state life is put into us but in this latter state wee shall be put into life filled with it within us and fully compassed about with it without us as vessels cast into the sea are filled with water within and without so being comprehended by it as well as it is comprehended by us according to our modell and capacity This life is one Although these degrees of spirituall life bee severall yet the life it selfe is but one whereupon these subsist This life is begunne here in the state of grace by faith in Christ and is consummate and fully accomplished by vision or sensible fruition in the state of glory in heaven according to our hope Gods promises to us although at death faith doth cease yet the spirituall life thereby wrought in us is not extinguished for or by the introduction of the life of glory but the manner onely is altered and degree of spirituall living intended to perfection The degrees subordinate A mans severall and graduall kinds of lives do stand in subordination one to another thus to the life of glory in heaven with the Lord none can attaine but those that first live by faith in Christ in the state of grace in manner conformable to Gods word and will neither can any attaine to the life of grace but those that first live the naturall life which is the materiall or passive foundation of the other twaine for this naturall life gives beeing to a man the other two doe adde perfection and happinesse to him so that if the first be a blessing much more are the other lives blessings and highly to be esteemed These three degrees or kinds of life are like to the three roomes of the Temple where all entrance into the most Holy place was made by the Holy place and into this by the outward Court so none could come into the third but by the second and none could come into the second but by the first whereby it appeares that naturall life brings man under a possibility and capacitie of the life of grace and glory and the life of grace brings us that certainely have it into faire assurance of attaining the life of glory for that they are specifically the same but gradually different as the twilight and perfect light at noone §. 4. Who may have spirituall life and by whose fault doe any misse of it Denyed to none Although all men that doe live the naturall life attaine not to the spirituall yet spirituall life is denyed expresly to no man if they will carefully use the meanes and truly indeavour to have it for whosoever miscarries and misseth of this spiritual life he himselfe is guilty and cause thereof Lost by our owne fault for God hath given sufficient meanes of salvation and made a generall offer thereof to all men as Ioshua did call Heaven and earth to record that day that he had set before the people life and death and so did put them to their choise Ioshua 24.14 if with Mary wee choose the better part wee are happy it were better for us that wee had never lived at all than that wee should not live this spirituall life without which we are dead while we live a 1 Tim. 5.6 None can be excused by pretense of want of particular insinuation of the Gospell that is the power of God to salvation to every individuall man or because it is not naturally ingrafted in every mans heart as is the morall Law in the generall principles and matter unformed thereof though not as it is perfectly formed in every particular precept For the Gospell is not contrary to the Law but the Law both morall and ceremoniall is our Schoolemaster to drive and direct us to Christ for salvation b Gal. 3.21.24 and that for the same we should neither rest upon our selves nor upon the Law The Gospell to al published 1. To Adam Againe when God himselfe at the beginning first after the fall preached and delivered the gospell to Adam and Eve c Gen. 3.15 he did publish and give the same to every particular man and woman then in them that ever should be borne into the world to whom their parents were bound successively to preach and deliver the Gospell by a continued tradition Note If any of their children should have died before they were capable of salvation by that mean then as it is most probable they were to be saved as dying infants of beleeving parents now are 2. To his posterity Furthermore ever since the first promulgation of the gospell to Adam it hath pleased God to repeat and more and more fully to explicate the same by his servants with invitation of all men to entertaine the same from age to age in such places and companies where all men might take notice thereof if they were not wanting to themselves in adjoyning themselves to and keeping union with the Church where they might be within the hearing of the Gospell which is sufficient to leave men inexcusable in their ignorance of it Although God by his providence and prerogative Royall directs dispenses and applyes the Gospell in the ministrie of it to some people and not to others according to the good pleasure of his will after the first promulgation as wee see how the publication of Lawes and proclamations of Princes which are as little written in their subjects hearts as the gospell is in mankind Comparison being published in manner and in places as Princes please whereby and whence their subjects are to take notice of them ignorance of the same excuses not but that the disobedient and transgressors of them may justly be punished notwithstanding that they never knew them seeing every man is at his owne perill to looke after and take notice of those Lawes or ordinances whereby he is to live whether they proceed from inbred naturall notions or outwardly from the will of his Superiours §. 