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A65285 A body of practical divinity consisting of above one hundred seventy six sermons on the lesser catechism composed by the reverend assembly of divines at Westminster : with a supplement of some sermons on several texts of Scripture / by Thomas Watson ... Watson, Thomas, d. 1686. 1692 (1692) Wing W1109; ESTC R32148 1,021,388 604

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your Honour 3. Provide for your Children what is fitting both in their Minority and when they come to Maturity 2 Cor. 12.14 The Children ought not to lay up for the Parents but the Parents for the Children They are your own Flesh and as the Apostle saith No Man yet ever hated his own Flesh Eph. 5.29 The Parents Bountifulness will cause Dutifulness in the Child If you pour Water into a Pump the Pump will send Water out again freely So if Parents pour in something of their Estate to their Children Children if ingenuous will pour out Obedience again to their Parents 4. When your Children are grown up put them to some Lawful Calling wherein they may serve their Generation And it is good to consult the Natural Genius and Inclination of a Child Forc'd Callings do as ill sometimes as Forc'd Matches To let a Child be out of a Calling is to expose it to Temptation Melancton Otium Balneum Diaboli A Child out of a Calling is like Fallow Ground and what can you expect should grow up but Weeds of Disobedience 5. Carry it Lovingly to your Children In all your Counsels and Commands let them read Love Love will command Honour And how can the Parent but love the Child who is his living Picture nay part of himself The Child is the Father in the Second Edition 6. Carry it prudently towards your Children A great Point of Prudence is when a Parent doth not provoke his Children to Wrath. Col. 3.21 Fathers provoke not your Children to Anger lest they be discouraged Quest. How many ways may a Parent provoke his Children to Wrath Resp. 1. By giving them Opprobrious Tearms 1 Sam. 20.30 Thou Son of the perverse rebellious Woman said Saul to his Son Ionathan Some Parents use Imprecations and Curses to their Children This is to provoke them to Wrath. Would you have God bless your Children and do you curse 2. Parents provoke Children to Wrath when they strike their Children without a Cause or when the Correction exceeds the Fault This is rather to be a Tyrant than a Father Saul cast a Javelin at his Son to smite him 1 Sam. 20.33 and his Son was provoked to Anger Ver. 34. So Ionathan arose from the Table in fierce Anger In Filium pater obtinet non tyrannicum imperium sed Basilicum Davenant 3. When Parents deny their Children Conveniences they will not let them have that which may cherish or cover Nature Some have thus provoked their Children they have stinted them and kept them so short that they have forc'd their Children upon indirect Courses and made them put forth their Hands to Iniquity 4. When Parents carry it unequally towards their Children showing more kindness to one than another this sometimes breeds bad Blood Tho a Parent hath a greater Love to one Child yet Discretion should guide Affection that he should not show more Love to one than to another Iacob show'd more love to Ioseph than all his Children and what did it procure but Envy of his Brethren Gen. 37.3 Now Israel loved Ioseph more than all his Children and when his Brethren saw that they hated him and could not speak peaceably to him 5. When a Parent doth any thing which is sordid and unworthy that which casts Disgrace upon himself and his Family as to cosen or take a false Oath this is to provoke the Child to Wrath. As the Child should honour his Father so the Father should not dishonour the Child 6. When Parents lay such Commands upon their Children as their Children cannot perform without wronging their Conscience Saul commanded his Son Ionathan to bring David to him 1 Sam. 20.3 Fetch him to me for he shall surely die Ionathan could not do this with a good Conscience but was provoked to Anger Ver. 34. Ionathan rose from the Table in fierce Anger Now the Reason why Parents should show their Prudence in not provoking their Children to Wrath is set down Col. 3.21 Lest they be discouraged This Word 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Discouraged implies three things 1. Grief The Parents provoking the Child the Child so takes it to Heart that it causeth immature Death 2. Despondency The Parents Austerity dispirits the Child and makes it unfit for Service Like Members of the Body stupifyed which are unfit for Work 3. Contuma●y and Refractoriness The Child being provoked by the cruel and unnatural carriage of the Parent grows desperate and oft studies to irritate and vex his Parent Which tho it be evil in the Child yet the Parent is accessary to it as being the occasion of it 7. If you would have Honour from your Children pray much for them Not only lay up a Portion for them but lay up a Stock of Prayer for them Monica prayed much for her Son Austin and it was said It was impossible a Son of so many Prayers and Tears should perish Pray that your Children may be preserved from the Contagion of the Times Pray that as your Children bear your Image in their Faces they may bear God's Image in their Hearts Pray they may be Instruments and Vessels of Glory This may be one Fruit of Prayer that the Child shall honour a Praying Parent 8. Encourage that which you see good and commendable in your Children Virtus laudata crescit Commending that which is good in your Children makes them more in love with Vertuous Actions and is like watering of Plants which makes them grow more Some Parents discourage the good they see in their Children and so nip Vertue in the Bud and help to damn their Childrens Souls They have their Childrens Curses 9. If you would have Honour from your Children set them a good Example It makes Children despise their Parents when the Parents live in a contradiction to their own Precepts When they bid their Children be sober yet they themselves will be drunk They bid their Children fear God yet are themselves loose in their Lives Oh! If you would have your Children honour you teach them by an Holy Example A Father is a Looking-glass which the Child oft dresseth himself by let the Glass be Clear and not Spotted Parents should observe a Good Decorum in their whole Carriage lest they give occasion to their Children to say to them as Plato's Servant My Master hath made a Book against rash Anger but he himself is passionate Or as a Son once said to his Father If I have done Evil I have learned it of you Quest. Which is the Sixth Commandment Resp. EXOD. XX. 13 Thou shalt not Kill In this Commandment 1. Is a Sin forbidden viz. Murder Thou shalt not kill 2. A Duty implied To preserve our own Life and the Life of others 1. The Sin forbidden Murder Thou shalt not kill Where two things are to be understood 1. The not injuring another 2. Our selves I. In this Thou shalt not kill is meant the not Injuring another 1. We must not injure him in his Name 2. In his Body 3. In
