bread of Idlenesse V. 28. Her children arise up and call her blessed her husband also and he praiseth her V. 29. Many daughters have done vertuously but thou excellest them all V. 30. Favour is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman that feareth the Lord she shall be praised V. 31. Give her of the fruit of her hands and let her own works praise her in the gates CHAP. XII Of the Duties of Masters and Servants First Of the Duties of Masters MAsters ought to be careful of these things I. To instruct their Servants to inform them in the right knowledge of God and the things that concern their salvation To Catechize them to pray with them and for them to bring them to the publick Ordinances and cause them to observe the Lords Day To exhort them to private prayer and reading the Word and to be diligent and conscientious in their places c. Gen. 18.19 I know that my servant Abraham will teach his Family But of this I have spoken more in the Tenth Chapter of the Duties of Governours of Families II. To give them a good example A wife Carriage and a pious honest unblameable Conversation does much tend to the bettering of servants If the Master be a swearer a company keeper a prophaner of the Lords day have no prayers in his Family be a slighter and neglecter of Gods Worship and Service 't is madnesse for such an one to expect a sober Family III. To command them onely just and lawful things things equal as the Apostle speaks Col. 4.1 and to require of them only such service as they may well do with moderate care and industry and that which other servants of like condition with them usually perform A Master must not overtask his Servants nor oppress them with labours so that they shall have no time to bestow on their souls which is a ruling over them with rigour as 't is called Lev. 25.43 IV. To allow them wholsom fitting and sufficient food convenient rest and moderate refreshment that they may do their work with the more cheerfulnesse V. In time of sicknesse to take care that things necessary for their recovery be not wanting to them such as fitting Diet Physick and Attendance A Master at such a time is in place of a Parent Mat. 8.5 6 The Centurion went to Christ to heal his servant VI. To encourage them in well-doing by using them with that kindnesse and bounty which their Piety faithfulnesse and diligence deserves VII To admonish and reprove them when they do amisse and that not only in faults against themselves wherein few Masters are backward but also and more especially in faults against God whereat every Master ought to be more troubled than at those which tend only to his own losse or inconvenience The dishonour of God or the hazard of the meanest mans soul being infinitely more worthy our disquiet than any thing of the other kind can be Therefore when Masters or Mistresses are presently on fire for any little negligence and fault of a servant towards themselves and yet can without trouble see them run into great sins and miscarriages against God 't is a sign they consider their own concernments too much and Gods Honour and their servants souls too little But as 't is the duty of Masters to admonish and reprove their servants in case of fault so they must also look to do it in a due manner i. e. so as may be most likely to do good not in passion and rage which can never work the servant to any thing but the despising and hating of them Their rebukes must be just sparing moderate Eph 6 9. Forbearing threatning or moderating threatning as some render the Word They must reprove in such a sober and grave manner as may convince them of their faults and may plainly shew them that 't is love and good will to their souls and a desire of their amendment that makes them thus reprove them But if no warnings nor reproofs will restrain them from ill courses neither will they be corrected by words as 't is Prov. 29.19 then in due circumstances moderate correction of another sort may not be inexpedient VIII To listen to their just grievances and redresse them Job 31.13 If I did despise the cause of my man-servant or of my maid-servant when they contended with me v. 14. What then shall I do when God riseth up and when he visiteth what shall I answer him IX And Lastly to pay them their wages and justly to perform to them those conditions on which they were hired And that Masters may be the more careful and conscientious in these things let them consider 1. They have a Master in Heaven who is Omniscient righteous and just to whom they must give an account of the usage of their meanest servant on earth Eph. 6.9 And ye Masters do the same things to your servants farbearing threatning knowing that your Master also is in Heaven neither is there respect of persons with him Do the same things i. e. That which is good and right and shall be rewarded of the Lord. For Service give due recompense for good will in serving return good will by encouraging if Servants be faithful be ye good and gentle if they obey you in the Lord do ye command them in the Lord i. e. Only things just equal and pleasing to God 2. They and their Servants are of the same mould all of the earth as to the body and their Servants have reasonable souls capable of Grace here and Glory hereafter as well as they They should not therefore use them like slaves They should not carry themselves imperiously harshly churlishly and Nabal-like unto them 3. Those Servants that are truly gracious are Gods freemen and so fellow servants with their converted Masters in respect of God They are members of the same mystical body whereof Christ is the Head and may have a greater measure of Grace here and so a higher place in Heaven a greater degree of Glory hereafter than their Masters 4. And Lastly let them consider how easily God could have set them in their servants place and their servants in theirs And therefore let them give them such usage as themselves would think fit and reasonable had God disposed them into the condition of Servants Psal 101.2 I will behave my self wisely in a perfect way I will walk within my house with a perfect heart V. 6. Mine eies shall be upon the faithful of the Land that they may dwell with me he that walketh in a perfect way he shall serve me V. 7. He that worketh deceit shall not dwell within my house he that telleth lies shall not tarry in my sight Col. 4.1 Masters give unto your servants that which is just and equal knowing that ye also have a Master in Heaven Eph. 6 9. And ye Masters do the same things unto them forbearing threatning knowing that your Master also is in Heaven neither is there respect of
be of Gods granting or their own framing whether they have any warrant or promise from Gods Word that they shall be sav'd Or whether they do only strongly presume it without any sufficient ground Oh what loose and sandy foundations do many build their hopes of Heaven upon such as these 1. Their outward profession of Christianity and a formal performance of religious duties But as the Apostle speaks Rom. 2.28 29. He is not a Jew who is one outwardly who has onely the circumcision of the flesh but he is a Jew who is one inwardly whose heart is circumcised So he is a true Christian upon whose heart the saving work of conversion hath pass'd who hath felt the power of Grace upon his soul really turning it unto God The fair and broad leaves of an outward profession will nothing avail if the fruits of real holiness and sanctification be wanting Gal. 6.15 For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision availeth any thing nor uncircumcision but a new Creature 2. Their moral and civil deportment their fair and honest conversation in the world and freedom from grosse sins Now though outward righteousnesse be not only exceeding commendable but also necessary to Salvation yet 't is a dangerous thing to rest upon and by that only we cannot conclude any man to be in a good state and condition to God ward For 1. You shall find it many times accompanied with ignorance or very little savoury knowledge of God and spirituall things 2. Such persons usually see no necessity of regeneration and the new birth but content themselves with a meer moral change and freedom from gross sins and the practise of some morall vertues no new nature being wrought in them but the old nature only varnished over with civil education 3. There you shall not find for the most part any great prizing of Christ or labouring to get an interest in him and yet if the soul be not really united to him no justification sanctification or salvation can be expected 4. The chief care is usually about an outward fairnesse and unblameableness of conversation little care about mortification of inward lusts right tempering the affections True Grace presseth upon us heart-duties as well as externall obedience prohibits inward and heart-sins as well as outward filthinesse 2 Cor. 5.18 If any man be in Christ he is a new Creature old things are passed away behold all things are become new 5. The Glory of God is not the chief aim and end as it should be in whatever we do 1 Cor. 10.31 Whether ye eat or drink or whatsoever ye do do all to the Glory of God 6. There is usually a greater care to perform the Duties of the second Table then of the first You shall have some men very just in their dealings good neighbours and of a commendable conversation as to the world who yet may be are very negligent and carelesse of Gods Worship of Family duties of the Lords day c. Nay many times are professed haters and enemies to the practical power of Godlinesse So that we see more is requir'd than meer civility and an outward moral uprightness to ground a hope of salvation upon Paul before his conversion was concerning the righteousnesse of the Law blameless Phil. 3.6 Yet when God had savingly enlightened his soul what a doom doth he pass upon himself and cals his self righteousnesse dung which he accounted Gold before 3. Some reformation that is wrought in them They have left some sins they were formerly given to But 't is not only the forbearing of some sins but an inward loathing hating abhorring and forsaking all known sins that is a good evidence of a gracious state There must be a care to mortifie inward lusts and the corruptions of the heart as well as to abstain from outward acts of sin To mortifie our sins is a Sacrifice well-pleasing to God In a Sacrifice these two things were requir'd 1. That it should be slain not die of it self If thy lusts and sins rather leave thee than thou them or abate and die meerly through age or the decay of natural vigour this change is wrought in thee not by Grace but by age 2. A Sacrifice was to be offered to God If thou do leave thy former sins and do it not out of obedience to God but for thy credit sake or profit or some temporal advantage this is not the Sacrifice God delights in 4. The good opinion others have of them Others think them good Christians why should not they think so of themselves But let them consider that which is a sufficient ground for another to think well of us is not a sufficient ground for us to think well of our selves A fair outward deportment free from scandal and offence is a sufficient ground for another to think well of us but we must feel some inward saving work of Grace upon our hearts before we judge our own condition to be good 5. Comparing themselves with others they find they are not so bad as many others But 't is no security to any mans soul to be better than others except those others be in a safe condition 6. The untroublednesse of their Consciences All untroubledness of Conscience is not an Argument of a safe condition Some peace of Conscience arises from ignorance security sleepinesse deadnesse 'T is one of Gods greatest judgments to afford a man an untroubled Conscience in a sinfull course To be like Jonah ready to be drown'd and yet fast asleep But now the peace of a good Conscience usually followes upon humiliation and sorrow for sin and closing with Christ and resigning the soul up to him for pardon and Grace Such a Conscience does not only not accuse as the slumbring Conscience of a wicked man may do but acquits and discharges and comforts upon Gospel grounds 7. They thrive and prosper well in the world So they may and yet have all their portion in this life if they have no other evidence of Gods favour 8. God is merciful and ready to pardon 'T is true the King of Heaven is a merciful King pardoning iniquity transgression and sin But upon what terms hath he promised pardon to sinners for our hope of pardon must have some promise in the Word for its bottom and foundation or else we do but meerly delude our selves And we must also know that God is just as well as merciful and his threatnings are the object of our Faith as well as his promises Try your hopes therefore before you trust them Examine and prove whether you are such to whom God hath promised pardon or no Has God in the Scriptures declared he will pardon sin to any that go on in their sins that repent not of them nor betake their souls to Christ for pardon and Grace But possibly most ancient people will here tell me they do repent they do believe on Christ with all their hearts and hope to be sav'd by him But alas how miserably
And that thou maist the better practise this excellent lesson of living by Faith take these further Directions Direction 1. Labour to strengthen thy assent to the truth of the word of God Unbelief it is a mother sin There was a faultring of assent in our first parents to the truth of Gods commination concerning eating of the forbidden tree else they had not fallen so sadly and still 't is the ground of all miscarriages of hardness of heart and apostacy Heb. 3.12 13 Take heed Brethren lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief in departing from the living God But exhort one another daily while it is called to day lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulnesse of sin He that beleeveth not the judgments and threatnings of the Word will not stick to do any evil and he that doth not believe the promises will not be forward to any good All neglect and coldnesse in holy duties cometh from the weaknesse of our Faith there is a decay at the root Did we firmly believe the Glory of Heaven and the happinesse of the life to come we would be earnest and zealous for the obtaining of it Direction 2. Labour to be well acquainted with the promises of God and learn to stay thy soul upon them If an able potent friend promise help in troubles how are we cheared with it Ought not the promises of God then to be a strong consolation to us The proper life of a Christian is to take his comforts and supports from the promises of God and not only from his outward providences God many times alters the dispensations of his Providence but does not alter his promises The promises are the Saints inheritance Isa 54.17 No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn this is the heritage of the Servants of the Lord Whilst Christ is at Gods right hand and the Bible in the hand of gracious persons they need not be dejected in any condition Why art thou cast down O my soul and why art thou disquieted within me So David chides his soul and rebukes his feares Psal 42.5 and Psal 77.10 This is my infirmitie He bewailes his unbelief and chides his heart for dejection and distrust of Gods Providence Direction 3. Live upon God and account him all in all even in thy highest and fullest enjoyment of the creature Let not the creature be the object of thy trust at any time Trust and dependance is the greatest homage and respect we can yeeld to the Creatour Therefore Job Chap. 31.24 saies If I have made Gold my hope or have said to the fine Gold thou art my confidence V. 25. If I have rejoyced because my wealth was great and because my hand had gotten much c. V. 28. I should have denied the God that is above Men are very apt to make riches the staffe of their lives and the stay of their posterity and so their hearts leaning on them are taken off from God The great danger of riches is the trusting in them Mark 10.23 Jesus saith unto his Disciples how hardly shall those that have riches enter into the Kingdom of God V. 24. And the Disciples were astonished at his word But Jesus answereth again and saith unto them children how hard is it for them that trust in riches to enter into the Kingdome of God How many rich men are there that look upon themselves as it were intrenched within their estates and so promise themselves security against all dangers Thus God is not regarded but their wealth and worldly greatnesse is made their rock and fortress therefore covetousness is called Idolatry Col 3.5 And the covetous man an Idolater not so much for his love to riches as his trust in riches Take heed therefore of making an Idol of the creature do not build thy happinesse or felicity on any thing thou dost here enjoy When God affords thee creature comforts trust not in them Live upon God in the use and live upon God in the absence of the creature Direction 4. Use lawful and fair means for accomplishing and bringing about thy lawful designes but let thy main trust be on God Do thy duty and commit thy self and thy affairs to him in quietnesse of heart For a man to say he trusts in God and yet neglects to do his duty this is but to mock God a moderate care in the management of our affâ—irs is very commendable which puts a man upon praier and an humble diligence in the use of lawful means that once done a Christian should labour after a holy moderation and composednesse of Spirit and should take heed his heart be not fixed too much on any thing here below to his disturbance He should put all his waies and affairs into Gods hands He should wait patiently how God will cast his affairs and then submit and acquiesse in the issues of Providence O how sweet a life leads that Christian who lives in continual dependance on God! This kind of life discharges the creature of all that is burdensom of all carking cares and tormenting fears It leaves nothing upon him but a conscionable use of the means no life makes us so humble so lowly so nothing in our own eies as this life of Faith which fetcheth all from God Faith useth means but trusteth in God alone In all thy affairs therefore still seek to the Lord and apply thy self unto him and trust in him We are dark creatures and easily overshoot our selves we have not wisdome enough to manage our own affairs God can counsell us when we know not how to give counsell to our selves And God takes it well to be advised with by us Hereby we acknowledge our subjection to him when we will nor stir a foot without advising with him when we desire not to be ordered by our own wisdome but trust in the Lord with all our hearts and do not lean to our own understanding as Solomon advises Prov. 3.5 Take heed therefore of inordinate carefulnesse and distrusting God Consider the evil of rhis sin in these four particulars 1. No sin more dishonours God and robs him of his Glory than this sin doth It cannot indeed rob God of his essentiall but it does of his declarative Glory We glorifie God declaratively when we trust in him and thereby declare to the world that we own and acknowledge those his excellencies of wisdome power mercy faithfulnesse which his Word ascribes unto him And therefore 't is said of Abraham Rom. 4.20 That he staggered not at the promise of God through unbelief but was strong in Faith giving Glory to God V. 21. As being fully perswaded that what he had promised he was able also to perform ver 22. And therefore it was imputed to him for righteousness Unbelief doth blemish all those four attributes of God before mentioned his Wisdom his Power his Goodnesse his Faithfulnesse 't is an
interpretative blasphemy and calling all these into question and so an high injury and dishonour unto God Whereas faith is said to justifie God Luk. 7.29 that is to professe and acknowledge him to be such a God as his Word reveals him to be 2. Nothing doth more debar and shut out Gods operation in order to our relief and help than this sin If by taking only moderate and due care we would resigne up our selves and our concernments into the hands of God he would charge himself with us But if we will immoderatly cark and care and be so peremptory in our designes and will not submit them unto him then God is discharged we must look to our selves Therefore 't is not only our duty but our interest to resigne up our selves to God and to submit our concernments to his will 3. Unbelief 't is a sin against which God hath exceedingly declar'd his displeasure The Apostle tels us the children of Israel were destroied in the wildernesse for unbelief Many were their sins there Murmurings lustings Idolatry but the main reason of their punishment was they believed not Look to their finall excision and cutting off why what was it for for unbelief were they broken off Rom. 11.20 That noble man in 2 Kings 8.2 was troden to death for distrusting Gods power and could only see the plenty did not tast of it Moses and Aaron could not enter into the land of promise because of their unbelief Num. 20.12 And the Lord spake unto Moses and Aaron because ye believe me not to Sanctifie me in the eies of the children of Israel therefore ye shall not bring this congregation into the land which I have given them Zachary was struck dumb for not believing what God had revealed Christ did never chide his Disciples for any thing so much as their unbelief Luke 24.25 O ye fooles and slow of heart to believe And why doubt ye O ye of little Faith Mat. 8.26 4. 'T is a Paganish sin as our Saviour intimates Mat. 6. For Heathens to be full of carking and caring is not so much to be wondred at but for us that professe to believe in God that do acknowledge a particular Providence and believe the happinesse of another world to be under the tyranny of distracting cares anxiety of mind and thoughtfulnesse as if God had no care of us this is an exceeding unworthy carriage towards God Take heed therefore of distrusting God and overcharging thy self with the cares of this life Let not thy heart be too much fixed on any thing here below Lay not these outward things too much to heart And remember that then cares are inordinate when they cause such a tumultuousness and unquietnesse in our thoughts and affections that reason is disturbed and cannot allay or compose them or when they exceedingly hinder or quite put us by the duties we ought to perform to God or lastly when they cause a sinking or dying in the heart as Nabals heart is said to die within him when we are disappointed in that we were so eagerly solicitous about And therefore our Saviour in Mat. 6. bids us take no thought and repeats it three several times as v. 25. Therefore I say unto you take no thought for your life what ye shall eat or what ye shall drink nor yet for your body what ye shall put on V. 31. Therefore take no thought saying What shall we eat or what shall we drink or wherewithall shall we be cloathed V. 34. Take therefore no thought for the morrow for the morrow shall take thought for the things of it self sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof Direction 5. Take heed of limiting God 1. Either to the time of fulfilling his promises Or 2. To the way Faith doth not limit the holy One of Israel to any set time or any set means Do thy duty therefore and resigne thy self to God Commit thy self and all concernments to his Fatherly care and be not over-solicitous or perplexed about events What strange distrustful language do the children of Israel use in Psal 78.20 Can the Lord prepare a table in the wilderness can he give bread also Can he provide flesh for his people And therefore at v. 41. What a black character is given of them They turned back and tempted God and limited the holy One of Israel We must not prescribe to God we must not go about to subject his Providence to our direction and prescribe what he shall do for our satisfaction Direction 6. Reflect upon the Lords past kindnesse and gracious dealings with thee Consider how much God hath done for thee and for others that have trusted in him and that will tend very much to encourage thee still to trust in him The more experience and manifestation of Gods power and presence thou hast had the greater reason thou hast to cast away all unbelief from thee It exceedingly provoked God against Israel that notwithstanding so many experiences of his power yet still they distrusted him Num. 14.11 And the Lord said unto Moses how long will this people provoke me And how long will it be ere they believe me for all the signes I have shewed among them By every experience we should grow up into a greater courage and strength of Faith as David drew inferences of hope against the present danger from the lion and the bear 1 Sam. 17.36 Thy servant slew both the lion and the bear and this uncircumcised Philistine shall be as one of them seeing he hath defied the Armies of the living God Or as Paul said 2 Cor. 1.10 He hath and doth and therefore will deliver Who delivered us from so great a death and doth deliver in whom we trust that he will yet deliver us Christ was angry with his Disciples for not remembring the miracle of the loaves when they were in a like strait again Mat 16.9 Do ye not yet understand neither remember the five loaves of the five thousand and how many baskets ye took up God is more angry with the unbelief of his children than of others because they have more experience of his love and care and therefore that they should distrust him that never fail'd them is very ungratefull 2 Cor. 5.7 For we walk by Faith not by sight Hab. 2.4 Behold his soul which is lifted up is not upright in him but the just shall live by his Faith Gal 2.20 I am crucified with Christ neverthelesse I live yet not I but Christ liveth in me and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the Faith of the Son of God who loved me and gave himself for me Job 13.15 Though he slay me yet will I trust in him Psal 55.22 Cast thy burden upon the Lord and he shall sustain thee he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved 1 Cor. 7.32 But I would have you without carefulness c. Phil. 4.6 Be careful for nothing but in every thing by praier and supplication with
