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A42553	Philadelphia, or, a treatise of brotherly-love Shewing, that we must love all men: love the wicked in general: love our enemies: that the godly must especially love another: and the reasons of each particular love. The manner of our mutual love; the dignity, necessity, excellenc, and usefulness of brotherly-love. That the want of love, where love is due, is hatred, shewed in divers particulars. The greatness of the sin of malice and hatred; with the reasons why wicked men hate the saints: together with cautions against those sins that break the bond of love. Many weighty questions discussed, and divers cases cleared. By William Gearing, minister of the word.	Gearing, William.	1670 (1670)	Wing G436C; ESTC R223669	92,727	215

happy are ye and be not afraid of their terrour neither be troubled but sanctifie the Lord God in your hearts and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear having a good conscience that whereas they speak evil of you as of evil doers they may be ashamed that falsly accuse your good conversation in Christ Christians should labour so to walk that they may have nothing to cover their malice withall but that it may be manifest to their Consciences and to the eyes of others that they hate them and set themselves against them for Righteousness-sake and that their Adversaries may be ashamed Then are men brought to shame when things that are shameful are laid open but when Christians by worldliness or distempers or by playing the busy body c. do give them something to cover their malice against them withall they keep them from being ashamed But when a Christian walketh unblameably and watchfully he uncovereth the shame of their malice against him making it to appear that it is for Righteousness-sake and so causeth the shame of it to reflect upon their own faces insomuch that many times their own Consciences do condemn them them for such as fight against God which may be a means of their Conversion or restraint 2. Carry your selves meekly towards them when they are most maliciously and furiously bent against you Two Angels coming into the streets of Sodom in the Evening were entertained by Lot And in likelihood they appeared in the form of men shewed themselves in a shape surpassing in Beauty whereupon these wicked Sodomites boiling with filthy and unnaturall lust desired to abuse them contrary to the Law of Nature taking them to be mortal men and observing into what house they entered between Supper and Bed-time they assaulted his house and called upon him to bring forth his guests that they might deal with them according to their filthy Lust Now mark the carriage of Righteous L●t in this case Gen. 19.6 7 8. And Lot went out at the door unto them and shut the door after him and said I pray you Brethren do not so wickedly Behold now I have two daughters which have not known man● let me I pray you bring them out unto you and do ye to them as is good in your eyes only unto these men do nothing for therefore came they under the shadow of my roof Now it must be confessed that here was a great failing in this carriage of Lot which must not be imitated by any means that to save his guests from being unnaturally abused he would expose his Daughters to the beastly lusts of the Sodomites which was so much the greater in ●hat as appeareth afterwards they were contracted and so it was a great injury to their husbands that had espoused though not yet married them But this was partly out of want of Knowledg as it seemeth for then many Truths were not so cleared as now they are partly it was out of weakness the unlawfulness of Polygamy and so the unlawfulness of doing evil that good might come or yeelding to some sin to prevent a greater sin as in this case These and the like truths were not so clear●y opened to the godly it seemeth as now they are partly it was out of weakness of Faith that he did not rest upon God who had ways enough to keep him out of so great a strait without any such indirect and unlawful means as appeared afterwards and partly out of a sudden confused haste being beset with a mighty number of men desperately wicked and enflamed with violent and raging lust so that not having time to retire his thoughts and compose his Spirit and to take things better into consideration he sell upon this unwarrantable shift I am perswaded he had much rather have lost his heart-blood if that would have satisfied them but he thought nothing would save his guests unless these wretches filthy lusts had some other Objects to feed upon But passing by his great oversight and infirmity let us take notice of his carriage otherwise