Selected quad for the lemma: father_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
father_n	husband_n	mother_n	wife_n	20,403	5	8.3061	4	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A84659	Theion enōtikon, A discourse of holy love, by which the soul is united unto God Containing the various acts of love, the proper motives, and the exercise of it in order to duty and perfection. Written in Spanish by the learned Christopher de Fonseca, done into English with some variation and much addition, by Sr George Strode, Knight.; Tratado del amor de Dios. English	Fonseca, Cristóbal de, 1550?-1621.; Strode, George, Sir, 1583-1663.	1652 (1652)	Wing F1405B; Thomason E1382_1; ESTC R772	166,624	277

if_o he_o love_v she_o he_o wisnes_n she_o well_o he_o do_v well_o for_o she_o he_o give_v she_o what_o in_o justice_n and_o reason_n she_o ●n_v desire_v he_o suffer_v for_o she_o more_o than_o she_o will_v he_o be_v careful_a not_o to_o displease_v and_o most_o willing_a to_o give_v her_o honour_n and_o all_o good_a content_n god_n when_o he_o give_v law_n and_o precept_n to_o man_n he_o conclude_v they_o all_o in_o this_o love_v the_o lord_n thy_o god_n and_o s._n paul_n 10._o rom._n 13_o 10._o love_n be_v the_o fulfil_n of_o the_o law_n and_o to_o this_o love_n as_o portray_v the_o husband_n be_v bind_v so_o say_v s._n paul_n man_n ought_v so_o to_o love_v their_o wife_n 5.28_o eph._n 5.28_o and_o this_o express_o prove_v it_o to_o be_v the_o husband_n duty_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n which_o s._n paul_n bare_o say_v not_o it_o be_v his_o duty_n though_o his_o word_n as_o from_o god_n be_v a_o law_n and_o there_o need_v no_o other_o confirmation_n for_o it_o but_o he_o prove_v it_o for_o the_o man_n to_o his_o wife_n be_v as_o christ_n to_o his_o church_n and_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n and_o therefore_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d so_o you_o husband_n ought_v to_o love_v your_o wife_n second_o the_o wife_n be_v not_o flesh_n of_o thy_o flesh_n but_o be_v make_v one_o flesh_n and_o one_o body_n and_o as_o it_o be_v one_o person_n with_o thou_o 5.28_o eph._n 5.28_o so_o ephes_n 5.28_o and_o therefore_o man_n ought_v to_o love_v his_o wife_n and_o if_o you_o ask_v i_o how_o he_o ought_v to_o love_v she_o this_o the_o apostle_n express_v too_o and_o most_o plain_o say_v 1._o as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d so_o you_o husband_n ought_v to_o love_v your_o wife_n where_o note_n that_o the_o apostle_n mean_v not_o by_o this_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d so_o to_o tell_v the_o husband_n that_o he_o ought_v to_o love_v his_o wife_n in_o that_o high_a measure_n and_o degree_n as_o christ_n do_v love_v his_o spouse_n the_o church_n this_o be_v not_o possible_a for_o man_n to_o do_v but_o as_o christ_n do_v true_o and_o hearty_o love_v the_o church_n so_o ought_v m●n_z to_o love_v their_o wife_n and_o a_o second_o 〈…〉_o shall_v love_v his_o wife_n the_o apostle_n add_v in_o the_o same_o place_n when_o he_o say_v he_o ought_v to_o love_v she_o as_o hit_v own_o and_o as_o himself_o and_o be_v it_o that_o the_o man_n love_v his_o wife_n so_o the_o woman_n covet_v too_o much_o that_o will_v desire_v more_o then_o that_o her_o husband_n love_v