language heavenly discourse godly conference the sweet breath of their sound hearts in an hypocriticall age the evidence of their hearts fullness of piety thus venting its abundance the expression of their care by the words of the wise to preserve knowledg whilst the evil communication of the prosperous prophane did corrupt good manners They that feared the Lord spak often one unto anthere whence we shall propound to your serious thoughts Doct. this observation or point of Doctrine The success of prophaneness must stir up the truly pious to speak often one to another Or thus Prospering prophaneness doth provoke the godly to frequent câ—nference Many are the exercises of piety enjoyned by the Lord to be duely performed by his people some are personal concerne only a particular soul but others are publick to be used unto the conviction of the wicked confirmatioÌ„ of the godly against all temptations that assault them and these are not only the administrations of word sacraments in and to the Church in general but also admonitions expostulations of particular Saints in more private and particular societies expressing the thoughts of their hearts by the help of the tongue and communicating their gifts and graces to each other by godly religions conference Godly conference and christian confabulation is an absolute duty and apparent act of the Communion of Saints Incumbent on all the members of Jesus Christ and brethren in the faith to be carefully performed by all that pray for and in their places propagate the perfection of the whole body by the supply of every particular Joynt This dutie is not indeed fixed unto time place and order as are some other acts of worship and dueties of religion but to be exercised as occasion calls for it and opportunitie doth enforce it no condition time or season is unsuitable for holy conference when ever good men have occasion of commerce and opportunity of serious communication yet some estates of the Church doth more enforce it and an enquirie of opportunitie to enjoy it then others when the tongues of the wicked do walke proudly through the earth the tongues of the godly must be tuned for Heaven when the prophane glutted with their prospering prouidences do speak pride and blasphemy and that in talking stoutly against God and and openly affirm it It is in vain to serve God it is no profit to walk mournfully before him all the day for that the proud are called happie Then above all times is it a time for them that feare the Lord to speak often one unto another though our words must be always seasoned with grace and our care must ever be to admonish one another yet more especially when assaulted with the temptation of prospering prophanenesse then our ordinary language and our often discourse must be holy conference This hath been the care and carriage of them that feared the Lord in all ages of the world you shall not find the old World filled with pride security and sensuallity but Noah the preacher of Righteousnesse will be speaking of and preparing for the approaching Flood Nor shall you read of the Captivity of Righteous Lot but also of Abrahams consultation with his chatechised servants for his rescue conference with Melchizedeck Israels oppression cannot increase by the pride of prosperous Egypt Gen. 14. but Moses Aron will confer of the mind of God concerning their deliverance and their own duty towards it Exod. 4.14.15 16. Sauls pride and blasphemies passe not without the serious conferences of Jonathan and David Sam. 18.19 Job is no sooner brought into distresse but his friends gather about him to conferre of the things of God though they make false conclusions yet they discoursed right â—eligious premises Ahab succeeds not in his idolatry but we shall finde the Prophet Elijah and Elisha and he and Obadiah in godly conference nor can Jesus Christ be crucified and blasphemed at Jerusalem Luk. 24.13 but his disciples will discourse as they walk to Emmans of the things that befell him nor shall the Roman Emperors in their prosperitie oppresse the Faith and afflict the Romane Christians but the Apostle Paul longs to see them to the end he may imparte unto them some spirituall good that they may be established we shall not read in sacred or Ecclesiastick storie of the successe of prophaneness which did not stir up the holy conference of the godly The fellowship of the Saints is never so visible as in the suffering seasons of the Church Arius prosperity unto persecution made the Orthordox resort one to another with frequencie Marian pride in the successe of Poperie made the Protestant reformers to confer with diligence the things of truth and of salvation the late prelaticall crueltie was the spur of the Puritans Conventicles as in derision their holy conferences were called for in such times as these if ever Communion of Saints is necessary profitable and comfortable for then they That feare the Lord speak often one to another By way of complaint of sin and sorrow the wickednesse of men and darke providences of God that the heart may be affected with both and they may as becomes them mourn for the abominations which abound and the blasphemies which are proudly belched against God his name truth Ordinances and people in this day of prospering prophanenesse and duly pray the diversion of these darke providences which are so dishonourable to God and discouraging to Godlinesse sin must not succeed in the World or sorrow seize on the Saints without their sensible observation and sad but serious expostulation with God and each with others by way of confirmation each of others spirit against the strong influence of so sore temptations we have before noted that the prosperity of the wicked is a very great stumbling stone to the godly at this David spurned and had almost slipt unto the condemning the generation of the iust Psal 7.3.7 and charging vanity on the course of piety On this Peter fell to the denyall of his Lord and Master making him with more then ordinary earnestnesse enquire his affection to him Peter lovest thou me Peter lovest thou me Peter lovest thou me It is strange if Ahabs insolency in his Idolatry make not all even the best of Israell to halt between two opinions and most to fall into flat and open Idolatry when the multitude do evill those few who will not follow them have need to cleave close together if ever the feâ—ble knees must be strengthened it must be when they stumble at the prosperity of prophanenesse If ever the godly will be armed against impiety it must be when it ascends the there and becomes the stirrop of authority and sole principle of preferment and if they will ever speakne couragingly of waiting on God and walking with him in holinesse it must be when most men discouragingly determine God hath forsaken the Earth doth not regarde the righteous It 's in
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It is profitable to excite and animate unto duty holinesse is supernaturall to mans heart and above his reach he must strain and stretch till tired that will work out his own salvation Nay it is contranatarall to corrupt man the naturall man is at an enmity with God He that walks with God walks up hill Roweth against tide and saileth against winde and cannot but be wearied and finde many times their very spirits faile but especially when under the storms of prospering providences to prophanesse and the discouragements of successefull sin the stoutest heart will finde work enough to keep his station and bear up against the weather it is indeed a lively faith that keeps the soul then fixed and hopes from fainting God as sensible of our flagging spirits hath left us Cordiall counsels and promises to encourage us and earnest cautions to quicken our faith Gal. 6.9 1 Thes 3.13 Rev. 2.15 as be not weary of wel doing ye shal reap if ye faint not Having begun in the spirit do not end in the flesh Hold fast that thou hast let no man take thy Crown the like Yet so dull are our hearts so drousie our spirits that the best of Christs Disciples may rejoyce in the compassion of their master which maketh him conclude when he findes them sleeping The spirit indeed is willing but the flesh is weak even the stoutest David is ready to faint with waiting long on the Lord and to slack in holinesse and say as the wicked it is in vain to serve God when he considereth the proud are called happy they who tempt God are delivered but holy conference is an help to our weak and sainting spirits society is serviceable in heavens way They travel chearfully in the Communion of Saints who would be tyred alone Two are better then one saith the preacher they help one the other and they hearten one the other Eccles 4.10.11 If at any time we wax dull in duty and begin to draw heavily in the yoak of Christ the words of the wise are as Goads as nails to spur and quicken us if we grow faint and feeble that our spirits do begin to be drooping and despondent as ointment and perfume Rejoyce the heart So doth the sweetnesse of a mans friend by hearty councell Prov. 27.9 Cold hearts in hard times are warmed and heated by holy conference consider one another to provoke unto love and good works saith the Apostle Heb. 10.20 The Greek word is consider one another into a Taroxisme a violent heat as the fit of an Ague or burning of a Feaver to make each other earnest and vigorous in love and good works for the dullest spirit is sharpened by holy conference as an Edge-tool is sharpned by a whetstone as Iron sharpneth Iron so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend Prov. 27.17 by colloquie debates conference familiar disputes speaking one to another saith Merâ—er and Lavater on the text the heathen do much mention the quickning efficacy of conference Euripides makes it the mother of all arts and Cicero the means of all wisedome and councell the quickner of all diligence heating benummed members with rubbing and what force soever is in conference is the profit of the Saints when the conference is Christianized in the matter and manner of it for thereby we are encouraged in difficulties enlivened in deadnesse enlightned in darknesse as Gregory Nazianzen notes Christians sharpen each others spirits by their conference as Boars sharpen their tushes by rubbing them one against another 3. Holy conference is prositable to establish in the faith and fear of God professed by us faith is the first foundation of grace of the soul al our sanctity nay our very salvation is dependant on our faith holding fast the profession of our faith is the great duty of a Christian of all graces faith is most esteemed by the Lord it is found unto praise and honour and glory at the day of judgment 1 Pet. 1.7 And therefore our Saviour prayeth that our faith fail not Luke 22 32. And faith is most envied by the Devill all his temptations are to overthrow our faith this is the only errand of all the allurements of prospering prophanenesse and the threatâ— that are sounded out by successeful sin if at any time we make shipwrack of faith we loose salvation but holy conference is a means for confirmation making known common perswasion and by a friendly debate removing all scruples and doubts which arise in the soul the only errand of Pauls expedition to Rome was Conference and the only end of that conference the confirmation of the Saints in the faith of Christ I long to see you to the end I may impart to you some spirituall good that your faith may be established Rom. 1.11.12 The Lord Jesus whilest upon earth and before his death did not onely familiarly coÌ„fer with explain to his Disciples the misteries of salvation which he preached to others in parables unto the confirmation of their faith therein but also after his Resurrection he condescended to associate with the two Disciples as they walked to Emmaus Luke 24. and familiarly to conferre of his own sufferings and confirm them in the faith of his Resurrection Thus also he in a friendly manner did conferre with the two Maries and with the Eleven Disciples when they sate at meat and with the other Disciples when fishing So excellent advantagious is holy conference for confirmation in the faith that it is honoured by the exercise of the Authour and Finisher of our faith It is also enjoyned unto all the Saints for the support each of other in dayes of seduction and apostacy from the faith Jude 20. Builde up one another in your most holy faith Saints have the inspection of one another and must endeavour the establishments and edification one of another and there is no way within their capacity whereby they may perform it but holy conference We see then that if the godly have any care of divine direction and delight desire to declare the sincerity of their sanctity dilight in the expulsion of sin excitation one of another to duty and establishment each of other in their most holy faith they must in times of sins successe speak often one to another by prospering prophanesse be provoked to godly conference but I hasten unto the use and application of this doctrine which will be Reproof for the neglect of this duty exhortation unto the discharge thereof The first use I shall make of this doctrine is by way of Reproof seeing prospering prophanesse should provoke holy conference They are justly to be blamed who professing to the fear of God fall short in this duty and speak not one to another of the things of God conference is indeed common among men but it is seldom good Rarely holy most men are unacquainted with the language of Canaan and unskilled in heavenly discourse the most of men seem to