a Limb from the Body He takes away an holy Child Iacobs Life was bound up in Benjamin Gen. 44.30 and that which puts Teeth into the Cross and is worse than the loss of Children is when they are continued as living Crosses where the Parents expected Honey there to have Wormwood What greater cut to a Godly Parent than a Child who disclaims his Fathers God! A Corrosive applyed to the Body may do well but a bad Child is a Corrosive to the Heart Such an undutiful Son had David who conspired Treason and would not only have taken away his Fathers Crown but his Life 4. God sometimes afflicts with a 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 infirmness of Body scarce a well day Sickness takes away the Comfort of Life and makes one in Deaths oft thus God tryes his People with various Afflictions so that there is need of Patience to submit to Gods Will. He who hath divers Bullets shot at him needs Armour when divers Afflictions assault we need Patience as Armour of Proof 3. God sometimes lets the Affliction continue long Psal. 74.9 as it is with Diseases there are some Chronical that linger and hang about the Body several years together so it is with Affliction the Lord is pleased to exercise many of his precious ones with Chronical Afflictions such as lye upon them a long time so that in all these Cases we need Patience and submissiveness of Spirit to Gods Will. VSE I. It reproves such as have not yet learned this part of the Lords Prayer Thy Will be done they have only said it but not learned it If things be not according to their Mind if the Wind of Providence crosseth the Tide of their Will they are discontented and querulous where is now submission of Will to God To be displeased with God if things do not please us is this to lye at Gods feet and acquiesce in his Will This is a very bad temper of Spirit and God may justly punish us by letting us have our Will Rachel cryed Give me Children or I dye Gen. 30.1 God let her have a Child but it cost her her Life Gen. 35.18 Israel not content with Manna Angels Food they must have Quails to their Manna God punished them by letting them have their Will Numb 11.31 There went sorth a wind from the Lord and brought quails ver 33. And while the flesh was yet between their teeth the wrath of the Lord was kindled against them and the Lord smote them with a great plague They had better been without their Quails than had such sower sawce to them Many have importunately desired the Life of a Child and could not bring their Wills to Gods to be content to part with it and the Lord hath punished them by letting them have their Will the Child hath lived and been a burden to them Seeing their Wills crossed God their Child shall cross them VSE II. Of Exhortation Let us be exhorted whatever troubles God doth exercise us with aequo animo ferre to resign up our Wills to God and say Thy Will be done Which is fittest that God should bring his will to ours or we bring our will to his Say as Eli 1 Sam. 3.18 It is the Lord let him do what seemeth him good And as David 2 Sam. 15.26 Behold here am I let him do to me as seemeth good unto him It was the saying of Harpulas Placet mihi quod Regi placet that pleaseth me which pleaseth the King So should we say that which pleaseth God pleaseth us Thy Will be done Some have not yet learned this art of submission to God and truly he who wants Patience in Affliction is like a Souldier in Battle who wants Armour Quest. When do we not as we ought submit to Gods Will in Affliction Answ. 1. When we have hard thoughts of God and our Hearts begin to swell against him 2. When we are so troubled at our present Affliction that we are unfit for Duty We can mourn as Doves but not pray or praise God We are so discomposed that we are not fit to hearken to any good Counsel Exod. 6.9 They hearkened not to Moses for anguish of spirit Israel were so full of grief under their present burdens that they minded not what Moses said though he came with a Message from God to them They hearkened not to Moses for anguish of spirit 3. We do not submit as we ought to Gods Will when we labour to break loose from Affliction by indirect means Many to rid themselves out of trouble run themselves into Sin When God hath bound them with the cords of Affliction they go to the Devil to loosen their bands Better it is to stay in Affliction than to sin our selves out of Affliction O let us learn to stoop to Gods Will in all afflictive Providences Quest. But how shall we bring our selves to this Christian Temper in all Occurrences of Providence patiently to acquiesce in Gods Will and say Thy Will be done We know not what Tryals Personal or National we may be exercised with We seem now to be under the Planet Saturn which hath a malignant Aspect Our Ship is steer'd so strangely that we are in danger on one hand of the Sands on the other hand of the Rocks If Affliction comes how shall we keep a Christian Decorum how shall we bear things with equanimity of mind and say Thy Will be done Answ. The means for a quiet resignation to Gods Will in Affliction is 1. Judicious Consideration Eccles. 7.14 In the day of adversity consider When any thing burdens us or runs cross to our desires did we but sit down and consider and weigh things in the ballance of Judgment it would much quiet our Minds and subject our Wills to God In the day of adversity consider Consideration would be as Davids Harp to charm down the evil Spirit of frowardness and discontent Quest. But what should we consider Answ. That which may make us submit to God in Affliction and say Thy Will be done is 1. To consider that the present state of Life is subject to Afflictions as a Seamans Life is subject to storms Ferre quam sortem omnes patiuntur nemo recusat Iob 5.7 Man is born to trouble he is heir apparent to it he comes into the World with a cry and goes out with a groan Ea lege nati sumus The World is a place where much Wormwood grows Lam. 3.15 He hath filled me with bitterness Hebr. Bammerorim with bitternesses he hath made me drunk with wormwood Troubles arise like sparks out of a Furnace Afflictions are some of the Thorns which the Earth after the Curse brings forth VVe may as well think to stop the Chariot of the Sun when it is in its swift motion as put a stop to trouble the consideration of this our Life is exposed to eclipses and sufferings should make us say with Patience Thy Will be done Shall a Mariner be angry that he meets with a storm at
