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A68107 Of domesticall duties eight treatises. I. An exposition of that part of Scripture out of which domesticall duties are raised. ... VIII. Duties of masters. By William Gouge. Gouge, William, 1578-1653. 1622 (1622) STC 12119; ESTC S103290 610,068 716

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of_o a_o wife_n separation_n for_o her_o disease_n leu._n 15._o 19_o etc._n etc._n for_o what_o can_v be_v expect_v ●m_n such_o pollute_a copulation_n but_o a_o leprous_a and_o loathsome_a generation_n this_o kind_n of_o intemperancy_n be_v express_o forbid_v levit._n 18._o 19_o and_o a_o capital_a punishment_n inflict_v on_o such_o as_o offend_v therein_o levit._n 20._o 18._o abstinence_n in_o this_o time_n be_v set_v in_o the_o catalogue_n of_o those_o note_n which_o declare_v a_o man_n to_o be_v righteous_a eccles_n 20._o 7._o and_o the_o contrary_a intemperancy_n be_v put_v in_o the_o roll_n of_o such_o abomination_n as_o provoke_v god_n to_o spew_v out_o the_o canaanite_n levit._n 18._o 28._o and_o to_o forsake_v his_o own_o inheritance_n ezek._n 22._o 10._o to_o this_o kind_n of_o intemperancy_n 7._o some_o refer_v a_o man_n know_v of_o his_o wife_n after_o she_o have_v conceive_v with_o child_n but_o i_o find_v no_o such_o matter_n condemn_v in_o god_n word_n neither_o dare_v 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rigour_n will_v make_v they_o desperate_a but_o virtue_n and_o safety_n consist_v in_o the_o mean_a betwixt_o both_o §._o 120._o of_o parent_n fix_v precept_n in_o their_o child_n mind_n this_o word_n admonition_n according_a to_o the_o indere_fw-la notation_n thereof_o have_v a_o particular_a relation_n to_o the_o mind_n and_o point_v out_o a_o inform_v and_o instruct_v of_o it_o it_o be_v take_v either_o for_o the_o action_n of_o admonish_v as_o tit._n 3._o 10._o reject_v a_o heretic_n 〈◊〉_d after_o the_o first_o and_o second_o admonition_n or_o for_o the_o monitis_fw-la thing_n admonish_v in_o which_o latter_a sense_n most_o do_v here_o take_v it_o yet_o will_v i_o not_o have_v the_o former_a clean_o exclude_v for_o according_a to_o the_o full_a meaning_n of_o the_o word_n i_o take_v thus_o much_o to_o be_v intend_v as_o parent_n deliver_v good_a precept_n and_o principle_n to_o their_o child_n 〈◊〉_d so_o they_o must_v be_v careful_a by_o forcible_a and_o frequent_a admonition_n 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wife_n to_o jephthah_n thou_o shall_v not_o inherit_v in_o our_o father_n house_n 2._o for_o thou_o be_v the_o son_n of_o a_o strange_a woman_n just_o be_v that_o blame_n which_o jotham_n lay_v upon_o the_o man_n of_o shechem_n for_o make_v abimelech_n 18._o the_o base_a son_n of_o jerubbaal_n king_n and_o just_o be_v god_n vengeance_n upon_o they_o for_o that_o wrong_n do_v to_o jerubbaals_n legitimate_a child_n 2._o if_o he_o be_v notorious_o wicked_a thus_o 1._o reuben_n for_o commit_v abominable_a incest_n lose_v his_o birthright_n many_o particular_a crime_n be_v reckon_v up_o by_o the_o haered_a civil_a lawyer_n which_o will_v be_v too_o long_o here_o to_o recite_v §._o 71._o of_o the_o duty_n of_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n the_o extent_n of_o this_o title_n father_n be_v in_o the_o last_o place_n to_o be_v parent_n consider_v not_o only_o natural_a parent_n themselves_o but_o also_o all_o that_o be_v in_o their_o place_n be_v comprise_v under_o it_o as_o they_o who_o 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be_v to_o account_v their_o child_n in_o law_n that_o be_v the_o parent_n child_n of_o their_o husband_n and_o wife_n or_o the_o wife_n of_o their_o son_n and_o the_o husband_n of_o their_o daughter_n as_o their_o own_o natural_a child_n and_o according_a to_o the_o age_n and_o place_n of_o these_o child_n to_o perform_v the_o forename_a duty_n and_o every_o way_n to_o seek_v their_o good_a except_o in_o such_o duty_n as_o after_o a_o peculiar_a manner_n belong_v to_o natural_a parent_n as_o nurse_v to_o a_o natural_a mother_n leave_v the_o inheritance_n to_o a_o natural_a parent_n for_o a_o pattern_n hereof_o take_v the_o forename_a example_n of_o joseph_n and_o naomi_n what_o natural_a parent_n can_v do_v more_o for_o their_o own_o child_n than_o joseph_n do_v for_o jesus_n and_o naomi_n for_o ruth_n the_o history_n note_v how_o joseph_n take_v care_n to_o have_v his_o wife_n child_n 22._o circumcise_v and_o present_v in_o the_o temple_n how_o he_o 14._o flee_v from_o place_n to_o place_n to_o preserve_v the_o child_n life_n how_o 48._o perplex_v he_o be_v when_o he_o think_v the_o child_n be_v lose_v how_o he_o 51._o train_v he_o up_o in_o his_o own_o house_n the_o history_n also_o note_v how_o 22._o naomi_n bring_v ruth_n her_o son_n wife_n into_o her_o own_o country_n and_o retain_v she_o with_o herself_o and_o 22._o direct_v she_o whither_o to_o go_v and_o 1._o what_o husband_n to_o have_v and_o 16._o become_v a_o nurse_n to_o her_o child_n 1._o marriage_n make_v man_n and_o wife_n one_o flesh_n in_o which_o respect_n reason_n they_o ought_v to_o have_v one_o mind_n and_o the_o same_o affection_n as_o mutual_o each_o to_o other_o so_o joint_o to_o the_o child_n of_o each_o other_o on_o which_o ground_n also_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n of_o a_o child_n be_v one_o flesh_n with_o the_o child_n aught_o as_o the_o child_n to_o be_v respect_v on_o this_o ground_n god_n count_v the_o saint_n his_o 〈◊〉_d dear_a child_n because_o they_o be_v 2._o espouse_v to_o his_o natural_a son_n 2._o to_o respect_v the_o child_n of_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o be_v a_o great_a evidence_n of_o entire_a love_n to_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o to_o respect_v the_o husband_n and_o wife_n of_o a_o child_n be_v a_o great_a evidence_n of_o love_n to_o the_o child_n itself_o if_o the_o world_n proverb_n hold_v true_a love_v i_o and_o love_v my_o dog_n how_o much_o more_o true_a be_v this_o christian_a rule_n love_v i_o and_o love_v my_o child_n or_o love_v i_o and_o love_v my_o husband_n or_o love_v i_o and_o love_v my_o wife_n 3._o this_o also_o be_v a_o especial_a mean_n to_o kindle_v and_o preserve_v mutual_a love_n betwixt_o man_n and_o wife_n who_o have_v child_n of_o former_a husband_n and_o wife_n as_o also_o betwixt_o parent_n and_o child_n §._o 72._o of_o the_o perverse_a carriage_n of_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n to_o their_o child_n contrary_n be_v the_o carriage_n of_o most_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n especial_o of_o those_o who_o be_v marry_v to_o husband_n or_o to_o wife_n that_o have_v child_n before_o marriage_n so_o far_o they_o be_v from_o perform_v the_o forename_a duty_n as_o rather_o they_o envy_v at_o the_o prosperity_n of_o their_o husband_n and_o wife_n child_n and_o secret_o endeavour_n to_o hinder_v it_o in_o what_o they_o can_v and_o cunning_o leek_v to_o alienate_v the_o natural_a parent_n affection_n from_o they_o whence_o hippolytus_n fearful_a tragedy_n have_v be_v make_v and_o lamentable_a mischief_n have_v follow_v what_o other_o reason_n can_v be_v give_v hereof_o 45._o but_o a_o plain_a instigation_n of_o the_o devil_n who_o thus_o labour_v to_o disunite_v those_o who_o god_n have_v join_v together_o for_o avoid_v this_o snare_n note_v the_o mischief_n that_o follow_v from_o thence_o 1._o such_o parent_n sin_n against_o god_n ordinance_n and_o as_o eve_n lean_a more_o to_o satan_n suggestion_n then_o to_o god_n direction_n 2._o they_o alienate_v the_o heart_n and_o affection_n of_o one_o from_o another_o not_o only_o from_o their_o child_n but_o from_o themselves_o 3._o they_o provoke_v their_o child_n in_o law_n to_o contemn_v and_o despise_v they_o and_o to_o yield_v no_o duty_n unto_o they_o hence_o note_v into_o what_o a_o hell_n unkind_a father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n do_v cast_v themselves_o if_o this_o be_v due_o weigh_v i_o think_v they_o will_v be_v otherwise_o mind_v but_o the_o god_n of_o this_o world_n do_v so_o blind_a their_o eye_n with_o self-love_n and_o with_o envy_n that_o they_o can_v see_v the_o mischief_n whereinto_o they_o implunge_v themselves_o this_o be_v a_o point_n the_o more_o to_o be_v weigh_v because_o the_o fault_n here_o tax_v be_v so_o common_a and_o have_v in_o all_o age_n be_v too_o common_a 4._o what_o grievous_a complaint_n have_v in_o former_a time_n be_v make_v and_o still_o be_v make_v by_o child_n against_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n whence_o also_o direful_a imprecation_n have_v follow_v let_v widower_n and_o widow_n that_o have_v child_n serious_o think_v of_o it_o before_o hand_n and_o be_v the_o more_o circumspect_a in_o