and practiseâ— direct contrary to Scripture precepts and have not they who fear the Lord need to speak often one to another the Colloquies of the ungodly and conferences of the seducers and seduced from the faith do every where abound and shall the men who are sound in the faith zealous for true religion cleaving to the covenant of God with constancy be estranged one to another if ever you had need to strenghen one anothers hands and hearts now is your time there was not more need of Saints frequent conferences in times of Popish persecution and prelaticall restriction then in these dayes of sinfull liberty by shamefull Toleration of all impostors the less restraint is laid on you by the Church or state you should be more watchfull one of another and carefull to kâ—ep each other from the use of your prophanely allowed libertâ— know you that it is a saying beseeming a cursed Cain am I my brothers keeper have we not evills to complain of do not men speak stâ—ut words against God is not all possitive pâ—ety under a pretence of holinesse denied do not men say it is in vain to serve God if you have any sence of Gods honour any zeal for true Râ—ligion any feeling of the foâ—ce oâ— temptation any pity to your weake brethren any faiâ—hfulnesse to your own souls any fear of God be quicknâ—d to holy conference flock together seâ—k opportunities of mutuall Colloquie and having found them see you speak often one to another This duty of holy conference especially in evâ—ll times is in it selfe so evident and so excellent that none do or indeed can deny it I shall not therefore stand to enforce it with motives but referre you to the reasons of the Doctrine before urged which you will find to be quickning considerations thereunto I shall onely present you with some directions unto the right discharge and management of holy conference for it like other good duties doth mâ—ny times miscarry by the râ—sh and unadvised management thereof many I must confesse have been the mismischiefes which have redounded from the private conferences of the Godly especially in this City in so much that although the duty hath been allowed and enforced with thâ— publick authority of the ministry of this City in their jus divinum ministerii Cap 5. pag 78 â—9 90. Yet many par icuâ—ar Paâ—tors to some of their peculiar charge have seen cause in a way prudentiall to discountenance and almost disâ—â—low the conferences of pâ—ivâ—te Christians especially with their fixed circumstances that so the inconveniences accidently thence arising might bee avoided I would gladly divide between the duties and their discommodities I dare not debarre Christian-liberty though I would it mâ—y be wisely enjoyed nor interdict the posi ive duty but wil endeavour to instâ—uct you unto the due management and exercise thereâ—f that the evil and inconveniences thereof may be prevented herein I shâ—l prâ—â—eâ—â— yoâ— with some cautions and some directionâ— 1. Some Cautions of evill to bee avoided in holy conferences which must be carefully observed by â—uâ—h as will speak one unto another to edification not destruction and they are these viz. Caution 1 Separate not from the Church sleight not publique assemblies whilst in zeal you frequâ—nt private conferences it is a sin to be noted to our shame â—hat conferences of private Christians have given occasion to schisme and sinfull separation from publick assemblies justifying our late prelacy in their violent resistance of the private conventions of Christians as Conventicles opposite and destructive to Church assemblies we cannot on serious observation but see that the sinfull Schisme of Independency and shamefull separation of the Congregationallists was founded in and nourâ—shed by the fixed conferences of private Christians and how many are there at this day who leave the publick assemblies break from the Communion of the Church disown publick Ordinances and despise them only creep into private houses and spend thâ—ir Sabbath in Colloquiâ—s if not quaking soliloquies mutual discoursâ—s of the things of God and so not only withdraw from but set themselves against the Church and the publick assemblies of Gods people now although private conference is a duty yet the improvement of it to the neglect much more the contempt of the Church and publick assemblies is an horrid impiety This prophane fruit is not the naturall result of conference but is enforced fâ—om it by the câ—rruption of prophane hearts cloathed with the pretense of piety and drawing wicked conclusions from just premises the loose heart â—hinks private exercises to be sufficient and so makes them jostle with publick acts of Religion and the proud heart not enduring the subjection of disciples to be taught with authority in the name of Christ thinks it is better to abide in privâ—te Conference where he may play the part of a Teacher and proudly acts his supposed gifts and abilities for instruction or mans curious brain is so busily captious that it cannot be confined at any time to positive and convincing assertions of truth but must be conversant in that exercise in which he may captiâ—usly propound his criticisms and groundlesse scrupulosities or sceptical objections against plainest principles all which being to much to be allowed in private conferences doth make hearts not awed with divine pâ—escription of method and order of holinesse and not apprehensive of the consistency of publick and private duties nay the priority and preheminency the publick hath of all private means of edification to which the private must give place and not affected with the conscience-binding authority of publique administrations of instruction wherein God him self speaketh above the charitative admonitions of brethren wherein though the thing spoken be good and true yet it is but the advice of men and wants the authority of God to enforce it too much to cry it up and content themselves with it untill the devill taking at mans disposition doth tempt and prevail unto a neglect of publick ordinances a separation from the Church and sinfull withdrawing from the solemn assemblies and shamefull contempt of the publick Ministry prophanely pleading for and blasphemously defending their impiety urging gods words agâ—inst Gods worshâ—p and arguing wee must speak every man to his neighbour and enquire every man of his brother what hath the Lord answered we must teach one another saying know yee the Lord and shall not need any to teach us This forsaking the assemblies and separating â—rom the Church is an evill and inconvenience so dishonourable to Religion and dangerous to the soul and yet so incident unto the holy conferences of the people of God that the holy Ghost hath taken notice of it and bounded the command of private conference with this very caution concerning publick assemblies Heb. 10.24 25. Consider one another to provoke unto love and good works not for saking the assembling of your selves togâ—ther as the manner of some is but exhorting one another in which the duâ—y
oâ— private and personall exhortation is plainly prescribed and duely bounded and the evill incident thereunto carefully cautioned 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 which is not to forsake the publick assemblies clearly expressed in the Greek word which signifieth not onely a coming together in the synagâ—gue or plane of Assembly 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 and that in a concourse or multitude and great number and also in the discretive particle but dâ—fferencing the exhortation one of another from the duties to be attended in the assembling of our selves together and enforceing the caution by a sad instance and observation of an evill custome to be avoided as the manner of some is so that schisme from the Church appeareth to â—â—ve been an old attendant on the conâ—erences of the godly Calvin on this Tâ—xt tels us we may here see that of old Schisme from the Church doth ariâ—e from the contempt thereof in men prâ—ud of their seeming sanctity in muâ—uall exhortation and Pareus doth wâ—ll note that whilest we admonish and exhort one another â—he Apostle doth commend to us Reverentiam Erga ministerium Ecclesâ—ae studium frequentâ—ndi Ecclesiasâ—â—câ—s Caetus Râ—verence and Regâ—rd to the publick ministry and Assemblies And as the holy Ghost doth give us the command of confeâ—ence with the caution of its inconvenience to be prevented by this Aposâ—l so we shall find the same duty eâ—jâ—yned by another Apostle with the suggestion of the self same danger Jude 20. verse But ye beloved Edifie one another in your most holy faith the discretive particle leads us back to something before spoken that is the properties of wicked sects seducing and seduced souls who did separate from the Church and are therefore branded with it These are they who separate sensuall not having the spirit verse 19. And are set as evill examples to be avoided but ye beloved that ye may not separate Edifie one another Holy conference should fit us for and fix us in the Communion of the Church and be our fence against Schisme and sinfull separation So that Christians be conversant in your private conferences but carefull that you grow not by them into contempt of Gods publick Assemblies Vse your domestick soâ—ieties but despise not the Church of God take heed that you never give a parity much less a priority to your Charitative instructions with ministeriall authoritative injunctions to your friendly conventicles as brethren with the congregation of Saints in the Church of God keep not so close in private as to neglâ—ct the publick administrations of God give both their due pay your Tith of Mint Cummin but Omit not the weightier matters of the Law know that your exhorting admonishing speaking one to another is a duety but preaching hearing and the Ordinances of God in the Assemblies of his people are greater duties for these are publick that private these to the Church and whole body that to friends brethren single and particular members these by office and with the authority of Jesus Christ that is performed in Charity at the good will of men These are fixed and positive acts of