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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A29583	Sancta Sophia, or, Directions for the prayer of contemplation &c. extracted out of more then (sic) XL treatises / written by the late Ven. Father F. Augustin Baker, a monke of the English congregation of the Holy Order of S. Benedict, and methodically digested by the R.F. Serenvs Cressy of the same order and congregation ...; Sancta Sophia	Baker, Augustine, 1575-1641.	1657 (1657)	Wing B480; ESTC R16263	412,832	848

Marke and for this reason before I begin any worke I doe seriously offer it to God begging his assistance 22. Actiue liuers had neede in almost all their Actions of moment to frame an Actuall Intention but not so the Contemplatiue vvho are alvvaies habitually vnited to God For such iterations of Actuall intention vvould cause too much distraction to them 23. To Conclude hovv difficult and vneasy soeuer to Nature the attaining to Purity of Intention be because therby the very Soule of Corrupt Nature vvhich is Propriety is rooted out Yet since it is absolutly necessary in an Internall life therfore considering Gods promise that he neuer vvill be vvanting to our Endeauours Soules of good vvills vvill find it neither impossible nor of so great Difficulty as at first it appeared if they vvill attempt it vvith a strong Resolution To quicken fortifie vvhich Resolution I vvill end this Discourse vvith that peircing saying of Harphius O how great and hidden deceits of Corrupt Nature will appeare saith he and be discouered and consequently be seuerely punished after this life for that Soules haue not here bene purified and made Deiforme in their Intentions God Almighty giue vs the grace to discouer novv and reforme this perillous and secret selfe-seeking of Nature to the Glory of his Holy Name AMEN CHAP. V. § 1. 2. Of the Louing of God in our selues other Creatures And how the loue to our selues is to be Ordered § 3. Euen that loue which is Duty in Hea●hens c. is defectuous § 4. Wee can not loue others truly meritoriously till wee first loue God § 5. 6. 7. All Affections not proceeding from Charity are to be mortified § 8. All Intellectuall Creatures are the Obiects of our Charity except the damned Soules Deuills § 9. Of the Order of Charity § 10. 11. 12 13. 14. Those are most to be loued euen aboue our selues whom God loues most Yet certaine Duties proceeding from loue as Honour Sustenance Almes c. are first to be extended to Parents Freinds c and specially to our Selues § 15. 16. 17. Further Proofes of this § 18. Whether Beauty c. may be a Motiue of Loue. § 19. 20. 21. 22. Of loue extended to Enemies Who are esteemed Enemies § 23. Great Grace required to practise this Duty aright § 24. 25. Degrees of loue to supposed Enemies And the fruits therof § 26 Of a Speciall kind of loue called Philadelphia or loue of the Fraternity of Beleiuing Holy Christian Catholicks 1. BEFORE Wee end the Subiect of Diuine Loue something is to be said of Loue to our Selues our Neighbours in and for God For as for the loue vvhich out of God vvee beare to our Selues or any others it is not vvorth the treating of as being altogether defectuous and grounded in Nature And the more vehement it is the more defectuous is it 2. The right Ordring therfore of Our loue to our Selues and our Brethren consists in this 1. That the Motiue of our loue must be the Diuine vvill Command 2. The ground therof must be the relation in vvhich vvee stand to God as capable of the Communication of Diuine Graces and Beatitude 3. The End must be to bring our Selues and others either by our Endeauours Exhortaions c. or by our Praiers to God that he may be loued Glorified by vs in the doing of vvhich consists our Perfection Happines 4. Lastly the subiect of this Loue must be the Superiour vvill especially As for tendernesse of nature distracting sollicitudes vnquiet images in the minde touching those vvee loue the best safest course vvould be to mortify diminish them as much as may be as proceeding from a naturall sensuall affection the vvhich as far as it does not flovv from the Superiour soule is not subordinate directed to the loue of God is defectuous 3. Hence appeares First That affections in Persons that are strangers from the true Faith are full of defectuousnesse in all the particular respects before mentioned For though for example the loue vvhich Children ovve to their Parents the affections mutually due betvveene Husbands Wiues c be for the substance according to the Law of Nature right reason consequently so far conformable to the Diuine Will so that the vvant or refusall of such loue the neglect of the Duties Offices required by such relations is a great sin yet there can b● no merit either in such loue or the effects of it by reason that it is neither from the Motiue of Diuine Charity nor directed to the Glorifying of God by perfect loue from vvhich all merit proceedeth 4. Secondly it followes from hence that vvee can neither meritoriously loue our selues nor our Brethren till first vvee are firmely rooted in the loue of God because Charity to our selues or others is indeed only loue to God by Reflection or the louing of God in things belonging to him vvhich he either loues or may loue 5. Therfore an Internall liuer ought to mortify all sensuall affection to creatures I meane all particular freindships intimacies vvhich are not grounded vpon the necessary foundation of the Diuine Loue And as for such affections as are necessarily due by vertue of some respects relations that God has put betvveene our selues any others such an one ought as much as may be to roote them out of the sensuall portion of the soule because there they vvill cause great distractions hindrances of our most necessary loue to God 6. A serious care to practise according to this Aduice is very necessary especially in Religious Cōmunities both for our ovvne good others For besides that sensuall freindships grounded on externall or sensuall respects are most vnbeseeming Persons that haue consecrated themselues only to God infinitly preiudiciall to abstraction recollectednes of mind much more if they be betweene Persons of different sexes such particular intimatcies cannot chuse but cause particulities factions particular designes c to the great disturbance harme of the Community 7. The least defectuous amongst the grounds of a particular friendship may be the resentment gratitude for benefits especially spirituall ones that haue ben receiued But yet euen in this case also vvee ought to preuent the settling of amity in the sensuall part of the soule content our selues vvith requiting such obligations by our Prayers or by a returne of proportionable benefits 8. Novv Charity is to be extended to all Intellectuall Creatures that is to all Angells all men vvhether aliue or dead except only the reprobate Angells damned soules which are not obiects of our Charity in as much as they are not capable of enioying God vvhich is the ground of Charity And the effects of our Charity to the glorified Saints Angells must be a congratulation vvith them for their happines for the loue vvhich they beare to God vvhich God vvill eternally beare reciprocally to them