leave to be a suitor for your love let me beg your Love for God and his dear Son This is the first and great Commandement to love the Lord your God with all your heart with all your soul and with all your minde Matth. 22. 37 38. God commandeth you to love him it is your duty God alloweth you to love him it is your priviledge God doth chiefly require your love My Son give me thy heart If you give any thing every thing you have besides and keep back your heart it will not be accepted And God doth best deserve your love he is the most suitable object for your love other objects will debase your love God will ennoble and dignifie your love you cannot bestow your love better none so amiable as God especially as he represents himself in his Son If you look for greatness he is the most great and glorious Majesty of Heaven and Earth If you look for power he is Omnipotent hath done and can do whatever he pleaseth If wisdom hath a beauty in it in your esteem his understanding and wisdom is infinite If truth faithfulness mercy goodness be amiable in your eyes he is truth it self and cannot lye he is full of mercy and kindness he hath most tender bowels he hath riches and treasures of grace and goodness If love be an attractive of love his love is beyond comparison beyond conception there is a heighth in his love which cannot be reached a depth in his love which cannot be fathomed a breadth and length in his love which cannot be comprehended his love is first without any beginning his love is free without our deserving his love is constant without any changing his love is eternal without any ending He is most lovely this should draw forth your love much he is most loving this should draw forth your love more he is love it self 1 Jâ—…h 4. 8. God is love not only hath love but is love he is all beauty and sweetness all goodness and kindness all bowels and love O what an incentive should this be to your love whither are your hearts wandring O gather in all your scattcred affections and fix them upon this most beautiful object place your love upon God now before it be too far engaged to something else from whence it may be very difficult to withdraw love him with all your heart love him truly and love him strongly love him sincerely and love him servently love him supreamly and love him constantly let the fire of your love ascend to him as to its sphere let the stream of your love run to him and lose it self in the Ocean of his goodness where alone it can finde suitableness and satisfaction here you may bathe your selves without fear of drowning here you may expatiate without fear of exceeding here you can never transgress the bounds of love love him strongly whom you can never love too strongly Be strong in love one to another you may love one another and you ought to love one another love is the summ of the Law the first Table is fulfilled in love to God the second Table is fulfilled in love to your neighbour See how the Apostle expresseth it Kom 13. 8 9 10. Owe na man any thing but to love one another for be that loveth another hath fulfilled the Law For this Thou shalt not commit adultery Thou shalt not kill Thou shalt not steal Thou shalt not bear false witness And if there be any other Commandment it is briefly comprehended in this saying Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thy self Love worketh no ill to his neighbour therefore love is the fulfilling of the Law There is a common love which you should bear to all even to the wicked and your enemies which should not only with-hold you from offering any injury unto them or rendring evil for evil but also should put you upon doing good offices for them in reference to their reputation estate relations bodies as the Lord doth put opportunities into your hands and they stand in need of your help You should be pitiful towards the worst in their distress if your enemy hunger you should feed him if he thirst give him drink You should bless them that curse and revile you do good unto them that hate you pray for them that despightfully use you and persecute you You should be loving and courteous in your converse and behaviour towards all men you should grieve at their afflictions rejoyce in their good and be glad of occasions wherein you may shâ—…w a real affection to them you have acquaintance with chiefly you should express your love to their souls in your prayers friendly admonitions hearty counsels you should endeavor to awaken them whom you see sleeping on the brink of the bottomless pit to reduce them that are hastening in the broad way of sin towards their own destruction you should use arguments with them to leave their sins and to close with Jesus Christ especially if any of your relations and â—…eer friends in whom you have interest be in a state of nature you should use all possible endeavours to perswade them to draw in the easie yoke of Christ with your selves Thus you must love all strongly â—…ut you must love them that bear the Image of God â—…pon them that love and fear the Lord most strongâ—…y Your love to the Brethren must be unfeigued â—…are and fervent as the Apostle directs 1 Pet. 1. 22. This will be an evidence to you that you are Dâ—…sciples â—…f Christ Joh. 13. 