and that ye shall find was full of Love unto his guests according to the Law of Hospitality full of detestation against such foul unnnatural wickedness full of meekness towards these Sodomites as appeareth in his speech fore-mentioned He gave them never a bitter word he only sought to keep them from this sin CHAP. XXVIII NOw to conduct let me exhort every Christian to maintain a watchful eye over their Love that it wax not cold in these evil-times Our Saviour long since prophesied of the latter times that because iniquity shall abound the love of many shall wax cold Mat. 24.12 That there should be a flood of iniquity and a frost of love The times wherein we live tell us that iniquity doth abound I had almost said it cannot abound more now then let brotherly love continaee Heb. 13.1 This Love like that Fire under the Law came down from Heaven therefore preserve it we had need be very careful for sinful times are cooling times Sin is as apt to quench Love as Water to quench the Fire These objects of Love are continually the same When Love goes away the power the zeal the practice of religion goes away It is an argument your Love is truly divine if you keep it flaming in the worst of times It you suffer your Love to God and his people to decay you will lose all the good that ever you have done If your Love decay all the people of God with whom you have taken sweet counsel together prayed together fasted together all these shall rise up in judgment against you Oh think what manner of damnation yours will be ye shall feel the most dreadful effects of Gods eternal hatred who have suffered your Love to Gods ways and people to dye within you Oh if your Love decay it is not easily recovered again and to recover your first Love you must repent and do your first works it will cost you much labour much sighing much sorrow of heart before you can recover your former degrees of Love Take heed of a slavish fear of wicked men St. Paul opposeth the spirit of fear to the spirit of Love 2 Tim. 1.17 Be not too familiar with those that are unsetled in the truth Many had loved more had they disputed less Set your hearts on the things of the world Demas forsook the fellowship of the Saints because he embraced this present world FINIS Books to be sold by Thomas Parkhurst at the Golden Bible on London-Bridg MR. Sedgwick's Bowels of Mercy fol. The Taylor 's Works the first vol. fol. 2. An Exposition of Temptation on Mat. 4. verse 1. to the end of the eleventh 3. A Commentary on Titus 4. Davids Learning A Comment upon Psal 32. 5. The Parable of the Sower and of the Seed upon Luk. 8. and 4. A Learned Commentary or Exposition on the first Chapter of the second Epistle to the Corinthians by Richard Sibbs D. D. fol. A practical Exposition on the third Chapter of the first Epistle of St. Paul to the Corinthians with the Godly Mans Choice on Psal 4. ver 6 7 8. By Anthony Burgess fol. The view of the Holy Scriptures By Hugh Broughton Fol. Christianographia or a Description of the multitude and sundry sorts of Christians in the world not subject to the Pope By Eph. Pagitt Fol. These six Treatises next following are written by Mr. George Swinnock 1. The Christian Mans Calling or a Treatise of making Religion ones busineis in Religious Duti●s Natural Actions his Particular Vocation his Family Directions and his own Recreation to be read in Families for their Instruction and Edification The first Part. 2. Likewise a second Part wherein Christians are directed to perform their Duties as Husbands and Wives Parents and Children Masters and Servants in the conditions of Prosperity and Adversity 3. The third and last part of the Christian Mans Calling Wherein the Christian is directed how to make Religion his business in his dealings with all Men in the Choice of his Companions in his carriage in good Company in bad Company in solitarine●s or when he is alone on a Week-day ●rom morning to night in visiting the sick on a Dying bed as also the means how a Christian may do this and some motives to it 4. The Door of Salvation opened by the Key of Regeneration 5. Heaven and Hell Epitomized and the True Christian Characterized The Fading of th● Flesh and the flourishing of Faith Or One cast for Eternity with the only way to throw it well all these by George Swinnock M. A. Large Octavoes A learned Commentary on the fourth Chapter of the second Epistle of St. Paul to the Corinthians to which is added First a Conference between Christ and Mary Second the Spiritual Mans Aim Third Emanuel or Miracle of Miracles by Richard Sibbs D. D. 4 to An Exposition on the five first Chapters of Ezekiel with useful observations thereupon by Will Greenhil 4 to The