt suffer Behold the Devil shall cast sâ—me of you into prison that yee may be tryed be thou faithfull unto the death and I will give thee the crown of life It is true flesh and blood must have it allowance for its infirmity but the more wee can lay to heart the end of the saints so happy that even the wicked affect it and the quiet fruits of righteousness to them that are exercised the lesse we must needs feare the malice of any creature 8. Labour for peace with God give him no rest till he speak it to thy conscience resolve not to let him go untill he blesse thee and assure thee of thy remission in Christ. What hath he to feare whose sins are forgiven the sting of death pâ—lled out who would not dare it therefore the Apostle did because he could say Thanks be unto God who giveth us victory through Jesus Christ this is Faith's victory over the world 9. In thy greatest feares pray more fervently so did our Saviour being in an agony he prayed more earnestly so did Jacob in fear of his brothers long-studied revenge pray that God would open thine eies to see his saving health God many times terrifieth to awaken our drouzie souls and open our mouths to earnest prayer which in prosperity are too prone to the spirit of slumber and coldnesse feare hath many tongues and can open the mouth of the dumb Even Jonah's mariners in their feare will pray and instigate others thereto that one example of Croesus sonne Athis before dumb crying out O Cyrus spare my father and by our misfortunes learne that thou also art but a man sheweth what the violence of feare can do A Prayer against Feare O Lord God almighty dreadfull in thy wrath and indignation against sinners I humbly acknowledge that there is not one of thy judgements which I may not reasonably fear who have deserved them all the miseries of this life terrors of death and future condemnation But O Lord God of consolation assure mee of my sinnes remission and my peace with thee for Christ Jesus sake fill my heart and affections with that measure of thy love which may exclude all servile feare give mee the testimony of a good conscience to comfort me against all vain fears of the wicked lift up the light of thy countenance upon me and assure me that thou who rulest in heaven and earth from the Angel to the worm art my defence and help at hand Thou art omnipotent and canst doe what thou wilt Lord let it be thy will to deliver me from the affliction which I fear that I may live to praise the and declare thy goodnesse toward mee if it be possible let this cup passe from mee if otherwise thy holy will be done Lord suffer mee not for any tryals to fail from thee consider my weaknesse remember whereof thou hast made me that I am but dust and earth soon passing away give me patience to endure thy fatherly hand and full assurance that all things shall work together for the best give me fervency of spirit to pray more earnestly give me that â—aith to which thou who canst not deceive hast made the promise of audience and granting our petitions Give mee an invincible resolution not to let thee goe untill thou blessest me with some happy issue through Jesus Christ my Lord and only Saviour Amen Of Cares CAre is the childe of Providence some say the souls apparitor to summon all it's faculties to it's Senate or Committee it is rather counsels president determining what to pursue and what to decline the weight which moveth all it's wheels that taken off or quite run down all the nerves of providence are loosed and the soules faculties become inactive and resty so as we neither affect the good nor feare the evill Care is the centinel which gives the alarme to awaken wisedom to it's offices the steward of the inward house the Palinurus and pilot which sitteth at the helm to steere and direct the course lest industry be wanting to prudent decrees and resolutions or successe to industry so necessary is this vigilancy of the soule that without it we can neither be profitable to our selves or others in things divine or humane though salvation shall neither be in his care who willeth nor his that runneth but in him that sheweth mercy yet if thou care not to lay hold on his promises and to beleeve and obey thou shalt finde that he that made thee without thy care will not save thee without it because
Prayer for one ready to receive the Lords Supper pag. 111. A private Prayer after reâ—eiving the Lords Supper pag. 112. Another private Prayer immediately after receiving the Lords Supper pag. 113. 15 Of the Sabbath the name institution things considerable for the sanctification the beginning and ending reasons of the institution the change of the Lords day now to be observed of all Christians how we must sanctifie it p. 114. A Prayer for the Sabbath day morning pag. 125. To the ordinary evening prayer may be added this private prayer for the Sabbath p. 128. 16 Of Love and Charity what they are how they differ in their objects love to God considerable in the object and measure severall states degrees perpetuity and opposition signes thereof common lets meanes on our part to be used c. motives to incite us thereto pag. 129. A prayer for love to God pag. 14â— 17 Of love to our selves kinds thereof love to our neighbour the necessity and excellency thereof conditions and signes of friendship what and how excellent it is the true end and lawes thereof what choice we are to make of friends and whom to avoid of love to our enemies we ought to love them without any malice and to make a right use of them p. 144. A Prayer for Love and Charity p. 180. 18 Of the soule affections mind and thoughts in generall corruption of the heart danger difficulty of the cure necessity of a right ordering our thoughts rules of practice pag. 181. 19 Of right ordering the thoughts in respect of some particular passions affections and perturbations of the mind in their distempers of love delight joy rejoycing mirth sorrow anger hatred malice envy impatience discontent a contented mind pag. 201. The Prayer for patience pag. 226. 20 Of Hope Feare Cares Iealousies pag. 227. A prayer for hope p. 233. A Prayer against feare p. 240. A Prayer against cares pag. 241. A Prayer for sanctification of the thoughts pag. 250. 21 Guidance of the tongue excellent use abuse evils of the tongue concluding the necessity of a right guidance thereof motives thereto rules by which it may be done pag. 252. A Prayer pag. 265. 22 Of externall actions in generall whence the good are how requisite how regulated rules concerning them pag. 266. The Prayer pag 270. 23 Government of Families duties of Masters and Servants motives to their duties pag. 271. A short morning prayer with a Family p. 277. Another Morning Prayer for a Family pag 278. A short Evening Prayer p. 282. An Evening Prayer for a Family more enlarged p. 283. 24 Of Marriage institution end and fruits thereof of choice in generall and particular who are to be avoided Duties of the married mutuall and peculiar advice to widdowes p. 287. the prayer pag 299. 25 Duties of Parents and Children honour to parents want of children good parents of evill children duty of the parent rules thereto belonging duties of children rules thereof motives thereâ—to p. 299. the parents Prayer p. 310. the childrens prayer p. 315. 26 Of the wounded spirit or afflicted conscience what it is how great an affliction what the conscience iâ— How comfortable the peace thereof why God afflicteth his What things principally wound the conscience What they who are afflicted with the apprehension of Gods wrath against their sinnes must consider What they must examine and practise p. 316. the prayer p. 336 27 Sense of spirituall wants afflicteth but not so much endangereth the soule what we are herein to consider examine and practise p 337. the prayer 344. 28 Of the conscience afflicted with feare of tentations and falling away what we are herein to consider examine and practise pag 346 an ejaculation to be used as soone as thou awakest pag 354 another for thy last waking pag. ib. the prayer of a wounded spirit against temptations p. 355. 29 Guidance of the mind in encrease of wealth afflictions common their fruit in good men poverty a great tryall riches great temptations commonly mistaken how to guide the minde in encrease of riches or a full inheritance pag. 357. the rich mans petition pag. 364. 30 Poverty a great temptation yet having a capacity of true happinesse what we are to consider herein and what to practise pag. 365. the poore mans petition pag 373 31 Of liberty and restraint misplaced by an injurious world comforts for prisoners rules hereto appertaining p 374 the prisoners petition pag 384. 32 Of Banishment severall kinds generall cause what we must doe to be comforted herein pag. 391. the banished mans petition pag. 399. 33 Of old age common evills thereof the foundation must be happily laid in youth how the evills of age may be lesâ—ed or more patiently borne by what rules of practise it may be improved to comfort pag 400. the old mans supplication pag 414. 34 Meditations for women neere their travell all misery is from sin sins pardoned in Christ why the punishments are not taken away womens comforts therein directions necessary thereto p. 415 a prayer for them in or neere their travaile pag 422. â— thankesgiving pag 425. 35 Directions for the sicke as all afflictions sanctified so sicknesse is profitable for Gods children many waies how it may become so to us duties of those that visit the sick pag 425. a prayer for the sicke pag 430. thankesgiving for health recovered pag 434. another after the ceasing of the plague p. 435. 36 Meditations concerning death seeing all must dye how to prepare that death may not be terrible meanes to comfort in death of deare friends comforts against death pag 439 a prayer for him that is at the point of death or hath received the sentence of death in himselfe pag 454. ERRATA Pag. 2. marg read invenâ—rint p. 4. m. r. placat p. 5. m. sin r. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 p. 7. l. 2. our soules p. 8. l. 3. r. Satan Subtile p. 13. m. r. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 p 15. m. r. hac mundi domo ib. l. 32. r he must therefore p 17 l. 28. the first cause 22. l. 18. holy ascentions p. 24. l. penâ—lt r. marketh the Church p. 25. l. 10. was reserved 29. l. 35 by the power p. 31. l ult so was fulfilled p. 32 l. 16. r. as the heire ib. l. ult changes p. 37. l. 4. the place p. 38. l. â—3 encrease thy p. 48. l. 9. r. in thee ib. r. Concerning the Holy Ghost § 1. what we are p. 51. l. 2. r. whereof he â—b l. 3. sheepfold p. 52. l. 6. are but onâ— p. 62. l. 2. there is entire p. 64. l. 3. what use we p. 66. l. 16. bearing in life p. 72. l. 21. beare all p. 74. 19. the confidence p. 78. l. 33. he looketh on 79. l. 11. his brethren 93 l. 27. preserve thee 95 l. 30. to the deafe 98. l. 7. in their legends 117 l. 14. to intimate 137. l. 14. and have his 146. l. 19. not so for it â—nd 174. l. 4. feeding on thee
much as thou canst every part must serve to Gods love that wee may love God not only giving us but also severely correcting us and denying us that which we aske and thinke best for us in assurance that he is most just wise and mercifull to dispose all for the best as may be seene in Christ and the Martyres whom nor life nor death nor any pressure could separate from the love of God 4. Though the love of God in mans state of innocency was lost by sinne yet that which is infused in our regeneration shall never fall away because it dependeth on Gods immutable love to us who not only giveth grace but also perseverance there in it was never true love of God which ever faileth if it be true it knoweth no end being ever invincible for the gifts and graces of God are without repentance Rom. 11. 29. faith operative by love cannot be lost neither can true love it may be remitted not lost clouded not extinguished that which in the reprobate seemeth the love of God shal be lost the true which is in the elect can never because though men may be deceived concerning their election God cannot 5. This love of God is never perfect in the best in this life here it may stil receive encreases doth as the Apostle Phil. 1. 9. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 yet more and more in knowledge We love according to our knowledge which being but in part no more is this our whole regeneration is yet imperfect in degrees and so is our love to God 6. Love of God shall remaine and be perfect in the life to come when riches honours pleasures deare friends nay whē those excellent gifts of learning and prophesie shall leave us when faith shall end in enjoying this one treasure shall be secure and encrease to eternity 7. As he that hateth God is herein more excusable then all other sinners because hate of God is more apparently impious then failing in attaining it or falling from it by infirmity for here may be a will to doe good but there cannot so also herein that having but one extreame to fall into the malitious will fall there all other sinnes may be in excesse and in defect because every other vertue this love excepted hath two bastard sisters as valour hath in excesse temerity and in defect timidity justice hath on the right hand too much severity on the left too much mildnesse and indulgence to sinne so is it in the rest only this most amiable vertue hath nothing but defect to oppose it no creature can love God too much because none can love him enough or infinitely This also aggravateth the sinne that there can be no cause in God of any hatred toward him because the only chiefe and true good cannot bee the proper object of hatred nor could the most wicked hate him but that they have sins which his justice must punish because he is good and they have set up their impious desires lusts after pleasures and reveuge in his place and therefore hate all that oppose them so is the wisdome of the flesh enmity with God because it is not subject to the law of God which the signes and effects thereof declare such as are despaire servile feare of God's presence fleeing from him as Adam would have done audacious liberty of sinning c yet are there degrees herein the formall hypocrite doth not professedly and out of destinate malice hate God nor truely love him he professeth love but preferreth the world before God and if any man so love the world the love of God is not in him 1 Joh 2. 15. Now whereas all pretend love as obedience to God yea when they doe no lesse then rebell against him and would if it were possible unthrone him it is necessary to consider some markes and signes of this love which are these and the like we love God 1. If in our hearts desire wee choose him for our chiefe good and preferre him before all loves as the spouse saith thy love is beter then wine if we fix our hearts and affections on God we love him if we delight in him and his law and desire to know more of him for as one saith of Magdalens looking againe into Christs sepulchre the power of love multiplieth the intention of inquisition if we rejoyce at the gaine of his favour above all gaines requirable in heaven or earth if we delight in his presence ordinances and the places where his honour dwelleth in his publike worship as that man after Gods heart whose very name signified love my soule thirsteth after the living God when shall I come and appeare before God Psal 42. 2. If wee desire and delight to heare those who bring his messages to us as Psal 119. 162. if wee often think of him where our love is our thoughts will be if we love to speake of him and to him in fervent and frequent prayers if we have a secret joy of heart at the apprehension of his presence and gratious assistance of us in any thing which may please him at attentive hearing his word zealous prayer secret giving for his sake or for the inward testimony of his spirit assuring us that we are his children because we hold him most deare 2. if we be heartly sorry when God is dishonoured so David mourned because men kept not his word certainly no man can without greife of heart remember or behold his owne or others sinnes whereby God is displeased if he love God they are but hollow freinds that can be pleased and make themselves merry with that which they know hurteth or greiveth those to whom they professe love therefore David Peter and all those that truely love God weep and mourne for their sinnes 't is griefe of soule to them that they cannot serve him as they ought without all sinne therefore David frequent and Peter abundant in teares for their sinnes professed that they loved the Lord this with better confidence then before when hee professed hee would lay downe his life for Christ said Lord thou knowest all things thou knowest that I love thee 3. If we keep his commandements which signe his selfe giveth Joh 14. 15. 23. as also the◠beloved Disciple 1 Joh. 2. 5. this is indeed to walke with him it is an impudent falshood to say we love God while we contemne his lawes as 't is to affirme we love him and hate our brother 4. If we love those that love him and are beloved of him as David did Psal 16. 3. Sec 1. Ioh 5. 1. if we love God whose spirit regenerateth we shall love the regenerate for his sake whose image they beare 5. If we hate that which is evill and delight in that onely which is pleasing to God Among lovers there must bee idem velle idem nolle he that saith he abideth in him ought himselfe also to