to the Picture of the King when the King himself is present then much more to bow down to the Image of God when God himself is present Ier. 23.24 What is the Popish Religion but a bundle of ridiculous Ceremonies Their Wax Flowers Pixes Agnus Dei Cream and Oyl Beads Crucifixes What are these but Satans Policy to dress up a carnal Worship fitted to carnal Minds Oh what cause have we to bless God for delivering us from Popery It was a Mercy to be delivered from the Spanish Invasion and the Powder Treason but a far greater to be delivered from the Popish Religion which would have made God give us a Bill of Divorce 2. If it be a great Blessing to be delivered from Egypt Popish Idolatry then it shews their Sin and Folly who being brought out of Egypt are willing to return into Egypt again Having put off the Yoke of Rome would fain put it on again The Apostle saith Fly from Idolatry 1 Cor. 10.14 But these rather fly to Idolatry Herein we are like the People of Israel who notwithstanding all the Idolatry and Tyranny of Egypt yet longed to go back to Egypt Numb 14.4 Let us make a Captain and return into Egypt But how shall they go back into Egypt How shall they have Food in the Wilderness Will God rain down Manna any more upon such Rebels How will they get over the Red Sea Will God divide the Water again by Miracle for such as leave his Service and go into Idolatrous Egypt Yet say they Let us make a Captain And are there not such Spirits amongst us who say Let us make a Captain and go back to the Romish Egypt again And if we do what shall we get by it I am afraid the Leeks and Onions of Egypt will make us Sick Do we ever think if we drink in the Cup of Fornication we shall drink in the Cup of Salvation O that any should so Forfeit their Reason as to enslave themselves to the See of Rome That they should be willing to hold a Candle to a Mass-Priest and bow down to a strange God Let us not say we will make a Captain but rather say as Ephraim Hos. 14.8 What have I to do any more with Idols 3. If it be a Mercy to be brought out of Egypt then it is not desirable or safe to plant ones self in an Idolatrous place where it may be a capital Crime to be seen with a Bible in ones hand Some for secular Gain thrust themselves among Idolaters and think there is no danger to live where Satan's Seat is But do you pray God would not lead you into Temptation and do you lead your selves You are in great danger of being polluted It is hard to be as the Fish which keep fresh in Salt Waters A Man cannot dwell among the Black-a-moors but he will be discoloured You will sooner be corrupted by Idolaters than they will be converted by you Ioseph got no good by living in an Idolatrous Court he did not teach Pharoah to Pray but Pharoah taught him to Swear Psal. 106.35 They were mingled among the Heathen and served their Idols I fear this hath been the undoing of many they have seated themselves amongst Idolaters for the advancing their Trade and at last have not only traded with them in their Commodities but in their Religion Use 2. Is it a Mercy to be brought out of Egypt places which are defiled and where Sin reigns then it reproaches such Parents as shew little love to the Souls of their Children whether it be in putting them out to Service or in matching of them 1. In putting them out to Service Their Care is chiefly for their Bodies that they may be provided for but care not what becomes of their Souls Their Souls are in Egypt in Houses where there is Drinking Swearing Sabbath-breaking and where Gods name is every day dishonoured 2. In matching their Children they look only at Mony 2 Cor. 6.14 Be ye not unequally yoaked If their Children be equally yoaked for Estate they care not whether they be unequally yoaked for Religion Now to such Parents 1. Think how precious the Soul of your Child is it is Immortal it is capable of Communion with God and Angels and will you let this Soul be lost by placing it in a bad Family If you had an Horse you loved you would not put him into a Stable with other Horses that were Sick and Diseased And do you not love your Child better than your Horse 2. God hath intrusted you with the Souls of your Children you have a Charge of Souls God saith as 1 Kings 20.39 Keep this Man if he be missing thy Life shall go for his Life So saith God If the Soul of thy Child miscarry by thy Negligence his Blood will I require at thy hand Think of this all ye Parents take heed of placing your Children in Egypt in a wicked Family Do not put them in the Devils Mouth find out a Sober Religious Family such a Family as Ioshua's Cap. 24.15 I and my House will serve the Lord. Such a Family as Cranmer's which was Palaestra pietatis a Nursery of Piety Such a Family as is a Bethel of which it may be said as Col. 4.15 The Church which is in his House Use 3. Let us Pray that God will keep our English Nation from the Defilements of Egypt that it may not be again overspread with Superstition and Idolatry O sad Religion not only to have our Estates our Bodies enslaved but our Consciences Pray that the true Protestant Religion may still flourish among us That the Sun of the Gospel may still shine in our Horison The Gospel lifts a People up to Heaven it is Columna Corona Regni The Crown and Glory of the Kingdom If this be removed then Ichabod the Glory is departed The top of the Beach Tree being cut off the whole Body of the Tree withers apace The Gospel is the top of all our Blessings if this top be cut the whole Body Politick will soon wither O pray that the Lord will continue the visible Tokens of his presence among us his Ordinances that England may be called Iehovah Shammah The Lord is there Ezek. 48.35 Pray that Righteousness and Peace may kiss each other that so Glory may dwell in our Land Of the Commandments Exod. 20.2 Out of the House of Bondage EGypt and the House of Bondage are the same only they are expressed be under a different Notion By Egypt is meant a place of Idolatry and Superstition by the House of Bondage is meant a place of Affliction Israel while they were in Egypt were under great Tyranny they had cruel Task-masters set over them who put them to hard labour and set them to make Brick yet allowed them no Straw therefore Egypt is called the Iron Furnace Deut. 4.20 and here the House of Bondage From this Expression I brought thee out of the House of Bondage two things are to be noted 1.