take_v a_o second_o or_o three_o husband_n or_o wife_n and_o after_o they_o be_v marry_v let_v they_o take_v heed_n of_o satan_n snare_n and_o let_v conscience_n of_o duty_n more_o prevail_v with_o they_o than_o corruption_n of_o nature_n §._o 73._o of_o the_o fault_n of_o parent_n to_o their_o child_n husband_n and_o wife_n many_o parent_n to_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n of_o their_o child_n do_v also_o much_o transgress_v and_o swerve_v from_o their_o duty_n for_o 1._o they_o will_v show_v much_o more_o respect_n to_o their_o own_o child_n then_o to_o the_o child_n of_o their_o husband_n or_o wife_n as_o by_o come_v to_o their_o daughter_n when_o their_o husband_n be_v abroad_o and_o never_o but_o then_o and_o send_v for_o their_o son_n to_o their_o house_n but_o not_o for_o their_o wife_n 2._o in_o all_o difference_n they_o will_v take_v part_n with_o their_o own_o child_n though_o it_o be_v in_o the_o worse_a part_n and_o show_v great_a partiality_n 3._o they_o will_v oft_o give_v very_o ill_a counsel_n advise_v their_o son_n to_o keep_v their_o wife_n short_a advise_v their_o daughter_n not_o to_o be_v too_o subject_a to_o their_o husband_n yea_o privy_o to_o purloin_v from_o their_o husband_n 4._o if_o they_o live_v with_o their_o child_n they_o will_v so_o pry_v into_o every_o thing_n that_o their_o child_n husband_n or_o wife_n do_v and_o show_v such_o suspicion_n and_o jealous_o in_o every_o thing_n as_o they_o can_v but_o cause_v much_o discord_n and_o hence_o it_o oft_o come_v to_o pass_v that_o either_o parent_n and_o child_n or_o husband_n and_o wife_n must_v be_v part_v
master_n after_o the_o flesh_n vers_fw-la 5._o 2._o as_o to_o christ_n vers_fw-la 5._o  _fw-fr 3_o as_o servant_n of_o christ_n vers_fw-la 6._o  _fw-fr 4._o do_v god_n will_v vers_fw-la 6._o  _fw-fr ii_o the_o motive_n which_o the_o apostle_n use_v be_v partly_o imply_v express_v  _fw-fr they_o be_v imply_v three_o way_n 1._o by_o declare_v the_o place_n of_o a_o master_n as_o to_o christ_n 2._o by_o note_v out_o the_o honour_n of_o their_o service_n as_o servant_n of_o christ_n 3._o by_o show_v the_o ground_n of_o servant_n subjection_n god_n will_n the_o motive_n express_v be_v the_o recompense_n which_o seruans_fw-la shall_v have_v for_o their_o pain_n large_o lay_v forth_o vers_fw-la 8._o therein_o these_o distinct_a point_n be_v note_v in_o order_n 1._o the_o assurance_n thereof_o knowing_z 2._o the_o ground_n thereof_o take_v from_o a_o general_a rule_n whatsoever_o good_a thing_n any_o man_n do_v 3._o the_o particular_a application_n thereof_o whether_o bond_n or_o free_a 4._o the_o kind_n thereof_o the_o same_o shall_v he_o receive_v 5._o the_o author_n and_o giver_n thereof_o of_o the_o lord_n §._o 2._o of_o the_o lawfulness_n of_o a_o master_n place_n and_o power_n in_o handle_v servant_n duty_n i_o will_v proceed_v according_a to_o the_o order_n propound_v in_o the_o first_o place_n therefore_o i_o will_v note_v out_o the_o kind_n of_o servant_n duty_n for_o find_v out_o the_o kind_n i_o will_v observe_v the_o method_n follow_v in_o handle_v child_n duty_n note_v then_o 1._o the_o fountain_n of_o servant_n duty_n 2._o the_o stream_n that_o issue_n from_o thence_o the_o fountain_n rest_v partly_o in_o the_o opinion_n and_o partly_o in_o the_o affection_n of_o servant_n in_o their_o opinion_n they_o must_v be_v inform_v and_o resolve_v that_o the_o authority_n place_n of_o a_o master_n and_o a_o servant_n be_v lawful_a and_o warrantable_a that_o god_n ingenerall_n ordain_v degree_n of_o superiority_n and_o inferioritie_n of_o authority_n and_o subjection_n and_o in_o particular_a give_v to_o master_n the_o authority_n which_o they_o have_v and_o put_v servant_n in_o that_o subjection_n wherein_o they_o be_v till_o the_o judgement_n be_v resolve_v hereof_o nor_o reverence_n nor_o obedience_n will_v be_v yield_v as_o it_o ought_v for_o reverence_n have_v reference_n to_o eminency_n and_o superiority_n and_o obedience_n to_o authority_n and_o power_n who_o will_v reverence_v or_o obey_v he_o who_o he_o take_v to_o be_v his_o equal_a this_o be_v the_o ground_n of_o the_o conspiracy_n of_o corah_n dathan_n and_o abiram_n that_o they_o think_v 3._o moses_n and_o aaron_n take_v too_o much_o upon_o they_o and_o lift_v themselves_o up_o above_o the_o congregation_n of_o the_o lord_n wherefore_o i_o will_v here_o note_v the_o ground_n of_o a_o master_n authority_n and_o servant_n subjection_n place_n 1._o god_n have_v give_v express_a commandment_n unto_o master_n to_o govern_v their_o servant_n and_o unto_o servant_n to_o be_v subject_a to_o their_o master_n 10._o in_o the_o four_o commandment_n god_n give_v a_o charge_n to_o master_n over_o their_o servant_n to_o see_v that_o they_o do_v no_o manner_n of_o work_n and_o the_o angel_n bid_v hagar_n 9_o humble_a herself_o under_o her_o mistress_n hand_n and_o here_o servant_n be_v command_v to_o obey_v their_o master_n 2._o many_o direction_n be_v give_v both_o to_o master_n and_o servant_n in_o regard_n of_o their_o different_a place_n how_o to_o carry_v themselves_o one_o to_o another_o read_v for_o this_o purpose_n the_o many_o law_n which_o moses_n prescribe_v to_o both_o the_o many_o counsel_n which_o solomon_n in_o his_o proverb_n especial_o give_v also_o to_o both_o and_o particular_o the_o direction_n of_o this_o and_o other_o apostle_n 3._o saint_n in_o all_o age_n have_v be_v set_v in_o these_o place_n some_o in_o the_o place_n of_o master_n and_o some_o in_o the_o place_n of_o servant_n and_o according_a to_o the_o place_n wherein_o god_n have_v set_v they_o they_o have_v perform_v their_o duty_n master_n the_o duty_n of_o master_n and_o servant_n the_o duty_n of_o servant_n 4._o the_o many_o parable_n which_o christ_n use_v take_v from_o the_o power_n which_o master_n have_v and_o exercise_v over_o their_o servant_n and_o the_o subjection_n which_o servant_n yield_v to_o their_o master_n show_v that_o the_o authority_n of_o the_o one_o and_o subjection_n of_o the_o other_o be_v thing_n without_o question_n grant_v and_o not_o deny_v 5._o god_n have_v make_v many_o promise_n of_o reward_n both_o to_o master_n and_o servant_n that_o conscionable_o perform_v the_o duty_n of_o their_o place_n and_o have_v make_v many_o threaten_n against_o the_o one_o and_o the_o other_o that_o be_v negligent_a therein_o all_o these_o ground_n be_v so_o clear_o and_o plentiful_o note_v in_o the_o scripture_n that_o any_o one_o who_o be_v any_o whit_n acquaint_v therewith_o may_v know_v they_o to_o be_v so_o be_v there_o no_o other_o argument_n than_o this_o text_n which_o i_o have_v in_o hand_n it_o be_v enough_o to_o confound_v all_o gainsayer_n and_o to_o move_v such_o as_o believe_v the_o rather_o 123._o for_o their_o faith_n and_o profession_n sake_n to_o serve_v their_o master_n after_o the_o flesh_n §._o 3_o of_o the_o anabaptist_n argument_n against_o the_o authority_n of_o master_n and_o subjection_n of_o servant_n contrary_n to_o this_o first_o ground_n of_o servant_n subjection_n be_v the_o opinion_n of_o anabaptist_n who_o teach_v that_o all_o be_v alike_o and_o that_o there_o be_v no_o difference_n betwixt_o master_n and_o servant_n their_o reason_n whereby_o they_o will_v make_v show_n to_o prove_v their_o unreasonable_a opinion_n be_v these_o 1._o object_n master_n be_v either_o infidel_n or_o christian_n and_o so_o servant_n either_o one_o or_o other_o if_o master_n be_v infidel_n and_o servant_n christian_n how_o unmeet_a be_v it_o that_o christian_n shall_v be_v subject_a to_o infidel_n and_o if_o master_n and_o servant_n be_v both_o christian_n they_o be_v brother_n but_o brother_n be_v equal_n and_o neither_o subject_n to_o other_o answ_n rule_n and_o subjection_n be_v matter_n of_o outward_a policy_n they_o tend_v to_o the_o outward_a preservation_n of_o church_n commonwealth_n and_o family_n in_o this_o world_n but_o faith_n piety_n and_o such_o grace_n be_v inward_a matter_n of_o the_o soul_n tend_v to_o a_o better_a life_n these_o be_v thus_o different_a one_o that_o be_v more_o excellent_a in_o the_o one_o may_v be_v inferior_a in_o the_o other_o yea_o though_o there_o be_v a_o equality_n in_o the_o one_o namely_o in_o spiritual_a thing_n yet_o there_o may_v be_v a_o disparity_n in_o the_o other_o namely_o in_o civil_a and_o temporal_a matter_n and_o though_o saint_n may_v be_v far_o inferior_a to_o infidel_n in_o outward_a estate_n yet_o they_o be_v not_o a_o whit_n the_o less_o glorious_a before_o god_n the_o honour_n proper_a and_o peculiar_a to_o saint_n be_v inward_a not_o visible_a to_o the_o carnal_a eye_n of_o a_o natural_a man_n 2._o object_n it_o be_v against_o nature_n for_o one_o to_o be_v servant_n especial_o a_o bondservant_n to_o another_o 15._o