35. By this shall all men know much â—…ore may yourselves know that ye are my Disciples â—…ye love one another This will be an evidence that ye are passed from death to life 1 John 3. 14. We know that we are passed from death to life because we love the Brethren This will be an evidence that ye are born of God and have a true knowledge of him 1 Joh. 4. 7 8. Beloved let us love one another for love is of God and every one that loveth is born of God and knoweth God he that loveth not knoweth not God for God is love You should mingle your converse with Gods people with hearty and fervent love which will be pleasing to God sweet to your own spirit and advantagious to them you converse withall You should be made up of love and kindness pass by injuries bear reproaches cover infirmities sympathize with sorrows relieve necessities joy in the good of others as if your own and be ready to do good to all especially to them who are of the houshold of faith This is the second grace you should abound in namely the grace of Love 3. Young men labour for strong desires not after riches and honours and pleasures and friends though these things in their place and order and measure may be desired but if they be desired chiefly if they be desired too strongly the fruit will be not the looked for good and satisfaction but
do it when you are deprived 3. Your danger is in respect of the uncertainty of Gods working by the Means though he should continue them unto you the winde blowes where and when it listeth In youth you may feel the sweet breath of the Spirit moving upon your hearts if you do not hoist up sail when you have a fair wind possibly you may never have such a winde again as long as you live God may swear in his wrath that his Spirit shall no longer strive with you God calleth upon you when you are young if you refuse you may hereafter call and cry and seek and knock and not be heard or answered and the door be shut up against you for ever See Prov. 1. 24. to the 31. Mic. 3. 4. Zacb. 7. 11 12 13. We read of Esau's weeping for the blessing to no purpose and the foolish Virgins going to buy Oyl when it was too late and our Saviour telling Jerusalem that their day was spent and the things which belonged to their peace were hid from their eyes There are many that neglect the things of Gods Kingdom when they are young that have their day of grace set upon them before their lives be half spent God doth leave off calling and the Spirit doth leave off working and they are given up to a judiciall hardness as Act. 28. 26 27. The time of youth then is the most safe time Hearken then O ye young men and be perswaded in this your day to minde the things which belong unto your peace and to seek Gods kingdom and righteousness Seek this first that is timely before other things and that you may seek so as to obtain SECT VI. 2. You must seek Gods Kingdom and Righteousness First that is Chiefly and above other things These things must have the chief of your study and care and labour you must make it your business and look upon it as your chief business if business about the world have more of your time because of your engagements in your particular callings yet this should have more of your care and heart Better miscarry in any business than in this business better miss of an Estate than miss of Gods Kingdom better be a poor begger than remain a guilty sinner better the body be cloathed with rags than the soul be without the white robes of Christs Righteousness better the body were starved than to have the soul damned the greatest poverty and misery in this life which can befall you is not to be compared with the eternal misery of Hell which in the neglect of the duty of the Text you cannot escape And suppose you should gain the whole world what is that in comparison with the gain of the Crown of Glory what is earthly riches compared with heavenly treasures 1. The worth then of Gods Kingdom which is an Inheritance beyond any purchase except that of the blood of Christ and the excellency of this Righteousness which when it is imputed doth bring with it pardon of sin the favour of God the peace of Conscience and sometimes the unspeakable joyes of the Holy Ghost which the whole World were you possessed with it could not procure Where this Righteousness is imparted it doth include all the graces of the Spirit which are the choicest Jewels the chiefest Ornaments the best Riches the least measure of which is of more worth than ten thousand worlds and will stand you in more stead in a dying hour and be of only signification and advantage when you come forth of the body and appear naked stripped quite naked and bereaved of all earthly enjoyments before the Judgement-seat of God I say the worth and excellency of Gods Kingdom and righteousness should move you to seek after it above all other things 2. The necessity of this Kingdom and Righteousness should further stirr you up to employ herein your chief care It is the Unum Necessarium the One thing necessary other things you may have and you may be without but you must have a title to Gods Kingdom or else you cannot be happy you must have Gods Righteousness imputed and imparted or else the guilt of sin will remain and you will continue servants and slaves to sin and cannot escape the punishment of sin the dreadfull and eternal punishment of sin in Hell There is a necessity of the thing and there is a necessity of seeking it chiefly or else you are not like to obtain especially if you consider 3. The difficulty of obtaining it is no easie thing to get to Heaven you must labour if you would enter into this Rest Heb. 4. 