receive another spirit which ye have not received or another Gospel which ye have not accepted ye might well bear with him V. 13. For such are false Prophets deceitfull Workers transforming themselves into the Apostles of Christ. V. 14. And no marvel for Satan himself is transformed into an Angel of Light V. 15. Therefore it is no great thing if his Ministers also be transformed as the Ministers of righteousnesse whose end shall be according to their works Gal. 3.1 O foolish Galatians who has bewitched you that you should not obey the truth before whose eies Jesus Christ hath been evidently set forth crucified among you Gal 5.19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest c. V. 20. Idolatry Witchcraft Hatred Variance Emulations Wrath Strife Seditions Heresies 1 Cor. 11.19 For there must be also Heresies among you that they which are approved may be made manifest among you Heb. 13.9 Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines for it is a good thing the heart be established with Grace c. Eph. 4.14 That we henceforth be no more children tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine by the sleight of men and cuning craftiness whereby they ly in wait to deceive Gal. 1.6 I marvel ye are so soon removed from him that called you into the Grace of Christ unto another Gospel V. 7. Which is not another but there be some that trouble you would pervert the Gospel of Christ V. 8. But though we or an Angel from Heaven preach any other Gospel unto you than that we have preached unto you let him be accursed 1 Cor. 3.11 For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid which is Jesus Christ 1 Cor. 16.13 Watch ye stand fast in the Faith quit your selves like men be strong 2 Tim. 1.13 Hold fast the form of sound words which thou hast heard of me in faith and love which is in Christ Jesus Heb. 10.23 Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering 1 Tim. 1.19 Holding Faith and a good Conscience which some having put away concerning faith have made shipwrack 1 Thes 5.21 Prove all things hold fast that which is good Acts 17.11 These were more noble than those in Thessalonica in that they received the word with all readinesse of mind and searched the Scriptures daily whether those things were so 2 Pet. 3.15 As our beloved Brother Paul also according to the wisdom given unto him hath written unto you V. 16. As also in all his Epistles speaking in them of these things in which are some things hard to be understood which they that are unlearned and unstable wrest as they do also the other Scriptures unto their own destruction Mâ—t. 4.5 Then the Devil taketh him up into the holy City and setteth him on a pinacle of the Temple V. 6. And saith unto him if thou be the Son of God cast thy self down for it is written He shall give his Angels charge concerning thee and in their hands they shall bear thee up lest at any time thou dash thy foot against a stone Jude v. 17. But beloved remember ye the words which were spoken before of the Apostles of our Lord Jesus Christ V. 18. How that they told you there should be mockers in the last time who should walk after their own ungodly lusts V. 19. These be they who separate themselves sensual having not the Spirit 2 Thes 2.10 Because they received not the love of the truth that they might be saved V. 11. For this cause God shall send them strong delusions that they should believe a lie V. 12. That they all might be damned who believed not the truth but had pleasure in unrighteousnesse Rev. 2.14 I have a few things against thee because thou hast them that hold the Doctrine of Balaam who taught Balak to cast a stumbling block before the children of Israel to eat things sacrificed to Idols and to commit fornication V. 15. So hast thou also them that hold the Doctrine of the Nicolaitans which thing I hate V. 20. I have a few things against thee because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel which calleth her self a Prophetesse to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication and to eat things sacrificed unto Idols 2 Pet. 3.17 Ye therefore beloved seeing ye know these things before beware lest ye also being led away with the errour of the wicked fall from your omn stedfastnesse V. 18. But grow in Grace and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ Jude v. 24. Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling and to present you faultless before the presence of his Glory with exceeding joy V. 25. To the only wise God our Saviour be Glory and Majesty Dominion and Power now and ever Amen I have now dispatched the second Particular The things thou art to watch against I come now to the third the thing thou must watch for Thirdly Watch for and take all fit opportunities to glorifie God and to do good This is to be like our blessed Lord and Saviour who went about doing good and made every place where he came the better for him How much good may a seasonable word dropt for God do A sin wisely reproved and discountenanced a good hint well improved some good counsel seasonably given of how much advantage to the soules of others may these things prove This is to be on Gods side and true to his party We say A wise man makes more opportunities than he finds but a fool neglecteth those he has It should be our real design in all companies either to do good or to receive good And this will turn to a comfortable account in the day of recompences I come now to the Motives to quicken thee to this great and necessary duty of continuall watchfulnesse First Consider how naturally we are all prone to be secure and carelesse and want of watchfulnesse betraies us to most of the sins we fall into Secondly Consider the vigilancy of the tempter Shall he be so watchful to destroy us and shall not we be watchful to keep our selves from his malice 1 Pet. 5.8 Be sober be vigilant because your adversary the devil as a roaring lion walketh about seeking whom he may devour Eph. 6.11 Put on the whole armour of God that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil Thirdly Consider the necessity of perseverance whereunto a concurrence of our care and diligence is required Whoso endureth to the end saith our Saviour Matth. 10.22 he and he only shall be saved Let us all run with patience saies the Apostle the race that is set before us Heb. 12.1 Now in worldly races none gaineth the prize but he that getteth first to the goal but in the spiritual race not only he that cometh first but whoso holdeth out to the last he is sure to win and obtain the prize Be faithful to the death and I
i. e. in spiritual exercises and Meditations and by meanes thereof in spiritual raptures and elevations of soul VIII The Church succeeding the Apostles held her seâ—f obliged to the same observation For even in times of persecution before any either Imperial Edict or Canon of Council enjoyned it the observation of this day was so taken notice of by the Heathen that it became a constant interrogatory to the Christians in their examining Have you kept the Lords day To which their answer was ever ready I cannot intermit it for I am a Christian and the law of God prompts me to it Baron 30.3 Memb. 5. Now if any man shall enquire how the Sabbath came to be translated into the Lords day I answer Christ in the fourty daies he staied upon the earth after his resurrection did sundry times appear to his Disciples teaching them the things appertaining to the Kingdome of God Acts 1.3 Therefore 't is probable the Apostles were instructed by Christ concerning the change of the day from the seventh to the eighth and had special order immediatly from himself concerning it 'T is evident Christ is Lord of the Sabbath Mark 2.27 And therefore had power not only to abrogate the old Sabbath but to surrogate and substitute the new in its room But whether this day were instituted immediatly by Christ himself or by his Apostles guided and infallibly inspired by his holy Spirit after his ascention still the day will be of Divine Institution And this Act of theirs will appear but the execution of a particular Command from the Spirit of Christ to that purpose For consider how Christ sent these Apostles As my Father sent me so send I you John 20.21 He that heareth you heareth me Luke 10.16 Go Mat. 28.19 There is their mission Teach all Nations There is their Commission What Why What things I command you and to assist and help you Lo I am with you alwaies to the end of the world not in corporal presence but by my Spirit the Comforter whom I will send you John 15.26 And he shall bring all things to your remembrance whatsoever I have said unto you John 14.26 This Spirit of Truth shall not speak of himself but whatsoever he shall hear that shall he speak He shall receive of mine and shew it you Thus we see the Apostles were undoubtedly inspired by the Spirit of Christ who revealed his will unto them And that they were thus acted by the holy Ghost they themselves testifie in their first Council It seemed good to the holy Ghost and to us Acts 15.28 Thus we see there are two things whereon the Divine right of the Lords day is founded Upon the morality of the fourth Commandement and upon Evangelical Institution either by Christ himself or his Apostles And what the Apostles delivered by the dictate of the holy Ghost is as firm and indefeizable saies Cyprian de ablut pedum as what Christ himself Our Church reduceth the institution of this day as a weekly day to the fourth Commandement and as the first day of the week she foundeth it upon Apostolical practise and tradition I shall conclude this with the words of the judicious Hooker in his Eccles Pol. Book 5. parag 17. We are bound saies he to account the sanctification of one day in seven a duty which Gods immutable Law doth exact for ever although with us the day be changed in regard of a new revolution begun by our Saviour Christ yet the same proportion of time continueth which was before by way of a perpetual homage never to be dispensed withal nor remitted I come now to the second Particular The manner how we ought to observe this day 1. We ought to prepare for the Sabbath before it comes by a prudent care so disposing and dispatching our worldly businesses and affairs that they may be off our hands and out of our minds as much as is possible on that day that so our hearts may be more free and fit for those spiritual duties then required of us The Jewes before the Sabbath had a time of preparation Luke 23.54 Why should not we 2. We ought to sanctifie the Lords day not only by resting from worldly employments and recreations on other daies lawful but consecrating that rest unto God making it our delight to spend the whole time excepting so much of it as is to be taken up in works of necessity and mercy and such as are needful for the comfortable passing of the Sabbath in the publick and private exercises of Gods Worship and Service Such as Prayer Reading the Scripture Preparing for the publick duties Attending on the Word Singing the praises of God Private meditation on that which hath been preached Repetition thereof in the Family and religious conference to make the publick Ordinances the more profitable Take heed therefore of being found a slighter of those duties the neglect whereof cannot consist with any true vigour and power of Religion or any due care of our own or others soules that we ought to have a care of Consider God hath blessed and sanctified this day not only as a day of service to himself but as a time wherein he will confer blessings on the conscionable observers of it It is his special day of proclaiming and sealing pardons to penitent sinners 'T is a blessed day to the careful observers of it and sanctâ—fied to many gracious purposes The Sabbath was made for man said our Saviour Mark 2.27 i. e. For mans great benefit and advantage It would not be for the good and benefit of mankind to be dispensed with from the religious observation of it How much then are they to blame that make it a day of carnal rest a day of Idlenesse and jollity of feasting and pastimes which more alienate the mind from God than ordinary labours and take away the tast of spiritual things Some people if they have any visit to make or any odd businesse to do they refer them to this day Some keep the Sabbath as the Oxe they rest from their labours but serve not the Lord that day They are weary of the duties of the Sabbath they do not call the Sabbath a delight as it is Isa 58.13 Delight sweetens any labour How will people toyl at their sports and pleasures O had we spiritual hearts we should account the celebration of the Sabbath not only our duty but our priviledge By observing the Sabbath we continue a thankful remembrance of the two great benefits of Creation and Redemption which contain a short abridgment of true Religion The Sabbath duly observed is a type of the everlasting rest that remaines for the people of God Heb. 4.9 How then can those ever think to come to Heaven and to keep an everlasting Sabbath in praising and adoring God to whom the celebration of a weekly Sabbath is so tedious and irksom here 3. Every true Christian is to take care not onâ—y to sanctifie the Lords day himself but that
the Lord God said it is not good that the man should be alone I will make him an help meet for him 4. Nature it self proclaims it in respect of the sex the female being inferiour to the male Man is the Image and Glory of God and the woman is the Glory of the man 1 Cor. 11.7 2. From the Transgression For the woman though the latter in Creation yet was the former in transgression Gen. 3.6 And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food and that it was pleasant to the eies and a tree to be desired to make one wife she took of the fruit thereof and did eat and gave also unto her husband with her and he did eat v. 12. And the man said the woman whom thou gavest to be with me she gave me of the tree and I did eat 1 Tim. 2.14 Adam was not deceived i. e. first and by Satan but the woman being deceived was in the transgression not only sinning her self but drawing her husband into transgression also 3. From the titles of head and guide given to the husband in the Scriptures which declare him to be the Superiour 1 Cor. 11.3 The head of the woman is the man Eph. 5.23 For the Husband is the head of the Wife even as Christ is the head of the Church Prov. 2.17 Which for saketh the guide of her youth and forgetteth the Covenant of her God II. Reverence Eph. 5.33 Let the wife see that she reverence her husband Reverence is a mixture of love and fear 1. The wife must intirely love her husband Tit. 2.4 And desire to do him good and not hurt all the daies of her life Prov. 31.12 Love must sweeten her whole behaviour towards him And this love must proceed from a due estimation of him as her Head and Guide Judgment 't is the sourse and spring of affection What the mind esteems not the heart affects not That which we highly prize we dearly value And if the wife truly esteem her husband her carriage and behaviour towards him will be with all sweetness amiablenesse and due respect and regard 2. She ought to fear not with a servile slavish but a liberal free ingenuous fear like that true Converts bear to God springing from love and joyn'd with love least she give him any just occasion of displeasure and discontent 1 Cor. 7.34 The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord that she may be holy both in body and in Spirit but she that is married careth for the world how she may please her husband III. Obedience 1 Cor. 14.34 The Apostle tels us women are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the Law What Law Why Gen. 3.16 Thy desire shall be to thy husband and he shall rule over thee Also Tit. 2.5 To be discreet chast keepers at home good obedient to their own husbands that the Word of God be not blasphemed And in 1 Pet. 3.6 Sarah is propounded as their pattern Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham c. Bâ—t what kind of obedience is it the wife is to render to the Husband The Apostle tels us Col. 3.18 Wives submit your selves to your own husbands as it is fit in the Lord. Which hints to us these two things 1. It must be done in obedience to God to the Commandment and the Ordinance of God It must be a religious conscientious submission A Heathen woman may do all the outward duties of a good wife for her credit sake or peace at home or from principles of natural honesty But a Christian woman besides these motives should do it out of Conscience to Gods Command out of a desire to please God and to approve her heart to him as unto the Lord as the Apostle speaks Eph. 5.22 Having a respect to the precept and enjoynment of Christ This may take away that common Objection of some women if my husband do not his duty to me Why should I do mine to him His faultinesse and neglect of his duty will not excuse thy non performance of thine For thou owest this duty not only and principally to him but to the Lord who requires it of thee whether thy husband do his or no. And further the worse the husband is the more need there is for the wife to carry her self with such gentlenesse and sweetness towards him as may be most like to win him for so the Apostle advises 1 Pet. 3.1 Likewise ye wives be in subjection to your own husbands that if any obey not the Word they also may without the Word be won by the conversation of the wives The discreet kind loving behaviour of the wife towards her husband though a bad man may be a great means to reclaim him whereas the ill fruits of the wives unquietness are very notorious How many are there that to avoid the noise of a froward wife have fallen to company keeping and by that to drunkennesse poverty and a multitude of mischiefs Let all wives therefore be careful not to administer such a temptation 2. It must be in the Lord i. e. in all lawful commands It must not extend to any thing that is against God For otherwise 't is here as in the case of other Superiours God must be obeyed rather than man If the Husband command a thing though not unlawful yet very inconvenient and imprudent let the Wife calmly and mildy shew him the inconveniencies thereof and perswade him to the contrary but if she cannot win him by fair intreaties let her not finally refuse to obey nothing but the unlawfulnesse of the command being a sufficient warrant for that And further she must manifest her obedience in two things 1. In being willing to be admonished of her husband in case of any failing not returning a snappish answer again but readily reforming what is amisse 2. In being willing to be advised by him Not but that she may advise him in some cases and on some occasions For what a servant may do much more may a wife do as we find 2 King 5.3 1 Sam. 16 15 16. but this must be done with wisdom and discretion The admonition must be given seasonably not as Physick in a fit It must be done with that softnesse and mildness that it may appear 't is love and not anger that makes her to speak 4. And lastly She is to be a meet helper to him both in spiritual and temporal concernments 1. In the mannaging of domestical affairs the house being her proper sphear Tit. 2.5 The Apostle saies Wives should be keepers at home Not daughters of Dinah but of Sarah They must have a vigilant and watchful eye over the affairs of the Family They must guide the house as 't is 1 Tim 5.14 Every wise woman Solomon saies Prov. 14 1. buildeth her house but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands Prov. 31 27. She looketh well to the waies of her houshold and eateth not the bread of Idlenesse 2. She must bear a part
may serve the Lord in newness of life all their daies And if this be the duty of Believers and Christian Parents under the Gospel it will thence follow that those that wilfully neglect it as much as in them lies do withhold their Children from Christ debar them of the blood of Sprinkling keep them from the blessing leave them under the curse cast them out of Gods Family and dangerously expose them to the Adversary both of God and man II. The Second Duty of Parents is to teach and instruct their children to bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord Eph. 6.4 Having given them up to Christ by Baptism let them imagine they hear our blessed Saviour saying to them as Pharoahs Daughter said to Moses's Mother Exod. 2.19 Bring up this child for me c. They must as Solomon speaks Prov. 22.6 Train up their Children in the way they should go They must have a special care to provide that they may be rightly instructed and educated As soon therefore as they come to the use of reason they are to be instructed in those things that concern their everlasting welfare They are by little and little to be taught all those things which God hath commanded them as their duty to perform As also what abundance of joy and comfort they will find in the practise of them and what glorious rewards God hath provided for them if they do them and what grievous punishments if they do them not These things ought to be early instilled into their minds which like new vessels do usually keep the savour of that which is first put into them The seeds and principles of Religion and vertue are to be sown in them betimes and their minds possess'd with a love of goodnesse and an abhorrence and detestation of evil and wickednesse as that which is shamefull and abominable If they be not thus early acquainted with the waies of God the devil that arch enemy of souls will be ready and forward enough to instill his wicked principles into them and to blow up the corruption of their natures and hurry them on in waies leading down to endlesse perdition And what a sad account will those Parents give to God who have neglected their duty in this kinde suffering their children to remain almost as rude and ignorant and unacquainted with the principles of Christian Religion and their duty to God and man as if they had been born among Pagans and Infidels III. A Third duty of Parents is To bless their children and that 1. By their prayers They should by daily and earnest prayers commend them to Gods favour and blessing craving all needfull mercies both temporal and spiritual for them Children of many prayers seldom miscarry 2. By labouring to be such persons themselves so truly Religious that a blessing may descend from them on their posterity This is frequently promised in the Scripture to Godly men That their seed shall be blessed The best course any Parents can take to intail a blessing on their children is to be truly gracious themselves IV. They ought to set them a good example else all their precepts and counsels will do no good How many Parents are there that by their wicked conversation do corrupt and deprave their own children This Consideration laies a most strict tie and obligation upon all Parents to lead an holy and religious life else they do not only hazzard their own souls but indanger their childrens also And what an inhumane cruelty is that V. They must watch over them and by a prudent discipline govern them and guard their education 1. Encouraging them when they do well and winning them by love and a fair and kind carriage that they may delight to do their duties Some Parents by too much austerity and harshnesse and a rigorous use of their parentall authority provoke and exasperate their children so that they dread coming into their presence and have no heart to study to please them seeing they will afford them no countenance This is contrary to what the Apostle prescribes Col. 3.21 Parents provoke not your children to wrath c. 2. If fair means perswasions and encouragements will not prevail nor make them mind their duties then another course must be taken Sober yet sharp reproof must be used If that fail too then correction becomes necessary For in this case as Solomon saies He that spareth his rod hateth his son Prov. 13.24 'T is a cruell and foolish fondnesse to spare stripes when all other means have been unsuccessfull But this correction should be 1. Timely before children have been suffered to run on so long that they have got a habit to evil and have contracted a stubbornnesse of Will 2. Moderate not exceeding the quality of the fault nor the tendernesse of the child 3. Not inflicted in anger for then the Child will think he is corrected not so much for his fault as because his Father is angry He must therefore be made sensible of his fault shewed the evil and danger of it and directed how to amend it and this is the way with Gods blessing to reform him VI. They must maintain them and allow them a competency according to their estates for their comfortable subsistence Some Parents are of such a covetous humour they cannot abide to part with any thing almost as long as they live And thereby 1. Lessen their Childrens Affection towards them so that some have proceeded so far as to wish their Parents death Which though it be such a horrible sin as no provocation from a Parent can excuse in a child yet 't is also a fault in a Parent to give such a temptation 2. It puts them upon shifts and sharking tricks to maintain themselves and acquaints them with bad company and makes them surfeit the sooner when they come to their estates 3. The Parents hereby loose that contentment which they might have in seeing their Children live prosperously and comfortably which is such a joy and contentment that none but a Miser or Earth-worm would exchange for that poor pleasure of having Money in the Chest VII They must provide some good and honest profession or some fit way of employment for them that so they may be serviceable in their generation to God and the World and may avoid Idleness that great snare of the Devil VIII They must lay up for them and provide for them as God shall give means as 't is 2 Cor. 12.14 The children ought not to lay up for the Parents but the Parents for the children But let the Parent be careful to get that wealth honestly which he makes his childes portion lest a curse go along with it Let him satisfie himself to make such provisions for his children as God shall enable him honestly to make A little honestly got being better than great riches gotten unjustly and unrighteously Prov. 16.8 Better is a little with righteousnesse than great revenues without right IX And lastly
10 41. He that receiveth a Prophet in the name of a Prophet shall receive a Prophets reward c. CHAP. XVI Of Christian and Brotherly Reproof THat excellent and Christian Duty of reproving and admonishing an offending Brother is in these daies too much neglected and grown out of use though it be the reallest good turn that can be done from one man to another Men are forward enough to scoffe and deride the sinful miscarriages of others behind their backs but few there are that make Conscience of reproving them seriously and soberly to their faces When people fall out and are angry then ordinarily out comes all that they know and perhaps more too in a rude and passionate manner to disgrace each other But how seldom do they admonish one another in love in order to their amendment and the saving of their souls Being therefore to treat of this duty in this Chapter let me premise that there is a double admonition 1. Paternal or authoritative 2. Fraternal or charitative Of this latter onely I intend to discourse here and I shall shew 1. What great and pressing Arguments there are for it 2. Shall endeavour to remove the main prejudices and objections that lie against it 3. Shall shew how and in what manner it is to be performed 4. Give some reasons why it ought to be exceeding kindly taken by those to whom it is performed and whose benefit is thereby intended Of the first the Arguments for this Duty I. We have Commands for it both in the old and new Testament Levit. 19 17. Thou shalt not hate thy Brother in thine heart thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbour and not suffer sin upon him Mat. 18.15 Moreover if thy Brother shall trespass against thee go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone if he shall hear thee thou hast gained thy Brother Eph. 5.11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darknesse but rather reprove them II. Hereby we may much advance Gods Glory may discountenance sin may promote Piety in the world Many sins may be suppressed if standers by would but bear witnesse against them and give check unto them by a wise and mild reproof If we can but perswade men to break off their sins and embrace the waies of Holinesse we shall thereby bring much honour and glory unto God And what should not we poor Creatures do to advance the Glory of so Gracious a Father III. 'T is the most blessed and charitable work we can possibly be employed in viz. the rescuing of precious souls out of the hands of Satan and saving them from everlasting perdition Jam. 5.20 He which converteth the sinner from the errour of his way shall save a soul from death and shall hide a multitude of sins We read Exod. 23.4 If thou meet with thine enemies Oxe or his Asse going astray thou shalt surely bring it back to him again V. 5. If thou see the Asse of him that hateth thee lying under his burden and wouldst forbear to help him thou shalt surely help with him Should we take pity and care of our neighbours Oxe or Asse yea though it were our very enemies and not of his Soul If thou hearest men swear tosse Gods Name vainly and lightly in their mouths jest with his Word talk filthily deride Holinesse slander good men plead for prophannesse or seest them walk in unconscionable courses Oughtest thou not to admonish such men and to intreat them to bethink themselves and to consider whither such courses tend If thou shouldest see a man tottering on the brink of some deep and dismal pit where he must needs perish if he fall in hadst not thou a hard heart if thou wouldst not catch hold of him and endeavour to stay him Alas Why do not men consider then what it is to fall into the bottomlesse pit of Hell and to lie there in everlasting burnings IV. We shall hereby keep our selves from partaking in other mens sins By neglect of this Duty we may become accessary to mens going on in sinful courses and dishonouring God and so draw upon our selves the guilt of their sin and ruine But if we faithfully admonish offenders we shall hereby deliver our own soul and if they perish they perish to themselves Paul could not have said Acts 20.26 I am pure from the bloud of all men if he had not been a faithful reprover as well as a diligent instructer V. If this Duty were conscientiously practis'd it would rob Satan of one of his greatest advantages to destroy souls which is the fashionablenesse and creditablenesse of Sin It would discredit sin and bring Christianity into reputation It would drive away that frivolous impertinent empty Conversation that wanton noisom discourse that passes for the only entertainment of this corrupt world It would drive away backbiting judging censuring rejoycing in the folly and shame of others which are the very bane and shame of converse and society VI. The advantage is great that will acrue unto us if we discharge this Duty faithfully Dan. 12.3 They that be wise shall shine as the brightnesse of the firmament and they that turn many to righteousnesse as the Stars for ever and ever Prov. 24.25 To them that rebuke the wicked shall be delight and a good blessing shall come upon them A great delight will arise in their souls from the testimony of their Consciences that they have endeavoured to discharge their Duty and a good blessing from the Lord will come upon them for it So much of the Arguments for this Duty I come now to the second thing Namely to remove the prejudices and answer the Objections that are conceiv'd against it Obj. 1. 'T is hard and painful and uneasie to flesh and bloud to practise this Duty I shall be thought uncivil rude impertinent in most companies where I come I shall be laughed at for my pains or jeer'd for my precisenesse and 't is hard to bear disgrace or I shall get ill will and anger from the party I reprove and I am fearful of giving offence c. Sol. Hath God commanded thee a Duty and wilt thou not do it for fear of offending man Is it not a sad case we should more fear to displease a sinful creature by admonishing him of his sin than to offend God by neglecting our duty This Objection supposes a man loath to serve God or his brother of that which costs him any thing Art thou to let him drop into Hell quietly for fear of angring him or deriving some of his displeasure upon thee Art thou out of fearfulnesse or bashfulnesse out of a sluggish cowardize and want of zeal to the Glory of God and the good of thy brother to be silent and to comply with him in his sin and let him go undisturbedly to Hell The civility of not reproving a brother when there is need amounts to this to have the heart to see him be poison'd and not dare present