answ_n to_o grant_v that_o it_o be_v against_o that_o absolute_a and_o perfect_a nature_n wherein_o at_o first_o god_n create_v man_n and_o that_o it_o come_v in_o by_o sin_n yet_o be_v it_o not_o against_o that_o order_n and_o course_n of_o nature_n wherein_o god_n have_v now_o settle_v man_n god_n have_v turn_v many_o punishment_n of_o sin_n to_o be_v bind_v duty_n as_o subjection_n of_o wife_n to_o husband_n and_o man_n eat_a bread_n in_o the_o sweat_n of_o his_o brow_n 3._o object_n it_o be_v the_o prerogative_n of_o christian_n to_o be_v 28._o all_o one_o but_o subjection_n of_o servant_n to_o master_n be_v against_o that_o prerogative_n answ_n that_o prerogative_n be_v mere_o spiritual_a for_o in_o christ_n all_o be_v one_o as_o they_o be_v member_n of_o christ_n which_o be_v a_o spiritual_a body_n not_o as_o they_o be_v member_n of_o a_o politic_a body_n a_o politipue_v inequality_n be_v not_o against_o a_o spiritual_a equality_n 4._o object_n this_o subjection_n be_v against_o the_o 1._o liberty_n that_o christ_n have_v purchase_v for_o we_o and_o wherewith_o he_o have_v make_v we_o free_a answ_n it_o be_v not_o for_o that_o liberty_n be_v from_o the_o curse_n and_o rigour_n of_o the_o moral_a law_n from_o the_o ceremonial_a law_n and_o the_o rite_n thereof_o from_o satan_n sin_n death_n and_o damnation_n but_o not_o from_o those_o degree_n which_o god_n have_v establish_v betwixt_o man_n and_o man_n for_o the_o good_a of_o mankind_n 5._o object_n we_o be_v express_o forbid_v to_o be_v 23._o servant_n of_o man_n answ_n to_o be_v a_o servant_n in_o that_o place_n be_v not_o simple_o to_o be_v in_o subjection_n 126._o under_o another_o and_o to_o do_v service_n unto_o he_o but_o to_o be_v so_o obsequious_a to_o a_o
what_o be_v the_o end_n of_o this_o but_o to_o be_v think_v as_o good_a as_o master_n or_o mistress_n if_o the_o queen_n of_o sheba_n be_v now_o live_v she_o will_v as_o much_o wonder_n at_o the_o disorder_n of_o servant_n in_o these_o day_n as_o than_o she_o wonder_v at_o the_o comely_a order_n of_o solomon_n servant_n let_v these_o proud_a servant_n look_v to_o it_o for_o if_o god_n have_v threaten_v to_o visit_v prince_n child_n that_o walk_v in_o strange_a apparel_n 8._o can_v servant_n that_o so_o walk_v think_v to_o go_v scotfree_a thus_o much_o of_o servant_n reverence_n their_o obedience_n follow_v §._o 10._o of_o servant_n obedience_n no_o inferior_n be_v more_o bind_v to_o obedience_n then_o servant_n it_o be_v their_o main_n and_o most_o peculiar_a function_n to_o obey_v their_o master_n it_o be_v therefore_o here_o in_o my_o text_n express_o mention_v servant_n obey_v your_o master_n and_o all_o other_o duty_n be_v comprise_v under_o it_o 17._o the_o reason_n allege_v to_o 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therefore_o allude_v unto_o 6._o that_o rite_n say_v to_o god_n both_o of_o himself_o and_o also_o of_o christ_n who_o under_o a_o type_n he_o prefigure_v my_o ear_n have_v thou_o bore_v and_o from_o thence_o infer_v that_o he_o will_v do_v the_o will_n of_o god_n we_o have_v 6._o a_o notable_a pattern_n hereof_o in_o abraham_n servant_n who_o in_o a_o business_n commit_v to_o his_o charge_n propound_v such_o scruple_n as_o come_v 5._o into_o his_o head_n to_o receive_v direction_n from_o his_o master_n therein_o lest_o he_o shall_v be_v force_v to_o do_v something_o of_o his_o own_o head_n without_o particular_a warrant_n from_o his_o master_n this_o general_n will_v the_o better_o be_v clear_v if_o it_o be_v exemplify_v in_o some_o particular_n take_v therefore_o these_o instance_n gather_v out_o of_o the_o scripture_n of_o thing_n which_o servant_n may_v not_o do_v without_o their_o master_n consent_n 1._o servant_n may_v not_o go_v whither_o they_o will_n the_o phrase_n which_o 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be_v enjoin_v and_o the_o servant_n that_o have_v talent_n commit_v to_o they_o look_v each_o of_o they_o to_o their_o own_o talon_n 4._o they_o ought_v not_o to_o marry_v while_o the_o time_n of_o their_o covenant_n for_o service_n last_v unless_o their_o master_n give_v consent_n thereto_o the_o law_n of_o god_n thus_o set_v forth_o the_o lawful_a marriage_n of_o servant_n if_o his_o master_n have_v give_v he_o a_o wife_n whereby_o be_v imply_v 4._o that_o if_o a_o servant_n marry_o it_o must_v be_v with_o his_o master_n consent_n object_n the_o apostle_n without_o exception_n of_o servant_n say_v to_o avoid_v fornication_n let_v every_o man_n have_v his_o wife_n etc._n etc._n 2._o answ_n he_o there_o show_v what_o mean_v the_o lord_n have_v sanctify_v to_o every_o one_o to_o avoid_v fornication_n but_o he_o do_v not_o thereby_o give_v liberty_n to_o every_o one_o heady_o to_o use_v that_o mean_n against_o that_o order_n which_o god_n have_v set_v down_o 2._o that_o precept_n be_v 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provident_a care_n for_o the_o time_n to_o come_v not_o the_o mean_n of_o provide_v for_o himself_o in_o regard_n of_o his_o general_a providence_n he_o be_v commend_v in_o regard_n of_o the_o particular_a mean_n by_o deceive_v his_o master_n he_o be_v call_v unjust_a 6._o they_o may_v not_o before_o their_o covenant_v time_n be_v expire_v go_v away_o from_o their_o master_n when_o 26._o jaakob_n after_o long_a service_n have_v a_o mind_n to_o be_v go_v he_o ask_v leave_v and_o because_o his_o uncle_n and_o master_n will_v not_o willing_o let_v he_o go_v he_o tarry_v still_o object_n afterward_o 20._o jaakob_n privy_o steal_v away_o from_o his_o master_n answ_n 1._o his_o covenant_v time_n be_v out_o 2._o he_o have_v a_o express_a warrant_n from_o god_n to_o be_v go_v 3._o his_o manner_n of_o go_v away_o be_v not_o to_o be_v justify_v and_o in_o that_o respect_n it_o be_v no_o good_a pattern_n §._o 12._o of_o the_o unlawful_a liberty_n which_o servant_n take_v to_o themselves_o 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and_o make_v conscience_n to_o instruct_v their_o servant_n in_o the_o way_n to_o salvation_n they_o have_v rather_o serve_v profane_a master_n mere_a worldling_n and_o very_a papist_n for_o why_o any_o thing_n better_o agree_v to_o corrupt_v nature_n then_o to_o be_v keep_v within_o the_o bound_n of_o religion_n few_o like_o the_o strait_a gate_n and_o narrow_a way_n that_o lead_v to_o life_n for_o the_o god_n of_o this_o world_n so_o blind_v man_n eye_n that_o they_o can_v see_v the_o blessing_n of_o life_n at_o the_o end_n of_o this_o way_n they_o only_o see_v the_o straitness_n of_o it_o or_o if_o they_o shall_v see_v it_o a_o far_o off_o yet_o they_o so_o savour_v the_o thing_n of_o the_o flesh_n and_o of_o this_o present_a evil_a world_n as_o they_o will_v not_o regard_v that_o which_o be_v so_o far_o off_o now_o religious_a master_n will_v endeavour_n what_o they_o can_v to_o keep_v all_o their_o servant_n in_o that_o narrow_a way_n but_o irreligious_a master_n will_v suffer_v 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i_o be_v not_o hire_v for_o this_o neither_o be_o i_o bind_v to_o you_o herein_o set_v i_o about_o your_o work_n and_o i_o will_v do_v it_o 3._o some_o again_o be_v the_o more_o negligent_a and_o dissolute_a in_o their_o religious_a business_n because_o their_o master_n be_v religious_a it_o be_v a_o common_a complaint_n that_o profane_a worldly_a master_n shall_v have_v more_o service_n then_o religious_a and_o godly_a master_n yea_o though_o these_o give_v better_a wage_n diet_n and_o lodging_n then_o those_o many_o think_v the_o fault_n hereof_o to_o be_v in_o the_o master_n but_o assure_o for_o the_o most_o part_n the_o fault_n be_v the_o corrupt_a disposition_n of_o servant_n that_o esteem_v pleasure_n in_o sin_n and_o liberty_n thereunto_o more_o than_o wage_n diet_n and_o lodging_n whereby_o they_o show_v themselves_o impious_a against_o god_n ungrateful_a to_o their_o master_n injurious_a to_o themselves_o let_v this_o perverse_a disposition_n be_v note_v that_o the_o rule_n 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many_o reason_n in_o these_o word_n servant_n be_v subject_a to_o your_o master_n with_o all_o fear_n not_o only_o to_o the_o good_a and_o gentle_a but_o also_o to_o the_o froward_a for_o this_o be_v thank_v worthy_a if_o a_o man_n for_o conscience_n towards_o god_n endure_v grief_n suffer_v wrongful_o for_o what_o glory_n be_v it_o if_o when_o you_o be_v buffet_v for_o your_o fault_n you_o take_v it_o patient_o but_o if_o whey_n you_o do_v well_o and_o suffer_v for_o it_o you_o take_v it_o patient_o this_o be_v acceptable_a with_o god_n here_o we_o see_v 1._o that_o correction_n be_v patient_o to_o be_v bear_v by_o servant_n if_o correction_n then_o much_o more_o reproof_n 2._o that_o though_o correction_n be_v injust_o inflict_v