making void all other excellent vertues in them for want of love which is the life of true religion and the infallible marke of Christ's disciples much more doth he labour to keepe us ignorant of God that wee may be so unhappy as not to love him his first assault of man was by his suggesting jealousie betweene man and his creatour by that pestilent cloud to vaile the goodnesse of God toward man in a due consideration whereof he could not but have loved and adheared to him and to make man suspect and disbeleeve the truth of God yea said he hath God said yee shall not eate yee shall not die for God doth know that in the day yee eate thereof your eyes shall be opened and yee shall be as Gods knowing good and evill 2. Remember what he hath done and continually doth for us love followeth love if we can but be throughly perswaded that he loveth us we cannot but love him Consider what great love he hath shewed us electing creating redeeming and preserving us when Christ but shed some teares at Lazarus grave the Jewes said Behold how he loved him what would they have said if they had knowne that he came to shed his heart blood for them consider what he doth in our preservation who blesseth us with increase who makes the earth bring forth who makes the clouds drop fatnesse and crowneth the yeares with plenty who keepeth us when we sleepe from the powers of darknesse never wanting power nor will but onely commission to destroy us who can and will keepe us when we are breathing out our soules we love our deare friends who then cannot keepe us because they would consider I say not if there be not reason but necessity that wee love him that onely can and certainly will preserve us then 3. Learne a due estimate of secular things and to alienate thy affections from them that they may be taken up with things â— on high the more thou emptiest thy soule of those the more capable it will be of these vaine loves cares delights and desires bewitch the greatest part of the world transporting men in a fantisticke dreame of happinesse and prosperity when here 's nothing constant but inconstancie nothing permanent and perpetuall but perpetuall and suddaine changes in Gods love onely there is constancie every thing else yea this world and the fashion thereof changeth mens loves are fickle as the wind they admire and presently loath the same they curse and blesse like Michaes mother at a breath in the sense of their losse or gaine a little seeming injury blasteth their love yea the change of the externall estate changeth their affections who by the mercenary ballance of present profit weith amity with God and men these wethercocks turne with every shift of the winde these shadowes appeare onely in prosperity wherein they follow and will not be beaten off with Ruths importunity that nere so litle clouded they vanish But Gods love is constant and unchangeable he will knowe thy soule in adversity if any unkindnesse reall injuries dishonours and rebellions could change him who had not long since perished 'T was said of that Turkish Emperour in his favour was no constancy and in his least disfavour death but God is of infinite patience mercy though he be every day provoked and in his favour is eternall life 4. Pray him to give thee an heart to know and love him to draw thee that thou maist follow him to shew thee his marvellous loving kindnesse to acquaint thee with his goodnesse Moses desired to see Gods face not to satisfie his curiosity but to fill his affection with Gods love As the Spouse cryed Cant 1. 7. Tell me O thou whom my soule loveth where thou feedest where thou makest thy flockes to rest at noone The motives to incite us to love God are infinite as is his goodnesse the more obvious to us are 1. The great and admirable promises according to which he sheweth mercy unto them that love and obey him See Ex. 20. 6. Luk 10. 27. 28. 1 Cor 2. 9. Jam 1. 12. 2. Love of God is that same ballance of the sanctuary by which all duties must be weighed it is that same salt of the covenant without which no sacrifice can be savory and acceptable it is that holy fire which came from heaven wee may offer no sacrifice without it the devill is obedient but not for love but feare and compulsion it is the summe of the first table of the law it is the maine which God requireth of us for our good because he hath a delight in us Epictetus summe of philosophie was in two words susteine and absteine the summe of Gods law is in this one love and thou hast fullfilled the law no woonder that he saith my yoke is easy and my burden light what burden more light and easie then that love which maketh men happy then that which parity maketh such by his free mercy who saith yee are my freinds What lesse would we doe if we were left to our owne disposing then love so good a God 3. It is a certaine demonstration of Gods love to us none can love him but those whom he loveth first we love him because he loved us first therefore he sheddeth abroad his love in our hearts and it is a certaine token of our adoption and remission of sinnes as our Saviour said many sinnes are forgiven her for she loved much where 〈◊〉 for importeth not a cause but a consequence and certaine signe of her sinnes remission love covereth the multitude of sinnes whether wee instance in Gods love to us or ours to him it proceedeth wholly from him as the waters come through the subterraneous unseene passages from the sea which seeme first to contribute their constant streames to the filling up of her vast channels so it is with our loves which are none other but a meere restuâ—nce of Gods love iufused into our hearts by his holy spirit for love is of God and God is love 4. Not to love God is the heigth of the most wretched ingratitude all unthankfulnesse concludeth a man inhumane and wicked but this maketh him most impious and unhappy he loveth us first before we were so elected us to eternall salvation he gave us all that we have and are hee gave us his own image in our creation his own Son in our redemption he feedeth protecteth preserveth heareth us forgiveth our sinnes giveth us all good things to make us happy if we did not make an ill use of all seeing then he being so great and excellent loved us first so much freely wee being such and so unconsiderable we ought and canâ—ot without greatest ingratitude but love him he is too hard-hearted who though hee cannot first love will not requite 5. Love uniteth and likneth lovers with men
and amity that they give not scandal to others nor create mutual bitternesse to themselves Mutual love is gods blessing on thy family a praeludium of heaven in thy house a comfortable pattern to thy children like the sun-beams on thy possession as the dew of heaven on thy fields which maketh all look cheerfully and be fruitful a state that cometh neerest up to that blessed Paradise-oeconomy of Adam innocent a blessing which maketh every estate such without which no store is blessed k Pro. 15. 17 Better is a dinner of herbs where love is then a stalled oxe and hatred therewith l Pro. 17. 1. Better is a dry morsel and quietnesse therewith then an housefull of sacrifices with strife 4. That they do cheerfully and willingly communicate in all that which God hath given them in prosperity advising in adversity comforting each other with such sympathy in joy and sorrow as is in them who are truely one flesh 5. That they bear each others infirmities never taking things spoken or done in the worst sense nor making every trivial matter an occasion of quarrel or alienation of affection but passing by them so as that they may seem rather covered in love then excused in judgement or approved in stupidity in which practice Satan may be beaten with his own weapon while that every occasion which hee administred in hope to former discord being prudently used to demonstrate the invincible love of the party suffering and willing rather to put up injury then to admit the least breach of amity by retaliation more endeareth them to each other 6. That they join hands and hearts to assist each other in the way to heaven See 1 Cor. 7. 16. 1 Pet. 3. 7. 7. That they mutually defend each other so Michol preserved David when Saul sought his life so prudent Abigail endeavoured Nabal's preservation they must not be false Delilahs to conâ—ederate against the lives or estates of their husbands 8. That they neither unjustly take nor justly give occasion of jealousie which ever embittereth the otherwaies most happy families Jerom's rule is here to be commended to women m Etsi negagata non feceris tamen deforme putes testimonium si rogeris Hier ep 2l 9 though thou yeeld not being asked yet think it an odious testimony to be asked hee comes to neer who cometh to be denied The Duties proper to the Husband may appeare in these following Rules 1. Let the n 1 Pet. 3. 7. husband dwell with his wife according to knowledge giving honor to her as the weaker vessel as being co-heires of the grace of life that their prayers be not hindred where there needeth reproof let it neither be rough odious injurious publick clamorous nor disgracefull but allayed with such wisedome and opportune perswasions as may not only reform but endeare in the most happy wedlock there may be some matter of just dislike and therefore due cause of reproof it much concerneth thee to know thy wives faults but not to hate her for them let the rule be either beare thy wives faults if tolerable with patience or amend them with direction if they are intolerable in this thou makest her better in that thy selfe 2. Let a man love o Eph. 5. 33. his wife as himselfe esteeming nothing too good or dear for her good as Christ loved his Church which concludeth nothing for them who impiously and cruelly afflict their wives with stripes or otherwise for God saith p Col 3 19. Husbands love your wives and be not bitter against them it is uncertaine whether they have evil wives but certain that they deserve such who can no otherwise governe then by blowes Neither doth this binde any man to an indiscreet much lesse an impious and dangerous indulgence to his wife wherein she desireth that which needs must or probably may hurt her self her husband or family it is love and wisedome to deny her that 3. Let a man maintain his wife in cloaths and necessaries according to his estate so as shee may live cheerfully with him not as servant but as a partner in his estate 4. Let the husband use all comity holy gratious prudent and peaceable language as a pattern to all his family so specially as a pledge of love to his wife neither like rugged Nabal nor fond and vaine which commonly changeth into fits of extream bitternesse for who can like such inksome levity 5. Let the man heare the wife's advice but never be transported beyond better reason nor carried thereby against the holy will of God as Adam whose dreadfull sentence bare this cause in the front q Gen. 3. 17. because thou hast hearkned to the voice of thy wife as r 1 King 21. 25. Ahab hearkned to the voice of Jezaâ—el as s 1 King 11 3 Solomon whom his wives most fearfully corrupted t Anilâ—e mihi liber videatur cui mulier imperat cui leges imponit praescribit iubet vetat qui nihil imperaâ—â—i negare potest nihil recusare audetâ—â— ego verò isâ—um non modò servum sed nâ—quissimum servum etiamsi in amplissima â—amilta natus sit appellandum puto Cic. pared omnes sapientes liberos esse c. The Orator could say of a man so awed by his wife I doe think that hee ought to be called not onely a slave but truely the worst of such Concerning the proper dueties of Wives I sinde these three principle rules 1. Let the wife be u Eph. 5. 22. Col 3. 18. subject to her husband as unto the Lord in every thing for the man is the wife's head w 1 Tim. â— 9 12. shee was made for man God permitteth not the woman to usurpe authority over the man this duety comprehendeth love x Eph. 5. 32. reverence aiâ— and assistance doing her husband good endeavouring to content please and comfort him See Pro. 31. 11. contrary to which is the imperious command of the domineering wife unreverend speech or action neglect of her charge through pride sloth or riotous wasting her husbands estate 2. Let her be chaste modest and silent the Scripture expresseth this by y 1 Pet. 3. 5 6 1 Pet. 3 1 c. 1 Tim. â— 9 10 chast conversation coupled with feare impudency and chastity are rarely compatible and modest apparreling which becometh women professing godlinesse andâ—let the women learn with all subjectionâ— a meâ—k and a quiet spirit are of high esteem in Gods sight this is God's rule by what law they live who think it religion and good policy by their loud and quarrelsom tongues bitter spirits of contradiction and otherwise to master their husbands and cantonize themselves I know not it is certain these are heavy crosses and no better then the sad furies possessing and so restlesly haunting the house of a wretched man that hee may well take up that old bemoaning z Hei mihi nec sine te nec tecum vivere possum Woe is
to the people in scorne and diâ—ision the chiefe Priests and Officers lead the peoples suffrages ringing out their crucify him crucify him Pilat startled as by his dreaming wives admonition so more at their mentioning his being the sonne of God goeth againe into the Pretory reexamineth him seekâ—s to deliver him yet for feare of complaint to Caesar so powerfull an adversary to good conscience is the love of this world against his often acquitting him as innocent he once for all condemneth him us guilty and delivereth him to the popular rage to crucifie him 8 They lead him away bearing his Crosse to Golgatha the place of skulls called also Calvarie where some thinke Adam was buried but others are of a contrary judgement One thing is certaine it was the area damnatorum and place of execution and it is most likely that Gods providence so disposed that he should there be crucified as there to set up the Trophe of his victory on the Crosse in that where sinne and the punishment thereof had abounded in the execution of notorious malefactors grace should manifest it selfe in his suffering there and that most ignominious kinde of death so also that he might take away the curse from the elect so suffering and that it might be fulfilled which was spoken by the Prophet he made his grave with the wicked and was counted with transgressours Isai 53. 9 12. this place was without the city having a resemblance of that which was to come that is that the maine benefit of his passion was not to be shut up in Jerusalem but to be derived also to the Gentiles who were without so he suffered in the place of sinners that it might import his suffering for sinners other moralls the Apostle openeth as to teach us to goe out of our carnall affections and love of the world to Christ and so he shewed himselfe the only satisfactory sacrifice prefigured in all the legall sacrifices whose bodies were burnt without the gates of Jerusalem Here they crucified him betweene two theeves the one converting the other dying in his obstinacy having so done they parted his garments among them and cast lots for his seamelesse coat thus was fulfilled that of the Psal 22. 18. Jesus commended his mother to John thirsting they gave him vinegre to drinke as was also foretold Psal 69. 21. having received that he said it is finished that is all the types have their meaning accomplished and the justice of God is satisfied so bowing his head he gave up the ghost 9 The certainty of his death appeared when the â—ouldiers comming to breake the leggs of the other two finding him already dead they spared him that the Scripture might be fulfilled which saith a bone of him shall not be broken but pierced his side with a speare so that blood and water came out At this time the Sunne was darkned so fearefully that some are said to have concluded that either the Godhead suffered or sympathized with that which did so The vaile of the Temple rent to shew the way into the holiest made manifest and that the stop or middle wall of partition betweene Jewes and Gentiles is taken away The stones clave in sunder the graves opened the earth trembled And after his resurrection many of the dead Saints arose and were seene in the holy city to shew that in his death death was conquered and that the vertue of his resurrection should shortly after declare it selfe in the Saints rising from the death of sinne The Centurian seeing this acknowledged him the Sonne of God the multitude smote their breasts and returned home 10 Joseph of Arimathea begg's the body of Jesus takes it from the Crosse he and Nicodemus imbalme it put it into linnen cloaths with the spices and bury it in a new Sepulcher in a garden nigh the place the providence of God thus disposing to convince their malitious cavills who might pretend that either his resurrection was caused by the vertue of some other servant of God there formerly buried as one was at the touch of Elisha's bones or that it was some other rose againe not Jesus He was buried according to the Scriptures 1. Cor 15. 4. Psal 16. 10. thou wilt not leave my life in grave There were many witnesses thereof Joseph Nicodemus the women the Centurian with his band the Jewes sealing the tombe Thus he descended to the lowest step of his humiliation that he might follow death into the heart of his dominion and conquer him in his imperiall seat destroying as it were with his own sword the Goliah who had the power of death as it is written O death I will be thy plagues O grave I will be thy destruction that he might sanctifie our house of rest taking away the horrour of the grave the curse of death being abolished and the dead loosed from their bonds as shall appeare in the appointed houre We are next to beleeve the first degree of Christ's exaltation in that he rose againe from the dead the third day according to the Scriptures 1. Cor 15. 4 reckning the later part of the first day the second entire and the beginning of the third So Christ told his Disciples that he must goe to Jerusalem suffer many things of the Elders and be killed and raised againe the third day this was so publikely knowne before his death that his enemies remembred and spake of it so that this was the reason why they sealed up and set a guard upon the Sepulchre God so disposing that they should be made witnesses of the truth thereof who most opposed it which had they not beene they might with lesse impudency have said his Disciples came by night and stole him away The Angell testifying his resurrection referreth them to that he had told them before the type also agreeth as Jonas was three daies and three nights in the Whales belly so shall the Sonne of man be three daies and three nights in the heart of the earth so long he would lye in grave to manifest the truth of his death but no longer because he was not to see corruption and least the faith of his Disciples should by a longer delay have beene in hazard and lastly to fulfill his word concerning the same for the confirmation of our faith seeing his word concerning his own death and resurrection came truely to passe why should we doubt of the same word concerning our resurrection In this three daies the Deity was the middle band betweene the body and the humane soule that it might see corruption proper to sinners as before the humane soule was betweene the Deity and body in all he became a pledg of our incorruption and immortalitie in the life to come to consirme us herein he manifested himselfe to many after his resurrection by the space of forty daies See 1. Cor 15. 5.