Prov. 5.8 Come not nigh the Door of her House He who would be free from the Plague must not come near the Infected House Under the Law the Nazarite was forbid to drink Wine nor might he eat Grapes of which the Wine was made Rule 4. In relato subintelligitur correlatum Where one Relation is named in the Commandment there another Relation is included Where the Child is named there the Father is included Where there is the Duty of Children to Parents mentioned there is included also the Duty of Parents to Children Where the Child is commanded to honour the Parent there is implyed that the Parent is also commanded to instruct to love to provide for the Child Rule 5. Where greater Sins are forbidden there lesser Sins are also forbidden Though no Sin in its own Nature is little yet comparatively one may be less than another Where Idolatry is forbidden there is forbidden Superstition or bringing any Innovation into God's Worship which he hath not appointed As the Sons of Aaron were forbid to worship an Idol so to Sacrifice to God with strange Fire Lev. 10.1 Mixture in Sacred things is like a dash in the Wine which though it gives it a colour yet doth but debase and adulterate it 'T is highly provoking to God to bring any Superstitious Ceremony into his Worship which he hath not prescribed it is to tax God's Wisdom as if he were not Wise enough to appoint the manner how he will be served Rule 6. The Law of God is Copulative Lex est Copulativa The First and Second Table are knit together Piety to God and Equity to our Neighbour These Two Tables which God hath joined together must not be put asunder Try a Moral Man by the Duties of the First Table Piety to God and there you will find him Negligent Try an Hypocrite by Duties of the Second Table Equity to his Neighbour and there you find him Tardy He who is strict in the Second Table but neglects the First or he who is zealous in the First Table but neglects the Second his Heart is not right with God The Pharisees were the Highest Pretenders to the First Table Zeal and Holiness but Christ detects their Hypocrisie Mat. 23.23 Ye have omitted Judgment Mercy and Faith They were bad in the Second Table they omitted Judgment that was being Just in their Dealings Mercy in Relieving the Poor and Faith that is Faithfulness in their Promises and Contracts with Men. God wrote both the Tables and our Obedience must set Seal to both Rule 7. God's Law forbids not only the Acting of Sin in our own Persons but being accessary to or having any Hand in the Sins of others Quest. How and in what Sense may we be said to partake and have an Hand in the Sins of others Resp. 1. By Decreeing Unrighteous Decrees and imposing on others that which is unlawful Ieroboam made the People of Israel to Sin he was accessary to their Idolatry by setting up golden Calves So David though he did not in his own Person kill Uriah yet because he wrote a Letter to Ioab to set Uriah in the Fore-front of the Battle and it was done by his command therefore he was accessary to Uriah's Death and the Murther of him was laid to David's Charge by the Prophet 2 Sam. 12.9 Thou hast kill'd Uriah the Hittite with the Sword 2. We become accessary to the Sins of others by not hindering them when it is in our power Qui non prohibet cum potest jubet If a Master of a Family sees his Servant break the Sabbath or hears him Swear and lets him alone doth not use the power he hath to suppress him he becomes accessary to his sin Eli for not punishing his Sons when they made the Offering of the Lord to be abhorred made himself guilty 1 Sam. 3.14 He that suffers an Offender to escape unpunished makes himself an Offender 3. By counselling abetting or provoking others to sin Achitophel made himself guilty of the Fact by giving Counsel to Absalom to go in and defile his Fathers Concubines 2 Sam. 16.21 He who shall tempt and solicit another to be Drunk though he himself be sober yet being the occasion of anothers sin he is accessary to it Hab. 2.15 Woe unto him that giveth his neighbour drink that puttest thy Bottle to him 4. By consenting to anothers sin Saul did not cast one stone at Stephen yet the Scripture saith Saul was consenting to his Death Acts 8.1 Thus he had an hand in it if several did combine to Murther a Man and they should tell another of their intent and he should give his consent to it he were guilty though his hand were not in the Murther yet his Heart was in it Though he did not act it yet he did approve it so it became his sin 5. By Example Vivitur Exemplis Examples are powerful and cogent setting a bad Example occasions another to sin and so a Person becomes accessary If the Father Swears and the Child by his Example learns to Swear the Father is accessary to the Childs sin he taught him by his Example As there are Diseases Hereditary so Sins Rule 8. The last Rule about the Commandments is this that though we cannot by our own strength fulfil all these Commandments yet doing quoad posse what we are able the Lord hath provided Encouragement for us There is a three-fold Encouragement 1. That though we have not Ability to obey any one Command yet God hath in the New Covenant promised to work that in us which he requires Ezek. 36.27 I will cause you to walk in my Statutes God commands us to love him Alas how weak is our Love It is like the Herb that is hot only in the first Degree But God hath promised to Circumcise our Hearts that we shall love him Deut. 30.6 He that doth command us will inable us God commands us to turn from sin but alas we have not power to turn therefore God hath promised to turn us to put his Spirit within us and turn the Heart of stone into flesh Ezek. 36.26 There is nothing in the Command but the same is in the Promise Therefore Christian be not discouraged though thou hast no strength of thy own yet God will give thee this strength The Iron hath no power to move but when the Load-stone draws it it can move Isa. 26.12 Thou hast wrought all our works in us 2. Though we cannot exactly fulfil the Moral Law yet God will for Christ's sake mitigate the Rigour of the Law and accept of something less than he requires God in the Law requires exact Obedience yet he will accept of sincere Obedience He will abate something of the Degree if there be Truth in the inward parts God will see the Faith and pass by the Failing The Gospel remits something of the Severity of the Moral Law 3. Wherein our personal Obedience comes short God will be pleased to accept us in our Surety Eph.