yet_o it_o be_v patient_o to_o be_v endure_v therefore_o much_o more_o when_o it_o be_v deserve_v 3._o that_o buffet_n and_o that_o of_o a_o froward_a master_n be_v to_o be_v bear_v therefore_o much_o more_o light_a correction_n of_o a_o good_a and_o gentle_a 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also_o intimate_v by_o the_o apostle_n in_o these_o word_n 21._o even_o hereunto_o be_v you_o call_v for_o our_o christian_a calling_n require_v all_o man_n to_o 19_o give_v place_n unto_o wrath_n 39_o to_o turn_v the_o other_o cheek_n when_o one_o be_v smite_v 21._o to_o overcome_v evil_a with_o goodness_n 21._o if_o all_o christian_n must_v show_v such_o patience_n to_o all_o man_n even_o their_o equal_n how_o much_o more_o servant_n to_o master_n the_o apostle_n commend_v to_o servant_n the_o example_n of_o christ_n in_o this_o case_n he_o be_v revile_v and_o much_o he_o suffer_v and_o that_o most_o injurious_o and_o yet_o patient_o do_v he_o bear_v all_o if_o servant_n thus_o suffer_v with_o he_o they_o also_o shall_v reign_v with_o he_o §._o 18._o of_o the_o extreme_n contrary_a to_o servant_n patient_a bear_v of_o reproof_n and_o correction_n patient_n bear_v of_o rebuke_n and_o blow_n seem_v a_o hard_a say_n to_o most_o servant_n they_o can_v endure_v to_o hear_v it_o for_o 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commend_v for_o not_o harken_v to_o his_o mistress_n and_o the_o servant_n of_o saul_n for_o refuse_v to_o slay_v the_o 17._o lord_n priest_n at_o their_o master_n command_n thus_o if_o a_o master_n shall_v command_v his_o servant_n to_o kill_v to_o steal_v to_o forswear_v himself_o to_o lie_v to_o use_v false_a measure_n and_o weight_n to_o go_v to_o mass_n or_o do_v any_o other_o unlawful_a thing_n he_o ought_v not_o obey_v he_o again_o if_o master_n forbid_v their_o servant_n to_o do_v that_o which_o basil_n god_n have_v command_v they_o to_o do_v they_o must_v notwithstanding_o their_o master_n prohibition_n do_v it_o the_o ruler_n of_o israel_n forbid_v the_o apostle_n to_o preach_v yet_o because_o christ_n have_v command_v they_o to_o preach_v they_o will_v not_o forbear_v nor_o will_v daniel_n forbear_v to_o pray_v to_o god_n though_o the_o king_n and_o noble_n 10._o by_o express_a decree_n forbid_v he_o so_o if_o a_o profane_a or_o popish_a master_n shall_v forbid_v his_o servant_n to_o go_v to_o church_n or_o to_o hear_v the_o word_n or_o to_o take_v the_o sacrament_n or_o to_o dwell_v with_o his_o wife_n if_o he_o be_v marry_v or_o to_o make_v restitution_n of_o that_o which_o he_o have_v fraudulent_o get_v or_o any_o other_o bind_a duty_n herein_o they_o must_v say_v we_o ought_v to_o obey_v god_n rather_o than_o man_n for_o when_o master_n 29._o command_v and_o forbid_v any_o thing_n against_o god_n they_o go_v beyond_o their_o commission_n and_o therein_o their_o authority_n cease_v contrary_n to_o this_o restraint_n be_v both_o a_o parasitical_a please_a of_o master_n and_o also_o a_o base_a fear_n of_o they_o it_o be_v the_o property_n of_o a_o eun._n parasite_n to_o say_v what_o a_o master_n will_v have_v he_o say_v and_o deny_v what_o he_o will_v have_v he_o deny_v and_o so_o to_o do_v what_o he_o will_v have_v he_o to_o do_v doeg_n that_o fawn_a dog_n at_o saul_n word_n slay_v all_o the_o lord_n 18._o priest_n and_o absoloms_n servant_n at_o his_o word_n kill_v amnon_n for_o 29._o all_o the_o reason_n which_o they_o have_v to_o commit_v that_o murder_n be_v this_o speech_n of_o their_o master_n have_v not_o i_o command_v you_o so_o prone_a be_v servant_n to_o soothe_v their_o master_n as_o there_o be_v no_o sin_n so_o horrible_a which_o at_o their_o master_n command_n they_o will_v not_o be_v ready_a to_o do_v thus_o be_v that_o verify_v which_o the_o prophet_n long_o since_o foretell_v 2._o like_a master_n like_o servant_n like_o mistress_n like_o maid_n it_o be_v also_o the_o property_n of_o base_a fearful_a servant_n to_o do_v nothing_o but_o what_o their_o master_n will_v have_v they_o do_v and_o to_o forbear_v any_o duty_n though_o never_o so_o necessary_a that_o he_o forbid_v they_o to_o do_v what_o duty_n more_o necessary_a than_o prayer_n we_o be_v command_v to_o pray_v continual_o yet_o the_o servant_n of_o darius_n be_v content_a to_o etc._n forbear_v that_o duty_n thirty_o day_n together_o because_o it_o be_v against_o the_o decree_n of_o their_o lord_n and_o king_n the_o like_a be_v note_v of_o the_o people_n in_o christ_n time_n they_o dare_v not_o make_v open_a profession_n of_o 22._o christ_n for_o fear_n of_o the_o jew_n so_o in_o our_o day_n many_o servant_n there_o be_v that_o dare_v not_o make_v profession_n of_o the_o gospel_n nor_o go_v to_o church_n nor_o read_v the_o word_n nor_o perform_v other_o holy_a religious_a duty_n which_o they_o know_v to_o be_v bind_v duty_n for_o fear_n of_o their_o master_n have_v not_o then_o the_o apostle_n just_a cause_n to_o strike_v so_o much_o upon_o this_o string_n as_o here_o he_o have_v do_v express_o forbid_v eie-seruice_n man-pleasing_a and_o do_v service_n to_o man_n namely_o in_o opposition_n to_o god_n §._o 39_o of_o servant_n choose_v good_a master_n as_o a_o just_a consequence_n follow_v from_o the_o forename_a extent_n and_o restraint_n of_o servant_n duty_n i_o may_v further_o gather_v these_o two_o lesson_n for_o servant_n 1._o it_o be_v very_o behooveful_a that_o servant_n make_v choice_n of_o good_a master_n at_o least_o if_o it_o be_v in_o their_o power_n to_o choose_v 2._o it_o be_v behooveful_a that_o they_o continue_v and_o abide_v under_o good_a master_n at_o least_o if_o they_o continue_v servant_n and_o abide_v under_o any_o master_n that_o these_o consequence_n just_o follow_v as_o aforesaid_a be_v evident_a for_o see_v servant_n be_v bind_v to_o obey_v in_o all_o thing_n which_o be_v not_o against_o god_n and_o must_v obey_v in_o nothing_o but_o what_o be_v in_o the_o lord_n it_o be_v very_o requisite_a that_o servant_n be_v under_o such_o master_n as_o bear_v the_o image_n of_o god_n in_o the_o inward_a disposition_n and_o grace_n of_o their_o heart_n as_o well_o as_o in_o their_o outward_a function_n and_o place_n and_o will_v go_v along_o with_o god_n in_o use_v their_o authority_n command_v nothing_o but_o what_o a_o servant_n may_v do_v with_o a_o good_a conscience_n and_o without_o transgress_v against_o god_n and_o forbid_v nothing_o that_o god_n have_v bind_v a_o servant_n to_o do_v there_o will_v be_v comfort_n in_o serve_v such_o master_n and_o our_o obedience_n to_o they_o will_v be_v obedience_n to_o god_n such_o master_n therefore_o must_v be_v choose_v yea_o and_o with_o such_o must_v servant_n abide_v if_o not_o with_o the_o very_a same_o yet_o with_o such_o as_o they_o be_v of_o the_o same_o disposition_n for_o if_o they_o go_v to_o other_o their_o former_a comfort_n will_v be_v take_v away_o and_o their_o servitude_n will_v seem_v so_o much_o the_o more_o miserable_a by_o how_o much_o more_o knowledge_n and_o experience_n they_o have_v have_v of_o the_o benefit_n of_o their_o former_a liberty_n for_o patrem_fw-la we_o may_v well_o call_v service_n under_o unconscionable_a master_n servitude_n and_o in_o opposition_n thereunto_o service_n under_o religious_a master_n liberty_n he_o therefore_o that_o have_v a_o master_n that_o be_v faithful_a due_a respect_n have_v to_o his_o authority_n must_v love_v he_o as_o a_o father_n and_o 12._o so_o abide_v with_o he_o for_o choice_n of_o good_a master_n note_v what_o be_v 38._o record_v of_o many_o of_o the_o egyptian_n and_o other_o people_n they_o leave_v their_o own_o country_n and_o go_v out_o with_o the_o israelite_n what_o shall_v move_v they_o but_o conscience_n of_o the_o true_a god_n who_o they_o know_v that_o israel_n serve_v now_o many_o of_o these_o go_v out_o as_o servant_n as_o may_v be_v gather_v from_o those_o many_o 7._o law_n which_o be_v make_v in_o the_o behalf_n of_o servant_n that_o be_v stranger_n and_o in_o special_a that_o be_v egyptian_n the_o knowledge_n which_o 16._o ruth_n have_v that_o naomi_n her_o mother_n in_o law_n serve_v the_o true_a god_n move_v she_o to_o leave_v she_o own_o country_n and_o to_o go_v as_o a_o servant_n with_o naomi_n for_o abide_v with_o good_a master_n we_o have_v a_o worthy_a pattern_n in_o the_o twelve_o disciple_n etc._n when_o many_o of_o christ_n disciple_n at_o large_a go_v back_o and_o walk_v no_o more_o with_o he_o christ_n ask_v the_o twelve_o whether_o they_o also_o will_v go_v away_o peter_z in_o the_o name_n of_o all_o the_o rest_n answer_v lord_n to_o who_o shall_v we_o go_v thou_o have_v the_o word_n of_o eternal_a life_n contrary_n be_v the_o mind_n and_o practice_v of_o many_o servant_n they_o never_o inquire_v after_o the_o religious_a disposition_n of_o their_o