Gospel-Covenant or the Covenant of Grace opened Preached in New England by Peter Buckely 4 to Gods Holy Mind touching Matters Moral which himself uttered in ten words or ten Commandments Also an Exposition on the Lords Prayer by Edward Elton B. D. 4 to A plain and familiar Exposition of the ten Commandments by John Dod 4 to Fiery Jesuite or and Historical Collection of the Rise Increase Doctrines and Deeds of the Jesuites Exposed to view for the sake of London 4 to Of Quenching the Spirit the evil of it in respect both of its causes and effec●s discovered By Theophilus Bolwheile A Defence against the fear of Death By Zac● Crofton The True bounds of Christian freed●m or a Discourse shewing the extents restraints of Christian Liberty wherein the truth is setled many errors con●●●ed out of John 8. ver 36. FINIS

Love of Mercy and Help 3. The Love of Courtesie and Gentleness 4. The Love of Familiarity and Friendship CHAP. X. Sets down five reasons why we are to love all men and four reasons why Publicans and Sinners do return all offices of Love t those that love them CHAP. XI Sheweth how we must manifest our Love in general to the wicked of what we must beware and what we must do two reasons of it CHAP. XII Sect. 1. Of our Love to our enemies What this Love is and wherein it consisteth shewed in five things That this Love exceedeth that of Publicans shewed three things Sect. 2. Sheweth how far wicked men may love their enemies laid down in two things yet that no wicked man doth truly love his enemy shewed in three in things Sect. 3. How our Love must be extended to the enemies of God of his Church and People shewed in two things 3. Reasons why imprecations were sometimes uttered against Gods enemies A Question how Godly men are or may be said to hate wicked men answered in three things CHAP. XIII Sheweth That Godly men must especially love one another CHAP. XIV Sets down Nine reasons why Godly men must shew special Love one to another CHAP. XV. Sect. 1. Discovereth the manner how we are to love one another 1. As our selves Sect. 2. As Christ loved us The greatness of Christs Love in laying down his Life for us shewed in four things Sect. 3. Sheweth That Christians being called to it ought so to love their Brethren as to lay down their Lives for them wherein is handled the thing required Sect. 4. Sheweth The Condition supposed Sect. 5. That we must have a special Call before we lay down our lives shewed in four things Sect. 6. Sheweth What this Call is a Christian may be called to it in two cases that more immediately concern God Sect. 7. Sheweth two cases that concern our Brethren Sect. 8. Sets down two reasons thereof CHAP. XVI Sect. 1. Of Christians bearing one anothers burdens Of bearing outward burdens A Question whether forwardness in relieving others he always a sign of one that loveth God answered negatively in three Particulars Sect. 2. Of Christians bearing one anothers inward burdens wherein it consisteth shewed in five things Sect. 3. Sheweth that in so doing we fulfil the Law of Christ which is the Law of Love 2. Questions about this resolved How men do love in obedience to the Law of Nature is shewed CHAP. XVII Sect. 1. Of the Order of our Love one to another shewed in seven things Sect. 2. Question first Whether I am bound to love godly Strangers above my wicked Kinred or Relations Question 2. What if some of our Kinred are Godly and poor others are wicked and rich Resolved CHAP. XVIII What true Christian Love to the Saints is shewed in five things CHAP. XIX Sect. 1. Sets forth the woful condition of those that hate the Saints Sect. 2. Sheweth five reasons of theeir hating of them Sect. 3. A Question Why men within the visible Church should hate the Saints answered An Object But I do not hate the Saints answered That the want of Love where Love is due is Hatred shewed in particulars CHAP. XX. Sect. 1. The greatness of this sin of hating the Saints shewed It is an argument such love not God himself Sect. 2. He that loveth not his Brother abideth in death A Question How the Saints can be Brethren to those that abide in death answered in two particulars Sect. 3. Sheweth That Haters of the Godly are murtherers manifested in three things Sect. 4. The aggravations and occasions hereof considered Sect. 5. Sheweth How malice makes men most contrary to God and most like the Devil CHAP. XXI An Exhortation to Christians to love one another especially Ministers CHAP. XXII Sheweth The dignity necessity excelleney us●fulness of this Grace and duty of Love CHAP. XXIII Of loving not in word and in tongue but in deed and in truth CHAP. XXIV Advice to take heed of those sins that break the bond of Love