KNOVVLEDGE PRACTICE Or a PLAIN DISCOURSE of the CHIEF THINGS necessary to be Known Believ'd Practised in order to Salvation Drawn up and Principally intended for the Use and Benefit of NORTH-CADBVRY in SOMERSETSHIRE By SAMUEL CRADOCK B. D. PASTOR there Sometime Fellow of Emmanuel Colledge in CAMBRIDGE August lib. 15. de Trin. cap ult Domine Deus quaecunque dixi de tuo agnoscant tuit Siqua de meo tu ignosce tui LONDON Printed by J. Hayes for John Rothwell at the Fountain in Goldsmiths-row in Cheapside 1659. John 17.3 This is life eternal that they might know thee the only true God and Jesus Christ whom thou hast sent 1 Cor. 3.11 Other foundation can no man lay than that is laid Jesus Christ Act. 20.20 21. I kept back nothing that was profitable unto you but have shewed you and have taught you publickly and from house to house Testifying both to the Jews and also to the Greeks repentance toward God and Faith toward our Lord Jesus Christ Eccles 12.13 Fear God and keep his Commandments for this is the whole duty of man Heb. 12.14 Follow peace with all men and holinesse without which no man shall see the Lord. John 13.17 If ye know these things happy are ye if ye do them 2 Pet. 1.12 Wherefore I will not be negligent to put you alwaies in remembrance of these things though ye know them and be established in the present truth John 5.39 Search the Scriptures 2 Tim. 3.15 Which are able to make thee wise unto Salvation V. 16. All Scripture is given by inspiration of God and is profitable for doctrine for reproof for correction for instruction in righteousnesse TO THE REVEREND Doctor DILLINGHAM THE Master and his worthy Friends the Fellowes OF EMMANVEL-COLLEDGE in CAMBRIDGE Honoured Sirs IT may seem strange that I should adventure to dedicate so plain a Discourse calculated for this meridian to so Learned a Society But the Providence of God having by your free choice placed me in this Charge wherein I stand I take my self obliged to render an account to you above any others of this my undertaking I have found by sad experience in those few years I have here lived what extream need my people have of some such help as this to be ready at hand to admonish them of those things they are to Know Believe and Practise in order to their salvation As also to acquaint them with such Scriptures collected together under severall Heads as declare Gods mind and will concerning those particulars I could not therefore satisfie my self without endeavouring to minister to their necessities in this kind according as I was able especially being perswaded that a Book of this nature left in every family might through the blessing of God be a very proper means of their instruction for the present and might teach them also hereafter when my mouth will be stopp'd with dust This consideration among others engaged me in this work in which at first I did not intend to be so large but handling such variety of Subjects it hath swelled to the bulk you see You may perceive by the whole that the great Master-Builder hath appointed me to labour in the foundations And blessed yea for ever blessed be his Holy Name that he hath accounted me worthy to be employed any way about his spirituall building I shall not need to make any apology for the plainnesse of my work if it be but sure and well laid Such as it is I humbly present unto you as an evidence of the great desire I have according to my poor ability to feed the people committed to my care with knowledge and understanding and to guide them in the way wherein they should go As also to testifie to the world my great Obligations to that Religious and Eminent Society God Almighty blesse your Colledge with his choicest blessings and grant that Reall Piety and all Vseful Learning may flourish within your wals from Generation to Generation This is the earnest Prayer of Honoured Sirs Your much obliged Servant SA CRADOCK North-Cadbury May 5th 1659. TO THE INHABITANTS OF NORTH-CADBVRY in SOMERSETSHIRE My loving Neighbours and Friends OUR Blessed Saviour intending to give Peter a charge of his Lambs and Sheep enquires first concerning his sincere love to him John 21.15 16 17. Simon son of Jonas lovest thou me more than these he saith unto him yea Lord thou knowest that I love thee He saith unto him feed my Lambs V. 16. He saith to him again the second time Simon sonne of Jonas lovest thou me he saith unto him yea Lord thou knowest that I love thee he saith unto him feed my Sheep V. 17. He said unto him the third time Simon sonne of Jonas lovest thou me Peter was grieved because he said unto him the third time lovest thou me And he said unto him Lord thou knowest all things thou knowest that I love thee Jesus saith unto him feed my Sheep Which words plainly intimate thus much unto us that Ministers who are called to take charge of Christs Flock had need of much love unto him no service about them being approved if it flow not from this fountain but be undertaken for by-respects and there being no possibility without this love well to endure the many blasts and storms they will meet with from without in the discharge of their calling nor the much toil they will have even from the flocks themselves The truth is the paines and labour and sufferings of the Ministerial Function are so great where 't is conscientiously discharged and there are so many other waies wherein we might make our lives more comfortable as to worldly contentments that he must needs be a man of great ignorance and inexperience or intends not to be over-diligent and faithful in his Ministry that takes on him that sacred Calling meerly for temporal advantages But whoever lifts up his heart to think how much our dear Lord and Saviour hath done for him who endured the Crosse and despised the shame to redeem mankind and shall consider what glorious rewards he propounds to those who turn many to righteousnesse surely cannot grudge to be employed in the work of so gracious a Redeemer or to spend and be spent in his service This consideration hath drawn me often to think with my self by what means I might best promote your everlasting welfare And after many serious thoughts I have judged it exceeding expedient for your benefit to draw up a discourse of this nature and to give to every Family among you one of them And I blesse God that hath put it into my heart to set about it and hath enabled me to perform it 'T was your benefit and the winning of your souls to Christ that was the grand motive to this undertaking And if that great businesse through the blessing of God may be any way advanced thereby I shall never repent of my pains but shall very much rejoyce that the
Lord hath enabled me in any measure to be serviceable to you in the furthering of your salvation And that you may the better know how to make use of this Treatise I shall acquaint you in brief with the whole designe thereof In the first part I have couched together in three Chapters the chief and necessary things that are to be known and believed concerning God our selves and the Mediator between God and man That so those that have a mind to know may in short be informed of the main things they are so deeply concern'd to be acquainted with And because 't is of exceeding great consequence that people should well understand how the things they profess to believe are grounded on Gods Word I have collected together most of those Scriptures that are scattered up and down in the Book of God upon which the Articles of our Faith are founded and have reduced them to several heads and printed them at large that so they may be as several constellations or clusters of Stars giving you the more light and clearer assurance of the things they are brought to prove This course I have taken also in the second Part in reference to the things that are to be practised My intent herein being that my Book should fully inform you what is Gods mind and revealed will concerning those particulars I treat of which may be of singular use to you in several respects 1. To strengthen and confirm your own belief of the Articles of the Christian Faith to awe your Consciences with the authority of Gods Word and to engage your hearts to the practise of those things that shall appear to be your duty 2. To enable you to instruct your children and servants in the Principles of Faith and obedience from the Scriptures here set down to your hands which every one is not able readily to find out that has not some such help 3. To secure you against Errors now so rise among us Seeing you may hereby defend the Faith once delivered to the Saints and confute the enemies of truth as our Saviour did the Devil by alledging the Sacred Scriptures for the things you believe and practise In the Second Part I treat of the things that concern your practise And because consideration of our waies and examining the state of our souls to God-ward is a matter of so exceeding great use that scarce any thing undoes Mankind more than the neglect of it I begin with that And oh that I may prevail with you to a conscientious Practise of it I have heard of a Gentleman that uPon his Death-bed laid this one command upon his wild Son and engag'd him to the performance of it by a solemn promise that he should every day of his life be half an hour alone Which this young man constantly observing and spending his half hours retirement at first in any kind of vain thoughts at last he began to ponder with himself why his Father should enjoyn him this penance and the Spirit of God suggesting to him that his intent therein could be no other but to bring him to consider of his evil waies and whither they tended and what would become of him hereafter if he went on it pleased the Lord so to set those thoughts home upon his heart that he became a new man Of so much advantage is consideration and frequent taking our selves in private to think of the state of our souls In the three next Chapters I handle the Doctrines of Repentance Faith and a new nature and reformed life being indeed the main things wherein the power and life of Godlinesse consists And therefore I intreat you give the more heed unto them In the Fifth Chapter I treat of maintaining a daily close communion with God and shew 1. How we should awake with God in the morning and so begin the day well 2. How we should pour forth our souls in secret prayer and thanksgiving unto him private prayer being every ones duty and a great help to Holiness And that people may not be slight and formal in these duties and so offend in the manner of doing them I give some Directions for the right performance of them 3. I shew how we should diligently read the Scriptures the Oracles of God which are able through the operation of the Spirit to make us wise unto salvation 4. How we should live continually as in the sight and view of God 5. How we should live by Faith in ten particulars 6. How we should be diligent observers of the Providence of God that so we may order our services of prayer and praise accordingly 7. How we should practise the great duty of daily watchfulnesse continually watching 1. Over our thoughts that we lodge not sinful thoughts in our minds 2. Over our Affections that we allow not any sinful motions and stirrings in our hearts but labour speedily to suppress them 3. Over our words that we offend not as we are exceeding apt with our tongues 4. Over our actions that they may be such as proceed from a right Principle are conform'd to a right Rule and are directed to a right end These are the things we must watch over Next I set down what are the things we must watch against In the general all sin whatever But in particular 1. Those sins we are most inclin'd unto by our own temper and naturall constitution 2. The sins we are most exposed to by reason of our calling condition state and course of life 3. The sins of the times and places where we live 4. Against all occasions and temptations that we foresee are like to endanger our souls 5. Against dishonouring God by the immoderate and undue use of lawful things 6. Against Errour where the danger of it is shewed and some preservatives are given against it In the next place is shewed how we should watch for opportunities of doing and receiving good And some Motives to watchfulness are propounded and the Chapter shut up with these two Directions 1. That we should besides our solemn prayers send up frequent mental ejaculatory prayers unto the Lord for his Grace help and assistance 2. That every night we should retire and reflect upon all our actions and whole behaviour in the day past and so set all at rights between God and our souls before we go to sleep And because whoever desires to grow in Knowledge and Grace must conscientiously make use of and improve the means of Grace that God affords him therefore in the Sixth Chapter I treat 1. Of the careful observation of the Lords day Shewing why we should observe it and how For my part I never saw true Religion and the power of Godlinesse thrive in any person family or Parish where the religious and conscientious observance of that day was neglected 2. Concerning heaâ—ing the Word where directions are given 1. How we are to prepare our selves before we go to hear 2. How we are to behave our selves in time of
a malicious thing to endeavour to save a soul from sin and Hell 10. Take heed of prejudices against a strict and holy walking with God The Lord deliver you from that mad opinion of the world that like not serving God so much nor making so much ado to be saved Consider is there any thing in the world doth better deserve your care and diligence and will better pay you for it I know carnal people think the way of Religion a melancholick and sad way But I must not spare to tell them the truth They will never live a truly safe peaceable and comfortable life till they are converted and have engaged their hearts in an humble holy walking with God They ignorantly flee from Godlinesse as from sorrow and trouble but the truth is they flee from joy and peace What should trouble that man that is a member of Christ and has escaped out of the power of Satan and is freed from the wrath of God and the danger of everlasting misery O Neighbours let not the ignorant scorns and senselesse reproaches of wicked men discourage you He that hath good grounds to believe that he shall live for ever in Glory With God and his holy Angels as soon as his soul parts from his body I think is a happy man and so will be acknowledged by every one that has not lost his reason and understanding There is a time coming when the proudest and most stubborn sinner will be glad to change condition with the meanest Saint Let me therefore intreat all those that have entertain'd any hard thoughts of the waies of Godlinesse but to make triall what a holy life is and if they do not find more comfort in a serious turning unto God and in a sincere endeavour to approve their hearts unto him then in the waies of sin let them take their course let Heaven go 11. Nourish and maintain a tendernesse of Conscience Be very circumspect in your daily walking Look upon sin as the greatest evil Make up every breach between God and your souls betimes Pray earnestly for the guidance of the Spirit of God and to be kept from Temptations 12. Have a care of your Families that true Piety and Godlinesse may be countenanced encouraged and promoted in them Let your houses be Bethels houses of God and not Beth-avens houses of iniquity If you neglect family-family-duties and the religious observation of the Lords day and private instruction and so let those under your care be nuzled up in ignorance prophanenesse and ungodlinesse provide to answer it to God when he shall call for you Remember I faithfully warned you of the sin and danger of such neglects I cannot expect Religion should ever much thrive among us till Governours of Families be careful to train up those under their Government in the Principles of true Piety and in the Nurture and Admonition of the Lord. Lastly Labour to maintain peace and love among your selves Mark 9.50 Have salt in your selves and peace one with another Labour to get your hearts seasoned with the graces of humility self-denial and true Charity and this will keep you in peace among your selves Let there be no heart-burnings contentions brawlings backbitings or defamings heard of among you Help one another on towards heaven Imitate that which is good wherever you find it but learn evil of no man Encourage one another in the waies of Godlinesse Abhor to draw or intice one another to any sinfull course or practise Do all offices of kindnesse and humanity one for another As you have opportunity let it be your desire and endeavour to do good to every body hurt to no body Learn that hard lesson of forgiving wrongs and injuries and praying for and wishing well to those that are your enemies 'T is a hard lesson but Gods Spirit can teach it you Remember our Saviours Words in Matth. 6.14 15. For if ye forgive men their trespasses your heavenly Father will also forgive you But if ye forgive not men their trespasses neither will your Father forgive your trespasses And the words of the Apostle Col. 3.12 Put on therefore as the elect of God holy and beloved bowels of mercy kindnesse humblenesse of mind meeknesse long-suffering V. 13. Forbearing one another and forgiving one another if any man have a quarrel against any even as Christ forgave you so also do ye V. 14. And above all these things put on Charity which is the bond of perfectnesse V. 15. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts to the which also ye are called in one body and be ye thankful I shall conclude with that divine and affectionate exhortation of the same Apostle Phil. 4.8 Fâ—nally brethren whatsoever things are true whatsoever things are honest whatsoever things are just whatsoever things are pure whatsoever things are lovely whatsoever things are of good report if there be any vertue and if there be any praise think on these things And now O Lord thou who hast put into the heart of thy unworthy servant to write these things for the good of this people be thou pleased by the gracious and effectuall working of thy holy Spirit to make them useful to them and to all others into whose hands they shall come for the promoting knowledge Faith and obedience among them and the furthering of their salvation What is here agreeable to thy holy Will write upon their hearts O let it not be in vain that this help is afforded them Grant successe I humbly beseech thee to this poor endeavour and take thou all the Glory Good Lord give this people a right understanding in all things Guide them in the way wherein they should go to attain eternal life Open the eyes of the ignorant among them turn the hearts of the prophane reduce the erroneous and encrease thy Graces daily more and more in the hearts of those whom thou hast savingly wrought upon O let thy blessing be on this people God Almighty blesse them Let Truth and Holinesse reall Piety and the power of Godlinesse Let soundnesse of mind and uprightnesse of heart and life let true Faith and fervent love let charity and good works through the operation of thy holy Spirit abound among them That so living here in thy fear and serving their generation according to the Will of God they may at last through thy infinite mercy and the merits of our blessed Lord and Saviour be received into thy Heavenly Kingdom This is the earnest and hearty Prayer of Your very affectionate though unworthy Pastor Samuel Cradock Dr. Reynolds his EPISTLE TO THE READERS AS in humane bodies some parts are vital others only integrall some necessary to the being others to the well being integrity and beauty of them So it is in Theologicall Doctrines some are more fundamental and immediatly necessary to life and Godliness others such as do greatly accomplish and adorn Christians that have attained unto them and are of singular use for the edification of
desires Sighs and groans are the Language God understands When God meaneth to bestow any blessing he usually stirs up the hearts of his people earnestly to pray for it And the effusion of the Spirit of supplication that holy yet humble importunity that spiritual violence and wrestling and striving and pleading with the Almighty is a happy presage of an approaching blessing 8. Beg spiritual blessings and the things appertaining to the soul primarily and with greatest earnestnesse Beg temporall mercies and such as concern this life and thy welfare here with an humble submission unto God resigning thy will to his most holy will earnestly begging that what he sees not good for thee nor fit to be granted thee he would make thee willing and contented to be without 9. To supplication forget not to adde praises and thanksgivings to the Lord for all his benefits for his innumerable favours confer'd on thee in the course of thy life past and also for thy present enjoyments Especially quicken and provoke and awaken thy soul to lift up the high praises of God for his inestimable love in sending his Son to be a ransome for sin and sending his Holy Spirit to convince of sin and of righteousnesse and to perswade and enable thy heart to close with Christ And lastly upon the receipt of any new mercy and favour from God offer up a cheerful and hearty sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving in and through the mediation of Christ by whom alone our Persons and Sacrifices are accepted with God And to direct and quicken thee to this duty of rendring praises to the Lord Consider 1. That praise is Gods Tribute his Custom 't is all the Impost he sets upon his Blessings There are three things to be considered in a mercy 1. The mercy it self 2. The Comfort and sweetnesse that may be enjoyed in the use of it 3. The Glory Honour and Praise that is due for it The two former God freely gives us he only reserves the latter as a tribute and homage to himself 2. Praising God for former mercies invites him to bestow new mercies God will be bountifull to those that he sees thankfull and from whom he receives Glory and acknowledgment 3. Praising God is the beginning of Heaven 't is the employment of the holy Angels and glorified Saints there 4. To have a heart delighting in praising God is a great evidence in conjunction with others of sincerity self-love forceth prayer oftentimes from us but to praise God aright cometh from a more heavenly affectâ—on and a sanctified frame of heart 5. To set upon this duty of praising God is one of the best waies to mitigate any sorrowes that at any time are upon us If we can work our hearts to praise him for the mercies that are continued to us it will exceedingly abate the sense and feeling of any present Crosse or affliction that lies upon us 6. Consider who they are that are the most unthankfull to God even Devils and damned Spirits who are full of envy malice and pride they will not praise God but do wretchedly blaspheme him and wicked men who imitate their Father the devil And wouldest thou be like these Upon these Considerations stir up thy heart to be much in this heavenly duty of praising God and remember 1. To praise him with thy heart 2. To praise him with thy tongue 3. To praise him with thy life Let there be an abiding sense of his favours on thy heart and let thy life and conversation praise him also Let thy works praise him that others seeing thy good works may glorifie thy heavenly Father Labour to secure thy state in Grace and thy interest in Gods favour through Christ and then thou maist be assured that whatever God gives thee he gives it thee in pure love all comes swimming to thee in the blood of Christ and this Consideration will exceedingly raise thy heart to thankfulnesse and make thy tongue sound forth the praises of the most High These Directions may help thee in the performance of that great Christian duty of praier and thanksgiving After thou hast praied Consider 1. What thou hast praied for As before praier we should consider and labour to find out our wants So after prayer we should consider of our petitions and what we have begged of God 2. Humbly expect a gracious answer and return to thy praiers not for any worthinesse or desert in thy self or praiers but for Christ's sake alone 3. Serve Providence in the use of fair and lawful means for the attaining those good things thou hast prayed for 4. To Prayer add watchfulnesse If through Grace thy heart hath been wrought to a good temper and holy frame in prayer labour to keep it afterward labour to preserve those apprehensions and those affections in thy soul which thou foundest in time of prayer And therefore one well adviseth that for some little time after we have prayed we should keep our selves silent and quiet nor presently and in the next moment as some do but fair and softly removing our hearts from our prayers to our worldly businesses and occasions Zach. 12.10 And I will poure upon the House of David and upon the Inhabitants of Jerusalem the Spirit of Grace and of Supplications and they shall look upon me whom they have peirced and they shall mourn for him as one mourneth for his onely Son and shall be in bitternesse for him as one that is in bitternesse for his first born Rom. 8.26 Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities for we know not what we should pray for as we ought but the Spirit it self maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered V. 27. And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit because he maketh intercession for the Saints according to the will of God Eph. 3.12 In whom we have boldnesse and accesse with confidence by the Faith of him Heb. 7.25 Wherefore he is able also to save them to the uttermost that come unto God by him seeing he ever liveth to make intercession for them John 14.13 And whatsoever ye shall ask in my Name that will I do that the Father may be glorified in the Son V. 14. If ye shall ask any thing in my Name I will do it 1 Tim. 2.5 For there is one God and one Mediator between God and man the man Christ Jesus John 16.23 And in that day ye shall ask me nothing verily verily I say unto you whatsoever ye shall ask the Father in my name he will give it you 1 Pet. 2.5 Ye also as lively stones are built up a spiritual house an holy Priesthood to offer up spirituall Sacrifice acceptable to God by Jesus Christ Isai 48.17 Thus saith the Lord thy Redeemer the holy One of Israel I am the Lord thy God which teacheth thee to profit which leadeth thee by the way that thou shouldst go Psal 32.5 I acknowledged my sin unto thee and mine iniquity have I