master_n nor_o care_n though_o he_o be_v popish_a or_o profane_a so_o they_o may_v have_v good_a wage_n diet_n and_o lodging_n and_o yet_o by_o this_o mean_n if_o at_o least_o there_o be_v any_o spark_n of_o god_n fear_n in_o their_o heart_n they_o cast_v themselves_o upon_o many_o sore_a temptation_n and_o bring_v themselves_o into_o many_o hard_a strait_n and_o dangerous_a snare_n and_o if_o god_n open_v their_o eye_n to_o see_v that_o wretched_a condition_n whereinto_o they_o have_v implunge_v themselves_o they_o will_v be_v force_v to_o cry_v out_o and_o complain_v as_o david_n do_v when_o he_o be_v in_o foreign_a country_n where_o he_o can_v not_o free_o serve_v his_o god_n 5._o woe_n be_v i_o that_o i_o sojourn_v in_o mesech_n that_o i_o dwell_v in_o the_o tent_n of_o kedar_n much_o more_o contrary_a be_v their_o mind_n and_o disposition_n who_o refuse_v to_o serve_v religious_a master_n and_o shun_v they_o most_o of_o all_o or_o be_v in_o their_o service_n be_v never_o quiet_a till_o they_o be_v out_o of_o it_o again_o of_o these_o we_o speak_v 16._o before_o hitherto_o have_v we_o deal_v about_o servant_n duty_n the_o reason_n which_o the_o apostle_n render_v to_o enforce_v those_o duty_n remain_v to_o be_v declare_v §._o 40._o of_o the_o first_o motive_n the_o place_n of_o master_n the_o first_o reason_n which_o the_o apostle_n use_v to_o enforce_v
coin_v new_a article_n of_o faith_n not_o only_o popish_a but_o profane_a master_n also_o too_o much_o exceed_v in_o this_o presumptuous_a use_n of_o their_o power_n above_o their_o power_n as_o they_o who_o enjoin_v their_o servant_n to_o kill_v to_o steal_v to_o swear_v to_o forswear_v to_o lie_v to_o give_v false_a measure_n and_o weight_n to_o go_v to_o mass_n to_o profane_v the_o sabbath_n with_o other_o like_a sin_n in_o all_o these_o and_o all_o other_o thing_n like_v to_o these_o be_v against_o god_n law_n master_n have_v no_o power_n to_o command_v they_o go_v above_o their_o commission_n and_o shall_v according_o answer_v for_o it_o §._o 9_o of_o master_n command_a servant_n to_o do_v their_o duty_n 2._o the_o execution_n of_o a_o master_n command_a power_n consist_v in_o those_o thing_n which_o god_n have_v enjoin_v as_o bind_a duty_n these_o a_o master_n by_o virtue_n of_o his_o authority_n must_v command_v his_o servant_n to_o do_v as_o to_o worship_n god_n to_o sanctify_v his_o sabbath_n to_o be_v diligent_a and_o conscionable_a in_o his_o call_n with_o other_o like_a duty_n which_o god_n comprise_v under_o these_o word_n the_o way_n of_o the_o lord_n righteousness_n and_o judgement_n and_o say_v that_o he_o know_v that_o abram_n will_v command_v his_o household_n to_o do_v they_o 19_o the_o charge_n give_v to_o master_n in_o the_o four_o commandment_n concern_v servant_n thou_o nor_o thy_o man-seruant_n nor_o thy_o maid-servant_n 10._o prove_v as_o much_o josiah_n be_v commend_v for_o cause_v his_o 32._o people_n to_o stand_v to_o the_o covenant_n of_o god_n on_o this_o ground_n if_o a_o master_n have_v servant_n that_o be_v papist_n separatist_n or_o profane_a person_n he_o ought_v to_o command_v they_o and_o cause_v they_o to_o go_v to_o the_o holy_a ordinance_n of_o god_n it_o be_v one_o of_o the_o principal_a end_n why_o god_n have_v give_v power_n and_o authority_n to_o some_o over_o other_o that_o by_o their_o authority_n they_o may_v cause_v they_o which_o be_v under_o they_o to_o observe_v the_o commandment_n of_o god_n even_o as_o inferior_a officer_n have_v authority_n give_v they_o to_o see_v the_o king_n law_n keep_v §._o 10._o of_o the_o sin_n of_o master_n in_o suffer_a servant_n to_o neglect_v their_o duty_n it_o be_v contrary_a to_o that_o command_a power_n which_o god_n have_v give_v to_o master_n to_o suffer_v their_o servant_n to_o omit_v and_o neglect_v those_o bind_a duty_n which_o god_n have_v command_v they_o as_o if_o a_o servant_n be_v so_o popish_a or_o profane_a as_o to_o refuse_v to_o go_v to_o the_o word_n or_o sacrament_n or_o to_o perform_v any_o duty_n whereunto_o he_o be_v bind_v to_o let_v he_o alone_o though_o they_o themselves_o do_v those_o duty_n and_o though_o they_o do_v not_o hinder_v and_o keep_v their_o servant_n from_o do_v they_o yet_o if_o they_o cause_v not_o their_o servant_n also_o to_o do_v they_o they_o make_v themselves_o accessary_a to_o their_o servant_n sin_n object_n every_o man_n conscience_n be_v free_a and_o can_v be_v force_v therefore_o master_n may_v not_o compel_v servant_n to_o such_o thing_n as_o be_v against_o their_o conscience_n answ_n though_o the_o conscience_n be_v free_a to_o a_o man_n and_o out_o of_o another_o power_n yet_o their_o outward_a action_n be_v not_o free_a and_o though_o faith_n piety_n righteousness_n nor_o any_o grace_n can_v be_v force_v into_o man_n yet_o they_o may_v be_v force_v to_o use_v the_o mean_n which_o god_n have_v sanctify_v for_o the_o breed_n and_o increase_v of_o they_o though_o they_o can_v be_v force_v to_o have_v a_o religious_a and_o righteous_a heart_n yet_o they_o may_v be_v force_v to_o do_v religious_a and_o righteous_a duty_n or_o if_o a_o master_n can_v force_v these_o yet_o he_o may_v and_o aught_o to_o do_v his_o uttermost_a endeavour_n by_o which_o mean_v though_o he_o can_v free_v his_o servant_n from_o death_n yet_o he_o shall_v free_v his_o own_o soul_n from_o the_o guilt_n of_o his_o death_n §._o 11._o of_o a_o master_n wisdom_n in_o order_v thing_n indifferent_a equity_n have_v respect_n to_o those_o thing_n which_o be_v in_o a_o master_n power_n to_o command_v or_o not_o command_v such_o be_v all_o civil_a action_n as_o concern_v himself_o concern_v the_o particular_n whereof_o god_n have_v give_v no_o direct_a charge_n for_o a_o absolute_a performance_n of_o they_o as_o to_o go_v of_o such_o a_o errand_n to_o do_v such_o a_o message_n to_o dispatch_v such_o a_o business_n concern_v these_o thing_n i_o may_v say_v of_o a_o master_n power_n as_o the_o apostle_n do_v of_o a_o parent_n power_n in_o 37._o another_o case_n if_o he_o see_v it_o meet_v to_o be_v do_v and_o command_v his_o servant_n to_o do_v it_o he_o do_v well_o he_o sin_v not_o if_o he_o see_v it_o not_o meet_v to_o be_v do_v and_o command_v it_o not_o he_o do_v also_o well_o he_o sin_v not_o of_o this_o kind_n of_o thing_n speak_v the_o centurion_n 9_o where_o he_o say_v i_o say_v to_o one_o go_v to_o another_o come_v to_o a_o three_o do_v this_o the_o mark_n which_o master_n must_v aim_v at_o in_o command_v or_o forbid_v these_o must_v be_v expediency_n for_o all_o thing_n that_o be_v 23._o lawful_a be_v not_o expedient_a expediency_n depend_v much_o upon_o circumstance_n and_o consequence_n which_o may_v follow_v upon_o the_o do_n of_o any_o thing_n in_o observe_v whereof_o the_o wisdom_n of_o he_o who_o have_v power_n to_o have_v a_o thing_n do_v or_o not_o do_v especial_o appear_v when_o david_n suffer_v not_o hushai_n his_o good_a friend_n 34._o and_o wise_a counsellor_n to_o go_v with_o he_o when_o he_o flee_v from_o absolom_n but_o bid_v he_o return_v to_o the_o city_n and_o there_o abide_v he_o have_v a_o eye_n to_o the_o good_a consequence_n that_o may_v follow_v thereupon_o and_o when_o joab_n command_v cushi_v rather_o than_o ahimaaz_v to_o 21._o carry_v the_o news_n of_o absoloms_n death_n he_o have_v a_o eye_n to_o the_o meetness_n of_o the_o person_n and_o to_o the_o kind_n of_o message_n to_o apply_v this_o to_o our_o purpose_n equity_n require_v that_o master_n in_o command_a thing_n indifferent_a which_o they_o have_v power_n to_o command_v or_o not_o to_o command_v have_v a_o eye_n to_o their_o servant_n ability_n sex_n age_n disposition_n conscience_n and_o other_o like_a circumstance_n that_o the_o thing_n which_o they_o command_v be_v somewhat_o agreeable_a to_o they_o not_o above_o their_o ability_n not_o unbeseeming_a their_o sex_n not_o unfitting_a their_o age_n not_o thwart_v their_o disposition_n not_o against_o their_o conscience_n §._o 12._o of_o master_n offence_n against_o expediency_n it_o be_v contrary_a to_o equity_n for_o a_o master_n to_o regard_v only_o himself_o and_o his_o own_o mind_n even_o in_o thing_n that_o be_v lawful_a paul_n be_v not_o 33._o of_o this_o mind_n when_o he_o say_v he_o seek_v not_o his_o own_o profit_n no_o nor_o his_o own_o will_n expediency_n and_o inexpediency_n be_v great_a motive_n unto_o he_o to_o forbear_v thing_n which_o be_v otherwise_o lawful_a yet_o little_a be_v this_o regard_v by_o many_o for_o 1._o many_o command_v thing_n to_o the_o very_a uttermost_a of_o their_o servant_n strength_n if_o not_o above_o it_o as_o pharaoh_n or_o else_o thing_n dangerous_a 7._o which_o may_v bring_v much_o mischief_n upon_o they_o david_n 17._o be_v touch_v in_o heart_n for_o move_v only_o by_o a_o wish_n his_o servant_n