CHAP. XXV Sheweth That the Sacrament of the Lords Supper is a Sacrament of mutual and Brotherly Love CHAP. XXVI Layeth down arguments to encourage the Godly to suffer the Hatred of the world CHAP. XXVII Setteth down some rules for a Christians carriage in the time of the worlds Hatred CHAP. XXVIII The Conclusion with an Exhortation to the continuance of Brotherly Love PHILADELPHIA OR A Treatise of BROTHERLY-LOVE 1 John 3.11 For this is the message that ye heard from the beginning that we should love one another CHAP. I. SECT I. SAint John had this Eminence of Happiness above the rest of Christ's Disciples That he was the beloved Disciple And as it is said of Lazarus in Heaven That he lyeth in Abraham's Bosom so our Apostle had this Heaven on Earth To lean on Christs Bosom Who drew such love from Christ that he became the Apostle of Love The main Argument of this Epistle is This Grace of Love First He largely sets forth God s Love to us God is Love and Christ is Love he found it so when he lay in the Bosom of Christ Then mainly he exhorts us to mutual-love Shewing How Saints should live together like Brethren and love another It is no new command that he lays upon them but that which they had heard before that they should love one another The words of the Text are the first Reason or Argument to confirm the Truth of the former Proposition shewing that one main Property of the Children of God is laid down here in this verse where we may note 1. The Substance of this Argument 2. The Circumstances of this Argument The Substance lyeth in this That God hath commanded this duty of Mutual-love towards each other Now those that are of God have his law written upon their hearts which are framed to obey him The Circumstances are these 1. That this Commandment is sent as a message from heaven to earth from God to man 2. That it is an ancient message it is from the beginning How it is said to be from the beginning seemeth somewhat doubtful There are diverse interpretations of this word beginning 1. Some understand it from the beginning of the publishing of the Law in Mount Sinai delivered to the Ancients by Moses in an open and solemn manner which is a Law of Love and commandeth us to love our Neighbours as our selves 2. Others understand it from the beginning of Christ's preaching of the Gospel and the Apostles immediately after him This being the great commandment that Christ laid upon his Disciples A new Commandment I give unto you that ye love one another Joh. 13.34 And again that which the Apostles laid upon all the Saints Some understand it from the delivery of the Gospel unto these Christians to whom the Apostle here writeth But 3. By the Beginning may be understood from the creation of Man The law of nature stampt upon mens hearts in the

do break the order of nature For whereas the Philosophers affirm a man by nature to be animal politicum malicious and contentious persons make themselves unfit for society being no better than firebrands of sedition and Satans Instruments to sow dissention Therefore St. Augustine saith that all companies are not to be called a people but only those who are joyned by consent of Laws And the same Father saith thus Give me that unum necessarium that one thing necessary viz. Love and Unity and thou shalt have a people well ordered Take away this and thou shalt have a rout a confusion and all out of order for where envying and strife is there is confusion and every evil work Jam. 3.16 Love is an uniting grace we read 1 Sam. 18.1 that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David the reason followeth and Jonathan loved him as his own soul This made him very helpful to David upon all occasions The Apostle sets down many good fruits of this grace of Love 1 Cor. 13.4 Charity suffereth l●ng and is kind envyeth not vaunteth not her self or is not rash is not puffed up 5. Doth not behave it self unseemly seeketh not her own is not easily provoked thinketh no evil 7. Beareth all things beleeveth all things hopeth all things endureth all things If another do him an injury a man that hath this grace of Love suffereth it if his friend be froward he is kind if fallen he vaunteth not himself over him nor is rash in censuring if far behind him in parts he is not puffed up if provoking him to passion he doth not behave himself unseemly if a self-seeker he seek●th not his own if he vex him daily he is not easily provoked if he carry himself so doubtfully that he knoweth not what to make of him he thinketh no evil if he load him with reproaches he beareth all things if he promise amendment he beleeveth all things if he doth not make good his word he hopeth all things and if