must be fulfilled which were written in the Law of Moses and in the Prophets and in the Psalmes concerning me Rom. 3.2 Much every way chiefly because unto them were committed the Oracles of God Gal. 1.8 But though we or an Angel from Heaven preach any other Gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you let him be accursed V. 9. As we said before so say I now again if any man preach any other Gospel unto you than that ye have received let him be accursed 2 Pet. 3.15 And account that the long suffering of the Lord is salvation even as our beloved Brother Paul also according to the wisdom given unto him hath written unto you V. 16. As also in all his Epistles speaking in them of these things in which are some things hard to be understood which they that are unlearned and unstable wrest as they do also the other Scriptures unto their own destruction Mat. 22.29 Jesus answered and said unto them ye do erre not knowing the Scriptures nor the power of God V. 31. But as touching the resurrection of the dead have ye not read that which was spoken to you by God saying Col. 3.16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another in psalmes and hymnes and spiritual songs singing with Grace in your hearts to the Lord. Fourthly Live continually as in the view of God as in his sight and presence being careful to approve thy heart and all thy waies unto him Remember there is a broad and a pure eye of Glory alwaies fixed upon thee God sees hearts as we see faces There are three things in the heart of man to be especially heeded and observed Principles Projects and Ends. God sees what Principles thou actest from Hee sees all the projects and contrivances that are forging in thy breast and he sees what are the ends thou aimest at in all thy undertakings That is pure Religion that eies God rather than man In all thy actions therefore whether natural moral or spiritual be carefull still to designe the Glory of God 1. In naturall Acts labour to have supernatural aimes 1 Cor. 10.31 Whether ye eat or drink or whatsoever ye do do all the Glory of God 2. In civill Acts such as the discharge of the duties of thy relations be careful so to walk as designing that God may have Glory by thy Faithfulnesse For so the Apostle adviseth Eph. 6.1 Children obey your Parents in the Lord for this is right V. 5. Servants be obedient to them that are your Masters according to the flesh with fear and trembling in singleness of heart as unto Christ V. 6. Not with eie-service as men pleasers but as the servants of Christ doing the will of God from the heart And Titus 2.9 10. Exhort Servants to be obedient to their own Masters and to please them well in all things not answering again V. 10. Not purloyning but shewing all good fidelity that they may adorn the Doctrine of God our Saviour in all things 3. In spiritual Acts such as praying praising God and worshipping of him be especially careful that thy aimes be spiritual Do ye fast to me even to me saies God by the Prophet Zach. 7.5 He makes no account of any of our Acts of Piety except we aim at his Glory in them What an excellent frame of Spirit was there in holy David who professeth Psal 16.8 I have set the Lord alwaies before me Did we but keep this one common Principle warm upon our hearts that God sees how would it keep us sincere and upright How would it deter us from heart sins and the closest hypocrisie and from warping into any sinful practise This was that which kept Joseph so upright Gen. 39.9 How can I do this great wickednesse and sin against God Ask thy self therefore often this question Will this be pleasing to God that I am now going about If credit or shame will restrain thee from sin how much more should Gods eie Nothing more feeds maintains and preserves Piety than a constant awe of God David gives the reason the wicked are so bad They have not set God before them Psal 86.14 Abraham was afraid of himself in Gerar Gen. 20.11 And what was the reason why saies he the fear of God is not in this place Men durst as well run their heads into a hot flaming Oven as sin against God so impudently as they do if they thought he saw them and would call them to an account The fear of God is a Grace of continual use If that be not before our eies we are exceeding apt to grow carelesse and secure We cannot be alwaies praying unto God nor praising of him nor worshipping of him nor emploied in Acts of special communion with him Yet we ought to be alwaies in his fear and to remember that we are alwaies under his eie Be thou in the fear of the Lord all the day long 't is Solomons advice Prov. 23.17 Right thoughts of God are the fewel that maintaines the life of Religion which otherwise would be soon extinguished Remember therefore Gods Omnipresence and that will make thee upright and careful to approve thy heart unto him Sincerity 't is the life of all our Graces and puts life into all our duties Faith unfeigned Love without dissimulation a plain Spirit in which there is no guile these are Gods delight The clearer therefore thou standest in thy own thoughts concerning the uprightness of thy heart in the tenure of thy Christian course incomparably the more joy and comfort thou wilt have Let integrity and uprightness preserve me was Davids praier Psal 25.21 Keep thy integrity and thy integrity will keep thee A good man next to his care that he give not God any occasion against him will take care that he give not his Conscience any occasion against him Be afraid therefore of giving thy Conscience any just occasion to reproach and rebuke thee Conscience 't is Gods Magistrate within that is appointed to be a terrour not to good works but to the evil Wouldst thou then not be afraid of this power do that which is good and thou shalt have praise of the same to allude to that in Rom. 13. O! it is exceeding sweet no man knowes how sweet but he that has it to have the testimony of a good Conscience upon good grounds A good Conscience 't is the best pillow to sleep upon the best dish to feed upon a dish said I nay 't is a feast a continual feast Prov. 15.15 Wouldst thou fare deliciously every day keep a good Conscience Heb. 4.13 Neither is there any Creature that is not manifest in his sight but all things are naked and opened unto the eies of him with whom we have to do Psal 119.168 I have kept thy precepts and thy testimonies for all my waies are before thee Psâ—l 139.3 Thou compassest my path and my lying down and art acquainted with all my waies
thanksgiving 1 Thes 5 6. Let us not sleep as do others but let us watch and be sober Rev. 3.2 Be watchful and strengthen the things which remain that are ready to die for I have not found thy works perfect before God V. 3. Remember therefore how thou hast received and heard and hold fast and repent if thou shalt not watch I will come on thee as a thief and thou shalt not know what hour I will come upon thee Rev. 16.15 Behold I come as a thief Blessed is he that watcheth and keepeth his garments Eph. 6 10. Finally my Brethren be strong in the Lord and in the power of his might V. 11. Put on the whole armour of God that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil V. 12. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities against powers against the rulers of the darkness of this world against spiritual wickednesse in high places V. 13. Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day and having done all to stand V. 14. Stand therefore having your loins girt about with truth and having on the breast-plate of righteousnesse V. 15. And your feet shod with the preparation of the Gospel of peace V. 16. Above all things taking the shield of Faith wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked V. 17. And take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit which is the Word of God V. 18. Praying alwaies with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit and watching thereunto with all perseverance c. CHAP. VI. CArefully make use of all good means God hath appointed for the begetting and increasing saving Knowledge and Grace in thee Under this head I shall treat of these five Particulars 1. The Observation of the Lords day 2. Hearing the Word 3. Singing Psalmes 4. Religious Conference 5. Retired holy Meditations 1. Concerning the Observation of the Lords day Be careful religiously to observe the Lords day the Christian Sabbath The Law of Nature dictates to us that there ought to be a due proportion of time set apart for Gods solemn Worship and Service God hath in his Word appointed one day in seaven to be kept holy to him which was the last day of the week from the beginning of the world to the resurrection of Christ and the first day of the week ever since and so to continue to the end of the world which is the Christian Sabbath and in the new Testâ—ment call'd the Lords day I shall here do two things 1. Shew the Reasons why we should observe this day 2. The Manner how we should observe it The first I shall shew in these Particulars following I. We find a Sabbath instituted by God himself from the beginning Gen. 2.2 3. And on the seventh day God ended his work which he had made and he rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had made and God blessed the seventh day and sanctified it because that in it he had rested from all his work which God created and made Before we read of the fall of Adam we read of a seventh day blessed and sanctified by God himself God blessed the seventh day that is dispensed a peculiar favour towards it exalted that day above the rest which is intimated in the next words he sanctified it that is he separated and consecrated it to his own holy Worship and annexed a blessing to the observation of it Adam did not need a day of rest in innocency by reason of any bodily wearinesse that would have betided him upon his six daies labour in his calling of husbandry yet God saw it convenient to enjoyn him to set apart one day in seven to enjoy more especial communion with his Creator Now if Adam in innocency when he had no sin in him had need of a Sabbath to take him off from the works of his calling that he might converse with God more immediatly in holy duties and exercises How much more need have we in this corrupt estate who are so prone to sin and had need of all helps against it Well then we find in the very beginning that the Law concerning the Sabbath was given while the whole Nature of mankind was in our first Parents even before they fell They might have lived here on the earth without sin but they were not to live without a Sabbath After the fall when Enos was born of Seth the son of Adam it is said that then men began to call on the Name of the Lord Gen. 4. ult That is as I take it to call upon his Name in publick Assemblies And most like it is the day they observed was the same that Abel and Seth and Adam observed before them and the rest of the Patriarchs after them Namely that day of the week in which God himself rested having finished the great work of the worlds creation Even before the Law saith learned Mercer upon Gen. I doubt not but this day by Gods teaching was solemn and sacred to those primitive Fathers Neither did the observation thereof saith Peter Martyr loc com cap. 7. begin with the giving of the law in Sinai but it was celebrated before Of the same opinion is the judicious Rivet who answers all Arguments brought to the contrary in 2 Gen. Exerc. 13. And indeed there is no reason to think otherwise For besides that in Adams heart the Law of Nature was perfectly imprinted and to consecrate some time to the Worship of God was and is a member of that Law 'T is more than probable God did dictate and prescribe to Adam all circumstances of his Worship which by tradition past to his posterity and were in their several Families until Moses observed II. We find a Sabbath observed by the Patriarchs in Exod. 16. Before the giving of the Law we find there an expresse charge touching the observation of it and two such Miracles to ratifie and set a value upon it v. 22 27. as seldom we read of greater The Manna fell in great plenty on the six daies and on the seventh none 2. Being gathered on the sixth day it remained sweet to the seventh and not so on any other day Observed therefore it was at this time and surely in obedience to Gods command For we must not impute will-worship to these holy men I shall end this with the words of the learned Paraeus in Com. on Gen. God sanctified the Sabbath in the very prime creation and doubtless that sanctification was observed in the Patriarchal Families III. After all this we find the day again for the better observation of it proclaimed on Mount Sinai Exod. 20. and that in a very dreadful and glorious manner having a more solemn entrance into it and more solemn reasons to hedge it in and confirm it than any of the other Commandements God being to give his moral and
immutable Lawes to his people doth first apply himself to them as Jewes rouzing their attention by inculcating the late signal mercies he had confer'd on them hereby to excite them to a more strict observation of what he was now to give them in charge so that though the introduction be proper to the Jewes yet the commandements have a larger extent and are spoken alike to all Now 't is very observable the Jewish or Saturday Sabbath or seventh from the creation is not in expresse terms commanded in the fourth Commandement That we shall perceive if we look over the Commandement 1. Remember thou sanctifie the Sabbath day The Sabbath day it is you see and not the seventh from the Creation Observe saies Zanchy God said not Remember thou sanctifie the seventh day but the day of rest that is the day that is consecrated to rest either immediatly by himself or mediately by the Church directed by the Holy Ghost whatsoever day it be So that the day must be of Divine Institution 2. God telleth us distinctly what Sabbath he here means viz. the weekly He saith Sanctifie the Sabbath in the singular number not Sabbaths in the plural The observation not of many festivals but of one onely is there enjoyned saith the learned Junius 3. The Sabbath must be sanctified but what day is appointed for it Six daies shalt thou labour Six daies are ours The seventh is the Sâ—bbath A seventh God will have But what seventh He saies not the seventh from the Creation He names no day as intending the day should change He saith only the seventh i. e. The seventh after six working daies 4. But is the determination of this one in seven in our power No for it must be the Sabbath of the Lord thy God i. e. which he hath already or should hereafter declare to his Church to be his Sabbath It must be Gods own choice Now that the fourth Commandement is moral will appear if we consider 1. Except it be moral there cannot be ten Commandements and yet so we find Deut. 10 4. And he wrote on the Tables according to the first writing the ten Commandements which the Lord spake unto you in the Mount out of the midst of the fire in the day of the Assembly And the Lord gave them unto me To keep some time holy to the Lord and to keep that time which he should appoint is absolutely moral Now 't is plain a Sabbath God must have by the perpetual Ordinance of the fourth Commandement Remember thou sanctifie the Sabbath day i. e. That day which for the time being God hath marked out and appointed for his own And he hath declared his Will concerning the limitation of it Six daies shalt thou labour c. But the seventh is the Sabbath so that one in a week he must have If this Commandement enjoyn no particular and set time under the Gospel then are there but nine Commandements Why should the Sabbath be put among the moral Lawes of the Decalogue if it were only ceremonial And wherein does the designation or limitation of one day in a week for Gods service seem ceremonial It being a memorial of Gods creating the world in six daies and resting the seventh this being a benefit wheâ—ein all mankind intercommon the Jewes can claim no property therein several to themselves 2 If we look upon the Sabbath of the fourth Commandement we shall find it stript of all legal observances For those things which are urged as ceremonial and several of the Jewes touching the Sabbath are all post-scripts and by-laws not one emergent from the fourth precept As no fire to be kindled Exod. 16 23. No meat to be dressed Exod. 17 5. These were peculiar to the Jews We must distinguish therefore between those precepts of the Sabbath that occur elsewhere the fourth Commandement What is ceremonial touching the Sabbath we must apply to them what is moral we must restrain to this See Mr. Lestrang's learned Treatise of the Sabbath Thus we have seen how God had from the Creation to the Law from the Law to Christ a day appointed and that by himself to his own Worship And hath he lesse reason to require it under the Gospel Surely no. IIII. From Christs resurrection on the first day of the week very early in the morning Luke 24.1 John 20.1 The Sabbath was changed to that day in honour of our Saviour who that day rising from the dead finished the work of our Redemption The Jewish Sabbath slept its last in the grave with our Saviour though its shadow indeed walked a while after but it self the old Sabbath expired then and immediatly entred the Lords day From the resurrection of Christ immediatly when Christ himself was but newly up from that very day whereon he arose doth Augustine derive the beginning of the Evangelical Sabbath The Lords day saith he by the resurrection of Christ was declared to be the Christians day and from that very time of Christs resurrection it began to be celebrated as the Christian mans Festival Epist ad Jan. 19. c. 13. This was the first day of our Saviours appearing to his Disciples and the first Christian Sabbath he honoured with his beatifical presence Joh. 20.19 20 26. The next was the eighth day after V. Well our Saviour is ascended Let us now see what honour the holy Ghost whom he promised to send his Apostles hath conferred on this day The holy Ghost descendeth But on what day Why the first day of the week It was when Pentecost arrived and that fell that year on that day On this day the Apostles were solemnly though closely assembled in prayer and holy duties and the holy Ghost descended upon them Acts 2. VI. The next mention of Apostolical observation of this day occurreth Acts 20. v. 7. The first of the week the Disciples being come together to break bread i. e. The Sacramental or Eucharistical bread Paul preached to them That for his practise Now his precept for the day is plainly implied 1 Cor. 16.1 As I have ordained in the Churches of Galatia so do ye v. 2. Upon the first day of the week let every one of you lay by him in store as God hath prospered him that there be no gathering when I come He ordains their collections for the poor Saints and oblations should be on that day And why should that day be the Almes-day or Collection day rather than any other had it not been observed holy in those times and that the Congregation did use on that day to assemble The Collection therefore being enjoyned on that day the Lords day was consequently enjoyned VII About sixty years after as Calvisius out of Irenaeus computes we meet with this day apparrelled in a Christian Name not stil'd the first day but the Lords day which probably was then current among the Christians else the holy Ghost would not have used it Rev. 1.10 St. John saies he was in the Spirit on the Lords day
Psal 58.4 We read of some Zach. 7.12 That made their heart as Adamant stone that they might not hear 'T is a sad complaint the Prophet makes And yet many Ministers may in these daies make the same I have stretched out my hands all the day long to a disobedient and gainsaying people Isa 65.2 Rom. 10.21 3. The itching ear 2 Tim. 4.3 4. The Apostle speaks of some who having itching eares did turn away their eares from the Truth unto Fables When men affect only new things and another Gospel as Paul speaks Gal. 1. They are half gone into Heresie Plain Doctrines that tend to the conviction of sin that discover the necessity of conversion that shew mans lost and undone condition by nature his only remedy by Christ the necessity of Holinesse and new obedience these serious truths are too stale for many curious eares But remember they were carnal people who complained they had nothing but the old burden Jer. 23.33 34. II. Apply what thou hearest to thy self Job 5. ult Hear thou this and know it for thy self Do not ward off the blowes of the Word from thy self Do not say within thy self this reproof concerns such an one c. The Jewes being pricked in their hearts Acts 2.23 said What shall we do not what shall others do to be saved No plaister can do us good except it be applyed III. Lift up thy heart in frequent mental ejaculatory prayers unto the Lord to set the truths thou hearest home upon thy soul Lord help me to remember and practise this lesson Lord help me to forsake this sin Lord strengthen my Faith in the belief of this Truth As the Disciples when Christ told them how oft they should forgive an offending brother Luke 17.5 they instantly pray Lord increase our Faith IV. Mix Faith with the Word Heb. 4.2 The Apostle tels of some that the Word profited not bccause they did not mix it with Faith O cursed infidelity How many thousand souls hast thou destroyed How many thousand Sermons hast thou made unsuccesseful St. James tels us The Devils believe and tremble That is more than many a wicked man does Thus much of thy behaviour in time of hearing Thirdly After hearing practise these Directions 1. Labour to keep alive those good motions those good inclinations those Heavenly affections and stirrings of Spirit which thou foundest in time of hearing Thou wilt quickly cool when out of the Congregation if thou take not heed 2. When thou goest from the Congregation be willing to speak and confer of what thou hast heard labouring thereby to work those truths on thy own heart and on the hearts of others O how sad is it that people as soon as ever they are out of the Congregation fall a talking of any thing rather than the Sermon they have heard They are free to talk of bargains or news or any thing else But they are ashamed of such precise discourse as to speak of the truths they have heard though they concern them never so much 3. Let such as are governours of Families revive the truths they have heard in publick by repetition in their Families Our memories are weak and Commands had need be repeated to forgetful servants At first hearing many truths may be lost through distraction and wandring Paul in his Epistles does often repeat the same passages and renew the same exhortations And he tels the Philippians C. 3. v. 1. To write the same things to them was not to him grievous but for them safe 4. Retire thy self and meditate on the truths thou hast heard and labour to fasten them by prayer in thy heart Let thy Conscience in secret preach them over to thee again Luke 2.19 'T is said Mary pondered those sayings in her heart O how few will spend a secret hour on the Lords day to consider and meditate on what they have heard One main reason Sermons do no more good is because people so soon forget them And why do they forget them so soon But because they do not consider and meditate on them when they have heard them Heb. 2.1 Therefore saies the Apostle we ought to give the more earnest heed to the things which we have heard lest at any time we should let them slip And 1 Tim. 4.15 Meditate upon these things give thy self wholly to them that thy profiting may appear unto all 5. Be not a bare hearer but a doer of the Word Speedily set upon the practise of what thou hast learned to be thy duty Be ye doers of the Word and not hearers only deceiving your own soules Jam. 1.22 Some do not care to hear because they have no mind to practise Some hear and rest in it 'T is practise that proclaims the sincerity of our profession In hearing we may look like Saints but in doing we live like Saints Practise is the best commendation of a Sermon Having thus shewed thee what thou must do 1. Before hearing the Word 2. In hearing the Word 3. After hearing the Word I come now to give thee some Motives to quicken thee to the practise of these Directions 1. Consider such as wilfully neglect to prepare their hearts before they come to hear do tempt God to withdraw the assistance and blessing of his holy Spirit from them when they are come Presume not on Gods assistance in an Ordinance if you neglect to prepare for it If the ground be not well prepared we do not expect a crop 2. Consider and remember the Devils care is not only to disturb thee at the Ordinance but to indispose thee for it before thou comest The Devil is stirring early on the Lords day morning He is at work betimes Be sure he hath a mornings draught for thee he will be presenting and suggesting something to thee to unfit and indispose thee for the duties of the day 3. Consider as thou art more or less careful to prepare so wilt thou ordinarily more or lesse tast the sweetnesse of the Ordinance Preparation is like exercise before a meal It will make thee come with the better appetite to the Word and relish it the better 4. Consider preparation is not only advantageous in order to the Ordinance but it brings advantage to us considered in it self By preparation we have communion with God We come to uâ—derstand our selves and the case of our own souls Whilst thou art preparing thy Graces are increasing the work of Heaven goes on 5. Consider If thou makest Conscience thus to behave thy self before in and after hearing of the Word as thou hast been directed thou wilt find it a great evidence of the sincerity and uprightnesse of thy heart Outward respects may make people come to Church but to take pains thus with their hearts beforehand argues a true desire after communion with God and a real willingnesse to profit by the Word and to grow in Grace 6. Consider what a choice mercy it is to enjoy the Gospel 'T is not a dish
