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A37049 A practical exposition of the X. Commandements with a resolution of several momentous questions and cases of conscience. Durham, James, 1622-1658. 1675 (1675) Wing D2822; ESTC R19881 403,531 522

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see that these families where religious Worship is are generally more civil at least than other families where it is not and that the children and servants of such families readily profit most are most countenanced by Gods blessing and are in greatest capacity to get good of the publick Ordinances 6. The Lord loveth to have a distinction betwixt these that serve him and these that serve him not Now as to a family relation what difference is there betwixt a professing Christian fam ●ly where the joynt worship of God is not and a Heathenish family Heathens live and eat and work together and when no more is seen they look very like the one to the other Even as in a Nation where no publick Worship is though private persons privately seek God yet there seemeth to be no publick National difference betwixt that Nation and a Heathen Nation so in the former case a Family-difference will hardly be found if any should inquire of what sort of families these are Add that it will be hard to say that a man should take care of the outward Estate of his family and neglect the spiritual and keep Communion with his family in temporal things and none in spiritual Duties yea doubtless he should be much more in these as being both more necessary and more excellent Having first shewed that this fourth command holdeth forth a family Worship and having secondly confirmed it more largely from other scriptures and grounds of reason it followeth now according to the method proposed that we shew in the third place how particularly the Scripture describeth wherein it doth consist whereby it will further appear to be of God The Scripture describeth it four wayes 1. In general it is called in Abraham and Josua's Case keeping the way of the Lord serving the Lord very comprehensive expressions taking in much and here it 's sanctifying of the Sabbath that is performing of the duties which are to be discharged for the right sanctifying of that day we conceive it to be in short to do these things in a joynt family-way which a Servant of God may and ought to do alone that is to pray read sing Psalms c. or to do in a domestick way what Christians in providence cast together may do as to pray read further one anothers edification by repeating of Sermons spiritual conference instruction exhortation admonition c. for they have their tye of Christianity and this of a family-relation beside which doth not abrogate the former nor derogate from it but doth further corroborate and add more strength to it as to make it more necessary and less elective more frequent and less occasional and to be now by domestick rules authoritatively regular for edification which cannot so be by the simple tye of Christian Communion 2. It speaketh of particular duties wherein they should joyn as 1. Here of sanctifying the Sabbath in all the duties of it adding more to our family-worship that day than other dayes as well as to our secret worship for the Sabbath was to have its double offering 2. Of praying Jer. 10. ult which is necessarily included in that mourning mentioned Zech. 12. a fruit of the poured out spirit of Grace and Supplications so 2 Sam. 6. Davids blessing his family is to be understood of his going before them in prayer to God for a blessing on them not in common as a publick Prophet which he did with the People but as a peculiar duty discharged by him to his family whereof he was head 3. Of Family fasting or setting of time apart in the family extraordinarily for Fasting and Prayer as in Zech. 12. in that solemn mourning and in Esther 4. where it is recorded that she and her Maids who were her family and all the Jews at Shusan who yet could not have in that place a publick fast did go about that duty 4. Of Instruction a most necessary duty to instruct and teach the family the knowledg of God the command goeth expresly on this Deut. 6.7 8 and 11.19 20. where we are commanded to talk of the Law within the house to teach it our Children diligently or as the word is to whet it on them by catechising and to write on the posts of our doors and on the walls of the house for what end I pray Sure for this very end that the house might have the means of knowledg in it and that the knowledg of Gods Law might be taught and learned in it and will any think that the walls should teach and the Master be silent Especially seeing it is for the families behoof that these things were written What if some in the Family could not read Which on several accounts might be then it would follow that they were lost if there were no more nor other teaching then what was by writing on the walls when Abraham commanded his house to keep the way of the Lord and to serve him will any think he did not teach them who he was and how he should be served By proportion other things fit for edification and as Worship to God come in here particularly praise as appeareth by the 30 Psal. intitled a Psalm or Song at the Dedication of Davids house 3. The Scripture speaketh of and holdeth out the duty of the particular members of the family and that in reference to the stations they are in and the relations they sustain and stand under as of Husband and Wife that they live together as the Heirs of the grace of life and so as their prayers may not be hindred of parents that they do not only provide for their children temporal things but that they also bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord and 1 Tim. 3.4 and 12. both children and servants are put in together 4. The Scripture speaketh of ordering of families by a special Family-Discipline and Authority therefore it is called in Abraham commanding or charging his Servants to keep the way of the Lord and 1 Tim. 3. a ruling of their own house well with some resemblance unto ruling in the Church by Ecclesiastical Discipline with which it is some way compared as having a fitness or as being an evidence of fitness for that This Discipline consisteth especially in these three 1. in making good domestick Laws for children and servants in ordering every thing aright that concerneth the promoting of Godliness and edification amongst them and in timing of things rightly so as every duty that is to be done in the family may be done in the beautiful season of it 2. In putt ●ng forth a paternal or parental and masterly authority in carrying on these ends commanding or charging as Abraham did ruling so as children and servants may be kept in subjection it is very insutable and no wayes allowable that Masters should command in their own business and o ●ly intreat in the things of God 3. In exacting an accou ●t of Obedience and censuring Disobedience Job and
and should have an Authority Domestick in it's Regulation For a Master of a Family may Authoritatively command the Members of the Family to Pray keep the Sabbath c. and may suitably Correct for the Neglect of those Duties whereas that other is by Christian Communion and Admonition only Ye will see this Family-Worship clear 1. By considering the Jews Eating of the Passover Where there was 1. Secret Worship no question a-part 2. There was Publick-Worship a Holy Convocation the First Day and the Last But 3. There was peculiarly a Family-Worship or if the Family was little two joyned together for Eating the Passover within the House wherein all the Members of that Family or of those two little Families that were Circumcised were necessarily to be present and to be joyners this is Family-worship 2. By considering Psal. 101. compared with other Scriptures where ye have 1. David mentioning his private carriage and longing for God and walking in a perfect way 2. His publick carriage as a Magistrate in cutting off the wicked from the City of God as ye have 3. Elsewhere his publick-worship as Psal. 122.1 and 2 Sam. 6. 4. his fellowship with all the Godly being a Companion to them that feared God Psal. 119. v. 63. Yet 5thly and lastly Ye have a walk within his House with a perfect heart mentioned there as contradistinct from all which must infer some Religious performances of duties or exercise of worship in his House in reference to that station as well as in private or in publick yea a joynt exercise because it is such an exercise as he performed only at home in his house whereas had it been Praying for them or any thing that other-wise he might have done a-part he needed not goe home to them for performing of it Yet 2 Sam. 6. ver 20. when the Publick Worship is done he goeth home to bless his House which manifestly sheweth a Peculiar Duty performed by him in his Family acording as he resolved in that 101. Psalm 3. It will yet further appear that there is such a thing and some way what it is by considering Zach. 12. from verse 10. to the last where there is First ● Publick Mourning of the Whole Land 2. Of several Families together Families shall mourn then 3. Families a-part 4. Their Wifes a-part and so every Particular Person in secret In which place it i ● clear 1. That there is a Worship of Families besides Publick and Secret VVorship 2. That that VVorship includeth the same Duties jointly performed by the Members of the Family which Persons in secret perform and so Family-VVorship will be a VVorshipping of God beside what is in Publick and Secret in a Dome ●tick and Family-Relation Joyntly Thirdly That this Command requireth such a Family-worship distinct from publick and secret and something to be performed in worshipping of Go ● amongst persons so related which is not required of others may thus be made out 1. The thing called for in this Command is certainly worship yea immediate worship it being a Command of the first Table and such a thing as the sanctifying of the Sabbath 2. This Command taketh in all Domestick-Relations Parents Children Sons and Daughters Masters and Servants Men or VVomen yea and Strangers that may be for the time or on that day sojourning there these are all constituent Members of a Family 3. The thing required of them is not simply rest from labour for 1. That is commanded for the Beasts lest men should be hindered from or interrupted in their holy rest by their waiting on them and none will say we hope that there is no more required as to Children or Servants than as to the Beasts 2. Under the Negative Thou shalt do no work is included the Affirmative Thou shalt san ●tifie that day to the Lord. 3. The same Duty is required of all alike in some respect thou Father and thou Son thou Master and thou