she_o as_o he_o do_v himself_o for_o no_o man_n 29._o v._o 29._o except_o a_o mad_a one_o say_v s._n paul_n hate_v but_o rather_o cherish_v and_o nourish_v his_o own_o flesh_n now_o s._n basil_n take_v it_o for_o grant_v that_o the_o man_n according_a to_o this_o duty_n and_o rule_n love_v the_o wife_n more_o than_o the_o wife_n her_o husband_n demand_v the_o reason_n for_o it_o and_o answer_v it_o thus_o that_o woman_n be_v make_v subject_a to_o the_o guidance_n of_o the_o man_n and_o therefore_o to_o make_v a_o compensation_n as_o it_o be_v the_o man_n by_o his_o love_n be_v make_v in_o some_o sort_n subject_n to_o his_o wife_n so_o that_o the_o husband_n though_o he_o be_v in_o his_o natural_a capacity_n a_o lord_n to_o his_o wife_n as_o sarah_n call_v her_o husband_n yet_o in_o a_o sweet_a manner_n he_o be_v through_o his_o love_n become_v her_o servant_n so_o that_o though_o god_n give_v the_o woman_n long_a hair_n which_o may_v be_v as_o reins_n in_o the_o man_n hand_n to_o guide_v she_o yet_o god_n give_v she_o a_o eye_n that_o her_o husband_n may_v say_v as_o christ_n to_o his_o spouse_n 4.9_o cant._n 4.9_o thou_o have_v ravish_v or_o take_v away_o my_o heart_n with_o one_o of_o thy_o eye_n and_o be_v the_o man_n the_o head_n of_o the_o wife_n yet_o the_o wife_n by_o her_o ravishment_n of_o the_o man_n be_v become_v according_a to_o the_o place_n or_o part_v whence_o she_o be_v first_o take_v the_o heart_n of_o the_o man_n and_o hereby_o it_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o as_o christ_n teach_v the_o man_n be_v to_o leave_v father_n and_o mother_n and_o cleave_v to_o his_o wife_n and_o all_o this_o be_v wrought_v by_o man_n love_n to_o his_o wife_n well_o therefore_o do_v s._n paul_n 5._o ephes_n 5._o speak_v of_o this_o love_a subject_n call_v it_o a_o mystery_n a_o mystery_n in_o nature_n and_o a_o mystery_n in_o grace_n and_o each_o apply_v by_o the_o apostle_n to_o the_o husband_n love_n for_o as_o eve_n be_v take_v out_o of_o adam_n so_o the_o church_n from_o christ_n she_o from_o adam_n cast_v into_o a_o sleep_n the_o church_n from_o christ_n sleep_v in_o death_n eve_n be_v from_o the_o side_n open_v the_o church_n from_o christ_n side_n pierce_v adam_n therefore_o be_v to_o to_o love_n eve_n as_o his_o flesh_n and_o bone_n christ_n his_o church_n as_o his_o blood_n and_o life_n and_o hereupon_o the_o apostle_n conclude_v man_n therefore_o love_v your_o wife_n as_o adam_n do_v eve_n and_o as_o christ_n do_v the_o church_n for_o man_n and_o his_o wife_n be_v couple_v as_o in_o the_o bond_n of_o nature_n so_o in_o the_o covenant_n of_o grace_n and_o this_o be_v the_o mystery_n which_o s._n paul_n call_v the_o love_n of_o man_n to_o his_o wife_n and_o another_o mystery_n there_o be_v couch_v in_o the_o word_n of_o the_o apostle_n when_o be_v say_v that_o the_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v two_o subject_n or_o person_n be_v make_v and_o become_v one_o for_o though_o two_o yet_o but_o one_o body_n and_o two_o but_o one_o soul_n and_o affection_n to_o love_v each_o other_o as_o himself_o 33._o eph._n 5.28_o v._o 33._o so_o that_o two_o shall_v be_v one_o in_o and_o by_o love_n and_o yet_o by_o the_o power_n of_o the_o same_o love_n this_o one_o to_o become_v two_o to_o help_v each_o other_o