more particularly note out a teaching by way of repetition and going over and over again as men do with Knives when they whet them that so as the Knife by such whetting is more keen and fit to cut so religious Instructions by often turning and returning them on the ears and tongues of children may pierce more deeply into their hearts for their better understanding and affecting of them Parents and those over others like the Heavens over our heads should be still as there is occasion and opportunity distilling and dropping down heavenly Instructions from their own understandings and hearts into their houses and upon their children and inferiours that so they may sink soak by little and little into their hearts for abundant after-fruit And I mention Inferiours that is others that are under the care and charge of Housholders together with Children because of that which is observed on this place out of the Hebrew Doctors to wit that though only children or sons are here named yet under this name they understand not the natural Sons only but Scholars also or Disciples because in Scripture Disciples are called Sons as the Sons of the Prophets so Solomon in the Book of the Proverbs still saith My Son And the extending of the command thus far is favoured by the words following Thou shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thy house walkest by the way sittest down risest up and why thus in the house but that the whole house may be edified whilest the holy light of Knowledge in Parents and Housholders is not put under a Bushel but by their Catechising set up in a Candlestick that it may enlighten the whole house which is further also confirmed by the approved example of Abraham in the story of whose Catechising not only his children are mentioned but his houshold also is added Gen. 18. 19. The other Text that I shall alleadge out of the Old Testament is Prov. 22. 6. Train up a child in the way he should go or as it is in the Margin in his way This Precept is well and plainly expressed thus Teach a Boy in the first Principles to wit of the Doctrine of Christ Train him up or as it is in the Margent of our Bibles Catechise him The Hebrew word signifieth the doing of the first things in any thing more particularly it is used for the instructing of others or the entring of them in or delivering to them the first elements and grounds especially of Religion to which it is here applyed It is rendred therefore by some Initiate a child or dedicate him to God being yet a child For further opening hereof It may not be amiss to observe that in former times they did use to dedicate unto God holy things by a sacred Dedication with certain sacred Rites and Ceremonies as the House of God 2 Chron. 7. 7. the Wall of Jerusalem Neh. 12. 27. especially the Altar Numb 7. 8. 2 Chron. 7. 9. So Judas and his Brethren with the whole Congregation of Israel ordained that the Feast of Dedication for the Altar they had newly set up should be kept from year to year 1 Mac. 4. 59. which we find in our Saviours time observed and countenanced with his presence Joh. 10. 22. Yea of old they did use to dedicate their own houses also with a more common but yet religious and pious Dedication as we see David did Psal 30. title to wit as accounting God himself the Lord of their Houses and themselve his Tenants at Will who were therefore to use their Houses as His and according to his will The substance of this we may say concerns us in these times also Now to apply this As godly men in former times have dedicated both holy things and their houses unto God when they were first made and set up so should Christian Parents look upon their children when they are newly brought into the world as those whom by their timely Teaching and Catechising they are to dedicate and consecrate unto that God from whom they have them Yet There is no cause so to limit it to little children or to Parents children as that it should not be extended to other young ones though not so young in the Family since the word that is rendred a child here is translated well otherwhere a young man And indeed Housholders are not only the Fathers of their children but of the Family The servant doth by good reason call the Master Father and that Father should instruct such sons in a way beseeming their age However the duty will further appear by proceeding further in the forecited Text which teacheth to train up a child in the way he should go or as it is in the Hebrew in the mouth of his way that is in the beginning or entry of his worldly race for so the Gate through which persons first enter into the City is called in Scripture the mouth of the City Others explain it thus according to the mouth of his way that is that measure of apprehension and that degree of capacity which he hath in his first entry into his way without delaying till he be grown up or pressing him above that which his age is able to reach Begin with him then as he is able to receive and conceive of things in those beginnings Heb. 6. 1. which hold forth the first light to guide him in his way for Understanding Piety and godly Behaviour is the way even of Younglings and being so it is good to set them forward in so happy a journey in the morning that they may take the whole day beforethem Object But a child hath not so much understanding as to receive and repeat with reverence the things of God and so the Catechising of him will be the taking of Gods Name in vain which is a plain sin Answ If this must hinder Catechising Who knows how long it will be hindred for even children well grown up being not catechised before are not like at their first teaching so to understand what is said to them as to recite and repeat it with due reverence It may something help in this that we find Christ himself instructing Nicodemus in the mystery of Regeneration when he was able to return him only this sorry and unbeseeming Answer How can a man be born again when he is old can he enter the second time into his mothers womb Yea after that we find our Saviour delivering a divine truth to those that were known to be his Disciples and who still accompanyed him and repeated themselves what he spake to them in the very same words wherein he delivered it and yet when all was done confessed they could not tell what he said yet we may not say that by reason of that their ignorance they took that Name of God in vain which is imprinted on every Word of God
out of that foolishness which is too fast bound in him Prov. 22. 15. correction is the urging of Instruction 3. This word which calls Fathers to look upon their children as children and accordingly to teach them may contain in it a restraint of that provoking before spoken of for it signifieth that the nurture he gives must be a fatherly feeding of such a one as is his child and yet but a child and therefore it must be with that gentleness which is sutable to and agreeth best with the relation and affection of a Father and the tenderness of a child for Angry Catechising quickly becomes an act of Provocation The third word which is used in the Text carries and commands Parents unto the best and highest kind of nurture to wit thatwhich is drawn and fetch'd from the Word of the Lord and so will be most accepted of Him and most profitable to their children This the Apostle speaking to Timothy sets forth plainly in some other words but to the same effect calling it a nourishing in the words of faith and of good doctrine But besides this Paul here goes to the bottom and beginning of all good nurture which is Information or an informing Admonition The word signifies an Instilling or putting a thing into the mind And this infusing or dropping Instruction into the Understanding of a Child helps the Child to help the Father and to carry on his own good Education by his own light because his well-informed reason enableth him to see the necessity and benefit of it The life and manners cannot be good unless the mind be good The mind cannot be good without knowledge Nor will Knowledge be had without Teaching and admonishing In that therefore as in a Golden Mine the riches of religious Education lyeth and is laid up O that so plain and full a Precept might so convince the understandings possess and press the hearts of Christian Parents as to prevail with them for the bringing up of their Children not only in Arts and Sciences to make them wise nor only in mysteries of trading and worldly imployment to make them rich nor only in matters of morality and civil honesty to make them vertuous but in mysteries of Religion in the nurture and information of the Lord to make them truly godly and happy I shall only add this which I touched a little before which is that though children only be named in the Text yet this should not cause Housholders to think themselves discharged if they Catechise their Children and never instruct other young ones that are a part of their Houshold for He that is the Master of the House is the Father of the whole Family and may speak to all the Youth in it as Eli to Samuel whom he called his son and accordingly should disperse knowledge among them that they may not live under his roof care and charge without some acquaintance with God and without being bredd up to do some homage and service to Him It would be a poor business for Mothers to say We need not bring up our children in any good nurture for the Scripture in the New-Testament that especially requires it names only Fathers No more will Fathers be excused because none are named here to be instructed by them but only their children It 's true that under the notion of Fathers of children of whose duty the Apostle here properly speaketh they are called to Catechise their own children but as they are Masters and Fathers of Families a further care and charge lies upon them in regard of other young ones and namely of Servants under them and with them Yet I do not say That Housholders are bound to walk in the same way with those that are elder in the Family as they do with their children or to bestow the same time in instructing servants and children It 's true that to appoint some day or dayes in a week to examine and go on with servants in some sound and plain Catechism as namely the Assemblies short Catechism is a godly Exercise and a provident way to preserve the duty of Family-Instruction and to make it the more minded But yet if Housholders did but upon the Sabbath-day call those that be grown up to give account of the Sermons they hear Chapters read in the Family on the week-days And further If having as they ought an eye upon their carriage and seeing any neglect or fault in them they did take them to task question with them about it reprove and admonish them that for time to come they might amend it and then observe whether they do so or no even this I say with some acquainting them with the very first Principles of Religion in way of conference might pass for that which we call Catechising that word in Scripture being divers times applyed to a more general kind of Teaching But if such a concession as this and yielding to any thing be abused if nothing be done in this duty or nothing to purpose then may one Servant and another if it be possible for an uncatechised Servant to have so much grace come and say seriously and sadly I say sadly both in regard of themselves and the Houholder Master Carest thou not that we perish And let the Master consider how he will answer it Mean-while that I may return to the Text as it stands clear for Parents Catechising let it be in the last place observed that Parents Instruction of their Children is of so great importance that if they therein did their duty then the work concerning Servants were already in a good part done for they should deliver in this way to every Master a catechised Servant and so the Master should have nothing to do but to preserve and carry on that which is already brought to his hand But if for want of this godly care O Christian Master a catechized Servant be not brought to thee let there be so much goodness in thee and so much love to his soul as that he may go a catechized-Servant from thee So much for Texts of Scripture commanding Catechising I now proceed to Arguments or Reasons to confirm Catechising to be a necessary duty Although the former Precepts might fully suffice because all Reason resides and is summ'd up in the Commandements of the only wise God yet because too much can hardly be spoken in a duty wherein many do nothing and all do too little therefore for a further assistance I shall adjoyn these ensuing Arguments drawn from the necessity and benefit of this Exercise 1. The necessity which I lay upon this Ground because all that will be saved in Gods ordinary way must come to the knowledge of the Truth To open this further I shall take in two questions 1. How is this Knowledge to be attained Answ Saving Knowledge is not had by Nature Nature without divine Revelation knoweth nothing of Christ by whom alone we can