5. Of the excellency of spirituall life Spirituall lifes excellencie Mans spirituall life far excells his naturall life in three respects especially 1. For nature First in regard of the things where in it consists the naturall life consists but in the union of soule and body which are but naturall things and holds by a tie of naturall spirits in the blood upheld by earthly naturall meanes such as man is made and compounded of Spirituall life which is now supernaturall consists in a spirituall union with God by his eternall Sonne and Spirit and is upheld by supernaturall meanes and divine influence whereby we live the life of God and also by God and to God a Rom. 14.8 and so as the life of naturall or reasosonable men 2 Cor. 5.15.1 Pet. 4.2 farre excells the lives of brutes so doth this spirituall life of Gods regenerated people farre surpasse the lives of meere naturall and unregenerated men and therefore it is that men are farre more beholding to the
LIFES PRESERVATIVE AGAINST SELF-KILLING OR AN VSEFVL TREATISE Concerning Life and Self-murder SHEWING The Kindes and Meanes of them both The Excellency and preservation of the former The Evill and prevention of the latter CONTAINING The Resolution of manifold Cases and Questions concerning that Subject with plentifull variety of necessary and usefull Observations and practicall Directions needfull for all Christians Is it lawfull to save life or to kill Mark 3.4 Non est nostrûm mortem arriperc sed oblatam patienter ferre Hieron in Jonam By JOHN SYM Minister of Leigh in Essex LONDON Printed by M. Flesher for R. Dawlman and L. Fawne at the Brazen Serpent in Pauls-Churchyard 1637. TO THE RIGHT HONORABLE AND MOST NOBLE LORD ROBERT EARLE OF WARWICK Lord RICH Baron of LEEZE c. My very good LORD and most noble PATRON Increase of Grace Honor and Happinesse Right Honourable THat Eminencie that is in a most excellent Maecenas to supply the defects and meannesse of an obscure Author and that Relation and obligation that a poore Clerk may have to a most noble worthie and respective Patron hath made me presume to make choise of your noble Lordship for a Guardian of this my poore tractate which is of a compounded Denomination consisting of contrary ingredients of life and death of saving and killing by such reflecting acts of the doers upon themselves as make the Agents and patients thereof to be the same individualls The discourse is of a mixt and various nature and the theame of self-killing is the subject both of Divinity and of humanity of Religion and of Law the full handling whereof may be serviceable to the Kings Majestie for preservation of the lives of his people against the blowes and mortall wounds of a self-killing hand and may be usefull for the publick good of the Church and of the Common wealth both for the safety of the soules and bodies of their members and also in point of Honour that the government of so gracious a King and the glory of so famous a Nation may not be ignominiously stayned by self-murdring practises In which respects it was most requisite that I should dedicate the treatise of that nature to such a noble Guardian as hath a most speciall care to uphold and advance both Religion and Iustice the honour of the King and kingdome and the welfare both of Church and Commonwealth in all the members of the same as your Honourable Lordship alwaies hath in the places of your imployment and residence which in cognizance of us in the Ministery is specially apparent by your noble and pious care of providing able painefull and godly Ministers to the Churches under your speciall Patronage bestowing your Church-livings both freely and to the fittest and best deserving that you can finde for those places and countenancing and furthering the Clergie what you can in all godly and legall courses whereby multitudes of soules being saved and the Church of England under our Soveraigne the King advanced and supported in the Honour of her Ministery all have cause to praise God and to pray to God for your Lordship and for your noble Family the honourable instruments of so much divine and publick good whereof many blessed soules in heaven saved by that meanes are witnesses before God to your eternall praise honour and comfort with your renowned progenitors of that practise And I confesse it is the dutie specially of us of the Ministery to write your most Illustrious name and highest Commendations with the poynt of a Dyamond in letters of Gold upon the most durable pillars of perpetuity and ever to celebrate your due praise both for honour of your noble deservings and also for vertuous and pious example and incouragement to all posterity and noble Peeres in that poynt specially of upholding and advancing true Religion and piety both in and by that carefull and conscionable course of bestowing your Church-livings and regarding of your Ministers and also by your constant profession of the truth and according to the same professedly worshipping the true God thereby publickly obliging your selfe to such holines of heart and conversation in walking with God according to the rules of true Religion as may give your Lordship sound and grounded hope of eternall life and may verifie in you the realitie of that most Christian and heroick motto Garde ta foy In a word Divine Providence and Heavens favour hath made your Lordship Rich not onely by nature and name but also in honor and manifold blessings upon you and in much good done by your