against_o all_o enemy_n adversary_n or_o opponent_n and_o here_o be_v the_o mystery_n and_o such_o a_o mystery_n as_o love_v only_o under_o god_n can_v and_o shall_v make_v between_o man_n and_o wife_n which_o love_n as_o it_o be_v strong_a as_o death_n 8.6_o can._n 8.6_o so_o it_o fear_v not_o nor_o stoop_v to_o death_n but_o undaunted_o encounter_v for_o the_o object_n be_v it_o the_o wife_n or_o the_o spouse_n belove_v s._n paul_n tell_v we_o it_o be_v so_o in_o that_o most_o divine_a love_n of_o christ_n to_o his_o church_n who_o give_v himself_o even_o to_o death_n for_o she_o and_o so_o have_v it_o be_v in_o many_o a_o man_n natural_a love_n to_o do_v the_o like_a for_o his_o belove_a he_o touch_v but_o one_o example_n of_o tiberius_n who_o find_v two_o snake_n in_o his_o bedchamber_n be_v tell_v that_o if_o he_o kill_v the_o female_a his_o wife_n must_v die_v if_o the_o male_a himself_o whereupon_o to_o preserve_v his_o wife_n he_o choose_v rather_o to_o kill_v the_o mal●●●nd_n himself_o to_o die_v and_o happy_a be_v that_o conjunction_n which_o be_v so_o cement_v by_o love_n that_o each_o can_v say_v as_o castor_n and_o pollux_n as_o brethren_n vive_fw-la tuo_fw-la coujux_fw-la tempore_fw-la vive_fw-la meo_fw-la live_v o_o my_o spouse_n thy_o term_n and_o live_v thou_o i_o the_o greek_n though_o most_o abundant_a in_o expression_n by_o word_n yet_o in_o this_o case_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n seem_v defective_a and_o scanty_a for_o as_o ephes_n 5._o and_o col._n 3._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 1._o eph._n 5._o col._n 1._o which_o be_v in_o general_a a_o man_n stand_v for_o husband_n so_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d which_o be_v in_o general_a a_o woman_n signify_v in_o the_o apostle_n a_o wife_n which_o defect_n if_o it_o may_v be_v so_o call_v be_v supply_v by_o our_o english_a when_o we_o translate_v that_o man_n and_o woman_n by_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o not_o unfit_o from_o the_o first_o creation_n of_o both_o for_o as_o the_o woman_n be_v make_v for_o the_o man_n to_o be_v a_o comfort_n unto_o he_o as_o a_o wife_n 2.18_o gen._n 2.18_o so_o the_o man_n be_v alone_o and_o want_v any_o under_o god_n on_o who_o to_o place_v his_o love_n and_o delight_n be_v to_o settle_v these_o on_o the_o woman_n his_o wife_n therefore_o say_v the_o apostle_n husband_n love_v your_o wife_n 5.22_o eph._n 5.22_o these_o be_v the_o object_n of_o your_o solace_n and_o delight_n and_o as_o they_o be_v make_v help_v to_o the_o husband_n which_o word_n husband_n as_o it_o note_v the_o man_n to_o be_v the_o band_n of_o the_o house_n and_o all_o therein_o so_o primary_o and_o principal_o of_o his_o wife_n by_o which_o he_o be_v put_v in_o mind_n to_o keep_v she_o from_o shatter_v as_o the_o band_n in_o sheaf_n or_o as_o the_o band_n of_o

