and counted the blood of the Covenant an unholy thing how had I in some sort done despight unto the spirit of grace yet even then in despight of all my most odious unworthinesse didst thou spread abroad thine arms to receive me yea thou openedst thine heart to let me in O love passing not knowledge onely but wonder also O mercy not incident into any thing lesse then infinite nor by any thing lesse comprehensible But oh dear Lord when from the object of thy mercy I cast mine eyes upon the effects and improvement of thy divine favours and see what thy love hath drawn from thee towards the sons of men how am I lost in a just amazement It is that which fetcht thee down from the glory of the highest heavens from the bosome of thine eternall Father to this lower world the region of sorrow and death It is that which to the wonder of Angels cloathed thee with this flesh of ours and brought thee who thoughtst it no robbery to be equall with God to an estate lower then thine own creatures Oh mercy transcending the admiration of all the glorious spirits of heaven that God would bee incarnate Surely that all those celestiall powers should be redacted to either worms or nothing that all this goodly frame of creation should run back into its first confusion or be reduced to one single atome it is not so high a wonder as for God to become man those changes though the highest that nature is capable of are yet but of things finite this is of an infinite subject with which the most excellent of finite things can hold no proportion Oh the great mystery of godlinesse God manifested in the flesh and seen of Angels Those heavenly spirits had ever since they were made seen his most glorious Deity and adored him as their omnipotent Creator but to see that God of spirits invested with flesh was such a wonder as had been enough if their nature could have been capable of it to have astonished even glory it self And whether to see him that was their God so humbled below themselves or to see humanity thus advanced above themselves were the greater wonder to them they onely know It was your foolish misprison O ye ignorant Listrians that you took the servants for the Master here onely is it verified which you supposed that God is come down to us in the likenesse of man and as man conversed with men What a disparagement doe wee think it was for the great Monarch of Babylon for seven years together as a beast to converse with the beasts of the field Yet alas beasts and men are fellow-creatures made of one earth drawing in the same ayre returning for their bodily part to the same dust symbolizing in many qualities and in some mutually transcending each others so as here may seem to bee some tearms of a tolerable proportion sith many men are in disposition too like unto beasts and some beasts are in outward shape somewhat like unto men But for him that was and is God blessed for ever eternall infinite incomprehensible to put on flesh and to become a man amongst mē was to stoop below al possible disparities that heaven and earth can afford Oh Saviour the lower thine abasement was for us the higher was the pitch of thy divine love to us Yet in this our humane condition there are degrees One rules and glitters in all earthly glory another sits despised in the dust one passes the time of his life in much jollity and pleasure another wears out his days in sorrow and discontentment Blessed Jesu since thou wouldst be a man why wouldst thou not be the King of men since thou wouldst come down to our earth why wouldst thou not enjoy the best entertainment that the earth could yeeld thee Yea since thou who art the eternall Son of God wouldst be the son of man why didst thou not appear in a state like to the King of heaven attended with the glorious retinue of blessed Angels O yet greater wonder of mercies The same infinite love that brought thee down to the form of man would also bring thee down being man to the form of a servant So didst thou love man that thou wouldst take part with him of his misery that he might take part with thee of thy blessednesse thou wouldst be poor to enrich us thou wouldst be burdened for our ease tempted for our victory despised for our glory With what lesse then ravishment of spirit can I behold thee who wert from everlasting cloathed with glory and majesty wrapped in rags thee who fillest heaven and earth with the majesty of thy glory cradled in a manger thee who art the God of power fleeing in thy mothers arms from the rage of a weak man thee who art the God of Israel driven to be nursed out of the bosome of thy Church thee who madest the heaven of heavens busily working in the homely trade of a foster-foster-father thee who commandest the Devils to their chains transported and tempted by that foul spirit thee who art God all-sufficient exposed to hunger thirst wearines danger contēpt poverty revilings scourgings persecution thee who art the just Judge of all the world accused and condemned thee who art the Lord of life dying upon the tree of shame and curse thee who art the eternall Son of God strugling with thy Fathers wrath thee who hadst said I and my Father are one sweating drops of bloud in thine agony and crying out on the Crosse My God my God why hast thou forsaken me thee who hast the keys of hell and of death lying sealed up in another mans grave Oh Saviour whither hath thy love to mankinde carried thee what sighs and groans and tears and blood hast thou spent upon