meanes whereby you stand bound to be accordingly thankfull to God and to be ever mindfull that your Eminency objects your Lordship to the worlds prying observation and to mens rigid censure which requires your more carefull circumspection in your whole conversation that you may be as farre distant from all ignoble vices and sinfull courses which staines and abases Honour and greatnesse and as Illustrious in all vertues and commendable actions as your noble condition is elevated above the common ranck of men which conciliates and procures Honour and comfort of a higher nature and of more lasting continuance than that which can be had from or by Titles and humane dignities or from sycophantizing humoring and flattering that so you may attaine to eternall glory and happines after this short life ended Most noble Lord I commed this treatise to you not onely that you may put credit and respect upon it for publick favour and entertainment and to give encouragement to the Author but also with all observancie to subject it to your judicious censure and my selfe to the service of your Honour and noble Family for the furtherance of the good and salvation of you and yours by the dayly prayers and faithfull labours of him that ever remaines From your Lo ps Leigh in Essex Your Lordships devoted faithfull and obsequious servant in Christ Iohn Sym. THE PREFACE TO THE READERS OF THIS TREATISE AND To my Auditors in my Ministery specially my ever much respected loving Friends and respective Parishioners the Inhabitants of Leigh in Essex Grace and Peace be multiplyed THis Treatise I can neither commend to you from the pleasantnesse of the nature of the subject of it which is about Self-murder that is a wickednesse not to be named among Christians in regard of likeing or practice thereof nor yet can I magnifie it to you for any thing that is simply mine in it although there is much more mine in it than might have beene if there had been full and compleat Tractates made by other men of that subject whence I might have borrowed more and have had more help than now I could to have made this a more perfect and better polished peece I doubt not but it shall be found in the advised and candide perusall thereof to carry in all the passages thereof the impresse and stamp of truth for which it may be worthy of your acceptation both for information of judgment
degrees of spirituall life which are two and subordinate Page 22 § 4. Who may have spirituall life which is denyed to none and by whose fault doth any misse of it or lose it How the Gospell was published to Adam and to all his posterity who for unbeliefe of the same are justly punishable Page 24 § 5. Of the excellency of spirituall life in three respects Page 26 § 6. How to obtaine spirituall life by meanes which wee are to use to get it and grow in it Page 28 § 7. How the Gospell works life not physically or ethically but supernaturally by the power of God working according to his owne will upon mans heart that is the subject of conversion Page 30 § 8. Why God uses meanes to convert us reasons three Page 31 § 9. How the power of the Holy Spirit is manifested and seene upon us in the meanes by foure degrees of operation And of three evidences of the Spirits application of Christ to us Page 32 § 10. How the Spirit works holinesse in us in two degrees with their uses and of three grounds of actuall obedience Page 35 § 11. Of the foure signes of spirituall life Page 37 § 12. How spirituall life may be preserved by use of six meanes Page 39 § 13. How mans care of his spirituall life should be great preferring it above his naturall life Page 42 Chap. 6. Of lifes destruction and of murder in generall § 1. How mans life maybe lost both passively and actively Page 43 § 2. How naturall life may be lost by meanes both internall and externall casuall and voluntary justly and unjustly Page 44 § 3. Of the meanes of the destruction of spirituall life by the justice of God and by the meanes of men and of mans subjection to death Page 45 § 4. Of murder in self-killing how the same is horrible and of foure things observable in it Page 47 § 5. How murder is vile in three respects Page 49 § 6. Of the originall of murder how it selfe is an act of impotency which we are to abhorre and how none can murder another without murdering themselves Page 51 Chap. 7. Of murder as it is of ones selfe § 1. Of the specificall nature of self-murder Page 53 § 2. Of the evill and greatnesse of the sin of self-murder Page 54 § 3. Of lawfull self-killing of our old-man of the kind of that killing and how it is done Page 54 § 4. Of diverse observations from the generall consideration of self-murder for informing of our judgement and directing of our practise Page 56 Chap. 8. Of spirituall self-murder in speciall § 1. That all perishing-soules are self-murdered and how soule-murder is self-murder Page 57 § 2. Spirituall self-murder defined what it is Page 58 § 3. Of soule-murder in two degrees by deprivation of life Page 58 § 4. Of mans deficiency to be saved in Adam and in our selves by a fourefold omission of doing our duties in use of meanes Page 59 § 5. Of mans neglect and contempt of the power of the meanes that he uses Page 60 § 6. Of mans defect in obedience both Evangelicall and Legall Page 61 § 7. Of the reasons of our defect of obedience which are foure Page 62 § 8. How and why grace dies by mans neglect Page 63 § 9. How the harme of omission of dutie is deprivation of life spirituall and of negative righteousnesse and how the punishment of damage