way of peace Besides we find here that Instructing Parents are Patterns to teach their Children by their example to be Instructing persons for Solomon brings in his Fathers Instruction with a for and as a reason why he now instructs others Nor was Bathsheba the Mother wanting in this duty but is for the same reason that is because Solomon was the dear and most desired Son of her Womb very eminent and affectionate in commending to him several seasonable counsels suitable to his calling and setting them home upon his heart Not to mention more How came Timothy to know the Scriptures of a child but that he had a believing Grand-mother and Mother when his Father was a Greek and God blessing good Education the Faith that was in them was in him and his Carriage such that he was well reported of by the Brethren which is set down as arising from this that his Mother was a Jewess and believed to wit breeding him up accordingly And indeed it concerns Mothers to have a special care of Catechising not only because the Father may perhaps be a Greek that is one unacquainted with Religion himself but also because Mothers use to love their Children more tenderly and therefore as was said before should teach them more diligently Besides when Fathers are oft abroad Mothers are ordinarily at home and having their children with them have greater advantages and more and better opportunities to be dropping still some good things into them yea Mothers have a peculiar skill to take with all sweetness the most taking courses with them And the child feeling more of the Mothers love the Mother therefore hath the more power on the childes heart to win it and bow it to all better things 2 King 4. 19. Now As Christ said to the Jews sadly This did not Abraham so Parents on the other side may suppose Christ to say seriously to them This did Abraham I know he did and would Catechise his Family And shall the Lord have cause to say to Father and Mother and Master I know you will not O take heed In all good and approved things and wherein one is concerned as well as another every good example is to be look'd upon as followed with a Precept binding to follow it and Christs conclusion in such a case is Go and do thou likewise Luk. 10. 37. The second Motive concerns Children themselves and their benefit and that not only in regard of their souls to which I have spoken before in reference whereunto Chrysostom saith to every Parent Thou shalt never gain thy Child so much by teaching him the art to get Money as by teaching him the art to contemn Money but also in regard of their outward estate for to make them godly is to bring them within the promise of this life And to make them knowing persons of which as of the former Catechising is the means is to bring them under Gods protection for the Eyes of the Lord preserve knowledge and follow it and those in whom it is with prosperous and establishing Providences of every kind when the same God over-throweth the words or matters of foolish transgressours Excellently therefore saith the fore-named Father Then have we our children most and most truly ours when we have delivered them up to our God for he will nurture govern and take care for them a great deal better and more excellently then we can Dost thou not see saith he even in rich mens houses that they that stay at home with their Parents are nothing so glorious of such place or power as they are that Princes take from their Parents and set about their own service whom they prefer to great Offices honour them with their favours and trust them with their affairs If it be thus in the Court of Princes by reason of their good will and liking sure that Infinite Goodness which God is will do that which shall be of more worth and excellencie for those that are bred up in the Courts of his House and are by good Education put into his Family 2 Cor. 6. 17 18. No need of Parents further care The third Motive shall be taken from Parents themselves and that benefit and acceptance with God which they shall reap by their godly care to breed up their children in godliness 1. Their own benefit Wouldst thou have a child to be obedient saith the same Chrysostom Then bring him up from the beginning in the Instruction and Nurture of the Lord Do not think it a superfluous thing if he hear from thee the divine Scriptures for the first thing he shall hear there is Honour thy Father and thy Mother and that 's for thy advantage Do not say Shall I make him solitary and mopish There 's no neea of that Fear not that which is so gainful once resolve to make him a Christian Chrysost in Ephes 6. Serm. 21. 2. Their acceptance and reward with God where I shall again make use of the aforesaid Fathers moving words which are these If they who make the Statutes of Princes and paint their Images obtain so much honour shall not we who adorn a Kingly Image for Man is the Image of God enjoy good things innumerable while we restore unto Him that wherein his similitude doth consist which is the vertue of the Soul k Col. 3. 10. But I shall conclude all as I began with Scripture which lets us know that in this way of Houshold-Instruction God promised to bring upon Abraham that which he had spoken of him which concerned both him and his Family who were made capable of the benefit of Gods promises in this way that is He by instructing and stirring in his Family for God and godliness and they by walking after him in that way of God wherein they were instructed by him Now though all that God spake of Abraham belong not to other men yet if we look on it in the generality to wit as it reveals and assures from God a blessing according to the common Covenant of Grace on Catechising and catechized Persons and Families and that because they are taught to perform the Condition of the Covenant where by they are capable of what God hath spoken in it for their comfort I say these things being considered we may say and easily see that as the duty of Houshold Catechising belongs unto others as well as to Abraham so doth the encouragement which may be called the reward of Family-Religion And Who would want themselves or have their Children and Family to want the good of that which God hath spoken for want of speaking for God and goodness and thereby fitting themselves and theirs for the favour of that God who though he doth good to all yet especially he doth it and more especially he speaks it to the Houshold of Faith and their Housholds Gal. 6. 10. Psal 118. 15. CHAP. II. Of Family-Prayer FOrasmuch
and so was on those words of Christ I say this was not a vain business for in this way they understood the words of Christ at last the meaning whereof they knew not at first If it be said That Persons grown up may be first taught to use the name and things of God reverently which children cannot be and by that means when they come to take them into their mouths themselves the dishonour of God may be prevented I answer 1. That if we will consider of this rightly we must set one thing against another and then it will be found that the more they that are young grow in years the more they will surely grow in corruption being left without instruction and thereby by how much they are more capable in regard of their natural understanding by so much they will be less capable of any good thing through their grown corruption 2. I answer further that Parents may and should find out wayes to frame the spirits of their children to a greater reverence when they are catechised then at other times and in other things Now it 's true that if they be very little this must needs be less done but yet it may still be in doing and something may be done in it because they understand even then what Parents say or else they would not be capable of making them reasonable answers And the more they grow up the more will this holy reverence grow up with them and in them But to the main Objection propounded I shall give a second Answer which is this Catechising is considered two wayes 1. In regard of the present action 2. As it is an Introduction and Preparation to the future and further knowledge of God Now though little ones do not at first so understand as to use with due reverence the Name and Things of God yet it followeth not that they take Gods Name in vain because they repeat good things in order to and for the gaining of such a knowledge of God and of those holy things as whereby afterward they come to use them more reverently And therein the first use of them though not so reverent hath a part as being preparatory to it and having an influence into it and working as a good means for the begetting of it As when Parents teach very little children their letters by signs and certain pretty devised sayings and resemblances which put their little ones in mind of them this is not a vanity but a way suited to their littleness to make them learn them the sooner so it is in this and the like cases For The first Rudiments are still to be taken and judged of not in a way of separation from what follows after but as a preparation to it and being so taken they are not vain but material things because they serve to very considerable ends This shall suffice for the Old-Testament The Precept prescribing Catechising in the New-Testament is laid down Ephes 6. 4. in these words And ye Fathers provoke not your children to wrath but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Of the Precept contained in these words there are two Branches 1. Parents are warned not to abuse their office power and authority by provoking their children 2. Nor to neglect to make use of it in instructing their children and both these are not without great reason mentioned For in Parents there is not only Nature and natural affection but natural corruption by reason whereof if they watch not well it will be very incident unto them to be curious yea and furious with their children that their own will may be fulfilled There is need therefore to fay Provoke not And on the other side there is a danger of being too indulgent and careless to bring up children to such courses as are necessary for the knowing and doing of the will of God Hence it is that there is as much or much more need of the latter branch of the Exhortation which is But bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. The first word But serves well to joyn together the two branches of the Precept or parts of the verse for it holds forth a cure of the Provocation spoken of in the former part and a care of the Instruction prescribed in the latter part Do not provoke but instruct yea instruct and you will not or at least you shall not have cause to provoke for a well-instructed child is in Gods way to be an obedient child and very tractable to the instructing Parents so that there shall not be any occasion of provoking from him or being provoked against him A care of the duty in the latter part of the verse will be a good prevention of the fault in the former part for thy child knowing from thee Gods mind O Christian Parent will not God blessing the instruction of which the Precept to give it giveth the hope I say he will not do contrary to thy mind if thy mind agree with Gods mind After this connecting and conjoyning Particle followeth the Precept concerning childrens nurture which Nurture howsoever in it self it comprehends good and wholsom Instruction of every kind yet the last words of the Lord fasten it on that religious nurture and admonition which is of all other the principal and of which it belongs to this place to speak Now whilest I come to the further opening of this Precept it may be noted that there are in the Original three words offered to our Observation the explaining whereof will serve for a more full discerning of what is here prescribed The first word is nourish or feed them and so it is translated otherwhere Do not provoke your children saith the Apostle but nourish them and that not only so as to give them bread and food for their bodies wherein passionate and provoking Fathers may be defective but which is here meant to supply them with soul-nourishing-sustenance or as the Apostle speaks of himself to be Soul Nurses imparting with all dearness for their spiritual good and growth the soul-sustaining Gospel of God This is indeed to bring up as our English Translation hath it well and most hopefully for their welfare The second word in the Text signifieth in general a child-like Nurture but yet there may be found and hinted in it more particularly these three things 1. It contains in a large sense all profitable instruction sutable to a childes age and state for the composing and framing of him by knowledge unto a commendable and vertuous carriage or for the doing of greater good in humane society in time to come but in this place it is to be more properly applyed to Instruction in Religion and as Paul speaks in righteousness 2. It contains correction also which is a part of good nurture for the movâ—â—g and making of a child the better to mark what is taught him and for the getting