worship for time place method order that occasionall when where and how we can get opportunity these essâ—ntiall to the being of Religion and salvation of the soul That convenient comfortable quickning advantagious and to the well being of the soul so that there can be no parity between them much lesse may we overthrow the publick and standing worship of God by our friendly and fraternall intercourse those that make holy conference an occasion of contempt of publick Assemblies may edifie fancy but not faith may grow in knowledge but not in grace may make Religion shine with a little splendor but not stand in a storm for they do fasten it with a sinful peg or however Schisme is by the Saints of our age minced and made of no moment it will prove destructive to the Church and damnable to the soul for being divided from the body they have forsaken the head and fall into an impâ—ssibiliâ—y of nourishment how horrid are the prophanesses both doctrinal practical acted by the pretended Saints of our age who have sprung up from their private Conventicles into an open separation from the Church and have improved their desired Toleration to the confusion of the Church increase of all heresie error and oppression of truth and order Take heed that ye exhort one another but forsake not the Assembling of your selves together as the manner of some is Caution 2 But a second caution in the exercise of holy conference is this Set not upon soul Edifying acts which are out of your sphere the Edification of the Church is â—he great end of all Gospell-administrations and friendly admonitions of the brethren and to be pursued with the utmost diligence God haâ—h givâ—n Apostles Prophets Evangelâ—sts Pastors and Teachers unto the Edifying of the Saints He hath appointed every joynt to be duely serviceable by Admonition Reâ—uke and consolation each of other as brethâ—en He hath prescribed many different waves and means unto the accompl shment of this great end and Nehemiah-like studious to have the work of the Temple to go forward hath distributed men into their severall stations and to distinct employments in which each one must attend and nothing doth more hinder the work oâ— God or b ing dishonour to Religon then disorder and stepping out of our own places to employ our hands in what is not to us allotted Publâ—ck ministery and private conference are both appointed and conducible to the Edification of the Church but in their proper places and order The ministers of God may not hinder the people of God from their holy conferences Preâ—atical violence against piou Communion of brethren in praying each with and â—or other and speaking one to another wâ—s no mean pul-back to Re igion nor must privaâ—e conference Encroach upon publick ministry or intermeddle with its administrations Vzzah's upholding of the Ark when Shaken doth but hinder its march towards its Resting place if men sinâ—ully break order and stâ—p out of their places the work of God must be hindered whilst his angry hand doth Reduce them into order again the straining of the priviledge of private Christians unto their presumptuous medling with the work of Gospel-minâ—stry hath made the sun of the Gospell stand still nay go backward among us and so weakened piety that the very sinews thereof are shrunk and irreligion increaseth unto blasphemy and almost Atheisme Let it be your care Christians in your private Conference to keep within compass and manage those things which onely belong to private Christians meddle not with matters that appertain to the ministery though they be edifying to the Church yet they must be extended by men of office consecrated to and invested with authority for such service I would not abridge private Christians of the least of their priviledge nor have them in their conference Go one step beyond their bounds
give me leave therefore to appoint the borders of your holy conference and that you may never hereafter pleade ignorance I will tell you what private Christians in their conferences may do and what uâ—der the pretence of conference private Christians may not meddle withall as they tender the edification of the Church advancement of Religion and salvation of their own souls First then there are seven pâ—si ive and speciall acts of conâ—erâ—â—ce and Communion of Saints which particular Christians and private brethren not onely lawfully may but in duty must discharge each with and towards other and they are briefly these 1. Private Christians may and must pray one for another in the behalf of themselves and the whole Church of God prayer is indeed an act of publick worship to be done in and by the Church whose mouth must be the Ministers of God Joel 2.17 But it is also a private and personall duty to be done by every child of God in secret and in society It is Required that every Christian do it and that believers do pray one for another James 5 16. And it is the promise of the covenant of grace that families and tribes shall every of them pray apart and in the times of the Churches perplexity even private Saints though there were no Ministers among them should go together and pray in Communion and by joynt supplication thus did the men that feared God in our Text and the many who were gathered into the house of Mary the mother of John and were praying in the day of Herods Rage acts â—2 12 Some have been angry at but never durst argue against the practice of Christians in private fasts and prayers no it is their duty and priviledge 2. Private Christians may and must confess their sins one unto another none but Papists will confine confession to a Priest or publick officer sin must indeed be sometimes confessed in and to the Church when she is become the object of offence and scandalized by the miscarriage and so the finner become the subject of her censure but private brethren may not onely confess their sins one unto another as they are the parties offended but as they are brethren and subjects of pity and of compâ—ssion who seeing his brother sin a sin not unto death will pray for him and it shall be forgiven him private brethren must not onely pray against the guilt but power also of each others lust and must not onely pray against sin but be serviceable by other means to the subduing the strength thereof and saving the soul from the error of his way and therefore it is commanded that common Saints do confesse their sin one unto another I presume I need not advise prudence in the choice of those brethren to whom we will commit such secrets 3 Private Christians may and must in their private conferences Check and Rebuke one anothers impieties and miscarriages fraternall correption is a duty beyond all exception commanded of God Thou shalt in any wise Rebuke thy brother and not suffer sin up on him Lev. 19.17 Appointed by Christ if thy brother offend tell him of his faults between thee and him as an hinderance to sin and help in temptation exhort by way of Rebuke one another least ye be hardened through the deceitfulnesse of sin It is the provocation of Repentance balme of a wounded conscience desired by David Let the Righteous smite me it is the Restitution of a Relapsed soul Gal. 6.1 The private mans passage to glory and provision for honour covering a multitude of sins and converting the soul James 5.19.20 The end of mutuall confession is mutuall Reprehension these are the wounds of a friend more faithful then the kisses of an enemy Prov. 27.6 Where let it be Remembred that Reproof is the wound of a friend done in Charity not out of office with pitty and successefull by its truth and justice not with power prevailing by its Authority 4. Private Christians may and must counsell and quicken each others graces And so spur each others duties say come let us return unto the Lord let us joyn our selves to God in an everlasting covenant they must consider observe have an eye unto each others ways and walkings to warm the cold affections and provoke unto love and good works none but the slothfull in duty and slaves to prophanesse can be angry at or argue against the private Rebukes and exhortations of holy conference 5. Private Christians may and must comfort one another in their anguish and affliction sanctity supplanteth no act of society but sets us in a better capacity to perform to Reason much more religion leads friends to visit Job in his afflâ—ctâ—oâ— for to him that is afflicted pity must be shewed by his friend The not speaking consolation was the mistake of Jobs friends in all that long conference they had with him when our friends interr their dead we are directed to comfort each other 1 Thes 5.11 by conferring of the Resurrection of the body the speaking of promises and providences of God so as to prop up a sinking soul to strengthen the feeble hands is the work not onely of publick communion but also of private conference the consolations of God must not be concealed but imparted as occasion requireth unto the good of others 6. Private Christians may and must coÌ„plain of the evil of the times to affect each others hearts with sence of and sorrow for sin or Gods sad providences mens stout words against God must be matter of expostulation to them that fear God Jonathan David must into the field to confer of Sauls wickedness and cruelty Israels abomination must be made mention of among the mourners for it the dâ—eadfull dispensations of God at the death of Christ must be the matter of discourse to the Disciples as they waâ—k to Emmaus every soul must see Gods hand observe Gods providences and make the prosperity of prophaness and escapes impiety the matter of discourse unto his own and other mens discretion to a due demeanor and suitable conversation 7. Private Christians may must confer with each other of the things of faith and salvation none but Papists who lock up the knowledge of the truth from poor souls and the people of God and impose on their faith what the Church doth believe will make it heresie to enquire into and debate of the Articles of the Creed Obadiah may without any sin or disobedience expostulate the injunctions of the Prophets and it shall be a note of Nobility to the Bereans to enquire into the Scriptures to finde the verity of the Apostles doctrine This is no other then the 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 and Christian conference allowed and enforced by the ministers in jus divinum ministerii cap. 5. Pa. 81. of this City Nay and was honoured by our Saviour in joyning in society and debating with the Disciples that went to Emmaus the death and resurrection of himself those