be_v the_o key_n to_o thy_o worldly_a bliss_n and_o happiness_n and_o the_o fruit_n of_o a_o well_o ground_v and_o holy_a marriage_n which_o happiness_n appear_v and_o be_v evidence_v on_o the_o man_n part_n 1._o when_o it_o be_v say_v thy_o wife_n shall_v be_v as_o a_o vine_n 128.3_o ps_n 128.3_o which_o be_v both_o pleasant_a and_o profitable_a pleasant_a on_o the_o side_n of_o thy_o house_n for_o shade_n and_o refreshment_n and_o profitable_a because_o fruitful_a fruitful_a two_o way_n 1._o bring_v that_o forth_o which_o make_v thy_o heart_n merry_a be_v as_o she_o be_v make_v a_o help_n and_o comfort_n unto_o thou_o 2._o fruitful_a in_o child_n and_o not_o only_o bring_v she_o pleasure_n and_o profit_n to_o her_o husband_n but_o honour_n too_o for_o so_o we_o read_v a_o virtuous_a wife_n be_v a_o crown_n to_o her_o husband_n 14._o prov._n 12_o 14._o for_o as_o the_o lewdness_n of_o the_o woman_n turn_v to_o the_o husband_n shame_n witness_v the_o word_n cuckold_n so_o her_o discreet_a and_o good_a life_n become_v his_o honour_n and_o as_o the_o crown_n of_o gold_n be_v to_o the_o king_n head_n such_o be_v a_o virtuous_a wife_n to_o her_o husband_n for_o a_o ensign_n of_o his_o honour_n and_o not_o a_o external_a temporary_a windy_a honour_n place_v beget_v or_o settle_v in_o the_o opinion_n of_o man_n but_o that_o intrinsic_a during_o real_a honour_n which_o be_v the_o fruit_n of_o god_n favour_n for_o so_o who_o find_v a_o wife_n find_v a_o good_a thing_n 18.22_o prov._n 18.22_o where_o good_a the_o adjunct_n to_o the_o subject_a wife_n be_v necessary_o to_o be_v understand_v else_o the_o thing_n that_o he_o find_v will_v scarce_o be_v good_a and_o will_v you_o know_v how_o this_o wife_n become_v such_o a_o good_a thing_n then_o read_v proverb_n 19.14_o where_o you_o shall_v find_v that_o a_o prudent_a or_o good_a wife_n be_v from_o the_o lord_n and_z 14._o prov._n ●●_o 14._o if_o a_o present_a from_o god_n the_o lord_n then_o sure_o she_o be_v a_o good_a thing_n especial_o if_o you_o add_v what_o be_v before_o to_o that_o of_o proverb_n 18.22_o he_o that_o find_v this_o good_a thing_n the_o wife_n obtain_v and_o receive_v she_o not_o only_o as_o a_o gift_n but_o as_o a_o gift_n of_o honour_n and_o favour_n from_o the_o lord_n i_o may_v surfeit_v a_o husband_n with_o a_o glut_n of_o happiness_n if_o i_o shall_v here_o repeat_v and_o enlarge_v the_o manifold_a blessing_n redound_v to_o he_o from_o a_o good_a wife_n of_o who_o i_o may_v speak_v as_o the_o philosopher_n and_o father_n do_v of_o health_n say_v it_o be_v bonum_fw-la such_o a_o good_a as_o without_o which_o there_o be_v scarce_o any_o sublunary_a thing_n good_a unto_o he_o god_n say_v at_o the_o first_o it_o be_v not_o good_a that_o man_n shall_v be_v alone_o without_o society_n and_o company_n that_o be_v to_o be_v without_o a_o woman_n his_o wife_n therefore_o good_a it_o be_v to_o have_v she_o 2._o it_o be_v not_o good_a to_o be_v without_o a_o help_n meet_v for_o he_o which_o be_v man_n case_n without_o a_o wife_n therefore_o it_o be_v good_a to_o have_v she_o three_o it_o be_v not_o good_a for_o a_o man_n to_o be_v without_o arrow_n the_o weapon_n of_o defence_n against_o his_o foe_n now_o these_o arrow_n be_v his_o child_n which_o honest_o can_v be_v have_v without_o a_o wife_n therefore_o it_o be_v good_a to_o have_v she_o i_o can_v add_v to_o these_o 600_o more_o good_n attend_v a_o husband_n with_o a_o good_a wife_n but_o that_o i_o may_v not_o clog_v you_o ireferre_v you_o to_o that_o which_o i_o may_v here_o repeat_v and_o enlarge_v prov._n 31._o from_o the_o 10._o v._o to_o the_o end_n of_o the_o chapter_n and_o to_o these_o place_n in_o ecclesiasticus_fw-la ch_n 7.19_o ch_n 25.8_o and_z ch_z 26._o