11. you must strive if you would enter in at the strait gate because many shall seek to enter in and shall not be able Luk. 13. 24. You must take the Kingdom of Heaven by violence if you would take it at all Matb 11. 12. not as if there were opposition from within for God is willing to entertain you the Lord Jesus is ready to set open the door before you the Spirit is ready to help you but there is opposition about the walls as it were of the place Sathan he buildeth Forts and strong Holds and casteth forth his fiery darts to drive you off when you make any attempt this way You will meet with opposition from the Devil and the World and chiefly from within your selves when you do in good earnest set your faces towards Heaven therefore you had need labour and strive and make it your chief care and business to get into this Kingdom You are in a Sea as it were where there are waves of trouble beating upon you a tide of inward corruptions working against you and a boisterous winde of temptation to carry you back you had need to row hard if you will get to the Haven You are travelling in the narrow path where there are many by-paths and many enemies to oppose you you had need look well to your way to get on the spiritual Armour and fight the good fight of Faith if you would obtain the Crown at the end of your way and at last lay hold on Eternal Life To conclude let me exhort you so to seek that you may finde so to run that you may obtain so to fight that you may overcome that after all your travail and pains you may sit down with Abraham Isaac and Jacob in the Kingdom of God 1 JOH 2. part of the 14 Verse I have written unto you Young Men because ye are strong and the word of God abideth in you and you have overcome the wickea one THE Author or Penman which was employed in writing this Epistle was John the Beloved Disciple The chief subject of this Epistle or duty which herein he exhorteth unto is Love Love to God and Love one to another The Persons to whom he writes this Epistle are all Believers in the general and particularly according to the three Ages of Men he dedicateth his Epistle unto Fathers unto Little
Children and unto Young Men. The Text may be termed Young Mens Epistle I have written unto you young Men because ye are strong and the Word of God abideth in you and ye have overcome the wicked one Where the Apostle doth give three Elogiums or commendations of these young men 1. That they were strong 2. That the Word of God did abide in them 3. That they had overcome the wicked one To observe Doctrines and prosecute them might require too much time and room and not be altogether so profitable I shall choose rather to spend my whole discourse in a Use of Exhortation drawn from the Text unto you young men who have called me hither to preach unto you this day and what the Apostle doth write of these young men in the Text by way of Commendation I shall commend unto you by way of Exhortation There are three great duties which I from this place exhort all you young men unto 1. Labour to be strong 2. Labour that the Word of God may abide in you 3. Labour to overcome the wicked one 1. Young men labour to be strong And here I shall shew 1. In what ye should be strong 2. To what 3. In whom 1. In what ye should be strong In generall labour to be strong in Grace Read the Exhortation of the Apostle unto his Son Timothy 2 Tim. 2. 1. Thou therefore my Son be strong in the grace which is in Christ Jesus Labour whilest you are young to get grace above all gettings to gain this riches which is of far more value than all earthly treasures some of you are of one trade and some of another and you endeavour to get an Estate hereby let me advise you all to trade for grace which will be an Estate it self during your abode here and will be the earnest to you of an Inheritance in the Kingdom of Heaven hereafter Labour to get grace in the truth of it take heed that you be not mistaken and deceive your selves with dross and brass in stead of true gold I mean with counterfeit instead of true grace And labour to get grace in the strength ofit Grace is strong in it self it can do more than all the wisdom and learning in the world let it be strong in you the Fountain is in Christ let the Stream be in you in him is the Ocean labour that as full and strong tides as may be may flow from him into your hearts Let the habits of Grace be deeply and strongly rooted in you and live in the powerfull exercise of those habits Particularly labour for strength 1. Of Faith 2. Of Love 3. Of Desire 4. Of Hope 5. Of Joy 1. Young men labour for strength of Faith some of you have strong bodies others have strong memories others have strong fancies labour all of you to get a strong faith Faith is an excellent grace it is more precious than gold 1 Pet. 1. 