to_o fetch_v he_o water_n with_o the_o danger_n of_o their_o life_n 2._o other_o against_o comeliness_n put_v man_n to_o do_v maid_n work_n and_o maid_n to_o do_v man_n work_n 3._o other_o upon_o mere_a partiality_n keep_v under_o old_a and_o good_a servant_n and_o prefer_v much_o young_a before_o they_o 4._o other_o will_v forcible_o make_v servant_n do_v thing_n against_o their_o natural_a disposition_n as_o to_o handle_v yea_o and_o eat_v such_o thing_n as_o they_o can_v endure_v to_o touch_v or_o see_v 5._o other_o in_o doubtful_a matter_n will_v urge_v and_o press_v they_o against_o their_o conscience_n howsoever_o in_o these_o and_o other_o such_o like_a thing_n not_o unlawful_a servant_n ought_v to_o do_v what_o they_o can_v to_o satisfy_v their_o master_n command_n if_o he_o be_v peremptory_a in_o urge_v they_o yet_o ought_v not_o a_o master_n to_o be_v too_o peremptory_a in_o press_v his_o authority_n and_o power_n §._o 13._o of_o the_o power_n of_o master_n to_o correct_v their_o servant_n the_o second_o point_n wherein_o a_o master_n power_n consist_v be_v correction_n which_o may_v be_v give_v by_o look_n word_n or_o deed_n by_o a_o man_n look_n his_o anger_n and_o wrath_n against_o another_o be_v manifest_v 〈◊〉_d in_o hebrew_n the_o same_o word_n signify_v a_o face_n and_o wrath_n because_o wrath_n soon_o show_v itself_o in_o a_o man_n face_n
5._o 23_o 24._o 24._o eph._n 4_o 8._o 8._o joh._n 14._o 3._o 3._o reu._n 22._o 17_o 20._o 1._o use_v a_o high_a favour_n to_o be_v the_o spouse_n to_o christ_n 1_o sam._n 25._o 41._o luk._n 15._o 19_o mar._n 1._o 7._o 7._o §._o 33_o 34._o 2._o use_v direction_n how_o christ_n spouse_n must_v carry_v herself_o est_fw-la 1._o 16._o etc._n etc._n 3._o use_v trial_o who_o be_v christ_n spouse_n spouse_n §._o 24._o 4._o use_v consolation_n the_o privilege_n of_o christ_n spouse_n ecclesia_fw-la omnem_fw-la sponsi_fw-la potestatem_fw-la tenet_fw-la aug._n contr_n don._n l._n 4._o c._n 1._o joh._n 1._o 18._o prou._n 8._o 30._o ephes_n 4._o 9_o joh._n 16._o 28._o mark_n 3._o 33_o 34._o use_v imitation_n all_o to_o be_v forsake_v for_o christ_n psal_n 45._o 10._o matth._n 10._o 37._o luke_n 14._o 26._o expound_v how_o parent_n to_o be_v hate_v for_o christ_n deut._n 33._o 9_o gen._n 41._o 4._o matth._n 19_o 27._o hosea_n 2._o 19_o isa._n 61._o 8._o &_o 54._o 10._o reason_n joh._n 13._o 1._o rom._n 11._o 29._o mal._n 2._o 16._o jer._n 3._o 1._o use_v cleave_v to_o christ_n christ_n deut._n 10._o 20._o &_o 13._o 4._o act_n 11._o 23._o 1_o sam._n 18._o 1._o rom._n 8._o 35._o etc._n etc._n all_o the_o saint_n make_v one_o spouse_n 1_o cor._n 12._o 13._o see_v §._o 22._o gal._n 3._o 28._o reason_n use_v christus_fw-la nihil_fw-la aliud_fw-la deputat_fw-la corpus_fw-la suum_fw-la i_o ecclesiam_fw-la quam_fw-la seipsum_fw-la quia_fw-la de_fw-la christo_fw-la &_o ecclesia_fw-la verius_fw-la intelligitur_fw-la erunt_fw-la duo_fw-la in_o carne_fw-la una_fw-la aug._n de_fw-fr pec_fw-la mer._n lib._n 1._o cap._n 31._o 31._o see_v §._o 70._o 70._o §._o 84._o 1_o cor._n 6._o 17._o &_o 12._o 12._o heb._n 10._o 27._o heb._n 12._o 15._o eph._n 4._o 27._o of_o a_o mystery_n see_v more_o in_o the_o whole_a armour_n of_o god_n treat_n 3._o §._o 168._o on_o eph._n 6._o 19_o 1._o use_v the_o mystery_n of_o our_o union_n with_o christ_n not_o to_o be_v measure_v with_o the_o last_o of_o our_o reason_n 2._o use_v no_o carnal_a thing_n in_o our_o union_n with_o christ_n ecclesia_fw-la christo_fw-la in_o occulto_fw-la uxor_fw-la est_fw-la occultè_fw-la quip_n atque_fw-la intus_fw-la in_o abscondito_fw-la secreto_fw-la spiritali_fw-la anima_fw-la humana_fw-la inhaeret_fw-la verbo_fw-la dei_fw-la ut_fw-la sint_fw-la duo_fw-la in_o carne_fw-la una_fw-la aug._n contr_n faust_n man._n lib._n 22._o cap._n 38._o 3._o use_v papist_n make_v our_o union_n with_o christ_n a_o carnal_a matter_n joh_n 6._o 52._o joh._n 3._o 4._o multos_fw-la adulteros_fw-la video_fw-la qui_fw-la sponsam_fw-la tanto_fw-la pretio_fw-la emptam_fw-la possidere_fw-la volunt_fw-la &_o id_fw-la agunt_fw-la ut_fw-la pro_fw-la sponso_fw-la amentur_fw-la aug._n in_o joh._n tract_n 12._o uide_fw-la bern._n ep_n 237._o ad_fw-la eugen._n eugen._n see_v §._o 17._o 2_o cor._n 11_o 2._o quod_fw-la est_fw-la in_o christo_fw-la &_o in_fw-la ecclesia_fw-la magnum_fw-la hoc_fw-la in_o singulis_fw-la quibusque_fw-la viris_fw-la &_o uxoribus_fw-la minimum_fw-la aug._n the_o nupt_a &_o concup_n lib._n 1._o cap._n 21._o 21._o alphons_n à_fw-fr castro_n contr_n haer_fw-mi lib._n 3._o petrus_n à_fw-fr soto_n de_fw-fr matr._n lect_n 2._o council_n trident._n sess_z 24._o can._n 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d reu._n 2._o 7._o 7._o luk._n 8._o 8._o mar._n 13._o 37._o eph._n 5._o 14._o rom._n 11._o 20._o reason_n the_o life_n of_o god_n word_n in_o application_n 1_o cor._n 14_o 9_o vnum_fw-la duntaxat_fw-la tibi_fw-la considerandum_fw-la est_fw-la quo_fw-la pacto_fw-la te_fw-la praestes_fw-la innoxium_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1_o cor._n 11._o reason_n act._n 20._o 35._o rom._n 14._o 12._o ezec._n 18._o 5._o etc._n etc._n luk._n 17._o 34._o use_v non_fw-la quae_fw-la alijs_fw-la data_fw-la sunt_fw-la praecepta_fw-la quaerimus_fw-la quando_fw-la alicuius_fw-la criminis_fw-la ac_fw-la cusamur_fw-la chrys_n loc_n citat_fw-la citat_fw-la §._o 10._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d who_o be_v to_o be_v account_v child_n who_o parent_n parent_n treat_n 5._o §._o 56_o 57_o etc._n etc._n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d all_o duty_n of_o child_n comprise_v under_o obedience_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d chap._n 5._o vers_fw-la 22._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d why_o the_o moral_a law_n be_v allege_v a_o genere_fw-la ad_fw-la speciem_fw-la honour_n comprise_v all_o child_n duty_n why_o both_o father_n and_o mother_n express_v how_o the_o five_o commandment_n be_v the_o first_o with_o promise_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d rom._n 13_o 8._o difference_n betwixt_o the_o promise_n in_o the_o second_o and_o fist_n commandment_n first_o simple_o take_v exod._n 13._o 2._o matth._n 1._o 25._o isa_n 38._o 2_o 3._o 1._o use_v 2._o use_v 3._o use_v 4._o use_v caution_n in_o seek_v our_o own_o good_a cic._n lib._n 2._o de_fw-fr offic._n &_o paradox_n 1._o use_v nihil_fw-la bonum_fw-la scriptura_fw-la nisi_fw-la quod_fw-la honestum_fw-la asserit_fw-la ambr._n offic._n lib._n 2._o cap._n 3._o 3._o exod._n 20._o 12._o 12._o deut._n 5._o 16._o longlife_o and_o prosperity_n join_v together_o deut._n 5._o 16._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d temporal_a prosperity_n promise_v 1_o tim._n 4._o 8._o deut._n 5._o 16._o prosperity_n a_o good_a thing_n levit._n 26._o 4._o etc._n etc._n deut._n 28._o 1._o etc._n etc._n gen._n 28._o 20._o &_o 32._o 10_o 11._o levit._n 26._o 15._o etc._n etc._n deut._n 28._o 16._o etc._n etc._n etc._n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d psal_n 73._o 13._o jer._n 12._o 1._o hab._n 1._o 3_o how_o prosperity_n prove_v a_o curse_n to_o the_o wicked_a matth._n 5._o 45._o rom._n 2._o 4._o ose_n 13._o 11._o 1_o tim._n 6._o 9_o gen._n 40._o 19_o rom._n 8._o 28._o complaint_n of_o saint_n impeach_v not_o their_o well_o be_v be_v job._n 9_o 3._o 2_o cor._n 12._o 9_o 9_o epb._n 3._o 1._o 1._o psal_n 119._o 67_o 67_o job_n 1._o 12._o 12._o ose_n 5._o 15._o 15._o 2_o cor._n 5._o 2._o long_o life_n a_o blessing_n psal_n 6._o 5._o isa_n 38._o 18._o phil._n 1._o 24._o job._n 32._o 7._o job._n 9_o 4._o gal._n 6._o 10._o gen._n 15._o 16._o rom._n 2._o 5._o 5._o 1_o king_n 14._o 13._o 13._o 1_o king_n 13._o 14._o isa_n 17._o 1._o 1._o 1_o cor._n 11._o 32._o 32._o gen._n 5._o 24._o heb._n 11._o 5._o deut._n 6._o 2._o psal_n 34._o 12_o 13_o 14._o rut._n 3._o 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d how_o disobedient_a child_n hinder_v their_o welfare_n and_o shorten_v their_o day_n deut._n 21._o 21._o judg._n 9_o 5_o 6._o 6._o 1_o sam._n 2._o 34._o 34._o 2_o sam._n 18._o 14._o 14._o 1_o king_n 2._o 25._o how_o fit_o prosperity_n and_o long_a life_n be_v join_v together_o god_n make_v his_o savour_n true_a blessing_n gen._n 17._o 19_o isa_n 38._o 5_o 6._o &_o 39_o 8._o 2_o sam._n 7._o 9_o etc._n etc._n 1._o use_v 2._o use_v 3._o use_v psal_n 37_o 37_o 38._o eccl._n 8._o 12_o 13._o isa_n 3._o 10_o 11._o 4._o use_v prou._n 22._o 6._o doctr._n substance_n of_o promise_n make_v to_o the_o jew_n still_o remain_v heb._n 13._o 5._o act._n 2._o 39_o use_v rom._n 15._o 4._o rome_n 4._o 23._o 1_o cor._n 10._o 11._o hinc_fw-la patescit_fw-la humanae_fw-la aquavitae_fw-la terminum_fw-la non_fw-la esse_fw-la decreto_fw-la simplici_fw-la &_o absoluto_fw-la constitutum_fw-la etc._n etc._n