us wretched men How dear a price hast thou paid for our ransome What raptures of spirit can be sufficient for the admiration of thy so infinite mercy Be thou swallowed up O my soul in this depth of divine love and hate to spend thy thoughts any more upon the base objects of this wretched world when thou hast such a Saviour to take them up But O blessed Jesu if from what thou hast suffered for me I shall cast mine eyes upon what thou hast done for my soul how is my heart divided betwixt the wonders of both and may as soon tell how great either of them is as whether of them is the greater It is in thee that I was elected from all eternity and ordained to a glorious inheritance before there was a world we are wont O God to marvell at and blesse thy provident beneficence to the first man that before thou wouldst bring him forth into the world thou wert pleased to furnish such a world for him so goodly an house over his head so pleasant a Paradise under his feet such variety of creatures round about him for his subjection and attendance But how should I magnifie thy mercy who before
such are able to attain some knowledge of thee our Creator to observe the motions of the heavens to search into the natures of our fellow-creatures to passe judgement upon actions and events and to transact these earthlie affairs to our own best advantage But when all this is done wo were to us if vve vvere but men for our corrupted reason renders us of all creatures the most miserable that therefore to our reason thou hast superadded faith to our nature grace and of men hast made us Christians and to us as such hast given thy Christ thy Spirit and thereby made us of enemies sons and heirs co-heirs with Christ of thine eternall and most glorious kingdome of heaven yea hast incorporated us into thy self made us one spirit with thee our God Lord what room can there be possibly in these strait and narrow hearts of ours for a due admiration of thy transcendent love and mercy I am swallowed up O God I am willingly swallowed up in this bottomlesse abysse of thine infinite love and there let me dwell in a perpetuall ravishment of spirit till being freed from this clog of earth and filled with the fulnesse of Christ I shall be admitted to enjoy that which I cannot now reach to wonder at thine incomprehensible blisse and glory which thou laid up in the highest heavens for them that love thee in the blessed communion of all thy Saints and Angels thy Cherubim and Seraphim Thrones Dominions and Principalities and Powers in the beatificall presence of thee the ever-living God the eternall Father of spirits Father Son holy Ghost one infinite Deity in three co-essentially co-eternally co-equally glorious persons To vvhom be blessing honour glory and power for ever and ever Amen Allelujah THE CHRISTIAN LAID FORTH IN His whole Disposition and Carriage BY I. H. D. D. B. N. The CONTENTS The Exhortatory Preface § 1. THe Christians disposition § 2. His expence of the day § 3. His recreations § 4. His meals § 5. His nights rest § 6. His carriage § 7. His resolution in matter of Religion § 8. His discourse § 9. His devotion § 10. His sufferings § 11. His conflicts § 12. His death An Exhortatory Preface to the Christian Reader OVt of infallible rules and long experience have I gathered up this true character of a Christian A labour some will think might have been well spared Every man professes both to know and act this part Who is there that would not be angry if but a question should be made either of his skill or interest Surely since the first name giveÌ„ at Antioch all the beleeving world hath been ambitious of the honour of it How happy were it if all that are willing to wear the livery were as ready to doe the service But it fals out here as in the case of all things that are at once honourable and difficult every one affects the title few labour for the truth of the atchievement Having therefore leisure enough to look about me and finding the world too prone to this worst kind of hypocrisie I have made this true 〈◊〉 not more for direction then for tryall Let no man view these lines as a stranger but when he looks in this glasse let him ask his heart whether this be his own face yea rather when he sees this face let him examine his heart whether both of theÌ„ agree with their pattern And where he findes his failings as who shall not let him strive to amend them and never give over whiles he is any way lesse fair then his copy In the mean time I would it were lesse easie by these rules to judge even of others besides our selves or that it were uncharitable to say there are many Professors few Christians If words and forms might carry it Christ would have Clients 〈◊〉 but if holinesse of disposition and uprightnesse of carriage must be the proof wo is me In the midst of the Land among the people there is as the shaking of an Olive tree and as the gleaming grapes where the Vintage is done For where is the man that hath obtained the mastery of his corrupt affections and to be the Lord of his unruly appetite that hath his heart in heaven whiles his living carcass is stirring here upoÌ„ earth that can see the invisible and sâ—orâ—tly enjoy that Saviour to whom he is spiritually united That hath subdued his will and reason to his beleef that fears nothing but God loves nothing but goodnesse hates nothing but sin rejoyceth in none but true blessings Whose faith triumphs over the world whose hope is anchored in heaven