not yet to have been consecrated to this holy function Thus then Christians I have plainly prescribed and let you see what is your priviledge and what will prove your dammage wherein you as private members and particular joynts may duely make a supply unto the edification of the whole body of Christ and wherein you may be dangerously prejudiciall to the Church and destructive to your own souls all holy duties are to be managed with feare but especially those which are occasionall and at humane liberty wherein without vigilancy and great care we shall be transported by Satans temptation and our own corruption whilst we are tickled with a desire to distribute what we have Received and quickened by the sence of duty to communicate gifts and graces by exhortation rebuke â—nd admonitions we are too Ready Rashly to manage it not Regarding the place wherein we stand and the method and order whereby we must be serviceable to the edification of the Church but break all bounds and presume to turn preachers and assume to our selves all ministerial power and authority pressing on all the acts thereof constiâ—uting Churches consecrating things and persons communicating to the Church in the name and stead of Christ casting out of the Church cancelling conscience concluding orders for the Church commending Gods blessing to the Church I would our sinfull age were not a sad comment on the exorbitancies of Religious conference You take it ill if your priviledge be not asserted in its latitude but think much to be confined to your places as you would not have your Ministers discountenaÌ„ce your conferences drive them not into a sinfull extent avoide the evil that your nature gathereth from them for Gods own occasionall institutions are to be Removed for the prevention of a greater evil as was the brazen Serpent to prevent Idolatry Christian liberty must be restrained when it giveth occasion to Schifme Rebellion and Impiety know therefore that the Church will never be edified by your doing acts of edification out of your sphere and without authority keep at an equall distance from acts of prophanenesse and acts of piety not belonging to your places It is all one in divine acceptance to omit and overact a duty not to serve him and not to serve him in our stations for however men deem he is a God and God of order and order the beauty of his holiness must shine more brightly in the Church then in the world Now that I have bounded your liberty in holy conference by fit cautions I shall direct your duty unto the right discharge of it that it may be honourable to religion profitable to the Church and comfortable to your own souls The directions I shall suggest are three Propound unto your selves Right Direct 1 matter whereof to confer each with other all things Revealed and known may be matters of discourse unto men but all discourse befits not Christian men I need not tell you that Rude Ribald language foolish jestings vile calumniations and contrivancies of prophanenesse and wickednesse are Repugnant to and unfit for humane discourse It is a shame the Tongue mans glory should ever be stained with such language how much more is the contrariety thereof to holinesse and Christianity this may be the language of the prospering prophane men which must provoke our speaking one to another by way of complaint that men should be so wicked but must not be once named among you as becometh Saints The affairs of the world and concernments of our temporall and present estate are matter of Colloquie fit for humane society and may in all commerce be lawfully conferred of by Christian souls sanctity doth not make us cease to be men if we will not confer of the things of the world we must go out of the world but but yet these things fall into Christians discourse as men not as Saints and common prudence will guide in the exercise thereof The conference which we have under coÌ„sideration is Godly speciall belonging to Saints stirred up by the stout words of the wicked and successe of sin springing from the fear of God and thoughts of his name therefore the matter propounded to it must be holy and Religious like the language of the vertuous woman your mouths must be opened with wisdome and the law of kindness be upon your tongue Prov. 31.26 So the matter must be generally good even the word of God which must dwell plentifully in us in all wisedome unto teaching and admonishing one another Col. 3 16. Our discourse must be such matter as is savoury seasoned with salt administring grace and edification to the hearers Col. 4.6 No corrupt communication must come out of your mouths but that which is good Eph. 4.29 Good men must like housholders bring out in holy conference things new old but always such as may witnesse them to be Scribes instructed to the Kingdome of Heaven Mat. 13.5 So that in general the â—ind of God word of truth doctrine of the gospell must be propounded as the matter of your conference but more specially propound not to your ordinarie coâ—ference 1. Jewish fables and genealogies or vain jangling notions frivolous matters which minister questions rather then godly edifying in the faith 1 Tim 1.5 fables because frivolous not because false as Calvin â—otes on the text many genealogies and other criticismes are recorded in the Scripture as necessary appendants on the things written which in themselves are not proper matter for conference because unprofitable and the debate of them will be but a laborious loss of time a task not worthy the toil like an Olive or Date stone hard to crack or cleave and affording no kernell when divided holy conference must be employed so that it should not fail of it's end or hinder union and therefore we must see we never make that the matter of it which may genderst rise occasion snarling administer questions but afford no instruction or edification Suetonius tells us that the curious canvasing of the genealogie of Priamus to find out the Pedigree of Aiax and Achilles was ridiculous to all sober men if frivolous things must not be the matter of humane much lesse may they be the matter of Christian debates 2. Conferre not of curious and nice critical cases of concâ—ence Râ—m 14.1 We are required to recâ—ive such as are weak in the faith but not to doubtfull disputations that is criticall debates concerning Christian liberty which indeed stirre up scrupulosity but do not edifie the weak will by scrupulosity of conscience be discouraged in the ways of piety let them not therefore be in your conferences perplexed with such enquiries doubts are soon started and easily raised but not so soon resolved it is sad when soul tormenting scrupulosity becomes the effect of Christian society 3. Conferre not controverted matters of discipline and order in the Chrrch the things of salvation may be enjoyed in the Church where discipline is much wanting and
his Embassadors speaking to the whole Assembly it becomes not private Members to be speaking one to another the Lords day is designed of God himself unto duties of Religion publick domestick and personall and acts of society must be occasionall It is great folly nay grosse prophanenesse to spend the time of Church edification and instruction in private colloquie I would we had not known some good men guilty of it do not many among us get into a private house and employ themselves in holy conference unto the negleâ—â— nay at length the contempt of publick ordinances or must we fix for holy conference the time which is our families that is to say the feason of our particular calling in which we ought to labour unto the subsistance of our selves and family when poor men leave their trades and spend much time in the society of the Saints and holy conference but leave their families in want their affections to holinesse may be commended but their indiscretion is to be blamed no exercise of holinesse which is private and occasionall must hinder our particular callings when God teacheth we need not teach one another and when hardship hinders speciall acts of holy society it is not required at our hands 8. Nor must you manage your conference with more caution in reference to time then to the Place all places are in point of holinesse alike but not so in point of prudence â—he people of God may occasionally conferre in any place and so in the Church as well as an house but when by mutuall consent you make conference a fixed duty you must in prudence avoide the Church for private duties do not become publick places the Church is a place purposely prepared and preserved for publick Assembly and administrations of the Church and therefore bears its name Church as the notation of its nature and by long and uninterrupted custome and practice of all Christian ages and nations all holy exercises in these publick places have the Church for their object and presuppose ministeriall authority for their form avoid therefore these places as you would avoid all enchroachments on the holy function of the ministry and the appearances thereof 3. Nor must we have more care in reference to the time and place then the manner of holy conference let us us not instead of conference make set and formal discourses after the manner of ministeriall instruction I have come into some private societies who have assembled to confer and heard one man preach to the rest rather then conferre with them and I have indeed sadly observed that society to be a nursery of presumption to the ministry I do not say that private Christians are prohibited from inferring doctrines from Scriptures and enforcing them with reasons and application I doubt not but masters may thus do in and to their families and tutors in the university to their pupils each according to their capacity but for private Christians in any fixed friendly society thus to do is in my eye without the least of warrant for they want not only the ministeriall but parentall and magisterial authority which should award such a kind of instruction I do believe the propheticall priveledge of a believer is prescribed and limited to those whom nature hath put in subjection to him and will not nay must not be extended to his Peeres brethren moreover they in so doing destroy the duty to which they pretend for their work should be to conferre by colloquy to communicate each to other their businesse is 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 mutual debate expostulation colloquie each speaking to other answering one another when speak in order proposing their doubts urging their objections imparting their thoughts and so communicating one unto another which is clearly destroyed where one only is the speaker all the rest are hearers should a stranger come into such an assembly and observe that one instruct the others and that withall magisteriall nay ministeriall circumstances could he call this a conference or would he not rather conclude it a preaching to the Church 4. Prudence must direct us unto order in our conference as wel as care in respect of time place and manner confusion is incident to and must be carefully set against by all society when the godly meet to conferre they must be orderly in the matter of their conference laying the foundation before they rear the superstructure acquainting themselves with Rudiments and principles before they enquire into higher matters of faith there are many things in Religion which men whilst weak in or ignorant of principles are not able to bear first conferre of matters essentiall to saith and then go forward debate the duties before the dignities of a believer the high flown Saints of our age can conferre of nothing but their priviledges and high enjoyments of God Christ and the spirit and so nourish pride and fancy but not faith and as you must be orderly in the matter debating what may profit more then what may pleas so also you must be in the manner speaking one unto another and one after another suiting an answer proper for the thing propounded not speaking all at once unto confusion and distraction whatever coms first into your mouth without any care of it's pertinencie to the thing discoursed Having then associated each with other and made your holy conference a dutie in it self occasionall and transient to be fixed manage it withall wisdome in respect of time place manner and order for by the miscarriage of these you do expose your selvs and exercise unto scandall and just censures giving way to the Devill in a little you lay your selves open to temptation conference in the time place and manner of gospell ministry is but a praeludium to the prophane contempt and presumptuous undertaking that holy function give me leave to enforce this direction with a sad example of the sinfull issue of the imprudent management of holy conference which hath fallen within my own time and knowledge which proved the prologue of apostacy from the Church and Covenant of God unto the men that used it In Audly parish in the County of Stafford lived many eminent professors of Religion with whom I have had sweet Communion and taken sweet counsell many times many of them were men of eminent parts unto prayer and conference in which they were very conversant in processe of time they fell under a very weak dul ministrie which gave them occasion to be more frequent in their conference each with other and especially on the Lords day pretending by themselvs to make up the defects of the ministry which was over them untill at length they fixed their conference on one day in the week and sometimes on the Lords day to be held in the publick place or Church and did cal unto it by the tolling of the bell one of them more apt then the rest spake unto the rest of which miscarriage in a private duty