he will joy over thee with singing No Father like God for Love if thou art his Child thou canst not love thy own Soul so intirely as he loves thee 5. God is the best Father for Riches God hath land enough to give to all his Children he hath unsearchable riches Eph. 3.8 He gives the hidden Manna the Tree of Life Rivers of Joy Gates of Pearl Who ever saw gates of Pearl God hath treasures that cannot be emptied pleasures that cannot be ended Earthly Fathers if they should be ever giving they would have nothing left to give God is ever giving to his Children yet hath not the less his Riches are imparted not impaired Like the Sun that still shines yet hath not the less light He cannot be poor who is infinite Thus God is the best Father he gives more to his Children than any Father or Prince can bestow 6. God is the best Father because he can reform his Children A Father when his Son takes bad courses knows not how to make him better but God knows how to make the Children of the Election better he can change their Hearts When Paul was breathing out persecution against the Saints God soon altered his course and set him a praying Acts 9.11 Behold he prayeth None of those who belong to the Election are so rough cast and unhewen but God can polish them with his Grace and make them fit for the Inheritance 7. God is the best Father because he never dyes 1 Tim. 6 16. Who only hath immortality Earthly Fathers dye and their Children are exposed to many injuries but God lives for ever Rev. 1.8 I am Alpha and Omega the beginning and the last Gods Crown hath no Successors Quest. 6. Wherein lies the Dignity of such as have God for their Father Resp. They have greater Honour then is confer'd on the Princes of the Earth They are precious in Gods esteem Isa. 43.4 Since thou wast precious in my eyes thou hast been honourable the wicked are dross Psal. 119.119 and chaff Psal. 1.4 but God numbers his Children among his Jewels Mal. 3.17 he writes all his Childrens names in the Book of Life Phil. 4.3 Whose names are in the book of life Among the Romans the Names of their Senators were written down in a Book Patres conscripti God enrolls the names of his Children and will not blot their names out of the Register Rev. 3.5 I will not blot his name out of the book of life God will not be ashamed of his Children Heb. 11.16 God is not ashamed to be called your God One might think it were something below God and he might disdain to Father such Children as are Dust and Sin mingled but he is not ashamed to be called our God and that we may see he is not ashamed of his Children he writes his own Name upon them Rev. 3.12 I will write upon him the name of my God that is I will openly acknowledge him before all the Angels to be my Child I will write my Name upon him as the Son bears his Fathers name What an honour and dignity is this 2. God confers honourable Titles upon his Children 1. He calls them the excellent of the earth Psal. 16.2 or the magnificent as Iunius renders it They must needs be excellent who are e Regio Sanguine nati of the Blood-Royal of Heaven they are the Spiritual Phenixes of the World the glory of the Creation God calls his Children his glory Isa. 46.13 Israel my glory God honours his Children with the Title of Kings Rev. 1.6 And hath made us Kings All Gods Children are Kings though they have not Earthly Kingdoms yet 1. They carry a Kingdom about them Luke 17.21 The kingdom of God is within you Grace is a Kingdom set up in the hearts of Gods Children They are Kings to rule over their Sins to bind those kings in chains Psal. 149.8 2. They are like Kings they have their insignia Regalia their ensigns of Royalty and Majesty 1. They have their Crown In this Life they are Kings in a disguise They are not known therefore they are exposed to poverty and reproach they are Kings in a disguise 1 Iohn 3.2 Now we are the Sons of God and it doth not appear what we shall be Why what shall we be Every Son of God shall have his Crown of Glory 1 Pet. 5.4 and white Robes Rev. 6.11 Robes signifie Dignity and white signifies Sanctity 3. This is their honour who have God for their Father they are all Heirs the youngest Son is an Heir 1. Gods Children are heirs to the things of this Life God being their Father they have the best title to earthly things they have a sanctified right to them though they have often the least share yet they have the best right and they have a Blessing with what they have i. e. Gods Love and Favour Others may have more of the Venison but Gods Children have more of the Blessing Thus they are Heirs to the things of this Life 2 They are Heirs to the other World Heirs of Salvation Heb. 1.14 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Ioint-heirs with Christ Rom. 8.17 They go sharers with Christ in glory Among Men commonly the eldest Son carries away all but Gods Children are all Joint-heirs with Christ they have a copartnership with him in his Riches Hath Christ a place in the Celestial Mansions so have the Saints Iohn 14.2 In my Fathers house are many mansions I go to prepare a place for you Hath he his Fathers Love so have they Psal. 146.8 Iohn 17.26 That the love wherewith thou hast loved me may be in them Doth Christ sit upon a Throne so do Gods Children Rev. 3.21 What an high honour is this 4. God makes his Children equal in honour to the Angels Luke 20.36 They are 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 equal to the Angels nay those Saints who have God for their Father are in some sense superiour to the Angels for Jesus Christ having taken our Nature Naturam nostram nobilitavit hath enobled and honoured it above the Angelical Heb. 2.16 God hath made his Children by Adoption nearer to himself than the Angels The Angels are the Friends of Christ Believers are the Members of Christ and this honour have all the Saints Thus you see the Dignity of such as have God for their Father What a comfort is this to Gods Children who are here despised and loaded with calumnies and invectives 1 Cor. 4.14 We are made as the filth of the world c. But God will put Honour upon his Children at the last day and crown them with Immortal Bliss to the envy of their Adversaries Quest. 7. How we may know that God is our Father All cannot say Our Father The Jewes boasted that God was their Father John 8.36 We have one Father even God Christ tells them their pedigree ver 44. Ye are of your Father the Devil They who are of Satanical Spirits and make use of their power to beat down