whose charity knows no lesse bounds then God and men whose humility represents him as vile to himself as he is honourable in the reputation of God who is wise heaven-ward however he passes with the world who dares be no other then just whether he win or lose who is frugally liberall discreetly courageous holily temperate who is ever a thrifty menager of his houres so dividing the day betwixt his God and his Vocation that neither shall finde fault with a just neglect or an unjust partiality whose recreations are harmlesse honest warrantable such as may refresh nature not debauch it whose diet is regulated by health not by pleasure as one whose table shall be no altar to his belly nor snare to his soul who in his seasonable repose lies down and awakes with God caring only to relieve his spirits not to cherish sloth Whose carriage is meek gentle compliant beneficiall in whatsoever station In Magistracy unpartially just in the Ministery conscionably faithfull in the rule of his family wisely provident and religiously exemplary Shortly who is a discreet and loving yoke-fellow a tender and pious parent a dutious and awfull son an humble and obsequious servant an obedient and loyall subject Whose heart is constantly setled in the main truths of Christian Religion so as he cannot be removed in litigious points neither too credulous nor too Peremptory whose discourse is such as may be meet for the expressions of a tongue that belongs to a sound godly and charitable heart whose breast continually burns with the heavenly fire of an holy devotion whose painfull sufferings are overcome with patience and chearfull resolutions whose conflicts are attended with undaunted courage and crowned with an happy victory Lastly whose death is not so full of fear and anguish as of strong consolations in that Saviour who hath overcome and sweetned it nor of so much dreadfulnesse in it self as of joy in the present expectation of that blessed issue of a glorious immortality which instantly succeeds it Such is the Christian whom we doe here characterize and commend to the world both for trial and imitation neither know I which of these many qualifications can be missing in that soul who lays a just claim to Christ his Redeemer Take your hearts to task therefore my dear brethren into whose hands soever these lines shall come and as you desire to
blessed us and how should we blesse thee in so mighty and glorious attendants Neither hast thou O God meerly turn'd us over to the protection of those tutelary spirits but hast held us still in thine own hand having not so strongly defenced as without as thou hast done within Since that is wrought by thine Angels this by thy Spirit Oh the soveraign and powerfull influences of thy holy Ghost whereby wee are furnished with all saving graces strengthned against all temptations heartned against all our doubts and fears enabled both to resist and overcome and upon our victories crowned Oh divine bounty far beyond the reach of wonder So God the Father loved the world that he gave his onely begotten Sonne that whosoever beleeveth in him should not perish but have everlasting life So God the Son loved the world of his elect that he gave unto thē the holy Spirit of promise wherby they are sealed unto the day of redemption wherby according to the riches of his glory they are strengthned with might in the inner man by the vertue whereof shed abroad in their hearts they are enabled to cry Abba Father Oh gifts either of which are more worth then many worlds yet through thy goodnes ô Lord both of thē mine How rich is my soul through thy divine munificence how over-laid with mercies How safe in thine Almighty tuition How happy in thy blessed possession Now therefore I dare in the might of my God bid defiance to all the gates of hell Doe your worst ô all ye principalities and powers and rulers of the darknesse of this world and spirituall wickednesses in high places doe your worst God is mine and I am his I am above your malice in the right of him whose I am It is true I am weak but he is omnipotent I am sinfull but he is infinite holinesse that power that holinesse in his gracious application is mine It is my Saviours love that hath made this happy exchange of his righteousnesse for my sin of his power for my infirmity Who then shall lay any thing to the charge of Gods elect It is God that justifieth Who shal separate us from the love of Christ Shall tribulation or distresse or persecution or famine or nakednesse or perill or sword Nay in all these things we are more thē conquerors through him that loved us So as neither death nor life nor Angels nor principalities nor powers nor things present nor things to come nor height nor depth nor any other creature shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Lo where this love is placed were it our love of God how easily might the power of a prevalent temptation separate us from it or it from us for alas what hold is to be taken of our affections w ch like unto water are so much more apt to freeze because they have been heated but it is the love of God to us in Christ Jesus which is ever as himself constant and eternall He can no more cease to love us then to be himself he cannot but be unchangeable we cannot but be happy All this O deare Jesu hast thou done all this hast thou suffered for me And oh now for an heart that might be some ways answerable to thy mercies Surely even good natures hate to be in debt for