issue result of such an heart out of this abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh 2. The service it selfe doth not more plainly evidence the sincere sanctity of the heart then the principle from which it springs and by which it is enforced and that is the fear of God and thinking upon his name those spurs and preservatives of piety They that feared the Lord spake often one to another and they were the men that thought on Gods holy name The fear of God is the fountain of wisdom that fils their lips with words of understanding serious thoughts of Gods holy name blasphemed stirreth up their sensible discourse all acts of service and observance are not arguments of sincerity the dog is Restrained and a slave made serviceable by the cudgell but fear of a father and zeale for his honour are onely notes of ingenuity and candor because principles of obedience and spurs of duty hypocrites may cry to God in distresse but will not pray alwayes they must fear God who seeing the prosperity of the prophane will not restrain prayer before him men may be full and forward for Gods Religion in fair weather but they must be pricked with his holy fear that can speak of him and for him in a foul and stormy season holy conscience is burdensome to the flesh especially when contrary to the course and countenance of the world and must therefore be forced by the fear of God and thoughts of his holy name when discouragements do abound it must be an I dare not offend my father must open the mouth for God when the times dictate silence to the prudent they must be pricked with an aw of God that speak one unto another they that fear not God will soon tail in their profession and forsake the faith it is only the fear of God can answer the allurements and counter poize the affrightments that arise from prospering prophanenesse when men are stout against God they must fear him that are stout seek to strenghthen one another for God to serve God when men cry it is in vain to serve him must spring from the thoughts of his name so do evidence sincere serving God for nought 3. Sincere grace is not more evident in the service done and principle of holy conference then in its season it is performed then when prophanesse prospers the proud are called happy c. Many receive good seed of Gods word who are offended at tribulation Mat. 15.21 and fall back from their profession they must be sound at heart who will speak of and for God when all men speak against him they mâ—st be Cordiall that seek to confirm themselves and others against the discouragements of prospering prophanesse So that if men will appear sincerely sanctified they must speak one to another and be busied in holy conference in the times of sins success by prospering providence But thirdly Holy conference doth derive Reason 3 much profit and advantage discourse is not more profitable to humane then to Christian society provided it be duly seasoned that of things naturall and civill this of things spirituall and Religious as sincerity is the life of Religion so is society the life of sincerity The Philippians are observed with much profit to holdfellowship in the Gospel from the first day of their conversioÌ„ Phil. 1.5.6 The lips of the Righteous saith Solomon do feed many Prov 10.21 Holy conference is not more comfortable to our selves as the evidence of a sincere heart support of a desponding spirit then profitable unto others by the anticipating and expulsion of sin it is no small fence against corruption or help unto repentance It is appointed of God as a curb to our own hatred and cure of our brothers sin thou shalt in no wise hate thy brother but shalt Rebuke thy brother and not suffer sin upon him Levit. 19.17 Wrath retained in silence works Revenge as in Absalon towards Amnon but expressed in Rebuke it easeth the offended heart and helpeth the offender to Repentance and on this account It is desired of David as a most soveraign ointment Let the Righteous smite me saith he and it shall not hurt me Nay it shall be a kindnesse Let him Reprove me it shall be an excellent oil Psal 141.5 Christian conference is prescribed of God as an antidote to the venome of custome in sin Exhort one another daily whilest it is called to day least any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin Heb. 3.13 Fraternall correption is a skilfull setting of a lapsed soul in joynt 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Gal. 6.1 Restoring the fallen brother with meeknesse private conference is the first corrasive of sin must precede publick censure in the enforcement of a sinners repentance Complaints against sinners are not allowable whilst private conference meets with acceptance and Mat. 18.15.16.17 success nor doth this benefit of holy conference appear more by the prescription then by the probation of it many experiments of its efficacy are left in sacred and Ecclesiastique story David was restrained from acting his self Revenge conceived against Naboth 30.31.35 Sam. 25. by the prudent conference had with Abigail whom and whose advice he blesseth and the private discourse between him and Nathan did a waken his conscience unto repentance for his murther and adultery in which he lay a long time 2. Snm. 12. the woman of Samaria was convinced and converted by the holy and familiar conference of our Lord Jesus John 4. The Iberians were converted by the holy conference of a Captive maid Edesius Frumentius both private Christians by their good discourse brought the Indians to the Christians faith Justin Martir tells us in his 2d. Apology that he came to the Christian faith by the constant patience of the Martyrs and the holy conference of a certain grave old man who met him in the walks of his retirement and Junius professeth of himself that he escaped the snares of Atheisme in which he was entangled by the plain and fervent discourse of an ordinary Country man in Florence and Latimer was recovered from Popery by the private confernce of Bilsney So serviceable is holy conference to conversion of souls that the very reward thereof is promised to it if any man Erre from the faith and one convert him let him know that he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul from death and shall hide a multitude of sin is the encouragement of Christian conference urged by the Apostle James 5.19.20 The wise shall shine as the firmament and they that turn many to Righteousnesse as the starrs for ever and ever is the assurance given by the Angel Dan. 12.2 So that if in times of sore temptation by the successe of sin we are desirous to prevent impiety and Recover any that are fallen under this prospering prophanesse we must be provoked to be frequent and fervent in holy conâ—erence
have set up Davids resolution though on different principles to keep a watch before their lips and to Refraine from good talk in the sight of the wicked for saints when they meet seem strange and unacquainted each with other opportunities of holy intercourse are little looked after and when accidentally offered we meet each with other as men of no Relation and little affection our language carrieth with it no life counsell or comfort or bespeaketh us to be men devoted to the world and drowned in the earth speaking of nothing but worldly affairs Though times are evil sin is advanced and sad affliction on the godly snares and temptations are on the best of men and run them one straits not well knowing what to do every tongue is tipped with blasphemy and discountenanceth piety saying it is in vain to serve God yet we who professe speciall Relation to God and each to other in the Lord keep at distance each from other and walk alone in such evil times and when occasionally we meet make little or no mention of the ways of God Case and Condition of the Church or cause of Religion complaints of evil and confirmations in good are to us strange language and such as either wee know not how through our ignorance or are afraid through our weaknesse to administer each to other we shall not deny but there is a time to speak and there is a time to be silent and the multitude of words many times are the notes of folly therefore he that hath knowledge will spare his words and that a fool stopping his lips may bee judged prudent Prov. 17 27. But must caution in speaking be the barre of holy conference must we flie from the fools babling into prophane mens silence of the things of God can the tongue chuse but speake out of the abundance of the heart will not holy affections boil in our bosoms untill they bubble out in heavenly discourses must not the lips of the wise seed many and if ever be the time of speaking one to another must it not be when the wicked do speak against the godly their holy practises when God is dishonoured Religion degraded and danger of seduction and apostasie from truth and piety very palpable because the proud are called happy c. But you will say this season of sins successe and prospering prophanesse is an evill time in which the Prophet saith the prudent shall keep silence Amos. 5.13 But doth this evil of the times engage an absolute silence though the prudent are prohibited by the Rage and violence of the wicked who hate him that Rebuketh in the gate and abhor him that speaketh uprightly verse 10. Yet the Prophets of God must speak â—â—y a loud and not spare to tell Judah of her sins the fear of the Saw did not silence Isaiahs prophesie nor the terrors of the dungeon tongue-tie Jeremiah nor yet the scourge prison and proud commands no more to speak in the name of Jesus stop the ministry of the gospell but you are not in awe of office and so bound to speak against opposition private Saints we grant may with much prudence be silent when like to be made an offendor for a word but yet not altogether silent neither though you speak not to the wicked may you not speak one to another though not to the conviction of the proud and prophane may you not conferre to the confirmation each of of others when should godly conference more abound then when open checks will not bee endured by the wicked if any thing do drive the people of God to joint complaints and mutuall communication of gifts and graces it must be the times that are thus evill and therefore Christian soules you who shun the society each of other and abide silent in sinfull times abstaining from holy conference as strange or dangerous let me tell you there is sin upon you and you are greatly to be blamed for the neglect of anindispensible duty and failing in the exercise profitable to your selves and honourable to your God and your sin is capable of these sad aggravations 1 You degenerate from your pious progenitors I have before mentioned many examples of the pious who were frequent and fervent in holy conference especially in evill times as amongst others these in our Text who did speake often one to another the Corinthians did abound in speech and wisedom one toward another 1 Cor. 1.5 And the Romans were filled with all knowledge admonishing one another Rom. 15.14 And the Philipians continned in fellowship from the first day of their conversion The Virgin Mary could not contain the good news brought her by the Angell but up she went to thâ— hill Country to conferre of them with her cousen Elizabeth hath not Catechizing been the object of Popish and conference