the scar winks at her failing and only takes notice of the good that was in her her Obedience to her Husband She obeyed Abraham calling him Lord nay that good which the Saints scarce take notice of in themselves God in a special manner observes Matth. 25.35 I was an hungred and ye gave me meat I was thirsty and ye gave me drink Then shall the Righteous say Lord when saw we thee an hungred and fed thee They did as it were over-look and disclaim their own Works of Charity yet Christ doth take notice I was an hungred and ye fed me What a Comfort is this God spyes the least good in his Children he can see a grain of Corn hid under Chaff Grace hid under Corruption 5. If God be our Father he will take all we do in good part Those Duties we our selves censure God will crown When a Child of God looks over his best Duties he sees so much Sin cleaving to them that he is even confounded Lord saith he there is more Sulphur than Incense in my Prayers but for your comfort if God be your Father he will crown those Duties which you your selves censure God sees there is sincerity in the hearts of his Children and this gold though light shall have grains of allowance Though there may be defects in the services of Gods Children yet God will not cast away their offering 2 Chron. 30.20 The Lord healed the people The Tribes of Israel being straitned in time wanted some Legal Purifications yet because their Hearts were upright God healed them he pardoned them God accepts of the good Will 2 Cor. 8.12 A Father takes a Letter from his Son kindly though there are blots or bad English in it What blottings are there in our holy things yet our Father in Heaven accepts Saith God it is my Child and he would do better I will look upon him through Christ with a merciful eye 6. If God be our Father then he will correct us in measure Ier. 30.11 I will correct thee in measure and that two ways 1. It shall be in measure for the kind God will not lay upon us more than we are able to bear 1 Cor. 10.13 he know our frame Psal. 103.14 he knows we are not Steel or Marble therefore will deal gently he will not over-afflict As the Physician that knows the 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 and temper of the Body will not give Physick too strong for the Body nor will he give one dram or scruple too much God hath not only the Title of a Father but the Bowels of a Father he will not lay too heavy burthens on his Children least their spirits fail before him 2. He will correct in measure for the duration he will not let the affliction lye on too long Psal. 125.3 The rod of the wicked shall not rest upon the lot of the righteous It may be there and not rest Isa. 57.16 I will not contend for ever Our Heavenly Father will love for ever but he will not contend for ever The torments of the damned are for ever Rev. 14.11 The smoke of their torment ascendeth up for ever and ever The wicked shall drink a Sea of Wrath but Gods Children only taste of the Cup of Affliction and their Heavenly Father will say transeat calix let this cup pass away from them Isa. 35.10 A sting a wing 7. If God be our Father he will intermix Mercy with all our Afflictions If he give us Wormwood to drink he will mix it with Honey In the Ark the Rod was laid up and Manna With our Fathers Rod there is alwayes some Manna Ashers shooes were iron and brass but his foot was dip'd in oyl Gen. 33.24 Affliction is the shooe of brass that pincheth but there is mercy in the affliction there is the foot dipped in oyl When God afflicts the Body he gives Peace of Conscience there is Mercy in the Affliction An Affliction comes to prevent falling into Sin there is Mercy in the Affliction Iacob had his Thigh hurt in wrestling there was the Affliction but then he saw Gods face and received a Blessing from the Angel Gen. 32.30 there was Mercy in the Affliction In every Cloud a Child of God may see a Rainbow of Mercy shining As the Limner mixeth dark shadows and bright colours together so our Heavenly Father mingles the dark and the bright together Crosses and Blessings and is not this a great happiness for God thus to checker his Providences and mingle goodness with severity 8. If God be our Father the evil one shall not prevail against us Satan is called 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 the evil one emphatically He is the grand enemy of the Saints and that both in a Military sense as he fights against them with his temptations and in a Forensical or Law-sense as he is an accuser and pleads against them yet neither way shall he prevail against Gods Children as for his shooting his fiery darts God will bruise Satan shortly under the Saints feet Rom. 16.20 As for his accusing Christ is Advocate for the Saints and answers all bills of inditement brought in against them God will make all Satans temptations promote the good of his ●hildren 1. As they set them more a praying 2 Cor. 12.8 Temptation is a medicine for security 2. As they are a means to humble them 2 Cor. 12.7 Least I should be exalted above measure there was given me a thorn in the flesh The thorn in the flesh was a temptation this thorn was to prick the bladder of pride 3. As they establish them more in Grace A Tree shaken by the Wind is more settled and rooted the blowing of a temptation doth but settle a Child of God more in Grace Thus the evil one Satan shall not prevail against the Children of God 9. If God be our Father no real evil shall befal us Psal. 91.10 There shall no evil befal thee 'T is not said no trouble but no evil Gods Children are priviledged persons they are priviledged from the hurt of every thing Luke 10.19 Nothing shall by any means hurt you 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Chrys. The hurt and malignity of the affliction is taken away Affliction to a wicked Man hath evil in it it makes him worse Rev. 16.9 Men were scorched with great heat and blasphemed the name of God But no evil befalls a Child of God he is bettered by affliction Heb. 12.10 That ye may be made partakers of his holiness What hurt doth the Furnace to the Gold it only makes it purer What hurt doth Affliction to Grace only refine and purifie it What a great priviledge is this to be freed though not from the stroke of Affliction yet the sting No evil shall touch a Saint When the Dragon hath poysoned the water they say the Unicorn with his horn doth draw out the poyson Christ hath drawn out the poyson of every Affliction that it cannot prejudice a Child of God Again no evil befalls a Child