Servant and if worship be called for from the Father and Master for the sanctifying of that day so it must be also from the Child and Servant 4. The manner of performing this Worship of sanctifying the Lords day in Holy duties is required not only to be in publick nor only in secret but by the Members of each Family joyntly and a part from other Families For 1. It cannot be understood to require worship only in publick together because 1. there may be in some cases no access to publick worship and yet the Command of sanctifying the Lords day lyeth still on and no doubt by Families 2. Waiting on publick worship is but one piece of sanctifying the Lords day and that but in a part of it therefore there must be some other thing included here 2. It cannot be understood of the Master of the Family his putting the Members of the Family separatly to seek and worship God and of his own going about Holy duties himself a-part For 1. Though that be worship yet is it not worship from persons in such a Relation or Family-worship more than if they were not in such a Relation or of such a Family and though it might be said that such and such persons sanctified the Sabbath yet could it not be said that the Family as such did it even as Families or persons seeking God in secret could not be exonered thereby as to their being in the Congregation nor their serving of God be so accepted as Congregational-service i ● they met not together when they might Just so it is here yea as it lyeth by this Command on a Congregation and a Minister to sanctifie the Lords day and to come together for that end so doth it lye on the Family and Master of it 2. By this Command there is more required than secret o ● solitary sanctifying of the Sabbath even a peculiar sanctification of it within one Family distinct from another I say 1. more than solitary worship because the Lords saying thou without repeating Son Daughter c. had been sufficient to have laid it on all separately for themselves the enumeration therefore of the whole Members of a Family must import some other thing for the former is implyed in all Commands as Thou shalt not kill that is as far as in thee lyeth thou nor thy Son c. There must I say be somthing more understood by the peculiar enumeration pressed in this fourth Command I say 2. Even a peculiar worship because it 's something laid on by this Command which is holden within Gates or doors and neither goeth to the Congregation nor to the persons of other Families at least ordinarily but reacheth the Members of such a Family who are within such a Mans Gates or Doors therefore it must be a distinct Family-worship mainly performed by that Family together 3. The thing required here is not only worship simply but worship as from a Member of such a Family therefore it is not solitary worship for seeking of God and moral duties
made of Davids blessing his House Esther and the Maids of her House and the rest of the Jews in their several Families fasted and prayed We see it spoken of by the Prophets as Jer. 10. ult and Zach. 1 ● 12 and that as a Prophesie of the Converts carriage under the New-Testament We find it also mentioned 1 Timothy 3. v. 4 ● and 5. v. 8. and Titus 1.6 3. Ye will see it thus practised and pressed before the Flood God was honoured and worshipped in Families after it before the Law by Abraham Job and others in their Families under it there was the Observation of it and that by peculiar Ordinances as namely by the Passover yea it is mentioned and that most expresly in the very Law as is said it was kept up under the Captivity and after the return renewed by Z ●chariah especially yea it is also renued in the New-Testament whereby it appeareth to be of very special Observation from all which it is not a little commended to us 4. If we consider the many wayes whereby the Scriptures press this Duty it will be found that there is hardly any Duty more cleared and pressed than it Is pressed 1. By Command 2. By Examples of Godly-men held forth as Paterns for Imitation 3. By Promises made to it and 4. By Blessings conferred on the conscientious practisers of it Gen. 18. D ●ut 11. v. 18.19 20 21. 5. As evidencing sincerity G ●n 18. Joshua 24. 6. As making Folks lyable to the Curse and wrath of God when neglected Jer. 10.25 7. As a fruit of the Spirit and as a Companion of true Repentance Zach. 12 8. As a specially commending and adorning qualification of persons that have it and scandalous where it is wanting and as declaring one unmeet for publick charge Gen. 18. 1 Tim. 3.4 Tit. 1.6 Hence the Argument runneth strong That duty which in Scripture is commanded by many examples commended and by other motives pressed the neglect whereof bringeth guilt and offence upon the persons neglecting is no doubt a necessary Duty but Family-worship is such therefore it is a necessary duty 1. That it is commanded what we have said from this fourth Command may sufficiently make it out yet we further add Deut. 6. v. 7 8. and Deut. 11. v. 18 19. In which two places it is clear that observing of the law is not only to be studied by a Master of a Family himself alone but that the Religious duties of frequent speaking of it diligent teaching of it whetting and pressing of it on his Famaly are to be performed by him yea it is to be written on the posts of his Door to shew that Religion must be in the Family in all that enter into it even as carrying the word on the frontlets betwixt their eyes was to mind them of the peculiar and particular sanctification that was called for from them 2. That it is commended by examples is clear in Abraham's who dealeth both with Children and servants in the Family and that in things concerning the worshipping of God as well as in things concerning his own particular Affairs He Circumcised them and commanded yea charged them to serve the Lord which cannot be supposed to have been done without other duties of worship And in David's 2 Sam. 6.20 Who when he has been at publick-worship goeth home to bless his Family which was certainly to go about some Religious duty with them as he had been doing with the people in the publick in the one he behaved himself as King in the other as a Governour and Head of his own Family in particular and had it been only to pray for them that might have been done elsewhere than at home but it denoteth the changing of publick worship wherein he had blessed the people as a publick man as a Prophet and godly King and had joyned with them v. 18. into Family duties wherein he goeth to concur with them Intimating that a Holy Solemnity should be partly spent in publick and partly in Family-duties without neglect of secret duties beside that in Psal. 30. Psal. ●01 it is clear and appeareth to have been also practised by all that built houses who did Dedicate them and that not without Prayer as is manifest by Davids Dedication of his Psal. 30. as is said Job's example likewise maketh it out Chap. 1. where there are 1 Sacrifices in his Family as well as for his Family 2. He sendeth to sanctifie them who were absent that is to put them in a readiness for joyning with him in that service with those that were at home which he needed not to have done had they been beside or present with him Yea 3. when he cannot do it personally he will do it by another that God may be worshipped by them all some way together 3. I say the neglect of it is sadly threatned as Jer. 10. v. ult Pour out thy fury on the Heathen that know thee not and on the Families which call not on thy name If not-worshipping of God in Families be a Character of a Family appointed to destruction and be threatned with a Curse then prayer-worship in Families is a necessary duty for it 's clear from that place 1. That by calling on Gods Name is meant Gods worship in general and prayer in particular which is a special part of it 2. That by Families are meant particular Societies and Companies whether lesser or greater that want this worship and so are the Objects of that Curse Obj. If it be said that by Families there are meant People and Nations yea comparing this place with Psal 79. v. 6. Heathens that called not on God Ans. 1. That doth confirm the Argument for if Heathens whether Kingdoms or Families be described by this that they call not on God then still it must be a Heathenish Kingdom that has not publick worship a Heathenish person who wanteth ●ecret worship and so a Heathenish Family that wanteth Family-worship 2. The Curse here is not threatned to Families as Families but as such Familes that call not on Gods Name therefore it reacheth them ● for à quatenus ad onine c. So then what-ever profession Families have otherwayes if they want this duty they are thereby laid open to the Curse 3. It is all one upon the matter whether by Families be meant Societies lesser or greater for if it be a fault in Nations to neglect Gods worship and if the neglect thereof bring a Curse on them will it not be a fault in particular Families and bring a Curse on them ● Families cannot be excluded seeing they are expresly named though more be included to wit that the Curse cometh on multitudes of Families or upon Nations made up of Families And we conceive Families to be particularly named 1. To shew that the Curse will reach all Societies lesser as well as greater who have this Character 2. Because Nations are made up of Families and because there is fitness