sing Davids Psalms 3. Answer the Objections made against it 4. Give some Rules and Directions how Christians may practise this Ordinance to the Glory of God and to their own great benefit and spiritual advantage For the First Singing of Psalms was once an Ordinance of God in the Church and a part of Divine Worship and never repealed under the Gospel Psal 95.1 2. O come let us sing unto the Lord let us make a joyful noise to the Rock of our salvation Let us come before his presence with thanksgiving and make a joyful noise to him with Psalms And 't is sorted with other duties that are of a perpetual obligation as Prayer Hearing the Word c. v. 6. 7. 'T was practised by those eminent Saints of God Moses Deborah Barak David the sweet Singer of Israel Solomon and others whose Songs and Hymnes we have recorded in the old Testament 2. The Prophesies in Scripture that foretel the state of the Church under the Gospel do speak of Psalms to be used as a part of Gods Worship and Service then Compare Rom. 15.9 with Psal 18.49 Rom. 15.9 And that the Gentiles might glorifie God for his mercy as it is written for this cause I will confesse to thee among the Gentiles and sing unto thy Name Psal 18.49 Therefore will I give thanks unto thee O Lord among the Heathen and sing praises unto thy Name 3. We have several exhortations to it in the New Testament Eph. 5.18 And be not drunk with wine wherein is excesse but be filled with the Spirit V. 19. Speaking to your selves in Psalms and Hymnes and Spiritual Songs singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord. Col. 3.16 Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdome teaching and admonishing one another in Psalms and Hymns and Spirituall Songs singing with Grace in your hearts to the Lord. Jam. 5.13 Is any among you afflicted let him pray is any merry let him sing Psalms 'T is spoken generally Is any merry let him sing c. not that it is unlawful to sing at other times for then it might be argued as well that 't is not lawful to pray but when sad but as prayer is the best remedie for sorrowes so thanksgiving or singing to Gods praise is the proper duty in the time of Mercies and Comforts In Misery the proper duty is prayer In Prosperity giving thanks 4. We have Directions and Rules given us how to sing in a right manner Namely with Grace in our hearts unto the Lord Which directions were needlesse if singing of Psalms were not a duty under the Gospel 5. We find it practised by our blessed Saviour and his Disciples Mat. 26.30 And when they had sung an Hymn they went out into the Mount of Olives And by Paul and Silas Acts 16.25 And at midnight Paul and Silas prayed and sang praises unto God and the prisoners heard them 6. In the primitive times it was frequently practised insomuch that the Heathens took notice of this use and custome among the Christians Pliny writing to Trajan the Emperor tels him of the Christians morning Hymns or Psalms to Christ and God as an usual practise in their solemn Worship I come now to the Second thing That 't is lawful and warrantable to sing Davids Psalms 1. Because no composures can be equal to those of Gods Spirit If any Psalms therefore are to be sung then surely such as are given by Divine inspiration as Davids were Those excellent composures being part of the Word of God and full of Heavenly matter tending to instruction and consolation and being consigned to the use of the Church ought to be preferr'd before the composures of private persons ordinarily gifted and not infallibly assisted Observe that 2 Chron. 29.30 Moreover Hezekiah the King and the Princes commanded the Levites to sing praise unto the Lord with the words of David and Asaph the Seer and they sang praises with gladness As for that extraordinary gift of composing Psalms by the sudden suggestion of the holy Ghost which was given to some of the members of the Church of Corinth 1 Cor. 14. it is now ceased with other extraordinary gifts as that of Tongues and Healing c. 2. The Apostle in those two places before mentioned Eph. 5.19 Col. 3.16 by using those three words Psalms Hymns and Spiritual Songs does seem plainly to point at Davids Psalms for they answer exactly to those three Hebrew words Shirim Tehillim Mizmorim whereby Davids Psalms were called divided and distinguished 3. 'T was the custome of the Jewes to sing some of Davids Psalms in the night of the Passeover as Scalliger Buxtorfius and others skill'd in their customes inform us Those Psalmes were those six from the 113th to the 119th which were call'd the great Hallelujah And 't is more than probable Christ with his Disciples followed their custome herein because in other things he observed their usual Passeover Rites I come now to the Third thing to answer the Objections usually made against this duty Obj. 1. Some scruple to sing in a mixt Congregation where wicked men joyn that praise not God in a right manner Ans To render praises is a duty all men owe to God David cals on all creatures to sing praises to God Psal 145. And all the Kingdomes of the Earth are bidden to praise the Lord Psal 68.32 Though therefore wicked men do not praise God as they should yet they sin more in not doing it at all then in not doing it in a right manner 2. In Exod. 15. We find Moses and the Children of Israel sang praises to God together And yet surely there were some wicked persons among them Paul in the ship Acts 27.35 gave thanks to God before Infidels and professed Heathens If the presence of wicked men should hinder the acceptation of those that are sincere the people of God were in a most sad condition being never certain but some secret Hypocrite may be in the most pick'd Assembly But the best is God will accept us according to our integrity not our company God will hear the bleating of one sheep though in the midst of a thousand wolves If the wicked take the Name of God in vain sin lies at their own doors We warn them against it If they do not their duties as they should must we therefore neglect ours Obj. 2. Why should we sing Psalms Cannot we read them for our instruction Ans Singing will affect and raise and quicken the heart to praise God more than reading The voice is a great matter to quicken our hearts both in prayer and singing The people of God formerly did not think it enough to say what God had done for them but they did sing it that their hearts might be more affected warmed raised enlivened and lifted up in the praises of God Obj. 3. Some are offended we sing on daies of fasting and humiliation Ans All Psalms are not fit for all occasions There ought to
this duty there usually they are in a most thriving condition both as to knowledge and holinesse As Countreys that maintain a trade and commerce together do inrich each other 5. 'T is a good way to prevent seduction into errour Christians are better able to resist errours by their united forces and mutual counsels than singly and alone The Church is said Cant. 6.10 to be terrible as an Army with banners But straglers and such as go alone are often snatcht up How easie is it to pervert and draw one single person into any dangerous errour who neglects the benefit of other Christians advice and counsel 6. It will be a good means to increase love in the hearts of Christians one towards another And Love is Christ's Livery John 13.35 By this shall all men know that ye are my Disciples if ye have love one to another Thus much of the Arguments to perswde to this duty The Directions follow I. Let Christians in their Religious Conferences have this principally in their aim to edifie one another to further one another Heaven-ward to do good to one another soules II. Let them labour for those Graces that are requisite for this duty Such as these 1. Sobriety of judgment 2. Humility and lowlinesse of mind 3. Ingenuity acknowledging and prizing the Gifts and Graces they see in each other 4. Self-denial condescending to them of low parts going a slow pace rather than outgoing the young and tender lambs 5. Love affability encouraging weak beginners 6. Inoffensivenesse 7. Sincerity and plain heartedness III. Let them avoid censuring or judging the Spiritual state of others Such persons meet together for the worse and not for the better IV. Let them decline controverted points such things usually gendring strife and variance and apply themselves to speak of things that are practical As of God and his Goodnesse Of Christ his Person Offices and Merits Of the Covenant of Grace Of the Doctrine of justification Of the patience and self-denial of those that are gone before us Of Heaven and the Glory of that Kingdom How did the Martyrs in prison by such ravishing discourses set one another at liberty from the fears of death How did holy Bradford's sweet and cheerful company make the very dungeons lightsom and palace-like to his fellow-prisoners as themselves confessed These and such like practical matters will be the fittest subjects for Christians to discourse of when they meet together V. Let them impart their experiences and the methods of Gods dealings with themselves or others How they got rid of such a corruption vanquished such a temptation attain'd to a facility in such a duty Let them impart what may tend to the advancement of Holinesse VI. Let them provoke and stir up one another to Holinesse to Love and to good works admonishing and exhorting one another to watch and take heed to their waies seeing so many watch for their haltings like those the Prophet speaks of Jer. 20.10 All my familiars watched for my halting c. VII If any fallings out or jars shall happen among them at any time let them be prudently and seasonably healed and made up And in this case praying together and for one another is of singular use Let them as the Apostle speaks in another case Jam. 5.16 Confesse their faults one to another and pray one for another that they may be healed if their minds have been distempered and ill-affected one towards another 5. Retired holy Meditation Holy Meditation is the acting of the mind upon some Divine Object in order to the working upon the affections and raising fome fit resolutions in the soul therefrom tending to Gods Glory and the furtherance of Holinesse How many Christians are there that live in a constant neglect of this so exceeding useful duty by which all other duties are improved and by which the soul digesteth truths and draweth forth their strength for its nourishment and refreshing Certainly Meditation rightly mannaged doth exceedingly tend to the advancement of Piety I shall therefore 1. Give some Reasons why we should practise it 2. Give some Directions as to the manner how we should perform it I. Consider this was the practise of many of the eminent Saints of God recorded in the Scriptures Isaac and David were much in this Duty II. Consider the great benefit of it duly performed T is an excellent means 1. To encrease knowledge and to make the mind serious and solid None are more knowing setled established Christians than such as are much in Meditation 2. To stir up and awaken the Graces of Gods Spirit in us Hereby we awaken our Faith inflame our love strengthen our hope enliven our desires encrease our joyes in God we loosen our affections from the world and fore-acquaint our selves with the Glory that is to come 3. To make the Word profitable Meditation is the digestion of the soul 'T is not the taking in of food but the stomacks concocting of it that makes it turn to blood and Spirits For want of this How many Sermons are lost and do no good The Word will not profit us except we take time to think upon it 4. To prepare the heart for prayer and other holy duties Meditation tunes and prepares and fits the heart for solemn Worship 5. To antidote and fortifie the soul against sin and temptation If men would but often consider of the evil and danger of sin it would be a great means to deter them from the practise of it 6. 'T is an excellent help and means of Communion with God 'T is the souls perspective whereby it sees something of the Glory and happinesse of that Kingdom that is above Thus much of the Arguments for it I come now to give some Directions how it should be managed I. Pitch upon some convenient time of the day for this duty A Christians timing his duty aright is a great help to him in the right performance of it Some have chosen the morning for this duty and some the evening We have examples of both in Scripture Of our Saviour we read Mark 1.35 And in the morning rising up a great while before day he went out and departed into a solitary place and there prayed Gen. 24.63 And Isaac went out to meditate in the field at the even-tide II. Pitch upon some convenient retired place The wise man tels us Prov. 18.1 Through desire a man having separated himself seeketh and intermedleth with all wisdome First he separates himself then intermedleth with wisdom There is nothing the Devil more spights than this that a man should often retire and separate himself from the world to meditate on his everlasting concernments The Devil cannot endure a man should consider whether he be journeying towards Heaven or Hell III. Get a good stock of profitable materials to meditate on as the Attributes of God His promises of remission sanctification reward The love of Christ The evil and danger of sin The vanity of the Creature The
his gracious promises and providence in the use of lawful means expecting successe from him alone according to that of the Psalmist Psal 37.5 Commit thy way unto the Lord trust also in him and he shall bring it to passe 2. Moderation of affections Be not over-eager nor inordinately bent on thy worldly affairs Remember our Saviours precept Let not your hearts be overcharged with surfetting and drunkennesse and the cares of this life Luke 21.34 Pursue not thy worldly business with too much anxiety and fervour of mind 3. Contentation Be content with that portion little or much which God upon thy honest labours shall please to allot thee quietly acquiesce in his wise disposal 4. Patience Be not dismaid neither fret nor repine at those crosses and troubles which befall thee in the way and course of thy calling considering God doth often exercise his own dearest children with many afflictions V. Let not thy particular calling too much incroach upon thy general The world is of an incroaching nature 'T is hard to converse with it and not come into bondage to it Worldly employments will be apt to justle out Spiritual duties if thou hast not a great care Now the true Christian should especially look to these two things 1. That his worldly businesse do not eat up and devour that time which should be set apart every day for communion with God and for the exercise of religions duties 2. That his worldly employments do not blunt the edge of his affections to Spiritual things Thou maist use the world but take heed of loving the world 1 John 2.15 16. Love not the world neither the things that are in the world if any man love the world the love of the Father is not in him For all that is in the world the lust of the flesh the lust of the eye and the pride of life is not of the Father but is of this world VI. Labour carefully to avoid the temptations that thy particular calling is most liable unto Every calling and condition of life hath its peculiar temptations And a great deal of care and Christian prudence is required to foresee them and avoid them that so we be not insnared with them VII In the mannaging of thy worldly affairs endeavour to carry a Heavenly mind Be often lifting up thy â—â—â—rt in Spiritual and Heavenly meditations Think how little it will profit thee if thou shouldst gain the whole world and loose thy soul Think how Godliness is profitable for all things having the promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come 1 Tim. 4.8 Remember thou art but a pilgrim and a stranger here upon earth Heaven is the proper Country of holy souls VIII When success crowns thy faithful endeavours in thy calling let God have all the Glory If thou speed well thrive and prosper sacrifice not to thy own net to thy wit parts industry or any second cause but ascribe the Glory wholly to him in whose hands alone it is to give successe 1 Thes 4.11 Study to be quiet and do your own businesse and to work with your own hands as we commanded you V. 12. That ye may walk honestly towards them that are without and that ye may have lack of nothing 2 Thes 3.11 For we hear that there are some which walk among you disorderly working not at all but are busie bodies V. 12. Now them that are such we command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ that with quietnesse they work and eat their own bread Prov. 18.9 He also that is slothful in his work is brother to him that is a greaâ—â—aster Prov. 21.17 He that loveth pleasure shall be a poor man he that loveth wine and Oil shall not be rich Prov. 28.19 He that tilleth his land shall have plenty of bread but he that followeth after vain persons shall have poverty enough 1 Tim. 5.8 But if any provide not for his own and especially for those of his own house he hath denied the Faith and is worse than an Infidel Prov. 26.13 The slothful man saith there is a lion in the way a lion is in the streets V. 14. As the door turneth upon his hinges so doth the slothful upon his bed V. 15. The slothful hideth his hands in his bosom it grieveth him to bring it again to his mouth V. 16. The sluggard is wiser in his own conceit than seven men that can render a reason Prov. 6.6 Go to the Ant thou sluggard consider her waies and be wise V. 7. Which having no guide overseer or ruler V. 8. Provideth her meat in the Summer and gathereth her food in the harvest V. 9. How long wilt thou sleep O sluggard when wilt thou arise out of thy sleep V. 10. Yet a little sleep a little slumber a little folding of the hands to sleep V. 11. So shall thy poverty come as one that travelleth and thy want as an armed man Mat. 25.26 His Lord answered and said unto him thou wicked and slothful servant c. Psal 128.1 Blessed is every one that feareth the Lord that walketh in his waies V. 2. For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands happy shalt thou be and it shall be well with thee Prov. 10.4 He becometh poor that dealeth with a slack hand but the hand of the diligent maketh rich Prov. 22.7 The rich ruleth over the poor and the borrower is servant to the lender Prov. 31.27 She looketh well to the waies of her household and eateth not the bread of Idlenesse Eph. 4.28 Let him that stole steal no more but rather let him labour working with his hands the thing which is good that he may have to give to him that needeth CHAP. IX Concerning just dealing in Traffick Trading and Commerce OBserve a strict integrity and uprightness in all occasions of intercourse matters of traffick commerce and bargaining making Conscience to be true in thy words faithful in thy promises punctual in thy performances and in all things dealing justly and uprightly doing to others according to our Saviours Golden rule Luke 6.31 As thou wouldst that others should do to thee Mat. 7.12 Whatsoever ye would with a rectified judgment and an honest heart that men should do to you even so do ye to them for this is the Law and the Prophets In all contracts and acts of commerce with others 't is good to put our selves in their stead and to make frequent appeals to our own Consciences and to ask our selves Would I be thus dealt with Would I be content to have this measure measured to my self Should I if it were my own case think this fair dealing if used towards my self Paul saies Gal. 5.14 All the Law is fulfilled in one word that is all that part of the Law which concerns our duty towards man Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thy self This expression prescribes the manner of our love not the measure of it a parity or likenesse for kind not for degree or
which is so got to prosper 3. What will it profit a man to gain never so much and lose his soul Thou thinkest may be thou hast been very cunning when thou hast over reached thy Neighbour but considerest not there is another all the while over-reaching thee and cheating thee of that which is infinitely more precious even thy immortal soul And alas What will it ease thee in Hell to think thou hast left a great deal of wealth behind thee upon Earth 4. Remember what is unrighteously got by defrauding and injuring another must not only be repented of before God but restitution thereof or other satisfaction made to the party wronged For God pardons no sin we will pertinaciously retain and live in Prov. 28.13 He that covereth his sins shall not prosper but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall find mercy And he that restoreth not ill gotten goods liveth still in his sin and repenteth not of it seeing restitution is an inseparable fruit of true repentance Take heed therefore of all unjust getting and all unjust detaining For in such cases restitution is to be made in kind or value to the person wronged if alive If he be dead to his heirs If they cannot be known to the poor And equity requireth that the time be considered wherein his right has been detained from him For restitution we have 1. Gods Command God requireth if any thing be gotten either by violence fraud or deceit restitution should be made to the true owner Lev. 6.2 If a soul sin and commit a trespasse against the Lord and lie unto his neighbour in that which was delivered him to keep or in fellowship or in a thing taken away by violence or hath deceived his neighbour V. 3. Or have found that which was lost and lieth concerning it and sweareth falsly in any of all these that a man doth sinning therein V. 4. Then it shall be because he hath sinned and is guilty that he shall restore that which he took violently away or the thing which he hath deceitfully gotten or that which was delivered him to keep or the lost thing which he found 2. We have examples for it Josephs brethren restored the money found in their sacks Gen. 41.12 Zacheus practised it Luke 19.8 And Zacheus stood and said unto the Lord behold Lord the half of my goods I give to the poor and if I have taken any thing from any man by false accusation I restore him fourfold Yea Judas himself being convinced of his sin made restitution Matth. 27.3 Then Judas which had betraied him when he saw that he was condemned repented himself and brought again the thirty pieces of silver to the chief Priests and Elders 3. There is this great reason for it For our repentance is not sincere if we do not labour to undo our sins again Now he that restoreth not ill gotten goods liveth still in his sin and doth not labour to retract and revoke it as he ought to do And because many are loath to come to this hard duty of restitution for fear of shame or reproach that may acrue to them thereby they may desire some Godly Minister or some faithful Christian friend to transact that businesse for them who if they see cause may conceal their names and yet present the satisfaction or restitution by them sent to the injured person And whoever in singlenesse of heart and as in the sight and presence of God do thus labour to retract their sin and clear their souls of guilt by choosing rather to part with some of their substance than to retain what they ought not I am most confident will find abundance of comfort in so doing Upon all these considerations labour to mortifie that which is the root of all injustice namely Covetousnesse And remember that upon all rational accounts true Piety and exact Honesty is the best policy A little righteously got is better then the great treasures of the wicked 1 Tim. 6.6 Godlinesse with contentment is great gain V. 9. But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare and into many foolish and hurtful lusts which drown men in destruction and perdition V. 10. For the love of money is the root of all evil which while some coveted after they have erred from the Faith and pierced themselves through with many sorrowes 1 Thes 4.6 Let no man go beyond or defraud his brother in any matter because that the Lord is the avenger of all such as we also have forewarned you and testified Eph. 5.5 For this ye know that no whoremonger nor unclean person nor covetous man who is an Idolater hath any inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and of God Lev. 25.14 And if thou sell ought unto thy neighbour or buyest ought of thy neighbours hand ye shall not oppresse one another Ezek. 33.15 If the wicked restore the pledge give again that he hath robbed walk in the Statutes of life without committing iniquity he shall surely live he shall not die Numb 5.6 Speak unto the Children of Israel when a man or woman shall commit any sin that men commit to do a trespass against the Lord and that person be guilty V. 7. Then they shall confesse their sin which they have done and he shall recompense his trespasse with the principal thereof add unto it the fifth part thereof and give it unto him against whom he hath trespassed Exod. 22.2 If a thief be found breaking up and be smitten that he die there shall no blood be shed for him V. 3. If the Sun be risen upon him there shall be blood shed for him for he should make full restitution If he have nothing then he shall be sold for his theft CHAP. X. Concerning the duties of Governours of Families GOvernours of Families ought to be very careful that not only themselves but the rest of their Family also do faithfully serve the Lord. In treating of this 1. I shall give some Arguments for it 2. Some Directions for the right performing of it 3. Shew whence the neglect of it proceeds I. There is great reason for it in respect of God whose Honour above all things we should endeavour to advance And what better course can be taken for it than to set up his Worship in our houses and families II. In respect of our Families The greatest good we can possibly do them is to instruct them in the principles of true Piety To provide an estate or inheritance for children meat and drink and wages for servants is no more than sober Heathens do What singular thing is this To leave them rightly principl'd and instructed interested in the Covenant of Grace under the favour blessing and protection of God This is a high and a singular good indeed For this they may have cause to bless God for ever Is it enough for Christian Parents to breed up their Children so as they may live in this World and take no care what shall become of them