perish so long as thou reignest over all The next is his comming to judge the quicke and the dead properly annexed to the foregoing because he so sitteth at Godâ—s right hand as that he both exerciseth the patience of the elect under the crosse and long permitteth the wicked enemies to insult over them to comfort us herein 't is necessary to beleeve that Christ who now sitteth at God's right hand will thence come to judge all men those whom he shall finde surviving who shall be changed in a moment at the sound of the last trump and the dead raised againe all elect and reprobate some to eternall absolution from sin and death and others to eternall shame and destruction of bodies and soules This judgement shall be of all our thoughts words and actions the books shall be opened and every secret thing manifested the evidence of every fact shall speak as Abels blood did The time of this judgment shall be at the second comming of Christ the particular yeare or day no creture knoweth neither the son of man himselfe here knew it in the state of humiliatioÌ„ nor need it seem strang how being God and man in one person the manhood could be ignorant of any thing the deity being omniscient seeing he tooke on him all our infirmities sinne excepted amongst which natiue ignorance was not a little one therefore t is said that from his childhood he encreased in wisedome which no infinite can doe and why shall I not as easily beleeue that there was a vaile of the slesh betweene the deity and humane soule intercepting some light of knowledge as I certainly know there was intercepting the present sense of his fathers assistance and of the comfort of the deity in his passion when he cried out My God my God why hast thou forsaken mee The signes of this judgements approach are 1. preaching the Gospell to all Nations 2. revelation of the man of sinne 3. a generall departing from the faith 4. Universall corruption of manners 2 Tim. 3. 1. 5. warres and rumours of warres 6. hardnesse of heart so that no importunity of the lowdest sonnes of Thunder can awake men out of sinne as it was in the dayes of Noah 7. Calling of the Jewes Rom. 11. 25. The signe which shall accompany the comming of Christ shall be the signe of the sonne of man in heaven Math. 24. 30. The Summe is Christ shall come againe to judge all men Act. 17. 31. Math. 25. 31. Jud. 14. 14. 1 Thes. 4. 16. and Math. 24. 30. where he joyneth the declaration of the judgement with the prediction of Jerusalems destruction to the end that men might be assured of the judgement to come by that which they saw or knew fulfilled in that City Concerning the place whether in the valley of Jehoshaphat or the time and lasting of this great Assizes the manner of proceeding and the like it is vaine to enquire after that which God hath not revealed specially seeing his word directeth to make better use hereof 1 To deterre men from sinne in respect of the inevitable terrour of that day 2 Not to judge one another Rom 14. 1 Cor 4. 5. 3 To prepare because the day is neere fearing God Eccles 12. 14. Rev 14. 7. keeping a good conscience Act 24. 15 16. watching that we may lift up our heads at that day Luk 22. 28. 35 36. Repenting Act 17. 30 31. Without delay 2. Pet 3. 2. Loving one another 1. Joh 3. 18. 19. That wee may assure our hearts before him and have boldnesse in the day of judgment 1. Joh 4. 17. Comforting our selves in all our sufferings our Saviour shall be our judge and who shall condemne us seeing he died to acquit us He cannot but avenge for us though he suffer long therefore we must be patient expecting his sentence Come yee blessed of my father inherit the kingdome prepared for you A Prayer O Lord God of mercy and compassion who in thy eternall and infinite love to man gavest thy onely Sonne to become man to take experience of our miseries to be tempted in all things like us sinne onely excepted and to suffer the severity of thy wrath against us sinners by offering him up a living sacrifice for us who were dead in trespasses and sins the just for the unjust that by his stripes we might be healed and hast revealed unto us that great mystery of godlinesse so much desired of the faithfull from the beginning the inestimable riches of thy grace and mercy hid from all ages unto the fulnesse of time God manifested in the flesh justified in the spirit seene of Angells preached unto the Gentiles beleeved on in the world and received up into glory make us truly thankefull to thee for all thy unspeakeable favours give us true faith to apprehend and finde our interest in him with assurance that he is our God and Saviour O ever blessed Jesus whose name is as sweet ointment powred forth whom the Virgin soules therefore love draw us that we may runne after thee let the annointing which we have received of thee whereby we have the honour to be called and to be Christians and the happinesse to be enlightned with thy truth and led in thy paths abide in us and teach us all things necessary for the advancement of thy glory and our salvation let it bee like that precious nard wherewith thou wast imbalmed against the day of thy death to fill our hearts and affections with that comfortable savour of life unto life that thou maist wholy season us dwell in us and be all in all with us that the merit of thy death and vertue of thy resurrection may both mortify all our sinfull corrupt affections and raise us to the life of righteousnesse that dying to sinne governed here by thy power to which all things are committed in heaven and earth and hereafter acquitted by thy finall sentence when thou shalt come to judge the living and the dead we may at last come to the perfect union with thee in a full view and eternall enjoying of thee and thy blessed presence who hast suffered all these things to redeeme us and to purchase the kingdome prepared for us from eternity that wee may attaine that true blessednesse in the which thy holy Gospell hath preached unto us Grant this through thy mercies O heavenly Father thy merits O gracious Lord Jesus and thy assistance O holy Spirit three persons one onely wise omnipotent and immortall God to whom belongeth all honour glory praise might Majestie and dominion in heaven and earth from this time forth and to endlesse eternitie AMEN CHAP. VI. § 1. What we are to beleeve § 2. Rules thereto belonging 1 ALL knowledge of God the Father and Sonne with man can attaine to availeth him not except it be made good to him by a blessed application thereof to himselfe wrought by the
be like minded having the same love being of one accord of one minde let nothing be done through strife If yee have any part in the communion of Saints hold the unity of the spirit in the bond of peace if there be envy malice contentions schismes factions and discords 't is an ill signe of your interest in this holy communion God's sonnes are peaceable all that are guided by his spirit who is Love love and care for each other as the members of the body mutually defend and hide the blemishes of their fellowes 2. Be compassionate if one member suffer all grieve because they are animated by one soule and is it possible that any man should make himselfe beleeve that the spirit of Jesus hath quickned him who not only remembreth not but malitiously promoteth the affliction of Joseph 3 Forsake not holy assemblies where Gods word soundeth and his honour dwelleth 'T is a delusion of Satan who advanceth his throne most in our divisions which maketh men prefer private prayers and exercises before the venerable publike 4 Unite to holy societies and with draw from evill company 't is very dangerous to have society with the wicked Jehoshaphat found it so what makest thou in the way to Egypt said the Prophet The wisest Solomons hazards were from evill company have no fellowship with them saith the Apostle In the society of the holy there is good even to the wicked sometimes for their sakes Potiphers house prospered for one good Josephs sake the ships company were saved for one Paul how much more are the Saints advantaged by their holy communion Begin thy heaven on earth having society and communion with the Saints here or thou shalt never have the happinesse thereof hereafter 5 Be thou holy if thou wilt be of this society you knowe in worldly leagues 't is parity of manners which begeteeth amity like loves his like get on the wedding garment if thou wilt rejoyce with the invited If we say wee have fellowship with him and walke in darknesse we ly and doe not know the truth Saul among the Prophets became a proverb of a prodigie The Nethanims joyned themselves to Israel but when they returned they could not finde their pedegrees and therefore were diffranchised as hypocrites shall be from the elect there 's no admission of any thing uncleane into heaven no wealth can purchase entrance but only sanctity if Simon had the Indies to morgage he could not enter 6. Let it comfort thee in thy sufferings feare not they are more with thee then against thee in every distresse thou partakest of the sweet odours ascending up into Gods holy presence the prayers of the Saints if one Moses by standing in the gap could divert the plague raging among the people what shall not many thousands doe for one afflicted man We will goe with you said they in the prophesie for wee have heard that God is with you God is with thee in all that thou dost said Abimelech and Phicol to Abraham therefore they thought themselves happy to have a covenant with him what ever thou sufferest they share with thee and intercede for thee CHAP. IX Concerning Remission of Sinnes § 1. Of the necessitie hereof to whom it belongeth it is the summe of the Gospell § 2. Rules hereto appertaining THE second benefit which God bestoweth on his Church is remission of sinnes which is a free pardon of all their transgressions so that God will never impute them remember or charge them upon any of those who are justified by faith in Christ. This is an article of great necessity to be beleeved for what could communion availe us if a free remission of our sinnes did not acquit us of a due condemnation Without this what could we be but a wretched condemned society What ever we else beleeve concerning Christ the Saviour without this wee were no better then excluded Virgins with oylelesse lamps then Judas amongst the Apostles sonnes of perdition This remission is when God forgiveth faults and punishments neither imputing the one nor executing the other not onely some sinnes but all as 't is written Thou wilt cast all their sinnes into the depth of the sea and Psal. 103. 3. Who forgiveth all thy iniquities who healeth all thy diseases 'T is true that sometimes the chastisement lasteth longer then the imputation of the fault so when the Prophet had said to David repenting the Lord hath put away thy sinne yet hee could not prevaile for the life of his child neither did the sword depart from his house but this was a fatherly correction an healing not a punishment and David confessed as much 't is good for mee that I have beene in trouble and it standeth good by reason that God remitteth all sinnes if any for seeing he that breaketh any one commandement is guilty of all if God retained any one sinne unremitted the whole debt must be charged upon the sinner This was that which Christ declared to Simon in the parable of the two debters one owed 50. the other 500. pence and when neither had to pay the creditor equally forgave both 2. This benefit is peculiar to the elect the Church the people that dwell therein shall have their iniquities forgiven they onely are the redeemed of the Lord all others out of Christ are in the gall of bitternesse having no part nor fellowship herein there is no other name under heavenby which we can be saved he was delivered for our offences by his blood we are redeemed the Paschall lambe belongeth onely to this house herein however the grace of God is given in diverse measures remission of sinnes is equally bestowed on all the Saints 3. This great benefit is the summe of the Gospell proclaimed by John Baptist given in charge to be preached to all for this cause God sent his onely Sonne into the world to be a Prince and a Saviour to give repentance and remission of sinnes in him we have redemption through his blood the forgivenesse of sinnes To this point appertaine these rules 1. That we despaire not in respect of the greatnesse of our sinnes how great soever it be it is farre lesse then the infinite merit of Jesus Christ whose blood cleanseth us from all sinnes though your sinnes be as scarlet twice dyed in originall and actuall transgression they shall be white as snow there were many who went out of Christs presence very happy some restored to sight some to hearing some to health some dispossessed of uncleane spirits some restored to life 't was true of him what was said of Caesar hee sent none away sad the yong rich mans owne fault dismissed him so but none more happy then her that heard goe in peace thy sinnes are forgiven thee let the spirit of truth say only this to my soule and in spight
walke even as he walked and the Psalmists precept is yee that love the Lord hate evill See Psal 101. 3. Psal. 119. 104. 128. 163. Psal 139. 22. we all sinne but hee that doth not truely hate sinne cannot love God 6. If our love to the world pleasures and all desirable secular things as also our cares concerning them decline and lessen in us devided streames â—unne shallower the more wee love with God the lesse we love him the more wee love him the lesse we love all things else except in subordination to him when Mary had chosen the better part the love of God she sate at Jesus feet carelesse of the other entertainment look how those glowormes shining in the dark and the starres themselves vanish at the appearance of the Sunne so doth the love of things secular at the arising of the love of God on our hearts 7. If we set not deare by any thing else riches pleasures liberty life it selfe for â—ods sake as Paul speaketh for his fellow souldier he for the worke of Christ regardeth not his life and of himselfe who for the same counted it not deare Act 20. 24. it was a great love to God which Abraham shewed when for his sake hee would bee content to sacrifice his beloved only son Isaak God who would honour him with the high title of his friend and father of the faithfull and would have heaven it selfe take a livery from him and be called Abrahams bosome would in that example of himselfe teach him as much as man could apprehend of Gods infinite love what it was to give his only son Jesus to death to save us 8. If in no difficultie of affaire spirituall or secular we attempt any thing inconsulti but goe to the Oracles of his worâ—d for advise beg his assistance and blessing in and upon all our workes how canst thou say I love thee when thy heart is not with mee Said Delilah how much more may God say so wheÌ„ we will not trust him It is a chiefe advantage of love that we have a prudent heart and a faithfull eare wherein to unload our cares and doubts and that we are sure we shall carry away none but infallible counsaile friends that may erre as men are yet deservedly trusted if they would not 9. If we beleeve in him and put our confidence in him for life and death love is the fairest issue of faith which so uniteth us to God that we can securely cast our selves and all our cares on him and his good providence beleeving and being fully perswaded that what he hath promised he is able also to performe and that whatsoever he doth with us or for us is best even when in faithfulnesse he afflicteth us Every one seemeth to love God prospering and giving but the triall is whether we love God afflicting us shewing us no countenance when he seemeth to forsake us and not to heare or regard our prayers when we are ready to perish in such case to resolve with Job though he kill me I will trust in him this is indeed a certaine argument of that love which shall assure our hearts before him if we could but thus prove the Lord with confidence in him and holy subjection of our selves to him hee would open us the windowes of heaven and powre us out blessings he would rebuke the destroyer for our sakes The common obstructions and lets to the love of God are 1. Ignorance of God we cannot love that whose excellency we know not Pharoah asked who was the Lord that hee should obey him So say the spiritually blinde who is he that we should love him They are haters of God because their foolish hearts were full of darknesse 2. Unbeliefe if wee could indeed beleeve Gods word describing his wisedome mercie verity benificence power and Providence and that there is true and eternall happinesse only in our union with him we should easily be perswaded to set our hearts on him as it is written whom having not seene yee love in whom though now yee see him not yet beleeving yee rejoyce with joy unspeakable 3. Love of this world and the present distracting cares thereof wherein catching at deluding shadowes we loose the substance if any man love it the love of the father is not in him as I noted We cannot with one eye see heaven and earth together nor love God and Mammon with one unchanged heart whose dangerous perversenesse and corruption herein appeareth God is only good but the whole world lyeth in wickednesse it loveth nothing good it is bitter and troublesome unto us yet we unhappily dote on it to our destruction and suffer it to steale away our hearts from Gods love wherein we should otherwise be happy what would wee doe if the world were neither bitter nor troublesome We are loath to part with the vaine amenity of this world as Lots wife was from the pleasant fields of Sodom no not when the Angels pull us by the hands would we goe out from ruine and destruction when the Reubenites and Gadites saw the fruitfull Jazer and the pleasant Gilead they petioned Moses that they might have the lot of their possession there and goe no further they desired not the promised rest it is so with many a worldly man he would faine sit downe here and have his heaven on earth 4. Guilt of conscience cannot be without feare of Gods severity now love and servile feare are incompatible hee that feareth Gods justice because he loveth his own liberty of sinning ease and indemnity cannot love God as this feare excludeth perfect love so this casteth out feare there is no feare in love nor love in base feare 5. Pleasures of sinne which only are contrary to Gods love no man can love unreconcilable contraries he that loveth and delighteth in any sinne thereby looseth all capacity of Gods love who cannot but punish the same The meanes on our part to be used for the enflaming our love to God are that we 1. Study to know God to acquaint our selves with him in Christ his holy word which reveileth him unto us He is the most amiable of all that is in heaven or earth therefore the most desirable as it is written he is altogether lovely It is our spirituall blindnes and ignorance of God which causeth our not loving him as we ought if we knew him we could not but love him so as that the love and care of all creatures however dear would decline in us when Peter on the mount had but a tast of his goodnes glimps of his majesty as forgetfull of all below he cryed it is good for us to be here let us make 3 tabernacles Satan oftimes setteth such a mischievous distance between man and man that mistaking or not rightly knowing one another he easily fomenteth jealousies and contentions betweene them thereby