in all things he be cross and thwarting the true Ch●●stian Lover endureth all things Love is easie to be entreated it never is implacable or inexorable whatsoever or how great soever the wrongs or injuries be They that cannot be reconciled that will not be pacifyed or appeased are far from Christian Love True Christian Love is not barren it will make men use the gifts of several kinds which God hath given to the supply and benefit of the people of God according to their several wants So those of Macedonia supplied the wants of the Saints at Jerusalem Nehemiah improved his favour with the King of Persia for the good of the Church of God in Judea So did Daniel improve his favour with Nebuchadnezzar for the advancement of Shadrach Mesech Abednego and Mordecai improved his dignity for the benefit of the Church That Love which is true will be fruitful now these fruits of Love are of divers kinds according to the several parts of the Second Table As all duties of love towards the Souls of others in Ministers Masters Parents Neighbours Acquaintance c. preaching the Word catechizing instructing admonishing comforting reproving publickly privately in praying for them c. And towards their bodies goods good names in relieving their wants in defending them to our power in cleering them according to our knowledg against slaunders false accusations c. and so for all other duties which man oweth to man These things every Christian must practi e and he must do them out of the truth of Christian Love As that is not true Love which doth not bring forth such fruits of Love so those works are not accepted which are not done in Love though they may be such works for the matter as are commanded in the Law of Love CHAP. XXIII LEt us then labour to put in practice that exhortation of the Apostle 1 Joh. 3.18 My little Children let us not love in word and tongue but in deed and in truth Where the Apostle doth not condemn profession and expression of Love in words and with the Tongue for he himself used it I think no man more yea he useth it in that place expr●ssing tenderness of heart and fatherly affection in this very exhortation 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 My little children c. So he expresseth much Love in words in this Epistle But he condemneth that shew of Love which is meer words and a bare profession of Love A Tree is not to be liked the worse because it beareth a fair Leaf together with good fruits but rather the better for it is both an ornament to the Tree and maketh the fruit the more savoury and of a better relish But this maketh the Tree ready for the Ax and for the Fire when it beareth Leaves and no Fruit or little Fruit so a Christian is not to be liked the worse for cloathing his fruits and works of Love with expressions professions and words of Love but the better rather for they are both an ornament to him in his Christian course and besides they give grace and relish to those works and fruits Yea Christian speeches in many cases are themselves very good and wholesom fruits good arguments of Sanctification and very profitable to the hearers ministring grace unto them and winning them so some liking of the ways of God yea good words of admonition consolation are as necessary alms as any other for many though not so acceptable to the most But as a Tree that beareth store of good fruit though it have but a ragged Leaf is much better than another that is rough and full of green and fair Leaves with none or little fruit so a Christian full of good works though not fairly-spoken is far to be preferred above one who hath a fair tongue and a close hand The thing then which the Apostle exhorteth unto is That we should not rest in a Love that sheweth it self only in words and tongue but that which is in deed and in truth CHAP. XXIV THis should make us in the next place to take heed of those sins that do especially stir up the heart to break the bond of Love 1. Take heed of suffering Anger to settle and take root in your hearts cure it while it is but a green wound before it turn into a Canker or festered sore of malice and hatred quench it when it is but a spark or when it beginneth to kindle let not the Sun go down upon thy wrath Anger engendereth malice unless it be suppressed Persons overcome with anger the Lord thinketh them unworthy of his peoples society Prov. 22.24 Make no friendship with an angry man and with a furious man thou shalt not go God doth not brand any created passion seated in the Soul of man as he doth anger Though all the passions seated in the soul of man when extream are vicious yet God doth no where forbid us to make friendship with a man of grief of fears of hope