love and are ready to repay favours with interest Oh for a soul sick of love yea sick unto death why should I how can I be any otherwise any whit lesse affected O Saviour this onely sicknesse is my health this death is my life and not to be thus sick is to be dead in sins and trespasses I am rock and not flesh if I be not wounded with these heavenly darts Ardent affection is apt to attract love even where is little or no beauty and excellent beauty is no lesse apt to enflame the heart where there is no answer of affection but when these two meet together what breast can hold against them and here they are both in an eminent degree Thou canst say even of thy poore Church though labouring under many imperfections Thou hast ravished my heart my sister my Spouse thou hast ravished my heart with one of thine eyes with one chain of thy neck how fair is thy love my sister my Spouse And canst thou O blessed Saviour be so taken with the incurious and homely features of thy faithfull ones and shall not we much more be altogether enamoured of thine absolute and divine beauty of whom every beleeving soul can say My beloved is white and ruddy the chiefest among ten thousand his head is as the most fine gold his eyes are as the eyes of doves by the rivers of waters his cheekes are as a bed of spices as sweet flowers his lips like lillies dropping sweet smelling myrrhe c. It hath pleased thee O Lord out of the sweet ravishments of thy heavenly love to say to thy poor Church Turn away thine eyes from mee for they have overcome me but oh let mee say unto thee Turn thine eyes to me that they may overcome me I would be thus ravished thus overcome I would be thus out of my self that I might be all in thee Thou lovedst me before I had beeing Let me now that I have a beeing be wholly taken up with thy love Let me set all my soul upon thee that gavest me beeing upō thee who art the eternal absolute Self-beeing who hast said and only could say I am that I am Alas Lord we are nothing but what thou wilt have us and cease to be when thou callest in that breath of life w ch thou hast lent us thou art that incōprehensibly glorious infinite self-existing Spirit from eternity in eternity to eternity in and from whom all things are It is thy wonderfull mercy that thou wouldst condescend so low as to vouchsafe to be loved of my wretchednesse of whom thou mightest justly require and expect nothing but terrour and trembling It is my happinesse that I may be allowed to love a Majesty so infinitely glorious Oh let me not be so farre wanting to my own felicity as to bee lesse then ravished with thy love Thou lovedst me when I was deformed loathly forlorn and miserable shall I not now love thee when thou hast freed me and deckt me with the ornaments of thy Graces Lord Jesu who should enjoy the fruit of thine own favours but thy self How shamefully injurious were it that when thou hast trimm'd up my soul it should prostitute it self to the love of the world Oh take my heart to thee alone possesse thy self of that which none can claim but thy self Thou lovedst me when I was a professed rebell against thee and receivedst me not to mercy onely but to the indearment of a subject a servant a son vvhere should I place the improvement of the thankfull affections of my loyaltie and duty but upon thee Thou O God
salvation AN HOLY RAPTVRE OR A Patheticall Meditation of the love of CHRIST WHat is it O blessed Apostle what is it for which thou dost so earnestly bow thy knees in the behalf of thine Ephesians unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ Even this that they may know the love of Christ which passeth knowledge Give me leave first to wonder at thy suit and then much more at what thou suest for Were thine affections raised so high to thine Ephesians that thou shouldst crave for them impossible favours Did thy love so far over-shoot thy reason as to pray they might attain to the knowledge of that which cannot be known It is the love of Christ which thou wishest they may know and it is that love which thou sayest is past all knowledge What shall we say to this Is it for that there may be holy ambitions of those heights of grace which we can never hope actually to attain Or is it rather that thou supposest and prayest they may reach to the knowledge of that love the measure whereof they could never aspire to know Surely so it is O blessed Jesu that thou hast loved us we know but how much thou hast loved us is past the comprehension of Angels Those glorious spirits as they desire to looke into the deep mystery of our redemption so they wonder to behold that divine love whereby it is wrought but they can no more reach to the bottome of it then they can affect to be infinite For surely no lesse then an endlesse line can serve to fadome a bottomlesse depth Such O Saviour is the abysse of thy love to miserable man Alas what doe we poor wretched dust of the earth goe about to measure it by the spans and inches of our shallow thoughts Far far be such presumption from us Onely admit us O blessed Lord to look at to admire and adore that which we give up for incomprehensible What shall wee then say to this love Oh dear Jesu both as thine and as cast upon us All earthly love supposeth some kinde of equality or proportion at least betwixt the person that loves and is loved Here is none at all so as which is past wonder extreams meet without a mean For lo thou who art the eternall and absolute Beeing God blessed