zach._n muthel_n in_o hunc_fw-la loc_n &_o n._n heming_n alijque_fw-la man_n time_n set_v job_n 7._o 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d job_n 14._o 14._o job_n 14._o 5._o eccles_n 2._o 3._o job._n 7._o 30._o isa_n 38._o 5._o mat._n 10._o 30._o &_o 6_o 27._o stat_n sua_fw-la cuique_fw-la dies_fw-la etc._n etc._n virg._n aeny_v 10._o use_v to_o be_v make_v of_o the_o determine_a time_n of_o man_n life_n dan._n 3._o 17_o 18._o job._n 9_o 4._o against_o merit_n merit_n whole_a armour_n of_o god_n treat_n 2._o part._n 4._o §._o 7._o on_o ephes_n 6._o 14._o 1._o observ_n parent_n bind_v to_o duty_n how_o parent_n duty_n be_v imply_v in_o the_o 5._o commandment_n 1._o use_v minister_n must_v provoke_v parent_n to_o their_o duty_n 2._o use_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d verse_n 1._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d occasion_n of_o provoke_a child_n to_o wrath_n heb._n 12._o 10._o 10._o see_v treat_n 5._o §._o 31_o 41._o 2._o obser_n ezec._n 3._o 18._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 3._o obser_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d enutrite_n beza_n nourrissez_fw-fr fr._n 4._o observ_n parent_n to_o provide_v all_o needful_a thing_n for_o child_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 5._o observ_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 6._o observ_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d instituere_fw-la
excus●bit_fw-la bona_fw-la intentio_fw-la uxoris_fw-la etiamsi_fw-la ea_fw-la acciperet_fw-la ad_fw-la eleemosynam_fw-la faciendam_fw-la greg._n sayr_a clav_fw-mi reg_fw-la lib._n 9_o cap._n 16._o 16._o luke_n 11._o 41._o 41._o gal._n 6._o 10._o 10._o heb._n 13._o 16._o 16._o luke_n 11._o 41._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d date_fw-la quae_fw-la habetis_fw-la eleemosynam_fw-la tertul._n contr_n martion_n l._n 4._o 2_o cor._n 8._o 12._o numb_a 30._o 16._o exod._n 4._o 25._o factum_fw-la zephorae_n singular_a est_fw-la &_o extraordinarium_fw-la neque_fw-la constat_fw-la illud_fw-la simpliciter_fw-la à_fw-la deo_fw-la approbatum_fw-la fuisse_fw-la simler_n in_o exod._n 4._o luke_n 8._o 3._o matth._n 1._o 6._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d gen._n 38._o 8._o matth._n 10._o 3._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d chemnit_fw-la harm_n euang._n cap._n 33._o joh._n 4._o 53._o prou._n 31._o 11._o 11._o treat_n 4._o §._o 18._o 52._o treat_v 4._o §._o 18._o 1._o name_n name_n gen._n 17._o 19_o 19_o luk._n 1._o 13._o 13._o gen._n 5._o 3._o 3._o 29._o 29._o &_o 21._o 3._o 3._o gen._n 35._o 18._o 18._o luk._n 1._o 62._o 62._o mat._n 1._o 21._o 21._o gen._n 29._o 32._o 32._o &_o 30._o 24._o 24._o gen._n 27._o 43_o etc._n etc._n 2._o place_n and_o marriage_n marriage_n gen._n 28._o 1_o 2._o 2._o 1_o sam._n 1._o 11._o 3._o call_v verse_n 22._o 4._o apparel_n apparel_n 1_o sam._n 2._o 19_o 5._o portion_n deut._n 21._o 15_o etc._n etc._n etc._n treat_n 4._o §._o 18._o 18._o gen._n 16._o 5._o 5._o &_o 21._o 10._o 10._o 2_o king_n 4._o 22._o 2_o king_n 4._o 22._o 22._o treat_n 4._o §._o 18._o 2_o king_n 4._o 10._o 2_o king_n 4._o 22._o num._n 30._o 9_o 1._o privy_a purloin_v husband_n good_n good_n si_fw-mi uxor_fw-la ex_fw-la bonis_fw-la communibus_fw-la si●e_fw-la viri_fw-la licentia_fw-la saltem_fw-la praesumpta_fw-la accipiat_fw-la verè_fw-la furtum_fw-la commi●●it_fw-la greg._n sayr_a clau_fw-fr reg_fw-la l._n 9_o c._n 16._o 2._o take_v what_o allowance_n they_o list_v 3._o order_v child_n against_o their_o husband_n mind_n 4._o order_v servant_n against_o their_o husband_n mind_n 5._o lend_v forth_o their_o husband_n cattle_n 6._o feast_v when_o their_o husband_n shall_v not_o know_v it_o absente_v marito_fw-la compotationes_fw-la domi_fw-la ne_fw-la excita_fw-la greg._n naz._n ad_fw-la olymp._n olymp._n prou._n 7._o 19_o 7._o gad_a abroad_o at_o their_o own_o pleasure_n noli_fw-la pedem_fw-la tuum_fw-la limine_fw-la crebro_fw-la efferre_fw-la etc._n etc._n naz._n loc_n citat_fw-la citat_fw-la 1_o tim._n 5._o 13._o 13._o tit._n 2._o 5._o 5._o prou._n 7._o 11._o 11._o judg._n 19_o 2._o 8._o bind_v themselves_o without_o consent_n of_o husband_n husband_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 15._o 15._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d componitur_fw-la ex_fw-la diversis_fw-la vocibu●_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d petivi_fw-la eum_fw-la a_o deo_fw-la i_o have_v ask_v he_o of_o god_n god_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 22._o 22._o vers_fw-la 23._o 23._o 1_o sam._n 2._o 19_o a_o wife_n active_a obedience_n respect_v first_o her_o husband_n commandment_n gen._n 31._o 16._o 16._o treat_n 4._o §._o 18._o gen._n 31._o 14._o 1_o cor._n 9_o 5._o jam._n 5._o 17._o 1_o cor._n 7._o 15._o contrary_a when_o a_o wife_n make_v her_o husband_n dwell_v where_o she_o will_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 5_o 6._o judg._n 19_o 2._o 2._o treat_n 4._o §._o 29._o 29._o gen._n 31._o 4._o 4._o esth_n 1._o 17._o contrary_a stoutness_n in_o refuse_v to_o come_v es●h_o 1._o 16_o etc._n etc._n hebraei_n docent_fw-la vast●am_fw-la natam_fw-la fuisse_fw-la ex_fw-la baltbasare_fw-la rege_fw-la chaldaeorum_n fevard_n in_o esth_n 1._o alij_fw-la ex_fw-la cyro_fw-la merl._n in_o esth_n esth._n 1._o 17._o 17._o pelican_n lavater_fw-la gualt_n strigel_n cuper_fw-la merlin_n fevard_n bellator_n rupert_n isiodor_n hisp_n raban_n alijque_fw-la comment_n in_o esth_n gen._n 20._o 16._o 16._o treat_n §._o 29._o gen._n 18._o 6._o 1_o king_n 14._o 2_o etc._n etc._n contrary_a stubbornness_n in_o refuse_v to_o do_v a_o thing_n upon_o command_n command_n treat_n 4._o §._o 34_o 35._o a_o wife_n active_a obedience_n to_o her_o husband_n reproof_n the_o best_a trial_n of_o obedience_n 1._o she_o must_v meek_o take_v reproof_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 4._o gen._n 30._o 1._o wisdom_n learned_a joh._n 2._o 4_o 5._o suadeo_fw-la mulieribus_fw-la ut_fw-la viros_fw-la etiam_fw-la asperiores_fw-la perserant_fw-la chrys_n hom_n 26._o in_o 1._o cor._n 11._o excandescenti_fw-la marito_fw-la cede_fw-la &_o molli_fw-la oratione_fw-la iuva_fw-fr greg._n naz._n ad_fw-la olymp._n 1_o pet._n 2._o 19_o 20._o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d rom._n 12._o 21._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 20_o etc._n etc._n job_n 2._o 10._o prou_z 9_o 7_o 8._o 8._o treat_n 4._o §._o 35._o 2_o she_o must_v redress_v what_o be_v just_o reprove_v reprove_v gen._n 31._o 19_o 19_o &_o 35._o 2_o 4._o contrary_a to_o be_v worse_o for_o reprove_v prou._n 9_o 8._o prou._n 26._o 12._o 12._o treat_n 4._o §._o 50_o job_n 2._o 10._o expound_v discontent_n manifest_v 1._o by_o repent_v their_o marriage_n non_fw-fr est_fw-fr sapientis_fw-la dicere_fw-la non_fw-la putâram_fw-la cic._n offic._n lib._n 1._o 2._o by_o impatient_a carriage_n 3._o by_o refuse_v to_o stoop_v 4._o by_o refuse_v to_o help_v help_v treat_n 4._o §._o 26._o eph._n 5._o 22._o verse_n 23._o verse_n 24._o 24._o treat_n 1._o §._o 6._o 6._o see_v §._o 4._o of_o this_o treat_n 2._o caution_n for_o limit_v a_o wife_n persist_v to_o do_v that_o which_o her_o husband_n forbid_v gen_n 3_o 16._o dan._n 6._o 7_o etc._n etc._n act._n 4._o 18_o etc._n etc._n 1_o sam._n 25._o 18._o gen._n 27._o 6._o gen._n 25._o 23._o 2._o caution_n for_o limit_v a_o wife_n refuse_v to_o do_v that_o which_o her_o husband_n command_v 1_o sam._n 20._o 31._o 1_o sam._n 22._o 17._o deut._n 13._o 6._o 1_o ki._n 21._o 7._o etc._n etc._n gen._n 12._o 13._o etc._n etc._n ephes_n 5._o 24._o 24._o see_v §._o 5._o of_o this_o treatise_n cant._n 2._o 2._o four_o grace_n needful_a to_o season_v a_o wife_n subjection_n subjection_n treat_v 4._o §._o 15._o phil._n 2._o 3._o ephes_n 4._o 2._o 2._o see_v before_o §._o 4._o pro._n 13._o 10._o 10._o treat_n 4._o §._o 63._o 63._o ephes_n 6._o 5._o 5._o act_n 1._o 24._o 24._o gen._n 6._o 9_o 9_o &_o 17._o 1._o 1._o 1_o pet._n 3._o 5._o 5._o gen._n 18._o 12._o reason_n for_o sincerity_n 1_o because_o wife_n have_v to_o do_v with_o christ_n 2._o this_o make_v a_o difference_n betwixt_o holy_a woman_n and_o other_o other_o 1_o pet._n 3._o 5._o 3._o great_a be_v the_o benefit_n hereof_o hereof_o isa_n 38._o 3._o 3._o psal_n 45._o 13._o 13._o cant._n 3._o 1_o 2._o 2_o sam._n 6._o 16._o pro._n 30._o 20._o pro._n 2._o 16._o 16._o treat_n 4._o §._o 65_o 74._o 2_o cor._n 9_o 7._o 1_o chro._n 29._o 9_o gen._n 18._o psal_n 110._o 3._o 3._o treat_n 4._o §._o 72._o 1_o sam._n 4._o 21._o matth._n 16._o 18._o contrary_a 1._o intermission_n 1_o sam._n 19_o 11_o etc._n etc._n 2_o sam._n 6._o 16_o 20._o 2._o apostasy_n pro._n 2._o 17._o 2_o chron._n 24._o 2._o ezek._n 18._o 24._o 24._o treat_n 4._o §._o 26._o eph._n 5._o 