7. labour to get faith and a strong faith Abraham was strong in faith and hereby he brought glory to God Rom. 4. 20. shew your selves to be children of faithfull Abraham by getting such a faith as he had for kinde and such a faith as he had for measure this will be for Gods glory and for your honour Let your faith have a strong bottom a firm and sure footing build it not upon the sand or earth much less upon the waters but build it upon the Rock upon the Lord Jesus Christ who is the Rock of Ages build it upon the foundation of the Prophets and Apostles Jesus Christ being the chief corner-stone build it upon the Word of God in the Scriptures and build it upon Christ who is held forth in the Word Let your faith have a strong bottom and let your faith put forth it self in strong actings let your assent be strong unto divine Truths and let your recumbance be strong upon Christ and the Promises of the Gospel Get a strong eye of Faith to discern those spiritual objects which cannot be seen with the eye of sense to look upward to God and the glory which is about his Throne to look downward to Hell and the torments which the damned do there endure for sin to look forward to the coming of Christ and the general Judgement of the World at his appearance and get a strong hand of faith to lay fast hold on Christ to apply his righteousness for the remission of sin and to receive his Spirit for the cleansing you from filthiness and perfecting holiness which is begun in you Let your trust and confidence be strong in God through his Son Young men are apt to be too credulous too ready to believe and put confidence in men when the Scripture telleth us that all men are Lyars if not actually so yet they may be so and the most are so young ones before they have tryed the world are apt to trust in men old ones that are more experienced are more cautious but you cannot put too much confidence in God he cannot lye he never deceived any he never will fail them that put their trust in him Some trust in Chariots and some in Horses but let your trust be in the Lord some trust in Princes and great persons others in Hosts and strong Forces most in arms of flesh which are weak and cannot give that help as is expected but let your confidence be in the Name of the Lord who is a shield and buckler and present help to his people in the time of trouble whose Name is a strong Tower into which the righteous may flye and be safe in times of the greatest danger Prov. 10. 18. Be strong in Faith according to the strength of this grace all your other graces will receive strength Faith being the Nurse of them all 2. Young men labour for strong Love In the time of youth affections do spring and they put forth themselves with more strength and vigour than in the cold winter of Old age Dear Youths endeavour that your affections may be directed to the right objects that you may not defile your affections with fin nor debase your affections with the world that you may not by misplacing your Love lose your Love and with the loss of your Love lose your Souls and your happiness You may love and that with the greatest strength you have a capacity for and it is your duty to be strong in Love but then let it be carryed forth in this order 1. To God 2. To one another 1. Be strong in love to God your hearts now will settle upon something they will work some way if they do not work upward they will work downward if they be not placed upon God they will be placed upon the Creature You have now many suitors for your love all the sensitive alluring objects which are about you would entice and ravish your hearts but these things if they seem fair will wither and prove deceitfull they are unworthy of your love Give me
one side and him that sweareth on the other side God threatneth to condemn swearers Jam. 5. 12. Above all things swear not lest ye fall into condemnation Take heed of the horrid oaths of the roaring Blades in our times and take heed of more petty oaths of faith and troth take heed also of cursing and taking Gods Name in vain remembring that the Lord will not hold such guiltless 7. Young men take heed of Lying See Eph. 4. 25. Wherefore putting away lying speak every man truth You would not speak lyes if the party you spoke them unto did know and could prove them to be lyes the intent of lyes being to cover God knoweth your lyes you cannot cover any thing from him and God being Truth loveth truth and hateth lyes and hath threatned lyars to give them their portion in that lake which burneth with fire and brimstone Rev. 21. 8. Take heed of accustoming your selves to this sin of lying whilst you are young it will be hard ever leaving it Whatever advantage you may think to get by a lye I am sure your damage will be greater Whatever credit you may think to get by a lye your dishonour is greater Whatever fault you cover by a lye you do hereby the more aggravate it Whatever kindness you may think to do another by a lye you do your selves a thousand-fold more injury Though you may account lyes but words and words but wind yet for such words you will be condemned and such a wind as one saith is sufficient to blow your souls into Hell 8. Young men take heed of Unfaithfulness You that are Apprentices or Servants take heâ—…d of unfaithfulness to your Masters that you do not wrong and dâ—…fraud them in the least remembring that dreadful threatning that God will be avenged upon all defrauders 1 Thes. 4. 