parity of manners conciliateth love but Gods love createth our likenesse to him hence is it that the most excellent creatures love him most whereby they are made such some think that ardency of love denominateth those Angells which stand in Gods presence Seraphim certaine it is such are we as is our love our manners are not estimable by that which we knowe but by that we love good or evill love maketh us such if we love God we are godly if the world worldly if sinne sinfulf all men the best of all doe sinne but the wicked only love sinne looke how the glasses species are as is the posture thereof if you turne it to heaven you see only heaven in it if to the earth only earth so is it in our love the soules looking-glasse wherein we may see and judge of our selves 6. Without this love there can be no true happinesse for the wrath of God the severity of his justice remaineth for those who hate him give him all that a sinfull soule can desire make him times minion the worlds favorite you can make him nothing better then a devill But with the love of God though a man may possibly seeme or be said unhappy he cannot be so for all things worke together for good to them that love God prosperity adversity life death all things shall finally advantage them he that seeketh the love of God must looke for many enemies but contrary to their intentions they shall doe him good the love of the world is sweet at first but bitternesse in the end and the love of God hath many sharpe trialls at first but in the end shall be most comfortable This love is that divine Elixer which maketh the vile pretious an indeficient treasure which whosoever hath can never lack that which is good he that hath it not can never be the better for all hee hath what good or salvation can he expect who is so unhappy as not to love the fountaine of all blessednesse what can hee reasonably feare who loveth an omniscient and righteous God who is a pleanteous rewarder of those that love him Though we cannot be saved for any desert of Love to God for it is his mercy not our merit wee cannot be saved without it if any man love not the Lord Jesus let him be anathema maranatha 1. Cor 16. 22. 7. So excellent is this one possession that Paul counted all but meere losse for it dying Joshua left this as the chiefe legacie to his friends and family concerning whom hee resolved as for me and my house we will serve the Lord take good heed therefore unto your selves that yee love the Lord your God he need no more it is better to love God then to be heire of the world if thou canst not know this living thou shalt when thou art dying let my children faithfully love God I wish them no greater blessing who with my soule pray they may be truly blessed A Prayer for love to God O Lord God Almightie great and glorious who art cloathed with Majestie the beauty of holinesse perfection of beauty who hath filled heaven earth with the gratious effects of love and goodnesse I thy poore creature prostrating my selfe before thy mercy seat humbly acknowledge the many sinnes which render me utterly unworthy ever to appeare before thee specially that great ingratitude which maketh me ashamed to speake unto thee who art the searcher of all hearts yet in assurance of my acceptance in the son of thy love who now sitting at thy right hand maketh requests for me I am bold to pray thee to fill my heart with thy love which is better then all things that with my soule I may desire thee in the night with my spirit within me seeke thee early O Lord though the remainder of sinne in me create me many distractions though fraile flesh and blood starteth at the apprehension and feare of thy just judgments or murmur at the bitternes of thy present corrections yet thou knowest all things thou knowest that I love thee though with a fraile yet with a sincere heart and love with thine owne spirit infused into me O Lord my soule thirsteth after thee and thy holy presence in my sanctification and full assurance of thy mercy Therefore according to thine owne promise who caâ—st not deceive sanctifie me herein that I may love thee more and more cleanse me from all my sinnes create that purity of heart in me which may assure me of a capacity to behold thy goodnesse in the land of the living fill my lips with grace diffusive of it selfe to thy glory and the ministration of grace to the hearers guide me in the whole course of my life in that holinesse which may please thee disburden my conscience of all that guilt which leaveth me in any feare of that way by which thou hast appointed me to come unto thee and thy kingdome of glory that no afflictions paines feaâ—es or terrours of life or death may be able to separate me from thy love in Christ Jesus Blessed Lord only assure me of thy love and let thy holy will bee done with me I am thine thou madest me to thine owne image thou redeemedst and repairedst the same by thy free spirit when I was dead in trespasses and sinnes thou neither madest redeemâ—dst nor sanctifiedst me for my selfe therefore when thou doest that with me which shall best please thee in the advancement of thy glory in my salvation thou makest me happy in the end of my creation redemption and sanctification Lord it was thine owne free love which by revealing thy selfe and the inestimable riches of thy mercy to mee made me knowe what I had to love in thee neither didst thou finde in me any thing worthy of thee but the effects of thine owne love which in my election before I was determined to make me an object of thy mercy therefore thou who art Love didst set thine own image on me thou best knowest that I am of my selfe but worthlesse dust and earth and by my sinnes a masse of corruption such as onely can displease thee and deserve thine anger but O Lord God of mercy who foundest me a child of wrath and madest me a sonne an enemy and reconciledst me by the death of thy holy sonne Jesus accomplish the worke of thine owne mercy in me and love me still give mee an heart to love thee so above all with all my soule minde and might love that which thou hast wrought in my heart cherish thine owne graces in me though my love be full of imperfections yet thy worke is perfect in thee is no shadow of change Lord for thine owne loves sake now make me such as thou maist love me to eternitie through the merits of thy sonne Jesus Christ my Lord and blessed Saviour AMEN CHAP. XVII § 1. Of love to our selves of the kindes thereof § 2. Of Love to our
hateth his brother he is a lyar there can be noe salvation without it it beeing as I said the life of faith Love like the heart in the body sendeth out the heate of life through all the parts to make them active it is the primum mobile which carrieth about all the orb's in the speare of religion This affection hath comfortable effects it is the preserver of peace concord while it prudently concealeth many offences bringing them under candid and favourable interpretations and the best constructious which can be made of them which otherwise might prooue the fuell of contention and matter of quarrell it is sins coverture the tessera and certaine pledge of our translation from death to life 1. Joh. 3. 14. of our imitation of Christ. Joh. 15. 12. Ephes. 5. 2. adoption in him 1. Joh. 3. 1. the assurance of our consciences before him 1. Joh. 3. 19. the confidence of our audience 1. Joh. 3. 22. the bond of perfection Colos. 3. 14. the signe of our regeneration 1. Joh. 4. 7. the fruit of the spirit Gal. 5. 22. the assurance of God his beeing in us 1. Joh. 4. 12. 13. and our beeing in him the repaired image of God in us 1. Joh 4. 17. the expeller of feare 1. Joh. 4. 8. the certaine argument of our love to God 1. Joh. 5. 1. and his love to us 1. Joh. 4. 12. it is the fâ—ire mistris of all good it is the heavenly Bethsheba which can attaine any thing yea life for the dead it shal be part of the saincts accoumpt at the day of judgment Math. 25. 34. 35. 2. This love must be regulated with certaine lawes or conditions 1. It must be subordinate to Gods love such as giveth God the first and cheife place not as Elies who honoured his children aboue God nor as many now love so that they will rather displease God then those they love true charity can be in nothing which displeaseth God 2. it must be subject to order in respect of the object first regarding those who are neerest in nature or necessitude I am bound to shew what effects of love and charity I can but first to myne owne family respectiuely and to doe good specially to the howsehold of faith first to my neighbours and then to others 3. It must be for Gods sake and in good when wee love for temporall advantages and such mutuall offices as unite worldly men for such reasons as Hamor and Shechem used for enfranchising Jacobs family these men are peaceably with us and therefore let them dwell in the land and trade therein shall not their cattle and their substance and every beast of theirs be ours that cause failing charity vanisheth many times into mischievous contentions by which readinesse to dissolve the sacred bond of Charity for every triviall occasion and the many bitter discords it too evidently appeareth how few love for God's sake how many for their own when holy Abraham had occasion of quarrell presented him hee declined it by reciding from his right let there be no strife I pray thee betweene me and thee 4. It must be without dissimulation Saul jealous of David and afraid of him because of his wisedome and goodnesse as Princes usually are more jealous of the good then the foolish and dissolute ever others vertue is formidable to them he courteth him with great favours but all to destroy him there 's no such venomous malice out of hell as that which commeth up with a Judas kisse vailed with a shew of amity with a Scorpions imbrace the deeper to strike in the sting the Devills profered curtesies the world riches and honours the designe being to cast thee downe headlong and to make thy ruine the more irreparable by thine own consent 5. It must be constant as they woont to say ad aras to death that which can be lost was never true had it beene grounded on the unchangeable God it must ever have had the same immutable cause and consequently have beene unchangeable The signes of charity are 1. Long suffering 't is not captious nor easily provoked it beareth and endureth all things personall injuries cannot disband it if we love men for our owne sakes wee shall indeed hate them when they hurt us but if for Gods sake we shall use brotherly correction so as to make them understand their faults and repaire us againe and where they erre love their persons whose sinnes we ought to hate and pray for them when they curse and speake evill of us 2. It is kinde in communicating to the necessities of those that want they that have no bowels of compassion how dwelleth the love of God in them 3. It envieth not neither is discontented at others prosperity envie is fortunes companion the blacke shadow of honour ambitious kanker mischievously biting into the bud of merit few like Thrasibulus enjoy great glory without envy because few have the happinesse in their honour to be acquainted with godly love which envieth not but rejoyceth at others good 4. It vanteth not it selfe in boasting or exprobration of good done nor in rash effusions but maketh a deliberate choice of its object without being proud of its act 5. It is not puffed up the proud can bee no mans friend no not his owne Pride is unconsistent with any vertues it is as the worme at the root of Jonahs gourd which eateth up the life of vertue and religion the mischiefe which precipitated glorious Angels from heaven 't is amities paralysis societies enemie nurse of impatience which will neither suffer Caesar to endure a superiour nor Pompey an equall 't is the issue of an emptie braine none truely wise can be proud and the influence of Lucifer upon gracelesse hearts whom God resisteth charity is the daughter of humility 6. It behaveth not it selfe unseemly as sin which is an alaxie and disorder in action a deformitie in the inward man but as the most lovely of all vertues bearing the lively image of God the beauty of holinesse stooping to nothing uncomely or unjustifiable before God and man 7. It seeketh not her owne as doth selfe-love but the good of others it being more divine and honourable to doe good then to receive it 8. It thinketh no evill because it intendeth none commonly men measure others by their owne shadowes which is the cause that the worst are most jealous of others charity doth as it would suffer and thinketh the best where there is not apparent evidence of worse 9. It rejoyceth not in evill nor in iniquity there are that would seeme charitable and to have abandoned that pernitious appetite of revenge and yet secretly rejoyce at any evill which befalleth their enimie This is a proper affection of devills not men expresly forbidden Prov 24. 17. 18. Rejoyce not when thine enemie falleth and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth lâ—ast
the Lord see it and it displease him David mourned when his enemies were sick There are that can please themselves in that Pseudocharity which displeaseth God which is indeed but conspiracy in evill 10. Lastly it beleeveth and hopeth all things it is hard to possesse it of any evill opinion and in case of evident failings it will give men some hope of the offenders amendment We are next to consider love as it falleth under the peculiarity of friendship The bond of charity uniteth all but friendship some few 1. True friendship among men is loves 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 flower and vigour affections jewell amities quintessence societies perfection and sympathy of holy soules it is a mutuall love good will betweene two or more endeavouring each others good and safety expressed in performance of all lawfull offices so uniting friends in mutuall communications and similitude of affections as that some have stiled a friend anotherselfe such was betweene Jonathan and David David and Hushai the Archite a friend is he who loveth and is beloved The Philosopher said friendship is of all things divine and humane a supreame consent in love and good will next after wisedome the chiefe gift of God to man said the Oratour it is the rich mans security the poore mans riches the banished mans native soile the inâ—irme mans strength Physicke for the sick counsaile for the irresolute and doubtfull prosperities counseller and adversities comforter the solace of company reliefe of solitude the bond of society and life of life a friend is a jewell long sought rarely found hardly kept there is no pleasant possession of any thing without a partner The best most pleasant commodious and secure possession of all the earth was Paradise and yet there God who best knew man said it is not good that the man should be alone Gen 2. 18. man then in his happy innocency Wisdome is beyond all earthly goods but what were it to me more then a burden if I should receave it on this condition that I could not communicate it but must for ever keepe it shut up in mine owne minde I would not be troubled with that good which none might share with me I would not bee in heaven alone heaven it selfe is happy for its company the most blessed being which made heaven and earth subsisteth in an incomprehensible society which said in the beginning let us make man in our image after our likenesse who made him a sociable creature insomuch as that without friends all thoughts are tedious every worke a toile every land a peregrination every life a torment a death Friendship is a divine content of men the necessitie of whose neere conjunction and indissoluble unity that God might declare he made all of one flesh and appointed their propagation by united two Friendship is the comfort of this life if you take it away you should seeme to take the sun from heaven a friend is an excellent riches what were all the treasures in the world to me if there were none with whom I might communicate them Nothing doth countervaile a faithfull freind and his excellency is unvalewable I wonder not at the rate which the great Monarch Darius set on his Zopyrus whose free wish could pitch upon nothing in the world like many such friends Many and excellent are the fruits of freindship as some have noted for the easing and unlading our mindes multiplying our joyes extenuation of sorrowes by that sympathy of affections which is among true friends sharing in every estate Our prosperity is the more comfortable to us by how much more it is communicable to freinds who rejoyce in our good as we also doe in their rejoycing our adversity is made lighter by dividing the burden We ease our hearts when wee impart our griefe to a faithfull and prudent freind of whom wee may receive counsaile and assistance the advantage hereof our Saviour intimated to his Disciples when to comfort them against the sad apprehension of his approaching passion hee said I have called you freinds besides or above that love wherewith he loved all his he had some more peculiar relation among the elect to his Disciples and among them to a favorite or more intimate freind the beloved disciple Ointment and perfume rejoyce the heart so doth the sweetnesse of a mans freind by hearty counsaile saith Salomon a faithfull freind is a strong defence he that hath found such a one hath found a treasure better are two then one if they fall one will lift up the other but woe to him that is alone By a true freind wee are solaced in presence and comforted in absence no distance of place separateth the mind which loves our thoughts are with our absent freinds and therâ—in wee confer with them they are the joy of our health and comfort of our sicknesse me think's said the Philosopher I dye not while I leave them safe I live by them though not with them 2. Now because on the one side the best things corrupted become worst and the most dangerous vailes of treachery are shewes of love and freindship because there is no comfort of this present life which Satan more endeavoureth to poison and embitter then this while envying us the blessing he striveth to pervert and make it a curse by impropriating and abusing it to his own service in working his designe thereby making man a tempter and deputie-devill to man in those things which he could never effect but under the shewes and sacred name of friendship it behoveth us to beware of the serpent which lurketh under the sweet flowers And because on the other part if suspect of all men or neglect of seeking or gaining it deprive us of so admirable an advantage as is herein to be enjoyed wee thereby loose the comfort of this life of which without the use of friendship we may not only doubt whether it be humane but whether vitall he lives not who lives only to himselfe or but a brutish life onely acquaintance and familiarity with some without tasting the diviner fruits of freindship rendreth the Churlish Nabals no better then beasts which seeme affected with something analogicall to amitie in that after familiarity and much using together they will hardly obey their masters will to part them it behooveth us therefore seriously to consider what is herein to be done that we may neither loose nor abuse so great a blessing of God for want of providence to finde it or wisedome to use it that we may neither be deprived of the good nor deceaved by the evill that which is necessarily to be considered is 1. What is the centre of this friendship least wee erre in the proposition of the ende 2. What are the Lawes thereof least we abuse it or be abused by it 3. What choice we ought to make of freinds 4.
