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theotime_o be_v the_o chief_a part_n of_o your_o instruction_n to_o which_o the_o three_o former_a relate_v as_o the_o mean_n to_o their_o end_n for_o after_o the_o proposal_n of_o the_o
6._o it_o sex_n sunt_fw-la quae_fw-la odit_fw-la dominus_fw-la &_o septimum_fw-la detestatur_fw-la anima_fw-la ejus_fw-la oculos_fw-la sublime_n etc._n etc._n et_fw-la eum_fw-la qui_fw-la seminat_fw-la inter_fw-la fratres_fw-la discordias_fw-la prov._n 6._o there_o be_v six_o thing_n say_v he_o which_o god_n hate_v and_o there_o be_v a_o seven_o which_o he_o detest_v that_o be_v he_o who_o sow_v discord_n among_o his_o brethren_n and_o ecclesiasticus_fw-la say_v 9_o susurro_fw-la &_o bilinguis_fw-la maledictus_fw-la multos_fw-la enim_fw-la turbavit_fw-la pacem_fw-la habentes_fw-la eccl._n 28._o v._o 13._o vir_fw-la peccator_fw-la turbavit_fw-la amicos_fw-la &_o in_o medio_fw-la pacem_fw-la habentium_fw-la immittet_fw-la inimicitiam_fw-la ibid._n v._o 9_o that_o the_o sour_a of_o discord_n be_v curse_v because_o he_o trouble_v those_o who_o be_v in_o peace_n and_o it_o be_v only_o the_o part_n of_o a_o wicked_a man_n to_o disturb_v his_o friend_n and_o raise_v division_n in_o mind_n 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lie_v although_o light_o be_v not_o a_o light_a thing_n nor_o of_o small_a importance_n a_o habit_n or_o custom_n of_o lie_v open_v a_o gate_n to_o a_o infinite_a number_n of_o other_o vice_n produce_v the_o vice_n it_o produce_v a_o lie_a spirit_n will_v become_v a_o cheat_n and_o deceiver_n in_o his_o management_n double_v in_o his_o word_n unfaithful_a in_o his_o promise_n a_o hypocrite_n in_o his_o manner_n a_o dissembler_n in_o his_o action_n a_o flatterer_n and_o fainthearted_a when_o he_o shall_v speak_v truth_n bold_a and_o shameless_a to_o affirm_v lie_n impudent_a to_o maintain_v they_o as_o certain_a truth_n a_o swearer_n detractor_n mistrustful_a in_o respect_n of_o every_o one_o for_o as_o he_o be_v accustom_a to_o ly_n he_o believe_v that_o other_o always_o speak_v false_a a_o mind_n addict_v to_o lie_v will_v more_o easy_o tell_v they_o in_o great_a thing_n and_o be_v involve_v in_o heinous_a sin_n so_o that_o theotime_n 7._o very_o prejudicial_a to_o young_a people_n noli_fw-la velle_fw-la mentiri_fw-la omne_fw-la mendacium_fw-la assiduitas_fw-la enim_fw-la illius_fw-la non_fw-la est_fw-la bona_fw-la eccl._n 7._o there_o be_v few_o vice_n more_o pernicious_a and_o principal_o to_o youth_n than_o this_o liberty_n of_o lie_v for_o this_o reason_n the_o wiseman_n advertise_v you_o not_o to_o take_v pleasure_n in_o any_o manner_n of_o untruth_n for_o a_o custom_n or_o habit_n of_o lie_v be_v not_o good_a that_o be_v according_a to_o the_o expression_n of_o the_o scripture_n it_o be_v very_o bad_a in_o a_o word_n it_o be_v so_o wicked_a a_o quality_n of_o the_o mind_n to_o be_v a_o liar_n that_o the_o scripture_n speak_v strange_a thing_n of_o it_o mendacia_fw-la abominatio_fw-la est_fw-la domino_fw-la labia_fw-la mendacia_fw-la it_o say_v that_o god_n have_v a_o horror_n for_o it_o that_o lie_v lip_n be_v a_o abomination_n to_o he_o as_o on_o the_o contrary_a those_o who_o love_v sincerity_n in_o their_o word_n gain_v his_o friendship_n 6._o 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passione_n quomodo_fw-la deus_fw-la pater_fw-la genuit_fw-la filium_fw-la veritatem_fw-la sic_fw-la diabolus_fw-la lapsus_fw-la genuit_fw-la quasi_fw-la filium_fw-la mendacium_fw-la s._n aug._n tract_n 42._o in_o joh._n cavete_fw-la fratres_fw-la mendacium_fw-la quia_fw-la omnes_fw-la qui_fw-la amant_fw-fr mendacium_fw-la silij_fw-la sunt_fw-la diaboli_fw-la qui_fw-la non_fw-la solum_fw-la mendax_fw-la est_fw-la sed_fw-la etiam_fw-la pater_fw-la &_o inventor_n ipsius_fw-la mendacii_fw-la s._n ambr._n in_o serm._n de_fw-fr dominica_n passione_n that_o as_o truth_n come_v from_o god_n lie_v take_v its_o origin_n from_o the_o devil_n and_o s._n ambrose_n add_v that_o those_o who_o love_n lie_v be_v the_o child_n of_o that_o detestable_a fiend_n for_o the_o child_n of_o god_n love_n truth_n fly_v entire_o theotime_o this_o pernicious_a vice_n in_o all_o occurrence_n but_o chief_o in_o two_o first_o when_o you_o speak_v of_o a_o thing_n of_o importance_n that_o be_v when_o it_o 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