Piety Acts 7.2 or for their worldly means and outward estate as Joseph was Gen. 45.8 or for their age and the reverence due to them on that account 2 Kings 2.12 in a word any sort of em ●nencie putteth one in that roll of Fathers largely taken though they be not properly such 3. We are called in the first place to look to the duties of this relation as it is domestick such as of a Master over the Servant of a Husband over the Wife c. and then cometh the carriage of one toward another in general and though most properly the duties of Parents mediate or immediate over their Children or Nephews be here pointed at which is most literal yet the former also is included all particulars of that kind being by a figure comprehended under one If it be asked here Why the mo ●her is added Answ. 1. Because although the mother be not so qual ●fied for the rule and government of the Children yet she is no less intituled to their acknowledgment and this parental honour by the labour toil and tenderness of their birth and education and in this as well as in the disposition of the members of the body mentioned 1 Cor. 12. v. 22 23 and 24. the excellent attemperation of Gods wisdom is very conspicuous by ballancing the greater authority of the Father with the greater pains and care of the Mother that the Childrens duty of love honour and gratitude may return to both with a suitable equality 2. She is added to shew that it is not only the most eminent Superiour or Neighbour to whom honour is due but even these who have more weakness and especially the Mother Hence it is that alwayes almost in the Proverbs where duty to the Father is pressed the Mother is also named with him to shew that Children should not think that less respect is due to the Mother than to the Father yea sometimes the Mother is prefixed to the Father as Lev. 19.3 Ye shall fear every man his Mother and his Father which is done to meet with the humour of many who are ready to lessen their duty to their Mother and therefore we are called to it even in her old age Prov. 23.22 and to guard against despising of her then which is too readily and frequently incident Thus doth the Lord provide in his word against our corruption which is ready to take advantage of debording and outbreaking at the weakest part If it be further asked Why all Superiours yea all Neighbours are spoken of as Fathers and Mothers Answ. These reasons are obvious from the scope It is 1. to shew that the duties of this Command are mutual amongst all relations it giveth Superiours their due yet so as that it teacheth them also how to carry toward their Inferiours that is to be Fathers to them and that the relation necessarily implyeth a mutual tye therefore this Command doth not only direct inferiours in their duty towards Superiours but also Superiours in their duty to their Inferiours 2. They get this name to make their subjection to each other and their mutual relations and duties the more sweet and kindly when the subjection is to be given as by a Son to a Father and when it is exacted and expected as by a Father from a Son which consideration should be a kindly motive to all mutual duties and also an inducement to hide infirmities and to construct tenderly of failings And thus the denomination of the natural relation seems to be borrowed to establish and strengthen the positive Relation which of its self is not so binding of the Conscience by Nature's light So much for the Object of this Duty The Duty itself here called for is honour which is also largely to be understood both as it taketh in the inward esteem of others in our heart and also the evidencing of this in outward expressions in our conversation For by this Command it appeareth that there is 1. Some eminencie in every man 2. That every one should observe that and honour it in another What is it then to honour them It is not to complement them and only seemingly to reverence them but it consisteth especially in these 1. In observing and acknowledging what is eminent in any for nature grace station or other accidental things and if there appear no more in a man yet as he beareth any thing of Gods Im ●ge or is a Christian and Member of Christs Church he is thus to be honoured 2. There ought to be an esteem of him and we should really have an honourable account of him and that in some respect beyond our selves in some one thing or other 3. It lyeth much in love and kindly or affectionate reverence as is hinted Rom. 12.10 4. It taketh in obedience according to our stations flowing from a disposition of heart to obey Heb. 13.17 5. It reacheth both to the thought of the heart and to our secret carriage there should not be in our secret chamber any despising or wishing ill to him Eccles. 10.20 6. It comprehendeth a holy fear and awe that should be joyned with it Lev. 19.3 Honour being thus fixed in the heart it is to be expressed 1. In words by respective and reverent speaking and giving answers or making suits Sarah called her Husband Lord 1. Pet. 3.6 2. It is expressed in gestures by bowing rising up keeping silence sometimes before others Job 29. not answering again Tit. 2.9 saluting c. Col. 4.15 3 In deeds by obedience and testifying respect that way which is generally called gratitude therefore obedience to Parents Eph. 6.1 is dravvn from this Command vvhich presseth obedience upon men according to their relations 4. In our means communicating thereof vvhen it is called for so tribute to vvhom tribute is due Rom 13.7 and double honour to the Elders that rule vvell 1 Tim. 5.17 according to the acceptation of honour used in that precept Honour the Lord with thy substance Prov. 3.9 5. In our Prayers for them 2. Tim. 2.1 6. In covering their infirmities Gen. 9.21 22. As the breaches of this Command may be easily gathered hence as being opposite to these so this rule is alvvayes to be carried along in practice that this honour and obedience must be still in the Lord that is there must be a reserving to the Lord his due for God is the supreme F ●ther and all our re ●pect to under-fathers of the flesh is to be subordin ●te to the Father of Spirits Heb. 12 9. so as he may have the first place for vvhose cause vve give reverence to them and so that vvord is still true Acts 4.19 It is better to obey God then man m ●n is only to be obeyed in the Lord Ephes 6 1. And thus refusing to comply vvith unjust comman ●s i ● not d ●●obedience to Parents but high obedience to God the re ●usal being conveyed respectfully and after the due m ●nner Again the branches of this Command
Civil right amongst men so that one man hath right to such a piece of Land another not both these rights a wicked man may have and both Land and such right to it good men may often want in particular cases So that if there were a civil contest betwixt a good man and a wicked for some Land or other such thing the qualifications of the persons would neither make the right of the one better or more valid nor of the other worse or less valid as we may see Lev. 19.15 3. There is a right by grace which sanctifieth the former rights and putteth a man in case not only warrantable before men but also before God to make use of the creatures so th ●t he may see and visit his Tabern ●cle and take the moderate use of any lawful refreshment and not sin Job 5.24 The man hath not only his daily bread but hath it by Gods promise and upon this ground we pray Give us this day our daily bread this right is peculiar to a Believer and godly man which none other posses ● what they will can lay claim unto for godliness and no other thing Hath the promise both of this life and of that which is to come 1 Tim. 4 8. therefore we may upon good ground say that Godliness is great gain If it be yet further asked But what advantage have godly men by these temporal promises Ans. This is not their advantage to be alway abounding in these outward things that is neither so de facto and eventually nor were it meet it should be so but 1. they have a prom ●se of what is needful and useful simply even of temporal things which no wicked man hath they shall Psal. 84. want no good thing yea though lyons suffer hunger Psal. 34.10 yet they that seek the Lord shall not want any good thing 2. They may pray for these things so far as they are needful and may confidently expect them and go to God for them by vertue of that right ere they get them so Matth. 6.11 It is our daily bread by allowance and promised before we get it 3. If a natural man abound he cannot promise himself the continuance of meat till the end of his life no not so much as his dinner to morrow nor life till then but if a Believer live he may expect the continuance of as much food as shall be necessary for him if he have nothing he may confidently promise himself both life and food to morrow if either or both of them be needful more nor a wicked man that hath more wealth health and outward protection can do 4. He may promise himself the blessing and the sanctified use of what he enjoyeth which another cannot 5. He may have peace whether he have or want in the injoyment of creatures or in their scarcity because he he hath a right to them for it is not from want of right to creature comforts that scarcity of them cometh but God like a wise and skilful Physitian keepeth back meat for health where there is abundance in the right and to be given also when needful so that comparing him with a wicked man whether he have or want whether he enjoy more plentifully or be in scarcity he hath still the better of him by far which should make us all love godliness the more which hath so great an advantage as this attending it Thus much in short of the promise annexed to this Command To descend to speak particularly of all the several relations comprehended under it as of Magistrates and Subjects Church-Officers Pastors Guides and Rulers and ordinary Church members Husbands and Wives Parents and Children Masters and Servants c. and of their respective duties would be a large task and draw us forth a great length beyond our design in this undertaking and somewhat to this purpose being already spoken from the third and fourth Chapters of the Epistle to the Colossians which the blest Author was then in his Sabbath afternoon Sermons opening up to the same Congregation that heard him lecture on the Commands and all of them being too many at least more known then alass they are practised though indeed we know no more in Gods account then we singly desire design and endeavour through grace to practise and they all and they only having a good understanding that keep his Commandements John 13.17 Psal. 111.10 and since withal if the generals we have hinted at in the exposition of this Command be well understood seriously pondered and consciensciously in the Lords strength practically improved they will not a little through his blessing contribute for helping us sutably to acquit our selves in the discharge of all the particular duties of these several relations we shall now forbear to be particular and shall only say in the general of these station and relation duties that as if a serious Christian and truly godly man be sought after he is in a special manner to be found in them so when sanctifiedly sutably and seasonably performed they in a special manner adorn the Doctrine of God and keep it from being blasphemed and bear a very real and evident testimony to the truth and reality of Religion in the Professors of it and withal are a notable mean of convincing men and even of winning and gaining them who obey not the Word as may be clearly gathered from Luke 3.10 11 12 13 14. Tit. 2. v. 5. 10. 1 Tim. 5. v. 14. 6. v. 1. 1 Pet. 2 v 13 14 15. 3. v. 1 2. compared together Before we proceed further amongst many Questions that might arise here one word to these two 1. Whether ought a Father to love his Son or a Son to love his Father most Answ. The Son ought to love his Father most as representing most of God and the Father ought to love his Son most as comprehending most of himself such mutual respects may exceed one another on different accounts 2. Quest. Whether is the Father or Magistrate most to be obeyed if they command contrarily Answ. If that which is commanded be a thing belonging to the Magistrates place to command in as where such a one should live what charge or office he should bear in the Common-wealth and such like caeteris paribus the Magistrate is to be obeyed for these things are sought by the Magistrate from him not as a Son but as a member of the Common-wealth whose good principally should be eyed and had respect to but if it be a thing that belongeth to the Father and not to the Magistrate to command in as what Husband or Wife a Child should marry and such like that belongeth to the Father as a Father and so is to be obeyed notwithstanding of the contrary command of the other The scope of this Command being to moderate men in their excessive desires after honour and to direct and regulate them in giving respect to others and in seeking of it to themselves