neither subject to time nor age the motions thereof are eternall it apprehendeth things present absent past and future it deliberateth formeth directeth discourseth judgeth doubteth concludeth so excellent is it that the Oratour said God hath not given any thing so divine to man and that there are certaine lineaments thereof more beautifull then of the body the body is adorned by the soule without which beauty it selfe becommeth gastly and good Abraham saith give me a possession of a burying place that I may bury my dead out of my sight the soule cannot be deformed by any unevennesse discomposure or disproportion of the body which it animateth as a beautifull feature is the same in a poore cottage and in a magnificent palace so is it in the beauty of the soule which is vertue with which could wee but see the soule of a Saint there 's no embellishment on earth so glorious no created beauty here of so divine a lustre The soule though now shut up in his darke prison having onely some diviner breathings in the rapts and heavenly contemplations which sometimes call it up like Moses to the mount or like a Jacobs ladder landeth it in God's presence hath some knowledge of its originall by grace unspeakable joy in the apprehension thereof which arresteth the desire as appeared in Peter seeing Christ transfigured and Paul wishing to be dissolved it being a great signe of our interest in heaven that wee feare not to part hence he knoweth whether he shall goe who remembreth whence he came but what shall bee the beauty of an holy soule in its separation when it shall be restored to its native heaven when it shall be all light and God shall be all in all Christs raiment on the mount became shining white as snow so as no Fuller on earth could white them Moses face he having talked with God became so glorious that Israel could not behold it without a vaile what shall our glory be when we shall be like Christ 2. The faculties of the soule are the understanding will memory affections and senses internall and externall My purpose being not to enter the lists with Philosophers but to direct Christians I shall not further consider these then as some of them doe very much concerne the practicall part and right ordering the thoughts of the heart and minde to the service of God and our mortification whereby we may be accommodated thereto 3. The heart in scripture often taken for the principall seat of the rationall soule imparteth any faculty hereof the mind is the inward act the result and proceed of its reason and discourse the thoughts as they say animus consilii est anima vitae the minde is the fountaine of counsell the soule of life and againe we understand by the minde and live by the soule This minde of man is sometimes a soveraigne to governe in vertue and sanctimonie it selfe and the body sometimes a tyrant and indulging to vice which like the worme bred in the wood destroyeth its own originall misled by tumultuous passions lusts vaine desires and other perturbations of a discomposed minde which having unthroned reason dangerously usurpe the command a prudent man whose cogitare is his vivere in the light height and use thereof differing him not only from the brutes but ignorant men doth principally enjoy himselfe in his minde and inward man There is indeed in humane possessions nothing great and excellent but a great and good minde contemning externall greatnesse or supposed excellencies as power strength riches beauty obvious to sense in respect of thaâ— which is within apprehensible by the enlightned understanding and certainly the all-wise God wâ—o created the affections ordained them to none but some excellent end use in the soule as handmaides to devotion and religion neither would he in our regeneration kill but correct them by moderating them where they grew extreame and retrenching them into their own channels where they overflow their banks like over ranck water sources becomming muddy and troubled with that which they fetch in from without or reducing them where they arâ— exorbitant All extreames are foolish and dangerous a Stoicall apathie is incompatible with a well composed minde and violent passion with a prudent the dead calme corrupteth aire water and violent blasts disturb them the moderate more safely purify the meane is best Affections are as they said of Caligula there is no better servant nor worse master good commanded mischievous reigning like fire and water there necessary here destructive without love there can be no acceptable service without anger no zeale without feare no coërcive power in the soule without hope no comfort which bringeth us to a necessary consideration of the hearts corruption vanity and exorbitancy of the thoughts and the necessity of their regulation by some rules of practice 1. The Corruptions of the heart are all only evill continually the heart is the fountaine of sinne hence are adulteries murders thefts rapine rebellions all the sinnes of man all iniquitie is here forged as 't is written Isai 32. 6. his heart will worke iniquitie hence words of falshood are conceived and uttered here is the root of war and mischiefe here errour frowardnesse and that hardnesse which excludeth all capacity of hearing and understanding Gods word and judgments that they may repent and be healed is hatched The heart is deceitfull above all things who can knowe it Jer 17. 9. Here lodgeth hypocrisie Jer 3. 10. Here secret sinnes like that unseene multitude which rangeth through the paths of the deeps such is counsell in mans heart Prov 20. 5. Nor is this the condition of some few but the secret corruption of all naturall men nor are the regenerate absolutely freed from these pollutions being yet partly flesh 2. The dangers hereof hence appeare first in that these are the seeds of every sin and fomenters thereof yea that which barreth from remedy faith and repentance Secondly as the Physitians say if there be a fault in the first concoction there will follow the like in the rest so is it here the hearts faults are derived to the tongue and all the actions of man it is a people said the Lord that doe erre in their hearts and they have not knowne my waies As the eye is deceaved through a fals medium so is the minde through the cloude of false opinion and the very thought of foolishnesse is sinne into which they must needs runne who set not their heart aright and whose spirit is not stedfast with God Thirdly God fearcheth the secrets of all hearts and will once make all the thoughts thereof manifest Fourthly hee requireth the heart Prov 23. 26. If a man regard iniquitie there hee cannot be heard Psal 66. 16. The thoughts of the wicked are an abomination to the Lord.
untill that Jonah be cast overboord we can never appease the surges of a troubled mind this must thou seek through hearty sorrow for thy sinnes this restringent acrimonie shall heale the fountaines that death and barrennesse may no more flow from the minde into thy words and actions t is a good signe of recovery when the disease changeth place so when we are pleased with repentance who woont to please our selves in sinne t is a token that sin declineth in us Secondly by committing thy workes unto the Lord so thy thoughts shall be established and lastly by filling thy soule with such happy thoughts as constant meditation on Gods word will furnish thee with as t is said let thy minde be upon the ordinances of the Lord and meditate continually on his commandements he shall establish thine heart and give thee wisdome at thine own desire 8 Overcome thyne own minde and in every thing as much as possibly thou canst subject it to right reason let not affection or passion master it 9 Set thy minde ever upon some good to prevent the rising of evill thoughts that the tempter may never finde thee at leisure to entertaine him The minde is naturally active and prone to thoughts yea when thou sleepest it hath its motions give it some businesse it cannot be inactive as the earth neglected for want of culture bringeth forth noisome weeds so will the minde evill and vaine extravagancies of thoughts if thou busie it not in good yea the light of reason is eclypsed by the mischievous interposition of vitious thoughts yet tyre not thy minde with too much or too weighty affaires proportion thy undertakings to thy strength the minde requireth some intermissions and rest which otherwise like the fields with perpetuall bearing will grow fruitlesse the unbalasted ship is easily overset with every gust of winde and too much loading sinketh her There is an Arke of Gods secret counsell into which thy thoughts may not looke there are also admirable mysteries out of which God calleth as out of that â—iery bush come not nigh hither put off thy shooes from off thy feet resigne thy thoughts to Gods immensity it is enough to beleeve his truth though thou canst not examine his incomprehensible secrets if thou wilt play with these flames thou shalt burn thy wings God hath revealed enough to make thee happy ambition of knowing more destroyed mankinde Commune with thine owne heart concerning that which may better thee Psal. 77. 6. and make thee happy divine soliloquies are a kinde of rapt to heaven and prepossession of that blessednesse use thy heart to thinke of good and heavenly things and such will thy thoughts words and actions be the heart of the wise teacheth his mouth Custome is a second nature therefore also the wiseman saith Wisedome resteth in the heart of him that hath understanding if the wicked the worst of fooles have any notion thereof it no more resteth with him then lightning in the aire 10 Set God ever beforâ—â—â—ee as a searcher of hearts and that which thou wouldeâ—t be ashamed to speake before others be ashamed to thinke with thy selfe Thoughts are the word of the heart which God heareth who therefore saith wherefore thinke yee evill in your hearts And curse not the King no not in thy thought bee thou pure in heart if ever thou meanest to see God let not thy heart dissent from thy tongue neither desire to seeme more holy then there thou art if thou intend to please him for he is omniscient 11. Pray the Lord to create a cleane heart and to renew a right spirit within thee to encline thy heart unto his testimonies to give thee an heart to know him to prepare thy heart that thou maist truely feare him meditate on him and love him above all and that he who cast out the tumultuous rabble from Jairus house would also be pleased to cast out of thy soule and mynde all those thoughts which offend him or hinder the riasing up thy soule to the life of grace CHAP. XIX Of the thoughts and ordering thereof § 1. Concerning the right ordering the thoughts in respect of some particular passions affections and perturbations of mind in their distempers of love and delight § 2. Of joy reioycing myrth and sorrow § 3. Of 〈◊〉 hatred malice envy § 4. Of impatience patience discontent and a contented mind FOR the right ordering the thoughts arising from some particular affâ—ctions or passions which usually discompose and render the mind lesse apt for the service of God and lesse comfortable to our selves we must ever have in mind the generall rule before laid down that extreame and violent passions of any kind are distempers of the soule which at best befoole a man if not as â—ypâ—crates thinketh make him mad they are like a deluge which rather overflow and drown then refresh the mind they are like an enraged Sea full of hazard they distuâ—be the intellectuals and distract the will look how all things in troubled waters seeme wreathed and disordered which in the still are cleerely seene so is it here the calme afâ—ections are more accommodate for Gods service and our use to come to some paâ—ticulars Love and delight are great 〈◊〉 in this present life every man hath some love and delight there is none that liveth without these The skill is That we set them on right obâ—ects as God Psal. 37. and heavenly things so they cannot fall into excesse and goodnesse so shall they make us good and happy 2. That we pervert not the order we must noâ— love or delight in any thing before God let him be our 〈◊〉 and cheife love and delight and we shall be happy in all that is subordinate 3. That no inferiour love or delight draw as away from Gods love there is a time place and measure for secular delights so far as they are subordinate to God make us more fit for his service and administer occasion and matter of thankfulnesse to him if otherwise if God love us he will take that away from us which else would take us from him a necessary rule for them to consider who too impatiently beare the losse of that they much loved or delighted in 4. That we neither love nor delight in any worldly thing otherwise then to hold it with a loose hand contented to part with it when God pleaseth to take it back again it was Jobs resolution the Lord gave and the Lord hath taken away and blessed be the name of the Lord. Concerning joy rejoycing and mirth the rules are that 1. God would not have us disconsolate but to rejoyce and be cheerfull in him evermore Dedolency melancholy dejectednesse worldly sorrow bitternesse of spirit and secret repining against Gods providence are dangerous symtomes of unbeleefe for if being justified
following it in due revenge it may be Justice handmaid not it's mistris Consider the dangerous effects thereof it is a short madnesse differing from it little more then in time It distorts the countenance precipitates the minde and so disturbeth reason that for the time it turneth man to beast hence the unguarded mouthes unbridled tongues reproaches calumnies contumelies conflicts all fruits of fury spring this whets the sword breaks the sacred bands of Nature and Religion making men butchers of men Look how some sudden deluge over-â—unnes the verdant â—ields overthrowing the husbandmans most flourishing hopes sata laeta â—oumque labores so rusheth the impetuous flood of anger into the minde covering dangerously for the time if not drowning the fairest plants of vertue wisdome and temperance under that bitternesse of minde and breathing of revenge leaving neither venerable age tender youth alliance nor any thing sacred or unspared It depriveth thee of counsell rendreth thee troublesom to thy friends exposeth thee to thine enemies and maketh thee a fruitlesse teacher when patience and mildenesse wonld leave better impression and root then the best Precepts sowed in stormes it maketh thee an unjust Judge who correctest thy childe or servants fault with a greater fault of thine owne intemperance desire and anger are the worst counsellers it not only distrubeth the soule but deformeth the outword man could the angry man but see himself what change that passion worketh in his countenance as much altered from it's native beauty as is the face of the thundering skie from the lovely serene or the enraged sea from the calm he could not possibly like that distemper therefore Plato advised his Scholars when they were angry to looke into a glasse if ever the odious spirit of Satan look out of the windowes of mans face 't is in his exorbitant anger what deformity worketh it in the divine soule obvious to the eies of God what disadvantage as those dogges of the profane Donatists whom they fed with the bread of the holy Eucharist not without an evident signe of God's justice enflamed with raging madnesse fell upon their owne masters as strangers and enemies and did teare them with revenging teeth so cometh it oft to passe that impious anger destroyeth the angry Hee that can by right reason bridle his anger hath great advantage First in point of paciâ—ication A soft answer turneth away wrath secondly in respect of victory for the patient man enâ—lineth the prudent witnesses to his party so that thou shalt more foil the violent with meeknesse then retaliation of injuries and contumelies in which sense it is true a soft tongue breaketh the bone next thy counsell better recovereth it seat by thy forbearance and thou loosest nothing of thy interest by delaying that which thou must once say or doe to conclude in thy most just causes of anger remember what God beareth with thee be not like that evill servant who having found much mercy would shew none lest thy judgement be like his Matth. 18. 34. 5. Malice is the venome of the old dragon Satans bitter influence on the wicked and his lively imagâ— in them The fire of hell breaking out on the men of this world mother of revenge and malefices symptome of an unregenerate heart Tit. 3. 3. affection of a reprobate minde Rom. 1. 29. he devill 's leaven which must be purged out of all those who will communicate with Christ our Passover fuell of God's anger Colos. 3. 6 8. and obstruction to his free mercy who cannot justifie the malicious because hee is just and true who said If yee forgive not men their trespasses neither will your father forgive you and because it is wholly incompatible with the love of God so that it is impossible at once to love God and malice thy brother Concerning it I need set down none other rule but this if malice be in thy heart leave all pretences and presently cast it out if ever thou meanest to enter into the kingdome of the God of love 6. Envy is a griefe for others prosperity or good an evill and perturbation of the minde so odious that to bring it to view is motive sufficient to make us loath and shunne it it is a tare of the wicked ones sowing earnest of divine ultion and punishment impediment to piety way to hell and barre to the kingdome of heaven it is a pernicious attendant to prosperity a vanity and vexation of spirit Eccles. 4. 4. a fruit of unregeneration Rom. 1. 29. daughter of self-love and pride result of carnal mindes worke of the flesh obstruction of edification and growth by the sincere milke of God's word blashemous censure of the most high whose judgement it disalloweth secretly taxing and repining at his providence who disposeth of all things in heaven and in earth setting up and pulling down distributing to every one according to his good pleasure It is a devillish wisedome companion of confusion and every evill worke the mischievous canker which biteth the fairest buds of vertue attempting either to cloud them with incredulity because the envious cannot attain thereto or labouring to blast them with impious calumnies I need not hereto cite the example of Antigenes and Teutamus conspiring against the truly noble Eumenes of Philips Sycophants against Aratus nor of Domitians envying Agricola his worth nor Sauls envying David Cain Abel Rachel her sister the Patriarches Joseph seeing it is manifest that Christ Jesus in whom were all perfections was envied There 's nothing so little but stimulateth it nothing so sacred or high but this hellish furie will flie at it Joseph'â— particoloured coat awakeneth it and it staies not till it strike at holy Jesus the natalls hereof were in Lucifer envying God his monarchie and ambitious to share in his Soveraignty The natural historians tell of some countries free from Serpents but who can tell mee of any free from envy 't is the common plague which haunts the court like those croping plagues of Egypt not sparing Pharoah's owne bed and it filleth the country with false eies making our neighbours fields seem more fruitfull then our own 't is a monster God made it not born of other affections depravation as anger feare jealousie self-selfe-love which causeth indignation if another attain any good envy thinks all the would too little for it one mouth all this availeth me nothing so long as Isee Mordecai the Jew sitting at the Kings gate said ambitious Haman in his envy And againe To whom would the King delight to do honour more then to my selfe If any want arguments to diswade him from envy let him consider 1. That envy hurteth the envious most There is no worse torment invented by tyrants nothing more unjust nothing more just the serpents poison hurteth not himself but envy is worst to the envious as the moth â—ateth the garment