be justified and saved that 's revealed from Heaven And if it cannot be had by Nature How shall it be had but by Nurture and Information of the Lord and How shall Children have it so well as by Parents pains and provision 2. When is it to be endeavoured or When is this Knowledge to be communicated Answ Reason teacheth to do it betimes For As all that desire to have knowing children in any kind of Learning begin with them in the beginning of their time i. e. assoon as they come to be capable of the first Principles thereof So the morning of life the first of childrens time after they are come to any competent capacity is the best season for the exercising and improving of their understanding in the knowledge of Religion No marvel therefore if we find that Timothy from a child had known the holy Scripture And that our Saviour honoured this course of timely Instruction by conversing himself when but twelve year old among the Doctors in a kind of catechetical way both hearing them and asking them questions If any say Let children grow up and then be brought to the Ministry and hear Sermons and that may suffice I answer If it be supposed that they are left to the Ministry yet being not catechized before they are left to it unprepared for it And I add further What if they die before that time then they must die un-instructed and that I think must needs be a sad death to the negligent Parents and a dangerous death to the neglected child whereas it is found by comfortable experience that divers very young have dyed with very considerable and some with very rare expressions of knowledge and godliness attained by timely teaching If it be further said That children may be delivered over to Catechising-School-Masters and Ministers I answer that 's a good help to but no good discharge from Parents Instruction on whom it lies as a duty for it is not said you Fathers send them to others but bring them up your selves and who should more naturally care for their childrens souls who may begin sooner to exercise that care who have a shorter work having to do only with their own not others children and have a larger and better opportunity to carry it on by those frequent times they may allot to it and those Parental wayes that are in their hands to promote it Parents do something for their children when they put them forth to nurse but they shall do better to nurse them up themselves with their own more kindly milk and more natural attendance The second Argument to move Parents to the duty of Catechising is the singular profit thereof and that both in regard of their children and the Church of God As to their children there is a profitable and prevailing power in it in regard of the time manner and good effects of the careful performing of it 1. In regard of the time For when children are young and tender they are then most capable though not by the ripeness of their understanding yet by the flexibleness of their age as of any evil that they see or hear so of any good that shall be discreetly infused and put into them like young twigs easily bowed or like soft Wax that easily receives any impression when being grown harder especially if better things be fore-stall'd by worse as they will surely be it will be much more hard to imprint the Image of God and godliness upon them 2. In regard of the manner Catechising propounds the question and puts the Child to answer it as the Eccho doth the Voyce Now the readiest way to make any Instruction to take is to require returns from those that are instructed whence it is that in all Schools of Learning that course is taken whereas if you speak never so well or so long yea the longer the worse in a set and continuate speech it useth to vanish in the air without any observable notice or after-fruit 3. In regard of the effect For 1. This makes them fit to hear Sermons fruitfully and that both because the words that Ministers use in Preaching are before-hand made familiar to them and because the grounds of Religion whereon they build their Preaching are laid open to childrens understandings and in some measure laid in their hearts by their religious breeding whereas if a Minister be the first Teachet the language of Canaan is so strange to a young Hearer that unless God work upon the heart and bring in a light from Heaven into it he hardly knows what to make of heavenly words or matter Now though godly Education will not be savingly effectual without regenerating grace yet this we may say of it that children religiously bred up are not far from the Kingdom of Heaven to wit in comparison of others not so educated for they can answer more discteetly Mark 12. 34 2. This is the way to make them greatly good as Obadiah is said to fear the Lord greatly which with good reason may be ascribed in a way of means to his fearing the Lord timely and as is expressed from his youth O How much sin is in this way prevented which entring in quickly because it is not kept out by good nurture will afterward either grieve the soul by an heart-renting repentance and that 's the best of it or ruine the soul for want of repentance And on the other side How much good is done by this first goodness even to others for How eminent a Reformer was that glorious Josiah who being yet young began to seek after the God of his Father David which seeking is ordinarily set on in David's way that is by Parents Instruction and warnings yea we find a little captive Maid bred up as appears to a reverence of the Lords Prophet to be the Instrument of an happy cure of her great Masters both body and soul But besides the good of others How great is the comfort which ariseth to themselves who are taught to know and serve God early and that by the sweet remembrance when they are old of their remembring their Creator when they were young and in those days wherein they had most pleasure whereby they may confidently conclude that their God and faithful Creator will remember them in their old age and those decaying days wherein there is no pleasure Eccles 12. 1. 3. This is the way to make them constantly good and that by an assurance from the mouth of God himself who saith that When he is old he will not depart from it Not that it is ever so but it is truly so for the God of Truth hath said it And something is gained by it even in those that go quite from God at last viz. that they do for a time very good offices for the people of God and keep in an orderly way as Joash did whilest Jehoiada instructed
thee our Lord unto all pleasing being fruitful in every good work Give us we beseech thee that Knowledge which is the Light of the Soul that Faith which is the Life of the Soul that Love which is the Heat and holy Fire of the Soul that Holiness and Meekness which is the Beauty and Ornament of the Soul and that Hope which is the Anchor of the Soul And thus prepare us for that glorious place whither our Fore-runner is for us entred and who hath given us assurance that where He is there shall also his servant be Nor do we pray for our selves only but as in duty we are bound for thy whole Church Thy Church is thy Treasure Lord where thy peculiar treasure is there let thine heart and peculiar favour be also Cast thine Eye of compassion on those therein that are under any special affliction Yea Look O thou All-seeing and All-pitying God into all corners of the World and shew thy self the God that comforteth those that are cast down In special manner Let the Eyes of the Lord our God be alwayes on this Land and the adjoyning Kingdoms from the beginning of the year even to the end of the year Make our gracious King a glorious Defender of the Faith Worship Wayes and Servants of Jesus Christ Let the Spirit of wisdom and the fear of the Lord rest on those Eminent Persons of his Majesties Privy Council ennoble with grace the whole Nobility Give a Spirit of Government and of Godliness to all in Authority that under his Majesty and his Magistracy we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty Let thy Ministers O Lord be clothed with righteousness and so let thy Saints shout for joy As for our selves and others that live under the light Give us grace we beseech thee to live as lights in the world holding forth the Word of Life in our life that so thy faithful Labourers may rejoyce in the day of Christ that they have not run in vain nor laboured in vain Bless we pray thee all our Friends and all we ought to pray for whether Friends or Enemies especially bless those belonging to us with spiritual blessings in heavenly things yea minister to them and us and all thine all those good things of any kind which we have or should have asked either for our selves or them And now O Lord with humble thanks for the mercies of this day we commend our selves and all we have into thy gracious hands intreating thee to preserve us from the sins and sorrows of the night and to grant us that safe and quiet rest whereby our bodies may be restored and our spirits revived for the service of the day following And that for Christs sake thine only Son and our alone Mediator and Advocate In whose Name therefore and in the confidence of whose Intercession we come unto thee and to whom with the Father and the Holy Ghost three Persons and one God we render as is most due all Honour Obedience and Thanksgiving now and evermore Amen I shall only add two short Prayers for Children whereby they may be trained up to this necessary duty that so they may get much acquaintance with God by beginning betimes if they live longer and may not be without all acquaintance with God and Godliness if they die sooner A Prayer for Children for the Morning MOst high and holy God who hast set thy glory above the Heavens and yet out of the mouths of little Children yea of Sucklings hast ordained strong and powerful praise I bless and magnifie thy Name which is so excellent for that out of thine unspeakable love thou hast given to thy children and to their children Jesus Christ and together with him all things that I am born in thy Church that thou hast so provided for my bringing up that I may know of a child the holy Scriptures which are able to make me wise unto Salvation that by thee I have been holden up from the womb who have been no way able to look to my self And in particular for that thou hast kept me in safety this last night and raised me up comfortably this morning O Lord I confess I am a transgressor from the womb for who can bring a clean thing out of an unclean not one And though I have lived but a while in the world yet I have sinned much so that it were just with thee suddenly to seize upon me and to take me out of this world before I am prepared for a better But Lord look upon me not as I am in my self but in Jesus Christ and in and through him pardon me who am so sinful Teach me who am so ignorant Sanctifie me who am so corrupt Make me to remember thee my Creator in the dayes of my youth Help me to hide thy Word in mine heart that I may not sin against thee but may thereby even while I am young clense and amend my wayes Order my steps in thy Word that no iniquity may have dominion over me And that I may not be wanting in any duty that thou requirest of me Grant me thy grace O God that I may be subject and obedient to my Parents and Governours tractable to my Teachers diligent in my business humble and gentle in my behaviour fearful to learn of any that which is evil and careful to learn of all that which is good Be pleased O Lord to strengthen and perfect my natural parts but especially vouchsafe that as I grow in years so I may grow in grace Protect and bless me I beseech thee this day throughout that in the evening I may praise thee for thy great goodness in Christ Jesus To whom with thee O Father and God the Holy Ghost be rendred all Glory Dominion and Service now and evermore Amen A Prayer for Children for the Evening O Most wise and gracious God I acknowledge my self a simple and sinful Creature I was shapen in iniquity and in sin did my Mother conceive me That foolishness which is bound in the heart of a child is fast bound in mine and that corruption which abides in all abounds in me which sadly shews it self in my backwardness and unwillingness in better things and my self-will and earnestness to walk in the wayes of mine heart and in the sight of mine eyes though for all such things thou wilt bring me to judgement Notwithstanding all this Be pleas'd O blessed Father to look upon me in thy Christ as thy child Unto me and into me let every good and saving gift come down from the Father of lights Give me so much understanding as to know my sin and judge my self for it so much repentance as to feel my sin and abhor my self for it and so much faith as to flie to Christ for pardon and power against
to the worse place but on the contrary Strive to enter in at the straight-gate and go in that narrow way though it be against the hair I mean your own corrupt and undoing hearts by walking wherein you shall assuredly come at last to the better place and possess that everlasting life which is the gift of God through Jesus Christ our Lord. For this purpose I have written these following Directions and Admonitions as not knowing what Guides or Goads you will have unto that which is good when I am gone but the better you observe these and all other godly Instructions the more hope you may have to have more of them mean-while I leave these with you which if you have not other helps will be the more needful and if you have other helps will make them the more useful That I might be more profitable to you I have endeavoured plainness yet I confess there is not so much of it as I intended or desired for all men have not that gift of making known their mind to others in a plain and familiar way And besides that something must be yielded to more ripe Readers and in divers things the matter hath carryed me above the capacity of many of you but the better use you make of that which you do understand the sooner you will understand the rest and you being acquainted so long with my way of teaching and manner of speaking may know and find out better then others what my meaning is To conclude Remember that what our Saviour long since said to prove himself the Messiah is fulfilled to you which is this The poor have the Gospel preached to them or they are the persons that are Gospel-lized that is the Gospel is theirs with all the comforts of it but know also that this is not meant of the poor in state only but which a poor state oft is and ever should be an help unto of those that are poor in spirit that though they have lived honestly among their neighbours see themselves undone without a Saviour and therefore when they have little or nothing else or whether they have or no make sure to have Him labour you to be in the number of those that are thus spiritually poor as by the providence of God many of you are outwardly low It 's a lamentable thing when they that have little