proved Sinful and against the 10 Command 454 The sin of these first motions held out in many particulars 456 457 How the inordinacy of these motions discovers it self 459 How the sin of these is not sufficiently noticed 460 That men in the state of nature cannot take up the sin of these 462 How Concupiscence in a believer differs from what it is in other men 463 Confidence it in what sense it may be put in the creatur ● without sin 40 Covetousness what it is 412 How a man may endeavour to increase his estate without the guilt of it 413 Some discoveries of Covetousness 425 That in the Apostles times it brought men under Church-censure 426 What coveting is forbidden in the 10 Command 448 The prohibition of covetousness unreasonably divided by Papists into two Commands 449 Covenant every sin against God as our God in Covenant is against the 1 Command as well as sin against God as God 48 49 D DAncing the sin of it 31 375 Dayes None can institute ordinary or fixed dayes for worship throughout the whole beside the Sabbath 297 Giving or receiving gifts on New-years day a sinfull superstitious custome 73 Despair how a breach of the first Commandment 47 48 Devill his injections when our sin when not 451 Dreams see Sleep Drunkeness the sin of it Shewed in divers respects 377 Rules for preventing in sobriety in drinking whereby one may also know when in any measure guilty 382 383 How unbecoming all and whom more especially 385 Whether on may drink excessively to provoke vomiting for health sake 386 Whether drunkeness lessen the guilt of sinnes committed in the time of it 387 Of Tipling and four-hour-singing 388 Of drinking at making of Bargaines 389 Of drinking healths 390 Of drinking at the birth of Children and when visiting women in Child ●bed 392 Of drinking at Light-wakes or dergies 393 Of the multitude of Taverns and Ale houses 194 Duells the unlawfulness of them 343 344 Duties we owe to God by the first Command summed up 28 29 These required in the 2 Command summed up 69 These required in the 3 Command summed 12 ● A summary of the Sabath duties 289 290 Why our duty to Man is as particularly required in the d ●●alogue as our duty to God 309 F FAmily-worship wherein it consists 208 That the Scripture holds this forth is prov'd at length ●09 ●14 215 216 c. Sev ●● r ●●sons proving the necessity of it ●90 2 ●1 That this is required in the 4 Commandment proved various wayes 210 211 212 213 That this duty is four wayes described in Scripture 232 233 The right use and also the abuse of keeping Chaplaines 234 The great advantages of consientious going about family-duties 235 236 Fasting in what sense a part of Gods worship 108 Severall grounds of fasting 109 Twelve ordinary sinnes that goes before fasting 110 Twenty ordinary Sinnes in fasting enumerated 110 111 Thirteen Instances of ordinary failings after fasting 112 Father how to be understood in the first command 313 What Love the Father owes to the Son and what the Son to the Father 333 Whether the Father or the Magistrate should be obeyed when commanding Contrary things ibid. For ●ication the severall sorts of it with its aggravations 356 Frugality what it is Eight Characters of it 424 G GAin when lawful and honest 417 Severall wayes of dishonest gain ennumerated 402 Gods Who make unto themselves other Gods beside the Bond 41 Gluttony how against the 7 command 337 Divers considerations tending to discover when we sin in eating 338 to 382 Divers necessary Rules for regulating our eating and drinking 382 H HAtred of God how a breach of the first command 48 How every sin is interpreted hatred and every sinner a hater of God 118 How corrupting of Gods worship is reckoned hatred of God in a special manner 119 Hair how sinfully abused 364 Honour what mentioned in the 5 Command imports 315 Why Honouring our neighbour is commanded before other duties of the second table 321 Wherein honouring our neighbour consists and what it imports 322 How honour differeth from love ibid. Whether outward expressions of honour be alwayes necessary ibid. What is contrary to this honour we owe to our neighbour 324 325 Whether wicked men may be honoured 326 Whether rich men should be honoured ibid. The place Jam. 2.1 2 explained 327 How the honour we ow to a good man differs from that we ow to others alike in outward respects ibid. Whether we may seek our own honour and how 328 How we should prefer another to our selves 329 Humility required by the 5 Command a threefold Consideration of it How the Pagan moralists were strangers to it The advantages of it In what things its most necessary The opposites of it 334 to 340 I IDleness the sinfulness of it 295 297 Idolatry 7 distinctions of it ●31 Five wayes of more subtil hear ●-idolatry 32 How to discover each of these 33 The ordinary objects of this great idolatry Instanced in 11 particulars 35 36 What be the most subtile Idolls shewed in six particulars 37 A Twofold Idolatry especially forbidden to the Isralites and condemned in them 53 The Idolatry forbidden in the 2 command in six particulars 67 68 Jealousie what it importeth and how attributed to God 113 114 Ignorance of the Law The sad effects of it 2 How a breach of the first Command 43 Several distinctions of it explained 44 45 How it excuseth and how not 45 46 Images of any of the ● Persons in the blessed Trinity proved to be unlawfull 55 Objections answered 56 The Command forbiding Images proved to be distinct from the first 54 What Images may be lawfully made ibid When are Images of creatures abused 57 Images of Heathen Gods as Mars Cupid c. prohibited 58 Impatience how it appears how a breach of the first Command 49 Imprecations whether lawful or not 130 Incest when committed where-in the unnaturalness of it stands 356 K KNowledge of God required in the first Command 28 See ignorance L LAw the excellency and usefulness of it 1 2 How the moral Law obligeth us now 3 4 The distinction of the decalogue as a Law and as a Covenant cleared 6 How the Law was given to Adam in Innocency how to Israel and how to Believers now 15 The extent of the Law shewed in seven respects 14 15 Several wayes of abusing the Law 17 Some directions for right using of it 18 Light-wakes and deriges the sinfulness of them 73 Lots or Lotting defined 147 How the use of them concerns the 3 Command ibid. Several divisions of Lots and which of them are lawful which not 168 169 What is necessary to lawful Lotting 169 170 Cautions for preventing abuse of them ibid. Luxory lots proved unlawful 171 172 173 Some objections answered ibid. Love to God why called the first and great commandment 309 What love may be allowed to the Creature without breach of the 1 Command 40
Whether we ought to Love all men alike 317 In what respects may we make a difference ibid. What are the grounds of a lawfull difference in our Love 318 How love to the Godly differeth from common love to others 319 How we may love wicked men ibid. What self-Love is lawful what not 320 ●ust how early it entred into the world 350 Several degrees of unnatural Lusts 353 See Concupiscence Lye what it is and when is one guilty of it 437 Four sorts of Lyes 438 How many wayes we wrong our neighbour by Lying 439 440 441 Of Lying in Court of Justice how the Judge how the Advocate may be guilty as well as a false witness 444 445 Life the taking away of our own cleared to be forbidden in the 6 Command 342 How many ways one may be guilty of this ibid. How we may sin against the bodily Life of others 343 How against the Life of their souls 344 345 How against their Life of contentment 346 M MArriage how many wayes men sin in Contracting of it 356 How one may sinne against the 7 command even in a Married state 356 357 How on may sin in dissolving of Marriage 358 Mother why mentioned in the first Command 313 Moral all the precepts in the decalogue not moral in the same sense 7 See Sabbath Murther several distinctions of it 347 How its committed in the heart how in words gestures deeds 348 349 How Magistrates may be guilty of it 349 Self-Murder how forbidden 342 See Life N NAme what is meant by the Name of God 121 What it is to take this Name in vain 122 What is necessary to the reverent mentioning of the Name of God 123 Why the taking of this Name in vain is so peremptorily prohibited 124 Eight ordinary wayes of taking the Lords Name in vain 161 How the Name of God is taken in vain in ordinances and duties 162 How to prevent this sin in duties 163 164 How we know when guilty of it 165 166 Why the taking of Gods Name in vaine is so threatened and punished even beyond other sinnes 180 181 How it comes that this sin is so ordinary 182 183 Directions for the prevention of it 184 Neighbour to be honoured and loved 313 How we should love and honour our neighbour 316 See honour and love O OAth five things to be considered in it 126 How one Oath differs from an asseveration 127 That its unlawfull to swear by Angels Saints or other Creatures proved ibid. The difference between promissory and asse ●tory Oaths and between promissory Oaths and Vows shewed 131 A threefold matter of an Oath and a threefold occasion of Swearing 131 132 Of expresse or tacite conditions in all promissory Oaths 133 Whether indefinite Oaths such as these imposed in Colledges in Corporations or such as Souldiers take to their officers be Lawfull ibid. What does not lose the Obligation of promissory Oaths thirteen particulars instanced 136 137 What Oaths are null and of no force 138 Four cases wherein the obligation of a lawfull Oath ceaseth 139 Why wicked men keep their sinful Oaths much more strictly then they doe lawful oaths 140 What an Oath super addeth to a promise ibid. Obedience The difference between obedience to the morall law as it respects the Covenant of grace and as it respects