hereafter Can they be content to train them up for the Devil to be for ever tormented with him in Hell And yet so they must be if they live and die in ignorance impenitencie and unbelief Where are their bowels III. In respect of Church and Common-wealth A Family is the first society and a seminary of the rest 'T is made up of single persons in several relations And Towns Congregations Cities Countries all are made up of several Families Particular Families are as it were the hives out of which swarms go forth into the world To make Families good and religious is the way to make good Magistrates good Husbands good Wives good Masters good Servants good Neighbours Families are the Nurseries of Church and State Now if the Canker take the young trees in the Nursery they are never like to be good when they are transplanted The want of Family reformation is the cause of most of the miscarriages in Church and Common-wealth If there be Ignorance prophanenesse errour ungodlinesse in particular Families we shall soon hear of it in Church and State As therefore Elisha heal'd the naughty waters by casting in salt at the spring head 2 King 2.21 So let us labour to season our Families with true Piety if we would keep disorders out of Church and State 'T is true when all care is used there may be some bad in the best Families In the first Family there was a Cain in the best Family a Judas in Noahs Family the only Family then on earth a Cham yet ordinarily God is pleased so to bless the care and endeavours of religious Governours that their Families are Schools of Piety and Vertue and both Church and Common-wealth reap the fruit of it IV. In respect of our selves 1. The benefit is great that will come to us thereby There is no such way to bring children and servants to be obedient and faithful as to infuse principles of true Piety into them and to plant the fear of God in their hearts Then they will do their duties for Conscience sake And besides such persons in a Family are a great blessing to it Potiphar's Family was blessed for Josephs Labans for Jacobs sake 2. 'T is a great honour to a Family to be truly religious Let prophane scoffers talk what they will Is it not a greater honour for any Christian to have his house to be a Bethel a house of God than a Beth-aven an house of iniquity Religious Families are dignified by the Apostle with the title of Churches Rom. 16.3 Greet Priscilla Aquila my helpers in Christ Jesus v. 5. Likewise greet the Church that is in their house Col. 4.15 Salute the brethren which are in Laodicea and Nymphas and the Church which is in his house 3. It will bring much comfort to us both here and hereafter What a joy must it needs be to any serious Christian to see his Family through the blessing of God on his care and labour to thrive in Piety and to walk in the way leading to Heaven And with how much comfort may be leave them when he comes to die having this testimony in his own bosome that he hath been faithfull this way We know Eli was charged with and severely punished for the sins of his Children 1 Sam. 2.29 Because he had been too remisse in reproving of them I shall conclude this with the words of Mr. Rogers a learned Divine of our own Believe it saies he Every Governour of a Family is as deeply charged with the souls of those under his Government as any Pastour is with the souls of that Flock which is committed to his charge Nor will the publick Ministry become fruitful if that which is sown in publick be not watered in private by conference examination and good instruction What can we more impute the unprofitablenesse of our Ministry to than to Masters and Parents neglect of their duties You call our Congregations our charge and so they are so are your Families also your charge Thus he So much of the first Particular the Reasons why Governours of Families should be careful that those under their Government do faithfully serve the Lord. I come to the second to give some Directions for the right performance of this Duty I. Let Governours of Families begin at themselves labouring to reform what is amisse in themselves that so they may be exemplary in wisdom and Holiness to those under their care Let them humbly beg of God those Graces and abilities that may fit them for the discharging of their places Inferiours mind more what superiours do than what they say He that walks disorderly himself cannot expect to reform his children or servants or keep his Family in order II. Let them be careful about the constitution of their Families Let them look well to it that those they admit into their house as neer as they can guesse be hopeful and tractable as to Religion Psal 101. v 6. Mine eies shall be upon the faithful that they may dwell with me he that walketh in a perfect way he shall serve me III. Let them set up the practise of true Religion in good earnest in their Families Let them worship God together morning and evening offering up the spiritual Sacrifice of prayer and supplication with thanksgiving For let them consider 1. Is it not the duty of all sincere Christians to make Religion the main businesse of their lives Should not Governours of Families endeavour to make their Families Godly to win the souls of those under their Government to Christ And can this be done by them who neglect to pray in their Families 2. Does not the very light of Nature seem to suggest we should begin and end the day with God 3. Was not Family Worship the first Worship performed to God in the world for a long time 4. Did not God declare his pleasure under the Law by the evening and morning Sacrifice And does not the Apostle in Analogie to this continual and daily sacrifice bid us pray continually 1 Thes 5.17 Col. 4.2 5. Is not the neglect of prayer made a branch of Atheism Psal 14.4 Have all the workers of iniquity no knowledge who eat up my people as they eat bread and call not upon the Lord. And are not Heathens described to be Families that call not on Gods Name Jer. 10. ult Pour out thy fury upon the Heathen that know thee not and upon the Families that call not on thy Name c. 6. If Job offered Sacrifice and prayed for his Children when they were absent Is it not more then probable he did the like with them when present seeing 't is said thus did Job continually Job 1.5 7. Did not Queen Esther and her maids pray and fast together Esth 4.16 Go gather together all the Jews that are present in Shushan and fast ye for me and neither eat nor drink three daies night nor day I also and my maidens will fast likewise 8. Did not Christ pray with
his Family Luke 9.18 And it came to pass as he was alone praying his Disciples were with him As he was alone not singly but privately alone as appears by comparing this place with Mark 4.10 And when he was alone they that were about him with the twelve asked of him the Parable 9. Does not our Saviour in the Lords Prayer plainly teach that Christians should pray joyntly as well as severally Our Father c. Give us this day our daily bread c. 10. Does not the Apostle bid us pray with all prayer Eph. 6.18 i. e. With all manner of lawful prayer therefore with Family prayer 11. Is there not a blessing promised to joynt-prayer Matth. 18.19 Again I say unto you that if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask it shall be done for them of my Father which is in Heaven v. 20. For where two or three are gathered together in my Name there am I in the midst of them 12. Should not every Christian Family be a little Church of Christ And is not a Church to pray together Acts 12.5 Peter therefore was kept in prison but prayer was made without ceasing of the Church for him v. 12. And when he had considered the thing he came to the house of Mary the mother of John whose Sir-name was Mark where many were gathered together praying Acts 2.42 And they continued stedfastly in the Apostles Doctrine and fellowship and in breaking of bread and in prayers 13. Do not the necessities of a Family require it They are joyn'd in mercies in judgments and often in sins Should they not therefore joyn in humiliations prayers and thanksgivings 14. Can a Family expect to be blessed by God that lives in a constant neglect of this duty The favour of Providence is a mans best inheritance Family Piety is usually attended with Family prosperity Prov. 3.33 The curse of the Lord is in the house of the wicked but he blesseth the habitation of the just 15. Were not houses as well as Temples to be dedicated to God by the inhabitants at their first entrance into them Deut. 20.5 And the Officers shall speak unto the people saying What man is there that hath built a new house and hath not dedicated it let him go and return to his house lest he die in the battel and another man dedicate it Psal 30. Title A Psalm and song at the dedication of the house of David And why should they not afterward be used for places to pray in to read the Word to sing Psalms in as well as to eat and drink and sleep in Is there not as good fellowship in holy duties as in merry company and idle communication Why should a Family do nothing joyntly that tends to the good of their souls Are we Christians and shall we not be willing God should be the Master of our houses 16. Does not the neglect of prayer expose a Family to many judgments and many sins Where prayers are shut out of any house there usually the door is opened wide to prophanenesse and all licentiousnesse And what follows thereupon but the wrath and curse of God Let not Family prayer therefore morning and evening be neglected upon any pretence whatsoever and let all persons be carefull they be not slight and formal in the performance of it And besides prayer let there be reading the holy Scriptures and other good books singing Psalms Catechizing and private instruction a due care to sanctifie the Lords day a diligent frequenting the publick Ordinances a reviving by repetition in private what they have heard in the publick religious conference and whatever else may conduce to the encreasing true Piety and Godlinesse among them IV. Let Governours of Families call upon and charge those under their Government to pray privately and in secret and not to content themselves only with the Family-prayer as too many are apt to do V. Let them keep out as much as they can lewd company out of their Families When swearers drunkards Atheists scorners of Godlinesse may have free access entertainment and countenance in a Family Religion is not like to thrive there nor any thing that is of good report or praise-worthy VI. Let them also be careful to preserve their Families from seducers and soul deceivers 2 Epist John v. 10. If there come any unto you and bring not this Doctrine receive him not into your house neither bid him God speed VII Let them watch over their Families The want of vigilancy in the Governour is usually the fountain of most disorders in the Family Let there be Family-Discipline Let them admonish the unruly and seek to reclaim them and if they prove incorrigible cast them out if they be separable members Let them incourage those that do well letting them see they take notice as readily of their well-doing as of their faults When there is cause to rebuke any offender let it be done without bitternesse or reviling Let there be more strength of reason in their words to convince them of their sins and to make them see their danger and to know how to amend than heat of anger to utter their own displeasure Let the fault be made manifest to the person offending that his own Conscience may condemn him Bitternesse does oftner harden the heart than reform the life And if Governours of Families would according to these Directions labour to do their duties faithfully they might be exceeding instrumental of the salvation of those under their Government Oh how much good may the prayers precepts example prudent admonitions and constant vigilancy of such pious Governours do They may more promote the businesse of Religion in their Families than any Minister can 'T is morally impossible a Minister should bring a Town or Congregation to good order except assisted by Governours of Families The long desired reformation both of Church and State sticks here To reform all let us begin at home 'T is a vain thing to expect the reformation of a Congregation while private Families remain unreformed and are pestered with ignorance errour or prophanenesse A Governour of a Familie should look upon himself as Christs deputy in his own house and as it were invested with his three Offices of Prophet Priest and King He should be 1. A Prophet to teach instruct catechize his houshold Deu. 6.7 And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house and when thou walkest by the way and when thou liest down and when thou risest up An uncatechized head and an unsanctified heart do too frequently go together Lewis the ninth of France was found instructing a poor Kitchin boy and being asked why he would do so answered the meanest hath a soul as precious as my own and bought with the same blood of Christ Our Saviour instructed his Disciples praied with them taught them to pray sung an Hymn with them And can you follow a
better example Timothy was train'd up by his parents and that from a child in the holy Scriptures 2 Tim. 3.15 Want of instruction at home is one main reason of the unprofitablenesse of preaching 2. A Priest to offer up the spiritual sacrifices of prayer and praise for them and with them 3. A King to rule command and govern for Christ in his own house Gen. 18.19 I know Abraham that he will command his children and his houshold after him and they shall keep the way of the Lord c. A Master of a Family has a greater command and authority over those in his own house than any Minister has He is more with them and has his eie more upon them He should therefore improve his power for God and be like the good Bishop described 1 Tim. 3.4 ruling well i. e. Religiously his own house having his children in subjection with all gravitie So much of the second particular the directions how Governours of Families should discharge their duties towards those under their Government I come now to the third and last to shew whence the neglect of this so great and necessary a duty proceeds There are several causes of it 1. Ignorance Some are so ignorant themselves they know not how to instruct others They know not how to pray with their Families Oh let all such presently apply themselves with all care and seriousnesse to learn the things that concern their salvation that they may discharge their duties towards their relations And let them know it is their duty to labour for ability to pray and for that gift whereby upon all occasions they may in an humble and fitting manner express the desires of their hearts unto the Lord. In the mean time till by seeking to God for his Spirit to enable them and by a faithful endeavour they have attain'd to some measure of this gift they may use some good prescribed form Only let them be exceeding watchful over their hearts for fear of that formality and meer lip-service which in such cases we are more especially in danger of 2. Carelesness Some are of Gallio's temper Acts 18.17 They care for none of these things They think this more ado than needs They will provide portions for their children look that their servants do their work but for Religion the one thing absolutely necessary they do not much trouble themselves 3. Worldly-mindednesse Some are so worldly they cannot afford time for Gods Worship and Service Not a swine about the house but shall be served morning and evening but God is not regarded 4. Prophanenesse Some are so far from having any religious care of their Families to pray with them to instruct them c. that they deride these duties and scoffe at those that make conscience to perform them They through the pride of their hearts think it a disparagement to them to set up the practise of these things in their houses Wretched worms Is God become a shame to his creatures Who are they or what is their Fathers house that they are too good to be the servants of the most High Let them make their peace with that Scripture Mark 8. ult Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation of him also shall the Son of man be ashamed when he cometh in the Glory of his Father with the holy Angels 5. Loose Opinions under pretence of new Light setting people at liberty from the observation and practise of those duties whereby the life and power of Religion is most maintained and preserved Let Governours of Families therefore beware of all these things and whatever else may hinder them from a Conscionable discharge of their Duties Gen. 18.19 For I know him that he will command his Children and his houshold after him and they shall keep the way of the Lord to do Justice and Judgment that the Lord may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him Josh 24.15 But as for me and my house we will serve the Lord. 1 Sam. 1.21 And the man Elkanah and all his house went up to offer unto the Lord the yearly Sacrifice and his vow Acts 10.2 Cornelius a devout man and one that feared God with all his house which gave much Almes to the people and prayed to God alway CHAP. XI Of the duties of Husband and Wife I Shall first speak of the Duties common to both and then more particularly of those that belong to each of them severally They owe to each other Love Faithfulnesse Helpfulnesse I. Love There ought to be a firm and inviolable love between them grounded on Gods Ordinance and their own Covenant and not meerly on natural or civil respects and being so neerly united and made one flesh they should have but one heart They should have the greatest tendernesse and kindness for each other imaginable If any unkindnesse should at any time happen to arise between them they should never sleep in displeasure but both readily agree to a speedy reconcilement The Sun should not go down on their wrath Love must sweeten all their speeches carriage and actions towards each other 'T is love will make all the duties of a married life easie and all the cumbers and crosses tolerable This love must for measure exceed and surpasse their love to any other creature There must be between them both the love of goodwill desiring heartily the welfare of each other and the love of complacency delighting in each other Want of love between man and wife is no mean sin II. Faithfulnesse and that of several sorts 1. That of the bed They must keep themselves pure chast from all strange embraces and with the greatest abhorrence detest any motion or temptation that way They must not embrace the bosom of a stranger Prov. 5.20 They must be constant to each other and confident of each other Jealousie is the pasport of love 2. They must keep each others secrets 3. Conceal each others infirmities 4. Be faithful to each other in the mannaging their worldly affairs 5. If any difference arise not let it take vext for jars concealed are half reconciled whereas if they be once divulged 't is a double labour to make up the breach and stop the mouths of people abroad III. Helpfulnesse They are to be mutuall helpers each to other both in spiritual and temporal things 1. They should endeavour to help one another on towards Heaven to promote and encrease knowledge and Holiness in each others souls designing to meet together and live together for ever in Heaven They should pray together and for each other 1 Pet. 3.7 They should faithfully wisely and lovingly admonish one another of any failings they discern in each other This is of all other the truest and most valuable love Nay indeed How can it be said they do love at all if they can contentedly let each other run on in a course that will bring them to eternal misery True
love is soul love And if the love of Husband and Wife be thus grounded in Religion and Piety and a care of each others souls it will make their lives a kind of Heaven upon earth 'T will prevent those contentions heart burnings and brawls so fatal to many Families They will like Zachary and Elizabeth labour to walk before the Lord blamelesse They will endeavour to plant Religion in their Family and be examples of Piety prudence and goodnesse to those among whom they live 2. They are to be mutual helpers to each other in natural and civil respects They are to comfort and cherish one another both in health and sicknesse in prosperity and adversity They are to advise and assist each other in a right governing their Family and in a prudent mannaging their estate and worldly affairs And in a word they are to endeavour to make their passage through this world as comfortable to each other as they can So much in general for the duties common to both I now come to speak more particularly of the duties belonging to each of them severally And first of the duties of the Husband I. The first duty the Husband owes to his Wife is love How great this love should be the Apostle intimates by the similitudes he uses in this matter The one of that Christ bears to his Church Eph. 5.25 Husbands love your Wives even as Christ also loved the Church and gave himself for it The other of that a man bears to himself v. 31. Let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself Now every one knows and feels how he loves himself A mans love to himself hath these properties 1. 'T is cordial without dissimulation Many a man feigns love and friendship to others but no body is insincere and false in his love to himself Such a love should a man bear to his Wife As Jonathans heart was knit to David 1 Sam. 18.1 And he loved him as his own soul so ought the Husband to love his Wife The Apostle tels us 1 Cor. 13.5 Charity is not easily provoked True fervent cordial love is long suffering and beareth with many infirmities and weaknesses and covereth a multitude of offences 1 Pet. 4.8 2. 'T is constant 'T is so natural nothing can make it cease Though a man hath been handsom and is by sicknesse become deformed though he hath been healthy and is become sickly though he hath been patient and is now grown cholerick yet he still loves himself So no accidental change or defect should lessen a mans love to his Wife 3. 'T is very tender How tenderly does a man treat himself when sick If he have a sore eie How careful is he of it Such ought a mans affection be to his Wife expressing it self in a tender regard of her in sicknesse as well as health The man ought to look upon his Wife as the tenderer part of himself or as the Apostle phrases it as the weaker vessel 1 Pet. 3.7 Which must not be a cause of contempt but rather of respect and regard And the more weak she is in respect of any sicknesse or the like so much the more tender care ought he to have of her No man ever hated his own flesh saies the Apostle but nourisheth and cherisheth it Eph. 5.29 The Husband therefore must not do any thing that may be hurtful or grievous to his Wife no more than he would cut and gash his own flesh For my part I know no Law of God or man that allows the Husband a power to beat his Wife He is indeed to govern her but he is to do it by wise loving amiable counsel not by stripes The civil Law is strict against it Cod. 5. And among Heathens we read not of any except such as were mad or drunk practising this unnatural cruelty The Husband therefore should mannage that authority and superiority which God hath given him over his Wife wisely mildly amiably He should remember all Government is ordained by God for the good of the whole and not the pleasure only of the Governour Therefore all harshnesse and roughnesse and such tyrannical carriage is utterly unallowable on the Husbands part towards his Wife 4. 'T is pure Not for base and sinister ends He does not love himself because he is a healthy man a handsom man a rich man but 't is purely himself because 't is himself that he loves Such ought a mans love to his Wife to be not only because she is fair or rich or young but because she is his Wife A man may look abroad in the world and see others healthier handsomer richer wittier than himself yet I hope he does not thereupon fall in love with them and slight and neglect himself So a man is to love his wife purely for this reason because she is his Wife Though he is not bound to think her the best accomplished woman in the world yet he is to love her like her delight in her more than any woman in the world So much for the first Duty the man owes to his Wife Love and the degree of it II. The next is Instruction The Husband is to instruct the wife in the things that concern her everlasting welfare if she be ignorant of them Thus Paul bids the wives learn of their husbands at home 1 Cor. 14.35 Which supposes the Husband is to teach her This should make men careful to get knowledge themselves that so they may perform this duty they owe to others III. Maintenance He is to maintain her provide for her and allow her things convenient and fit according to his estate and to let her partake with him in those outward good things wherewith God hath blessed him And as he is not by niggardize to deny her what is fit for her so neither must he by his unthriftinesse wast his goods and so make himself unable to support her if God take him away before her he is to provide for her comfortable subsistence according to his ability and not to beat her when he is dead as one phrases it by leaving her an insufficient and too short an allowance I come now to speak of the Duties of the Wife The Wife owes to her Husband I. Subjection Eph. 5.22 Wives submit your selves unto your own husbands as unto the Lord. Col 3.18 Wives submit your selves unto your own husbands as it is fit in the Lord. 1 Pet. 3.1 Likewise ye wives be in subjection to your own husbands c. V. 5. Being in subjection to their own husbands Besides these Scripture-Commands there are several reasons for it 1. From the Creation 1. The man was first created 1 Tim. 2.13 Adam was first formed then Eve 2. The woman was made of the man and not the man of the woman 1 Cor. 11.8 For the man is not of the woman but the woman of the man 3. The woman was made for the man not the man for the woman Gen. 2.18 And
persons with him Exod. 21.26 And if a man smite the eye of his servant or the eye of his maid that it perish he shall let him go free for his eies sake V. 27. And if he smite out his man-servants tooth or his maid servants tooth he shall let him go free for his tooths sake Lev. 25 43. Thou shalt not rule over him with rigour but shalt fear thy God So much of the Duties of Masters I now come to speak of those that belong to Servants Servants owe to their Masters these four Duties 1. Reverence 2. Obedience 3. Faithfulnesse 4. Diligence I. All due Reverence and that of three sorts 1. In their hearts honouring them and fearing to give them any just occasion of distast 2. In their words speaking respectfully to them and to others of them 3. In their behaviour carrying themselves with due regard and respect towards them remembring the superiority power and authority they have over them 1 Tim. 6.1 Let as many servants as are under the yoke count their own Masters worthy of all honour c. Mal. 1.6 If I be a Master where is my fear c. 1 Pet. 3.18 Servants be subject to your own Masters with all fear c. Not with a slavish but a Christian ingenuous fear which makes a man careful not to neglect any duty he is bound to perform nor to offend or provoke any person whom he ought to please II. Obedience 1. In carefully minding and observing their instructions and counsels especially those given them for the good of their souls 2. In performing and executing their lawful and just Commands This is expresly required by the Apostle Tit. 2.9 Exhort servants to be obedient to their own Masters and to please them well in all things c. And this obedience must not be a grumbling unwilling one but ready and chearful as 't is Eph. 6.7 With good will doing service And to help them herein they are to consider It is to the Lord and not only unto men as 't is in the next Words that they pay this obedience which may make them the more cheerful in it Christian Servants should look beyond their Masters unto God who hath placed them in that condition and enjoyned them this obedience Whatsoever ye do saith the Apostle Col. 3.23 i. e. Of your own duty or your Masters businesse do it heartily as unto the Lord i. e. as before God and in his sight desiring to glorifie God and approve your hearts unto him Let not Servants therefore dispute their lawful commands but do them and that with an eye to Gods Command If their Masters should command any thing though lawful yet imprudent let them humbly offer their reasons to the contrary but if they persist let them not finally refuse to obey them 3. In patiently and meekly submitting to their reproofs when they do amisse not answering again as the Apostle speaks Tit. 2.9 i. e. Not making such surly and rude replies as may encrease their Masters displeasure A thing too frequent among Servants even in the justest reprehensions Whereas St. Peter directs them to suffer patiently the most undeserved correction even when they do well and yet suffer for it 1 Pet. 2.20 And further they must know that the giving their Masters the hearing the patient suffering of rebuke is not all that is required of them in this matter but they must speedily amend the faults they are rebuked for and reform what has been amisse III. Faithfulness They must be true and faithful 1. In their words speaking the truth alwaies Lying doubles a fault A lying tongue is an abomination to the Lord Prov. 6.17 Rev. 21.8 Lyars are of the number of those that shall be shut out of the new Jerusalem shall have their part in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone When therefore they are charged with a fault if they be guilty let them remember that an humble ingenuous confession with promise of amendment is the best and most pacifying excuse they can possibly make 2. In their actions 1. In not purloining as the Apostle commands Tit. 2.10 not converting that which is their Masters to their own use or disposing of any thing that is His without his leave contenting themselves with such things as are fit for a servant to have and not secretly filching such things as they know are not allowed them by their Master or appointed for them Where the fear of God is in the heart there will be a care of these things Where 't is not servants think they may do any thing what they please 2. In not wasting and imbeziling their Masters goods as the unjust Steward was accused to have done Luke 16.6 by their neglect and carelesnesse Every Master is supposed to intrust his affairs as well to the care as to the honesty of his servant therefore unfaithfulnesse is a great sin and in some respects worse then common theft by how much there is a greater trust reposed the betraying whereof adds to the crime 3. They must be faithfull in their work and businesse and in the managing all things intrusted to them labouring to preserve and increase their Masters estate by all good and lawfull means This the Apostle hints in those words Tit. 2.10 Shewing all good fidelity And with what uprightnesse and integrity servants should carry themselves herein the same Apostle tels us in those words Col. 3.22 In singlenesse of heart fearing God If the fear of God be in the heart that will make servants faithfull Such a servant was Eleezer that wife faithfull praying servant of whom we reade Gen. 24. And such honest upright servants were Jacob and Joseph who were great blessings to the Masters whom they served 4. They must be faithfull in respect of their Masters children if any care of them be committed to them endeavouring their good and welfare every kind of way infusing good principles into them and the seeds of piety and vertue and abhorring to speak or do any thing before them that may tend to corrupt or deprave them They must not conceale their faults and miscarriages much lesse be accessary to the drawing them into any evil course or be any way instrumentall to their ruine as too many servants are 5. They must do all the good they can to their fellow-servants by prudent suggestions a good example and an unblameable conversation 6. They must preserve by all good means the reputation of their Master and his family and not like idle tale-bearers divulge every thing done in the house which is an unfaithfulness an honest servant should abhorre IV. Diligence constantly attending to all those things that are the duties of their place and not giving themselves to idlenesse and sloth remembring their time is their Masters and therefore not to be squandred away or mispent They must do all true service to their Masters not only when their eye is over them but when they are absent and not like to