for ever lovedst me that had no beeing at all thou lovedst me both when I was not and could never have been but by thee It was from thy love that I had any beeing at all much more that when thou hadst given me a beeing thou shouldst follow mee with succeeding mercies who but thou who art infinite in goodnesse would love that which is not Our poor sensuall love is drawn from us by the sight of a face or a picture neither is ever raised but upon some pleasing motive thou wouldst make that which thou wouldst love and wouldst love that which thou hadst made O God was there ever love so free so gracious as this of thine Who can be capable to love us but men or Angels Men love us because they see something in us which they think amiable Angels love us because thou dost so But why doest thou O blessed Lord love us but because thou wouldst There can be no cause of thy will which is the cause of all things Even so Lord since this love did rise onely from thee let the praise and glory of it rest onely in thee Yet more Lord we had lost our selves before we were and having forfaited what we should be had made our selves perfectly miserable even when wee were worse then nothing thou wouldst love us was there ever any eye enamoured of deformity Can there bee any bodily deformitie comparable to that of sin yet Lord when sin had made us abominably loathsome didst thou cast thy love upon us A little scurf of leprosie or some few nastie spots of morphew or but some unsavory sent sets us off and turns our love into detestation But for thee O God when we were become as foul and ugly as sinne could make us even then was thy love inflamed towards us Even when we were weltring in our blood thou saidst Live and washedst us and anointedst us and cloathedst us with broidered work and deckedst us with ornaments and graciously espousedst us to thy self and receivedst us into thine owne bosome Lord what is man that thou art thus mindfull of him and the son of man that thou thus visitest him Oh what are we in comparison of thine once-glorious Angels They sinned and fell never to bee recovered never to be loosed from those everlasting chains wherein they are reserved to the judgement of the great day Whence is it then O Saviour whence is it that thou hast shut up thy mercy from those thy more excellent creatures and hast extended it to us vile sinfull dust whence but that thou wouldst love man because thou wouldst Alas it it is discouragement enough to our feeble friendship that he to whom we wisht well is miserable Our love doth gladly attend upon and enjoy his prosperity but when his estate is utterly sunke and his person exposed to contempt and ignominy yea to torture and death who is there that will then put forth himself to owne a forlorn and perishing friend But for thee O blessed Jesu so ardent was thy love to us that it was not in the power of our extream misery to abate it yea so as that the deplorednesse of our condition did but heighten that holy flame What speak I of shame or sufferings Hell it self could not keep thee off from us Even from that pit of eternall perdition didst thou fetch our condemned souls and hast contrarily vouchsafed to put us into a state of everlasting blessednesse The common disposition of men pretends to a kind of justice in giving men their own so as they will repay love for love and thinke they may for hatred return enmity nature it self then teacheth us to love our friends it is onely grace that can love an enemy But as of injuries so of enmities thereupon grounded there are certain degrees some are sleight and trivial some main and capitall If a man doe but scratch my face or give some light dash to my fame it is no great Mastery upon submission to receive such an offender to favour but if he have endevoured to ruine my estate to wound my reputation to cut my throat not onely to pardon this man but to hug him in my arms to lodge him in my bosome as my entire friend this would be no other then an high improvement of my charity O Lord Jesu what was I but the worst of enemies when thou vouchsafedst to embrace me with thy loving mercy how had I shamefully rebelled against thee and yeelded up all my members as instruments of unrighteousnesse unto sin how had I crucified thee the Lord of life how had I done little other then trod under foot thee the blessed Son of God
tempting variety he puts his knife to his throat neither dares he feed without fear as knowing who over-looks him Obscenity detraction scurrility are barred from his table neither doe any words sound there that are lesse savoury then the dishes Lastly he so feeds as if he sought for health in those viands and not pleasure as if he did eat to live and rises not more replenished with food then with thankfulnesse In a due season he betakes himself to his rest he presumes not to alter the Ordinance of day and night nor dares confound where distinction is made by his Maker It is not with him as with the brute creatures that have nothing to look after but the meer obedience of nature he doth not therefore lay himself down as the swine in the stye or a dog in a kennell without any further preface to his desired sleep but improves those faculties which he is now closing up to a meet preparation for an holy repose for which purpose he first casts back his eye to the now-expired day and seriously considers how he hath spent it and will be sure to make his reckonings even with his God before he part Then