the covenant of works 4 5 See Duties Command Law Omens and observations when sinfull and superstitious 175 176 How superstitious Observations may be made of a Word of Scripture 177 Oppression shewed to be a sort of rapine and against the 8 command 400 Obtestations when lawfull and binding and how we may also sin in them 141 142 P PErjury several sorts of it and several wayes how one may become prejured 134 Whether one that necessitates another to swear when he has a suspicion that that other will for swear himself become Acessory to his perjury 135 See Oath Poligamy how a breach of the seventh Command 255 Poverty how men sinfully bring it upon themselves and so violate the 8 Command 411 Punishment of the iniquities of the Fathers upon the Children threatned in the 2 Command proved to mean spiritual and eternal punishment especially 114 115 Three considerations for clearing how the Lord does thus punish Children for the Parents sin 117 Five ends for which the Lord threatness the Posterity of wickked men 117 118 How children become guilty of the Parents sin and what special need some have to repent of the sins of their ancestors 120 Praising of God required in the ● Command 82 Our ordinary failings before the going about this duty ibid. Many failings in the performances of this duty enumerated 82 83 Our failings after praising 84 Prayer required by the 2 Commandment 79 Many sins before Prayer instanced ibid. Many ordinary sins in Prayer 79 80 Many sins while joyning with others in Prayer enumerated 81 Many ordinary sins after Prayer instanced in 81 82 Preface I am the Lord thy God a preface to all the Commandments but more especially to the first command 25 Pride in what things it appear 339 See Humility Promises why annexed to some Commandments rather then to others 27 Why the first Command is called the first Command with Promise 312 What Comfort the Promise made in the 2 Command to the thousand generations c. affords to believing Parents and their children 119 What is the meaning of the Promise annexed to the 5 Commandment and how to be understood 330 What Advantage a Believer under the New Testament has by such temporal Promises 331 See Vowes R RApine what it is 397 Religion how concerned in the duties we ow to others 310 Riches ten prejudices that come by them 416 Right whether a wicked men has it to any thing here 330 S SAbbath the observation of it a moral duty 188 Three considerations for clearing the morality of it 189 The morality of it proved from the Scriptures way of speaking of it in general 190 The Prophesies Ezekiel 43 44 45 46 ch Considered 192 194 Math 24 20 considered 194 2 Proved that all the 10 Commandments are moral and consequently this 195 This cleared from Mat. 5.19 Jam. 2 10. 796 3 Several peculiar remarks upon the 4 Command confirming the morality of it 119 120 4 Four Arguments drawn from Scripture to prove this 201 202 203 Four Nota ●●e Witnesses to this truth 203 204 Objections answered 205 206 207 Remembring of the Sabbath imports four things 237 238 How to reckon when the Sabbath begins and ends 239 What proportion of it should be bestowed on spiritual duties 239 240 Severall Considerations tending to clear that the 4 command intended not the Seventh but a Seventh day primarily 241 242 Six Arguments for Evincing this 243 to 248 Some objections answered 249 Several Considerations for clearing when the Sabbath begins 249 250 Divers arguments to prove that the Sabbath begins in the morning and continues till next morning 251 to 255 1 That the Sabbath may be
spirit Gal. 5.16 and so praying and praising which this Law calls for is praying and praising in the spirit 1 Cor. 14. v. 14 15 16. 6 A sixth Rule is that beside the duty expressed there is more implyed in the affirmative Commands and beside the sin pitched on there is more forbidden in the negative Precepts even all duties and sins of these kinds in whatsoever degree As for example in the affirmative Commands 1. Where the duty is commanded all the means that may further it are commanded likewise Hence under care to preserve our Brother Levit. 19.17 18. it is commanded that we should reprove him c. 2. Where any thing is commanded as a duty all duties of that kind are commanded as keeping holy the Lords Day is commanded in the fourth Commandment there hearing praying watchfulness all the Week over and all things belonging unto the Worship of God that day such as Tythes that is maintenance for a Ministry calling of fit Ministers building Churches c. are required though they be not all duties of that day 3. Where a duty is required the owning and suitable avowing of that duty is required also and so believing in God and the profession of Faith are required in the same Commandment Rom. 10.10 4. Where the duty of one Relation is required as of Childrens subjection there is required the duty of the other Relation as of Parents yea and also of all under that name Again in negative Precepts observe 1. Where great sins are forbidden all the lesser of that sort are forbidden also as under Adultery Murder and Idolatry all light obscene Whorish words wanton looks unchaste thoughts revenge rash anger worldly affections c. are forbidden and they are comprehended and prohibited under the grossest terms to make them the more detestable odious and dreadful 2. All means that may prevent these sins are commanded and all snares or occasions or incitements to them are prohibited 3. Where any sin is forbidden there the least scandal about it or the least appearance of the guilt of committing it is forbidden also for God will have his people holy and shining in holiness unspotted and without scandal and abst ●ining not only from all evil but from all appearance of it 1 Thess. 5.22 4. We are not only forbidden the committing of such sins our selves delighting in them and inclining to them but accounting light or little of them in others yea we are commanded and ought to mourn for them when committed by them 7 The seventh Rule is whatever duty lies upon others we are commanded in our places to further them in it as Masters are to further their Servants Husbands their Wives one Neighbour another by advice direction incouragement prayer and other helps as in the fourth Commandment is clear where the Servants duty and the Strangers is imposed on the Master and whatever sin is discharged in our selves we are discharged any manner of way to partake in the same with others whether by advice example connivance ministring occasion or by sporting and laughing at it in them for so the Rule is 1 Tim. 5.22 Keep thy self pure partake not of other mens sins Men may be free themselves as to their own personal breaches and yet highly partake of others breaches of the Law 8 The breach of one Commandment virtually breaks all there is such a connexion and linking together of the Commandments that if the Authority of God be slighted in one it is so in all Jam. 2.10 1 John 4.20 9 One thing may in divers respects as an end or means be commanded or forbidden in many yea in all the Commandments as ignorance and drunkenness are because they disable for all duties and dispose to all sins Of this kind is idleness also and so knowledge sobriety watchfulness c. are commanded in all the Commandments for without these men are unfitted and incapacitated for performing any commanded duty 10 The tenth and last Rule is the Law is holy just and good therefore the least motion against it or discontentment with it is sin Rom. 7.12 In sum take these few watch-words concerning the obligation of the Law 1 That it obligeth to all duties and to all sorts of duties publick private to God to others and to our selves and that words actions gestures yea thoughts and the least motions of the heart come under its obligation his Commandment is exceeding broad so that there is nothing so little but it ought to be ruled by this Word and that in all persons of all Ranks whether as to doing or suffering 2 That it obligeth to the right manner of duties as well as to the matter and to every thing that belongeth to duties and thus in its true extent it reacheth to the forbidding of all the sins that are contrary to duties commanded 3 That it obligeth the whole man the outward in deeds words gestures and appearances or shews the inward in the understanding will affections memory conscience and so it requires that the mind will and whole nature be sanctified and conform to all these Commands 5 That it obligeth to obedience in all these always and in the highest degree so that the least disconformity in habit or act is a transgression the obedience it requires is perfect in all these respects that not only there must be no breach of any of these Commands directly much less a continuance in a breach but that also 1. There must be no appearance of breaking them 1 Thes. 3.2 ● 2. There must be no consent to break them though it come not forth to act Matth. 5.28 There must be no casting our selves in the way of any temptation or snare whereby we may be inticed or occasioned to speak so to break them as Dauid was by his looking on a woman 2 Sam 11.2 which Job guards against Job 31. v. 1 4. there must be no corrupt motion affection or inclination to evil even where it gets not assent there must be no tickling of delight in the thing though the heart dare not consent to act it nor any discontentment with the restraint that keepeth from such a thing or secret wishing that such a thing were lawful but on the contrary we must account every commanded thing right Psalm 119.128 5 The involuntary motions of the mind which never get assent to any of these evils nor are delighted in yet even these are prohibited by this Law because they flow from a corrupt Fountain and are the Evidences of disconformity to Gods Image in our nature and they ought not so much as to be in us Hence doth the Apostle complain of lust Rom. 7. though resisted by him 6 It reacheth not only to streams of actual corruption but to the Fountain of original sin whereby we entertain within us the seed and incentives unto actual evils that contradict this holy Law By all which we may see what holiness it calls for and how often if we were examined in all the Commands by