of prelaticall rage in our Nation witnesse the bulla Papalis condemning Catechizing and the late Prelates complaint of and contests against Conventicles how did not the Protestants in Queen Maries dayes confirm one another unto Martyrdome It is storied of Rawlius White a poor fisher man in Cardiffe in Wales that hee not being able to read did by the reading of his little boy and conference with good men in the time of King Edward the sixt gain such knowledge that hee became an instructer of others going to his neighbours and conferring with them hee did prepare himselfe and them for the patient undergoing the bloudy persecution in Queen Maries dayes I need not multiply instances of this nature you that have been observant of the godly wickedly and falsly called Puritans well know the common and commendable course of conference by them used such Communion of Saints eomplaining of sin and Gods sad judgments hath been the event of evil times in England as hath caused this note to be left upon our Nation Angelica gens est optima stens pessima ridens England is best all in black when prospering prophanenesse provoketh holy conference then doth piety most flourish can you call your selves brethren to the Saints and so basely degenerate from their practice 2. You demonstrate your selves dead members in Christ's body and that because your silence in such sinfull sad times doth bespeak you in sensible and unprofitable without any feeling of Gods dishonour and Religious danger or zeal for the Lords glory and the safety of piety I have before told you warm affections must word it and have vent by good expressions It is impossible for an holy heart to bee tongue-tied Davids holy heart and heated passions wil burst the padlock of resolved silence and constrain good conference especially if enforced with the desire of our brethrens profit for such as are slack in holy conference are unprofitable for the souls of men are no way fed but by the lips of the wise or preserved from falling but by the understanding of the prudent though every act of woâ—ship in the Church is an act of Communion with the Church
yet gifts and graces are only communicated to the members thereof in Colloquie Saints stand charged each with other and the joints must supply their places by mutuall conferences administring nourishment to the whole body lively and profitable Christians do in evill times enquire the way to Zion with their faces thitherward saying one to another come and let us joyn our selves unto the Lord in a perpetuall Covenant And in evill times they say every one to his neighbour and every one to his brother what hath the Lord answered and what hath hee spoken they do stand charged with the souls each of other and are therefore bound to exhort rebuke admonish comfort edifie one another And if ever the life of grace must bee manifested by acts communication it must bee in evill times the hour of temptation which commeth on them in a day of generall defection and diligent seduction the Saints must edifie one another in their most holy faith and save one another with feaâ—e pulling them out of the fire if you are will ng to witnesse your selves stupid under Gods heavy judgments sencelesse of Gods glory and the welfare of Religion and livelesse uselesse members in the body you may with due shame stand at distance each from other and smother thoughts of God in your own brests for want of vent by holy conference but consider profession of the tongue is no lesse usefull to salvation then the perswasion of the heart and withholding counsell from the weak in evill times is wickednesse 3. You disgrace Religion and are condemned by the wicked of the World whilst you sinfully suggest that sanctity destroyeth society and maketh the ungodly conclude Religion a solitary condition in which communion is not to be enjoyed whereas indeed holinesse is a bond of union and ground of Communion which whilst it seperates us from the Tabernacles of the wicked seateth us in the Temple of God and doth not more divide us from the society of the prophane then drive us into the CoÌ„munion with the Saints the scope of sanctity is to turn the stream and direct mens thoughts and expressions into an holy channell which not being thus employed makes Religion look like the Ruine of charity and that which barrs all kind of counsell admonition or conference The men of this world are wiser in their generations then the children of the kingdom they are Reduced into no straits but they run together and counsel each other to escape and evade them they agitate no affairs in the world but by good counsell and ordinary conference men that seduce from the truth are diligent and dextrous in their discourses Chatechizing and conference the two great preserva ive of truth and Religion have been exercised as eminent means of seduction whilest neglected by such as should be established by them is it not ashame that the enemies of God should beat us at our own weapon Popery Arianisme Socincanisme Anabaptism and other heresies are propagated hy Catechising and conference whilest these edifying exercises are omitted and slighted by the professors of truth in the affairs of this world we are common in Counsels and mutuall Colloquies but mindlesse of the great concernments of salvation Let it therefore be our shame that we are so slack unto acts of Communion and so carelesse of this eminent means of confirmation and the rather for that the successe of sin should stir us up unto the frequent discharge thereof Lay your hands on your hearts and blush who are professors of the same faith and worshippers of the same God pretenders to the same covenant and priviledges and yet such strangers unto each other and so much unacquainted that you speak not unto the comfort confirmation one of another Repent your sinfull neglect of these sociable soul-edifying acts of conference or renounce your relation to the Saints who have gone before you of whose spirit you do not partake Nay renounce your relation to God and his people of and to whom you speak so little that you seem insensible of their estate and unprofitable to their souls The 2. Use that I shall make of this doctrine is of exhortation to stir up the godly to be frequent in holy conference to get together and speak often one to another This is the duty incumbent on you that fear the Lord and cannot but be discharged by you whose hearts are full of thoughts of Gods holy name if you are indeed in union maintain the Communion of Saints and whilst you sit joyntly under the same ministrations of grace fail not in your places and capacities to minister one to another Consider Christian brethren Scripture as well as nature doth teach us it is not good to be alone we are not born for our selves we are members one of another we must seek every man the good of his neighbour the things of others not our own things solitude is not more burdensome and dangerous to nature then to grace nor more unsuitable to man then to a Christian much hurt have the godly received by solitarinesse when David exilde from Israel did walk alone in the land of the Philistins he fell into diffidence and despondency and blasphemous conceits that God had forgotten to be gracious he had in vain washed his hands and cleansed his heart in innocency and when Peter wandered alone in the high Priests hall he was overcome with the temptation to deny his master Profit of holy conference is ever great but most in evil times by it we are established in holinesse kept from falling Restored when fallen strengthened in the day of temptation quickened when dead and dull in duty It is the very veins of the Church by which every joynt supplieth its place unto the edification of the body there is not more profit then priviledge in holy conference It is the Communion of Saints and fellowship of the Gospel the comunication of the gifts and graces of Gods holy spirits it gives counsell in doubts and straits comfort in despondencies and sorrows It is the vent of grief easeth our hearts of the burden of sad apprehensions by friendly coÌ„plaints it is the expression of zeal which would burn he uphold of the heart by the Common consent of good men and mutuall counsell each of other how is it then Christian souls that you are so much unacquainted and unaccustomed to holy conference for shame content not our selves to hear the word preached but conserre of what you have heard live not in the Church but in your places communicate each to others as lively members of the Church are not the times evill in which we live do not the proud prosper are not they who work wickednesse set up and see we not men that tempt God delivered are not truth blasphemed ordinances trampled on sincere sanctity slighted vilified and contemned is not perfidy perjury violation oâ— solemn oaths and covenants the way to preferment do not men court us by providences into wayes pinciples
neglected matters of order tend to the beauty but not the being of the Church articles of faith and acts of holinesse may be followed by men that are ignorant of the debates of Church order disputes of circumstances becomes many times the destruction of the power of godliness it is noted of eminent Mr. Dod that he never loved to meddle with the coÌ„troversies of the times because they dulled his affections to holinesse if in any thing â—oÌ„mon Christian should be concluded by Church officers it is in matters of discipline order 4. Confer not the experiences of Saints manner of Gods work on the heart and conscience because these are meerly personall may prove prejudiciall unto others conviction and consolation is the common condition of all believers but the modus and gradus operandi measure and manner of it is different ordinarily disposed by the temper and disposition of the subject and cannot be a Rule unto others the easiness of Davids must not be the measure of Manasseh his conviction nor must the thundring conviction and conversion of Saul be the square thereof unto Peter experiences of this nature administer no edification but many times engender in some despondencies and in other presumptions leave we therefore a wise God to work his own work in his own way let us make the work it self object of our observation and discourse not much making known the manner and measure thereof These things I advice be not propounded as the matter of your conference because repugnant to its end but instead hereof confer 1. Prophane practices of the wicked with which your hearts are to be affected and that out of zeal to Gods holy name hereby dishonored and piety to immortall souls hereby endangered and compassion to them who by their prosperity in the course of impiety do become a stumbling block temptation and evill example to others multiplying to themselvs the wrath of God unto which they are by their present successe prepared This is more then probable to have been the matter of which the men in our Text did speak one to another we may not alwaies speak to the conviction of the wicked yet we may and must speak to the confirmation of our selves against the temptation of their prospering prophanesse and successefull sin 2. Principles of which are ploin and obvious to every serious Christian studious of Scriptuee and are essentiall to the vâ—ry being of a believer and indispensably necessary to salaation These are the foundations of the oracles of God by which we are conâ—â—ituted Christians and capable of being edified ignorance and inconstâ—ncy in the principles of faith fits us for all heresie and seduction from the truth the matter of Christ his conference with his Disciples in the coasts of Philippi as is evident by his Whom say men that I am and whom say ye that I am Mat. 16.13.16 Was the verity of the Messias who was to be believed and the matter of his conference with the Disciples that walked to Emmaus