and argues unanswerably against the ungodly unsober and worse then Heathenish drinking of Healths and clean cuts off dissolute and drunken Meetings and all such use of the câ—â—â—tures as is either dishonorable to the Creator or bringeth no glory at all to him Lastly that I may speak of one thing more because it is in every ones eye we cannot tell men just how long they oughr to wear their hair but it doth not therefore follow that if instead of wearing their hair on their heads or necks they wear it as far as they can get it to go on their backs shoulders and breasts that they may do this without any Divine controul For we can tell them that things Indifferent are to be governed and limited by those things that are not Indifferent if therefore mens long hair arise from pride vanity of minde and an affectation of being fine as they think that way then its sure unlawful for though there be an indifferency in the cutting and ordering of the hair yet Pride is no indifferent thing Or If men do it in compliance with others that in these dayes use so much to exceed that general rule Be not conformed to this World will in the just extent thereof give a check to it Or If it be of ill report and an offence to the wise and godly it doth in that regard thwart with those Rules which require us to do things of good Report and in things indifferent to give no offence to any And moreover we can tell them what the Apostle saith and what Question he propounds for better order amongst the Christians at Corinth which is this Doth not even nature it self teach you that if a man have long hair it is a shame to him Let men consider how they will answer the Apostle whose words whatsoever shuffle men make are at least thus far convincing that Men are not to wear their hair so long as to confound the Sexes and transform themselves into Women wearing an ornament which take it in such a length and extent is proper to Women and so as it were deny their Sex which God forbad in the Law If it be said For Men to wear hair as long as Women is indeed a fault but not otherwise To that I answer 1. That Men cannot wear because they cannot have ordinarily hair so long as Women Nature will not afford it them having given Women a moister temperature to nourish that hair which is their distinguishing ornament and glory 2. I answer further That it is a very bad Character for any man to come next to that though he come not fully up to it which is absolutely naught and unnatural If it be said again That the Apostle speaks of that which is against nature not absolutely but according to the custom of those times and places unto which he directs his speech when in other Countreys it was otherwise To this I answer 1. That it doth not follow that it is not against nature strictly taken to wear very long hair because some Nations have let their hair grow extreamly long for who knows not that not only Heathens but divers Christians do that which is against the dictate and direction of nature 2. I add further with Beza that the Jews and people of God did not use so to nourish their hair as appears by the Law of the Nazarites not to cut their hair which shews that others usually did so and therefore that of Absolom was extraordinary and his way and end makes his example sad 3. If we have recourse to Custom only yet we may very well say it hath not been the Custom in England for Men to wear their hair so excessively long as appears by the Lord Comwel's imprisoning a Serving-man meerly for such excess but now indeed it grows to be a Custom and so invades the whole Nation that not only every youth in a manner but every child is put into that fashion I speak not of what is moderate and modest but of a general excess this way evidently declaring that though we have been so long of late under the hand of God and still are under such hazzards notwithstanding Gods admirable working for our settlement by the return of our gracious King as should humble our hearts and keep them in a modest frame yet we are become more bold more high and a more distempered and dissolute people then heretofore And here let it be observed that at the same time that is in the late times when men grew to be so horrid and illimitable in their hair they were extreamly extravagant also in their heads and conceits and as they would have such a length and latitude of hair granted them as should only not quite raze out the distinction of Sexes so they pleaded for such a liberty of Opinion as should only not raze and force up the very foundations of Religion As if it were injustice to tie Subjects to any Laws of the Nation save only to fundamental Laws or else as if every law of Men and of State were to be obeyed and the laws of God and of Conscience to be dispensed with according to every mans several sense and interest But as Prodigals that sell their Woods will shortly sell their Lands so they that will sell truths of Superstruction when they should buy every truth and sell none will be like to sell all at last even the truths of the Foundation as divers of late have done and leave themselves nothing to live upon and walk by but false lights and true fancies If this be a Digression the exorbitances of the times yea the excesses and offences that present themselves in every poor Countrey-Congregation have drawn it from me Howsoever I am sure I am not altogether gone beyond my purpose which was and is to shew that the general rules of Scripture and the determinations of Ministers according to and in vertue of those general rules are binding in particular Cases This being before hand observed we may take notice of some general Scripture-grounds tending to the establishing of Family-prayer particularly Gods glory and our own good 1. Gods glory All we do should be as much as may be for the glory of God Now it is more for Gods glory that a whole Family should be on their knees together then that there should be here and there a single Suitor for as in the multitude of people is the Kings honour so in the multitude of Praying people is the honor of the King of Heaven Hence David studying the glory of God saith O magnifie the Lord with me and let us exalt his Name together And Paul is still earnest for Saints joynt-supplications because when they help together in Prayer then for the gift bestowed by the means of many Persons thanks is given by many And as he that offereth praise to God glorifieth him so by many thanksgivings to