what ha ●e I more When all the other contentments a man hath yea all the Promises and God himself also proveth but of little value to him in respect of some particular he is deprived of by some cross Dispensation it is a token it had too much of his heart Try this by two things 1. When any beloved thing is threatned to be removed it then appeareth how it is affected and stuck unto 2. What is made use of to make up that see a notable difference betwixt David and his men or most of them 1 Sam. 30.6 when he wanted as much as they they know no way to make it up therefore they think of stoning him but he incourageth himself in the Lord ●is God they had no more left at all it ' like he hath his God abiding in whom he may yet be comforted The second way whereby men commit Idolatry with Cr ●atures is in their love which is due to God with all the heart but men ordinarily give away their hearts to Cr ●atures in b ●ing addicted to them in their desires seeking exc ●ssively after them in their d ●ating on them or sorrowing immoderately for want of them Hence the covetous man who loveth the world ● John 2.15 is called an Idolater Col. 3. ● Ephes. 5.5 Thus it discovered it self in Achab who so loved N ●both's Vineyard that he could not rest without it So Demas idolized the world when for love of it he forsook his service with the Apostle though it had been but for a time 2 Tim. 4.10 Mens love to Creatures is excessive 1. When their contentment so dependeth upon them as they fret when they cannot come at the enjoyment of them as we may see in Achab when he cannot g ●t Naboth's Vineyard and in Rachel for want of Children 2. When it stands in competition with God and duty to him is shufled out from respect and love to the world or any thing in it as we see in Demas 2 Tim. 4.10 3. Though duty be not altogether thrust out yet when love to these things marr ●th u ● in that zealous way of performing duty to God as it did in Eli 1 Sam. 2.2 ● who is said to honour and love his Children above God v. 29. not that he forbore them altogether but because his sharpness was not such as it should have been and as it is like it would have been had not they been his own Sons whom he too much loved whereas to the contrary it is spoken to Abraham's commendation that he loved God because he withheld not his only Son when God called for him 3 The third is wh ●n confidence and trust is placed in any thing beside God to wit excessively as before we said of love Thus when a mans protection is placed in men though Princes Ps ●l ●46 3 or in Multitudes or in Horses and Armies it is idolizing ●f them Thus rich men may make as it is Job 31.24 gold their confidence and fine gold their h ●pe that is when men account themselves secure not because God hath a Providence but because they have such means as Asa trusted to the Physitians and not to God namely in that particular the cure of his disease or as the rich man Luke 12.19 who founded his taking rest to his Soul on his full Barns and so some trust their standing to such a Great Man who is their Friend And this is known 1. By the means to which men betake them in a strait as when they stand not to make use of sinful means 2. By what noise they make when they are disappointed 3. It is known by this when their leaning on such a Creature marreth their resting on God and on his Providence Hence it is hard for men to be rich and not to place their confidence in riches and so Christ speaketh of the difficulty of rich mens being saved 4. Then men trust in their riches when the having of them maketh them to think themselves the more secure and maketh them proud and jolly as if they added some worth to those who profess them which could not be if they were not something too much thought of 4 The fourth way how Creatures are idolized by men is in their fear when men or events are feared more than God and fear maketh men sin or at least keepst them back from duty in less or more like those Professors who for fear of the Jews John 12.42 did not confess Christ. Thus men may idolize their very Enemie ● whom they hate when they fear more him that can kill the body than him that can destroy both soul and body Thus great men and powerful in the world are often idolized and good and well-qualified men may be made Idols also when men become so addicted and d ●voted to them as to call them Rabbi and to be as it were sworn to their words and Opinions as the ●●ct ●ries in Corinth were and such at all times for the most part are to their L ●aders when it is not the matter or reason that swayeth but the person that teacheth such Doctrine or holdeth such an Opinion 5 The fifth way of committing this Idolatry is by service when a man is brought under the power of any thing so whatever a man s ●rveth this way is an Idol every predominant every person or humour that a man setteth himself thus to please is an ●dol in this respect it is said men cannot serve two Masters God and Mammon and if we yet serve men we are not the servants of Christ Gal. 1.10 This may be known 1. By what men are most excessively taken up with and most careful to fulfil and accomplish 2. By looking to what it is for which they will take most pains that they may attain it 3. By what getteth most of their time and labour 4. By what overswayeth and overcometh or overaweth them most so that they cannot resist it though it thrust by duties to God and when they are never so taken up with Gods service but it indisposeth them when ever they come to immediate worship it is an evident token that such a thing is the mans Idol These be the most ordinary ways how men fall in this sin of Idolatry it were hard to speak of all the several Idols which may be loved feared rested on too much and so put in God's room I shall instance in a few The first is the World this is the great Clay-Idol that both covetous and voluptuous men hunt after crying Who will sh ●w us any good Psal. 4.6 By this thousands are kept in bondage and turned head-long An ex ●●ssive desire to have the World's Goods and to have by these a name in the Earth is many a mans Idol A second is the Belly Philip. 3.19 a shameful God yet worshipped by the most part of men who travel for no more but for a portion in this life to fill the Belly Psal. 17.14 to win their
in that Ordinance Nor 3. The end of that Ordinance 4. Miskenning Christ and not going first to him for conferring the things and blessings signified 5. Not praying for the Child for the Minister and for a Blessing on the Ordinance 6. Not blessing God that there is a Covenant of Grace that taketh in our Children nor offering them to be ingaged and received in it 7. Not minding the most simple and edifying way of going about it but walking by other Rules 8. Needless delaying of it for carnal ends 9. Being more desirous of the Sign than of the Thing signifyed 2 dly When we come to it we sin First Not seeking to have our own Covenant with God by which we have this priviledge of bringing our Children to Baptism renewed and made sure 2. Not considering by what right we claim it to our Children 3. Not repenting of our own Breaches of Covenant nor wondering that God keepeth with us who have often broken to him 4. Not coming with the exercise of fear and reverence 5 VVaiting on it oft-times without attention or minding our Duty in what is spoken 6. Promising for the fashion when we ingage for the Childrens Education and without either Judgement or Resolute purpose to perform 7. Being ignorant of what is said or done 8. Not concurring in Prayer for the Bl ●ssing 9. Not undertaking in Christ ● strength to perform the Duties called for 3 dly After the Administration of Baptism we fail First In forgetting all our engagements 2. In growing careless to maintain any suitable frame and falling carnally in our Mirth on such occasions 3. Not being much in Prayer for the Children nor insisting or continuing in Prayer for the Blessing 4. Not being Faithful according to our ingagements in Educating them 1. In knowledge that they may be so trained up as to know what God is 2. In the fear of God pressing it upon them by frequent Exhortations 3. In giving them good Example 4. In giving t ●em seasonable Correction but rather sparing them though to their hurt when there is cause of Correction 5. Being also unfaithful in not seriously minding them of their ingagements by Baptism And 6. Much more by giving them evil Example 7. Conniving at their faults 8. Advising them to what is sinful or sending them where they may meet with snares or suffering them to go there 9. Providing for them the things of this Life without respect to that Life which is to come 10. Not enabling our selves that we may discharge our Duty to them 11. Not insisting to press those things upon them that concern their Souls always thinking it is enough that sometimes they be spoken to 12. Never purposely stirred up and driven by that Tye to see for their good Nor 13. Repenting our many short comings Nor 14. Lamenting for what we see sinful in them when they follow not Faithful advice These are things that would carefully be looked unto both by Fathers and Mothers and all such as engage for the Christian Education of the Children whom they present to that Ordinance Next in him that Administreth Baptism there are oft-times diverse failings As 1. When it is customarily dispensed without respect to it's end 2. When in Prayer the Childs Salvation is not really and seriously aimed at but for the fashion 3. When it becometh a burden to dispense it 4. When it is not thought much of that Christ admitteth such into his House or himself to be a partaker of such mercies but be a Dispenser of them to others 5. When he followeth it not privately with his Prayers for a Blessing besides what failings may be in unsuitable words and Humane Ceremonies c. And seeking himself in the words that are spoken rather than the Edification of the Hearers When we are Witnesses and On-lookers we fail 1. In wearying and fretting because we are detained a while 2. Not setting our selves to be edified by that we see ●done and hear spoken 3. Not sympathising with the Child or its Parents in Prayer 4. Not being thankful to God for such a Benefit and Ordinance to such a Childs behalf 5. Lightness of Carriage and in looking speaking or thinking in the time as if we were not present at such an Ordinance of Christs 6. Not so seriously taken up in sympathising with other Folks Children because they are not our own 7. Removing and withdrawing and not staying to countenance it 8. Not minding the Child when we are gone 9. Not helping them as we may to be answerable to that tye they come under in Baptism 10. Not admonishing them when we see Parents and Children walk unanswerable nor testifying against them nor mourning for the Dishonour God getteth by Baptised Person 's unsuitable Carriage Fourthly All of us that are Baptised fail wonderfully less or more 1 st That we never as we ought reckon our selves obliged by that tye we come under in Baptism 2. That we neither are nor seriously study to be as we ought answerable to it 3. That we are not thankful for it to God who admitted us to that Ordinance 4. That we do not esteem it above all bare carnal Birth-Rights how great soever 5. That we do not seek to have it cleared in the extent of it as to the Priviledges and Benefits thereby conferred on us and our Children 6. That we do not pursue after the Blessing therein Covenanted to us 7. That we do not endeavour the performance of the condition of believing and trusting in Christ which is the condition of the Covenant of which Baptism is the Seal 8. That we do not lay weight on our Baptism for strengthening our Faith both in Spiritual and Temporal Difficulties as if it were no Seal of the Covenant 9. That we are often ignorant how to make use of it 10. That we do not account our selves wholly Gods as being given away to Him in Baptism but live to our selves 11. That we do not sight against our Lusts Satan and the World according to our Baptismal Vow 12. That we do not adorne our Christian Profession with an Holy Life 13. That we walk and war against Christ instead of fighting under his Banner 14. That we do not aggravate our sins as being committed against this Tye. 15. That we are not patient under Sufferings nor penitent and humble under all sad Dispensations notwithstanding that we are by our Baptism bound to take up the Cross. 