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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A49513	Principle[s] of faith & good conscience digested into a catecheticall form: together with an appendix: 1. Unfolding the termes of practicall divinity. 2. Shewing some markes of Gods children. 3. Some generall rules and principles of holy life. By W. Lyford, Batchelour of Divinity, and minister of Gods Word at Sherborne in Dorsetshire.	Lyford, William, 1598-1653.	1655 (1655)	Wing L3555; ESTC R216824	122,930	334

and custome as it doth belong to them by any right of Law Statute custome or otherwise Ro 13.4 6 7. Mat. 22.21 Tribute is a duty not a curtesy men sin if they withhold it for they attend continually upon our good Q. VVhat followes hereof A. They are naughty people that a inwardly despise or b cutwardly curse and revile or disobey and c rise up against their Rulers or withhold their dues a 1 Sam. 10.27 Eccl. 10.20 1 King 21.13 b Act. 23.5 Josh 1.18 c 1 Sam. 24.6 Q. But is it lawfull in no case for Subjects to rise up in Armes against their lawfull Soveraigne A. No in no case a No supreme Power whatsoever or wheresoever residing ought to be resisted by those that are under them b especially if they have sworn Allegiance unto them a 1 Sam. 24.6 Rom. 13.2 VVhosoever resisteth the Power resisteth the Ordinance of God The Powers are nor from beneath but from above Joh. 19.11 There is no power but of God Ro 13.1 with Ps 82.6 He is the Minister of God Rom. 13.4 God is the Soveraigne Lord of the Whole earth and Kings are his deputies and Vicegerents in them God is resisted they that resist shall receive to themselves damnation Pro. 30 31 32. a King against whom there is no rising up If we cannot with good conscience obey them yet we must be subject and submit unto them 1 Pet. 2.13 14 16. b Ezek. 17.15 16. Judg. 9.19 20 24 45 56 57. see CAP. XXXV Duties of Husband and Wife THE duties of Husband and Wife some be common to them both some peculiar to the Man or Woman alone Q. What be the duties of Man and Wife common to them both A. Five First for our choyce we must marry in the Lord that is with such as joyn with us in the faith worship of the same true God 1 Cor 7.39 1 King 11.2 4 7 11. 2 Chron. 21.6 Gen. 24.3 6. 2 Cor. 6. 14 15.16 Mal. 2.11 Q. What secondly is their duty A. To pitty and doe good each to the soule of other to bring one another from errour and darknesse to be heires of the grace of life 1 Cor. 7.16 1 Pet. 3.7 Q. What thirdly A. Mutuall helping each of other in counsels care and bearing the burthen of the family especially they must as yoke-fellowes joyn together in setting up Religion in the family They must draw in one yoke and one way in all good things the burthen must not be cast on one through the sloth nicenesse voluptuousnesse and pride of the other Gen 2.20 24. 1 Sam. 25.17 24 25. Q. What fourthly A. They owe one to another conjugall a love and loyalty whereby they must love and delight one in another above all others b bearing one anothers burthens and infirmities As sicknesse sillinesse poverty frowardnesse and not by rigorous churlish and hardning wayes to vex one another a Heb 13.4 Gen 20.16 1 Cor 7.12 13. Eph. 5.28 29 31. Col 3.19 Gen 16.6 Q. What fiftly is their duty A. Mutuall benevolence in a moderate and seasonable use of the marriage bed 1 Cor 7.4 5. Levit 18.19 25. 1 Thes 4.4 5. Q. What is the duty more peculiar to the Wife A. She must be a sober minded in all things discreet b keep at home c obedient to her Husband and of a gentle and meeke spirit It is a false commendation of women to be of a great spirit to take upon them over their Husbands to ruffle it and bring him under leave that for Zipporah Vasthi Exod 4. 25 26. Hest 1.12 17. a Tit. 2.4 5. b Prov. 7.11 1 Tim. 5.13 c 1 Tim. 2.12 Gen. 3.6 Col. 3.18 d Prov. 31.26 1 Pet. 3.3 4. A chearful curteous modest mild spirit becomes a Christian Woman a Christan Wife must not be sullen nor taunting not bitter nor captious and untractable nor domineering nor vain in false adornings of haire naked breasts costly attire and such like shewes and witnesses of an ungoverned and unsanctified heart Q. What is the duty more peculiar to the Husband A. To dwell with the Wife according to knowledge giving honour to her as to the weaker vessell that is not overbearing any thing contrary to her credit place comforts but fitting imployments according to her abilities making up in love and wisedome what is defective in her weaknesse 1 Pet. 3.7 What beautifull Christians should we be if we were carefull to performe and shew the power of Religion in discharge of the duties that belong to us in our severall relations he is an hypocrite that is forward in common duties of Christianity and is not alike carefull of the particular duties belonging to his relation and calling There be other relations of men who ought to give honour one to another as Pastours and People young and aged rich and poore c. Q. If I live under a Pastour or Minister of Gods Word What is my duty to him A. The Peoples duty to their Ministers is threefold First to a esteem them very highly in love for their workes sake Secondly to b provide them liberall and honourable maintenance to uphold the dignity of their callings a 1 Thes 5.12 13.2 King 4.10 Gal. 4.13.14 Jer. 38.4 9. b 1 Cor. 96 10 13 14. 1 Tim. 5.17 That double honour is spoken of their maintenance it is a sinne to make him a poor despicable man Gal. 6.6 in all good things Q. What is the third duty of people to Ministers A. To suffer themselves to be guided amended by their wholsome and faithfull doctrines Heb. 13.17 2 Tim. 4.15 These are not duties of curtesy and good nature but of conscience before God who will require a strict account of all the derision slanders hard usage and up-risings against their Ministers persons calling doctrines and godly admonitions as if it were a glory to keep them under or to carry on a foolish disorder against them c. Hos 4.4 Mat. 22.6 7. 2 Chron. 36.16 19. Act 4.2 3 24. Rev. 11.5 See 1 Cor. 4 11 12 13. Jer. 26.15 Q. What is the Ministers duty to the flock A. 1. He must goe in and out before them in a a blamelesse conversation 2. b feed them with wholsome doctrine a plainly diligently b and faithfully separating between sheep and goates between pretious and vile having e compassion on the ignorant and them that be out of the way a 1 Tim. 4.12 Tit. 1.6 Levit. 21.4 21. b Tit. 1.9 2 Tim. 3.16 Jer. 23.28 c 2 Cor. 4.2 2 Tim. 2.2 25. 2 Cor. 12.15 d Ezek. 13.10 19 22. Jer. 15.19 e Mat 19.36 38. Zach. 11.15 Heb. 5.2 Q. There be whom God hath made eminent above us in gifts of mind birth age or estate and we must honour whom God hath honoured What is our duty to such A. To acknowledge their gifts and reverence their persons especially if they be found in the way of righteousnesse Lev. 19.32 Prov. 16.31 Esay 3.5 Dan. 2.48 1 Tim. 5.1