is greater than that of smart Page 64 § 10. Of the endeavour after spirituall life wherein it consists and of the lets thereof Page 66 § 11. Of the second degree of spirituall self-murder which is in subjection to death by sinnes of commission Page 67 § 12. Of the meanes of mans destruction by breaking the Law of negative commands and of foure properties of soul-murdring sins Page 67 68. § 13. Of two causes of mens adventuring upon sinfull courses against the law Page 69 § 14. Of spirituall self-murder by sinning against the Gospell and how the obedience of the Gospell differs from the obedience of the Law in foure points Page 70 § 15. Of infidelity against the Gospell and of the causes and cure thereof Page 72 § 16. Of impenitency Page 72 § 17. Of the sin against the holy Ghost and things observable about it Page 73 § 18. Of finall Apostacy and of the difference of sinnes Page 75 § 19. Of the malignity of the sinnes against the Gospell above those that are committed against the Law for three reasons Page 76 § 20. The uses and improvement of the doctrine of spirituall self-murder Page 77 Chap. 9. Of bodily self-murder in speciall § 1. How bodily self-murder is defined and differenced from spirituall self-murder Page 80 § 2. Of mans body in a threefold consideration with its works and of the soules three sorts of morall works in the body and how the body suffers by and for the soule Page 81 § 3. Of the degrees of bodily self-murder and the pronenesse of man to it upon two causes which are removed by answers to both Page 83 Chap. 10. Of the kindes of bodily self-murder direct and indirect § 1. Direct and indirect self-murder are defined Page 84 § 2. Of the difference betweene direct and indirect self-murder in three things Page 85 § 3. How indirect self-murder is greater in two respects than direct Page 87 § 4. How direct self-murder is absolutely the greater in three respects Page 88 § 5. Of the degrees of sin and how to escape the greatest and its end Page 89 Chap. 11. Of indirect self-murder of the body § 1. The reasons why indirect self-murder is first treated of Page 90 § 2. How indirect self-murder is wrought two wayes by omission and commission Page 91 § 3. How indirect self-murder by omission is physically effected foure waies ibid. § 4. How indirect self-murder by omission is morally wrought two waies and that neglect of meanes of preservation is tempting of God and how Page 94 § 5. A question resolved about standers mute or those that refuse to answer legally and to submit to lawfull triall when they are arraigned at the barre for some capitall crime the reasons pro and contra with the conclusion that such mutes are indirect self-murderers Page 96 § 6. The resolution of the question concerning malefactors arraigned for capitall crimes wherof they know themselves guilty whether they ought in conscience to answer affirmatively or negatively to the question made to them at the Barre whether they be Guilty or Not Guilty the reasons on both sides with the conclusion for the negative that they may avoid indirect self-murmurder Page 100 § 7. Of indirect self-murder of commission by distemperature and needlesse mutilation of body or members whereupon death ensues Page 109 § 8. Of indirect self-murder of commission by unwarrantable practising of Physick or Chirurgery upon ones selfe thereby killed Page 111 § 9. Of indirect self-murder of commission by a mans unthriftinesse and prodigality
only good meanes that we may looke for a blessing from God upon them Actions are not good onely from intention Againe we must not measure and judge an action to be good only by the good end and intention of the doers thereof in their act of doing the same for Saul offered sacrifice a 1 Sam. 13.12 and Paul persecuted the Church b Acts 22.4 both of them with a good intention and yet for all that their actions were evill Because to make an action good there are many other things necessary than the good intention of the doers of it it is sufficient to make an action morally evill if it be defective in any thing requisite for to make it good but to be good it must be every way perfect §. 20. Concerning ambition The fifth generall motive Ambition The fifth generall motive of self-murderers to kill themselves is Ambition either to keep or get a greater good by killing themselves than they can have or enjoy by living any longer as they thinke which profitable exchange makes them thinke it both lawfull and expedient to kill themselves This good is of two kindes whereof man is ambitious to death and for which some kill themselves Kinds of good aimed at by ambition 1. Glory and praise First it is worldly glory and praise which they think to purchase to themselves Ethnicitanquam insignem fortitudinē celebrârūt by the very acting and doing of self-murder touching which the heathen hath commended such for their fortitude specially when they did it to preserve their personall liberties from falling under subjection to their enemies as did Cato to whom I may apply that of Brutus that it was the love of his countrey and excessive ambition of praise that made him to kill himselfe Amor patriae laudumque immensa cupido And when they did the same lest they should either suffer or doe any thing as they thought more disgracefull Vaine-glory and popular praise is so powerfull a motive that for the same it is said that Empedocles killed himselfe 2. A better life after death The second good for ambition whereof some kill themselves that they may hasten to attaine the same Ad