in this world shall have nothing in the world to come not so much as a drop of water to cool their tongue in that place of torment That it may not be so with you Let me beseech you to study your Souls to esteem the words of Gods mouth whether you read them or hear them more then your necessary food to account one thing necessary which is to sit at Jesus feet and hear his Word from those whom he sends to speak to you This will not hinder you from labouring for your living for the Word of Christ binds you to it but it 's necessary to know there is a more necessary labour that is to know what God would have done first and to do it after For your assistance wherein I desire you to make conscience of the holy Exercises of Religion which are here commended unto you that so you may be furnished for bringing forth the fruits of godliness in your whole conversation Consider what I have said and the Lord give you understanding in all things and so bless unto you these and all other Instructions that you may thrive in knowledge grow in grace and persevere in faith and obedience that I may rejoyce in you and you in me in the day of the Lord Jesus Unto whom I commend you and to the Word of his Grace which is able to build you up and to give you an Inheritance among all them that are sanctified And so remain Your intirely-well-wishing Pastor willing to spend and be spent and now almost spent with and for you William Thomas The EPISTLE TO THE CHRISTIAN READER Dear Christians ALbeit the ensuing Instructions were purposely framed for my own Charge yet finding them to grow under my hand to a more full Treatise then was at first in my thoughts and that now they are like to come into many hands I conceive it needful to say something by way of Preface that what I have written may be more useful to any that shall think fit to read it That which I have to say concerneth the matter handled and the manner of writing The matter is wholly practical save that necessity hath compelled me for the establishing of practical Truths to mixe here and there that which is something controversal All as you may see is referred unto two heads that is Christian and Family-duties Of each sort there are four I shall before-hand give you a tast of them all The first of the first sort is the reading of the Scriptures which may well be put in the first place because the written Word is not only the Foundation of our Faith and the well-spring of saving wisdom but also the ground of Godliness the guide of Practise and a divine Directory for the performance of every good duty whereby not only the Minister and Man of God but the People of God the Sons and Daughters of the Lord God Almighty are educated unto and throughly furnished for every good work For the Scriptures are composed not as the writings of Heathens for vain-glory but for mens Salvation and the Spirit of God hath written them in a plain language that all may easily see what is said at least as far as fufficeth for the guiding of their faith and carriage and the safety of their souls and that no simple men as Chrysostom speaks might make this excuse that the Scriptures are hard for though there be difficulties therein to take down mens pride yet there is enough so plain that not only Gods workman that is the Minister but any workman may see the way to Heaven if he have eyes to see it for to see requires sight as well as light In the next place there is more particular Instructions given concerning the Sacrament of the Lords Supper and that not without need For where Salvation lies at the one end and Damnation at the other there 's great need of Direction that where we seek for the better of these we may not find the worse In the handling of this Subject I have been constrained unto a little further search both to give an account of my own sollicitousness about that Sacrament and withall by reason of the different perswasions of some learned and godly men who I hope will candidly interpret my Discourse because I have endeavoured to speak according to the sense of Scripture the consentient judgement of the Church of God and with declaration of due respect to those from whom I somewhat dissent This Sacrament-doctrine I have in the close
one and the same time is so remarkably heightened 3. If there must be a weekly day of Gods own Institution whether there be any other day of the week that can lay so good a claim to that sacred Institution and that hath such a divine Character put upon it as the first day of the week on which our Saviour rested from all his work and compleated the Redemption of Man-kind in his glorious Resurrection on which our great Lord hath set his own Name and that recorded in Scripture wherein also the holy Observation thereof is presented in Christian meetings and such acts and exercises as suit with the solemn time of Christians assembling themselves together And which is generally confest to be an Apostolical Prescription and so amounts to a divine Institution 4. This day being divinely instituted whether God will not be that day better served and the spiritual profit of Christians better provided for by making it an intire day of Rest holy to the Lord and to spiritual uses or by mixing our work with Gods and Play with Piety Such things as these and more weighty communications of better Writers being seriously considered will I doubt not work on those who desire to walk with God willingly and thankfully to sequester themselves from all other things to enjoy a blessed communion with their Lord every Lords-day and one day in seaven to be as it were in Heaven Thus of the first part of this little Tractate and of the Christian duties therein contained The Second part treateth of Family-duties I begin with Family-Catechising an exercise exceeding needful useful that they that are young may be acquainted with God betimes and thereby if they die sooner may be fitter for his Kingdom and fitter for his service if they live longer God would have all to be saved and come to the knowledge of the Truth but as blind Pastors and People so blind Housholders and Housholds fill hell And mean while make the World much worse then else it would be For Families are the original of all other greater Societies and want of Religious Education there is the cause why there are so few good servants for how shal an ignorant Son or Daughter that hath no knowledge or conscience be a good Servant And why there are so few good Wives and Husbands for how shall they be good together that were never bred up to be good asunder Yea is it not from hence that there are so many less sound or less godly Ministers namely because they have not been so trained up as young Timothy was who from a child had known the holy Scriptures It s true that sometimes Religion is in the house and yet not in the heart at least of most in the House but if it be in the heart I am sure it will be in the house Yea as there shall be occasion in every house for the grace that is in a sincere and right heart is like the oyntment of ones right hand which bewrayeth it self being ever un-satisfied unless it disperse and send abroad the sweet savour of the knowledge of Christ in every place especially the Vicinity but most of all the Family I proceed from this to the thing I principally aimed at and indeed only intended when I first set upon this work namely to set forward the Duty of Family-Prayer For though God will do much for the house of Israel and for every house in Israel yet his Will is to be sought that he may do it for them Heaven is a rich storehouse and we have a Joseph there that is willing to nourish us lest we and our houshold and all that we have come to poverty yet it s necessary for us to go thither with our suits and supplications as the sons of Jacob went into Egypt with their sacks that so opening our mouths wide the Lord Jesus may fill them Ther 's treasure enough in God's House for us and for our houses but when God hath put a Key into our hand that is Prayer to open the door we must either turn the Key or not expect the Treasure men lust and have not labour and have not fight and scramble for the world and yet they have not or have not in mercy Hos 13. 11. because they ask not Now because some weak Christians may say with Jeremy Behold I cannot speak I cannot pray for I am a child therefore I thought it would be profitable for their help and education as it were to the duty of Prayer to put some Prayers into their hands thought it be God only that must put a spirit of Prayer into their hearts This is a course that heretofore hath found acceptance but now it needs an Apology considering that in late times Forms have been so much out of request that God's external Ordinances and holy Institutions of one kind and another have passed and suffered reproach and that with divers of better report heretofore but None but God knows who are his under the contemptible name of Forms of Religion too low for Christians of the upper Form Now if any yet there be that count themselves above Ordinances I must leave them as far above my persuasions But as for modest Christians who howsoever they may be somewhat doubtful about the use of Forms of Prayer yet are teachable and capable of satisfaction I shall endevour to give it them And therefore I willingly acknowledg and would have both those of my own Charge and other Christians to know that such Forms are not so properly intended for grown and exercised Christians albeit they being humble will know they may receive help and improvement from them but they are composed for young Beginners and for them also not to tie them up but to train them up as they use to do little Children to go first by a Form that leaving the form which was a great help at first they may go at length on their own legs without leaning on such Supports Blessed Bradford that high and humble Martyr when he was in Prison wrote a prayer for his Mother that she might learn how to pray for him and desired her to get it by heart and to say it dayly and he wrote another for all her house to make use of in their Evening Prayer Unto which I add that although poor and low yea the lowest Christians may and should take more liberty in private between God and themselves and not be afraid or backward to groan out their desires before the Lord yet the assistance and supplies of Prayers made to their hands is for such needful to enable them to appear before others and to be their mouth in the duty of Prayer I say needful that neither the service may be contemptible to those that be bad nor unprofitable and tedious to those that be better Briefly Formes of Prayer whereof the eaâ—e many
though it concern Magistrates more then others yet all have need enough to nourish humility especially that are in any higher place and order and that he turn not aside from the commandement to the right hand or the left These being the reasons why Kings are required to read Scripture Who shall exempt himself from it for Are notall bound to fear the Lord yea all the Inhabitants of the world are to stand in awe of him And doth not the Scripture require of all to walk in all the wayes that God hath commanded without turning aside to the right hand or the left What is spoken therefore to the King doth for the same common reasons concern all as if a King be perswaded to eat and drink that he may have strength when he goeth on his way as Saul sometimes was no man sayes That belongs to a King and not to me but every man for the same reason eats and drinks likewise This is put out of question because there is an express command to gather men women and children to hear the Law read upon the very same account that the King is called to read it that is that they might learn to fear God and observe to do all the words of that Law It 's true that Great-men and Gentlemen have some greater cause in regard of their greater tentations to exercise themselves in the reading of Scripture as that their hearts may not be lift up though God knows that divers of them who need it most use it least the more they have to answer for but it no way followeth that because a man that hath a great journey to go had need to eat more as Elijah had that therefore he may let eating and drinking alone that stayes at home 3. It may further be added that a motive to perform a duty if it be common to all is a good plain proof that the duty belongs to all and so it is here for the King is encouraged to read the Law and to observe it by proposing to him this end That he may prolong his dayes in his Kingdom he and his children in the midst of Israel which is other-where assured to all the people of God on the same ground according to their place and quality and in the land which they possess Deut. 5. 33. 6. 