16. That we do not meditate on our ingagements nor repent for our Neglects 17. That we do not aim and endeavour to come up to the main ends of this Ordinance Which are 1. The evidencing out Regeneration and ingrasting into Christ. 2. The giving up our selves to the Father Son and Spirit 3. Sticking by Christ on the most costly and dearest terms 4. Taking Directions from him and walking in him 5 Seeking the things above and not the things that are on Earth 6. Mortification to Creatures and to be Crucified with Christ. 7. The
be no material or Typical Temple because of the Moral things there being expressed and Prophesied of under the names of the Old-Levitical-Services yet could not a Warrant be inferr'd from them for these and that Jure Divino if the things were not Morally to bind which were so signified Hence I argue if the Sanctifying of a Sabbath as a piece of worship to God be Prophesied of to belong to the New-Testament then are we bound to the Sanctification of a Sabbath as a necessary Duty but the continuance of Sanctifying a Sabbath unto God is specially Prophesied of and foretold as a piece of worship under the New-Testament Ergo c. The third place is Matth. 24. v. 20. Pray that your flight be not in the Winter neither on the Sabbath-day where the Lord insinuateth that as Travelling is troublesome to the Body in Winter so would it be to the minds of the Godly for he is now speaking to his Disciples alone to Travel on that Day specially and solemnly set apart for God's worship now if there were no Sabbath to continue after Christs Ascension or if it were not to be Sanctified there would be no occasion of this grief and trouble that they behoved to Travel on the Sabbath and durst not tarry till that Day were by-past and so no cause to put up this Prayer which yet by our Lords Exhortation seemeth to infer that the Sabbath was to be as certain in its time as the Winter And doubtless this cannot be meaned of the Jewish-Sabbath For 1 ● That was to be abolished shortly 2. Travelling on the Jewish-Sabbath was to be no cause of Grief unto them if indeed all dayes were alike neither would it be scrupled in such a case by the Apostles to whom he now speaketh 3. Besides if no Sabbath were to be it had been better and clearer to say Stand not and griev not to Travel any day but his words imply the just contrary that there was to be a solemn Sabbath 4. He mentioneth the Sabbath-day only and not the other Festivals of the Jews which were to be kept holy also and by this he distinguisheth the ordinary Sabbath from those other dayes and opposeth it to many as being now the only Holy day on which they should eschew if possible to Travel and would therefore pray to have it prevented for in the New-Testament the Sabbath spoken of as the solemn time for worship is ever meaned of the Weekly Sabbath and other Holy dayes are called the first or last day of the Feast and therefore if the Lords meaning were that they should pray that their flight might not be on any of the Jewish Holy dayes to mention the Weekly Sabbath only would not be sufficient for that end To say that it was for fear of scandal that they should pray not to be put to flye will not remove the former reasons besides at that time the Apostles and other Christians had given up with the Jews and stood not on scandal in such things in reference to them on whom as the Apostle faith 1 Thes. 2.16 Wrath had come to the uttermost and who were not infirm but malicious and so in respect of offence to be dealt with as the Lord did with the Pharisees and therefore all things being considered it appeareth from our Lords words that a Sabbath among Christians was to be Sanctified 40. years or there-about after his death which proveth that the Scripture mentioneth a Sabbath to be Sanctified under the New-Testament We come unto the second way of making out the Morality of this Command to wit by shewing how the Scripture speaketh of the whole Decalogue and thus we reason 1. If all the Commandments of the Decalogue be Moral then must this be so also for it is one of them and if it were not Moral and binding there would not now be Ten words as they are called by the Lord Deut. 10.4 but Nine only which at first blush will and cannot but seem strange and absurd to those who have from Gods word drunk-in that number But all these are Moral and binding as is granted by all except the Papists who deny the second and therefore score it out of their Catechisms And that they must be all alike Moral and binding may be made out these two wayes 1. All of them in the Old-Testament had alike Authority Priviledges and Prerogatives which neither the Judicial nor Ceremonial Law had as 1. To be distinctly pronounced by God himself without adding more Deut 5.22 2. To be written by His own finger in Tables of Stone Exod. 29.18 3. To be laid up and kept in the Ark Exod. 25.1 ● And if these and other Prerogatives did put a difference and shew a difference to be put betwixt the other Nine Commands and all Judicial or Ceremonial Laws Why not betwixt them and this also 2. In the New-Testament they are all alike confirmed when the Law in general is spoken of none of them is excepted and therefore this Command is necessarily included For which we should look first to that place Matth. 5.17 Where our Lord in a special manner intendeth to vindicate the Moral Law and to press holiness in Moral Duties upon His Hearers even in another sort than the Pharisies did Think no ● saith He That I am come to destroy the Law and the Prophets I am not come to destroy but to fulfill Verily he that breaketh one of the least of these Commands and teacheth Men so shall be called least in the Kingdom of God c Where by Law must necessarily be understood the Moral law for he was thought to be a Transgressor of that and especially of this Command in it for that Sermon in Mathew cometh in in order after His being challenged for breach of Sabbath Joh. 5.10 c. And His scope is to wipe off that Imputation and how by shewing that He still presseth the Moral law even beyond what the Pharisies did 2. It was the Moral law especially which the Pharisie s corrupted and whereof he undertaketh the Vindication and it is Holiness in Obedience to that which he presseth as necessary beyond what the Scribes and Pharisies did and indeed it was in that law they failed mainly and not in the Ceremonial law 3. The offence and mistake that Christ is to praeoccupie and rectifie amongst His Hearers requireth this for many of them sancied that by the Messiah there should be a Relaxation from the Duties of Holiness called for in the Moral law and therefore saith He think not so now a Relaxation from some other laws might have been thought of warrantably 4. It is such a law whereof to teach the Abrogation at any time is sinful and pernicious therefore it is certainly the Moral law Secondly We reason thus when He speaketh of the law 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 or by way of eminency meaning no doubt the Decalogue He speaketh alike of all its Commandements even of the least of them and so
of this 4. Also that he came not to destroy it which yet the Lord never did of Ceremoni ●ls but rather foretold the Abolition of them as he did of the seeking and worshiping of God in the Temple at Jerusalem c. Yea when he cleareth the Doctrine of the Sabbath from the Pharisies corrupting Traditions he doth never weaken its former Obligation nor insinuate its weakness but sheweth the true meaning thereof which from the beginning made it not only consistent with the works of Piety and mercy but exceedingly helpful to both A Second place Confirming the whole Decalogue or rather Asserting it's Authority is in the Epistle of James Jam. 2.10 He that Offendeth in One is Guilty of All Why Because He is the same God and Law-giver And no Servant nor Angel who spake them All one as well as another of them And it being clear there that he speaketh of the Decalogue called the Royal Law there being no Law instanced in nor any other that can be of a like Authority in these Laws instanced but only it nor that could be pleaded for by James on such Grounds on such a time and it being also clear That he giveth to all those Laws which the Lord spake at that time alike Authority other-wise his reasoning would not be good if any one Law or Command could be instanced to him of the Ten which the Lord spake and was abrogated and not binding it necessarily followeth that this 4th Command being one of the Ten must be of equal authority with t he rest It may be noted also That James here doth not as neither doth our Lord nor any of his Apostles when they cite the Law give New Authority to the Laws he citeth but supposeth them to have it already and maketh use of them as Confirmations of the thing he pressed which could not be if their Authority depended on or flowed from the present Citation of them Thirdly we reason further thus Either there is some Moral Duty contained in this Command and laid on by it which is not in any of the former or there is but some Ceremonial thing in it reducable to one of them For the Perfection of this Law requireth that all things needful to the Worship of God should be summed in it and the Scope thereof which is Briefly to compend all requireth there should be nothing in it that 's needless superfluous or that might have been left out Now if the matter be Moral not contained in any former Command then is the Command it self Moral seeing a Moral Substance and Matter Denominateth the Command so Yea it must be Moral other-wise some-thing