taketh not away faiths confidence but the security of the flesh 3. Lay up the promises of God therefore were they written that we through patience and comfort of the Scriptures might have hope 4. Set not up thy rest in this world neither trust in any thing thereof it is but like a staffe of reed a loose rope at Sea a false friend forsaking in adversity the quick-sands on which foolish builders lay their foundation as Moses told Israel yee are not come to your rest all Worldly things change continually here can be no constancy among the sonnes of Men prosperity is but like a faire morning quickly overcast with hideous stormes like the morning dew soon vanishing like a faire flower a Jonah's gourd such is all Worldly joy there is no sure hope but in the living God who changeth not neither deceiveth trust 5. Take heed of vaine hopes specially those which are against right reason lest thou tempt God they deceive men such is their trust who contemne the ordinary means in expectation of miracles and they who doe things against the expresse word of God in vaine hope of pardon 6. Propose not too great things to thy selfe we are often the evident authors of our own sorrowes when we promise peace health and prosperity to our selves this high-flying ambition sometimes looseth it feathers and we fall into bitterness when we come short of that which we vainly promised our selves 'T were better never climb then rise to fall 7. Pray to the God of hope and consolation to infuse a sure hope and confidence into thy soule A Prayer for Hope O Lord God my earnest expectation and my hope my fortresse helper and deliverer though my numberlesse sinnes have deserved thy wrath so that thou maist justly cast me off into hopelesse despaire and finall destruction yet look upon me in mercy through thy Christ in whom thou hast commanded me to beleeve and promised remission of my sinnes and eternall life for his sake assure me thereof that there may be hope in my end Though thou now fill my wounded spirit with bitternesse removing me from peace and comfort so that forgetting prosperity I goe mourning all the day long though thou humblest my dejected soule with grievous weights of sorrowes and makest my eyes fountains of teares driving me to solitude and silence with them that mourne in Zion yet art thou good to them that waite for thee and to the soule that seeketh thee thy mercies are renewed every morning thy compassions â—aile not thou hast opened unto me the riches of thy mercies in Christ 〈◊〉 caused me to trust in thee thou hast according to thine abundant 〈◊〉 begotten me againe to a lively hope by the resurrection of Christâ—om â—om the dead of an inheritance incorruptible therefore my soule hath â—id thou art my portion therefore will I trust in thee Truth it is ô Lord that the hopes of the hills are vaine so is all confidence in man unhappy is that hope which is not in thee but in spight of Satans malice blessed must he be whose hope thou art he shall be like a tree planted by the waters of life which cannot faile because thou canst not deceive trust ô God of all consolation therefore now at last speake peace to my afflicted soule let me not be disappointed of my hope though thou please to weane me from the love of an unkind and trustlesse World by permitting me to such griefe and sorrow yet seeing thou art my trust from my youth let me not be ashamed of my confidence let thy mercy be still my hope and thy grace my strength amidst all the stormes and surges of afflictions fasten my soules Anchor on the land of the living my rock who is entred within the vaile to make requests for me give me patience to beare untill the time of comfort and refreshing shall come from thy gracious presence give me the helmet of salvation assurance of all that which thou hast promised in thy word and layed up for me in heaven let the experience of thy former goodnesse in many deliverances give me a doore of hope for the future that I may more and more trust in thee Thou who art the God of hope fill me with joy and peace in beleeving that I may abound in hope through the power of thy holy spirit Give me strong consolation and full assurance of thy mercy that continuing grounded and established in a stedfast hope of my resurrection to a life of glory at the appointed houre my flesh may rest in hope and my soule be cheerfully rendred into thy gracious hands to rest with thee through Jesus Christ my ever-blessed Lord and Saviour Amen 1. Feare is a pensive and sorrowfull expectation of some evill to come imminent or so supposed wee feare any thing which is evil reall or apparent many times that which is not feare is opposite to fortitude as one extream of participation and as it allayeth too much daring limits it and so is good but as it exceedeth in it extream pernicious There can be no vertue where there is no fortitude hee can never be holy toward God or honest toward men who dareth not to be so because Satan will be sure to work upoâ— the timerous putting before him continual though 〈◊〉 and vaine feares like hunters Suells to put the fearfull 〈◊〉 from the safe wayes so driving through pusillanimity 〈◊〉 timidity that he maketh them evill for feare of men whom the true feare of God cannot make good 2. To omit many acceptations of the word 1. There is a natural feare and that of two sorts in respect of the object first concerning the avoidance of sinne for the love of God so Adam in his innocency having heard the threatning feared to sin because he would not offend God whom he loved above all for however Adam in the temptation lost this feare and so sinned yet in the rectitude of his minde he had it before the temptation prevailed upon him and secondly concerning the avoidance of sorrow in apprehension of God's anger against sinne committed so Christ feared Matth. 26. 38. Heb. 5. 7. both without sinne neerest to this cometh the filial fear of the regenerate who though through infirmity they often sinne and feare to displease God by any offence as it is said The â—ear of the Lord is to hate evil This is the beginning of wisedome and it is principally in foure things 1. That wee set God ever before our eies living as in his sight and presence 2. That we know and acknowledg him as the omniscient witnesse and just Judge of all our thoughts words and actions 3. That wee feare not creatures in respect of him 4. That wee ever do that which is just and acceptable to him though none other can witnesse against us so did good Joseph and who ever is offended with us for the same so did Daniel and those other servants of God 2. There
is before married to some other living person where degrees of consanguinity or affinity hinder where there is no consent of parents where there is no compulsion by violence fear or importune commands of superiors in fine where the marriage is not lawful God joined not and therefore it is no sin for man justly to separate where man unjustly joined 2. Marriage was ordained by God in Paradise in the state of mans innocency wherein hee who best knew his owne work in man and not only what he then was but also what he would be pronounced It is not good that the man should be alone and to shew their neer conjunction hee made the woman of the man that the propagation of all mankinde might be of united two one flesh and the eternal God having taken on him humane nature that being truely God and man he might be the only mediator between God and man honored and adorned marriage with his own sacred presence and first miracle which hee wrought in Cana of Galile how much more necessary now is an helper in the present state of sin and misery wherein the holy Ghost pronounceth it is better to marry then to burn wherein sin hath subjected man to many afflictions and infirmities so that the wisest of meer men said woe to him that is alone 3. The end and fruits of holy matrimony are 1. An holy obedience to God's ordinance who severely chargeth all that have not the gift of continency to observe the lawes of chaste matrimony and thereby to keep themselves undefiled members of Christ's mystical body the Church and not to give the members thereof to an harlot 2. That for the encrease of Christ's kingdome mankinde may be pure legally and orderly propagated 3. That men and women might avoid fornication and the punishments following the same exclusion from the kingdome of God and more varieties of temporal punishments in estate reputation horror of conscience and sundry bodily diseases then are visibly inflicted on any other sinne 4. That man might have a helper in his domesticall affaires bringing up of his children and ordering his family a companion in prosperity and a partner and comforter in affliction 5. That the mutuall love of man and wife might teach us the admirable love of Christ to his Church and his individible unity with her care for her and providence over her In this great mystery not only the Apostle but Solomon in his Song of Songs expresseth Christ's love and the Churches happinesse Concerning the choice to be made I would give my children this counsel 1. In general What ever you doe aime principalâ—y at the honor of God and study to please him in your choice which rule when too many neglect their principall care being to please their carnal parents or themselves by some great portion or estate honour and gaine of powerfull allies beauty qualities and amiable features of those with whom they match not caring how God is pleased or displeased his fearfull judgments follow them so as that which they chose for their delight and comfort proveth their most bitter affliction and the ruine of their family be sure therefore to consult the Lord in thy choice desiring that he would guide thee as in all thy affaires and interests spiritual and secular so specially in this of these the greatest and that which shall render thee either most happy or unhappy therein advise with his oracles for thy direction which in the precept command thee to obey thy parents in all things and to have their consent and in the example of the holy not to engage thy selfe without their consent who will be faithfull counsellâ—rs to thee and have much more experience of the world then thou canst have 2. In particular as the same word saith Be not unequally yoked together with unbeleevers for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrightcousnesse what communion hath light with darknesse what part hath hee that beleeveth with an Infidel what agreement hath the temple of God with Idols In such an unhallowed union they cannot with the same minde and spirit serve God together in praiers and holy exercises of religion nor be united in holy peace who are not in God nor bring up their children with mutual care in the feare of God nor can the many bitter dissentions hence arising be avoided nor the calamities which usually follow such divisions God having so expresly forbidden such marriages See Exod. 34. 1 2. Deut. 7. 3. Gen. 6. 1 2. 1 King 16. 31. 1 King 21. 25. 2 King 8. 18 27. 2 King 11. 1. 2 Chron. 22. 10. I may conclude of such as Sampson's father and mother said Is there never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren or among all my people that thou goest to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines 3. Reason will advise thee not to be ambitious of matching in a family or to a person too unequall in fortunes or condition if thou marry too low thou callest thy judgment or integrity into a difficult question if too high thou hast taken up an honorable burden the equal yoke is best 4. Choose neither for nor without an estate and such a beauty as may please thee riches and beauty are very considerable to him that would live and love but vertue is incomparably better then both it is hard to feed a poore wife or to endure the usual insolencies of the rich to love the ill-favoured or to be secure of the beautiful 't is a misery wilfully incurred for wealths sake to condemne ones self to a loathed bed and it is an undoubted madnesse to aspire to the enjoying that beauty wherewith chastity seldom dwelleth which may please many and displease and make thee unhappy God hath shewed his admirable power and wisedom as in all the creatures so in the countenances of men and women in that within little more then the compasse of an hands breadth he hath made such variety as that among millions of millions there are none either much unlike or absolutely like in all lineaments yet had hee not made as much or more variety in the mindes and affections some one beauty for proportion colour feature and genius must have been the adored and therein unhappy Helâ—na the Cynosure of most mens loves the admired piece of nature and breeding the load-stone drawing all affection into a turbulent and restlesse center of corrival-ship but his providence is also seen in the variety of love and liking some like the black as to them most beautiful therefore the Moors made their Gods black and flat-nosed and the Barbarians made theirs yellow both shewing what they esteemed beauty for seeing their complexion proportion and lineaments were in their power who made that which they would foolishly and did impiously adore no doubt they would strive to give them the greatest perfections of beauty and lovely proportion as the
painter did when he borrowed all the perfections of beauty he possibly could to furnish his pourtraict of Venus so that these nations made them of such proportion and colour as they thought most beautiful which sheweth that beauty is not in white and red or so much in any sixed standart as to be weighed by his affection who likes and loves whence it commeth to passe that affection being Clarke of the Market making or at least determining the true value and price of beauty yea beauty it selfe there is almost no face but some can like and love it best I might say therefore if beauty were not so much in opinion yet is it fading flowers are the emblemes thereof Favor is deceitfull and beauty is vaine but a woman that feareth the Lord shee shall be praised love which only beauty enflames is like fire in stubble soon going out except it finde some more solid fuel to preserve it The ancient Heathens in their fable of Pygmalion falling in love with the image which he made and obteining a metamorphosis thereof into a woman and his wife quickly disliked under a false vaile as oft they did understood this morall trueth That such is the mutability of mans minde that if he might be permitted according to his desire to make himselfe a fortune hee would not long like his own option and â—igment specially that which is grounded on so fraile a good as beauty every day subject to change by the power of sicknesse if no worse corruption Regard riches and beauty in thy choice that thou maist subsist and love but choose not for either or both but principally for vertue not subject to the lawes of time or age 5. If thou art under parents or governers match not without their consent 6. Lastly so far as by diligent enquiry thou canst discern take heed of 1. An impious Athaliah or false Delilah likewise of a tempter hee or shee who will not be good toward so good a God what hope is there they will or can be good to thee what mischiefe what curse maist thou not reasonably expect from such company as God hateth and will finally destroy 2. A proud and expensive Jezabel such must needs prove thy families calamity pride goeth before ruine the spendthrift is more devouring then the sea that is sometimes long devouring a patrimony this quickly swalloweth up all there may be some defence found against that but if Solomon himselfe were tutor to this foole his instruction should finde no capacity in him 3. A curst and intractable nature a provoking Miriam a sullen Vashti a jeering Nichol a scolding Zipporah a stingie Peninnah and a revengeful Herodias why any one should be in love with a bear it must seem strange to us but some are of an affection so paradoxical that they can because they are of the like ungentle rough disposition for parity of manners begeteth liking but if thou love comity affability and that sweetnesse of behaviour which becometh the people of God avoid a churlish Nabal and a d Xâ—ntippe quà m in Socratem prius convitia maledicta ingessisset post verò sordidis aquis perâ—udisset inquit Nonne dicebam Xantippem tonantem quandoque pluituram Laert. l. â— Socrat. shrill Xantippe whose thunder will not only startle thee by day but like an importune gnat she will be singing about thy eares when thou wouldst â—leep whose impudent barbarismes will render thee ridiculous to thy acquaintance and pitied of thy friends whose spirit of contradiction will embitter all that which should sweeten an happy society neither let some calmes deceive thee the sea is lovely when no breath of winde moveth it to rage the fiercest are kinde in their times of love consider well what men and women are when they are angry and how thou canst change bridle or bear that nature he that keepeth salvage beasts may render up his charge when hee will but the unhappy married covenant till death us depart Take heed of objects too great for thy power or patience 4. An intemperate luxurious or drunken mate e Pascitur â—ibido conviviis nutritur deliciis c. Amb. de poen l. 1. cap. 14. Lust is fed at full tables which beggery and misery attend to take away the intemperate and drunken is the devils anvile on which hee can forge any sinne when Satan with large promises tempted the yong man to kill his father hee abhorred the suggestion likewise when he proposed in the second place that hee should commit adultery he refused it when hee brought him into company and exhorted him to doe as others did drinking he became drunken and in that madnesse slew his father and committed adultery drunkennesse is broker to any sin 5. A bold and familiar behaviour in women is a dangerous symptom of immodesty Lascivious gesture impudent discourse and affectation of strange attire are but the bush to shew what is vendible within take heed of a gadding Dinah and a tame woman I deny not but such may be chaste but it seemeth hardly probable that they would be such Of all domestick miseries the adulterous wiâ—e is incomparably worst and most of all such calamities to be abhorred of those that are to choose and to be pitied in all that have made such choice except in those that have made them or suspected them before to be such f Pro. 6 25 26. lust not after her beauty in thine heart neither let her take thee with her eie-lids for by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a morsel of bread and the adulteresse will hunt for the precious life g Prov. 5. 