2. Secondly The reading of Scripture is enjoyned on Ministers for to them it is said Give attendance to reading It is not said indeed to the reading of Scripture but though that be not expressed yet that it is meant appears by the following words to exhortation to doctrine that therefore is the reading principally at least intended which is helpful to a Minister for the two great parts of his Ministery Exhortation and Doctrine and what that is we find by the Apostle writing to Titus which applyeth it to the faithful Word and tells him that that Word is to be held fast and therefore to be read that he may be able by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convince the gain-sayers Object Great reason a Minister should read Scripture but that proves not that People are bound to do it His work lies there theirs other-where Answ It proves not indeed that they should give such and so much attendance to reading as a Minister ought to do but yet it proves sufficiently they should attend it because it belongs to all Christians as well though not as much as to a Minister to exhort and admonish which is done best in the words of Scripture yea they that have spent some good time in Religion ought to be teachers of others also I do not mean as intruding to the office of Preaching but in a way of charity and brotherly assistance And moreover since it belongs to Saints to contend for the faith committed to their trust it will follow from thence that they should have some convincing skill also for the better maintaining of the truth of God which is to be had by reading and searching the Word of God by which Aquila and Priscilla were enabled to instruct Apollo and that old Confessor spoken of in the Ecclesiastial Story to convince that subtile Philosopher that opposed Christianity in those times Thirdly The reading of Scripture is commanded the People of God generally for unto them it is said Remember the Law of Moses my servant which I commanded unto him in Horeb for all Israel with the Statutes and Judgements The intent of which Scripture is this that since they were to be many years without Prophets to preach to them Malachi being the last Prophet of the Old Testament therefore that they might neither lose their Religion nor forget their consolation they should diligently read and study the Scriptures which are called the Law of Moses not as excluding the Prophets for under the name of the Law the Prophets are also contained insomuch that what was written in the Psalms and in the Prophet Isaiah is said to be written in the Law but as making the Law whereof the Prophets were the Interpreters and Appliers the sum of the Old Testament-doctrine to be remembered and therefore to be read the often reading thereof being the best way to keep it in mind and that by the generality of Gods people when their Teachers were gone Unto this we may add that when there were again Teachers in Israel yet our Saviour saith and he saith it to the Jews generally Search the Scriptures Joh. 5. 39. meaning the Scriptures of the Old Testament And they that are bound and commanded to search a Book are sure therewithal bound and commanded if they can to see and read it We say He 's well read in a Book that hath well searched it And for the New Testament and Gospel-Word the Apostles counsel and command to Christians is Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly Now though the Word may dwell plentifully in a good Hearer yet by hearing and reading both it must needs dwell in him more richly Experience shews that religious Readers are rich and ripe in Scripture-knowledge Thus for Scripture-commands Now for Scripture-reasons for Scripture-reading First The Scriptures are written for the use of the whole Church either for their use or to leave them without excuse and therefore it 's urg'd as a great aggravation of Israels sin I have written to himthe great things of my Law but they were counted as a strange thing God might have continued to make known his mind as at first he did by tradition and delivering his Will by word of mouth from one to another had it not been for this as for one reason that by writing the Word of God might be more exposed to the veiw of Ministers and People that both might read it and so the better study it and meditate upon it And wherefore did the Apostles write their Epistles to
or in what way may this Repentance be attained Answ By seeing what and how great our offences are by the Law and whom and how gracious a God we have offended by the Gospel whereupon ariseth through the grace of God for Repentance is his grant a true trouble and grief of heart for so great offences committed against so gracious a God look'd upon with the eye of faith which together with a real purpose of amendment for time to come is the sum of true Repentance 30. Quest How shall I know that I do truly and in an acceptable measure mourn for my sin Answ By three things First If I grieve for sin as I use to do for an outward cross or some lamentable loss Secondly if when I cannot reach that sorrow that I find in my self in outward afflictions I mourn over the hardness of my heart and am sorry that I can be no more sorrowful Thirdly if there be such a measure of sorrow as makes Christ precious and sin odious 31. Quest How shall I know whether I do really and stedfastly purpose amendment of life Answ I may know by this that I have steadfastly purposed to turn to God before the Sacrament if no perswasion be able to draw me away from God after the Sacrament or if there be any failing I find it to be extreamly bitter 32. Quest What is further required in us when we come to partake in the Lords Supper Answ A chief thing required is that excellent and necessary grace of Faith whereby being able upon good grounds to apply unto our selves the writing and promises of Gods Word summed up in Christ we may boldly come and take the Sacrament which is the Seal of the Promises that thereby we may be further assured and poslessed of all the good things which God hath promised 33. Quest What marks are there of this faith Answ Faith when it is exercised about Gods Ordinances works in the Believer First a longing after them Secondly a purifying of the heart that he may be fit for them Thirdly a great rejoycing in them 34. Quest Is there yet any other thing required that the Sacrament may be worthily received Answ In regard of men there must be Charity that as we meet together in one House and at one Table and eat together of one Bread and Body and drink together into one Spirit so we may be all united together in love yea be of one heart and soul Act. 4. 32. 35. Quest What special mark is there of this charity Answ Prayer for all shews love to all In particular for those who have wronged us formerly it will be great proof of our love if when we come to the Sacrament we can pray for them heartily 36. Quest What necessity is there of making it such a business to prepare for this Sacrament Answ Because they who through neglect of Preparation eat and drink unworthily eat and drink judgement and without repentance damnation unto themselves 1 Cor. 11. 29. And preparation is better then damnation 37. Quest But what on the other side shall men gain by it if they do thus religiously prepare themselves Answ Who so eateth the Flesh and drinketh the Bloud of the Son of God as in a spiritual manner every worthy and well-prepared Receiver doth he shall have yea he hath that which every man so much desires to have even eternal life Joh. 6. 54. CHAP. III. Of the Estimation due to the Ministers of Christ Considering the great dishonour that hath been poured upon Ministers of late I mean not only a rude reproach of their Persons such as there hath ever been by profane men but a deliberate and studied contempt both of their Persons and their Calling not only vomitted as it was wont to be out of the Tavern or Alehouse but vented from the Pulpit and Press and that by men professing godliness there will therefore be need enough after I have spoken of the Word and Sacrament to write something to reduce and compose the mindes of Christians to that reverence that is due to the Lords Officers who are by his appointment and authority to preach the Word administer the Sacraments and generally the persons to whom the dispensation of Church-Ordinances is committed For which purpose my work shall be only to open and treat upon one Text of Scripture which fully and powerfully sets forth the honour due from the people of God unto the Ministry and in special such as labour amongst them The Text is 1 Thess 5 12 13. And we besetch you Brethren to know them which labour amongst you and are over you in the Lord and admonish you And to esteem them very highly in love for their works sake In which words we have set down both Ministers office and Peoples duty The Office of Ministers is described and set forth in three things 1. They are such as labour which is principally in the Word and Doctrine 2. They are over the people of God that is it is their office to rule over them to w. t in the Lord which shews that it is by authority from the Lord and that it must be according to Gods Word and Will unto which all their ruling power whether in Doctrine or Discipline is to be conformed and thereunto to be confined 3. They are to admonish to wit for the better speeding of their work in the two former parts of their office that is Preaching and Ruling For 1. Teaching shews the right and the good way and then admonition is as a goad and a nail to hasten the Travellour and fasten the Truth in the heart of the Hearer Teaching informs and Admonition forms the minds and manners of the people of God to what is taught them from God 2. Ruling chargeth and presseth upon People the command of Christ with presenting and inflicting if there be a necessity of it Church-censures Now in this case admonition is of use to prevent rigor as Parents warnings are to prevent correction or to sweeten severity if it be not prevented by letting men know the good and gain that is in it as the sweet words of parents heal the stripes of children And lastly it serves to procure the better success to any severer course John 5. 14. 2 Thess 3. 15. Of the Office of Ministers I shall say no more but to make the better way to peoples duty must needs grant that if a Minister perform not takes no care to perform makes no conscience of performing these parts of his office then though honour be alwayes due to his calling yet he deprives himself of that honour which otherwise would accrue and be due to his person in reference to that calling for the honour is tied to the well-performing of the office The Elders that rule well are they that are worthy of
Law written with his own finger in full force to the end of the world a weekly Sabbath If any ask and would know further What need there is of it The answer may be 1. That the Lord hath need of it that the work of Creation and Redemption may be remembred and our Creator and Redeemer publiquely and solemnly served and glorified 2. That man hath need of it for the Sabbath was made for man that is both for his spiritual and corporal good It was not without need that God made the Sabbath either for himself or for us Indeed but one thing is needful and that is to sit at Christs feet and hear his Word as it ought to be heard Which though it may be done other dayes yet not so fully and hopefully as on that day when all other things are laid aside to apply our selves wholly to the concernments of our Souls On other dayes there is more of Martha that is the world is mixt and is a partner but on this day with Mary we choose if we have Maries grace the good part and provide to attend upon the Lord without distraction On other dayes our hearts like the Jews garments hang loose on this day if we mind our duty we gird up the loins of our mind and so may run as Elijah before Ahab when he had girded up his loins the way of Gods Commandements 1 King 18. 46. Psal 119. 32. On other dayes the Moon is between us and the Sun I mean earthly and sublunary things stand between us and the Sun of Righteousness whereby there is an Eclipse that we can not so fully enjoy him but now on the Lords day if we be Christians we should if wise we will if good and faithful we shall tread the Moon under our feet and as in Solomon's Royal and Incomparable Throne the footstool was of gold so being taken up on that Ascension-day to Mount Tabor we shall make the most golden world our foot-stool and the necessary supports thereof like Zacheus his Sycomore-tree helps being under us to see Jesus the better that having a full view of him and fellowship with him of his fulness we may receive grace for grace Some men talk of an every-dayes Sabbath but as to make every man a Magistrate is to take away Magistracy and to let every man be a Minister is to take away the Ministry so to make every day a Sabbath is to say No day shall be a Sabbath They may call every day a Sabbath because we are to rest and abstain from sin every day but herein they deceive themselves in that they do not consider that on the Sabbath day we must not only abstain from sinful things albeit then we should abhor them most but from those things that are not sinful on other dayes but lawful and needful and which it is a sin not to look after as the works of our ordinary Callings for look how a Subject that is called to wait on his Prince is not only to leave his good Fellows and that loose and vain company which he ought alwayes to separate himself from but also his Wife Children whole Family and all his domestick affairs which out of this case and when there is no such Call it is his sin to be unnecessarily absent from and his duty to abide with and take care of and so when our Lord calls us to wait on him a whole day together as he doth on the Lords day all other things are for that time to be laid aside save only those which our Lord alloweth us though at other times lawful and necessary When two good things are to be done and both cannot be done our reason will tell us that it is necessary for that time to leave the less and apply our selves to the greater which being well considered will amount to this that it is necessary that there earthly things should be for a convenient time with-drawn from that is that there should be a weekly Sabbath for that 's the most convenient time to give up our selves intirely to those things that ought to be highest in our account to wit the honour and service of our God and the salvation of our souls It 's a poor plea to say I must needs go see my Ground when God calls to his Supper but it 's a good pleading of necessity to say I must needs goe see my God Psal 63. 