was his death and Resurrection those great Articles of faith and Pauls Errand to Rome was by conference to establish the Saints in the faith Rom. 1.11 The common work of the Communion of Saints is to edifie one another in their most holy faith and therefore the principles thereof is the proper matter of their conference 3. Practises of piety which are to be performed unto these being to the gracious soul supernaturall and and above his reach beyond his naturall strength nay contra naturall unto which their flesh bears an enmity they cannot but be weak and dull apt to be wearied especially when under affliction and all worldly discouragements men speaking common course of providence seeming to confirm their language that it is in vain to serve God therefore we must consider one another to provoke unto love and good work so long as the willing spirit is Retarded with the weaknesse of the flesh the words of the wise must be as nails and as goads 4. Promises of Grace which must be the props of the soul the uphold of hope under the prospering providences that do attend the prophane and afflictions which are incident to the Righteous whilst the vision is delayed the just must live by faith and by discoursing of Gods promises and properties establish their expectation of a discrimnating deliverance out of all their sorrows though at the present the proud are called happy c. If these and things of the like nature be made the matter of your conference it will produce its end and prove an ordinance of edification informing your judgements affecting your hearts quickning and establishing the soul in faith and holinesse I have done with the first and shall now passe to the 2. direction unto the right management of conference Direct 2 Right matter propounded proceed unto your conference with due prudence wisdom is the ornament and excellency of every action and must be the especiall property of believers that will put forth in exercises of Religion they must proceed with much prudence and beware of betraying the same into scandall by any acts of in discretion many are the snares which attend holy conference and great are the evils which our corrupt natures do draw from so good an exercise we must therfore be very watchfull to improve it to its end and avoid its evill though accidentall the truely prudent will limit themselves in things lawfull least they Run into things unlawfull It is Austins assertion that he who knoweth not how to deny what is in his liberty will never be able to decline what is forbidden and the truely Godly must avoide the appearance of evill not onely the species but shews the kinds but shadows of sin are to be shunned let therefore your conference be managed with all wisdom in point of time place manner and order 1. The time of conference is occasionall as opportunity is offered for holy conference is not a duty fixed to any speciall season but as divine providence and humane condition doth cast and call us into society we are to speak one unto another as in the time of friendly visit in any affliction familiar intercourse in holy actions or falling into each others company by appointed or unexpected affairs so that the Godly must watch for and catch at the opportunity of exhorting and admonishing comforting one another by holy conference yet we do not deny or deem it unlawfull for the Godly of any vicinity and neighbor hood by mutuall consent to keep fixed seasons wherein to associate and speak one unto another in holy conference onely we advise that the time fixed be our own not Gods or our families our own I say not Gods that is not the Lords day and the season of solemne assemblies and publick worship holy conference I confesse doth well become the Sabbath but the Sabbath cannot well be the fixed season of conference epecially the time of publick exercise when God is by
the Sea for the ransomed of the Lord to passe thorow and the Redeemed of the Lord shall return to Zion with singing and everlasting joy shall be upon their head they shall obtain gladnesse and joy and sorrow and mourning shall flee away Isai 35.9.51.10 11. Can God be mindlesse of his Church bought with his own blood hath he not spared his Son but given him for us Rom. 8. â—2 and shall he not much more spare us all things elâ—e hath he bought us with a price to glorifie him in soul and body and redeemed us to bee unto himselfe a peculiar people zealous of good works and shall he not have speciall respect unto our performancies vocation Lastly the godly are in speciall Relation to God by their vocation they are the chosen from eternity Redeemed with inestimable price yea and the called of the Lord the Elect of God lye sometimes in the estate of darknesse and by nature are no lesse liable to the wrath of God then the worst of men running with others in the same excess of riot Ephes 2.2 3. Titus 3.3 subject to the God of this World and serving divers lusts thus it was with Abraham and thus it was with the â—postles untill the grace of God appeared and called them out of darknesse into his marvellous light Heb. 3.1 but the godly are made partakers of the heavenly calling an estate of honour unto which not many wise not many rich not many noble do attain 1 Cor. 1.26 Vocation is the execution of Election and extention of favour intended from eternity whom God praedestinated them he called Rom. 8.39 Our calling is that which actually entitles us to the priviledges of grace and brings us into con formity to and communion with God engageth us to walk with Gâ—d and assureth that he is our God alsufficient our shield and exceeding great reward we are culled and called to bear up Gods name in the World and therefore must needs be cared for by him above the rest of the world he hath called us and must needs conserve us to his heavenly Kingdome If the cry of the called and chosen of God be of more value then that of the sleighted and rejected of the Lord if the complaints and holy conservation of the Redeemed bee worth regard then the Godly and their holy exercise must needs meet with speciall acceptance this specialtie of relation is the great Reason of the Saints affliction and suffering by the World and shal it not be the reason of their support safety the World hates them because chosen out of the World and shall they not then be kept in the World and from the evill of the World John 17. the the Devill rageth against them because the redeemed of the Lord and shal they not through divine favor shortly bring Satan under their feet their friends forsake and contemne them because the Called of the Lord shall not God then favour and fill them with joy in the light of his countenance So long as the godly stand in this speciall relation by Election Redemption and Vocation they cannot but find speciall acceptance of their service in sinfull times But secondly They are a people specially qualified for God they are not onely Vessells of honour but fitted for the masters use they have not one-divine election Redemption and Calling to enforce Gods affection towards them but singular holy qualities in their own mind and spirit to attract and draw unto themselves the divine favour like good Children are beloved by the Father not onely for that innate Reason because Children but because good they are the subjects of all those qualities which are the objects of divine complacencie they do what God delighteth in they are godly and hath not godlinesse the promise of this life and of that which is to come and they are employed in holy exercises and that is profitable when bodily exercise profiteth not The Text taketh notice of their rare qualifications and they are two they fear God and think upon his name they are both habitually and actually holy the fear of God that spring of prudence and beginning of all wisedome designing matters of highest importance discerning dangerous and difficult oppositions and directing all way and means for the accomplishment of it's great design of favour and Reconciliation That spur of duty that trembleth at Gods Word trampleth on all obstructions and travelleth with constancy and cheerfulnesse in the way of Gods holy Commands That strength against corruption and temptation curbing lusts casting off allurements and couragiously standing against humane fury which can onely kill the body the fear of God which made Abraham leave his Fathers house and follow God he knew not whither Mat. 10.28 which made Joseph faithfull in Potiphars house not daring to commit lewdnesse with his wanton Mistrisse that made Obadiah compassionate toward and carefull to preserve the Prophets of God that kept Job upright in the East and restrained the Idolatry imposed on the three Children and spurred Daniel to be exact in devotion when never so much liable to danger that filled the Martyrs with zeal in adhaerence to truth under hellish torments This fear of the Lord is the qualitie habit and disposition of such as live godly in evill times for indeed others that want this cannot do that the want of divine fear is the very ground of aâ—l impiety and shall not this speciall quality make them acceptable to God the fear of the Lord is to be prized above favour which is deceitful and beauty which is vain Prov. 31.30 And the Lord seeketh such as fear him to serve him and his eyes are on such as fear him his ears are open unto their cry Psal 33.18 And his pity is to them as a Father to his Child Psal 103.13 The fear of the Lord tendeth to life he that hath it shall be satisfied and shall not be visited with evill Prov. 19.23 but if visited he that feareth the Lord shall come out of all evill such is Gods delight in this speciall quality Eccl. 7.18 that though the sinner do evill an hundred times and be delivered yet certainly it shall go well with them that fear the Lord. Eccles 8.12 But they are not onely united unto God by the fear of his namâ— but do also act it unto his honour â— By thinking on his name they have not only this holy habit imprinted on and implanted in their hearts but it is operative and sendeth forth its fruits and effects they that feared the Lord thought â—pon his name and spake often one to another The fear of God fills the Godly man with the thoughts of Gods Name and so fills him with grief and jealousie because of the blasphemy which is belched out against this holy name and the dishonour that is done unto it like ingenious children they are affected with the Fathers disgrace the very zeal of Gods house consumeth them their cry