8. Remove thy way farre from her and come not nigh the door of her house 6. Take heed of matching into an infamous family it is true God can call and so doth h Luke 7. some infamous sinners home to wash the feet of Christ with teares of repentance he can and doth take some out of the most sinful families to make them instances of his mercy but commonly partus ventrem sequitur an adulterous Herodias hath a dancing daughter easily infected with her mothers sicknesse it is a desperate adventure to choose there Concerning the mutual Dueties of the married these duties are observable 1. That they serve God together with one heart and consent §. III. so Abraham and Sarah Isaac and Rebecca Zacharie and Elisabeth so all the children of God in that state do 2. That both hold the bond of conjugal love entire pure and unpolluted while Solomon chargeth the man i Prov. 5. 18 c. rejoice with the wife of thy youth let her breasts satisfie thee at all times he enjoineth the woman the same duety let both ever remember the covenant they have made before God and that dreadful word 1 Cor. 6. 9 10. Be not deceived neither fornicators nor idolaters nor adulterers shall inherit the kingdom of God 3. That they live together in love peace
the Woman was of the man without paine because innocent but now the man is of the woman with her sorrow because she hath sinned a sorrow so intense and embittered with feare and anguish that the Holy Ghost hereby expresseth the condition of the fainting afflicted and dejected spirit in sodaine feares of the affrighted conscience expecting an inevitable judgement The hower of birth and death the entrance and exit of this World being solely in Gods hand and secret counsaile none else knowing the time nor being able to dispose thereof reason more then apparent urgeth the necessity of addresse to him 2. Some are the sepulchers of their Children gone out of ere they came into this World exiled before they saw a native soile advanced from a short imprisonment in the wombe to the glorious liberty of the sonnes of God to the blessed Kingdome of Heaven before they touched this cursebearing earth some see their Benoni and thence have passage into eternall life where the sentence of death began some live to tast their sorrowes allay in â—he sweetest temper of divine mercy with justice becoming rejoycing mothers all is disposed by the all-guiding providence and unlessened power of Gods word who at the beginning but spake and it was done It hath much troubled some to think why if our sinnes be pardoned in Christ are not the punishments thereof also taken away as here why the elect and reprobate the chast matron and filthy adultresse should in this sentence share and suffer alike for satisfaction herein let the servant of God considerâ— 1. That whereas all sinne though not in the same kinde measure or degrees there remaining the same cause there must remaine the same effect in all that bring forth 2. This life is the stadium or race which we have through the variable distractions and tryalls of seducing pleasures and dejecting paines so to runne that we may obtaine here all are a like the Wheat and the tares must grow up togeather unto the harvest the difference shall appeare in the binding up which shall sufficiently crowne or punish 3. Gods finall sentence is adjourned to the Worlds great Assizes the day in which he hath appointed to judge in righteousnesse if he should by present rewards or punishments distinguish between good and evill the matter of Religion would seem acted by selfe-love feare awing and gaine alluring servile mindes to secure and serve themselves not God rather then the love of God which is the summe and ground of all true obedience nor should men according to the mercifull ordinance of God live by Faith but sense the lives of beasts rather then of men they are drawn to obsequie by rewards held out to them or compelled to duty by stripes but these by Faith in the promises of God even when there appeareth in things externall no difference between the wicked and the just nor indeed should God otherwise leave a due place for faiths reward which is not slitely tryed by our present sharing in secular evills with the wicked nor so just and great a punishment of sinne by permitting the disobedient to runne on in their own wayes storing up wrath against the day of wrath and greatning their own damnation 4. Though there is much difference in the issue between the temporall afflictions common to elect and reprobate they being the beginning of destruction to these and a fatherly correction to the other that they might not be condemned with the World yet he continueth them to his dearest children in this life that they may make them throughly sensible of the odiousnesse of sinne by the bitter effects thereof of Gods immutable and inviolable justice the same now which it was when this dolefull sentence was first pronounced of the corrupted state of mans depraved nature conceived in sinne and therefore comming into living in and going out of the World with sorrow and lastly of the necessity of our repaire by faith and continuall renewing our repentance 5. As all other afflictions are not only mitigated but made good to the Saints and coâ—perative for the best to them that love God so is this for through this temporall Childbearing they shall be saved if they continue in Faith and Charity with holinesse and sobriety and in the mean time they are not without their peculiar comforts 1. Our Saviour noted it So soon as she is delivered of the child she remembreth no more the anguish for joy that a man is borne into the World Doubtlesse as it was and is an affliction to be childlesse so it cannot but be a comfort to her that by an holy progeny encreaseth the Kingdome of God to be her Husbands blessing a fruitfull Vine upon the walls of his house God promising the fruit of the wombe and the sweet Olive branches round about the table for a blessing to them that feare him and walke in his waies 2. It must be a comfort to consider how God not only in Christ in whom male and female have equall interest hath taken off the curse from this sexe made coe-heires with us of the same grace but also the dishonour and bitternesse of their sentence by some peculiar favours and consolations as first that he sent forth his Sonne made of a Woman without man so that he made her mother of Christ according to the flesh that shee might by the power of the most high conceive her Saviour that as shee was the unhappy doore to let in sorrowes and paines deaths terrible harbingers and destruction on all her posterity so she might be to let in Christ the peace happinesse redeemer and life of all the elect Secondly that God made her seed to break the serpents head 3. That he made a Woman the first witnesse of the accomplishment thereof in his resurrection from the dead that the sexe that first heard and felt the sentence on sinne should first see and beleeve the ransome of our sinne there accomplished where death was absolutely vanquished 3. In the sweet object of their affection they most tenderly love who suffer the most bitter sorrow for Children God sometimes expresseth the constancy of his love by a mothers can a Mother forget could a greater among the children of men have been found his infinite love and compassion towards man should have been weighed by it 4. In their Husbands greater love as Leah said now therefore my Husband will love me none but the unnaturall but will have compassion and the more tender love to her by whose sorrowes God hath made him glad by the comfort of deare Children pledges of his posterity 5. In their Childrens love and duty who forsake not the law of their mother as fooles who are their living sorrowes onely the wicked forget their Mothers paines and care for them the ravens of the vallies are too milde executioners for them who despise their Mother when shee is old who looketh
not on her with honour tender love and duty nothing can fully recompence the ingratitude of this generation of Vipers their Mothers sorrow and destruction but hell Gods children love and honour his Ordinance in their parents For direction and comfort before their Travaile let Women 1. Spend the time of their expectation as they would doe the howers of their last day in hearty repentance for all their sinnes making their peace with God labouring to strengthen their faiths by recounting the comfortable promises of God in Christ Jesus rendring themselves with patience meeknesse and confidence into his mercifull hands who alone can keep them strengthen and comfort them in their paines and make them joyfull Mothers 2. Consult with God in all their fears and sorrowes as Rebecca did by the holy scriptures which are his Oracles giving certaine and infallible answers conference with the prudent Saints meditations and ascensions of the afflicted soule into Gods gracious presence 3. Reconcile themselves to all those whom they have injured by repairing them what they can for it is a condition of their salvation in childbearing that they continue in Faith and Charity and if all must quickly agree with their adversaries while they are in the way then they specially who as they say of Seamen may be reckoned between the living and the dead and in hazard of a sodaine convention at the barre by the end of this life 4. It must be a grave document as to all so specially to married Women of modesty and chastity I know not what comfort the adultresse can have who bringeth forth her Husbands irreparable injury her own shame Children of Whoredomes the indelible staine of their blood and their posterities dishonour all this with paine and horrour or more dangerous stupidity of a sinfull conscience whereas the good conscience of the chast is the soules rest bed of perfumes Garden of spices sorrowes lenitive griefes faire havens the soules Paradice and afflictions sanctuary with which though they have externall sorrowes yet are they blessed happy is the way however rough and fearefull by which they come to eternall life as the externall prosperity of the wicked can never make their waies better then destructive and unhappy So neither can any afflictions sorrowes feares or paines of the elect make them lesse then truely blessed because all these are but as the stepps in Jacobs ladder whose last shall land them in the presence of God as it is written we must through much tribulation enter into the Kingdome of God 5. Let them pray frequently and fervently that God would be pleased to measure their sufferings by that assistance which he will give them strengthen them to their labour mitigate their paines grant them a speedy and safe deliverance that they may enjoy the blessing of propagation to the encrease of his Kingdome the glory of his holy name and their eternall rejoycing after their temporall sorrowes which hee hath appointed them A prayer for Woemen in or neere their Travaile MOst glorious and holy Lord God almighty creator and mercifull preserver of all thy creatures who hast commanded the weary and heavy laden to come to thee and promised by the sonne of thy love and truth Christ Jesus to ease them we prostrate our selves before thy throne of mercy with bended knees and trembling hearts yet with assurance of thy faithfulnesse to performe who hast freely promised Truth it is O Lord when we consider our own deservings we can look for nothing but the severity of thy justice and rejection from thy gracious presence that thou shouldest take no delight in us when we come before thee but that the spreadiâ—g out of our hands in Prayer should be a trouble and wearinesse unto thee we confesse that destruction of body and soule by all those judgements which thou hast denounced against the first sinners is due unto us if thou enter into judgement with us we accuse and condemne our selves as most vile and utterly unable to stand in judgment before thee the searcher of the heart and reines and most unworthy of the least of those favours which our necessities compell us to beg at thy mercifull hands in confidence that thou wilt not breake the bruised reed reject the penitent nor condemne them who condemne themselves we renounce our selves that we may be found in the righteousnesse of our Lord Jesus It was he ô blessed Father who being the eternall Word Wisdome and Power by whom the World was created and is still sustained yet to save us miserable sinners and so his enemies was made flesh for us became man to set us free took on him the forme of a Servant to sanctify and redeeme us from sinne begun in our conception and encreasing from our birth vouchsafed to be conceived in the Virgins wombe by the Holy Ghost and to be borne the man of sorrowes to suffer the severity of thy wrath against sinners 't was he that dyed for our sinnes and rose againe for our justification that thereby he might pull out the sting of death and change the judgements into fatherly corrections 't was he that became a curse for us to redeeme us from the curse of the law that by his stripes we might be healed that the blessing the promise of the spirit the comforter might come on us through faith in him for his sake holy Father be reconciled to us for his sake encline thy gracious cares to our prayers now according to thine own appointment calling on thee Thou hast indeed threatned the first sinner to multiply her sorrowes in her travailes and that sentence as the sinne in which we fell is become hereditary in paines sorrow feare and anguish in these bitter effects of sinne we acknowledge thy just judgements but Lord correct us not in thine anger consider the frailty and infirmity of this poorâ— dust and earth wherewith thou hast clothed us consider not what we have done but what thy holy Sonne Jesus in that sacred flesh indivisibly united to the Godhead hath suffered for us accept his obedience who hath done and suffered all things which thy determinate counsaile had before all worlds appointed for the worke of our redemption We are unworthy to be heard but Lord heare him ascended into heaven to take possession thereof for us and now sitting at thy right hand a faithfull mediator for us and bearing the remembrance of us before thee he is truely God able to heare and help all them that call upon him faithfully and truly man who hath had experience and can be toucht with a sense of humane miseries for his sake heare us speaking the same things to thee here on earth which his own spirit helping our infirmities both dictateth to us from heaven and presenteth to thee for us in heaven Lord for his sake helpe us give us true and hearty repentance assure us of our sinnes remission and our discharge from the curse and rigor of the law