v._n 1_o 2_o 3.13_o 14_o 15_o 16.22_o 23_o 24_o 25_o 26._o and_o ch_n 36._o v._n 14._o and_o ch_n 40.23_o so_o that_o i_o may_v say_v merry_o yet_o true_o a_o egg_n be_v not_o so_o full_a of_o good_a meat_n as_o a_o virtuous_a wife_n be_v of_o good_a thing_n and_o as_o to_o the_o husband_n such_o a_o wife_n be_v a_o blessing_n and_o a_o good_a thing_n so_o no_o less_o good_a and_o bliss_n be_v acquire_v to_o the_o wife_n who_o have_v find_v a_o good_a husband_n i_o have_v hear_v woman_n jest_o i_o hope_v say_v that_o if_o the_o husband_n be_v the_o head_n the_o wile_n shall_v be_v the_o cap_n and_o sure_o the_o wife_n have_v no_o ready_a mean_n to_o attain_v this_o then_o by_o her_o discreet_a subjection_n to_o her_o husband_n according_a to_o that_o of_o our_o saviour_n in_o several_a place_n repeat_v by_o the_o evangelist_n he_o that_o humble_v himself_o shall_v be_v exalt_v and_o this_o accord_n with_o that_o before_o mention_v a_o virtuous_a wife_n be_v a_o crown_n to_o her_o husband_n 12.4_o prov._n 12.4_o now_o the_o place_n for_o a_o crown_n to_o be_v set_v be_v his_o head_n and_o as_o the_o crown_n be_v to_o the_o bearer_n a_o ensign_n of_o honour_n so_o honour_v we_o know_v be_v in_o honorante_fw-la formal_o and_o efficient_o in_o the_o giver_n of_o honour_n which_o in_o this_o case_n be_v the_o virtuous_a wife_n and_o hereby_o she_o acquire_v to_o herself_o the_o just_a title_n of_o honour_n and_o this_o she_o have_v gain_v by_o be_v a_o wise_a wife_n but_o if_o this_o satisfy_v not_o all_o woman_n then_o let_v they_o hear_v and_o find_v other_o blessing_n and_o good_a thing_n arise_v from_o marriage_n which_o single_a she_o neither_o have_v nor_o well_o can_v have_v for_o hereby_o she_o have_v not_o only_o the_o society_n but_o the_o love_n the_o union_n the_o body_n the_o soul_n the_o all_o thing_n of_o the_o man_n her_o husband_n and_o what_o great_a or_o more_o good_a can_v she_o wish_v or_o desire_v under_o heaven_n again_o when_o adam_n have_v all_o the_o world_n give_v he_o yet_o it_o be_v not_o say_v for_o these_o or_o for_o all_o these_o thou_o shall_v leave_v thy_o father_n and_o thy_o mother_n but_o when_o he_o have_v his_o wife_n then_o and_o not_o till_o then_o be_v it_o speak_v thou_o shall_v leave_v father_n and_o mother_n and_o all_o thing_n except_o god_n and_o shall_v cleave_v to_o thy_o wife_n and_o be_v not_o this_o a_o bliss_n or_o a_o good_a thing_n to_o a_o wife_n may_v i_o not_o without_o offence_n say_v that_o a_o woman_n before_o marriage_n be_v as_o it_o be_v a_o headless_a thing_n for_o as_o the_o man_n be_v say_v without_o she_o to_o be_v without_o a_o help_n or_o helpless_a so_o she_o without_o he_o to_o be_v without_o a_o head_n headless_a for_o so_o s._n paul_n speak_v the_o husband_n be_v the_o head_n of_o the_o wife_n 5.28_o eph._n 5.28_o 2._o whereas_o before_o marriage_n she_o be_v but_o half_a a_o one_o now_o by_o wedlock_n she_o be_v make_v a_o whole_a and_o perfect_a one_o for_o her_o husband_n and_o she_o as_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n so_o s._n paul_n say_v be_v make_v one_o 3._o s._n paul_n go_v further_o when_o he_o say_v that_o he_o the_o husband_n as_o christ_n be_v the_o head_n 5.23_o eph._n 5.23_o and_o he_o be_v 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