assequendam gloriam aeternam is another and better life after death as did Cleombrotus who upon reading in Plato of another more happy life after this which cannot bee attained but by death did precipitate himselfe into the mouth of death and so killed himselfe as Cicero in the first booke of his Tusculan questions makes report In such esteeme was that life even with naturall men that they did willingly run into death that they might enjoy that whereof they had but a small glimpse and little assurance Which may condemne many Christians who have greater knowledge and better evidences for the same and doe so lightly regard it that for it they will not forsake their pleasures and lusts nor will doe duties of easier performance according to Gods appointment to have it Men would willingly be saved and go to heaven but by their owne wayes and courses and not by Gods although their owne bee more tedious and chargeable than his so farre is man wedded to his self-will and so ready to doe what himselfe devises Note Men are more deceived in the meanes than in the ends Men are not so much deceived in the ends that they project to themselves which commonly are good but especially the last as they are self-beguiled in the meanes and wayes that they use of their self-devising and pleasing to attaine their ends whereupon it comes to passe that so many are frustrated of their desires and expectatation For good ends which be morally and beatifically such are never got but by good meanes of Gods owne appointment whereabouts man is to deny his own will and only to follow Gods who never disappoints us thereby of good successe according to our hearts desire in the attainement of our last end Insufficiency of the former motive touching the first branch The insufficiency of the former motive of praise and fortitude justly to cause a man to kill himselfe is apparent by that which Augustine sayes of Cato that it was not fortitude but a softnesse that made him kill himselfe because he was not able to beare adversity a Non fortitudo sed mollities non potuit serre res adversas and did it out of impatiency at Caesars empire but being impatiently self-willed would not submit to Gods providence he sayes his fact was great but not good b Magnum potius sactum quam bene Fortiterille facit qui miser esse potest Sene. Epist 59. Imbecillis est ignavus qui propter dolorem moritur Arist 3. Nicomach cap. 7. Molles sunt qui amoris gratia vel paupertatis sibi mortem consciseunt non posse pati non est vera fortitudo sed magis quaedam mollities animi non valentis mala poenalia sustinere Tho. 2.2 q. 64. art 5. and further affirmes that it is pufillanimity not to be able to suffer which is a thing whereunto the weakest as women are most apt both for want of strength to endure to suffer and also for want of wisdome to make choise of that which indeed is best for them for as the Philosopher saith no man kills himselfe nisi depravata ratione c Arist Eth. lib. 3. cap. 8. but by depravation of his reason and so is as it were a mad man that is worse than a beast Praise is got by well-doing The true way and meanes for a man to gaine true honour and praise is well-doing according to the will and commandements of God as the Apostle sayes Glory honour and peace to every man that worketh good a Rom. 2.10 which extends it selfe to all eternity in the presence and with the commendation of God his holy angels and of all Gods people whereas of evill doing there comes nothing but shame and confusion eternall for even to bee commended by vaine and wicked persons for doing good casts some suspition or aspersion upon the commended much more is it disgracefull to be praised by such for evill doing which is the matter of mans shame and therefore upon that motive not to be done About the second branch the insufficiency of the motive from a better life kill ones selfe For the second branch of the aforesaid motive viz. about a better life the insufficiency thereof to make a man undertake to kill himselfe thereby the sooner to come to eternity is evident by foure particulars 1. Self-murder is not the way to heaven First self-murder being a most grievous sin it cannot be the way to heaven and life but to hell and death The Saints of God that did most long for this eternall life of happinesse and to whom their naturall lives were not deare for them to spend them to attaine it did not therfore kill themselves to have it which
Hieron ad Rusticum that the devill when he comes upon us may alwaies find us well occupied And that we may not be weary with any one exercise or that the devill should intermingle his temptations with it it is good for those that are under temptations of this kind to shift their exercises often that Satan may never find us within his verge of idlenesse or bad imployment Note whereby he may seate upon us Inveni in meo or challenge us for that he found us within his walke or precincts Give not way to horrible motions If wee be in prayer reading meditation or any other lawfull necessary imployment we must beware that wee give not way to horrible motions of the devill perswading us to kill our selves so that thereupon we should breake off our exercises or neglect the duties of our callings to pore and muse upon or to bee taken up with such motions which are better defeated by our abhorring and contemning of them and by our proceeding in the pursuit of the duties of religion and our callings from one thing to another whereby wee may banish those motions of self-murder cast them off and out of sight