they must command them only lawful and reasonable things using their power and authority over them with equity and moderation and with a gentle hand In all things of moment they require of them let them consider the real good and benefit of their children and guide themselves by that and not meerly their own advantage or pleasure or the exercise of their own authority This is a Rule as one saies well whereof Parents may often have use but especially in the businesse of marrying their children wherein many Parents out of a covetous humour to bestow them wealthily have forc'd them to marry against their inclinations and where they could not love which is a horrible Tyranny and thereby have betrayed them to infinite mischiefs such as all the wealth in the world cannot repair There are two things therefore saies the same Author that Parents ought especially to consider in the matching of their children 1. That they may live Christianly and to that purpose to chuse a pious and vertuous person to link them with that may not be like to hinder but to further them on in the way to Heaven This ought principally and above all other things to be minded 2. That they may live comfortably and cheerfully in this world And to that end though a competency of estate may be necessary to be regarded yet surely abundance is not requisite and therefore that should not be too vehemently sought after That which much more tends to the happiness of that State is the mutual kindnesse and liking of the parties without which marriage is of all other the most uncomfortable condition therefore no Parent ought to force a child into it Eph. 6.4 And ye fathers provoke not your children to wrath but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Col. 3.21 Fathers provoke not your children to anger lest they be discouraged 2 Cor. 12.14 For the children ought not to lay up for the Parents but the Parents for the children 1 Tim. 5.8 But if any provide not for his own especially for those of his own house he hath denied the faith and is worse then an Infidell Deut. 6.7 And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house and when thou walkest by the way and when thou liest down and when thou risest up Prov. 19.18 Chasten thy son while there is hope and let not thy soul spare for his crying Prov. 13.24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes Prov. 29.17 Correct thy son and he shall give thee rest yea he shall give delight unto thy soul Prov. 22.15 Foolishnesse is bound in the heart of a child but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him Prov. 10.1 A wise son maketh a glad father but a foolish son is the heavinesse of his mother Prov. 1.8 My son hear the instruction of thy father and forsake not the law of thy mother Deut. 4.9 Onely take heed to thy self and keep thy soul diligently lest thou forget the things which thine eyes have seen and lest they depart from thy heart all the daies of thy life but teach them thy sons and thy Sons sons Duties of Children towards their Parents Children owe to their Parents these three duties especially 1. Reverence 2. Obedience 3. Thankfulnesse I. Reverence which they must expresse 1. By honouring them in their hearts bearing not only an awe and respect but a kindnesse and affection towards them loving their persons fearing to do any thing may justly provoke them and highly esteeming them as the instruments under God of their being Lev. 19.3 Ye shall fear every man his Mother and his Father The Mother is placed first because children though they stand most in need of their Mothers in their younger years yet when they are grown up many times do most wickedly neglect and despise them But how cursed a thing it is to set light by Parents and even in our secretest thoughts to despise them God himself declares Deut. 27.16 Cursed be he that setteth light by his Father or his Mother and all the people shall say Amen 2. By speaking to them with due respect and regard and to others of them What a heinous sin then is mocking Parents Prov. 30.17 The eye that mocketh at his Father and despiseth to obey his Mother the Ravens of the valley shall pick it out and the young Eagle shall eat it But there is a more horrid Crime than that which is cursing Parents Exod. 21.17 And he that curseth his Father or his Mother shall surely be put to death And to this Head we may refer that great and high offence that those wretched Children are guilty of who either through impatience of the Government or greedinesse of the possessions of their Parents do wish their deaths And let them not think to excuse themselves by saying they wish them in Heaven for that they do it not so much that they may have ease and rest at their journies end as because they must needs take death in the way But whoever does thus embrue his soul in bloudy wishes of his Parents death let him know there is one above that sees and observes that great wickedness And if long life be promised as a reward of honouring Parents 't is very agreeable to Divine Justice that untimely death be the punishment of the contrary And so they who so eagerly desire the death of their Parents take the direct course untimely to meet with their own 3. By giving them in their outward carriage all due respect and observance behaving themselves with humility towards them and giving them all those signs and expressions of civil honour which are to be paid by Inferiours to Superiours How contrary to this is that detestable sin of smiting Parents Exod. 21.15 And he that smiteth his Father or his Mother shall be surely put to death The punishment the Heathens inflicted on such unnatural children was to sew them in a sack with a dog cat viper and ape as emblems of unnaturalness and so drown'd them together So much doth the very Light of Nature abhor such monstrous undutifulness II. Obedience which they must manifest 1. By hearkning to their instructions and carefully laying up their precepts in their hearts especially those that concern the welfare of their Souls There is ordinarily such a pride and headinesse in youth that they are apt to slight the counsels and directions of their Elders and to look upon them as proceeding either from too much severity or from dotage when they are indeed the fruits of wisdom sobriety experience To such the counsell of Solomon is necessary Prov. 23.22 Hearken unto thy Father that begat thee and despise not thy Mother when she is old Many more Texts there are in that book to this purpose that shew how the wisest of men have thought it necessary that Children should carefully attend to the
Counsel of their Parents 2. By obeying their lawful Commands most gladly and chearfully doing those things that may bring joy and comfort to them and carefully avoiding what they apprehend will grieve or afflict them And that out of Conscience and in obedience to God who enjoyns it and not meerly from some outward advantages or benefits to themselves as too many children do This is not only contained in the fifth Commandment but expresly enjoyned in other places of Scripture Col. 3.20 Children obey your Parents in all things for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Eph. 6.1 Children obey your Parents in the Lord for this is right In the former place 't is in all things In the other in the Lord i. e. If their commands are not contrary to Gods for in that case our duty to God must be preferred If any Parent shall be so wicked as to command his Child to steal or lie or do any wicked thing the Child does not offend against his Duty if he disobeys Only let him do it in such a modest and respectful manner that it may appear that 't is Conscience and not stubbornnesse that moves him to refuse Obedience 3. In bearing patiently their reproofs and submitting to their corrections and reforming thereupon what is amisse Prov. 29.17 Correct thy son and he shall give thee rest yea he shall give delight unto thy soul Heb. 12.9 Furthermore we have had Fathers of our flesh which corrected us and we gave them reverence Shall we not much more be in subjection to the Father of Spirits and live Prov. 13.1 A wise Son heareth his Fathers instruction but a scorner heareth not rebuke 4. In forbearing to do any thing of moment without craving their advice and counsel especially in the businesse of marriage For of all acts of disobedience that of marrying against the consent of Parents is one of the highest For as a late Author well observes Children are so much the goods possessions of their Parents that they cannot without a kind of theft giveaway themselves without the allowance of those that have such a right in them And therefore we see under the Law the Maid that had made any vow was not suffered to perform it without the consent of her Parent Numb 30.5 The right of the Parent was thought of force enough to cancell and make void the Obligation even of a vow and therefore surely it ought to be so much considered by Children as to keep them from making any Contract whereby that right is infringed III. Gratitude and Thankfulnesse which they must expresse 1. In a hearty affectionate acknowledgment of their love and care over them Certainly those Children that duly weigh how their Parents have been the Instruments under God not only of bringing them into the world but of susteining and supporting them after and do further consider the cares and fears that go to the bringing up of a Child will judge that thankfulnesse is but a moderate return for so great benefits 2. In ministring to their necessities of what kind soever whether weakness or sickness of body decayednesse of understanding poverty and lownesse of estate In all these cases the Child is bound according to his ability to relieve and help his Parents and thereby as much as in him lies to recompence their care love and kindness towards him As his Parent bare with him when a child so he must bear with his Parent though froward and twice a Child and though God should raise him in dignity above him yet that must not cancel his Duty towards him nor make him with some base disposition'd and wicked Children ashamed to own him In Gen. 47 12. we find that wealthy Joseph nourished his Father and Brethren in want and the same duty the Apostle enjoyns 1 Tim. 5.4 But if any widow have children or nephews let them learn first to shew Piety at home and to requite their Parents for that is good and acceptable before God And our Saviour himself when he left this world commended his Mother to the care of his Beloved Disciple Joh. 19.26 27. There is one thing more which I may couch under this Head wherein such children as are really good and truly religious themselves may expresse a high degree of Gratitude if the case so be as it sometimes happens that their Parents are as yet unacquainted with or negligent of the great concernments of their souls Now in such a case as this What a high Office of filial Duty is it for a child in a wise and humble manner to insinuate into his Parent such things as may with the blessing of God tend to his everlasting welfare and so be an instrument of his new birth who under God gave him his first birth and being in this world This is a Duty wherein some Children should take themselves more concern'd than usually they do 3. In praying for them The debt Children owe to their Parents is so great that they being not able to satisfie it themselves they ought earnestly to beg of the Lord that he would please to recompence it by multiplying his Graces in them and his blessings both spiritual and temporal upon them and to requite their care and love a thousand fold into their bosoms 4. In covering their infirmities 'T is the Duty and will be the endeavour of good and ingenuous children to cover and conceal the infirmities of their Parents with Shem and Japhet and not with cursed Cham to publish and disclose them Gen. 9.23 How detestable is it for Children to deride and scoffe at the infirmities of their Parents 5. And lastly By imitating their good example Whatever was good vertuous and commendable in their Parents let Children imitate But their vices and miscarriages let them decline and not entail them on their posterity Let them remember what a dismal sound is in those words Jeroboam the son of Nebat who made Israel to sin 2 King 3.3 There are two great Motives to presse Children to a careful observance of these things 1. 'T is right and just and that which should be Eph 6.1 And 't is well pleasing to the Lord Col. 3.20 2. It has a promise of reward Eph. 6.2 3. Honour thy Father and Mother which is the first Commandment with promise that it may be well with thee and that thou maist live long on the earth The words in Exod. 20.12 may be rendred Honour thy Father and thy Mother that they viz. By their prayers may prolong thy daies Parents prayers are great blessings to children And further consider what Solomon saith Prov. 10.27 The fear of the Lord prolongeth daies And Godlinesse hath the promise of this life and that which is to come 1 Tim. 4.8 If God take away some good and dutiful children betimes out of this life they are no losers by it For God is better to them than his promise In stead of a long lease in this life he gives them present possession of a free-hold
But if he shall not hear thee then take with thee one or two more that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established V. 17. And if he shall neglect to hear them tell it unto the Church but if he neglect to hear the Church let him be unto thee as an Heathen man and a Publican CHAP. XVII Of the Duties of the Rich and Poor First Of those that concern the Rich. I Cannot better begin this Chapter than by setting down that strict charge the Apostle directs Timothy to give to rich men in 1 Tim 6.17 18 19. Charge them that are rich in this world He saies not intreat or perswade them but charge them charge it upon their Consciences that they be not high minded nor trust in uncertain riches but in the living God who giveth us richly all things to enjoy V. 18. That they do good that they be rich in good works ready to distribute willing to communicate V. 19. Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come that they may lay hold on eternal life From this and other Scriptures we may gather that the duties that concern the rich are these following I. They ought to look to it and be especially careful that they be really religious and truly Godly They have many great engagements to it God hath dealt bountifully with them The things of this world serve them and flow in unto them When poor people must take pains and work hard to earn their bread before they eat it They have their Tables spread to their hands God hath raised them above many of their Brethren and therefore they ought to honour love and obey him from whose bounty alone they receive all their plenty And as they have greater engagements so they have greater opportunities and advantages to be religious than others have They may spend more time upon their souls than poor people can They have more leisure if they have hearts so to employ it to attend the means of Grace and to work out their salvation They should consider though they are rich in this world yet there is another world that is to be look'd after Though they enjoy the good things of this life yet there is a life to come which must be car'd for Though they are encreas'd with worldly goods yet if they have all their portion here they are most miserable Seeing 't is well with them here on earth their main design should be to secure their state in Grace and their title to Heaven They should above all things be careful to lay hold on eternal life This life they cannot hold nor their riches estates and possessions here They should therefore lay hold on that which they may hold and which will never fail them They should be so wise as to take the right course to be heirs of the Kingdom of Heaven that when they must bid farewell to this life and their estates here they may enter upon that glorious inheritance And yet strange it is to see how this one thing absolutely necessary is neglected by far the greater part of them that are rich in this world In those places where Silver and Gold are found they say there groweth neither grasse nor plant nor other thing that is any thing worth Many rich mens hearts are as barren of true Piety as those countries are of grasse Job speaking of such saies Chap. 21.13 They spend their daies in wealth and in a moment go down to the grave v. 14. Therefore they say unto God depart from us for we desire not the knowledge of thy waies v. 15. What is the Almighty that we should serve him and what profit should we have if we pray unto him 'T is grown almost into a Proverb a little Religion goes far in a rich man or Gentleman How do such persons usually bless themselves in a few formal outward performances of religious duties And if they live not in the grosse defilements and pollutions of the world but are of a fair and civil conversation as to men how easily can they dispense with themselves from engaging in the stricter and more serious parts of Religion Nay those things wherein the life and power of Godlinesse consists are too often matter of their scorn and slighted and neglected by them as more ado than needs And thus it often happens that they that have fulnesse of estate have leannesse of soul as 't is Psal 106.15 And they that are well provided for in this life take no due care to provide for eternity not to lay up for themselves a good foundation against the time to come 1 Tim. 6.19 They that should be examples of Piety and goodnesse to those among whom they live and by their power wealth and greatnesse should countenance and promote the power of Godlinesse prove many times the greatest discouragers of it Solomon observed this as a sore evil under the Sun Eccles 5.13 Riches kept for the owners thereof to their hurt And not only for their hurt but the hurt of many others round about them Many could never have been such great sinners and dishonourers of God if they had not had so great estates II. They ought to be exceeding thankful unto God The more God hath bestowed upon them the greater is their debt of thankfulnesse and the greater is their duty of obedience If the Lord hath lifted them up if he hath shined upon their Tabernacle and given them power to get wealth as 't is Deut. 8.28 Let them not sacrifice to their own net to their own wit or wisdom their own labour or industry but thankfully acknowledge his favour whose blessing maketh rich Prov. 10.23 Let them consider Promotion cometh neither from the East nor from the West nor from the South but from above Psal 75.6 7. 'T is reported of one of the Kings of France that he was wont to say that many thousands no doubt were born on the same day he was yet not one of them born to be a King but himself which he noted as a free favour of Divine Providence to him in that he was born to the Honour and Happinesse of a Kingdom when at the same time many others were born to mean conditions some possibly to beggery and want 'T is God alone that sets up one and puls down another He gives power riches and estate to one man and sets another in a mean condition And therefore those whom he is pleased to blesse with a rightful possession of riches should be exceeding thankful and constantly remember who hath made them in this to differ from others Gods impost on all his blessings is thankfulnesse If we neglect to pay this impost the commodity is forfeit God can quickly blow upon and blast all our blessings if we be unthankful as 't is Mal. 2.2 If ye will not hear and if ye will not lay it to heart to give Glory unto my Name saith the Lord of
drink nor yet for your body what ye shall put on is not the life more than meat and the body than raiment V. 26. Behold the fowls of the air for they sow not neither do they reap nor gather into barns yet your Heavenly Father feedeth them Are ye not much better than they V. 27. Which of you by taking thought can add one Cubit unto his stature V. 28. And why take ye thought for raiment consider the Lilies of the field how they grow they toyl not neither do they spin V. 29. And yet I say unto you that even Solomon in all his Glory was not arrayed like one of these V. 30. Wherefore if God so cloath the grasse of the field which to day is and to morrow is cast into the Oven shall he not much more cloath you Oh ye of little Faith V 31. Therefore take no thought saying What shall we eat Or what shall we drink Or wherewithall shall we be cloathed V. 33. But seek ye first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you V. 34. Take therefore no thought for the morrow for the morrow shall take thought for the things of it self sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof See more Scriptures to this purpose pag. 215. CHAP. XVIII Of the Duties of the Young and Old First Of those that concern the younger sort ALL young persons should consider that it is their duty and high concernment to endeavour to be really good and truly religious betimes In order hereunto I shall 1. Lay down some Reasons and Arguments to presse them to it 2. Answer such Objections and labour to remove such prejudices as are conceiv'd against it 3. Give some Directions to them who are willing to be advis'd herein There are many weighty Reasons and Arguments to perswade them to it I. God now invites them to it Eccles 12.1 Remember now thy Creatour in the daies of thy youth c. And let them consider 1. God hath no need of them but they have need of him and cannot possibly be happy without him 2. He is willing to be reconcil'd to them if they will turn to him though for their sins he might justly destroy them 3. He offers them better terms and conditions if they will serve him then they can possibly have any where else either in the service of sin or Satan Rom. 6.21 What fruit had ye then in those things whereof ye are now ashamed for the end of those things is death The two genuine and natural fruits of sin are shame and death Is it not then an intollerable indignity and affront put upon the great God of Heaven and Earth for any to refuse to serve him who offers them so fair terms and to continue in the Devils slavery who they know intends the ruine both of their souls and bodies II. Delaies are exceeding dangerous 1. Life is uncertain Prov. 27.1 Boast not thy self of to morrow for thou knowest not what a day may bring forth Young men may reckon upon years when possibly they have not moneths to live Consider how quick God is with some cutting them off in their sins Time is precious Redeem it for on this moment depends Eternity 2. Grace is uncertain 'T is not in mans power to have Grace when he will The Spirit of God will not alwaies strive with the children of men To day and while it is call'd to day hear his voice Psal 95.7 And harden not your hearts Gather the Manna while it fals come in while the door of Grace stands open Take heed of being like Esau coming too late for a blessing 3. The longer thou delayest the more unfit unable and indisposed thou wilt be to return Now thy parts are fresh and thy affections vigorous If thou wilt enter thy self into the School of Christ now what a great deal of knowledge and Grace and spiritual experience maist thou attain unto What a good Scholar a good proficient maist thou be But if thou delayest then consider in what a sad condition thou art 1. Sin will be every day more and more hardning thy heart and stupifying thy Conscience and so will make thy return the more difficult Now may be thou hast some tenderness of Conscience Thou wilt quickly lose it if thou refusest to hearken to Gods call 2. The world and the cares of this life will more and more engage and intangle thy Affections If thou givest not thy self to God while young before thou art much engaged in the cares and businesses of this life 't is very hazardous whether the world will not carry away thy heart and whether thou maist not lose thy soul in an eager pursuit of these outward things 3. The Devil will get stronger possession Every soul is either Gods Temple or the Devils house 'T will be hard to cast Satan out where he hath had many years possession The longer any go on in sin the greater power God permits the Devil to have over them 4. The longer thou delayest the more thou provokest God to give thee up to thy own hearts lusts and to leave thee to thy self 'T was a sad word Isa 6.10 Go and make the heart of this people fat and shut their eies lest they see with their eies and hear with their eares and understand with their heart and convert and be healed God may justly refuse to hearken to thee when thou callest for mercy who wouldst not before hearken to the call of his Grace The Spirit of God after many repulses may go away aggrieved God may smite thee with stupidity and senslessenesse that great Spiritual judgment And then what will become of thee And besides dost thou think that any man whose wise should be false to him and run away from him and follow after strangers in her younger time would receive her at last in her old age Why wilt thou think then to deal so with God Upon the whole matter then if thou art not converted and dost really turn to God when young 't is a hundred to one whether ever thou be converted or no. 'T is rarely seen that men habituated and long accustomed to sin do ever change their black skins as the Reverend Mr. Burgess well observes III. Consider whether there be any part of a mans life wherein he may reasonably think he has a liberty to serve the Devil If not why wilt thou not speedily turn to God Why should not thy youth be consecrated unto him As long as thou remainest unconverted and in the state of Nature thou art doing the Devil service And who would serve such a Master IV. Consider There are many great advantages that will come unto thee by turning to God betimes 1. Multitude of sins and sorrows will be hereby prevented Those that get bruises and strains when young feel them when they grow old O what anguish and pain of Conscience have they that have lived long in sin and committed great ones
