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Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
friend_n	become_v	enemy_n	offend_a	190	4	17.7058	5	false

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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A96361	Pantheologia or the summe of practical divinity practiz'd in the wilderness, and delivered by our Saviour in his Sermon on the Mount. Being observations upon the fourth, fifth, sixth, and seventh chapters of St Matthew. To which is prefixed a prolegomena or preface by way of dialogue, wherein the perfection and perspicuity of the Scripture is vindicated from the calumnies of Anabaptists and Papists. By Tho. White B.L. minister of Gods word at Anne Aldersgate, London.	White, Thomas, minister of St. Anne's, Aldersgate.	1653 (1653)	Wing W1806; Thomason E1466_1; ESTC R208673	167,277	207

unjustly and without a cause then in charity to him thou oughtest to be reconciled for all the while he is angry with thee without a cause and likely to speak evil of thee he is in danger nay he is absolutely bound over to hell and is in a damnable condition Vers 24. Leave there thy gift before the Altar and go thy way first be reconciled to thy brother and then come and offer thy gift Leave thy gift For thy deferring thine offering thy gift there will not so much harm come as by the deferring thy reconciliation for God will not be more unwilling to accept thine offering afterward then he was then but by delaying thy reconciliation thy brother will be more hard to be reconciled for anger in time grows to hatred 〈◊〉 Thou art not to carry it away with thee and not offer it at all for when once thou hast vowed or dedicated any thing to God thou mayest not upon any case resume it though in some cases thou mayest not for the present and here in this verse and though it may sall ont it may never be offered Go thy wayes 1. You must not say Let him come to me I will not goe to him for Christ bids thee go and if thou art under Christ as the Centurions servants did when he bids thee go thou wilt go and by going thou becomest reconciled to God and whether thy brothers good will and love be worth the having or no doubtlesse Gods is First See 1. The goodnesse of God he would rather have some part of his service deferred then that a sinner should not be converted nay then that his conversion should be delayed 2. Though the duties of the first Table are to be preferred before those of the second Caeteris paribas yet charity to ones brother is to be preferred before the performance of the ceremonial Law Be reconciled That is do what in thee lies to be reconciled for thou oughtest to be in charity with him and take the best wayes thou canst to be reconciled to him and if he will not after thy earnest endeavours then thou as I suppose art free To thy brother 1. The meaning is not Be thou friends with him but get him to be friends with thee for thou mayest be friends with him and fully forgive him without going to him or stirring from the place where thou art so that Christ needed not to bid thee go thy wayes for that 2. Before it is said If thou remembrest that thy brother hath ought against thee not thou against him the word Brother is a motive to him to be reconciled to thee for so Abraham useth it to Lot and to thee to go and use all good means to appease his anger for if thou when thou seest thy brothers Ox or Asse fallen into a pit thou must pull him out much more when thou seest thy brother hath done any thing which makes him in a damnable condition thou shouldest do what thou canst to deliver him and if he is angry with thee without a cause he hath done so vers 22. and if he be angry with thee without a cause thou slandest most in need of motives to perswade thee to seek reconcillation Then come c. 1. For thou art not to be reconciled in stead of offering thy gift but before nor will God have thine offering in this case omitted but deferred 2. You may not omit no nor for any worldly businesse defer the offering thy gift in thy full strength before thy strength fails thee for every holy duty strengthens the grace that is in thee and inables thee to perform another better 4. It is not said upon the Altar for that belongs to the Priest thou maist leave thy gift before the Altar but thou maist not offer it upon the Altar and the Priest may not offer it before thou comest 6. By any injury or wrong thou dost thy brother thou dost offend two him and God and therefore thou hast two to be reconciled unto thy brother to whom thou art to go to be reconciled unto him and God thou art to reconcile by thy sacrifice but first thou art to reconcile thy self to thy brother for he will not refuse thy reconciliation because thou art not reconciled to God but God will refuse thee for thy not indeavouring to be reconciled to thy brother Vers 25. Agree with thine adversary quickly whiles thou art in the way with him list at any time the adversary deliver thee to the Judge and the Judge deliver thee to the Officer and thou be cast into prison Agree with thine adversary Concerning our friends while there is no difference betwixt us there needs no instruction the Publicans not only will tell you what to do but by their example they teach you they do what is to be done in this case they love their friends but that wherein they transgresse both in their life and doctrine is concerning three sorts of persons a friend that is fallen out with thee an adversary that sues thee and an enemy that hates thee be reconciled to thy brother lest he become thine adversary agree with thine adversary lest he become thine enemy and love thine enemy that he may become thy friend 2. An adversary is a person of a middle nature between a friend and an enemy for an offended friend becomes an adversary and an offended adversary becomes thine enemy and an adversary and an enemy differ First an adversary his end is 1. To recover his own to do himself good but an enemies aim is to do thee hurt 2. An adversary makes the Law his rule and the Law his judge but thine enemy makes his malice his rule and himself the judge 3. Thine adversary is far easier to be made thy friend divers times a small part of thine estate will serve but thine enemy will not be satisfied but with thy ruine therefore our Saviour doth not bid thee be reconciled to thine enemy for thine enemies are generally implacable and whosoever is ones enemy was first onely an offended brother or an adversary and thou hast or shouldst have striven to be reconciled before but all that our Saviour requires in that case is to pray blesse love 3. Agree that is indeavour to agree for it is not alwaies in our power to agree as it is not alwaies in our power to be reconciled 4. Do not say He hath done me wrong and sues me unjustly let him come and agree with me but our Saviour bids thee agree with him for indeed Christ bids thee and God commands thee to do no more then he hath done himself for so saith Paul Rom 5.10 5. Or at least thou art bound not to bear any evil will but to be 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 6. Not with Gods adversary thou art not bound to agree with him if any one shall persecute thee for righteousnesse sake though thou knowest he will deliver thee to the Judge and the Judge to the Officer and they