is what shal become of Gods holy name the thoughts of Gods name fixeth them in faith and filleth them with fervour to cleave close to God and his Covenant under the utmost of opposition The name of the Lord is a strong Tower the Righteous run into it and are safe Prov. 18.10 They trust in the name of the Lord when others trust in Chariots and in horses Psal 20.7 And so by the fear of the Lord they depart from iniquity for let what trouble will befall the godly they deal not falsly in Gods Covenant because they forget not Gods name the dread of Gods name is on the spirit to deterre impiety to drive on duty and quiet the soul in dependance on the same not onely doth the fear of God stir up the thoughts of Gods name but engageth the Godly to speak one to another to be much in complaints and conference each with other their hearts swel with holy thoughts and their tongue give vent unto the fire they can not but speak against fin in defence of God and holinesse when the wicked say it is in vain to serve God c. But of this in the next Reason we see then that the Godly are fitted for divine favour being affected with and afflicted for Gods name in an evill dark and cloudy day and can it choose but engage Gods affections unto them but so much for the first Reason why God hearkens and heareth causeth a book of Remembrance to be written and sheweth speciall respect to holy services in times of prospering prophanesse they are the performances of speciall persons related to and qualified for God for if the tears of a Mother could move an Alexander to oâ—liteate all accusations how much more shal the tears and prayers of the Elect Redeemed Called and them that fear the Lord and think on him Render savouries the services of holinesse They perform speciall service and therefore must needs meet with speciall acceptance holy actions are alwayes good but sometimes they shine with more then common splendor God as well as man hath extraordinary services to put his people upon some speciall acts of sanctity are laid on some hands which are not on others and done at sometimes which are not to be done at others Thus prayer is the work of every day but holy fasting and Religious vows are the extraordinary service of extream affliction and so Christian conference though the very act and du y of the Communion of Saints yet this speaking one unto another in the day when men speak stout words against God and say it is in vain to serve him is speciall and peculiar service It is speciall service unto God in respect of the matter of it to speak one unto another by way of complaint of Gods great dishonour by way of comfort under such sad prospering providences to the most prophane by way of confirmation one of another under so strong temptations to apostacy this is no ordinary work to express such sence of and zeal for God It is not the work of every soul no not of every Saint to instruct many and strengthen the weak hands to speak words that may uphold the falling to strengthen the feeble knees as did Job to preach a sermon pen a Psalm and become a pattern of patience Job 3.3 4. Isa 37. as did David in perplexing times of prospering prophaneness is no ordinary service no this requires strength and measure as well as truth of grace they must be strong in the faith that restore a fallen brother with a spirit of meeknesse To speak one to another is speciall service in respect of the principle that animateth and acteth the same the fear of the Lord that excellent usefull and acceptable grace before spoken of is the primum mobile spring of this motion wheel of this Clock Reason of this zeal for Religion The thoughts of Gods name is the oyl that makes this lamp to burn and the fulnesse of those holy hearts who speak out of their abundance but on these I intend not to insist The specialtie of this service which indeed sets the lustre on it and sends it with strength and holy violence towards Heaven is the season in which it is performed Then they that feared the Lord spake often one to another Pro. 25.11 every thing saith Solomon is beautifull in it's season and a word spoke in season in like apples of gold in pictures of silver It is the season that sets a lustre on these holy exercises they were performed in that juncture of time which eminently called for them Gods attendance to the discharge of them Then they spake often one to another when all men almost spake against them and their God then when the multitude did wickedly and walked stubbornly against God they walk submissively with God then when the prosperity of the wicked made men embrace impiety as the step to honour and stirrup of authority when onely they that tempted Gâ—d were delivered and such as wrought all manner of wickedness were set up they clave close to piety and the practices thereof they patiently wait on God and plead his Cause and provoke one another to courage and constancy then when every tongue was tipped with blasphemie against God and Religion they spake in the defence of both and witnesse it is not in vain to serve God or walk mournfully before him that God is just and gracious and hath regard unto the Righteous so that their then holy exercises were vindications of God and godlinesse convictions of wicked prophane contempts of piety and blasphemies uttered commonly agaist God Confirmations of weak brethren ready to stumble at prospering prophanesse and complaints of zeal and affection to Gods holy name dishonoured so that they run counter to the common cry of the multitude set to do evill and were singular from their neighbours the subjâ—cts of scorn and fury speaking for God and Religion when common policy nay almost Christian wisedome did conclude it an evill time in which the prudent should keep silence For all the fruit to bee expected was opposition and persecution so that this is indeed speciall service To live as lights in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation Phil. 2 1â— holding forth the word of righteousness If God have respect to his Children much more to his Champions he cannot but take it wel to see men best in the worst times Shal he slight them that stand for him against the very pride of prospering prophaneness Shall hee not see to them that make all the world see They can serve God for nought Hath God registred all the holy men that have served him no onely such are made Eminent in sacred and Ecclesiastick story who have done especiall service to God Noah a Preacher of Righteous Lot whose Righteous soul was grieved for the sins of Sodom Job a mirrour of patience under the prond censures of his prosperous friends David a Cham pon
of piety against the pride of Saul Paul whom bonds and imprisonment did attend in every place Origen the pillar of truth against Pagan philosophy Athanasius that hammer of the Arrian Haerisie and Luther that trumpet of the World and monster of men for his opposition of Pope Empire and Devill These and such like are monuments of divine support preservation and favour because patterns of true courage zeal and piety Antipas must not onely have an honourable mention but be made an honour to the Church at Pergamus because Gods faithfull Martyr slain where Satan dwelleth and it shall be the onely note of Renown to the Church her self to dwell where Satans seat is and yet to hold fast Rev 2.13 sinfull compliance shamefull connivance and odious Toleration of false Religions is the blemish whilst zealous constant adhoerence to God and couragious opposition of impostors is the duty only dignity of seven famous the Churches of Asia this is the especiall service enjoyned and expected and when it is done cannot but bee esteemed God loves to see our garments clean and unspotted insoyling and dirty times hee must lend an eare to that one tongue that speaks for him and his truth against common talk and cause a book of Remembrance to bee written for them that repine at the prosperity of prophaneness and read Lectures of patient pursuit of piety when it seemes to be in vain to serve God and make them Jewells in esteem who were soeâ— in efficacie and operation sparkling in adverse time and spare them in the day of his visitation who spare not them selvs nor are spared by others in the hour of temptation It adds no smal Emphasis to prayer when we can appeal to God for thy sake we are killed all the day long and are counted as sheep for the slaughter All this is come upon us yet have we not forgotten thee or dealt falsly in thy covenant But so much for the second Reason The Godly and their holy exercises in evill times do 3d Reason and cannot but meet with speciall acceptance because God is specially engaged to reward them with the pure the Lord cannot but be pure and righteous towards the righteous though he doth not always discover it unto humane sense yet he is so iâ— himself and his peoples faith his love once fixed is never reâ—â—ved but yet it is not ever displayed or discerned It is consistent with the sharpest of chastisements though seldom so conceived In justice wisedom and faithfulness he many times hides his face from his dearest David and giveth the beloved of his soul to the oppressor suffereth proud men to prevail and trample on his truth and people succeed in such horrid impiety as may make the wicked to say God regardeth not the righteous and it is in vain to serve him nay it may stumble the Godly themselves and make them almost slip and say in vain have I washed my hands in innocency and God hath forgotten to be gracious but yet whilst God standeth at this distance from his people and seemeth so much to own and countenance the wicked God is bound to spaek with reverence in unviolable bonds to respect the righteous and openly even in the sight of men to give publick testimony of such special respect Hereunto he is engaged not onely by the common course of piety but by speciall engagements and peculiar obligations which arise partly from himself and partly from his people First God engaged by himself God is under speciall engagements of speciall respect to them that are Godly in evil times and that from himself and they are two the 1. Vindication of his name and properties 2. Verifying his word and promises The first engagement that lyeth on God to shew respect to the godly in times of prospering prophanenesse is the Vindiction of his name and properties So long as the wicked prosper and the godly are oppressed Gods properties are clowded and his name contemned but after returne of the godly the cloud is dispelled and contempt discharged the favour of God is extended to the righteous of out his feare of their enemies For God is jealous of his name and glory and will not suffer the honour thereof to be given to another Gods chastisement of his children is many times checked by the pride of the rod which riseth up against himself whilest it rageth against his people the prosperity of the prophane and perplexitly of the pious puts God on the Vindication of his power and justice holinesse and truth All which are arraigned at the Barre of humane fancy and there condemned some times and that often the wicked charge God with positive impotencie but ever attribute to themselves the acts of his power in their owne prosperiâ—y his people â—fflictions they often say because God was not able to bring them into the Land of which he sware therefore he slew them Numbers 14 16. And what is the Lord that he should deliver out of my hands Is he able to do more then the Gods of Hamath and Arphad and the Gods of Sepharvaim dumbe Idols that had no power saith railing Rabshakeh Isa 36.18 And so tauntingly insult over the faith of the godly with a Where is your God and he trusted in God let him save him if he will have him Christ cannot be crucified but his Divine power must needs be denyed with a now he cannot come down from the Crosse and save himself who would build the temple in three dayes these are the wild conclusions of such as know he had saved himself from their rage untill the appointed time and when they do not positively speak Gods impotency they attribut to themselves the â—ct of his power and crie our hand is high and the Lord hath not done all â—his D ut 32 27. And by the strâ—nâ—th of my h nd have I done it and by my wiâ—d m for I am prudent Isa 10.14 So that there is a necâ—ssiâ—y laid upon God to restraine his wrath towards his provoking children least the enemy behave himself proudly and say my hand hath done it and God must râ—scue Isâ—â—â—ll froâ— Assyria the rod of his anger because The Rod shaketh it self â—gainst him that lifteth it up So that a more pregnant argument cannot â—e urged in praier for Gods appearance then the necessity of making known his power unto the end of the Earth Nor is God more engaged to vindicate his power then his Justice and holinesse how often have the heathen concluded by the prosperity of the prophane that either there is no God or he is not a Righteous God but that he loveth impiety as Dionisius concluded the Gods take delight in Sacriledge but we need not traverse prophane whilst sacred story abâ—unds with such sinfull instances how do the most wicked oppresse the righteous cry God doth not see God hath forgotten it and hideth his face hee will not see nor doth he regard it Psalme