sin be sober in your attire savoury in your speeches grave in your deportment obey your Fathers voice Open to God as the Flower opens to the Sun As you expect your Fathers Blessing obey him in whatever he commands First and Second Table Duties A Lutenist that he may make sweet Musick toucheth upon every String of the Lute The Ten Commandments are like a ten stringed Instrument touch upon every String obey every Command or you cannot make sweet Melody in Religion Obey your Heavenly Father though he commands things contrary to Flesh and blood 1. When he commands to mortifie Sin that Sin which hath been dear to you Pluck out this right eye that you may see the better to go to Heaven 2. When he commands you to suffer for him be ready to obey Acts 21.13 every good Christian hath a Spirit of Martyrdom in him and is ready rather to suffer for the Truth than the Truth should suffer Luther said he had rather be a Martyr than a Monarch Peter was Crucified with his Head downwards as Eusebius Ignatius called his Chains his Spiritual Pearls and did wear his Fetters as a Bracelet of Diamonds This is to carry it as Gods Children when we obey his voice and count not our lives dear so that we may show our love to our Heavenly Father Rev. 12.11 They loved not their lives to the death 6. If God be your Father show it by your chearful looks that you are the Children of such a Father Too much drooping and despondency disparageth the Relation you stand in to God What though you meet with hard usage in the World you are now in a strange Land far from home it will be shortly better with you when you are in your own Country and your Father hath you in his Armes Doth not the Heir rejoyce in hope Shall the Sons of a King walk dejected 2 Sam. 13.4 Why art thou being the Kings Son lean Is God an unkind Father are his Commands grievous Hath he no Land to give to his Heirs Why then do Gods Children walk so sad Never had Children such Priviledges as they who are of the Seed-Royal of Heaven and have God for their Father they should rejoyce therefore who are within a few hours to be crowned with Glory 7. If God be our Father let us honour him by walking very holily 1 Pet. 1.16 Be ye holy for I am holy A young Prince asking a Philosopher how he should behave himself the Philosopher said Memento te filium esse Regis Remember thou art a Kings Son do nothing but what becomes the Son of a King So remember you are the adopted Sons and Daughters of the high God do nothing unworthy of such a Relation A debauched Child is the disgrace of his Father Is this thy Sons Coat said they to Iacob when they brought it home dip'd in blood Gen. 37.32 so when we see a person defiled with Malice Passion Drunkenness we may say is this the Coat of Gods adopted Son Doth he look as an Heir of Glory 'T is a blaspheming the Name of God to call him Father yet live in Sin Such as profess God is their Father yet live unholily they will slander and defraud these are as bad to God as Heathens Amos 9.7 Are ye not as children of the Ethiopians to me O children of Israel saith the Lord The Ethiopians were uncircumcised a base ill-bred People when Israel grew wicked they were no better to God than Ethiopians Loose scandalous livers under the Gospel are no better in Gods esteem than Pagans and Americans nay they shall have an hotter place in Hell O let all who profess God to be their Father honour him by their unspotted lives Scipio abhorred the embraces of an Harlot because he was the General of an Army Abstain from all Sin because you are born of God and have God for your Father 1 Thess. 5.22 Abstain from all appearance of evil 'T was a saying of Augustus An Emperor should not only be free from Crimes but from the suspicion of them by an holy Life you would bring Glory to your Heavenly Father and cause others to become his Children Est pellax virtutis odor Causinus in his Hieroglyphicks speaks of a Dove whose Wings being perfum'd with sweet Oyntments did draw the other Doves after her The holy Lives of Gods Children is a sweet perfume to draw others to Religion and make them to be of the Family of God Iustin Martyr saith that which converted him to Christianity was the beholding the blameless Lives of the Christians 8. If God be our Father let us love all that are his Children Psal. 133.1 How pleasant is it for brethren to dwell together in unity 'T is compared to Oyntment ver 2. for the sweet fragrancy of it 1 Pet. 2.17 Love the brotherhood Idem est motus animae in imaginem rem The Saints are the walking pictures of God if God be our Father we love to see his picture of Holiness in Believers we pity them for their Infirmities but love them for their Graces we prize their Company above others Psal. 119.63 it may justly be suspected that God is not their Father who love not Gods Children though they retain the Communion of Saints in their Creed yet they banish the Communion of Saints out of their Company 9. If God be our Father let us show Heavenly mindedness They who are born of God do 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 set their Affections on things that are above Col. 3.2 O ye Children of the high God do not disgrace your high birth by sordid Covetousness What a Son of God and a slave to the World What spring from Heaven and buried in the Earth For a Christian who pretends to derive his pedigree from Heaven yet wholly to mind Earthly things is to debase himself as if a King should leave his Throne to follow the Plough Ier. 45.5 Seekest thou great things for thy self As if the Lord had said what thou Baruck thou who art born of God akin to Angels and by thy Office a Levite dost thou debase thy self and spot the silver wings of thy Grace by beliming them with earth Seekest thou great things seek them not The Earth choaks the Fire Earthliness choaks the Fire of good Affections 10. Vlt. If God be our Father let us own our Heavenly Father in the worst times stand up in his cause defend his Truths Athanasius owned God when most of the World turned Arrians If Sufferings come do not deny God He is a bad Son who denyes his Father Such as are ashamed of God in times of danger God will be ashamed to own them for his Children Mark 8.38 Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and my words in this adulterous generation of him also shall the Son of man be ashamed when he comes in the glory of his Father with his holy Angels So I have done with the First Part of the Preface Our Father II. The Second Part of the