6. They may not know your fraud and deceit but God is privy to it and the vengeance will be fearful which one day he will recompence unto you for this sin Read the duty of servants in this regard Tit. 2. 10. where they are warned against purloining and exhorted to shew all good fidelity that they may adorn the doctrine of God our Saviour in all things Be faithful to your Masters as to their estates their money and goods be careful as if they were your own do not wrong them or any else whilst young remembring that you must make restitution as ever you hope for salvation if you be able to do it and be faithful to them as to their counsels do not blaze abroad their secrets do not make known their infirmities serve them with all uprightness and fidelity as if you were to serve Christ himself for indeed he will count it so and hath promised a reward to faithful servants beyond what their Masters can give Eph. 6. 8. Col. 3. 24. 9. Young men take heed of Disobedience Children obey your Parents in all things for this is well pleasing to God Col. 3. 20. For this is the first Commandment with promise Ephes. 6. 2. Servants be obedient unto them which are Masters according to the flesh with fear and trembling in singleness of your heart as unto Christ not with eye-service as men-pleasers but as the servants of Christ doing the will of God from the heart Ephes. 6. 5 6. Here is a copy of your duty take heed of the contrary sin which the wicked one will be busie to tempt you unto In disobeying Parents and Governours you are disobedient unto God and displease Christ your great Master if they be strangers to Christ you ought to obey them except in those things which are unlawful Young ones that are yet under Governmâ—…nt take heed of disobedience as obedience will be rewarded by Christ so disobedience will be punished by him at his second appearance Be not disobedient to Governours and behave not your selves irreverently towards the aged and gray-headed for you ought to honour the silver-hair 10. Young men take heed of Idleness Do not loiter away your time especially the time of your youth Time is very precious the time of your youth is most precious the choicest and chiesest it is your seed-time your gathering-time you are now more active and fit for employment you may happily spare a month better if you should live beyond fifty years than an hour now your whole time is short the time of your youth will be slipt away quickly manhood and old age will steal on you before you are aware but you â—…ie whilst young You can call no time yours 〈◊〉 the present O how precious is the present hour I think if the damned had but one hour given them how they would esteem and improve it I have heard of a Lady at her death who had mis-spent the â—…ime of her life groaned out in her air breath this sad speech with bitterness and earnestness 〈◊〉 thousand worlds for one quarter of an hour 〈◊〉 Take heed of lavishing away your time in sin and vaâ—…y let not an hour pass without doing something fill up your whole time with duty you may can and drink and sleep but let not the concernments of your body devour too much of your precious time let them not have more of your time than is necessary more than is duty Redeem your time double your diligence remember how much of your time is irrecoverably gone how much of your work is still to do remember how neer you are to eternity when time shall be no more therefore apply your hearts to wisdom and whatever your hands finde to do do it with all your might Take heed of idleness in your particular callings be diligent in your secular imployments the diligent hand maketh rich but the slothful person is brother to him that is a great waster Take heed of idleness of spiritual sloth in your general Callings Take heed of wholly neglecting the duties of Gods Worship either publick or family or closet of neglecting to hear or read or pray and take heed of negligence in these duties there is a curse denounced against such as do the work of the Lord negligently Jer. 48. 10. You must not be slothful if you would be followers of them who through faith and patience have inherited the Promises Heb. 6. 12. 11. Young men take heed of Sabbath-breaking Do not idle away this day as too many young men do in the fields in visits in vain company much less in Taverns or Alehouses in drinking and greater wickedness than all the week besides Value the Sabbath day above all the daies of the week spend it in the duties of Gods immediate Worship you may get something in the shop en the week day you may get more in Gods House and Ordinances on the Lords day spiritual light and life and strength and peace and joy Gods favour Jewels of grace evidences for Heaven are worthy your seeking do not lose such benefits as these by profaning the Sabbath-day by suffering worldly business to entrench