are divers young ones that are not such After all this I shall say and may truly say with the Apostle I write not these things to shame you or as if I thought there were not the like or greater cause of complaint in other places but I write them as to my beloved Sons and Daughters to warn you and to stir up both my self and you that it may be yet better by our making the best use we can of the little and uncertain remainder of time of our being together as Pastor and People I gladly pass from this which is displeasing to me but I thought needful for you to affect you with your estate that you might never rest till you be in a good estate And come now to the third and more comfortable thing which is matter of Praising God whereof there is much and that Not only because I hope and know that the great God without whom Ministers can do nothing are nothing hath been pleas'd to make my Ministry profitable to divers neighbouring Parishes at my first coming hither less provided for but especially for the good effect of it among you of this Congregation The same Lord of the Harvest that hath brought I may say laborious preaching into this place where there was so little so long time before hath blessed it here also so far as that I doubt not divers are gone to Heaven that have enjoyed it and are going thither who now enjoy it Not so many God knows as were to be wished but so many as that it sufficiently appeareth that God had a gracious work to do when he sent his Word hither upon the souls of poor people in this place I shall not here forget that which may confirm what I have said and be a sign of the hearty entertainment of the Gospel which is That you did so generally lovingly and earnestly desire my return unto you after I had been for some longer time absent and when I was much desired otherwhere This new Invitation I took as a second Call and a new encouragement to settle with you and therefore forsaking all other I have kept my self or rather God hath kept me only unto you to spend and be spent for you Here also I do with comfort remember your greater respect to the Lords-day more knowledge of and preparation for the Lords-Supper then is to be found in every place where the Word hath been together with some more reverence of the presence and service of God in the publike Assembly you do not use to over-run the blessing as divers that make it a common but it is a very profane custom to go away before the Blessing be pronounced but abide the whole time of divine Service Jacob said I will not let thee go from me They do well that say and resolve Lord I will not go from thee before thou blesse me But amongst and above divers other things there is great cause of blessing God for your constancy in attending Gods Word and Ordinances in the late Erroneous and Congregation-scattering times wherein so many Christians have lamentably and fearfully faln from the truth and wayes of God from whom I know you have not wanted tentations to depart with them upon the pretence of greater light and more holiness from that written Word of God which they that leave or cross and contemn have no morning-light in them and with a reverend and unfained respect whereunto the greatest godliness and holiness is ever-joyned for it is a doctrine according to godliness that is which requires true godliness and stirs up and brings men thereunto But by such tentations many have departed To that God be glory who is able to keep you and hath kept you from so falling Jude v. 24 25. I have little more to say O that I could take off some of that which I have said that is all former Complaints by seeing that done at last which hath not been done at first I mean by seeing those that have lien in ignorance become at length knowing Christians those that have been wordly minded spiritual Christians those that have been loose and given to drinking sober Christians and those who have been only sober truly godly Christians O that they that are old too like Nicodemus that dreamed of entring into his Mothers womb again might be so far awakened and enlightened as to enter as it were into the womb of the Church and know experimentally what the great mystery of Regeneration means by having Christ through the travail of the Ministery formed in them to the glory of God the sealing of the Ministry and the salvation of their pretious Souls in the day of Jesus Christ unto which they do so much hasten and for which they must prepare now or perish then And to speak yet again O that you that are younger would make conscience of remembring your Creator in the dayes of your youth and make it your business to grow in grace as you grow in years not being ever the elder the lower but the taller Christian It 's a miserable thing when a young man grows in nothing but in height or in hair O how that grows in these dissolute dayes or in strength or in wit without having the wit to grow in the knowledge and fear of God I say this is a miserable and most dangerous thing for young men may die as well as old if the Tower of Siloe fall it kills the youngest on whom it falls as well as the oldest In those lead-mines wherein many of you labour how many younger and stronger men have perished on a sudden Now if they that dye whether they be old or young do not live in Jesus while they live how shall they die in Jesus when they die and then how shall they live with him when they are dead And Is it your mind that the Lord Jesus should be in one place and you when you are dead and may die to morrow in another and that a contrary place He in glory and you in torment and that for evermore Beloved I am perswaded better things of you and pray for better things in you even things that accompany Salvation though because I would have you to hear I thus speak I shall speak but once more and I hope they that hear worst will hear me Are you sure there is an Heaven Do you believe there is an Hell Do you know the Soul is Immortal and never dieth as the Body doth And are you further perswaded that where this never-dying Soul lodgeth and lyeth the first night after your death whether it be in Heaven or in Hell there it and you must lodge for ever I say Do you think all these things to be true Let me then beseech you to shew your selves Christians or to shew your selves Men and live not securely in that loose course walk not stubbornly in that wide way which will certainly bring