Temptation strikes at some Grace more than other As in tempting he aims at some Persons more than others so he aims at some Grace more than other and if he can prevail in this he knows what an advantage it will be to him If you ask what Grace it is that Satan in his Temptations doth most strike at I Answer it is the Grace of Faith He lays the Train of his Temptation to blow up the Fort of our Faith Fidei scutum percutit Why did Christ pray more for Peter's Faith than any other Grace Luk. 22.32 Because Christ saw that his Faith was most in danger the Devil was striking at this Grace Satan in Tempting Eve did labour to weaken her Faith Gen. 3.1 Yea hath God said ye shall not eat of every Tree of the Garden The Devil would perswade her that God had not spoken Truth and when he had once wrought her to distrust then she took of the Tree 'T is called Scutum fidei the Shield of Faith Ephes. 6.16 Satan in Tempting strikes most at our Shield he assaults our Faith True Faith though it cannot be wholly lost yet it may suffer a great Eclipse Though the Devil cannot by Temptation take away the Life of Faith yet he may the lively acting He cannot Gratiam diruere but he may debilitare Quest. But why doth Satan in Tempting chiefly set upon our Faith A. 1 King 22.31 Fight neither with small nor great save onely with the King So Faith is as it were the King of the Graces it is a Royal Princely Grace and puts forth the most Majestick and noble Acts therefore Satan fights chiefly with this Kingly Grace I shall shew you the Devils Policy in assaulting Faith most First Because this is the Grace doth Satan most Mischief it makes the most resistance against him 1 Pet. 5.9 Whom resist stedfast in Faith No Grace doth more bruise the Serpents Head than Faith Faith is both a Shield and a Sword defensive and offensive 1. It is a Shield A shield guards the Head defends the Vitals the shield of Faith causeth that the fiery darts of Temptation do not pierce us thorough 2. Faith is a Sword it wounds the Red Dragon Quest. How comes Faith to be so strong that it can resist Satan and put him to flight Answ. 1. Because Faith brings the strength of Christ into the Soul Sampson's strength lay in his Hair ours lies in Christ If a Child be assaulted it runs and calls to its Father for help So when Faith is assaulted it runs and calls Christ and in his Strength overcomes 2. Faith furnisheth it self with store of Promises the Promises are Faith's Weapons to fight with Now as David by Five Stones in his Sling wounded Goliah 2 Sam. 17.40 So Faith puts the Promises as Stones into its Sling I will never leave thee nor forsake thee Heb. 13.5 He will not break the bruised reed Matt. 12.20 He will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able 1 Cor. 10.13 The Lord will shortly bruise Satan under your feet Rom. 16.20 None shall pluck you out of my Fathers hands Joh. 10.29 Here are Five Promises like five Stones put in the Sling of Faith and with these a Believer wounds the Red Dragon Now Faith being such a Grace that doth so resist and wound Satan he will watch his opportunity that he may batter our shield though he cannot break it 2. Satan strikes most at our Faith and would weaken and destroy it because Faith hath a great influence upon all the other Graces Faith sets all the Graces a-work Like some rich Clothier that gives out a stock of Wool to the Poor and sets them all a Spinning So Faith gives out a stock to all the other Graces and sets them a working Faith sets Love a-work 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Gal. 5.6 Faith which worketh by love When once the Soul believes God's Love this kindles Love to God The believing Martyrs burned hotter in Love than in Fire Faith sets Repentance a-work When the Soul believes there is Mercy to be had and that this mercy is for him this sets the eyes a Weeping O saith the Soul that ever I should offend so gracious a God Repenting tears drop from the eye of Faith Mark 9.24 The Father of the Child cried out with tears Lord I believe Faith set his eyes abroach with Tears therefore the Devil hath most spight at Faith and by his Temptations would undermine it because it is such an Operative Grace it sets all the other Graces on work If the Devil cannot destroy our Faith yet if he can disturb it if he can hinder and stop the actings of Faith he knows all the other Graces will be lame and unactive If the Spring in a Watch be stopp'd it will hinder the motion of the Wheels If Faith be down all the other Graces are at a stand 21. Subtilty of Satan in Tempting is In broaching those Doctrines that are Flesh-pleasing Satan knows the Flesh loves to be gratified it cries out for ease and liberty it will not endure any yoke unless it be lined and made soft The Devil will be sure so to lay his bait of Temptation as to please and humour the flesh The Word saith 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Strive as in an Agony to enter into Glory Crucifie the Flesh Take the Kingdom of Heaven by holy Violence Now Satan to enervate and weaken these Scriptures comes with Temptations and flatters the Flesh. He tells Men there needs no such Strictness Why so much zeal and violence a softlier pace will serve sure there is an easier way to Heaven There needs no breaking the heart for Sin do but confess to a Priest or tell over a few Beads or say some Ave Maries and this will procure you a Pardon and give you admission into Paradise Or the Devil can go another way to work if he sees Men startle at Popery then he stirs up the Flattering Antinomian and he comes in another Disguise and saith What needs all this cost What needs Repenting Tears These are legal VVhat need you be so strict in your Obedience Christ hath done all for you you may make use of your Christian Liberty This Temptation draws away many it takes them off from strictness of life He who sells cheapest shall have most Customers The Devil knows this is a cheap easie Doctrine which will please the flesh and he doth not doubt but he shall have Customers enough 22. Subtilty of Satan in Tempting is in Reference to Holy Duties His policy is either to hinder from duty or discourage in duty or put Men on too far in duty I. To hinder from Duty as 1 Thes. 2.18 I would have come once and again but Satan hindred me So many Duties of Religion had been performed but Satan hindered The hand of Ioab is in this There are Three Duties which the Devil is an enemy to and labours to keep us from 1. Meditation He will let Men