Morally necessary to Gods Service such as the Determination of its chief time should be omitted It may be assumed yet further It must be Moral be it what it will to eschew a Tautology in this short Compend of Duties and that of Moral Duties too Again If it be not Moral but contain some Ceremonial thing reducible to one of the three former Commands Then 1. It might have been put amongst other Ceremonials 2. Other Ceremonials might have been put in with it Or 3. A Reason given Why all are not Reducible to some Moral Command 4. If the matter of this be Reducible to another Command then can it not be accounted a Distinct Command neither ought it here to have been given as such but sub-joyned to some other as the Servants and Beasts resting is sub-joyned to this 5. It would be shewn to what Command it 's Reducible as to the Substance of it if it be Ceremonial 6. A Reason would be given Why amongst Ten One and Only One is set down so far different from all the rest And if all these Absurdities follow the Denyal of it's Substance to be Moral then for eschewing of them we must conclude it to be Moral and so the Fourth Command is Moral Fourthly we reason thus If it be not Moral it must either be Judicial or Ceremonial for the Matter and Substance of it but it is not Judicial that is it belongeth not to External Policy and Civil Society principally and especially in that one Nation because no such Duties are Comprehended at least Primarily in any Command of the First Table but in the Second which teacheth Duties to others as this First doth ●o God Neither is it Ceremonial For All Ceremonies that are Typical have their Rise since the Fall and relate some way to Christ to-Come But this of sanctifying One Day of Seven had it's Rise in the State of Innocency and was enjoyned to Adam in Paradise before he fell and therefore cannot be called Ceremonial Properly more than the Command of a Man's leaving Father and Mother and cleaving to his Wife so that they too should be one Flesh which the Apostle Ephes. 5. maketh use of Besides if it were Ceremonial in the Substance then were it Typical and Significant of some-thing to-come which is hard to shew Then also had it not been Lawful to have retained it for Ceremonials now in their use are not only Dead but Deadly But this Morality in Substance the same with the Command which we plead for was retained by the Apostles and Primitive Church to say no more There-fore it is not Ceremonial And so this Law must needs be Moral To say That the Command is partly Moral partly Ceremonial if we respect it's Substance will not hold For 1. There is no such other Law 2. That were to make Confusion betwixt Ceremonials and Morals which it seemeth the Lord himself hath aimed and resolved to keep clearly Distinct 3. What ever be Ceremonial That which was allowed and injoyned to Adam in Paradise and wherein we may agree with Him under the Gospel cannot be Ceremonial For neither of these States are Capable of Proper Ceremonies but both agree on a Seventh Day Therefore it is not Ceremonial The Third way we make out the Morality of this Command is By particular considering of it self and here we argue thus If it be not only put into the Decalogue with the other Moral Commands but more singularly explicated and pressed even in it than they then it is certainly Moral that is perpetually Obligatory with the rest But so it is put and set down in the Decalogue and pressed even more than the rest of the Commands as on other Accounts so possibly in this because it 's Ground is Positive and Men need the more Words about it Just as in the Second Command Ergo c. Now that it is thus put and pressed apeareth these several wayes 1. It shareth of all Common Priviledges with the rest of the Command set down in the Decalogue that were all spoken yea Written by the Lord immediatly and l ●id up in the Ark. 2. It is proposed and set down in it's Form both Positively Remember the Sabbath to keep it Holy and Negatively in it thou shalt do no manner of Work c. Where-as all the other Commands are but
that they differenced the first day of the week from other days and one day 〈◊〉 special is called The Lord's-day which other days of the week are not 2. If all times be a-like simply and all making difference be there reproved then could there be no time set apart to be observed by men to the marring of that indifferency and if so then hath the Christian Church been still in a palpable gross sin for if the keeping of a day by vertue of God's Command marr that indifferency much more will the keeping of a day by mans command and so there could never be a Sabbath 3. We must therefore understand these places not as casting all days and times simply but ceremonial and Jewish days or days invented by men because the scope of the places runneth that way viz. against the bringing in of ceremonial worship as necessary which while some weak ones not yet sufficiently informed did still practise as Rom. 14. the Apostle would not have them hastily condemned in Days more than Meats yet is there still a difference betwixt Bread and Wine in the Sacrament of the Supper and other meats which this discourse of the Apostle taketh not away so is it in days And in these Epistles to the Galathians and Colossians he speaketh of days and not as would seem of the weekly Sabbath which is ordinarily called a day as taking in all the extraordinary Feasts of the Jews which is the more probable because the c ●remonial Law was pressed on them as still necessary by false Teachers or he speaketh of mere Jewish days and so of the Seventh day which they kept for it 's of such observation of days as was sinful and brake them off from Grace and the Gospel as other ceremonies did that he speaketh of but that cannot be said of all days or of keeping one day of seven Therefore this cannot be meaned there 3. Obj. The fourth Command precisely commandeth the Seventh day from the Creation to be kept but that is not moral therefore neither is the Command so Answ. This Objection goeth upon that mistake as if the very Seventh day were still commanded in it as the main sub ●tance of it which our next discourse on the true scope and meaning of the Command will clear so that if a Seventh day and not that Seventh day be commanded as the main substance of that Command that Objection falleth 2. There is a difference to be put betwixt the mandatory part of the Command and what is further added for pressing the observation of it or for ex ●plaining its meaning The precept strictly is Rememb ●r the Sabbath day to keep it holy It saith Remember the Sabbath or the Holy rest what-ever day it shall be on and so it is said in the close that He Rested the Seventh Day but that He Blessed the Sabbath Drawing it still from the Seventh precisely to the Sabbath Even as in the Second Command This is 1. commanded in special that no Image be made then 2. This in ●eneral that all Gods Commandement concerning His Worship even such as were Ceremonial for the time should be observed with what-ever others should be given So here this Fourth commandeth expresly One of the Seven because the Recurrency of that time is bounded and generally what-ever Seventh the Lord shall be pleased to pitch on We have said the more on this because it doth not only clear the true Scope of the Command but sheweth the necessity of the Observation of that time which the Lord hath ●anctified for himself 3. We should put a difference also betwixt Ceremonial and Mutable All the Judicial Laws are Mutable and the Decalogue it self in respect of it's Curse and as it was a Covenant giving Life is Actually changed and abolished Yet is not for that to be reputed Ceremonial and not Obligatory Though all Ceremonials be Mutable yet all Mutables are not Ceremonial Besides this change is not in the matter Why may not therefore the Seventh Day in Order which was observed from the Creation to the Resurrection of Christ be chainged to the First Day of the Week which is a Seventh Day in Number still without abolishing the Morality of the Fourth Command Amongst other things in this Command there is more express mention of the whole Families joyning in this Duty than is in other Commands Therefore it being a concerning-Duty to us and a special thing included in the Command we shall speak to that Point concerning Family Worship before we speak of the Second General proposed about the Particular Mor ●lity of this Command and the meaning of the Words of it that ye may see that it is no invention of Men when ye are called to it and when it is pressed upon you We shall here 1. shew you that This Command holdeth forth a Family or Domestic ● Worship 2. We shall confirm it more largely from other Scriptures and Grounds of Reason 3. We shall shew wherein it consisteth in particular and on whom it mainly lyeth to be discharged 4. We shall shew the Advantages of Conscientious discharging of it and the Prejudices of neglecting it with the Aggravations of that Sin That there is such a thing as Family-Worship included in this Command will be clear by considering 1. What Worship to ●od in general is 2. What Family-Worship is 3. What this Command requireth 1. By VVorship is understood some Tribute payed by the Reason ●ble Creature to God as the Great and Soveraign Lord Creator wh ●ther it be immediately and directly payed and performed to Him as Prayer and Praise or for Him and at His Command and for His Honour as Preaching Hearing and receiving of Sacraments which are VVorship when Rightly gone about In a word we call that VVorship more ●tr ●ctly and properly which is a Duty of the First Table and cometh in as commanded in it for the Honour of God and not for our own or others External Profit which though commanded in the Second Table cannot be so properly called VVorship much-less Immediate-Worship Thus Teaching others the Duties of Piety may be Worship when Teaching the Duties of any other ordinary calling is not 2. We call that Family-VVorship which is to be performed by such and such Relations or by all the Constituent Members of the Family joyntly And so it differeth 1. From Secret or Solitary VVorship which one performeth alone to and before God 2. From Publick Worship which one performeth by Joyning in a Congregation of many Families together 3. From that Worship performed occasionally in Mutual Fellowship amongst Believers or Professours of divers Families For 1. That may not be Ordinary as this nor so frequent 2. That is free to this or that Believer as they shall choose or as occasions do cast them to be together This is not at Choice but is necessary as to the same persons 3. This is performed by Vertue of Domestick Relations and not of Christian only 4. This may have