hear this hath been thy manner from thy youth that thou obeyedst not my voice Prov. 1.24 Because I called and ye refused I have stretched out my hand and no man regarded V. 25. But ye have set at nought all my counsel and would none of my reproof V. 26. I also will laugh at your calamity I will mock when your fear cometh Lev. 19.32 Thou shalt rise up before the hoary head and honour the face of the old man and fear thy God I am the Lord. Isa 3.5 And the people shall be oppressed every one by another and every one by his Neighbour the child shall behave himself proudly against the ancient and the base against the honourable So much of the Duties belonging to Young persons I come now to speak to the Ancient The main and principal care of those that are in years should be to make all strait and even between God and their own soules to secure their state in Grace and their Title to Glory For their Sun is setting their race is almost run Though the younger may die yet the old must die and after death comes judgment Let all ancient persons therefore take these following Particulars into their serious consideration I. The case of all old people that are yet in an unconverted state is very sad and dangerous For 1. This world and the contentments thereof are in a manner done with them The evil daies are come upon them wherein they must needs say they have no pleasure in them 2. Usually they labour under many weaknesses and bodily infirmities If they have not the comfort of a good Conscience to support them and to be the staffe of their age how exceeding miserable must they needs be 3. If they have lived long under the means of Grace and continued unconverted till old age 't is a hundred to one whether they ever be converted or no. 'T is rare to hear of any that have gone on in a long course of carelesseness and security and been habituated and hardned in sin that in their old age have turned to God See the Reasons before mentioned p. 510. 4. If they die in their sins they will receive a greater condemnation The furnace will be hotter for them than for young sinners They have contracted a greater debt The heap of their sins is greater Certainly it will be more tolerable in the day of judgment for Er and Onan who were cut off betimes in their sins than for sinners that are threescore or fourscore years old If the Judge at the Assizes do meet with an old theef or an old cut purse that have had many warnings and still go on in their wickednesse they seldom scape Let all old impenitent sinners think of this How may God say of such Heer 's an old covetous worldly-minded man an old swearer or drunkard an old hater of Godlinesse and slighter of Religion an old ignorant carelesse wretch a neglecter of family-Family-duties one that should have instructed his children and servants and bred them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord but in stead thereof has given them an ill example and done me a great deal of dishonour c. I have forborn him fourty fifty sixty years He has often quenched the good motions of my Spirit my Ambassadors could never prevail with him to leave his sins Now therefore O ye evil Angels this day this week this year require his soul of him and bring him to judgment O how exceeding sad is the case of an old unconverted man or woman II. Nothing is more to be admired at than that ancient people should go on in their sins not minding speedily and seriously to turn to God For 1. The lease of their lives is almost expired And is it not a strange madnesse they should make no provision for another world 2. They have many warnings they must go hence dim eyes feeble legs trembling joynts Eccles 12.3 The Sun and the Light is darkned the keepers of the house tremble the strong men bow themselves the grinders cease c. Their bodily weaknesses warn them they must not ftay long here 3. They have but a little time to watch and the Bridegroom will come and if they get not Oyl into their lamps now they will be for ever shut out III. Though their condition be very sad and dangerous yet it is not desperate if they will yet bestir themselves For let them consider these four things 1. God hath declar'd a greater delight in the conversion of sinners whether young or old than in their destruction and damnation Ezek. 33.11 Say unto them as I live saith the Lord God I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked but that the wicked turn from his way and live turn ye turn ye from your evil waies for why will ye die O House of Israel 2. The promises of God do stand in force and will be made good to repenting returning sinners whether young or old True Repentance is never too late but late repentance is seldom true All sorts of sins are pardonable to reall penitents and true believers 3. There is efficacy and vertue enough in Christs blood to cleanse not only young but old sinners from all their sins 4. Christ is willing to accept old sinners if they will repent and forsake their sins and really turn to him and close with him on his own terms being willing to take him not only for their Saviour but for their Lord and King and to yield up themselves in sincere obedience to him and to be guided and governed by his Grace and holy Spirit Christ did not come to save men by bringing them to Heaven in their ungodlinesse or to Glory in their sins but to destroy their sins that would keep them out of Glory IV. Though ancient people that have gone on in a long course of ignorance carelessness neglect of God and the concernments of their souls should be convinced they are at present in a bad condition in an unconverted state yet it does not thence follow they must needs so continue and utterly and finally despair but they should awaken themselves delay no longer and speedily set themselves to get out of this miserable condition while there is a possibility of escaping the danger of it 'T is no folly to be wise for their souls to be wise for Eternity at last Therefore let them remember now if ever V. They should be exceeding careful they do not deceive themselves with ill grounded hopes of Heaven peesuming it will go well with them in the other world when they have no reall foundation for such a confidence A false ungrounded hope is but a dream of a waking man If a condemned Malefactor should frame a pardon for himself in the prison and think to be saved by that would it not prove a miserable cheat put upon himself Does it not concern every one therefore to consider whether the hope of pardon and forgiveness they pretend unto
seems to have regard principally to that which we call the common Worship of God i. e. the right carriage of our selves for his honour in all the common affairs of our life as well as in the exercises of Religion so far forth as we have any thing to do with him therein The sins against this Commandment are 1. Light irreverent using naming the name of God Deut. 28.58 Not fearing this glorious and fearful Name the Lord thy God 2. Customary swearing and in ordinary communication 3. Swearing falsly or perjury not swearing in truth judgment and righteousnesse Jer. 4.2 when lawfully called thereunto 4. Blaspheming 5. Cursing 6. Charms and Exorcisms 7. Prophane jesting on Scripture 8. Unlawful and unwarrantable vowes 9. Calling on God with our lips when our hearts are far from him The fourth Commandment requires the keeping holy to God such set time as he hath appointed in his Word expresly one whole day in seven to be a Sabbath unto the Lord. The sins against this Commandment are 1. Not preparing for it by taking care so to dispatch and dispose our worldly businesses that we may be more free and fit for the duties of the day 2. Not resting from worldly employments and servile works excepting necessary and charitable offices to men and beasts to our selves or others 3. Neglect of or a carelesse heartlesse performance of the private and publick duties that concern the sanctification of it 4. Being weary of the Sabbath not delighting in it nor the duties of it but wishing it were gone 3. Prophaning the day by Idlenesse vain thoughts worldly discourse making it a day of carnal rest of feasting jollity immoderate eating and drinking visiting a day of sports and recreations which alienate the mind more from God than the ordinary labours of our callings 6. Not taking care that those under our charge do sanctifie the day and keep it holy to the Lord but by our carelessenesse or connivance and ill example encouraging them in the prophanation of it So much of the duties commanded and sins forbidden in the first Table The second Table enjoyns the duties of Charity and Justice towards our Neighbour Against this we sin when we do not love our neighbours with such a true unfeigned love as our selves when we do not so deal with them as we desire they should deal with us The fifth Commandment requires the giving of that honour and performing those duties which belong to every one in their several places and which we mutually owe in our several relations as Inferiours Superiours Equals By Father and Mother are meant not only natural Parents but all Superiours in age and gifts and especially such as by Gods Ordinance are over us in place of authority whether in Family Church or Common-wealth The Sins of Inferiours against Superiours are 1. Not paying them due reverence in heart word and behaviour 2. The envying at contemning of or rebelling against their persons places lawful commands counsels or corrections 3 Not praying for them not imitating their Graces and vertues 4. Cursing mocking and all such scandalous and refractory carriage towards them The sins of Superiours are 1. Neglecting the duties of their respective places 2. Seeking themselves and their own Glory 3. Commanding things unlawful 4. Counselling encouraging or favouring that which is evil and discouraging that which is good 5. Undue correction 6. Dishonouring themselves and lessening their Authority either by too rigorous or too remisse a behaviour The sins of Equals are undervaluing the worth envying the gifts grieving at the advancement or prosperity or esteem one of another and usurping preheminence one over another The sixth Commandment requires all lawfull endeavours to preserve our own life and the life of others The sins against this Commandment are 1. Murder 2. Striking maiming or hurting the body of our neighbour 3. Sinful unadvised anger 4. Hatred envy desire of revenge 5. Railing reviling contumelious speeches quarrelling threatning scorning and provoking 6. Sowing strife and contention among neighbours 7. Drunkennesse surfetting uncleannesse or drawing any to those vices which are sins against the body and may bring diseases and death 8. Inordinate passions worldly grief immoderate carking and caring or whatever else tends to the destruction of the life of man The seventh Commandment requires chastity of body mind affections words and behaviour and the preservation of it in our selves and others It forbideth 1. Lodging or entertaining in our minds unclean thoughts and fancying unclean matters with delight 2. Unclean desires affections and lusts though they come not into act which is the adultery of the heart 3. Wanton looks 4. Not shutting our eares against unclean talk 5. Filthy discourse 6. All unclean acts and sinful pollutions 7. Idlenesse intemperance and pampering the body 8. Wanton immodest attiring 9. Light behaviour and society with light persons 10. Lascivious gestures revellings dancings plaies pictures amorous books songs or whatever else tends to foment the fleshly concupiscence which we ought to labour by all good means to quench and suppresse The eighth Commandment requires the lawful procuring and furthering the wealth and outward estate of our selves and others It forbids 1. Violent taking or withholding from our neighbour what justly belongs unto him 2. Fraudulent dealing false weights and measures over-reaching in contracts 3. Unfaithfulnesse in matters of trust 4. Covetousnesse and inordinate love of money 5. Discontent at our own estates distrust of Gods Providence 6. Not paying what we borrow and what is justly due from us if we be able 7. Exaction extortion oppression and not making restitution of ill gotten goods where there is ability The ninth Commandment requires the maintaining and promoting of truth between man and man and of our own and our neighbours good names especially in witnesse-bearing It forbids 1. Giving false evidence and suborning false witnesse and all forgery 2. Wittingly appearing and pleading for an evil cause outfacing and overbearing the truth 3. Credulity sinister suspitions rash belief a ready listning to tale-bearers receiving and countenancing ill reports that tend to the defaming of others misconstruing intentions words and actions and interpreting doubtful matters in the worst sense 4. Lying speaking untruth of any man a readinesse to speak ill and spread the faults of others when it does no way concern us nor is like to benefit others Slandering raising false rumours backbiting detracting talebearing whispering scoffing reviling rash harsh and partiall censuring and uncharitable judging 5. Speaking too highly or too meanly of our selves or others 6. Undue silence when we ought and may defend the innocency of our neighbour The tenth Commandment requires purity and integrity of thoughts desires and wishes contentment with our own estate and condition and the portion God hath given us and a right charitable well-wishing frame of spirit towards our neighbour and all that is his The sins against this Commandment are 1. Discontent with our own estate 2. Having and harbouring in our minds
also refer this one thing more that at such a serious time no vain idle frothy books should be read to them or by them as is by many used to make them merry but such Treatises as may better them to God-ward and further them in the way to Heaven To meditate and seriously ponder on the four last things treated of in the next Chapter will not be unprofitable for them VII Let them consult with and take the advice of their spiritual guides while they have some strength of body and the right use of their understandings before their Spirits are so spent that there is no conversing with them VIII Let them consider Gods aim and design in sending sicknesse upon them Let them enquire into the meaning of it This Direction is usefull not only for such as are under sicknesse but under any other affliction and consider what God now cals them to let them hearken to the voice of the rod Let them consider what corruptions they are especially to mortifie what sins to leave what duties to perform what Graces to exercise And though they may and ought to use lawful means for the removing of their sicknesse seeking to the Lord for his blessing thereupon yet let them not forget to pray as earnestly to have their sicknesse sanctified as removed Blessed is the man whom thou correctest and teachest Psal 94.12 Afflictions alone are not enough to evidence a man to be blessed and in a happy condition except they prove teaching sanctifyed afflictions Evidences of Grace and the favour of God consist in inward impressions not outward dispensations 'T is not said Blessed is the man whom thou chastenest and deliverest out of trouble but whom thou corectest and teachest When God takes away the disease and does not take away the guilt and dominion of sin does not pardon and sanctifie the sick person 't is not a compleat deliverance but only a reprieval from present execution Bare deliverance is not the blessing thou shouldst desire The blessing of affliction is Divine Instruction Therefore those who are put by God into the School of affliction should seriously apply themselves to learn those lessons which in that School they ought to learn And they are such as these 1. Obediential submission to the will of God We must not dispute our Crosse but take it up Aaron held his peace Lev. 10.3 We may indeed and ought to seek unto the Lord and to use lawful means as I said before for deliverance from a sickness or other affliction but yet with resignation of our selves to his holy will Patience is not a stupidity or insensiblenesse of Gods hand but a calmnesse of mind upon wise and holy grounds And therefore if the sicknesse he sends upon us prove either very long or tedious and painful yet we must take heed of murmuring or repining or charging God foolishly For God is so just he is not to be question'd so good he is not to be suspected and so strong he is not to be resisted Impatience therefore will but augment our pain and encrease our guilt 'T is indeed a hard matter when we are afflicted in patience to possesse our souls But we should consider not so much what we feel as what we deserve Any thing on this side Hell is mercy and will so appear to a truly humbled soul 2. To pray more earnestly and fervently They that were wont before to content themselves with cold short slight sleepy formal devotions will by sanctified afflictions learn to pray better more heartily and fervently and to cry mightily unto God for pardon and Grace for help and relief 3. To be better acquainted with our own hearts Afflâ—ctions sanctified discover the unknown and secret corruptions of the heart Deut. 8.2 The Lord thy God led thee these fourty years in the wilderness to humble thee and to prove thee to know what was in thine heart 4. To understand these three things more clearly and experimentally 1 The evil and danger of sin 2 The emptinesse of the Creature 3. The preciousnesse of Christ and what a high value we ought to set upon his sufferings 5. To mind and esteem the promises of God more Through distractions without in time of health and corruptions within people many times neglect to study the promises of God But in time of sicknesse or other distress there are no cordials like unto them 6. To enquire into and examine our evidences for Heaven not to venture our soules on general ungrounded hopes and sinking foundations 7. To live by Faith Faith takes the soul off from creature-confidences and teaches it to stay it self on God alone The right course to obtain mercies from God is in the way of an humble trust When we see and apprehend our own insufficiency and Gods All-sufficiency and cast our selves on his wisdom power and goodness then he usually affords help and succour to us 8. To prize communion with God more and to be more Heavenly minded In the glaring of prosperity we are too apt to forget God and to content our selves with Creature-enjoyments But in the night of adversity and in sad dispensations Oh how delightful is a beam of his love and favour 9. To be more humble By afflictions God takes down the pride of the heart and makes it humble and soft and pliable to his will 10. To be more thankful for the mercies we enjoy We seldom are sufficiently sensible of the worth of our mercies till God begin to deprive us of them 11. To set a high value and price upon time Sicknesse cries aloud in our eares redeem time O redeem time for praying for meditating for clearing our evidences for Heaven c. How many are there who when their time is almost done have their great work then to begin O in what a sad condition are they These and such like lessons should be learned in the School of affliction But now they whom God shall please to bring forth out of their troubles to deliver from their sicknesse and renew the lease of their lives should be exhorted to these five things 1. Let them consider what they have learned in the School of affliction What the Spirit of God hath taught them If they find they have learned in some measure those lessons before-mentioned then let them study to be thankful Let them consider God hath done more for them thâ—n if he had never brought them into affliction He hath given them deliverance and instruction both He hath turned their water into wine 2. Let them take heed of forgetting the lessons they have learned Let them labour to keep alive the teachings of Gods Spirit upon their hearts Let them study to maintain that sweet gracious humble frame of spiâ—it into which God brought them by their afflictions If they be not exceeding watchful they will quickly find a great deal of difference between their hearts under afflictions and when the affliction is taken off There is much of a Pharaoh-like
move with great agility and nimblenesse We shall not be clogg'd as now but shall be able as the Learned think to move upwards and downwards freely like a bird in the aire 3. Or Lastly Our bodies after the resurrection may be termed spiritual because they will then be more fitted and disposed for spiritual uses for the enjoyments and employments of Grace 4. Our bodies shall be made powerful They are sown in weakness but shall rise in power The power and strength that glorified bodies shall have will be wonderful In this life the eye is dazeled at the brightnesse of the Sun but then it shall be strengthened to behold glorious sights and not be dazeled at them The body shall be enabled and strengthened by God to bear that exceeding and eternal weight of Glory that shall be allotted to it 5. Unto all these glorious perfections and endowments we may add this one more the great priviledge and happiness we shall have to behâ—ld with our bodily eyes our blessed Saviour as man That we shall see our Redeemer with these eyes Job plainly testifies Job 19.25 For I know that my Redeemer liveth and that he shall stand at the later day upon the earth V. 26. And though after my skin worms destroy this body yet in my flesh shall I see God V. 27. Whom I shall see for my self and mine eyes shall behold and not another c. And that this sight will add much to our happinesse we need not doubt The sight of Christ as man is the next object as one saith well to the beatifical Vision Mr Calamy in his Serm at Dr Boltons Funeral For the fulnesse of the God head dwells in him bodily and doth as it were radiate through his body Hence there must needs arise much joy to the beholder both from the eminency of and our interest in this Object Christ in Glory and Christ in Glory ours As much of the Creator as is possibly visible in the Nature of man will be to be seen in Christ As much contentation as the Creature can be made partaker of by the sight of any visible Object will be the portion of the beholders of Christ as he is man See Mr. Nortons orthodox Evangelist So much for the blessedness of the Body II. The Saints in Heaven shall be blessed in their Souls Let us enquire wherein this blessednesse consists 1. The understanding being enlarg'd and widened shall have a right knowledge a clear sight and vision of God Now we see through a glasse darkly 1 Cor. 13.12 but then face to face now we know but in part but then we shall know even as we are known our knowledge of God now is very imperfect but then we shall see him as he is 1 John 3.2 2. The will shall be perfected with absolute and indefective holinesse with exact conformity to the will of God and perfect freedom from all servitude to sin 3. The affections shall be set right by an unalterable regularity There shall be a constant cleaving of heart to God a constant loving of him without satiety or wearinesse Here are many startings aside to the creature but in Heaven there will be an eternal fixed delight and complacency in God 4. The Soul will enjoy a full immediate uninterrupted communion with God and fruition of him Whilst we are here at home in the body we are absent from the Lord saies the Apostle 2 Cor. 5.6 Here our comforts come in by the ministry of Ordinances but there God will be all in all to us immediatly 1 Cor. 15.28 III. The Saints in Heaven shall be blessed in their Company Oh what blessed company is there in the new Jerusalem There is God and Christ and Angels and Saints How will God the Father welcome us Well done good and faithful servants enter into your Masters joy How will our Redeemer welcome us How joyful will he be to receive us who shed his blood to bring us thither How will the Holy Angels welcome us They delight in the good of men When man was created those Morning Stars sung together and those Sons of God shouted for joy Job 38.7 When Christ came to redeem man an Heavenly host of them praysed God Luke 2.13 When man is converted there is joy in Heaven among those blessed Spirits Luke 15.10 How much more rejoycing will there be when we come to be glorified Lastly How will the blessed Saints welcome us Our old acquaintance with whom we have prayed suffered familiarly conversed Memory is not abolished in Heaven as one observes but perfected Mr. Manton in his Sermon at Mrs. Blackwels Funeral Therefore those whom we knew here we shall know again A Minister shall see his Crown and the fruit of his labours 1 Thes 2.19 Those that have been relieved by us shall welcome us into Heaven who therefore are said according to some Interpreters to receive us into everlasting habitations Luke 16.9 Yea we shall know those whom we never saw Why else is it made a part of our priviledge to sit down with Abraham Isaac and Jacob Mat. 8.11 In the transfiguration Peter knew Moses and Elias dead many hundred years before So shall we as 't is more than probable know one another O what blessed company shall we converse with in the City that is above IV. And Lastly The Saints in Heaven shall be blessed in this They shall have the perpetual enjoyment of all this blessednesse secured to them without any fear of ever losing it or being deprived of it The Saints shall never put off their glorious robes after they have once put them on Their state is a sure eternal state of actual delights Though there be several degrees of glory in Heaven yet he that enjoyes the least degree is fully satisfied with what he enjoyes He desires not one degree of Glory above what he possesses What now remaines but that we presse this duty upon our selves frequently to meditate on this coelestial Glory Many great benefits will accrue to us thereby 1. This will abate our thirst after earthly things One houres serious musing on the glory that is above would cause the soul to be as a weaned child to the glory that is here below 2. It will make sufferings light Rom. 8.18 For I reckon saies the Apostle that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the Glory which shall be revealed in us 3. It will make us serious in Duties It will make us pray earnestly hear attentively walk circumspectly Serious thoughts of Heaven will make us shake off lazinesse and sloth and with fervency of Spirit to serve the Lord. 4. It will stirre us up to an earnest desire of that righteousnesse to which such a Glory appertaines and to a careful and constant performance of those commands to which such a reward is so graciously promised Without holinesse no man shall see the Lord. Men do but deceive themselves who think to passe immediatly from a