which cannot consist with such good thoughts and imploiments 6. Fasting and prayer Sixtly that we may prevent self-murder when we are in conflict with the temptations thereof wee are to fast and pray against it for the motions thereof are like to that kind of unclean spirits that are not cast out but by fasting prayer a Mark 9 29. Note The more unnaturall and horrible that any evill motions are the more hardly are they ejected when they have possession of a man because of the greatnesse and violence of their strength and of the weaknesse and subjection of that which should withstand or expell them that now the same must be done by a more powerfull and immediate hand of God when man is insufficient Application of the word against temptations Also application must bee made of the Word of God against such temptations of self-murder by well considering the precepts promises and threatnings of the Scripture whereby the feare of offending God and of the damnation of our soules may powerfully restraine us from any such wicked act when wee consider the extreame and unrecoverable evils of it farre exceeding any good or profit that can be had thereby 7. Right ordering of our thoughts Seventhly for antidotes against self-murder we should carefully consider what we would say out of advised Iudgement to another in that case labouring under strong temptations to kill himselfe and desiring our counsell and help what to doe therein Would any sober or reasonable man perswade such an one to yeeld to the temptation and kill himselfe As we would say to another in that case or would he not rather disswade him by all the arguments and reasons he could from doing of it for if he may perswade one man to kill himselfe then why may he not likewise perswade all men in the same case to do the like A man under temptations of self-murder should urge upon himselfe the same conclusion not to kill himselfe forced and backed by the same reasons and arguments that he doth upon another in the like case by which application to himselfe he may well resolve and fortifie himselfe against all such temptations and intentions of self-murder Note And againe wee should consider what we would or could reply to another man if any such should perswade us to kill our selves upon those reasons and arguments whereupon our temptations are grounded that move us to self-murder And so we should apply the same to answer our owne self-murdering motives and motions whereby we should smother and destroy the first conceptions of a monstrous brood To make self-murder vile in our eyes And finally we should upon every motion of self-murder think and consider of all the things and reasons that we can to make that fact vile and odious in our eyes and to terrifie us from daring to resolve to doe it and withall we should not entertaine but reject the least thought of any thing that may arise in our mindes or be otherwise suggested to incline us or be a protence or starting hole to encourage us to doe such a vile fact or any other evill contrary to Gods sacred word By which ordering of our thoughts the resolutions of self-murder would bee utterly excluded and dashed 8. Confession Eighthly the last antidote that a man alone by himselfe can use to prevent self-murder is when all his other private endeavours prove uneffectuall or rather in the first place when he feeles his soule troubled and not able to overcome his temptations of self-murder which by secresie and concealment of them doe still more and more grow upon him and prevaile that hee is in great danger to be overcome by them and to yeeld to kill himselfe then is hee to open his estate and confesse the same to others who can and may help him according to the Apostles commandement Iam. 5.16 For both the worke is easily done and the burthen lightly borne that hath the help of many hands and also vent of the minde by confession doth often give ease to an oppressed heart and upon discovery the devill many times gets him gone and his temptations vanish Comparison as thieves that dare not harbour where they are revealed and the Country is up by a hubbub raised in pursuit of them and as the foggie vapoures that are dissolved and scattered by the heat of the Sunne risen and shining upon them §. 2. Caveats and observations about confession Caveats about confession Touching this confession in this case fower things as Caveats are to bee carefully observed that men under such temptations may have good by this course 1. Caveat First they are to bee circumspect and warie whom they choose to open their state and confesse themselves to That they be not people undiscreet or of weake Judgments and little experience in such cases of conscience Not to undiscreet Whereby such an afflicted person shall have no benefit by them but both he and they perhaps much hurt by such Physitians of no value who may be infected themselves with that mans disease which they cannot cure as were the Egyptian Magicians Not to blabs Neither must such a man make choice of blabs of their tongues whose knowledge of secrets is but fuell of common scandall and offence To whom to confesse 1. To his owne Minister But of all persons that a man in this case should open and confesse his state unto he should specially make choice of his owne Minister because hee is nearest in relation and duty to him as a Father to his Child he knowes best for understanding and experience how to discerne his griefe and how to speake fitly and seasonably to his comfort from whom helpe and consolation may be better expected