general appearing to do homage to God which is one improvement of worship on that day 2. It is more attended because a Sabbath is a day of rest and receding from worldly works that we may better apply our selves to divine Worship And though there be a necessary use of natural supports yet the fear of God writes Holiness to the Lord upon them and takes care they be so used that the Service of God may be better attended 3. It is more intended or performed with more power and vigour because our minds are or should be discharged of all those creature-cares and cogitations wherewith on other dayes on which though we leave the world a little yet we do not so take leave of it as on the Lords day our hearts use to be and that in the Worship of God encumbred and weakened yea besides this the private religious Exercises of that day both before and after the publike Service namely Meditation and Prayer make us come with better affections to it lay an ingagement upon us to stir up the grace of God in us when we are about it draw from God vertue in it and a blessing of Heaven upon it Of the third Commandement Because the Sabbath is a day appointed for the honour of God and the greatning of his Name in the publike Ordinances God is greatly to be feared in the Assembly of his Saints and to be had in reverence of all that are about him Hence it is that on the day of publik and solemn Assemblies that is on the Sabbath now the Lords day the Name of God is most set up because by most and among most In the multitude of people is the Kings honour and then the multitude go to the House of God to the Temple to the Congregation wherein every one speaks of his glory Thus doth the fourth Commandement assist for the performance of the first Table 2. Of the Second Table To speak to every Commandement thereof would be too long It may suffice to say what all men may see and hear That is that on the weekly Lords day all sorts of persons are acquainted with their duty towards men by the instructions then especially delivered and are also stirred up thereunto by the Exhortations added And are or may be much furthered therein by the Repetition of Meditation and Prayer for a blessing upon such Instructions and Exhortation The fourth Commandement standeth in the middle as it were between the two Tables to be a Bond of Perfection and to link together Piety towards God and Charity towards men What is said of the Magistrate may be truly also said of the Sabbath He is and It is the Keeper of both the Tables Thus of the Commodity of the Christian Sabbath 3. The Commendation The Sabbath hath a preheminence above other dayes in regard of Gods Institution of it for each Sabbath is the Sabbath of the Lord our God and that makes it glorious in it self and hath the blessing of God annexed and assured to the observers of it And that as it maketh also for the advancement of it in it self so it giveth a reason why it should be precious to us yea the very largeness of the Law of the Sabbath and the Lords using so many words about it may shew as our weakness who need it so the weight of that Law and worth of that Day in asmuch as in a Law of Ten Words so much is said of this one Word and particular Precept It is observed out of the Hebrew Doctors That the Sabbath and the Precept against Idolatry each of these two is as weighty as all other the Commandements of the Law for confirmation whereof they add this The Sabbath is a sign between God and us for ever and that other place of Isaiah Blessed is the man that keepeth the Sabbath from polluting it Aynsworth on Exod. 31. 13. And sure that weekly day of our solemn appearing before our God ought to be honourable in our account That is a sign and assurance that we are Gods Covenant-people and peculiar treasure for therein lies our safety our glory and our felicity Who is it that desires not to be known by his attendants that he is Kings the Servant Well may we say also that 's a blessed and glorious day that makes the observers thereof blessed yea if by keeping the Sabbath from polluting it be insinuated or described a respect to all Religion even that also makes greatly for the honour of the Sabbath that godliness in the generality is thereby set forth because thereby so much set forward It 's very observable that Gods people reckoning up in their miseries Gods mercies do mention as the chief thereof Gods Commandements and among those Laws and Commandements single out the Sabbath speaking thus honourably of it in reference to their Fathers And madest known unto them thy holy Sabbath as if there were an eminency in that above other Laws as indeed there is in this regard because as on Fairs and Markets men are furnished with commodities of all sorts so on this day principally all spiritual good things are offered with an invitation to the buying and for the enjoying of them and that good knowledge of God is more aboundantly dispensed whereby all other Commandements are better performed O How little is God known to them to whom no Sabbath is made known or that will not be made to know any Sabbath The reason whereof is because on that day of Rest and Religion there is an opportunity offered of the freest fullest and highest Communion with God without those interruptions that we have on other days by the crowding in of our earthly occasions yea and that into the inner chamber and closet of our hearts which is the retiring room wherein God is pleased to communicate himself abundantly to the faithful soul when all worldly things and thoughts are had out and dismissed for that day yea charged and as it were conjured not to disturb the intimate society of the Lord Jesus with the soul that hath found him and fastened on him Thus of the Sabbath in general As to the Christian Sabbath a great glory is put upon it in the Scripture-title it being called the Lords day and that name and title being continued and applyed unto it to this day The Lord Jesus hath put his own Name and stamp upon it It is the day of that Lord who is the Prince of the Kings of the Earth Rev. 1. 5. Of the Jews Sabbath and of our Lords day there is as St. Austin speaks one and the same Lord but now is the Lords-day prefer'd before that Sabbath as the same Father speaks by the faith of the Resurrection Unto this Resurrection day is that honour given to have this said of it Thou art my Son this day have I begotten thee Act. 13. 33. For by his Resurrection on that day he