he lifts up his eyes and his heart to that God who hath made the night for man to rest in and recommends himself earnestly to his blessed protection and then closeth his eyes in peace not without a serious meditation of his last rest his bed represents to him his grave his linnen his winding sheet his sleep death the night the many days of darknesse and shortly he so composeth his soul as if he lookt not to wake till the morning of the resurrection After which if he sleep he is thankfully chearfull if he sleep not his reins chasten and instruct him in the night season and if sleep be out of his eyes yet God and his Angels are not Whensoever he awakes in those hands he findes himself and therefore rests sweetly even when he sleeps not His very dreams however vain or troublesome are not to him altogether unprofitable for they serve to bewray not onely his bodily temper but his spirituall weaknesses which his waking resolutions shall endevour to correct He so applies himself to his pillow as a man that meant not to be drowned in sleep but refreshed not limiting his rest by the insatiable lust of a sluggish and drowzie stupidnesse but by the exigence of his health and abilitation to his calling and rises from it not too late with more appetite to his work then to a second slumber chearfully devoting the strength renued by his late rest to the honour and service of the giver His carriage is not strange insolent surly and overly contemptuous but familiarly meek humble courteous as knowing what mold he is made of and not knowing any worse man then himself He hath an hand ready upon every occasion to be helpfull to his neighbour as if he thought himself made to do good He hates to sell his breath to his friend where his advice may be usefull neither is more ambitious of any thing under heaven then of doing good offices It is his happinesse if he can reconcile quarrels and make peace between dissenting friends When he is chosen an Umpire he will be sure to cut even betwixt both parties and commonly displeaseth both that he may wrong neither If he be called forth to Magistracy he puts off all private interests and commands friendship to give place to justice Now he knows no couzens no enemies neither couzens for favour nor enemies for revenge but looks right forward to the cause without squinting aside to the persons No flattery can keep him from brow-beating of vice no fear can work him to discourage vertue Where severity is requisite he hates to enjoy anothers punishment and where mercy may be more prevalent he hates to use severity Power doth not render him imperious and oppressive but rather humbles him in the awfull expectation of his account If he be called to the honour of Gods Embassie to his people he dares not but be faithfull in delivering that sacred Message he cannot now either fear faces or respect persons it is equally odious to him to hide and smother any of Gods counsell and to foist in any of his own to suppresse truth and to adulterate it He speaks not himself but Christ and labours not to tickle the ear but to save souls So doth he goe before his flock as one that means to feed them no lesse by his example then by his doctrine and would condemn himself if he did not live the Gospel as well as preach it He is neither too austere in his retirednesse nor too good-cheap in his sociablenesse but carries so eaven an hand that his discreet affablenesse may be free from contempt and that he may win his people with a loving conversation If any of his charge be mis-carried into an errour of opinion he labours to reclaim him by the spirit of meeknesse so as the mis-guided may reade nothing but love in his zealous conviction if any be drawn into a vicious course of life he fetches him back with a gentle yet powerfull hand by an holy importunity working the offender to a sense of his own danger and to a saving penitence Is he the master of a family he dares not be a Lion in his own house cruelly tyrannizing over his meanest drudge but so moderately exercises his power as knowing himself to be his apprentices fellow-servant He is the mouth of his meiny to God in his daily devotions offering up for them the calves of his lips in his morning and evening sacrifice and the mouth of God unto them in his wholesome instructions and godly admonitions he goes before them in all good examples of piety and holy conversation and so governs as one that hath more then meer bodies committed to his charge Is he the husband of a wife He carries his yoak even not laying too much weight upon the weaker neck His helper argues him the principall and he so knows it that he makes a wise use of his just inequality so remembring himself to be the superiour as that he can be no other then one flesh He maintains therefore his moderate authority with a conjugall love so holding up the right of his sexe that in the mean time he doth not violently clash with the britler vessel As his choice was not made by weight or by the voice or by the hiew of the hide but for pure affection grounded upon vertue so the same regards hold him close to a constant continuance of his chast love which can never yeeld either to change or intermission Is he a father of children he looks upon them as more Gods then his own and governs them accordingly He knows it is onely their worse part which they have received from his loins their diviner half is from the father of lights and is now become the main part of his charge