provoked by our sinnes O Lord thou art a God of mercy and wouldst not destroy but the importunitie of our sinnes hath put this heavy rod into thy hands and our iniquities have so much dâ—faced thy glorious Image in us that thou maist justly hide away thy face from our miseries no more owne us for thy Children but O Lord our onely hope is in the merit and mediation of thy sonne Jesus Christ whome thou gavest to death for us it is he O Lord who beareth all our names in his secret brest-plate it is he that appeareth hefore thee for us let our petitions ascend to thy throne of mercy like sweet incense from the precious censer of his merits it is he who standeth betweene the living and the dead O let this plague which now consumeth us be stayed Lord looke not on our sinnes but his merits in whome thou art well pleased for his sake in whome we beleeve and whose holy name we beare say unto the destroying angell it is enough cause him to sheath the sword againe and let this plague cease Lord God of all consolation comfort all those whom thou hast smitten with the infection heale them that they may recover and praise thy glorious name however thou shalt be pleased to deale with their mortall bodies speake peace to their soules and save them give them full assurance of thy mercy and their redemption in Christ Jesus let thy holy spirit the comforter ever remaine with them to prâ—serue them against all the malitious assaults of the adversary that he may never make his advantages on their surrowes infirmities or the distracting and astonishing violence of their disease comfort them at the last gaspe and breathing out their afflâ—cted soules with present sense and assurance of the eternall joyes in thy Kingdome free from death sicknesse sorrow feare and all the wretched effects of sinne preserue those whom thou hast hitherto spared let no plague come nigh their dwelling and make them in their preservation understand that thou only hast kept them to serve thee more carefully and thankefully and to shew mercy to those who are visited and shut up Lord heare and help us Lord spare thy people and restore us health that we may glorifie thy name through Jesus Christ our Lord. AMEN A Thanksgiving at the ceasing of the plague GRatious God and mercifull Father we are come before thee with an humble and hearty desire to present an acceptable sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving unto thy holy Majestie for all thy gracious mercies spirituall and temporall bestowed upon us unworthy of the least of them it was thy free mercy not our merit that electedst us when we were not that thou createdst us to thine own holy image that thou redeemest us that thou didst sanctify and justify us that thou hast preserved us sparing us when now thy fierce wrath came our against us in a noisome and devouring pestilence that thou was pleased to regard our teares and accept our unworthy humiliation all this was thy free mercy had we suffered as we have all deserved not one of the multitude apearing before thee this day had beene left alive to have praised thee And now O thou Saviour of Israel in the time of trouble and the blessed preserver of man whose mercies are as the unsounded deeps and can never be drawn dry give us sanctified bodies and soules that we may render them which thou hast redeemed from death a living sacrifice holy and acceptable unto thee Lord who hast the key of David who sang thy praises opening so that none can shut open our lips that our mouths may shew forth thy praise that we may now pay all our vows in our distresse and feare made unto thee As thou hast put a new song of thansgiving into our mouthes so give us new hearts new obedience new lives and conversations renew thy covenant with us and with our children to be our God and protector untill thou shalt be pleased to translate us to that Kingdome of thy Sonne where shall be joy secure from feare of loosing health without sicknesse life without death blessednesse without all measure or end where we whose hearts and soules this day praise thee shall with thy holy angels sing eternall Hallelu-jahs to the glory of thy great name through the merits of thy holy Son Jesus Christ our Lord to whom with thee O Father of mercy and the Holy Ghost the Comforter be rendred all honour praise thanksgiving and glory in heaven and earth this day and to all eternity AMEN Another forme of thanksgiving on the like occasion O Lord God Father of mercy and compassion we humbly acknowledge that our sinnes have beene so great and grievous that when thy wrath went out against us in thy late dreadfull visitation by the plâ—gue of pestilence it might justly have consumed us the aged with the infant the mother with the child untill thou hadst laid our habitations wast and our cities without inhabitants but seeing thou hast been pleased to remember mercy in the midst of thy judgements and to spare our lives from destruction we can do no lesse nor more then present our humble and hearty thankes unto thee in the congregation of thy people what shall wee give thee for all thy mercies what can we seeing our goods are nothing unto thee we have nothing but thankes to returne thee nor could we that except thou gavest us hearts and tongues so to doe Lord make us thankfull give us that we may give thee again and be acceptable unto thee fill our hearts with thy feare and love and our mouthes with thy praise let it come up into thy presence as the sweete incense from the Censer of the great Angell of thy covenant Christ Jesus Be thou pleased through his mediation to smell a favour of rest that thy severe judgements may be turned to mercies and fatherly corrections for our amendment that wee may truely profit thereby that we may feare and reverence thy just judgements and praise thee for thy elemency and mercy which thou hast shewed unto us in this deliverance Particularly we blesse thy holy name for these thy servants who now appeare before thee with their sacrifice of praise end thonkesgiving for that thou hast spared and delivered them from the grave and destruction which was come up into their houses Lord now grant them true thankefulnesse with holy and constant resolutions to spend the remainder of their daies to the glory of thy great name and good example of their brethren And seeing thou hast given us all the same argument of thankesgiving whom thou hast preserved and kept further off from the noisome contagion we pray thee also to accept our oblation of praise set our hearts to meditate and our tongues to sound out those praises to thy holy name which wee shall through thy mercy in Christ sing to thee for ever in the sacred Quieres of Saints and Angells in thy kingdome of glory
thee away in thy daily sinnes will like a tender father pitty thee when thou art not able to pray he will remember what thou hast prayed yea what Christ Jesus sitting at his right hand then speaketh for thee when thou hast most need of a mediator when stupified with paines of approaching death thou canst not utter one word for thy selfe then hee will open the heavens to thee and give thee a cleere sight of those joyes as he did S. Stephen then will he give his holy Angells charge over thee to receive thy soule breathed out of thy gasping body to convey it to his gratious and ever blessed presence This world is full of labour sorrow misery there 's no rest here heaven is the arke to which the tired dove the holy soule returneth for rest the morall men seemed to know it who placed their Temple of rest without the gate of Agony How much more must we who beleeve that we shall live eternally with Christ who shall come to save and give us life in death Even so come Lord Jesus AMEN A Prayer for him who hath recieved the sentence of death in himselfe O Lord God almighty preserver of man father of the spirits of the just God of all true consolation the hope of Israel and deliverer thereof in the day of trouble who givest a gratious eare to the afflicted faithfully calling on thee through him whom thou hast appointed to be the only mediator betweene thee and Wretched man Christ Jesus the righteous I humbly acknowledge that I have nothing of my selfe to present unto thy Majestie but confession of mine owne vilenesse nothing in my sinfull flesh but corruption matter of severe judgement to thee who art a God of pure eies and argument of terrour and despaire to my selfe most impure in sinne was I conceived and borne a child of wrath and disobedience my whole life hath abounded with that which bringeth forth fruit only unto death I have not done the good which thy sanctifying spirit made me willing to doe the evill that I would not I have done I have not rendred unto thee according to thy goodnesse when I would summe up my sins they so much exceed all numbers that my heart faileth mee my conscience telleth me of my wilfull neglects of thy service and disobedience to thy word concluding my whole life no better then sinfull but how many waies I have offended thee when I observed not thou only knowest how many are the failings which though I through spirituall blindnesse and carnall security have not observed that I might judge and condemne my selfe for them thereby to prevent thy severe judgement shall yet by no meanes escape thy strict examination and now O Lord what can I more doe then humbly beg thy pardon condemne my selfe renounce all confidence in the world and plead only thy mercy and the merits of thy sonne Jesus for my justification Lord looke upon me through him in whom thou art well pleased Nothing can be past or future to thy eternall wisdome look therefore on his bleeding wounds who did not in vaine dye for me let thy justice be satisfied in his obedience and suffering for all my sins And now O Lord seeing according to thy sentence on all mankind the time of my departure hence draweth high I humbly acknowledge this fraile condition to be the due wages of sinne which brought mortality into the world but thou who didst put thine owne image on me hast not made me for so short a life only as thou givest unto the beasts which perish thou hast no need of my miserie nor advantage in my destruction nor could so inestimable a price of my redemption as the blood of thy holy sonne Jesus be given for that which thou wouldst have perish eternally He must surely live for whom the resurrection and the life of Christ Jesus died Lord therefore seale up my redemption in my afflicted heart now that the Bride is neere send those holy comforters faith and assurance of thy mercy to adorne his own temple to lift up the everlasting doores of my soule that the king of glory and Lord of life may come in and change my vaine love of the world to love of heaven who will change my vile body that it may be like his own glorious body let me hence forth live his life no more mine own assured thereby of the repaire of mine inward man to a joyfull resurrection and life of glory that he may be to me in life and death advantage that in full confidence of my union with and interest in him I may be willing to bee dissolved that I may be with him O holy Saviour who hast through death abolished death and him that had the power thereof take from me all carnall feare by bringing life and immortality to light unto my conscience thou that hast in thy hands the keyes of death and hell restraine the tempters malice and mischievous charges of my sinne-wounded soule make me faithfull unto the death and assure mee of the crowne of righteousnesse laid up for all that love thy appearing Raise me now to the life of grace that the second death may not touch mee And though thou bring this fraile flesh to the dust of the earth yet let not death have dominion over me Though it must to the appointed time separate my soule from this decaying tabernacle of clay let neither life nor death things present nor future seperate my soule from thee and thy Christ. I acknowledge thy mercy who justly mightest have taken me away in my sins by some sodaine and untimely death or set me who am by sinne a sonne of death in the condition of those who in horrour of a restlesse conscience and bitternesse of spirit seeke death and cannot finde it but O good God whose eye is upon them that feare thee to deliver their soules from death in whose hands are the issues thereof seeing thou hast thus long spared me now accomplish thy mercy in me be thou my God for ever and my guide unto my end and comfort in my end now when my heart trembleth in me the terrours of death are fallne upon me give me the long expected fruits of my hopes proposed to me in thy word O blessed Jesus who art the death of death now shew thy selfe my Saviour take from my afflicted soule the sting of death assure me of victory loose the paines allay the feare and sorrowes and sweeten the bitternesse of death untill in my enjoying thy presence it be swallowed up in victory O holy Saviour who hast had experience of all our miseries for sin wiâ—hout sin and hast admitted us to be baptized into the similitude of thy death and resurrection let me now feele in my languishing soule the power thereof O Christ whose humane soule in thy passion for my redemption was heavy to the death now mercifully consider my infirmitie who am going the way of all flesh now give
in them Their communion with the Sonne is in that they are united to him become his members he liveth in them guideth governeth protecteth and comforteth them He communicateth to them all the benefits of his merits and passion so that they become as surely theirs for their justification as they are his as 't is written we are made partakers of Christ Heb 3. 14. hereby we become coheires with him Rom 8. 17. This belongeth onely to the Saints and true beleevers who walke as children of the light 1. Job 1. 6 7. who hearken to him and persevere unto the end Heb 3. 14. but Christ hath no communion with Infidels Christs communion with us is 1. in nature by his becomming â—lesh of our â—lesh 2. by grace and assumption of our persons in a mysticall union with him answering to God for us and so making us partakers of the divine nature 2. Pet 1. 4. 3. The perfection hereof shall be the translation of us into his glory so certaine as the truth of God which is the reason why the Apostle pronounceth thereof as of a thing already past Christ received â— us to the glory of God Rom 15. 7. The first of these states relateth to the second and the second to the last as nature is subordinate to grace and grace to glory the first union causeth the following we cannot have communion with him in his future glory if we have not in his present grace nor could wee ever have beene united to him by grace had not he first united himselfe to our nature whereby he fulfilled the law satisfied God's justice for us and so the divine unction sloweth from the head to all the body The holy Ghost worketh this union by giving us faith and sanctification This union is the most arct and indivisible he tooke on him our nature into an hypostaticall union with the deity he joyneth us to his mysticall body whereof he is the head by the holy Ghost hee that is joyned to the Lord is one spirit with him 1. Cor 6. 17. 1. Cor 12. 13. 1. Joh 3 24. 1. Joh 4. 13. Rom 8. 11. Ephes 4. 4. Hereby wee are really sanctified in that measure which he appointeth every man to salvation whereby he changeth our vile body that it may be like unto his own glorious body Phil 3. 21. and even now suffereth with us reckning all that is done unto us as done unto himselfe He becommeth wisedome righteousnesse sanctification and redemption unto us He freeth us from condemnation purgeth us from all sinne maketh us walk according to his good spirit mortifying the works of the flesh The communion of the holy Ghost is a participation of his grace by which he uniteth us to him regenerateth governeth teacheth leadeth comforteth us witnesseth with our spirits that we are the sonnes of God helpeth our infirmities intercedeth for us with unutterable groanes sealeth us up to the day of redemption and uniteth us one with another 3. Our communion one with another importeth 1. an externall communion and society of the Saints called and united in the body of the visible Church by the ministry of the word and use of the Sacraments 2. an internall conjunction in which those whom God hath united in an externall communion are also by the holy Ghost united unto God and one to another By which they have mutually and joyntly 1. The same right to adoption and sonship in God 2. The same interest in Christ and all his merits 3. The same faith and grace of justification 4. The same right to salvation life and eternall glory This communion is either of the living with the living or of the living with the deceased Saints present or that which shall be in the life to come in the Church triumphant which shall be the most compleat and excellent part thereof This is the first prerogative which the God of unity bestoweth on his Church that her true members hold an happy unity in Christ and a sweet and comfortable fellowship one with another for wee being many are partakers of one bread and one body by one Spirit we are all baptized into one body here is our happinesse in unity without which there is neither happinesse nor life the most excellent part the eye divided from the body cannot see communion must needs be happy where God uniteth we have now in that spirit which uniteth us a communion with the soules in heaven and have our conversation there though but imperfectly but when we also are perfect it shall be a most excellent state the more holy and wise we are the more divine is our fellowship which is only betweene the good and wise when Peter James and John saw Moses and Elias but two glorified Saints in our Saviours transfiguration ravished in spirit they cryed out 't is good for us to bee here let us build here why said they not so before being with Christ Alas there appeared in him before this only the forme of a servant and man of sorrowes no beauty that we should desire in him but now some beames of his glory brake through the clowd of his humanity When Moses and Elias lived on earth they were of no such esteeme there is not that poore despised Saint whose presence now seemeth irksome to the worldly prosperous man but he shall bee most aimiable in our perfect communion in the liâ—e to come Society of man is excellent what were the world to a man alone But he that said 't is not good for man in the state of innocency to be alone reserved the best society to the state of glory the best life excellent is that communion which we now have in this imperfect state for as much as we are united in one spirit faith and doctrine we have like affections love each other assist each other as in things externall so specially by mutuall prayers yea the Angels of heaven rejoyce at a sinners conversion because they hold communion with us under one head and no wonder for if the humane soule which is but a â—inite creature can give so much unity and sense to every member of the body as to make them have a mutuall sympathy care and love how much more shall the spirit of an infinite God give these to all those which he uniteth in Christ But if so excellent bee this communion to us now in this mortall life and state of imperfection what thinke yee shall it be when thiâ— corruptible hath puton iucorruption and God shall be all in all And beleeving this why should I doubt of our knowing one another in the world to come To him that beleeveth this comfortable Article of Faith these following rules are necessary 1 Love all men for Gods sake If there be any consolation in Christ if any comfort of love if any fellowsâ—ip of the spirit saith the Apostle fulfill my joy that yee