2. Now whereas on working dayes the world doth as it were cover our faces with a vail and cast dust on the divine Glass on the Lords day by laying aside earthly things and thoughts the covering is put away from our face as from Moses face when he left all to appear before the Lord that we may see the King in his glory yea so see him as to become glorious our selves with that sight For we all to wit who by admirable grace have received the Spirit of God with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of God are transformed into the same Image from glory to glory 2 Cor. 3. 18. 2. The Commodity of the Christian Sabbath What is said of Godliness may be said of the Day of God which is the Nurse of Godliness that it is profitable to all things I mean being spiritually observed for otherwise the bodily exercise profiteth little The weekly Sabbath like the Vine whose Wine cheareth God and Man yeeldeth much assistance for the performance of the duties of the first and second Table 1. Of the First Table Of the first Commandement for therein is an acknowledgement of God our Creator as the only true God maker of Heaven and Earth in the proportion of time that is in observing a Sabbath every seventh day after our six dayes work And an acknowledgement also of God our Saviour in our particular Sabbath-day in these Gospel times That of the Prophet is very observable They have hid their eyes from my Sabbaths that is they slight them as Hos 8. 12. And what followeth And I am profaned among them that is dishonoured accounted as nought among them as if I were not a God Dutch Annot. Of the Second Commandement Because the Worship of God required in that Commandement is on that day most improved and heightened As being 1. More extended because all both Superiours and those under them and within their Gates are then to wait on God in the way of his Worship Hence it is conceiv'd that whereas these two Ye shall fear every Man his Mother and his Father and shall keep my Sabbaths are joyned together the reason thereof may be this because Fathers and Mothers and Governours to whom the fourth Commandement is directed not only but eminently are to see that their Children and Servants keep the Lords Sabbaths and Children and Servants should so far fear and reverence them as herein to be ruled by them and so there will be a
large in all godliness of life all the days of the week and of our life only with this difference that things lawful on other days by the allowance of Scripture and needful also are on the Sabbath-day unlawful because of the distinction made in the fourth Commandement between the Rest and holiness of that weekly day and the work and imployment of the six working-days On all days we should be sober righteous and godly but on the Lords-day we should be in the Spirit more high more ghostly more heavenly and as Moses when he was with God in the Mount more resplendent by the beauty of Holiness Thus of the Sabbath-duty I come now as the Text leads me 3. To the Sabbath Promises ver 14. In the opening of these Promises I shall proceed the better by taking along with me an Observation brought to my hand which is this As the Precepts before are Evangelical so the Promises here are not Jewish or earthly but heavenly for the good things mentioned in the former verse are the operations of the Spirit of God unto which the good things of this world being far inferior they are not so sutable a reward nor is it for Him that is most liberal so to reward them Yet there is no cause of excluding those outward comforts which the letter of the Text in the latter part of the verse layeth before us and which are other-where promised to those that hallow the Sabbath-day the contrary evils whereunto came as hath been shewed on the Jews when they did profane it But it 's true that worldly commodities and contentments are not here promised only the first promise is very spiritual nor chiefly but rather when these outward things are mentioned sutable to the Ear and to the Heart and to the state of a Jew and which God was ready to perform to them in the letter I say when these things are mentioned in the Old Testament higher and more spiritual things are usually meant yea a reward reaching to Eternity which through Jesus Christ our Lord is given to the sincere and spiritual observers of Gods Commandements whereof this of the Sabbath is one and therefore the good promises laid down here may well be taken in that extent whereof there is the more reason because the later promises here specified are in the tenour of them and as they stand in the letter proper to the Jewish people and therefore either this Scripture must not be for our use or else some other thing must be meant then the words in themselves express I shall therefore take the Promises as they lie in the Text and take in all the commodity and comfort whether outward or spiritual that may be truly collected from them to encourage all men in the Sabbath duty and consequently in the pursuit of all Religion which is the thing that is intended in and which ariseth from the holy observation of the Sabbath-day Now whereas Pleasure and Preferment and Profit are the great Motives to make men to do willingly what is desired or required of them all these are here set before us as the reward of Sabbath-Piety 1. Pleasure Then shalt thou delight thy self in the Lord This is a special and most spiritual promise unto that man to whom the study of Vertue and Sanctification of the Sabbath is a delight the Lord himself shall be in stead of all delights which may be said to be especially by a more abundant fellowship with God on that day wherein we lay all aside that we may associate and solace our selves with Him This delightsom Communion with God is enjoyed three wayes 1. In the Ministery of the Word whereby we have fellowship indeed with Ministers but truly their fellowship and so that fellowship is with the Father and with his Son Jesus Christ and what 's the effect of it but delight and full joy For the goodness of Gods House is very satisfying and by hearing the Word we eat that which is good and the soul delights it self in fatness 2. In the duty of Private Meditation wherein the faithful soul is satisfied as with marrow and fatness by the remembrance of God 3. In Prayer for delight in the Almighty is accompanyed with lifting up the face to God to look for every good thing from Him when on the contrary the hypocrite that delighteth not himself in him will not always call on him but others are joyful in the House of Prayer Isa 56. 7. In such wayes as these God makes his faithful servants to drink of the River of his delights having to do with God their exceeding joy Psal 43. 4. And the delight is more large and full by those many considerations of one kind and another by which this great Lord makes himself most amiable and wholly delectable to those that are acquainted with him as the great benefit of his Providence which makes them resolve to own him and set up their Rest in him together with his safe and sweet protection not only from outward but spiritual Enemies and Evils which makes them sit under his shadow with great delight unto which we may add their outward enjoyments the comfortable use whereof being well sum'd up is nothing else but a delighting themselves in the great goodness of God Briefly the light of Gods countenance the benefit of his counsel here and the assurance of his glory hereafter make his most afflicted servants upon serious consideration and Sanctuary information exceedingly to rejoyce and glory in him and to do as they do who would take their fill of delight one with another and that is to shut all others out and say None but Thee Psal 73. 24 25. Thus the duty and reward have both one name Delight in the Sabbath of the Lord is the duty and Delight in the Lord of the Sabbath is the reward O How poor and base are the delights of those men unto whom the holiness of the Sabbath-day yea by the same reason of any day is a heavy and ill-belov'd business They can delight in a Dinah they have what they would have when they walk in lasciviousness lusts excess of Wine Revellings Banquetings And they that are something better yet rejoyce and delight in a thing of nought as Wealth Power Policy their delights at best are but the delights of the sons of men Eccles 2. 8. not of the sons of God for They say The desire of our soul is to thee and the remembrance of thee This is a well-grounded well-placed and hopeful delight for it is in Him that is Almighty al-sufficient a profitable delight for it 's a very great absurdity and Atheism to say It profiteth a man nothing that he should delight himself with God I say to say so deliberately and not in some great tentation It is a sweet delight for it is in him that is altogether
agree with the Word of God and the general Doctrine of Religion as it hath a just influence into this particular Sabbath-subject But withal let it be observed that if a man will lean to his own understanding and entertain a conference with flesh and bloud with an accounting of the great things of Gods Law as a strange thing he may easily and think he doth it very substantially dispute God out of his time and make himself believe that he hath more days in a week for his own use in worldly thoughts words and actions then six yea and that pleading so much for the Lords-day is but preciseness and rather a weak then a wise mans work arguing at best only a good meaning but a shallow brain Whereas on the contrary he that saith unto Scripture Wisdom Thou art my Sister and calleth spiritual Vnderstanding his Kinswoman he that feareth to be disobedient to the heavenly Vision he that counteth godliness gain and knoweth how much godliness gaineth by a godly observation of the Lords-day will soon see cause of being of another mind considering how much the Word of God pleadeth for Sabbath-holiness and how on and by that day and the duties thereof the interest cause and concernments of godliness are principally promoted I wish all good Christians therefore that are of doubtful mindes in this matter to try the more strict doctrine of the Sabbath whether it be of God or no by betaking themselves to the holy practise of those things that are taught them concerning that Day Experience useth to put an happy end to endless disputes about practical truths and things otherwise hardly determinable for the result and good effect thereof is this Behold Now I know c. Some may say as Nathaniel Can there any good thing come out of Nazareth so out of such sowre Sabbath-strictness This is a question that may be long under the debate of humane reason that is as proud as blind the easiest way to decide it is Come and see Let every sincere Nathaniel put it to the trial and then the conclusion will be like to be such a resolution about the Lords-day as there was in Nathaniel about the Lord of that day which in allusion to what he said may be expressed thus Thou art the Day of God Thou art the Queen of Dayes Could we but call the Sabbath a delight Did we but know it to be so experimentally the comfort of it would soon answer all Lion-like arguments that rise up and roar against it and rent them as one would rent a Kid if not by just solutions and formal answers which belongs to the learned who have done it and will do it yet by firm resolutions and just detestations and that not without reason enough founded on the sense of the sweetness they have found in their conversing with the holy God on his holy day so that an Advocate for the Sabbath shall never be wanting till the godly man ceaseth whose delight it is I say whose delight it is Not that I think it an easie or common thing to call the Sabbath a delight or that all that fear the Lord have the like delight in the Lords-day affectionate Christians feel it most and in old Disciples it lies deepest the more maturity the more complacency and the more acquaintance with God the more delight in him for the delight followeth the acquaintance Nor do I mean that they who do delight in it delight alike in it at all times and on all Sabbath-days corruption and tentation yea and the various operations and incomes of the Spirit who bloweth where and in whom it listeth and in them when it listeth make a great difference Besides that age or distemper of body or oppression of spirit by some heavy burthen that lies upon it are great impediments to delight And they that are in affliction and need Gods Ordinances most rellish them best to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet and so every sweet thing is more sweet and delightsom such things as these must be granted that the Doctrine of Sabbath-delight may not be rejected nor they dejected who reach not so far as others do in their rejoycings on that day But yet that there is truly a delight in that day and the service thereof in those that truly fear the Lord and think upon his Name sufficiently appeareth in that they bless the Lord with all their hearts and souls for appointing such a day for when should we have set a part a whole day in any due distance for God and for the enjoying of God if God had not done it himself And in that they would not for all the world be without it for what 's the world without the Sun or without the Sabbath wherein the Sun of Righteousness shineth out and that the day throughout and that with a special blessing of God following and improving the beams thereof for our spiritual benefit and soul-refreshing We may very well say that no Sabbath passeth without some delight and satisfaction to the true Disciples of Jesus Christ But at times they are taken up with Christ on that day as it were into an high Mountain apart where they see his face shine as the Sun and are so extraordinarily taken and delighted with what they see and feel that they say feelingly It is good for us to be here In brief The Sabbath with the prescribed Ordinances and Exercises of that day is towards their latter end especially like Mount Abarim to Moses wherein they see much of the Heavenly Canaan And at any other time when they that walk with God being clog'd and dull'd with corruption sorrow affliction tentation delight less in it they do then and therefore delight less in themselves But that there should be any true delight in God and his Ordinances and no delight in that day wherein they are most dispensed and best attended is as unlike as that a Jew should be without rejoycing at their great Festival days or that it should not be merry when friends meet or that Simeon should not take pleasure in that day wherein he took up the child Jesus in his arms for the Lords-day is Christians Feasting-day Christians gladsom meeting-day and the day wherein they being met together Christ who is the Consolation of Israel promiseth to be in the midst of them Is 't possible that on the day wherein they sit under the shadow of their dear Lord wherein they tast of his sweet fruit wherein he brings them to the Banqueting-house and spreads his Banner of Love over them they should then be without Cordial-content That they are not without such content appears because all the six days Sollicitors that is all worldly things and carnal company are kept off on that day of retiredness with God yea and charged and even adjured not to disturb their sweetest