21._o &_o 22._o col._n 3._o 18._o act_n 5._o 29._o 29._o treat_n 4._o §._o 28_o 29._o 1_o tim._n 2._o 11._o pro._n 26._o 16._o 16._o treat_n 4._o §._o 27._o si_fw-mi res_fw-la aliqua_fw-la occurrat_fw-la quae_fw-la consilio_fw-la opus_fw-la habeat_fw-la quin_fw-la ipsa_fw-la quoque_fw-la quid_fw-la censeas_fw-la di●_n as_o minimè_fw-la prohibe●_n sed_fw-la viri_fw-la tui_fw-la sententiam_fw-la vim_o maiorem_fw-la semper_fw-la obtinere_fw-la volo_fw-la gre●_n naz._n ad_fw-la olymp._n act_n 5._o 9_o see_v treat_n 2._o part._n 1._o §._o 11._o tutum_fw-la obsequium_fw-la est_fw-la quoties_fw-la qui_fw-la dux_fw-la est_fw-la ipse_fw-la dei_fw-la spiritu_fw-la ducitur_fw-la 1._o reason_n reason_n §._o 51._o joh._n 14._o 9_o mat._n 10._o 40._o joh._n 5._o 23._o luk._n 10._o 16._o 1_o sam._n 8._o 7._o 1_o pet._n 2._o 16._o rom._n 13._o 2._o 2._o reason_n 1_o cor._n 11._o 3._o 1_o cor._n 11._o 14._o 3._o reason_n subjection_n due_a to_o a_o husband_n as_o well_o as_o to_o christ_n est_fw-la 1._o 16._o christ_n will_v reward_v the_o good_a subjection_n and_o revenge_v the_o rebellion_n of_o wife_n 1_o sam._n 2._o 30._o 4._o reason_n gen._n 31._o 14._o psal_n 128._o 3._o a_o wife_n subjection_n tend_v to_o her_o own_o good_a gratitude_n require_v a_o wife_n to_o be_v subject_a 5._o reason_n husband_n bind_v to_o duty_n propterea_fw-la debent_fw-la mulieribus_fw-la suis_fw-la ad_fw-la virtutis_fw-la exemplum_fw-la se_fw-la praebere_fw-la quia_fw-la viri_fw-la sunt_fw-la aug._n the_o adult_n coniug_v l._n 2._o c._n 8._o 8._o 1_o cor._n 11._o 7._o husband_n particular_a duty_n duty_n treat_n 3._o §._o 2._o 1._o husband_n must_v love_v their_o wife_n wife_n eph._n 5._o 25_o 28_o 33._o 33._o gen._n 24._o 67._o no_o duty_n well_o perform_v without_o love_n 1_o cor._n 16._o 14._o 2._o a_o wife_n the_o most_o proper_a object_n
mother_n in_o law_n father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n be_v to_o be_v rank_v in_o the_o first_o degree_n of_o those_o who_o be_v in_o the_o place_n of_o natural_a parent_n very_o good_a proof_n there_o be_v in_o scripture_n for_o child_n subjection_n to_o they_o the_o respect_n which_o moses_n bear_v to_o his_o father_n in_o law_n 51._o and_o ruth_n to_o her_o mother_n in_o law_n and_o christ_n himself_o to_o his_o suppose_a father_n be_v commend_v for_o this_o very_a purpose_n subjection_n be_v note_v in_o christ_n example_n reverence_n in_o moses_n recompense_n in_o ruth_n the_o marriage_n bond_n make_v man_n and_o wife_n one_o flesh_n whereupon_o reason_n the_o natural_a parent_n that_o marry_v another_o make_v that_o other_o one_o with_o he_o and_o in_o that_o respect_n be_v as_o a_o parent_n to_o the_o child_n and_o by_o they_o aught_o to_o be_v account_v so_o the_o law_n of_o god_n make_v it_o plain_a in●●st_n for_o a_o son_n to_o uncover_v 17._o the_o shame_n of_o his_o mother_n in_o law_n or_o for_o a_o father_n in_o law_n to_o uncover_v the_o shame_n of_o his_o daughter_n in_o law_n whereby_o it_o appear_v that_o father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n be_v by_o god_n law_n in_o the_o very_a place_n and_o steed_n of_o natural_a parent_n to_o their_o child_n and_o according_o as_o natural_a parent_n be_v to_o be_v honour_v beside_o it_o be_v a_o great_a honour_n which_o a_o child_n do_v to_o his_o natural_a reason_n father_n or_o mother_n to_o respect_v such_o as_o they_o have_v make_v one_o flesh_n with_o themselves_o as_o they_o do_v their_o own_o parent_n so_o as_o to_o honour_v a_o father_n or_o mother_n in_o law_n be_v to_o honour_v a_o natural_a parent_n contrary_n be_v the_o mind_n and_o carriage_n of_o most_o child_n very_o few_o bear_v a_o reverend_a dutiful_a and_o childlike_a respect_n to_o stepfather_n and_o stepmother_n but_o for_o the_o most_o part_n despise_v they_o in_o heart_n grumble_v at_o they_o in_o speech_n and_o be_v very_o undutiful_a in_o 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ought_v to_o alter_v corrupt_a nature_n look_v to_o god_n ordinance_n and_o let_v god_n fear_v possess_v thy_o heart_n that_o that_o may_v bring_v thou_o to_o do_v what_o nature_n can_v 2._o object_n father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n seldom_o respect_v their_o husband_n or_o wife_n former_a child_n answ_n this_o objection_n more_o beseem_v the_o mouth_n of_o a_o barbarian_a than_o a_o christian_a the_o gospel_n teach_v to_o be_v subject_a not_o 21._o only_o to_o the_o good_a and_o gentle_a but_o also_o to_o the_o froward_a and_o not_o to_o be_v overcome_v of_o evil_a but_o to_o overcome_v evil_a with_o goodness_n the_o scripture_n reckon_v such_o as_o rise_v up_o against_o their_o parent_n 6._o in_o law_n among_o such_o as_o rise_v up_o against_o their_o natural_a parent_n show_v thereby_o that_o the_o impiety_n of_o those_o be_v as_o blame-worthy_a as_o the_o impiety_n of_o these_o §._o 58._o of_o child_n subjection_n to_o guardian_n tutor_n etc._n etc._n for_o child_n subjection_n to_o governor_n guardian_n and_o tutor_n the_o apostle_n say_v that_o a_o child_n be_v under_o they_o if_o by_o the_o law_n 2._o child_n be_v under_o they_o they_o ought_v in_o equity_n to_o be_v subject_a to_o they_o it_o be_v express_o note_v of_o esther_n even_o after_o the_o king_n have_v choose_v she_o for_o his_o wife_n that_o she_o do_v the_o commandment_n of_o mordecai_n 20._o who_o be_v as_o a_o guardian_n to_o she_o like_o as_o when_o she_o be_v bring_v up_o with_o he_o a_o memorable_a pattern_n for_o this_o purpose_n what_o pretence_n may_v she_o have_v make_v to_o have_v cast_v off_o all_o manner_n of_o subjection_n mordecai_n be_v but_o her_o cousin_n she_o be_v now_o advance_v above_o he_o a_o wife_n she_o be_v and_o so_o subject_a to_o her_o husband_n yea_o a_o king_n wife_n and_o so_o herself_o a_o queen_n yet_o she_o be_v subject_a and_o her_o subjection_n commend_v we_o read_v that_o the_o child_n of_o the_o prophet_n much_o 1._o respect_v elisha_n do_v reverence_n to_o he_o and_o be_v obedient_a to_o he_o because_o he_o be_v as_o a_o father_n and_o tutor_n unto_o they_o in_o which_o respect_n also_o elisha_n be_v as_o a_o child_n subject_a to_o eliah_n who_o he_o call_v 12._o father_n guardian_n tutor_n and_o such_o like_a overseer_n of_o child_n have_v a_o parent_n charge_v lay_v upon_o they_o as_o we_o shall_v etc._n after_o show_v great_a reason_n therefore_o that_o childlike_a duty_n shall_v be_v yield_v to_o they_o their_o honour_n must_v be_v answerable_a to_o their_o charge_n and_o care_n contrary_n be_v the_o conceit_n of_o many_o lawless_a child_n who_o parent_n be_v dead_a or_o they_o be_v send_v and_o place_v abroad_o out_o of_o the_o government_n of_o their_o parent_n think_v they_o be_v clean_o free_a from_o all_o government_n and_o may_v live_v as_o they_o list_v their_o practice_n be_v correspondent_a to_o this_o opinion_n they_o run_v into_o all_o riot_n and_o in_o time_n bring_v themselves_o to_o utter_v ruin_n it_o be_v the_o 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express_a charge_n the_o four_o from_o god_n promise_n i._o the_o place_n of_o a_o parent_n be_v note_v forth_o by_o this_o phrase_n in_o the_o lord_n which_o as_o it_o afford_v a_o 37._o limitation_n and_o give_v a_o 52._o direction_n to_o child_n so_o it_o add_v a_o spur_n unto_o they_o to_o stir_v they_o up_o to_o perform_v their_o duty_n for_o it_o show_v that_o parent_n be_v to_o then_o child_n in_o the_o lord_n steed_n as_o a_o evidence_n thereof_o have_v god_n vitit_fw-la communicate_v to_o they_o this_o glorious_a and_o honourable_a title_n father_n which_o be_v 5._o proper_a and_o peculiar_a to_o himself_o now_o then_o parent_n be_v to_o their_o child_n in_o god_n steed_n and_o by_o virtue_n of_o their_o place_n bear_v god_n image_n child_n in_o obey_v their_o parent_n obey_v god_n in_o refuse_v to_o obey_v they_o refuse_v to_o obey_v god_n a_o strong_a motive_n be_v this_o first_o motive_n for_o who_o be_v so_o void_a of_o religion_n but_o will_v think_v it_o most_o meet_a that_o god_n shall_v be_v honour_v or_o who_o so_o impious_a as_o to_o refuse_v to_o yield_v duty_n to_o god_n here_o than_o child_n may_v learn_v in_o one_o main_a point_n how_o to_o honour_v the_o lord_n &_o show_v themselves_o child_n of_o god_n and_o let_v they_o here_o by_o know_v that_o disobedient_a and_o undutiful_a child_n that_o resist_v the_o authority_n of_o parent_n resist_v the_o ordinance_n of_o god_n and_o receive_v to_o themselves_o 2._o damnation_n §._o 60._o of_o the_o equity_n whereby_o child_n shall_v be_v move_v to_o obey_v their_o parent_n ii_o the_o second_o reason_n in_o these_o word_n for_o this_o be_v right_n though_o it_o be_v not_o of_o great_a force_n yet_o be_v it_o more_o plain_o and_o express_o note_v to_o be_v a_o reason_n as_o the_o