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Of domesticall duties eight treatises. I. An exposition of that part of Scripture out of which domesticall duties are raised. ... VIII. Duties of masters. By William Gouge.
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Gouge, William, 1578-1653.
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which of all other things will make the childe most obedient and gratefull to his parents for thus there is a double bond to binde him 1. his birth 2. his new birth especially when the cause of the one hath beene also the cause of the other 7. Nothing can more settle the heart of a wise parent on his death-bed concerning his children then assurance that pietie is planted in them for then may he with stronger confidence commend them to Gods prouidence and with greater assurance expect his blessing vpon them after he is dead 8. Parents by teaching their children pietie are an especiall meanes of propagating true religion from age to age and from generation to generation No better meanes can be thought of For if all parents were carefull of their dutie in this kinde as there is a succession of children and thereby a preseruation of mankinde so there would be a succession of those that feare God and thereby a preseruation of true religion My children that are taught by me may be fathers of children and so teach that to their children which they haue learned of me yea after them may grand-children proue fathers of other children and they teach their children the same and so from age to age others after them This is the meanes on our part and in our time we must doe our part and for those who come after vs leaue the issue to God Not only the great benefit of this point but also the too much neglect thereof in most families hath moued me the longer to insist on it and the more forcibly to presse it For the better performing thereof I will adde some directions §. 35. Of directing parents how to teach their children true pietie 1. Whatsoeuer principle of pietie parents doe teach their children they must be sure that it be grounded on Gods word thus much this phrase admonition of the Lord implieth Thus shall parents be sure to feed them with good wholesome spirituall food such as shall make to their spirituall nourishment and eternall life In this respect principles of religion grounded on Gods word are called sound or wholsome or healthfull words and that both in regard of their matter and substance and also in regard of their effect they cause and preserue good sound spirituall health We know that naturall men haue a care to giue their children such food as is wholsome for their bodie for will a father that is euill giue his childe a stone or a serpent and not that which is good Conscience must moue religious parents to haue the like care of the soules of their children as nature teacheth all parents to haue of their bodies If parents be carefull to draw those principles wherein they instruct their children out of Gods word they shall be sure not to poyson their soules with any error heresie superstition or idolatrie 2. When children begin to read let them read the holy Scripture so was Timothie trained vp from a childe 2 Tim. 3. 15. Thus will children sucke in religion with learning for there is a secret vertue lurking in the holy Scripture which is Gods owne word more then in any bookes of men so as through Gods blessing there may by this meanes be an inward worke of grace in children euen in their young yeeres Besides no bookes are more easie then many parts of Scripture and no histories more admirable and delightfull then the histories of the Scripture It is the aduice of an ancient Father that young children be made acquainted with the words and names of holy Scripture and that in stead of tales and fables choice histories of the Bible be made knowne to them and that they be instructed in the Prouerbs of Solomon 3. Let children be catechised constantly from day to day rehearse them continually vnto thy children saith the Law That which is daily done is in Scripture said to be done continually as the sacrifice which was daily offered was called a continuall offering Here let this caueat be noted that in giuing this spirituall food parents deale with their children as skilfull nurses and mothers doe in feeding infants they will not at once cram more into their mouthes then their stomach is able to digest but they will rather oft feed them with a little so it is not meet that parents be too tedious that will but dull a childs vnderstanding and breed wearisomnesse and make it loath to be againe instructed but precept vpon precept precept vpon precept line vpon line line vpon line here a little and there a little Thus shall they learne with case and delight and this being oft performed in time a great measure of knowledge will be gained thereby If a vessell haue a little mouth we vse not to fill it by powring whole paile-fuls vpon it for so all may be spilt and it receiue little or nothing but we let the liquor fall in by little and little according to the capacitie of the mouth so is nothing lost and the vessell filled the sooner Thus are children to be dealt withall 4. To the set times of catechizing children let other occasions of teaching them pietie be added as at table by resembling the spirituall food of their soules to that corporall food whereby their bodies are nourished when they are walking abroad by shewing them the starres how they remaine stedfast in their course the trees how they bring forth fruit in their season how all things are for the vse and benefit of man and thereupon make spirituall vses note the direction which for this purpose the Law giueth to parents Thou shall talke to thy children of my words when thou sittest in thine house and when thou walkest by the way and when thou liest downe and when thou risest vp 5. Let parents open to their children the mysteries of those outward rites which God hath ordained in his Church as of Preaching Baptising children administring the Lords Supper ceasing from worke on the Lords day with the like This was expresly commanded vnder the law Visible rites are great helpes to the weake vnderstanding of children when they are plainly opened and applied yea they are also especiall meanes of keeping in memory the mysteries contained vnder them as course threds or wiars are meanes to preserue pearles put vpon them So oft as they see the rites they will be put in minde of the mysteries implied vnder them 6. To this may be referred a declaration of such great and admirable workes as God in former times hath done for his Church especially such workes as haue beene done in their time and if any memorials be remaining of them make them knowne to children This direction was also giuen vnder the law concerning the monuments which were set vp of the great deliuerances that God gaue to his people In particular when the day of the gunpowder-treason is solemnized parents ought to teach their children the occasion