fellowship with the Father and with his Son Jesus Christ Albeit therefore I shall easily grant that we have great cause to desire God to be merciful to us in this thing that our delight in sabbath-Sabbath-duties is so dim yet it doth not follow from thence that there is none If God should take away Sabbaths from us I doubt not but that in all good Christians the grief would prove the delight for no man is grieved to lose what he never lov'd nor took any pleasure in I say it is thus in all good and truly godly and especially greatly-godly persons for as the man is so is his delight No marvel if the men of the world say When will the Sabbath be gone No wonder if the holy and strict observation thereof be unto carnal people and persons that savour not the things of God like Saul's Armour to David they cannot tell how to go with or undergo matters of so spiritual a nature for they never prov'd them they were never us'd to such things But on the other side the same spiritual observation of the Lords-day unto a spiritual Christian is like Jonathan's robe and his garments even his Sword his Bow and his Girdle to the same David which no doubt he us'd and wore with much delight they being great testimonies of Jonathan's singular love to him and signs and symbols of the Covenant made with him as also the Lords-Sabbath and the Ordinances thereof are great tokens of his special love to us and a sign of his holy Covenant made with us Ezek. 20. 12. O why should not the Lords-day be our delight Is there not full joy in fellowship with God the Father and with Jesus Christ in the Preaching and with the Preachers of the Gospel Is not Christ who is observed to appear on that day again and again to his Disciples after his Resurrection and is still in the Assemblies of the Saints and in the Ministry of his Servants I say Is not He the desire and the delight of all Nations And who is it that is the Comforter and solace of Saints but that holy Spirit with whom the Servants of God have much to do on that day in heavenly Meditations So that if the whole Trinity Father Son and Holy Ghost can minister any delight unto us then may we call the Sabbath a delight for therein God our Creator Redeemer and Sanctifier doth eminently appear and operate This is a day very useful and subservient to all the necessities of our souls If we be ignorant in any thing or in many things on this day we are all taught of God It 's a Soul-enlightning day If we be as we are Strangers in the Earth on this day we are most taught the way to our Countrey It 's a Soul-guiding day Psal 73. 17 24. If we hunger and thirst after Righteousness the spiritual Manna falls from Heaven and water comes out of that Rock which is Christ principally upon this day It 's a Soul-satisfying day If we languish under spiritual diseases or lie low under outward calamities on this day the Lord offereth Medicines in the Ministry for all our Maladies It 's a Soul-restoring-day Christ heals still on Sabbath days And that I may once conclude could we be in the Spirit upon the Lords-day as we ought to be or as we might be for I do not mean extraordinarily as John was but having our hearts taken up with and heightned in the pure spiritual observation of it we might have then a fair sight yea a sweet sense of that unspeakably glorious Sabbath which right and real Saints shall shortly celebrate all together in the heavenly Canaan where there remaineth a rest or the keeping of a Sabbath to the people of God Heb 4. 9. The Second Part. CHAP. I. Of Family-Duties AFter the four Christian-duties spoken of in the fore-going part I shall now proceed to four other Family-duties the first whereof because Religion is rooted in knowledge may well be Family-Catechising I say Family-Catechising for I shall not here speak of Catechising in its general extent but only apply my self to it as it is a duty belonging to Christians in their several Families which godly Exercise I shall endeavour to assist and perswade unto by Texts of Scripture first and some Arguments and Motives after Texts of Scripture to prove Catechising in Families a duty It is not my purpose here to mention every Text of Scripture that gives strength to this necessary duty but shall content my self with the naming and with the opening of two Texts in the Old-Testament and one in the New The first in the Old Testament is Deut. 6. 6 7. These words which I command thee this day shall be in thy heart And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house and when thou walkest by the way and when thou liest down and when thou risest up For the opening of this Scripture and the awakening of Conscience to a due consideration of it there comes to be considered in the first place Who it is that speaks in it even the Eternal God by his Servant Moses that was faithful in all his house Remember that it is He that saith Keep these words that I command thee this day But How must Parents keep them For to Parents and every Parent God here speaks and in answer to that question saith These words shall be in thine heart yet are they not only to be in the hearts of those that have Families but in their houses therefore it is added Thou shalt teach them thy children Nor was this a Ceremonial Precept or a Commandement given peculiarly to the Jews for their assistance in the remembrance of the Law of God as their Phylacteries fringes and fastning the Law to their door-posts but it was and is a moral and perpetual Precept binding us in Gospel-times as well as them and therefore the very same things that we read in this Text we find also in the New-Testament That is 1. That the Word of Christ must dwell in us which is all one with this here Let it be in thine heart And 2. That it must be in our houses also for Parents are required to bring up their children in the nurture and information of the Lord In obedience therefore to this standing Command they to whom God hath given children should say as the Psalmist doth Come ye children hearken to me I will teach you the fear of the Lord And when the children be come together the Spirit of God in the Text we have in hand teacheth in what manner they are to be taught saying Thou shalt teach them diligently and in the margent of our Bibles it is Thou shalt whet or sharpen which is well and plainly expressed in the Text by teaching diligently but yet the word in the Original doth
their ungodliness As it will never serve to excuse the excess of intemperate and immodest men and women that God hath not told them how much they shall eat or what clothes they shall put on so neither will it serve to excuse their defects in Prayer or any other Christian duty that God hath not spoken particullarly and punctually of it for they ought to reverence the General Rules and as neer as may be to mould their carriage according to the mind of God and herein be like the Angels who do not only obey the precise Precepts of their glorious Lord and God but delight to fulfill all his pleasure and what they conceive by any hint they have from Him to be acceptable to Him Beneplaciti nomine laetum hilare obsequium exprimit ac si dixisset Angelos non solum Dei Praeceptis obsequentes esse sed libentèr cum summa oblectatione accipere ejus nutus ut ejus bene placitis obtemperent Calv. in Psal 103. 21. Thus for the grounds of Scripture whereon Family-Prayer is founded I come now to some Reasons agreeable unto Scripture which may further perswade to this duty I shall insist upon three only First God requires homage and service not only from single Persons but from Societies and Companies of men As 1. From a Land and Nation as appears from the Lords calling of his People the Jews to the three solomn Feasts ordinarily besides the New-Moons wherein Families used to joyn together in Sacrificing And to the duty of Fasting both yearly and on extraordinary occasions Joel 2. 15 16. 2. From particular Churches in the New-Testament which according to the will God were to joyn in spiritual worship and in the duty of Prayer 1 Tim. 2 1 2. 1 Cor. 11. 4. with 1 Cor. 14. 14 15 16. 3. From particular Companies partaking in the same favour If ten Lepers be cured and but one return to give thanks Christ saith Where are the other nine being not content that less then ten should joyn together in thanksgiving for the mercy that ten receive Experience tells us how agreeable this Society-service is to right reason for a King coming to the Vniversity looks for Vniversity and a kind of Universal entertainment And coming to a Town-corporate expects not only significations of love and loyalty from single persons but humble addresses also from the Corporation Since therefore every Family is an united Body that Body and Society should own and acknowledge God in the performance of united Service else the Lord may say This and that person served me but I had no service from the Family Secondly This reason and this duty is the rather to be urged from a further reason which is this wheresoever there are common concernments or common causes of seeking to God there should be a common and joynt feeking and therefore in Families for there are there sins wants mercies and afflictions wherein the whole Family in concern'd 1. Sins which though committed by some or by one only yet endanger the whole Houshold as we know Achan's sin did and therefore for the glorifying of God and the preventing of their general suffering it behooves all of them with one consent to acknowledge the sin committed by any of them in which way they may hope for reconciliation such as Abigail found with David when being not guilty her self she confessed the folly of her guilty Husband 1 Sam. 25 25 34 35. It 's wisdom for the Father of a Family to be like Aaron that is to take a course for an atonement for himself and his Houshold which will be best done in Job's way that is by calling the Family together sanctifying them offering the sacrifice of a broken heart and flying to the Sacrifice of a broken Christ Job 1. 5. 2. Wants Family-wants there are and ever will be as want of health of strength of ease perhaps of bread Here all should joyn together to beg of God what is wanting because there will be a common comfort in the enjoying of it and by their common Prayer they are the more like to obtain it as hath been shewed before 3. Mercies As peace protection health plenty wherein the whole Family partaking the Governour thereof hath great reason to say to all that are under his roof O magnifie the Lord with me and let us exalt his Name together God loves to hear the voyce of Rejoycing not only in the Closets and Chambers but in the Tabernacles of the righteous And therefore gave this command to his people of old Thou shalt rejoyce in every good thing which the Lord thy God hath given unto thee and unto thine house Deut. 26. 11. 4. Afflictions If but one person in a Family being under the hand especially an heavier hand of God the whole Family susters The more reason therefore there is to joyn together that by the joynt petition of all that may be removed which is grievous to all Even Nature will teach that coming with one accord is the most likely way to remove high displeasure This may in part shew that to omit Family-Prayer is not only an ungodly thing but an unreasonable and a great disadvantage as well as a defect Thirdly I reason further for this duty from the persons that neglect calling upon God with their housholds and from the reason of that neglect 1. The persons neglecting this Duty are usually men less fearing God less acquainted with Religinn and cold in the profession and practice of it For as for gracious and grown Christians there is we may say a common instinct of piety and holy impulsion of heart that puts them upon this duty Insomuch that the looking up of Housholders with their houshold unto God seems not so much to require Reason to inforce it as a vigorous Religion which will certainly infer it 2. As to the causes of the neglect they are the more considerable because the truth is that this question Whether Housholders ought to perform the duty of Prayer with those belonging unto them will be most plainly answered by another Question which is this What good reason can any man give why he doth not especially why he will not pray in his Family Now the causes of the neglect will as I conceive be found such as these 1. In lower and poorer people ignorance and unacquaintedness with Religion They are loth to be persuaded to do what they find it will be hard to do and which they see in themselves little ability to perform And yet this will not excuse them because there are so many helps for Prayer as will prove their fault to be want of hearts to that duty That therefore which such are to do is to follow on to know the Lord and then they shall know and get such ability from that which God speaks to them as to be able
themselves competently and comfortably to speak in Prayer unto God for Revelation is the Rise of Supplication 2 Sam. 7. 27. 2. In worse persons Profaneness is an Enemy to Prayer and an aversness from the service of God yea not only a loathness but a loathing to look after religious duties Wicked men leave off to be wise and to do good and say of the offering of spiritual Sacrifices to God Behold what a weariness is it yea perhaps they are loth to stoop so low as to be so much Disciples and to bow down and kneel before the Lord their Maker in the presence of those belonging to their charge Psal 95. 6. being therein of Michals haughty mind 2 Sam. 6. 20. 3. Spiritual sloth and a lazy listlesness makes people unwilling to buckle with such a duty and to take the pains to furnish themselves for such a service They could find in their heart to pray in their Family but the soul of the stuggard dosireth and hath nothing Unto this backwardness in many Bashfulnefs is added in divers others and a natural fear and diffidence making them very unapt to appear and act in any solemn religious duty when they are in company This disease and holding off from so good an action should be corrected for the present by conscience of the duty and consideration of his calling to it who is the Governour of a Family and the using of the exercise will through Gods blessing in a short time work the cure and take off the difficulty Nicodemus that comes in the night at first appears at length in the light and owned a crucified Christ John 19. 38 39. 4. In many men Worldliness is a great impediment for so eager are men on their Earthly occasions and advantages that they cannot afford time for spiritual duties But let such consider that in this they are peny-wise and pound-foolish like a man that hath a Journey to go and is so hasty that he will not stay the making ready of his Horse or like Saul that said to the Priest With-draw thine hand He was so hasty and looked upon his occasions as so urgent that he thought it no wisdom to abide with God to wait his answer And again like Saul that was so eager of pursuit and revenge that he adjured the people that not a man of them should eat any food till the evening and so they were faint and could not make that flaughter they might have done among the Philistins He was so greedy of his ends that he lost his ends Even so they that are so greedy after the world that God can have none of their attendance either have not what they look for or have it not in mercy God is very gracious unto us but it is at the voyce of our cry Isa 30. 19. 5. In some men Atheism is the hinderance whereby men use to make light of such heavenly things as Hearing and Praying are A Farm a Wife or a yoke of Oxen may be the next reason but Atheism lies at the bottom for let all men examine namely when they cannot afford God a Prayer Morning and Evening whether this thought do not lodge in the heart of one and of another of them To go about my business will do me some good but Praying in my Family will do me none but only hinder me of so much time Now this wicked thought to wit that all time is lost that is bestowed in the Service of God and that they that pray not do as well as they that do I say this is down-right Atheism The bottom-cause of not calling upon God is that The Fool saith in his heart There is no God See for this Psal 14. 1 4 6. Job 21. 15. Mal. 3. 14. Upon the whole let every man enter into his own heart and consider what comfort there can be in refraining Houshold-worship and restraining Prayer on such reasons as these which yet upon sincere and serious consideration will no doubt be found the ordinary Pul-backs from so good a duty It remaineth now to enquire after the former proofs for Family-Prayer what time is to be allotted to this duty wherein I shall endeavour to shew two things 1. That it is to be used every day And that 2. Morning and Evening First The duty of Prayer is to be performed every day whereof while I speak in general it will have an influence into and by parity of reason argue for Family Prayer Reasons of dayly Prayer are many And they are already given and published I shall only recite some of them viz. 1. Because our Saviour Christ in that Prayer which we call the Lords-Prayer directs and commands us to ask our dayly bread every day Nor is there less but the same or a greater reason to desire every day other things that we dayly and dearly need as the forgiving of our dayly trespasses the not leading us into tentation when Satan layes dayly snares for us As also to give thanks which the conclusion of that Prayer teacheth for every days mercy Every day supplyeth new matter both of Petition and Thanksgiving and therefore it calleth us to make supplication to the Lord that he may do for us at all times as the matter shall require 1 King 8. 59. and to give him thanks Who dayly loadeth us with benefits Psal 68 19. 2. Because every day hath its evils and vexations which are to be sweetned with Prayer and made tolerable Mat. 6. 34. and its comforts also and contentments which are to be sanctified by Prayer and made profitable 1 Tim. 4. 5. 3. Because we know not whether we shall live till to morrow and therefore should not neglect God to day which may be our last day Men would pray all day long to day if they knew they should die to morrow and they do not know they shall not and therefore should not live as if they did and let alone God 4. Though we were never so sure of our lives yet we are to know that we live alwayes in the presence of God And shall a child be in the presence of his Father all day long and shew him no special reverence neither in the morning when he seeth him first nor when he leaves him last in the Evening 5. We find in Scripture that God hath had better children who have come before him twice thrice yea seven times that is very often in a day Daniel was eminent in this whose custom it was to pray three times a day and as he used to do so he did though he knew yea because he knew he was to be thrown into the Lions den for so doing He was so far from dissimulation that he seems glad of an occasion to own and acknowledge his God in the duty of Prayer though he perish himself 6. The command of praying without ceasing will not permit a days
upon our ever too-hard-hearts as that we may remember our former evil wayes and doings that have not been good and lothe our selves in our own sight for all our iniquities Nor let us lothe our sins only and our selves for them but leave them also and settle it in our hearts after thou hast spoken peace to us not to turn again to folly And because our own resolutions are soon altered and by our own strength we cannot prevail therefore we beg of thee our God to whom power belongeth so much strength as that though sin while we are here dwell within us yet it may not have dominion over us especially let us be strong in the Lord and the power of his might for the subduing of our special sins and those Goliahs that seem to set at defiance the whole Army of the Graces of God in us Neither let it suffice us to depart from evil unless also we do good and live soberly righteously and godly in this present world And that this may be better done Good Lord make us mindful of the use of all good means of a godly life such as are the hearing of thy Word heedfully the receiving of thy holy Sacrament preparedly the keeping of thy Sabbath conscionably praying to thy Majesty often and earnestly together with conversing with good company as there shall be liberty and occasion and a gaining of time to commune with our own hearts and so to think on our wayes as that we may turn our feet to Gods testimonies Thus and every other good way O our God lead us by thy good Spirit into the land of uprightness and into a state of blessedness And because it is our duty to pray for thy Church whereof we are members as well as for our selves yea and our honour also who art but dust and ashes to be admitted so to do therefore we beseech thee Do well in thy good pleasure unto Sion build thou the wals of Jerusalem Make it the study of those that are thy people to be an holy people as thou their God art an holy God Where thy Church hath rest make them careful to walk before thee in the fear of the Lord and in the comfort of the Holy Ghost that so their peace may be continued or they prepared for trouble if their quiet state be altered Where thy Church is in trouble make them mindful of and able for that truly penitent humbling themselves before thee and faithful seeking unto thee whereby their peace and prosperity may be restored Strengthen in all parts their hearts and hands that stand in the just defence of Religion and Right In special manner we beseech thee to have a gracious respect to this sinful Nation with the adjoyned Dominions Enable with all eminent gifts and especially sanctifie more and more with saving grace the Kings most Excellent Majesty our Supreme and most gracious Governour and so pour forth thy Spirit upon all in higher Authority that they may with all wisdom diligence faithfulness and good success manage the great affairs of State Be pleas'd to establish and ever to preserve and stand by the two great Ordinances of Magistracy and Ministry that by the preaching of the one the power of the other and thy blessing on both Errour and Ungodliness may be restrained truth and holiness may be promoted and in that way all outward good things may be ministred Bless we humbly pray thee outwardly as thou seest meet but especially spiritually all that fear thy Name yea have mercy on them call them and put thy fear into them that yet fear thee not In special we desire thy favour in behalf of those to whom we have any relation and whom we are desired or ought to pray for more particularly this Family In singular mercy vouchsafe thy grace to any in it that yet want it and encrease thy grace in those that have it Extend thy compassion O thou that art the Father of mercy to those that be any way afflicted with sickness pain poverty injustice reproach restraint And more especially to those that suffer either in Conscience or for Conscience Give them all wisdom to see what thou intendest grace to give thee what thou expectest strength to bear what thou inflictest and in thine own way and time make them glorious by deliverance And now O Lord we return humble thanks unto thy Majesty for the mercies of this day in regard of our souls and bodies and businesses desiring that we may still make a good use of all our crosses And so craving pardon in Jesus Christ for the sins of this day for which we are here before thee to judge our selves we resign up our persons and all we have into thy gracious hands beseeching thee so to watch over us this night as that our souls may be kept from sin our bodies from sickness our goods from loss and those decreasings that we deserve And withal so to bless our Rest unto us that we may awake with cheerfulness in the morning well enabled for thy Service and the duties of our Callings the day following And all this for Jesus Christs sake in whom we beseech thee to accept these our poor and weak Prayers which we conclude with his absolutely perfect Prayer saying as he hath taught us Our Father which art in Heaven c. A shorter Prayer for the Morning Most gracious God we do here humbly present our selves before thee to offer unto thee the Sacrifice of praise that is the fruit of our lips and to give thanks unto thy Name for the rest of the night past and the mercies of this morning We confess thou mightest justly have awakened us out of our sleep at mid-night as thou didst the Egyptians with a great cry or else have made our sleep as when thou smotest their first-born the sleep of death but we have lien down in peace and slept because thou Lord only makest us dwell in safety Truly the light is sweet and a pleasant thing it is to the eyes to behold the Sun but How excellent is thy loving kindness in causing the Sun of Righteousness to arise unto us with healing in his wings d Blessed be thy Name for giving the Lord Jesus to be a light to lighten us Gentiles as well as to be the glory of thy people Israel And that we have together with him and not without him all things also We praise thee for the health of our bodies the peace of our mindes for our understanding and all the powers of our Souls for our sight and hearing and all the parts of our bodies for the liberty of our Persons the blessings of our Estate and all the comfort we enjoy in our Friends and Relations Yea for all those fatherly Corrections whereby thou hast sought to drive our foolishness far from us and to make us mend our pace in the wayes of