OF DOMESTICALL DVTIES Eight Treatises I. An Exposition of that part of Scripture out of which Domesticall Duties are raised II. 1. A right Coniunction of Man and Wife 2. Common-mutuall Duties betwixt Man and Wife III. Particular Duties of Wiues IV. Particular Duties of Husbands V. Duties of Children VI. Duties of Parents VII Duties of Seruants VIII Duties of Masters By WILLIAM GOVGE LONDON Printed by Iohn Haviland for William Bladen and are to be sold at the signe of the Bible neere the great North doore of Pauls 1622. TO THE RIGHT HONOVRABLE RIGHT VVorshipfull and other my beloued Parishioners Inhabitants of the Precinct of Black-friers LONDON such sufficiencie of Grace as may bring them to fulnesse of Glory IF noble Birth high Honour great Estate true Piety bountifull Charity good Esteeme of Gods word and Ministers and in particular intire loue of the Author be inducements to choose a Patron for his worke I for my part need not goe farre for a Patron In mine owne parish are all these To you therefore right Honourable right Worshipfull and other my beloued Parishioners most worthy of all due respect doe I dedicate these my poore paines about Domesticall Duties To testifie the equall dutie which I owe and the impartiall respect which I beare to you all I make you all as one Patron You were the first ouer whom I euer had any ministeriall charge To this charge by your free choice was I called Among you haue I spent almost two full prentiships You haue alwaies so accepted my paines and respected my person as I neuer had any cause to repent my acceptance of this place and calling but rather to thanke God for the same My desire is if so it may seeme good to the diuine prouidence to spend all my daies among you and while I am among you to helpe forward your spirituall edification This is the maine end of my calling and the marke which as in the ordinary course of my Ministry so in the publishing of these Eight Treatises of Domesticall Duties and dedicating them to you I haue aimed at As in testimony of Loue and Dutie I haue preached in your hearing and published in your name these Duties so doe you manifest your kinde acceptance of my former and latter paines by a conscionable obseruing of them so farre forth as they are agreeable to Gods word that all who know you may know by that euident demonstration how well you haue relished and approued them Thus shall you gaine much profit and my selfe much comfort by my paines Oh if the head and seuerall members of a family would be perswaded euery of them to be conscionable in performing their owne particular duties what a sweet society and happy harmony would there be in houses What excellent seminaries would families be to Church and Common-wealth Necessary it is that good order be first set in families for as they were before other polities so they are somewhat the more necessary and good members of a family are like to make good members of Church and common-wealth The subiect matter therefore of these Treatises is worth the handling if I were able according to the worth thereof to handle it I haue endeuoured to doe what I could therein though I haue not attained to what I would Be you like vnto God who if there be first a willing mind accepteth according to that a man hath and not according to that he hath not Though for such a matter as is handled in these Treatises the worke may seeme at first sight to be too copious yet I hope the obseruant Reader will not finde it too tedious It is the variety of many not the prolixity of few points which hath made this booke to swell to that bignesse which it hath The first Treatise which is a fourth part of the booke containeth a Commentary on that part of Scripture out of which Domesticall Duties are raised wherein the Apostle setting forth Christ and the Church as patternes to husbands and wiues liuely declareth the great loue of Christ to his Church and the neere vnion betwixt them together with other deepe mysteries the vnfolding whereof hath a little the longer detained me But as I haue a while insisted on maine matters of much moment so haue I very briefly passed ouer other points The other Treatises wherein the Duties themselues are handled are euery of them much shorter then the first In them I haue barely propounded and briefly proued the truth and equity of the seuerall duties except some choice points which are of especiall vse or at least through disuse much questioned and them I haue more largely handled And because contraries laid together doe much set forth each other in their liuely colours I haue to euery duty annexed the contrary fault and aberration from it For many that heare the duties thinke all well enough till they heare also the contrary vices whereby in their consciences they are most conuinced Concerning the many faults and vices of bad Husbands Wiues Parents Children Masters and Seruants taxed in these Treatises let me intreat you not to apply them too generally to all Husbands Wiues Parents Children Masters and Seruants Hath not wise Solomon much taxed the lightnesse shrewishnesse pride flattery and other vices of women And shall sober meeke humble honest women thinke themselues taxed thereby By like reason might vnchaste strumpets vntrusty gossips vnquiet shrewes and proud dames thinke themselues commended by those excellent commendations which be giueth of good women Let euery one as their conscience an impartiall Iudge shall beare them witnesse make a right application of euery thing to themselues Thus shall we Ministers be freed from many euill surmizes I remember that when these Domesticall Duties were first vttered out of the pulpit much exception was taken against the application of a wiues subiection to the restraining of her from disposing the common goods of the family without or against her husbands consent But surely they that made those exceptions did not well thinke of the Cautions and Lamitations which were then deliuered and are now againe expresly noted which are that the foresaid restraint be not extended to the proper goods of a wife no nor ouerstrictly to such goods as are set apart for the vse of the family nor to extraordinary cases nor alwaies to an expresse consent nor to the consent of such husbands as are impotent or farre and long absent If any other warrantable caution shall be shewed me I will be as willing to admit it as any of these Now that my meaning may not still be peruerted I pray you in reading the restraint of wiues power in disposing the goods of the family euer beare in minde those Cautions Other exceptions were made against some other particular duties of wiues For many that can patiently enough heare their duties declared in generall termes cannot endure to heare those generals exemplified in their particular branches